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We're back this month for the second half of our conversation with Pattie Gallant, a bereaved mother who shares her story of losing her son Evan to cancer, and the journey she is now on 9 years later—leaning into his legacy—to find peace. We encourage you to revisit Episode #46: Anticipatory Grief, where Pattie shares her experience preparing for Evan's passing, and the lessons she learned from him about dying, and living. Referenced in this episode:Gosnell Memorial Hospice House is an inpatient facility for end of life care in Scarborough, Maine. David Kessler is a world-renowned expert on death and dying. He has published many books, including Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Grief he co-wrote with psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross.What did you think? Share your feedback in a text message.Holding the Light is an original, monthly podcast created and hosted by Monica and Colby Charette, edited and produced by Monica Charette, with support from Julia Vigue and Sophia Speeckaert. EMAIL US (shineoncass@gmail.com) with questions, comments, or a request to join us as a guest. We also welcome you to visit us at ShineOnCass (www.shineoncass.org) where our family continues to Shine the Light of Cassidy.Our podcast's theme music is As Long As You Love (Scarlet Wings) written and sung by Cindy Bullens, from the album Somewhere Between Heaven and Earth produced by Blue Lobster Records (1999). Available on CD or download at www.cidnybullens.com. Mention Holding the Light Podcast and receive a signed copy!Love what you heard? leave us a review on Apple Podcastsshare our podcast with others
WHO THIS EPISODE HELPS: Anyone navigating parental loss, caregiver grief, anticipatory grief, dementia, cancer, young adult grief, motherhood after loss, guilt after death, or major life transitions while grieving.WHAT LISTENERS WILL GET: Practical insight into surviving the loss of both parents before 30, navigating grief while raising a young child, coping with caregiver responsibilities, managing grief triggers, and learning why community and support matter during bereavement.DESCRIPTION:Nick Gaylord welcomes returning guest Annie LaBeth for a deeply honest conversation about what happened after her first appearance on the podcast. After previously sharing the story of losing her father, Annie returns to discuss the devastating loss of her mother following a rapid decline involving throat cancer, strokes and dementia. Together, they explore caregiver grief, anticipatory grief, medical advocacy, guilt, trauma, and the emotional collision of becoming a mother while losing her own mom. Annie shares the realities of handling end-of-life decisions, selling her childhood home, navigating healthcare systems and raising a daughter without parental support. The conversation also examines grief triggers, resentment, healing, therapy and the complicated emotions that follow major loss. Through humor, vulnerability and hard-earned wisdom, Annie offers hope to anyone facing parental loss, family caregiving responsibilities or grief during major life transitions. This episode is a powerful reminder that grief changes us, but we do not have to carry it alone.This episode answers: What is it like to lose both parents before age 30? How do you cope with becoming a parent after losing your own parents? How do you handle guilt after making end-of-life decisions for a parent? What are the biggest grief triggers after losing a mother or father? How can caregivers advocate for loved ones with dementia and cancer? Key Takeaways: Grief often evolves when multiple losses occur during major life transitions. Caregiver guilt is common, even when you did everything possible. Building a strong support system is essential during grief and caregiving. Parenthood can create a deeper understanding of your own parents and their sacrifices. Healing does not mean moving on. It means learning how to carry loss differently.As discussed in the interview, listen to "First Time On Earth" by Alex Warren on Apple Music, Spotify or wherever you get your music.Support the showGIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.griefisnotadirtyword.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/griefisnotadirtyword Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefisnotadirtyword TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@griefisnotadirtywordYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nick-gaylord/
Grief and grieving aren't really the same thing. The stages of grief happened before death—through fear, anticipation, exhaustion, denial, and watching life change in real time. What came after wasn't stages. It was grieving.In this week's episode, Adrienne and Campbell talk about anticipatory grief, surviving the aftermath of loss, and the messy, nonlinear reality of learning to live after someone dies.Send us Fan MailFor those who have reached out asking how to support Adrienne and her family during this time, click here to donate. There is absolutely no expectation—just sincere gratitude.We Didn't Plan For This Special SeriesThis series exists because so many of you reached out and said, “I didn't plan for this either.”If you've gone through a diagnosis, a loss, a life change, a career shift, a divorce, becoming a caregiver, moving, starting over — we want to hear your story.You don't have to have it figured out. You just have to be willing to share honestly.How Yoga Changed My Life a PodcastSend Us Your Stories!If you have a story about how yoga, meditation, breath work, journaling, or movement changed your life, we want to hear from you! These podcasts are really about the same thing — how people move through the seasons of life they didn't plan for, and what helps them along the way.If you'd like to be on the show or share your story: Fill out our guest form or email us at yogachanged@gmail.com Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@yogachanged...
Ask Rachel anythingParenting tweens and teens is challenging enough, but when someone in the family becomes seriously ill or dies, it can feel overwhelmingly difficult. In all honesty, we Westerners are terrible at talking about death, often avoiding it, so when it comes to talking with teenagers about the subject most of us don't feel equipped.Many who have suffered a loss, or are suffering a serious illness will tell you that friends often fall away just at the time when they are most valued, because they're embarrassed or uncomfortable about the situation.In this episode we draw on research, personal experience - and some incredible listener feedback - to discuss how to deal with a serious illness or death when you're raising a teen. We pass on some amazing tips that have made all the difference, and also some awful 'what not to do's'.The episode is dedicated to the wonderful mum, Sophie Baker and her loving husband and boys, who did an amazing job in very difficult circumstances.BOOKS:When Breath Becomes Air by Paul KalanithiThe Bright Hour by Nina RiggsYou Can Stop Humming Now by Daniela LamasBeing Mortal by Atul GawandeSmoke gets in your Eyes by Caitlin DoughtyThe Choice by Edith Eger Support for kids and young people who are bereaved:https://winstonswish.org/https://hospiceofnorthidaho.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Supporting-a-Teen-When-Someone-is-Seriously-Ill.pdfhttps://www.hospiscare.co.uk/how-we-help/advice-support/children-and-young-people/how-to-talk-about-death-with-children-and-teenagers/https://thegoodgriefproject.co.uk/https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/how-to-talk-about-deathhttps://whatsyourgrief.com/helping-a-teenager-deal-with-grief-2/https://elunanetwork.org/resources/talking-to-teens-and-children-about-illness-and-deathhttps://www.strong4life.com/en/emotional-wellness/emotional-expression/talking-to-kids-and-teens-about-deathhttps://www.todaysparent.com/family/talking-about-death-with-kiSupport the showPlease hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. There's no shame in reaching out for support. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits.My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com My website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me:www.teenagersuntangled.comFind me on Substack: https://teenagersuntangled.substack.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/You can reach Susie at www.amindful-life.co.uk
Send us Fan MailThis is the first of a two-part episode. Check out part 2: 189 What a Death Doula Knows About Grief That Most of Us Don't (2/2) | Sierra CampbellWhat does someone who has spent more than three decades sitting with the dying actually know about grief, and what can that teach the rest of us about living?Today's guest is an elder caregiver, end-of-life doula, and founder of a leading end-of-life education platform. She began working in care at sixteen, opened her own home care services by twenty-one, and has since supported hundreds of people through the final chapter of their lives. As a two-time cancer survivor, she brings both professional expertise and lived experience to one of the most avoided conversations of our time.Chapters00:00 Welcome03:10 Sierra's life story07:10 What facing death taught me08:49 The effect of unresolved generational trauma10:09 Presence in being with the dying15:52 When the support we get is not the support we need24:11 Grief of not being able to be a mother28:18 What do people grieve most at the end of their life31:05 Families who are not prepared for a loved one's death34:17 Anticipatory grief34:48 Being prepared for someone dying40:51 Being present when people dieWhether you are grieving a loss, supporting someone who is, or simply carrying an unspoken awareness that you are not prepared for what lies ahead, this conversation offers grounding, clarity, and practical perspective.About our guestAn experienced elder caregiver and end-of-life doula, Sierra Campbell is the founder of Choose Nurture. With more than three decades of experience in the field, Sierra is a leading voice in end-of-life reform. She combines her professional background with her personal journey as a cancer survivor to educate and support ageing adults and their loved ones.choosenurture.com IG: choosenurtureTED talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-sLENQbRSlsResources mentionedBook - Stephen Levine: One Year to LiveIf this episode was useful to you, please take a moment to leave a five-star review. It helps this podcast reach the people who need it most.Support the show
Send us Fan MailThis is the second of a two-part episode. Check out part 1: 188 What a Death Doula Knows About Grief That Most of Us Don't (1/2) | Sierra CampbellWhat does someone who has spent more than three decades sitting with the dying actually know about grief, and what can that teach the rest of us about living?Today's guest is an elder caregiver, end-of-life doula, and founder of a leading end-of-life education platform. She began working in care at sixteen, opened her own home care services by twenty-one, and has since supported hundreds of people through the final chapter of their lives. As a two-time cancer survivor, she brings both professional expertise and lived experience to one of the most avoided conversations of our time.In this episode, we coverWhat the dying most commonly grieve about their lives, What unprepared families carry long after a loved one is gone, What accumulates in the body of a caregiver who witnesses death repeatedly, and Why talking about death is, in her words, talking about life.Chapters00:00 Welcome00:49Second part episode02:49 Death is a great teacher03:44 Letting go or continuous bonds?08:44 Your wishes for your death012:51 How not to fix, save or heal017:48 Medical-assisted death05:32 Secondary gains in grief0Teaching Death Doulas - What surprises them the most?Whether you are grieving a loss, supporting someone who is, or simply carrying an unspoken awareness that you are not prepared for what lies ahead, this conversation offers grounding, clarity, and practical perspective.About our guestAn experienced elder caregiver and end-of-life doula, Sierra Campbell is the founder of Choose Nurture. With more than three decades of experience in the field, Sierra is a leading voice in end-of-life reform. She combines her professional background with her personal journey as a cancer survivor to educate and support ageing adults and their loved ones.choosenurture.com IG: choosenurtureTED talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-sLENQbRSlsIf this episode was useful to you, please take a moment to leave a five-star review. It helps thSupport the show
There is no handbook for grieving the loss of a child. We learn to grieve exactly where we are. Words of wisdom from Pattie, a bereaved Mom whose son Evan died from cancer at age 21. Pattie shares her anticipatory grief as she prepared for her child's passing; the complicated guilt of wanting the suffering to end; and the nine year journey of caring for her son, while still parenting a young child. There was so much to share that we produced a two-part episode. Part 2 of our conversation with Pattie airs June 11. What did you think? Share your feedback in a text message.Holding the Light is an original, monthly podcast created and hosted by Monica and Colby Charette, edited and produced by Monica Charette, with support from Julia Vigue and Sophia Speeckaert. EMAIL US (shineoncass@gmail.com) with questions, comments, or a request to join us as a guest. We also welcome you to visit us at ShineOnCass (www.shineoncass.org) where our family continues to Shine the Light of Cassidy.Our podcast's theme music is As Long As You Love (Scarlet Wings) written and sung by Cindy Bullens, from the album Somewhere Between Heaven and Earth produced by Blue Lobster Records (1999). Available on CD or download at www.cidnybullens.com. Mention Holding the Light Podcast and receive a signed copy!We want to hear from YOU. Leave us a voicemail! If there is something you've learned in your grief journey that might be helpful for others, we invite you to leave us a message. We will listen to every one. Some might even be used in a future episode. You can also let us know what you think of our podcast, suggest a topic, or request to be a guest. The number to call and leave us a voicemail is: 617-302-7373. We can't wait to hear from you!Love what you heard? le...
Send us Fan MailThis episode is different. Instead of sitting across from a guest, I am the one in the chair.In this solo episode, I share my own personal timeline of grief, loss, and trauma — and trace how each experience shaped the ones that came after it. From what I learned about grief growing up, through infertility, miscarriage, the death of my daughter A'Mya three days after she was born, the suicide of my mother four and a half months later, a significant trauma in my adult life, separation, and single parenthood — this is the story behind the work.My intention is not to centre myself. It is to model what I ask of every guest: that your personal story is not separate from how you grieve. It is the lens through which you grieve. Understanding that lens changes everything.If you are carrying multiple losses, if your grief feels more complicated than you think it should, or if you support someone whose grief seems out of proportion to the immediate loss, this episode is for you.Free resources mentioned in this episode are available at nathaliehimmelrich.com/free-resources-hub, including the Beginner's Guide to Dealing with Grief and Trauma.Rate this podcast five stars if it helps you feel less alone. It takes thirty seconds and helps more grieving and traumatised people find this show when they need it most.Support the show
Estranged parents carry a grief that doesn't fit any of the containers we have for it. It's not the grief of death. It doesn't come with rituals or recognition. And much of the world around them doesn't know how to hold it or quietly questions whether they have a right to it at all.In this episode of The Estranged Heart podcast, Kreed names a specific and often unspoken layer of that grief: the grief for the potential. Not the relationship you had with your adult child - the one you always believed was coming. The closeness that was supposed to develop. The grandmother you expected to become. The years ahead that had your child fully in them.In This EpisodeWhy estrangement grief doesn't fit our existing containers for loss and why that makes it harder to move throughWhat "grieving the potential" means for estranged parents: the specific futures that were lost, not just the relationship that exists nowThe particular grief of estranged mothers - including the grandmother grief that is often the most acute and least witnessedAnticipatory grief in the estranged parent experience: what it means to live in sustained, unresolved loss when reconciliation is still theoretically possibleThe grief of not being chosen - one of the most tender and least-named layers of the estranged parent experienceHow the "they'll come back eventually" narrative can become a way of skipping grief rather than sustaining hope - and why that mattersPractical guidance for how to actually grieve the potential, including why specific grief moves where vague grief stays stuckChapters00:00 Introduction to Estrangement Grief06:36 Understanding Potential Grief12:10 Anticipatory Grief and Its Impact14:35 What This Grief Is Not17:11 The Grief of Not Being Chosen21:39 Navigating Grief and Hope23:53 Practical Steps to Grieve Potential26:14 Finding Wholeness Beyond GriefResources & SupportFacebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroupOne-on-One ServicesPrivate coachingConsultingMediation servicesConnect with Kreed:Website: theestrangedheart.comEmail: hello@theestrangedheart.comSupport the work: Buy Me a Coffee (donation platform)Disclaimer: Kreed Revere is not a licensed therapist. Nothing in this podcast should be considered or taken as therapy. If you need therapeutic support, please seek out a therapist near you.
Ali Damron explores the complex experience of anticipatory grief, sharing personal insights and practical advice for coping with the emotional journey before a loss occurs. This episode offers valuable understanding for anyone facing impending loss, whether due to health issues, life transitions, or other significant changes. key topics Definition and misconceptions of grief The stages and signs of anticipatory grief Personal story of caring for a loved one with cancer The importance of feeling and validating emotions Strategies for coping and seeking support takeaways Grief begins before the actual loss, often with diagnosis or health changes. Anticipatory grief involves complex emotions like fear, sadness, and anxiety. Feeling all emotions is normal; grief is not only tears but also anxiety, numbness, and fatigue. Strength and avoidance of emotions can be costly; leaning into pain can help process grief faster. Support from others and witnessing your experience are crucial for healing. sound bites "Feelings are meant to be felt, not avoided." "Find someone who can witness your pain." "You're not alone in this journey." Chapters 00:00 Understanding Anticipatory Grief 02:53 The Complexity of Grief 06:02 Navigating Emotional Exhaustion 08:46 The Importance of Feeling 11:42 Finding Support in Grief 14:55 The Journey of Healing resources David Kessler - Grief Expert - https://www.grief.com/ Hospice Bereavement Support - https://www.hospice.org/support The Five Stages of Grief - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross - https://www.amazon.com/Five-Stages-Grief-Death-Denial/dp/0716730680 Ali's Resources: Consults with Ali BIOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough 10% off using code ALIDAMRON10 www.alidamron.com/magnesium Master Your Perimenopause Course + Toolkit "Am I in Perimenopause?" Checklist. What Hormone is Imbalanced? Quiz! Fullscript (Get 10% off all supplements) "How To Balance Your Hormones For Better Sleep, Mood, Periods and Energy" Free, On Demand Training Website Ali's Instagram Ali's Facebook Group: Holistic Health with Ali Damron
At some point in life, most people experience grief, whether after losing a loved one or at the end of an important relationship. We tend to associate mourning with death. But sometimes grief begins before a person has died. This experience is often referred to as anticipatory or ambiguous loss, a form of grief felt when someone is still physically present but psychologically or cognitively changed. But what exactly does that mean? So what impact can ambiguous loss have on the people going through it? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the latest episodes, click here: What is the Fermi paradox? What's the Tinder Paradox ? Could vanlife be a lifestyle choice for you? A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Amber Minogue. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of The Broken Pack: Stories of Sibling Loss, Dr. Dean talks with Earla Legault, a surviving sibling, grief advocate, and co-author of Living with Sibling Grief: Imagining a Way Forward. Earla lost her younger sister, Leigh-Ann, to pancreatic cancer after serving as her caregiver for three months at home. This episode explores what sibling loss looks like when you're also the caregiver, how a surviving sibling navigates the grief no one talks about, and how Earla found her way forward through writing, drawing, and a grief buddy.Earla and Dr. Dean also discuss why sibling grief is so often unspoken, what it means to lose the person who was the glue in your family, the difference between acknowledging a death and accepting it, and how continuing bonds show up in birds, pink skies, and grief dreams. Earla shares how she and co-author Monica Murphy went from strangers on Facebook to grief buddies to published authors, and why she believes finding your nature is more useful than any coping mechanism. In this episode you will:Hear Earla's story of sibling loss, their long goodbye, and what she calls the learning times of caregiving. Learn why sibling grief goes unspoken and how family dynamics shift when the glue is gone. Be inspired by how a surviving sibling found a grief buddy, co-wrote a book, and built a community around saying their names.Connect with Earla Legault:Instagram: @sibling.grief.budsBook: Living with Sibling Grief: Imagining a Way Forward Grief Matters: https://griefmatters.ca/blog/drawing-through-the-grief-of-an-adult-siblingSend us Fan MailSupport the showIf you would like more information or to share your own sibling loss story, please contact Dr. Angela Dean at contact@thebrokenpack.com or go to our website, thebrokenpack.com. Please like, subscribe, and share! Please follow us on social media:Facebook: @BrokenPackInstagram: @thebrokenpack TikTok: @the_broken_packYouTube: @thebrokenpackSign-up for Wild Grief, our newsletter: https://thebrokenpack.substack.com/ Thank you!Angela M. Dean, PsyD, FT, GTMRCredits:The Broken Pack: Stories of Sibling Loss is produced by Not Done Here Media"If Tomorrow Starts Without Me" © ℗ 2023, 2024, 2025, 2026 Performed by Fuji Sounds (feat. Joe Mylward) Written by Joe Mylward and Brian Dean Licensed for use to The Broken PackNow available on all streaming platforms including Apple Music & Spotify: ...
In this episode of How to Deal When the Sht Gets Real*, I sit down with Lisa Zawrotny to talk about what it means to be both a caregiver and a sandwich caregiver — supporting loved ones while also trying to maintain your own life.Lisa shares her experience caring for her mother after an Alzheimer's diagnosis and the emotional weight that comes with anticipatory grief — the kind of grief that begins long before loss.We also talk about burnout, the unrealistic expectations of hustle culture, and why constantly pushing yourself is not sustainable — especially when you're already carrying so much.In this episode, we discuss:• What it means to be a sandwich caregiver• Caring for a parent with Alzheimer's• Understanding anticipatory grief• Recognizing and recovering from burnout• Why hustle culture can be harmful• Creating space for rest and capacityThis conversation is about giving yourself permission to slow down, honor your limits, and navigate caregiving with compassion — for others and for yourself.
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Can you love someone deeply… and still feel relief when they die? It's one of the most misunderstood emotions in grief — and almost no one talks about it out loud.In this episode of Female Voices: Life & Loss, hosts Teresa Reiniger, grief specialist, and Wayna Berry explore the complicated emotional landscape of anticipatory grief — the grief that begins long before a loved one actually dies.From watching a parent decline with Alzheimer's, to caring for someone through years of illness, to the emotional toll caregivers carry silently, this conversation sheds light on why grief often begins months or even years before loss occurs.Teresa and Wayna also unpack something many grieving people experience but feel ashamed to admit: relief when the suffering finally ends.If you've ever wondered whether it's normal to feel peace, exhaustion, sadness, and even guilt at the same time after losing someone, this episode offers compassionate clarity. Grief is rarely simple.And sometimes the most healing thing we can hear is this:Nothing about your grief makes you a bad person.Memorable Quotes“Anticipatory grief happens before someone dies… you're grieving someone who is still alive.” — Teresa Reiniger“You're still showing up, still loving, still caring… but inside you're already mourning that person.” — Wayna Berry“The relief is not a lack of love. It simply means the suffering has ended.”— Teresa Reiniger“People expect grief to look like uninterrupted devastation… but grief is layered.” — Wayna Berry“Two emotions can exist at the same time.” — Wayna Berry“Grief isn't something you get over. It's something you learn to carry differently.” — Teresa ReinigerTopics Discussed • What anticipatory grief is and why it often begins long before a loved one dies• The emotional and physical toll caregiving can take on families• Why caregivers often live in a constant state of high alert and chronic stress• The complicated emotion of relief after loss and why it's biologically normal• How grief can contain contradictory emotions at the same time• Personal stories of loss involving parents, cousins, and childrenKey Takeaways• Anticipatory grief is real. Many people begin grieving long before a loved one dies.• Feeling relief after someone passes away does not mean you loved them less. Often itreflects the end of suffering or emotional strain.• Caregivers often carry a silent emotional burden that others may not see.• Grief is not one emotion — it's layered, complex, and sometimes contradictory.• It is emotionally healthy to hold multiple feelings at once: sadness, peace, love, exhaustion, and relief.Listener Reflection QuestionsIf this episode resonated with you, consider reflecting on these questions:• Have you ever experienced anticipatory grief?• Did you feel relief after a loved one passed away — and struggle with guilt afterward?• What would it look like to give yourself more compassion in your grief?
When Someone You Love Is Dying: Anticipatory Grief with Jill McMahon In this episode, you'll hear: The four stages of anticipatory grief and how they differ from conventional grief How to navigate the emotions of loss before it happens, from acceptance and reflection to rehearsal and imagining life without your loved one Practical advice for mending relationships and preparing for inevitable goodbyes Mathew Blades welcomes grief specialist Jill McMahon to explore the often-overlooked experience of anticipatory grief, the emotional process that begins before a loved one passes away. Drawing from personal stories and professional wisdom, Jill outlines key stages in this unique grieving process and highlights the importance of honest self-reflection, open communication, and preparing for life's transitions. Together, they challenge listeners to “air check” their own relationships and find ways to reduce regret by making peace now, offering hope, comfort, and actionable insights for anyone facing loss. To get in touch with our podcast, email INFO@Learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com Visit our Guests: Mathew Blades - MathewBlades.com Dr. Anna Marie Frank - https://drannamarie.com Cortney McDermott - https://www.cortneymcdermott.com Dr. Dave - https://www.drdaveaz.com/ Jill McMahon - Jillmcmahoncounseling.com To grab a copy of our 6-Week Wellness course, which is video-led, visit https://a.co/d/0ihE1vaw If you want to use Streamyard to create a podcast like this, use this link: https://streamyard.com/pal/c/4656111098003456
Isaac Lara (he/him) is a youth well-being activist, lived experience researcher, peer support advocate and he is an Unapologetically Black Unicorn. Isaac shares how pets, especially his beloved Yorkie Kiseki, can become lifelines during trauma, depression and recovery. They talk about anticipatory grief, the anxiety of loving a pet whose life span is shorter than our own, and how naming grief can help you begin to cope with it. “You're Still Alive, so why am I Already Grieving? by Ernesto Isaac Lara : https://www.calameo.com/criscoladesign/read/004070067e80bd2461ef2?authid=cKD2xkljsfeR The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is now: 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Contact the show: UBU@UnapologeticallyBlackUnicorns.info Transcripts are available on Apple Podcasts.
TERRAINE LEBEAU — LINKS & CONTACT INFOPODCAST & MAIN SITE • Behind the Shades Podcast: https://behindtheshades.com/HOST PAGE / GUEST PROFILE • Terraine LeBeau on BTS: https://behindtheshades.com/terraine-lebeau/SOCIAL MEDIA • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terrainelebeau/ • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@terrainelebeau/ • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/terrainelebeau/EMAIL • Main contact: terraine@behindtheshades.comWHO THIS EPISODE HELPS: Men navigating grief, identity loss, anticipatory grief, or unresolved emotional pain who feel pressure to stay strong and silent.WHAT LISTENERS WILL GET: An honest conversation about reframing grief, emotional vulnerability, masculine identity, legacy, and how to move forward without abandoning who you are.DESCRIPTION:In this powerful episode of Grief Is Not A Dirty Word, Nick Gaylord sits down with Terraine LeBeau, host of Behind the Shades, to explore grief beyond death. Terraine shares the profound loss of his grandmother, Iris Reed, the woman who raised him, and how her passing reshaped his identity. Together, Nick and Terraine unpack anticipatory grief, identity loss, and the emotional isolation many men experience in silence. They challenge the myth of “strong like bull” masculinity and examine why men often internalize grief instead of expressing it. The conversation moves through rage, vulnerability, legacy, and the cultural training that teaches men to fix rather than feel. Terraine also shares how his personal grief collided with his professional tools as a coach and podcaster. This episode is an invitation to stop thinking your way through grief and start feeling your way forward.This episode answers:Why do men struggle to express grief and emotional pain?What is identity loss in grief and how does it affect men?How does anticipatory grief impact mental health?Why doesn't “staying strong” actually help with grief?How can men reframe grief instead of suppressing it?Key Takeaways:Grief is not limited to death; identity loss and unrealized futures create profound emotional pain.Suppressed grief often shows up as anger, isolation, addiction, or aggression.Men are culturally trained to fix problems instead of feel emotions, which complicates healing.Vulnerability is not weakness; it is emotional courage.Legacy building and intentional community can transform grief into purpose.GIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.griefisnotadirtyword.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/griefisnotadirtyword Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefisnotadirtyword TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@griefisnotadirtywordYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nick-gaylord/
Today, I speak with pediatrician and author Tasha Faruqui, mother to a daughter in hospice. We navigate the raw landscape of anticipatory grief, the fusion of doctor and parent identities, and the profound spiritual awakenings that arise when parenting a child who is dying. Tasha's story is a testament to finding joy amid immense sorrow and listening to the extraordinary spiritual insights of a child standing between worlds. 00:00 Introducing a Journey of Heartbreak and Spirit 02:58 Parenting a Child with a Rare Genetic Condition 05:03 The Dual Role of Physician and Mother 13:50 Navigating Palliative Care and Hospice 19:45 Living in the Space of Anticipatory Grief 23:27 Carrying Joy and Grief Simultaneously 30:52 A Family's Evolving Spiritual Beliefs 36:39 Discovering Soul Contracts and Life Purpose 44:12 Spiritual Insights from Akashic Readings 49:28 Soraya's Connection to Spirit and Angels 56:54 The Sacredness of a Child's Spiritual Gifts 59:56 How to Connect and Find Support LEARN MORE ABOUT TASHA· Book: Keep Your Head Up· Instagram: @thefaruqui5· Website: TashaFaruqui.com JOIN MY COMMUNITY In The Space Between membership, you'll get access to LIVE quarterly Ask Amy Anything meetings (not offered anywhere else!), discounts on courses, special giveaways, and a place to connect with Amy and other like-minded people. You'll also get exclusive access to other behind-the-scenes goodness when you join! Click here to find out more --> https://shorturl.at/vVrwR Stay Connected: - Instagram - https://tinyurl.com/ysvafdwc- Facebook - https://tinyurl.com/yc3z48v9- YouTube - https://tinyurl.com/ywdsc9vt- Website - https://tinyurl.com/ydj949kt Life, Death & the Space Between Dr. Amy RobbinsExploring life, death, consciousness and what it all means. Put your preconceived notions aside as we explore life, death, consciousness and what it all means on Life, Death & the Space Between.**Brought to you by:Dr. Amy Robbins | Host, Executive ProducerPodcastize.net | Audio & Video Production | Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
CONTACT JACOB:Personal website: https://www.jacobevanskendall.com/Business website: https://4Daging.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacobevanskendall/WHO THIS EPISODE HELPS: People navigating grief, caregiving, chronic illness, and anticipatory grief after the loss of a parentWHAT LISTENERS WILL GET: An honest, grounded conversation about grief, caregiving burnout, mortality, and finding meaning after lossDESCRIPTION:Nick Gaylord sits down with Jacob Kendall, a grief-informed advocate, health educator, and caregiver whose life has been shaped by chronic illness, anticipatory grief, and the sudden loss of his father. Jacob shares the deeply personal story of caregiving after his father suffered a stroke and heart attack shortly after Jacob's wedding, and what it meant to lose him only months later. Together, Nick and Jacob explore how grief changes shape over time, why caregiving can be emotionally and physically exhausting, and how anticipatory grief complicates both loss and love. Jacob also opens up about living with a mechanical heart valve, confronting his own mortality, and managing anxiety born from repeated medical trauma. This conversation weaves together grief, health advocacy, and the importance of not carrying illness or loss alone. It is an honest reflection on grief, resilience, and how suffering can inform meaningful work without defining a life.THIS EPISODE ANSWERS:What does anticipatory grief feel like when illness changes everything?How does caregiving impact grief after a parent dies?Why doesn't grief ever fully go away after losing a parent?How do chronic illness and mortality anxiety shape daily life?What helps caregivers avoid burnout while navigating grief?KEY TAKEAWAYS:Grief does not shrink, but people learn how to live alongside itCaregiving can deepen grief and exhaustion if done aloneAnticipatory grief creates complex emotions before loss occursChronic illness often brings hidden anxiety tied to mortalityTalking openly about grief and illness builds connection and healingGIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.ourdeaddads.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ourdeaddadspod Twitter / X: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
One of my best friends is battling cancer, the kind where you make sure your paperwork is in order. Watching from the sidelines feels like trying to put out a house fire by spitting. That sneaky bastard perfectionism keeps whispering "I can control outcomes", but really it's just hypervigilance I've known since I was a little girl wearing grown-up clothes. Remember that our worth stays fixed even when feelings lie and scream you're worthless. The critical voice wakes up whenever we're depleted like an old dysfunctional friend. As HSPs, we can build a wise part that holds us through waves of grief and says there's nothing to fight right now, just breathe. Surrender means accepting some questions have no answers and showing up imperfectly is okay and honest. WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 : https://EmotionalBadass.com/coaching 30 DAYS TO PEACE: https://EmotionalBadass.com/peacePATREON: https://Patreon.com/emotionalbadass NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE : https://EmotionalBadass.com/morning Services, Products & Content: WEEKLY NEWSLETTER: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/newsletter PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK: https://getpatternscapes.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you've ever wondered what truly helps someone in grief, episode 402 of Grief and Happiness is for you. Mindset coach and certified grief educator Kathleen Quinn shares how losing her husband during COVID reshaped her view of grief as something we live with, not move past. Through moments like freezing in a grocery store parking lot and the power of saying a loved one's name, she shows why presence matters more than words.In This Episode, You Will Learn:(00:55) How loss led Kathleen Quinn to grief education(03:46) Why grief doesn't end—and how we live with it(04:40) Why saying the person's name matters(06:50) Questions that help grievers feel seen(08:57) Losing a spouse during COVID and anticipatory grief(12:10) Finding purpose after profound loss(15:07) Why listening matters more than fixing(17:50) The arc of grief: anticipatory to mature(19:30) Why capable people freeze in early grief(22:16) How journaling supports healing over timeKathleen Quinn is a mindset coach, grief educator, and speaker based in Madison, Wisconsin. With more than 30 years of experience in university leadership and development, she brings deep listening skills and a grounded, compassionate approach to her work. After losing her husband during the height of the COVID pandemic, Kathleen became a certified grief educator through training with renowned grief expert David Kessler, integrating grief literacy into her coaching practice. Today, she helps individuals navigate loss, life transitions, boundaries, and self-worth with clarity, presence, and humanity.In Episode 402, Kathleen offers a thoughtful and deeply human perspective on grief, shaped by both personal loss and professional experience. She reframes grief as something we learn to live with rather than “move on” from, emphasizing the importance of presence, listening, and naming those who have died. Kathleen introduces key ideas such as grief literacy, secondary losses, and the natural arc of grief—from anticipatory grief to a stage where love outweighs pain. Through practical examples, she shows how small, intentional acts of listening and asking better questions can help grieving people feel truly seen and supported, reminding listeners that compassion often matters more than words.Connect with Kathleen Quinn:WebsiteLinkedInLet's Connect: WebsiteLinkedInFacebookInstagramTwitterPinterestThe Grief and Happiness AllianceBook: Emily Thiroux Threatt - Loving and Living Your Way Through Grief Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In Episode 100, Jamie and Matt reflect on a year that fundamentally reshaped how Matt experiences healthcare—as both a patient and a caregiver. Matt shares an update on his active surveillance prostate cancer journey, including lifestyle changes, monitoring, and learning to live with uncertainty.The conversation expands beyond Matt's diagnosis to include the realities of caregiving: navigating a father's dementia and hospice journey, processing anticipatory grief and loss, supporting a teenage daughter through surgery, and helping a mother recover after a stroke. Matt speaks candidly about caregiver burnout, moments of emotional paralysis, and the importance of asking for help.Together, Jamie and Matt explore how grief lingers, how recovery often proves harder than the crisis itself, and why healthcare must focus on what happens after discharge. Episode 100 closes with a powerful reminder: it's okay not to be okay—but it's not okay to face it alone.
Have you reached the point where you're now fully responsible for your loved one's care and safety? Do you find yourself guiding others or managing all aspects of their daily needs? You've entered what we call "later on"—the final stage of the caregiving journey, and while some aspects may feel more manageable, new challenges and emotions emerge that require specific attention and planning. This final phase completes our comprehensive 20-step roadmap for dementia caregiving, covering the essential steps when you've moved beyond the messy middle into full caregiving responsibility. Connect with us and share your tips: Website: https://thecaregiversjourney.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecaregiversjourney/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecaregiversjourneys/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suearmstrongryan/, https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancytreaster/ Email: sue@thecaregiversjourney.org, nancy@thecaregiversjourney.org Guide: Navigating Dementia Caregiving Roadmap https://thecaregiversjourney.org/guides/ Donate: https://give.cornerstone.cc/thecaregiversjourney Full show notes Additional Resources Mentioned Later On - You are now managing all aspects of their care 18. Plan for their End of Life Service: You may have done this with your loved one just after their diagnosis. If not, do this without them now:26 minute TCJ podcast: 30. End of Life Service PreplanningTCJ blog: 30. End of Life Service PreplanningLeverage this End of Life Planning Worksheet. 19. Call in hospice. If you are not working with palliative care or a US Medicare GUIDE program organization (both of these are able to tell you when it's time to call in hospice)Find a hospice organization. Get a doctor's referral. Schedule an initial evaluation. It's almost never too early to get the initial evaluation, so don't wait.Search ‘hospice' + ‘your country' - or in the US - ‘your state'. Scroll down until you get below the sponsored links where it says ‘Places':Click on ‘More places' to get a list with a map. Notice rating stars and those located around your area.Schedule an initial consultation with two so you can compare.Educate yourself on when to call in hospice:26 minute TCJ podcast: 29. When To Call In HospiceTCJ blog: 29. When To Call In Hospice. 20. Continue your self-care. Learn about Anticipatory Grief. Read this AARP article:How To Manage Mourning a Loss Before It Happens.Honor your grief, be compassionate with yourself, reach out for support:Each of us navigates the loss of our loved one in our own time and way.It's reasonable when your caregiving journey ends you may feel any or all of:A sense of relief because your journey has ended and your loved one is no longer suffering, Guilty at the same time because you feel relieved.A loss of your own identity, from prioritizing your loved one for so long.Not sure what to do next.If you feel lost, reach out to your family, support group, faith community, friends, professionals. Most importantly - reach out! Support the nonprofit The Caregiver's Journey: https://give.cornerstone.cc/thecaregiversjourney Takeaways The Three Stages of the Dementia Caregiving Journey 1. In the Beginning - Your loved one receives a diagnosis. 2. The Messy Middle - You begin asserting control; this is when it gets messy!3. Later On - You are managing all aspects of their care.
PURCHASE AJ'S BOOK AT:https://keepthosefeetmoving.com/WHO THIS EPISODE HELPS: Listeners navigating widower grief, spousal loss, anticipatory grief, and the long-term emotional impact of traumatic loss.WHAT LISTENERS WILL GET: Honest insight into grief resilience, parenting after loss, acceptance, healing, and how to move forward without forgetting.DESCRIPTION:In this deeply moving episode of Grief Is Not A Dirty Word, host Nick Gaylord sits down with author and widower AJ Coleman to explore grief, loss, resilience, and rebuilding life after the death of a spouse. AJ shares the powerful love story he shared with his wife Corey, her battle with aggressive brain cancer, and the profound grief that followed her death just sixteen months after their daughter was born. Together, Nick and AJ discuss widower grief, anticipatory grief, parenting through loss, and the emotional complexity of raising a child while grieving a partner. AJ opens up about caregiving, acceptance, identity after loss, and how grief reshapes—but does not define—who we become. He also shares the philosophy behind his book Keep Those Feet Moving, an eight-step guide to coping with grief and thriving against all odds. This conversation is a powerful reminder that grief is not a dirty word—and that healing is possible, even after unimaginable loss.This episode answers:How do you cope with grief after losing a spouse to cancer?What does widower grief look like while raising a young child alone?How can grief become a catalyst for resilience and personal growth?How do you honor a loved one's legacy while continuing to live fully?What helps people move from “why did this happen” to “where do I go now”?Key Takeaways:Grief is an experience you carry, not an identity that defines youAcceptance is a critical step in long-term healing after lossParenting through grief requires honesty, connection, and resiliencePurpose and meaning can emerge from profound personal tragedyMoving forward does not mean leaving love or memory behind GIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.ourdeaddads.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ourdeaddadspod Twitter / X: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
There comes a moment when you realize your parent is no longer the one holding everything together. You are.In this deeply personal episode of From Mrs. to Ms., Andrea opens up about navigating one of the most emotional role reversals many of us will face. Caring for an aging parent. As her mother's health declines, Andrea shares what it really feels like to move from daughter to caretaker, including the quiet grief, guilt, love, and overwhelm that often go unspoken.This conversation explores the emotional reality of care-giving for elderly parents, especially during the holidays when family dynamics, memories, and expectations can feel heavier than ever. Andrea is joined by her friend Amy Watts for an honest, compassionate discussion about anticipatory grief, setting boundaries without guilt, and learning how to care for a parent without losing yourself in the process.If you are supporting an aging parent, navigating family responsibilities in midlife, or struggling with complicated emotions during the holiday season, this episode will remind you that you are not alone and that what you are feeling is valid.Andrea also shares why this episode marks the final episode of the season and how she is taking time to reflect and thoughtfully revamp From Mrs. to Ms. before returning in the new year with renewed intention.In this episode, we discussWhat it feels like when the roles reverse between parent and childThe quiet grief of caring for an aging parent while they are still aliveHow anticipatory grief shows up emotionally and physicallyNavigating guilt, boundaries, and expectations as a caretakerWhy the holidays can be especially hard when caring for elderly parentsHow to choose presence over perfection during this seasonWhat this stage of life teaches us about love, loss, and letting goIf this episode resonates, please share it with someone who may need it, leave a review, or send Andrea a message to continue the conversation.Timestamps:00:00- Navigating the Shift in Parent-Child Roles02:57- Anticipatory Grief and Emotional Complexity06:05- The Impact of Aging on Family Dynamics09:03- Finding Connection Amidst Change12:02- The Reality of Care-giving14:54- Understanding Anticipatory Grief17:53- The Challenge of Boundaries and Guilt20:57- Communicating and Delegating Responsibilities27:29- Navigating Family Dynamics During Illness30:14- Guilt and Expectations in Caregiving32:34- The Importance of Self-Care and Mental Health34:14- Supportive Relationships in Times of Crisis37:15- Adapting Traditions and Celebrations40:53- The Reality of Grief and Love43:40- Finding Joy Amidst Sorrow46:03- Embracing Imperfection in Care-givingLooking for Andrea?Instagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: Andrea@FromMrs2Ms.comYouTube: @FromMrs2Ms Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this empowering episode of Mindset Mastery Moments, Dr. Alisa Whyte sits down with Laverne McKinnon, an executive coach, storyteller, and advocate for women navigating professional transition. Together, they explore the complexities women face in corporate culture — from leadership disparities to the emotional landscape of career change — and uncover what it truly means to redefine success on your own terms.Laverne shares her deep insights on the gender gap in leadership and introduces the concept of anticipatory grief, a powerful framework for understanding the emotional weight of identity shifts during career transitions. She and Dr. Alisa emphasize the importance of conducting a values audit to gain clarity on personal priorities, especially in environments shaped by capitalist structures that often conflict with women's deeper values.Their conversation highlights the necessity of strong support systems, strategic career development, and permission to evolve. Laverne's approach encourages women to question outdated definitions of success, embrace authenticity, and build careers aligned with purpose, fulfillment, and well-being.This episode is a must-listen for women navigating change, seeking clarity, or redefining what success means in today's demanding world. It offers wisdom, grounded strategy, and emotional insight for anyone on the path of professional reinvention.
Episode 61 - Heather LocklearWHO THIS EPISODE HELPS Anyone navigating grief, trauma, sudden loss, suicide loss, or unresolved emotional pain. WHAT LISTENERS WILL GET Tools, language, and emotional clarity to better understand grief, support others, and process layered loss. DESCRIPTION: In this powerful conversation, Nick sits down with Heather Locklear to unpack the deep emotional impact of family trauma, sudden loss, and lifelong grief. Heather reflects on learning about suicide at a young age, and how early exposure to death shaped her identity and emotional patterns. She discusses the heartbreaking losses within her family, the grief of watching her daughter struggle, and the complicated terrain of animal loss and anticipatory grief. Together, Nick and Heather explore the generational weight of unspoken pain, the need for grief education, and the reality of healing when multiple losses collide. The episode also examines how sleep, avoidance, and self-protection can become coping mechanisms. Through honesty, humor, and vulnerability, Heather reveals how she continues to grow, forgive, and reconnect after decades of grief. Listeners will walk away with a deeper understanding of how grief shapes families—and how healing remains possible at any age. This episode answers: What does grief look like when someone grows up around suicide, trauma, and unresolved family pain?How do you support a child or adult who is overwhelmed by grief or panic after sudden loss?Why does pet loss trigger such intense grief, and how can people better respond to it?What are the long-term effects of learning about death or suicide too young?How can someone rebuild emotional strength after years of layered grief and family trauma?Key Takeaways: Early exposure to suicide and death can create lifelong emotional patterns around grief and fear.Supporting someone in deep distress requires calm language, presence, and nonjudgment.Pet loss carries real grief weight and deserves validation, compassion, and proper emotional space.Generational trauma impacts how families communicate, cope, and emotionally self-protect.Healing expands when people speak openly about loss instead of hiding or minimizing it. GIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.ourdeaddads.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ourdeaddadspod Twitter / X: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
We talk about the type of grief we feel like people don't understand: Anticipatory Grief. Losing someone bit by bit, and always waiting for the next change, the next disappointment - and the 'end'...Let us know what you think when you listen. xx-r+mYou can now watch us on YOUTUBE! Special thanks to Psilera for supporting our work at RM!Want to support the podcast + get more content? Join us on Patreon! You get exclusive content + a space to share and connect with others. www.patreon.com/remembermecommunity If you're curious about anything RM, we'd love to connect with you on Instagram, and visit our website at www.remembermeftd.com, all the latest updates! ------Remember Me Podcast + Community is here to offer hope + human connection for families, caregivers, and individuals impacted by Frontotemporal Dementia (FTD). Always, always accept the good.
Danielle cared for Lexi for 7 years as she battled a brain tumor they knew she would die from. Balancing taking care of someone she loves with also grieving them and having her life spent going from appointment to appointment was a lot - and that's an understatement. She is now learning what to do in the “after” as in after a person dies. Key Takeaways: [2:41] Knowing something was wrong with Lexi and finding cancer [8:01] Finding out she would die and we didn't know when [12:12] Spending so much time in the reality of death and not knowing what to do after [15:03] Lexi's mom is living a new life [18:03] Starting a blog for Lexi to keep everyone updated on her condition [23:10] Wanting people to remember those who have died [28:21] How Lexi's family managed to navigate this journey together [31:05] Struggling in the early days of grief [36:08] Grieving something you never had and going to a medium [41:03] Let chronically ill people be their own person [42:04] Let people help you in life Connect with Barb: Website Facebook Instagram Be a guest on the podcast YouTube The Molly B Foundation
Send us an inquiry through a text message here!Welcome to another episode of The Veterinary Roundtable! In this episode, the ladies discover that Dr. King doesn't know what the Illuminati is, they discuss a "rags-to-riches" tale from the trench, the New World Screwworm making waves, the standard for leaving pets in a car, advice for anticipatory grief, and more!Do you have a question, story, or inquiry for The Veterinary Roundtable? Send us a text from the link above, ask us on any social media platform, or email theveterinaryroundtable@gmail.com!Episodes of The Veterinary Roundtable are on all podcast services along with video form on YouTube!TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro08:07 Pits and Peaks18:50 Inside The Shutdown of the Vets22:00 New World Screwworm FDA Drug Approval25:41 Tales from the Trenches28:59 Case Collections42:13 Something People Should Know About Being A Vet Tech or Veterinarian46:37 Standards For Dogs in a Car50:11 Advice For Dream Job... with Problems57:05 Advice For Anticipatory Grief01:05:58 Outro
In this emotional and eye-opening episode of The Surviving Siblings Podcast®, host Maya Roffler welcomes Lori to share the heartfelt journey of losing her sister, Gina, to breast cancer. What begins as a candid reflection on sibling dynamics soon unfolds into an honest, powerful testimony of anticipatory grief, advocacy, and resilience. Lori opens up about growing up as the “quintessential middle child” in a close-knit family, the evolution of her relationship with Gina from sibling rivalry to deep sisterhood, and how their bond strengthened through the challenges of Gina's cancer diagnosis at age 37. As a nurse, Lori offers a unique lens, balancing her clinical instincts with emotional turmoil as she watched her sister fight a devastating disease. The episode dives deep into themes like anticipatory grief, family caregiving, shifting family roles, the emotional toll of being both a sibling and a medical professional, and the moment Lori truly stepped into the role of Gina's advocate, making the most difficult decisions no sibling ever wants to face. Ultimately, Lori reflects on how Gina's legacy shaped the mother, nurse, and person she is today and offers compassionate advice for anyone walking the painful road of sibling loss to cancer. In This Episode: (0:00:00) – Meet Lori and Her Sister Gina Maya welcomes Lori, who reflects on her childhood with her older sister Gina, their sibling rivalry, and how they grew closer as adults. (0:03:00) – The Diagnosis That Changed Everything Lori, a nurse, recounts the moment Gina called her about a lump — and how the diagnosis of triple-negative breast cancer at age 37 turned their world upside down. (0:06:00) – Treatment, Hope, and Medical Realities Lori explains Gina's treatment journey, the challenges of triple-negative breast cancer, and the emotional toll of watching her sister become a patient. (0:13:00) – From Sister to Advocate Lori describes how she transitioned from “just” a nurse and sister to becoming Gina's full-fledged medical advocate, particularly as treatment options ran out. (0:18:00) – Anticipatory Grief and Bargaining with the Universe She shares her internal struggles — including moments of bargaining and wishing she could trade places — and the power of naming those feelings. (0:25:00) – A Pivotal Night, a Fish Tank, and a Shift Lori recounts the night she lost hope — and how it became the turning point that moved her from fear to fierce protection of Gina's dignity. (0:29:00) – Final Days, Hard Decisions, and Saying Goodbye An intense and brave retelling of the days leading to Gina's passing, including making a DNR decision, choosing comfort care, and honoring Gina's wishes. (0:33:00) – Cremation, Closure, and a Closed Casket Lori shares the emotional moments surrounding Gina's service and the deeply personal decision to protect her sister's dignity, even in death. (0:37:00) – Grieving While Working in Healthcare She opens up about returning to work days after the funeral, navigating poor grief support at her job, and the need for better bereavement understanding. (0:41:00) – Time Doesn't Heal — It Helps You Adjust Lori reflects on how grief evolves — why time doesn't heal but does allow you to adapt — and how her family honors Gina in small, beautiful ways. (0:44:00) – Keeping Gina's Memory Alive for Her Children She talks about raising Gina's daughters with love and intention, helping them understand who their mother was, and showing up as a steady presence. (0:48:00) – Legacy, Compassion, and Becoming a Better Human Lori shares how Gina's life and death transformed her — making her a better nurse, mom, and human being with deeper empathy and compassion for others. (0:53:00) – Advice for Surviving Siblings and Caregivers She offers powerful advice for those experiencing anticipatory grief or recent loss: “Show yourself grace. Do what's best for you in the moment.” Listen to the full episode of “Lori Loses Gina To Breast Cancer” now on all major platforms. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings® Connect with Lori: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1E4oRefW19/?mibextid=wwXIfr Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@mad.face.girl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mad.face.girl Email: forevergina@myyahoo.com Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/survivingsiblingspodcast/ Maya's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mayaroffler/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@survivingsiblingspodcast Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: thesurvivingsiblings.com Facebook Group: The Surviving Siblings Podcast YouTube: The Surviving Siblings Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheSurvivingSiblingsPodcast
Nancy M. Gordon, LCSW, is a grief expert, licensed therapist, consultant, #1 international best-selling author, speaker, and engaging podcast guest. Her new book, I Miss You Already: Preparing for the Unbearable Loss of Your Pet©, is a teaching memoir on anticipatory pet grief. Her private practice includes direct client coaching, speaking/podcasting, and a loss and grief training/consulting business with other animal care practitioners, especially veterinarians. Her mission is to make a difference in how loss and grief, especially pet loss, are perceived, understood, navigated, and supported through her unique methodologies. Topics covered in this episode: Nancy's journey through anticipatory pet loss and grief Honoring the pet loss journey Understanding anticipatory grief Disenfranchised grief in veterinary medicine Navigating emotional support for clients The role of Spirituality in grief Transforming grief into growth Links & Resources: Visit the Grow Beyond Grief website to learn more Pledge to the I Miss You Already Kickstarter project Find Nancy Gordon on Instagram or through Linktree Find Nancy Gordon on LinkedIn Watch the documentary, The Weight They Carry The House Call Vet Academy Resources: Download Dr. Eve's FREE House Call & Mobile Vet Biz Plan Find out about the House Call Vet Academy online CE course Learn more about Dr. Eve Harrison Learn more about the Concierge Vet Mastermind Get your FREE Concierge Vet Starter Kit mini course Learn more about SoulShine Space For Vets. Use discount code SHINE15 for 15% OFF SoulShine Space For Vets! (Available for a limited time only! Rules and restrictions apply.) Learn more about 1-to-1 coaching for current & prospective house call & mobile vets Get House Call Vet swag Learn more about the House Call & Mobile Vet Virtual Conference Register TODAY for the House Call & Mobile Vet Virtual Conference, February 7th-8th, 2026!!!!!! Here's a special gift from me as a huge thank you for being a part of our wonderful House Call Vet Cafe podcast community! ☕️ GET 20% OFF your Four Sigmatic Mushroom Coffee when you order through this link! 4Sig truly is my favorite!!! Enjoy it in good health, my friends! Music: In loving memory of Dr. Steve Weinberg. Intro and outro guitar music was written, performed, and recorded by house call veterinarian Dr. Steve Weinberg. Thank you to our sponsors! Chronos O3 Vets This podcast is also available in video on our House Call Vet Cafe YouTube channel
Send us a textGrief is something we all face, yet most of us aren't prepared for it — and it's costing us more than we realize.In this conversation, Dr. Kevin White talks with Emma Payne, founder and CEO of Help Texts, about what really happens to our minds and bodies after loss, why grief can shorten lifespan if ignored, and how simple, science-based support can change the outcome. Emma shares her personal story, the inspiration behind Help Texts, and the surprising link between grief, brain plasticity, and long-term health.They also break the news on Longevity Texts — a new service delivering expert-led, science-backed longevity tips straight to your phone. Whether you're navigating loss yourself, supporting someone who is, or looking to build resilience for the years ahead, this episode offers practical, compassionate wisdom you can act on today.In this episode:How grief impacts both healthspan and lifespanWhy we often avoid talking about loss — and why that's harmfulThe four tasks of healthy mourning (and how to apply them)The surprising ways our brains rewire during griefWhy “doing nothing” is the worst way to support a grieving friendHow Help Texts and Longevity Texts are changing the way we give and receive support Prime Health Associates
What does it truly mean to care for aging parents while preserving their dignity, independence, and joy? This conversation explores the emotional and practical realities of caregiving, from the strain of daily responsibilities to the deep rewards of being present and actively listening. Through personal stories, the speakers highlight the need for open communication about end-of-life planning, the emotional weight of anticipatory grief, and the delicate balance between prolonging life and ensuring its quality. They emphasize shifting expectations, finding joy in shared moments, and cherishing family gatherings as a way to strengthen bonds and create lasting memories—reminding us that, in the end, family connections are what matter most.Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction02:46 - Navigating the Challenges of Aging Parents05:58 - Being Present and Actively Listening 08:54 - Shifting Perspectives on Aging11:32 - Finding Joy in Shared Moments14:53 - The Emotional Strain of Caregiving 17:45 - Maintaining Dignity and Independence20:56 - Practical Support for Aging Parents23:55 - Conversations About End-of-Life Planning 26:39 - The Role of Communication in Caregiving29:50 - Anticipatory Grief and Emotional Challenges32:40 - Quality of Life vs. Prolonging Life35:47 - Lessons Learned from Aging Parents38:57 - The Value of Family Gatherings41:49 - Preparing for Our Own Aging44:52 - Closing Reflections and TakeawaysHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
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There are so many kinds of grieving. You may be grieving the death of a loved one, a pet, a breast, a job, or you may be experiencing anticipatory grief for a loved one who is ill or aging.Grief is not a competition.There is no hierarchy of grief. Some people are grieving the loss of a spouse or the loss of a child or the loss of a sibling or parent. Everyone's grief is individual, and there is no value in comparing.If you have an ill or aging loved one, or a loved one who has died, listen to this week's episode for 8 ways to honor your own grief and avoid comparing it to the grief of others.Your wellbeing matters.Dr. DeliaDelia Chiaramonte, MDP.S., Now available as an audiobook: Coping Courageously: A Heart-Centered Guide for Navigating a Loved One's Illness Without Losing Yourself Coping Courageously: A Heart-Centered Guide for Navigating a Loved One's Illness Without Losing Yourself is available here: www.copingcourageously.com A free guide for physicians to help reclaim your joy at work and in life https://trainings.integrativepalliative.com/pl/2148540010Please review this podcast wherever you listen and forward your favorite episode to a friend! And be sure to subscribe!Sign up to stay connected and learn about upcoming programs:https://trainings.integrativepalliative.com/IPI-stay-in-touchI'm thrilled to be listed in Feedspot's top 15 palliative podcasts!https://blog.feedspot.com/palliative_care_podcasts/
In Episode 55, grief writer and speaker Chelsea Ohlemiller joins the podcast to share the story behind Hope and Harsh Realities, her widely followed platform that began after the loss of her mother, Rita, to cancer in 2017. What started as private notes on her phone turned into something far greater — a space for honesty, healing, and connection for anyone grieving a mother.Chelsea opens up about how her grief affected everything — her identity, her parenting, her marriage — and how writing gave her the voice she didn't know she needed. Along the way, she and Nick talk about invisible grief, parenting without a parent, and how it feels to carry the weight of a mother-shaped absence. They also swap laughs over cats, dark humor, sticker planners, and second chances in love.This episode is deeply human, funny in all the right places, and full of hard-earned insight. Whether you've lost your mother, are navigating a new identity after loss, or just want to feel less alone in your grief — Chelsea's voice will meet you right where you are.CHELSEA'S LINKS:Website: www.hopeandharshrealities.comFacebook: @hopeandharshrealitiesInstagram: @hopeandharshrealitiesTikTok: @chelseaohlemillerGIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.ourdeaddads.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ourdeaddadspod Twitter / X: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
Join me, a psychologist and EMDR trauma therapist, as I lead you through Season 2 of 'Suicide Grief,' a heartfelt podcast aimed at sharing stories of hope, love, and resilience among those touched by suicide. This episode delves into my personal journey through anticipatory grief, stemming from the ongoing struggle of supporting my son, who has battled suicidal tendencies since the age of 11. I share my own healing processes, including the transformative power of sound therapy and self-discovery during a three-month trip to Bali. This podcast offers an empathetic space for individuals navigating the roller coaster of emotions tied to suicide grief, whether anticipated or experienced. Through my story, I hope to demonstrate the importance of self-care, community support, and finding personal healing pathways through life's toughest challenges. Listen in to find comfort, shared understanding, and the reassurance that, despite the darkness, there is always hope. Most importantly, listen and watch with care and know there are people out there that can help and support you. Within the UK: Samaritans - Free on 116 123 Suicide&Co - Free on 0800 054 8400 Mon-Friday 9aam-9pm Within the US: Suicide Hotline: Free on 1-800-273-8255 or text 742741 Find Dr Sue: Instagram Facebook Linked In For more resources: www.suicidegriefsupport.com For EMDR Grief Retreats - www.EMDRGriefRetreat.com For your own support if you are caring for a struggling teenager: PMH | Support for parents facing childhood mental health issues
(00:00:00) Introduction to Ronda's Story (00:02:10) Understanding Pick's Disease Symptoms (00:05:04) Mother's Previous Health Battles (00:07:30) Living With Someone With Dementia (00:11:41) Anticipatory Grief and Life Lessons (00:15:25) Ocean Dream Fulfilled (00:19:12) Final Reflections and Closing Watching someone you love transform before your eyes while they're still breathing creates a unique form of grief that few discuss openly. In this deeply moving conversation, Ronda Adamo shares her family's journey through her mother's battle with Pick's disease, a rare form of frontal temporal dementia that claimed her just ten months after diagnosis.Before receiving that life-changing medical news, Ronda and her sisters faced a painful confusion as their mother's personality shifted dramatically. The godly woman they'd always known began exhibiting uncharacteristic behaviors - falling frequently, speaking in uninhibited ways, and seeming cognitively distant. Having watched their mother previously battle multiple forms of cancer, the family mistakenly attributed these changes to potential medication abuse, a misunderstanding that still weighs heavy on Ronda's heart years later."Not everything is as it seems," Ronda reflects. The diagnosis revealed their mother's brain was being altered by an accumulation of tau protein, transforming the woman they knew while her heart still beat. The family pivoted quickly from disappointment to determined support, learning what it means to grieve someone who hasn't yet died. Despite the rapid progression of the disease, they created a precious memory by fulfilling their mother's lifelong dream - walking in the ocean wearing a flowing white dress, even though winter's chill meant abandoning their original spring timeline.Ronda's story offers profound wisdom for anyone supporting a loved one through dementia: allow yourself to grieve throughout the journey, practice patience and forgiveness, and consciously choose to let positive memories burn brighter in your mind than the difficult moments. Her vulnerability reminds us that in our most painful human experiences, we can still find moments of beauty that sustain us through grief and beyond.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/bereaved-but-still-me--2108929/support.
In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Dr. Mary Ann Mercer — psychologist, author, and someone I'm proud to call a friend — for a deeply moving conversation about what it means to grieve before the loss even happens. Dr. Mary shares the story of her best friend Willa, who spent the last three years of her life battling a rare form of cancer. As Willa's health slowly declined, Dr. Mary experienced a grief that started long before the final goodbye — one filled with emotional whiplash, conflicting thoughts, and moments of profound connection.Together, we talk about anticipatory grief — how it creeps in while someone is still alive, and how emotionally exhausting it can be to keep showing up day after day for someone you love. Dr. Mary opens up about the guilt she felt when she started wishing for peace, the loneliness Willa experienced as others slowly pulled away, and the quiet power of simply sitting in silence with someone who's suffering. It's not always about fixing things — sometimes it's just about being there.Dr. Mary also shares some of the unexpected moments of beauty in Willa's final years — including the annual “hippie parties” she was known for, and how her legacy continues to ripple outward through the people who loved her most. This conversation reminded me that grief isn't just about endings — it's also about presence, purpose, and honoring the time we do have. If you've ever watched someone fade while trying to hold them close, this one is for you.DR. MARY'S LINKS:WEBSITE: www.PositiveLifeAnswers.com INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/positivelifeanswers/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/positivelifeanswers/E-MAIL: drmercer@positivelifeanswers.comPOSITIVE LIFE ANSWERS PODCAST LINKS:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/positive-life-answers/id1653316395https://positivelifeanswers.buzzsprout.com/GIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.ourdeaddads.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ourdeaddadspod Twitter / X: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
In this beautifully honest episode, Vicki Goodman shares her experience of losing her beloved husband Sam after a two-year battle with liver cancer. Vicki reflects on their love story, their decision to live fully even after a terminal diagnosis, and the bittersweet journey of caring for Sam through his final months.Vicki opens up about the anticipatory grief she faced — how she prepared for his passing while holding onto hope, the complex emotions of caregiving, and the unexpected moments of strength and peace that surfaced in the darkest times. She also shares how music, community, and a slower-paced life helped her rebuild after Sam's death, leading to her work with the grief community through Inspired Grief.This conversation is a testament to the transformative power of love, the courage required to face loss head-on, and the resilience that grief demands. Whether you've experienced a similar loss or are walking beside someone who has, Vicki's story will resonate deeply.GIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.ourdeaddads.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ourdeaddadspod Twitter / X: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
Grief isn't only an issue after a person dies. Anticipatory grief shows up long before a person has passed away. Families facing dementia, ALS, cancer, renal failure, and other serious illnesses can experience anticipatory grief long before the very end of life.This week we take a look at anticipatory grief from the inside because my family is facing it right now.This episode is for you if you are a clinician who cares for the ill and aging or if you are a person who has an ill or aging person in your life.Share this episode with someone in your life who needs it.I'm glad you're here.Delia Chiaramonte, MDwww.integrativepalliative.comCoping Courageously: A Heart-Centered Guide for Navigating a Loved One's Illness Without Losing Yourself is available here: www.copingcourageously.com A free guide for physicians to help reclaim your joy at work and in life https://trainings.integrativepalliative.com/pl/2148540010Please review this podcast wherever you listen and forward your favorite episode to a friend! And be sure to subscribe!Sign up to stay connected and learn about upcoming programs:https://trainings.integrativepalliative.com/IPI-stay-in-touchI'm thrilled to be listed in Feedspot's top 15 palliative podcasts!https://blog.feedspot.com/palliative_care_podcasts/
I had the privilege of sitting down with Reese Zahner, a poet and writer who has beautifully transformed her grief journey into a powerful testament of healing and acceptance under the pen name Cleo Childs.Reese opens up about the profound impact of losing her mother to early onset Alzheimer's, a journey that spanned seven years from diagnosis to loss. Through her candid storytelling, Reese shares how she turned to poetry as a means to process her emotions.We delve into the complexities of anticipatory grief and the unique challenges of witnessing a loved one gradually slip away. Reese's honesty about her initial struggles with understanding grief and her eventual path to acceptance is both moving and inspiring. She speaks to the isolation she felt during this time and how writing became a lifeline, allowing her to express emotions she couldn't articulate otherwise.Her poetry, once a private refuge, has now become a beacon of hope for others navigating similar journeys. We explore the themes of presence, patience, and the lessons Reese learned along the way, emphasizing that healing is not linear but a continuous process.Throughout our conversation, her warmth and resilience shine through as she reflects on the gifts her mother gave her. Whether you're currently walking through a season of loss or supporting someone who is, her insights offer comfort and encouragement.Join us as we explore the healing power of poetry and the profound journey of love, loss, and acceptance.RESOURCES:WebsitePoetry on YouTubePoetry on SpotifyCONNECT:Contact FormSend Victoria a text message! Support the show_______NEED HELP? National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 Crisis Text Line provides free, 24/7 support via text message. Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained Crisis Counselor If you are struggling with grief due to any of the 40+ losses, free resources are available HERE.CONNECT WITH VICTORIA: Instagram Website LinkedIn Facebook This episode is sponsored by Do Grief Differently™️, my twelve-week, one-on-one, in-person/online program for grievers who have suffered any type of loss to feel better. Click here to learn new tools, grief education, and the only evidence-based method for moving beyond the pain of grief. Would you like to join the mission of Grieving Voices in normalizing grief and supporting hurting hearts everywhere? Become a sup...
In today's episode of Psych Talk I chat with Dr. Heather Taylor, licensed psychologist and grief specialist about anticipatory grief and grief anniversaries. Dr. Taylor shares her own story of grief and how that led her to specializing in working with those who are grieving. Dr. Taylor defines what anticipatory grief is and discusses various ways it may show up for individuals. We discuss both death and non-death experiences that individuals may have anticipatory grief about, as well as coping skills individuals can utilize when experiencing anticipatory grief. Dr. Taylor then describes ome of the common emotional and physical symptoms people experience when approaching or on a grief anniversary and how people can cope with a grief anniversary . At the end of the episode we also discuss her new grief journal Authentically Unapologetic: A Grief Journal. Connect with Dr. Taylor: IG: @grief_is_the_new_normal Website: www.griefisthenewnormal.com Podcast: Grief is the New Normal Grief Journal The Spectrum of Grief Podcast Episode Connect with Me: Follow me on IG @jessicaleighphd Follow the podcast on IG @psych.talk.podcast Follow me on TikTok @jessicaleighphd Follow me on Youtube Follow me on Threads @jessicaleighphd Welcome to Group Therapy Podcast Join my Facebook community: Grow Through What You Go Through Ways to Work With Me: Mind Over Matter LGBTQ+ Affirming Masterclass Be a guest on my podcast Resources: Anti-Racism Resources LGBTQ+ Affirming Resources The Helping Professional's Guide to Boundary Setting Intro/Outro Music Life of Riley by Kevin MacLeod Music License
In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked concept of anticipatory grief—that wave of emotion experienced when we sense a loss before it actually happens. Building on the previous discussion of toxic positivity, we unpack the confusion and shame that can surface when we feel dread about a likely life change—be it a health crisis, the end of a relationship, or a loved one's impending transition. We explore how anticipatory grief can fuel anxiety, stifle communication, and compound other unresolved losses. By naming these hidden emotions, we open up space for acceptance, self-compassion, and the opportunity to break free from limiting beliefs around how “positive” we must always be. This episode normalizes the conflicting thoughts and feelings that arise in those liminal spaces between “now” and “what's next,” reminding us that self-awareness and self-care are vital tools for processing grief in all its forms. Tune in to find hope, healing, and a renewed sense of empathy for both yourself and those around you. CONNECT WITH LOVE LETTERS AND MIXTAPES Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lovelettersandmixtapes/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lovelettersandmixtapes Twitter https://twitter.com/lovelettersnmix Website https://www.lovelettersandmixtapes.com/
Anticipatory grief is something we all experience, but what is it exactly? Anney and Samantha shine a lot on this frequently experienced but little-discussed emotional state.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Anticipatory Grief, Complicated Grief, Disenfranchised Grief... we cover it all + Rachael's explanation for her fascination with grief and all things *bittersweet* We're nearing the end of season 9! Thank you for all of your support this season + beyond! Please don't forget to check out our Patreon for bonus episodes + more! And follow us on Instagram. Please check out the amazing sponsors mentioned in this episode: PROGRANULIN INFORMATION NAVIGATOR A resource for FTD clinical trial and genetic testing info. MAKE TIME WELLNESS (Use code REMEMBERME for 25% off your order -- we personally love the Rhodiola gummies!) ____ The Remember Me Podcast + Community provides resources, connection and understanding for families, caregivers and people affected by Frontotemporal Dementia. For all things RM, join us over on PATREON, visit our website www.remembermeftd.com or follow us on Instagram! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rememberme/support
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about death, terminal illness, and grief, which may be triggering for some listeners. Please listen with care and prioritize your well-being. In this heartfelt episode, The Chicks dive into the complex emotions of anticipatory grief—the deep sadness and anxiety that come from knowing a loved one is facing a terminal illness. Our guest, Sara Kelly, shares her deeply personal story about learning at just 12 years old that her father had been given only 30 days to live. In an extraordinary turn of events, her father defied the odds and lived another 25 years, leaving Sara with a unique journey through grief, loss, and healing. Sara offers wisdom and guidance for anyone navigating the grieving process, including: How to manage the anxiety that comes with grief. Compassionate strategies to move through loss without feeling stuck. Tips for finding moments of peace and courage amidst profound sadness. Whether you're currently walking through your own grief or supporting someone who is, Sara's story provides a powerful message of resilience and hope. Click here: Healing Book Recommendations Sponsor: This episode is brought to you by Farmacy—your go-to for clean, effective skincare made with natural ingredients. Visit farmacybeauty.com and use code ANXIETYCHICKS for 20% off your order! Connect with Us: Don't forget to watch us on You Tube! Follow us on Instagram: @theanxietychicks @theanxietyhealer @health_anxiety Have a story to share? Email us at theanxietychicks@gmail.com Rate, review, and subscribe! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Lance Funk was just 51-years-old when he was diagnosed with Early-Onset Alzheimer's Disease. Over the past few years, his wife, Sharley, has watched as her once strong, vivacious husband has all but disappeared from before her eyes and yet, for now, he is still with her physically and she is determined to cherish the time they have left together. On this week's episode, Sharley explains why she has tried to be open and honest in documenting her family's experience with Alzheimer's. 2:03- Signs and the Release of a Diagnosis 8:05- Falling in Love with Lance 11:29- Open and Honest 14:13- Receiving Service 17:11- Disappearing 20:26- Still There 22:45- The Honor of Caregiving 26:00- Going to Work 29:30- Anxiety and the Darkest Parts of Alzheimers 32:19- Anticipatory Grief and Fatigue 37:28- Preparing to Let Go 42:24- What Does It Mean To Be All In the Gospel of Jesus Christ? "I'm going to take this time...and just enjoy this and just lay my head on his shoulder and just remember what it feels like to sit next to him and to hear him breathe." Links: Sharley's Instagram account: https://www.instagram.com/the_moment_of_funk/