Podcasts about ownership mindset

Are your emotions controlling your decisions, reactions, and overall wellbeing?In this Mindset Coaching episode of Coaching In Session, Michael Rearden breaks down the importance of emotional ownership and how taking responsibility for your emotions can transform your mindset, relationships, and personal growth.Many people blame circumstances, other people, or past experiences for how they feel, but true emotional maturity begins when you stop giving your emotions control over your actions. Michael explains how accountability, emotional awareness, and intentional responses can help you regain control of your life and mental wellbeing.This episode explores the dangers of unhealthy coping mechanisms, why blame keeps people stuck, and how choosing accountability creates emotional freedom and lasting transformation.If you've been struggling with emotional overwhelm, frustration, or negative thought patterns, this conversation will help you develop emotional resilience, strengthen your mindset, and take back control.Your emotions are real, but they should not control your future.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE• Why emotional ownership matters• How accountability improves mental wellbeing• The dangers of unhealthy coping mechanisms• Why emotional maturity is essential for growth• How blame keeps people emotionally stuck• How to choose better emotional responses• Why emotions should not dictate your actions• How emotional control creates personal freedomKEY TAKEAWAYS✅ Emotional ownership leads to personal growth✅ Accountability creates empowerment✅ Emotional maturity improves decision-making✅ Coping mechanisms can become destructive if unmanaged✅ You can choose how to respond emotionally✅ Blame prevents growth and healing✅ Emotional control strengthens mental resilience✅ Happiness and joy require intentional effort

Welcome to a pivotal solo episode of Build a Better Agency! This week, host Speaker B takes listeners on an honest and insightful journey through the real work of agency leadership, exploring the mental and emotional shifts required to move from talented employee or manager to confident agency owner. Drawing on more than 25 years of experience and candid stories from agency owners nationwide, Speaker B unpacks the identity shift every leader must make—from seeking permission and sticking to their craft, to taking full, radical responsibility for the outcome of their business. You'll hear powerful confessions from new owners as they share those "aha" moments when the weight of ownership finally hit home, from financial scares to difficult personnel decisions. This episode tackles three essential lenses that shape the growth of agency leaders: developing a growth mindset (inspired by Carol Dweck), evolving from technician to true entrepreneur (with a nod to Michael Gerber's E-Myth), and embracing an ownership mentality as described by Carrie Siggins' "Ownership Mindset." Speaker B provides actionable advice on shifting beliefs that hold leaders back, such as hesitancy around finances, reluctance to delegate, and resistance to uncomfortable decisions. Whether you're a new or soon-to-be owner, an emerging leader, or a veteran still wrestling with self-doubt, this episode is packed with practical steps, introspective challenges, and resources to help you own your power and build an agency you're truly proud of. Don't miss this empowering discussion. A big thank you to our podcast's presenting sponsor, White Label IQ. They're an amazing resource for agencies who want to outsource their design, dev, or PPC work at wholesale prices. Check out their special offer (10 free hours!) for podcast listeners here. What You Will Learn in This Episode: Understand why the identity shift from employee to owner is the hardest part of the transition Learn the three critical lenses for developing an ownership mindset: growth mindset, role clarity, and responsibility ownership Discover the common triggers that make ownership feel real for most agency leaders Recognize why true leaders act like owners long before they own equity in the business Understand the difference between collaboration and abdication in leadership decisions Learn how to move from execution-focused to strategy-focused thinking as an owner Gain insights from real owner confessions about pivotal moments of realization Understand why financial literacy becomes critical when you truly own the outcomes Discover how accepting responsibility also grants you permission to change what's broken

What You'll Learn in This Episode:In this episode, Shayne Daughenbaugh and Catherine McDonald sit down with leadership strategist and Army veteran Jonathan Pride to explore the SOAR mindset. A leadership framework built around storytelling, ownership, abundance, and resilience.Jonathan shares how leaders can move beyond compliance-driven management and develop teams through coaching, curiosity, and intentional conversations. The discussion highlights why storytelling is one of the most overlooked leadership tools and how leaders can use their lived experiences to build trust, connection, and influence.You'll also learn how practical habits like asking better questions, using the “three whys,” and starting each day with intentional praise can create stronger teams and more empowered problem solvers. The conversation emphasizes that leadership development starts internally through self-awareness, mindset, and personal growth, before it ever impacts others.If you've ever wondered how to become a more authentic, resilient, and people-centered leader, this episode offers a practical framework to help you start. Key Takeaways:Great leadership starts with owning your story and lived experiencesCoaching and curiosity develop better problem solvers than control and complianceSmall mindset shifts and micro habits can create meaningful leadership growthIntentional praise helps leaders build resilience, perspective, and an abundance mindsetLinks:Click Here for Jonathan Pride's LinkedInThe SOAR Mindset Website Lean Solutions Summit Lean Solutions Website 

Send us Fan MailResistance Chronicles, Part 5: Ownership Mindset™[FREE] The Resistance Audit: Diagnose where the resistance is coming from!In the final episode of The Resistance Chronicles, Becca Silver explores the Ownership Mindset and the form of resistance that often sounds like disengagement but is rooted in belief.It can sound like: “There's nothing we can do.” “That's just how our kids are.” “This is out of our control.”These statements are not always negativity. They often reflect a belief about influence. When educators do not believe their actions will make a difference, ownership erodes and resistance shows up as minimal effort, surface compliance, waiting, or cynicism.In this episode, Becca explains how ownership is not about controlling everything. It is about believing there is still something within one's sphere of influence. She outlines how leaders can shift conversations from blame to agency by identifying controllable variables, testing small changes, and making impact visible over time.Because ownership is not a personality trait. It is shaped by the environment leaders create. When initiative is ignored, overruled, or disconnected from results, ownership shrinks. When influence is acknowledged and reinforced, ownership grows.In this episode:• What resistance sounds like when the Ownership Mindset™ is unsupported• Why externalizing control leads to disengagement and stalled progress• How to help teams locate their sphere of influence within real constraints• Practical ways to build agency through small wins and visible impact• Leadership moves that reinforce initiative, effort, and responsibility[FREE] The Resistance Audit: Diagnose where the resistance is coming from![FREE] Catalyst Mindset Overview Graphic [Printable]Let's Stay Connected!Website  |  Instagram |  Twitter |  Linkedin |  Facebook |  Contact Us

What does real leadership look like when someone has to leave your organization? In this episode of Reflect Forward, Kerry Siggins sits down with empathy expert and bestselling author Mimi Nicklin to explore one of the most difficult decisions leaders face. Letting someone go while balancing accountability and humanity. This conversation moves beyond theory and into the reality of leadership under pressure. Kerry and Mimi unpack what happens in the brain during high stress moments, why empathy often feels inconvenient, and how leaders can stay grounded when it matters most. Mimi reframes empathy as a cognitive and biological capability, not a soft skill. Together, they explore the difference between empathy, sympathy, and compassion, and why understanding that distinction is critical for making clear, effective decisions. They also challenge a common leadership belief. That empathy weakens accountability. Instead, this episode shows how empathy, when practiced with discipline, strengthens performance, trust, and culture. Kerry reflects on her own leadership journey, sharing how she has learned to hold difficult decisions with clarity while staying present and grounded. Key topics include: • How to handle termination conversations with empathy • The neuroscience of stress and decision making • Empathy vs sympathy vs compassion • Holding high standards without losing humanity • Leading through pressure without becoming reactive This is a conversation about who you become as a leader when the stakes are high. Connect with Mimi Website: www.empathyeverywhere.co Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miminicklin/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/miminicklin/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/miminicklin Connect with Kerry Visit Kerry's website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore her book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find out more about her book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Check out her new book, coming out in Fall 2026: https://kerrysiggins.com/talk-with-trust/ Connect with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/ Subscribe for more conversations on leadership, ownership, and personal growth. #Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #Empathy #Management #CEO #ReflectForward

In this episode of Reflect Forward, Kerry Siggins challenges one of the most widely held beliefs in leadership: that we are open-minded. She explores a more uncomfortable truth. Open-mindedness is not revealed when we agree or even when we appear composed in disagreement. It is revealed in the moments when our identity, beliefs, and sense of being right feel threatened. Drawing on her lived experience as a CEO, parent, and leader, Kerry examines the subtle ways we move into protection rather than curiosity. What often appears to be confidence or clarity can actually be armor. A reflex to defend, explain, or control the conversation rather than remain open to being changed. Through the lens of what she calls the “emotional immune system,” Kerry breaks down why disagreement now feels like a threat rather than an opportunity, and how this pattern is quietly limiting leaders, teams, and organizations. This episode reframes open-mindedness as a capacity rather than a personality trait. It is the ability to regulate yourself in moments of discomfort, to stay present in tension, and to remain curious when everything in you wants to be right. Kerry invites listeners to examine where their openness has conditions, where they may be creating echo chambers without realizing it, and what it truly takes to lead with intellectual and emotional maturity. This is a conversation about leadership, ownership, and the discipline required to stay open when it matters most. Connect with Kerry Visit Kerry's website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore her book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about Kerry's book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with Kerry on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

On this episode of What The Tech, host and FIT's VP of Client Partnerships Becky Cross talks with CEO Adam Tubbs about what responsibility and real ownership look like in an ESOP. You'll hear Adam talk about how ownership shows up when goals and accountability cascade through department-level VTOs (Vision Traction Organizer within EOS), empowering teams with measurable outcomes tied to company goals, continuous improvement, and peer recognition aligned to the core value “own it.” He explains his leadership shift toward making decisions in the best interest of all employee-shareholders and advises leaders to build trust, avoid micromanagement, and provide clear priorities and measurables so employees know if they're “winning.” For organizations considering an ESOP, he stresses the hardest truth is the need for transparency, clarity of vision, and connection across all levels.For more information on the culture at FIT, visit our website: https://www.fittechnologies.com/our-story/

Are you climbing higher, or just climbing the wrong mountain? For many leaders, success is supposed to feel like arrival. Instead, it becomes the beginning of a deeper question. What happens when you've achieved what you set out to do, but it no longer feels aligned? In this episode of Reflect Forward, Kerry Siggins sits down with Nathalia Del Moral, co-founder of Next Mountain Life, to explore what it really means to step into your “next mountain.” This is the shift from externally driven success to a more intentional, purpose-driven way of living and leading. They unpack why high performers often feel disoriented after success, the identity shifts that follow, and how ambition evolves from proving to contributing. Nathalia shares insights from her work with executives and entrepreneurs navigating major life and leadership transitions. Kerry also reflects on her own journey, from rebuilding her life after an overdose in her twenties to the evolution she is stepping into now. A chapter defined by one clear decision. She is no longer willing to sacrifice her freedom for ambition, validation, or external expectations. This conversation challenges the traditional narrative of success and offers a more grounded path forward. One where ambition is not eliminated, but refined. One where leaders build without self betrayal. If you are questioning what comes next in your career, leadership, or life, this episode will give you language for what you are feeling and a framework for what to do with it. Connect with Nathalia: https://nextmountain.life/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/nathaliadmf/ Connect with Kerry Visit Kerry's website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about Kerry's book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with Kerry on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Do you catch yourself making excuses by saying "Yeah, but..."? It's time to ditch the victim mentality and take radical ownership. About This EpisodeJoin Simon Severino as he interviews Kerry Siggins, CEO of the 100% employee-owned global powerhouse, StoneAge. Carrie shares the core philosophy behind her book, The Ownership Mindset, explaining how true leaders accept that things happen *because* of them, not to them. She also previews her upcoming book, Talk with Trust, revealing why trying to "be polite" and soften the truth is actually a toxic habit of managing other people's emotions. Learn how to deliver kind, direct feedback, and discover how to achieve ultimate life and business "coherence" by defining exactly what you are *not* available for.

Send a textBryan Miller built a 7-figure-per-year passive income stream through disciplined investing, strategic leverage, and brutal clarity on risk. In this powerful talk, he breaks down his actual path from music entrepreneur to diversified real estate and equities investor—now earning cash flow from over 27,000 units.You'll learn:The capital needed to earn $1M/year passively—at different return ratesThe 5 key strategies Bryan used to grow and protect wealthWhy the right kind of concentration beats early diversificationA detailed look at his 8 investment pillars: from single-family homes to GP stakesHow to vet sponsors, avoid fake gurus, and protect against catastrophic lossesThe opportunity cost of a bad $50K deal—and how that compounds into a $1M+ lossHe also shares how he turned a $13 book and a $60/month newsletter into multi-million dollar decisions—and how the wrong advice can cost you far more than feeshttps://familyoffices.com/

Reflect on one action you could take this quarter to strengthen ownership and accountability in your organisation. Whether it's improving financial transparency, developing leadership capability, or exploring profit sharing, small disciplined steps can shift culture meaningfully.Summary KeywordsProfit Sharing, Leadership, Financial Transparency, Cash Flow, Accountability, Culture, Ownership Mindset, Engagement, Continuous Improvement, Sustainable GrowthEpisode SummaryIn this episode, Brad Jeavons speaks with Rob Gallaher, CEO and author of Profit Sharing: The Power of Shared Success, about how structured profit sharing can strengthen performance and culture.Rob's interest in profit sharing came after building a growing business that was financially successful but personally unsustainable. Long hours, high stress, and the common frustration that “no one cares like the owner does” led him to search for a better model He realised the gap was alignment. Employees were paid regardless of profitability, so daily decisions weren't directly connected to business outcomes. Profit sharing became a way to bridge that gap — helping team members think and act more like owners.Rob emphasises that profit sharing is not simply a bonus system. Done well, it:Aligns effort with financial resultsBuilds accountability and cost awarenessEncourages long-term thinkingStrengthens trust and transparencySupports a high-performance cultureHowever, success depends on strong foundations. Key principles include:Pay profit share monthly.Ensure the payout is meaningful.Set attainable targets.Provide clarity on how profit is calculated.Demonstrate consistent leadership and integrity.Keep profit sharing visible in conversations.Support employees with financial education.Protect long-term customer and team relationships.Understand cash flow and true profit.Always follow through on commitments The conversation reinforces that profit sharing alone won't fix weak leadership or poor systems. It works best when combined with trust, transparency, and disciplined financial management.A powerful outcome Rob shares is seeing team members treat customers with such ownership that clients assume they are the business owner — a strong sign of cultural alignment The broader message is clear: financial systems can reinforce culture. When structured well, they help create sustainable excellence.Episode LinksYouTube: https://youtu.be/KKqxaikbQR0 Enterprise Excellence group: https://enterpriseexcellencegroup.com.au/podcast ContactsConnect with Brad on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradjeavons/Call: 0402 448 445 Email: bjeavons@iqi.com.auConnect with Guest on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertgallaher/What's Next?If you're considering profit sharing, begin with the basics:Do you have accurate monthly financial reporting?Do leaders understand cash flow versus profit?Is there trust and transparency in your culture?Do employees understand how their actions affect results?Profit sharing can be powerful, but it must sit within a broader excellence framework of leadership, operational discipline, and continuous improvement.To learn more about what we do, visit https://enterpriseexcellencegroup.com.au/Thanks for your time, and thanks for helping to create a better future.

In this episode of Reflect Forward, Kerry Siggins sits down with Yvonne Trost, Subconscious Performance Coach and former Fortune 500 strategist, to explore how subconscious programming shapes leadership, ambition, and results. Most leaders believe change requires more discipline and stronger habits. But what if the real constraint is not strategy or effort, but the invisible patterns driving your behavior? Kerry and Yvonne examine: • How subconscious conditioning forms your leadership default • Why insight alone does not create lasting behavior change • The difference between cognitive ownership and embodied ownership • How neuroplasticity and memory reconsolidation can rewire limiting beliefs • Why overworking, perfectionism, and control are often protection strategies If most behavior is automated by adulthood, what does true ownership require? This conversation challenges traditional leadership development and invites you to reflect forward, not from the past, but from who you are becoming. Connect with Yvonne www.unlocklimitlessyou.com/free-session Connect with Kerry Visit her website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about her book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with Kerry on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Most leadership breakdowns are not strategic. They are emotional. In this episode of Reflect Forward, Kerry Siggins explores why emotional skill is the true foundation of modern leadership. As AI accelerates and complexity increases, leaders who cannot regulate their nervous systems, understand their emotional impact, and create psychological safety will quietly erode trust. Emotional skill is not softness. It is leadership capacity. Kerry breaks down the seven pillars of emotional skill, inspired by Zoe Kors's Radical Intimacy, and explains how they directly influence executive presence, emotional intelligence, team performance, trust, and long-term organizational success. You'll learn: • Why leadership failures are often emotional, not strategic • What intimacy really means in a leadership context • How self-awareness and discernment reduce conflict • Why emotional regulation is nervous system leadership • How responsibility for impact builds trust • Why boundaries make empathy sustainable If you want to strengthen your emotional intelligence, build high-trust teams, and lead with depth, maturity, and influence, this conversation will challenge and broaden your thinking about leadership. The future of leadership belongs to those who develop emotional skill. Connect with Kerry Visit her website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about her book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with Kerry on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Executive presence is not about polish, performance, or personality. It is about trust. And trust is built long before you say the right thing. In this episode of Reflect Forward, Kerry Siggins is joined by executive coach Nataly Huff to unpack what executive presence really is, why so many leaders misunderstand it, and how your nervous system is shaping how others experience you in real time. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and into the mechanics of leadership under pressure. How you regulate stress. How you handle silence. How your body communicates confidence or instability before you speak. And how the stories you tell yourself about feedback quietly shape your identity as a leader. Nataly shares neuroscience-backed insights on why dysregulated leaders lose access to their best thinking, how embodiment plays a critical role in leadership presence, and why authenticity, not imitation, is the foundation of trust. You will also hear a powerful discussion on feedback and identity, including why leaders are often unreliable narrators of their own story and how to use feedback as data rather than self-judgment. This episode is for leaders who want to be trusted, not just impressive. For executives who want to show up calm, clear, and grounded when the stakes are high. And for anyone ready to stop performing leadership and start embodying it. Key topics covered include: • What executive presence actually means and why it is contextual • Nervous system regulation and leadership under stress • Embodiment and how your body shapes perception • Feedback, identity, and the stories leaders tell themselves • Practical ways to build trust through presence, not performance You can find Nataly Huff here: Website: https://www.inspire-forward.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalyhuff Instagram: @inspirefwdcoaching Tik Tok: @https://www.tiktok.com/@inspirefwdcoaching Book a Free Call: https://www.inspire-forward.com/book-a-free-call Rewiring Your Leadership Brain https://www.inspire-forward.com/rewiring-your-leadership-brain Connect with Kerry Visit her website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about her book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with Kerry on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Hustle culture teaches leaders that exhaustion equals commitment and rest must be earned. But what if the constant push is not discipline at all, but fear in disguise? In this episode of Reflect Forward, Kerry Siggins breaks down the difference between working hard and hustling, why success often increases pressure instead of freedom, and how constant self-enforcement quietly undermines leadership, health, and clarity. She shares a personal story and offers three practical shifts to exit hustle culture without losing ambition or edge. Podcast on setting up systems to architect your life: https://kerrysiggins.com/blog/architect-your-2026/ Connect with Kerry Visit her website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about her book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with Kerry on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

There is a specific kind of exhaustion that does not come from workload. It comes from living under an internal verdict. Not good enough. Not worthy. Not capable. Leaders can deliver results while quietly chasing approval from a story they accepted long before they had the awareness to question it. Because it often looks like ambition and high standards, we reward it. We call it leadership. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I sit down with Curtis McCullom, CEO of Bespoke Human Potential Coaching and a clinical hypnotherapist, to explore what actually drives behavior beneath performance. Curtis introduces his Legit Mindset framework, learning, growing, expanding, and transforming. The sequence matters. Learning reveals what is running you. Growing releases emotional charge at the root. Expanding clarifies who you are becoming. Transforming requires daily reconditioning. Transformation is not a moment. It is a practice. Key Takeaways • Most performance issues are rooted in subconscious programming, not lack of effort. • Behavior is a pattern, not an identity. • Regulating the nervous system is a leadership skill. • Responsibility restores power, not shame. • Lasting transformation requires daily repetition, not a single breakthrough. We challenge one of the most common leadership myths. Most leaders are not stuck because they lack discipline or strategy. They are stuck because an old program is still running. Behavior is not identity. You are not broken. You are running a pattern. When that distinction lands, shame falls away and responsibility returns. We also explore triggers and nervous system regulation. A trigger feels external, but it is internal information. Owning it does not excuse others. It restores agency. Responsibility is not blame. Responsibility is power. And when the body is activated, the mind is not choosing. It is executing a script. Calm the body first, then the thinking can change. Language becomes another doorway to ownership. Shifting from “I am not enough” to “I am feeling not enough” separates identity from experience and opens better questions. Not why am I like this, but what is driving this right now and how do I want to respond. This conversation is a reminder that goals alone do not create change. Goals planted in bad soil only grow more weeds. Without addressing the emotional root, leaders simply repeat patterns at a higher level. Real change comes from releasing what is running you and reinforcing what you choose daily. Mic Drop Moments • Responsibility is not blame. Responsibility is power. • If you are activated, you are not choosing. You are executing a script. • Behavior is not identity. You are not broken. You are running a pattern. • Goals planted in bad soil only grow more weeds. • Transformation is not a breakthrough moment. It is a daily practice. This episode is an invitation to stop executing old scripts and start choosing who you are becoming. Connect with Curtis YouTube: https://youtube.com/@curtismccullom Website: http://www.bespokehumanpotentialcoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtis-mccullom/ Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/BespokeHumanPotential Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/curtis.mccullom.BHPC/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/curtis.mccullom/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/curtisBmccullom TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@curtismccullom Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

In this episode of Run the Numbers, CJ sits down with Maria Izurieta, CFO of Huntress, to unpack what it really means to lead finance as a connective tissue across the organization. Drawing on experience across VC-backed, PE-owned, and public companies, Maria shares how she balances impact versus perfection, builds trust through small wins, and helps teams move from transactional finance to insight-driven decision making. They dig into data transparency, centralized BI, partnering with sales and marketing on revenue, and why the best CFOs unblock friction instead of becoming the “no” department — all while bringing a deeply people-first lens to scale.—SPONSORS:Abacum is a modern FP&A platform built by former CFOs to replace slow, consultant-heavy planning tools. With self-service integrations and AI-powered workflows for forecasting, variance analysis, and scenario modeling, Abacum helps finance teams scale without becoming software admins. Trusted by teams at Strava, Replit, and JG Wentworth—learn more at https://www.abacum.aiBrex is an intelligent finance platform that combines corporate cards, built-in expense management, and AI agents to eliminate manual finance work. By automating expense reviews and reconciliations, Brex gives CFOs more time for the high-impact work that drives growth. Join 35,000+ companies like Anthropic, Coinbase, and DoorDash at https://www.brex.com/metricsMetronome is real-time billing built for modern software companies. Metronome turns raw usage events into accurate invoices, gives customers bills they actually understand, and keeps finance, product, and engineering perfectly in sync. That's why category-defining companies like OpenAI and Anthropic trust Metronome to power usage-based pricing and enterprise contracts at scale. Focus on your product — not your billing. Learn more and get started at https://www.metronome.comRightRev is an automated revenue recognition platform built for modern pricing models like usage-based pricing, bundles, and mid-cycle upgrades. RightRev lets companies scale monetization without slowing down close or compliance. For RevRec that keeps growth moving, visit https://www.rightrev.comRillet is an AI-native ERP built for modern finance teams that want to close faster without fighting legacy systems. Designed to support complex revenue recognition, multi-entity operations, and real-time reporting, Rillet helps teams achieve a true zero-day close—with some customers closing in hours, not days. If you're scaling on an ERP that wasn't built in the 90s, book a demo at https://www.rillet.com/cjTabs is an AI-native revenue platform that unifies billing, collections, and revenue recognition for companies running usage-based or complex contracts. By bringing together ERP, CRM, and real product usage data into a single system of record, Tabs eliminates manual reconciliations and speeds up close and cash collection. Companies like Cortex, Statsig, and Cursor trust Tabs to scale revenue efficiently. Learn more at https://www.tabs.com/run—LINKS:Maria on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-izurieta-909a3b/Company: https://www.huntress.com/CJ on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cj-gustafson-13140948/Mostly metrics: https://www.mostlymetrics.com—RELATED EPISODES:How the Best CFOs Lead Without Being the CEO | Ken Stillwellhttps://youtu.be/O4cx9NBqQso—TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 Preview and Intro00:01:01 Maria's Background00:03:09 People-First Team Building00:05:16 People, Process, Systems at Scale00:07:13 Removing Friction Outside Finance00:09:15 Data Transparency & Decision-Making00:11:06 Sponsors — Abacum | Brex | Metronome00:14:22 Forward-Deployed Data00:16:21 Centralized Data vs. Silos00:19:23 Finance as Data Steward00:21:08 Cost-to-Price Feedback Loop00:22:35 Curiosity Builds Credibility00:23:43 Sponsors — RightRev | Rillet | Tabs00:27:12 Trust First, Then Impact00:30:27 Celebrating Small Wins00:31:21 From Transactions to Insights00:33:00 CFO at the Revenue Table00:34:32 Educating the Org on Metrics00:36:21 Customer-Level Margin Reality00:37:13 Using Facts to Change Decisions00:38:27 Ownership Mindset in Growth Companies00:39:10 VC vs. PE vs. Public CFO Tradeoffs00:41:02 Operating Inside Constraints00:42:18 Finding Your Stage Fit00:44:17 Building a Personal Advisor Network00:46:43 Visibility and Women in Leadership00:47:44 Work–Life Integration, Not Balance00:48:45 Lightning Round: Biggest Mistake00:50:10 Advice to Younger Self00:51:36 Finance Tech Stack00:52:01 Craziest Expense Story00:52:44 Credits#RunTheNumbersPodcast #CFOLeadership #ScalingCompanies #DataDrivenDecisions #ExecutiveLeadership This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit cjgustafson.substack.com

Most leadership frustration begins with expectations we carry silently. Expectations that people will call us back, take initiative, own things the way we would, or move at our pace. When those expectations are not met, we often experience irritation or disappointment without stopping to examine their origins or whether they were ever articulated. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I unpack why psychology describes unspoken expectations as premeditated resentments and how confusing expectations with standards creates unnecessary strain in leadership. I explore the difference between clear, negotiated expectations that create accountability and internal assumptions that quietly turn into control. I share a simple yet powerful exercise that helped me separate reality from the stories I was telling myself about others. Writing down everything I expected from someone and then crossing out what they actually did forced me to confront how much of my frustration was directed at a version of the person that only existed in my head. This episode also draws from my own leadership missteps. I discuss the desire for growth in people who did not want it for themselves, and how that dynamic failed every time. I reflect on the impact of expecting others to move at my pace and how dropping that expectation fundamentally changed our culture, improved retention, and allowed me to lead with greater clarity and intention. Throughout the episode, I return to a core distinction in leadership. Unspoken expectations create resentment. Clear expectations create accountability. Reality creates choice. Letting go of unexamined expectations is not about lowering standards or tolerating misalignment. It is about reclaiming agency, seeing people as they are, and making grounded decisions without bitterness. If you find yourself frustrated with individuals who are not meeting your expectations, this episode offers an alternative perspective. Not to excuse performance, but to clarify responsibility and help you lead from reality rather than resentment. Key Takeaways • Most leadership frustration comes from expectations that were never articulated, not from people intentionally falling short. • Unspoken expectations are a hidden form of control, not accountability. • You cannot want growth, ambition, or pace for someone more than they want it themselves. • Clear expectations create accountability. Reality creates choice. • Seeing people as they are, not as you wish they would be, restores agency and reduces resentment. Mic-Drop Moments from the Episode • “Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments.” • “Expecting someone to live by your internal rules is not accountability. It is fantasy.” • “If someone gives you less than you need, it is not betrayal. It is information.” • “You cannot want it for someone more than they want it for themselves.” • “When you stop managing invisible contracts, leadership gets lighter.” Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

"Automate or Fall Behind" sounds dramatic, but it points to a quieter question leaders are facing in 2026: are our systems designed for how we want to lead? In this episode of Reflect Forward, I sit down with Nadav Wilf, founder and CEO of Align Coach, to explore how AI and automation can either amplify leadership clarity or reveal where teams still rely on outdated structures. This is not a conversation about chasing the latest tools. It is about building a strategic AI vision, addressing resistance to change, and creating the training cadence required for new ways of working to actually stick. Most leaders are already experimenting with AI in some form. They have a ChatGPT subscription. They use AI to draft emails or summarize notes. Nadav draws a critical distinction between manual AI and automated AI. Manual AI creates speed in isolated moments. Automated AI creates leverage across the organization. Without that shift, companies remain stuck in fragmented experimentation rather than building scalable systems. A central theme of this conversation is that AI adoption fails more often due to leadership behavior than to technical complexity. Leaders underestimate the importance of vision, overestimate how quickly habits change, and stop training too soon. Nadav breaks down why consistency is the determining factor. When training stops, people revert to old workflows, and leaders walk away with false proof that AI does not work. I grounded the conversation with a real-world example from StoneAge. Instead of purchasing expensive accounts payable automation software, we built a custom GPT layered on top of our existing ERP system. In a matter of weeks, we automated manual work, accelerated internal learning, improved job satisfaction, and avoided a six-figure software spend. The win was not just technical. It was cultural. The team experienced firsthand how AI could remove low-value work and free them to focus on higher-impact responsibilities. The episode also explores the human dynamics that quietly shape change efforts. Nadav introduces the concept of elevators, resistors, and supporters. Elevators lean in and move change forward. Supporters follow the dominant energy. Resistors, often unintentionally, can stall progress by clinging to familiar systems. Leaders who fail to name these dynamics allow resistance to run the strategy by default. Throughout the conversation, one message becomes clear. You do not need to understand every detail of AI to lead effectively in this era. You need to take responsibility for the direction, cadence, and mindset your organization brings to it. AI is not a side project. It is an operating decision. Automate or Fall Behind is an invitation to reflect on what you have been carrying that technology can now handle, and to move forward with intention rather than urgency. Leaders who do this well will not just be more efficient. They will create calmer teams, better work, and organizations designed for how people actually want to lead and contribute in 2026. Connect with Nadav Leading AI Enhanced Teams: Download our step by step guide for leaders ready to embed AI into their core operations. Complimentary AI Strategy Session: For those with a desire for efficiency through AI implementation book your 30-minute Align AI Strategy Session to assess ROI for becoming an AI Intelligent Company. For AI and Automation latest news and implementation, connect with Nadav on LinkedIn Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Most leaders don't fail because they lack clarity. They fail because their life is not built to support who they are trying to become. In this final episode of the Design Yourself series, I focus on the piece most leaders overlook when trying to change their leadership or their life: structure. You can have deep self-awareness and a clear leadership identity, but if your calendar, systems, and environment are misaligned, old patterns will resurface under pressure. 2026 will not test your intentions. It will test your structure. Why Willpower Breaks Down Under Pressure Many leaders rely on discipline and motivation to create change. The problem is that leadership rarely happens under ideal conditions. Stress, uncertainty, emotional load, and constant disruption are part of the job. Research from Stanford University shows that environmental and structural cues drive nearly 45 percent of daily behavior, far more than conscious intention. Under pressure, leaders don't revert to goals. They revert to structure. Your leadership is perfectly designed for the results you are currently getting. The Invisible Leadership Load Decision overload, emotional labor, unresolved tension, and constant context switching create an invisible leadership load that pushes leaders back into urgency and control. The problem is not the leader. It is the load. Architecting your 2026 means identifying what you are carrying that you were never meant to hold alone and redesigning your life so leadership does not require constant force. The Three Areas That Matter Most This episode focuses on three essential design domains. Energy design How your day drains or restores you matters more than productivity. Leaders must protect recovery, thinking time, and white space in order to lead effectively. Decision design Reducing decision fatigue requires clear ownership, strong filters tied to values and strategy, and pushing decisions down instead of pulling everything up. Relationship design Leadership is relational. Access boundaries, feedback flow, and proximity shape how you lead and how others experience you. Your Calendar Tells the Truth Your calendar is not a scheduling tool. It is a leadership tool. If your calendar does not reflect your priorities, neither will your leadership. If it doesn't change in 2026, neither will your results. Key Takeaways • Willpower fades, structure holds • Stress reveals the quality of your design • Energy, decisions, and relationships must be intentional • One structural shift can change everything Mic Drop Moments • You don't need more discipline. You need better design. • Stress doesn't test your intentions. It exposes your structure. • Build the structure, and the behavior will follow. This episode completes the Design Yourself series by showing how to build a life and leadership that actually support who you are becoming. Listen or watch the full episode of Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or on YouTube. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

We had the pleasure of visiting with leadership consultant Greg Hawks, who brings a unique perspective shaped by years of directing large-scale youth programs. He discusses his transition from the non-profit sector to the corporate marketplace and how that background helped him develop his signature "Ownership Mindset".In this episode, Greg breaks down three primary workplace mindsets—Owners, Renters, and Vandals—and introduces the concept of "Thinking Whole House". This approach encourages employees to look beyond their specific departments and value the health of the entire organization. We also explore:Bridging Generational Gaps: How to connect with a workforce spanning five generations by focusing on universal human needs like voice and value.The Power of Connection: Using a unique mental exercise of envisioning colleagues as middle schoolers to foster empathy and better communication.Building "Thick Trust": Moving away from "thin trust" through intentional, brave conversations and choosing to like others based on your own character rather than their differences.Actionable Next Steps: Why leadership must move beyond theory into immediate, practical application to produce real resultsEnjoy the show!

Choose the leader you are becoming, or default to the leader you have been. That is the real decision in front of you as you head into a new year. Most leaders believe change starts with better goals. New priorities. New plans. But if you keep showing up with the same identity, the same emotional patterns, and the same nervous system responses, you will recreate the same year with different tasks. This episode is about breaking that cycle. Episode overview This is Episode 2 of my three-part Design Yourself series on creating the life and leadership you want in 2026. In Episode 1, we focused on self-awareness and uncovering the default stories running your leadership. In this episode, we move from awareness to choice. Because you cannot design a different year if you show up as the same version of yourself. In this conversation, I break down why goals do not create lasting change and why identity does. We explore how identity is formed, how it drives behavior under pressure, and why many high-performing leaders stay stuck by clinging to versions of themselves that once worked but no longer fit. I also share personal stories about releasing old identities and what shifted when I consciously chose who I wanted to become, not someday, but now. Research highlight According to research from the University of Scranton, ninety-two percent of people fail to achieve their goals. One major reason is that they focus on outcomes instead of the identity and systems required to sustain change. Key takeaways • You cannot design a different year if you show up as the same version of yourself. • Identity is not fixed. It is practiced. • Your identity drives your behavior, not the other way around. • Leadership friction is often an identity problem, not a performance problem. • You are designing the experience of you every day. Mic drop moments • Choose the leader you are becoming, or default to the leader you have been. • Goals do not create change. Identity does. • If you do not upgrade your identity, your life will keep bumping up against the same edges. • You are not designing a to-do list for 2026. You are designing the experience of you. If you haven't listened to Episode 1 yet, start there. In Episode 3, we'll talk about how to design a 2026 structure that supports the leader you are becoming, because you don't need a better plan. You need a better practice. If this episode resonated, share it with someone who's ready to stop repeating the same year with different tasks, and subscribe to Reflect Forward wherever you listen. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Innovation creates momentum — but ownership creates legacy.In Part 2 of this must-hear conversation, Dr. Alisa continues the dialogue with Dr. John Bamforth and Dr. Roy Zwahlen, shifting the focus from awareness to activation.This episode explores why ownership is the cornerstone of generational wealth, how diverse innovators bring a unique lens to underserved markets, and what it truly takes to accelerate transformative change — not slowly, not someday, but now.The conversation goes personal as both guests Flip the Script, sharing pivotal mindset shifts from their own global careers — moments that challenged assumptions, reshaped leadership, and redefined how innovation ecosystems must function if they are to work for everyone.If you're a leader, entrepreneur, or change-maker who wants more than surface-level inclusion — this episode delivers the mindset, strategy, and clarity to move from intention to impact.Continue the conversation with Dr. John Bamforth and Dr. Roy Zwahlen, co-authors of Race to Innovation.Visit the official book site to dive deeper into ownership, innovation ecosystems, and accelerating transformative change: 

Why great leaders stop proving and start leading is the real conversation most leadership content avoids. Proving feels productive, but it quietly erodes trust, blocks collective intelligence, and keeps leaders trapped in fear-driven patterns. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I sit down with Carrie Moore, CEO and founder of Titan Edge Advisory, to explore what happens when leaders shift out of ego and into alignment, and why that shift changes how teams perform and cultures scale. Carrie brings more than twenty years of experience across capital markets, corporate banking, and financial services. She is a Forbes Council recognized strategist and has spent the last nine years advising fast moving companies and founders navigating growth and complexity. The Hidden Cost of Proving At the heart of this conversation is a truth many leaders miss. When fear and unworthiness drive behavior, leaders slip into proving, defending, and explaining. This erodes psychological safety and limits collective intelligence, even when intentions are good. Great leadership begins with self-awareness and accountability, not control. When Challenges Become Leverage Carrie shares how growing up dyslexic shaped her leadership, turning early fear into adaptability and resilience. I share why my own rock bottom became a turning point rather than a regret. The hardest experiences often become the source of our greatest leadership strength. The Alignment Advantage Alignment starts with the leader. The only relationship you can give to anyone else is the relationship you have with yourself. When identity, purpose, and behavior are aligned, clarity increases, trust deepens, and performance follows. Leadership In the Age of AI Rather than fearing AI, this episode reframes it as an extension of human capability. The future belongs to leaders who can simplify complexity, lead with purpose, and stay grounded in what makes us human. Mic Drop Moments 1. Proving erodes trust faster than most leaders realize. 2. Fear does not need to disappear, but it should not lead. 3. Authenticity is a leadership advantage, not a vulnerability. Key Takeaways 1. Notice when you are leading from fear rather than alignment. 2. Your past challenges are leadership training, not liabilities. 3. Alignment at the top shapes everything below it. Listen and Reflect Forward If this episode resonated, share it with a leader who could benefit from it. You can listen to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or watch it on YouTube. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Kerry Siggins overcame tremendous challenges, including a cocaine addiction, and yet despite that setback, succeeded in business all the way to being a finalist for Colorado's CEO of the year.   She is the author of the book: The Ownership Mindset: A Handbook for Transforming Your Life & Leadership.   We discuss: -How was it like growing up -What kind of addiction did you have and how and when did you hit rock bottom?  How old were you? -What led to that and how did you overcome it? -What exactly is the Ownership Mindset, which is the title of your book? -Kerry's company Employee Stock Ownership Plan.  What is Employee Ownership & why does it matter?    -Why doers she lead with "Top down decisions." -Favorite business philosophies: Don't be Afraid to Change -Why asking Powerful Questions are Transformative -Why embracing Self Awareness is so important -Taking Feedback Like a Champ -Lead With Empathy.   Motivate Your Employees.   

The mirror test is the hardest and most revealing challenge you will ever face as a leader. It forces you to confront the gap between who you believe you are and how others actually experience you. Most leaders avoid that truth. The best ones run toward it. As leaders rise, fewer people are willing to give honest feedback. According to organizational psychologist Tasha Eurich, 95 percent of people believe they are self-aware, but only 10 to 15 percent actually are. That gap is where most leadership breakdowns begin. I share two personal stories that shaped my understanding of the mirror test. The first came through 360 feedback, when I learned that my tone sometimes made people feel unsafe speaking up. I was shocked. There is a biological reason for this. Bone conduction softens the sound of your own voice inside your head, which means you hear yourself calmer and gentler than others do. My intent and impact were misaligned, and I had to recalibrate how I communicated. The second story is about my evolution as a leader. I no longer need to win every argument. I care more about impact and alignment. But my team was still reacting to an older version of me. Internal change matters only if people can feel it or understand it. I needed to articulate what winning means for me now and how I want conversations and debates to feel going forward. I also explore the four most common leadership blind spots—ego, defensiveness, inconsistency, and avoidance—and how these patterns quietly undermine trust, influence, and team performance when left unchecked. From there, I walk through a simple four-step reflection framework that helps leaders realign their intention and impact. The Four-Step Reflection Framework 1. Name the pattern Identify exactly what you do when you are not at your best. No story. No justification. Just the behavior. 2. Look at the impact Ask who experiences the fallout and how it affects trust, performance, and culture. 3. Ask for feedback Accept that you cannot always see yourself clearly. Invite two or three people you work closely with to share how they experience your tone, energy, presence, listening, and consistency. Treat their input as data, not judgment. 4. Choose the correction Define what your highest self would do instead. Pick one specific behavior to practice for the next ten days and share your commitment with someone who can help hold you accountable. Mic Drop Moments • Growth does not matter if no one can feel the change. Leadership is defined by how people experience you, not how you think you show up. • If you refuse to look in the mirror, your team ends up carrying the weight of the truth you are unwilling to face. • You are not judged by your intentions. You are judged by your impact. Leaders who forget that slowly lose the room. • Self-awareness is not a trait. It is a choice. Every day you avoid the mirror, you choose stagnation over growth. Key Takeaways • You cannot outlead your own self-awareness. • Most leaders dramatically overestimate their level of self-awareness. • Ego, defensiveness, inconsistency, and avoidance are patterns—not flaws—and they can be changed once you see them clearly. • The four-step reflection framework gives you a discipline to correct your behavior and improve your impact. • True transformation begins when you choose to lead the person in the mirror first. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Becoming a better leader is rarely about learning something new. It is almost always about facing something true. The moment when the tactics stop working and the truth steps in. The truth that wisdom hurts before it helps. The truth that kindness is harder than control. The truth that curiosity asks you to open your heart, not just your mind. In this conversation with Christy Pretzinger, we peel leadership back to its most human layers. The messy ones. The vulnerable ones. The ones that force you to ask, Am I showing up in a way that reflects who I want to be? If you crave leadership that feels honest and brave and deeply connected to the person you are becoming, this episode will stay with you. About My Guest Christy Pretzinger is the founder and CEO of WG Content, a nationally recognized healthcare content consultancy serving major hospital systems across the country. Her proudest accomplishment is the culture she has built on four core values: empowered, curious, kind, and fun. She is also the creator of The Better Leader Project, a cohort-based experience designed to help early-career professionals practice the power skills of leadership. Christy is the author of Your Cultural Balance Sheet, a thoughtful framework for turning cultural liabilities into assets. What We Cover • Building a business on kindness without sacrificing excellence • Why authenticity requires responsibility and emotional maturity • How simple, clear values shape decisions, behaviors, and daily interactions • Using the Enneagram to understand pace, intensity, and interpersonal impact • Curiosity as a leadership superpower that strengthens connection and innovation • The challenges and strengths of Gen Z as they enter the workforce • Why wisdom cannot be hacked, downloaded, or rushed Key Takeaways 1. Kindness is a strategy. When values are lived and reinforced, they shape culture and performance. 2. Authenticity is not an excuse. Honesty without awareness can create harm. Responsible authenticity builds trust. 3. Self-knowledge changes everything. Tools like the Enneagram help leaders moderate reactivity and create space for others to thrive. 4. Curiosity builds connection. When you ask deeper questions, you create deeper relationships and uncover better solutions. 5. Better is always available. Leadership is a practice. We improve through reflection, repetition, and the courage to face ourselves honestly. Mic Drop Moments • “There is no app for wisdom. You have to earn it over time.” • “Better, not perfect. Everyone has a better quotient they can access.” • “Authenticity without responsibility is not leadership.” • “Cultural liabilities can become assets when you pay attention and choose to change.” • “We are hardwired for community. Leadership practice needs real people, real feedback, real reps.” Connect with Christy Why This Conversation Matters Leadership is not about perfection. It is about awareness, courage, and evolution. This conversation with Christy offers a grounded and inspiring look at how to create cultures where people can thrive and how to become the kind of leader others trust, follow, and feel safe with. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

We humans love to be right. We defend our opinions. We double down on our beliefs. We dig our heels in, even when being right costs us our peace. As leaders, our attachment to rightness can quietly poison our relationships, decision-making, and emotional well-being. In this episode, I explore the paradox of being right and why true freedom lives on the other side of letting go. I share a story about my dad, who embodies a mix of self-righteousness and self-loathing. Watching him cling to being right, even as it isolates him from the people he says he loves, has been a powerful mirror for me. I connect this experience to leadership, to life, and to the personal transitions I am navigating right now. I share a costly patent infringement lawsuit where my desire to be right overruled my willingness to listen. I talk about my divorce and how I am intentionally choosing peace over correctness as I enter this next phase of my life and leadership. I also dive into the concept of paradox. Two truths can be true at the same time. You can be confident and still be wrong. You can love someone and feel hurt. You can lead with strength and still change your mind. ” The ability to hold paradox is the cornerstone of emotional maturity. Mic Drop Moments • “The need to be right is a cage disguised as control.” • “Freedom does not come from being right. Freedom comes from being open.” • “When you are right, you lose nothing by listening. When you are wrong, you lose everything by refusing to listen.” • “Two truths can be true at the same time. Emotionally mature leaders stop dying on the hill of being right.” • “Ask yourself. Did being right today make my life better, or did it just give me a dopamine hit followed by disconnection?” Key Takeaways Paradox is where wisdom lives Life is not black or white, and emotionally mature leaders understand this. Two truths can be true at the same time, and the more we can hold opposing ideas without needing certainty, the more grounded and effective we become. Being right gives a dopamine hit, not lasting peace Winning an argument feels good because our brains release dopamine, but the high is fleeting. Over time, clinging to rightness leads to defensiveness, disconnection, and a closed mind that keeps us stuck. Leaders who need to be right shut down their teams When leaders always have to be right, people stop speaking up. This shuts down ownership thinking, limits creativity, and prevents teams from challenging assumptions or offering better solutions. The cost of being right is often hidden and high You may win the argument but lose something far more critical, whether it is trust, money, time, or connection. When life becomes a competition instead of a relationship, the need to be right slowly erodes joy and collaboration. Choose freedom over being right with daily practice Freedom comes from intentional practice. Pause and get curious. Practice both/and thinking. Ask better questions. Prioritize connection over correctness. And reflect daily on whether being right actually made your life better. A Reflection Invitation I invite you to look at one area of your life or leadership where you might be trading your peace and freedom for the need to be right. Just one. Then experiment with letting go in that situation. Do not correct the email. Do not send the “last word” text. Do not push the point in the meeting. Let it go once and see what happens. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Rewrite Your Inner Playlist with Susan Drumm and discover how music and mindset can break old patterns and elevate your leadership. Summary If you are ready to rewrite your inner playlist, here is the truth: if you are running an inner track of “I am not enough,” life will keep handing you proof that you are not enough. Until you change the track, nothing changes. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I sit down with Susan Drumm, CEO advisor, speaker, and author, to explore how our unconscious patterns drive our leadership and lives and how we can disrupt them using something as simple and profound as music. Meet Susan Drumm Susan is the bestselling author of The Leaders Playlist and founder of Meritage Leadership. She has spent more than twenty years helping leaders identify the emotional patterns holding them back and replacing them with more empowering ones. She combines neuroscience, the Enneagram, and music to help leaders create new neural pathways and transition into more conscious leadership. Why Patterns Run the Show Susan explains that our patterns are not just habits. They are deeply grooved neural highways formed over time, often beginning in childhood. These patterns once protected us, but now they can keep us stuck, repeating the same behaviors even when we know they no longer serve us. The Enneagram becomes a powerful tool here because it focuses on why we do what we do. When leaders understand their underlying motivation, they stop reading everyone else through their own filter and start leading with clarity, empathy, and purpose. I share openly about my Type Three pattern of wanting to keep everyone comfortable and how this showed up in my marriage, my divorce, and my leadership. Awareness truly is the first act of liberation. Music as a Leadership Transformation Tool Susan's core method centers on the idea that music accelerates neuroplasticity, making it easier to break old emotional loops and build new ones. The process is simple and powerful: 1. Name your old playlist (e.g., “I am unworthy”). 2. Choose a pattern interrupt song that captures that old story. 3. Create a new playlist based on an “I am” statement you want to embody. 4. Practice being in that emotional state through movement and repetition. She shares a story of a high-achieving leader whose identity was completely tied to work. Through playlist work, he reclaimed his sense of freedom and took a six-week vacation for the first time. His company performed better without him micromanaging. Why This Matters for Leaders This conversation is for anyone who feels stuck in familiar loops, triggered by the same dynamics, or ready to take full ownership of their inner world. When you change your internal playlist, you change your leadership. You change your relationships. You change your life. Key Takeaways • Your inner playlist shapes your external reality. • Patterns are neural pathways—once protective, now restrictive. • The Enneagram helps you understand motivation, not just behavior. • Music accelerates real emotional and leadership transformation. • Owning your triggers is an act of power, not blame. Mic Drop Moments 1. “If you are running a playlist of ‘I am not enough,' life will keep giving you evidence of that.” 2. “You built the cage—and you are holding the key.” 3. “You are not your title or success. You are your joy, impact, and freedom. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Control is rooted in fear. Trust is rooted in strength. And when you shift from control to trust, you become a better leader. Control often stems from a fear of being judged, a fear of things going wrong, or a fear of losing influence. I used to believe that control equals competence. The more I managed outcomes, the more successful we would be. But what I eventually learned is that control does not create confidence; it kills it. Trust, on the other hand, unlocks potential. It multiplies leadership. It builds teams who think critically, act boldly, and take ownership for results. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I share how I transformed my leadership by moving from control to trust and why this shift changed everything for me, for StoneAge, and for my team. The turning point During the pandemic, everything changed. Suddenly, I was not in the office every day. People could not walk into my office for a quick answer or to bounce ideas off me. At first, it was disorienting. If I were not the glue holding everything together, what value did I bring? But something surprising happened: my team flourished. They made smart decisions, collaborated effectively, and solved problems without me. That was the moment I realized I had been the roadblock. My need for control, disguised as involvement, had held them back. It was humbling to realize that control does not build leaders. Trust does. As Stephen M. R. Covey says, “Control leads to compliance. Trust leads to commitment.” That realization became one of the most important lessons of my leadership journey. The three dimensions of trust Over time, I developed a simple framework to guide me in leading with trust instead of control. 1. Competence – Believe in their capability. Trust that your people can figure things out, even if they do it differently than you. 2. Character – Believe in their integrity. Know that they will do what is right, even when you are not watching. 3. Connection – Show them they matter. Why trust matters According to research by Paul Zak published in Harvard Business Review, employees in high trust companies report 74 percent less stress, 106 percent more energy, and 50 percent higher productivity than those in low trust environments. Trust is not soft; it is smart. It is the foundation of ownership, performance, and innovation. As Sheryl Sandberg put it, “Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that impact lasts in your absence.” That is exactly what trust does. Mic drop moments • “Control does not build leaders. Trust does.” • “Ownership and control cannot coexist.” • “When I stopped trying to control everything, I found something I did not expect: freedom.” • “Coaching is adding considerations without taking back the decision.” Key takeaways 1. Control is rooted in fear. Trust is rooted in strength. Check your motives before you step in. 2. You cannot create ownership without giving up control. Ownership requires autonomy. 3. Trust is active, not passive. Equip people, ask better questions, and coach instead of direct. 4. Develop thinkers, not followers. Build people's confidence in their own judgment. 5. Letting go multiplies your influence. When you lead with trust, leadership spreads. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Stop calling it strategy. Most leaders are not doing strategy; they are managing a glorified to-do list. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I sit down with Simon Severino, author of Strategy Sprints, TEDx speaker, Forbes contributor, and CEO of Strategy Sprints, to talk about how to lead with clarity, focus, and speed. Simon helps leaders design an operating rhythm that turns lofty visions into measurable weekly wins, all without adding more meetings or complexity. Simon has spent over two decades helping leaders enter markets, scale effectively, and remain competitive in uncertain times. His Strategy Sprints method replaces long planning cycles with focused 90-day sprints that keep teams learning, adapting, and moving fast. It is a system designed for real-life scenarios, where uncertainty is constant and leaders cannot afford to wait for perfect information. Simon reminds us that strategy is not about being right; it is about learning fast. His Focus Card is a simple but powerful tool: one page for your strategy, one tab for weekly metrics. Every Monday, teams set their priorities. Every Friday, they review what is working and what is not. It is a rhythm that keeps everyone focused and aligned, turning strategy from theory into practice. Simon also challenges leaders to build like Lego, not Duplo, modular, flexible, and fast to reconfigure. When markets shift, teams that move in small, adaptable units thrive. That mindset is not just tactical, it is cultural. It encourages curiosity, experimentation, and speed. The beauty of Simon's method is its simplicity. It does not add complexity; it removes it. The Strategy Sprint approach helps leaders focus on what matters, cut through noise, and lead teams that win through clarity and cadence. My Takeaways 1. Plans list tasks. Strategy makes bets. Great leaders take responsibility for the assumptions they make. 2. Measure both cause and effect. Track the activities and the results they create. 3. Shorten your feedback loop. A Monday and Friday rhythm beats quarterly reviews every time. 4. Build modular. Smaller, faster systems are easier to adapt when the market shifts. 5. Seek truth, not validation. Try to invalidate your assumptions weekly. If they hold up, you are truly winning. When I asked Simon what he wished leaders understood about strategy, he said: “Do not try to prove you are right. Try to prove yourself wrong. If your assumptions survive, then you are winning.” And if you want to bring more focus and agility to your team, try Simon's Focus Card exercise. You might be surprised at how much clarity one page can bring. Connect with Simon https://www.linkedin.com/in/simonseverino/ https://www.facebook.com/simon.severino https://x.com/simonseverino https://www.strategysprints.com/ Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Send us a textEver notice how the same habits that stabilize recovery also stabilize your pipeline? We dig into the leadership mindset that sits beneath selling, sobriety, and self-mastery, and why the strongest credibility comes from consistency, not a job title. From the first minute, we challenge the blame game and replace it with ownership—controlling the process in sales and our actions in life—so results stop being random and start being repeatable.We unpack emotional sobriety as a competitive edge: the ability to stay calm when deals wobble, to pause instead of panic, and to meet objections with curiosity. That shift turns pressure into empathy and fear into trust. Along the way, we show how feedback and humility create an ongoing growth loop. Coachability beats charisma, and pride isolates; the people who keep winning ask what could I have done better even when they win, then translate that insight into the next call, the next meeting, the next day sober.You'll hear practical standards you can apply right now: prepare before you perform, track your reps, and model the behavior you want from your team. We talk about moving from achievement to contribution—service in recovery and value in sales—and how alignment with your values attracts the right clients, mentors, and opportunities. Titles don't lead; predictable integrity does. When you lead yourself first, you build a life and a business that others can trust.If this resonated, share it with someone who needs a reset. Subscribe for new episodes every Friday at 4 a.m., and leave a review so more people can find the show. What's the one habit you'll change today to lead yourself better? Support the show https://www.audible.com/pd/9-Simple-Steps-to-Sell-More-ht-Audiobook/B0D4SJYD4Q?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=library_overflowhttps://www.amazon.com/Simple-Steps-Sell-More-Stereotypes-ebook/dp/B0BRNSFYG6/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1OSB7HX6FQMHS&keywords=corey+berrier&qid=1674232549&sprefix=%2Caps%2C93&sr=8-1 https://www.linkedin.com/in/coreysalescoach/

As leaders, we all face moments when someone's words or actions cut deep. Maybe it's betrayal, criticism, or a costly mistake. But when justice isn't possible, Leadership becomes about something deeper: how we process it, learn from it, and move forward. Justice and accountability are not the same. Justice is external; it's about consequences and what happens to them. Accountability is internal; it's about reclaiming your power, energy, and integrity, regardless of what they did. You won't always get justice. But you can always choose accountability. That's the moment you take your power back. When there's no way to make it right, when justice isn't possible, accountability looks like this. You set boundaries: stop giving the situation oxygen. You practice neutrality: train your nervous system so that their name or memory no longer triggers an emotional response. You witness yourself.: tell the truth without spin or self-gaslighting. You cut the cord: stop replaying the story and feeding the energy leak. Letting go isn't weakness. It's strength. Forgiveness and compassion don't mean excusing bad behavior. They mean refusing to let it define you. I call this clean compassion; seeing the humanity in someone without justifying the harm. You can let go with love and boundaries, not bitterness. And that's Leadership in motion: choosing peace over poison when justice isn't possible. When you can discuss painful experiences without harboring anger, you model genuine Leadership. That's what builds trust with others and with yourself. What you'll learn • The real difference between justice and accountability • How boundaries and neutrality create inner accountability • How to stop rumination and reclaim your energy • Why clean compassion strengthens Leadership Reflect Forward Questions 1. Am I seeking justice or accountability? 2. Am I feeding the story or cutting the cord? 3. What boundary or choice will help me reclaim my energy right now? Key Takeaways 1. Justice is external. Accountability is internal. You can always choose your response. 2. Boundaries create accountability. Remove access and stop giving the situation oxygen. 3. Neutrality equals freedom. When the memory no longer spikes your emotions, you've reclaimed your power. 4. Energy management is Leadership. Rumination drains creativity and clarity. 5. Clean compassion is strength. Let go with love, not anger. Mic Drop Moments • “Letting go isn't weakness. It's one of the most powerful leadership skills you can master.” • “You don't need someone else to make it right in order for you to rise.” • “Boundaries aren't walls; they are declarations of self-respect.” • “When you release the need for justice, you make space for peace.” Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

To lead well, you must train your brain to lead. When your nervous system is calm, you think clearly, make better decisions, and build stronger relationships. When it is hijacked by stress or fear, even the most experienced leader can lose presence and perspective. In this episode, executive leadership coach Nataly Huff, founder of Inspire Forward, explores the neuroscience behind composure, emotional regulation, and the stories we tell ourselves when we are triggered. We dive into what really happens during an amygdala hijack, why your prefrontal cortex becomes depleted, and how to use your body's cues to regulate your nervous system in real time. Nataly shares science-based strategies to pause before reacting, leverage tools like box breathing and compartmentalization, and reframe inaccurate thoughts before they spiral into conflict. Together, we explore what it truly means to train your brain to lead, not by suppressing emotions but by understanding them. If you have ever left a meeting thinking, “Why did I react like that,” this conversation gives you the self-awareness and practical tools to stay grounded, curious, and in control. About Nataly Nataly Huff is an executive leadership coach with 15 years of corporate experience. She blends neuroscience and emotional intelligence to help emerging executives elevate their leadership impact. Learn more and book a discovery call at inspireforward.com. What we cover • The brain's happiness chemicals and how to leverage them for better performance • Amygdala hijacks and how to recognize, interrupt, and reset • Practical nervous system regulation through box breathing, 4 7 8, and sensory grounding • Healthy compartmentalization: when to use it and when to unpack it • The Think → Feel → Do framework and Byron Katie's Four Questions for challenging limiting stories • Triggers, ownership, and radical honesty, and how to lead yourself first • Why the goal is not perfection but a faster recovery loop Key takeaways 1. Name it to tame it. Notice your physiological cues, label the amygdala hijack, and pause before reacting. 2. Breathe with structure. Try box breathing or 4 7 8 to bring your attention back to the present. 3. Compartmentalize with intention. Put it in a box now and plan when you will process it. 4. Interrupt the story. Ask, “Is it true? Can I know for sure,” before assuming the worst. 5. Progress over perfection. The more you train your brain to lead, the faster you recover and the stronger you show up. Mic drop moments • “There is no bear. It is just an email.” • “Your prefrontal cortex cannot run on empty. Fuel it or you default to reaction.” • “Compartmentalization is powerful if you open the box later.” • “Honor the pattern before you release it. It helped you survive and succeed.” • “Leadership is not the absence of triggers. It is ownership of your recovery.” Resources mentioned • Breathwork: box breathing, 4 7 8 breathing • Frameworks: Think → Feel → Do, Byron Katie's Four Questions Connect with Nataly Website: https://www.inspire-forward.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalyhuff Instagram: @inspirefwdcoaching Tik Tok: @https://www.tiktok.com/@inspirefwdcoaching Book a Free Call: https://www.inspire-forward.com/book-a-free-call Rewiring Your Leadership Brain https://www.inspire-forward.com/rewiring-your-leadership-brain Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

No one is coming to save you. The moment you realize that is the moment you step into your true power as a leader. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I explore the life changing power of radical responsibility. As leaders, we all have moments when we wish someone else would fix the problem, make the decision, or show us the path forward. But waiting for someone to rescue us kills momentum. True leadership begins when we stop waiting and start owning. I talk about how to recognize when you have slipped into victim thinking, how to catch yourself in that moment, and how to reclaim your sense of agency. You will learn how to listen for the subtle signals that you are giving away your power, especially when you hear yourself saying “Yeah, but.” That phrase is the telltale sign that you have moved from ownership to avoidance. This episode will help you build the mindset of accountability and confidence that defines great leaders. It is about shifting from “Why will someone not fix this?” to “What is my next step?” and realizing that you already have everything you need to lead yourself and your team forward. As Winston Churchill once said, “The price of greatness is responsibility.” Taking ownership for your choices, your reactions, and your mindset is how you become the kind of leader others want to follow. Research backs this up. A McKinsey study found that companies with leaders who embrace ownership and accountability are 4.9 times more likely to outperform their peers in overall performance. Accountability is not just about personal growth; it is a competitive advantage. Key Takeaways 1. Ownership starts where excuses end. The moment you stop waiting for rescue, you start leading. 2. Catch your “yeah, but.” It is the red flag of victim thinking. Pause, reframe, and act. 3. Ask the three ownership questions: • What part of this situation can I own right now? • If no one else steps in, what is the best step I can take today? • Am I choosing to be a victim or the leader who changes it? 4. Clarity beats control. You cannot control circumstances, but you can always control your response. 5. Leaders go first. When you model accountability, you build a culture that owns results. Mic Drop Moments • “No one is coming to save you. The moment you realize that is the moment you step into your true power as a leader.” • “Leadership begins when we stop waiting and start owning.” • “If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you would not sit for a month.” — Theodore Roosevelt • “You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.” — Jim Rohn If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs this reminder. And don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review helps me spread the message of intentional leadership and the ownership mindset even further. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

