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PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I continue our three-part series "A Parent's Response Matters" with Family Care Director Norma, exploring three powerful letters from the RESPOND acronym. We dive into Sincerity over Silence, encouraging parents to stay honest and engaged even without all the answers. Then we explore Patience over Punitive, reminding us that calm correction builds stronger connections. Finally, Opportunity over Obstacle challenges parents to reframe difficult moments as God-given chances to teach and grow. Norma's practical wisdom makes these principles feel totally achievable, and her challenge to try just one shift this week is something every parent can do!*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God's design, even in a sex-saturated culture.Topics Covered in this Episode: Navigating the sexualized culture from a Christian perspectiveThe acronym RESPOND as a framework for parental engagementSincerity over Silence in communication with childrenThe importance of being honest and open about not having all the answersPatience over Punitive responses when addressing children's mistakesThe role of calmness and empathy in correctionOpportunity over Obstacle for teaching and relationship-buildingThe significance of reframing interruptions as moments for growthPractical tools for parents to engage sincerely and patientlyThe broader application of these principles in all relationships, not just parentingResources for Next Steps: Critical Conversations Online CourseProcessing Exposure with Teens Online CourseJust Between Us Parent-Child Journal*RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERSR - Respond over ReactE - Engage over EvadeS - Sincerity over SilenceP - Patience over PunitiveO - Opportunity over ObstacleN - Nearness over NeglectD - Divine Perspective over Diluting TruthThis episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-DDownload a FREE 1-page PDF with the RESPOND infographicFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I sit down to have an honest conversation about something we all face: temptation. We tackle the myth that some people are beyond it and share practical, emotional, and spiritual tools to help resist it. From asking sobering reality-check questions to speaking powerful affirmations out loud, we explore how small daily choices shape our lives. We also dive into integrity, discipline, grace, and the pursuit of genuine peace over secret shame — walking alongside our listeners on this ongoing journey toward freedom and wholeness in Christ.To get more daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Universal experience of temptation and its impact on individuals.Strategies for resisting temptation, including practical, emotional, and spiritual approaches.Importance of integrity and making choices aligned with personal values and faith.Reflective questions to consider during moments of temptation.Consequences of secret sins on relationships and personal integrity.The fleeting nature of pleasure from temptation versus long-term pain.The role of discipline in achieving freedom and a fulfilling life.The significance of envisioning future impacts of present choices.The concept of grace and ongoing personal growth in the face of temptation.The pursuit of peace, rest, and joy over a life marked by shame and secrecy.More Resources:Everyone Gets Tempted (blog post on DoctorMarriage.org)Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenHow to Resist Temptation: 7 Practical IdeasRelated Podcasts:Dealing with Temptation Podcast BundleBreaking Free with Russell WillinghamPure in Heart - So Much More than Just Saying No----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I have back on the program Melissa Macomber to explore the often-overlooked impact of parental infidelity on adult children. Melissa shares her personal journey of discovering her parents' affair as a teenager and how it shaped her into adulthood. Together, we discuss how secrecy, family roles, and betrayal affect trust, relationships, and self-expression later in life. Melissa also introduces her online program, Authenticity After Family Betrayal, offering hope and community to adult children still carrying this hidden pain. Her message is clear: healing is possible, and you are not alone.To learn more about Melissa and her online program, visit MelissaMacomber.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: The impact of parental infidelity on adult children.Personal experiences of discovering parental infidelity and its long-term effects.The reasons parents may choose to withhold information about infidelity from their children.Emotional and relational challenges faced by adult children of parents who have cheated.The role of secrecy and denial in family dynamics and its effects on trust.Common coping mechanisms and family roles adopted by children in response to infidelity.Differences in sibling reactions to parental infidelity and its impact on their relationships.The connection between childhood experiences of infidelity and adult relationship patterns.Strategies for adult children to establish healthy boundaries with their parents.Support programs and resources available for adult children dealing with the aftermath of parental betrayal.More Resources: Authenticity After Family Betrayal (online group starting September 8, 2026)How Keeping Secrets About Your Parent's Infidelity Stresses Your BrainMelissa's Research on Parent Infidelity and Its Effect on Adult ChildrenRelated Podcasts: Understanding the Impact of Parent's Infidelity on Adult ChildrenWhy Do We Cheat?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Matt Burton to explore intimacy avoidance (IA) in men and its impact on relationships. Dr. Burton breaks down what IA really means — a subconscious self-protective pattern creating emotional distance — and shares key behaviors like lack of empathy, stonewalling, and blame-shifting. We discuss root causes, including childhood trauma and attachment issues, and Dr. Burton outlines a holistic path to healing. He also shares hope for men feeling overwhelmed, emphasizing that real change is possible. To learn more about Matt and Laura and their resources for men, wives, and couples, visit BecomingWellInstitute.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Definition and explanation of intimacy avoidance (IA) in men.Common patterns and behaviors associated with intimacy avoidant men.The impact of lack of empathy on relationships.Differences between sympathy and empathy.Underlying causes of intimacy avoidance, including family trauma and attachment issues.The emotional experience of intimacy avoidant men and their capacity for love.The role of maladaptive coping strategies in intimacy avoidance.Strategies for partners of intimacy avoidant men to maintain emotional health.The process of treatment and recovery for intimacy avoidance.Importance of relational recovery and the involvement of partners in the healing process.More Resources:Men's Intimacy Avoidance RecoveryGateway to Freedom 3-Day IntensiveThe 12 Steps to Becoming Well from Intimacy Avoidance for Christians*Related Podcasts:4 Skills to Transform Your MarriageAbout Your Emotional Connecting SkillsKeys to Emotional Intimacy*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Brad and Heidi Mitchell, a couple with an incredible story of restoration after 43 years of marriage. They openly share how they overcame Brad's adultery and rebuilt their relationship through faith and prayer. We dive deep into why so few couples — even Christians — pray together regularly, exploring the fears and barriers that hold them back. Brad and Heidi also walk us through their book, Build Your Marriage With Prayer, a powerful 40-day journey designed to help couples develop a meaningful, lasting prayer life together. No matter the state of your marriage, this conversation can help you catch a vision for a pathway to a deeper, richer connection with your spouse. To learn more about Brad and Heidi and their resources, visit BuildYourMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of prayer in marriage, particularly praying together as a couple.Personal journey of the speakers, including challenges faced in their 43-year marriage.Impact of past adultery on their marriage and family.Role of faith and prayer in restoring their marriage.Common barriers and fears couples face when trying to pray together.Statistics on the correlation between couples who pray together and lower divorce rates.Development of a meaningful prayer life as a couple after experiencing a crisis.Insights from their book "Build Your Marriage With Prayer" and its 40-day journey.Transformation stories of other couples through prayer.Encouragement for couples to start praying together, including practical tips.More Resources: Build Your Marriage with Prayer*Ruined to Recovery: Help When the Affair is Discovered*40 Days to OnenessRelated Podcasts: Let's PrayLord Be Near: Finding Hope in Suffering Through PrayerThe Immanuel Approach in Recovery*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of Family Time*, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, in the first of a 3-part series to explore how parents can RESPOND thoughtfully rather than react impulsively to their children. Norma shares practical tools like pausing, naming emotions, and shifting to shame-free language. We also dig into the difference between engaging and evading difficult conversations, reminding parents that connection always comes before correction. Whether you're navigating spilled juice or tough questions about sexuality, this episode offers real, grace-filled guidance to help you build stronger, more trusting relationships with your kids.*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God's design, even in a sex-saturated culture.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of thoughtful responses to children's questions and behaviorsDistinction between reacting impulsively and responding thoughtfullyBuilding strong parent-child bonds through connection before correctionPractical tools for parents: pausing, counting, and naming feelingsThe impact of language on children's emotional responsesEngaging in difficult conversations rather than evading themThe significance of showing interest in children's lives and activitiesStrategies for effective engagement and communication with childrenThe role of humility in repairing relationships with childrenEncouragement for parents to view challenging moments as growth opportunitiesResources for Next Steps:God's Design CurriculumCritical Conversations Online CourseJust Between Us Parent-Child Journal*RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERSR - Respond over ReactE - Engage over EvadeS - Sincerity over SilenceP - Patience over PunitiveO - Opportunity over ObstacleN - Nearness over NeglectD - Divine Perspective over Diluting TruthThis episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-DDownload a FREE 1-page PDF with the RESPOND infographicFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, affectionately known as "the Lindas," who share their passion for helping parents navigate conversations about sexuality through the theology of the body. We explore how parental shame can block open dialogue with children and why humility and curiosity are essential tools for healing. The Lindas remind us it's never too late to start these conversations and share practical resources, including their book Before the Sex Talk, to help families build a foundation rooted in God's beautiful design.To learn more about The Lindas and their resources for parents, visit TheConversationWorkshop.