Podcast appearances and mentions of eva oh

In the third episode of this mini-series, Eva Oh shares how her journey into becoming an AI companion took a dramatic turn—going up in flames, quite literally. She dives into the challenges of building her own AI bot, the unexpected hurdles along the way, and what comes next in this bold experiment. Tune in for the latest chapter of her exploration on #teakink.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - My AI Companion Journey Up in Literal Flames(05:00) - The Challenges of Making My Own AI Bot(08:10) - Next Steps

Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives. Listen in on a conversation that explores the evolution of human interaction, parallels to the early internet and sex work, chatbot rights, the ‘Interaction Arms Race' and Åste's Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test. Eva asks, can designing her AI Companion be done ethically or does that even matter?Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meeting Åste Amundsen, Interaction Researcher(01:40) - How Åste Found Me(02:40) - How Åste Thinks My Work Parallels to Hers(06:40) - Why AI Companies Are Interested in Me(07:30) - The Evolution of Human Interaction including Parasocial Relationship and How AI Could Manipulate Our Shortcomings(10:30) - Åste's Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test Installation(13:10) - Sex Workers as Interaction Experts(15:00) - The Evolution of Human Dating and it's Merging with Technology(16:00) - Esther Perel's Fears for AI Chatbots and Digital Interaction(18:00) - How Could I Design an AI Companion Ethically?(21:40) - Sex Work as Emotional Labour, Designing ‘Friction' Into AI(24:40) - Sex Work Hobbyists(26:30) - Porn and Fantasy as a First Sexual Experience, AI Companionship as Similar?(27:30) - My One Fantasy(29:45) - Current Attempts at AI Companionship(32:00) - The Relational Bonding and Interaction Arms Race(33:00) - Chatbot Rights(34:00) - Government(34:30) - What Makes a “Good” Interaction?(37:00) - What Sex Work Might Become(37:40) - How Could We Value Ourselves(41:25) - How These Developments Might Evolve Us(42:40) - What Motivates Me to become an AI Companion(43:55) - An Opportunity(46:00) - Åste's NSFW Chatbot Research(48:00) - The Disturbing and The Violent(50:00) - The Nether, A Play(52:40) - Angela Carter, Benefiting From Our Sexual Capacity(57:40) - The Transactional Nature of Interaction(59:10) - Potential and the Parallels to the Early InternetLinks:Åste Amundsen, http://asteamundsen.com

Eva Oh is launching a mentorship platform—one designed for women, queer folk, and the kink community to access guidance, ask unfiltered questions, and build a more empowered future. In this episode, she shares her journey, what's in store (live Q&As, community chat, one-on-one mentorship, and more), and why creating a safer space away from corporate interests is essential. With lessons from over a decade in domination, burnout, and reinvention, this is about making your path easier, richer, and freer. Join now—let's change our world.Join my Mentorship Patreon: https://patreon.com/EvaOhWatch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - I'm Starting a Mentorship Platform!(01:11) - My Mentorship Journey(02:50) - Courses?(03:20) - Live Q&A's, Question Polls, Community Chat(04:15) - One-on-one Tier, Live Events(05:20) - IG Live Ban(05:50) - Join Me/Us, and let's change our world…

On this episode of #teakink, Eva Oh sits down with performer and artist Bishop Black for a deep dive into their journey—from the organic evolution of their career to the energy, tactility, and chemistry that go into porn work. They talk spontaneity, joy, and navigating the ever-changing landscapes of London and Berlin. Bishop reflects on becoming the representation their younger self longed for, handling criticism and compliments, and balancing creativity with burnout. Plus, what does the future hold? Community, road trips, and maybe even lap dogs.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Bishop Black, Berlin and Vitamin D Drops(02:25) - Navigating Spontaneity, Joy and COVID(04:48) - Bishop's Ideal World, Pain and Eva's Pizza Porn Hopes(09:35) - The Organic Evolution of Bishop's Career(12:35) - What Bishop's Penis Sounds Like(13:20) - Bishop's London and a Changing Berlin(18:25) - Being What 19 Year Old Bishop Wanted to See(23:30) - The Energy, Tactility, Chemistry and Skill Needed in Porn Work(29:50) - Navigating Criticism and Compliments(37:00) - How Bishop Balances Motivation, Burnout, Creativity and Inadequacy(42:10) - What Will We Be Doing in 20 Years - Community, Road Trips and Lap Dogs

Beauty tweaks, social media pressure, and the ever-creeping desire to look "young"—Eva Oh unpacks it all in this #teakink Podcast episode. She shares her experiences with Botox, fillers, and surgical consultations (including a BBL consultation that took a wild turn), while reflecting on the way aging is framed in society. From hitting the MILF category to the futuristic possibilities of augmentation, this is a candid take on cosmetic work, self-image, and where it's all headed.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - My Procedures and Dolly Parton(02:25) - How I Discovered Cosmetic Procedures and Treatments(07:24) - The Creep of Social Media(08:25) - COVID and Noticing My Wrinkles(10:50) - What I Do for My Skin and Trying Fillers(12:40) - Botox(13:15) - My Surgeries(18:10) - A BBL Consultation Goes South and Turns Into...(20:10) - Why Do I Want to Look 'Young'(24:30) - Hitting the MILF Category(26:50) - The Sci Fi Future of Augmentation?(29:40) - Things to Think About Around Plastic Surgery

On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men's fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David's Help and Why?(00:12:10) - David's Own Coaches(00:14:25) - Eva's Initial Mistrust of Coaches(00:16:40) - David's Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community(00:22:35) - David Didn't Want to be a Coach(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups(00:34:00) - David's Fear of Expressing Love(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears(00:41:25) - Men's Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement'(00:53:10) - Eva's Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise' with Her Clients(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!

Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it.m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh's dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m(00.35) - The Foot Cam(00.56) - How We Met(02:10) - Ruling m's Thoughts(02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me(03:55) - m ‘Letting Go'(05:25) - m's Second Thoughts(06.20) - My 'Strong Personality'(07.20) - m's Fears and Attempted Manipulations(08:10) - The Ruler will Rule(08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust(10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality(11.40) - m's Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience(12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m's Workplace(13.30) - Love and Lust(15.00) - m Learning Compassion(15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much(16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like(19.15) - Navigating Expectations(20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other(22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy(27.00) - m's Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now(29.55) - m's Hopes for The Future(31.00) - m's Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him?(35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice(39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don't

In the final episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the intricate relationship between money and power in domination. From her early survival mindset to financial stability, she reflects on how her understanding of wealth has evolved—and whether the one paying is truly the one in control. Does money dictate power, or is it all about perception? With insights on findom, greed, and the illusions wealth creates, this episode challenges conventional ideas about financial dominance and self-worth.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries III: Money(01:06) - My Relationship to Money Pre-Domination(02:00) - Findom was Not a Category(02:55) - My Evolution from Survival to Wealth(04:20) - What is ‘Real'? Lifestyle vs Professional Domination(06:55) - Does the Person Paying Have the Power?(09:15) - The Power of Perspective(10:50) - How My Understanding of Money Has Changed Over Time(13:10) - Wealth Does Not Correlate to Quality of Personhood(19:20) - Money, Existential Anguish, Greed and Weakness(21:40) - The Miniseries Format Experiment

In the second episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh examines the existence of the Dominatrix—not just as a profession, but as a cultural phenomenon. Why is female power so rare that it becomes fetishized? What does the Dominatrix reveal about society's relationship with female agency? And how can one navigate this space without reinforcing the very dynamics it critiques? Eva dissects the contradictions, the intrigue, and the deeper implications of wielding power in a world that still struggles to accept it.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries II: Why Does the Dominatrix Exist?(05:10) - The Fetishisation of the Rare Concept of Female Agency(07:55) - How Do I Not be a Part of the ‘Problem'

In the first episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the nature of power through the lens of domination and submission. What is power, really? How does context shape who holds it, and what happens when those dynamics shift? She reflects on how her time as a Dominatrix reshaped her own sense of power—both in and out of the dungeon—and how others reacted to that transformation. With power being both intoxicating and treacherous, Eva explores the risks, the artistry, and why true power demands self-investigation.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries I: Lessons from a Dominatrix(02:05) - What is Power?(03:30) - Context and Power in Domination and Submission(07:25) - How Being a Dominatrix Changed My Power(11:15) - How Others React to the Changes(16:20) - The Art and Danger of Playing with Power Dynamics(22:54) - Power: Delicious, Dangerous, Needs Self-Investigation

What is a Dominatrix, as told by a Dominatrix. Eva Oh meets some newbies to the scene who inspire her to explain the basics of the role of a Dominatrix, what happens in session, how clients make requests and where it all happens. With some additional important notes, on power.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Why Answer an ‘Obvious' Question?(01:44) - What is a Dominatrix and What Do They Do?(03:35) - What Happens in a Dominatrix Session?(04:20) - How Do Clients Know What They Want?(05:50) - More About a Dominatrix Session(06:40) - Where Do Dominatrix Work?(08:50) - Power, A Miniseries?(10:00) - Lessons on Women, Myself, Money and Power

Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix (01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions (04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix (08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences (15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience (21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment (27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition (33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy (35:35) - Sex Work and Society's Perception

Meet Jane Grey, Dominatrix and Co-Founder of the Scene and Unscene events. Listen in as Jane opens up about how validation, agency and recognition, drivers behind her acting career, influence her approach to domination; about her plans for the Edinburgh Fringe Festival; and how acting school shunned female sexuality. Eva Oh and Jane discuss the place of acting in a session, if they might be able to submit and how they've tried to escape the ego through the names that they've chosen. We hear about cultural theatrics and how they could shape a Dominatrix's ability and the different ways these two Dominatrices structure their businesses. A very thorough episode of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:00:23) - Jane Grey - Dominatrix, Event Organiser and on a Good Path (00:02:20) - How The Scene and UnScene Events Came About (00:09:15) - The Scene Difference, the Bartenders Bar for Kink (00:14:00) - Authenticity as a Purpose (00:16:10) - How Acting and Drama School Shuns Sexuality (00:20:15) - Validation, Agency, Recognition and the Similarities in Acting and Domination (00:25:10) - South East Asian vs British Theatrics and Social Cohesion (00:27:35) - Growing Star Quality in Professional Domination through Improv Classes (00:29:00) - Moving Around and Growing Adaptability (00:30:35) - Anaesthetising the Ego for Joy (00:32:00) - The Stage vs The Session vs Being a Woman, Is There a Difference? (00:36:30) - How to Go From Personal Kinkster to Professional Dominatrix (00:38:30) - The De-Centring of Our Names - 'Oh' and 'Jane Grey' (00:44:30) - Finding Our Version of Dominance, Visually (00:46:05) - Eva Craving Submission? (00:50:20) - Our Visit to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and Jane's Show Plans (00:54:50) - Who Do We Tell About Our Job? (00:57:00) - Jane's Subscription Model (01:00:30) - Eva's Cis-het Male Clients vs Her Femme Friends (01:03:50) - The Evolution of Eva's Business Model (01:04:50) - Jane's Plans with the WMH&I Branding Agency, Show Writing and Event Planning (01:09:00) - Eva's Plans on Labours of Love

Biomedical engineer and sex tech entrepreneur Isabella Sandak-Lewin joins Eva Oh on the #teakink Podcast to break down the gaps in medicine's understanding of female sexuality. From the forgotten science of the female orgasm to the struggles of innovating in sex tech, Isabella shares her journey of developing a wearable sex toy and a diagnostic tool for BV. They explore the orgasm gap, cross-dressing, pole dancing at Cambridge, and the link between sexuality and personal freedom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Isabella Sandak-Lewin - Biomedical Engineer and Sex Tech Entrepreneur (01:53) - The Forgotten Interaction of Body, Medicine and Sexuality (05:40) - Medicine Forgot the Female Orgasm (10:15) - The Orgasm Gap (12:40) - Isabella's Wearable Sex Toy (18:13) - Isabella's BV and More Diagnosis Tool (24:40) - Adolescence, Ballet and Eating Disorders (29:30) - Cross-Dressing and How Women and Men are Perceived (34:00) - How Isabella Claimed Her Sexuality (38:35) - Fem Tech and Sex Tech Struggles (40:00) - 'Coming Out' About Sex Tech (45:00) - The Link Between Sexuality and Personal Freedom (50:00) - Pole Dance, Cambridge University and Castration (58:35) - COVID and Saying Yes

MJ has been on a deep and fast ride into sexuality since an accident catalysed a self-investigation in 2019. She has since brought forth the Joyride Sex Parties and Socials, studied with the Institute for Sexuality, and has plans for expanding the world of sex tech. Join MJ and Eva Oh for a #teakink episode through MJ's discoveries, sex doll brothels, Irish sexuality, the sexual concerns of cis-het men, boundaries and pleasure.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet MJ of Joyride Sex Parties and Socials(02:00) - Taking it to Ireland(03:50) - Queerness at Joyride's Centre(08:10) - An Accident as a Sexuality Catalyst(12:55) - Sex Tech and Sex Doll Brothels(14:40) - The Future of Joyride(16:30) - Irish Storytelling(17:10) - Irish Sexuality(18:35) - Merging Sex Tech and the Physical(23:00) - Cis-het Men Healthy Porn Habits, Erectile Dysfunction and Loneliness(28:05) - The Viscerality of the Sex Party Dancefloor(29:00) - Safeguarding and Freedom in Clubs in Berlin vs London(32:50) - The Laboratory Berlin and the State of Queer Cruising(34:00) - The People Behind Joyride(35:30) - The Kink Coalitipn(37:00) - What Actually is a Sex Party?(42:00) - Why MJ Stays Out of the Playspace(49:00) - Berlin Porn Film Festival and the Venus Convention(51:00) - Sexual Education?(53:10) - Pleasure

This week on the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with Mathilde Friis, curator and PhD researcher of art, sexuality, and sex work. We follow Mathilde into her early days, researching in a sex shop, and delve into the creative process behind sex work. We discover the contradictions in how society commodifies creativity while stigmatizing sex, and explore topics like slut-shaming on social media and the range of artistic interpretations of sex work. Mathilde also reflects on purity, danger, cultural etiquette, and why sexuality continues to spark controversy, challenging societal notions of monstrosity and taboo along the way. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Mathilde Friis, Curator and PhD Researcher on Artwork, Sexuality and Sex Work (01:40) - Mathilda's Interest in the Contradictions of Sexuality (03:40) - Doing Research in a Sex Shop (05:12) - Slut Shaming Research and Social Media (06:00) - Returning to Sexuality after a Commercial Art Gallery (08:00) - The 'Working Girls' Exhibition (10:15) - The Creative Practice of Sex Work (17:00) - How Society Allows us to Define and Commodify Creativity (20:30) - Sex Worker Honesty and Range in Artistic Interpretation (24:15) - How to Work with Sex Workers When You're Not One (31:00) - Purity, Danger ad Cultural Etiquette (35:00) - Why Does Sexuality Attract Controversy? (39:10) - What is Considered a Monstrosity in Current Society? (40:18) - Commodifying the Space Around Sexuality but not Sex Itself, on Meta (43:40) - Mathilda's Ambitions for Art and Sexuality

Eva Oh visits Dubai and is reminded of her first trip there in a previous life before her career as a Dominatrix. A life that included research work in Afghanistan, time at the United Nations and perhaps a thread that is still very consistent. A thread of curiosity, naivety, fearlessness and navigating the edge of life to feel out what could be. Watch this #teakink episode for an insight into Eva's life before becoming a Professional Mistress. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - I'm In Dubai, Reflecting on a Previous Life(01:20) - My Hunger for Information, RSS Feeds and Innovation Journals(03:25) - Questioning and Fearlessness(04:35) - Dubai, A Digital Come Alive(05:50) - Working in Afghanistan(08:40) - My Life in My Own Hands(12:20) - Feeling the Foreign(15:20) - Navigating the Edge(19:30) - The Intrigue and Dangers of Professional Domination(21:30) - Dangers and Opportunities(22:20) - A Food Fetish(24:50) - Have I Changed?

Ali Bushell, therapist and Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, joins us on the #teakink Podcast for a deep dive intotherapy, kink, and self-discovery. From his work with sex workers to exploring fetish in therapy, Ali shares insights on topics like power, violence, and the parts of ourselves we exile. We unpack shadow archetypes of therapists, the brain as a sexual organ, and the complexity of integrating the self through practices like Vipassana and IFS. Ali's book, 'The Sex Party Handbook': https://shorturl.at/dZeF6 Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Ali Bushell, Therapist and Internal Family Systems Practitioner (00:40) - How We Met, Ali's Sex Worker Outreach (03:12) - How Sex Workers Can Find Therapists (14:20) - Defining Sex and the Brain as a Sexual Organ (16:05) - Kink in Therapy (24:30) - Power and Violence (26:20) - An Extreme Example? Is it ok That I Enjoyed What I Enjoyed with My Father? (31:00) - Exiled Parts of Ourselves (33:00) - What is Therapy, to Ali (37:50) - Shadow Archetypes of Therapists: Savers, Narcissists and Robots (39:20) - Vipassana, Hearing Voices and Integrating the Self (44:50) - How Ali Found Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Uses It (49:40) - You Can't Un-Kink (52:09) - Sex Negativity and Turning the Lights Off (53:50) - The Kinsey Scale, How Homosexual or Heterosexual are We?

Eva Oh and Vex of Four Chambers dive into a conversation about the sometimes messy and always fascinating intersections of sex, art, and identity. From how performance challenges embodiment in sexuality, to how burnout hits when your work revolves around desire. We journey through Vex's cyber goth era and chatroom nostalgia to inducing lactation for a porn series, as she opens up about her values, and the shifts shaping porn today. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:00:23) - Meet Vex of Four Chambers and a Thought on Hawking Porn vs Fashion(00:01:40) - The Point of Four Chambers and Hotness?(00:03:40) - Order, Mess and Truth in Sex and Our Work(00:06:30) - What Vex is Hiding, Sexual Performance vs Embodiment(00:10:20) - Who Are We Really? How Vex is Using Weed in Self-Discovery(00:13:20) - Our Relationship to Surrender and Burnout(00:16:00) - Vex's Craving for the Physical(00:18:00) - Eva's Burnout Strategies and Meditation(00:20:45) - Vex at 12 in Habbo Hotel Chatrooms, the Internet as a Portal and Weirdness(00:26:20) - Vex's Draw to Cyber Goth Culture and Darkness(00:29:00) - Boredom and Craving Storytelling(00:30:50) - The Void, Cuckolding and Leaning into Despair(00:37:10) - How Making Porn Has Changed Vex's Life and Values(00:39:30) - The Disappearance of Pornography?(00:41:30) - Chatrooms to Camming to Tumblr Porn to Four Chambers(00:45:05) - What Sex Work Taught Us About (Lack of) Freedom, Society and Meta(00:51:40) - Our Longing for Undocumented Experiences(00:55:00) - The Substance, Doppelgänger by Naomi Klein and Being 'Palatable' as Women(00:57:24) - Managing Mobile Phone Usage and Dating Younger(01:01:00) - Exploring Archetypes and Fucking with Mommy Issues(01:06:00) - Inducing Lactation for the Porn Series 'Maman'(01:12:30) - Popular Porn Categories(01:15:00) - Eva's MILF and Digital Detox Plans

A New Year Begins on the #teakink Podcast. Indulge in a flashback episode, where Eva Oh looks back through the seasons. Their highs and tears, special interviews, the most popular episodes and where it may all go from here. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Happy New Year! Podcast Flashback Time (02:20) - The Experiment of Season 1, My First Experiences as a Dominatrix (06:24) - The Storytelling of Season 2 - Slave m, Klub Verboten, My Worst Relationship Ever (11:30) - Season 3 - Major Highlight Episode, Would a Sex Worker Date You (13:32) - Answering Your Questions Through Season 4 (14:41) - Season 5, Interviews That Took Us Far (16:40) - The Format Now (20:00) - Wishing You A Sweet New Year and Always, Thank you for everything

Today on #teakink Podcast, meet Conor - Shibari Artist, Rope Studio Owner, ex-Publisher and a multi-facted mind whom Eva Oh always adores to sit with. Listen in to their conversation which spans Conor's entering into kink, masculinity and fibromyalgia, kink as therapy, Antwerp, women clients, the link between kink and gambling - and so so much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Conor Aphilia, A Multi-faceted Mind That I Adore(01:30) - How We Met, Paraphilia Magazine(03:10) - Conor's Entering into Kink - Tinder, Parties and Ireland(05:10) - Rope - Lockdown, Masculinity and Fibromyalgia(08:30) - Kink as Therapy or Denying the Fun?(12:40) - Moving into Sex Work and Discovering Others and Ourselves(19:30) - Women Clients(22:50) - The Post-War Porn Reality of Shibari(26:30) - How Shibari has Changed Conor's Daily Life(29:45) - What Motivates Sex Work(35:40) - Antwerp, The Kinkiest Place in the World?(38:00) - The Highs and Woes of Publishing a Kink Magazine(42:50) - International Rope Learning Retreats(44:40) - What is Kink to Us - Power, Fetishism and Questioning the Norm(46:15) - Meeting Dossie Easton - The Link Between Kink and Gambling(47:30) - Dom Drop and Aftercare(52:00) - Men vs Women Clients and Intention Setting(54:45) - How to find Conor and the Aphilia Studio

Eva Oh has been getting invited to more and more crazy rich sex parties to manage BDSM dungeons and entertain guests with kinky installations. Enter the clandestine operations of sex parties for the uber wealthy - where multiple day productions cost millions, where guests and staff are flown in all expenses paid from across the world, and where Eva often sits in between the gratitude of a gig and the spectacle, shock and concerns of extreme wealth. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Crazy Rich Sex Parties and NDAs (02:30) - Where and How? (03:30) - Who Runs and Attends Them? (04:20) - Staffing, Recruitment and Production Companies (08:14) - What Do I Do at Them, BDSM Show and Tell (09:40) - Consent Concerns (13:30) - The Overwhelm of Extreme Wealth (15:55) - Crew Bonding, Catering and Naps (17:50) - Theatre, Campness and Value (19:15) - A Story, The Labyrinth of a Guest Experience

The Current Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects, Deborah Sims, joins Eva Oh for a fascinating discussion on women and freedom on the #teakink Podcast. We discover more about the origins of the Museum, WeWork Dominatrix Dungeons, Coven Garden Industrial Spanking, and the museum's objects - including a whip made from Meretrix hair of Roman times. Deborah and Eva chat rage, 'Poor Things', historical patterns of sexual and female liberation and the importance of remembering our history - including cases of forced female circumcision in Notting Hill not that long ago. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Deborah Sims, the Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects (02:15) - The Objects, from Roman times to Today (05:50) - Why the Museum Came About, Untold Stories and Straightjacketed Women (11:10) - The Intersection of Freedom, Desire and Cat Ladies (15:30) - Rage and Forced Female Circumcision in Notting Hill (20:35) - 'Poor Things', Female 'Hysteria' and Roe vs Wade (21:30) - Historical Patterns of Sexual and Female Liberation? (27:10) - The Importance of Remembering History (30:10) - Matriarchal Sex Cults and 18th Century Industrial Spanking (33:40) - Societal Challenges and Hopes for the Museum (37:40) - Coco de Mer and the Ladies of Covent Garden (40:30) - Sexy Soho Walking Tours and the WeWork Dominatrix Dungeon (43:05) - Manet's 'Olympia' (44:45) - The Unpaid Sexual Labour of Marriage vs(?) Sex Work (48:50) - Rethinking Censorship on Social Media, Awareness and Freedom(51:40) - Pain is Pleasure

Matthew of Baron Books joins Eva Oh on her play space sofa to indulge us on the pornographic origins of Baron and how the influence of powerful women shaped his views on identity and sexuality. They also chat sex shops, cruising apps, The Death Book, medical fetish, feeders, Versace, Bruce La Bruce and so so much more.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Matthew of Baron Books(02:15) - How Baron Books Began(03:35) - What is P*rn at Baron?(04:30) - We Won The Baron Prize - with our P*rn, Grief Encounter(06:30) - Sex, Sexuality and Powerful Women(09:15) - Femininity and the Lack of Representation of Gay Men(11:30) - It Started with a Photography Project on Cottaging(15:00) - The Bruce La Bruce Book Launch in a Sex Shop(17:15) - The Baron Sex Shop?(18:55) - My Ongoing Gripe About the Lack of Queer Cruising(20:15) - The Digital vs the Physicality of Books(23:25) - Jackie Collins, Versace, the Bitch and Sarah Baker(26:34) - Baron's Impact on Matthew's ‘Dynasty'(28:15) - My Interest in Rage(29:04) - Baron and BDSM: Forniphilia with Namio Harukawa and Medical Fetishism with Romaine Slocombe(34:50) - How Baron Chooses Books(37:55) - Fat Bodies, Feeders and Control(40:10) - How Books and Baron are Evolving(43:50) - The Past, Present and Future of Sex Shops(46:40) - The Death Book, HIV, and Gay Identity(49:35) - Sex, Death, Control(52:25) - Problematic Projects, Publishing and Imprisonment

Eva Oh joins Miss May at her playspace, E1 Darkroom, to talk dating, polyamory, the draw of filth and intensity, the 'ick' of the stereotypical 'dominant' man, the rarity of a good service sub and the deep deep importance of cleaning.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Miss May at her play space, E1 Darkroom(01:30) - Why Start a Playspace?(02:48) - The Draw of Filth and Intensity(04:40) - The E1 Darkroom Impact(06:20) - Cleaning, The Central Tenet(07:50) - The Rarity of a Good Service Subs(09:10) - Different Client Dynamics and Friend-Zones(12:20) - Dungeons and Dating(15:40) - Sadism, Objectification and Oral Sex(17:15) - Polyamory, Cheating and Evolving Desires(19:05) - An Excuse to Ask What I Want(19:40) - Miss May's Ideal Life(21:00) - Money and Sex Work vs the Investment of Dating(22:50) - 'Dominant' Men, the Ick and the Stereotype of the Patriarchy(26:40) - Professional Domination: Germany vs the UK(34:20) - How to be a Dominatrix - Hygiene! and...(36:20) - How to Hire E1 Darkroom

Venus is the organiser of Sex and Rage, a martial artist, fetish wrestler and soon to be stunt performer. In this conversation between Venus and Eva Oh we learn about Venus' progression from stripping into fetish wrestling, the origins of Sex and Rage, Venus' Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club, the various personas that she embodies; and the importance of power, presence and play.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Venus, Event Organiser, Sex Worker and Martial Artist(00:48) - Sex and Rage, The Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club(07:35) - Stripping and Fetish Wrestling(12:05) - Wrestling and Domination(13:10) - Lesbian Wrestling(14:30) - Venus vs The Wrestler Persona, Sativa(15:50) - Venus' Self Defence Workshops(23:30) - Parallels between Martial Arts and Sex Worker Communities(27:25) - Martial Artists and Sensitivity(31:30) - Being Present, Fighting and F**king(33:25) - The Venus Persona(36:10) - The Future of Venus: Sex and Rage, Fighting, Stunts(38:20) - How Does it Feel to Get Hit?(42:25) - Venus' Personal Perversions(44:45) - Power and Play

Eva Oh launches her own loose leaf teas! A Jasmine Silver Tip and an Aged Port Oolong. Watch her pour herself a tea ceremony as she takes us through the history of how and why #teakink began. A tale of Domme friends, secrets, censorship and platforming the margins.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Teas by Eva Oh(01:40) - Jasmine Silver Tip Loose Leaf Tea(02:12) - The History of #teakink, Domme Friends and Censorship(06:50) - Why Tea?(09:00) - What next?(10:55) - Aged Port Oolong Loose Leaf Tea(12:55) - My Naivety, Censorship and Platforming the Margins(16:15) - Thank you for your response to the Podcast

Watch one of Eva Oh's mentoring sessions live on the #teakink Podcast. Miss Juni is an aspiring Dominatrix who booked a mentoring call with Eva Oh but ended up on her sofa with her questions instead. From red flags, to client application processes, socialising with clients, and setting rates; Eva and Juni cover a lot of ground. We also get an insight into Juni's motivations, her use of OnlyFans as a space for trans activism and her thoughts on sissification from a trans perspective.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - A Mentoring Session with Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix(01:23) - Why Become a Dominatrix?(02:40) - Domination and Acceptance(05:19) - Sissification from a Trans Perspective(08:12) - Qtee Foxx, OnlyFans and Trans Activism(12:35) - Offensive Clients(18:00) - Red Flags in Professional Domination(25:00) - My Client Application Process(27:00) - Dominating the Every Day(31:00) - My Awkward Moment Trying Professional Submission(33:30) - How Do You Keep a Client Conversation Going?(35:00) - Bowling, Karaoke, and My Humiliation(38:00) - How Do You Create Long Term Clients?(42:00) - Sugar Babying, the Saviour Complex and Quitting the Industry(47:00) - Consent is Cool(48:50) - How Do You Ask for More? How Do We Handle Our Sense of Value?(01:00:50) - Work-Life Balance as a Dominatrix(01:04:00) - The Eva Oh Experience(01:06:50) - How Much Do You Give Before a Session?

Jake Dean sits down with Eva Oh to chat week-long escort bookings, contentment, client demographics, the concept of ‘high end' and the whorearchy; and so so much more. Eva shares her tips for managing long term client engagements, decompression and a family heirloom that grounds her as a part of the process.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Jake Dean, Who Starts out by Charming Me(02:33) - Jake, Escort and Escort Agency Owner(03:50) - Why Escorting: Playboy, Business Studies and Amsterdam(06:30) - Jake's First Booking(07:30) - Customer Relationship Management in the Sex Industry(08:10) - How Escorting has Changed (For) Jake(11:50) - Friendship and Isolation(15:30) - Finding Contentment in Escorting(20:25) - Week-long Bookings with a Client?!(25:50) - How I Stay in Character-ish(27:50) - How I Decompress from a Long Booking: Habit, Practice and Boundaries(31:00) - Does Our Rates Effect Client Demographic and Behaviour?(34:00) - People Skills(35:15) - A Long Term Job(36:15) - Unpredictable and Questioning, Improving Self(38:55) - ‘High End' and the Whorearchy?(41:35) - How Jake Runs His Escort Agency(48:45) - Escort Touring Quirks and Good Habits

‘Miss Mummy' specialises in regression sessions for Adult Babies out of her specially built adult sized Nursery. Eva Oh joins Miss Mummy in the crib to discuss the motivations, vulnerability and stigma behind her practice; her Adult Baby counselling service; and the potential parallels between her work and that of a professional Dominatrix.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet ‘Miss Mummy' in Her Adult Baby Crib(01:40) - Adult Babies and Regression(04:00) - My First Adult Baby Session and the Stigma I Felt(05:30) - How Miss Mummy Discovered Adult Babies(09:05) - How Miss Mummy Navigates Her Adult Babies' Vulnerability(15:55) - Highly Sensitive People(17:25) - The Adult Baby Counselling Service(19:40) - Shame and Guilt(22:00) - Adult Baby Communities and Gatherings(23:27) - Dominatrix vs Mummy?(25:00) - Sex Work and Absurdity(27:30) - What an Adult Baby Experience Looks Like(30:20) - Freedom, Peace and Social Conditioning(34:00) - How Miss Mummy Integrates the Experience for a Client(38:00) - Miss Mummy's Future(40:30) - What is the Demographic of an Adult Baby(40:50) - The Post-War History of Adult Babies(47:50) - Holding Men

#teakink Podcast started out as a seasonal experiment in sharing an often sidelined perspective - that of a sex worker. And Oh, has our host Eva Oh shared. Stories and secrets of the sweet, the challenging and the titillating. But it's time to share the platform and so from here, this is no longer an experiment. The #teakink Podcast has found its format - to share valuable and underrepresented perspectives from around the world. Eva Oh sits down with international sex workers, sex industry professionals, those adjacent and who champion them; with some solo episodes from our host when the mood strikes. Welcome to the #teakink Podcast, now here to stay.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - No More Seasons(02:30) - Interviews as a Focus

This episode wraps the special 'Interview' Season of the #teakink Podcast. It's been quite the ride, with deeply insightful and generous guests that included heavy masochists, sex work academics, a submissive called 'Floor' and many more. Will Eva Oh continue? Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Masochism, Survival, Gratitude for People's Sharing (03:40) - Reflections on Reading My Memoir (04:20) - A Rewarding "Hobby", Thank You for Listening

Eva Oh invites 'M', a fan of #teakink - onto the Podcast. Eva's been curious about why you have been interested in the podcast as much as you have, and even though it turns out to be a little bit of an awkward episode hearing about herself - M's kindness and eloquence reveals a lot about the impact that #teakink has been able to have, what insights are possible through it and it lays a lot of groundwork on what more #teakink could become in time to come. Thanks 'M'! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Eva Oh Invites M, a Listener of #teakink - onto #teakink (01:30) - How M Found Me (02:20) - Getting Feedback on How I Communicate (04:20) - How has #teakink Impacted M? (06:20) - Questioning Priorities and Values (09:24) - Learning About Dominatrices (11:25) - M's Favourite Episode (14:50) - Parasocial Relationships and Podcast Hosts (16:10) - Why I Did This Episode (16:40) - I Want to be a Resource (20:25) - Making Sex Workers Visible (28:10) - M Introduces Herself - Research, Japan, Investment Banking (37:15) - Writing Women's Stories (39:50) - M's Experience with Kink and Hentai (46:45) - Different Times for Monogomy and Non-Monogamy (47:30) - What is Shareable About #teakink?

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When Eva Oh posted a question on AI and sex work to Instagram a wave of opinions came back, but a referenced musing via Google Docs from Goddess Faye clearly stood out - and now we have quite the episode of the #teakink Podcast on Bizarre Ladies, the potential viscerality of the digital, emotional design in session, nerdiness and BDSM, TeamLabs, Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams, brain tissue, VR Porn, Web3, Digital Harems and more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Goddess Faye aka Sensory Girl (01:20) - From Tumblr to Dominatrix and Pro Deviant (02:45) - Bizarre Ladies (03:18) - Sitting on Wet and Messy Things (04:55) - The Visceral Meets The Digital (09:27) - Emotional Design in Session (11:12) - Nerdiness and BDSM (12:10) - Technology in Session (15:00) - My Ultimate Fantasy and TeamLab (17:45) - Our Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams (20:20) - Brain Tissue, AI and Sentience (22:50) - VR Porn Needs to Evolve (23:35) - Next Innovations in the Sex Industry? (25:20) - Web3 Concerns (28:00) - Truthfulness (30:30) - The Unknown of AI (32:00) - Curator of Your Mind (33:40) - How Will AI Change BDSM and the Dominatrix (34:30) - The Digital Harem (35:25) - Consent, Chatbots and Submissive Control (36:50) - AI as a Good Submissive (39:15) - The Dehumanisation of Sex Workers (42:30) - Skin in the Game

Prolific Kink Photographer Miss Gold invites Eva Oh into the contents of her mind on this episode of the #teakink Podcast. We discover Miss Gold's start in fine art, her first steps into fetish, the importance of fantasy in her work, her sexuality and parenthood, and she reveals to us the intricacies of photographing sex parties as an insider. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - You Don't Deserve to See Miss Gold's Feet (01:20) - From Fine Art to Fetish Photography (02:30) - Sex Party Photography Highlights: Latex Pig Masks (04:00) - Fantastical Fantasies (06:20) - How Miss Gold Found Kink (08:00) - How to Photograph a Sex Party (10:00) - Editorial Photography Meets BDSM (12:00) - The Issues of Non-Kinksters Documenting Kink (16:30) - The Surge of Sex Parties (19:35) - Sex Influencer Culture (21:40) - Sexuality and Parenthood (26:00) - Being Pregnant at Sex Parties (28:00) - Discussing Sexuality with Our Children (31:50) - The Contents of Miss Gold's Mind (36:00) - Future Plans, Documenting Our Kink History

In this episode of the #teakink Podcast we meet Polly - an escort, academic, and community organiser with SWARM who shares the ins and outs of what a kink escort booking looks like, her thoughts on the state of academia, and her love for grimy leather bars and wild swimming. Eva Oh joins her on a campaign for queer cruising spaces and also shares a story of the time she got Root Beer Float Waterboarded. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Polly - Sex Worker, Academic, Community Organiser (02:15) - Non-Monogamy Circles and Sex Worker Friends (03:12) - Polly's First Steps into Sex Work (05:11) - Thinking About Oneself as a "Brand" (07:35) - Polly's First Booking, the Tiniest Double Ended Dildo (09:40) - What Does a Booking Look Like (13:40) - Finding the Kink Community and Grimy Leather Bars (17:40) - The State of Academia (20:15) - SWARM, Sex Worker Grassroots Organisation (25:50) - The Correlation Between Academia and Sex Work (28:15) - Polly's Ideal Week (32:50) - Wild Swimming (36:35) - Queer Cruising (39:50) - Personal Responsibility in Sex Spaces (41:30) - Kink Group Getaways and Murder Mysterys (44:25) - How to Cruise (47:45) - Root Beer Float Waterboarding

Playful Magazine, Podcast, TV... Amanda and Filip of Playful get into bed with Eva Oh to talk about their vision for Playful, platforming sex workers, discovering the fluidity of their sexualities, Filip in lingerie and a surprising experience that they had with Eva in the Berghain Darkroom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Amanda and Filip of Playful (02:00) - What is Playful (03:30) - How They Choose Their Guests (04:15) - Platforming Sex Workers (07:30) - The Playful Vision (09:40) - Music and Sex (11:30) - Featuring the Path Less Travelled (14:19) - Exploring The Fluidity of Their Sexualities (17:55) - What Makes a "Relevant" Man (19:25) - Peeing on People Together (20:20) - The Story of Eva in the Darkroom at Bergahin (30:25) - Berghain's Sexual Evolution (35:20) - Getting More Naked (39:20) - More Female Friendly Cruising Spots (41:20) - Playful TV

We take a mid season pause from the #teakink Podcast Interviews to feature a reading from Eva Oh's memoir in progress. A chapter on perfecting the mechanics of golden showers on a client called 'French Frank', and how Eva discovers a sense of joy that she had never experienced before, in her very first session as a Dominatrix. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - A Reading from My Memoir in Progress (01:15) - Chapter 7, Golden Showers

Ezada Sinn graces Eva Oh with her incomparable mind in this episode of the #teakink Podcast. Shot during Ezada's Femdom Summit in Bucharest, the Femdoms chat on the links between communism and women's power, Ezada's ideal relationship structures, raising children as a kinkster and the link between latex body bags and floatation tanks. We also get an insight into the origins of Ezada's personal fetishes and even an early masturbation ritual... Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - The Glorious Ezada Sinn (01:50) - The Femdom Summit, A Vision for Femdom and Bucharest (06:15) - Femdom Sightseeing (08:20) - Romanian History, Communism and Women's Power (11:05) - Discovering Dominance (13:10) - Ezada's Ideal Relationship/s, The Inverted 50s Household (18:10) - Raising a Family with a D/s "Village" (20:30) - Renegotiating Dynamics and Protocol with Life Changes, like Raising Children (23:30) - The Importance of Talking About Kinksters and Sex Worker with Children (27:55) - The Origins of Ezada's Fetishes (30:20) - Ezada's First Masturbation Ritual (32:00) - Latex Body Bags and Floatation Tanks (34:24) - Femdom Friendships (40:00) - Ezada's 'Talking Matriarchy' Podcast

Eva Oh places her feet on the chest of a submissive #teakink Podcast listener for an interview on the submissive mindset. With 'Floor', Eva leads a conversation on how he discovered his submissive identity, his journey from service top to submissive, his early desires to role play as the floor, his craving for connection and how he became a part of Eva's Domme Training Sessions. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - A Submissive Listener Now Under My Feet (02:35) - Is My Persona My Reality? The Sub's Perspective (05:00) - How We Know Each Other (06:39) - Becoming a Part of My Training Sessions (12:20) - What is a Session with a Dominatrix? (13:45) - A Hint at What a Session With Me is Like (16:00) - Discovering the Submissive Identity (17:20) - Finding the Community (19:50) - From Service Top to Submissive (22:15) - Wanting to Role Play as the Floor (24:40) - Thank You Graham Norton (25:20) - A Fetish in Hiding (28:40) - What it's Been Like Looking for a D/s Dynamic (31:40) - Craving Connection (34:45) - 24/7 Power Dynamics (43:00) - The Importance of Communication (45:00) - Finding Satisfaction