How to be a super performer is a question every ambitious leader wrestles with. We chase higher goals, push our teams, and try to sustain momentum, but often overlook the real drivers of lasting success. True performance is not about doing more. It is about uncovering the root causes of success and creating the conditions where people can thrive. In this episode of Reflect Forward, George Pesansky joins me to flip the script on performance. With over 30 years of experience in operational excellence, George has helped companies worldwide transform through lean manufacturing, Six Sigma, and continuous improvement. His new book Super Performance distills the lessons he has learned, and in this conversation, he shares how to apply them to your leadership, your teams, and even your personal growth. We dig into why the “Prison of Expectations” quietly kills commitment, how to stretch your most productive “Golden Hour,” and why resilience and self-awareness are non-negotiables for anyone who wants to lead well. We also explore what sustainable momentum really looks like and how leaders can empower others without bottlenecking progress. George's insights are practical, powerful, and rooted in humility. This conversation will challenge your perspective on leadership and help you design systems for sustainable success without burning out yourself or your team. Key Takeaways 1. Find the root causes of your success. Do not just analyze problems. Dissect your wins and double down on what works. 2. Protect and extend your Golden Hour. Name the time and conditions when you are most effective and build more of it into your day. 3. Escape the Prison of Expectations. Pressure without psychological safety kills commitment. Replace it with clarity and curiosity. 4. Lead with curiosity, not control. Step out of the boardroom, go to where the work happens, and ask questions to learn. 5. Momentum is addition and subtraction. True progress comes when your gains outpace the losses created by turnover, inefficiencies, and neglect. Mic Drop Moments • “If you try to be the hero of every story, you will burn out and bottleneck your company.” • “The Golden Hour is not luck. It is a designed environment you can repeat and stretch.” • “Pressure without safety creates the Prison of Expectations where people stop committing.” • “Real leadership is when the day-to-day runs without you because the why and the what are clear.” • “Do the Five Whys on your wins. Success leaves clues.” George's book Super Performance is available now wherever books are sold. To learn more about him and his work, visit georgepesansky.com and myblendedlearning.com. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who could benefit. And don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review helps me spread the message of intentional leadership and the ownership mindset even further. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Busyness doesn't equal effectiveness. In fact, the busier you are, the less effective you often become. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I tackle one of the biggest leadership lies: that a full calendar equals impact. It doesn't. Busyness creates reactive leadership. Why? Because there's no time for strategy, innovation, or even pausing to ask, “Is this the right move?” Years ago, while running StoneAge, chairing a new economic development alliance, and preparing to become a mom, I hit the wall. Completely overwhelmed, I called my mom in tears. Her advice was simple: “Focus on what matters most and say no to everything else.” That moment changed how I approached leadership and life. Since then, I've learned that busyness feeds our egos, masks fear and provides false validation. We think if we're busy, we're important. But true leadership comes from clarity, presence, and creating space for ourselves and our teams. What We Explore in This Episode • The trap of busyness: Why leaders confuse activity with achievement • The real costs: Burnout, stress, and reactive decision-making • Escaping the trap: How to prioritize, delegate, say no, and protect white space • Leading by example: Why your team mirrors your busyness (and how to model intentionality instead) • Life beyond work: How less busyness creates more joy, energy, and presence Key Takeaways 1. Audit your calendar Eliminate anything that doesn't align with your top priorities. Decline meetings you don't need to attend. 2. Say no, unapologetically No is a complete sentence. Every no creates space for a bigger yes. 3. Delegate and empower Frame the why, set outcomes, then let your team lead. Growth follows when you step back. 4. Schedule white space Thinking time isn't a luxury—it's a leadership requirement. Protect it on your calendar. 5. Model intentionality for your team Normalize focus time, give space after big pushes, and encourage your people to decline low-value meetings. Mic Drop Moments • “If you're too busy to lead, you're not leading.” • “Never mistake activity for achievement.” – John Wooden • “No is a complete sentence. Use it.” • “Busy cultures are built by busy leaders—calm cultures are built by intentional leaders.” • “Every no makes room for a bigger yes.” Busyness is not a badge of honor. It's a trap that keeps us reactive and robs us of effectiveness. The best leaders create space—for clarity, for creativity, and for growth. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs this reminder. And don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review helps me spread the message of intentional leadership and the ownership mindset even further. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Leading with grit is more than a leadership mantra; it's the real-life story of how Kyle Ewing turned stacks of unsold paper in his basement into TerraSlate, a multi-million-dollar company whose waterproof, rip-proof products are now used by the U.S. military, biotech firms, restaurants, and even the NFL. His journey is proof that persistence, creativity, and accountability can transform even the “boring” into something extraordinary. In our conversation on this week's episode of Reflect Forward, Kyle shares how grit became his core value, the engine that carried him from stacks of unsold paper in his basement to scaling a thriving company. We talk about what it really takes to sell a product nobody thinks they need, why accountability creates stronger teams, and how leaders can flip the pyramid to serve their people and customers better. If you've ever wondered how to lead through challenges, embrace mistakes, and build a culture rooted in ownership, this episode will inspire you to see grit not as a buzzword, but as a daily leadership practice. What You'll Learn in This Episode • The origin story of TerraSlate: from wrinkled passports to waterproof menus and military manuals • How to pivot when your first idea flops and find true product-market fit • Why consistency and persistence are the secret weapons in sales and entrepreneurship • The power of psychological safety and accountability in building strong teams • How leaders scale by delegating authority and removing roadblocks Key Takeaways 1. Grit is the ultimate differentiator. Success comes from persistence, iteration, and showing up consistently, even when no one believes in your idea. 2. Accountability builds culture. The best employees own their mistakes and create systems to prevent them in the future. 3. Leaders must flip the pyramid. Your job is to remove roadblocks so your team can shine and serve customers. 4. Selling is serving. Relationships and trust matter more than hard closes; people buy from people they like. 5. Hire A-players early. Pay for top talent and let go of mediocrity quickly to unlock growth. Mic Drop Moments • “Leading with grit means owning mistakes and turning them into momentum.” • “I work for my employees; they work for the customer.” • “You're 2,000 cold calls away from success—consistency wins.” • “The buck always stops with the leader. Own it, fix it, move forward.” About Kyle Ewing Kyle Ewing is the founder and CEO of TerraSlate, makers of waterproof, rip-proof paper for mission-critical environments and everyday durability. TerraSlate serves industries ranging from hospitality to defense, and Kyle also writes the LinkedIn newsletter Ideas to Empires. Connect with Kyle LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyleewing/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=bizkyle Instagram: @bizkyle https://www.instagram.com/bizkyle/ TikTok: @bizkyle https://www.tiktok.com/@bizkyle YouTube: @bizkyle https://www.youtube.com/@bizkyle Connect with Kerry Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Complacency is the slow death of leadership. When we tolerate “good enough,” we quietly set the ceiling for our team's potential—and our own. When you say “good enough” is acceptable, you erode excellence. You send the message that mediocrity is tolerated, and that message ripples across culture, morale, and results. People disengage. Teams plateau. Opportunities slip away. As Jim Collins reminds us: “Good is the enemy of great.” And Gallup's research backs it up: only about 2 in 10 employees strongly agree that their performance is managed in a way that motivates them to do outstanding work. That's what happens when leaders accept mediocrity instead of inspiring excellence. The good news is that raising the bar doesn't mean driving people to exhaustion. Excellence isn't about perfection; it's about clarity, ownership, and progress. As Brené Brown says, “Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind.” When leaders clearly define expectations, celebrate growth, and model accountability, teams rise to meet higher standards. And it starts with us. We can't expect our people to reject complacency if we're coasting ourselves. Abraham Lincoln put it simply: “Whatever you are, be a good one.” Holding ourselves accountable to higher standards inspires trust, builds credibility, and makes excellence contagious. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I introduce a tool I call the Ownership Audit, a quarterly practice designed to identify and eliminate complacency within yourself, your team, and your organization. I'll walk you through how to use it to ask the hard questions, check for alignment with your mission and values, and take courageous action when “good enough” has crept in. Because the truth is, mediocrity doesn't just cost culture, it costs money. McKinsey research shows that companies with high-performance cultures are 3.7 times more likely to be top financial performers. Steve Jobs once said, “Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren't used to an environment where excellence is expected.” As leaders, we must become that yardstick. We must model what it looks like to expect and deliver excellence, not perfection, but the commitment to always do better. Mic Drop Moments • “Complacency is the slow death of leadership.” • “When leaders tolerate ‘good enough,' they set the ceiling for their team's potential.” • “Mediocrity doesn't just cost culture; it costs money.” • “Excellence isn't perfection; it's clarity and ownership.” • “If you tolerate average, you'll never unlock extraordinary.” Key Takeaways 1. Tolerating “good enough” erodes both culture and results. 2. Complacency spreads like a virus; leaders set the bar. 3. Raising standards is about clarity and compassion, not perfection. 4. The Ownership Audit helps leaders spot and eliminate mediocrity. 5. Holding yourself accountable to higher standards inspires trust, energizes your team, and keeps complacency from creeping in. Timestamps • 00:00 – Why “good enough” is dangerous • 02:05 – The StoneAge story: breaking the dealer model • 08:42 – The psychology of “good enough” • 12:30 – The ripple effect of complacency • 16:10 – Raising standards without burnout • 21:18 – Holding yourself accountable • 27:45 – The Ownership Audit framework • 35:10 – Closing thoughts and call to action Connect with Kerry Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Great leaders build courage What if the biggest risk to your leadership isn't failure, but staying stuck where you are? Playing it safe may feel comfortable, but over time it erodes growth, impact, and confidence. That's why bravery is the defining trait of great leaders. In this week's Reflect Forward episode, The Bravery Effect: How Leaders Build Courage, I sit down with Jill Schulman, a former U.S. Marine Corps officer, leadership development expert, and founder of Breakthrough Leadership Group. Jill has dedicated her career to studying the science of bravery, resilience, and peak performance, helping leaders reframe fear not as a barrier but as a signal for growth. Her story is remarkable, going from combat engineering in the Marine Corps to a thriving pharmaceutical career and then leaping into entrepreneurship. Along the way, Jill discovered that bravery isn't about being fearless. It's about taking meaningful action in the presence of fear which every leader needs if they want to step out of the rut and into real influence. In this powerful conversation, Jill and I explore: • Why fear—not failure—is often the greatest barrier to leadership growth • How micro-moments of bravery build resilience and confidence over time • The importance of aligning your career with your strengths and values • How to overcome self-doubt by taking action, not waiting for motivation • Why vulnerability is at the heart of true courage Jill also shares insights from her new book, The Bravery Effect, written as a parable to help readers build their bravery “muscle” one small act at a time. Whether it's speaking up in a meeting, having a tough conversation, or making a major career change, Jill shows us how courage compounds into transformation. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite podcast platform or watch on YouTube. Mic Drop Moments

In this episode, I talk with Bony Dawood, PE, President and CEO of Dawood Engineering, Inc. (A Woolpert Company), about how an engineering ownership mindset can elevate your AEC career and business success. We explore the hiring strategies, leadership values, and client-focused mindset that shape a people-first culture, along with the importance of trust, mentorship, […] The post Why an Engineering Ownership Mindset Matters for AEC Leadership and Long Term Growth – Ep 295 appeared first on Engineering Management Institute.

What the best leaders do when no one is watching is what truly defines them. Leadership integrity isn't built in front of a crowd; it's forged in the quiet, unseen moments when no one is keeping score. The choices you make in private—whether to cut a corner, live your values, or own a mistake—are the foundation for building trust as a leader. When you consistently choose the harder right over the easier wrong, you strengthen self-trust, gain unshakable confidence, and set the tone for your entire culture. Leading with values in private is what makes people believe in you in public. It's easy to show up strong when the spotlight is on. But it's what you do when the room is empty, the pressure is high, and the easier wrong beckons that proves whether you're a leader worth following. In this week's episode of Reflect Forward, I share the moments that tested my integrity behind the scenes, such as halting the launch of a new product, even though it cost us time and money, because I refused to cut corners. I talk about owning mistakes before anyone noticed, walking away from a big client who didn't align with our values, and protecting a team member's reputation when exposing them would have been easier. None of those choices made headlines. Most people never even knew. But those decisions shaped me into a leader I can trust and when you trust yourself to live your values no matter what, your team will too. As J.C. Watts famously said, “Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking.” And as Carl Jung reminds us, “You are what you do, not what you say you'll do.” This episode will inspire you to reflect on your own behind-the-scenes leadership habits and give you three simple practices to strengthen your integrity muscle—so that when the world is watching, you'll lead with magnetic confidence. Key Takeaways 1. Integrity in private is the foundation of trust in public. Don't ruin trust by making poor decisions when no one's watching. 2. Confidence comes from self-trust. Every time you choose the harder right over the easier wrong, you reinforce the belief that you can count on yourself. 3. The ripple effect is real. Quiet, values-driven choices shape culture and reputation far more than speeches ever will. Mic Drop Moment “The easiest time to lower your standards is when no one's around to see. The best leaders raise them instead.” Connect with Kerry Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Choose love over fear. It's more than a feel-good mantra. It's a radical leadership choice that can transform teams, ignite innovation, and turn crisis into opportunity. Washington Speakers Bureau President Ryan Heil has built his career proving that love, not fear, is the real competitive advantage in business and life. In this episode of Reflect Forward: Advice for Leaders, I sit down with Ryan to unpack how this philosophy has shaped his journey from professional baseball to earning a PhD in organizational culture, co-authoring Choose Love Not Fear with his father, and leading a major turnaround at one of the most influential organizations in the speaking industry. We explore why choosing love over fear creates stronger teams, deeper trust, and cultures that can adapt to disruption—plus how Ryan and his team navigated the pandemic's devastating impact on the speaking industry to emerge stronger than ever. Key Takeaways: • Love is a leadership strategy – Choosing love over fear builds trust, engagement, and sustainable performance. • Fear-based leadership fails in the long run – It may get short-term compliance, but it erodes creativity, passion, and loyalty. • Creative abrasion fuels innovation – Healthy conflict, when guided with respect, produces better ideas and stronger solutions. • Culture change starts one belief at a time – Turnarounds require relentless clarity on values, vision, and “why.” • Relationships are the real currency – They outlast trends, technologies, and even market disruptions. • Crisis is a catalyst for reinvention – Use uncertainty to question old assumptions and build better ways forward. • Your team may not always love you back – But consistent, steady leadership earns respect and trust over time. Mic Drop Moments: • “It's easy to lead with fear. But fear makes us dumber. Love unleashes human potential.” • “We don't have speaker contracts—we have handshakes. Integrity is the glue that holds our relationships together.” • “Success is temporary. So is failure. The real skill is knowing how to pivot fast.” • “AI can recommend a speaker, but it can't tell you who will stay after the keynote to shake every hand.” • “Love your team even when they don't love you back. That's leadership.” Connect with Ryan: • Connect with Ryan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanmheil/ • Learn more about Washington Speakers Bureau: https://www.wsb.com/ • Get the book Choose Love Not Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Love-Not-Fear-Engagement/dp/1734105135 Connect with Kerry Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

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Ever wanted to send that scathing email or slam the door shut after someone disappointed you? We all have. But here's the hard truth: Don't burn that bridge—your future self might need it. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I dive into one of the most overlooked leadership strategies: choosing compassion over retaliation, even when you feel wronged. Especially when you feel wronged. Because the way you show up during conflict doesn't just define your character—it shapes your future opportunities. The Real Reason We Lash Out—and Why We Must Resist When someone quits unexpectedly, underdelivers, or betrays your trust, your brain goes into fight-or-flight mode. The amygdala floods your system with cortisol. Logic shrinks. Ego inflates. We react from fear, not clarity. But strong leaders don't lead from reactivity. They lead from ownership. Unfortunately, business culture conditions us to compete at all costs. We're taught to dominate, win, and protect what's “ours.” That scarcity mindset convinces us that success is limited—and anyone who threatens ours must be the enemy. But real leadership requires a different path. Mic Drop Moment: “You don't need to win every time to be successful. You need to lead every time with integrity.” The Law of Unexpected Returns Here's the magic: the kindness you extend today often circles back to benefit you later. Sometimes years later. Maybe it's the employee you part ways with gracefully who refers top talent to you later. Or the competitor you treat respectfully who becomes your partner in a surprising venture. The point is: you never know. And in tight-knit industries, your reputation is your currency. Mic Drop Moment: “Every interaction is a seed—and the most valuable harvests come from the bridges you didn't burn.” Compassion Isn't Weakness. It's Strategy. Forgiveness doesn't mean condoning poor behavior. It means not carrying resentment. You can set boundaries and still choose compassion. You can walk away from someone and still treat them with grace. Mic Drop Moment: “Just because the relationship looks like this today doesn't mean it will look like this forever.” The long game of leadership means leaving the door open—even if it's only a crack. Five Ways to Lead With Compassion—Even When It's Hard 1. Pause before reacting. Ask yourself: “What's the story I'm telling myself right now?” 2. Assume positive intent. Even if you're hurt. Especially if you're hurt. 3. Use “I” statements. Lead with your truth, not with blame. 4. Reach out with grace. A kind message can shift everything. 5. Zoom out. Will this matter five years from now? How do you want to be remembered? Key Takeaways • Lashing out is human. Leading with ownership is leadership. • Scarcity thinking creates enemies. Long-term thinking builds networks. • Your reputation travels. People remember how you made them feel. • Grace is strategic. Leave room for future reconnection. • Forgiveness fosters emotional maturity, team health, and future growth. Call to Action: Lead With Integrity, Even in Discomfort Think of one person you've mentally written off. Someone you feel hurt by. Ask yourself: • What kind of relationship would I want with them in five years? • What's one small act of compassion I can offer—today? Maybe it's a message. Maybe it's just letting go. Either way, take the high road. Because your future self just might thank you. Connect with Kerry Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Authentic leadership through inner work is more than a practice, it's the key to unlocking your full potential and creating lasting impact as a leader. In this powerful episode of Reflect Forward, I sit down with Carrie Freeman, CEO and General Manager of Vara Winery and Distillery, who shares how embracing vulnerability, intuition, and self-awareness has completely transformed her leadership style and elevated her success. Carrie's extraordinary journey from global innovation executive to winery CEO illustrates how leading from the inside out creates deeper connections, stronger teams, and greater fulfillment. Carrie has a fascinating background, transitioning from her role as co-CEO of SecondMuse, a global innovation company that collaborated with organizations such as NASA, the White House, and the World Bank, to now running a thriving winery and distillery. We discuss the realities of operating a winery, examining how Carrie's leadership skills enabled her to enter an industry where she initially lacked expertise—and why being an outsider can sometimes provide the fresh perspective a business needs most. Throughout our conversation, Carrie highlights the misconception that humans are purely rational decision-makers. She emphasizes that relying exclusively on logic can limit our ability to lead effectively. By tapping into intuition, emotion, and inner wisdom, leaders can gain deeper insights, make better decisions, and build stronger relationships. Mic Drop Moment: • “Expertise is valuable, but curiosity is a superpower. When you admit you don't know everything, you unlock your team's full potential.” • “Sometimes there isn't a problem to solve. True leadership is knowing when to step back and let things unfold.” What You'll Learn in This Episode: • Why Expertise Isn't Everything • Inner Work as the Foundation for Outer Success • Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy • Vulnerability as a Strength Key Takeaways: 1. Be Curious, Not Just Expert: Embrace curiosity and humility; empowering your team can often yield better solutions than claiming expertise. 2. Listen to Your Intuition: Great leaders trust their gut and heart as much as their intellect; purely rational decisions often miss deeper insights. 3. Integrate, Don't Balance: Leadership is not about perfect balance but about discerning when to engage action-oriented or intuitive energies effectively. 4. Lead with Vulnerability: Authenticity and vulnerability build deeper trust, stronger relationships, and a healthier organizational culture. 5. Recognize There Isn't Always a Problem to Solve: Resist the urge to fix everything; sometimes stepping back and allowing situations to naturally evolve is the best course of action. About Carrie Freeman: Carrie Freeman is the CEO and General Manager of Vara Winery and Distillery in Albuquerque, NM, and previously served as co-CEO of SecondMuse, a global innovation consultancy. Passionate about authentic leadership, innovation, and sustainability, Carrie guides leaders and businesses toward deeper success by emphasizing self-awareness, purpose, and authenticity. Connect with Carrie Freeman: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carrie-freeman/ Learn more about Vara Winery and Distillery or order their award-winning wines at www.varawines.com Connect with Kerry Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Most leaders travel alone for work. But how many take a real solo vacation—just for themselves, not for business? I recently took my first-ever solo trip through Peru and Ecuador, and it changed me. I reconnected with myself. I reflected deeply. I came back more grounded, clear, and confident as a leader. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I share why every leader should consider a solo vacation, how it strengthens your leadership, and how you can plan a meaningful trip that resets your mindset and helps you lead with intention. Why Solo Time Is Essential for Modern Leaders 1. Clarity requires solitude 2. Breaking routine unlocks creativity 3. Being alone builds self-leadership 4. Presence deepens connection How to Take a Transformational Solo Vacation • Choose a place that stretches you—culturally, spiritually, physically • Unplug completely—no work emails, no “just checking in” • Journal and reflect—capture what you learn • Say yes to connection—talk to strangers, share stories • Pay attention to your thoughts—notice what comes up in the stillness Key Takeaways 1. Solo time is a powerful leadership tool 2. Travel breaks patterns and expands your thinking 3. Self-trust comes from being alone and handling challenges 4. Presence builds deeper, more authentic relationships 5. Insight and clarity are born in stillness, not hustle Mic Drop Moment “You cannot lead others from a place of internal chaos or disconnection. But when you take time to be alone, you find clarity, and that transforms everything.” Call to Action Book the trip. Go somewhere alone. Reflect. Get uncomfortable. You'll come back more empowered, present, and effective as a leader and as a human. Episode Timestamps 00:00 – Intro: Why solo vacations matter for leadership 02:30 – My first solo trip to Peru and Ecuador 05:12 – Creating my Dreams List and making the trip happen 07:45 – The emotional arc: excitement, fear, empowerment, loneliness 10:20 – How solo travel differs from solo business travel 13:05 – Reflection as the foundation of self-leadership 15:12 – Why clarity requires solitude (HBR statistic) 17:28 – Breaking routine to gain perspective and creativity 20:40 – What Columbia Business School says about novel experiences 22:30 – Strengthening self-leadership through solo challenges 26:00 – Realizing I like myself: processing growth and healing 28:44 – Presence, stillness, and the power of being with yourself 30:50 – Connecting deeply with strangers while traveling alone 33:20 – Why authentic presence builds better leadership 35:40 – The most common excuses leaders make—and how to challenge them 40:22 – How to take a transformational solo vacation: 5 tips 45:18 – Key takeaways from the experience 48:30 – Final thoughts and call to action: Book the trip If you liked this… Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

Every great leader has a powerful story, but how effectively you tell that story can define your success. Don Yaeger, renowned Hall of Fame keynote speaker, executive coach, and twelve-time New York Times bestselling author, believes storytelling is the secret to exceptional leadership and high-performing teams. From his time as an associate editor at Sports Illustrated to his current role as host of the acclaimed podcast “The Corporate Competitor,” Don has built his career by helping leaders harness the transformative power of stories to inspire, connect, and drive momentum. After meeting Don at the Real Leaders Unite Summit, I was captivated by his ability to connect with his audience. In this week's episode, Don shares insights into mastering storytelling, leveraging momentum, and creating cultures that foster team success. Get ready to learn how your powerful stories can elevate your leadership and team performance. Key Takeaways: • Storytelling is not innate; it's a skill anyone can master with intentional practice and coaching. • Deeply knowing your audience significantly amplifies your impact as a leader. • Exceptional teams consistently create “feel-it” moments, making every team member feel integral to their broader purpose. • Cultivating a mentoring culture organically enriches team dynamics and fosters ongoing excellence. • Embracing and leveraging change and momentum can turn setbacks into meaningful opportunities. Mic Drop Moments: • “Never waste a loss. If something bad happens, that's a great time for us to get better.” • “Leadership and storytelling aren't genetic gifts. They're skills anyone can and should develop.” • “Purpose has to flow from leadership to the frontline, connecting everyone deeply to why their work matters.” Connect with Don • Website: https://donyaeger.com/ • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donyaeger/ • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donyaeger/# • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/donyaeger • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@corporatecompetitorpodcast • X: https://x.com/donyaeger • The New Science of Momentum Book • 45 Storytelling Prompts by Don Yaeger (Free Resource) Episode Highlights & Timestamps: • Understanding Your Audience (03:12) • Mastering Storytelling (07:25) • Developing a Library of Stories (13:42) • The Transition from Writer to Speaker (19:50) • Building Exceptional Teams (27:05) • Creating “Feel-It” Moments (33:40) • Mentoring Culture vs. Mentoring Programs (38:10) • Navigating Change and Momentum (42:20) • The New Science of Momentum (49:45) If you liked this… Don't forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let's connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

John Rossman, former Amazon executive and author of "The Amazon Way," discusses Amazon's 14 leadership principles and their application to modern businesses. As a fifth-generation Oregonian who worked at Amazon from 2002-2005, Rossman witnessed the company's transformation into a platform company. He emphasizes customer obsession, the importance of simplifying work processes, and ownership mentality. His latest book "Big Bet Leadership" provides a playbook for organizational transformation in the hyper-digital era, focusing on systematic experimentation and long-term thinking. TAKEAWAYS Customer Obsession Beyond Transactions: Practice both tactical customer service and strategic curiosity about customers' broader needs upstream and downstream of current interactions. Simplify Before Innovating: Focus on zero-based redesign and radical simplification of work processes before adding new technologies - most companies have calcified layers that need unwinding. Ownership Mindset for Long-term Success: Think enterprise-wide beyond your role, never say "that's not my job," and refuse to sacrifice long-term value for short-term results. A QUICK GLIMPSE INTO OUR PODCAST