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Understanding God's design for sexuality and the human body.The impact of parental shame on discussions about sex with children.Encouraging open and healthy conversations between parents and children.The importance of humility in parenting and discussing sensitive topics.The role of curiosity in overcoming shame and fostering dialogue.The significance of parents sharing their own stories appropriately.Practical steps for parents to start conversations about sexuality.The value of building a foundation of trust and openness in family relationships.Resources available for parents to guide discussions on sexuality.The idea that it's never too late to engage in conversations about sexuality with older children.More Resources:Before the Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors*Critical Conversations (FREE Online Course)7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your KidsRelated Podcasts:Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused WorldHelping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and SexualityHow Parents Can Leverage Their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Troy Snyder, a colleague and counseling expert from Restoration Counseling of Atlanta, to explore early couple recovery after sexual betrayal. Troy breaks down what those first six months after discovery really look like, emphasizing stability and safety over quick fixes. We dig into the concept of "reality abuse," the critical role of humility for the betraying spouse, and why individual healing must work in harmony with relational work. Troy also shares practical boundary-setting strategies and reminds couples that restoration is possible — it's simply a long, faithful journey worth taking.To learn more about Troy and his resources, visit RestorationCounselingATL.com and RedeemingLife.net.Topics Covered in this Episode:Early couple recovery following sexual betrayal in marriage.The concept of "reality abuse" and its impact on shared reality.The necessity of individual work for both partners in the recovery process.The importance of humility, patience, and long-term commitment from the betraying partner.Establishing and respecting healthy boundaries to ensure safety for the betrayed spouse.The significance of creating stability and safety in the early recovery phase.The role of professional support and community in the recovery journey.The process of honesty and full disclosure as foundational for rebuilding trust.The need for couples to avoid rushing into relational work before individual healing.The long-term vision for recovery and the importance of perseverance and hope.More Resources:Restoration Counseling of AtlantaGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenOnline Care Groups for Wives (betrayal trauma healing)Related Podcasts:Early Recovery Couples Empathy ModelThe Three Phases of Couples RecoveryHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Andrea Rogers, a Board Certified Life Coach specializing in intimate partner betrayal trauma. Andrea shares her powerful personal story of discovering her husband's double life after 14 years of marriage, which eventually led her into coaching work. We explore what intimate partner betrayal truly means, its devastating emotional and physical impacts—including PTSD-like symptoms—and why it's so isolating. Andrea also shares about the Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day, observed annually on August 4th. This is a growing movement to bring visibility and community to those affected. To learn more about Andrea and her resources, visit FullyAliveCoachingLLC.com and IPBAwareness.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experience with intimate partner betrayal and its impact on relationships.Definition and understanding of intimate partner betrayal and betrayal trauma.Emotional and psychological effects of betrayal trauma, including symptoms similar to PTSD.The isolating nature of betrayal and societal misconceptions surrounding it.The establishment and significance of Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day.Misconceptions about preventing betrayal and the need for specialized support.The importance of community and support systems for healing from betrayal trauma.Distinction between betrayal trauma and other forms of relational conflict.Strategies for healing and first steps for those experiencing betrayal.The role of friends and family in supporting individuals dealing with betrayal trauma.More Resources:An Ember of Light by Andrea AminahWives Care Groups (Online)40 Days of Healing for Wives (online course)Related Podcasts: Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal? Online Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal TraumaHealing from Sexual Trauma and Coercive Control in Relationships----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend Dr. Stephen Cervantes to explore a powerful communication tool for couples. Inspired by psychologist Aimee Moran's work with children, Stephen shares nine meaningful questions designed to spark deeper conversations beyond the typical "How was your day?" "Fine." exchange. From reflecting on daily blessings to spotting God at work, these questions build curiosity, emotional connection, and intimacy. We also discuss how especially in marriages healing from betrayal, meaningful dialogue is a true sign of heart-level growth. These simple questions can genuinely transform how couples connect every day!For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Improving communication in marriages, particularly after sexual betrayal.Adapting questions originally designed for children to facilitate deeper conversations between couples.Encouraging emotional expression and moving beyond superficial responses.Discussing daily experiences, challenges, and personal growth within the context of marriage.The importance of creating a safe space for sensitive discussions, especially regarding mistakes and challenges.Fostering curiosity, care, and intimacy through meaningful dialogue.Recognizing and addressing emotional needs in relationships.The role of prayer and spiritual awareness in strengthening marital bonds.Highlighting the significance of noticing and appreciating daily moments and connections.Encouraging ongoing personal and relational growth through intentional questioning and dialogue.More Resources:40 Days of Oneness* by Stephen Cervantes131 Creative Conversations for Couples* by Jed JurchenkoLove Talk* by Les and Leslie ParrottRelated Podcasts:The Goal is ConnectingWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in MarriageAssumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this special edition of Family Time* (which we recorded right before Mother's Day), I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, and two incredible moms, Sonia and Carol, to talk about having critical conversations with kids around emotions and sexuality. They share their personal experiences using our ministry resources, including the Honest Talk game and Honest Talk book. Together, we explore how building emotional awareness creates the trust needed for kids to open up about harder topics, and why grace, humility, and ongoing dialogue matter more than having all the answers.I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and I think you will too. It is honest, yet hope-filled. If you are a parent in today's world, you don't have to be scared.*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God's design, even in a sex-saturated culture.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of emotional awareness in parenting.Tools and resources for facilitating difficult conversations with children.Experiences of mothers in using parenting resources effectively.The foundational role of emotions in discussing topics like sexuality.Building trust and open communication between parents and children.Normalizing ongoing conversations about sexuality rather than a single "talk."The impact of parental reactions on children's emotional development.Encouragement for parents to engage with their children's questions and concerns.The significance of using proper anatomical terms and age-appropriate discussions.The role of grace and community support in parenting challenges.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Honest Talk* by John FortHonest Talk: The GameFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire to explore how wives can navigate healing after sexual betrayal, particularly when dealing with emotional triggers. Ashley shares vulnerably from her own recovery journey, explaining what triggers are, how they affect our nervous system, and why "befriending" them is more powerful than suppressing them. We discuss rebuilding intuition after gaslighting, setting healthy boundaries, and practical grounding tools. Ashley reminds us that healing is possible and that connecting with a supportive community is absolutely essential for the journey forward.To learn more about Ashley, visit PureDesire.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Healing journey for wives experiencing sexual betrayalUnderstanding and managing emotional triggersThe concept of "befriending your triggers"The impact of betrayal on intuition and gut feelingsImportance of validating feelings and investigating triggersSetting boundaries for personal safety and well-beingCommon triggers that heighten anxiety in betrayed wivesPractical tools for grounding and emotional regulationThe role of community and support in the healing processEmpowerment through understanding triggers and making informed decisionsMore Resources:Online Wives Care GroupsUnfiltered Podcast with Ashley and HeatherFree Wives Care WebinarRelated Podcasts:Forgiveness and Grief in Betrayal Trauma HealingRelapse Safety Plan for Wives Healing from Betrayal TraumaOnline Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of Pure Sex Radio, I sit down with Jim Burns, founder of HomeWord and author of A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity. Jim shares why open, ongoing conversations with our kids about sexuality are far more effective than one big "talk." We explore how parents can present sexuality as God's good design, set healthy boundaries, and address tough topics like pornography, gender identity, and shame — all without being preachy. Jim also emphasizes the power of authenticity, encouraging parents to be real with their kids to build trust and keep the dialogue going.To learn more about Jim and get this latest book, visit HomeWord.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing sexuality with children and teenagersChallenges of addressing sexuality in contemporary cultureThe shift from a single "talk" to ongoing conversations about sexualityRole of parents in providing a positive narrative about sexualityAddressing boundaries, pornography, and gender identity in discussionsThe impact of social media on youth sexuality and educationStrategies for discussing healthy sexuality and pornography with kidsThe significance of authenticity and sharing personal experiencesUnderstanding and addressing shame in conversations about sexualityEncouraging a foundation of sexual integrity based on biblical principlesMore Resources:A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity* by Jim BurnsDIGITAL COURSE: A Student's Guide to Sexual IntegrityFREE Online Course: Critical ConversationsRelated Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Know God's Good DesignCritical Conversations Podcast Bundle (6 episodes)Fighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About Sex*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Matt Wenger to explore his powerful concept, the "Wheel of Destruction." Matt breaks down the five interconnected factors that fuel sex and porn addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and brain changes. He explains how these elements feed into each other, creating a destructive cycle that impacts every area of life. Matt also shares practical pathways to healing through therapy, community, and sobriety. Most importantly, he reminds us that recovery is absolutely possible—your brain, heart, and body are capable of healing, and you don't have to face this journey alone.Get more info on Matt and resources to help your recovery journey at BeginAgainInstitute.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Understanding sex and porn addiction recoveryIntroduction of the "Wheel of Destruction" conceptInterconnected factors contributing to addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, autonomic nervous system dysregulation, and brain changesThe impact of trauma on addiction and recoveryThe role of attachment wounds in shaping addictive behaviorsThe relationship between shame and attachment woundsImportance of community and authentic relationships in recoveryThe effects of autonomic nervous system dysregulation on behavior and recoveryBrain plasticity and the potential for healing in recoveryMessages of hope and support for individuals struggling with addictionMore Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenBegin Again Institute 14-Day Christian Men's IntensiveHow Sex Addiction Creates False IntimacyRelated Podcast:The Importance of "Whole Man" RecoveryReframing Recovery as Emotional RegulationPorn and Sex Addiction Recovery as Mental Health Issues----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I talk with Lyschel Burket about something every betrayed spouse needs to think about: what happens if there's a relapse? We get honest about how deeply destabilizing that can be, especially for wives who have already been through the pain of betrayal and are trying to rebuild a sense of safety.Lyschel helps us understand why a relapse can feel like another trauma. It can knock a wife's body and mind right back into survival mode, making it hard to think clearly, make decisions, or even know what to do next. That's why we spend time talking about the value of a relapse safety plan, which is really a practical way to prepare before a crisis hits.We walk through the important pieces of that plan, including how to define the difference between a slip and a relapse, why it matters to think ahead about your physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and relational needs, and how a plan can actually reduce panic when life feels chaotic. We also talk about the unfairness many wives feel in having to create this kind of plan, and why it still can be an act of wisdom and self-care.At the heart of it all, Lyschel reminds us that a woman's safety is not ultimately dependent on her husband's choices. God is the true source of her provision, protection, and hope.To learn more about Lyschel and the resources she offers to wives, visit HopeRedefined.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: Relapse and betrayal trauma.How relapse destabilizes a spouse.Slip vs. relapse.Why a relapse safety plan matters.Preparing before crisis hits.Fire escape plan analogy.Key safety plan categories.Hope and stability in God.More Resources:Relapse Safety Plan WorkshopRedeemed Hope intensiveOnline Wives Care GroupsRelated Podcasts:Helping Wives Restore Hope After Betrayal Trauma in MarriageIdentifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed WifeThe Need for Boundaries After Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore intimacy and sexuality for single Christians—a topic the church often overlooks. Drawing from her own journey through 40+ years of singleness, marriage, and widowhood, Carol unpacks the difference between sex and intimacy, how Jesus modeled deep connection without sexual activity, and how singles can honor God with their desires. We also tackle harmful church misconceptions, the importance of healthy touch, and practical wisdom for navigating boundaries. Carol leaves us with three powerful principles: stay clean, stay connected, stay consecrated.To learn more about Carol and her ministry, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion on intimacy and sexuality for single Christians.Distinction between sex and intimacy.Emotional and physical intimacy needs beyond sexual activity.Challenges faced by single Christians regarding intimacy and sexuality.Misconceptions within church culture about singleness and sexuality.The role of the church in supporting single adults.Practical advice for singles to steward their sexuality and intimacy.Importance of non-sexual physical touch and healthy friendships.Addressing shame and regret over past sexual choices.Encouragement for singles to find purpose and connection beyond sexual relationships.More Resources:Sexpectations online courseSexpectations* (book) by Dr. Carol TanksleySex & Anxiety online courseRelated Podcasts:Being a Single, Sexual ManExploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol TanksleyWhat Are Your Sexpectations?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of the Family Time segment,* I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, Director of our Family Care ministry to explore the sixth critical conversation in our series: "Leveraging Your Story." Norma and I discuss how parents can wisely and humbly share their personal testimonies with their children to build trust and connection around sexuality.We cover practical tips on age-appropriate sharing, avoiding oversharing, and keeping God's redemptive power at the center of the conversation. Norma also shares eye-opening survey results revealing how fear keeps both parents and teens from opening up with each other.To enroll in our free Critical Conversations online course, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God's design, even in a sex-saturated culture.Topics Covered in this Episode: Importance of discussing sexuality from a Christian perspective with children.Navigating a hyper-sexualized culture and its impact on children.Overview of the six critical conversations in family care ministry.Focus on the sixth conversation: "Leveraging Your Story."Encouragement for parents to share personal stories and testimonies with their children.Building trust, connection, and credibility through vulnerability.Importance of age-appropriate sharing and maintaining boundaries.Addressing the fear and isolation that can exist between parents and teens regarding discussions about sex.Emphasizing God's redemptive power in personal stories.Resources and practical tips for parents to facilitate these conversations effectively.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Father-Son Accountability* by John FortGirl Talk by Ashley JamesonFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Cat Etherington, Director of Recovery at Naked Truth Project, to explore how addiction impacts parenting and family dynamics. Cat openly shares her personal journey through addiction and recovery, offering powerful insights into how addiction disrupts parent-child attachment and creates generational cycles of shame. Together, we discuss practical ways parents in recovery can stabilize their family environment, communicate honestly with their children, and navigate the process of rupture and repair. Cat also offers encouraging words about making amends without shame and reminds us that healing is always possible, no matter where you are in your journey. For more info about Cat and the resources at Naked Truth Project, visit NakedTruthProject.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Impact of addiction on family dynamics and parenting.Personal experiences with addiction and recovery.Effects of addiction on attachment between parents and children.Challenges parents face in recovery, including emotional immaturity and shame.Importance of providing age-appropriate information to children.The process of rupture and repair in building secure attachments.Strategies for parents to apologize and make amends without shame.The generational cycle of shame and addiction.The significance of open communication and emotional expression in families.Hope for ongoing repair and healing in family relationships.More Resources: Help for Husbands/DadsHelp for Wives/MomsHelp for FamiliesRelated Podcasts:How Early Development Trauma Shapes Addiction and RelationshipsHow Parents Can Leverage their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue IntegrityHow to Move from Anxious Attachment to Secure Attachment----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's episode, I sit down with my good friend Dr. Stephen Cervantes, also known as Doctor Marriage, to explore how wives can recognize genuine change in their husbands after betrayal. We break it down into two key indicators: new language and new behaviors. A truly changing husband takes initiative in his growth journey, developing emotional awareness, practicing patience, managing anger, and seeking accountability and genuine friendships with other men. Stephen and I emphasize that real transformation comes from a deep, heartfelt commitment to personal growth, not external pressure or just short-term relief from discomfort. It's a lifelong growth mission, and we're here to encourage men and couples every step of the way!For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Trust issues in marriage following past betrayals.Indicators of genuine change in husbands, including new language and behaviors.The importance of husbands taking initiative in their emotional and spiritual growth.The role of humility and self-awareness in fostering real change.Practical steps for husbands to demonstrate commitment to growth.The significance of emotional awareness and understanding in relationships.The impact of sharing new insights and learning experiences on marital trust.The necessity of patience and intentionality in the process of change.The value of accountability and support from other men in personal growth.The ongoing nature of growth and the importance of a lifelong commitment to improvement.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men40 Days of Healing for Wives (online course)1-on-1 ConsultationsRelated Podcasts:The Anatomy of Awakening from AddictionMen's Emotional Self-Awareness TestHow Do You Know if You Are Changing?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dan Johnson, creator of the PATH plan, who opens up about his decades-long struggle with pornography addiction. Dan shares his personal journey, from his first encounter with porn in seventh grade to a pivotal confession to his wife in 2019. He introduces his practical recovery tool, the PATH Plan — a simple four-step method designed to help men navigate the moment of temptation without shame or giving in to urges. Dan also highlights the importance of community, mental rehearsal, and having strong personal reasons to pursue freedom. To learn more about Dan and his resources, visit HeisFree.me. Topics Covered in this Episode:Discussion on unwanted sexual behaviors, particularly pornography addiction.Personal journey of struggling with pornography addiction and recovery.Introduction of the "Path Plan" as a practical tool for managing temptation.Explanation of the four steps of the Path Plan: Pause, Acknowledge, Timer, and High Five.Importance of community support in the recovery process.Role of mental rehearsal in preparing for moments of temptation.Need for strong emotional reasons to resist temptation.Common pitfalls faced by individuals trying to break free from addiction, especially in isolation.Shift in perspective from battling urges to allowing and feeling them.Emphasis on the goal of living a full, rich life in connection with others rather than just achieving sobriety.More Resources:Get the FREE P.A.T.H. PlanGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenFrontline ToolkitRelated Podcasts:Understanding Man's Inner Sexual ConflictWhat to Do in the Moment of TemptationWhat a Porn Free Day Actually Looks Like (A Practical Walkthrough)----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes to explore the deepest desires of the human heart — to be fully known, loved, forgiven, enjoyed, and celebrated. We discuss how these beautiful, God-given desires can become problematic when we turn them into demands on other people. While humans can love and forgive abundantly, only God can do so fully. We also reflect on how concepts like the Five Love Languages can unintentionally create unrealistic expectations in relationships. Ultimately, we're reminded that true fulfillment comes from delighting in God, who meets our heart's desires perfectly.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Exploration of deep human desires: being fully known, loved, forgiven, enjoyed, and celebrated.Distinction between desires and needs, emphasizing the potential for disappointment when desires are treated as needs.Discussion on the limitations of human relationships in fulfilling these deep desires.The spiritual versus earthly realms and how they relate to human experiences of love and forgiveness.Consequences of placing unrealistic expectations on others based on concepts like the Five Love Languages.The idea that only God can fully meet these desires, while humans can only offer love and forgiveness abundantly.The importance of accepting human limitations in relationships to avoid disappointment and anger.Encouragement to seek fulfillment of desires through God rather than through others.Recognition of the growth potential in human relationships as individuals learn to love more abundantly.The role of earthly relationships in reflecting God's love and grace, while acknowledging their inherent limitations.More Resources:Resources for MenResources for WivesResources for FamilyRelated Podcasts:Why Jesus?I Want to Be KnownKnowing Your True Identity Beyond Sexual Brokenness----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of Family Time, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to discuss the fourth of our six “Critical Conversations” for parents: Dealing with Temptation. We explore how to help kids recognize and respond to temptation without shame, emphasizing grace, honesty, and open communication. Norma shares practical tips for building trust, normalizing temptation as a human experience, and equipping children with lifelong skills for integrity. We also talk about common barriers parents face and offer resources to support families on this journey. It's all about progress, not perfection!For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing sex and sexuality with children in a sexualized culture.Overview of the "Critical Conversations" series for parents.Focus on "Dealing with Temptation" as a key conversation topic.Understanding temptation as a universal human experience.Strategies for parents to help children recognize and resist temptation.The significance of approaching conversations with grace rather than shame.Common barriers parents face in discussing temptation with their children.The role of parental honesty and sharing personal experiences in building trust.Practical exercises for parents to engage children in conversations about temptation.Resources available for parents to further support these discussions.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Father-Son Accountability* by John FortGirl Talk by Ashley JamesonFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Linda McDonald, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to discuss her personal journey through betrayal, divorce, and healing on her own after her husband's affair. Linda shares how her experience inspired her new book, “Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce,” and introduces the term “betrandoned” to describe the unique, compounded grief of betrayal and abandonment. We explore the stigma, shame, and lack of closure in post-affair divorce, and Linda offers honest, faith-filled advice for finding hope, support, and true forgiveness after deep relational trauma.To learn more about Linda and get her book, visit LindaJMacDonald.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experiences of betrayal and divorceThe concept of "betrandoned" (betrayal + abandon) and its implicationsCompounded grief associated with infidelity and divorceDifferences in societal perceptions of widows versus divorceesThe stigma and shame surrounding divorce due to infidelityThe lack of rituals and support for those experiencing divorce from infidelityThe process of recovery and the importance of brutal honestyThe role of forgiveness in healing from betrayalThe significance of finding supportive communities and resourcesThe potential for redemption and hope after trauma and lossMore Resources:Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce* by Linda MacDonaldRedeeming the Post-Affair Divorce Workbook*"Betrandoned" YouTube PlaylistRelated Podcasts:Betrayed and Abandoned on Affair Healing PodcastDealing with Divorce, Betrayal Trauma, and HopeIs There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Kristin Cary to explore the mind-body connection, especially how our bodies respond to trauma and betrayal. Kristin shares insights from her ministry, Living Truth, explaining how God designed our nervous systems to protect us through natural responses like fight, flight, or freeze. We discuss the importance of compassion over shame, practical grounding techniques (like the butterfly hug; even walking or jogging), and the vital role of community in healing. Kristin encourages us to honor our bodies as God's creation and to approach trauma recovery with patience, curiosity, and faith.To learn more about Kristin and her ministry, visit Living-Truth.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:The mind-body connection and its relevance to trauma.Physiological responses to trauma, including the activation of the vagus nerve and the release of stress hormones.The fight, flight, or freeze responses as natural protective mechanisms.The impact of betrayal trauma on individuals, particularly betrayed spouses.The importance of reframing bodily trauma responses as positive warning systems rather than signs of weakness.The experience of shame among Christians regarding trauma responses and faith.The significance of understanding the body's signals and their role in emotional and spiritual health.Grounding techniques and self-soothing methods to regulate the nervous system.The role of community and relational support in healing from trauma.The necessity of practicing regulation strategies in calm states to prepare for stressful situations.More Resources:Women in the BattleWives Care Online GroupsGoing Deeper for Betrayed Partners* by Eddie & Teri CapparucciRelated Podcasts:The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingEmotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed WivesOnline Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with my friend and decades-long colleague, Dr. Stephen Cervantes, to explore our shared struggles with seeking approval and what it means to be an “approval junkie.” Together, we reflect on why we crave affirmation—from childhood to adulthood—and how this shapes our sense of belonging and self-worth. We discuss the dangers of letting approval define us, the role of leaders in fostering healthy communities, and ultimately, how true acceptance comes from God's unconditional love. Join us as we unpack these honest, relatable experiences and encourage one another toward deeper healing and authentic connection.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of the human need for approval and the concept of being an "approval junkie."Discussion on the origins of approval-seeking behavior rooted in early childhood development.Examination of the impact of seeking approval on self-worth and identity.Analysis of the different sources of approval, including peers, leaders, and spiritual figures.Consideration of the unhealthy aspects of excessive approval-seeking and its potential to become an addiction.Reflection on the role of leaders in affirming others and fostering healthy community dynamics.Insights into the emotional struggles associated with conditional approval and feelings of inadequacy.Discussion of "image building" and the conflict between external validation and internal acceptance.Emphasis on the importance of belonging and the safety it provides in community settings.Encouragement for listeners to seek true healing and identity through divine approval rather than human affirmation.More Resources:Going Deeper by Dr. Eddie CapparucciUnwanted by Jay StringerGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex AddictionThe Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from PornOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's Family Time episode, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to unpack the third critical conversation every parent needs to have with their child: preparing kids for exposure to sexualized content. We talk about why this comes after building trust and discussing God's design for sex, and share practical ways to equip children for what they'll inevitably see online or from peers. Norma offers encouragement, tips for open communication, and resources to help parents feel confident—not fearful—as they guide their kids through a sex-saturated culture with grace and understanding.For all of our Family resources, visit Bebroken.org/family.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing feelings and emotions with children as a foundation for trust.Understanding God's design for sex and its relevance in today's culture.Preparing children for exposure to sexualized content in various media.Common sources of sexualized content that children may encounter.Barriers parents face in initiating conversations about exposure.Consequences of avoiding discussions about sexual content with children.Key principles for parents to communicate regarding exposure and boundaries.Strategies for keeping communication open and non-judgmental.Practical exercises, such as role-playing, to prepare children for potential exposure.Resources and next steps for parents to engage in these critical conversations.More Resources:Good Pictures Bad Pictures by Kristen JensonA Family Game Plan for Discussing Porn (online course)Family Integrity Trio Bundle (online courses)Related Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Know God's Good DesignBetter Screen Time for You and Your FamilyBrain Defense Digital Safety for Kids----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes, AKA "Doctor Marriage," to explore the journey of awakening from addiction. Together, we discuss how addiction numbs pain and stunts emotional and spiritual growth, and why facing our pain—rather than running from it—is key to healing. Stephen shares personal insights about slowing down, self-reflection, and finding freedom in Christ. If you're fighting an addiction, we encourage you to embrace courage, seek support, and trust God's grace as you move from darkness and disconnection into light, connection, and true emotional freedom.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Awakening from addiction and its emotional and spiritual dimensions.The role of addiction as a form of numbness and escape from pain.The impact of addiction on emotional growth and personal relationships.The importance of facing pain rather than avoiding it through addiction.The connection between childhood wounds and the onset of addiction.The process of self-examination and slowing down to confront personal pain.The significance of community, accountability, and spiritual support in recovery.The concept of courage in the face of fear and the journey of healing.The ongoing nature of awakening and spiritual growth beyond initial recovery.The hope and possibility of healing through faith and honest self-reflection.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men40 Days of Purity online courseGrace-Based Recovery* by Jonathan DaughertyRelated Podcasts:Inviting Men to Wake Up Emotionally and SpirituallyMaxims that Help Us Go Beyond Sobriety in RecoveryAre You on an Emotional and Spiritual Growth Mission?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Karla Summey, an APSATS coach and couples recovery specialist, to explore the “messy middle” couples face after sexual betrayal. Karla shares her personal and professional insights on navigating the emotional ups and downs, rebuilding trust, and redefining relationships. We discuss the importance of emotional regulation, transparency, and patience, emphasizing that recovery isn't linear. Karla offers hope and practical advice for couples feeling stuck, highlighting the value of community, self-care, and taking small steps forward. It's an honest, encouraging conversation for any couple walking this difficult road. To learn more about Karla and her resources, visit KarlaSummey.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:The concept of "the messy middle" in recovery after sexual betrayal.The emotional and relational challenges couples face during the recovery process.The importance of individual and couple growth in navigating betrayal trauma.The role of emotional regulation and communication in rebuilding trust.Common assumptions couples have about returning to their previous relationship dynamics.The significance of transparency and initiative from the betrayer in the recovery journey.The non-linear nature of recovery, including setbacks and progress.Strategies for emotional co-regulation and support between partners.The vision for couples beyond the messy middle, focusing on security and intimacy.The importance of community and shared experiences in the healing process.More Resources:Messy Middle Couple's Recovery GroupOnline Care Groups for WivesGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Early Recovery Couples Empathy ModelThe Three Phases of Couples RecoveryThe Recovery Process for Couples----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's episode, I sit down with Mary DeMuth, author of Restory Your Life, to talk about her powerful journey from childhood trauma and sexual abuse to healing and restoration through faith in Jesus. Mary shares how storytelling, community, and embracing our identity in Christ help us move from brokenness to wholeness. We discuss the ongoing nature of healing, the importance of safe spaces to share our unfiltered stories, and how God can re-story our lives for hope and purpose. Mary's honesty and wisdom offer encouragement for anyone seeking restoration and a new chapter in their story. To learn more about Mary and get her books, visit MaryDeMuth.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Mary Demuth's personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and sexual abuse.The role of faith in Jesus in the healing process.The concept of restoration as a journey from brokenness to wholeness.The importance of storytelling and community in healing.The idea of "re-storying" one's life and redefining identity through faith.The ongoing nature of healing and the layers involved in trauma recovery.The significance of expressing thoughts and sharing experiences to break cycles of pain.The distinction between healing and maturing in the context of personal growth.Practical tools for restoration, including journaling and reflecting on one's story.The need for safe spaces in communities, particularly churches, to discuss and address issues of sexual abuse.More Resources:Restory Your Life* by Mary DeMuthThe Wall Around Your Heart* by Mary DeMuthSex & Anxiety (online course)Related Podcasts:Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual AbuseLord Be Near: Finding Hope in Suffering through PrayerFreedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Drs. Matt and Laura Burton to talk about rebuilding a marriage after sexual betrayal. We explore their personal recovery and healing journeys, the challenges of rebuilding trust, and why true recovery goes beyond just sobriety. The Burtons share insights on the importance of involving both partners, the process of compassionate disclosure, and how addressing deeper wounds is key to restoring relationships. Their warmth and expertise offer hope and practical guidance for any couple navigating the difficult path toward renewed connection and trust after infidelity or addiction.To learn more about Matt and Laura and their resources for couples, visit MyBecomingWell.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Counseling for couples and individuals dealing with sexual addiction and infidelity.Personal recovery journeys of the speakers and their professional experiences.Challenges in rebuilding trust after sexual betrayal.The importance of involving both partners in the recovery process.Complexities of recovery beyond mere sobriety, including intimacy and attachment issues.The significance of relational healing in the recovery journey.The concept of "gentle disclosure" in the context of rebuilding trust.The emotional realities and fears faced by both partners after betrayal.The necessity of addressing underlying issues and pre-existing wounds in recovery.Resources and support available for couples navigating the aftermath of sexual betrayal.More Resources:3-Day Couple's Group IntensivesRebuilding Trust* by Matt & Laura BurtonMore Books and Workbooks by Matt & Laura BurtonRelated Podcasts:The Three Phases of Couples RecoveryHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual BetrayalThe Journey to Stay (with Steve and Lisa Goldberg)*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Anne Edward, who shares her powerful journey from childhood trauma and same-sex attraction to finding hope, healing, and her true identity in Jesus Christ. Anne opens up about her struggles, the process of forgiveness, and how embracing her God-given identity led to transformation. We discuss why true change goes deeper than behavior—it's about understanding who we are in Christ. Anne now leads Restored Hope Network, helping others find freedom from sexual brokenness. Our conversation is honest, compassionate, and full of encouragement for anyone wrestling with identity or seeking wholeness in faith.To learn more about Anne and Restored Hope Network, visit RestoredHopeNetwork.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Anne's personal story of overcoming sexual brokenness and trauma.The impact of childhood trauma on identity and sexual attraction.The journey to faith in Jesus Christ and the challenges faced post-conversion.The importance of forgiveness and inner healing in personal growth.The role of identity, particularly sexual identity, in struggles with sexual brokenness.The distinction between behavior modification and addressing core identity issues.The dangers of defining identity solely by sexual attractions and behaviors.The significance of understanding identity as rooted in God's design and purpose.Approaches for Christians to engage compassionately with those struggling with identity issues.A message of hope and healing through God's grace and the importance of trusting in Him.More Resources:Hope 2026 ConferenceSuch Were Some of You (Documentary)Changed MovementRelated Podcasts:Am I Gay? (with Garry Ingraham)Helping Parents Respond with Truth and Love to their LGBTQ-Identifying ChildChanged: The Amazing Transformation of a Former Lesbian Pastor----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I chat with Elizabeth Urbanowicz about her book, Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design: 40 Questions and Answers on Sexuality and Gender. Elizabeth shares her journey as a Christian educator and how she equips parents to teach kids about sexuality and gender from a biblical perspective.We discuss God's design for sex, the importance of ongoing conversations, how to address tough topics like pornography and gender confusion, and how to love others with grace and truth. Elizabeth offers practical advice for parents navigating today's culture, always pointing back to the sufficiency of God's Word and a thriving relationship with Jesus.To learn more about Elizabeth and get her book, visit FoundationWorldview.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Biblical design for sexuality and marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman.Understanding sex as a gift within marriage for intimacy and procreation.Importance of focusing on the relationship with Christ rather than idolizing marriage.Strategies for parents to educate children about sexuality and gender in a culturally saturated environment.Addressing the topic of pornography and preparing children for potential exposure.The significance of teaching children about God's design for sex from a young age.Navigating conversations about sexual brokenness and honesty with children.Teaching children to love others while maintaining biblical truth without affirming sin.Guidelines for media consumption and discernment regarding content.Encouraging ongoing growth and reliance on God's grace in discussions about sexuality.More Resources:Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design by Elizabeth UrbanowiczFamily Integrity: Curiosity (online course)7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your KidsRelated Podcasts:Parenting in a Hyper-Sexualized and Identity-Confused CultureNavigating Identity and Sexuality: A Compassionate Approach for ParentsHow Parents Can Effectively Engage in Sexual Discipleship with their Kids----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's episode, I sit down with Clinton and Nikki Mitchell, who bravely share their 31-year marriage journey through addiction, infidelity, and ultimately, healing. We talk about the pain of secrecy, the power of full disclosure, and how faith, therapy, and community helped them rebuild trust and spiritual intimacy. Their story is raw and honest, showing that even in the darkest moments, hope and restoration are possible. I'm inspired by their courage and grateful for their wisdom, and I hope their journey encourages and emboldens anyone facing similar struggles.Learn more about Clinton and Nikki and get their book at DWN4.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: Personal story of marriage and struggles with addiction and infidelity.Impact of pornography addiction on relationships and faith.The cycle of avoidance and denial in addressing marital issues.The significance of seeking help through therapy and accountability.The concept of "fresh start" thinking in marriage and its pitfalls.The journey toward healing and restoration through spiritual intimacy.The importance of honesty and vulnerability in rebuilding trust.The role of community support in overcoming personal struggles.Practical ways to cultivate spiritual intimacy in a relationship.The hope and possibility of redemption in the face of betrayal.More Resources:Glory from the Ashes* by Clinton and Nikki MitchellMore Resources from DWN4Building True Intimacy* by Drake and RaabsmithRelated Podcasts:The Role of Boundaries in Marriage RestorationBeyond Broken Vows: Rebuilding Marriage After Sexual BetrayalPSR Podcast Bundle: Marriage Testimonies*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes from DoctorMarriage.org to explore how we see ourselves, others, and how Jesus sees us all. We dive into the impact of shame, addiction, and early life experiences on our identity, and discuss the healing power of viewing ourselves through Jesus's compassionate eyes. Together, we reflect on practical ways to break free from self-judgment and embrace a more loving, connected life—reminding ourselves that we're all on a journey toward growth, healing, and deeper relationships, with God, ourselves, and others.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of self-perception and its impact on personal growth.Examination of how individuals perceive others and the implications of these views.Discussion of Jesus's perspective on individuals and others.The role of early life experiences in shaping self and other perceptions.The influence of shame and guilt in addiction and identity struggles.The transformative potential of understanding Jesus's compassionate view.The connection between self-acceptance and recovery from addiction.The impact of pain on self-view and behavior patterns.The relationship between self-identity and social connections.The importance of compassion and community in healing and personal development.More Resources:Identity* by John FortDaily Thoughts from Doctor MarriageGentle and Lowly* by Dane OrtlundRelated Podcasts:Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True IdentityBreaking Free from Shame: Knowing Your Identity in ChristHow to Be at Peace in Aloneness*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

Originally aired on March 26, 2025Watch episode on Vimeo----------In this episode, we dive into the dynamics of "loners" and "connectors" in relationships. Everyone falls into one of these categories. As we explore this topic, my friend and co-host Stephen Cervantes discusses how loners tend to be independent and process internally, while connectors thrive on dialogue and emotional exchange. We examine how these differences impact communication and emotional connection, particularly in marriages. We share insights on personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating each other's communication styles; we aren't out to change a loner into a connector or vice versa. We give lots of personal anecdotes and practical advice, aiming to help you navigate these differences to foster deeper connections and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.To read the Thought on Loners and Connectors, go to DoctorMarriage.org/loners-and-connectors.Topics Covered in this Episode:Distinction between "loners" and "connectors" in personal relationships.Characteristics of loners: independence, introspection, and internal processing.Characteristics of connectors: relational, expressive, and dialogue-oriented.Impact of communication styles on relationships, particularly in marriage.Importance of emotional connection and its role in relationship dynamics.Challenges faced by loners in engaging with emotional exchanges.The necessity of active listening in fostering trust and connection.Strategies for navigating differences between loners and connectors.The role of personal growth in improving relationship dynamics.Encouragement for couples to discuss and understand their connection styles for deeper intimacy.More Resources:40 Days to Oneness by Stephen CervantesThe 40 Day Relationship Builder* by Stephen CervantesBuilding True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna RaabsmithRelated Podcasts:Dealing with Conflict Podcast BundleWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in MarriageAbout Your Emotional Connecting Skills*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year.Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate.Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with the incredible volunteer team behind the Wives Care groups, which is our eight-week online support group for wives healing from betrayal trauma. Together, we walk through the heart and structure of the program, sharing personal motivations and a week-by-week overview of what participants can expect. From emotional care and boundaries to rediscovering identity in Christ, we highlight the power of community, faith, and practical tools for healing. If you're seeking hope and connection after betrayal, this episode offers encouragement, insight, and a warm invitation to join a caring community.To learn more about the Wives Care Groups – and all our resources for wives, visit Bebroken.org/wives. Topics Covered in this Episode:Overview of the Wives Care program and its purpose in supporting wives healing from betrayal trauma.Structure and evolution of the program, including its transition from a six-week to an eight-week format.Personal motivations and experiences of the volunteer team involved in the program.Week-by-week breakdown of the program's curriculum, highlighting key themes and activities.Importance of creating a safe and confidential space for participants to share their stories.Focus on emotional care, self-regulation, and the grieving process in the early weeks.Discussion on healthy detachment, boundary-setting, and communication tools for navigating relationships post-betrayal.Emphasis on rediscovering identity in Christ and addressing the impact of betrayal on self-worth.Community building and ongoing support opportunities beyond the initial program duration.Encouragement for women to seek help and connect with others for healing and restoration.More Resources:Wives Care Basics Webinar (FREE!)40 Days of Healing for Wives (eCourse)6 Stages of Recovery for Partners of Sex AddictsRelated Podcasts:Wives Care Podcast Bundle - Betrayal Trauma HealingHelping Wives Restore Hope After Betrayal Trauma in MarriageHelping Wives Navigate the Emotional Rollercoaster of Incomplete Recovery After Betrayal Trauma----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year.Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate.Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and colleague Dr. Stephen Cervantes—Doctor Marriage—to explore the vital roles of empathy, attunement, and responsiveness in relationships. We share personal stories and practical tips for husbands who want to connect more deeply with their wives. Dr. Cervantes explains how empathy means “practicing sadness with someone,” and we discuss how attunement and responsiveness help build emotional closeness. Whether you're new to these skills or looking to grow, this conversation offers encouragement and real-life tools for nurturing a more compassionate, Christ-centered marriage.To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of empathy, attunement, and responsiveness in marriage counseling.Definition of empathy as "practicing sadness with someone" and its role in emotional connection.The significance of being present with a partner during their emotional struggles.Clarification of empathy in a Christian context, equating it with compassion.The necessity of having the right emotional tools for genuine connection in relationships.The concept of attunement as matching a partner's mood and emotional state.The role of nonverbal communication in attunement and emotional connection.The importance of responsiveness after attuning to a partner's emotional state.The impact of emotional presence on healing and deeper connection in relationships.The ongoing nature of learning and practicing these skills for emotional growth in marriage.More Resources:Daily Thoughts from Doctor MarriageBuilding True Intimacy* by Drake and RaabsmithHelp Her Heal* by Carol J. SheetsRelated Podcasts:Early Recovery Couples Empathy ModelEmotional Insights for MenThe Three Phases of Couples Recovery*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year.Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate.Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Sean Maney, director of First Light in St. Louis, to discuss sexual recovery ministry. Sean shares how First Light supports men and women struggling with compulsive sexual behavior through community, therapy, and discipleship. We then explore the importance of holistic healing and transformation, the cultural normalization of pornography, and how the church's response has changed over the years. Sean offers hope and encouragement for anyone feeling stuck or ashamed, reminding us that real transformation is possible through grace, community, and a multi-dimensional approach to recovery.To learn more about Sean and his ministry, visit FirstLightStLouis.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Overview of First Light, a sexual discipleship ministry in St. Louis.Comprehensive recovery programs for individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behavior.Importance of community support and accountability in recovery.Role of therapy and counseling in addressing deeper emotional wounds.Discussion on the normalization of pornography in society and its impact on individuals and the church.Cultural shifts in attitudes towards pornography over the past 15 years.The progression of sexual behaviors from pornography to more severe actions.The need for a multi-dimensional recovery approach combining groups, counseling, and intensive care.Challenges faced by the church in addressing sexual brokenness and providing adequate support.Encouragement for individuals struggling with sexual issues to seek help and embrace community.More Resources:Help for MenHelp for WivesHelp for Church LeadersRelated Podcasts:Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual AddictionThe Power of Vulnerability: How Group Support Transformed Mike's Recovery Journey----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year.Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate.Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Drew Boa to discuss his new book, Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle. Drew shares his personal journey and explains why traditional purity culture and military-style approaches often fall short. We then explore his compassionate, holistic method that focuses on healing childhood wounds, understanding emotional triggers, and embracing inner child work. Drew encourages viewing relapses as feedback, not failure, and highlights the importance of grace and self-compassion in recovery. If you're a man seeking hope and lasting change, this conversation offers fresh insight and encouragement.To get the book, visit OutgrowPorn.com. To learn more about Drew and his ministry, visit HusbandMaterial.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Discussion of pornography addiction, particularly among men.Critique of traditional purity culture and its limitations.Introduction of the "outgrow porn" approach to recovery.Emphasis on healing childhood wounds and inner child work.Exploration of core emotional triggers such as fear, shame, and loss.Importance of viewing relapses as feedback rather than failure.Promotion of a growth mindset in the recovery process.Connection between triggers and childhood experiences.The role of grace and self-compassion in recovery.Resources and support available through Husband Material Ministries.More Resources:Outgrow Porn* by Drew BoaHusband Material ResourcesGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Outgrowing the Porn PacifierNavigating the 3 Stages of Recovery from Porn AddictionThe Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from Porn*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year. Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with returning guest Ashley Jameson, a sex educator and author of the new book "Girl Talk." We dive into why it's so important for moms to have honest, ongoing conversations with their daughters about sex, even when it feels awkward or scary. Ashley shares personal stories, up-to-date research, and practical tips for starting these talks early, addressing common fears, and becoming a safe, trusted source for your kids—especially as they face pressures from peers, social media, and early exposure to pornography. If you're a mom of a daughter, you won't want to miss this conversation.For more info on Ashley and the book, go to PureDesire.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of open communication between mothers and daughters about sexuality.Challenges and fears mothers face when discussing sex with their daughters.The risks of not addressing sexual topics early in a child's life.Insights from personal experiences and research on youth exposure to pornography.The role of parents as primary sources of information regarding sexual topics.The significance of starting conversations about sex at a young age.The impact of societal pressures and media on children's understanding of sexuality.Strategies for creating a safe environment for discussions about sex.The need for resources like the book "Girl Talk" to guide these conversations.The universal nature of curiosity and struggles related to sexuality among youth.More Resources:Girl Talk* by Ashley JamesonCritical Conversations FREE online course7 Tips for Parents (free download in English and Spanish)Related Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and SexualityParenting in a Hypersexualized and Identity Confused CultureHelping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes to explore why so many of us feel stuck in our personal growth, especially men facing addiction and relational struggles. We share honest stories about excuses, limiting beliefs, and the deep fears that hold us back—like failure, rejection, and not feeling good enough. Together, we unpack how faith, hope, and community can help us move forward, break old cycles, and embrace the growth God has for us. We were created for “abundant life” and this means we all need a growth mission throughout life.To get daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Theme of personal growth and overcoming feelings of being "stuck"Emotional, spiritual, and relational growth, particularly for men in recoveryCommon barriers to growth, including self-doubt, comparison, overwhelm, and confusionThe role of personality and perspective in personal developmentConnection between past experiences and current strugglesThe significance of community and accountability in the growth processExploration of limiting beliefs and excuses that hinder progressDiscussion of core fears that contribute to feeling stuck, such as fear of failure, rejection, and abandonmentEncouragement to embrace growth through curiosity, faith, and taking action despite discomfortMore Resources:49 Days of Growth* by Stephen CervantesEmotionally Healthy Spirituality* by Peter ScazzeroPersonal Ministry ConsultationRelated Podcasts:PSR Bundle for Men: Emotional GrowthHow to Turn Emotional Triggers Into Opportunities for GrowthFor Men Who Want to Finish Strong*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I reconnect with KathyGrace Duncan, who briefly shares her remarkable journey of living as a man for 11 years before finding transformation and true identity in Christ. The bulk of our conversation focuses on what it means to move from “head knowledge” of identity in Christ to “heart belief,” exploring how God renews our minds and hearts through Scripture, prayer, and community. KathyGrace offers practical wisdom on embracing our true identity in Christ, overcoming old patterns, and living as those who are permanently loved by God. It's an honest, hope-filled conversation about ongoing transformation and the freedom found in God's love.For more info on KathyGrace and navigating identity issues, visit PortlandFellowship.com and ChangedMovement.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Testimony of living as a man for 11 years despite being biologically female.Transformation and redemption through faith in Jesus Christ.Involvement in ministry work, particularly in women's and transgender ministry.Exploration of identity in Christ and its cultural and spiritual significance.Biblical perspectives on identity, referencing scriptures from 1 Peter, Ephesians, Galatians, and Romans.Concepts of the "old man" and the "new man" in relation to personal transformation.The process of renewing the mind and its importance in spiritual growth.Distinction between intellectual knowledge and heartfelt belief in God's truth.The role of prayer and community in facilitating ongoing transformation.Encouragement to embrace one's identity in Christ and live out that truth.More Resources:Identity: What Foundation Are You Building On?* by John FortIdentity in Christ* by Neil T. AndersonLove Thy Body* by Nancy PearceyRelated Podcasts:Embracing God's Image in GenderChanged: The Amazing Transformation of a Former Lesbian PastorOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Matthew  and Joanna Raabsmith to dive into their “Three Phases of Couple Recovery” model for healing from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Together, we explore the Recovery, Restoration, and Renewal phases—discussing how couples can move from crisis and individual healing to rebuilding trust, intimacy, and shared purpose. Joanna and Matthew share practical tips, emphasize the importance of trauma-informed support, and encourage patience with the non-linear journey of recovery. Whether you're just starting in recovery or seeking restoration and renewal for your relationship, their insights offer hope and guidance for every step of the process.To learn more about Matthew and Joanna and their marriage resources, visit RaabsmithTeam.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:The three phases of couple recovery: Recovery, Restoration, and Renewal.The Recovery phase focuses on individual healing and establishing safety after betrayal or addiction.The importance of trauma-informed support during the Recovery phase.The emotional intensity and relational work involved in the Restoration phase.The concept of "couple grieving" as a unified process for both partners.The role of forgiveness in the Restoration phase and its timing.The ongoing nature of the Restoration phase and the potential for revisiting earlier work.The Renewal phase as an opportunity to build a new relationship and shared purpose.The significance of designing rituals of connection and exploring shared dreams in the Renewal phase.The non-linear nature of recovery, emphasizing patience and awareness throughout the process.Read Blog Post: The Three Phases of Couples Recovery - and What Kind of Help You Need in EachMore Resources:Renewing Us Couples Retreat (Nov 14-16)Couples and Individual CoachingCouples Group ProgramRelated Podcasts:Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After BetrayalThe Role of Boundaries in Marriage RestorationHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery to talk about sexual discipleship in parenting. Juli shares insights from her new book, "Surrendered Sexuality," and explains how sexual discipleship is an ongoing, grace-filled journey—much deeper than traditional sex education. We discuss the unique role parents play in shaping their kids' understanding of sexuality, the importance of modeling both truth and grace, and how surrender, not perfection, is the goal. Juli encourages parents to embrace their own growth and trust God's grace in the process. It's a hopeful, practical conversation for every parent.To learn more about Juli and get her resources, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Definition and distinction between sexual discipleship and sex education.The role of parents as primary influencers in their children's understanding of sexuality.Importance of integrating biblical truth and grace in parenting.Goals of parenting from a biblical perspective, including passing on a godly heritage.The significance of daily life moments in teaching children about sexuality.The impact of cultural views on sexuality and the need for a biblical worldview.The concept of surrender in the context of sexual discipleship and parenting.The necessity for parents to engage in their own sexual discipleship journey.The importance of transparency and humility in parenting.Resources available for parents to support their journey in sexual discipleship.More Resources:Surrendered Sexuality* by Dr. Juli SlatteryRethinking Sexuality* by Dr. Juli SlatteryCritical Conversations (FREE online course)Related Podcasts:What is Sexual Discipleship?The Sex Talk You Never GotParenting in a Hypersexualized and Identity-Confused Culture*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes to talk about the lifelong journey of emotional growth, especially for men. We introduce a practical tool—the phrase, “The God in me is bigger than the fear in you”—to help you stay centered and respond thoughtfully when facing criticism or negativity. We explore how compassion and faith can transform tough interactions, and encourage you to make this simple tool a habit for deeper emotional growth. Remember, you're not alone on this journey. We're here to support you as we all grow stronger and more resilient, together.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Emotional growth as a lifelong journey, particularly for men.The significance of practical tools for handling criticism and negativity.Introduction of the phrase: "The God in me is bigger than the fear in you" as an emotional growth tool.The importance of centering oneself and regulating emotions in challenging situations.Recognizing fear as a root cause of negative behavior in others.Encouraging compassion over combativeness when faced with attacks.Application of the emotional growth tool in various scenarios of criticism and insults.The effectiveness of the phrase as an internal statement rather than a verbal response.The role of faith in managing difficult interactions and emotional responses.Building a habit of emotional regulation through repetition of the phrase.More Resources:Emotionally Healthy Spirituality* by Peter ScazzeroSeven Desires* by Mark & Debra LaaserFind a CounselorRelated Podcasts:50 Things to Do When Your Fear Gets TriggeredHow to Learn (and Respond to) Your Fear SystemUnoffendable: How Your Response to Criticism Affects Your Emotional Maturity*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Emmanuel and Samridh, two amazing ministry leaders from India, to talk about their personal journeys of overcoming pornography addiction and how they now help pastors and young church leaders find freedom. We discuss the unique cultural challenges of shame and secrecy around sexuality in India, and how their Celebrate Freedom seminar, which is based on our Gateway to Freedom intensive for men, is breaking new ground by creating safe, supportive spaces for honest conversation and healing. Emmanuel and Samridh share practical insights, stories of hope, and invite anyone struggling to reach out for support and community.To connect with Emmanuel and Samridh, visit their YouTube channel @unaddressed.podcast or Instagram @unaddressed.crew. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal stories of struggle with pornography addiction among ministry leaders.The cultural challenges of discussing sexuality and pornography in India, including shame and honor dynamics.The lack of practical counseling and support for pastors dealing with sexual sin.The importance of creating safe spaces for open discussions about struggles with pornography.The adaptation of recovery programs to fit the Indian cultural context, including the use of personal stories and relevant examples.The role of community and accountability in the recovery process.The impact of societal expectations on pastors' willingness to admit struggles.The need for ongoing support and follow-up after initial recovery programs.The significance of addressing both male and female perspectives in discussions about pornography and sexual exploitation.The message of hope and encouragement for those struggling with addiction, emphasizing connection and transparency.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for men40 Days of Purity for Men online course40 Days of Purity for Women online courseRelated Podcasts:Restoring Broken Pastors for Kingdom UseNavigating the 3 Stages of Recovery from Porn AddictionCan the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Vern Tompke to discuss the evolving challenges men face in recovering from pornography addiction. We dive into this concept of “edging”—using social media  or other kinds of media for arousal without fully acting out—and how today's digital landscape complicates recovery. Vern shares his personal journey, practical strategies, and the importance of daily connection and removing triggers. Together, we explore the biological, emotional, and spiritual sides of addiction, emphasizing that true recovery isn't just about avoidance, but about pursuing a richer, more connected life.To learn more about Vern and the resources he has, visit BandofBrothers.care.Topics Covered in this Episode:The concept of "edging" in relation to pornography addiction and recovery.Vern Tompke's personal journey with pornography addiction and his transition into helping others.The impact of social media platforms on recovery and the new challenges they present.The biological, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of addiction and recovery.The importance of daily connection and accountability in the recovery process.The distinction between "red," "yellow," and "green" behaviors in the context of recovery.The role of dopamine and intermittent reinforcement in addiction and recovery.The necessity of replacing unhealthy behaviors with positive activities.The misconception that recovery is solely about avoiding pornography.The long-term journey of recovery and the importance of pursuing a fulfilling life beyond addiction.More Resources:Finding Traction CourseFinding Traction PodcastIntegrity Webinar for MenRelated Podcasts:Navigating the Three Stages of Recovery from Porn AddictionThe Stopwatch Acting Out CycleA 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Tammy Gustafson, a licensed counselor and betrayal trauma coach, to explore two really tough situations wives face after sexual betrayal: the “roommate scenario,” where the husband isn't working on recovery, and “incomplete recovery,” where progress is inconsistent. Tammy shares heartfelt advice on setting boundaries, focusing on self-care, and shifting attention from the husband's actions to the wife's own healing. We discuss the importance of deep character change, not just behavior, and offer practical steps for finding support and reclaiming joy. If you can resonate with either (or both) of these scenarios, we want you to know that healing and thriving are possible, even in the midst of these challenging recovery circumstances.To learn more about Tammy and her resources, visit BetrayalHealing.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Discussion of the "roommate scenario" where a wife remains in a marriage despite her husband's lack of commitment to recovery.Emotional challenges faced by wives in limbo due to financial dependence, children, or personal beliefs against divorce.Importance of establishing healthy boundaries and focusing on self-care for emotional well-being.The concept of "incomplete recovery," where the husband shows some effort but remains inconsistent, causing confusion and pain for the wife.The emotional toll of navigating uncertainty and mixed signals in the recovery process.Distinction between sobriety and deeper character transformation necessary for true healing.Encouragement for wives to set high expectations for their husband's recovery, looking for genuine changes in behavior and character.The role of curiosity and new language from husbands as indicators of real progress in recovery.Practical advice for wives on maintaining clarity, protecting their hearts, and seeking support from safe individuals.Resources and support available for women dealing with betrayal and navigating their healing journey.More Resources:Betrayal Healing Coaching with TammyWives Care Groups for Betrayal Trauma HealingBasics Webinar for WivesRelated Podcasts:The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingIdentifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed WifeThe Recovery Process for Couples----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Dr. Steven Cervantes and I explore the lifelong mission of personal growth, blending both spiritual and emotional development. We discuss how a vibrant relationship with God brings peace, rest, and joy, and why emotional health is just as vital as spiritual growth. Together, we unpack the impact of childhood wounds, the roles we play to cope, and the importance of self-care. Our conversation is honest and encouraging, inviting you to embrace growth as a lifelong journey marked by grace, healing, and authentic connection with God and others.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Exploration of the concept of "mission" in personal growth, integrating spiritual and emotional development.Importance of a relational connection with God over rigid religious structures.Challenges of maintaining spiritual and emotional health and their interconnectedness.The impact of loneliness in modern society and the role of faith communities in fostering connection.Definition of a spiritual mission rooted in faith, teachings of Jesus, and community participation.Recognition of emotional struggles that can undermine spiritual commitments.The idea of a "growth mission" as a continuous journey rather than a fixed goal.Discussion of emotional wounds from childhood and their impact on present life.Examination of coping mechanisms and roles that may hinder genuine emotional growth.Emphasis on the importance of self-love and care as foundational to loving others and spiritual growth.More Resources:49 Days of Growth: Growing in Emotional Skills* by Dr. Stephen CervantesGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive WorkshopGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupsRelated Podcasts:What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?Why Must I Learn Me?Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

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