Podcast appearances and mentions of christian marriage

We have social media content creators, advertisors, friends, and maybe family members present an idea of what motherhood is and how it should be lived.Very often, they miss the mark unless you were very blessed to have a good mom or female relatives who lived their calling to motherhood with joy.In this episode, I walk about the real meaning of motherhood, and why it is so important in the world, and in our own relationship with God.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Somewhere along the way, marriage advice got very good at one question: is this working for me? Scripture asks a different one. If your marriage belongs to God before it belongs to either of you, almost everything downstream changes, including the things nobody talks about out loud.In this episode we walk through ten ways a Christian marriage should actually look different from the one culture is selling, and we try to be honest about the places it gets uncomfortable. We start with the foundation, that our marriage was never really about us, and then get very practical: why divorce is not in our vocabulary, implicitly or explicitly. Why hedging your bets with separate accounts and a prenup quietly puts an exit on the table. Why we have full access to each other's phones and keep no secrets, even the twenty dollar ones. What it looks like to focus on your own God given role instead of auditing your spouse's. Why your marriage comes before your kids, and why that is a gift to them. How sex stops being a weapon, a reward, or a chore. And why we fight to reconcile instead of fighting to win. This one is a framework episode, so bring a notepad and let one of the ten do its work on you.In this episode:01:45 Number 1: our marriage was never really about us04:05 Number 2: divorce is not in our vocabulary, spoken or unspoken05:30 Don't let a temporary season lead to a permanent decision06:45 Hedging your bets, and what "trusting the Lord will provide" costs10:50 Number 3: your marriage comes before your kids12:35 Number 4: living out your God given roles, starting with your own16:00 The word ezer, and why "helper" never meant lesser17:30 Number 5: shared finances, no prenup, no plan B19:55 Number 6: full access to each other's phones22:05 Number 7: we don't keep secrets, including the small ones26:30 Why this only works when the standard goes both ways30:05 Number 8: we invite people into our marriage32:20 Number 9: sex is not a weapon, a reward, or a chore34:45 Number 10: we fight to reconcile, not to win36:00 This week's one degree shiftPick the one of these ten that made you shift in your seat, and do something about it this week. If this episode named something for you, share it with one couple who needs it, subscribe so you don't miss next week, and leave a review. It helps other couples find this Christian marriage podcast.

Raising well-behaved children is not about discovering the secret consequences that will finally get them to cooperate and behave.It isn't about time-outs or specific punishments.Well-behaved, cooperative children who listen the first time, respect your authority, are self-motivated and independent, and most of all happy, comes from parenting through virtues - teaching them the skills, the habits, the virtues that help them behave.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Is marriage an old-fashioned tradition that we should discard? Today, R.C. Sproul considers the origin of marriage to discover God's purpose for the relationship between husband and wife. Request R.C. Sproul's teaching series The Intimate Marriage on DVD with your donation. You can also download all 6 messages as well as the study guide: https://gift.renewingyourmind.org/   Live outside the U.S. and Canada? Download the teaching series the digital study guide with your donation: https://www.renewingyourmind.org/global   Meet Today's Teacher:   R.C. Sproul (1939–2017) was founder of Ligonier Ministries, first minister of preaching and teaching at Saint Andrew's Chapel, first president of Reformation Bible College, and executive editor of Tabletalk magazine. Renewing Your Mind is a donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts

This spicy Q&A episode gets honest about the stuff couples actually wrestle with: mutual orgasms, body image, exploring positions, and all the awkward sex questions people usually avoid. You asked, and we answered!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Fellatio episode Anatomy Episode Anal Sex episode part 1 Anal Sex episode part 2 Our Products: Yes No Maybe Freebie Orgasm Course Waitlist Resources: Passionista Flirtation Experiment Feeling Sexy Good Pictures Bad Pictures Christian Friendly Sex Positions website ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠Better Help⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 — Spicy Q&A: Smut, Porn, and Bedroom Ideas00:40 — Welcome, Instagram Update & Verse of the Day01:10 — Advice for Partners with Different Kink Levels04:20 — When Orgasm Feels Unequal06:26 — When a Spouse Doesn't Enjoy Oral Sex09:07 — Is Reading Smut Okay?11:44 — Is Anal Sex Okay in Christian Marriage?12:15 — Exploring New Positions as a Couple13:20 — Is Masturbation Okay?14:36 — Does a Man Need to Ejaculate Every Day?15:08 — Breast Augmentation, Aging & Body Image19:54 — Overcoming Selfishness in Marriage25:46 — Closing Prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your child's self-confidence and/ self-esteem is dependent on how he or she shows up for school every day. Make sure you're living these three important habits in your home for school success!Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoachingCheck out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

What does it mean to be a godly man in today's culture? And how should Christian men understand masculinity, marriage, fatherhood, leadership, and their identity in Christ?In this episode of the Bible and Theology Matters Podcast, Dr. Paul D. Weaver sits down with Paul Pettit, author of A Courageous Identity: Accepting the Call of Christ-Centered Masculinity, to discuss what biblical manhood looks like and how Christian men can pursue Christ-centered masculinity in a culture with competing visions of what it means to be a man.Dr. Pettit draws from Scripture, his years of mentoring young men, his work with fathers and husbands, and his experience teaching seminary students to explain why biblical masculinity is not about domination, passivity, or perfection—but about servant leadership, responsibility, courage, sacrifice, and Christlikeness.Together, they discuss:What Christ-centered masculinity actually meansThe difference between biblical masculinity and the world's competing views of manhoodHow Christian men should think about authority and servant leadershipWhy husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the churchBiblical roles and responsibilities within marriage and the familyWhy men must reject passivity and accept responsibilityHow fathers can model godly leadership for their sons and daughtersWhy becoming a godly man is about daily progress rather than perfectionThe importance of spiritual habits, Scripture, worship, and consistent investment in familyWhat biblical courage looks like in a culture increasingly opposed to Christian convictionsCommon struggles facing young men, including loneliness, pornography, drinking, vaping, and online gamblingHow men can overcome destructive patterns and unhealthy models of manhoodWhy it's never too late to become a better husband or fatherBreaking unhealthy generational patterns and leaving a better legacyWhy Christian men need brotherhood, mentorship, and accountabilityThe importance of having a "Paul," a "Barnabas," and a "Timothy" in our livesRather than pursuing perfection, Pettit encourages men to pursue Christlikeness—growing through daily habits, dependence on Christ, the work of the Holy Spirit, God's Word, and relationships with other believers.Whether you're a husband, father, young man, pastor, mentor, or someone seeking to better understand biblical manhood and Christian masculinity, this conversation offers a practical and Scripture-centered framework for thinking about what it means to live as a man of courage and conviction.Dynamic Dadshttps://dynamicdads.org/ Dynamic Dads is a nonprofit organization founded by Dr. Paul Pettit that equips and encourages fathers to become more intentional, involved, and Christ-centered leaders in their homes.

Have you ever wondered why your marriage feels harder than it should?You love your husband. You want more intimacy, emotional connection, romance, and desire. Yet every time things seem to improve, something pulls you backward.What if the greatest threat to your marriage isn't poor communication, lack of effort, or even low sex drive?What if it's a spiritual battle you can't see?In this episode of Midlife Marriage Makeover, we're talking about one of the most overlooked reasons Christian couples struggle with intimacy, connection, and desire. Marriage matters deeply to God—and because it matters to God, it becomes a target for the enemy.I'm sharing a very personal story about a spiritual battle I experienced during one of the sweetest seasons of my own marriage. Just when my husband and I were experiencing deeper connection, romance, and intimacy than we had in years, old shame, regret, and lies from my past suddenly resurfaced. What God showed me changed everything.In this episode you'll learn:• Why Satan attacks marriage, intimacy, and connection• The lies that quietly destroy emotional and physical closeness• How spiritual warfare affects your sex drive, desire, and marriage relationship• Why your husband is not the enemy• 4 ways faith helped me rebuild intimacy, connection, and desire in my own marriage• How prayer can transform the atmosphere of your marriageFriend, if you've been feeling disconnected, discouraged, lonely, or like your marriage isn't where you hoped it would be, this episode will remind you that you're not fighting alone.God is still in the business of restoring marriages, healing hearts, rebuilding intimacy, and renewing connection.

Sex can be one of the most powerful ways a husband and wife connect. When intimacy is approached in a healthy way, it can deepen emotional connection, build trust, increase affection, and strengthen your marriage in incredible ways.But the opposite can also be true. There are things couples can introduce into their sexual relationship that may seem harmless at first but can slowly create distance, hurt trust, or damage the marriage. That's one reason we receive SO MANY questions from couples asking, “Is this okay?” or “Is this something we should be doing in our marriage?”And honestly, some of these questions aren't easy to answer with a simple yes or no. Every couple has different backgrounds, experiences, values, and comfort levels. What may be healthy and enjoyable for one couple may not be right for another.So in this episode, we're talking about some of these difficult and sometimes uncomfortable questions and sharing the guidelines we use in our own marriage to determine whether something is going to bring us closer together—or potentially create distance.If you've ever wondered where the line is between what is healthy, helpful, and appropriate in the bedroom and what could ultimately hurt your relationship, this episode is for you.We'll give you practical questions and guidelines you can use to make those decisions for your own marriage, rather than simply following what everyone else says is “normal.”

Who are the people you lean on during life's ups and downs?In this episode, Stephanie Mina invites us to reflect on the importance of relationships and how true strength isn't about having the biggest circle, but the right one. Together, we'll explore the powerful wisdom behind Ecclesiastes 4:12 and learn how carefully choosing our “big 3” can lead us closer to God and to healthier, purpose-filled lives.Come join our community in prayer and devotion as we seek God's guidance for friendships that encourage, challenge, and keep us anchored in faith.Tap HERE to send us a text! Our podcast family is growing - introducing Men's Morning Devotional! Our dad, Steve Alessi, and all of our husbands are now hosting their own 5 minute devotionals every weekday - for men who want to become better husbands, fathers, and leaders! Listen, follow and subscribe here - MensMorningDevotional.comSupport the showNEW VIDEO EPISODES! You can watch our new video episodes on YouTube! Watch Our Video DevotionalsNEW TO MY MORNING DEVOTIONAL? We're so glad you're here! We're the Alessis, a ministry family working together in a church in Miami, FL, and we're so blessed to partner with the My Morning Devotional community and continue the great work done by the show's creator and our friend, Alison Delamota.We pray our personal reflections and devotions will empower you to grow your faith in God, and that you'll join us every morning in prayer! JOIN THE MMD COMMUNITYSubscribe to the show on this appShare with a friendJoin our newsletter Follow Us on ⁠Instagram⁠ and ⁠Facebook⁠⁠Leave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYEnjoy more podcasts from Metro Life Studios, including:The Family Business with The AlessisMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show Available on our Metro Life Studios app!Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Society is on an endless search for happiness, training us to believe that the next product, relationship, lifestyle, or change in circumstances will finally satisfy us. In today's episode of the MY Devotional Podcast, Dr. Michael Youssef explains why every earthly substitute eventually disappoints: we were created to find our joy and satisfaction in God alone. This truth applies not only to material things, but also to marriage and singleness. Singles should not believe a spouse will complete them, and married believers should not assume escape from difficulty will bring the happiness they long for. Paul understood the blessing of singleness as a life of undivided service to the Lord, while also affirming marriage as a gift of God for sanctification, companionship, and Christlike love. Dr. Youssef reminds us that contentment comes when God takes hold of our marriage, our singleness, and every season of life. The secret to peace is not getting our preferred circumstance—it is listening to God, obeying Him, and trusting that His will is good. When you face decisions, questions, challenges, or deep desires, begin by going to God's Word. Seek the wisdom of the Holy Spirit first, and allow godly counsel to confirm what He is teaching you. Whether married or single, contentment is found in discerning and following God's will for your life. Prayer: Lord, take hold of my life. I trust You with my situation, remembering You have ordained it and will bring good from it. I will put my hope in You and follow Your way. Lead me, Father. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen. “Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches” (1 Corinthians 7:17). Learn more in Dr. Michael A. Youssef's sermon Healthy Living in a Sick World, Called to Contentment in Christ: LISTEN NOW | WATCH NOW The voice you hear on the MY Devotional podcast is digitally generated with Dr. Youssef's permission. If today's devotional stirred a question, burden, or need for prayer, you don't have to walk through it alone.

Fire in the fireplace is warm, beautiful, and life-giving—but fire in the wrong place becomes destructive. In today's episode of the MY Devotional Podcast, Dr. Michael Youssef uses this picture to explain God's design for sexual intimacy: a good and holy gift to be enjoyed within the covenant of marriage. Paul reminds believers in 1 Corinthians that our bodies are not our own. We have been bought with the blood of Jesus Christ, set apart for God, and called to honor Him with our whole being. This means what we do with our bodies matters deeply to the Lord. Dr. Youssef turns to Paul's teaching in 1 Corinthians 7, where the apostle addressed a culture filled with sexual confusion, broken vows, distorted views of marriage, and false ideas about spirituality. Against that backdrop, Paul pointed back to God's wisdom from Genesis: man and woman were created to complement one another physically, emotionally, and spiritually in marriage. Within God's design, sexual intimacy is not shameful—it is a holy expression of covenant love, companionship, partnership, and selfless service between husband and wife. This devotional calls believers to reject the world's confusion, honor the Lord with their bodies, and receive God's good gifts according to His Word and His glory. Prayer: Lord, may I use my body in the way You have intended. Help me set it apart for Your will so that it might be a source of blessing. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.  “The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband” (1 Corinthians 7:3). Learn more in Dr. Michael A. Youssef's sermon Healthy Living in a Sick World, Honor God with Your Body: LISTEN NOW | WATCH NOW The voice you hear on the MY Devotional podcast is digitally generated with Dr. Youssef's permission. If today's devotional stirred a question, burden, or need for prayer, you don't have to walk through it alone.

Today on Uncommon Sense with Ginny Robinson, I'm addressing the divorcee community and I'm going straight to the Bible.Why does God say He hates divorce? What does Scripture actually teach about marriage, covenant, divorce, and the responsibilities of husbands and wives? And why have divorce rates become so incredibly high, particularly as wives increasingly initiate divorce over reasons that, from a biblical perspective, are trivial, selfish, or completely unbiblical?This is not a message designed to just shame people who have experienced divorce. It is a challenge to the culture that has normalized abandoning marriage whenever things become difficult, inconvenient, or uncomfortable. We need to be willing to distinguish between legitimate biblical grounds for divorce and the endless list of modern excuses we've created to justify walking away from a sacred covenant.And that's not all we're discussing.I'm also talking about Donald Trump's continued failures, the gap between political promises and political reality, and why Americans should be questioning the decisions being made in our name.Plus, we're talking about the Iran War and why I believe this conflict is unnecessary and why Americans should be asking whether another foreign war actually serves the interests of the United States.Marriage. Divorce. Biblical truth. Trump. Iran. War. Political accountability.I'm saying what I believe needs to be said, even when it isn't popular (as usual).--https://www.youversion.com/bible-app

There are many aspects of Gentle Parenting that I think, as parents, we ought to live.  But the problem with Gentle Parenting is that it has been interpreted in our social media culture to be all about our child's feelings and how they're affected.Emotions run the home - exhausting both child and parent.Gentle Parenting encourages collaborative thinking - child/parent - while ignoring the fact that a child's "thinking part" of their brain is far from being fully developed.Children feel safe and happiest when they have a strong structure, strong leadership, and a kind teacher to teach them the virtues of a good, holy, happy human.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us Fan MailHave we become so familiar with the Gospel that we've stopped marveling at it? In this episode, Chelsey shares a moment from church that sparked a deeper question: Why are we often quicker to celebrate human achievement than the miracle of salvation? Together, we'll explore what Scripture reveals about encountering the holiness of God and why true worship isn't about personality or preference- it's about a heart that is still moved by His presence. If you've ever felt like your faith has become routine, this episode is an invitation to recover the wonder of the Gospel. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailGod gave you emotions, but He never intended them to lead your life. Learn how to acknowledge your feelings without allowing them to determine your direction. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Get to know Nick & Amy like never before!In this fun, honest, and personal episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're pulling back the curtain and answering some of the questions we get asked most often about our own marriage. After more than 24 years together, we've experienced incredible highs, painful lows, seasons of deep connection, and times when we had to intentionally fight for our relationship.We're sharing real thoughts and lessons we've learned the hard way, and the things that have helped us build a stronger marriage through every season. We answer questions like:What has been the biggest struggle in our marriage, and how did we overcome it?Have we ever gone through seasons where we didn't feel emotionally or physically connected?What's one thing we've learned about each other that still surprises us after all these years?What's the best—and worst—marriage advice we've ever received?Do we still argue, and what do we disagree about most?How do we keep our marriage a priority while balancing work, parenting, and everyday life?If we could give our newlywed selves one piece of advice, what would it be?What's one thing we each wish the other spouse did more often?How has our sex life evolved throughout the different seasons of marriage?After all these years, why do we continue choosing each other every single day?Whether you've been married for six months or sixty years, we hope this episode encourages you, makes you laugh, and reminds you that every great marriage is built one intentional choice at a time. Join us as you get to know us beyond the podcast, the apps, and the social media posts—and discover that even marriage experts are still learning, growing, and choosing each other every day.If this episode resonates with you, be sure to subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with another couple who could use a little encouragement in their marriage journey.

How to Solve Marriage Problems Without ArguingTrying to solve a marriage problem can lead to defensiveness, avoidance, or another argument when one spouse feels pressured to agree or change. Coach Jack explains how to stop relying on convincing and use a conflict-free approach that protects emotional closeness while moving problems toward practical solutions.What You'll LearnHow to decide whether to address a problem together or work on it independentlyHow to invite a spouse's ideas without creating resistanceHow to compare possible solutions and choose one both spouses are willing to tryHow to use Plan A and Plan B so one unsuccessful attempt does not lead to hopelessnessWant to Work With Coach Jack?The Restore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse Coaching Package can help you replace unproductive conflict patterns with secure, relationship-building behaviors. Coach Jack helps clients develop a practical approach for improving connection, setting appropriate boundaries, and making progress even when a spouse is not ready to work on the marriage together.Key TakeawaysConvincing a spouse often creates resistance rather than cooperation.Shared problem-solving works best when both spouses agree on the problem.Listening and validation should come before presenting solutions.A spouse's proposed solution may be worth trying first.Every initial plan should have a backup plan.Additional ResourcesConnecting Through “Yes!” by Jack Ito PhDRestore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse coaching package.Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Send us Fan MailMany marriage struggles aren't really marriage problems- they're worship problems. Discover why putting Christ first changes everything else. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

#controversial #Christianmarriage #love What are ways to love your wife better? Marriage is meant to reflect Christ's love for the church. In this message by Pastor Alex Klimchuk, he talks about how you love your wife and lay down your life for her. Ephesians 5:25-30   ✨ Don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE!   Please follow our websites for more! Website: http://www.newlifechurchsf.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NewLifeSF/ Youtube: https://youtu.be/7Ig-qXgVAmE/ Pastor Alex Klimchuk New Life Church 500 S 1st Ave Sioux Falls, SD 57104

Send us Fan MailHealing begins with honesty. In this Espresso Shot, learn why bringing hidden wounds into the light is the first step toward the transformation God desires. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailDo you know the difference between the voice of the Holy Spirit and the voice of shame? Discover how conviction leads to freedom while condemnation keeps you stuck. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat if your frustration is actually revealing something deeper? In this episode, we'll uncover how unmet expectations often point to areas where God is inviting us to surrender. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

What Every Man Secretly Wants Rene flips the script this week and puts Bruce in the hot seat. Five questions about men—what they lie to themselves about, what they'll never say out loud, and what they're actually starving for underneath it all. What unfolds is an honest conversation about isolation, false strength, and the pressure so many men carry in silence. Bruce opens up about the moment he had to look at Rene and say, "I can't do this alone"—and why that wasn't weakness, but one of the strongest decisions he ever made. Whether you're a man who has quietly carried the weight of responsibility or a woman who wants to understand the man she loves, this conversation will challenge what you think you know. In this episode:

Send us Fan MailMost conflict doesn't begin with facts- it begins with assumptions. Learn how choosing curiosity over conclusions can transform your marriage and strengthen your relationships. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat does Jesus actually mean when he tells us to judge a tree by its fruit - and what happens when we apply that idea to marriage and Christian teaching? Today Joanna, our resident statistician, joins us as we dig into the biblical meaning of “good fruit,” unpack the research behind our marriage studies, and explore what trust, spiritual fruit, and decision-making have to do with one another. We also welcome Dr. Camden Morgante and discuss her amazing book “Recovering From Purity Culture”. Settle in for Part 2 of our 3-part series to kick off this new season - you don't want to miss this one! CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENTWe're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information.TO SUPPORT US: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED: About Josh Butler's book  “Beautiful Union” Our podcasts referencing Josh Butler:Episode 260Episode 301M.J. Langham Thread linkDr. Camden Morgante's book, “Recovering From Purity Culture”Dr. Camden's SubstackHarmful Outcomes of Purity Culture Facebook QuotesSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Most moms are always trying to figure out what are the best consequences for children who misbehave, don't listen, or have tantrums.The answer is when you want to change your child's behavior, it is about teaching them rather than punishing them.Learn the difference between punitive (punishing) consequences and natural consequences which reinforce your teaching.Sign up for my parenting course, Virtue-Based Parenting HERE, and get on the waitlist for the next open enrollment.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us Fan MailAre you trying to fix behaviors while missing the heart? In this quick Espresso Shot (5 min or less!), discover why lasting transformation starts at the root, not the fruit, and how God changes us from the inside out. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat does it really mean to be a tender wife?Our culture often equates tenderness with weakness, passivity, or being easily hurt. But the Bible paints a completely different picture. A tender heart is one that remains soft before God, compassionate toward others, and responsive to the Holy Spirit—even in a hard world.In this episode, we'll explore the biblical meaning of tenderness through Scripture, from King Josiah's tender heart to God's tender mercies and the tender branch that signals new life. You'll discover why tenderness isn't the absence of strength but strength fully surrendered to Christ, and how a soft heart becomes one of the enemy's greatest defeats.Because a High Level Wife isn't weak.She is tender before God, tenacious against the enemy, and committed to taking back the territory he stole. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Most couples never realize they've been believing lies about sex for years.They compare their marriage to Hollywood, social media, or unrealistic expectations and then wonder why intimacy feels disappointing, frustrating, or disconnected. The truth? Many of the "rules" we've been taught about sex are actually the very things keeping us from experiencing the passionate, connected, and fulfilling intimacy we all want.In this eye-opening episode, Nick and Amy expose some of the biggest myths about sex and reveal the truths that can completely transform your intimate relationship.You'll discover why:Waiting until you're "in the mood" may be hurting your sex life.Your spouse can't read your mind (and why that's actually a good thing).Women don't always take longer to become aroused.Sex is far more than just a "want."Talking about sex doesn't kill the mood—it creates better intimacy.Spontaneous sex isn't the only (or even the best) kind of sex....and many more myths that could be holding your marriage back.If you've ever wondered why your sex life isn't where you want it to be, this episode could change the way you think about intimacy forever. Stop believing the myths. Start creating the marriage and the intimacy you've always wanted.

In this message, Samuel Goulet unpacks the meaning and weight of covenant—first between God and His people, then within marriage and the church community. Drawing from both Old and New Testament language, he explains that covenant is not casual agreement but a sacred commitment initiated by God and fulfilled through Jesus. Samuel challenges listeners to let that covenant shape how they follow Christ, forgive others, love sacrificially, and build marriages marked by holiness, humility, prayer, and enduring commitment.

Send us Fan MailDon't know how to pray or what to pray? This episode dives into exactly how I use God's own written word to form and guide my prayers back to Him. It's so simple but so powerful!  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat if the goal of your marriage isn't simply a better relationship—but becoming more like Jesus?In this final episode, we bring the entire series together by looking at the heart of biblical marriage: daily surrender. Through John 3:30, Galatians 2:20, and the Gospel, you'll discover that flourishing isn't found in demanding more from your spouse but in giving more of yourself to Christ. As we decrease and He increases, our marriages become living testimonies of God's love, grace, and glory. Because the greatest gift you can give your spouse isn't a perfect version of you—it's a life fully surrendered to Jesus. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

In episode 433 with Austin Ellis, we talked about how a man can be a better husband and father and discussed safety in marriage. If your wife doesn't feel safe in your marriage, nothing else really matters. She needs to feel safe sexually, safe emotionally, safe physically, and safe spiritually. But what does that look like?In this episode Nick and Amy have Austin back on to dive deeper into safety in marriage, and what it looks like to feel safe for a wife and husband. When your spouse feels safe, everything changes. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us Fan MailHave you unknowingly asked your spouse to do what only God can do?In this episode, we uncover one of the greatest obstacles to intimacy: expecting our spouse to become our source of peace, security, identity, or worth. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, but it makes a terrible god. Discover how putting Christ back on the throne frees you to delight in your spouse instead of depending on them, and why the strongest marriages are built by two people whose deepest needs are already being met by Jesus. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Low self-esteem in children is often misunderstood. It doesn't always look like a child who says, "I don't like myself." In fact, children with low self-esteem may appear overly confident, defiant, perfectionistic, or withdrawn. A child who has low self-esteem doubts his or her value and abilities.In this episode I identify some common signs of low self-esteem, and give you the tools to help your children grow in self-esteem.Healthy self-esteem develops by helping our children become capable, responsible, and confident in their daily experiences.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us Fan MailWho goes first in marriage?The Gospel has already answered that question. Jesus did.In this practical episode, we'll explore why waiting keeps marriages stuck, how Christ's pursuit of us frees us to pursue our spouse without keeping score, and what it looks like to love first—not because our spouse deserves it, but because Christ first loved us. Healthy marriages aren't built on reciprocity; they're built on grace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailHave we reduced intimacy to something far smaller than God intended?In this episode, we dive into the biblical meaning of becoming "one flesh" by unpacking the rich Hebrew and Greek words behind God's design for marriage. You'll discover that intimacy is far more than physical—it is covenant, unity, faithfulness, and being fully known. When we understand God's design, we stop chasing intimacy and begin cultivating the covenant where intimacy naturally flourishes. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhy is it so hard to fully trust and open your heart in marriage?In this episode, we explore how fear, shame, and past wounds lead us to build walls that keep intimacy out. Through Scripture, you'll discover how God's perfect love casts out fear, why self-protection and oneness cannot coexist, and how surrendering your heart to Christ gives you the freedom to love your spouse without being ruled by fear. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God's design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailBefore your spouse can faithfully hold your heart, God must have it first.In this opening episode, we uncover the foundation of every thriving marriage: a heart fully surrendered to Christ. Discover why God isn't after your performance but your heart, how we've unknowingly asked our spouses to carry what only God can, and why right order changes everything. When Christ becomes your first love, marriage becomes the beautiful overflow- not the source- of intimacy. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

What if the biggest problems in marriage are not actually the problems you can see? In this heartfelt and practical conversation, I sit down with Christian marriage coach Casper Stockham to talk about communication, selfishness, hidden emotional wounds, and the small daily habits that shape healthy relationships. Casper and his wife Cheryl have spent nearly two decades helping couples move from conflict and disconnection into deeper understanding, partnership, and joy. Together, we unpack why couples often wait until the “11th hour” to seek help, how unresolved frustrations quietly build over time, and why learning to communicate differently can transform a marriage. This conversation is honest, relatable, and full of practical wisdom for couples who want more than survival; they want connection, peace, and partnership.In this episode:✨ The hidden issues underneath relationship conflict✨ Why selfishness quietly damages marriages✨ How communication changes everything✨ The power of addressing problems together instead of attacking each other✨ Real stories from Donna and Casper about everyday marriage struggles✨ Love languages, emotional needs, and creating lasting connection✨ Why marriage should still include joy and funConnect with Casper & Cheryl Stockham:

Many couples tell us, and we've seen it in our own marriage too, that they keep running into the same arguments over and over again. Even after trying counseling, things might improve for a short time… but before long, they slip right back into the same patterns.So what actually creates lasting change in a relationship?In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with Nick and Amy, we talk with Austin, a therapist who often works with couples after they've already seen two or three other counselors and are feeling discouraged that nothing has worked. Instead of repeating the same approaches, Austin takes a different path, one that helps couples break out of stuck cycles and finally start moving forward.He shares what he does differently in therapy and why those shifts lead to real, lasting progress for the couples he works with.

Marriage is a life-long mission. It is a God-given, life-giving mission.  When we look at our marriage through that lens, it becomes much different than what the world wants you to believe it is.  Marriage isn't about fulfilling our needs (although our needs are fulfilled when we're living an authentic friendship with each other).  It is about choosing to love.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

What does it look like to follow Jesus in the everyday tension of motherhood, marriage, leadership, and personal healing? In episode four of our Summer Recap Series, Shelley Giglio is joined by author, Bible teacher, and podcaster Jackie Hill Perry for a raw and wisdom filled conversation about humility, trust, and the hidden work of sanctification. Jackie shares candidly about parenting four children while staying rooted in her calling, building a marriage grounded in friendship with her husband Preston, and learning to trust God in places of deep personal hurt and uncertainty. Together, they unpack what it means to live as disciples who choose obedience over ego, faith over fear, and gratitude over envy. This episode will encourage you to see God differently in your suffering, to embrace the narrow road of discipleship, and to trust that He is faithful in every step of your story. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When you hear the word gentleness, what comes to mind? If you're anything like me, you may think of someone who is quiet, passive, or soft-spoken. But what if we've misunderstood biblical gentleness all along? This week on The Love Offering Podcast, I had the joy of talking with Christie Thomas, author of Everyday Prayers for Gentleness. As fellow authors in the Everyday Prayers series through Million Praying Moms, we share a passion for helping women become more like Jesus through the power of prayer. Christie reminded me that gentleness isn't weakness at all—it's Spirit-empowered strength. In our conversation, we discussed: • Why gentleness is one of the most countercultural fruits of the Spirit.• How Jesus perfectly modeled both strength and tenderness.• Practical ways to respond with gentleness in marriage, parenting, friendships, church relationships, and even online.• How choosing gentleness can transform the atmosphere of your home and point others to the heart of Christ. One statement Christie shared has stayed with me: "Jesus is never just the Lion, and He's never just the Lamb. He's always both." What a beautiful picture of the kind of strength God wants to cultivate in us. If you've been feeling frustrated, overwhelmed, or quick to react lately, I think this conversation will encourage you. It reminded me that the strongest people aren't always the loudest—they're often the ones most surrendered to the Holy Spirit. I hope you'll take a few moments to listen. My prayer is that God will use this conversation to help all of us become women whose words, attitudes, and actions reflect the gentle heart of Jesus. Connect with Christie Thomas: Website: https://littleshootsdeeproots.com Instagram: @littleshootsdeeproots Connect with Rachael Adams: Website: https://rachaelkadams.com Instagram: @rachaeladamsauthor Podcast: The Love Offering Podcast Support the Show: https://rachaelkadams.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

William F. Buckley once observed, “The most important intellectual enterprise is the distinction between right and wrong.” In today's episode of the MY Devotional Podcast, Dr. Michael Youssef reminds believers that compromise with the world's view of sin can quickly dull our sensitivity to God's Truth. Our emotions are unreliable guides. When we build decisions, relationships, or moral convictions on feelings alone, we become confused and miserable. This is especially true in close relationships, including marriage, where we must learn to live from the perspective of what is true, right, and pleasing to God. Dr. Youssef points to James 4, where Scripture exposes the root of fights and quarrels: desires battling within us, selfish motives, coveting, and prayer aimed at personal pleasure rather than God's will. Genuine happiness does not come from forcing our own way or avoiding God's plan. It comes through obedience, surrender, and humble submission. When God is involved, submission is not bondage—it is freedom. A life submitted to Jesus experiences lasting joy, restored relationships, and the liberating peace of walking in His will each day. The voice you hear on the MY Devotional podcast is digitally generated with Dr. Youssef's permission. If today's devotional stirred a question, burden, or need for prayer, you don't have to walk through it alone.

Denise Renner joins me for a powerful conversation on identity, marriage, and the transformative power of hearing God's voice, even when you feel you've lost yourself. We dive deep into the real-world struggles Christian wives face and how to find true freedom and purpose in Christ.