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Is your 10-month-old suddenly treating nighttime like party time? You're not alone! In this episode, Meg Faure reconnects with regular guest Julia, mum to 10.5-month-old Aurelia, to tackle those frustrating twice-a-night wake-ups.We dive deep into the three primary culprits behind disturbed sleep at this age:Nutrition: Is your baby getting enough iron and the right balance of nutrients to see them through the night? Meg shares tips on meal timing, iron-rich foods (like a fantastic quinoa, spinach, and berry smoothie!), and adjusting milk feeds.Habits: Are you accidentally reinforcing night wakings? Learn gentle strategies to encourage self-settling, including the "listen, voice, dummy-in-hand" technique.Separation Anxiety: Understand why this peaks around 10 months and how games like hide-and-seek can build object permanence and ease anxieties.But it's not all about sleep! This stage is bursting with exciting developments. Meg highlights a surprisingly crucial milestone: pointing. Discover why this simple gesture is a massive leap in communication, signalling "mind mindedness" and laying the foundation for language.Plus, with Aurelia on the move, baby-proofing is top of mind. Meg and Julia discuss essential safety measures, from securing furniture and covering sockets to the non-negotiable vigilance around water. Learn what to prioritise to create a safe, stress-free environment for your curious explorer.Key Takeaways:The real reasons your 10-month-old is waking at night and actionable solutions.How to support and recognise strong communication skills, starting with pointing.Essential baby-proofing tips for a mobile baby to ensure a safe home.Tune in for expert advice, relatable experiences, and practical strategies to navigate the exciting (and sometimes exhausting!) world of your 10-month-old.Episode Resources:ParentSense App: Download for personalised routines, sleep guidance, and developmental insights: [Link to ParentSense App]Weaning Sense Book by Meg Faure & Kath Megaw: For iron-rich recipes and weaning advice.Previous Episode on Crawling (7 months): [Link to relevant previous episode if available]Meg Faure's Website: [Link to Meg Faure's website]Follow Meg on Instagram: [Link to Meg's Instagram]
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we reconnect with Nina Clark, mom of two, as her new baby, Joshua (yes, "Tiny" officially has a name!), hits the four-week mark. Nina shares the sweet story behind his name reveal.Meg and Nina then explore the common challenges of this tender age:Decoding Fussiness: Why do 4-week-olds get fussy? Meg discusses newborn communication, gut immaturity (and how it relates to lactose digestion), and the often-overlooked impact of overstimulation, especially in the evenings.Feeding Facts: Learn about appropriate feeding schedules for a four-week-old, when and how to gently stretch feeds (if baby is gaining weight well), and the limited role of maternal diet changes.Sleep Strategies: Meg debunks the myth of late bedtimes for newborns, explaining why an early bedtime (between 5:30-7:00 PM) is crucial for setting good circadian rhythms and preventing overtiredness. She also touches on creating a simple, effective bedtime routine and the smart use of dummies.Stimulation Smarts: Discover what kind of stimulation is truly beneficial for a newborn (hint: emotional engagement is key!) and how to avoid overwhelming their developing senses.This episode is packed with practical, reassuring advice for parents navigating the beautiful, yet often demanding, first month with their new baby.About Our Guest:Nina Clark: a boy mom of two - born and bred in South Africa and back on these fair shores after a solid stint in London. Which is where my sleepwear and bedding business, Nightire, started. Everything is made of 100% organic bamboo - for functional yet fashionable bedtime gearEpisode References and Links:
In this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we launch our brand new "Feeding Sense" segment! Paediatric dietician Kath Megaw takes over as guest host. She is joined by Nicole Comninellis, a paediatric physiotherapist. Nicole has a special interest in neurodevelopment and infant digestion. Together, they tackle one of parenting's most common challenges: constipation in babies and toddlers. Understanding Constipation from a Physio's Perspective Kath Megaw introduces the topic, noting that dietary advice alone doesn't always solve constipation. Nicole Comninellis explains how constipation presents differently depending on age. Factors include whether it's a new or chronic issue, and if the child was full-term or preterm. Nicole highlights that repeated stress can create negative neurological pathways. This makes constipation more likely to recur.The Mind-Body Connection in Constipation Nicole explains that stress triggers the "fight or flight" response which inhibits digestion. Helping infants feel safe and calm is key. This allows them to develop a positive internal sense (interoception) of their bodies. For toddlers, autonomy, sensory processing, and personality play a big role. New experiences like starting school or a new sibling can also cause withholding.Practical Strategies for Preventing and Managing Constipation Kath and Nicole discuss actionable tips for parents.For Infants: Understanding normal poo variations is important. Varied holding positions and allowing free movement are crucial. Responding to baby's cues when they need to poo, perhaps by picking them up to let gravity assist, can make a difference. For Toddlers: Beyond a balanced diet and hydration, establishing routines around natural body reflexes (like the urge to poo after meals) is helpful. Encourage chewing as this stimulates the gut. Ample movement, play, and exercise are vital. Tummy massage can aid motility and provide comfort. Creating a safe, supportive, and calm bathroom environment is essential. Positioning: For toddlers using a potty or toilet, ensuring their feet are supported and knees are above their hips is very important. Teaching children to relax rather than just push can also be beneficial.Why You Should Listen This "Feeding Sense" episode offers a holistic view of constipation. Kath Megaw and Nicole Comninellis provide expert insights. They explain that movement, posture, and emotional well-being are as vital as diet. The episode is packed with practical, compassionate strategies. These can help prevent constipation from becoming a chronic issue. It's about making pooing a positive, stress-free experience for your child.Kath Megaw is a leading paediatric dietician with over 20 years of experience in infant and child nutrition. She is the co-author of the book Allergy Sense and specializes in guiding parents through complex feeding challenges. Follow her on Instagram at @nutripaeds or visit www.nutripaeds.co.za for more resources.Episode References and Links:
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure we welcome back twin mom Zoe Brown and twin specialist Tasha Perreard. Zoe's twins are now five weeks old. This stage often brings confusing topics like crampy tummies and breastfeeding decisions. This episode unpacks digestive issues and feeding choices. If your baby is fussy, gassy, or has reflux, this is for you. We discuss real reasons for discomfort. Topics include lactose intolerance versus cow's milk protein allergy. Solutions like drops and body work are explored. We also address the honest question of when to stop breastfeeding. This is especially relevant for moms of multiples.Wins and Challenges with Five-Week-Old Twins Zoe shares her wins as her five-week-old twins thrive. Her husband is back at work. Finding her own rhythm alone with the babies was a key moment. She emphasizes the incredible value of support. Her mom's arrival has been a huge help, offering crucial nighttime relief. Tasha validates the need for extra hands with twins. She notes parents often have unrealistic expectations. Settling two babies is a mammoth task. It is okay to need and accept help. Building a "village," even if it means paying for support, is vital. Zoe shares how she proactively scheduled friends to visit. This provided company and practical help during her first week alone.Understanding and Soothing Crampy Tummies Zoe describes one twin, Luke, as constantly grunting and pushing. He struggles more with wind. Meg and Tasha delve into reasons for unsettled babies. Tasha explains that babies' digestive systems are immature for the first 12 weeks. How babies feed is a major factor. Incorrect latch on breast or bottle can cause them to swallow air. This leads to wind and reflux. Assessing tongue function and oral ties is important. Sometimes, a mother's diet can affect baby's comfort, especially with cow's milk protein allergy. Babies can also struggle to digest lactose due to insufficient lactase enzyme. Products like Colief or Telament drops can help. The "Windy" tool can assist in releasing trapped gas. Tasha strongly recommends body work like chiro or osteopathy. This can relieve tension and discomfort in newborns. Meg adds that primary lactose intolerance is common. Overfeeding can also contribute to discomfort. She suggests spacing feeds to allow digestion.Navigating Breastfeeding and Formula Decisions with Twins Zoe openly discusses her breastfeeding journey. She has been exclusively pumping. Her twins seem to spit up more with her breast milk. They appear more settled on formula. This has led to a challenging emotional decision about continuing to pump. She feels a love-hate relationship with expressing. The support group she attends has been helpful. Hearing other moms' experiences provides perspective. Why You Should Listen This episode offers invaluable, real-world advice for parents of newborns. Zoe's honesty about her struggles and triumphs is deeply relatable. Tasha provides expert, practical solutions for common issues. Meg offers a compassionate and informed perspective on making difficult parenting decisions, The discussion empowers parents to make confident, guilt-free choices about feeding their babies. This is a reassuring and informative listen for any new parent.
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure we welcome Nina Clark. Nina is a mom of two young children. She shares her real and relatable parenting journey. Nina joins Meg to discuss the transition from one child to two. She offers insights that resonate deeply with parents navigating this stage.Moving from One to Two Children Nina candidly shares her experience welcoming her second baby, nicknamed Tiny. Her first son, Max, is nearly three years old. Falling pregnant with Tiny was surprisingly fast compared to her journey with Max. This brought unexpected emotions for Nina. She talks about mourning the exclusive relationship she had with Max. They shared a very close bond during their time in London with limited support. Adjusting to the idea of dividing her attention was a real process. Meg acknowledges this often unspoken feeling of loss many mothers experience. They discuss the guilt and changing expectations placed on the firstborn.Managing Toddler Transitions and Sibling Relationships Meg and Nina explore practical strategies for helping a toddler adjust. Introducing the new baby gently is important. Spending dedicated one-on-one quality time with the older child is crucial. They remember this attention more than the infant does. Meg suggests having a box of books ready during breastfeeding. This turns feeding time into shared story time for the toddler. Getting the older child a doll can also help them process the change. The importance of involving the other parent is highlighted. Research shows involved fathers can reduce sibling rivalry. Nina discusses Max's current preference for her, especially at bedtime. Meg explains favourite parent phases are normal and often shift.The Power of Connection: Watch, Wait, and Wonder Meg introduces the "Watch, Wait and Wonder" strategy. This involves dedicated playtime with the toddler using special toys. The parent follows the child's lead without directing the play. This technique helps fill the child's emotional tank. It fosters connection and helps them feel seen and heard. Just 15 minutes of this focused, child-led play can make a difference. It can also help navigate parent preference phases. Giving the child power during play meets their need for autonomy.Birth Experiences: UK vs. South Africa & The Reality of Bonding Nina compares her two birth experiences. Her first was in the UK under the NHS. The second was recently in Cape Town, South Africa. While the UK birth was positive, the aftercare during COVID was challenging. Staff shortages and isolation created stress. Her South African birth offered more support and a private setting. Nina shares her experience with epidurals in both countries. She also honestly discusses her bonding experience with both babies. It wasn't an instant rush of overwhelming love for either child. For Nina, bonding has been a "slow burn" process. Meg validates this, explaining the wide range of normal bonding experiences. The pressure to feel instant connection isn't always reality. Having family support ("the village") this time has pros and cons. It's helpful but also means less quiet nesting time compared to her first.Why You Should Listen This episode offers an incredibly honest look at becoming a mother of two. Nina's vulnerability about her feelings and experiences is refreshing. Meg provides expert insights and practical, actionable strategies. Listeners will find validation for their own feelings. They will gain tools to navigate toddler adjustments and sibling dynamics. This conversation tackles the real, often unspoken, challenges and joys of expanding your family. It is a must-listen for expectant parents or parents adding to their family.
Join Meg Faure and regular guest Julia this week as they catch up on life with 10-month-old Aurelia and nearly four-year-old Santi. Julia shares the exhaustion of navigating Aurelia's current sleep disruptions, likely caused by a combination of illness, teething, and developmental leaps towards walking. Meg offers practical tips and reassurance for getting through these common 10-month hurdles.Decoding 10-Month Sleep ChallengesAurelia, usually an easy baby, has been struggling with night wakings and sometimes fighting bedtime. Meg breaks down the potential causes:Basic Needs: Persistent colds might lead to glue ear (congestion causing pressure). She recommends a quick pharmacy check and discusses saline solutions or decongestants if needed. Coxsackie virus (hand, foot & mouth) is also currently rife and could cause irritability. Iron levels are crucial post-6 months; Meg suggests dietary sources (spinach, red meat) or supplements like Floradix, and shares a recipe from the Weaning Sense book.Sleep Schedules: At 10 months, babies consolidate to two naps. Meg advises capping total day sleep (around 2-2.5 hours) and potentially shortening the afternoon nap if the morning one is long, to prevent night waking from undertiredness. Dropping the third nap is essential if that hasn't happened yet.Sensory & Development: Babies working on new motor skills (like pulling up/walking) often have disrupted sleep. Providing ample movement (vestibular) and deep pressure (proprioceptive) input during the day, like swinging, can help. Milestones & Sibling ComparisonsJulia notes how differently Aurelia and Santi approach milestones. Santi was a speedy crawler, while Aurelia is more focused on pulling up to stand. Meg shares fascinating insights on milestone consolidation: sometimes, babies who achieve gross motor milestones like walking earlier (even 9 months!) might be less coordinated later than those who take longer, as slower consolidation builds a stronger foundation. It's a reminder not to rush development.The Primary School Pressure CookerThe conversation takes a significant turn as Julia discusses Santi turning four and the looming decisions about schooling. Both Meg and Julia express concerns about the pressure to enter expensive private school systems early, driven by commercial interests and parental fears. They discuss the option of public schools for primary years, allowing for diverse experiences and less academic pressure.Slowing Down & Work-Life BalanceJulia shares her recent positive experience of pulling back slightly on work commitments. By getting extra help, she's found more capacity as a parent and reduced stress.Why Listen?Packed with practical sleep tips for the common 10-month regression, insights into developmental milestones, a thought-provoking discussion on early education choices, and relatable honesty about work-life balance, this episode offers valuable sense and support for parents navigating these stages.
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, join us for a deeply insightful conversation with the inspiring Caitlyn De Beer – life coach, author, speaker, NPO founder, and mum of two, now expecting her third baby after a significant gap. Caitlyn shares her unique and honest journey through secondary infertility and IVF, intertwined with her strong faith and evolving perspective on motherhood.Caitlyn's Journey to Baby #3 Having conceived her first two children (now 8 and 9) spontaneously (though the first took time), Caitlyn faced unexpected challenges when trying for her third. A history of pelvic nerve issues had previously made another pregnancy seem unwise, but after a successful nerve procedure restored her health, she and her husband decided to try again. When pregnancy didn't happen after months of trying, they sought help, leading them down the path of fertility treatment.The IVF Experience: Caitlyn candidly discusses their experience with ICSI (a specialised form of IVF), initially indicated due to her husband's factors. She describes the supportive environment of the fertility clinic but also the unexpected shock when her own egg retrieval yielded only five eggs of poor quality. Facing the possibility of the cycle failing completely, they received the news that one precious embryo made it. Caitlyn reflects on the emotional rollercoaster – the comfort of relinquishing control to the process, but also the profound loneliness, especially when keeping the journey private from others, including her older children. A Seasoned Mum's Perspective: Ten years on from her last pregnancy, Caitlyn shares how her approach to motherhood has shifted. This time, she's intentionally choosing to "take it slow," rejecting the pressure to "bounce back" or rush through the demanding early years. She emphasizes the wisdom of cocooning, setting realistic expectations, and knowing that the intense season of raising young children does pass, allowing time for personal and professional goals later. It's about savouring the moments and not needing to prove anything. Maternal Mental Health: Caitlyn underscores the importance of support systems for maternal well-being. She stresses building a "village" – whether through family, friends, antenatal groups, or paid help like nannies (even if it requires financial sacrifices). Partner involvement is key. Crucially, Caitlyn shares her own powerful story of recognising she wasn't coping after her second child and seeking help via her GP and antidepressants, highlighting the need to destigmatise seeking medical or therapeutic support when needed. Understanding and addressing your own emotional needs is fundamental.Why Listen? This episode is essential listening for anyone navigating fertility challenges, contemplating a later-in-life baby, seeking encouragement in their faith journey, or wanting practical advice on protecting maternal mental health and embracing a gentler approach to parenting.
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we welcome back radio personality Zoe Brown, just weeks after the birth of her twin boys, Jordan and Luke! Joined by specialist midwife and twin mum Tasha Perreard, Zoe shares her incredibly raw, real, and ultimately empowering twin birth story. If you followed our last chat, Zoe was hoping for a vaginal delivery despite one twin being in a transverse position – listen now to hear how her journey unfolded.The Birth Story: Trusting Instincts & Strong Support Zoe takes us minute-by-minute through her induction process in the Australian public health system. She candidly discusses the challenges – a slow start, needing oxytocin, and the surprise of feeling contractions despite the epidural. The climax arrives with the birth of Baby A, followed by a tense period when her cervix closed and Baby B needed help descending. Zoe highlights the crucial role of a strong-willed midwife who advocated for her wishes, leading to a successful vaginal delivery for both twins, against the odds. She shares the emotional moments, the relief, and the surreal feeling of meeting her boys.Postpartum Recovery & Unexpected Challenges The journey didn't end with the birth. Zoe opens up about her experience with postpartum preeclampsia, including the symptoms and necessary monitoring. She also discusses the physical recovery after a twin vaginal birth, including diastasis recti (abdominal separation) and the early days of regaining core strength and bladder control. We touch upon the importance of hospital debriefs and physiotherapy support.Newborn Feeding Journey: Realities of Twins How do you feed two newborns? Zoe shares her honest experience with combination feeding – breastfeeding, expressing, and formula top-ups, especially after one twin needed glucose support due to low blood sugar levels (linked to gestational diabetes). She talks about the different tandem feeding positions, the challenges of doing it solo, and the crucial support from her husband. Midwife Tasha Perreard offers a fantastic practical tip for managing bottle and pump part sterilisation to save time!Expert Advice: Relaxing the Schedule & Co-Sleeping Zoe asks the burning question many new parents face: when can you relax the strict three-hourly feeding schedule? Meg and Tasha provide clear guidelines based on babies regaining their birth weight, advising on letting babies lead the way at night while maintaining a rhythm during the day. They also discuss the sensitive topic of co-sleeping twins, weighing the SIDS guidance against the reality that twins are often calmer together, emphasizing safe sleep practices. Consider tracking your twins' progress and routines easily with the Parent Sense app.This episode is a must-listen for expectant parents (especially of multiples!)
Podcast Summary: 9-Month-Old on the Move – Busy Baby PhaseIntroduction On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the exciting world of a 9-month-old baby. At this stage, babies are becoming more mobile, curious, and eager to explore their surroundings. They are constantly on the move, discovering new skills and testing their independence. This phase is full of milestones, from crawling and standing to babbling and engaging with the world. Parenting a baby at this stage can be both thrilling and exhausting, and we are here to guide you through it.Main Themes DiscussedDevelopmental Milestones at 9 MonthsAt nine months, babies experience rapid physical and cognitive growth. Many start crawling, pulling themselves up, and even cruising along furniture. Fine motor skills improve as they learn to grasp small objects and feed themselves. Their communication also advances, with more babbling, gestures, and social interactions.Busy Baby Behavior: Why They Never Stop MovingBabies at this stage have a strong drive to explore. They are naturally curious and use movement to learn about their environment. Parents may notice increased energy levels and a desire to be independent. This phase can be challenging, as babies may resist sitting still or following routines.Separation Anxiety and AttachmentAt nine months, many babies experience separation anxiety. They become more aware of their caregivers' presence and may protest when left alone. This is a normal developmental stage that reflects growing emotional bonds. We discuss strategies to ease transitions and support emotional security.Sleep Challenges and RoutinesWith newfound mobility and curiosity, sleep can become more difficult. Babies may resist naps or wake up more at night. We offer practical tips to maintain a healthy sleep routine and create a calm bedtime environment.Why You Should ListenThis episode is packed with insights to help parents navigate the busy baby phase with confidence. Understanding your baby's development makes parenting easier and more enjoyable. Whether you need support with movement, sleep, or emotional growth, this episode has practical advice for you. Tune in and learn how to embrace this exciting stage!About Our Guest:Julia da Silva is a dedicated and intentional mother of two who brings a unique perspective to the journey of motherhood. With a background marked by thoughtful planning and a commitment to making empowered choices, Julia's experience as a mom is both inspiring and informative.Support or follow the podcast, here's how:Subscribe, or listen on Apple, Google Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcastsLeave a 5* rating and review on Apple PodcastsEpisode References and Links:
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the fascinating world of baby development at eight months old. We follow baby Aurelia's journey as she reaches exciting new milestones. Joined by Julia—mom to toddler Sante and baby Aurelia—we explore key developmental stages, from early movement to handling common challenges like teething and sleep struggles. This episode offers practical advice and heartwarming insights to support parents during this transformative time.1. Movement Milestones: Crawling and StandingAurelia is on the verge of crawling, a major milestone in her development. Crawling is more than just mobility—it supports cognitive growth and spatial awareness. Meg and Julia discuss how to encourage safe exploration while promoting motor skills. They also touch on the importance of allowing babies to move at their own pace. Baby Aurelia is already pulling herself to stand, showing the natural progression from sitting to standing. The conversation highlights ways to create a safe environment that fosters these emerging skills.2. Managing Sleep and Teething ChallengesTeething can be tough on babies and parents. This week's episode shares practical strategies to soothe sore gums and ease discomfort. Meg and Julia discuss the role of probiotics in promoting gut health and reducing teething-related fussiness. Sleep disruptions are common at this stage, and the episode offers gentle techniques to improve rest. From establishing a bedtime routine to responding to night wakings, they provide realistic solutions to help babies and parents get better sleep.3. Coping with Separation AnxietySeparation anxiety often appears around eight months and can be challenging. Meg and Julia explore why this happens and how to ease the transition. They discuss simple strategies, like consistent routines and comfort objects, to help babies feel secure. 4. Parenting Two: Life with a Toddler and BabyBalancing life with a toddler and a baby brings unique joys and challenges. Julia opens up about their recent family vacation and the dynamics of raising two young children. This section provides a glimpse into real-life parenting and the importance of flexibility and patience.Why You Should ListenThis episode is packed with expert insights and real-life experiences to guide you through your baby's eighth month.About Our Guest:Julia da Silva is a dedicated and intentional mother of two who brings a unique perspective to the journey of motherhood. With a background marked by thoughtful planning and a commitment to making empowered choices, Julia's experience as a mom is both inspiring and informative.Support or follow the podcast, here's how:Subscribe, or listen on Apple, Google Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcastsLeave a 5* rating and review on Apple PodcastsEpisode References and Links:
Understanding Cow's Milk Protein Allergy with Kath MegawOn this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the confusing world of infant milk allergies. Many parents worry when their baby shows signs of digestive discomfort— but is it cow's milk protein allergy or lactose intolerance?Meg is joined by paediatric dietician Kath Megaw, an expert in infant nutrition, to break down the difference between these two conditions. Together, they share practical advice on recognizing symptoms, understanding diagnoses, and choosing the best management strategies.Whether you're a breastfeeding mom or using formula, this episode will guide you in supporting your baby's gut health and navigating food allergies with confidence.In This Episode, You'll Learn: ✅ The difference between cow's milk protein allergy and lactose intolerance ✅ How to identify common symptoms and when to seek medical advice ✅ Breastfeeding and formula options for babies with milk allergies ✅ The role of gut health in allergy prevention and recovery ✅ How early allergen exposure can reduce the risk of developing food allergiesIf you're unsure about your baby's tummy troubles, this episode provides the clarity you need!About Our Guest:Kath Megaw is a leading paediatric dietician with over 20 years of experience in infant and child nutrition. She is the co-author of the book Allergy Sense and specializes in guiding parents through complex feeding challenges. Follow her on Instagram at @nutripaeds or visit www.nutripaeds.co.za for more resources.Episode References and Links:
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we delve into the ever-changing world of parenting an 7-month-old. Join Meg and returning guest Julia as they discuss the week's challenges, triumphs, and those delightful "grey areas" of babyhood.Tummy Troubles & Sleep Strategies:Julia shares her experience with baby Aurelia's recent tummy bug, highlighting the importance of recognizing early signs and managing dehydration. Meg offers expert advice on navigating night wakings, including a step-by-step approach to soothing and when to offer a feed. They discuss the challenges of frequent night wakings and the importance of flexibility in parenting.Mealtime Musings & Milestone Moments:The conversation shifts to mealtimes, with Julia sharing a positive experience of family dining out. Meg emphasizes the benefits of baby-led weaning and social eating for fostering healthy eating habits. They also discuss the exciting milestone of self-feeding and how it can enhance family mealtime experiences.Rolling, Crawling & Letting Go:Julia and Meg explore Aurelia's developmental progress, highlighting her newfound rolling skills and the anticipation of crawling. Meg explains the importance of proprioceptive and vestibular input for gross motor development and sleep. They also discuss the upcoming milestone of learning to let go of objects and the impact it has on play and interaction.Why This Episode Matters:This episode offers valuable insights for parents navigating the complexities of babyhood. Tune in to discover:How to recognize and manage a tummy bug in babies.Effective strategies for handling night wakings.The benefits of baby-led weaning and social eating.The importance of movement and sensory experiences for development.Understanding and celebrating key milestones in your baby's first year.Key takeaways:Dehydration is a serious concern with tummy bugs: Keep your little one hydrated with a rehydration solution. You can find a recipe in the ParentSense app or by asking our chatbot, Aya, on WhatsApp.Not all night wakings require a feed: Try soothing your baby with a dummy or offering cooled boiled water before resorting to a feed.Embrace self-feeding: Encourage your baby to explore food and participate in family meals, fostering social eating habits and reducing fussy eating later on.Movement is crucial for development: Provide opportunities for your baby to roll, crawl, and explore their environment, promoting gross motor skills and healthy sleep.Flexibility is key: Remember that every baby is different and their needs are constantly evolving. Embrace the grey areas and adapt your approach as needed.Join us on this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure for a relatable and informative discussion about the joys and challenges of parenting an 7-month-old.Resources mentioned in this episode:ParentSense App: Download the app for personalized routines, daily tips, and expert advice.Aiah Chatbot: Connect with Aya on WhatsApp for instant answers to your parenting questions.Connect with us:Instagram: Follow us for daily parenting inspiration and tips.Website: Visit our website for more resources and support.Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! We appreciate your support in helping us reach more parents.
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we journey to France to uncover the joys and challenges of raising twins abroad. Clarise, a South African mom raising 19-month-old twin boys in France, shares her unique experiences and invaluable insights.Twin Pregnancy and Breastfeeding Clarise's journey began with a spontaneous twin pregnancy—a surprise discovery during her first ultrasound. She shares her experience of navigating a planned C-section, a common practice for twin births in France, and highlights key differences between the French and South African healthcare systems. With longer paternity leave and a supportive hospital environment, she reflects on how these factors shaped her postpartum experience. Clarise also dives into the realities of tandem breastfeeding, syncing feeds and wake windows, and her approach to weaning.Embracing French Parenting Practices French parenting is known for its emphasis on natural approaches and fostering early independence. Clarise offers a fascinating look into childcare norms in France, including minimal screen time, child-led play, and creating a safe yet stimulating environment for exploration. She also discusses how the French crèche system introduces a wide variety of foods early on, encouraging adventurous eating habits from a young age.The Unique Twin Bond One of the greatest joys of parenting twins is watching their bond develop. Clarisse shares heartwarming anecdotes about her boys' early interactions, how they learn from and support each other, and the balance between nurturing their connection while encouraging their individuality. She highlights the importance of fostering independence and confidence in each child while celebrating the special twin relationship.Why You Should Listen This episode is a must-listen for parents of twins—or anyone curious about raising children in a different cultural setting. Clarise's story offers practical takeaways and real-life insights on:✅ Navigating a twin pregnancy and birth abroad ✅ Establishing routines and syncing sleep schedules ✅ Tandem breastfeeding and weaning strategies ✅ Encouraging the twin bond while fostering individuality ✅ Minimizing screen time and promoting independent play ✅ Creating a safe and enriching environment for toddlersJoin us for this heartwarming and informative conversation about twin parenting in France—because raising two is a unique adventure worth exploring!
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we catch up with Julia as she navigates 7 months of motherhood with baby Aurelia. At this stage, babies become more independent, explore their surroundings, and develop new skills. Julia shares her experiences with Aurelia's sleep patterns, feeding journey, and the emotional challenges of balancing work and family life. This episode offers valuable insights for parents adjusting to life with a 7-month-old.Understanding Gagging vs. ChokingGagging is a natural reflex that helps babies manage food textures. Julia recalls moments when Aurelia gagged, triggering initial anxiety. Meg reassures parents that gagging is common and offers guidance on recognizing the difference between gagging and choking. She encourages parents to stay calm and avoid unnecessary intervention.The Emotional Side of Motherhood: Mom Grief vs. Mom GuiltJulia opens up about her emotional struggles balancing work and parenting. Instead of "mom guilt," she describes feeling "mom grief", mourning the time she cannot get back with Aurelia. Meg reflects on the challenges all mothers face in making career and family choices. They emphasize that there is no perfect balance, only what works best for each family..This episode provides a real, relatable look at life with a 7-month-old, covering sleep struggles, feeding progress, and the emotional journey of motherhood. Julia's honesty and Meg's expert advice offer reassurance to parents navigating similar experiences. If you're looking for practical tips and heartfelt discussions, this episode is a must-listen!Additional Content: https://parentsense.app/product/attachment-and-good-enough-parenting/https://parentsense.app/product/get-confident-with-choking-online-course/https://megfaure.com/podcasts/get-confident-with-choking-with-sammy-davies-ep24-s2/https://megfaure.com/podcasts/motherhood-mental-health-navigating-the-emotional-journey-s66/
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the complex and deeply personal journey of birth with Dr. Mama Aso Peprah, a leading gynecologist and advocate for maternal empowerment. Birth is a transformative experience, yet many women feel uncertain about their options. South Africa has one of the highest C-section rates in the world, and many mothers are left questioning whether they truly had a choice. Dr. Mama Aso shares expert insights on birth choices, medical interventions, and the steps women can take to feel empowered in their birthing experience. Understanding South Africa's High C-Section Rate South Africa's private healthcare system has one of the highest C-section rates globally, reaching up to 75% in private hospitals. Dr. Mama Aso explains the key drivers behind this trend, including fear-based decision-making, medical convenience, and hospital policies. She highlights the World Health Organization's recommendation that C-section rates should ideally be around 15% to balance safety and necessity. The Power of Informed Birth Choices Mothers should feel in control of their birth experience. Dr. Mama Aso emphasizes that knowledge is power when navigating delivery options. She encourages expecting moms to educate themselves, ask questions, and advocate for the birth they want. She also discusses the importance of choosing a supportive healthcare provider who respects personal preferences. How Fear Impacts Labor and Birth Fear can significantly slow labor progression, often leading to unnecessary interventions. Dr. Mama Aso explains how stress hormones like cortisol interfere with oxytocin, the hormone responsible for contractions. She shares strategies to reduce fear, such as breathing techniques, movement, and emotional preparation, to help labor progress more naturally. The Role of Medical Interventions in Birth While medical interventions can be life-saving, some increase the likelihood of a C-section. Dr. Mama Aso discusses common interventions such as inductions, epidurals, and fetal monitoring, explaining how they impact labor. She also provides guidance on when interventions are necessary and when they may be avoidable. Steps to Take for a Positive Birth Experience Mothers can take practical steps to increase their chances of a vaginal birth if they choose. Dr. Mama Aso highlights the benefits of birth preparation, movement during labor, and having a strong support team, such as a doula or midwife. She also stresses that every birth—C-section or vaginal—can be empowering when the mother is informed and involved. This episode is a must-listen for any expecting mother who wants to feel empowered and informed about birth. Dr. Mama Aso provides expert advice on navigating birth choices, overcoming fear, and advocating for the best possible experience. Whether you're planning for a vaginal birth, considering a C-section, or simply exploring your options, this episode will equip you with the knowledge and confidence to birth your way. Tune in now for an inspiring and eye-opening conversation!
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore Motherhood & Mental Health with Dr. Jess Stanbridge, a specialist psychiatrist passionate about supporting new mums. Motherhood is a transformative journey, but it also comes with emotional challenges that are often overlooked. From the science behind postpartum mental health to the power of storytelling, we dive into the real experiences of new mums. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to better understand maternal mental health and the importance of self-compassion. The Science Behind Motherhood & Mental Health Motherhood physically changes a woman's brain. Dr. Jess explains how the amygdala, the brain's fear center, actually increases in size after childbirth. This can lead to heightened anxiety and emotional sensitivity. Understanding these biological shifts can help mums recognize that their emotions are a natural part of postpartum life. The Power of Storytelling in Maternal Well-Being Dr. Jess and Meg discuss how sharing experiences helps mothers feel less alone. Storytelling provides emotional relief and reduces feelings of shame or inadequacy. Meg shares how tracking real mums on the podcast has shown that speaking openly about struggles leads to stronger mental resilience. Recognising Postpartum Anxiety and Depression New mothers often struggle to identify when normal emotions become something more concerning. Dr. Jess outlines the differences between baby blues, postpartum depression, and perinatal anxiety. She explains red flags to watch for, such as persistent sadness, obsessive thoughts, and difficulty sleeping even when the baby is asleep. The Role of Medication in Postpartum Mental Health Many mums resist medication due to societal pressure to do everything “naturally.” Dr. Jess breaks down how treatments like Eglanol can support anxious mothers, aid breastfeeding, and improve overall well-being. She reassures mums that prioritizing mental health benefits both mother and baby. The Juggle of Motherhood, Career, and Identity The pressure to “do it all” is overwhelming. Meg and Dr. Jess discuss the unrealistic expectations placed on mothers. They emphasize the importance of embracing imperfection, finding balance, and making peace with the inevitable challenges of modern motherhood. This episode of Sense, by Meg Faure sheds light on the emotional complexities of early motherhood. Motherhood & Mental Health are deeply connected, and understanding this link can help mums navigate their journey with more confidence and self-compassion. If you're a new mother or supporting one, this conversation offers practical insights and emotional reassurance. Tune in for an open, honest discussion on thriving in the reality of motherhood.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the exciting 6 months milestone with returning guest Julia Da Silva. Julia shares her journey with her six-month-old daughter, Aurelia, covering sitting, feeding transitions, and balancing work and motherhood. This episode provides real, relatable insights into navigating this crucial stage of development. The Six Months Sitting Milestone Aurelia has reached the important milestone of sitting independently. Meg and Julia discuss how this milestone is a key indicator of development. They offer tips on encouraging sitting, including using cushions for support and avoiding restrictive seating devices like Bumbo seats. Introducing Solids and Preventing Allergies Julia shares her approach to introducing solids and allergens into Aurelia's diet. Meg emphasizes the importance of early allergen exposure and explains why multiple exposures are necessary to detect potential reactions. They also discuss the benefits of integrating baby meals into family meals for a smoother transition. The Emotional Side of Stopping Breastfeeding Julia recently weaned Aurelia in preparation for a work trip. She reflects on the emotional challenges of stopping breastfeeding, even when it's the right choice. Meg reassures moms that while breast milk provides immunity, babies build their own immune resilience over time. Work-Life Balance and Mom Guilt Julia prepares for her first time away from Aurelia and shares her mixed emotions about leaving. They discuss the mental load mothers carry, from planning meals to managing schedules. Meg highlights the importance of support systems, including nannies, family, and partners. This episode is a must-listen for moms navigating the six months stage of parenting. Whether you're introducing solids, managing milestones, or balancing work and motherhood, Julia's journey offers reassurance and practical advice. Tune in for expert guidance and real-life experiences that will help you feel confident in your parenting journey!
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the essential aspects of C-section healing and recovery. Meg is joined by Nicole Alford, a registered massage therapist and C-section recovery coach, who shares expert advice on physical and emotional recovery after a cesarean birth. The discussion covers vital topics such as scar care, core strengthening, and the emotional journey that accompanies the recovery process. Whether you're preparing for a C-section or recovering from one, this episode offers invaluable insights to help you navigate the journey with confidence. The Emotional Journey of C-Section Recovery Nicole emphasizes that C-section healing is not only physical but also emotional. Many moms experience feelings of loss, disappointment, and isolation after an unexpected cesarean birth. She highlights the importance of acknowledging these emotions, seeking support, and using tools such as journaling to process the experience. Physical Healing and Recovery Tips Proper movement and rest are key to a successful recovery. Nicole shares techniques for mindful movement that promote healing without straining the body. She discusses the importance of avoiding heavy lifting, maintaining good posture, and gradually increasing activity levels to aid recovery. Scar Care and Core Strengthening Scar management plays a crucial role in long-term recovery. Nicole provides tips on keeping the incision clean, using gentle massage techniques, and incorporating breathing exercises to restore core strength. She explains how simple techniques can help moms regain confidence in their bodies. Preparing for a Smooth Recovery Preparation is essential for a positive recovery experience. Nicole advises moms to create a support network, prepare their homes, and set realistic expectations for their healing journey. Having a clear plan can ease the transition into postpartum life. C-section healing involves both body and mind, requiring patience, support, and the right strategies. This episode equips moms with the knowledge and tools they need to recover confidently and embrace their postpartum journey. Tune in to Sense, by Meg Faure, for expert advice that empowers you to take control of your recovery and well-being.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the parenting realities of raising a six-month-old. Joined by Julia de Silva, mom to baby Aurelia, we explore the joys, challenges, and practicalities of parenting. This episode is packed with insights on baby sleep, teething, and starting solids, along with tips for balancing work and motherhood. Whether you're a new parent or navigating life with a six-month-old, this episode offers valuable advice and relatable experiences. Baby Sleep: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly Julia shares her experience of Aurelia sleeping through the night for the first time. We explore the building blocks of sleep success, including recognizing cues and creating consistent bedtime routines. Meg explains what "sleeping through the night" truly means and how to handle occasional nighttime wakings. Tackling Teething Troubles Teething can disrupt sleep and cause discomfort, but not every wake-up is teething-related. Meg discusses common signs of teething, how to differentiate them from other issues, and practical ways to manage discomfort. Starting Solids: Baby-Led Weaning vs. Spoon Feeding Julia discusses her journey with baby-led weaning and how she balances experimentation and nutrition. Meg emphasizes the importance of self-feeding and shares practical tips for introducing solids in a way that works for your family. Balancing Work and Motherhood Julia opens up about the challenges of being a working mom of two. From meal planning to caregiving, she shares how she juggles responsibilities. Meg reflects on the mental load of primary caregivers and offers encouragement for finding balance. Parenting realities are a mix of joys, challenges, and growth—for both you and your baby. This episode offers relatable stories and actionable advice to help you navigate sleep struggles, teething, and starting solids. Tune in to Sense, by Meg Faure for insights that make parenting just a little easier. You won't want to miss this inspiring and practical conversation!
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the transformative power of play in child development. Play is more than just fun; it's a cornerstone of learning, curiosity, and connection. Joining Meg is Lara Schoenfeldt, co-founder of PlaySense and an occupational therapist. Together, they dive into the profound impact play has on children's cognitive, emotional, and social growth. Whether you're a new parent or looking to enhance your child's playtime, this episode is packed with practical advice and fascinating insights. The Science Behind Play Play is critical for brain development, fostering connections between neurons through sensory and motor experiences. Lara explains the play cycle, showing how curiosity, exploration, and repetition fuel learning. Chemicals like dopamine and serotonin are released during play, reinforcing positive behaviors and supporting emotional growth. Structured vs. Unstructured Play The discussion highlights the importance of balancing structured and unstructured play. Structured play involves guidance and builds specific skills, like language and problem-solving. Unstructured play, or free play, allows children to explore, create, and develop independence. Both types of play are essential for holistic development. Practical Tips for Incorporating Play Lara shares actionable ways to integrate play into daily routines. These include simple activities like reading, messy play, and “serve and return” interactions. She emphasizes that the quality of parent-child engagement is more important than the type of play. Embracing Your Play Style Parents have unique strengths when it comes to play. Lara's parenting play style quiz helps identify these strengths. Understanding your style allows you to focus on enjoyable activities, making playtime meaningful for you and your child. The power of play cannot be overstated—it shapes your child's mind, emotions, and relationships. This podcast equips you with scientific insights and practical tools to make the most of playtime. Tune in to discover how small changes in your approach can unlock your child's full potential. Don't miss this enriching episode of Sense, by Meg Faure!
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into parenting with purpose for the New Year. Meg Faure and guest Tove Gant explore how small, compassionate changes can transform parenting in 2025. Together, they offer strategies for creating intentional parenting resolutions that prioritize both self-care and connection with children. This episode is a must-listen for parents looking to thrive, not just survive, in the year ahead. Moving from Resolutions to Intentions Meg and Tove discuss the pressure traditional resolutions create for parents. They advocate for replacing resolutions with flexible, compassionate intentions. Intentions focus on achievable goals while acknowledging life's unpredictability. This shift fosters a more forgiving and empowering mindset for parents. The Four Buckets of Intentions Meg introduces four key areas for parenting intentions in 2025: Self-Care and Mindfulness: Parents are encouraged to schedule one act of self-care weekly to recharge and avoid burnout. Fostering Connection with Children: Intentional activities, such as reading together or prioritizing screen-free car rides, strengthen parent-child bonds. Positive and Patient Mindset: Techniques like speaking “low and slow” during stressful moments help parents model calm behavior. Healthy Boundaries and Routines: Establishing consistent routines, such as family dinners or limiting screen time, creates structure for children. Embracing Imperfection and Repairing Relationships The hosts emphasize that perfect parenting is unattainable. Instead, they highlight the value of repairing relationships when mistakes occur. Parents should aim for "good enough" parenting, as it builds resilience and teaches valuable life skills. Strengthening Partnerships A strong partnership between parents benefits the entire family. Meg shares practical ways to prioritize time with a partner, from shared hobbies to meaningful communication strategies. This episode inspires parents to approach the New Year with purpose and compassion. Listeners will gain practical tools to set achievable parenting intentions and strengthen family connections. Tune in to discover how small changes can lead to a more joyful and intentional parenting journey in 2025.
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we tackle a vital topic: preventing baby allergies. Joined by Dr. Claudia Gray, a Cape Town-based pediatrician specializing in allergies, Meg explores actionable ways parents can reduce the risk of allergies in their little ones. The episode provides expert insights, from pregnancy through weaning, to help parents navigate the complexities of allergy prevention. With practical advice and evidence-based tips, this discussion is essential for any parent concerned about their baby's health and well-being. 1. Understanding Allergies Dr. Claudia Gray explains what allergies are and how they result from the immune system's improper response to harmless substances. She highlights genetic, environmental, and epigenetic factors that contribute to the rise of allergies. 2. Pregnancy and Allergy Prevention Parents are advised not to eliminate allergens during pregnancy, as it does not reduce the risk of allergies. Claudia emphasizes the importance of eating a balanced diet and possibly including oily fish or omega supplements for added protection. 3. Weaning and Early Allergen Introduction Introducing allergens between 4-6 months is critical in reducing the likelihood of developing food allergies. Claudia shares guidance on safely incorporating foods like peanut butter and eggs into a baby's diet. She also stresses seeking professional advice if the baby shows signs of severe eczema or allergy risks. 4. Managing Eczema to Reduce Allergy Risks Claudia calls eczema an "allergy emergency" due to its role in allowing allergens to penetrate the skin. She discusses effective skin care, including moisturizers and anti-inflammatory treatments, to strengthen the skin barrier and reduce risks. 5. The Role of the Gut and Skin Microbiome Claudia explores the importance of the gut and skin microbiomes in developing a healthy immune system. Recommendations include breastfeeding, skin-to-skin contact, avoiding unnecessary antibiotics, and introducing a wide variety of foods to support gut health. This episode equips parents with evidence-based strategies to prevent allergies and navigate early signs of potential risks. With actionable advice and expert insights, listeners gain confidence in managing their baby's health. Tune in to Sense by Meg Faure for a practical guide to reducing allergy risks and building a strong foundation for your child's future well-being.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we reconnect with Julia and her 21-weeks-old daughter. Explore the exciting milestones of this developmental stage. From rolling over to engaging smiles, Aurelia's journey offers valuable lessons for parents. Meg and Julia discuss sensory personalities, the transition to solids, and practical sleep strategies, providing tools to support confident and joyful parenting. Developmental Milestones at 21 Weeks Aurelia has transitioned from the newborn "blob stage" to actively engaging with her surroundings. She has mastered rolling, an essential milestone for motor and cognitive development. Meg explains how rolling strengthens the brain's corpus callosum, vital for coordination and communication. Understanding Sensory Personalities Julia shares her observations of Aurelia's emerging social butterfly traits. Social butterflies seek sensory and social interactions, often showing interest in new people and environments.Meg highlights the importance of identifying sensory personalities for tailored parenting approaches. Preparing for Solids Aurelia is showing signs of readiness for solids, such as stable sitting and interest in food.Planning to combine finger foods with spoon feeding, embracing flexibility in her weaning approach.Meg emphasizes making the transition enjoyable, encouraging parents to focus on exploration over perfection. Sleep Success and Self-Regulation Julia reflects on her surprising success with Aurelia's sleep habits, avoiding the dreaded 17-week regression.Meg and Julia discuss the balance between responding to cries and allowing babies to self-soothe.They stress the importance of parental self-regulation to create calm and effective sleep routines. This episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt insights for parents of babies in their early months. From celebrating milestones to preparing for weaning, Julia's journey provides relatable and actionable takeaways. Meg's expert guidance empowers parents to understand their baby's unique personality, fostering confidence and joy in the parenting journey. Tune in to learn, reflect, and feel supported in these precious early months.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into juggling motherhood with Lexi Bird, the creative force behind South Africa's beloved confectionery brand, Mamere. Lexi shares how she built her thriving business while raising two young daughters. From practical advice on work-life balance to celebrating creativity, this episode is packed with wisdom for moms navigating their own unique journeys. Building Mamere: From Hobby to Thriving Brand Lexi recounts how Mamere began as a passion project and evolved into a leading confectionery brand. Her journey highlights the importance of perseverance, creativity, and trusting the process of organic growth. Lexi emphasizes starting small, staying flexible, and building a business that aligns with family priorities. Redefining Work-Life Balance as Work-Life Seasons Lexi introduces the concept of “work-life seasons” to replace the unrealistic idea of perfect balance. Some seasons demand more focus on work, while others prioritize family, and both are equally valid. Accepting the ebb and flow of responsibilities helps avoid burnout and guilt. Motherhood, Creativity, and Celebration Lexi shares how her role as a mom influences her creativity and approach to celebrations. She provides unique ideas for children's parties, blending fun and practicality. From unicorn trail mixes to bath ball party favors, Lexi inspires parents to embrace imperfections and enjoy the process. Practical Parenting and Empowering Children Lexi shares her approach to fostering healthy eating habits and involving her children in the kitchen. She emphasizes making food fun and not labeling treats as “forbidden,” promoting balance and curiosity. Her parenting style celebrates individuality and encourages kids to explore their interests. This episode is a must-listen for parents striving to balance ambition with family life. Lexi's insights on work-life seasons, creativity, and embracing imperfections will leave listeners inspired. Whether you're a mompreneur or simply navigating the parenting journey, this episode offers actionable advice and heartfelt encouragement. Tune in for a refreshing perspective on juggling life's demands while finding joy along the way.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we revisit Julia, a mom of two, as she shares the 17 weeks of baby bliss and challenges of parenting, Aurelia. This stage is full of rapid changes, from sleep patterns to emotional connections. Meg and Julia explore key milestones and offer practical advice to help parents navigate this delightful yet complex phase. The Joy of Parenting a 17-Week-Old Julia shares how Aurelia's emerging personality makes this age particularly rewarding. Aurelia is cooing, smiling, and engaging more, reflecting her growing social and emotional development. These moments, especially Aurelia's interactions with her older sibling, make this stage heartwarming for Julia. The Magic of "Serve and Return" Meg explains the concept of "serve and return" as a cornerstone of social-emotional development.Parents are encouraged to engage in reciprocal interactions, leaving pauses for their babies to respond. These exchanges build emotional connections and lay the foundation for lifelong communication skills. Sleep Transitions and Challenges Julia shares her experience of dropping Aurelia's dream feed and the adjustments that followed.Meg provides strategies for managing the 17-week sleep regression, emphasizing self-soothing and avoiding dependency habits. Parents are guided to listen carefully before responding to night wakings, fostering better long-term sleep patterns. Gender, Sensory Personalities, and Parenting Differences Julia and Meg reflect on how gender, sensory personalities, and parenting styles influence children's behaviors. They debunk stereotypes about boys and girls, highlighting the impact of innate traits and parental confidence. Meg emphasizes the importance of adapting to each child's unique needs rather than following rigid expectations. This episode is packed with insights for parents of young babies. From understanding emotional development to managing sleep, Julia and Meg provide practical advice grounded in experience and research. Whether you're navigating a sleep regression or marveling at your baby's milestones, this podcast will leave you feeling informed and empowered. Tune in for actionable tips and heartwarming stories that celebrate the journey of parenting.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the world of toys and their impact on our children's development. Joining Meg is Tove, and together they explore the importance of choosing the right toys for our little ones. With the festive season approaching, this episode is a must-listen for parents looking to make informed decisions about the toys they buy for their children. Understanding the Role of Toys in Development Meg and Tove discuss the significance of toys in a child's life, emphasizing that toys are not just for entertainment but also play a crucial role in their development. They highlight the importance of choosing toys that are durable, sustainable, and offer multiple play options. Toys that can be used in various ways encourage creativity, problem-solving, and imagination, which are essential skills for children to develop. The Impact of Toys on Sensory Development The conversation also touches on the impact of toys on sensory development. Meg explains that toys with different textures, colors, and sounds can stimulate a child's senses, promoting cognitive growth and development. They also discuss the benefits of toys that encourage active play, such as puzzles, blocks, and balls, which help develop fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination. Tips for Choosing the Right Toys Meg and Tove offer practical tips for parents on how to choose the right toys for their children. They emphasize the importance of considering a child's interests, age, and abilities when selecting toys. They also suggest that parents should look for toys that promote imagination, creativity, and problem-solving skills. Additionally, they recommend choosing toys that are made from sustainable materials and can be passed down to future generations. The Benefits of Storytelling and Book Sharing The episode also explores the benefits of storytelling and book sharing in a child's development. Meg and Tove discuss how books with simple, colorful pictures and engaging stories can stimulate a child's language skills and encourage a love for reading. They also highlight the importance of interactive books with flaps, textures, and sounds that promote sensory development and engagement. In conclusion, this episode of Sense by Meg Faure is a must-listen for parents who want to make informed decisions about the toys they buy for their children. By understanding the role of toys in development, considering a child's interests and abilities, and choosing toys that promote creativity, imagination, and problem-solving skills, parents can provide their children with the best possible start in life. Tune in to this episode to learn more about how to choose the right toys for your child and promote a lifelong love of learning.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the world of attachment-based parenting, a topic that has been gaining momentum in recent years. Joining Meg is Dr. Jenny Rose, a clinical psychologist with a deep passion for parent-child relationships and attachment. With over 20 years of experience in the field, Dr. Rose brings a wealth of knowledge to the conversation, making this episode a must-listen for any parent looking to build a strong, healthy relationship with their child. The Importance of Attachment Dr. Rose explains that attachment is not just a buzzword, but a fundamental aspect of parenting that has long-term effects on a child's mental health, academic success, and social relationships. She emphasizes that attachment is not just about being present, but about being attuned to a child's emotional cues and responding in a way that helps them feel safe and secure. Dr. Rose also highlights the importance of being "good enough" as a parent, rather than striving for perfection, which can actually create anxiety and detract from the attachment relationship. Breaking Intergenerational Patterns The conversation takes a fascinating turn when Dr. Rose shares an anecdote about witnessing a young mother struggling to connect with her child. She notes that this behavior is often a result of intergenerational patterns, where parents repeat the same behaviors they experienced in their own childhood. Dr. Rose stresses the importance of recognizing these patterns and actively working to break them, in order to create a more secure attachment with our own children. Practical Tips for Building Attachment For parents looking for practical advice, Dr. Rose offers valuable insights on how to build a strong attachment with their child. She emphasizes the importance of being present, putting away distractions like phones, and engaging in activities that promote emotional attunement. Dr. Rose also encourages parents to prioritize quality over quantity, recognizing that even small moments of connection can have a profound impact on a child's development. This episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, is a game-changer for parents seeking to build a strong, healthy relationship with their child. With Dr. Jenny Rose's expert guidance, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of attachment-based parenting and its long-term benefits. By tuning in, parents will learn how to break free from intergenerational patterns, cultivate emotional attunement, and create a secure attachment that will benefit their child for years to come. Whether you're a seasoned parent or just starting out, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to raise confident, resilient, and well-adjusted children.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into the exciting 14-week stage of a baby's life. This episode offers parents invaluable insights into routines, teething myths, and sleep strategies during the transition to month four. Meg Faure, a renowned occupational therapist and infant specialist, is joined by regular guest Julia. Together, they discuss Julia's journey with her baby, Aurelia, exploring the joys and challenges of parenting through this developmental stage. Establishing Routines Meg and Julia dive into the importance of a flexible but consistent routine for three- to four-month-olds. They discuss how a well-balanced schedule can provide comfort for both parent and child. Bedtimes, day sleeps, morning wakings, and feeding schedules are explored in detail. By understanding these principles, parents can create predictability, which supports a smoother daily flow. Julia shares her routine with Aurelia, explaining how it brings structure and peace to their day. Debunking Teething Myths The episode addresses common misconceptions surrounding early teething, a frequent concern among parents of infants. Julia wonders if Aurelia is teething due to her red cheeks and discomfort. Meg clarifies that true teething rarely begins before six months. She discusses how early signs of teething, like red cheeks, are often misinterpreted. Instead, these signs could be linked to other developmental changes or sensory experiences. Preparing for the Four-Month Sleep Regression Meg introduces parents to the four-month sleep regression, a stage many find challenging. She explains that while daytime naps may remain short, there may be an increase in night wakings. Meg encourages experimenting with longer sleep stretches by minimizing nighttime responses and encourages self-soothing skills. Teaching babies to settle themselves at this stage can positively impact their future sleep patterns. Parenting in the "Gray" Areas Julia and Meg discuss the idea of “thriving in the gray,” where parenting is neither perfect nor predictable. Meg emphasizes that embracing flexibility and resilience is crucial for parents. By allowing room for uncertainty, parents can find peace in the ups and downs of the journey. This approach reminds listeners that occasional discomfort or unpredictability is natural for both parent and baby. This episode provides essential advice for navigating the unpredictable early months of parenting. Listeners gain practical tips on routines, understanding teething, and handling sleep regressions, helping them thrive with confidence. Whether you're a new or seasoned parent, this episode offers tools to create a more peaceful, balanced experience.
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we welcome back Annie Hamilton, a renowned speech pathologist and feeding specialist sharing some practical feeding tips. Annie joins Meg to discuss everything parents need to know about starting solids for their little ones. This episode is packed with insights on creating positive, engaging, and effective mealtime routines. Annie provides expertise on practical feeding approaches and shares essential tips to make your child's weaning journey enjoyable and successful. With her background in both feeding and speech development, Annie offers a unique perspective that supports parents in understanding their child's feeding needs holistically. Preparing for the Weaning Journey Annie explains the basics of introducing solids, stressing the importance of proper seating and setting realistic expectations. She describes the process of balancing traditional feeding approaches with baby-led weaning to support each child's individual pace. Annie encourages parents to introduce a variety of textures and foods early on to promote adventurous eating. This balanced approach allows caregivers to incorporate both guided feeding and independence, building confidence in their little ones as they explore new foods. Social Eating and Family Mealtime Connection Annie highlights the importance of social interaction during mealtime and its role in a child's development. Eating together, she says, offers children valuable opportunities to learn from observing others, especially during family meals. She also shares tips on creating positive connections with food through family routines and without screens at the table. Annie describes how these mealtimes strengthen family bonds and provide learning moments that extend beyond feeding. Feeding Challenges and When to Seek Help Acknowledging that not all feeding journeys are easy, Annie discusses common challenges such as picky eating and limited diets. She encourages parents to pay attention to red flags, like long feeding times, weight issues, or respiratory difficulties while eating. For these challenges, Annie recommends seeking support from health professionals to address both the child's and parents' needs. Practical Strategies for Parents Annie and Meg share practical tips, including sensory-rich experiences to engage children without relying on screens. Simple activities like music, storytelling, and descriptive language create meaningful interactions around food. Annie emphasizes that making mealtime engaging and low-pressure can help reduce feeding struggles. This episode offers parents invaluable guidance on starting solids and overcoming common feeding hurdles. Annie's expertise reassures parents as they embark on this journey, emphasizing the importance of connection, patience, and trust. Whether you're just beginning or facing mealtime struggles, this episode will inspire confidence and make mealtime moments with your child more enjoyable.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the joys and challenges of early parenting, unpacking some crucial parenting tips. As Julia's daughter Aurelia reaches 12 weeks, she joins Meg to discuss the realities of caring for a young infant. Together, they delve into early developmental milestones, feeding decisions, sleep patterns, and the unique journey of bonding with a baby. This episode provides a compassionate and practical look at navigating the first months of parenthood. The Joys and Milestones of Early Parenting Julia shares her experience of how joyful and heartwarming this phase of infancy can be. She describes how much Aurelia has grown since birth, delighting in her smiles and developing personality. Meg reflects on this tender phase, explaining that the first few months are a special bonding time. She notes how mothers often experience “primary maternal preoccupation,” feeling their baby is the most important and delightful person in their lives. This phase strengthens the parent-child bond, helping babies feel secure and cherished. Balancing Breastfeeding and Bottle Feeding Feeding decisions are a central theme as Julia shares her journey with bottle feeding. Initially, she transitioned from breastfeeding to bottle feeding when Aurelia experienced illness. Julia expresses the mixed emotions involved, balancing the freedom bottle feeding offers with the emotional attachment to breastfeeding. Meg reassures listeners, emphasizing that each parent's feeding journey is unique. She notes how important flexibility and comfort are in making the best choices for both parent and baby. Tackling Sleep Challenges and Habits Meg and Julia discuss one of the greatest early parenting hurdles: sleep. Julia describes Aurelia's recent sleep habits, including short naps that disrupt a restful routine. Meg provides guidance on managing sleep patterns, explaining the importance of establishing habits while avoiding overstimulation. She offers advice on how parents can gently teach babies to self-soothe, suggesting patience, consistency, and allowing room for natural development. This episode is an essential listen for new parents navigating the early months of infancy filled with fantastic parenting tips. Meg and Julia share relatable experiences, tips, and compassionate guidance on feeding, sleep, and development. By tuning in, you will gain insights that make this challenging phase feel more manageable and rewarding. Whether you're struggling with sleep routines or finding joy in baby milestones, this episode provides valuable support for your parenting journey.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the emotional challenges of navigating parenthood and how to overcome them. Meg Faure is joined by Carly Abramovitz, a clinical psychologist and mother, to discuss the significant transition to parenthood. Carly shares insights from her personal and professional experiences, offering valuable guidance for new parents. This episode dives deep into maternal mental health, anxiety, and the importance of support systems. The Emotional Impact of Becoming a Parent Carly explains that becoming a parent is a monumental life change that can bring immense joy and unexpected challenges. The experience can often feel overwhelming as parents face shifts in their identity and relationships. Carly emphasizes that these emotional challenges, including anxiety and postnatal depression, are common but seldom talked about. She describes how the early days of parenthood can feel isolating and disorienting, especially for mothers. The Importance of Support Systems Carly discusses the critical role of support systems for new parents. She highlights how mothers often feel alone as they adjust to the demands of a newborn. Support from family, friends, or community networks can make a profound difference during this time. Carly stresses that support doesn't always need to come in the form of advice but can simply be about sharing the experience. Whether it's a partner, a mother, or a parent group, having others to talk to can reduce feelings of isolation. Maternal Mental Health and Anxiety Meg and Carly explore maternal mental health, focusing on anxiety and depression that many new mothers experience. Carly shares her own experience with postpartum anxiety and the immense pressure new parents feel to "get it right." She explains that it's okay to feel lost and anxious, and reassures listeners that these feelings are part of the process. She emphasizes the need for self-compassion and understanding, reminding parents that they are not expected to be perfect. Why You Should Listen This episode is a must-listen for new parents or anyone supporting them. It offers practical insights into the emotional journey of parenthood. Carly's expert advice on how to handle anxiety, seek support, and manage the transition to parenthood is invaluable. By listening, you will gain a deeper understanding of the importance of self-care and community during this transformative time.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into one of our favorite topics – myth-busting. In the often overwhelming world of parenting advice, it can be difficult to separate fact from fiction. This episode explores some of the most common myths around baby care, offering expert insights to help parents make informed decisions. Whether you're a new mom or an experienced parent, we tackle big questions that often cause confusion. Host Meg Faure and guest Tove discuss everything from baby sleep habits to feeding practices, clearing up myths that many parents face on their journey. Myth 1: Should You Wake a Sleeping Baby? A common question is whether you should ever wake a sleeping baby. Conventional wisdom says never wake them, but Meg Faure debunks this. In some cases, such as when a baby isn't gaining weight or is born premature, it is important to wake them. Similarly, allowing a baby to nap too close to bedtime may disrupt their night's sleep. Understanding your baby's sleep cycles and needs helps to create a healthy routine. Myth 2: Does Starting Solids Help Babies Sleep Better? Another common belief is that starting solids early can improve a baby's sleep. Meg explains that this is a myth. Food and sleep aren't as strongly linked as many think. While nutritional needs are important, starting solids won't be a magic solution to sleep challenges. Parents should introduce solids when their baby shows readiness signs, not as a method to get better sleep. Myth 3: Do Teething Babies Get Fevers and Diarrhea? Many parents associate teething with fever, diarrhea, and rash. Meg confirms that while teething causes drooling and a change in bowel movements, it doesn't directly cause high fevers or illness. Parents should not dismiss fever or severe symptoms as teething; instead, they should consult a doctor. This episode of Sense by Meg Faure is a must-listen for parents who want clear, expert guidance amidst conflicting advice. By understanding the difference between myth and fact, parents can confidently care for their baby. Meg's practical advice is invaluable in helping you navigate your parenting journey with fewer doubts and more confidence.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we revisit the early days of parenting with returning guest Julia, who reflects on life as a second-time mom. Julia, now a mother of two, shares her experiences navigating the first seven weeks with her newborn, Aurelia, comparing them to her journey with her first child, Santiago. The episode covers the differences between first-time and second-time parenting, sleep deprivation, and managing a work-life balance with a newborn. First-Time vs. Second-Time Parenting Julia highlights the striking contrast between her first and second experiences of motherhood. She recalls feeling overwhelmed and in survival mode with her first child, Santiago, but now feels more confident and calm. With Aurelia, Julia has been able to enjoy motherhood more, savoring moments she missed the first time due to anxiety and exhaustion. She emphasizes how having a second child brings greater perspective and the ability to cope with challenges better. Coping with Sleep Deprivation Sleep deprivation is inevitable in the early weeks of parenting. However, Julia discusses how she has learned to manage it better this time around. She explains that night feeds, which once felt exhausting, have become moments of connection with her baby. Julia also shares the importance of having a support system and tips for sharing the load with a partner, which has helped her through the tiring nights. Balancing Work and Motherhood Julia opens up about the challenge of juggling work while caring for a newborn. Although she managed to take six months off with her first child, she now finds herself back at work much earlier than expected. She talks about the difficulties of working during nap times and shares tips for making the most of limited downtime, such as prioritizing rest and delegating tasks. Listeners should tune in to this episode for an insightful, relatable conversation about second-time parenting and the lessons learned from navigating the early weeks of motherhood. Julia's reflections offer reassurance and practical advice for managing the demands of a newborn while still finding joy in the experience. Whether you're a first-time parent or welcoming another baby, this episode will leave you feeling encouraged and supported in your journey.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we revisit the journey of Cassidy, who shares her experiences with her second child, Zach. Zach was born with a cleft lip and palate, which required multiple surgeries and hospital stays during his first year. This episode explores the emotional, physical, and practical challenges of managing such a condition, while also celebrating the resilience of both Zach and his family. The Emotional Journey of Cleft Lip and Palate Surgeries Cassidy discusses the emotional rollercoaster of having a child undergo surgery for cleft lip and palate. She reflects on the fear and anxiety that come with hospitalizations and the surgical process. Despite these difficulties, Cassidy highlights the relief and joy of seeing Zach's transformation and recovery, while also acknowledging the feelings of loss over his pre-surgery appearance. Practical Tips for Parents Facing Surgery The episode offers practical advice for parents whose children are facing surgery. Cassidy emphasizes the importance of self-care during surgery, such as taking time to leave the hospital for a break rather than waiting anxiously. She also advises parents to familiarize themselves with hospital routines, like knowing where the parent rooms and facilities are, to reduce stress during long hospital stays. Managing the Aftermath of Surgery and Recovery Cassidy shares her experience with post-surgery recovery, including sleep disruptions and co-sleeping as a way to comfort Zach. She notes how hospitalizations can affect older siblings, too, and emphasizes the need for one-on-one time to reassure them. Cassidy reflects on how much easier the second surgery felt, thanks to lessons learned from the first one. Co-Sleeping and Forming New Habits A common concern for parents is creating long-term habits with co-sleeping or contact naps during recovery. Cassidy shares how she embraced these practices in the short term, trusting that Zach would naturally transition back to independent sleep—something that happened sooner than expected. This episode is a must-listen for parents dealing with cleft lip and palate or any form of early childhood surgery. Cassidy's journey provides not only emotional support but also practical insights for navigating the challenges of surgery and recovery. Her positive outlook and tips for managing the stress of hospital stays will resonate with any parent going through a similar experience. Tune in to hear an inspiring story of resilience and the importance of finding comfort in each small victory.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into the crucial topic of early development. Meg Faure welcomes Claire Stead, an educator and founder of Oliiki, to discuss the significance of the first 1000 days of life. The episode highlights the impact of early experiences, epigenetics, and the key developmental milestones that set the stage for a child's future. The Importance of the First 1000 Days Claire Stead explains why the first 1000 days, from conception to age two, are foundational for a child's development. These early years are when the brain undergoes rapid growth, laying the groundwork for all future learning and development. Stead emphasizes that this period not only shapes cognitive and academic outcomes but also emotional, social, and physical health. The environment and experiences during these critical years can influence factors like well-being, resilience, and stress responses later in life. Epigenetic's and Generational Impact A key theme of the episode is epigenetic's. The idea that environmental factors can switch genes on or off, influencing not just the individual but future generations. Stead shares fascinating research on how experiences during pregnancy and early childhood can affect gene expression, potentially impacting not only a child's health and development but also that of their grandchildren. This underscores the importance of a nurturing and stress-free pregnancy, not just for the mother but for the baby's future generations. Key Developmental Milestones The episode explores three pivotal developmental milestones: smiling, crawling, and pointing. Smiling is crucial for emotional connection, crawling is vital for physical and cognitive development, and pointing signifies communication readiness. Faure and Stead discuss why these milestones matter and how they contribute to a child's broader developmental trajectory. Practical Parenting Tips Listeners are offered practical tips to nurture their child's development. Stead emphasizes the importance of eye contact, time spent on the floor for motor development, and limiting distractions like screens to foster engagement and connection. This episode is essential listening for any parent or caregiver who wants to give their child the best start in life. Claire Stead provides valuable insights on how simple, daily interactions can lay the foundation for lifelong success. If you want to understand how early childhood development shapes your child's future, this episode is a must-listen.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the milestones and challenges of parenting a six-week-old baby. Host Meg Faure, an experienced occupational therapist and author, is joined by Julia De Silva, mother of two, to discuss her experiences with her second child, Aurelia, at six weeks old. They explore the wins, struggles, and developmental milestones of this critical stage, while offering valuable advice to parents navigating similar challenges. This episode provides a blend of personal insights and expert recommendations that support parents through the early stages of motherhood. Milestone Achievements: The Joy of Six-Week Smiles In this episode, the significance of reaching six weeks is discussed, especially in relation to infant development. Meg explains how many babies begin to smile at this age, marking a key moment for parents. Julia shares how Aurelia is beginning to smile and interact, particularly when lying on her playmat. This milestone is not just an emotional highlight but also indicates important developmental progress. The episode dives into the science behind infant communication at six weeks, which evolves from crying and eye contact to smiling and mimicking facial expressions. Challenges: Sleep and Routine Struggles Julia opens up about her efforts to establish a routine, especially around bedtime. She describes trying new techniques based on Meg's advice, including creating a calming bedtime routine with bath time, lullabies, and a nightlight. Despite her efforts, Julia faces challenges, particularly with false starts in Aurelia's sleep cycle. Meg provides practical solutions, such as using swaddling and white noise to help infants transition to longer, uninterrupted sleep. They also discuss the hypnagogic startle reflex, which causes babies to wake shortly after falling asleep, offering strategies for managing this common issue. Supporting Older Siblings Julia also reflects on her older son Santi's adjustment to having a new sibling. She shares how his behavior changed after Aurelia's second hospital visit and how they managed his emotional reactions. Meg emphasizes the importance of intentional, one-on-one time with older children, including techniques like “Watch, Wait, and Wonder,” where parents observe their child's play without intervention to foster emotional security. This episode offers a heartfelt and practical guide for new parents navigating the six-week milestone. With personal anecdotes and expert advice, Meg and Julia provide listeners with valuable insights into handling both the joys and challenges of parenting at this stage. Whether you're a first-time parent or managing multiple children, this episode offers actionable tips on establishing routines, managing sleep, and balancing sibling dynamics.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into the vital topic of self-regulation in children. Joined by Tove Gant, we explore why self-regulation is essential for child development. Meg and Tove discuss various practical strategies to help parents navigate this crucial aspect of parenting. From temper tantrums to sensory overload, the episode covers the challenges and techniques parents can use to foster self-regulation in their children. Understanding self-regulation is key to raising resilient, emotionally balanced children, and this episode provides valuable insights for parents at any stage. What is Self-Regulation? Self-regulation is the ability to manage emotions, behavior, and physiological responses. Meg explains that self-regulation begins early in life, even at 34 weeks gestation. It involves various developmental stages, from physiological regulation to emotional and behavioral regulation. Parents play a critical role in helping children learn to regulate their emotions and actions. Initially, parents must regulate for their babies, but gradually, children need to take on this responsibility. As children grow, parents must balance co-regulating with their child and teaching them to self-soothe. The Role of Parents in Self-Regulation Parents are instrumental in helping children develop self-regulation skills. Meg emphasizes the importance of guiding children through frustrations rather than eliminating them. Just as parents assist children in learning to walk by providing support, they must also help them develop self-regulation. This requires parents to strike a balance between soothing and encouraging independence. The episode highlights the importance of "co-regulation," a gradual process where parents help children take responsibility for managing their emotions. Challenges of Sensory Processing and Self-Regulation Children often face sensory challenges, which can impact their ability to self-regulate. Tove shares personal experiences with her children, especially those with special needs, and how sensory overload can affect their behavior. Meg explains the relationship between sensory processing and self-regulation, offering practical strategies for parents. Parents must learn to adjust environments to their child's sensory needs while also slowly pushing them to handle more challenging situations. This "grading" helps children expand their comfort zones without overwhelming them. The Link Between Self-Regulation and Emotional Attachment Secure attachment between parents and children is essential for emotional regulation. Meg discusses the importance of emotional connections in developing self-regulation skills. Children who feel loved and secure are more likely to manage their emotions effectively. Meg refers to research showing that parents don't need to respond perfectly every time to create a secure attachment. Small failures, followed by repair, help children develop resilience and emotional regulation skills. Conclusion This episode provides parents with practical, research-backed advice on nurturing self-regulation in children. Meg and Tove emphasize the importance of balancing support and independence. By allowing children to face frustrations within a secure, loving environment, parents can help them develop essential life skills. Listeners will benefit from this episode by gaining valuable insights and strategies for raising emotionally resilient children. It's a must-listen for parents seeking to understand and support their child's emotional development through self-regulation.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into the challenging world of picky eating with paediatric dietitian Kath Megaw. Picky eating is a common issue that many parents face, turning mealtimes into a battleground. Kath Megaw, a leading expert in pediatric nutrition, joins us to explore this topic in depth. Together, we discuss the underlying causes, effects, and practical strategies to manage these challenges. Parenting Styles and Their Impact on Picky Eating Kath highlights how different parenting styles can influence a child's eating habits. She explains that modern parenting often swings between being overly permissive and too authoritarian. Permissive parenting can lead to children having too much control over their food choices. Conversely, overly strict parenting can create negative associations with food. Kath stresses the importance of finding a balanced approach. Parents should guide their children while also allowing them the autonomy to make healthy choices. The Role of Parental Anxiety Kath also discusses the role of parental anxiety in picky eating. Many parents today feel increased pressure to “get it right,” leading to anxiety. This anxiety can create a tense mealtime environment, which exacerbates this behaviors. Kath emphasizes the need for parents to manage their anxiety. A calm, supportive environment encourages children to explore different foods without pressure. Strategies for Managing Picky Eating Kath shares three key strategies for managing picky eating. First, she discusses the importance of using supplements to fill nutritional gaps. This is particularly helpful when a child's diet is very limited. Second, Kath advises limiting “fun foods” during the first three years of life. This helps set the foundation for healthier eating habits. Third, she introduces the concept of the “treat box” to teach children delayed gratification and self-regulation. This method not only reduces the focus on unhealthy snacks but also empowers children to make better food choices. This episode is a must-listen for any parent dealing with picky eating. Kath Megaw's expert advice provides practical, actionable steps to improve your child's eating habits. By understanding the influences on picky eating and applying Kath's strategies, parents can create a healthier, more positive mealtime experience. Tune in to gain insights that could transform your approach to feeding your child.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive deep into the joys and challenges of the newborn life. Meg is joined by Julia, a mother of a four-week-old baby, Aurelia. Together, they explore the universal experiences of new parenthood. Whether you're navigating sleepless nights or celebrating first smiles, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice. If you're a new parent, this conversation is a must-listen. Understanding Newborn Development Julia and Meg discuss the importance of monitoring newborn weight gain. They explain that while growth curves are useful, they shouldn't become an obsession. Julia shares her experience with Aurelia's weight fluctuations and how she learned to appreciate healthy, steady growth. Meg emphasizes that engagement, like making eye contact, is more crucial than the numbers on the scale. Establishing Feeding and Sleep Routines Meg and Julia explore the intricacies of feeding schedules, particularly at night. They discuss the transition from structured to more flexible feeding routines. Julia shares her decision to let Aurelia wake naturally for feeds, resulting in longer stretches of sleep. Meg advises on managing daytime feeds and the importance of not letting babies go too long between them during the day. Managing Evening and Bedtime Routines The podcast delves into the challenges of evening routines. Julia reflects on the difficulties of managing Aurelia's sleep as the day winds down. Meg offers practical tips, such as stretching the last wake window to help ease the transition into bedtime. She explains the importance of flexibility and adapting to the baby's changing needs. Coping with Fussiness and Crying Julia mentions Aurelia's recent bouts of fussiness, which led to discussions on how to handle these moments. Meg reassures listeners that some crying before sleep is normal and part of newborn development. She emphasizes the value of sensory strategies like white noise, swaddling, and babywearing to soothe fussy babies. This episode is packed with relatable experiences and expert advice for new parents. Meg Faure's guidance provides comfort and reassurance during this beautiful yet challenging phase. If you're looking for practical tips and a sense of camaraderie, this episode is for you. Tune in to gain valuable insights and feel more confident in your parenting journey.
On this week's episode of Sense by Meg Faure, we delve into the fascinating world of infant development and nurturing secure attachment with Professor Mark Tomlinson. Professor Tomlinson is a leading researcher from Stellenbosch University with over three decades of experience. Understanding Secure Attachment Professor Tomlinson emphasizes the importance of secure attachment in an infant's early life. Professor Tomlinson highlights that attachment begins even before birth, during pregnancy, as parents start imagining and bonding with their unborn child. After birth, this attachment continues to develop through the caregiver's consistent and responsive care. Secure attachment lays the foundation for a child's emotional and social health, influencing their ability to regulate form healthy relationships. The Role of Co-Regulation and Self-Regulation A major theme discussed is the concept of co-regulation and its evolution into self-regulation. In the early months, parents play a crucial role in regulating their infant's emotions and needs. Over time, as infants grow, they gradually learn to self-soothe and manage their emotions, a process that continues well into adolescence. Professor Tomlinson highlights the importance of allowing children to experience failures and learn from them, fostering resilience and self-regulation skills. Navigating Parenting Challenges We explore the challenges parents face in deciding how much responsibility to take versus allowing their child to self-regulate. Professor Tomlinson discusses various parenting approaches, including controlled crying and attachment parenting, advising that no single method is correct. Instead, parents should trust their instincts and adapt their approach based on their child's needs and their unique relationship. Long-Term Impact of Secure Attachment Professor Tomlinson shares insights from his longitudinal research, showing the long-term benefits of secure attachment. He explains how securely attached children are better equipped to handle social interactions, manage emotions, and succeed academically. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who want to understand the crucial role of secure attachment in their child's development. Professor Tomlinson's insights offer practical advice on fostering a healthy parent-child relationship, managing the challenges of early parenting, and supporting long-term emotional well-being. Tune in to gain valuable knowledge that can help you navigate the complexities of raising a resilient and well-adjusted child.
Meg Faure introduces Gessica, who is a mother of two, including her newborn daughter Rachel. Gessica recounts her family's journey and the early weeks of adjusting to life with a second child. Meg emphasizes that this podcast is for parents with newborns or those expecting one soon. Joys of Parenting a Newborn Gessica shares the joy of Rachel's first smiles at six weeks. She describes the wholesome feeling of her growing family. Gessica appreciates feeling more confident as a second-time mom. She highlights the importance of having a supportive partner. This confidence allows her to enjoy the small, rewarding moments with her newborn. Challenges of Breastfeeding Gessica discusses the challenges she faces with breastfeeding. Despite using a nipple shield, she finds breastfeeding difficult. Gessica talks about the conflicting advice she received regarding Rachel's suspected lip tie. Meg advises consulting specialized lactation consultants for such issues. Gessica's experience reflects many mothers' struggles with breastfeeding. Dealing with Newborn Fussiness Gessica mentions the common struggle of newborn wind and colic. She shares her approach to managing Rachel's fussiness and wind. Meg discusses research suggesting that winding a baby may not always help. Instead, she advises keeping winding sessions brief and calming. Meg highlights that many issues, like wind and teething, are developmental stages that will pass. Support Systems and Parental Confidence Gessica emphasizes the role of her husband in easing the parenting load. She explains how his support helps her manage stress and make better decisions. Meg agrees, noting that having a supportive partner can significantly impact the parenting experience. She also encourages parents to trust their instincts and give themselves time to see if an issue resolves on its own. This episode offers valuable insights into the early weeks of parenting, highlighting both joys and challenges. Gessica's experiences provide relatable and practical advice for new parents. Meg's expertise adds depth to the discussion, offering research-based tips and reassurance. Listeners will benefit from understanding that many early parenting challenges are normal and temporary. They will also learn the importance of support systems and trusting their instincts. This episode is a must-listen for new and expecting parents seeking guidance and reassurance in their parenting journey.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into understanding and managing sensory seekers in children. Meg Faure, an OT infant specialist and author, hosts the episode, offering valuable insights for new parents. The podcast is brought to you by ParentSense, the app that takes the guesswork out of parenting. This episode focuses on the unique challenges and strengths of sensory seekers. Meg is joined by Tove Gant, who represents parents with many questions about raising sensory seekers. What is a Sensory Seeker? Sensory seekers are children who crave sensory and social stimulation. These children are often very active, socially engaged, and constantly seeking new sensory experiences. They are undersensitive, meaning they need more stimulation to perceive their environment fully. This behavior can be exhausting for parents but is a natural part of these children's development. Understanding Sensory Seeking Behavior Meg explains that sensory seeking is not naughtiness or hyperactivity. Sensory seekers have a higher need for sensory input, which can sometimes appear chaotic. Parents need to understand this behavior to respond empathetically and effectively. Providing appropriate sensory activities can help manage their need for stimulation. Daily Routines and Activities Meg emphasizes the importance of integrating sensory activities into daily routines. Activities like jumping on trampolines, swinging, and climbing monkey bars provide essential proprioceptive input. Proprioception involves input into muscles and joints, which is both stimulating and regulating. These activities help sensory seekers manage their need for movement and sensory input. Managing Screen Time Screens provide only visual and auditory stimulation, lacking proprioceptive input. Excessive screen time can overstimulate and dysregulate sensory seekers. Meg advises parents to limit screen time and focus on activities that provide physical and sensory engagement. This approach helps maintain a balance between stimulation and regulation. Creating Calming Spaces Meg suggests setting up a calming space or "timeout" area in the home. This space should include calming items like bean bags, vibrating toys, and sensory jars. Having a designated area for downtime helps sensory seekers regulate themselves when overstimulated. This space is crucial for preventing sensory overload and meltdowns. Recognizing Overstimulation and Responding Parents should watch for signs of overstimulation, such as increased fidgeting and irritability. Introducing proprioceptive activities can help calm sensory seekers when they are overstimulated. Understanding these cues and responding appropriately is key to managing sensory seeking behavior. When to Seek Professional Help Meg advises against early diagnoses for busy children under three. However, if a child's busyness is always destructive and unconstructive, professional advice may be necessary. Occupational therapists can provide sensory diets to help regulate sensory input. For older children, if sensory seeking interferes with learning and relationships, professional help should be sought. Listeners should tune into this podcast to gain a deeper understanding of sensory seekers and how to manage their unique needs. Meg Faure provides practical advice and empathetic insights, helping parents support their sensory seeking children. This episode offers valuable strategies to balance stimulation and regulation, ensuring a harmonious home environment.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into the transition period for new parents as the newborn honeymoon phase ends. Our guest, Julia, shares her personal journey and offers valuable insights on handling the challenges of bedtime and feeding routines with her newborn, Aurelia. This episode is packed with practical tips and strategies to help new parents navigate this critical stage. Effective Bedtime Strategies Meg and Julia discuss the importance of establishing effective bedtime routines. They delve into concepts like dream feeds and cluster feeds, explaining how these can help extend the baby's sleep periods. Julia shares her experiences with these methods and their impact on her baby's sleep patterns. Understanding Hunger and Sleep Cues The conversation highlights the significance of understanding a baby's hunger and sleep cues. Julia talks about how recognizing these cues has helped her manage her baby's needs better. Meg provides additional insights on how parents can identify and respond to these cues effectively. Engaging Older Siblings in the Routine Julia discusses the role of her older child, Santi, in caring for the newborn. She emphasizes the importance of involving older siblings in the baby's routine to ease the transition for the entire family. Meg agrees, highlighting the benefits of sibling involvement in fostering a supportive family environment. Handling the Evening Juggle Julia recounts the challenges of juggling the needs of her newborn and her older child. She shares practical tips on managing this evening juggle, such as involving Santi in activities like reading stories to Aurelia during feeding times. Meg supports these strategies and offers additional advice on how to keep older siblings engaged. Dealing with False Starts and Evening Fussiness The episode addresses common issues like false starts and evening fussiness. Julia talks about her experiences with Aurelia's evening crying spells and how cluster feeding has helped manage these episodes. Faure explains the concept of false starts and provides tips on handling them effectively. This episode is a must-listen for new parents navigating the end of the honeymoon period with their newborn. Meg and Julia provide practical advice and personal experiences that offer valuable insights. By the end of the episode, listeners will feel more confident in their ability to manage bedtime and feeding routines. They will also gain a better understanding of their baby's needs and how to create a supportive family environment. Tune in to learn effective strategies and feel empowered in your parenting journey.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the complex topic of milk feeding for babies. Meg Faure, an OT infant specialist and author, invites Kath McGaw, a pediatric dietician, to discuss the various methods of feeding babies milk. This episode aims to help parents navigate the challenges and benefits of breastfeeding, formula feeding, and combination feeding. Breastfeeding Benefits and Tips Breastfeeding is presented as the preferred method for feeding babies. Kath emphasizes that breast milk is dynamic, changing daily to meet the baby's needs. It provides essential immune benefits, with antibodies transferring from mother to baby. Breast milk also offers the right balance of nutrients, including high-fat content necessary for energy. Kath advises moms to ensure proper hydration, nutrition, and rest to maintain a good milk supply. She stresses the importance of a proper latch to ensure effective breastfeeding. Moms are encouraged to seek help from lactation consultants if they encounter difficulties. Formula Feeding Insights The podcast delves into formula feeding as an alternative or supplement to breastfeeding. Kath explains that formula milk is designed to mimic breast milk as closely as possible. There are different types of formula, including cow's milk protein-based, soy-based, and specialized formulas. Kath highlights the importance of looking for formulas with human milk oligosaccharides (HMOs) and added omega-3s. She advises parents to avoid frequent formula changes and to give each new formula at least two weeks before deciding its suitability. Combination Feeding Considerations Combination feeding, which involves both breastfeeding and formula feeding, is another option discussed. Kath mentions that some moms might need to supplement breastfeeding with formula due to various reasons. She advises starting with breastfeeding and then topping up with formula if necessary. This method can help moms determine if their baby is getting enough milk. Kath also suggests maintaining a small dose of cow's milk protein weekly to prevent future allergies. Practical Tips and Challenges The episode covers practical tips for transitioning between breastfeeding and formula feeding. Parents should be aware of potential gut changes and stool variations when introducing formula. Kath emphasizes the importance of observing the baby's reactions and consulting a healthcare provider if issues arise. She discourages formula hopping and recommends seeking professional advice to ensure the baby's gut health. Listeners should tune into this episode for valuable insights into milk feeding options. Kath McGaw provides research-based advice, helping parents make informed decisions about feeding their babies. Whether you choose breastfeeding, formula feeding, or combination feeding, this episode offers practical tips and expert guidance. Download the ParentSense app for more resources and to take the guesswork out of parenting. This episode is essential for new parents navigating the early stages of their baby's life.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into the intricate world of early parenthood and managing anxiety. Host Meg Faure sits down with Chelsea Atherstone, a new mom navigating the challenges and joys of raising a seven-and-a-half-month-old baby. Together, they explore the anxieties of pregnancy, the reality of newborn care, and the ever-evolving journey of parenting. Chelsea shares her personal experiences, providing valuable insights for all new parents. Pregnancy and Anxiety Chelsea recounts her pregnancy, marked by anxiety despite a smooth and healthy experience. She discusses how the abundance of online information often heightened her stress. Meg highlights the importance of filtering advice and trusting one's instincts. They emphasize the need for a supportive environment to alleviate pregnancy-related anxiety. Newborn Care and Initial Challenges Chelsea shares the initial shock and adjustment period after her baby's birth. With limited family support, she and her husband faced the overwhelming task of newborn care. Chelsea describes the early days as both magical and challenging, learning to navigate sleepless nights and constant worry. Meg and Chelsea discuss common anxieties and how new parents can find their footing. Sleep Patterns and Regression Sleep, a major topic, is discussed in depth, particularly the challenges of night wakings and sleep regressions. Chelsea explains the difficulty of transitioning her baby to self-soothing, especially with the use of a pacifier. Meg provides practical tips for managing sleep disturbances and fostering healthy sleep habits. They explore strategies like using white noise and encouraging self-soothing techniques. Weaning and Feeding Chelsea's journey into weaning and feeding is another significant theme. She talks about her baby's love for food and the introduction of solids. Meg offers advice on balancing nutrition and sensory experiences during weaning. They also address the common fears around choking versus gagging, stressing the importance of a calm approach. Emotional and Sensory Support Meg discusses the importance of sensory input for babies, suggesting activities like swinging to aid sleep. They also touch on the emotional support needed for parents, highlighting the impact of anxiety on both mother and baby. Meg emphasizes the role of a supportive partner in managing parental stress. Listeners should tune into this episode for a heartfelt and informative discussion on early parenthood. Meg Faure and Chelsea Atherstone provide practical advice, relatable stories, and expert insights. This episode is a valuable resource for new parents seeking guidance and reassurance. Understanding that parenting is a unique journey, they offer support and strategies to help navigate the early stages with confidence.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the incredible journey of early brain development. Our guest host, Tove Gant, joins us to explore how sensory stimulation shapes the human brain in the first thousand days. This episode is essential for parents keen on optimising their child's cognitive, emotional, and social skills. The Importance of Early Brain Development We discuss why the first thousand days of a child's life are crucial. Meg explains how sensory experiences significantly influence brain development during this period. Listeners will learn about the concept of neuroplasticity and how the brain remains moldable throughout life. Sensory Stimulation and Neuroplasticity Meg elaborates on how sensory inputs create connections between brain cells. She explains how sensory stimulation impacts the brain's development and the concept of "use it or lose it." Parents will understand the importance of providing varied sensory experiences to their children. Environmental Influence The conversation highlights the role of the environment in shaping the brain. Meg shares a compelling story about a child from Hong Kong who faced developmental delays due to limited environmental exposure. This example underscores the significance of varied and rich sensory environments. Emotional Engagement and Learning Meg and Tove discuss the impact of emotional engagement on sensory stimulation. Fun and happiness are crucial for effective learning. They explain how positive emotional interactions can foster better brain development and social skills. Balancing Stimulation and Overstimulation One of the key discussions is finding the right balance between stimulation and overstimulation. Meg emphasizes the importance of reading a baby's signals to avoid overstimulation. Parents learn how to provide appropriate sensory experiences without overwhelming their children. The TEAT Framework Meg introduces the TEAT framework (Timing, Environment, Activity, and Toys) from her Baby Sense book. This framework helps parents integrate sensory stimulation into daily routines effectively. The TEAT framework ensures that activities are appropriately timed and varied throughout the day. Practical Tips for Parents Throughout the episode, Meg offers practical tips for parents to enhance sensory stimulation. She emphasizes the importance of floor time, tummy time, and using natural environments for sensory experiences. Listeners should tune in to this episode to gain valuable insights into early brain development. Meg Faure provides actionable advice and scientific explanations, making this podcast a must-listen for new parents. By understanding and applying these principles, parents can significantly impact their child's future cognitive, emotional, and social success. This episode offers a comprehensive guide to fostering optimal brain development through sensory stimulation.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we delve into the vital topic of childcare with a focus on nannies. Our guest, Evette from The Nanny Movement, shares her expertise on the importance of effective caregiving, attachment, and communication in creating a nurturing environment for children. Evette, brings her extensive experience and insights on training nannies to ensure they provide exceptional care that meets the needs of each unique child. We discuss how nannies can be more than just caregivers—they can be pivotal figures in a child's emotional and social development. Building Secure Attachments Evette explains the significance of secure attachments between children and their nannies. A stable, predictable caregiving environment is crucial for a child's emotional and brain development. She emphasizes the importance of consistency in routines and attentive care, mirroring the child's experiences with their parents. Effective Communication Communication between parents and nannies is essential. Evette highlights how clear, open, and continuous communication can bridge the gap between parental expectations and nanny practices. This alignment helps ensure that the child's needs are met consistently, fostering a secure and loving environment. The Role of Training Evette discusses the need for comprehensive training for nannies. Her workshops focus on equipping nannies with skills to handle various developmental stages. Proper training helps nannies understand and respond to each child's unique needs, promoting better care and development. Special Needs Care The episode also covers the specific training provided for nannies who care for children with special needs. Evette shares her personal experience with her adopted son, Joshua, who has epilepsy and autism. This segment underscores the importance of specialized knowledge and skills in managing the unique challenges these children face. Conclusion Listening to this episode of Sense by Meg Faure will provide parents with valuable insights into selecting and working effectively with nannies. Understanding the importance of secure attachments, effective communication, and comprehensive training can transform the childcare experience, ensuring children receive the best possible care. Tune in to learn how nannies can not significantly contribute to a child's overall development.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we dive into the complexities and joys of newborn care.From understanding their sleep patterns to handling fussy periods and managing colic, this episode is a must-listen for all new parents. In this episode, we discuss the first few weeks of a newborn's life. The focus is on their sleep patterns, feeding habits, and general developmental milestones. Expert advice from Meg Faure provides guidance on navigating this crucial time with confidence and care. Sleep Patterns & Awake Time For the first 10 to 14 days, newborns have distinct sleep patterns. Babies gradually begin to have differentiated states of awake versus sleep. Keeping awake times to 45 minutes is crucial, as this period includes changing diapers and feeding. Overstimulation can be counterproductive, so minimal stimulation is advised. Managing Fussy Periods Interestingly, newborns often experience fussy periods, especially around two weeks old. Signs of fussiness and colic are discussed. It's important to keep stimulation minimal and understand that fussy patches are common. Additionally, various tips are given on how to handle these periods, such as using a SnuggleRoo carrier for comfort. Feeding and Weight Gain Feeding poses its own set of challenges, especially with issues like congestion. Newborns have a natural store of antibodies from the placenta and initial breastfeeding. Bottle feeding can be easier for congested babies. Monitoring weight gain is essential to ensure they are getting enough nourishment. Handling Nighttime Feeding and Colic Nighttime feeds should be calm and low-stimulation. Keeping the room dark and interaction minimal helps prevent overstimulation. Meg shares some practical steps to manage colicky babies, like using a dummy and proper swaddling techniques. Immunity and Health Precautions The immunity of newborns is a key topic. Second children often face more germs due to less sterile environments. Strategies to manage and boost a newborn's immunity are discussed. Recognizing and acting on health issues early can make a big difference. Emotional Well-being of the Mother Julia opens up about her emotional journey during these first two weeks. Meg and Julia discuss the impact of postpartum hormones on a new moms mood. Meg Faure provides tips for managing stress and anxiety. The importance of seeking support from family and friends is emphasized. This episode offers a comprehensive guide to the early days of newborn care. Julia's experiences and Meg Faure's expert advice provide valuable insights. Listeners will find practical tips and reassurance. The podcast aims to support new parents in navigating these challenging yet rewarding times. By listening, parents can gain confidence in their ability to care for their newborn. Tune in to gain practical advice and emotional support for the first weeks with your baby.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the essential elements and tips of fatherhood. Meg Faure, an occupational therapist and parenting expert, interviews Craig Wilkinson, a prominent figure in fatherhood advocacy in South Africa. Craig shares his journey, insights, and practical advice on building strong relationships between fathers and their children. This episode is a must-listen for new dads, moms, and anyone interested in the pivotal role of fathers. The Role of Fathers Craig Wilkinson emphasizes the critical role fathers play in their children's lives. Fathers are pivotal in shaping their children's identity and sense of worth. He discusses the impact of fatherlessness, highlighting its correlation with various social issues. Fathers must be present, engaged, and nurturing to foster healthy development. Foundational Elements of Fatherhood Craig outlines two foundational elements crucial for fatherhood. First, fathers must work on themselves, addressing their own issues and becoming the men they want their sons to become. Second, fathers need to spend quality time with their children, being fully present and engaged. Time and presence are the greatest gifts a father can give. Balancing Strength and Sensitivity Craig discusses the dual nature of masculinity, combining strength with sensitivity. Boys need to be strong yet gentle, learning to handle their emotions and vulnerabilities. Fathers must model this balance, showing their sons how to be both warriors and poets. This duality is essential for healthy masculinity. The Impact on Daughters Craig highlights the unique role fathers play in their daughters' lives. Fathers are their daughters' first love and set the standard for future relationships. A father's affirmation and love help daughters develop a strong sense of self-worth. Fathers must pursue their daughters' hearts, showing them they are valued and cherished. Advice for New Dads Craig offers practical advice for new dads, encouraging them to seek help and work on themselves. He stresses the importance of supporting their partners and maintaining a strong marital relationship. Fathers must be loving, nurturing, and present, building a solid foundation for their children's future. Listeners should tune in to this episode to gain valuable insights into the crucial role of fathers. Craig Wilkinson's wisdom and experience provide practical advice for new dads and highlight the importance of fatherhood. This episode offers a blend of inspiration and practical tips, making it an essential listen for parents and those interested in family dynamics.
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the fascinating world of your childs sensory personality and their impact on early childhood development. Meg Faure, a renowned occupational therapist and infant specialist, delves into how sensory personalities shape children's developmental journeys. Joined by co-host Tove Gant, the podcast unpacks the different sensory personalities, how they influence behavior, and how parents can support their children effectively. Understanding Sensory Personalities Meg introduces the concept of sensory personalities, explaining that they are ways our brains respond to sensory information. She categorizes these personalities into four types: settled, social butterfly, sensitive, and slow to warm up. Each type has unique characteristics and behaviors. Nature vs. Nurture in Sensory Development The discussion explores whether sensory personalities are innate or influenced by environment. Meg explains that genetics, prenatal conditions, and early life experiences all play roles. Environmental factors like household dynamics and parental behavior also significantly impact sensory thresholds and responses. Impact on Early Development Meg details how sensory personalities affect early developmental milestones. For example, settled babies are often laid-back and easy-going. Social butterflies seek sensory stimulation and social interaction, sometimes overwhelming themselves and others. Sensitive babies react strongly to sensory input, while slow to warm up children are cautious and avoidant. The Role of Parents in Co-Regulation Meg emphasizes the importance of parents acting as co-regulators for their children. She suggests strategies like creating a calm environment and using clear, predictable routines. Parents should also understand their own sensory personalities to better support their children. Goodness of Fit The concept of "goodness of fit" is discussed, highlighting the importance of aligning parenting approaches with a child's sensory needs. A well-matched environment helps children thrive. Conversely, mismatches can lead to developmental challenges or heightened sensitivity. Therapeutic Interventions Meg briefly touches on the need for professional intervention when sensory issues become severe. Sensory integration therapy can be beneficial for children with extreme sensitivities or those on the autism spectrum. The episode provides valuable insights and practical advice for parents navigating the complexities of early childhood development. This episode offers a deep dive into how sensory personalities shape children's growth and behavior. Meg Faure's expert guidance helps parents create supportive environments tailored to their children's unique needs. By understanding these concepts, parents can foster healthier, happier development in their little ones.