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With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we continue our discussion with Natalie Hoffman. Natalie is the author of, “Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual abuse,” and “All the Scary Little Gods.” She's also the host of the Flying Free Podcast. She is a passionate advocate for Christian women in abusive homes and churches. Through the Flying Free Sisterhood, she empowers Christian women to use their voices and gifts for their spiritual, emotional, and physical wellbeing. We Will be Discussing: Discussion around the roles within a system with emotional and spiritual abuse. If she chooses, how can she shift her role? Lyschel's wrestle and decision What does the path from emotional and spiritual abuse look like? Resources mentioned in this show: “Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse” “All The Scary Little Gods: A Memoir” Flying Free Sisterhood Community Episode 59: “So What, Lord?”

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're joined by one of our favorite guests, Cindy Sharkey—a nurse and expert on the female body. Cindy dives into the topic of perimenopause, sharing essential information every couple (both husbands and wives) should know, along with practical tips to navigate this season of life while keeping intimacy strong. Statistics show that sex can actually become even better for couples over the age of 50, so don't let this stage hold you back. There's so much hope—and potential—for an amazing intimate life during and after perimenopause!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of Cogitations, Tony Bruin explores what it truly means to walk in the light of Christ. Drawing from John 8:12, 1 John 1, and Daniel 7:28, Tony unpacks how spiritual light and spiritual life are inseparable. He outlines how genuine fellowship with God requires faithful obedience, how ongoing cleansing comes through Christ's blood, and how walking “light-adjacent” is a dangerous deception.Alongside the main lesson, Tony addresses real-world challenges: the misuse of shame, moral confusion in modern Christianity, gender roles in marriage, and the implications of abandoning biblical truth for cultural comfort. With illustrations from the lathe, the shower, and even Crocodile Dundee, this episode challenges listeners to step into the light—and stay there.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview01:03 Community Engagement and Support02:49 Technical Issues and Solutions06:35 Walking in the Light: Introduction10:26 Walking in the Light: Fellowship with God and His People15:21 Walking in the Light: Having the Light of Life19:22 Walking in the Light: Obedience and Cleansing25:17 Conclusion and Call to Action26:55 Comments and Interaction28:10 The Misguided Paths of Modern Men28:48 The Hypocrisy of Modern Christian Women30:13 The Tale of the Bat: A Lesson on Hypocrisy33:47 The Role of Shame in Christian Life34:47 The Modern Marriage Dilemma44:37 The Patriarchy and Gender Roles46:17 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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In this special Mother's Day episode, Dr. Kim Kimberling sits down with bestselling author Melanie Shankle to talk about her latest book, Here Be Dragons. Together, they unpack the complexities of generational trauma and explore what it means to break old cycles in order to build a new legacy of healthy relationships. It's a conversation that's honest, refreshing, and full of humor. Whether you're a mother or not, this episode has something for you! Episode highlights include:  Generational trauma affects emotional growth and relationships. Self-worth can be deeply impacted by parental relationships. Humor can be a coping mechanism for deeper issues. Recognizing unhealthy patterns is crucial for personal growth. Parenting requires intentionality and awareness of past traumas. Melanie embraced her daughter's individuality instead of molding her. Healing can come from being the parent you wished you had. True love is built on friendship and authenticity. Identifying generational trauma requires honest self-assessment. Creating a positive legacy is essential for future generations. God's timing is perfect in relationships. Healing is a journey that takes baby steps. There can be beauty in the ashes of our past. Couples Conversation Guide:    Main takeaway:  If you were raised in the midst of unhealthy relationships, take heart—there is hope in Christ for a better future. Healing from past wounds opens the door to the freedom and joy of healthy, life-giving relationships. Along the journey, boundaries will protect your peace, forgiveness will soften your heart, and Christ must remain the foundation of it all.   Questions to Discuss:  What messages or behaviors from our families growing up do we find ourselves repeating—intentionally or not—in our relationship or with our children?   When we face conflict or stress, do our reactions feel like our own—or do they echo how our parents or caregivers responded?   Are there parts of our past—such as experiences of neglect, abuse, shame, or loss—that we haven't fully processed and might be impacting how we show up for each other and our children?   What do you hope your legacy will be?   Quotes from today's episode: "It's okay to not be perfect." “You've gotta have your truthtellers” “There are things we may not see as big, but they become big.”  “I always deflected with humor because I didn't want to feel anything too deeply.”  “They've achieved all these things that the world says is success, but they're still empty.”  “It's so healing to be the thing in someone else's life that you wish you would have had in your own.”  “I didn't get to have that mother, but I get to be that mother.” “There is something so beneficial about having someone who's not your friend, validate some of the experiences you've been through.”  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Self Check Up Guide as an opportunity for honest self reflection.  Melanie Shankle's Here Be Dragons Listen to Melanie on her wildly popular podcast The Big Boo Cast If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources for families- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!  

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we welcome Natalie Hoffman to the podcast. Natalie is the author of, “Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual abuse,” and “All the Scary Little Gods.” She's also the host of the Flying Free Podcast. She is a passionate advocate for Christian women in abusive homes and churches. Through the Flying Free Sisterhood, she empowers Christian women to use their voices and gifts for their spiritual, emotional, and physical wellbeing. We Will be Discussing: Can you share the key signs of covert emotional and spiritual abuse?  How can women see these subtle tactics in their marriage or environment? Has he always been this way and I just didn't see it? What are some of the key things you need that an abusive relationship cannot provide? What hope can we offer our listeners? Resources mentioned in this show: Emotional Abuse Quiz Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse All the Scary Little Gods: A Memoir Natalie's Website, Flying Free Now

Have you ever initiated with your spouse only to be denied time and time again? In this fun lighthearted episode, we share the ways to "successfully" initiate with your spouse, and the fun ways to do so!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us a textLet's talk about the conversation that everyone tiptoes around—but desperately needs to have.Why is it so easy for some wives to submit to their boss, their pastor, their friends… yet struggle to submit to the one man God called them to honor—their husband?

In this special Mother's Day episode, Dr. Kim Kimberling sits down with bestselling author Melanie Shankle to talk about her latest book, Here Be Dragons. Together, they unpack the complexities of generational trauma and explore what it means to break old cycles in order to build a new legacy of healthy relationships. It's a conversation that's honest, refreshing, and full of humor. Whether you're a mother or not, this episode has something for you! Episode highlights include:  Generational trauma affects emotional growth and relationships. Self-worth can be deeply impacted by parental relationships. Humor can be a coping mechanism for deeper issues. Recognizing unhealthy patterns is crucial for personal growth. Parenting requires intentionality and awareness of past traumas. Melanie embraced her daughter's individuality instead of molding her. Healing can come from being the parent you wished you had. True love is built on friendship and authenticity. Identifying generational trauma requires honest self-assessment. Creating a positive legacy is essential for future generations. God's timing is perfect in relationships. Healing is a journey that takes baby steps. There can be beauty in the ashes of our past. Couples Conversation Guide:    Main takeaway:  If you were raised in the midst of unhealthy relationships, take heart—there is hope in Christ for a better future. Healing from past wounds opens the door to the freedom and joy of healthy, life-giving relationships. Along the journey, boundaries will protect your peace, forgiveness will soften your heart, and Christ must remain the foundation of it all.   Questions to Discuss:  What messages or behaviors from our families growing up do we find ourselves repeating—intentionally or not—in our relationship or with our children?   When we face conflict or stress, do our reactions feel like our own—or do they echo how our parents or caregivers responded?   Are there parts of our past—such as experiences of neglect, abuse, shame, or loss—that we haven't fully processed and might be impacting how we show up for each other and our children?   What do you hope your legacy will be?   Quotes from today's episode: "It's okay to not be perfect." “You've gotta have your truthtellers” “There are things we may not see as big, but they become big.”  “I always deflected with humor because I didn't want to feel anything too deeply.”  “They've achieved all these things that the world says is success, but they're still empty.”  “It's so healing to be the thing in someone else's life that you wish you would have had in your own.”  “I didn't get to have that mother, but I get to be that mother.” “There is something so beneficial about having someone who's not your friend, validate some of the experiences you've been through.”  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Self Check Up Guide as an opportunity for honest self reflection.  Melanie Shankle's Here Be Dragons Listen to Melanie on her wildly popular podcast The Big Boo Cast If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources for families- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!  

In this episode of the For The Gospel Podcast, Costi Hinn kicks off a new series on marriage by walking through nine biblical keys to strengthen your marriage. Whether you're currently married, engaged, dating, single, or even widowed or divorced, this episode offers timeless wisdom grounded in God's Word. Learn how prayer, forgiveness, communication, intimacy, and more can fortify and transform your marriage.

Unhappy, Unheard, Uncorrected: When Churches Fail Women by Telling Them What They Want to Hear

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're joined by Nate Whitson, the founder of Get in the Fight—an impactful organization dedicated to helping men become better husbands, fathers, and leaders in their homes and communities. Nate shares the four key attributes that define a great husband and explains how mastering these traits can transform your marriage and elevate your intimate connection. Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship, grow as a man, or create a deeper emotional and physical bond with your spouse, this episode is packed with powerful insight and encouragement. Don't miss this inspiring and practical conversation!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us a textThis one's for the wife who's striving, surviving, and secretly wondering if she's the problem. You're doing all the things—reading the books, saying the prayers, holding it together—and still feeling lost, tired, and unseen.In this episode, I want you to know: I see you. I get it. I've been there.But I love you too much to leave you there.We're talking about what it means to move from self-reliance to surrender, from high-functioning anxiety to holy peace. Because true transformation doesn't happen when we finally figure it all out—it happens when we lay it all down.This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about finally letting God carry what you were never meant to hold. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

We're excited to launch a brand-new format for the Awesome Marriage Podcast—and with it, introduce a highly requested new co-host: Mrs. Nancy Kimberling! In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy Kimberling take you on a heartfelt journey through the story of their relationship, from their blind date to their early years of marriage and parenting, all the way to the joy of becoming great-grandparents. Their marriage hasn't been without its challenges, but what's carried them through it all is a decision they made early on: to keep God at the center of everything. Their wisdom, authenticity, and love for each other will make them one of your favorite couples to learn from. We pray this episode encourages and blesses your marriage.   Episode Takeaways: No matter how your marriage starts, everything changes when you invite the Lord in. He can transform the direction of your relationship in powerful ways. Building a strong, healthy marriage and family takes intentional effort and regular reflection on what's working—and what's not. Join the Kimberlings for an honest, up-close look at every season of marriage. Questions to Discuss:  When's the last time you reflected on where and when your relationship began? What scripture could you hold on to to help anchor your marriage to Christ?  What is keeping your marriage from moving in the direction you want it to move? Quotes: “We had fights and I thought what is going on, I made a mistake.” “You didn't get the picket fence” “I could have been the fun dad and still done discipline” “God taught us He cares about everything” “The more we brought Him into our conversations, our decisions. He was there. To guide us and to help us.  “It's saved our marriage.”  “God was there when they got married, and He's still there, and they made a covenant before Him and it matters.”  “We took divorce off the table and we kept it off the table.” “The most important thing to do in marriage is prayer.” “It's so important to have godly couples who are older than you and come alongside of you with godly wisdom.” “It's so important to have a village, a tribe, a life group to do life with.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to puruse the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

Can a strong marriage actually lead to greater financial success? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore how a thriving relationship can often produce greater financial success in life, and the reasons why it often does.Couples who are emotionally, physically, and spiritually connected often find they're more aligned in their goals, values, and daily decisions. This unity leads to smarter financial choices, better communication about money, and a shared vision for the future. Instead of working against each other, you're building something together—and that creates momentum not just in your relationship, but in your finances too.This episode will help you see how a good marriage impacts every area of your life, including your ability to succeed financially.Tune in to discover why investing in your marriage may be one of the smartest financial decisions you'll ever make!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We're excited to launch a brand-new format for the Awesome Marriage Podcast—and with it, introduce a highly requested new co-host: Mrs. Nancy Kimberling! In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy Kimberling take you on a heartfelt journey through the story of their relationship, from their blind date to their early years of marriage and parenting, all the way to the joy of becoming great-grandparents. Their marriage hasn't been without its challenges, but what's carried them through it all is a decision they made early on: to keep God at the center of everything. Their wisdom, authenticity, and love for each other will make them one of your favorite couples to learn from. We pray this episode encourages and blesses your marriage.   Episode Takeaways: No matter how your marriage starts, everything changes when you invite the Lord in. He can transform the direction of your relationship in powerful ways. Building a strong, healthy marriage and family takes intentional effort and regular reflection on what's working—and what's not. Join the Kimberlings for an honest, up-close look at every season of marriage. Questions to Discuss:  When's the last time you reflected on where and when your relationship began? What scripture could you hold on to to help anchor your marriage to Christ?  What is keeping your marriage from moving in the direction you want it to move? Quotes: “We had fights and I thought what is going on, I made a mistake.” “You didn't get the picket fence” “I could have been the fun dad and still done discipline” “God taught us He cares about everything” “The more we brought Him into our conversations, our decisions. He was there. To guide us and to help us.  “It's saved our marriage.”  “God was there when they got married, and He's still there, and they made a covenant before Him and it matters.”  “We took divorce off the table and we kept it off the table.” “The most important thing to do in marriage is prayer.” “It's so important to have godly couples who are older than you and come alongside of you with godly wisdom.” “It's so important to have a village, a tribe, a life group to do life with.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to puruse the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

In this episode with Nate Whitson, we dive into the harmful effects of pornography and why it can be so damaging to marriages—often leading to deeper and even more disturbing issues. Whether you're struggling with porn or simply want to better understand its impact, this episode is eye-opening and explains why pornography should be avoided like the plague. If you are struggling with porn, we also want you to know there is hope!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

When life gets overwhelming—whether it's from busyness, health struggles, or a hard season—it's easy to let your marriage quietly slip to the back burner. In today's episode, we're talking about why putting first things first matters more than ever when you're under pressure. We'll explore the hidden costs of busyness, how to recognize when it's time to say "no" to good things to protect the best things, and why you must be intentional about hearing from God in every season. Plus, we'll share practical steps to help you and your spouse stay connected, even when life feels heavy. If you're feeling stretched thin, stressed out, or spiritually distant, this conversation is for you.  

Send us a textYou can't pray for peace while living in chaos.This episode isn't just for wives—it's for both of you. For the successful but emotionally immature husband who thinks leading means controlling, and for the broken wife who's been stuck in survival, trying to hold it all together.We're going in on:Why emotional maturity is the key to real connection.How success in business doesn't equal success at home.What it looks like to stop blaming and start healing—together.God's design for emotional regulation, self-control, and peace that doesn't depend on circumstances.If you're tired of the same arguments, the distance, and the silent tension that never really lifts—this is for you. It's time to stop the chaos and choose growth.Because peace isn't just something you pray for—it's something you live. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

In this episode of The Reformed Brotherhood, Jesse Schwamb dives deep into the rich and challenging teachings of Colossians 3:18–4:1 on Christian household ethics. With Tony absent, Jesse takes the reins to explore the revolutionary and countercultural aspects of Paul's instructions to wives, husbands, children, and slaves. He emphasizes how these teachings, though often misunderstood or misapplied, are deeply rooted in the lordship of Christ and the call for submission, love, and service within the family structure. Jesse begins by highlighting the groundbreaking nature of Paul's acknowledgment of women, children, and slaves in a societal context where these groups often held little to no value. Paul's direct address to these groups affirms their inherent worth as image-bearers of God. Jesse also challenges listeners to see how Paul's instructions to men, particularly husbands and fathers, subvert the cultural norms of the time by calling them to love and serve their families sacrificially, rather than exercising dominance. The discussion extends to the broader implications of Paul's teaching, focusing on how Christ's lordship should permeate every aspect of family life. Jesse draws attention to the transformative power of living out these principles in modern Christian households, urging listeners to embrace submission and service not as burdens, but as acts of worship and reverence for Christ. Key Points: Paul's Revolutionary Address to Marginalized Groups: Paul affirms the value of women, children, and slaves by addressing them directly, which was unprecedented in the cultural context of the Roman Empire. The Call for Husbands to Love and Serve: Paul challenges traditional male authority by instructing husbands and fathers to lead with love and avoid harshness, reflecting Christ's sacrificial love. Christ-Centered Family Dynamics: All family relationships are to be oriented around Christ's lordship, emphasizing submission and service as acts of worship. The Surprising Ethics of Slavery: While acknowledging the existence of slavery in the Roman world, Paul subverts its norms by reminding masters of their accountability to their own Master in heaven. Questions for Reflection: How does Paul's affirmation of marginalized groups in Colossians challenge societal norms, both in his time and today? In what ways does the call for husbands to love their wives mirror Christ's love for the Church? How can we ensure that Christ remains at the center of our family relationships and everyday interactions? What does submission look like in a modern Christian household, and how can it reflect reverence for Christ?

In this episode, we open up about what the first year and a half of marriage has really been like — and let's just say, we've learned a lot — sometimes the hard way. We're sharing the real and funny lessons God's been teaching us, the mistakes we made (so maybe you can avoid them!), and some honest advice we wish we had before getting married. Marriage is a gift from God and we hopefully help you make it easier with today's podcast!! Thanks to Our Sponsors ReliefBand: Head to Reliefband.com and use promo code HEALTHY to receive 20% off plus free shipping. CRU: Simply text HEALTHY to 71326 to help today. Fatty 15: get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/HEALTHY and use code HEALTHY at checkout. ORDER MY BOOK! - https://jeanineamapola.com/book Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy: https://www.instagram.com/HappyandHealthyPodcast/ Jeanine: https://www.instagram.com/jeanineamapola/ Jeanine and Kaleb: https://www.instagram.com/jeanineandkaleb/ Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyandhealthypodcast Jeanine: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeanineamapola #firstyearofmarriage #ChristianMarriage #marriageadvice #newlywedlife #faithandmarriage #relationshipadvice #youngcouple #godlymarriage #marriagetips #marriagelessons Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're tackling a topic that's kept too many women trapped in painful marriages: divorce. If you've ever been told "God hates divorce" or made to feel like leaving your abusive husband is somehow worse than what he's doing to you, this episode is specifically for you.We'll dig into some fascinating research by Dr. Valerie Hobbs on how conservative Christian sermons frame divorce - and let me tell you, what's being preached often doesn't match reality. Here's what you'll discover in this episode:The surprising biblical truth about divorce, including the fact that God Himself got a divorce (Jeremiah 3:8) and what this means for women in harmful marriagesHow common Bible verses about divorce are routinely misinterpreted and weaponized against women seeking safety and freedomThe shocking difference between why women initiate divorce (abuse, infidelity, and substance abuse) versus men's reasons (falling out of love, different lifestyles)How the ancient marriage certificate (ketubah) actually protected women's rights and gave them grounds for divorce - completely changing how we should understand Jesus' teachingsThis isn't just theological debate - this is about real women making heart-wrenching decisions every day. I've walked this path myself, and I know the spiritual anguish of believing God wants you to stay in a destructive marriage.If you're questioning what you've been taught about divorce, experiencing emotional or spiritual abuse, or supporting someone who is, please listen to this episode. You'll discover that God cares about your emotional and spiritual safety and wellbeing, and that leaving an abusive marriage just might be the most faithful thing you can do.Read the show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources: Dr. Valerie Hobbs' groundbreaking study that I used for this episode, "The Discourse of Divorce in Conservative Christian Sermons."Some related Flying Free Podcast episodes you may be interested in: “God Doesn't Hate ALL Divorce,” “How Do I Know if Divorce Is the Right Choice for Me?” and “How To Tell Your Kids You're Getting Divorced.” 

In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Dr. Kim sits down with Jimmy Rollins to unpack the real-life highs and lows of marriage. They dive into why communication, forgiveness, and a strong support system are so crucial—and how those things have played out in their own lives. From the power of simple daily appreciations to creating a safe space for open conversations, Jimmy and Dr. Kim get real about what it takes to build (and rebuild) a strong relationship. They also reflect on how easy it is to chase success in the wrong places—and how to shift the focus back to what matters most. Whether you're in a great season or struggling to find your footing, this episode is full of practical wisdom and encouragement to help you grow and heal in your marriage. Episode Takeaways: Every marriage is hard and requires effort. Forgiveness is a decision, while reconciliation is a process. Daily appreciation can reignite connection in marriage. Creating a safe space is essential for open communication. Winning at the wrong things can harm your marriage. Community support is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. It's important to examine your own behavior in marriage. Practical steps can lead to significant changes in relationships. Couples should seek resources and mentorship for guidance. The goal in marriage is to think together, not alike.   Questions to Discuss:  Are there areas of your marriage you are trying to ignore? Are there areas you are trying to change your spouse? How would you rate the community you have to support your marriage? What one thing can you say “no” to today, so that you have more margin to say “yes”  in your marriage.    Quotes: "Forgiveness is a decision." "Community is what keeps us sober." "You're not in it by yourself." "Every marriage is hard." "The goal is not to think alike." "The best days are ahead of us."   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our FREE Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide to keep intentionally winning in your marriage! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you prioritize your marriage. Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Traffic Signs and Your Marriage: Part 1 If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”

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Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It—the podcast that helps Christian married couples fix communication and build deeper connection. In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack attachment theory, focusing on the anxious attachment style and how to set healthy boundaries in marriage.   Learn how childhood wounds impact adult relationships, what to expect when dealing with anxious partners, and how faith, communication, and consistency can bring healing. With practical examples, biblical wisdom, and tools you can apply right now, this episode offers hope and direction for couples navigating conflict and emotional intensity.  

In this opening interview of the "Stories of Transformation" series, we hear from John and Dawn Mein about their faith journey. They share how they met in high school, reconnected years later, and built a Christ-centered marriage and family. The couple discusses navigating a multi-racial relationship, parenting decisions in a digital age, and finding God's purpose in their work. Their story demonstrates how God transforms lives through relationships, parenting, and everyday moments of faith. #StoriesOfTransformation, #FaithJourney, #ChristianMarriage, #ParentingWithFaith, #MultiracialFamily, #ChristianLiving, #GodAtWork, #FamilyFaith, #TransformationStories, #ChristCenteredRelationships

Send us a textFor a long time, I believed if I could just be what he wanted—fun enough, relaxed enough, “cool wife” enough—we'd feel connected again.So I performed. I drank when I didn't want to. Went places that broke my heart. Said yes when my nervous system was screaming no.I was surviving, not living. And it created a false sense of connection that left me buried in shame and exhaustion.In this episode, I'm getting real about:How performance-based love shows up in marriageWhat it cost me (and what it didn't heal)How I started showing up rooted, regulated, and truly me againWhat presence and true intimacy actually requireIf you've ever lost yourself trying to be what someone else needed, this one's for you.It's not about becoming something else. It's about returning to who God made you to be. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

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Main takeaway:  Every relationship can be prone to drifting if we aren't paying attention, and our marriage relationship is no exception. In this episode Dr. Kim and Lindsay talk about how easy it is to begin prioritizing good things over the best things, and how those small compromises lead to big disconnect in marriage.  This episode will help you recognize the signs of drift and begin to fight back against it! Recognizing the signs of drifting is crucial for couples. Prioritizing time together is essential to prevent drifting. Good things can distract from nurturing the marriage. Drifting can happen gradually without realization. Communication and emotional intimacy are key to a strong marriage. Common signs of drifting include changes in communication and intimacy. Non-sexual physical touch can enhance emotional intimacy. It's important to address issues early before they become entrenched patterns. Questions to Discuss:  Is your marriage reflected on your calendar? When's the last time you encouraged your spouse with your words? Do you feel pressure to say yes to things outside of your marriage that in turn forces you to say no to things that would grow your marriage? Are you protecting your energy so that you make the most of the time with your spouse? What's one thing you can do today to show your spouse you're pursuing your marriage? Quotes: “You drift without even realizing it.” “Sometimes good things get in the way of the most important things” “If you're drifting away you're more vulnerable to sin.” “You have to choose the best over the good.” “There are things I could have done different.” “In our culture, life gets in the way and we don't even think about it.” “I've always got to know that Nancy is a gift, and I have to embrace that gift, and treat her like a gift every day.” “Drifting happens gradually.” “Show me where you have your marriage on your calendar.” “It's on my calendar now.” “It's not going great, but everyone's just accepting it.” “You can do something!” “Make sure you go to somebody who can be objective and is for your marriage.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our FREE Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide to help keep the connection and fight the drift! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you fight the drift in marriage? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Pursuing Your Spouse in Marriage Pt 1 If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”

We talk quite a bit about all the barriers that keep couples from having the intimacy and connection they desire. These include, kids, technology, busyness, work, hobbies and so many other distractions. In this episode, we share more wisdom that Greg and Julie Gorman shared recently at the 2025 Intimacy and Adventure Retreat about barriers that keep couples from connecting, and of course what we can do about it.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Do actual men really say that to women? And what is 'happy' anyway? If my work has been helpful to you in any way, feel free to leave a little tip: ⁠https://www.venmo.com/u/Elisabeth-KleinFisherFREE (OR SUPER AFFORDABLE) RESOURCES:in a difficult marriage:∂ if you're not safe or if you or your childrenare being physically or sexually hurt, please set up a safety plan (⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠) and contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233)∂ confidential marriage assessment: ⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠∂ 7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠∂ Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠∂ Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠separated or divorced or single mom:∂ Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the Endof a Christian Marriage book: ⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠∂ Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠∂ Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠∂ all other courses: https://bit.ly/wholeness-courses

Does sex in your marriage ever feel like a power struggle? You're not alone. Whether you're the partner who wants sex more often or the one who wants it less, the imbalance can create tension, guilt, and frustration on both sides. In my normal open and honest way, we are going to discuss why the lower-desire partner often ends up in control of the sexual rhythm in a relationship. We'll dive into the emotional weight both partners carry, explore how this dynamic affects connection, and share practical ways to shift from a tug-of-war into a true partnership. If you're ready to stop feeling powerless or pressured and start working with your spouse instead of against them, don't miss this episode.

We recently wrapped up our Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat, and it was truly an incredible experience! A couple of weeks later, we're still reflecting on the powerful moments and deep connections that were made.Greg and Julie are world-renowned coaches—easily some of the most inspiring and insightful people we've ever had the privilege of learning from. Every time they speak, they share an incredible depth of wisdom and knowledge that resonates deeply with couples striving for a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.This year, we made sure to write down some of their most impactful insights, and in this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're excited to share them with you. Get ready for some wisdom that could transform your marriage!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us a textAfter a long pause and a whole lot of growth, I'm back behind the mic—this time with more fire, more freedom, and a whole new focus.In this first episode of the new season of The Chelsey Holm Podcast, I'm sharing why I stepped away, what's been stirring in my heart, and where God's leading this next chapter of conversations. Spoiler alert: we're going deep—into marriage, motherhood, identity, nervous system healing, real intimacy, and faith-rooted restoration.If you've ever tried to fix your marriage by becoming someone you're not, if you've silently carried shame or exhaustion trying to keep everything afloat, or if you're craving truth that sets you free—not just trendy advice—you're in the right place.This podcast is now fully aligned with the woman I am, the wife I've become, and the mission God's given me—to help high-functioning Christian women come home to themselves, their marriage, and most importantly, to Him.Let's begin. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

In this episode of the Awesome Marriage podcast, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the importance of resolving conflict in a faith-centered, biblical way. They debunk the myth that Christian couples do not experience conflict and emphasize that conflict can lead to growth and deeper intimacy in relationships. Learn the biblical principles for handling conflict, practical steps for effective communication, and the significance of humility and selflessness in marriage.   Episode highlights include: Timeouts can help manage heated discussions. Keeping short accounts prevents resentment from building up. Using the silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation. Bringing up past conflicts as weapons is unhealthy for marriage. Involving others in conflicts before addressing them with your spouse can create triangles of conflict. Taking responsibility for one's actions is crucial in resolving conflicts. Prayer is a powerful tool for maintaining a healthy marriage. Biblical principles provide a framework for resolving conflicts effectively.   Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  You will experience conflict with your spouse, and when you do it's important to keep the Lord at the center of the conversation. Remember your spouse is not your enemy and words shouldn't be your weapon. Acknowledge your part and be quick to forgive.    Questions to Discuss:  Which area of conflict resolution do you need the most help in- bringing up the past, resorting to the silent treatment, or taking responsibility for your part? Have you brought that struggle to the Lord and invited Him into the conflict in your marriage?    QUOTES  Conflict is normal and if done right can help our marriage grow. Even though we are both seeking to follow Christ, we are human. If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security. Having a marriage that's not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy. When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too. I can't meet all her needs, but God can. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you navigate conflict? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Fighting for Your Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources just for handling conflict in your marriage?- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

We took a poll with our audience, and the results were shocking—so many spouses feel like they aren't receiving the love and affection they desire in their marriage! Love and affection often look different for men and women, and when we experience and express love in different ways, it can create challenges in truly connecting with our spouse.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the eye-opening poll results, share insightful comments from our audience, and discuss simple yet powerful ways couples can show love and affection to each other in ways that truly resonate. Don't miss this important conversation—it could transform the way you connect with your spouse!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

THIS IS PART TWO OF A 2-PART PODCAST EPISODE:In this heartfelt episode, Tayler and her sister, Michelle Hess, a courageous firefighter spouse, share the real and raw journey of life behind the scenes. From the long shifts and missed holidays to the quiet moments of worry and faith, she opens up about the emotional toll, the unseen battles, and the strength it takes to keep a family grounded while loving someone who runs toward danger. You'll hear about the struggles that have tested her resilience, the community that's helped her stay anchored, and the practical and spiritual tools that have carried her through. Whether you're a first responder family or simply looking for encouragement in a hard season, this episode is a powerful reminder that you're not alone—and that God meets us in the fire.-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------WS INSTAGRAMWS FACEBOOKContact Us

What do you do when trust is shattered, but no one around you seems to take your pain seriously? In today's deeply honest and hope-filled episode, Leslie sits down with Nick Stumbo, former pastor and Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, who opens up about his personal battle with pornography—and the profound impact it had on his wife, his marriage, and his ministry. Nick's story isn't just one of addiction—it's about healing, honesty, and hope when everything seems lost. Together, Leslie and Nick dismantle toxic messaging that pressures wives to “just forgive” or “have more sex,” and instead offer a biblical and brain-based path toward real recovery—one that honors both the betrayed and the struggler. If you or someone you love is silently suffering in a marriage affected by pornography, this episode will remind you: You're not alone, and your healing matters.  

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about one of the biggest challenges couples face — misaligned priorities. For many marriages, what starts as small shifts in focus can quickly create distance and tension. Maybe a wife unintentionally places the kids above her husband, or a husband becomes so focused on his career that his wife starts feeling neglected. When your priorities no longer align, it can leave your relationship feeling disconnected — and even put your marriage at risk.We'll discuss why keeping your priorities in check is crucial and how those priorities can change depending on your season of life. For most Christian couples, the ideal order is God, marriage, kids, career, and so on — but what happens when that balance gets thrown off?Tune in as we share practical ways to realign your priorities, communicate openly with your spouse, and create a relationship that feels secure, fulfilling, and deeply connected. Don't miss this important conversation!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Stress is inevitable, but it doesn't have to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into how stress impacts both emotional and physical intimacy, sharing real responses from our audience about what happens in their marriages during stressful times.We'll discuss practical ways couples can stay connected even when life feels overwhelming, emphasizing the importance of intentionality, teamwork, and emotional awareness. Tune in for actionable strategies to strengthen your bond and keep intimacy alive, no matter what challenges come your way!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

THIS IS PART ONE OF A PART 2 PODCAST EPISODE:In this heartfelt episode, Tayler and her sister, Michelle Hess, a courageous firefighter spouse, share the real and raw journey of life behind the scenes. From the long shifts and missed holidays to the quiet moments of worry and faith, she opens up about the emotional toll, the unseen battles, and the strength it takes to keep a family grounded while loving someone who runs toward danger. You'll hear about the struggles that have tested her resilience, the community that's helped her stay anchored, and the practical and spiritual tools that have carried her through. Whether you're a first responder family or simply looking for encouragement in a hard season, this episode is a powerful reminder that you're not alone—and that God meets us in the fire.-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------WS INSTAGRAMWS FACEBOOKContact Us

Who can get in a sexy state of mind when they're dealing with the triple threat of emotional load, cognitive load, and the physical demands of partnership and parenting, too. Mental load inequity is now recognized as the leading source of relationship tension through research, but what can we do about that when not one but both partners feel equally burdened? In this enlightening conversation, we answer just that with relationship psychologist Dr. Morgan Cutlip (Type 9), as we explore the principles from her BRAND NEW book on a long-awaited topic, an already #1 Christian Marriage early marriage bestselling book "A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex." Drawing from her expertise in relationship psychology and her peacemaker perspective, Dr. Cutlip offers practical strategies for mental load sharing that honor each partner's strengths and abilities realistically. Discover why traditional approaches to division of labor often fail, how to recognize invisible contributions and specific communication tools that prevent resentment. Whether you're struggling with household management, parenting responsibilities, or emotional labor imbalance, this episode provides a framework for creating harmony without sacrificing anyone's well-being. Learn how a better share of responsibilities can lead not just to more equitable partnerships, but also to more fun, less resentment, and yes—even better sex. Watch on YouTube www.DrMorganCutlip.com If you're listening on our E + M podcast release date of Monday, April 7th, you can also use this to get the pre-order bonuses! https://drmorgancutlip.com/bs-preorder Get the new book, A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex here! https://a.co/d/g7e3qKv For more help discovering your relationship healing journey, visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Kim and Lindsay dive into a heartfelt conversation about the power of communication and unity in parenting. They talk about why it's so important for parents to be on the same page when it comes to raising their kids, facing challenges as a team, and setting a strong example through their own decision-making. Along the way, they explore how to navigate differences in parenting styles, adapt to the ever-changing needs of children as they grow, and lean on prayer for guidance in tough decisions. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  It's unrealistic to agree on everything in parenting. Children benefit from the security of united parents. It's important to filter parenting advice based on core beliefs. When you disagree, and you will, model respect for your spouse. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  Do you and your spouse struggle to stay on the same page while parenting your children? Are you handling disagreements in a way that adds to the chaos? In this episode, Dr. Kim and Lindsay discuss how to navigate the hard conversations, the power of differing perspectives, and the benefit of a strong relationship as an example to your children.    Questions to Discuss:  Are you and your spouse allowing parenting to divide or unite? In what ways can you better support your spouse in parenting? Have you and your spouse set aside time to discuss the goals you have for your children?    Quotes From this Episode: “There's no shortcut to communication." "Agreeing on core values is essential." "Set aside time to discuss your challenges." "Kids need security and stability."   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons.  Don't let porn teach your children about sex. Get equipped to have “The Sex Talk” If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources for families- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!  

When people hear the word "intimacy," they often think of sex — but there's a big difference between the two. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we break down what sets sexual intimacy apart from just sex and why it matters so much in your marriage.Sex can be purely physical — a moment of pleasure without deeper emotional connection. Sexual intimacy, on the other hand, is about closeness, vulnerability, and feeling truly connected to your spouse — both emotionally and physically.We'll discuss how building sexual intimacy can lead to better communication, deeper trust, and a stronger bond. It's about creating moments that leave you feeling loved, desired, and emotionally fulfilled — not just checking a box.If you've ever felt like something's missing in your intimate life or want to create deeper passion and connection with your spouse, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how shifting your focus from “just sex” to true sexual intimacy can transform your relationship!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Today we're talking about marriage - specifically, how Christian marriages might be missing the mark. I'm sitting down with Sheila Gregoire, a researcher who's spent years studying what actually makes relationships work. And here's something interesting: the biggest threat to marital satisfaction isn't what most people think. It's not sex or money - it's housework. Sheila isn't just another marriage author. She's surveyed 7,000 people to understand the dynamics of healthy relationships. Her work challenges a lot of the traditional evangelical advice that's been circulating for decades - advice that often creates more distance than connection. We're going to explore how Christian marriage books have sometimes gotten it wrong. How messages about leadership, submission, and roles can actually harm the very relationships they're trying to protect. We'll talk about what real partnership looks like, how couples can communicate better, and what it means to truly see each other. This conversation is about reimagining marriage - not as a power structure, but as a genuine partnership that reflects mutual respect and love. So if you're curious about building a healthier relationship, or if you're tired of the same old marriage advice, this episode is for you.Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind BareMarriage.com as well as a sought-after speaker and an award-winning author of nine books, including The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to make it healthy, evidence-based, and biblical. She and her husband, Keith, live in Ontario, Canada, near their two adult daughters and three grandbabies. Sheila also knits. Even in line at the grocery store.Sheila's Book:The Marriage You WantSheila's Recommendations:The Deep Rooted MarriageBecoming the Pastor's WifeSubscribe to Our Substack: Shifting CultureConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@allnations.usGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link belowShifting Culture Productions Support the show

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Marrying the right person is crucial for you and the calling on your life, as well as if you choose to have children. I was having a conversation with someone recently and he said "marry someone that loves God more than they love you," and it stuck with me. So today we are going to unpack that together. If you felt empowered by this episode, take a screenshot for your stories and tag Keenya on Instagram @keenyakelly. I would be honored to hear your takeaways and re-post your share!Important Links from the showUnderstanding your spiritual gifts is definitely one of the foundational things that every single Christian needs to know. If you'd like a quick and free spiritual quiz assessment to understand why and how God gifted you what you have in life click here https://keenyakelly.com/ministry/!Subscribe to our new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@youmeandjesusConnect with Keenya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keenyakelly/Connect with Keenya on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@keenyakellyConnect with Keenya on Twitter: https://twitter.com/keenyakellyFor more information on courses and resources: https://keenyakelly.com/Are you building a business and you want to know what God is saying to you about your business? Looking for strategy on what to do next with your business or market your business in a way that's Christ focused? Click the following link to book a creative consulting session to get a strategy together for your business that is faith focused: https://keenyakelly.com/creativeconsulting/

Did you know that regular sexual intimacy isn't just good for your relationship — it's great for your health too? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into the surprising science-backed benefits of sex.From reducing stress and boosting your immune system to improving heart health and enhancing sleep, sex plays a powerful role in your overall well-being. Plus, we'll share how a healthy sex life strengthens emotional connection, reduces pain, and even increases marital happiness... all back by statistics and studies!Whether you're looking to improve your health, deepen your connection, or just enjoy more meaningful intimacy, this episode is packed with insights you won't want to miss!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Alison talks with Sheila Wray Gregoire, groundbreaking author of The Great Sex Rescue. They confront harmful misconceptions about sexual intimacy within Christian marriages, amplifying the often-overlooked voices of women. Sheila shares powerful insights drawn from her extensive research involving over 20,000 Christian women, challenging damaging narratives and revealing startling truths about sexual satisfaction, obligation, and intimacy. You'll learn: * The 4 harmful teachings that negatively impact sexual intimacy * Why “sex as obligation” is so destructive for women * How to reframe your sex story with your spouse * Practical steps toward recovering true intimacy Sheila's compassionate yet bold approach offers hope, clarity, and practical wisdom for those longing to rewrite their sexual stories, reclaiming God's true design for intimacy. Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here. Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here. If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love: Episode 125: Recovering From Purity Culture: Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith with Dr. Camden Morgante Episode 126: Restoring Wonder & Play in Intimacy—Navigating Sexual Brokenness, Safety, and Vulnerability with Therapist Sam Jolman Thanks to our sponsors: Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today. Visit cozyearth.com and unlock an exclusive 35% off with code BESTOFYOU. Go to puritywoods.com/BESTOFYOU or enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout for an additional 10% off your first order. Go to birchliving.com/bestofyou for 20% off sitewide. Go to Quince.com/bestofyou for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Contact www.restoringthesoul.com and learn how their Intensive Counseling Process can jump start your journey to the place you want to be. As a special gift for The Best of You podcast listeners, visit www.restoringthesoul.com/bestofyou to download "5 Ways Unresolved Trauma May Be Derailing Your Relationship." Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices