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PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, we have back on the program our friend and colleague Andrew Arthur, a mediator specializing in faith-based mediation, to talk about the delicate topic of separation in relationships and how to navigate them with hope. We delve specifically into therapeutic separation, which is a process aimed at healing and potentially reuniting couples facing serious challenges like infidelity and sexual brokenness. Andrew highlights the importance of having a support team, including counselors, mediators, and spiritual advisors, to collectively guide this tough journey for couples. We also discuss the emotional and operational aspects of separation, the need for individual care, and the crucial role of safety and trust in working towards reconciliation. It's a hopeful and insightful conversation for anyone facing relational struggles.For more information about Andrew and his resources, visit GenesisChristianMediation.com.Topics Covered in the Episode:Definition and understanding of therapeutic separation in relationships.The role and importance of a support team during separation.Common reasons for couples to consider separation, including infidelity and communication breakdown.Establishing ground rules and expectations during the separation process.Overcoming obstacles to reunification, such as differing parenting styles and conflict patterns.The significance of safety and trust in relationships during separation.Steps toward reunification and the importance of joint work and assessments.The value of commitment to the therapeutic process and early intervention.The concept of forgiveness as a personal journey in healing.Resources and support available for couples navigating separation and reconciliation.More Resources:Restoration Therapy* by Dr. Terry HargraveDisclosureHope.comFind a CounselorRelated Podcasts:Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from BetrayalThe Role of Boundaries in Marriage RestorationHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

In this episode, I chat with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care director, about preparing parents for spring break, especially regarding their children's online behavior and conversations about sexuality. Norma provides practical strategies for parents to foster a safe environment for open dialogue, ensuring meaningful conversations about online safety and appropriate behavior – and not just over spring break. We discuss the importance of ongoing communication, setting clear expectations, and addressing idleness. We emphasize the value of empathy, vulnerability, and guiding children through their spiritual journeys, both in everyday life as well as times, like spring break, when schedules and routines are disrupted. For everything we discussed in today's episode, visit Bebroken.org/springbreaksuccess. Topics Covered in this Episode:Preparing parents for spring break and its challenges.Managing children's online behavior during unstructured time.Importance of ongoing communication about sexuality between parents and children.Strategies for setting clear expectations and boundaries.Addressing idleness and its impact on children's behavior.Encouraging productive activities and family engagement during breaks.Importance of pre-spring break, during spring break, and post-spring break conversations.Discussing online safety and appropriate behavior with children.Sharing personal experiences to foster connection and trust.Encouraging a biblical worldview and open dialogue about curiosity and sexuality.More Resources:Critical Conversation Free Webinar7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your KidsA Family Game Plan for Discussing Porn (online course)Related Podcasts:Teaching Healthy Tech Habits to Your Kids (Podcast Bundle)Talking to Your Kids About Sex (Podcast Bundle)A Family Game Plan for Responding to Porn----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

Originally Aired on May 1, 2024View this episode on YouTube-----HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES!We have a goal of $118,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2025 through this podcast and all our other ministries.To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201.-----In this episode, we're hanging out with the dynamic duo, Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, who share their journey and collaborative work in the world of sexual education and theology of the body. They tell about their work with the Identity Project, aiming to help parents and families chat about sexuality and relationships in a faith-filled, positive way. The Lindas talk about their own lightbulb moments at the Theology of the Body Institute and how they're now passionate about giving parents the tools to paint a beautiful picture of God's design for their kids. They're all about tackling the big questions and easing those parent jitters with resources like their books and workbooks. It's all about building trust, having heart-to-hearts, and guiding the little ones through life's big topics. Learn more about the Lindas and their work at IdentityProject.tv and TheConversationWorkshop.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Collaboration of Linda Stewart and Linda Noble in sexual education and theology of the bodyThe Linda's Involvement in the Identity ProjectApproach to educating parents and families about sexuality and relationshipsInitial reluctance to discuss sexuality and the journey to embracing the theology of the bodyTheology of the body as a comprehensive view of sexuality and Christian sexual ethicImportance of understanding God's design for sex in addressing sexual brokennessThe role of parents in teaching children about God's love and their designAddressing the fears and anxieties of parents in discussing sexuality with childrenProviding support and resources for parents to navigate sexuality and relationships with their childrenMore Resources:Before the Sex Talk* by The LindasHonest Talk* by John FortOur Bodies Tell God's Story* by Christopher WestRelated Podcasts:God's Design for Emotional Growth and SexualityHelping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and SexualityKeeping Kids Safe in a Digital World*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

2024 YEAR-END FINANCIAL NEED: $118,000This ministry continues to reach men and women worldwide through the generous and faithful partnerships of listeners like you. Would you prayerfully consider partnering with us to meet our year-end financial need?To make your year-end gift or become a monthly partner, visit Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you!----------In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the theme of temptation, especially regarding male sexuality and the internal conflicts it sparks. Through a role-playing exercise, we illustrate the dialogue between the mind, body, and spirit during moments of temptation. We highlight the struggle between seeking pleasure and maintaining spiritual discipline. Stephen emphasizes the importance of standing firm and seeking peace, while I underscore the role of the Holy Spirit and community support in overcoming temptation. This episode offers valuable insights and practical tools for managing desires and fostering a healthier relationship with yourself.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of temptation, particularly in the context of male sexuality.Internal conflict between the mind, body, and spirit during moments of temptation.Role-playing exercise to illustrate the dialogue among different parts of the self.The cyclical nature of temptation and the struggle for self-control.The concept of the "wounded boy" representing emotional pain and longing for comfort.The importance of spiritual discipline and self-control in managing desires.The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding individuals through temptation.The significance of community and connection in overcoming isolation during struggles.Encouragement to engage in self-reflection and recognize inner conflicts.A call to action for individuals to pursue a healthier relationship with their desires and spiritual journey.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenSexual Integrity Webinar for MenDealing with Temptation Podcast BundleRelated Podcasts:Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual AddictionWhat to Do in the Moment of TemptationUnderstanding Body, Soul, and Spirit----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

2024 YEAR-END FINANCIAL NEED: $118,000This ministry continues to reach men and women worldwide through the generous and faithful partnerships of listeners like you. Would you prayerfully consider partnering with us to meet our year-end financial need? To make your year-end gift or become a monthly partner, visit Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you!----------In this episode, our guest is Ben Locke, author of "In Our Suffering Lord Be Near: Prayers of Hope for the Hurting." Ben shares his amazing journey from being a dedicated soccer player to facing severe injuries, abuse, and emotional trauma. These experiences led him to a deep exploration of suffering, mental health, and faith.We discuss the importance of processing emotions, the transformative power of prayer, and the role of therapy in healing. Ben's story is a testament to finding hope and connection through shared human experiences and Christian faith. Join us for an inspiring conversation on resilience and recovery.Ben's book can be found on Amazon or wherever books are sold. If you want to receive Ben's weekly prayer devotional, visit EvensongJournal.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Personal journey through suffering, injury, and traumaExperiences as a soccer player and the impact of injuriesChallenges related to mental health and emotional strugglesThe role of prayer in coping with sufferingImportance of processing emotions and seeking therapyConnection between suffering and shared human experiencesRole of faith and relationship with God through strugglesThe transformative power of prayer and honest communication with GodThe significance of community and support in dealing with sufferingHope and healing as outcomes of confronting and sharing strugglesMore Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for menFind a GroupA Sacred Sorrow* by Michael CardRelated Podcasts:Let's PrayRecovery Discovery 019: PrayerThe Immanuel Approach in Recovery*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

DOUBLE YOUR GIFT!Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED!Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I chat with Crystal Renaud Day about the SHE Virtual Recovery Summit, a transformative event for women battling unwanted sexual behaviors like pornography addiction. Crystal shares her personal journey and insights from years of ministry, emphasizing the importance of surrender, accountability, and community in recovery. We discuss the summit's role in providing a safe, supportive space for women and even teens to find healing and resources. Crystal's passion for helping women shines through, and we invite listeners to join the summit and take steps toward wholeness in Christ.To learn more about the SHE Summit and register, visit SheRecovery.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:SHE Virtual Recovery SummitSupport and resources for women struggling with unwanted sexual behaviorsPersonal experiences and insights from Crystal Renaud DayImportance and topics covered during the eventResearch on women's view of pornTraining for women in recoveryMinistry to women dealing with unwanted sexual behaviorsStories of transformation and victoryShe Virtual Recovery Summit as a space for learning, growth, and surrenderThe significance of surrender, confession, accountability, responsibility, and sharing in the recovery processMore Resources:SHE Virtual Recovery Summit (use affiliate code BEBROKEN for a 10% discount!)What Drives Women to Porn? Survey Results90 Days to Wholeness* by Crystal Renaud DayRelated Podcasts:New Research on Why Women View PornTotal Freedom for Women Struggling with PornGod's Grace for Women Struggling with Porn and Sexual Shame*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES!We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries.To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201.----------Parenting can feel overwhelming in the best of circumstances. But in today's world which is awash in all forms of sexual brokenness, it can seem impossible, especially when it comes to the issue of identity. In today's episode, our guest is Jordan Young. He is a student ministry pastor at Table Community Church in Hillsboro, Oregon near Portland. He has decades of experience in working with students and the various challenges they face in the culture. Our conversation focuses on identity and the confusion many students are experiencing and how the gospel of Jesus addresses this with grace and truth. Jordan and their students read through our Identity book over 6 weeks and it made a huge impact on helping the students better understand what identity means and how we all live from a sense of identity, whether true or false – and why identity in Christ is the only source of eternal hope and peace.You can get your copy of the Identity book by John Fort at Amazon* or our ministry resource page at Bebroken.org/store.More Resources:7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your KidsHonest Talk book*Online Courses for FamiliesRelated Podcasts:Exposing the Gender Lie (with Brandon Showalter)God Made Boys and GirlsHow Identity Shapes Everything*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES!We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries.To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201.----------Everyone listening to this podcast right now was once a child. Childhood is unavoidable on the journey to adulthood. But none of us got through our childhoods unscathed. And some of the residue of that continues to affect us now as adults.Today we have back with us Dr. Eddie Capparucci to talk about his inner child therapy model and a new resource he has co-authored for women who struggle with love and sex addiction. Eddie's model is based on the premise that we all have core emotional triggers that impact our inner child based on past wounds, and in order for us to heal and mature we must address these triggers by understanding our inner child and not simply ignoring our past.In our conversation, Eddie defines the inner child model and highlights the 10 specific “inner children” for women to understand in order to heal and recover from love and sex addiction. To learn more about Eddie and the inner child model, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com.More Resources:The Inner Child Recovery ProcessSheRecovery.com*90 Days to Wholeness*The Myth of Normal* by Gabor MateRelated Podcasts:God's Grace for Women Struggling with Porn and Sexual ShameThe Immanuel Approach in RecoveryTotal Freedom for Women Struggling with Porn*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership OpportunityWhen you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership!----------------------------For parents today it is difficult and even scary raising children in our hyper-sexualized culture. And there can be many different ways to respond to these challenges and fears. In today's episode, John Fort will introduce our 30-week curriculum for families, entitled God's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality. John is our Director of Training and has developed many of our Family Care resources. This curriculum is designed for families with kids ages 5-18. If you are a parent desiring to help your child navigate a world awash in sex, this episode will help you gain clarity and confidence. To learn more about the God's Design curriculum, visit Bebroken.org/store.More Resources:God's Design curriculum outline Honest Talk bookCritical Conversations WebinarRelated Podcasts:Brain Defense Digital Safety for KidsHow to Talk with Your Kids About SexGod Made Boys and Girls----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership OpportunityWhen you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership!----------------------------“A life unexamined is only half-lived.” -paraphrase of SocratesWe talk all the time in our ministry and on this podcast about men needing to get on a growth mission, especially as it pertains to emotional growth. In today's episode, Stephen and I get passionate about helping men grasp why it is important to understand yourself and how to learn yourself in a way that leads to greater peace, joy, and love. If you feel stuck or confused about how you fit into God's great design and plan, you will be encouraged by this episode. You are greatly loved and have a great purpose.More Resources:Growth Map by Stephen CervantesGateway to Freedom 3-day workshopUntangling Emotions by Groves and SmithRelated Podcasts:15 Rules of Emotionally Detached MenWhy Men Struggle to LoveHow to Know Yourself to Grow and Mature----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This is our 900th episode! And it's such a delight to release this milestone episode on my birthday. I hope it blesses you as much to listen as it did for me to record it. Today's episode is getting back to the basics of living a life of sexual integrity. Stephen Cervantes and I have been working with men desiring greater integrity for over 20 years, and we know that a life of integrity is not static. You must be on a daily growth mission to mature. In our conversation, we share some of our personal growth tips and many other insights we have seen that help men get on a growth mission and discover their God-sized purpose in life.A great next step in your pursuit of greater integrity is our Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive workshop. This Friday-Sunday event will help you get down to the roots of your unwanted sexual behaviors and provide practical, powerful direction for living each day with integrity and purpose. Learn more about Gateway to Freedom and how to register at Bebroken.org/gtf.More Resources:FREE Integrity Webinar for Men40 Days of Purity for MenThe 4 Pillars of PurityRelated Podcasts:Keys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors3 Levels of SobrietyInsights and Action Steps for Men----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Is all fighting in marriage bad? Don't most of us hate conflict and try to avoid it at all costs? What if, however, there is good to be found in conflict and disagreement?In today's episode, Stephen and I are going to unpack the positive dynamics of fighting in marriage. Discover what anger often means, how conflict is revealing what your spouse truly wants, and how to develop gratitude for the passion of differences.For helpful resources, visit Bebroken.org.More Resources:40 Days to Oneness by Stephen CervantesNot All Stress is BadMarriage RestoredRelated Podcasts:Finding Rest for Your Marriage4 Skills to Transform Your MarriageRebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Originally Aired on March 8, 2022View episode on YoutubeLAST WEEK to make your generous year-end donation at Bebroken.org/give. Thank you for your partnership!Today's guest is Matt Cline, the Director of Restored Ministries in Edmonton, Alberta. He is a speaker and coach who considers it an honor to tackle the epidemic of pornography and help individuals and marriages be restored from the destruction caused by sexual sin and shame. In this episode, Matt shares some of his story and key principles and insights that are proven to lead people from brokenness to wholeness. Our conversation addresses taking a serious view of sin, combating shame, understanding your true identity, and reclaiming a godly perspective on the body.Learn more about Matt and his ministry's resources at RestoredMinistries.ca.More Resources:Help for Men: Men.Bebroken.comHelp for Women: Women.Bebroken.comHelp for Families: Family.Bebroken.comRelated Podcasts & Media:Recovery Discovery: IdentityRecovery Discovery: No More ShameHow Identity Shapes Everything----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Make your generous year-end donation today at Bebroken.org/give!How does brokenness fit with wholeness in Christ? Are these contradictory or might they be explained as a paradox that actually unlocks the door to experiencing God's grace and transformative work in our lives?On today's episode, I'm flying solo to help unpack this amazing paradox between brokenness and wholeness. I will share three “types” of brokenness and three contexts for wholeness and how this all fits together on our journey of transformation in Christ. You may download my outline for today's episode at Bebroken.org/paradox. More Resources:Our Bodies Tell God's Story by Christopher WestHumility by Andrew MurrayGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupsRelated Podcasts:The Immanuel Approach in RecoveryThe 7 (or More) Pillars of Emotional GrowthWhat Can We Learn from Lust? ----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

For nearly two decades we have been inviting men to embark on an emotional growth mission, not merely a sexual purity mission (as good as that is). But what is an emotional growth mission and what are the challenges and possible stumbling blocks to emotional growth? In this episode, Stephen and I define the emotional growth mission and share over 10 thoughts and ideas that could stunt this mission. To get started, or keep going, on your emotional growth mission, watch the 7-part Emotional Training for Men webinar series at Bebroken.org/etm-webinar. More Resources:40 Days of Training for Your SoulUntangling Emotions by Groves and SmithFree Integrity Webinar for MenRelated Podcasts:How to Experience Excellent Emotional ConnectionsEssential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional SystemDo Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Porn is not victimless. In other words, porn use has consequences that negatively impact the viewer. This may seem obvious, especially to those who have developed an addiction to porn. But it's important to state the impact of porn bluntly and clearly in order to help you see it for what it really is: dangerous and harmful.In today's episode, Stephen and I will help you see multiple ways in which pornography impacts your life – things like escaping, avoiding relationships, unhealthy fantasy, the pain and difficulty of repairing what you have broken, and more.For help in overcoming unwanted porn use, visit Bebroken.org.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive40 Days of Purity Online CoursePersonal Ministry ConsultationRelated Podcasts:Breaking Free with Russell WillinghamOutgrowing the Porn PacifierHelping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally Fit----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

The father-son relationship is vital to boys learning how to grow up into manhood. And part of maturing into manhood is understanding sex and sexuality. But how can fathers and sons talk about sex and sexuality? Our guests today are John and Lucas Fort, the father-son duo who wrote the book Father-Son Accountability: Integrity Through Relationship. They share their story of how they learned to talk about sex and other difficult topics – and offer tips and pitfalls they discovered along the way.If you are a dad (or son) who wants to gain insights and helpful tools for talking about sex, this podcast will give you confidence to engage such conversations.To get the Father-Son Accountability book, visit Bebroken.org/store.More Resources:Bebroken.org/familyFather-Son WebinarHonest Talk by John FortRelated Podcasts:The Identity of My FatherA Son Talks to His DadWhat to Tell Your Son about Sex----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Every day we are inviting men to embark on a journey of personal growth, especially in the area of emotional growth. This is an essential part of breaking free from unhealthy, unwanted sexual behaviors and pursuing a life of integrity and joy.On today's program, Stephen brings lots of statements from men who are stunted on their journey of emotional growth, such as, “I have a good life and I'm stable. Just leave everything alone. Why do I have to keep growing?” We then offer insights and practical ideas for getting “unstuck” and going deeper to grow in emotional maturity.For specific help on going deeper emotionally, we encourage you to download our free resource, 40 Days of Training for Your Soul, at Bebroken.org/store.More Resources:Untangling Emotions by Groves and SmithIntegrity Webinar for MenPersonal Ministry ConsultationRelated Podcasts:15 Rules of Emotionally Detached MenWhy Men Struggle to LoveEssential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

You will be tempted. It is a fact of life. And some of those temptations will be sexual temptations. How can you respond to such temptations with confidence and wisdom? In today's episode, Stephen and I are opening the so-called “sexual temptation management toolbox” to share very practical tips for resisting temptation. So, if you're a man who wants to improve your ability to respond well to sexual temptation, listen in and take notes!More Resources:Men.Bebroken.comWords Have PowerGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupRelated Podcasts & Media:Breaking Free with Russell WillinghamRecovery Discovery: Resisting TemptationUnderstanding Failure in Recovery----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Today's topic is “Understanding Male Sexuality.” Someone once said that male sexuality can be like handing a shotgun to a 12-year-old! So, how are men to manage this powerful, and sometimes unruly, aspect of their being? In this episode, Stephen and I will highlight the goodness of male sexuality, the power of male sexuality, and how we can manage our sexuality in a way that honors God and blesses others.More Resources:Men.Bebroken.com40 Days of Purity Online CourseSexual Integrity Webinar for MenRelated Podcasts:Men, Men, Men!What is Healthy Masculinity?What is a Sexually Healthy Man?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our guest today is Chris Kaspar, founder and CEO of Techless, a different kind of tech company that is helping people understand how powerful technology is and how to manage it in ways that are healthy and wise. In our conversation Chris shares some of the dangers he is seeing in the tech space, especially around smartphones, and some positive tips and insights for engaging technology and screens with confidence and balance. Technology does not have to rob your family of deep, vibrant relationships. To learn more about Techless and their amazing Wisephone, visit Techless.com. And if you'd like to get $40 off the purchase of a Wisephone, use promo code BeBroken40 when you checkout. More Resources:Family.Bebroken.comCovenantEyes.com*Emotional Resilience online courseRelated Podcasts:Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World6 Reasons Kids Search for PornScreens Disciple, and What You Can Do About It*this is an affiliate link. Be Broken may receive payment on qualifying purchases. ----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our guest today is Hilarie Barry, author of the book We Survived Infidelity: An Unexpected Life Lesson and founder of the support group Infidelity Care for Women. She is also a speaker who loves to share her story and help others heal from sexual betrayal. In today's episode, Hilarie tells her story of discovering her husband's secret affairs and the healing journey that followed. She shares the ups and downs, the fears and doubts, and ultimately the way that led to deep personal healing and even the restoration of her marriage. To learn more about Hilarie and her resources, visit HilarieBarry.com.More Resources:WivesCare.Bebroken.comInfidelity Care for Women FB group6 Stages of Recovery for Partners of Sex AddictsRelated Podcasts:Navigating the Revelation of an AffairRebuilding Your Marriage After Sexual BetrayalBetrayal Healing Phases----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's program, we explore how married couples can recover from infidelity and why exploring trauma issues is important to this healing process. To help us dive deep into this topic we have Ryan and Jessica McDaniel as our guests. Ryan and Jessica are both licensed professional counselors with over 10 years of experience in helping couples address infidelity and betrayal in redemptive and hopeful ways. If you have experienced infidelity in your marriage, or know someone who has, this episode will help you gain hope and ideas for a way forward. To learn more about Ryan and Jessica, visit McDanielCounseling.org.More Resources:Try Softer by Aundi KolberAffairRecovery.comWivesCare.Bebroken.comRelated Podcasts:Why Do We Cheat?Sex, God, and the Chaos of BetrayalHope and Healing for Couples----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Today's guest is Matt Wenger, the clinical director of Boulder Recovery in Boulder, Colorado. Matt has a heart for helping men overcome all kinds of unwanted sexual behaviors by addressing the whole man, including trauma from his past. In today's episode, we talk about recovery as a means and environment for addressing all aspects of a man: his emotions, spirit, intellect, and body. True recovery is far more than just stopping negative behaviors; it is addressing the overall person to affect healthy personal growth and loving relationships. Matt shares common elements that often lead a man toward sexually compulsive behaviors and how to heal and discover a thriving life of freedom and joy. To learn more about Matt and their programs and resources, visit BoulderRecovery.com.More Resources:Sexual Integrity Webinar for MenMen.Bebroken.com40 Days of Purity Online CourseRelated Podcasts:Why Men Struggle to LoveOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True IdentityRecovery by the Power of God's Word----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, Stephen and I will unpack a number of sexually stupid comments by men. Here's just a sampling of some of these comments: “I will keep it a secret. No one needs to know.”“No one will get hurt.”“My wife doesn't desire me, but the other woman does!”We will unpack some of the immature thinking underneath these statements and offer healthier, more mature ways to think. Our hope is that this episode will help you examine your own thinking regarding your sexual brokenness and take a bold next step toward greater insight and better relationships.More Resources:Integrity Webinar for MenMen.Bebroken.comEmotional Training for MenRelated Podcasts:Three Levels of SobrietyAre You Open or Closed to Emotional Growth?Grace to Grow Up----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, Stephen and I draw from Donald Miller's book, Hero on a Mission, to help you better understand your own story and take your next best step to embark on a mission of growth and adventure.Every great story has four roles in it:1. Victim2. Villain3. Hero4. GuideAs we learn together about these roles, we can see how our own stories weave in different ways into each of these roles. And, with help, we can learn and grow from such perspective and analysis.So, go on a journey with us today to better understand your story and how you can be a hero on a mission and a guide for others in their story.To get a copy of Donald Miller's book, go to Amazon.com or anywhere books are sold.More Resources:How to Tell Your StoryCounselors.Bebroken.comThe Missing Connection to HealingRelated Podcasts:How to Know Yourself to Grow and MatureHow to Experience Excellent Emotional ConnectionsThree Purposes in Life----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Today's guests are Roane and Eva Hunter, counselors and co-authors of the book, Sex, God, & the Chaos of Betrayal: The Couples' Road Map of Hope & Healing - Recovery from Infidelity, Affairs, Pornography & Sexual Addiction.In this episode, they share their histories of brokenness and the impact this had on their marriage. Through the many ups and downs of their relationship, they gained many insights that they now share with other couples seeking help in their own marriages. To learn more about Roane and Eva and their book, visit SexGodChaos.com.More Resources:Lifeworks Intensives and GroupsWivesCare.Bebroken.comMen.Bebroken.comRelated Podcasts: Rebuilding Your Marriage After Sexual BetrayalHow to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your AffairHope After Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, our guest Tammy Gustafson shares her story of sexual betrayal in her marriage and the healing and restoration that followed. Through her journey of healing from such trauma, she developed what she calls the Betrayal Healing Phases, which are: RevealRumbleResolutionRebuildTammy wrestled with how to return to God after betrayal, when and how to forgive her husband, and God's call on her life to help other wives. If you are a wife facing similar struggles, today's conversation will give you hope. To learn more about Tammy and the counseling and courses she offers, visit BetrayalHealing.com. For the Betrayal Healing Phases quiz, visit BetrayalHealing.com/quiz.More Resources:WivesCare.Bebroken.comFirst 7 Days for WivesFREE Wives Care Basics WebinarRelated Podcasts:Helping Wives "Detach with Love" in a Difficult MarriageHelping Wives Recover from the Aftershock of Sexual BetrayalOnline Care Groups for Wives----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This episode is a special bonus. Our guest is Matt Riley, the development director of our ministry. Matt will share his story of sexual brokenness and addiction and the recovery road he has traveled.Story is a core value of our ministry. It matters to know that others have experienced some of the feelings and challenges we too have faced. This is why we want you to hear Matt's story – that you might gain some hope and insight into your own story and discover next steps that will help you keep going on your own journey.You can connect with Matt at 210-822-8201 x108 or by sending him a note/question on Contact.Bebroken.com.Helpful Resources:Abba's Child by Brennan ManningWorthy of Her Trust by Jason MartinkisSecrets by Jonathan DaughertyRelated Podcasts:Outgrowing the Porn PacifierAn Unexpected Journey to HopeRecovery Discovery: Telling Your Story----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

On today's program, we have one of our fan-favorite guests back with us, Dr. Eddie Capparucci. Eddie is certified as a licensed professional counselor and certified in treating sexual and pornography addiction. He is the creator of the Inner Child Model for the Treatment of Sexual and Pornography Addiction and the author of multiple books and workbooks.Today our conversation focuses on his newest book, Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots. In this book, Eddie identifies 14 blind spots in men that can prevent them from building healthy love relationships. So, if you are a man who wants to understand the deeper issues of recovery beyond just behavioral sobriety, this conversation will benefit you.To learn more about the book and get a copy, visit StrugglingMen.org.More Resources:Men.Bebroken.comInnerChild-SexAddiction.comGrowth Map by Stephen CervantesRelated Podcasts:3 Levels of SobrietyDo Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection?About Your Emotional Connecting Skills----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, Stephen and I share multiple comments from men who are on the journey to pursue greater integrity. Some of these comments are:“I know what's wrong with me – it's me!”“I'm 75 years old and no one wants to go to lunch with me.”“All my life I've hidden behind God and spiritual truths, but I'm not emotionally mature.”“There is pain in recovery. It feels like hope and it sucks at the same time.”“Why do I have to change? I don't want to.”“Growing up, no one was there for me. So now, how can I show up for anyone?”Our hope in sharing these comments and the insights behind them is to help men better understand their own integrity journey and hopefully get some ideas for how to take their best next step. If you would like resources that help men grow in purity and faith, visit Men.Bebroken.com.More Resources:First 7 Days for MenEmotional Training for Men Webinar SeriesSmall Groups Online*Related Podcasts:3 Levels of SobrietyHow to Know Yourself to Grow and MatureInsights from a Brother in Recovery*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken my earn referral fees from qualifying purchases. ----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

On today's program, our guest is Mandy Majors, founder of Next Talk and author of the new book Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World: A Solution that Works. Our discussion highlights some of Mandy's personal journey with her daughter on this subject and the three main sections of the book: The new problem we face.A solution that works.10 practical things to do to implement the solution.If you are a parent (or grandparent) who wants encouragement and real-world insights that work, tune in to what Mandy has to share. To learn more about Mandy and their ministry resources, visit NextTalk.org.More Resources for Parents:Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital WorldFamily.Bebroken.comA Family Game Plan for Responding to PornRelated PodcastsHOW and WHERE are Your Kids Hanging Out Online?Good Pictures, Bad PicturesA Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult Conversations----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

On today's program, our guest is Matt Dobschuetz, host of Porn Free Radio podcast and author of the book Porn Free: Becoming the Type of Man Who Does Not Look at Porn. Our conversation focuses on the topics and insights Matt highlights throughout his book.Matt shares his journey of eventually becoming porn free (he hasn't viewed porn since 2011), the impact of loneliness in wanting to pursue porn, why “hating porn” isn't the answer, and how to become curious about the underlying problems of porn use so that you can shift your paradigm.If you are a man (or love a man) who is struggling to overcome the stronghold of porn, Matt has a practical message of hope and freedom for you.To get Matt's book or learn more about his coaching, visit RecoveredMan.com.More Resources:Porn Free bookMen.Bebroken.com Training for Your SoulRelated Podcasts:The Last Relapse with Sathiya SamOutgrowing the Porn PacifierHow Do You Fight Porn?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, Stephen brings some wisdom to us from a man who has been on a journey of sexual wholeness for a while. What can we learn from an older saint in the faith? What is the value of pursuing faithfulness and continuing to fight for purity and holiness over a lifetime?Our hope by sharing these nuggets of wisdom is that you might be inspired to keep going on your own pursuit of sexual wholeness – and recognize that what you learn along the way will have value to others on a similar journey.More Resources:Men.Bebroken.comWomen.Bebroken.comOnline Integrity CoursesRelated Podcasts:Beating Porn Through All Ages and Stages of LifeSexual Healing and the Grace of GodThe Power of Purity----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Today's guest is Shelley Martinkus, speaker, author, group facilitator, coach, and founder of Redemptive Living for Women. She is passionate about helping women heal from sexual betrayal by affirming them, helping them find their voice, and empowering them to go after what they want and need all the while connecting to God, themselves, and to others.In this episode, Shelley shares some of her story and provides personal and ministry insight for wives facing betrayal, such as why a wife's healing matters, how to take first steps, and something called liminal space. If you are a wife seeking a message of hope and practical ideas for healing from betrayal, listen in.To learn more about Shelley and the resources she provides, visit RLforWomen.com.More Resources:WivesCare.Bebroken.comBasics Webinar for WivesRescued by Shelley MartinkusRelated Podcasts:Helping Wives Recovery from the Aftershock of Sexual BetrayalHelping a Wife HealHope After Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, we unpack the visual nature of men. Like it or not, believe it or not, there are differences between males and females. Male brains are physically different from female brains. But this isn't a science program. We want to focus on just one primary difference: men are hardwired with more capacity for visual processing than women.But what does this mean and what are we to do about it? Listen in as we unpack how to understand the visual nature of men and how men can steward this reality in a God-honoring way. Much of this conversation was born out of Shaunti Feldhahn's book, Through a Man's Eyes. You can get her book on Amazon.com or any other book distributor. More Resources:Men.Bebroken.com3 Tactics Satan Employs to Destroy Our LivesRecover Discovery 018: Your BrainRelated Podcasts:How to Look at a WomanLook Into My EyesWhat Can We Learn from Lust?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our guest today is Sara Sery. She is a mom and ministry leader who cares deeply about helping parents, especially moms, to understand God's design for sex and sexuality and how to disciple kids to navigate a sex-saturated culture with hope and confidence.Our conversation today unpacks many of the challenges parents face in dealing with sexual struggles in their kids (and themselves) and how the gospel of Jesus applies to these challenges.If you are a parent who needs hope and help on this topic, listen in. For more information about Sara and her group and coaching ministry, visit BadChristianMoms.com.More Resources:Family.Bebroken.comHonest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About SexRelated Podcasts:God Made Boys and GirlsTalking to Your Kids About Sex: What Works and What Doesn'tFighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About Sex----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

My guest today is Carl Thomas. Carl is the founder of Live Free Ministries, which provides resources like the Live Free Community app for men who hunger for real freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors, and the Live Free Wives community for spouses who need a safe space to heal from betrayal. He is also the author of a new book entitled When Shame Gets Real: A New Way to Talk About Sex, Porn, and Masturbation. Our conversation today revolves around this issue of shame – what it is, how it perpetuates unhealthy (and even unwanted) sexual behaviors, what it takes to live free from it, and why authentic community is so powerful for dealing with shame effectively. To learn more about Carl and his ministry, visit LiveFreeCommunity.org. To find out more about his book, go to WhenShameGetsReal.com.More Resources:Men.Bebroken.comThe Lies We Believe by Dr. Chris ThurmanGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupsRelated Podcasts & Videos:Overcoming the Fear that Lives in My HeadRecovery Discovery: No More ShameSilencing Your Inner Critic----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In this episode, our guest is Mary Ann Otley. She has a powerful story of sexual abuse, addiction, and the healing power of Jesus. Her abuse planted seeds of lies about her identity that she carried for decades. But she also eventually experienced the radical grace and love of God. If you or someone you love has faced the pain of abuse or addiction, Mary Ann's story and insights will help you discover hope, joy, and the faithful, generous, gentle love of Jesus Christ. You don't have to live in shame, guilt, and despair. No matter how broken you feel, you can be made whole. Learn more about Mary Ann and her ministry at LoveTriumphs.com. More Resources:Women.Bebroken.comFearless SeriesRelated Podcasts:Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual AbuseResponding to #MeTooWhat Lies Have You Believed----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Today's guest is Matt Cline, the Director of Restored Ministries in Edmonton, Alberta. He is a speaker and coach who considers it an honor to tackle the epidemic of pornography and help individuals and marriages be restored from the destruction caused by sexual sin and shame. In this episode, Matt shares some of his story and key principles and insights that are proven to lead people from brokenness to wholeness. Our conversation addresses taking a serious view of sin, combating shame, understanding your true identity, and reclaiming a godly perspective on the body.Learn more about Matt and his ministry's resources at RestoredMinistries.ca.More Resources:Help for Men: Men.Bebroken.comHelp for Women: Women.Bebroken.comHelp for Families: Family.Bebroken.comRelated Podcasts & Media:Recovery Discovery: IdentityRecovery Discovery: No More ShameHow Identity Shapes Everything----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, we talk about pain. We know this isn't a topic most of us like to talk about, but all of us will face pain of various kinds throughout life; physical, emotional, psychological, relational, spiritual. What if one day your life changed fundamentally because of pain? How well would you respond? What does pain reveal about our emotional health and maturity? Join us as we explore how to respond to pain with endurance and learn to “suffer well.” There can still be hope and even joy and gratitude in the midst of great pain. Resources for Wives: WivesCare.Bebroken.comResources for Men: Men.Bebroken.comResources for Families: Family.Bebroken.comRelated Podcasts & Media:Carrying a Heavy BurdenManaging DisappointmentGood Pain vs. Bad Pain----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our guest today is Sathiya Sam. He is the creator of DeepClean, a systematic process for overcoming pornography, and the author of a new book entitled The Last Relapse: Realize Your Potential, Reclaim Intimacy, and Resolve the Root Issues of Porn Addiction. In this episode, we unpack the 4 key sections of the book, which are: Taking Back Control of Your Life, Healing from Your Past,Regaining Your Confidence, And Becoming a New Man.There is good news in this episode: Freedom from porn is possible! I am confident that this conversation will give you hope and practical ideas for next steps toward greater integrity. To learn more about Sathiya and his resources, visit UltimateRecoveryGuide.com. Get the book: The Last RelapseMore Resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.comRelated Podcasts:Helping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally FitWhen and Why Do Men Escape to Porn?Outgrowing the Porn Pacifier----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our guest today is Dr. Danny Huerta, vice president of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family. He oversees Focus' initiatives that equip mothers and fathers with biblical principles and counsel for raising healthy, resilient children.One of those initiatives is the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting. In this episode, Danny unpacks these 7 traits, including adaptability, boundaries, grace and forgiveness, and gratitude. If you are a parent who wants to improve how you interact with and guide your children through the joys and challenges of growing up, this episode can help.Learn more about Danny and the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting at FocusontheFamily.com/7traits. More Resources:FocusontheFamily.com/parentingPluggedIn.comFamily.Bebroken.comHonest Talk by John FortRelated Podcasts:Help, My 11-Year-Old is Looking at Porn!Fighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About SexA Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult Conversations---------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

My guest today is Ted Shimer, author of The Freedom Fight, a research-based discipleship curriculum that equips men and women to break free from pornography so they can run their race and reach their God-given potential in Christ.In this episode, Tim shares his 30+ year history of discipling college students and how he got involved in specifically helping young adults address struggles with porn and how to break free. He also shares 6 main roots to porn addiction, some key principles that lead to long-term freedom from porn, and why addressing porn is a huge opportunity for the church to help Christians know what it means to live out their true identity in Christ. Ted's heart is not just that men and women get free from porn, but that they outgrow the perceived need for it.Learn more about Ted and The Freedom Fight at TheFreedomFight.org.More ResourcesMen.Bebroken.comWomen.Bebroken.com40 Days of Purity for Men40 Days of Purity for WomenRelated PodcastsBreaking Free with Russell WillinghamThe Power of CommunityHelping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally Fit----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In today's episode, counselor Stephen Cervantes shares with us one man's ups and downs of his journey of recovery – especially the ups and downs of faith. How does faith fit into recovery? What if Christianity doesn't “cure” your addiction? Is it okay to wrestle with faith questions on a recovery journey? We will peel back the layers of these questions and more to help you discover how faith weaves into recovery in a way that is hopeful, meaningful and life-changing. When you persist with curiosity on your recovery journey, breakthroughs happen!To help you understand the key principles it takes to break free from addictive patterns, check out the First 7 Days for Men at 7Days.Bebroken.com or the First 7 Days for Women at 7DaysWomen.Bebroken.com.More Resources:40 Days of Training for Your SoulResurrection and RecoveryIs Recovery Worth the Cost?Grace-Based RecoveryRelated Podcasts:Why Jesus?Breaking Free for Good----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Originally Aired: July 6, 2021Drew was a kid who loved Jesus and hated porn, but still couldn't stop his unwanted behavior. Are you a man who can identify with this vicious cycle? In this episode, our guest is Drew Boa, the founder of Husband Material, a ministry to help men outgrow porn by changing your brain, healing your heart, and saving your relationship. If you want to discover hope for true freedom from porn, tune in to hear Drew's story and practical insights.Learn more about Drew and his ministry: HusbandMaterial.com40-Day Online Course for Men: 40Days.PureLifeAcademy.orgMore resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.com----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Originally Aired: January 26, 2021Sexual betrayal is a tidal wave of pain, confusion, and grief for a wife. It can feel like the very underpinnings of her life have been destroyed; kind of like an emotional earthquake. In this episode, Geremy Keeton introduces Aftershock, a powerful book he co-wrote with Joann Condie to help wives overcome the pain of their husband's secret sin and gain a plan for recovering from such betrayal.Get your copy of Aftershock at FocusontheFamily.com/AftershockCounseling Help: 1-855-771-HELPOnline Course for Wives: Rebuilding Trust After BetrayalFor more Wives Care Resources, visit WivesCare.Bebroken.com----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

My guest today is Karla Downing, the founder of ChangeMyRelationship.com. She is a speaker, author, counselor, and Bible teacher.Karla grew up in a dysfunctional family and then found herself struggling with Christian codependency in her own difficult marriage. Through her personal struggles, she discovered biblical and practical principles, which she now teaches to others. Karla's passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from the chains of dysfunction, misunderstanding, and emotional pain through a correct understanding of what the Bible teaches about relationships.In our conversation, Karla shares the 10 Relationship Changing Principles she uses to help difficult relationships thrive. We spend much of our time focusing on the principle she calls “Detach with Love” to help wives understand how to separate themselves in healthy ways from their betraying husband's actions and reactions.To learn more about Karla and her many resources, visit ChangeMyRelationship.com.More Resources for Wives: WivesCare.Bebroken.comBlog: Why Self-Care After Sexual Betrayal is Good StewardshipRelated Podcasts:Hope After Betrayal Sexual Betrayal and Spiritual BattleOnline Care Groups for Wives----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

There is one simple starting point for men who want to work on emotional development: practice sadness. This may be overly simple, even simplistic. But after engaging with hundreds of men for over 30 years, counselor Stephen Cervantes has discovered that most men hate dealing with sadness. They don't know how to practice sadness.Most men think emotions are messy. They hate when women cry. They think sadness is sloppy, crazy, and unnecessary emotion. Most men are good at positive emotions such as fun, play, laughter, and pleasure. They are not so good at disappointment and sadness.In this episode, we explore the issue of sadness in men and how men can better practice sadness well. We unpack the impact of fathers in training their sons to avoid or ignore sadness. Finally, we help men see sadness as an asset to growth and maturity rather than a liability.More resources for men: Men.Bebroken.comBook: Untangling Emotions by Groves and SmithRelated Podcasts:Replacing Escaping and Hiding with Healthy Thoughts and BehaviorsGoing Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex AddictionWhat Can You Learn from Your Anger?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

The world seems to always be ready to criticize and complain. What happens when those criticisms and complaints are directed at you? How well do you respond? In this episode, Stephen and Jonathan unpack how our responses to verbal barbs affect (and measure) our emotional growth journey. Discover the path of grace and love that sets your heart free from being offended and offers others the hope of Jesus.Book: Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life BetterMore Podcasts:A Biblical Framework for EmotionsAbout Your Emotional Connecting SkillsEssential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional SystemHelp for Men: Men.Bebroken.comHelp for Women: Women.Bebroken.comHelp for Families: Family.Bebroken.com----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations