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Group Guide Use this guide to help your group discussion as you meet this week. 2 Samuel 18-19a Chet Phillips Download TranscriptMy name is Chet. I'm one of the pastors here. We'll be in second Samuel starting in chapter 18 I'm gonna take a moment to remind us how we got where we are this morning in this text and then we're gonna read the beginning of the text because It's gonna set us up well for understanding kind of the tension of what's happening here So we have David the Anointed blessed king over Israel That God went and found someone after his own heart to become king and that even has made a covenant with him That he's going to bless him that he's gonna give him sons to sit on the throne forever He's gonna work this blessing out in David's line David sins grievously against Bathsheba and Uriah and when the prophet Nathan speaks to him.He tells him that there's gonna be trouble that's going to arise out of this and we're in chapter 18 We're in the middle of some of that trouble David's oldest son Amnon had sexually assaulted his half sister who was Absalom's David's other sons whole sister and Absalom, because David does nothing, plots and murders his brother Amnon These are the two oldest sons of David. There was a third one, but he doesn't seem to be mentioned and it's likely he died Young so we've got the two oldest sons of David. Absalom then runs. He flees he's in exile for a while.Joab sees that this is distressing David. After a time, he helps bring back Absalom. Joab, that leader of David's army, Absalom comes back and eventually over time works up a rebellion Marches with the people of Israel claiming to be king on Jerusalem David flees, goes to Mahanaim. That's where we find him Now which is interesting That's where Ish-bosheth had set up his kingdom last time David was in the middle of a civil war and so David is in Mahanaim Absalom gathers the forces of Israel crosses over the Jordan towards David and that's where we pick up today Absalom is following Hushai's plan which was the one Hushai secretly on David's team which was don't go killing quickly; gather everybody and you lead the forces yourself.So we've got Absalom with a very large kind of conscripted army. All the people in Israel were prepared to fight but these guys would come fight when they need to and then go back David is with a smaller but more regular military and We pick up in verse one chapter 18 Then David mustered the men who were with him and Set over them commanders of thousands and commanders of hundreds. It doesn't tell us how many that he has.But it does tell us that he has commanders of thousands and hundreds and that he splits them into thirds We're gonna see that in just a second so it seems like he does have several thousand men That's the standing army that left with him and David sent out the army one third under the command of Joab One third under the command of Abishai the son of Zeruiah Joab's brother Which we've seen them lead his military before and one third under the command of Ittai the Gittite Which we saw him join David with 600 of his own men as they were fleeing.And the king said to the men I myself will go out with you But the men said you will not go out for if we flee they will not care about us If half of us die they will not care about us But you are worth 10,000 of us therefore it's better that you send us help from the city So David says I'm going to and they say no, you're not because you're gonna make it more complicated They're only gonna care about you it matters a whole lot if they kill you it doesn't matter if they kill us if we flee They're just gonna be trying to find you like if We've got the whole point of us going out is to keep you alive for the sake of reestablishing control here.So stay and send help from the city organized from the city King said to them whatever seems best to you. I will do So the king stood the side of the gate while all the army marched out by hundreds and by thousands and the king ordered Joab and Abishai and Ittai, deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom and All the people heard when the king gave orders to all the commanders about Absalom.So it becomes very clear to the entire army that David has instructed deal gently With Absalom for my sake now This is the tension in this story Because we have David referred to as the king the king the king the king and as king David Organizes his military and as king he sends them out to defend the kingdom and as king He is working to stop a rebellion As king he's bringing justice and righteousness and.Then at the end He doesn't sound like a king He sounds like a father So as he's sending out the military he says Deal gently with the young man Absalom because in his eyes that's still who he is He's a lad, that young man that's leading a rebellion against this Who's got a bigger army than y'all Who wishes to kill us. When y'all catch him but you'd be nice to him Be tender.Joab that's actually why I made you leader of the military because you're one of the most tender fellows. I know From what we know of Joab he is anything but gentle This is probably the only time David has ever given this instruction to his military leaders I don't think he was ever attacking the Amalekites and was like hey if you catch the king Because y'all it should be nice to him when you catch him. He just does this isn't normal.But it gets word through the whole because there's this tension with David where he's got to work justice He's got to be a king. He is the king and then but he loves his son Can you imagine trying to navigate this? How how do you How do you do that? How do you handle this when we see David trying to do both? He wants Absalom to lose But he doesn't want to lose Absalom.And he's trying to thread that needle So the army has verse six Went out into the field against Israel and the battle was fought in the forest of Ephraim And the men of Israel were defeated there by the servants of David and the loss there was great on that day 20,000 men The battle spread over the face of all the country and the forest devoured more people that day than the sword.So they spread out they're in three different groups they fight They meet them on the field of battle, but it says specifically they're fighting in the forest of Ephraim And the forest kills more people than the sword does which is a very interesting verse I think all that's trying to communicate to you was not David if you talk to the to the to the David's army and you said how do they go how did it go.And they were basically saying the forest was more help to us than our sword was Like the forest won the battle for us more than the sword did meaning that the terrain benefited us greatly David has a more well trained military that has done more things and they're in a smaller group They don't want to meet on a field in the open Because sheer numbers will out Man them they'll just they'll lose just over time so what they do is they spread out and they fight in the woods and it works out Very well for them They do some of what a famous South Carolinians did during the Revolutionary War They were like yeah, we're not lining up and just shooting it y'all but every time you ride through the woods.Good luck and we're like we like y'all and we're gonna name colleges after you so that's That's what David that's what they do they they go hide in the woods and they fight in the woods And they say the woods the forest helped us more than the sword did today in 20,000 men die, but the The brunt of that is on the people of Israel not the David side And we're gonna see in just a second the the forest playing a very active role versus nine.And Absalom happened to meet the servants of David Okay, so David's not there, but Absalom is because Absalom's doing Hushai's plan which is you go yourself and Take everybody with you so Absalom's there and he comes across some of David's servants Absalom was riding on his mule and the mule went under the thick branches of a great oak and his head Caught fast in the oak and he was suspended between heaven and earth while the mule that was under him went on Absalom sees some of David's men in the forest Most likely at this point Absalom's trying to get away so he spurs his mule. He's heading off I don't know if he was looking back It doesn't tell us it may be the mule just picked a spot that the mules head fit fine.So he just shoot under there Absalom gets his head caught in an oak tree now The word head here can mean it's actual head so it's possible that he got stuck in between some branches and it actually got around his neck His head is actually stuck wedged in somewhere It can also mean his hair and one of the things we know about Absalom other than he's the most handsome man You'd ever like to meet is it he has beautiful hair To the point that he cuts it once a year and weighs it and then Tells people about it.And it's written down forever and scripture for us how much was hair weight So it's possible that it says hair that got tangled up and then he's having to hold himself up And I don't know if you've ever been snagged on something, but it's not easy to get yourself out of it And he's now dangling from a tree and his mule's like well sorry You should have cut your hair before battle and heads up.So he's dangling from a tree and the forest is helping more than the sword at this moment Verse 10 and a certain man saw it and told Joab behold I saw Absalom hanging in an oak And Joab says what we would say Joab said to the man who told him what you saw him so he comes to report hey Hey, you remember the guy we're looking for? Absalom dangling from a tree over here It'd be like you know you're just one of the random guys you're walking along and then there's someone just dangling from a tree? It's like the guy we came for you guys. He's here That's what he does he's I see him and Joab says what you saw him? Why then did you not strike him there to the ground? Why are you telling me's in a tree? Why are you telling me he's dead?I would have been glad to give you 10 pieces of silver and a belt Yeah, 10 pieces of silver and a belt you guys But the man said to Joab even if I felt in my hand the weight of a thousand pieces of silver I would not reach out my hand against the king's son for in our hearing the king commanded you and Abishai and Ittai for my sake protect the young man Absalom on the other hand if I had dealt Treacherously against his life and there's nothing hidden from the king then you yourself would have stood aloof.Joab said I will not not waste time with you waste time like this with you So Joab he says I saw Absalom hanging in a tree Joab says why didn't you kill him and then I would have given you 10 pieces of silver and a belt and the man says You could have given me a bag of a thousand pieces of silver I'm not killing the king's son after he told us not to and then he just keeps going He goes he told you and his brother and he had time and if I had killed him and the king found out later You're not gonna bow walking up in the middle of that and being like look at whose belt he's wearing You're gonna stand back and let me get killed. I know exactly and just like you just I don't know who this certain man was but I like him.Joab's like why didn't you just obey the king and this guy's like have you lost your mind and Just goes toe to toe with Joab and you haven't gotten anything to say except for I don't have time for this I'm not getting too big discussion with you about what I would have done later had I like what whatever So he just you know I believe I'm not waste time like this with you and he took three javelins in his hand.And he thrust them into the heart of Absalom while he was still alive in the oak so when Joab gets there Absalom Absalom still there they take three Throwing spears and thrust them into him and ten young men, Joab's armor-bearers Surrounded Absalom and struck him and killed him Then Joab blew the trumpet and the troops came back from pursuing Israel for Joab restrained them So Joab does not follow the king's order He goes and brutally kills Absalom Throws three spears into him while he's dangling there cuts him down and then ten men who were with him Striking and killing.And then he blows the trumpet because that's all Joab wanted to do we got the guy that was causing problems The battle's over like y'all come back and without Absalom there's no rebellion It stopped And the throwing of the three spears makes it seem to me first of all Joab has no intention whatsoever of following David's command And it also feels Personal vindictive maybe and it doesn't tell us I think he probably had some enjoyment of finding him like that and then some anger towards Absalom he's Joab's the one who helped to bring Absalom back From exile Absalom when he was trying to get Joab's attention Joab wouldn't come so Absalom burned down Joab's field.Joab's on the run from Absalom has been expelled from his home and had to take his own family and his household with him and Seems to be he has no mercy in his heart for him and Absalom finds a gruesome end Now we know what David asked But there's part of me who can appreciate Feeling like yeah Absalom Caught what he deserved He's risen up in rebellion against his own back When when the original the when it was Ahithophel and Hushai were both giving him plans Ahithophel said we'll go tonight Just kill David and Absalom and thinks that's a good idea and then Hushai says no, we'll kill them all and Absalom thinks that's a better idea and When he dies like this there's part of me that just goes yeah.Feels like justice was served There's actually a passage in Deuteronomy that seems like he kind of lives out I want to show you what happens here next in verse 17 it says they took Absalom and threw him into a great pit in the forest and raised over him a very great heap of stones And all Israel fled everyone to his own home Now Absalom and his lifetime had taken and set up for himself the pillar that is in the King's Valley for he said I have no son to keep my name and Remembrance he called the pillar after his own name and it is called Absalom's monument to this day We'll get to that in just a second.And Deuteronomy chapter 21 it says that if anyone is deserving of death and is hanged on a tree He's cursed by God and that you should remove him from the tree before nightfall And Absalom hanging on the tree now it just happens to him but it seems as if it's in God's Providence that this would happen and it's the same phrase that he's hanged on a tree That's what he says I found he's hanging on a tree cursed by God. He's killed and.Then the very next passage in Deuteronomy 21 says if you have a rebellious son He should be taken outside of the gates and stoned and they throw him in a pit and they throw a great heap of stones on him So that he somehow lives out Deuteronomy 21 both of the punishments and there's this He's very unceremoniously cared for he's dumped dumped in a pit stones are thrown on him and then it says hey While he was alive he made himself his own monument and what the the text is doing is going so Absalom has two stone monuments the one he made for himself and the one we made for him in the forest The one where he tried to honor himself and the one where he died in utter contempt and dishonor.We are told in the text previously that Absalom had three sons so we've seen at this point that they have all died in infancy You're at a young age so that they aren't able to carry his name on So his desire in pride to elevate himself has come to utter ruin But now we have to see what happens with David Verse 19 then Ahimaaz the son of a Zadok said let me run and carry news to the king that the Lord has delivered him from the hand of his enemies.So Ahimaaz we met him earlier. He's one of the guys that hid in the well To bring news to David. He's been helping spy. He wants he says let me run and give him the news And Joab said to him you are not to carry news today You may carry news another day, but today you shall not you shall carry no news because the king's son is dead So Ahimaaz is excited he in his mind. He just says hey let's go tell him we won let's tell him that this is today is a great day.Then Joab said today's not gonna be a great day the king's son is dead. You don't need to carry news today And he says you can carry news another day. He's even like seems like he's trying to tell him as if it's like it's not you it just is the news. You don't need to carry it Verse 21 then Joab said to the Cushite go tell the king what you have seen The Cushite bowed before Joab and ran. I find this interaction interesting as well.So Joab looks at Ahimaaz and goes don't go deliver this news. It's not gonna go well. This is bad news and then he goes you there foreigner I got news for you to take to the king and It feels like At best what Joab is doing is you don't belong to the nation of Israel so you don't need to mourn with us But it worse he's just like if David decides to kill someone Non-covenant person I got a message for you which I wonder how the Cushite felt about that but he just says hey run this message.So the Cushite who's from the Egypt area He's gonna go so he says the Cushite bow before Joab and ran Then Ahimaaz the son of Zadok said again to Joab come what may let me also run after the Cushite And Joab said why will you run my son seeing that you have no reward for the news Come what may he said I will run so he said to him run Then Ahimaaz ran by the way of the plain and out ran the Cushite to Ahimaaz really wants to go Please please please He says whatever happens. I don't care what happens. Just let me go. Let me run after him. I'll just go behind him. Let me go.And then he doesn't go behind him he runs a different way and outruns him And I think maybe Ahimaaz just like running He also might just like to be in the middle of things. I don't know we don't we don't know But we know that he out runs the Cushite so he's gonna get there first But he said I don't care I don't care how he takes the news. I just want to go.Verse 24 now David was sitting between the two gates and the watchman went up to the roof of the gate by the wall When he lifted up his eyes and looked he saw a man running alone so there's outer gate outer wall Then a House something above the gate where you can sit and watch and there's an inter gate inter wall and David's in between pacing praying I don't know But he's just kind of this is where he is and he's waiting for news waiting they're keeping an eye out on what's going on watchman sees a runner.The watchman is verse 25 called out and told the king and the king said if he is alone There is news in his mouth and he drew near and near so they can see for quite a ways We don't know how far but he could be a mile away between like we he's you know You see someone running he says someone's running he's by himself He says well he's alone he's bringing news The whole army marching back would mean one thing people coming back in a little bunches would probably mean defeat you know.But just the guy running he's bringing us some information The watchman saw another man running and the watchman called to the gate and said see another man running alone The king said he also brings news Which he split his army into Thirds so to get news from different places. It's not odd to get news from the same place with the exact same time as odd but David doesn't know that's what's about to happen.The watchman said I think the running of the first is like the running of Ahimaaz the son of a Zadok I think he's seen Ahimaaz run before this what part of what makes me think Ahimaaz likes to run or you know Ahimaaz does his hands weird when he runs or something. I don't know but he sees him and he's like that looks like Ahimaaz running And the king said he is a good man and comes with good news not maybe wishful thinking on David's part.But it also may be that he understands how Joab usually sends news and we just saw Joab say you're not allowed to bring news because this news is bad And maybe Joab has usually picks people to honor who get to go deliver good news So when he says oh, it's Ahimaaz this is gonna be good news That's the way David takes it Then Ahimaaz cried out to the king all is well and he's just run several miles and he's run fast because he outran the Cushite All is well as one word in in Hebrew says Shalom, but he says all is well and he bowed before the king with his face to the earth and he said Blessed be the Lord your God who has delivered up the men who raised their hand against my Lord the king.And the king said is it well with the young man? Absalom So he says we won The news he gives is the news to the king justice was served But the king doesn't respond. I mean he is the King David, but he responds as the father. He got the king news and now he asks Is it well With Absalom Ahimaaz answered When Joab sent the king's servant, your servant, I saw a great commotion, but I do not know what it was.And the king said turn aside and stand here so he turned aside and stood still now Ahimaaz said twice come what may And as soon as he gets to come what may he does not tell him what happened to his son I Don't know if he changed his mind in the moment I don't know if he just wanted to be here and see it We don't know if he thought about it as he was out running the Cushite and he thought I don't know if it was when he gave the news the King David and King David doesn't respond with any sort of joy at hearing that he won but only asked about Absalom, but at this moment he just goes ah when I when I was there was the stuff going on, but I don't know.Hmm Then David says okay, we'll stand over here And then he sees a Cushite running Which I don't know if he knows him. I don't know how how that worked in their their army But he's coming up so he just has stand here and he's waiting for this piece of news And behold the Cushite came and the Cushite said good news from my Lord the king For the Lord has delivered you this day from the hand of all who rose up against you I don't know if the Cushite did a double take when he saw him as.But he was the last time he had a conversation with a person he was talking to Joab who was talking to Ahimaaz and then he took off running and then when he shows up He sees David who's talking to Ahimaaz who's obviously been running I don't know if we play the game where it was like which one of us has just run six miles but she'd probably be able to figure it out Do the other ones hadn't and so I just want to hear if he was like, huh, and then just but he did his job.The king said to the Cushite Is it well with the young man? Absalom, I asked the exact same question and the Cushite answered may the enemies of my Lord the king and all who rise up against you for evil be like that young man And the king was deeply moved Went up to the chamber over the gate and wept And as he went and he said oh my son, Absalom my son my son, Absalom Would that I had died instead of you? Oh, Absalom my son my son.So he gets the news we won Rebellion over God's given you victory God's with you and he gets the news your son is dead David's heart is broken And he just goes off It was told Joab the king is weeping and mourning for Absalom So the victory that day was turned into mourning for all the people For they heard, for the people heard that day the king is grieving his son and the people stole into the city that day as people who steal in who are Shamed when they flee in battle and the king covered his face and the king cried with a loud voice Oh my son, Absalom my son David's gone up over the gatehouse and he's just weeping and he's covered his face and he's just he's broke.People hear it And they don't they don't just walk back into the city like anything good has happened They don't celebrate that they won they don't celebrate their deliverance It says they sneak in like people who lost people who don't want to make eye contact with you because they fled because they're ashamed of themselves So this this is how it comes back to the city Then Joab came into the house for the king and said you have today covered with shame The faces of all your servants who have this day saved your life and the lives of your sons and your daughters and the lives of your wives.And your concubines because you love those who hate you and hate those who love you You have made it clear today that the commanders and servants are nothing to you for today I know that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today Then you would have been pleased So Joab shows up walks right up and it says just Let's him have it and you can you can feel Joab's hurt a little bit. Joab is is David's nephew and he's been with him and everything.And Joab says I can tell now they don't matter like we don't matter if Absalom were alive and we were all dead this you wouldn't be acting like this Verse seven now therefore a rise Go out and speak kindly to your servants for I swear by the Lord if you do not go Not a man will stay with you this night and this will be worse for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now.Then the king arose and took his seat in the gate