Podcast appearances and mentions of ev yan whitney

We’re tapping into our sensual side today with Sexuality Doula, Ev’Yan Whitney. Listen in and learn all about how we can indulge in the pleasure we all deserve. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For their first episode of the year, “Currently Obsessed” podcast hosts Christine and Danielle share their goals and intentions for 2021 from peak-based reading challenges to peace-inducing activities. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, and more. Links To Give You Life: Whether you’re a bibliophile, avid reader, or student, start marking up your pages with the sleek and convenient Book Darts Give your career—or at least your career mindset—a glow up in 2020 with “Power Moves: How Women Can Pivot, Reboot, and Build a Career of Purpose” by Lauren McGoodwin Optimize your WFH lifestyle by “Tidying Up with Marie Kondo” Subscribe to D’s YouTube channel and be the first to know when she posts her first videos Find a reading challenge that’s perfect for you, like the “Mount TBR Challenge” or the “Dystopia Reading Challenge,” from Girlxoxo’s “2021 Master List” Take the plunge to learn from the experts, get inspired, and discover new hobbies with Masterclass “Review Reflect Release” and start 2021 in the right mindset with this workbook by Ev’Yan Whitney #AskReddit: For the first #AskReddit segment of 2021 on “Currently Obsessed,” C asks, “What fandom is the closest to becoming a full-on cult?” while D asks, “God has made you a developer of the universe, your task is to create small patches/bug fixes to improve humans. What do you do?” Thanks for ringing in the new year with your “Currently Obsessed” podcast hosts. Be sure to follow them on Instagram for updates, photos, and more. Plus, you can send in your own obsessions, suggestions, and questions to currentlyobsessedclub@gmail.com, and you might even be featured on a future episode. In the meantime, stay safe and stay obsessed! Episode Guide: (01:53) D obsesses over Book Darts (14:10) C obsesses over her current read, “Power Moves” (23:30) C+D share goals for “Tidying Up” and launching a YouTube channel (28:20) C+D talk reading challenges galore (41:00) C shares goals for rowing, money-saving, and completing a Masterclass (43:55) D shares goals for stillness, writing, and job-hunting (46:32) C+D share Honorable Mention goals of learning more with Masterclass and crocheting a temperature blanket (49:40) D shares Ev’Yan Whitney’s release/reclaim exercise and the Review Reflect Release workbook (54:15) C+D respond to #AskReddit questions and talk fandoms, cults, and seeing facts

consenso: principio per cui un rapporto sessuale (e non) richieda l'esplicito consenso di tutte le persone coinvolte. l'alcol influenza la tua capacità di poter dare il consenso? inviare foto esplicite senza chiederlo è questione di consenso? e tirare via il preservativo senza informare il partner durante un anno sessuale lo è? di questo e di altro parliamo con Matilde e Elena di Frammenti, collettivo transfemminista queer. // Trovate Elena e Matilde e il resto del collettivo Frammenti sul loro sito, su facebook o su instagram. Scorretta la trovate su instagram, tiktok e su tutte le piattaforme per podcast. // Le fonti che abbiamo usato per questo episodio: - Il consenso e il té - How Does Alcohol Consumption Affect Perceptions of One's Own and a Drinking Partner's Ability to Consent to Sexual Activity - M. Drouin, K. N. Jozkowski, J. Davis & G. Newsham - "Cocktails vs Consent" da Science of Sex in cui Michelle Drouin presenta la sua ricerca - The Curse of the Twitter Reply Guy - Chloe Bryan - Reply Guys, Sliding into the DMs, and the Intensification of Parasocial Relationships - s.e. smith Per Approfondire: - Il Consenso in Ambito Medico - Frammenti (l'intervista con un medico di cui parlavano Elena e Matilde!) - La Violenza Sessuale e il Consenso - Giulia Siviero (panoramica sulle leggi che regolano il consenso) - Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape - J. Friedman e J. Valenti (libro pionieristico sul consenso e la cultura dello stupro che ha reso comune l'uso della frase "yes means yes", oltre a contribuire alla creazione di una legge sul consenso dallo stesso nome in California) - Consent is Actually Sexy with Jaclyn Friedman - The Sexually Liberated Woman by Ev-Yan Whitney (ascolta Jaclyn, attivista e autrice del libro Yes Means Yes, parlare di cosa vuol dire mettere in pratica il consenso) - La serie I May Destroy You di Michaela Coel (e anche un articolo al riguardo di Nicole Froio su Bitch Media non è male - ma leggetelo dopo aver guardato la serie;) ) - Il podcast About Consent - Te La sei Cercata - Louise O' Neill // cerco sempre di fornire fonti, spunti di approfondimento o idee in italiano, ma spesso il materiale che reperisco non è tradotto. questo fa' parte del motivo per cui parliamo così poco di temi importanti: cambiamo le cose insieme, iniziamo conversazioni al riguardo! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scorretta/support

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…Should we still use the term white supremacy or is it overdone, over used, and affirming all the wrong things? Also, what we’re watching, including Black queer narratives in our collective Black history, and catering to white fragility on the timeline This week’s hotlist - Sex, cuddles and healing. Routines, rituals and time for activities. Going braless and wearing comfort lingerie and dassit! Cheryl Dunye, The Watermelon Woman and queer Black narratives. Vampires vs. the Bronx, BX STAND UP!! Coddling white folks, ain’t nobody got time for that. Black spirituality for freedom. Getting ahead of voter suppression, racism in Canada EH! and mad other ish... TICKETS TO DRUNK BLACK HISTORY https://linktr.ee/drunkblackhistory SPONSOR Love. Lavender. Shea. Organics www.Lovelavendershea.com Receive 10% off your purchase using code “TEA” now through October 19, 2020 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 6:09 Donation libations 21:31 Affirmations 23:22 White Supremacy vs White Narcissism 28:05 What We’re Watching 1:08:30 News That’s Not News 1:25:53 Pay Black Women 1:36:15 The Pit 1:41:29 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 PAY BLACK WOMEN: Donate to M., to aid her during her life transition https://cash.app/$JustTheLetterM NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS LINKS Vote.org - provides the following information: Registration status, Voter Registration, Sign up for election reminders, Polling place locator, Request an absentee ballot so you can vote by mail, Early voting calendar Organizations dedicated to reducing voter suppression in the USA: The League of Women Voters: LWV.org The American Civil Liberties Union: ACLU.org Election Protection: 866OurVote.org Fair Fight: FairFight.com The Asian Americans Advancing Justice: AdvancingJustice-alc.org Black Voters Matter Fund: BlackVotersMatterFund.org Voto Latino: VotoLatino.org NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Listen to episode #265 “I May Destroy You” review: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you Check out Ev’Yan Whitney’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/ This week’s hashtag: #JusticeForJoyce This week’s closing clip features Pat Parker (1978) from her poem “For the Straight Folks Who Don't Mind Gays But Wish They Weren't So Blatant” https://twitter.com/soafricane/status/1308459937916481544?s=11 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia with editorial support from Sam Riddell Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Today we are joined by entrepreneur and podcast host, Taylor Turner, who established Healing In Hindsight out of her own experiences and desire to encourage fellow diabetics through sharing tips, strategies, and personal experiences. We share all about the evolution of chronic illness to the onset of symptoms, diagnosis process, and self-prescribed healing strategy to utilizing food as medicine. Taylor shares her own experiences in navigating the medical world as a black woman and together we reflect on the obvious misjudgements and obvious room for improvement that exists in today’s systems.    Taylor openly shares the obvious differences that take place in a hospital for a white woman vs. a black woman and the need for radical change, starting with communication and a “for all” mentality. This empowering episode was split into two parts so be sure to check out part one (Episode 16) for the beginning of Taylor’s story. Before wrapping up this episode we even discuss the benefits of psychedelics to the human brain and the beauty that comes from honest communication in a relationship.    We also talk about:  Misconception that black women hold higher pain tolerances than white women Oppression of females, blacks, people of color, etc.  Lack of access in the wellness worlds and the scarcity of black female influencers  Inequality of products and lack of targeting to the communities who are lacking in resources and nutrition  The importance of the concept “pay it forward” Taylor’s motives to forming Healing In Hindsight and the platforms she’s looking to build within her strive to help humanity  The loss of societal consciousness and inability to look at the greater good Getting out from behind the keyboard and having a real conversation Spelling out the importance of communication in all relationships and having uncomfortable conversations as adults   Find more at lyoslife.com   Resources:   Connect with Taylor on Instagram @healinginhindsight Learn more from Taylor online at healinginhindsight.com or her podcast launching August 2020 What The Health Documentary  The Magic Pill Documentary Gynecologist who experimented on female slaves: Father of Modern Gynecology Widow how lost his wife after giving birth: Man Sues Cedars-Sinai Hospital After His Wife Died During C-Section Almost 30 Podcast Jenna Kutcher - Goal Digger Podcast  Ev’Yan Whitney  Esther Perel  Gaia Network Psychedelia Documentary  Reality of Truth Documentary  Midnight Gospel Documentary  Connect with me at lovingyourownsoul@gmail.com or on Instagram @lovingyourownsoul   Discounts       Four Sigmatic | Use this link to grab $15 off your first order   Loving Your Own Soul is edited and managed by Sixteen Creative

