CLEANING UP YOUR MENTAL MESS with Dr. Caroline Leaf

What if the apology you're waiting for never comes?In this powerful episode, Dr. Caroline Leaf unpacks how to move on when someone never acknowledges the pain they caused. You'll learn how unresolved hurt affects your brain and body—and how to rewire your healing from the inside out. Backed by neuroscience, packed with practical tools, and grounded in emotional truth, this episode will help you let go of resentment, reclaim your power, and find peace—whether or not you ever hear “I'm sorry.”

In this episode, I unpack one of life's hardest decisions: when to stay and work through challenges—and when it's time to move on for the sake of your mental and emotional health.You'll learn how to tune into the signals your mind and body are sending you, recognize when discomfort leads to growth versus harm, and use simple mind-management tools from my new book Help in a Hurry to build clarity and resilience.Key highlights:How to tell the difference between growth pain and toxic stressThe role of neuroplasticity in healing after hard decisionsSimple mindset shifts to help you move forward with confidenceReflective questions to guide your next right stepYou are not stuck. You are not powerless. Your mind holds the wisdom you need to choose your next chapter.Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/SPONSORS MAKING THIS SHOW POSSIBLE:Pique Tea: If you're tired of feeling depleted and want to finally nourish your body the right way, now's the time—get 20% off plus a FREE rechargeable frother and glass beaker with my exclusive link: Piquelife.com/drleaf.

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with my dear friend and transformational life coach, Craig Siegel, to explore what it truly means to reinvent your mind and your life.Craig shares his powerful personal story — from the high-pressure world of Wall Street to becoming a bestselling author and thought leader — and how rewiring his own mindset through intentional neuroplasticity led him to a more meaningful, purpose-driven life.Together, we unpack the science and strategy behind reinvention, mindset shifts, and conscious connection — and how you can apply these tools to build authentic relationships, overcome imposter syndrome, and unlock mental resiliencefor personal and professional growth.

Description: Ever wonder if that gut feeling is fear or intuition? In this episode, I break down how to tell the difference—and how to calm anxiety so you can hear your inner wisdom clearly.You'll learn:1. The science behind anxiety and intuition2. Why anxiety stems from fear, past experiences, and “what-if” thinking3. How intuition is actually a signal from your nonconscious mind rooted in wisdom4. Key ways to distinguish between a fearful spiral and an intuitive nudge5. Quick, practical tools to calm anxiety and tune into your inner guidancePre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/Sponsors making this episode possible:BIOPTIMIZERS MAGNESIUM BREAKTHROUGH: Nourish your brain and body with Magnesium Breakthrough now. For an exclusive offer go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10 percent. BRANCH BASICS: Right now, our listeners get 15% off the Premium Starter Kit by using code DRLEAF15 at BranchBasics.com.

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/Description: Do you feel exhausted even after a whole night's sleep or a seemingly restful weekend? You might unknowingly be caught in mindless habits slowly wearing you down. In this episode, Jessica breaks down five common, sneaky habits that drain your mental and physical energy—from chaotic multitasking to overstimulation from tech and shallow breathing. These aren't just bad habits—they're signs your mind is running on empty.Tune in to learn:Why your messy desk might be stressing you out more than you realizeHow "milkshake multitasking" scrambles your focusThe surprising science behind why doing nothing is actually doing something powerfulSimple tools like "thinker moments" and deep breathing to reboot your mind and restore energyThese quick neuroscience-backed tips will help you stop the spiral of overwhelm, create calm, and start feeling like yourself again—even when life isn't perfect.Sponsors making this episode possible:OLLIE DOG FOOD: Give your pup a fresh start this new year by letting them taste test a personalized meal plan with Ollie! Head to Ollie.com/DRLEAF, tell them all about your dog, and use code DRLEAF to get 60% off your first box of meals when you subscribe today! Plus, they offer a Clean Bowl Guarantee on the first box, so if you're not completely satisfied, you'll get your money back.

Pre-order my new book here and get over $400 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/Description: Dopamine isn't just the “feel-good” chemical—it's your brain's motivation engine. In this episode, I unpack the real science behind dopamine, debunk common myths, and reveal how modern life hijacks your brain's reward system. Learn how to take back control using the Neurocycle method and start rewiring your brain for focus, drive, and long-term fulfillment. It's not about detoxing dopamine—it's about resetting it, training your mind to crave what truly serves you.Sponsors making this episode possible:BiOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough: Nourish your brain and body with Magnesium Breakthrough now. For an exclusive offer, go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10 percent.

Pre-order my new book here and get over $400 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://a.co/d/484tmSeIn this insightful episode I sit down with Jeff Krasno, author of Good Stress: The Health Benefits of Doing Hard Things. Jeff shares his personal journey from a diabetes diagnosis to reclaiming health through embracing life's challenges. We delve into the concept of 'good stress'—how practices like fasting, cold exposure, and engaging in difficult conversations can enhance physiological, psychological, and social well-being. Jeff also discusses the evolutionary mismatch between our ancestors' stressors and today's comforts, offering practical strategies to harness stress for growth and resilience. Tune in to discover how doing hard things can lead to a healthier, more vibrant life!Get Jeff's book here: https://onecommune.mykajabi.com/goodstressbook?preview_theme_id=2159005940Sponsors making this episode possible: ZOCDOC: Stop putting off those doctors' appointments and go to Zocdoc.com/LEAF to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today!AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer!

Pre-order my new book here: https://a.co/d/484tmSeAre FOBO (Fear of Better Options) and FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) running your life? The constant chase for the “best” choice can leave you mentally drained, stuck in decision paralysis, and dissatisfied—even when you do decide. In this episode, we break down Barry Schwartz's Paradox of Choice and uncover the hidden mental costs of overchoice. Learn four powerful strategies—including pre-deciding, setting digital boundaries, and using the Neurocycle—to clear the chaos, simplify decisions, and take back control of your mind. Tune in and start thinking deeply, living intentionally, and hacking your brain for a better life!Sponsors making this episode possible:PUORI: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAFand use my promo code DRLEAF, or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase.BiOPTIMIZERS: For an exclusive offer for my listeners go to BiOptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10%. The great thing about BlOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee!HERO: Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code DRLEAF at checkout.

Pre-order my new book here: https://www.amazon.com/Help-Hurry-Finding-Overwhelmed-Stressed/dp/0801093260/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.XDyjiWpiM9uAO4e1rDROIg.2fzlEXTA_MwJYfZP5WYga80TJaLfUfl2Z2lXGclynhA&qid=1738788667&sr=8-1What if a few mindset shifts could change everything? In this episode, I'm sharing 7 life-changing truths that can transform the way you think, feel, and interact with the world. From managing expectations without resentment to setting healthy boundaries, embracing rest, and making kindness your superpower—these insights will help you rewire your mind for more peace, wisdom, and resilience.Sponsors making this episode possible:AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer! Ancient Nutrition: Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/DRLEAFOllie Dog Food: Give your pup a fresh start this new year by letting them taste test a personalized meal plan with Ollie! Head to Ollie.com/DRLEAF, tell them all about your dog, and use code DRLEAF to get 60% off your first box of meals when you subscribe today! Plus, they offer a Clean Bowl Guarantee on the first box, so if you're not completely satisfied, you'll get your money back.

Want to hack your brain for a better life? In this episode, we're diving into five science-backed psychological "cheat codes" that can help you build better connections, stop overthinking, and boost confidence—all with the power of neuroscience. From the magic of asking for favors to the game-changing 3-second eye contact rule, these simple tricks are backed by your brain's wiring. Tune in to learn how to make your mind work for you instead of against you!Sponsors making this episode possible:PUORI: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAFand use my promo code DRLEAF, or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase.BIOPTIMIZERS MUSHROOM BREAKTHROUGH: For an exclusive offer for my listeners go to BiOptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10%. The great thing about BlOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee!

Is hustle culture crushing your well-being? It's time to rethink success. In this episode, we dive into the ‘Soft Life'—a movement that isn't about laziness but radical self-preservation. Learn how rejecting burnout, prioritizing rest, and rewiring your brain can lead to sustainable happiness. I'll share personal insights, neuroscience-backed strategies, and practical ways to step off the productivity treadmill. Ready to redefine success on your terms? Let's do it together.Sponsors making this episode possible:Pouri: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAF and use my promo code DRLEAF • Or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase - still such great savings.Bioptimizers: For an exclusive offer for my listeners go to BiOptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10%. And the great thing about BlOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee.Ollie Dog Food: Give your pup a fresh start this new year by letting them taste test a personalized meal plan with Ollie! Head to Ollie.com/DRLEAF, tell them all about your dog, and use code DRLEAF to get 60% off your first box of meals when you subscribe today! Plus, they offer a Clean Bowl Guarantee on the first box, so if you're not completely satisfied, you'll get your money back.

You've probably heard me talk about being *wired for love*, but did you know that optimism isn't just about being positive all the time? That's not realistic! In this episode, I dive into the science of optimism—how it shapes our brains, boosts resilience, and even improves our health. But here's the catch: the *right* kind of optimism isn't just about seeing the bright side—it's about balancing hope with realism (and yes, even a little bit of pessimism!). I'll share practical tips to help you develop a mindset that fuels growth, problem-solving, and real success. Let's find that *Goldilocks* sweet spot together!Sponsors making this episode possible:-Ancient Nutrition: Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/DRLEAF. -Hero: I love that Hero has monthly small batch drops of indulgent favorites like the popular two gram net carb Hero Croissant and new surprises coming each month this year! And for a limited time Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code DRLEAF at checkout. -Zocdoc: Stop putting off those doctors' appointments and go to Zocdoc.com/LEAF to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today!

New Year's resolutions? Overdone. Instead, imagine your deathbed. Inspired by a Wall Street Journal article on Panera Bread founder Ron Schaich, this episode explores the power of a premortem—a life audit that ensures you won't wait until the end to decide if you're proud of your life. From Buddhist teachings to Oliver Burkeman's Four Thousand Weeks, I share how this practice reshaped my own priorities after a personal tragedy. What can you do in the next five years that you'll respect looking back from your deathbed? Tune in for a perspective shift that just might change your life.Sponsors making this episode possible:-PUORI: I have an amazing deal for you: right now you get an amazing 20% off, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAF and use my promo code DRLEAF • Or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase – still such great savings. -BIOPTIMIZERS MUSHROOM BREAKTHROUGH: For an exclusive offer for my listeners go to BiOptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10%. And the great thing about BlOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee.

Did you know that ruminating on loneliness is more linked to depression than actual loneliness? In this episode, we dive into the science of QZE—your brain's constant state of growth based on what you focus on—and how to shift your thoughts in the right direction. Learn how a simple "QZE Mindshift" using the Neurocycle can break the rumination-depression cycle and transform loneliness into meaningful connection. Tune in for practical steps and the surprising power of talking to strangers.Don't forget to rate, review, and share this episode—it truly helps the show grow.Sponsors making this episode possible:-APOSTROPHE: Get your first visit for only five dollars at Apostrophe.com/DRLEAF when you use our code: DRLEAF. That's a savings of fifteen dollars! This code is only available to my listeners.

it's time for some real talk. In this episode, I dive into a topic that hits close to home for so many of us — childhood trauma and how it shapes who we are today. Let's face it, what we experience when we're young leaves a lasting impact on our mental, emotional, and even physical health. But here's the thing: just focusing on the bad stuff can keep us stuck in the past.I break down the groundbreaking research on Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and how they're linked to long-term health issues. But I also shine a light on something just as important — Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs) and how they can help heal and build resilience, even if you've had a rough start in life.Healing isn't about ignoring the negative, but it's also not about getting lost in it. I share practical tips like balancing your memories of the past and practicing the 3:1 thought ratio — a powerful tool to help shift your mindset when you're spiraling. Trust me, it works.This conversation isn't about pretending everything is perfect or magically fixing deep-rooted pain overnight. It's about finding hope, healing, and rewriting your story in a way that empowers you to move forward. Let's tap into that incredible strength we all have and find balance on this journey.Don't forget to rate, review, and share this episode—it truly helps the show grow.Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challengeSponsors making this episode possible:-PUORI: add Puori (O3) to your routine now! And I have an amazing deal for you: right now you get an amazing 20% off, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAF and use my promo code DRLEAF • Or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase – still such great savings.

In this episode, we explore the profound difference between kindness and niceness. While niceness often prioritizes comfort and approval, kindness is rooted in genuine care, bravery, and authenticity. Discover why being kind—not just nice—fosters trust, deeper connections, and long-term growth.You'll also learn about the science of kindness, from its biochemical benefits like releasing dopamine and oxytocin to its proven impact on mental health. Plus, I'll share practical tips for incorporating kindness into your daily routine, including the ideal ratio of compliments to criticisms (hint: it's 5.6:1!) and how acts of kindness can create a ripple effect of well-being.Don't forget to rate, review, and share this episode—it truly helps the show grow.Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challengeSponsors making this episode possible:HERO: Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code DRLEAF at checkout.ZOCDOC: So stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to zocdoc.com/leaf to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer!

Have you ever felt triggered, ready to react, but wished for a guiding hand to pull you back to calm? In this episode, Cultivating Calm When Feeling Triggered, we explore how you can become that guiding hand for yourself. Packed with science-backed strategies and personal insights, this episode will empower you to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively.Highlights include:"Isn't This Interesting" Technique: Learn how a simple 60-second pause can create space for calm and insight, turning triggering moments into opportunities for growth.The Power of Immediate Gratitude: Discover how practicing gratitude for even the smallest things can shift your mind into healing theta and learning gamma brainwaves, rewiring your perspective.Trigger Sips: A breathing technique designed to soothe your nervous system and bring clarity in moments of distress.Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challengeSponsors making this episode possible:- PUORI: add Puori (O3) to your routine now! And I have an amazing deal for you: right now you get an amazing 20% off, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAF and use my promo code DRLEAF • Or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase – still such great savings. -APOSTROPHE: Get your first visit for only five dollars at Apostrophe.com/DRLEAF when you use our code: DRLEAF. That's a savings of fifteen dollars! This code is only available to my listeners.

In this podcast, I dive into powerful tips on transforming your relationship with stress by shifting how you perceive and process it. It's a game-changing episode designed to help you start the new year with a fresh mindset and a renewed sense of control. Don't miss this opportunity to turn stress into a tool for growth and resilience!Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challengeSponsors making this episode possible:-ANCIENT NUTRITION: Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/DRLEAF-AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer!

In this podcast I share the one phrase that may be limiting your growth and slowing down your healing. I also share what to say instead, and how to frame words so they don't negatively affect your mental health. Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challengeSponsors making this episode possible:-PURITY WOODS: Honestly, I have never seen a natural skincare product of this quality at this reasonable of a price point! And thankfully, the good people at Purity Woods have a special coupon code specifically for my listeners, so you can try it for yourself for 27% off today. Just go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS or enter MENTALMESS at checkout.-FATTY15: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health! You can now get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DRLEAF and using code DRLEAF at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order! -AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer!

Felling a relationship lull? In this episode I share my favourite and most effective tip to supercharge any relationships.Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challengeSponsors making this episode possible:-ZocDoc: Go to Zocdoc.com/LEAF and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then start your search for a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours!

Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challengeIn this episode I share 6 scientific and effective strategies to stop fights before they begin. These helped me, and hopefully will help you avoid so much unnecessary pain! Sponsors making this episode possible:-BETTERHELP: Become your own soulmate, whether you're looking for one or not. Visit BetterHelp.com/drleaf today to get 10% off your first month.

In this episode I interview my good friend, best-selling author, and top podcast host Shawn Stevenson about: The #1 exercise that's clinically proven to reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression.Understand the critical connection between sleep quality and mental health.Learn which nutrients to prioritize daily to protect your mental and metabolic health.And more! Learn more about Shawn here: https://themodelhealthshow.com/Sponsors making this episode possible:-IHERB: For a limited time, my listeners get 22% off their first order when you use code DRLEAF at iherb.com/shop/DRLEAF. Existing customers receive 15% off!

In this episode I interview Certified Neurocycle Facilitator Elana Van Deventer on how to end the cycle of procrastination by finding the root issue, and creating better and more sustainable time-management habits. Contact Elana: https://www.instagram.com/elanavdeventer/?hl=enTo watch this episode ad-free, and many other webinars to help you on your healing journey download the Neurocycle app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/Sponsors making this episode possible:-PURITY WOODS: Honestly, I have never seen a natural skincare product of this quality at this reasonable of a price point! And thankfully, the good people at Purity Woods have a special coupon code specifically for my listeners, so you can try it for yourself for 27% off today. Just go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS or enter MENTALMESS at checkout.-BIOPTIMIZERS: Become your own soulmate, whether you're looking for one or not. Visit BetterHelp.com/drleaf today to get 10% off your first month. -FATTY15: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health! You can now get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DRLEAF and using code DRLEAF at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order!

In this episode I share some life-saving tips and scientific strategies to help prevent dementia, and reduce the symptoms. Listen to the full episode ad-free on the Neurocycle app here: https://www.neurocycle.appSponsors making this show possible:-BETTERHELP: Become your own soulmate, whether you're looking for one or not. Visit BetterHelp.com/drleaf today to get 10% off your first month.

In this episode I interview Neurocycle Facilitator Dawn Wiliams on how to START taking the steps towards healing, and how to use the Neurocycle program to guide your healing journey. To work with Dawn visit: https://www.fourcscounseling.com/To get the Neurocycle app visit: https://www.neurocycle.app/Sponsors making this show possible:-PURITY WOODS: Honestly, I have never seen a natural skincare product of this quality at this reasonable of a price point! And thankfully, the good people at Purity Woods have a special coupon code specifically for my listeners, so you can try it for yourself for 27% off today. Just go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS or enter MENTALMESS at checkout.

In this episode I explain what the arrival fallacy is, how it could be holding you back from finding peace, and how to break free from this fallacy!To listen to the full episode (plus hundreds more webinars and resources to help you live your happiest life) AD-FREE download the Neurocycle app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/Sponsors making this show possible:-IRESTORE: So treat yourself to some high-tech self-care with iRestore's Illumina face mask. For a limited time only, our listeners get 25% off their Illumina Face Mask when you use code DRLEAF25 at https://iRestorelaser.com

In this episode I interview Certified Neurocycle Facilitator Brenda Kennison about:How to use the Neurocycle method to identify the root of addiction and start healingIdentifying & unlearning harmful behavioursHow the Neurocycle method can help you define your identityHealing childhood traumaCreating the sober life you wantAnd more! To work with Brenda visit: https://www.day1ofsobriety.org/Get the Neurocycle app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/Sponsors making this show possible:-ZOCDOC: So, stop putting off those doctors' appointments and go to Zocdoc.com/LEAF to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.

In this episode I challenge the assumption that we can't catch up on sleep, and share some tips on how to get the rest you need even when you don't have a lot of time!Listen to the full episode AD-FREE on the Neurocycle app at: https://www.neurocycle.appSponsors making this show possible:-BiOptimizers Mushroom Breakthrough. For an exclusive offer for my listeners, go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout. And the great thing about BIOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee!

Ryan's story is truly inspiring. Despite facing challenges like addiction, incarceration, and dropping out of school in the 7th grade, he persevered, eventually graduating high school. Today, with 22 years of sobriety under his belt, he started We Level Up, a 9-figure drug and alcohol rehab business that employs over 600 people and impacts more than 10,000 lives each year. Ryan's mission is to inspire and empower others through coaching and mentorship, sharing the same compassion that transformed his own life.Learn more about Ryan here: https://ryanzofay.com/Sponsors making this show possible:-IHERB: For a limited time, my listeners get 22% off their first order when you use code DRLEAF at iherb.com/shop/DRLEAF. Existing customers receive 15% off.

In this episode I explain how to use the Neurocycle to unwire harmful beliefs about self-worth, and how to use this system to rewire your brain to build healthy new habits around self-confidence and image. I also share some fascinating science on how thoughts are formed to help you better understand what is going on in your brain and how it affects your body, To listen to and watch this full espied ad free get the Neurocycle app! On the app you will get access to hundreds of Neuro Live webinars in addition to other helpful guides and programs. Get the app here:https://www.neurocycle.app/Sponsors making this show possible:-PURITY WOODS: Honestly, I have never seen a skincare product of this quality at this reasonable of a price point. And thankfully, the good people at Purity Woods have a special coupon code specifically for my listeners, so you can try it for yourself for 27% off today. Just go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS or enter MENTALMESS at checkout.-BETTERHELP: Become your own soulmate, whether you're looking for one or not. Visit BetterHelp.com/drleaf today to get 10% off your first month.

In this episode I interview Richard C Schwartz, the creator of Internal Family Systems (IFS). IFS is a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that de-pathologizes the multipart personality. We discuss:How he came to develop this system and how it is helping millions around the world How the mind is naturally multiple and that is a good thing.How IFS creates inner and outer connectedness by helping people first access their Self and, from that core, come to understand and heal their parts. How It is also a way of understanding personal and intimate relationships and stepping into life with the 8 Cs: confidence, calm, compassion, courage, creativity, clarity, curiosity, and connectedness.Learn more about IFS here: https://ifs-institute.com/Sponsors making this show possible:-Fatty15: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health! You can now get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DRLEAF and using code DRLEAF at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order! -IRESTORE: So treat yourself to some high-tech self-care with iRestore's Illumina face mask. For a limited time only, our listeners get 25% off their Illumina Face Mask when you use code DRLEAF25 at https://iRestorelaser.com

In this episode I explain the difference between a perception and a perspective, and how they can impact our mental wellbeing in different ways. I also discuss:How to shape your perception in a healing direction using your perspectiveHow unmanaged perception can negatively hurt your mind and bodyHow to use the Neurocycle method to create sustainable healthy perception patternsAnd more!To listen to the full episode AD-FREE get the Neurocycle app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/Sponsors making this show possible:-IHERB: For a limited time, my listeners get 22% off their first order when you use code DRLEAF at iherb.com/shop/DRLEAF. Existing customers receive 15% off. -BIOPTIMIZERS: For an exclusive offer for my listeners, go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout. And the great thing about BIOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee!

In this episode I chat with Neurocycle Facilitator Christie O'Brien about:Identifying the root of body image issues and eating disorders How to find sustainable heal thing using the Neurocycle method How to rewire your brain in 63 days To work with Christy visit: https://www.christieobrien.com/neurocycle.htmlGet the Neurocycle app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/Sponsors making this show possible:-Purity Woods: Honestly, I have never seen a skincare product of this quality at this reasonable of a price point. And thankfully, the good people at Purity Woods have a special coupon code specifically for my listeners, so you can try it for yourself for 27% off today. Just go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS or enter MENTALMESS at checkout.-IRESTORE: So treat yourself to some high-tech self-care with iRestore's Illumina face mask. For a limited time only, our listeners get 25% off their Illumina Face Mask when you use code DRLEAF25 at irestorelaser.com

In this episode I interview Certified Neurocycle Facilitator Lauren Carreras about:Identifying hidden issues in your marriage + how to begin healing these issuesHow to use the Neurocycle to heal yourself so you can heal relationshipsHow to organise the mental mess in your mind to make sense out of chaotic thoughtsTo work with Lauren visit: https://donewithstuck.com/neurocycleSponsors making this show possible:-iHerb: For a limited time, my listeners get 22% off their first order when you use code DRLEAF at https://www.iherb.com/shop/drleaf Existing customers receive 15% off.

In this exciting episode I interview lucid dreaming expert Charlie Morley on:What lucid dreaming is and how to use it to heal traumaWhat your dreams are telling youThe science of nightmares Using lucid dreaming to treat PTSDHow to direct nightmares to your benefit Using lucid dreams to heal grief Sponsors making this show possible:-BetterHelp: Become your own soulmate, whether you're looking for one or not. Visit BetterHelp.com/drleaf today to get 10% off your first month. -Purity Woods: The good people at Purity Woods have a special coupon code specifically for my listeners, so you can try it for yourself for 27% off today. Just go to https://puritywoods.com/mentalmess or enter MENTALMESS at checkout.

To watch the full episode ad-free download the Neurocycle app (and you will get access to hundreds of live webinars and a massive library of content!). Get the app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/In this episode I explain what glimmers are, and how these micro-moments can radically change your life and make you you happier. I also share how to embedded these glimmer moments in your brain so they become a healthy permanent part of you. Sponsors making this show possible:-BiOptimizers Mushroom Breakthrough – Your Secret Weapon for Peak Cognitive Performance: For an exclusive offer for my listeners, go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout. And the great thing about BIOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee!

To watch the full episode ad-free download the Neurocycle app (and you will get access to hundreds of live webinars and a massive library of content!). Get the app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/In this episode I share some helpful tips on how to actually rest and relax while taking time off on vacation, or even just on the weekends or after work! I made this episode with tips that have really helped me fully pause and rejuvenate. Sponsors making this show possible: Purity Woods: Purity Woods is currently offering 17% off sitewide but we have an additional 10% discount for our listeners for a total savings of 27%! Go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS or enter code MENTALMESS at checkout for an additional 10% off your first order. Begin your healing journey with Neurocycle, the app that helps you heal: https://www.neurocycle.app

In this episode I interview psychotherapist Israa Nasir about all things toxic productivity: the signs and how to heal from it. We also discuss: Productivity isn't about managing time, but rather how you manage your emotionsA radical reimagining of what productivity meansDynamics that keep us constantly busy, but never satisfied such as; self-worth, shame, social comparison, burnout, and perfectionismWays we can focus on “being” rather than “doing” to embrace a healthier and happier lifestyleRecognizing the emotional patterns that drive our toxic productivity habitsCultivating a healthier perspective on achievement to understand, manage, and shift our intense emotions Creating sustainable habits for reaching goals that are authentically meaningful to usGet her book here: https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Productivity-Reclaim-Emotional-Demands/dp/196230535XThis episode is sponsored by Zocdoc: stop putting off those doctors' appointments and go to Zocdoc.com/LEAF to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Begin your healing journey with Neurocycle, the app that helps you heal: https://www.neurocycle.app

In this episode I interview NYT bestselling author, memory coach, and good friend Jim Kwik on:How to identify limits in your life and remove themHow to cultivate sustainable motivation How to create healthy habitsHow to learn things fast And so much more!Begin your healing journey with Neurocycle, the app that helps you heal: https://www.neurocycle.app

In this episode I share some signs you are dealing with an energy vampire (someone who drains all your energy), and how to navigate these kinds of people in your life. Sponsors making this podcast possible:-Betterhelp: Become your own soulmate, whether you're looking for one or not. Visit BetterHelp.com/drleaf today to get 10% off your first month. -Ro: With Ro, the average weight loss is 15-20% in 1 year, with healthy lifestyle changes. BMI and other eligibility criteria apply. Just go to ro.co/drleaf to learn more. And, if you sign up today, you'll pay just $99 for your first month—and $145 a month after that. Medication costs are separate.

In this episode I interview Mario Hernandez, the founder of Knobl. Knobl is an incredible app, and one that I absolutely love. It's an app created to help amplify social engagement and impact, for companies and individuals. In this episode Mario and I discuss how community outreach and community involvement can help improve your mental health, how to get more involved, and how to reduce burnout and anxiety.Turn your business into a force for good at: https://www.knobl.one/get in touch with Mario Hernandez: mario@knobl.oneJoin a communityof changemakers at:https://philanthropy.network/Sponsors making this podcast possible:BiOptimizers Mushroom Breakthrough: For an exclusive offer for my listeners, go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use code DRLEAF10 during checkout. And the great thing about BIOptimizers is that you can try it risk-free with their 365-day money-back guarantee! Fatty15: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health! You can now get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DRLEAF and using code DRLEAF at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order!

In this episode I break down major misconceptions about habits and give you scientific strategies for building long-lasting ones. I debunk the myth of the 21 days and so much more! To listen to the full episode ad free, and to start building sustainable habits in your life download the Neurocycle app today: https://www.neurocycle.app/

In this interview I interview bestselling author and renown scientist Dawson Church on how gene expression is influenced by emotions, how to cultivate peak states so our brains rapidly rewire themselves for happiness, and how to use Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT acupressure tapping) to manage trauma, PTSD, and physical health struggles. Dawson also takes us through a helpful tapping exercise.

To watch the full episode ad-free (and hundreds of other webinars!), download the Neurocycle app here: https://www.neurocycle.app/In this episode I explain what boredom does in your brain, and how to harness it in the right direction so it increases your brain health and intelligence!

Download Neurocycle, the app that helps you heal and stay healed: https://www.neurocycle.app/In this episode I interview David Kessler, one of the world's foremost experts on grief and loss. We discuss the stages of grief, how anger can actually be a good thing while grieving, how to begin moving though grief, and so much more.His experience with thousands of people on the edge of life and death has taught him the secrets to living a happy and fulfilled life––even after life's tragedies. He's the author of six bestselling books, including Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief, while his first book, The Needs of The Dying, received praise from Mother Teresa. On October 1, he'll release the Finding Meaning Workbook, filled with self-reflective exercises, navigation techniques for complicated grief, and tools for guilt, rumination, and overwhelming feelings.

Download Neurocycle, the app that helps you heal and stay healed: https://www.neurocycle.app/In this episode I share some tips on how to cultivate kindness, keep the spark alive in relationships, and how to find the root of unkindness to prevent it harming your mental and physical health.

Download Neurocycle, the app that helps you heal and stay healed: https://www.neurocycle.app/Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and stuck in a cycle of low energy, anxiety, and fear? There is a powerful, often overlooked solution to these challenges: the hidden power within your heart.For centuries, ancient wisdom has recognized the heart as a power center, a gateway to our highest potential. Modern science now confirms that this “heart brain” significantly influences our physical and emotional well-being, as well as our perceptions and thoughts.In this episode I interview New York Times bestseller, and one of my dear friends, Kimberly Snyder about the secret to harnessing your heart's intelligence. Combining ancient wisdom with cutting-edge science on heart-brain communication, Kimberly offers transformative insights to help you deeply connect to your heart's power. This episode will lead you through five stages to awaken the vast intelligence and power of your heart.Get Kimberly's new book here: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/760283/the-hidden-power-of-the-five-hearts-by-kimberly-snyder/Thank you to our sponsors for making this episode possible:-BiOptimizers: Give Mushroom Breakthrough a try and feel the difference. Head to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 to get your Mushroom Breakthrough with 10% OFF. Your future self will thank you!

In this podcast I explain the dangers of glorifying working long hours, what it does to your brain and body, and how to correct + protect your health and peace. To listen to the FULL episode ad-free download the Neurocycle app! To get the app visit: https://www.neurocycle.app Article mentioned: https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/working-long-hours-health-effects Thank you to our sponsors for making this episode possible: -Purity Woods: Purity Woods is currently offering 17% off sitewide but we have an additional 10% discount for our listeners for a total savings of 27%! Go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS  or enter code MENTALMESS at checkout for an additional 10% off your first order.

In this podcast, I share how to spot a master manipulator, and how to manage these interactions to protect your peace and mental health .You can watch the full podcast AD-FREE on the Neurocycle app! To download the app just look for Neurocycle on the App Store or Google Play. Or visit: ⁠https://www.neurocycle.app⁠ Thank you to our sponsors for making this episode possible: -With Ro, the average weight loss is 15-20% in 1 year, with healthy lifestyle changes. BMI and other eligibility criteria apply. Just go to ro.co/drleaf to learn more. And, if you sign up today, you'll pay just $99 for your first month—and $145 a month after that. Medication costs are separate.

SHOW DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I discuss the difference between enabling and empowering someone. Simply put, enabling is doing something challenging for someone else, while empowering someone means helping and supporting them as they complete the challenging task. Think of those school projects you did as a child; enabling is your mom doing the whole project for you, while empowering is your mom helping you do your own school project. Thank you to our sponsors for making this episode possible: -ZOCDOC: Stop putting off those doctors' appointments and go to Zocdoc.com/LEAF to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. -PURITY WOODS: Purity Woods is currently offering 17% off sitewide but we have an additional 10% discount for our listeners for a total savings of 27%! Go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS  or enter code MENTALMESS at checkout for an additional 10% off your first order.

In this podcast, I talk about The Jordan Harbinger Show, which I have been listening to. Hope you enjoy it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.