and the people were all told behold the king is sitting in the gate and All the people came before the king David hears Joab and he realizes he's right He goes out to the gate and he starts smoothing things back over No, Joab goes up to him and says you need to act like a king and David had just been acting like a father and There's this pull in the text Because how does David handle this well? If he only responded like a king If he looked at them as they were on their way out and said make sure Absalom doesn't last the day He'd be gone. Oh, I mean that's your son David Response in both ways he responds as a king at the end we see him sitting as a king.We see him weeping as a father if he only acts like a father then then it falls apart He doesn't handle his kingly duties. There's this tension here between the justice that needs to be carried out And the love that David has for his son and he's not able to to navigate it But how would you Your king your sons in rebellion against you. How do you navigate that? And I think as we're evaluating it we're trying to think through that I think different ones of us want to move the slider in different directions Some of us feel like yes, I don't know Can you march against your own son even though he's wrong? Maybe you don't Maybe David should just say Somebody else has got to lead this. I'm gonna step down from being king.And some of you are like that's crazy talk Get in He's causing more problems He's willing to kill you. He's wrong. I don't care that he's your son. He's chosen so many things that are wrong And we want to pull this back and forth and we have this tension between justice and love and mercy And it's not just in this story. I think this is the tension that runs throughout the Old Testament This story gives us a feel for it.But we're told that God has a glorious king who is perfect in justice and perfect in holiness created a world out of love, that he loves the world that he loves His creation that he loves Humans and we're told that we rebel We don't want his kingship. We don't want his love. We don't want him What does he do And you'll talk to people and then move that slider around Some people say why don't see why he can't just forget why can't he just love us if he loves us then he would just forgive us If there really is a God, then he's a loving God and he's a forgiving God and we're fine. It's fine He knows we're all human. He just is gonna. He's fine.And if you have a God of judgment or wrath or whatever you're confused because that's not what God's like And they just move the slider all the way over to loving father which we're told God is a loving father There's a problem with that Joab sees the problem. He says that son was gonna kill all your other sons That son was gonna kill all your children. So you're gonna kill your whole household.And it's easy if your life's been kind of calm and kind of nice and everything's been kind of and you just deal with Base level disagreements to go yeah, we're all the same and God loves us But if people have marched into your village and burned it down and raped all your family members If you've dealt with heinous wicked evil and then your answer is that God just kind of sleepily goes. It's okay That doesn't feel very loving How can he love us and not care.There's a scene in the movie Princess Bride where Princess Buttercup is being walked down the aisle, being forced to marry someone she doesn't want to marry she's walking this really old Nice king she gives him a kiss on the cheek and he says what was that for she says you've always been so nice to me And I'm not gonna see you again because after the wedding when I get to the honeymoon suite I'm gonna kill myself He pats her arm and says that's nice.And he looks at someone she kissed me and Some of us seem to be that's the God you're promoting No matter what happens you just kind of go that's nice. It's okay It's just vaguely kind And you've filed that under love, but he has no response to sin whatsoever There are others who are gonna slide it over and say no, he needs to bring justice He needs to destroy Wickedness and you'll hear people say why don't you just get rid of the bad people like why don't you just get rid of sin why doesn't he just get rid of it Because he'd have to get rid of people.And most of us want a God who judges we just want him to judge wherever the line is past us Do you know what I'm saying? I Like if I'm driving down the interstate and I'll come up behind you and you're not going as fast as me you are slow And if I'm driving up down the interstate and you come whipping up behind me you are fast Because I'm the pace car I'm driving appropriately that's the way we feel about justice That's the way we feel about mercy that's what I want the line to go right here past me Those people are the bad ones, but I'm not.And so we actually don't want a holy God we want him to be as holy as I am We don't want a just God we we want him just as holy and just as just as Get rid of the people I don't like and keeps me that's not how it works if you're going to stop the rebellion you stop the rebels And that's us you've actively made things worse. I've actively made things worse. I've been part of the problem I've been selfish I've lied I've harmed people I'm part of the problem I haven't just been an addition to the world I've taken away from it and if you think he's righteous If you think he's just and you go well, yeah, but like more good than bad that's not how justice works.That's not how judgment works If if there was a trial for a doctor who had been killing people that were his patients And his whole defense was yeah, I killed four people last year But I saved 22 So I'm a net 18 And I only killed the ones that annoying me Nobody the judges aren't gonna go well somebody that math is net 18 right okay Let him go That's not how it works That's not how justice works You don't want someone it character witness after someone has has assaulted your family and someone goes yeah, but he's like always paid his taxes Irrelevant. I don't care That's not how justice works and so when you say well I'm good over here and I'm good over here and I did this thing.But these other ones shouldn't count that's just because you want to draw the line in a place that's actually wicked Because we fail on holiness So to just forgive everybody is wrong And to just destroy everybody is right but it breaks the father's heart In this story The rebellion is over When we see the Son hanging on a tree and dying for his sin And in our story the rebellion gets to end when we see the Son hanging on a tree and dying not for his sin, but for ours.That's what God does God works out a way for his perfect love and his perfect justice to meet in a way that we could have never navigated For his perfect justice for wrath to be poured out for sin to be dealt with and his absolute love So that there might be hope rather than just getting rid of everybody And he does that in the cross that's where those two things meet in a way that is mind blowing and beautiful.So that in the cross God is more holy than you could have ever imagined to the point that his Son has to pay for the wrath But he's more loving than you could have ever understood because he's willing to pay for it so that we might be forgiven That's the hope of the cross and there is no other way There is no other way that it would have to deny the love of God or would have to deny the righteousness of God.But in the cross we have perfect love and perfect justice meeting in a way that is beyond our comprehension and when the soldiers have the right of it when they look at David and they say you're worth 10,000 of us Jesus Christ is worth 14 trillion of us so that he's capable of paying the debt So that he can save all those who come to him with his perfect Priceless blood he can pay the debt that we all deserve to pay and He can be the way that God pours out his justice and his wrath and his righteousness and his love.So that he can welcome sinners and have their debt covered So God for us is able to do what David couldn't figure out how to navigate and we see that he is perfectly just and Perfectly loving and therefore we have a hope but only only in Christ Let's pray Lord, we ask That you would set our hearts on fire with the beauty of the gospel that we at no point Would underestimate your holiness that we would not somehow tone you down or make you sleepier That we would not impose upon you some sort of wickedness that can turn a blind eye to sin.But that Lord we would also not in seeing your absolute justice Fail to see your wonderful love that reaches to the highest heavens that covers sin So Lord may we see both may we trust Jesus and may we glorify your name In Jesus' name The band's gonna come back up and we're gonna sing If you've never placed your faith in Jesus If you're counting on God being not that holy If you have a God who's only vaguely loving but doesn't deal with sin I will let you know that that is not the God of the Scriptures.But that you can have hope in Christ and if you've placed your faith in Christ Then rejoice That your hope is not found in you. It's not found in your work It's not found in your worth but it is found in the precious blood of Jesus that forgives sinners And may we sing like we're redeemed.
Depois de muito tempo e de muitos rumores, finalmente tivemos uma nova Nintendo Direct! Entramos já aguardando a revelação do remake de Ocarina, mas acabamos encontrando uma enxurrada de projetos de empresas terceiras chegando ao Switch 2.Faça parte do Ofertas Nintendo e receba promoções no seu WhatsApp ou TelegramSiga-nos nas redes sociais procurando por @ultranpodcast e acesse nosso site www.ultranpodcast.com.br, e claro, recomende sempre nosso material para seus amigos!Participantes- Daniel Reenlsober- Jhonatan Carneiro- Marcel Bonatelli
Dear Listener, has your relationship been rocked by a betrayal? Maybe you discovered your partner was hiding something—an affair, a secret account, or a series of trust-breaking half-truths. Or maybe you're the one who kept the secret, and now you're wondering if there's any way to heal your relationship.This is the second episode in our Managing Thirds series, and we're tackling one of the most painful examples of a mismanaged third: betrayal. We're joined by Relationship Center therapist Shae Burnette, AMFT, who specializes in recovery from betrayal trauma. In this conversation, Shae walks us through how couples can actually heal after infidelity or other major breaches of trust, and even build a stronger relationship as a result.Shae explains that betrayal isn't just about affairs – breaches of trust can result from withholding information that, if known, would have changed everything. This can include hidden addictions, covert spending, or omitting a quiet, inconvenient truth, like realizing you don't want kids after all. What all betrayals have in common: one partner kept a secret, and now the other partner's sense of reality has been shattered.We walk through the phases of healing—from addressing the betrayed partner's trauma and rebuilding trust, to renegotiating the agreements of the relationship so this doesn't happen again. You'll learn what the secret-keeping partner needs to do to regain trust (hint: it's more than just apologizing), how the betrayed partner can set boundaries after infidelity without becoming punitive, and why rushing through recovery almost always backfires.If you're navigating betrayal trauma recovery and wondering whether your relationship can survive—or even become stronger—this episode offers a clear, compassionate path forward.Key Takeaways0:00 Intro 02:01 Managing Thirds: Recap 03:11 What is betrayal? 07:22 Phase One: Rebuilding Trust 29:14 Phase Two: Agreements 43:51 Phase Three: MaintenanceResources and linksEp. 37 - A Common Reason Relationships Fail: Managing Thirds (Part 1 of 4)The Ten Commandments for a Secure-Functioning Relationship by Stan Tatkin (blog post)Have a question or comment? Email us at podcast@relationshipcenter.com. We love hearing from you!If you'd like to work with one of the talented clinicians on our team, go to relationshipcenter.com/apply-now to apply for a free 30-minute consultation.To get a monthly email with our best content, go to relationshipcenter.com/newsletter.If something in this episode touched you, will you share it with a friend? That helps us reach more sweet humans like you.Lastly, we'd love it if you would leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to podcasts. And be sure to hit subscribe while you're there so you never miss an episode!
If you aren't a tech nerd like us, you probably didn't even know Computex and Microsoft Build were happening. And that's alright. Everyone besides Apple is trying to get their announcements out there before WWDC kicks off next week. Watch on YouTube! - Notnerd.com and Notpicks.com INTRO (00:00) WWDC next Monday at 10! (03:30) MAIN TOPIC: NVIDIA, Microsoft, and More drop their news before Apple (04:45) Computex 2026: All the news and announcements What we learned at Microsoft Build: Autopilots, MAI-Thinking-1, and Nvidia RTX Spark Dell stock skyrockets 32% for its best day ever as AI server revenue soars Microsoft is killing Office 2019 for Mac and iPhone, and you can't do much about it DAVE'S PRO-TIP OF THE WEEK: Rule of Thirds! (19:55) JUST THE HEADLINES: (27:20) Perfect randomness realized for the first time A fundamental principle of aeronautical engineering has been overturned Meta AI support bot helped hackers hijack Instagram accounts Roku updates its UI for the first time in a decade Something made Earth's molten core reverse direction in 2010 YouTube to automatically detect, label AI-generated videos Google requests permission to release 32 million mosquitoes in California and Florida LISTENER MAIL: From Hey Grandma - The Year 2038 problem (31:05) WITHIN REACH! Dave 8-6, Round 14, Nate goes first (35:25) TAKES: Facebook Plus, Instagram Plus subscriptions launch for $3.99/month (42:15) Nintendo's new Pictonico iOS game turns your photos into minigames (46:45) Not news: iOS 28 will reportedly be 'far more significant' than iOS 27 (48:20) BONUS ODD TAKE: Magnified Sand (50:15) PICKS OF THE WEEK: Dave: PUGG Wall clock, stainless steel, 12 ½" (54:25) Nate: Upgraded 67mm Phone Lens Filter Adapter Mount for iPhone 17 16 15 14 Pro Pro Max Plus Air, Double-Sided Magnetic Phone Lens Filter Ring with 1/4-20" & Cold Shoe Pull-Out to fit 17 Pro Max (No Filters (58:20)
Welcome to another episode of The AZREIA Show! In this solo episode, Michael Del Prete, Executive Director of the Arizona Real Estate Investors Association, reflects on a powerful chapter from his book Fearless Connections and shares how real estate success is built far more on relationships than marketing tactics. He walks through a memorable 2012 wholesale deal in Phoenix's Pearson Historic District, where a distressed property with a squatter and a $5,000 asking price turned into a defining lesson in collaboration, trust, and long-term wealth building. What began as a simple assignment deal evolved into a creative partnership when investor Dennis stepped in to renovate, rent, refinance, and structure the project using other people's money. In the process, Michael still received his assignment fee while also earning 25% ownership in the deal, revealing how the right relationships can expand opportunity far beyond a single transaction and create outcomes that no solo effort could achieve. Throughout the episode, Michael emphasizes the fundamentals that actually drive success in real estate: showing up consistently, building genuine relationships, networking with intention, learning from mentors and peers, and never underestimating the people you meet along the way. He also introduces his philosophy of "living life in thirds," where growth comes from learning from those ahead of you, building alongside your peers, and giving back to those just starting out, reminding investors that lasting success is built through connection, trust, and consistency. 00:00 Welcome to AZREIA Show 01:22 Why Relationships Win 02:02 Survival Mode Wholesaling 03:36 The Craigslist House Lead 06:53 Meeting Dennis at AZREIA 08:03 From Fee to Ownership 10:18 Refi and OPM Lesson 12:16 Living Life in Thirds 14:26 Negotiation Calm Mindset 16:37 Show Up and Network 18:28 Panera Game Six Plex Deal 19:36 Reconnect and Give First 20:28 Events and Final Wrap -- Contact Alden of Silver Crest Opportunity Fund at http://silvercrestopportunityfund.com "AZREIA does not endorse specific investments. Please do your own due diligence." Want to grow your real estate business?
Dear Listener, have you ever felt like you're competing with your partner's job, phone, friends, or hobbies for their attention? Or maybe you've been on the other side—accused of not prioritizing your partner when you didn't even realize you were doing it? Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just starting to date someone new, this episode is for you. (Singles: stick around until the end for dating-specific tips on managing thirds from day one.)In this episode, we dive into one of the most common causes of relationship problems: mismanaged thirds. "Thirds" is a concept from Stan Tatkin that refers to anything outside the couple—people, things, or activities—that can leave one or both partners feeling neglected or sidelined. When thirds aren't managed well, the couple bubble gets compromised, and the relationship suffers.We explore why thirds threaten your sense of safety and security, the signs of relationship trouble to watch for (hint: it's not always about the thing you're fighting about), and how to protect your relationship by setting boundaries that actually work. Spoiler: the answer isn't "stop doing the thing" or "stop caring"—it's something more nuanced that leaves neither partner feeling like they've lost.This is the first episode in a four-part series on managing thirds—stay tuned for deep dives on healing from betrayal, navigating in-laws, and ethical non-monogamy.Key Takeaways00:00 Intro 01:53 What are "thirds"—and why do they threaten your relationship? 21:09 How do you protect your relationship from mismanaged thirds? 31:26 Managing thirds in early datingResources and linksYour Brain on Love by Stan Tatkin (audiobook)The Ten Commandments for a Secure-Functioning Relationship by Stan Tatkin (blog post)Ep. 20 - Understanding Jealousy, Compersion & Attachment in Relationships (podcast episode)Have a question or comment? Email us at podcast@relationshipcenter.com. We love hearing from you!If you'd like to work with one of the talented clinicians on our team, go to relationshipcenter.com/apply-now to apply for a free 30-minute consultation.To get a monthly email with our best content, go to relationshipcenter.com/newsletter.If something in this episode touched you, will you share it with a friend? That helps us reach more sweet humans like you.Lastly, we'd love it if you would leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to podcasts. And be sure to hit subscribe while you're there so you never miss an episode!
Healthy Busy Life - Cambia la tua vita, un'abitudine alla volta
Hai fatto anni di lavoro su te stessa (libri, consapevolezza, percorsi di crescita personale) eppure arriva quel giorno in cui pesa tutto il doppio e riparte quella vocina interna che ti dice: "non è cambiato niente." Ci sono passata anche io e in questo episodio ti racconto la Rule of Thirds e la storia di Silvia, che per due anni ha pensato di essere ferma mentre dentro stava già cambiando tutto. Parliamo di:
On this week's edition of 52 Coffees with Kyleigh we discuss "The Rule of Thirds" and how the mindset can actually make life feel a whole lot more bearable sometimes.
Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development Podcast by Daryl Chow, Ph.D.
How do we organise ourselves within the therapy hour, so that we can create an impactful session for our client?In this podcast episode, we take a leaf from Module 8 of the Structure and Impact Course.If you are seeking to better structure your therapy sessions beyond the confines of specific therapy models, this online course is for you.The new cohort of Structure and Impact is now open for registration.Start Date: 27th of Apr 26, Monday.Closing Date: 24th of April 2026.Format: 1 new in-depth section for four weeks.https://darylchowcourses.teachable.com/p/structureThe course is designed to be a combination of learning with a community + self-paced, along with a life-time access to the entire content, discussion, and updates.As subscribers to Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development (FPD), you receive a special 10% discount.At checkout, enter the following promo code: FPD10BONUSES: 1. Full Access to the course on Feedback-Informed Treatment called Measured.2. Exclusive invite to a live virtual meeting with alumni of Structure and Impact course.Timstamp:[02:07min]: ACT I: How We Begin. The differences between The Meanderer, The Rigid Behaviourist, and the Focused.[11:20min]: ACT II: How We Go Deeper. The differences between The Wanderer, The Overwhelmed, and The Deep Sea Diver.[19:15min]: ACT III: How WE Close. The differences between The Abrupt, The Teacher, and The Resonator[26:18min]: The Shadow Sides of StructureRelated:- Seven Common Challenges in Creating Structure- Thinking in Thirds (Parts I, II, III)---Subscribe to Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development (FPD). The aim is to help you grow at your bleeding edge of personal and professional development. Frontiers Friday is released newsletter. Plus, you get to access 10 years of FPD archive at no cost. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit darylchow.substack.com
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!Length: 28 minutesSynopsis: This morning (4/16/26), in lieu of our usual morning Mishlei, we had a short Q&A session! We discussed three questions: (1) To what degree can we "diagnose" whether something in our life was hashgachah pratis? (2) What does the Rambam mean by all the aggadic statements he brings down in Hilchos Deios Perek 7 about lashon ha'ra? (3) What are my views on how/whether we do/should implement the halacha about dividing one's learning time into thirds: a third in Torah she'bi'Chsav, a third in Torah she'baal Peh, and a third in Talmud? (I'll point out that these three questions fell neatly into these three categories.)-----מקורות:רד"ק - תהלים קמה:יזרמב"ם - משנה תורה: ספר המדע, הלכות דעות פרק זBenjamin Brown - "From Principles to Rules and from Musar to Halakhah: The Hafetz Hayim's Rulings on Libel and Gossip"רמב"ם - משנה תורה: ספר המדע, הלכות תלמוד תורה א:יאEvidently, in 2023, I spent around a week updating my understanding of all these sources. Here's the Torah content from that week:Overview of the Halachos of Rechilus and Lashon ha'Ra (4/21/23)4/24/23: Refining Our Definitions of Rechilus and Lashon ha'Ra (Hilchos Deios 7:1-3)4/25/23: Lashon ha'Ra = Avodah Zarah, Gilui Arayos, Shfichus Damim (Hilchos Deios 7:3)4/26/23: Lashon ha'Ra as Homicide-Suicide (Hilchos Deios 7:3)4/27/23: Four Examples of Avak Lashon ha'Ra Hilchos (Hilchos Deios 7:4)4/28/23: Kedoshim: Defining Rechilus-----The Torah content for the month of Nisan has been sponsored by Rivkie and Dovi Siderson. In the merit of our learning, may Hashem help us use this time to cleanse ourselves of spiritual "chametz," bringing refuah, shalom, and the final geulah to all of Klal Yisrael!-----If you've gained from what you've learned here, please consider contributing to my Patreon at www.patreon.com/rabbischneeweiss. Alternatively, if you would like to make a direct contribution to the "Rabbi Schneeweiss Torah Content Fund," my Venmo is @Matt-Schneeweiss, and my Zelle and PayPal are mattschneeweiss at gmail. Even a small contribution goes a long way to covering the costs of my podcasts, and will provide me with the financial freedom to produce even more Torah content for you.If you would like to sponsor a day's or a week's worth of content, or if you are interested in enlisting my services as a teacher or tutor, you can reach me at rabbischneeweiss at gmail. Thank you to my listeners for listening, thank you to my readers for reading, and thank you to my supporters for supporting my efforts to make Torah ideas available and accessible to everyone.-----Substack: rabbischneeweiss.substack.com/YU Torah: yutorah.org/teachers/Rabbi-Matt-SchneeweissYouTube Channel: youtube.com/rabbischneeweissInstagram: instagram.com/rabbischneeweiss/"The Stoic Jew" Podcast: thestoicjew.buzzsprout.com"The Mishlei Podcast": mishlei.buzzsprout.com"Rambam Bekius" Podcast: rambambe
Coach Tory and Coach Don preview episode 415, thank patrons, and highlight Nebraska hosting UCLA with over 8,000 fans as a possible true home-field regular-season attendance record, noting softball's growth. The city of the week is Bloomington, Indiana, and they promote Square Cuts training discs and sponsors EAS and Elite Sporting Goods. A listener reports Tennessee varsity games canceled due to a severe umpire shortage; they discuss poor treatment of officials and encouraging more people to umpire. In the lead-off segment, they debate year-round softball, risks of burnout and injury, and advocate balancing commitment with multi-sport participation. They explain the “Rule of Thirds” for great, average, and terrible days and emphasize performing through adversity using goals. The coaching tip stresses pitchers practicing fielding, overhand throwing, and situational awareness, including a two-ball drill. Tory also criticizes an overly small TV strike zone in college games and its effects on pitchers, offense, and record comparisons.Support the show
Cocinamos un caldo sonoro que se alimenta de grandes álbumes lanzados en 1971 escuchando las canciones que abrían esos discos hoy clásicos.Playlist;(sintonía) PINK FLOYD “One of these days” (Meddle)JETHRO TULL “Aqualung” (Aqualung)BLACK SABBATH “Sweet leaf” (Master of reality)LED ZEPPELIN “Black dog” (IV)ALICE COOPER “Caught in a dream” (Love it to death)ALICE COOPER “Under my wheels” (Killer)JAMES GANG “Walk away” (Thirds)THE HOLLIES “What a live I’ve led” (Distant lightFLEETWOOD MAC “Woman of a 1000 years” (Future games)BYRDS “Glory Glory” (Byrdmaniax)CAN “Paper house” (Tago Mago)Escuchar audio
This week on The Knock On, KCLR Sport's weekly rugby podcast, Stephen Byrne is joined by Paddy Browne of Tullow RFC to break down all the latest action from across the local rugby scene.On This Week's Episode:Derby Fever: It's the big one! We preview the massive Towns Cup Quarter-Final as Tullow hosts Carlow. With Tullow coming off a season-best performance against De La Salle Palmerston and Carlow fresh and hungry, will match fitness or freshness win the day?History in the Making: We celebrate a landmark moment as the Tullow Women secure their first AIL win in two years. We look ahead to their high-stakes relegation battle against Ennis.Underage Excellence: A massive roundup of the youth circuit—from the U13s reaching a Leinster semi-final to the U16s' thrilling victory over Carlow.The Province & The Philosophy: The lads talk Leinster, the loss of RG Snyman, and the big debate: Is Jacques Nienaber's defensive philosophy holding back Leinster's natural attacking flair?Junior Rugby Roundup: Updates on the Seconds and Thirds as cup action heats up across the board.Don't miss the crack on the sideline! Whether you're heading to the Black Gates or tuning in on the radio, we've got everything you need to know before kick-off, the game is also live on KCLR Radio.We also bring you all the latest youth rugby news and updates from around the region.All that and more on The Knock On.
When the angels blew the trumpets, God's judgment continued to intensify upon the earth. God demonstrates that He is Lord of all creation. Creation is a message that demands a response as well as means of judgment upon the wicked. God does not change. The nature of the plagues brought about at the end of the age are strikingly similar to what God has done before. God shows that He is slow to anger in that He destroyed a third of things but not yet the whole. Many people have been afforded God's patient mercy. What will you ultimately decide while there is time?
When the angels blew the trumpets, God's judgment continued to intensify upon the earth. God demonstrates that He is Lord of all creation. Creation is a message that demands a response as well as means of judgment upon the wicked. God does not change. The nature of the plagues brought about at the end of the age are strikingly similar to what God has done before. God shows that He is slow to anger in that He destroyed a third of things but not yet the whole. Many people have been afforded God's patient mercy. What will you ultimately decide while there is time?
The Boyz celebrate their Top 10 Thirds in Media. Published Mar 14, 2026. For all things RudeBoyz, head to: linktr.ee/rudeboyz Find us on Podbean, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, and TuneIn! Thanks for listening, leave a comment & join the RudeNation! Review us on your podcast platform of choice, screenshot it, DM us, and get a shout-out!
Ever have a workout that feels terrible and immediately question your fitness? What if we told you that you're actually supposed to feel bad a third of the time? In this episode, we break down "The Rule of Thirds" - a simple framework that can completely change how you see hard workouts, okay days, and breakthrough sessions - from Alexi Pappas' book, "Bravey." If you've ever panicked after a rough run or wondered if you're pushing hard enough, this episode will reframe your entire training mindset. EDGE Coach Quip Podcast: Ep 229: The Rule of Thirds
¡Hola, cafeteros! En el programa de hoy comentamos los siguientes temas: 1️⃣ Los nuevos detalles de Project M, el proyecto exclusivo de Bloober Team para Switch 2 2️⃣ El acceso ilimitado de las thirds a los devkits de la consola 3️⃣ Los lanzamientos de Nintendo anunciados para este año ... ¡y mucho más! Vota en The Coffee Awards los mejores juegos del año en Switch y Switch 2: https://t.co/4HpPflyXY3 APÓYANOS por lo que cuesta un café en https://uncafeconnintendo.wordpress.com/ Para estar informado del programa síguenos en nuestra cuenta de X (@cafeconnintendo) o Bluesky (uncafeconnintendo.bsky.social) Únete también a nuestra comunidad de Telegram solicitando un enlace de invitación en los comentarios del programa
Our guest is George Padilla who plays a key role in multiple exciting Japanese restaurant and hospitality businesses in New York, including Rule of Thirds (https://www.thirdsbk.com/), Bin Bin Sake (https://linktr.ee/bin.bin.sake) and Teruko (https://hotelchelsea.com/dining-and-bar/teruko) at The Hotel Chelsea. George's passion for and profound understanding of Japanese culture is impressive. Since he joined the tiny yet influential Japanese restaurant Okonomi in Brooklyn in 2014, he has been one of the most inspiring people in the Japanese food industry. He joined us with his chef partner JT at Rule of Thirds, in Episode #236 in August 2021, and shared his idea of Japanese food and food culture. He recently took another trip to Japan, which was packed with unique experiences and discoveries. In this episode, we are going to discuss all about them, such as his visit to the oldest izakaya in downtown Tokyo, the standing sushi bars he enjoyed and his stay at a traditional foodway retreat in Yamanaka Onsen. We will also talk about traditional manufacturers and breweries he visited, Japan's fermentation culture and much, much more!!! *** Places mentioned: Shinsuke izakayahttps://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g1066442-d1688850-Reviews-Shinsuke-Bunkyo_Tokyo_Tokyo_Prefecture_Kanto.html Kagiya izakayahttps://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g1066461-d9930321-Reviews-Kagiya-Taito_Tokyo_Tokyo_Prefecture_Kanto.html Tachiguizushi Akira (standing sushi bar)https://tachiguizushi-akira.com/en Hakko Department (fermentation retail shop)https://allabout-japan.com/en/article/11155/ Hannah Kirshner's Yamanaka retreathttps://www.instagram.com/hanamurasaki_official/ Harappa Aizu (cotton textile)https://www.harappaaizu.com/en/indtop.html Heritage Radio Network is a listener supported nonprofit podcast network. Support Japan Eats by becoming a member!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
The Mindset Debrief: Learn from those ahead of you, walk with those beside you, and mentor those behind youLiving your life in thirds is a mindset that brings clarity, balance, and personal fulfillment in a world that's often driven by constant motion and emotional pressure. Many people chase success, but they do it alone, and eventually feel disconnected, stressed, or overwhelmed. In this episode, we explore a practical and meaningful way to approach growth: learn from those ahead of you, walk beside the people who support your daily life, and mentor those who are building their identity behind you. These three groups create a healthy rhythm of learning, connection, and contribution.Through storytelling and reflection, this episode helps you understand why personal balance is impossible when everything becomes a solo mission. We grow faster when we study the habits and principles of those ahead of us, we stay grounded when we remain emotionally connected to the people walking through life with us, and we create real purpose when we serve and support others without expecting anything in return. Fulfillment becomes less about status or achievement and more about identity, clarity, and emotional maturity.This mindset makes personal development feel calmer and more intentional. You learn from experience without carrying every burden alone, you enjoy a richer emotional life with people who matter, and you build legacy by pouring your time and wisdom into the next generation. Living in thirds protects your confidence, strengthens your relationships, and brings meaning to every season of life.If you want to improve your mindset, emotional intelligence, discipline, and personal growth, this episode will help you see your own development with more patience and clarity. Progress becomes peaceful instead of stressful when you decide you're not meant to do everything alone.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15
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Our guest is Brian Evans who is the Director of Bars at Sunday Hospitality Group https://www.sundayhg.com/, which operates 12 popular hospitality concepts in New York and London, including Japanese-inspired restaurants Rule of Thirds https://www.thirdsbk.com/ in Brooklyn and Teruko https://hotelchelsea.com/dining-and-bar/teruko in Manhattan. Brian's talent in mixology earned him the 2021 Starchefs Rising Star Award. And his outstanding beverage program at the Lobby Bar at The Hotel Chelsea was highly recognized to receive the status of one of Esquire Magazine's Best Bars In America 2023 as well as Best U.S. Hotel Bar at Tales of the Cocktail in 2025. Also, with his passion and knowledge, Brian created the biggest Japanese whisky list in the U.S. at Teruko (with over 360 labels) at The Hotel Chelsea. In this episode, we will discuss how Brian got into the world of cocktails and spirits, how he developed his knowledge and skills in New York City in the global context, how he naturally infuses Japanese ingredients into classic and original cocktails, what is distinctive about Japanese whisky, his thoughts on Shoshu's global potential and much, much more!!!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
It's my 48th birthday, and Lori and I are getting really honest about what actually matters as you get older. I share what I've shed this past year, how coming back from a stroke and a torn shoulder changed the way I look at my health, business, and time, and why your friendships and business community are either your greatest asset or your biggest liability. We talk about structuring your circle in thirds, why happiness comes from pursuit, and how to get yourself into rooms that match the size of your goals. Tune in and build your next chapter on purpose. HIGHLIGHTS My reflections on turning 48. How a stroke changed my brain and behavior for the better. What getting older actually gives you (hint: it's better than youth). Two pieces of advice for anyone feeling lost in their late 30s or 40s. How I intentionally build and maintain deep friendships. What I am proudest of this year and what almost broke me. The "Rule of Thirds" for curating the right business community. RESOURCES Black Friday Sale: 80% off Strategy Sessions + 50% off MCM – DM us the word DEAL on Instagram Try the new Glōci Glow & Debloat flavors HERE Apply for our Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE Get on the waitlist for MCM Mastermind HERE Make More Sales in the next 90 days - GET THE BLUEPRINT HERE! Check out upcoming events + Masterminds: chrisharder.me Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 to get daily Money Mantras to boost your day. FOLLOW Chris: @chriswharder Lori: @loriharder Frello: @frello_app
It's Chris's birthday, and this episode gets deep and surprisingly emotional. We talk about the lessons that only your 30s and 40s can teach you, what you shed, what you tolerate less, and what finally becomes clear. Chris shares what last year taught him (including what his stroke changed for the better), why expectations are the #1 thing that keep us unhappy, and how wisdom, community, and clarity shift with age. We dive into what people in their late 30s or 40s need to know if they feel “behind,” how to curate a healthy community, why friendships are a part-time job, and why happiness is always found in pursuit. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/earnfree Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world's best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS Chris's reflections on turning 48. How a stroke changed Chris's brain and his behavior for the better. What getting older actually gives you (hint: it's better than youth). Two pieces of advice for anyone feeling lost in their late 30s or 40s. How Chris intentionally builds and maintains deep friendships. What Chris is proudest of this year and what almost broke him. The “Rule of Thirds” for curating the right business community. RESOURCES Black Friday Sale: 80% off Strategy Sessions + 50% off MCM – DM us the word DEAL on Instagram Try the new Glōci Glow & Debloat flavors HERE Apply for our Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE Get on the waitlist for MCM Mastermind HERE Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Chris: @chriswharder
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In this powerful and heartfelt episode, Greg Francis sits down with his daughters to unpack what true discipline and mindset look like — both in sports and in life. From varsity golf lessons to real talk about frustration, failure, and teamwork, this episode shows how daily consistency and faith shape champions from the inside out.They discuss the difference between distress and eustress, the importance of structure and choice, and why discipline isn't punishment — it's preparation.
Ready for a mindset shift that makes motivation optional and progress inevitable? We dive into the Rule of Thirds—one third amazing, one third meh, one third hard—and show how this simple lens turns frustration into fuel across fitness, nutrition, business, and motherhood. By expecting the natural cycle of highs, plateaus, and lows, you'll stop mislabeling normal fluctuations as failure and start building consistency that lasts.You'll hear how clients ride the same waves—fast early wins, quiet middle weeks, then a sudden click after a long plateau—even when the scale doesn't move. Through a clear mountain hike analogy and real coaching examples, we map out what each third looks like, why the “meh” phase is where most progress compounds, and how to survive the hard days without blowing up your routine.You'll leave with a three-step plan you can use today. First, name your third to cut the drama and pick the right approach. Second, adjust rather than abandon: push on great days, prioritize basics on meh days, and lower the bar on hard days without breaking the chain. Third, trust the cycle; no phase lasts forever. This is the blueprint for sustainable results, emotional maturity, and self-trust—so you can show up for your goals through every season of life.If this message hits home, follow and share the episode with a friend who needs it. Subscribe and leave a quick review so more people can find tools that make consistency doable. Then tell us: which third are you in today?Want more? Find and follow Bree onwww.bodybybree.comInstagramPinterestYouTubeBlog
Hey missionary family! This podcast episode is #225 - Applying the Rule of Thirds. In this episode, I'm sharing something new I've been thinking about called the Rule of Thirds—and how it applies to missionary life, post-mission life, and really, all of our human experience. You've heard me talk before about the 50/50 rule—how life and missions are made up of both joy and struggle—but this time, I'm introducing a new way to see it: the top third, the bottom third, and the middle third. That middle third—the “meh,” in-between space—might not feel exciting, but it's actually where we build consistency, clarity, and growth. Whether you're serving a mission, preparing to go, or finding your rhythm after coming home, learning to value this neutral space can help you find balance, peace, and stability through life's roller coaster of highs and lows. I'll also explain how this idea came to me at a business conference, why it reminded me of photography composition and music triads, and how seeing life in thirds can bring more compassion, grounding, and gratitude to your missionary journey—and beyond. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends. Website | Instagram | Facebook Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE Free PDF Download: Podcast Roadmap Free PDF Download: Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet Free Training for Preparing Missionaries: Change Your Mission with this One Tool RM Transition Free Video Series: 3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home Free Guide: 5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary Schedule a Free Strategy Call: Click Here
Think your phone camera can’t compete with the pros? Think again. In this episode, I’m breaking down five of my favourite tips that can instantly turn everyday snaps into scroll-stopping shots. No fancy gear, no complicated setups—just the device that’s already in your hand. The best part? You don’t need to be “good with cameras” (trust me, I once avoided them altogether). These tips are quick, practical, and designed to help anyone—from selfie-takers to content creators—capture images that actually stand out. If you’re ready to stop relying on stock photos and start creating content you’re proud of, you won’t want to miss this one. We’ll be talking about: ➡ [00:00] Introduction to Mobile Photography Tips ➡ [03:10] The Importance of User-Generated Content ➡ [04:51] Tip #1 Lighting: The Key to Great Photos ➡ [06:53] Tip #2 Cleaning Your Lens for Clarity ➡ [10:34] Tip #3 Understanding the Rule of Thirds ➡ [13:56] Tip # 4 Incorporating Human Elements ➡ [20:47] Camera Angles for Impact ➡ [23:19] Recap and Encouragement to Create Resources: Free Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/socialmediafordirectsellerswithgregandsam/ Are you ready to keep growing? Learn more about joining the Auxano Family - https://go.auxano.global/welcome Connect with Direct Selling Accelerator: ➡ Visit our website: https://www.auxano.global/ ➡ Subscribe to YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DirectSellingAccelerator ➡ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Sam Hind’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/samhinddigitalcoach ➡ Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/auxanomarketing ➡ Email us: community_manager@auxano.global If you have any podcast suggestions or things you’d like to learn about specifically, please send us an email at the address above. And if you liked this episode, please don’t forget to subscribe, tune in, and share this podcast. Are you ready to join the Auxano Family to get live weekly training, support and the latest proven posting strategies to get leads and sales right now - find out more here: https://go.auxano.global/welcomeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
My guest is Dr. Bret Contreras, PhD, CSCS, a world-renowned expert on muscle and strength building for women and for men. Bret is known as “the glute guy” for his expertise in helping people build their ideal physique, including how to grow and/or strengthen their gluteus muscles. He explains how to resistance train to improve strength, hypertrophy and aesthetics, and to overcome genetically or injury-induced weaker body parts. We cover ideal training frequency, exercise selection, sets and repetitions and periodization. Our discussion is for women and men of any age and experience level seeking to maximize their aesthetics, performance and longevity. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AGZ by AG1: https://drinkagz.com/huberman Rorra: https://rorra.com/huberman Carbon: https://joincarbon.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman David: https://davidprotein.com/huberman Timestamps (0:00) Bret Contreras (2:43) Resistance Training for Beginners, Tools: Training Frequency; Sets, Progressive Overload, “LULUL” (10:45) Sponsors: Rorra & Carbon (13:57) Frequency & Exercise Flexibility, Tool: Switch Exercise Focus (21:31) Individual Recovery, Women & Adjusting Variables, Tool: 4 Training Patterns (31:37) Maximum Recoverable Volume (MRV), Determine MRV, Tool: Flexing & Loadless Training (40:41) Low-Load Glute Activation; Life-Long Strength Gains, Avoiding Pain & Injury (48:52) Sponsors: AGZ by AG1 & LMNT (51:54) Tool: Brett's “Big Six” Lifts; COVID Pandemic, Competition & Exercise Variety (1:00:18) Difficult Final Reps; Tempo & Hypertrophy; Autonomy & Progressive Overload (1:11:16) Progressive Overload, Quantity & Quality, Injury (1:13:22) Gym vs Real-Life Constraints, Motivation, Tool: Individual Training Frequency (1:23:38) Exercise Enjoyment, Genetics, Long-Term Strength, Injury & NEAT (1:28:37) Tool: Realistic Consistent Schedules & 5-Year Review (1:33:00) Sponsor: Function (1:34:49) Glute Function; Abduction vs Adduction; Glute Vectors, Tool: Rule of Thirds (1:45:26) Upper vs Lower Glute Maximus Exercises, Frequency (1:49:26) Common Mistakes of Hip Thrusts (1:52:06) Exercises to Grow Glutes, Women & Men, Hypertrophy (2:02:14) Hip Thrust, Barbell, Hip Anatomy; Glute-Focused Hyperextension; Glute Medius Exercises (2:08:07) Training Lagging Muscle Groups, Maintaining Strength, Muscle Memory (2:14:23) Neck Training; Focused Training & Maintaining Strength (2:22:06) Sponsor: David (2:23:20) Periodic Training, Strength, Pain, Desire to Train; Tool: Training Layoffs (2:34:24) Tool: Rep Ranges for Lagging Body Part; Growing Calves (2:37:35) Can You Build Muscle After 40?, Perimenopause, Menopause; Pregnancy (2:40:44) Saggy Glutes; Gain Muscle & Lose Fat?, Mini-Bulks & Cuts, Recomp, Hormones (2:47:46) Lifting or Pilates for Strength?; Grow Glutes Without Legs; Hip Dips (2:51:48) Spot Reduction, Abs & Fat Loss; Wide vs Narrow Hips & Training; Grip Strength; Tool: One Set to Failure (2:57:48) Acknowledgements (3:01:32) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Sponsors, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover how "The Rule of Thirds" can truly be a game-changer for marriage! In this solo episode of the Married Into Crazy podcast, Lovey dives into a powerful mindset that transforms not just marriages, but also parenting, business, and life. Learn why expecting constant happiness in your relationship may set you up for disappointment and how embracing a balance of great, average, and challenging days builds resilience and connection. Whether you're navigating a tough day, appreciating the quiet middle moments, or celebrating the highs, the rule of thirds can help you find peace and purpose in your journey. Tune in for practical advice, personal insights, and a fresh perspective to strengthen your bond and create a more fulfilling marriage. Don't miss this empowering episode—your relationship deserves it! Create Peace In Your Marriage by downloading the Married Into Crazy® App Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/married-into-crazy/id6742115573 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.paixl5cgvc64.pgv3lwo1app&pcampaignid=web_share Visit https://marriedintocrazy.com #love #mindfulness #psychology #communicationskills #relationshipadvice CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Welcome Back 00:42 - Rule of Thirds Explained 01:50 - Rule of Thirds in Marriage 04:13 - Enhancing Partnership with Rule of Thirds 05:10 - Rule of Thirds: Guidance, Not Solutions
EP05: Hornets fail to keep up with the Jones as Nathan has last laugh Hello and welcome to the Watford Buzz Podcast! The Home of your Watford FC chat typically featuring journalist Tom Bodell (@TBBodell), analyst Jordan Wiemer (@JordanWeimer) and hosted by commentator and presenter Matt Mesiano (@MessyMesiano) We all have one thing in common, we're all huge Watford fans and we LOVE talking about the Hornets! On today's show, Tom and Jordan discussed:An encouraging first-half performance in South WalesNestory Irankunda's moment of magicLuca Kjerrumgaard's best display to dateA full League debut for Max AlleyneMore struggles for Jeremy NgakiaRunning out of puff after an hourQuestionable use of the bench from Paulo PezzolanoThe final days of the transfer windowThose links with Nampalys MendyIf you want to get in touch you can do so really easily – just ping a message across on Twitter , BlueSky, OR send us an email to WatfordBuzzPodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Lauren's 21st birthday should've been all champagne and sparkle… but instead, Brody Jenner was serving sloppy thirds and the drama was pouring faster than the shots.