Welcome back my lovers. How are y'all holding up? Firstly, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. It has been amazing to host the last two seasons and I am beyond ecstatic that we are back for another one. To kick things off, Julia from @soihadanabortion takes the reins in a flipping of the script. I got to experience what it's like relinquishing control and being in the hot seat. Julia has me blabbing about the origins of the podcast, as well as its current process. She asks me poignant questions about the lessons I've learned, in this space we've created, and how they highlight where we are at as a society. We then move on to the AMA questions that you submitted! Topics: avoidance, cognitive dissonance, survival, generational patterns, being called in/out, learning as a process of elimination, certainty as the basis for oppression, accountability, non-monogamy, learning about the kink community while entering it, kink anxiety, bullying, the evolution of my understandings of sex from childhood to now, every experience having inherent value, masturbation, world change, activism, anti-racism and other slippery rabbit holes. Here are some Black sex-positive advocates you should be following (as promised in the episode) : Ericka Hart, M. Ed @ihartericka, Ev’Yan Whitney. @evyan.whitney, Ashley Cobb @sexwithashley, Afrosexology @afrosexology_, Goody Howard @askgoody, Unf*ck Your Polyamory @polyrolemodels, Cindy Lee Alves @cindyleealves. Vagesteem @vagesteem, Jimanekia Eborn, MS @jimanekia, Javay Frye @javaydabae and so many more! Plug: Cicely Blain and Ji-Youn Kim's Processing Rage Workshop and the Stratagem Virtual Conference. Thanks again my loves. It feels weird releasing an "about me" episode in these times, but the battle continues and will always be an intersectional fight. I hope some of the insights in here are valuable and that we remember this work is only possible today thanks to Marsha P. Johnson and other black trans activists. Ps: you still get 20% @intamopleasurables products with our promo code WILD20! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/runningwildwithchristine/support

EPISODE ORIGINALLY DROPPED ON OCTOBER 29, 2019 The Broads are joined by the amazing Ev’Yan Whitney (sex educator/sexuality doula) to discuss sex shame, “losing your virginity”, sexual liberation, healing, low libidos, getting out of your head, and much more! EV’YAN WHITNEY: Instagram: @evyan.whitney Podcast: The Sexually Liberated Woman https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sexually-liberated-woman/id1124567779 www.evyanwhitney.com (http://www.evyanwhitney.com/) THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: FEALS: Become a member today by going to Feals.com/chatty and you'll get 50% off your first order with free shipping!

Consider watching the following films: Do The Right Thing by Spike Lee, If Beale Street Could Talk by Barry Jenkins, Fruitvale Station by Ryan Coogler, 13th by Ava DuVernay, Sorry To Bother You by Boots Riley, + *bonus film* Paris is Burning by Jennie Livingston. Consider listening to Zsela’s EP, Ache of Victory. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/55ICRQmIlXrgsAS1JfKnEI?si=bZ2NDy4JSWKYbFLge_NacA. Consider following, learning from, + supporting these Black women: Rachel Cargle (@rachel.cargle) You can donate to The Loveland Foundation here: https://www.flipcause.com/secure/cause_pdetails/NzU4MzM= Chidera Eggerue (@theslumflower) You can buy her book What A Time To Be Alone here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/what-a-time-to-be-alone-chidera-eggerue/1128305625 or her new book How To Get Over A Boy here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-to-get-over-a-boy-chidera-eggerue/1134863878 Munroe Bergdorf (@munroebergdorf) You can donate to Mermaids UK (a charity supporting transgender + gender variant children + their families) of which Munroe is a patron here: https://mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate/ Alex Elle (@alex_elle) You can listen to The Hey Girl Podcast here: https://open.spotify.com/show/31diB92xw4GjffXJUO2cQ8?si=wMHveV9LTguKrPt67xc-nQ + buy her books at http://www.alexelle.com/ Ev’Yan Whitney (@evyan.whitney) You can listen to The Sexually Liberated Woman here: https://open.spotify.com/show/4RJ6X2uZwV4bHxVlFL5WqG?si=qncYv1DRQ_qjKFX89UR9OQ) + read I Am A “Too Much” Woman here: https://evyanwhitney.com/too-much-woman/. Consider donating to the following organizations: Black Visions Collective at https://secure.everyaction.com/4omQDAR0oUiUagTu0EG-Ig2 BFTA Collective at https://linktr.ee/btfacollective Snap4Freedom at https://www.snap4freedom.org/donate Black Lives Matter Global Network at blacklivesmatter.com National Bail Fund at communityjusticeexchange.org Consider signing these petitions: Justice for George Floyd: https://www.change.org/p/mayor-jacob-frey-justice-for-george-floyd Justice for Tony Mcdade: https://www.change.org/p/justice-for-tony-mcdade Justice for Ahmaud Arbery: https://www.change.org/p/district-attorney-tom-durden-justice-for-ahmaud-arbery-i-run-with-maud Justice for Breonna Taylor: https://www.change.org/p/andy-beshear-justice-for-breonna-taylor Justice for David McAtee: https://www.change.org/p/louisville-mayor-greg-fischer-justice-for-david-mcatee?recruiter=862253145&recruited_by_id=ca6cbd70-2414-11e8-ab29-25fa8a73a71b

Welcome Back ShiftShapers!   This week we are joined by the game-changing Ev’yan Whitney to discuss how to SHIFT with loss, change, and allow ourselves to evolve through the uncertainty of it all! Make sure you have a copy of your SHIFT SHEET ready! Don’t have one? Join our patreon for your free copy! It’s no fun to shift alone so share, review, like, and repost to invite your friends and loved ones along for the ride!   Follow us @shapingtheshiftpodcast and Ev’yan @evyan.whitney on IG!

Ev'Yan is here to help you liberate yourself from shame and step into your erotic power.She's here to help you ask the big questions. Questions like...Why does our sexuality often get put last in our lives? Why is it the last frontier we look to liberate?What are the common blocks we face to erotic embodiment? How do we cultivate more pleasure, sensuality, and express it through our movement?These are the topics Ev'Yan Whitney, my wife, and I dive into in this special edition of the podcast.We cover so much in this episode, from healing your body image to using organic movement to release inner blockages keeping you stuck in your body.Physical freedom cannot be complete without addressing how we embody our sexuality. As Ev'Yan says, your erotic power is your birthright. Pleasure is your birthright.I hope this conversation helps you open yourself to embracing more of who you are and how you move, from everyday sensuality to the most intimate expression of your erotic energy.To learn more about Ev'Yan's work follow her on Instagram @evyan.whitney and check out her website at https://evyanwhitney.com/

On this episode I chat with Ev'Yan Whitney, a Sexuality Doula and host of The Sexually Liberated Woman Podcast. Ev’Yan’s expertise lies in holding space for women and femme-identifying folks who are ready to step OUT of shame, confusion, and fear within their sexuality, and INTO erotic empowerment — whatever that may look like. In our conversation, Ev’Yan shares their own story of sexual reclamation, and gives insight into how we can tune into our own sensualities and desires to have a more pleasure-filled purpose. We speak about how she is creating newfound space to maintain connectivity during these uncertain times, and delve into details of Ev’Yan’s beloved pleasure practice: Sensual Dance Meditation. Together we explore topics of healing, everyday pleasure, and even get into some astrology. What are you waiting for? Tune on in! Keep up with Bedside:Instagram - @thebedsideWebsite - www.thebedside.coConnect with Ev'Yan Whitney:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/Podcast - https://www.sexuallyliberatedwoman.com/Website - https://evyanwhitney.com/Be sure to rate, review, and of course subscribe to the show! Thank you for listening.

Willow Rising helps heart-led people cultivate empowering self-love from the inside out, through the magic of human design. In this episode, Eryn and Willow talk about: What self-care is to Willow How Willow works with human design Self-care for the different human design types Understanding your unique energy in your chart  Authorities and intuition in human design Slow magic The natural pulse of your motor center Periods of rest and work for different human design types Her relationship to pleasure and what’s really bringing her pleasure in her life right now What’s bringing me pleasure right now + more! Blog for this episode: www.living-open.com/blog/willow-rising Register for the online Spring Equinox Breathwork Ceremony. Join the Patreon community. Check out Willow's Instagram and self-care workbooks for your human design type. Mentioned in this episode: Willow's first interview on the Living Open podcast Ev'Yan Whitney's interview on the Living Open podcast

Lenore Black is a sex witch and erotic mentor here to guide you in creating a life that turns you on. In this episode, Eryn and Lenore talk about her journey of healing sexual trauma, what embodiment means to her, how to start getting more embodied, using your body to transmute and express emotions, understanding our actual sexuality & desires through the noise of conditioning and programming, using fantasies to help heal sexual trauma, blending spirituality and kink, a spiritual perspective on sex, reclaiming “slut”, erotic self-care, and her journey with witchcraft. Register for the Imbolc breathwork ceremony. Join me on Patreon for practices for working with each phase of the lunar cycle, new moon community circles + more. Visit Lenore’s website, follow her on Instagram and download her free Erotic Self-Care Rituals. Mentioned in the episode: Erica Smith Sex Ed (a must follow!), my interview with Ev'Yan Whitney, Arousal Types quiz

The Broads are joined by the amazing Ev’Yan Whitney (sex educator/sexuality doula) to discuss sex shame, “losing your virginity”, sexual liberation, healing, low libidos, getting out of your head, and much more! EV’YAN WHITNEY: Instagram: @evyan.whitney Podcast: The Sexually Liberated Woman https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sexually-liberated-woman/id1124567779 www.evyanwhitney.com (http://www.evyanwhitney.com/) THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: ***PRETTY LITTER: Visit prettylitter.com (http://prettylitter.com/) and use promo code CHATTY for 20% off your first order! ***OSHOT by OMAX: Go to omaxhealth.com (http://omaxhealth.com/) and enter code “CHATTY” to get 20% off O-Shot and all OMAX products sitewide!  ***BRUMATE: Visit brumate.com (http://brumate.com/) and add code chatty to get 15% off your first order! ***MELTDOWN by BLUME: text BROADS to 64-000 to get 25% off Meltdown spot treatment by Blume! 

Ev’Yan Whitney revisits a conversation she had with a sexually woke guy who goes by the name "Expressions Untold" where they talk about male sexuality and what men’s sexual liberation looks like. Expressions Untold gets vulnerable about his own sexual liberation journey, sharing with us how he went from praying away his sexuality to embracing who he is as a sexual being, and he speaks very candidly about the ways toxic masculinity and the patriarchy keeps men from being sexually free.Also in this episode: Sexual repression in men, male desires, the negatives of pornography, body positivity for men, deconstructing gender roles, “too much” women, why masculinity is so fragile, and where you can find sexually “woke” men.Click here for show notes + a transcript of this episodeTo revisit old episodes and to become a patron on Patreon, go to sexuallyliberatedwoman.com.Find more about Ev'Yan and her work at evyanwhitney.com. Follow her on Instagram: @evyan.whitney.CREDITSMusic: Otis MacDonald and Comfort FitCover photo: Celeste NocheDesign: Bianca Ng See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Are you engaged in performative protest? Does your breath smell like you used to hate yourself and other Black people? Are you the feds? This week’s hot list: Hobbs & Shaw, hire Black women, pronouns, wealthy white parents and college scamming, performative protest ass muhfuckas, ethics and intersectionality (my ethics ain’t the same as yours B.), white liberal values, “females”, “bitches”, “hoes”, “queens”, and “ladies” and mad other ish Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS Join Queen on Friday, August 16th for a Ms.Vixen IRL event! “Bad Bitch Affirmations: Our Bodies” workshop. Entry is a donation of your choice: http://www.msvixenmag.com/2019/07/affirming-our-bodies-workshop.html RSVP for QueerWOC’s Upstate Retreat! Retreat yourself in Syracuse August 30 - Sept 1! Must register by August 8th to attend. Registration & info: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd_54_bemv9sFw702vTUpLSmITx37tK1icK8eN9F0hcUcyNZg/viewform PAY BLACK WOMEN Help fellow listener Dani pay her rent in an age of gentrification and rent increases! https://cash.app/$dnicole822 NOTES & EXTRA TEA News That’s Not News story: https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-college-financial-aid-guardianship-hearings-20190801-ooznxhs64vf2tbxtyoroog6y6i-story.html Speaking of white violence, read our friend Ev’Yan Whitney’s piece on Wild Flower Shop’s mistreatment of Black femme’s in the sex positive industry: https://medium.com/@evyan.whitney/dildont-disrespect-black-femmes-our-personal-experiences-with-wild-flower-sex-shop-c8d06ce7695f This week’s closing clip features “Drop It Low For Jesus” from Sherman’s Show on IFC: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eqVE-7e58oQ This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Monique Henry-Hudson and production support by Emeka Ochiagha Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

Before we jump into my conversation with Tristan, I want to take a few moments to share an important piece called: Dildon’t Disrespect Black Femmes: Our Personal Experiences With Wild Flower Sex Shop This piece, written collectively by Ev'Yan Whitney, Ashleigh, Karmenife, La'Shaunae, VenusCuffs, and Cameron Glover, is an important account of ongoing exploitation and abuse that these Black Femmes experienced at the hands of Wildflower Sex shop. It's also an important invitation to us all to think about who we critique and who we harm when we take "ethical" stances against certain companies or practices, especially that ultimately then benefit our own interests. You can read Tristan Taormino's additional thoughts about the sexuality field and the ways work in this field continues to be devalued and exploited, particularly for people of color and other people who are marginalized. We must all do better. This impacts our abilities to be present with each other. This impacts our abilities to be in our bodies, experiencing pleasure, building a most just world. It matters.  Read these accounts by Ev'Yan, Ashleigh, Karmenife, La'Shaunae, Venus Cuffs, and Cameron and take a few moments to reflect. Tristan is here this week! And it's EPIC. Oh how I love chatting with Tristan. And you're about to hear why - we GO places in this 90 minute conversation of lusciousness. It all started when I asked Tristan to come on the show to tell us about her ultra personal new memoir which dives deep into her childhood, growing up with a gay dad, losing him to AIDS, and even part of a memoir her dad wrote about his life. In fact, if you want to read snippets and get exclusive updates, support Tristan's Patreon: patreon.com/tristantaormino But, in this episode we also talk about fat phobia, changing and aging bodies, capitalism, white supremacy, the sexuality field, and much much more. I can't WAIT for you to hear it all. Patreon supporters - head to patreon.com/sgrpodcast to hear my bonus chat with Tristan. We talk about the ethics of triangulation in poly relationships courtesy of a listener question! If you aren't a supporter, I'd love your financial support to help keep the show going. If you pledge $3 per month, you get access to exclusive weekly bonus content and if you support at $5 per month and above, you can help me field listener questions. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous) Podcast Transcript Find it at sexgetsreal.com/ep272

This week’s guest is Ev’Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. She has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through her online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode she shares her story of how her personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led her to helping others-- and herself. We talk about her growth, what it means to be a queer person in a heteronormative seeming relationship, what being “ready” for sex really means, and how Ev’Yan and her husband took the steps to enter into an open relationship. We also discuss some of the assignments she gives HER clients, as well as her favorite success stories. We love her.   Follow us: @Evyanwhitney @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic  We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th! CUM JOIN US. *Don't forget to sign up with your email or tickets will NOT process!    Need GORGEOUS, comfortable, and affordable sheets? Visit Brooklinen.com and use promocode HowCum for 10% off and FREE shipping Visit myplusone.com to shop the products we talk about on this episode!  Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop!Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 

Ms.Vixen is your destination for lit womanist perspectives, on pop culture, politics, media, and other incisive conversation usually stolen from us from the mainstream to profit off of. Yup, Ms. Vixen isn’t here to be polite or play around, we know Black Women, Black Femmes and Black Folks impacted by misogynoir, are the standard and not the exception. With Ms. Vixen magazine, Ms. Vixen IRL our workshop series, and now Ms. Vixen the podcast we will do more than just celebrate ourselves, we will always and forever turn up! On this episode, (which is a week late, sorry ya'll) I get into how great my Bad Bitch Affirmation workshop went at the CareFreeBlackGirl cookout in Brooklyn. I show my first patron some love, Robert of the Grizzly and Kiki podcast, thanks boo!! Please check out their website to listen to their amazing podcast! https://www.grizzlykiki.com/ On this episode, I chat with sexuality doula and the host of the Sexually liberated woman podcast Ev'yan Whitney, and we chat about pleasure, her sexual healing journey, and we fangirl all over each other. I really hope you enjoy our conversation xoxo. Links mentioned this episode: CareFreeBlackGirl writeup: http://www.msvixenmag.com/2019/06/the-carefreeblackgirl-cookout-was-lit.html Information for Queer Global, and Marsha's Plate's live show: https://www.instagram.com/p/By5XXiullLj/ Get More Ev' yan Whitney by visiting her website https://evyanwhitney.com/ Follow Ev'yan Whitney on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/ Visit our website MsVixenMag.com for the latest article, events, and updates. Stay in touch by following us on the socials: Twitter.com/_msvixen_ Instagram.com/_msvixen_ Facebook.com/msvixen Help sustain, progress and keep Ms. Vixen going by hitting us up with a donation: www.msvixenmag.com/p/blog-page.html Subscribe to our newsletter an get all Ms. Vixen info sent straight to your email: www.msvixenmag.com/p/donate.html

Welcome to episode 43. I am chatting with Ev’Yan Whitney about what it is like to be in an open relationship, and how her and her partner made the shift to an open relationship over the course of three years. She outlines her struggles and shares the importance of having the hard conversations with your partner. She gives some prompts for your own self exploration and shares her belief that we can all discuss our relationship and sexual narratives with our partners for reasons of expanding pleasure and welcoming relationships with others, but also as a point of reference for depended emotional understanding and creating a deeper understanding of each others deeper needs and fears within the relationship.  Pleasure Rising Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pleasurerising/  

Welcome back to the Sex Magic Podcast! In the last episode of season two, we had the pleasure of interviewing the dynamic Ev’Yan Whitney. Ev’Yan is a sexuality doula™, a sex educator and facilitator, and witch. She launched a movement on Instagram a while back called the sensual selfie challenge, which radicalized the perspective on the selfie. Join us for this eye opening episode as we discuss claiming the title of “witch”, the process of sexual liberation, and internet censorship (boo!). You don’t wanna miss this one. Tune in and enjoy, lovers!

Let’s talk about sex, baby... but for real though! Black Girl In Om Founder, Lauren Ash and Art Director, Deun Ivory are sharing all types of fortifying, affirming, and healing thoughts on this topic with exceptional educator and sexuality doula, Ev’Yan Whitney. Get the full show notes here: http://bit.ly/BGIOPodcastE42 And join us on Patreon for exclusive podcast updates: http://bit.ly/BGIOPatreon

ALL ABOUT TAURUS SEASON ♉️ In this episode, I talked about a whole buncha things, including: -the Taurus New Moon (May 5) and Scorpio Full Moon (May 18) -moving past victimhood -why are we so afraid to talk about sex? -the difference between sexuality and sensuality -talking about consent -shame surrounding food, sex, and money -The Hierophant & The Empress Card in the tarot -Taurus Placements (Sun, Moon, Rising, Venus, Mars) I read the poem “Breasts” by Charles Simic I mentioned Ayurvedic medicine. Learn more by listening to the Ancient Wisdom Today Podcast (hosted by Shaman Durek), specifically the episode titled “Ayurvedic Wisdom For Today (Sahara Rose)” I mentioned Ev’Yan Whitney and her idea of “ongoing consent.” Listen to her talk about this topic on the podcast “Living Open” (hosted by Erin Johnson)...Specifically Episode #107: Coming Home To Your Sexual Self With Sexuality Doula Ev’Yan Whitney. Thanks for listening

Ev'Yan Whitney is a sexuality doula, sex educator, and witch with a curiosity in Afro-indigenous spiritual practice and ancestral worship. In this episode, Ev'Yan and host Eryn Johnson talk all things sexual liberation including her journey of coming into her own sexual liberation, questions to ask yourself to unpack shame around sex and sexuality, getting curious about shame, unpacking "shoulds" in sexuality, coming home to your sexual self in a way that feels authentic and safe, her journey with discovering her queer identity, what both of us are in process with around sexual liberation, consent as ongoing conversation, and her spiritual practice, particularly her work with her ancestors. Check out the blog for this episode: www.living-open.com/blog/evyan-whitney Learn more about and register for the dark moon breathwork circle on May 4th here (no breathwork experience needed). Explore Ev'yan's website, including her Sexual Liberation 101 course, and Instagram. Check out her podcast episodes I'm Coming Out Again and Sex Work & Sexual Liberation. Connect with me on Instagram here. Explore Embodying the Star and apply (we start on April 20th) here.    Download my free Queen of Cups breathwork meditation. Support on Patreon.

When your neighbor comes to you in a panic and tells you that her house is burning — how will you respond?For episode 58 of the Good Life Revival Podcast, I ventured up to Oakland, CA to meet with Aaron Johnson, Porsha Beed, and Jennie Pearl, three of the individuals who form the core of a group called Holistic Resistance, which aims to combat racism by fostering deep personal connections.Their work is at once profound and subversive, both in its goals and in the methods they employ in their efforts to meaningfully reach out to people.Though they are of African heritage, Aaron and Porsha make it a point to specifically focus much of their efforts with HR on reaching white folks, and helping white people come together to hash out some of the more difficult and painful questions they might have about race in an atmosphere of mutual honesty, vulnerability, and trust — where you don't have to be afraid of saying the wrong thing or making the wrong move in your genuine efforts to better understand your place in the world relative to the lived experiences of people of color.This is of course extremely exhausting work, involving an enormous amount of emotional labor, but all three of them shine with a level of confidence and satisfaction that makes it clear that there's nothing else they'd rather invest their energy in.I feel very fortunate to have had the opportunity to sit down with these three in person for an immensely insightful discussion about:how and why they do what they do;the power of intimacy to combat racism;the need to replace internet conversations with direct action;and how nature connection plays into the broader struggle for compassion, trust, and understanding across (perceived) divisions of race, class, gender, and all the rest.This serves as an excellent followup, I think, to the conversation that Ev'Yan Whitney and I had last time around about sexuality and sexual liberation as a means of dismantling oppression.In this case the question is not about sex, but about intimacy in all its forms: how do we foster deep connections and build trust with individuals whose life experiences might dramatically differ from our own?And why is not okay to simply "opt out" of the struggle by deciding that "we" (you) have moved "beyond" race, or by concluding that focusing on issues of race only serves to perpetuate racism?Ultimately, as you'll hear Aaron describe, we will *all* (yes, white people included) continue to suffer as long as white folks don't put in the work on themselves to examine these questions.I hope this conversation encourages you to do just that, and I hope that the example set by the folks here at Holistic Resistance will empower you not to shy away from whatever painful, shameful, or otherwise difficult answers that arise as you venture down the path of dismantling all of the racism you inherited from the dominant Culture of No-Place — whether you wanted to or not.And stick around after our conversation where I take some time to examine my own whiteness and how it relates to my heritage as the great-grandchild of Sicilian immigrants in the United States.Don’t miss Reaching For Blackness, the three-day workshop hosted by Holistic Resistance in Chico, CA, taking place from May 18 - 20, 2019.

When all we’ve ever known is unhealthy, imbalanced examples of sexuality, how can we even begin to step into our power as self-actualized, sexually liberated individuals?For episode 57 of the Good Life Revival Podcast, I invited Ev’Yan Whitney of Portland, Oregon, to join me for a conversation about how we might start to heal as a culture from the toxic and repressive social norms we’ve inherited about sex and gender.Ev’Yan describes herself as a sexuality doula, which is to say that she offers holistic guidance for women as they navigate the difficult transitional process of owning and defining their sexuality, on their own terms. I shouldn’t have to tell you that this is very radical work, and Ev’Yan knows better than most just how dangerous it can be to stand up to the patriarchy and boldly proclaim your truth.Although Ev’Yan’s work is focused on individuals who identify as female, I asked her to come on the show specifically in the hopes of opening up this conversation about sexual liberation to men.I think our culture, and especially my generation, is ready to begin unpacking some of the more “toxic” elements of this rather nebulous thing we call “masculinity,” and I firmly believe that men like me really need to learn from women educators like Ev’Yan if we have any hope of defining a healthy, balanced sexuality for ourselves.Believe me when I say you’re not going to like what you find as you unpack the baggage you inherited from civilization regarding sex, but I hope that Ev’Yan’s example will inspire you to ask these hard questions of yourself anyway, and not shy away from the especially ugly, painful, or embarrassing answers that you might find tucked deep down in the darkest corners of your psyche.Ev’Yan has documented many of her stories and experiences with women over the years through her excellent podcast, The Sexually Liberated Woman. You can find out more about her and the services she offers through her website, EvYanWhitney.com.Stream and download episode 57 at the top of the page, or listen through iTunes, Stitcher, or Google Play.Don’t forget to subscribe through your podcast app, and leave a review & rating if you dig it!All music you hear on the podcast was created by me, Sam Sycamore. “Alameda”, the theme of this episode, was written and recorded specifically for this installment of the show. The tune at the end is called “Hummingbird Drinks Jewelweed Nectar”, and was recorded in September 2018. It will be featured on my forthcoming album Bliss, set for release later this year. Stream and download it for free over on Patreon.As always, if you get some value out of the work that I put into this podcast, and you’re able to translate that value into financial capital — as little as $1/month — I hope you will consider becoming a supporter over on Patreon! Your contributions allow me to devote quite a lot of my time and energy to this work. I would love to do even more, with your help.

Trauma Queen and Ev'Yan Whitney (@evyan.whitney) talk about what it is like being a black femme working and leaving in an oppressive white city. www.traumaqueen.love Online Therapy - www.betterhelp.com/queen ACCESSIBILITY - Link to Transcription: http://bit.ly/TQTemiEvYan --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/traumaqueen/support

Three things to get started: Grab the official Sex Gets Real recommended reading list now! Not only will you have access to my most recommended books, but it will add you to the show's newsletter which is going to be crucial as social media networks purge sex education from their pages. Enter to win "Girl Sex 101" and "Bad Dyke" by Allison Moon to celebrate the New Year! One lucky winner will be selected at random on January 15th, so enter now. U.S. and Canada folks only. See me speak FOR FREE about leaving my day job and starting life as an entrepreneur at the True Freedom Symposium starting January 14th. It's for folks who want to quit their day job. Note, some of the talks are super problematic, so watch with a grain of salt. Faves are Pam Slim, Leonore Tjia, Ed O'Neill, and SARK. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! This episode drops New Year's Eve Eve 2018, so just 2 days until 2019 begins to unfold. This week's Patreon bonus is one of my favorites from this year. We are doing a little New Year's ritual with some really beautiful self-reflective questions, I read two VERY erotic poems (shivers), and we're writing invitations for 2019. If you want to hear my invitations for the new year, my word of the year, and do some yummy little reflective rituals with me, head to patreon.com/sgrpodcast and support the show at $3 or more for exclusive access to this and every week's bonus content. I went through all of my emails, social media comments, and shares, and found the five most commented on episodes of 2018. They were: 5. Cavanaugh Quick on Episode 197 4. Ev'Yan Whitney on Episode 231 3. Dr. Lori Brotto on mindfulness, libido and sex in Episode 227 2. Staci Haines on trauma, healing, and consent in Episode 235 ...and the most shared, commented on, and emailed about episode was... 1. Andy Izenson on transformative justice and masculinity in Episode 221 Now, on to your amazing questions. Curious Vanilla wants to know of any feminist sex toy shops in Canada, so I share my three favorites. Womyns Ware in Vancouver, The Traveling Tickle Trunk in Edmonton, and Come As You Are Co-Op out of Toronto. Happy shopping, Canada! Awkward is dating her friend's sister. The problem? She never told him and now they've been dating for over a year. Plus, her girlfriend recently found out that Awkward had a previous sexual relationship with this guy (the girlfriend's brother) and feels uncomfortable with their continued friendship. What can Awkward do? Anonymous recently learned her neighbor is secretly into crossdressing and being dominated while doing housework. Now he wants Anonymous to be his Domme. He's so eager to come over and clean her house. The problem? She's not a Domme and not really into the whole thing. What the heck should she do? Lookin' 4 Love is desperate to know when will men stop sucking!? She's been hurt by so many men, including the men who seem less toxic and more self aware. Is she doomed? Are there ANY good men out there who aren't steeped in toxic masculinity? She's awesome and wants to find someone awesome to be with. And you know what? Lookin' 4 Love isn't wrong. Privilege is invisible to those who possess it, and it takes a lot of CONSTANT work and checking to begin to unpack it. There are men out there who are doing this work and doing it well, like Imran Siddiquee and his colleague Jonathan MacIntosh of "Pop Culture Detective". Also, Mike Domitrz of "Can I Kiss You?"  Finding rad dudes who are unpacking masculinity and speaking to other men about what they're finding is super important, and the good news there are more and more men doing this work. But hurt is inevitable in love and life, so it's not only about finding really rad men, but also building our own resilience in our own lives for being able to hold that hurt. Finally, I end the show with deep deep gratitude for you, dear listener. It means so much to me that you listen and continue tuning in, so hear my end of the year thoughts. Then pop over to Patreon and join me in looking ahead to 2019. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram. About Host Dawn Serra: What if everything you’ve been taught about relationships, about your body, about sex is wrong? My name is Dawn Serra and I dare to ask scary questions that might lead us all towards a deeper, more connected experience of our lives. In addition to being the host of the weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real, the creator of the online conference Explore More, I also work one-on-one with clients who are feeling stuck, confused, or disappointed with the ways they experience desire, love, and confidence. It’s not all work, though. In my spare time, you can find me adventuring with my husband, cuddling my cats as I read a YA novel, or obsessing over MasterChef Australia. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio.

Ev’Yan Whitney is a sex educator, sex activist, and sexuality doula who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women and femme-identifying folks who want to step out of sexual shame and into erotic empowerment. She's the host of The Sexually Liberated Woman podcast and the creator of the wildly successful Sensual Selfie Challenge on Instagram. You can find out more about Ev'Yan's work at sexloveliberation.com and see her brazenly showing off her sexuality on Instagram @evyan.whitney  

WE DISCUSSED: Ev'Yan's backstory and how she found her way to this work What it was like when she and her mom talked about sex on Ev'Yan's podcast Women helping each other across age groups The inspiration behind and experience with her Sensual Selfie Challenge on Instagram Self-care, boundaries, and sovereignty within this political climate How flowing with time can be an act of resistance The information in this podcast is not meant to be medical advice. The opinion of the guest is not necessarily Dr. Danielle's opinion. The intent of this podcast is to present a variety of information based on a variety of opinions and sources. If you need help with a specific medical issue, please see your practitioners directly and do your own research. (Please always listen to both your instincts and multiple sources!) Special Guest: Ev'Yan Whitney.

Pleasure can be complicated, hunger can feel like a betrayal, but our bodies were built for pleasure and it's time for you to reconnect with what it means to feel good, to prioritize what brings you delight and joy, and to unpack the old stories that keep you stuck in shame and guilt. My new online course, Power in Pleasure: Reconnecting with Your Hunger, Desire, and Joy, will start enrolling soon, so join the notification list now and get first dibs on the course. Ev'Yan Whitney on sensuality, the erotic, and body hair I've followed Ev'Yan on Instagram for quite a while and been enchanted by the ways she shares and expresses herself there. As soon as she said yes to being on the show, I was excited. We talk about sensuality and how Ev'Yan struggled with the ways sensuality and sexuality were bound together culturally. Her process of teasing out her sensual self and separating it from her sexuality has opened her up to so much more pleasure and the erotic. What happens when you start sharing your sensual self with the world, like so many people recently did with the #SensualSelfieChallenge? And how does Ev'Yan tend to her self-care through the senses? We also talk about body hair and how women's bodies have been policed for capitalism purposes, plus navigating non-monogamy in her long-term partnership with her husband. Plus, Patreon supporters - If you support the show at the $3 level and above, Ev'Yan and I talk about sensual rituals. How can we create rituals that honor our bodies, our cycles, the erotic, and our senses? Delight in it with us and support the show at patreon.com/sgrpodcast Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Ev'Yan Whitney: Ev’Yan Whitney is a writer and sexuality doula who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women and femme-identifying individuals who want to heal and liberate their sexuality. She's also the host of the podcast, The Sexually Liberated Woman, which is an ongoing dialogue about sexual awakening and identity. You can find out more about Ev'Yan's work at sexloveliberation.com and see her brazenly celebrating her sexuality on Instagram at @evyan.whitney. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

This week we were joined by Ev'Yan Whitney of the Sexually Liberated Woman podcast as we explored non-monogamy & polyamory in the Bible. We trace the history of and reasons for non-monogamy, the rise of monogamy and the resurgence of an expression that was and maybe still is common.  Ev'Yan shares her experiences transitioning from a monogamous to a non-monogamous marriage, its challenges and successes. You want to hear this story! We covered a lot of ground in one episode but the conversation is just beginning.  http://sexloveliberation.com @evyan.whitney (IG) @evyanwhitney (Twitter)

Hear how one woman broke through her sexual repression and began discovering her authentic sexual expression. Ev’yan Whitney, sexuality coach and founder of SexLoveLiberation.com, generously shares her journey into sexual freedom on her beautiful website and podcast. In this episode, Ev’yan talks about what she learned growing up in a strict religious upbringing and how […] The post Sex Love Liberation with Ev’Yan Whitney appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Today I’m talking to Ev’Yan Whitney- sexuality doula, educator, and creator of the Sensual Selfie Challenge. As a sexuality doula, Ev’Yan helps women and femme identifying people who want to transition out of a life of sexual shame, dysfunction, and confusion, to step into the full expression of who they want to be. She stands for women who want to have full ownership over their bodies - hell yes!   Ev’Yan got her start as a popular blogger writing about fashion, love, recipes, and lifestyle - who could no longer blog about her seemingly perfect life due to some distressing issues in her marriage. Struggling with intimacy as a result of a purity contract signed when she was young, Ev’yan decided to be open about her experience and found that there were many women who could relate. Through honesty and vulnerability and courage, Ev’Yan built up her own tribe of open-minded individuals seeking sexual freedom - overcoming disapproval to fully stand in her truth, and allowing her marriage and career to thrive.   This episode highlights  a powerful journey of being seen, and helping others to be seen as well. Our experiences are not singular, they are often shared. If we humanize ourselves and share our imperfections and struggles, we can achieve joy. Thank you so much to Ev’yan for being fully herself, and using her experience to teach and inspire others.   More Radical Lessons in this episode:   — Because sex is so taboo, many of us are disconnected with this part of ourselves.   — We can step out of the stories that were passed on to us, from religious beliefs to cultural myths, and into the full expression of who we want to be as sexual beings.   — Don’t be afraid of proclaiming that you use pornography as a way to get off, it’s a tool like any other for your sex life.   — When we explore the parts of ourselves that need attention, we have the power to really nourish others on the same journey.   — We have a desire for our struggles to be witnessed, and today we have that power to create our own visibility and be seen through community.   — Shame can make us feel alone and isolated, and we can’t let it allow us to hide. We can use our voice to reclaim our power and stand in our truth.   — When we take our sexuality back into our own hands, we can redefine what women’s sexuality means from a cultural perspective. Links! Website: http://sexloveliberation.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/ Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/evyanwhitney

Today's episode is for those exploring open relationships and are wanting to date someone other than their primary partner.  My personal experience navigating this arena is very limited (which I share more of in this episode) so I’ve invited a special guest, Ev’Yan Whitney. Professionally speaking, Ev'Yan is a sexual doula and sex educator who works with women helping guide them into their own sexual awakenings and recover the lost connection with their desires. Personally speaking, she’s married to an incredible man of 12 years, with 8 of those years being non-monogamous. In this episode we discuss: The evolution of Ev’Yan’s marriage How to make non-monogamy work for your relationship Red flags to be mindful of before choosing this path What dating other people as a married woman actually looks like 3 must-read resources for those considering this relationship structure And so much more! Enjoy!

