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Every parent wants confident kids.But what if confidence isn't something parents can simply give their children?In Episode 164 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis and his daughter Crissy close out their Champion Mindset series with an important parenting lesson:Confidence isn't built by compliments. It's built by competence.Crissy looks back at several experiences her parents pushed her toward—even when she was scared, resistant, or didn't understand why.Joining the worship team.Starting Super Kids.Trying out for varsity tennis.Each experience initially felt uncomfortable.But on the other side of that discomfort was growth.In this episode, you'll discover:When parents should push children beyond their comfort zonesWhy fear can masquerade as wisdomHow competence creates lasting confidenceWhy children sometimes need parents to see beyond their immediate feelingsHelping kids deal with people who don't understand or approve of themRaising kids who are comfortable standing outHow teens can communicate honestly with their parentsWhy parents need to own mistakes and apologizeHow to stretch kids without damaging the relationshipWhy your child needs opportunities to discover what they're capable ofCrissy shares that she was extremely nervous about joining the worship team, starting her business, and trying out for varsity tennis—but now she is grateful that her parents didn't allow fear to make those decisions for her.She also offers parents an important warning: when you raise kids to pursue higher standards, not everyone around them will understand or approve. Parents need to help children navigate that rather than teaching them that everyone has to like them.Your child doesn't need an easier life.They need more opportunities to discover:“I can do hard things.”Subscribe to High Performance Parenting as we help parents raise champion children in a crazy world.#HighPerformanceParenting #ChristianParenting #ConfidentKids #ParentingTeens #RaiseChampionKids(00:00) - Raising Kids Who Won't Always Fit In (00:54) - Intro (01:36) - When Kids Actually Apply What You Teach (03:04) - Why Parents Sometimes Need to Push (03:28) - Getting Outside the Comfort Zone (04:54) - Starting Super Kids Before Feeling Ready (05:36) - Pushing Through Fear in Sports (06:26) - Fear Can Masquerade as Wisdom (07:09) - Advice for Parents Raising Champion Kids (07:52) - Teaching Kids to Stand Out (09:44) - Advice for Teenagers (10:32) - Why Teens Need Honest Conversations With Parents (12:06) - When Parents Need to Apologize (12:56) - Creating a Culture of Growth (13:25) - Confidence Comes From Competence (14:10) - Let Kids Struggle and Grow (15:18) - Start With One Change (16:01) - What Is Super Kids?
What happens when your child is doing the right thing—but other people still misunderstand them?In Episode 163 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis continues his Champion Mindset conversation with his daughter Crissy, exploring a powerful distinction:Your reputation is what other people think you are.Your character is who you really are.Crissy shares honestly about being intense, competitive, and committed to working hard—and how not everyone around her appreciates that.Instead of shrinking herself to gain approval, she's learning to stay focused on becoming the person she knows she wants to be.In this episode, you'll discover:How to teach kids the difference between character and reputationWhy approval can become a dangerous measuring stickHelping children stay true to their values when others criticize themWhy hard work can make other people uncomfortableGrowth mindset vs. fixed mindset in sports and lifeWhy parents should reward growth and habits—not only resultsHelping kids process disappointment without letting it define themWhat to do when your child gives everything and still losesHow parents can support a child through setbacksWhy effort and character matter long after trophies are forgottenOne of the strongest lessons in the episode is that parents shouldn't only celebrate the child who finishes first. Greg explains that he was equally proud of both daughters in a recent tournament because both worked hard and grew—even though only one could win.Crissy also opens up about the emotional challenge of sitting out competition while working on recovery, even when she knew it was the right long-term decision.Your kids won't always control what people think about them.But they can control who they become.Subscribe to High Performance Parenting as we help parents raise champion children in a crazy world.#HighPerformanceParenting #ChristianParenting #CharacterMatters #GrowthMindset #ParentingTeens(00:00) - Character vs. Reputation (00:39) - Intro (01:41) - What Is Challenging Chrissy Most? (01:51) - Embracing Hard Work Without a Victim Mindset (02:59) - Growth Is Still a Blessing (04:29) - Character Matters More Than Reputation (05:51) - Stop Building Your Identity Around Approval (06:54) - Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset (08:09) - Reward Growth, Not Just Results (09:33) - What Chrissy Wishes Her Parents Understood (09:37) - Sitting Out When You Want to Compete (11:42) - Processing a Painful Loss (14:17) - Preparing for a Healthy Season (14:34) - How Parents Can Support Their Kids (15:53) - Effort Matters More Than the Trophy