Carli Gordon is the founder of The Libi Project a culinary-driven event production and design, uplifting the early-stage culinary (& culinary-adjacent) entrepreneur.I met Carli during Culinary Industry Nights, where The Libi Project brings together over 170 food and beverage professionals and more than 20 culinary brands. The Libi Project also provides photography and creative direction for brands as well as restaurants, culinary spaces, food driven events and pop ups. Their work has been published in Eat Small Plates Cookbook and Off Menu Magazine. We've also met other creative individuals such as Vanessa Nguyen, a food videographer during Culinary Industry Nights put on by The Libi Project.Wear Many Hats was on the ground at Culinary Industry Nights over at Rule of Thirds in Greenpoint Brooklyn, for our food and beverage brand, Matsar and we can confirm that you make so many new friends and connections.We can't wait to be there again.Please welcome Carli Gordon to Wear Many Hats.instagram.com/thelibiprojectinstagram.com/wearmanyhatswmhinstagram.com/rashadrastamrashadrastam.comwearmanyhats.com
An Auckland hospice is having to cut the number of people it cares for by almost a third because it's short of funding. Totara Hospice gets $8.8 million from the Government, but that doesn't even cover the wage bill, so it fundraises on top of that. Faced with a shortfall of $3.6 million, Chief Executive Tina McCafferty sounded the alarm bell to try and ward off cuts. But with no solution a month later, the South Auckland community the hospice serves is going to start feeling the impacts. Totara Hospice chief executive Tina McCafferty spoke to Melissa Chan-Green.
Top Five at 5:00 We Buy Crack Houses The Rule of Thirds in Recruiting Slinging Pounds of Dope in a Lambo
Guest Ryan Werner injects us with some classic rock by way of American power trio James Gang. As we discuss their history, we listen to selections from their third album, which was the final studio album to feature the lineup of Joe Walsh, Dale Peters, and Jim Fox. If you like us, please support us at patreon.com/idbuythatpodcast to get exclusive content (episodes on 45s!), or tell a friend about us. Broke and have no friends? Leave us a review, it helps more people find us. Thanks!
In this episode, George is joined by Marianne Davies to discuss the ecological dynamics approach to coaching, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, curiosity, and creating dynamic learning environments. She shares her journey in coaching, highlights the significance of representative learning, and offers practical advice for coaches to enhance their practice design and feedback mechanisms. Chapters:00:00 - The Importance of Authenticity in Coaching01:13 - Aha Moments in Ecological Dynamics03:44 - Creating Dynamic Learning Environments06:24 - Designing Effective Practice for Coaches10:22 - Stabilizing and Destabilizing Movements12:48 - The Rule of Thirds in Coaching Sessions14:52 - The Role of Representative Learning19:28 - Challenges in Coach Education22:08 - Feedback Mechanisms for Coaches and Athletes26:28 - Practical Advice for Coaches29:02 - Transformative Tips for Coaches Level up your coaching with our Amazon Best Selling Book: https://amzn.to/3vO1Tc7 Access tons more of evidence-based coaching resources: https://transformingbball.com/products/ Links: Website: http://transformingbball.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/transformbball Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/transformingbasketball/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@transformingbasketball Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/transformingbasketball/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@transforming.basketball
"Dying is an art, like everything else. I do it exceptionally well." —Sylvia Plath, “Lady Lazarus” Little do people acknowledge that before physical death, we first die in thirds (in bodily capacity, emotions, and mind—one at a time, or two to three if we're reckless and daring). This depends on how often, quickly, and intensely we exhaust our resources through the abuses of everyday life, the latter which have produced an epidemic of physical and mental illness. However, healthy living is also an art, and a more preferable one with verifiable guiding principles, practices, and results. See how through an exploration of diet; religious observances around meat and vegetarianism; the five tattvas of esoteric Hinduism (or the energetic, spiritual elements in food); the three gunas of Patanjali's Yoga Sutras; the three brains and their proper and improper functioning within Gnostic psychology; the symptomologies and spiritual causes of physical, emotional, and mental illness; the imbalances of body, heart, and mind in ultramodern living; meditative exercises for conscious management and optimal self-maintenance; the nature of and need for true inner equilibrium to attain high initiation; relevant practices for developing greater personal and social harmony, and much more.
Greg and Ryan are back on another Stuffed Crust and this week we are discussing the Thirds in movie trilogies. Laughs are had debates are debated and alliances are forged that could rock the You Gonna Eat That Crust extended universe to its core, also does Alien 3 really suck as bad as Ryan Remembers? The world seems to disagree thank you our loyal Crustonians..Brought to you by you Run Podcasthttps://www.yourunpodcast.com/Join our Patreon patreon.com/Yougonnaeatthatcrust
Caroline and Liz sit down to chat with New York-based interior designer and author Emma Barrell Kemper, who shares insights from her new book, House Rules: 100 Ways to Feel at Home. Tune in to discover practical tips on creating mood boards, selecting paint colors, and future-proofing your home, along with advice on mixing metals for a timeless aesthetic. Emma also discusses key aspects of home design, like budgeting, assembling a shopping list, and choosing the right rugs and furniture. As always, the episode concludes with a listener's decorating dilemma, providing expert recommendations tailored to individual design challenges. What You'll Hear on This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:34 Meet Emma Barrell Kember 01:05 Emma's Book: House Rules 03:51 Gathering Inspiration for Your Project 08:47 Mood Boards vs. Scheming 13:43 The Importance of Paint Schedules 17:43 Common Paint Color Mistakes 20:03 Using Paint to Accentuate or Camouflage 24:17 The Power of the Color Wheel 27:57 Preparing for a Decorating Project 30:26 Handling Unexpected Costs 31:18 Shopping Strategies: Rule of Thirds 33:15 Finding the Right Items While Shopping 34:15 Testing Fabrics and Swatches 38:26 Avoiding Built-In Tech 41:13 Future Proofing Your Home 45:45 Finishing Touches for Your Space 47:30 Decorating Dilemma: Kristen's Living Room 54:46 Conclusion and Farewell Also mentioned: ballarddesigns.com | Shop Now House Rules: 100 Ways to Feel at Home | Order Your Copy Now Please send in your decorating dilemmas + pictures so we can answer them on an upcoming episode (podcast@ballarddesigns.net) . And, of course, please subscribe to the podcast if you haven't already in Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you never miss a new episode. Happy Decorating!
Summary In this episode of the Addict to Athlete podcast, Coach Blu Robinson engages in a profound conversation with Jason Shires, a psychotherapist and transformative coach. They explore the complexities of addiction, recovery, and the impact of labels on identity. Jason shares his personal journey through addiction, the misconceptions surrounding recovery, and the importance of understanding the root causes of addiction. The discussion emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to healing, not just for individuals in recovery but also for their families. The episode challenges traditional views on addiction and encourages listeners to see recovery as a path to freedom and self-discovery. In this conversation, Blu and Jason explore the complexities of addiction, recovery, and the human experience. They discuss the need for systemic change in addiction treatment, the dynamics of relationships affected by trauma, and the importance of self-discovery in the recovery process. Jason shares his insights on the 'Rule of Thirds' in addiction recovery, emphasizing the varying outcomes for individuals struggling with addiction. They also delve into the concept of addiction as an intelligent response to adversity and the significance of a human-first approach in understanding addiction. The discussion culminates in Jason's introduction of his Infinite Recovery project, which aims to empower individuals on their journey of self-discovery and healing. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Addict to Athlete Podcast 01:19 Meet Jason Shires: A Journey Through Addiction 02:34 Understanding Recovery: Beyond Labels and Pathology 07:38 The Impact of Labels on Identity and Recovery 12:43 Navigating the Source of Pain and Healing 17:04 Realizations and Transformations in Recovery 20:16 The Family Dynamics in Recovery 23:45 The Inside-Out Approach to Healing 24:39 Overhauling the System of Addiction Treatment 27:53 The Rule of Thirds in Addiction Recovery 29:56 Understanding the Roots of Addiction 31:51 The Human First Approach to Addiction 35:56 The Journey of Self-Discovery 40:10 Infinite Recovery: A New Paradigm 46:02 Resources for Recovery and Support For More Information on Jason Shires https://infiniterecoveryproject.com/ For More Information on Addict II Athlete: Please join Addict to Athlete's Patreon support page and help us turn the mess of addiction into the message of sobriety! https://www.patreon.com/addicttoathlete Please visit our website for more information on Team Addict to Athlete and Addiction Recovery Podcasts. https://www.AddictToAthlete.org Join the Team! Circle, our new social support event, along with the team and athlete communication platform, is designed to help us break free from doom scrolling and shadow banning and foster stronger connections among us. Follow the link, download the app, and start this new chapter of Team AIIA! Join Circle https://a2a.circle.so/join?invitation_token=16daaa0d9ecd7421d384dd05a461464ce149cc9e-63d4aa30-1a67-4120-ae12-124791dfb519
Coaches: You can read Jake's full article here: https://theraumdeuter.sport.blog/2024/12/14/boxed-in-how-the-thirds-of-play-impact-creativity-in-football-development/ Gary is joined by former Premier League Academy Coach, Jake Pickles, to discuss and challenge a common approach to possession football: the thirds model. Jake believes that, rather than educating players on the tactical principles of the game, it limits creativity and individualism. What are your thoughts? Please let us know!
This week, we're focused on tackling one of the biggest challenges for entrepreneurs—time management. Hosts Adam and Tommy are joined by Ben Bresloff, owner of Inspect Ova, a residential and commercial property inspection company based in New York. Ben is not just starting his first business but is also balancing his inspection work with a full-time job in HVAC.Through a raw and insightful discussion, Ben shares his struggles with prioritizing tasks, networking, and carving out time to grow his side business while maintaining a life balance. Adam and Tommy offer practical advice on managing time effectively using attention management, compartmentalizing tasks, and creating a structured weekly calendar. They also discuss the importance of self-care and making room for personal well-being amidst the hustle of entrepreneurship.Listeners will walk away with actionable strategies for prioritizing business activities, finding time where it seems there is none, and ensuring sustainability by putting self-care at the forefront.Key Moments from the Episode:Meet Ben Bresloff (6:12): Ben introduces Inspect Ova and its services, including property inspections, mold assessments, and sewer camera inspections.Challenges of Starting a Business (10:30): Ben shares his biggest hurdles as a new business owner, from time constraints to developing a system for acquiring and managing clients.The Rule of Thirds for Entrepreneurs (25:19): Adam and Tommy break down the concept of dividing time into prospecting, sales, delivery, and using a calendar to stay organized.The Importance of Self-Care (42:10): A frank discussion about why taking care of yourself is critical to building a successful, long-term business.A Challenge for Entrepreneurs (52:15): Adam and Tommy leave Ben and the listeners with a challenge to create a weekly calendar, block out time, and see how much they can truly accomplish with structured planning.About Our GuestBen Bresloff is the owner of Inspect Ova, a business that provides comprehensive property inspections, including residential and commercial inspections, mold assessments, and sewer and septic camera inspections in New York. With over 20 years of experience in the construction industry, Ben took his expertise and passion for helping people to launch his own business and serve property owners in his community.Connect with Ben BresloffVisit Inspect Ova: Search Inspect Ova on Google to learn more.Follow on Instagram and Facebook: @inspectovaNew Opportunity for EntrepreneursAre you a business owner striving to hit your first $1 million? Join First Million (F1R$T M)—a vibrant community designed to support ambitious entrepreneurs on their seven-figure journeys. When you become a member, you'll gain access to mastermind meetings, fireside chats with successful entrepreneurs, and networking opportunities to help you grow. All of this is available for just $99/month or $600/year.Don't go it alone—tap into the power of collaboration, expert advice, and a dedicated network that believes in your potential. Explore more and join today at First Million.https://go.atomicbusinesscoaching.com/firstm Thank you for listening to this week's episode. See you next time!
The boys answer the most voicemails they've ever answered in one episode…FOUR! I hope they get to rest this week. They talk about self-care, straight-chasers, and what Blockbuster Video stores smelled like. Also Grant accidentally got really high on this episode. Support our Patreon: https://patreon.com/Twinnuendo?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkFollow us! Twitter: @Twinnuendo @TheDarbyLynn @DontTalkToGrant Instagram: @Twinnuendo @darbylynncartwright @DontTalkToGrant TikTok: @twinnuendopod @thedarbylynn @DontTalkToGrant Call us! (940) ASS-TWINIMHO: the PODCAST: https://swap.fm/l/IMHOSend us mail! Drew12348-B Ventura Blvd # 134Studio City, CA 91604GrantPO Box 783711Winter Garden, FL 34778
Nicole Conn's Journey: From Filmmaker to Author with "Descending Thirds" Nicoleconnfilmsglobal.com About the Guest(s): Nicole Conn is a pioneering filmmaker with a remarkable career spanning 35 years. Known for her cult classic, "Claire of the Moon," which is celebrating its 35th-anniversary re-release, Nicole has carved a niche in the world of cinema with her lesbian-themed films. Her notable works include "Elena Undone," known for the longest on-screen kiss, "A Perfect Ending," "Little Man," and "More Beautiful for Having Been Broken." Beyond filmmaking, Nicole is the creator of "Coming Out for Love," the first-ever LGBTQ dating competition show. As a writer, she has been published by Simon & Schuster and continues to influence the narrative of women's films globally. Episode Summary: In this episode of The Chris Voss Show, host Chris Voss welcomes the multi-talented filmmaker and author, Nicole Conn. Nicole discusses her illustrious career and her latest novel, "Descending Thirds," which has been 25 years in the making. With her extensive background in LGBTQ filmmaking, Nicole brings a passionate and insightful perspective on art and storytelling. Listeners are introduced to her diverse body of work, including pioneering films and her latest project, the LGBTQ dating show "Coming Out for Love." Nicole dives into the personal inspirations behind her filmmaking, drawing from her experiences and relationships. She shares the challenges and triumphs of creating authentic narratives that resonate deeply with audiences. The conversation also touches upon her journey in the entertainment industry, the impactful stories within her films, and her dedication to advocacy through art. A segment of the dialogue is devoted to the theme of artistic integrity versus commercial success, highlighting the enduring impact of her creative projects. Key Takeaways: Nicole Conn's groundbreaking film "Claire of the Moon" is celebrating its 35th anniversary with a re-release, continuing to inspire new generations with its narrative. "Descending Thirds," Nicole's newest novel, is a deeply personal project interlacing her love for classical music and storytelling, showcasing themes of art, family, and personal sacrifice. The groundbreaking dating show "Coming Out for Love" highlights LGBTQ representation in a reality TV context, providing diverse visibility and engaging narratives. Nicole shares her transformative personal experiences, illustrated by her documentary "Little Man," which follows her family's journey with her special needs son. Films and storytelling offer powerful means of healing and connection, as illustrated by the real-world impact of Nicole's work on various audiences. Notable Quotes: "Projects only happen when they're ready. It doesn't matter what you do." "It's one of those things that I learned about 20 years ago because I would want to do something, and then something else would happen." "I let the world show me where I was supposed to be." "Film can be so healing and so many different ways." "Every time I do a love scene, I try to do something different."
Have you ever felt stuck in your growth—personally or professionally? Like you're ready to level up but not sure how to take the leap? In this episode, we're diving into the power of connection and how surrounding yourself with the right people can truly transform your life. I'll share practical tips for reaching out to mentors and building relationships with people who inspire you—without the awkwardness. We'll chat about networking (in a way that actually feels good), and I'll break down the “Law of Thirds,” my favorite framework for creating balance and fulfillment in your networking relationships. Whether you're looking to grow your career, deepen your personal life, or just feel more supported, this episode is packed with real-life advice to help you make meaningful connections that fuel your growth.
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In this episode of the podcast, I focus on mastering what's within your control in photography. I share personal stories about overcoming unexpected challenges, such as weather disruptions, to emphasize the importance of capturing meaningful moments. You'll learn the value of building expertise in manual camera settings, thorough preparation, and honing your skills with the gear you already own. THE BIG IDEASPreparation and Adaptability: Prepare for your sessions but stay adaptable. Capture meaningful moments even when plans change.Client Satisfaction Over Perfection: Clients value photos that reflect their true selves more than perfect settings.Maximize Current Gear: Focus on developing your skills and making the most of the equipment you have.Control What You Can: Concentrate on controllable factors like lighting and composition, freeing yourself from worrying about external elements.PHOTOGRAPHY ACTION PLANMaster Manual Settings: Spend time daily practicing manual settings, adjusting aperture, shutter speed, and ISO. Test these settings in various lighting conditions, recording your results to understand their impact.Prepare for Shoots: Create a detailed pre-session checklist: Ensure batteries are charged, memory cards are cleared, and camera settings are ready. Scout your shoot locations in advance to identify ideal shot angles and lighting scenarios.Improve Composition Skills: Dedicate weekly sessions to studying and practicing different composition techniques like the Rule of Thirds and Leading Lines. After each session, review and analyze your shots to learn what works and what needs improvement.Enhance Client Communication: Clearly discuss and agree on shot expectations with clients before the session to avoid any misunderstandings. Follow up with clients after the shoot to gather feedback and improve future sessions.Continuous Skill Development: Regularly engage in skill-building activities, such as taking online photography courses or watching instructional videos on challenging topics. Participate in photography challenges or projects to push your boundaries and expand your creative and technical abilities.Get Back your Family Time and Start Building Your Dream Photography Business for FREE with CloudSpot Studio.And get my Wedding and Portrait Contract and Questionnaires, at no cost!Sign up now at http://deliverphotos.com/Connect with the Beginner Photography Podcast! Join the free Beginner Photography Podcast Community at https://beginnerphotopod.com/group Send in your Photo Questions to get answered on the show - https://beginnerphotopod.com/qa Grab your free camera setting cheatsheet - https://perfectcamerasettings.com/ Thanks for listening & keep shooting!