In this episode, Cat is joined by sexuality doula Ev’Yan Whitney. They discuss the inspiration behind her teachings and dive into her journey of becoming a sexually liberated woman. Mixed in with some laughs as she reflects on the past, Ev’yan shares some great books and resources for women ready to uncover their sexual selves.Inspo of the Week“If sexuality is one dimension of our ability to live passionately, then in cutting off our sexual feelings we diminish our overall power to feel, know, and value deeply." -Judith PlaskowGuest InfoInstagram: evyan.whitneyWebsite: http://sexloveliberation.comHighlights2:00-Who is Ev'Yan4:30-How the journey began8:30-Career pivot15:30-Staying focused20:30-Overcoming judgement25:30-Uncovering our sexual selves36:00-Healing ancestral trauma40:00 Message to the worldKeep Up With CatSubscribe to the show to ensure you don't miss out on any episodes!Head to www.catlantigua.com to subscribe to her exclusive weekly emails!Follow her on Twitter: @catlantiguaFollow her on Instagram: @cat.lantiguaCheck out her Facebook page: Cat LantiguaKeep following Cat on all of the socials to stay updated on all of the great things coming up! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This week on Bag Ladiez we still in these bags pero what else is new?! For “Currento Eventos” we discuss Katy Perry continuing on her tour of trashness and forcing a 19 year old kid into unwanted sexual contact (AKA assault), Rihanna calls outs Snapchat and it fucks up their money (as it should!), and we mourn the death of Afro-Brasileira Marielle Franco assassinated for her political and racial activism. “What’s Your Baggage?” this week was inspired by Ev’Yan Whitney’s #SensualSelfieChallenge! We talk about self confidence, selfies (for ourselves and for the revolution!), what it means to take up space online, and how do we use online space to express ourselves and love ourselves! For “Put it in your Bag” Estephanie brings in the Harlem Natural Hair Salon which recently hooked her up with some DOPE green poison ivy vibes braids and Lina brings in the Claremont Documentary Project instagram which is documenting the lives of residents in the Claremont Projects here in the Bronx. Finally for our rotating theme we talk about advice from our parents that was actually right, for once! We wrap up with an affirmation from Lina this week! Use #UnpackBG to let us know what kind of advice your parents have given you that’s actually spot on and NOT ANNOYING! As always thank you for listening and you can find all our links below! Comment, subscribe, leave an Itunes review, and tell a friend! You can listen to us on soundcloud, Itunes, and Googleplay! Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/bgladies Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/bgladiez/id1073190648?mt=2 Google Play:http://bit.ly/2D7bSJ5 You can Follow us @: Twitter: Bag_Ladiez Tumblr: bgladiez.tumblr.com Instagram: BgLadiez Gmail: bgladiez@gmail.com Katy Perry is trash: http://nyti.ms/2pwbtLx Snapchat is trash: http://nyti.ms/2FNN2TO Rest in Power #MariellePresente: http://bit.ly/2DHg29U Harlem Natural Hair Salon: http://www.harlemnaturalhairsalon.com/ Instragram: Follow @ClaremontDocumentaryProject Project sheds light on Bronx Lives: http://bit.ly/2FNxNue

Ev'Yan Whitney is a writer, sensualist, and sexuality doula—a person who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women and femme-identifying folk who are seeking to come into the full expression of their erotic selves. When she's not writing or taking sexy selfies on Instagram, she's helping women step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power via one-on-one coaching and intimacy counseling. Ev'Yan is also the host of The Sexually Liberated Woman podcast, which is an ongoing sex-positive dialogue that highlights, celebrates, and encourages the sexually liberated woman.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Special guest, sexuality doula Ev’Yan Whitney joins us to discuss all things sex, healing and polyamory. Also, we pay Black women, talk child support, mass incarceration & periods. This week’s hot list: It’s Black Panther week! Black laughter does not equal Black ignorance, Flint still doesn’t have clean water, ‘bad-b!tch’ is an action word, so is non-monogamy, urban burlesque, sexual oppression, sexual healing, sexual freedom, The Sexually Liberated Woman, periods, mass incarceration, the patriarchy in child support and more! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS Meet us at SXSW! Austin, TX! We’ll be joining QueerWOC: The Podcast for a live show at the SXSW Podcast Stage on March 12th at 9:30am! More info: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2018/events/PP99023 Are you in Austin but not going to SXSW? Join us for a casual meet up after work on March 13th! Details to come. TODAY’S GUEST Learn more about our guest and sexuality doula Ev’Yan Whitney by visiting her website: http://sexloveliberation.com/ Listen to Ev’Yan’s podcast “The Sexually Liberated Woman” on Apple Podcasts, Soundcloud and Stitcher: https://soundcloud.com/evyanwhitney/tracks Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexloveliberation/ PAY BLACK WOMEN Visit City Republik for wigs, jewelry and apparel: https://www.cityrepublik.com/ Check out Maya Stewart’s handbags & accessories: http://www.mayastewart.com/ NOTES & EXTRA TEA Help Little Miss Flint collect letters of encouragement for children in Flint, Michigan still living without standard American access to clean water. Follow her on twitter @LittleMissFlint for mor information. Letters can be mailed to Mari Copeny, PO Box 138, Flint MI 48501 or sent via email to maricopeny07@gmail.com Learn more about urban burlesque and Jaminah Legohn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/artoflegohn/ Visit one of Ev’Yan’s favorite tumblr pages, Poly Role Models: http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ Learn more about women’s menstrual health and mass incarceration: https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/arizona-inmates-periods-prison-women-wash/ Take Action: https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/arizona-inmates-periods-prison-women-wash/ This week’s closing clip features Symone D. Sanders on CNN: https://www.instagram.com/p/Be-2BBIluq1/ Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/ Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/ Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

SEX! Sex is often a topic of conversation that can feel very NOT Sexy. In this episode we talk about all things sex and what it means to be a sexually liberated woman in the #metoo era with sex and relationship specialist Ev'Yan Whitney.  Ev'Yan Whitney, is the host of the Sex, Love and Liberation podcast. Ev'Yan, educates, and empowers women who are longing to blossom into sexually free and body-conscious beings. Ev'Yan's, story really spoke to me as a woman and she is so open and honest with her journey.  Sex means so much more then just a physical act and Ev'Yan, is such an inspiration to me. I really think you guys will love what she has to say about us as women and the power we have. EPISODE SPONSOR: https://www.hellofresh.com ____________________________________________________   SUBSCRIBE TO US ON iTUNES: http://apple.co/2dAPYma FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:  http://bit.ly/2lVVG7n SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTER:  http://bit.ly/2hnGo9L VISIT OUR WEBSITE:  https://www.behindthebeautypodcast.com    ___________________________________________________   GUEST INFO: Janice Kinjo    INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/janicekinjo/?hl=en   ___________________________________________________     HOST SEREIN WU  MAIN YOUTUBE CHANNEL→ http://bit.ly/1JU5PUH VLOG/LIFESTYLE CHANNEL | https://www.youtube.com/moreserein INSTAGRAM | TWITTER | FACEBOOK | PINTEREST @SEREINWU  BLOG http://sereinwu.com/  BUSINESS INQUIRE E-MAIL ONLY → chris@sereinwu.com ________________________________________________   FTC DISCLAIMER   All opinions expressed are my own and 100% honest. I do not recommend anything to you that I don’t believe in wholeheartedly.   SHOP MY FAVORITE ESSENTIAL OILS BRAND (therapeutic grade) http://bit.ly/sereinyoungliving ________________________________________________   COUPON CODES      SHOP GLOSSIER 20% OFF 1st ORDER + FREE SHIPPING OVER $30 https://www.glossier.com/reps/serein   NUDESTIX SereinwBB15 15% off at http://bit.ly/2ecNadA    EBATES CASH BACK $10 BONUS http://bit.ly/ebatesserein    JOUER COSMETICS 15% OFF USE: "SEREIN15" at http://bit.ly/297a57U   OFRA 30% OFF USE: "SEREIN30" at http://bit.ly/29QoIfU   AUDIBLE FREE 1st BOOK http://bit.ly/audibleserein ___________________________________________________   Hi! I'm Serein. Welcome to Behind The Beauty Podcast. Each week, we take a behind the scenes look inside the world of all things beauty. We speak directly to the professionals who work for the brands we all know and love. Join me each week as we pull back the curtain and take you behind the beauty!   ***NEW EPISODES ON iTUNES EVERY MONDAY***    

Sex coach Ev’yan Whitney joins Tina on the phone from Portland Oregon to discuss the sex appeal of crystals, polyamory, demisexuality, masturbation, self care, and more. Ev’Yan Whitney is a writer, sensualist, and sexuality doula—a person who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women who are seeking to come into the full expression of their erotic selves. When she’s not writing or taking sexy selfies on Instagram, she’s helping women step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power via one-on-one coaching. Ev’Yan is also the host of The Sexually Liberated Woman podcast, which is an ongoing sex-positive dialogue that highlights, celebrates, and encourages the sexually liberated woman. You can find more about her work at sexloveliberation.com and see her brazenly celebrating her sexuality on Instagram at @evyan.whitney See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

An interview with Jenni Grover and Ev'Yan Whitney about sensuality and sexuality for ChronicBabes. Ev’Yan is a writer and female liberation artist. Her mission is to help liberate others into loving themselves, manifest their sexualities, and encourage them to be beautifully mindful... if only to teach herself the same lessons. She spins unadulterated truth and provokes self-actualization over at her blog SexLoveLiberation.com.

Let's talk about sex! And also not having sex! This episode looks at how there's no such thing as "traditional" dating. Dating norms have evolved over our history and continue to grow and change as we have more freedom to define happiness for ourselves. We talk with Moira Weigel, the author of the book Labor of Love: The Invention of Dating, and the founder of NYC's meetup group for asexual and agender folks. Plus, sex positive selfie enthusiast Ev'yan Whitney interviews a very special person about dating: her mom.

Episode 14: Flirting – Sex on the Brain brings back two former guests to talk about flirting and modern dating. Ev’Yan Whitney of the Sexually Liberated Woman podcast and Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach Stella Harris join Amory Jane in discussing different flirting styles, pick up lines and so-called “pick up artists,” and how flirting has changed with online dating. […]

Ev'Yan Whitney is a writer, sensualist, and sexuality doula—a person who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women who are seeking to come into the full expression of their erotic selves. When she’s not writing or taking sexy selfies on Instagram, she’s helping women step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power Continue Reading…

Welcome to Flex Your Heart Radio! This podcast is about body, fat and gender positivity, fitness, feminism, recovery, risk, and crushing it at life.  On this episode, we talk to sexually liberated woman, Ev'yan Whitney! Ev’Yan Whitney is a writer, sensualist, and sexuality doula. She helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women and femmes who are seeking to come into the full expression of their erotic selves. She's also the host of the Sexually Liberated Woman podcast, which is an ongoing sex-positive dialogue that highlights, celebrates, and encourages sexual liberation in all its forms.   When Ev'yan is not writing or working on her podcast, she’s helping women step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power via one-on-one coaching and intimacy counseling. You can find more about her work at sexloveliberation.com and see her brazenly celebrating her sexuality on Instagram at @evyan.whitney. In this podcast we discuss: - Unlearning ancestral trauma in order to tap into our sexual selves - How non-monogamy helped Ev'yan to discover her true queer nature - Reconnecting with our bodies in times of depression and anxiety - Sexy selfies as a practice of taking up space!  --- A very special thank you to our 10$ and 25$ level Patreon Patrons, Bianca Phillips, Sky Chari and Kelly Knight! I love you all. If you like the podcast: Support our Patreon! Leave us an iTunes review! Join our facebook group! Email us at flexyourheartradio@gmail.com!    ----   And now for me!   I wrote a graphic novel with my partner and it's on pre-order NOW. If you've ever wanted to read about my recovery from anorexia, bulimia, and compulsive overexercise, this is your chance. Buy today, get stoked, share with your friends!  You can follow me on Instagram You can visit my blog You can check out my amazing body, fat, and gender positive gym, soon to be open in Portland, Oregon  You can email me with podcast questions or inquiries about coaching (olympic lifting, power lifting, interval training, etc.) at Lacy@liberationbarbell.com. I currently have space for private, semi-private and group class clients.     ----   Intro/outro song: outta me by Bikini Kill    Keywords! body positivity, queer, sex, wellness, health, orgasm, sensuality, depression, anxiety  

In this one, Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with a sexually woke guy who goes by the name "Expressions Untold" on Instagram about male sexuality and what men’s sexual liberation looks like. Expressions Untold gets vulnerable about his own sexual liberation journey, sharing with us how he went from praying away his sexuality to embracing who he is as a sexual being, and he speaks very candidly about the ways toxic masculinity and the patriarchy keeps men from being sexually free.For show notes: https://www.sexuallyliberatedwoman.com/episodes/episode-23Thank you so much for listening! xo CREDITSMusic: "Erykah" by Otis McDonald"Sunday Afternoon" by Poddington Bear See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with her friend Rashida KhanBey (rashidak.com), a striptease teacher who uses erotic dance as a method of reclaiming and connecting to her sexuality. Rashida gives us a glimpse of her self-love journey—how it was she came to start teaching erotic dance in the first place—and shares a few simple dance moves you can try, no matter what your size or your experience with dance is.For show notes: https://www.sexuallyliberatedwoman.com/episodes/episode-22Music: "Erykah" by Otis McDonald"Sunday Afternoon" by Poddington Bear See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ev’Yan Whitney is a writer who openly chronicles her journey of erotic awakening and exploration on her blog. In addition to writing about her sex life, she’s also a sexuality doula—a woman who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for other women who want to step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power. […]

Ev’Yan Whitney is a writer who chronicles her journey into erotic awakening and exploration at sexloveliberation com. In addition to writing about her sex life, she’s also a sexuality doula—a person who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for other women who want to step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power. We talked in-depth about releasing sexual shame, reclaiming our sexuality, powerful practices for sexual healing, reigniting your libido, and so much more.

In Feb 2015, I did a 5-day symposium consisting of 25 interviews with powerful and inspiring women sharing their stories and advice for transcending life’s struggles, fears and doing it their own way. We got so much incredible feedback on the interviews, we decided to turn it into a podcast. At times during the interviews when you hear us refer to the series or interviews that have already been done, keep in mind these interviews have been repurposed and may not follow the original order – but stay tuned because we’ll be airing four each month on Mondays alternating with fresh new episodes called “Ask Liz” every Wednesday. Ev’Yan Whitney is a writer, sensualist, & sexuality doula. With honeyed prose, she waxes poetic on sex, orgasm, self-care, & honoring your natural cycles at her digital sanctuary, sexloveliberation.com. She also helps doula women into a full expression of their divine erotic & sensual selves via intimate coaching. When she’s not knee deep in sexual liberation (be it hers or others’), she’s likely booty dancing to Beyoncé in her kitchen. She’d love to connect with you on Instagram& Facebook. In this episode, Ev’Yan shares: 1. Sex as a force of communion, creativity and energetic exchange 2. Honoring the body’s cycles and personal sexual practice 3. How to choose birth control that feels right for your body

Links & Shownotes: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/sexual-liberation Sexual Liberation isn’t just some random word that’s been shouted out on Woodstock or scribbled on a poster by some high and nude hippies. It’s one of those timeless power words, that gives me goosebumps by just thinking about it. Since human kind exists to the day we leave our last footprint on this earth will sexual liberation be a part of our journey. It’s that desire, that lies deeply within us. A desire for freedom of what we are -sexual beings! Dive together with me and my juicy guest Ev’Yan Whitney into this topic of finally setting your sexual being free. Once and for All. Ev’Yan is a sex doula. She created a digital sanctuary for the sexually free, or those who want to be.