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Title: Practicing the Way — The Practice of PrayerMain Text: Luke 11:1–4Big Idea: Prayer is the doorway to life with God—not just something we do, but a relationship we enter.Key Points:Prayer MisunderstoodFor many, prayer feels distant, boring, ineffective, or frustrating.It often becomes a last resort—like grabbing the steering wheel once we're already in the ditch.But Jesus shows us that prayer is the very entry point to life with God. It's not optional; it's vital.Jesus' ExampleLuke's Gospel shows Jesus frequently withdrawing to pray (Luke 5:16, 6:12, 9:28).The disciples watched His vibrant relationship with the Father and asked, “Lord, teach us to pray.”They didn't ask Him to teach them how to preach, lead, or heal. They wanted His prayer life—because they saw it was the foundation of His power.Four Things Jesus Teaches About Prayer (Luke 11:1–4)1. God Is Our Father (Abba)Jesus uses intimate, unheard-of language for God: Abba—a deeply personal, affectionate term.God is not a dictator or vending machine—He's a good Father.Some of us need to spend more time healing our image of God before we can freely talk to Him.The word “heaven” doesn't mean distant outer space—it can also mean the air, the atmosphere.God is as near as your next breath. His name, YHWH, even sounds like breathing: inhale Yah, exhale Weh.You are never praying into silence—God surrounds and sustains you.“Hallowed be Your name” means we approach God with awe and joy, not just a grocery list of needs.Tim Keller calls this “a wondrous sense of His beauty.”We often treat prayer like pain management—but it's actually about delight in His presence.“Your kingdom come… on earth as it is in heaven.”The Bible is filled with stories where prayer changes outcomes: Hannah's child, Elijah's rain, Hezekiah's extended life, Peter's release.Prayer doesn't just align us with God's will—it often invites God to act in ways He's waiting for us to ask.The Goal Isn't to Master Prayer—It's to Be Mastered by GodDon't strive to be a prayer expert. Strive to be present.Make it consistent, habitual, personal. Pick a time. Pick a place.Prayer isn't a spiritual luxury—it's spiritual oxygen.Final Challenge:Draw near to God—and He will draw near to you (James 4:8). Let prayer become as normal as brushing your teeth or breathing in air. It's not performance—it's presence.

Title: Practicing the Way — The Practice of CommunityMain Texts: Matthew 18:21–35; Acts 2:42–47Big Idea: In a culture fractured by tribalism and individualism, God calls us to unity, sacrifice, and forgiveness in a community centered on His Word.Key Points:We Were Not Created for AlonenessSolitude is healthy; isolation is not.From womb to adulthood, we were designed for connection, but our culture pushes hyper-independence and pride in self-reliance.True Christian formation happens with others.Why We Avoid CommunityMany avoid community because they've been hurt by it.But the very thing that hurt you is often the thing God will use to heal you.Forgiveness is not optional in God's family—it's foundational.Forgiveness Fuels CommunityMatthew 18:21–35: Jesus teaches that we are to forgive others just as we've been forgiven—radically, repeatedly, and from the heart.Forgiveness isn't fair, but neither was the cross.Without forgiveness, there's no true community. With it, there's restoration, depth, and witness.The Call to Countercultural CommunityActs 2:42–47 paints the picture of God's design:Devoted to Scripture, fellowship, meals, prayerGenerosity, gladness, consistency, aweA community like this draws others to Christ.Questions to Reflect On:Who hurt you? Forgive them.Who do you need to move toward? Don't wait.Who do you need to say, “I'm sorry” to? Start the healing.Final Challenge:If you want the fruit of community, you must practice the way of community—and that means walking in truth, love, and forgiveness.

Title: Practicing the Way — The Practice of ScriptureMain Texts: Romans 12:2; Matthew 7:24–29Big Idea: The practice of Scripture is our starting place. It's how we build a foundation strong enough to withstand life's storms.Key Points:Three Forces That Shape UsThe stories we believeThe habits we buildThe relationships we keepBut the stories we believe shape us most—and the enemy uses lies to distort them.The Castle of the Mind (Illustration)A warrior named Julian guards a castle built on truth. But lies sneak in through neglected cracks.Truth (Scripture) restores clarity and strength. We must renew our minds daily with the Book of Light.Formation Is Always HappeningWhether we realize it or not, we're always being formed—by culture, media, success, pain, etc.Romans 12:2 — Don't conform, be transformed by renewing your mind.Jesus as Rabbi: Truth-TellerA rabbi's job was to reveal truth, not just inform minds but capture hearts.Scripture isn't just information—it's formation.Truth vs. Cultural LiesPaganism: Many gods → The Lord is One (Mark 12:29)Moral relativism: Multiple truths → Jesus is the TruthSocial hierarchy: Exalt self → Serve and be humbledSelf-centeredness: You are not the center → Jesus must bePutting Truth into PracticeMatthew 7:24–29 — Don't just hear the Word—practice it.Storms don't create a foundation; they reveal it.Truth must become lifestyle: worship, obedience, sacrifice.Final Challenge:Start where you are. Let Scripture reshape the story you believe—then live it out.

Title: Practicing the WayMain Text: Luke 5:1-11Key Points:The Discipleship CrisisMany profess faith but do not practice the way of Jesus.Salvation is not just being saved from something—it's being saved to something: life with Jesus.The Call to FollowIn Jesus' day, being a rabbi's disciple was the highest honor—but Jesus didn't choose the elite.He called the backups—the ordinary, the overlooked—and said, "You're exactly who I want."Jesus initiates the call, not the other way around.Simon Peter's Encounter with JesusDespite logic and experience, Peter obeys Jesus' command to fish again—“because you say so.”Encountering Jesus confronts us with our sin, our smallness—and invites total surrender.The Cost and the InvitationPeter, James, and John left everything to follow Jesus.Following Jesus costs something, but the invitation is open to whoever is willing.The Kingdom of God is not for the qualified—it's for the willing.Be With Jesus. Become Like Jesus. Do As Jesus Did.Discipleship isn't passive; it's a relationship, a transformation, and a mission.Acts 4:13 reminds us that the world notices when ordinary people have been with Jesus.Final Challenge:Are you simply professing Jesus? Or are you truly practicing the way of Jesus?

Title: Jesus Is the Resurrection and the LifeMain Text: John 11:1-44Key Points:The Setup: Lazarus' Sickness and DeathJesus delays responding to Lazarus' sickness not out of neglect but to reveal God's glory (John 11:4, 15).Sometimes God's greatest miracles are hidden inside our waiting.Jesus Meets Us Where We AreMartha approaches Jesus intellectually (“I know he will rise at the last day”)—Jesus gives her truth.Mary approaches Jesus emotionally—Jesus responds with compassion (John 11:35, “Jesus wept”).Jesus isn't intimidated by your questions or crushed by your emotions—He meets you exactly where you are.The Resurrection Is Personal and PresentJesus doesn't just promise resurrection one day—He says, “I am the resurrection and the life.” (John 11:25)Eternal life doesn't start after death—it starts the moment you believe.The Miracle Beyond LazarusThe miracle wasn't simply that Lazarus lived longer—it's that Jesus displayed His power over death itself.Jesus isn't just offering more time—He offers eternity.Take Off the Grave ClothesLazarus comes out alive, but still bound (John 11:44).What "grave clothes" are still wrapping you up? Fear, shame, bitterness, sin?Jesus calls us to freedom—new life, new identity, new hope.You Are Now People of the ResurrectionRomans 6:4-5: We were buried with Him and raised to live a new life.2 Corinthians 5:17: The old is gone, the new has come.Final Challenge:Are you living like you've been raised with Christ? Or are you still wearing grave clothes that He's already told you to leave behind?

Title: Jesus Is the True VineMain Text: John 15:1-11Key Points:The Vine, the Vinedresser, and the BranchesJesus is the true vine, the Father is the gardener, and we are the branches.True believers bear fruit. Fruit doesn't lead to salvation—it proves salvation.There are two types of branches: those that bear fruit and are pruned, and those that bear no fruit and are cut off.Dead Branches: Divine JudgmentBranches that don't remain in Christ are thrown away, wither, and are burned (John 15:6).Dead branches drain life, invite disease, and block light and growth—for themselves and others.Judgment is not passive—it's just, and it reveals true spiritual condition.Fruitful Branches: Divine DisciplineGod prunes fruitful branches so they bear even more fruit.Pruning is painful, but it's an act of love that draws us deeper into dependence on Christ (Hebrews 12:6, 2 Corinthians 1:8-9).Spiritual growth often comes through trials.Abide in the VineRemain. Abide. Stay close. Jesus says, “Apart from me you can do nothing.”Remaining doesn't make you a disciple—it proves that you are one.If you were hurt in community, healing happens in community.Fruit = LoveJesus' command is clear: “Love one another as I have loved you.”His joy becomes our joy when we obey His commands and live a life marked by sacrifice and love.Final Question:Are you bearing fruit? What season are you in? The goal isn't to force fruit—it's to stay close to the vine.

Title: Jesus Is the Way, the Truth, and the LifeMain Text: John 14:1-7, 16-19, 25-27; Romans 8:15-16Key Points:Jesus Brings Comfort in the Face of FearOn the night before His crucifixion, Jesus comforts His disciples rather than seeking comfort Himself.“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.” (John 14:1)The remedy for a troubled heart? Faith.The Deep Longing for HomeJesus says He's preparing a place in His Father's house.Our souls crave belonging, safety, and unconditional love—and Jesus fulfills that longing.Jesus Is the Way to the Father“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6)Through Jesus, we not only gain knowledge of God but a personal connection with the Father.The Gift of the Holy SpiritJesus promises the Spirit will live in us—“The Holy Spirit inside you is better than Jesus beside you.”The Spirit brings peace, guidance, and reminds us of what Jesus taught (John 14:26-27).Adopted as God's ChildrenRomans 8:15–16 shows that we've been adopted, and we can cry out “Abba, Father.”The Spirit assures us that we belong—not based on performance, but on love and grace.Final Reflection:Are you living as if you're truly loved by the Father? Or are you still trying to earn what Jesus already secured for you?

Jesus Is The Good ShepherdMain Text: John 10:11-16, 19-21Key Points:Jesus Is the Good ShepherdHe lays down His life for the sheep, unlike a hired hand who abandons them (John 10:11-12).He knows His sheep personally, and they know His voice (John 10:14).His role was foretold in Ezekiel 34—God Himself promised to shepherd His people.Recognizing the Shepherd's VoiceTo hear and follow Jesus, we must spend time in God's Word.Distractions keep us from hearing God clearly.Without His voice, we are vulnerable to pitfalls:Wandering → Isolation and lost direction.Going in circles → Repeating the same struggles.Falling in ditches → Getting trapped in sin.Chasing greener pastures → Seeking fulfillment in the wrong places.We Are Called to Follow and ShepherdSubmission to Authority → We are to follow Jesus first and trust godly leaders.Being an Undershepherd → Parents, mentors, and believers care for others spiritually.Staying with the Flock → Isolation breeds deception; community brings clarity.Watching for Wolves → False teachers deceive and divide (Matthew 7:15).Final ChallengeAre you tired of wandering? Being deceived? Falling into the same traps?Let Jesus lead you—His rod and staff will comfort, protect, and guide you.

Title: Jesus Is the Gate of the SheepMain Text: John 10:1-10Key Points:Jesus as the GateJesus declares, “I am the gate for the sheep.” (John 10:7-9)Through Him, we find salvation, security, and provision—rest for our souls.He is the only way to God, emphasizing the exclusivity of the gospel.The Sheep Pen & Its MeaningA place of safety and rest at night before going back out in the morning.Only those who enter through Jesus experience true rest and belonging.Beware of Thieves & RobbersFalse teachers, false gospels, and spiritual deception seek to lead people astray (John 10:1, 8).Common false teachings:Salvation by works (earning God's favor)Self-help gospel (human effort over grace)Prosperity gospel (blessings over true faith)Political gospel (misplacing our hope in human systems)Churchless gospel (isolating faith from the body of Christ)The Call to HumilityEntering through the gate requires humility—recognizing our need for Jesus.Illustration: The Door of Humility at the Church of the Nativity in Bethlehem—small enough that visitors must bow to enter, symbolizing the humility required to follow Christ.Sheep vs. Goats (Matthew 25:33)Jesus calls people out of false systems and into the true fold—His Church.Philippians 2:1-11 reminds us that Christ humbled Himself for our salvation.Final Challenge: Will you choose humility, step through the gate, and follow Jesus?

Title: Jesus Is The Light of the WorldMain Text: John 8:12Key Points:Jesus Declares Himself as the Light of the WorldDuring the Feast of Tabernacles, Jesus claims, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12)This claim references God's presence as light, guiding His people.The Symbolism of Light vs. DarknessLight represents truth, God's presence, and guidance.Darkness symbolizes sin, ignorance, and separation from God.The Three Barriers That Blind Us to the LightArrogance – Trusting in intellect and self-sufficiency rather than surrendering to Jesus (John 5:39-40).Ignorance – Not understanding God's ways yet refusing to believe (John 8:21-24).Pain & Suffering – Tragedy can blind us to God's presence instead of drawing us to Him.God's Presence Leads Us Through Every SeasonJust as God led the Israelites through the wilderness with light, Jesus leads us through our struggles into His presence.“In Him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind.” (John 1:4)The Call to Follow the LightFollowing Jesus means walking in the light and leaving darkness behind.“Even as He spoke, many believed in Him.” (John 8:30)

Title: Jesus Is The Bread of LifeMain Text: John 6:1-69Key Points:Desperate People Are After JesusCrowds followed Jesus not for who He was, but for what He could do (John 6:1-2).The Miracle of the Loaves and FishJesus fed 5,000 people with a small meal, revealing His divine provision (John 6:14).Why Do We Follow Jesus?The crowd's pursuit was transactional, not relational (John 6:25-26).Jesus calls for a deeper faith—one that seeks Him, not just His miracles.Desperation & Divine AppointmentJesus declares, “I am the Bread of Life” (John 6:32-35).Many rejected Him because they were too familiar with His earthly background (John 6:41-42).Spiritual Problems Require Spiritual SolutionsPeople wanted physical bread, but Jesus pointed to their deeper spiritual hunger.Spiritual solutions: confession, repentance, surrender.The Danger of FamiliarityBeing too familiar with something (self-reliance, anger, past success) can hold us back.What once protected us may now be dangerous (white-water rafting life vest analogy).The Satisfied SoulA truly satisfied soul isn't consumed with the physical but is anchored in hope and purpose.Suffering reveals whether we are truly satisfied in Christ.Final Question: Are you pursuing the only One who can satisfy your soul?

Sermon Outline:Title: Transformation – Training for Lasting ChangeBig Idea: Transformation requires shifting from trying to training. The focus should be on what we are sowing, not just the desired outcome.Key Scriptures:1 Corinthians 9:24-27 (Running the race with purpose and discipline)1 Timothy 4:7-8 (Training in godliness)Galatians 6:7-9 (Reaping what we sow)Hosea 10:12-13 (Sowing righteousness for a future harvest)John 12:24-25 (Dying to self to bear fruit)Outline:Introduction:The importance of training vs. trying.Illustration: Championship athletes emphasize training over the outcome.Connection:We often put more effort into careers, hobbies, and sports than our faith journey.Surrendering to God's process is the key to real transformation.God's Perspective:The biblical principle of sowing and reaping (Galatians 6:7-9).Training ourselves in godliness holds eternal value (1 Timothy 4:7-8).Jesus' call to die to self in order to bear lasting fruit (John 12:24-25).Practical Application:Stop Trying, Start Training: Shift from striving to intentional growth.Get the Gear: Equip yourself with Scripture, prayer, and a faith community.Create a Game Plan: Commit to regular church attendance, daily spiritual disciplines, and sowing seeds of faith in daily life.Be Patient: Transformation takes time; don't judge success by immediate results but by consistent effort.Conclusion:Who do you want to be in 5, 10, 20 years? The choices you make today shape that future.Encouragement to commit to sowing the right seeds now for an eternal harvest.

Sermon Outline:Title: Transformation – Breaking Free from Sin's SnareBig Idea: Even after salvation, sin remains a snare. Recognizing and avoiding sin's traps is crucial to becoming who God intends us to be.Key Scriptures:Judges 13:24-25 (Samson's early blessings)Judges 15:20 (Samson's leadership)Judges 16:1 (Samson's downfall)James 1:21 (Accepting God's word to break free from sin)Hebrews 12:1 (Casting off sin to run the race of faith)Proverbs 4:14-15 (Avoiding paths leading to sin)Proverbs 13:20 (Influence of companionship)Outline:Introduction:No one intends to ruin their life; it's small daily choices that lead to drastic consequences.Connection:Sin subtly destroys; often we only recognize its impact after significant damage.God's Perspective:Samson's life shows how unchecked impulses and pride gradually lead away from God's plans (Judges 13-16).Identify and confront personal sin through humility and God's Word (James 1:21).Practical Application:Remove triggers (cues) that lead to sinful habits (Hebrews 12:1; Proverbs 4:14-15).Identify common triggers: Places, Times, Moods, Moments, People.Surround yourself with wise companions to cultivate wise habits (Proverbs 13:20).Conclusion:Immediate action against temptation today is more powerful than future resistance.Encouragement that transformation is possible, urging listeners to reclaim their identity in God and redirect their paths toward His purposes.

Summary of Brad & Emily's StoryBrad and Emily shared their journey of marriage, struggles, faith, and transformation. Brad grew up with a semi-Catholic background, while Emily was raised in a Baptist church. They met in Nashville, married within a year, and moved to Maryland, where they faced significant challenges.Early in their marriage, Brad struggled with alcoholism, which caused tension. Emily began noticing patterns of unhealthy drinking, leading to conflict and eventual intervention. A turning point came when Brad's parents became involved, and they sought counseling and community support. Brad entered recovery and has been sober for eight years. Emily also attended Al-Anon, which provided her with valuable coping tools.As their family grew, they faced postpartum depression, job dissatisfaction, and uncertainty. Emily found healing and joy in gardening, which later became a business—Cedar Hill Gardens. Brad eventually left his physical therapy job to join full-time. The business became not just work but a ministry, employing men in recovery and blessing others. Their faith deepened, and they adopted the motto, “Rivers, not reservoirs,” symbolizing generosity and allowing God's blessings to flow through them.Conversation with Meghan and DanielMeghan and Daniel facilitated a discussion about communication, leadership, faith, and accountability.Communication in Marriage: Brad and Emily acknowledged that learning to communicate effectively is a continual process. They emphasized stepping outside of their own perspectives and seeking outside counsel when needed.Brad's Spiritual Leadership: Brad reflected on how his faith and leadership evolved, especially through recognizing that his presence and spiritual state set the tone for their home. Emily affirmed seeing tangible changes in his responses and actions.Key Scriptures: Brad finds wisdom in Jesus' Sermon on the Mount, especially loving one's enemies. Emily related to parables about self-awareness and avoiding judgment.Accountability & Community: Brad spoke about the power of vulnerability and sharing struggles, emphasizing how community has been transformative in his recovery. Emily noted that true connection happens when people realize they're not alone.Faith in Business & Ministry: Cedar Hill Gardens became a means to bless others, offering clients joy, healing, and even employment for men in recovery.Encouragement to Others: Brad urged those struggling to “find the helpers,” while Emily emphasized allowing people to face consequences while still offering love.Meghan and Daniel concluded by highlighting church community groups, encouraging everyone to find connection, and reminding them that Jesus meets them where they are.

Transformation Week 3Description:In Week 3 of our TRANSFORMATION series, we tackle a foundational truth: Our behavior flows from our identity. What we believe about ourselves determines how we live. Are we living out of a distorted identity shaped by lies, or are we rooted in Christ? Through scriptures like John 8:44-45 and Ephesians 4:21-24, we uncover how to break destructive cycles and embrace the new self God has called us to be.Detailed Overview:Series: TRANSFORMATIONWeek: 3Big Idea: Our identity in Christ shapes our behavior. To experience transformation, we must align our beliefs about ourselves with God's truth.Key Scriptures:John 8:44-45: Exposes the enemy's lies that distort our identity.2 Corinthians 5:17: Declares that in Christ, we are new creations.Ephesians 4:21-24: Calls us to put off the old self and embrace the new self in righteousness.Philippians 4:12-13: Teaches contentment in all circumstances through Christ's strength.Romans 8:37: Affirms that we are more than conquerors through Christ.Sermon Highlights:Why Do We Do What We Do?Our habits are shaped by a deeper force—our identity.Three secondary reasons we act: obligation, desire, or validation.The DO flows from the WHO: What we believe about ourselves drives our choices.The Enemy's Lies vs. God's TruthThe devil wants us to believe we are our mistakes and failures.John 8:44-45: The enemy is a liar, and his goal is to distort our identity.2 Corinthians 5:17: In Christ, we are made new.Breaking the CycleA distorted identity leads to destructive habits, which reinforce the distorted identity.True transformation happens when our identity is rooted in Christ, leading to Christ-like actions.How Jesus Modeled Identity-Driven LivingWhen hungry, He relied on God's Word. (Matthew 4:4)When angry, He acted with righteous purpose and grace.When lonely, He sought intimacy with the Father.When tired, He rested and prioritized solitude.Living from Identity, Not for ItEphesians 4:21-24: Calls us to put off the old self and be renewed in Christ.Philippians 4:12-13: Teaches that our worth isn't found in circumstances but in Christ.Romans 8:37: We are victorious, not victims.Application: 21-Day Prayer ChallengePray daily for God to renew your mind and identity in Him.Reject lies and replace them with God's truth.Live from the identity God has given you, not the one the world imposes.Takeaway: Transformation isn't just about changing habits—it's about changing how we see ourselves. Root your identity in Christ, and your life will reflect His truth.Write something...

Series: TRANSFORMATIONWeek: 2Big Idea: To experience true transformation, we must identify and address the root causes of our behaviors.Key Scriptures:2 Corinthians 3:18: Highlights the continuous process of being transformed into Christ's image as we reflect His glory.John 8:34-36: Emphasizes freedom from the slavery of sin through the Son.Mark 1:35 & Luke 5:15-16: Demonstrate Jesus' practice of solitude for connection with the Father.James 5:16: The power of confession for healing within community.Psalm 139:23-24: A heartfelt prayer for God to search and reveal areas needing change.Psalm 119:11: The importance of hiding God's word in our hearts to resist sin.Sermon Highlights:Introduction: Many believers stop at salvation without experiencing deep transformation, continuing old patterns and habits. True transformation is a journey of moving from glory to glory by contemplating the Lord's presence.The Power of Habits:Over 40% of our behavior is habitual.Carl Jung: "Until you make the unconscious, conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate."Frederick Mathias Alexander: "People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits and their habits decide their future."Breaking the Cycle: Addictions and destructive habits stem from disconnection. Jesus offers true freedom (John 8:34-36). The opposite of addiction isn't just sobriety—it's connection.Connecting with God:Solitude: Jesus modeled the importance of withdrawing to pray (Mark 1:35; Luke 5:15-16). Solitude connects us to God, while distractions lead to loneliness.Community: Jesus maintained close friendships, illustrating the value of deep connections. Community fosters accountability and growth.The Role of Confession: Confession isn't about shame but healing (James 5:16). Being real before God leads to genuine transformation.Reflection and Application:Conduct a personal inventory: What habits control you? What are you reaching for to fill voids?Psalm 139:23-24 serves as a prayer of surrender, inviting God to reveal hidden struggles.Anchor yourself in Scripture (Psalm 119:11) to combat sin.Takeaway: Transformation is not just about behavior modification; it's about heart transformation through connection with God and community. Identify your habits, confess, and lean into God's transformative power. 

Podcast Episode Notes: Desperate for Change | 2 Corinthians 3:18 | Nathan HughesTransformation Series – Week 1Big Idea:God doesn't call us to behavior modification; He calls us to spiritual transformation. True change happens not through our efforts alone but by the power of the Holy Spirit working within us.Key Scriptures:2 Corinthians 3:18 (NIV): "And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit."Romans 7:15, 19, 24-25 (NLT): Paul's struggle with doing what is right but failing to do so, concluding that Jesus Christ is the answer to freedom.2 Corinthians 5:17 (NLT): "Anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!"1 Corinthians 15:9-10 (NLT): Paul acknowledges that his transformation is all due to God's grace working through him.Zechariah 4:6 (NIV): “‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,' says the Lord Almighty.”2 Corinthians 12:9 (NLT): "My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness."De

Introduction: Our Need for ConnectionHumans are wired for connection—it's how we thrive.Illustration: Harlow monkey study – Demonstrates that emotional comfort is more crucial than physical needs.We naturally transition through stages of dependence:Completely dependent → Somewhat dependent → Highly independent → Interdependent → DependentConnecting with others is often the hardest, especially as we get older.Key Point: Conflict is not a sign of dysfunction; it's an opportunity for growth in compassion, empathy, and understanding.Understanding Conflict Through ScriptureLuke 17:1-5 (NIV):Jesus said to his disciples: “Things that cause people to stumble are bound to come, but woe to anyone through whom they come.It would be better for them to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around their neck than to cause one of these little ones to stumble.So watch yourselves. If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them.Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,' you must forgive them.”The apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith!”Key Takeaways from Luke 17:Expect Offense: Conflict and offenses will happen—it's a part of life.Avoid Living in Offense: Don't dwell on it or let resentment build.Rebuke and Forgive: We are called to address issues and extend forgiveness.Faith is Required: The disciples' response shows that forgiveness requires a heart transformed by faith.Dealing with Offense and ConflictGreek Insight – "Skandalon":The word “offense” (Greek: Skandalon) refers to a trap or stumbling block.In the Bible, skandalon can be positive (offense of the gospel) or negative (causing others to stumble).Ways People Cause Offense:False counselLeading others into deliberate sinGossip, slander, and false accusationsApplication from Luke 17:3:“Watch yourselves” – Take responsibility for your actions and responses.Address conflict with grace and truth, offering opportunities for repentance and healing.Forgiveness as a Spiritual DisciplineLuke 17:4-5:Jesus calls us to forgive repeatedly, even when offenses happen multiple times a day.The apostles ask for greater faith, recognizing the challenge of radical forgiveness.Ephesians 4:32 (NIV):"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."Key Point: Unforgiveness is more damaging to us than to those who hurt us. It keeps us in spiritual darkness and hinders our growth.Practical Steps to Becoming UnoffendableLuke 17:6 (NIV):“He replied, ‘If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, “Be uprooted and planted in the sea,” and it will obey you.'”Steps to Overcoming Offense:Expect Offense: Don't be surprised when conflict arises.Address Offense: Speak truth in love rather than resorting to silence or violence.Forgive Often: Practice ongoing forgiveness as an act of obedience and faith.Choose Interdependence: Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect and grace.Take Small Steps: Even the smallest act of forgiveness can create lasting transformation.1 John 2:9-11 (NIV):9. Anyone who claims to be in the light but hates a brother or sister is still in the darkness.10. Anyone who loves their brother and sister lives in the light, and there is nothing in them to make them stumble.11. But anyone who hates a brother or sister is in the darkness and walks around in the darkness. They do not know where they are going because the darkness has blinded them.Challenge: What small action can you take today to live in the light and embrace forgiveness?

Episode Notes: The Hardest Person to ForgiveOverviewIn Week 2 of the "Purpose" series, we dive into the challenge of self-forgiveness and the transformative power of embracing your story. Every individual is uniquely crafted by God, and your experiences—no matter how difficult—can reveal His glory. This episode invites listeners to do the deep work of connecting with their personal journey, understanding their God-given purpose, and extending forgiveness, starting with themselves.Key Scripture ReferencesPsalm 139:13-14 – "You are fearfully and wonderfully made."Exodus 4:10-12 – God equips us despite our perceived weaknesses.Proverbs 20:5 – Insight draws out the deep purposes of the heart.Romans 12:3-8 – Embrace and steward your unique gifts for the body of Christ.Ephesians 4:32 – Be kind, compassionate, and forgiving as God forgave you.Major PointsEmbrace Your UniquenessGod has made you uniquely with a purpose. Even identical twins are radically different.Your story is unlike anyone else's and has the potential to glorify God when embraced fully.The Power of Self-AcceptanceSelf-forgiveness is often the hardest step, but it's essential for showing compassion to others.Reflecting on our past helps us better understand God and His purpose for us.Don't Disqualify YourselfLike Moses, we often feel unqualified, but God uses our weaknesses for His strength.God calls us to embrace, not hide, our story to bring life to others.Forgiveness as a Path to FreedomTrue forgiveness begins with releasing the burdens we carry about ourselves.Extending grace to others flows from experiencing God's grace for us.ApplicationThis week, take time to reflect on your personal story. Identify areas where self-forgiveness is needed and bring them to God in prayer.Practice showing kindness and compassion to others, remembering that forgiveness is rooted in the forgiveness Christ offers us.Closing ThoughtDon't let self-doubt or past mistakes rob you of your God-given purpose. As John 3:30 reminds us, “He must increase; I must decrease.” Let God's glory shine through your unique story.

Episode OverviewThis week, we kick off our series, PURPOSE, by diving into one of life's biggest questions: Why am I here? In this sermon, we explore how we were created to connect with a very real and personal God, and how that connection begins by repenting and believing in Jesus Christ. Drawing from Acts 17, we examine the spiritual hunger of humanity and the incomparable fulfillment found in Jesus.Key Scripture ReferencesActs 17:22-23 – Paul addresses the Athenians' religious practices and introduces the "Unknown God."Acts 17:24-28 – God is revealed as Creator and sustainer, inviting us into relationship with Him.Acts 17:29-30 – A call to repentance and turning away from idols.Acts 17:11-12 – The Bereans' noble character in studying God's Word leads to belief.Major PointsHumanity's Search for MeaningAcross philosophical, scientific, and spiritual realms, people seek purpose.We all tether ourselves to something, whether tangible (careers, relationships) or intangible (belief systems, idols).The Unknown GodPaul observed the Athenians' worship and challenged them to know the true God.Modern parallels: idols of materialism, technology, and personal gratification.The God Who Made UsGod, the Creator of all, desires relationship with us."In Him we live and move and have our being" (Acts 17:28).Repentance and FaithTrue purpose begins with repentance and belief in Jesus Christ.Jesus embodies unconditional love and fulfills our deepest desires for connection.The Berean ExampleOur greatest connection to God is through His Word.A life built on Scripture leads to purpose and fulfillment.Reflection QuestionsWhat "unknown gods" have you allowed to take priority in your life?How does knowing you were created for connection with God change your perspective on purpose?What steps can you take to build a foundation on God's Word this week?Practical ApplicationSpend time daily in Scripture, asking God to reveal Himself to you.Identify one area of your life where you need to repent and invite Jesus in.Reflect on Acts 17:27—how can you "reach out for Him and find Him" this week?ClosingAction Step: Embrace your purpose by connecting with Jesus personally.Call to Action: Join us next week as we continue the PURPOSE series, exploring how to connect with your story.

The Advent Of, Joy, Week 3. In this Week 3 message of Christmas at Vertical, we explore how the good news of the gospel interrupts our lives with great joy and transforms us into bearers of that joy to the world. Using Luke 2:8-20, we uncover powerful lessons from the shepherds – their faithfulness, humility, and willingness to be interrupted by God's divine plan. Discover how joy isn't just a momentary interruption but a consistent theme we can live out every day. Be encouraged to embrace the joy of the gospel and share it with those around you this Christmas season.

The Advent Of, Week 2. Christmas is a time of celebration. We celebrate the coming of the savior into the world. This arrival brings about the reality of peace, hope, joy, and love like we have never seen before. The reason we need those things is because Christmas is not just a time of celebration but it is also a reminder of the pain we experience right now. We look back to the arrival of our God into the lives of humanity and we look forward to the advent of our God as we navigate the pain, brokenness, and sin of our world. This Christmas we will behold the King, receive Him, and share in the gifts that he brings.

Make It Home Campaign Vision. As we close 2024 and look to 2025 and beyond, we are trusting God with a vision we are calling ‘Make It Home.' This $600,000 initiative involves finishing the year strong by making budget for 2024, building our financial reserves, and laying a foundation for a second building.

The Advent Of, Week 1. Christmas is a time of celebration. We celebrate the coming of the savior into the world. This arrival brings about the reality of peace, hope, joy, and love like we have never seen before. The reason we need those things is because Christmas is not just a time of celebration but it is also a reminder of the pain we experience right now. We look back to the arrival of our God into the lives of humanity and we look forward to the advent of our God as we navigate the pain, brokenness, and sin of our world. This Christmas we will behold the King, receive Him, and share in the gifts that he brings.

The Lost Art of Hospitality, Week 6. When we look at the OT we see that Hospitality has always been foundational when it comes to the character of God and the command he gives to his people. Israel is likened to a guest over and over again with God being the ultimate host. And don't we see this in the creation account as well? God being the ultimate host that he is, literally creates a world for his most prized creation, humanity, to inhabit and enjoy. It's who He is.

The Lost Art of Hospitality, Week 5. When we look at the OT we see that Hospitality has always been foundational when it comes to the character of God and the command he gives to his people. Israel is likened to a guest over and over again with God being the ultimate host. And don't we see this in the creation account as well? God being the ultimate host that he is, literally creates a world for his most prized creation, humanity, to inhabit and enjoy. It's who He is.

The Lost Art of Hospitality, Week 3. When we look at the OT we see that Hospitality has always been foundational when it comes to the character of God and the command he gives to his people. Israel is likened to a guest over and over again with God being the ultimate host. And don't we see this in the creation account as well? God being the ultimate host that he is, literally creates a world for his most prized creation, humanity, to inhabit and enjoy. It's who He is.

The Lost Art of Hospitality, Week 2.

The Lost Art of Hospitality, Week 1.

Identity: A Series in Ephesians, Week 6.

Identity: A Series in Ephesians, Week 5.

Identity: A Series in Ephesians, Week 4.

Identity: A Series in Ephesians, Week 3.

Identity: A Series in Ephesians, Week 2.

Identity: A Series in Ephesians, Week 1.

Abraham: A Series on Faith Week 5. When we put our faith in action, we see God in motion.

Abraham: A Series on Faith Week 2. When we put our faith in action, we see God in motion.

Abraham: A Series on Faith Week 1. You are never too old and it is never too late to be used by God.

Wisdom of Proverbs Week 6. Even though God is in ultimate control of the world and future, we still are held accountable and have a responsibility in the present.