What is your child saying to themselves when they make a mistake?“I'm terrible at this.”“I'll never get it.”“Maybe I'm just not talented enough.”Those statements may sound harmless in the moment—but repeated negative self-talk can begin shaping what a child believes about themselves.In Episode 162 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis continues his Champion Mindset conversation with his daughter Crissy as they explore the connection between self-talk, mental toughness, preparation, discipline, and performance.Crissy openly shares that she can be her own worst critic and has had to intentionally change the way she speaks to herself on the tennis court and in everyday life.In this episode, you'll discover:Why champions aren't simply born with stronger mindsHow mental toughness can be intentionally developedWhy negative self-talk affects performanceHow children unintentionally reinforce limiting beliefsWhat athletes can say after mistakes instead of attacking themselvesWhy discipline now prevents regret laterHow physical preparation and mental preparation work togetherWhy children need to focus on what they can controlHow to help kids stop comparing their circumstances to othersWhy becoming champion-minded requires changing daily habitsCrissy explains that instead of reacting to a mistake with frustration, she's learning to respond with thoughts such as “It wasn't my best, but it was closer.” That seemingly small shift helps her remain in a productive mental state rather than spiraling into criticism.Greg also shares an important warning:Your subconscious starts believing what you repeatedly tell it.That's why helping kids develop healthy, truthful, productive self-talk is about much more than sports.It's preparing them for life.
Are champions born with something the rest of us don't have—or can a champion mindset be built?In Episode 161 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down again with his daughter Crissy to talk about her mindset journey as she prepares for her junior tennis season.After experiencing injuries, heartbreaking losses, difficult matches, and opponents with more natural ability, Crissy has discovered something powerful: Talent alone doesn't determine how far you go.Mindset matters.Preparation matters.Discipline matters.Mental toughness matters.And your choices matter.In this episode, you'll discover:How to help kids turn disappointment into fuelWhy hard work can overcome natural talentThe difference between positive thinking and mental toughnessWhy young athletes need to train their minds AND bodiesHow to stop turning setbacks into a victim storyWhy having a compelling vision changes daily habitsTeaching children to pursue excellence when nobody is watchingHow parents can create environments that encourage kids to stretch themselvesWhy failure can become preparation for future successCrissy shares how losing just short of her goals didn't cause her to quit—it made her ask how she could get better. She also explains how injuries are becoming part of her story of toughness rather than an excuse for where she hasn't yet arrived.Your child doesn't have to be the most naturally gifted person in the room.Teach them to prepare, work, persevere, learn, and choose to become better.Subscribe to High Performance Parenting as we help parents raise champion children in a crazy world.#HighPerformanceParenting #ChampionMindset #ChristianParenting #YouthSports #MentalToughness(00:00) - Hard Work Beats Talent (00:28) - Intro (01:10) - Chrissy's Tennis Mindset Journey (02:40) - Are Champions Born Different? (03:06) - You're Born a Chooser (04:30) - Turning Disappointment Into Fuel (05:41) - Chrissy's Brutal District Tournament (07:14) - Outworking Natural Talent (08:20) - Training Skill and Mindset (09:37) - Stop Making Setbacks Your Victim Story (10:18) - What Is a Champion Mindset? (12:01) - Creating a Vision Worth Chasing (13:09) - The Habits Behind Big Goals (14:10) - Creating an Environment Where Kids Excel (15:33) - When Parenting Lessons Become Their Habits (16:32) - What Champions Do When No One Is Watching (16:54) - Helping Young Athletes Build Mental Toughness
Why do so many teenagers look confident on the outside while struggling with insecurity on the inside?In Episode 160 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with his 15-year-old daughter Crissy for Part 2 of their conversation about entrepreneurship, responsibility, purpose, and what actually builds confidence in kids.Crissy shares what she's learned from starting businesses, selling products at art fairs, building SuperKids, competing in tennis, learning from failure, and taking on responsibilities she once didn't think she could handle.And her perspective on teenage confidence might surprise you.In this episode, discover:Why authentic confidence comes from accomplishment, not appearanceHow responsibility increases a child's capacityWhy kids should start building skills before adulthoodWhat entrepreneurship teaches about failure and perseveranceThe difference between parents creating opportunities and forcing achievementWhy preparation creates confidenceHow business lessons translate into sports and everyday lifeWhy purpose, leadership, ownership, and responsibility matter for kidsCrissy explains that her parents could provide opportunities and guidance, but they couldn't make her care, learn, apply the lessons, or build the community for her. Ultimately, she had to take ownership herself.Want to learn more about SuperKids?Text SUPERKIDS to 33777 for more information. This does not sign you up; it provides information so you can decide whether it's right for your family.Subscribe and join us as we encourage parents to raise champion children in a crazy world.#HighPerformanceParenting #ChristianParenting #ParentingTeens #ConfidentKids #RaisingLeaders(00:00) - Why Teens Struggle with Real Confidence (00:43) - Intro (01:20) - Chrissy's Entrepreneurial Journey (02:08) - Learning How to Sell (03:08) - When Your Best Idea Doesn't Sell (04:13) - Learning to Build a Business (05:02) - Getting Comfortable Being Uncomfortable (06:54) - Building Capacity at 15 (08:09) - What Today's Teenagers Are Missing (09:52) - Why Kids Should Start Now (10:55) - Parents: Push or Let Kids Lead? (12:31) - Creating an Environment for Growth (13:19) - Preparation Builds Confidence (13:42) - Business Lessons That Transfer to Sports (14:37) - Kids Need Purpose and Responsibility (16:10) - How to Learn More About SuperKids
What happens when you stop waiting until your kids are adults to teach them entrepreneurship, leadership, responsibility, and service?In Episode 159 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with his 15-year-old daughter Crissy to talk about the business and ministry she began at just 13 years old: Redwood Super Kids.Super Kids serves children ages 2–12 through live online gatherings designed to help kids understand how much God loves them while developing character, confidence, communication skills, friendships, and faith.But this conversation goes far beyond the business.Crissy shares what building something of her own has taught her about:Starting before you feel readyResponsibility and consistencyServing others with excellenceMarketing and customer serviceCommunicating with adults and childrenReceiving difficult feedbackHandling rejectionTime managementFear of failureSeparating your identity from your resultsGreg explains why their family doesn't believe children should wait until adulthood to learn entrepreneurship, leadership, and responsibility.One of Crissy's biggest discoveries was that using your gifts to serve others isn't necessarily easy, it requires hard work, sacrifice, and choosing what needs to be done even when something else would be more fun.And perhaps the most important lesson?Your identity isn't determined by your numbers, your customers, or your results.If you want to raise children who become doers instead of only dreamers, this conversation will challenge the way you think about preparing kids for adulthood.
What makes a family truly strong?It's not having fewer problems.It's learning how to solve problems—together.In this final episode of the High Agency Parenting series, Greg and Jacquie Francis explain how families can intentionally create a culture where responsibility, resilience, ownership, and problem-solving become everyday habits.In this episode you'll learn:Why high agency is built through daily family cultureHow parents model resilience during difficult seasonsResponding to setbacks without blaming or panickingTeaching children to ask, "What's our next move?"Why solution-focused families thrive through adversityHelping children become leaders instead of victimsCreating a home where responsibility becomes normalYour children won't remember a perfect childhood.They'll remember how your family responded when life wasn't perfect.
Life isn't always fair.Your child will face difficult teachers, unfair coaches, rejection, failure, and disappointment.The question is… how will they respond?In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis continue their conversation on High Agency Parenting, sharing practical ways to help children stop making excuses and start solving problems.In this episode you'll learn:Why solving every problem weakens your child's confidenceTeaching kids to become problem solvers instead of excuse makersHelping children navigate unfair situations with wisdomWhy failure often becomes the greatest teacherFocusing on what you can control instead of what you can'tBuilding resilience through everyday disappointmentsRaising children who love God, take ownership, and lead othersLife won't always be easy—but your children can become strong enough to handle it.
What if one of the greatest gifts you could give your child wasn't protection—but the confidence to solve hard problems on their own?In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis introduce one of the most important concepts parents can teach: high agency.Instead of raising children who blame circumstances or wait for someone else to fix things, learn how to raise kids who take ownership, solve problems, and confidently move forward.In this episode you'll discover:What high agency really meansWhy rescuing children can unintentionally create dependencyTeaching kids to own their mistakesHelping children solve problems instead of making excusesBuilding responsibility through everyday situationsWhy natural consequences create confident adultsRaising children with biblical ownership and personal responsibilityYour goal isn't simply to raise good kids.It's to raise adults who love God, take ownership, serve others, and make the world better.
Sibling conflict is inevitable.Sibling division doesn't have to be.In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis are joined again by daughters Chrissy and Abby to discuss how their family intentionally builds strong sibling relationships, even during busy summers when everyone is spending more time together.In this episode you'll learn:Why sibling relationships require intentional investmentPractical ways children naturally connect with one anotherHow shared activities strengthen family bondsWhen to give siblings space instead of forcing connectionWhy grace is essential during conflictHelping children communicate instead of reacting emotionallyRaising brothers and sisters who become lifelong friendsHealthy sibling relationships don't happen by accident.They're built through intentional moments, forgiveness, grace, and consistent family leadership.
Should kids spend the entire summer relaxing?Or is there a better balance between rest, growth, and unforgettable family memories?In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie are joined by daughters Chrissy and Abby to share how their family intentionally structures summer so their children continue growing while still having an incredible time together.In this episode you'll learn:How to balance summer freedom with healthy structureWhy "work before play" creates greater enjoymentHelping kids develop responsibility without overwhelming themTeaching entrepreneurship through real businessesWhy reading and learning shouldn't stop during summerHow travel becomes part of your child's educationCreating a summer your children genuinely enjoyYour family's summer doesn't have to look like everyone else's.Design one that helps your children grow while creating lifelong memories.
Every family has a culture.The question is... is it intentional?In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis explain how the everyday experiences inside your home shape your children's identity, relationships, and future far more than you may realize.You'll discover: What family culture really is Why every home already has a culture—even unintentionally Teaching forgiveness without defining children by their mistakes Why encouragement changes behavior more than constant correction Creating a home filled with laughter, respect, and connection Helping siblings become lifelong friends Practical ways to intentionally build a Christ-centered family culture Your children won't simply become what you hope for.They'll become what your home consistently reinforces.If you're ready to intentionally shape your family's future, this episode is for you.
On today's episode, filmmaker Greg Francis shares the incredible journey behind making his first feature film, Poker Night, after spending more than a decade fighting to bring it to the screen. From growing up in Taiwan as the son of missionaries to discovering filmmaking through public access television and documentary work, Greg explains how persistence—not overnight success—became the defining theme of his career. He discusses raising financing, navigating Hollywood, losing major actors, rebuilding projects from scratch, and why surviving the filmmaking business often matters more than immediate success.The conversation is packed with practical filmmaking wisdom, covering fundraising, crowdfunding, writing screenplays, directing actors, story development, working with experienced crews, casting recognizable talent, film distribution, and the changing economics of independent cinema. Greg also shares why writing multiple scripts is essential, how to receive honest feedback, why relationships matter more than shortcuts, and why every setback becomes another lesson that prepares filmmakers for the next opportunity.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/bulletproof-screenwriting-podcast--2881148/support.
Families rarely fall into chaos overnight.More often, they slowly drift because of small compromises that become accepted over time.In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis discuss how family culture is formed through consistent standards, intentional leadership, and everyday parenting decisions that often seem insignificant but produce lifelong results.In this episode you'll learn:Why small compromises eventually become family cultureThe importance of bedtime routines and family connectionHow respect is taught through everyday interactionsWhy consistency matters more than convenienceThe hidden danger of lowering family standardsCorrecting behavior with love instead of reacting emotionallyCreating a home culture that supports long-term successStrong families aren't built by accident—they're built through intentional daily choices.
On today's episode, filmmaker Greg Francis shares the incredible journey behind making his first feature film, Poker Night, after spending more than a decade fighting to bring it to the screen. From growing up in Taiwan as the son of missionaries to discovering filmmaking through public access television and documentary work, Greg explains how persistence—not overnight success—became the defining theme of his career. He discusses raising financing, navigating Hollywood, losing major actors, rebuilding projects from scratch, and why surviving the filmmaking business often matters more than immediate success.The conversation is packed with practical filmmaking wisdom, covering fundraising, crowdfunding, writing screenplays, directing actors, story development, working with experienced crews, casting recognizable talent, film distribution, and the changing economics of independent cinema. Greg also shares why writing multiple scripts is essential, how to receive honest feedback, why relationships matter more than shortcuts, and why every setback becomes another lesson that prepares filmmakers for the next opportunity.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/indie-film-hustle-a-filmmaking-podcast--2664729/support.
The teenage years don't have to be something parents fear.They can become one of the most meaningful seasons of family life when approached with intentionality.In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis share the special traditions they use to celebrate their children's transition into the teenage years and discuss how to prepare kids for this exciting new season without rushing them into adulthood.In this episode you'll discover:• Why celebrating milestones builds confidence• The traditions their children look forward to at age 13• Helping kids embrace each stage of childhood• Navigating peer pressure with intentional parenting• Why parents need a strategy before the teenage years arrive• The importance of biblical standards in today's culture• Inviting the Holy Spirit into your parenting decisionsIf you're raising young children or preparing for the teenage years, this episode offers practical ideas to help your family thrive.
No family is built without mistakes.In this deeply personal episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis share some of their lowest parenting moments, the lessons they learned, and how God's grace transformed their family.If you've ever wondered whether your past disqualifies you from becoming the parent your children need, this episode is for you.Inside this conversation:• Breaking unhealthy generational patterns• Learning from mentors with healthy families• Why intentional parenting changes everything• Letting God's Word become your parenting foundation• The parenting mistakes that forever changed Greg and Jacquie• Finding hope after failure• Why growth begins with humilityEvery family has a story.The question is: What story will yours tell from this point forward?
What separates families that simply survive from families that truly thrive?In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis answer questions from an upcoming leadership panel and reveal the intentional systems, habits, and biblical principles that have helped shape their family over the past 17 years.In this episode you'll learn:The moment they knew family was their God-given missionWhy successful families don't happen by accidentThe importance of weekly family team meetingsHow forgiveness strengthens family cultureWhy structure creates freedom instead of restrictionBuilding family systems that actually workMatching your intentionality at home with your ambition at workIf you've ever wondered how to create a peaceful, connected, Christ-centered family culture, this episode offers practical tools you can begin using today.
Culture is shaping your children every single day—but parents still have the greatest opportunity to lead.In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis wrap up their discussion on why they started the podcast and share the heart behind their mission to equip families to thrive.In this episode you'll discover:Why leadership must begin at homeHow intentional parenting creates lasting changeThe balance between discipline and connectionWhy structure brings freedom instead of restrictionBuilding a marriage that strengthens your parentingRaising children with a Kingdom perspectiveProtecting your family from today's cultural pressuresEvery parent is leading someone. The question is: Are you leading with purpose?
What if your greatest parenting goal wasn't simply raising successful kids—but raising children who always know where home is?In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis unpack one of the foundational reasons behind this podcast: helping parents build peaceful, connected, Christ-centered homes that create lasting family legacies.You'll discover:Why discipline is an act of love—not punishmentHow healthy identity is formed in childrenWhy your kids are God's children firstCreating a home your children always want to return toBuilding generational faith instead of temporary successWhy intentional parenting changes everythingThis episode will challenge you to think beyond today and begin parenting for generations.
Every great parenting journey begins with a "why."In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis share the deeply personal story behind why they started this podcast—and why helping families has become their life's mission.From initially fearing parenthood to raising six children, they discuss:- Why they almost chose not to have kids- Learning to parent without healthy examples- The challenges of strong-willed children- Building a united marriage while raising a family- Why understanding your child's personality changes everything- How God transformed fear into purposeIf you've ever wondered whether you're doing enough as a parent—or if you feel like you're figuring it out as you go—this conversation will encourage you that parenting isn't about perfection. It's about growing with intention.
What separates thriving families from struggling families?Intentional leadership.In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis explain why leadership must begin inside the home before it can impact the world. They discuss the dangers of passive parenting, the importance of creating clear family standards, and why children need strong boundaries, consistent expectations, and unified parents.Whether you're raising toddlers, teenagers, or preparing for future generations, this episode offers practical wisdom for building a family culture that develops confident, resilient, faith-filled children.In This Episode:✔ Why leadership starts at home✔ The dangers of passive parenting✔ Creating clear family standards✔ Why kids need boundaries✔ Fathers stepping into leadership✔ Parenting as a unified team✔ Helping overwhelmed parents find clarityIf you're serious about raising champion children in a crazy world, this episode is a must-listen. Click here to watch a video of this episode. 00:00 Intro01:15 Leadership Starts at Home04:00 Parenting as a Unified Team05:40 Why Kids Need Direction and Boundaries07:30 Fathers Must Step Into Leadership10:00 Stop Drifting as Parents11:50 Why Parents Feel Overwhelmed14:00 Becoming the Loudest Voice in Your Child's Life17:30 Simplifying Family Leadership
In Episode 134 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis and daughter Crissy unpack one of the most overlooked keys to athletic success:
In Episode 133 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with daughter Crissy to talk about one of the most overlooked parts of youth sports:
In Episode 127 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with his teenage daughters to uncover the pressure teens face today — that many parents don't fully understand.They discuss:The pressure to fit in and be acceptedHow insecurity leads teens to seek attention in unhealthy waysWhy social media amplifies comparison and pressureThe challenge of growing up too fastWhy some teens isolate while others act outHow different personality types respond to pressureThey also explore a powerful truth:
In Episode 126 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with his teenage daughters to uncover what actually builds — and destroys — respect from teens.They share:Why clear standards create respectHow inconsistency causes teens to stop taking parents seriouslyWhy teens need both boundaries AND freedomHow nagging and control damage relationshipWhy encouragement matters more than teens admitWhat shuts teens down emotionally (even unintentionally)How parents can be strong leaders AND stay connectedThis episode reveals one of the most important truths in parenting:
In Episode 125 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with his teenage daughters to hear directly from them:
In Episode 116 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis continues the conversation with daughters Abby and Elli about what discipline was like growing up in their home.This episode explores:How kids test boundaries naturally,Why parents need consistent standards,How discipline differs from punishment,What it felt like to receive correction,And why identity restoration mattered so much afterward.Abby and Elli share real memories of childhood discipline, funny stories from growing up, and why clear authority in the home actually made them feel more secure.If you are a parent trying to lead with both love and conviction, this episode gives practical insight into how discipline can build character instead of shame.(00:00) Why Kids Naturally Test Boundaries(02:23) Early Childhood Discipline Stories(05:54) Discipline vs Punishment(07:18) Why Discipline Is an Act of Love(08:00) Parents as Disciplinarians First(10:17) Clear Standards and Consistency(11:58) Why Kids Need Boundaries(13:58) Crossing the Line and Knowing It(15:55) Restoring the Standard After Discipline
What do kids actually remember about discipline?In Episode 115 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis continues the conversation with daughters Abbie and Elli about their experience growing up in a home with clear expectations and consistent discipline.They discuss:What discipline actually felt like as kidsWhy the discipline process was quick and restorativeThe importance of restoring identity after disciplineFunny childhood stories about getting in troubleThe famous “spanking stick in every glove box” storyWhy clear standards helped them understand right and wrongThis episode continues the discipline series exploring how consistent parenting helps raise confident, responsible children.(00:00) Kids Reflect on Discipline Growing Up(01:07) The Discipline Process in Our Home(02:40) Restoring Identity After Discipline(04:10) Why Discipline Was Quick and Private(05:50) Funny Stories About Getting in Trouble(07:45) Kids Explaining What Discipline Felt Like(09:35) The “Spanking Stick” Family Story(11:20) Why Clear Standards Matter(13:05) How Discipline Restored Relationships(15:10) What Kids Learned From Discipline
What do kids actually think about being disciplined?In Episode 114 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with daughters Abbie and Elli to discuss their childhood experience growing up in a home with clear expectations and consistent discipline.They share real stories about:Moments they got in trouble growing upThe difference between punishment and loving disciplineWhy parents must establish standards in the homeHow discipline actually restored relationshipsWhy discipline helped build respect for authority and God's WordThis episode kicks off a deeper series exploring how biblical discipline helps raise strong, responsible children in a chaotic world.(00:00) Kids Naturally Test Boundaries(01:30) Why Parents Must Establish Standards(03:10) Funny Childhood Moments Getting in Trouble(05:02) Punishment vs Loving Discipline(07:08) Why Discipline Restores Relationships(09:12) Teaching Respect for Authority(11:04) Consistency in Parenting(13:18) Why Parents Must Lead First(15:20) Preparing for the Discipline Series
In this inspiring father–daughter episode, Greg Francis sits down with Crissy Lou Francis to talk about how parents can raise entrepreneurial kids — children who believe in their God-given creativity, take risks, and learn resilience through both success and struggle.They share stories from the Francis family, lessons from real estate, sports, and business, and how faith forms the foundation for every entrepreneurial step.Is your child ready to succeed and make friends who share their values? Crissy is inviting your family and friends to join Redwood SuperKids, an amazing program for kids! Text “Superkids” to 33777 to learn more and sing up now! Follow Redwood Superkids on Instagram @redwood_superkids for updates!You'll Learn:The mindset that separates doers from dreamersWhy fear is a normal part of the entrepreneurial processHow to teach kids to try again after failureHow faith and risk-taking work togetherWhat it means to “train up a child” with courage and purpose
In this powerful and heartfelt episode, Greg Francis sits down with his daughters to unpack what true discipline and mindset look like — both in sports and in life. From varsity golf lessons to real talk about frustration, failure, and teamwork, this episode shows how daily consistency and faith shape champions from the inside out.They discuss the difference between distress and eustress, the importance of structure and choice, and why discipline isn't punishment — it's preparation.
In this inspiring episode of Redwood Parenting, Greg Francis sits down with his triplet daughters to unpack what it really takes to develop a champion mindset — on and off the course. From varsity golf pressure to emotional control, the family dives into what happens when you let your thoughts define your performance.They explore the difference between distress and eustress, how to build mental resilience, and why excellence is a process — not a result. Whether your child is an athlete, musician, or student, this conversation will help you guide them toward emotional stability, confidence, and daily excellence.
In this heartfelt episode of the High Performance Parenting, Jacquie and Greg Francis close their Identity Series by revealing one of the most powerful tools in Christian parenting — speaking God's Word over your kids.They share personal stories of reading daily identity prayers aloud, declaring scripture over each of their children, and watching those words come to life years later. Through faith, consistency, and intentional parenting, they show how parents can shape their children's spiritual foundation one declaration at a time.
In this episode of the Redwood Parenting Podcast, Jacquie and Greg Francis dive deep into the power of prayer, declarations, and speaking truth over your children. They share how praying daily—backed by scripture—can transform your family's identity, protect against negative influences, and align your home with God's promises.
In this episode of the High Performance Parenting, Jacquie and Greg Francis tackle one of the most critical topics for today's families: raising kids who know who they are before the world tells them otherwise.From teachers' careless words to the constant noise of social media, children are bombarded with voices that can shape their identity—for better or worse. Jacquie and Greg share personal stories, the importance of intentional parenting, and practical steps parents can take to speak life into their kids and ground them in truth.
In this episode of the Redwood Parenting Podcast, Jacquie and Greg Francis open up about the journey that led them to create a coaching and parenting movement rooted in faith, family, and legacy.From overcoming dysfunction and breaking free from victimhood, to raising kids who are confident, responsible, and faith-driven—this conversation is filled with wisdom for parents who want to leave a lasting impact on their children and future generations.Key Takeaways:Why breaking cycles of dysfunction matters in parentingHow to raise confident communicators at a young ageBuilding a generational legacy of faith, strength, and purposePractical tips for instilling responsibility and resilience
Join Jacquie and Greg Francis for a real, relatable conversation about how their family actually unplugs—and why traditional vacations don't always cut it. From mini getaways to structured rest rhythms, they share how entrepreneurs and parents can protect their peace, unplug with purpose, and still show up with strength for their kids.
In this vulnerable, powerful episode, Greg Francis and Brad Wolgamott unpack what it truly means to restore the standard—in parenting, marriage, and identity. What do you say when your child messes up… again? How do you respond when your spouse fails? This conversation reframes discipline as discipleship and teaches parents how to speak truth in love, even after deep wounds.
In this continuation of a dynamic conversation with Greg Francis and guest Brad Wolgamont, we unpack how to raise confident, respectful kids by creating a family culture built on standards, structure, and love. From screen limits and training eye contact to the power of a family constitution, Greg shares wisdom for any parent—no matter your starting point.
How do you raise confident, high-character kids in a world that constantly attacks their identity? In this vulnerable, powerful conversation, Greg Francis joins host Brad The Man Maker to share the parenting philosophy behind Redwood Parenting—and how they've created a home that builds champions through discipleship, structure, love, and unwavering intentionality.
In this installment, Crissy, Abbie, Bella, and Greg Francis reflect on the compliments they wish they had given last year, their greatest triumphs of the past year, and the advice they would give themselves moving forward. Hear how each family member responded and the insights gathered from another year of growth. Thoughtful reflection has been a hallmark of the flourishing Francis family—tune in to be inspired by their journey! #Faith #Encouragement #ThePowerOfWords"
Greg and Jacquie Francis share what they're most proud of in their marriage, parenting, and growth over the past 21 years. With plenty of laughter—thanks to Greg's humor—they reflect on the choices and lessons that shaped their journey. Join them for an uplifting conversation about faith, perseverance, and the joy of building a life rooted in love and intention.
Listen as Greg and Jacquie Francis reflect on their family's experiences leading up to and surrounding the recent presidential election. With differing opinions inevitable, how can we promote unity within our families and communities when disagreements arise? "Unity is worth fighting for—it must be pursued intentionally." Critical thinking and discernment in identifying trustworthy sources are crucial in helping our families navigate a fractured world with wisdom and hope.
Prayer isn't just for big moments—it's for the everyday, ordinary parts of life, too! In this episode, Greg and Jacquie Francis are joined by 5-year-old Huntter Grace, sharing real-life examples of how they pray with their kids throughout the day. Including unique nighttime family prayer huddles, walking in their neighborhood, and asking for protection while traveling, prayer is embedded in the daily rhythm of the Francis Household. Get inspired here!
Success comes from being intentional about bringing out the best in ourselves. Tune in as Dad (Greg Francis) coaches Abbie, Bella, Crissy, Druce, and Elli on what they can expect on their journey to achievement. This episode explores the real-life challenges of pushing toward higher performance standards, from handling fluctuating emotions and physical pain to facing loss despite hard work. Get ready to take notes—this episode dives deep into the mindset and resilience needed to reach the next level."
Join Abbie, Bella, Crissy, Druce, Elli, and Dad (Greg Francis) as they break down their athletic goals for this fall. Discover actionable strategies for goal-setting, work ethic, and a champion mindset. Learn how your family can build success habits that translate into sports performance and everyday life. Whether aiming for athletic excellence or personal growth, this episode is a must-listen!
Maintaining high standards consistently is the key to achieving outstanding results. In this insightful episode, Greg Francis coaches his kids, Abbie, Bella, Crissy, Druce, and Elli, on how to set and uphold high standards while holding themselves accountable for continuous improvement. Learn how they assess their own work ethic and establish specific, attainable goals for long-term success. Packed with valuable lessons on personal accountability, goal setting, and self-discipline, this episode is a must-listen for anyone striving to raise champions in both life and sports. #ChampionMindset #WorkEthic #HighStandards #YouthSports
"Only positive words can overcome negative thoughts." In this must-listen episode, Greg Francis coaches his three oldest children—Abbie, Bella, and Crissy—on their journey to elevate their golf game. Discover how writing down clear visions and setting actionable goals can unlock success, both on the course and in life. Learn why connecting emotions to your dreams helps the subconscious mind drive achievement. This inspiring episode is packed with practical tips for goal setting, mental toughness, and personal growth. Get inspiration to implement these ideas at your house! If you want to get your hands on their Francis Family Values placemat, follow the link below. **If you have any questions for Greg & Jacquie Francis or want to connect please message them HERE! We welcome your feedback and will answer your questions on future episodes.