Eva Oh sits down with Cherry Velour to talk torture porn, discovering fear, creating consensual non consent scenes, the challenge of sensual pleasure, the torture of the patriarchy, submission as a symptom, shattering the ego - and an impressive number of other points that they manage to squeeze into an hour of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Meet Cherry Velour (00:30) - Cherry's Torture Porn (03:20) - What is the Sound of Torture? (06:20) - Can a Desire for Torture Meet Reality (07:50) - Discovering Fear (10:00) - Creating Consensual Non Consent Scenes (12:15) - Why is Fear Interesting (13:40) - Maggots and Cold Bodies of Water (15:38) - The Challenge of Sensual Sexual Pleasure (21:03) - The Desire for a 24/7 Power Dynamic (23:20) - The Torture of the Patriarchy (26:00) - Too Few Perverts in Denmark? (27.50) - The UK, A Country of Bottoms and Subs? (31:00) - Submission as a Symptom (32:55) - A Special Breed of Dominant (35:30) - The Benefits of Being Thoughtful About Kink (39:50) - Shattering the Ego (44:30) - What's next for Cherry Velour?

We kick of the #teakink Interview Season with Eva Oh's dear friend Missy Fatale, International Burlesque Siren and fellow female dominant. From an intrigue in sex, death and nudity, to coming up against the patriarchy as a child, we discover how Missy moves from the world of fine art into the liberation of performance, the struggle of surrender as a Femdom; and how a mainstream audience responds to fetish on the stage. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com Missy's Links: instagram.com/missy_fatale instagram.com/vintageartsagency vintageartsagency.com instagram.com/haus_of_fatale vintageartsagency.com/hausoffatale HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Who is Missy Fatale? (02:05) - Sex, Death and Nudity (03:30) - Patriarchy as a Child (05:05) - Discovering Dominance (06:50) - From Fine Art to the Liberation of Performance (13:25) - Fetish in Performance Art (14:50) - Social Media's Effect on Performance (16:15) - Vintage Arts Agency, House of Fatale, Fatalism (17:00) - Bringing the Dungeon to the Stage (18:20) - How Audiences Respond (20:20) - Fetish as Life (23:20) - Attempting Surrender as Dominant Women (27:15) - What Female Dominance Means to Us (31:45) - Using Terms as Opposed to them Using Us (33:25) - Marie Kondo-ing Life (34:25) - The State of Fetish in the Performance Industry (38:20) - Eva Oh, Missy's House Dominatrix (39:55) - Missy Fatale's Final Act

Season 5 of the #teakink Podcast is all about the interviews. Eva Oh welcomes sex industry professionals, kink community photographers, masochists, fans and more to her play space sofa for a conversations that offer a deeper look into her world and its inhabitants.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Let the Interview Season Begin(01:05) - Escorts, Kink Photographers, Masochists and Fans(01:55) - Get a Deeper Look into My World

Sex Work can feel isolating because of society's shortcomings and even simply within the logistics of the job. A question on how to manage feelings of isolation when on tour or travelling for work as a sex worker leads Eva Oh to reveal an insight into her touring history, and the habits, community and secrets that have kept her grounded - including a travelling totem and room service spaghetti bolognaise…More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Touring as a Sex Worker(01:10) - My Touring History(02:35) - But I Love Solitude(03:25) - The Benefits of Sex Worker Communitiy(03:55) - Familiarity on the Road(07:15) - Dating App Entertainment(07:50) - Keeping Motivations Front of Mind(09:20) - Totems and Spaghetti Bolognaise(11:10) - Touring in Doubles(12:30) - Much Love!

A somewhat academic question reveals the more visceral leanings of Eva Oh's view on kink. On this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva reveals why she tends to avoid pathologising the kinks of those who work with her, the neurology of foot fetishes, the potential meaning of what a ‘desire template' is and more things that she often sets aside to prioritise getting gloriously filthy.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question from a Sexologist on the Origin of Fetishes(00:55) - I'm Less Academic, More Pervert(01:45) - Avoiding Pathologising for Experiential Thrills(04:50) - The Neurology of Foot Fetish(05:50) - Examining Me, Eva Oh(10:05) - What Are Desire Templates?(10:50) - I Think We're More Similar Than Not(12:55) - Maybe I Should See a Sexologist?

A cute story from a #teakink Podcast listener on bondage and bubbles reminds Eva Oh of the magic and importance of play as conduit for expressing and understanding the potential of our humanity.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Story on Bondage and Bubbles(01:25) - The Importance of Play in the Complexity of BDSM(07:00) - What BDSM Can Teach Us(09:50) - My Play Preferences(10:18) - Play and the Potential of Our Humanity?

It can be a complicated experience navigating social situations as a sex worker. Do we reveal our occupation to the dinner table? Might people react poorly? What can we say to protect ourselves, or shed light on our jobs, and should this even be our weight to carry? Eva Oh gives us some options on how to navigate society and their preconceptions on this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/society-is-ashamed-at-the-dinn(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Social Interactions as a Sex Worker(00:48) - Society is Ashamed(02:15) - Some Options(07:40) - Encountering Shock and Horror(09:25) - Learning the Vocabulary(11:20) - Leaving People Behind(11:50) - In the Uber(14:40) - It's What You're Ready For(16:00) - Dolphin Trainers

We open with a question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships and we end up amongst the problematic nature of clickbait and hopefully a few alternative ways to drive traffic to OnlyFans and into our businesses. A #teakink Podcast episode on how to think about our personal goals whilst placing worth in the challenges that sex workers face collectively.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships(01:18) - What I Think the Question is(02:00) - Ways to Drive Traffic to OnlyFans(04:15) - Sex Work as Clickbait(06:50) - On the Sex Work PR Campaign Trail(08:15) - Sex Worker Friendships(12:25) - Keeping a Wider Perspective

Ever thought about experiencing a dominatrix? Then this is a MUST listen as the award winning dominatrix Eva Oh joins us! HOW MUCH can you make in a week!? Follow Eva @youwillplease_me To support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices