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Stéphanie welcomes Ann and Dave Wilson, the hosts of global ministry and syndicated radio show FamilyLife, to discuss key insights from their decades of marriage and ministry. The title of their new book says it all: "How to speak life to your husband when all you want to do is yell at him." What if one small shift—like choosing encouragement over criticism—could change the tone of your whole marriage? Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. The Wilsons, through vulnerability and wisdom, highlight how Christian spouses—particularly wives, though the lessons are universal—can profoundly impact their marriages by transforming their mindset and the words they speak. Recognizing Shifting Cultural Dynamics Ann shares that over 45 years of marriage and ministry, she's observed a cultural shift. Dissatisfaction and unrest in marriages seem more common, with a tendency for spouses—especially wives—to see their partners as adversaries or projects for improvement. Ann notes the escalation of negative speech and a belief that critiques or reminders will motivate change. In reality, frequent criticism often demotivates the other partner. The Power of Words A pivotal story shared by Ann involves her realization that her well-intended feedback sounded like constant “booing” to Dave. Ann genuinely believed her critiques would help Dave become a better husband, father, and man. However, after an honest conversation and prayer, Ann discovered that her negative words were discouraging him more than anything. This revelation led her to a critical self-examination and a commitment to use her words to encourage rather than to correct. The Path from Critique to Affirmation Ann's journey involved asking God for conviction—not condemnation—and humbly examining her attitude. She confronted her own pride, recognizing the difference between thinking "I failed" (which God forgives and restores) and "I am a failure" (which is condemnation and shame). With this shift, she chose to focus on what was good and praiseworthy in Dave, believing that God calls spouses to be each other's chief encouragers. The Science Behind Positive Illusion Ann references Dr. Helene Fisher's research, which found that happy, long-term marriages are characterized by a “positive illusion”—focusing on what you like about your spouse, intentionally rewiring your mindset to notice and affirm the good. This is supported by brain science and aligns with biblical instructions about renewing your mind. Practical Outworking and Challenges Practically, Ann began to express gratitude and appreciation—starting with simple thanks for Dave's hard work. Dave testifies that these words of encouragement were more powerful than any affirmation he received elsewhere. This shift motivated him to grow into the person Ann saw in him. A Revolution of Respect and Gratitude Ann frames this approach as a “rebellion” against a culture that devalues respect. By choosing respect and gratitude—whether verbally, in writing, or through a daily journal—wives can breathe life and hope into their husbands, families, and homes. Dave affirms that authentic encouragement, rather than critique, draws men toward home and transforms family culture. The God-Given Power of Influence Through Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, any spouse can become a speaker of life in marriage. This transformation is not about being passive or suppressing truth but about courageously choosing love, hope, and affirmation as radical acts of faith—ultimately reflecting God's heart for us. How might shifting from critique to encouragement change the atmosphere in your closest relationships? What step can you take today to practice the “positive illusion” in your marriage or family? ABOUT THE BOOK “HOW TO SPEAK LIFE TO YOUR HUSBAND WHEN ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS YELLE AT HIM” Discover the marriage you've always hoped for. With practical tools to help you communicate more effectively, you'll learn to speak the language of love and grace that will encourage and strengthen your husband at every turn. Buy the book here: https://shop.familylife.com/product/how-to-speak-life-to-your-husband-when-all-you-want-to-do-is-yell-at-him/  Ann Wilson spent more than a decade longing for a better marriage and for her husband to be more attentive, more involved, more helpful, and just all-around better. And every chance she got, she told him so. Where she thought she was being helpful, she was instead badgering him with constant critiques until all he heard was, “Boo! Boo!” when they were together. It almost broke their marriage. But Ann discovered the power that God has given wives. No matter how long you've been married, you don't need to spend another minute hoping and wishing for things to be different. They can! And the power is in your hands. In this motivating, honest new book, Ann–marriage coach and bestselling author with her husband, Dave–shares how she breathed new life into her marriage by stewarding one of the most powerful gifts believers inherit from the Creator: encouragement. God has given wives a superpower to influence their husbands and homes, and you can use that power to build up and encourage your man to be a better husband, father, and man of God while still speaking truth to him. Relatable, encouraging, biblical, and funny, Ann shares stories from her own life, as well as valuable insights from Scripture, to help you: ·         Address the ways you process and justify your communication patterns ·         Seek spiritual and relational (re)alignment with both your husband and God ·         Learn to exercise self-control and demonstrate radical grace in conversations with your husband ·         Begin to cheer more than boo–in a way that isn't put on, fake, or inauthentic ·         Learn to speak truth in a way your husband can really hear you ·         And, ultimately, cultivate a grace-based marriage that thrives ·         Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. MORE ABOUT ANN AND DAVE WILSON Dave and Ann Wilson are hosts of FamilyLife Today®, FamilyLife's nationally-syndicated radio program on more than 1,300 radio outlets in all 50 states. They are also cofounders of Kensington Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every weekend. Since 1993, they have been featured speakers at FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember® marriage getaways and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. The Wilsons live in the Detroit area where Dave served as the Detroit Lions chaplain for 33 years. Dave and Ann have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, as well as three daughters-in-law and four grandchildren. We invite you to check out the first episode of each of our series, and decide which one you will want to start with. Go to gospelspice.com for more, and go especially to gospelspice.com/podcast to enjoy our guests! Interested in our blog? 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We asked our audience: "What is the BEST marriage advice you've ever been given that actually works in your marriage?"And you delivered—big time!In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the top responses from our community and share the real, raw, and practical advice that's made a difference in real marriages. From mindset shifts to daily habits to those simple-but-powerful tips, this episode is packed with wisdom you'll want to remember (and maybe even write down).If you're looking for tried-and-true tips that couples swear by, this episode is full of gold. You might just walk away with one piece of advice that changes everything in your own marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We had a listener reach out after one of our episodes and share something her husband said that really stuck with us:“Why do I need to keep dating you? We're already married.”And of course, we had to do a full episode on it.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we talk about why dating your spouse is not just important—it's essential. Marriage doesn't mean the pursuit ends. In fact, that's when the real pursuit should begin.We share:The reasons why dating your spouse is so important. Our most memorable dates :) How dating each other again literally turned our marriage aroundWhether you're in a dry spell or just need a little inspiration to bring fun and connection back, this episode is for you.Because the truth is: dating isn't something you stop doing when you're married—it's what keeps the marriage alive and thriving.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Hey Marvelous Mom, You're doing all the right things—you're talking, showing up, trying to be present—but something still feels off in your marriage. You're not yelling or fighting, but you feel distant. Disconnected. Maybe even invisible. I see you. More importantly—God sees you. In today's episode of Mom2Mom Mentoring, I'm inviting you into a conversation that goes beneath the surface of communication and gets to the real issue in so many Christian marriages: emotional disconnection. I'll share part of my own story—how I went from being a confident communicator to feeling like I had no voice in my own marriage—and what helped me find my way back to connection. You'll learn: ✨ Why talking more isn't always the solution ✨ The 3 core needs behind true connection (A.R.E.) ✨ 4 practical, grace-filled steps to help you reconnect ✨ A powerful question to ask yourself every single day Plus, I'll walk you through a simple, healing reflection you can do in just 60 seconds—and give you a free resource to support your emotional and spiritual growth.  

Send us a textWhat actually makes a husband attractive? It's not the abs, the income, or even the honey-do list. In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks the real secret: a man relentlessly pursuing God. When husbands lead from the overflow of intimacy with the Father, everything changes. Chelsey also speaks directly to wives—challenging them to surrender fully to God, support their husbands' divine roles, and trust the Holy Spirit's work in their marriage. This episode will reignite your vision for a holy, healthy, purpose-driven partnership rooted in God's design—not culture's compromise. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Lindsey Castleman and Aron Strong launch their first podcast episode caterered to Christian therapists.   As licensed marriage and family therapists and also AAMFT approved supervisors, Lindsey and Aron have a passion to bring their Christian faith and really great therapy together.  Listen in to hear why Lindsey and Aron want to blend neuroscience, attachment science and Biblical principles together for counselors who want to be authentic in the counseling room.  Learn more from Aron and Lindsey at inrelationship.us 

Pastor Josh McPherson preaches from 1 Corinthians 7:1–5, challenging common cultural lies and calling married couples to embrace God's design for intimacy. Discover why sex is not about mastering technique but cultivating covenant, and how a healthy marriage bed can transform your entire relationship—and even be a powerful form of spiritual warfare.Want to learn how to talk to your kids about sex?  -FREE Resource from Pastor Josh: https://mailchi.mp/strongermannation.com/talktoyourkidsaboutsexSupport the showThanks for listening! Go to www.StrongerManNation.com for more resources.

What happens after the baby arrives—and the real-life weight of marriage kicks in? In this powerful episode of Reed Between The Vows, we're diving into a viral Facebook post that listed 15 truths someone learned after becoming a parent and a spouse. We break it down through the lens of two Christian Marriage & Family Therapists—and a real-life husband and wife who've lived it.From sleepless nights to emotional disconnection, mental load to miscommunication—we unpack the first half of these powerful truths with therapeutic insight, honest storytelling, and biblical encouragement. This is part one of a two-part conversation you don't want to miss.Whether you're a new parent, a couple in the thick of it, or someone still healing from this season—you are seen, you're not alone, and there is a way forward.

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Preached by Phil Donaldson on 2025 June 01 The related slides may be found at https://biblefellowshipassembly.ca/sermons/

Kevin Devries is a father of champions, a son of immigrants, an inspirational speaker, explorer, entrepreneur, author and national men's ministry leader from Grand Rapids, Michigan.     As Founder & President of GRACE EXPLORATIONS & Co-Founder of BASE CAMP NATION.   Kevin has climbed five of the seven continental summits, skied to the North Pole; expedition kayaked all five of the Great Lakes, and is a Qualifier and Finisher of the infamous 2013 Boston Marathon.   As a world explorer, he has traveled to over 65 countries across six continents and forty-eight of the fifty United States.  To find out more about Kevin Devries and his ministry, visit his website at: http://www.GraceExplorations.com    ----------------------------   If you want to help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God's glory, please take a minute to leave us a helpful REVIEW and SHARE this podcast with any man you know who's in need of help and hope and is hurting.”  And to make sure you don't miss a podcast episode, as well as contest give-a-ways, special announcements, and much more, make sure you "Stay Connected" by visiting us at https://station.page/realmen to join our online community of podcast listeners.   Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1: Are you tired and stuck? Want to go to get your faith, marriage, family, career and finances back on track?  Then maybe it's time you got a coach. Every CHAMPION has one. Schedule an appointment to chat with Dr. Joe on how we can help you spiritually love and lead your family better and become the hero of your home.   Dr. Joe takes on only a few Breakthrough Calls each week to help you with your faith, marriage, work, and financial challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment: http://TalkwithDrJoe.com  If no slots are available, please check back in a week.   Also join us on: Online Podcast Community (on Station):  https://station.page/realmen Facebook: @realdrjoemartin YouTube: http://www.RealMenTraining.com Instagram: @realdrjoemartin Twitter: @professormartin Website: https://RealMenConnect.com

Send us a textYou can't build a thriving marriage with one foot out the door. In this episode, Chelsey calls out the 3 silent killers that sabotage commitment, connection, and the restoration God wants to do in your marriage. From casually keeping divorce on the table, to being surrounded by voices that tear down instead of build up, this is the wake-up call many couples need. If you're serious about going all in, this episode will help you burn the boats and fight for your marriage with fresh fire. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

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In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into a hot topic: What should be expected from a good husband?We didn't just guess — we went straight to our audience and asked real wives (and husbands!) what they think makes a man a great spouse. Their candid answers and heartfelt comments range from sweet and sincere to brutally honest — and you might just see your own marriage reflected in them.But that's not all… we took it one step further and asked wives: "Are your expectations of your husband too high?" And let's just say… the results were higher than we expected.Whether you're a husband wanting to step up, or a wife wondering if you're asking for too much (or not enough), this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of insights that every couple can learn from.Don't miss this powerful episode — because sometimes the key to a stronger marriage is understanding what your spouse really hopes for... and why it matters.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

When your marriage feels heavy or disconnected, it's easy to believe you're the only one going through it.You look around and assume other couples must have it figured out,while you quietly carry the weight of your own disappointments behind closed doors.But here's the truth I wish more people knew:Suffering in silence won't move you forward.Healing begins when we step out of isolation—when we allow ourselves to be seen.When we realize we're not the only ones hurting.When we reach for help, not as a sign of failure, but as an act of courage.In this week's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I'm sharing something that's been on my heart:the quiet, life-changing power of doing this marriage work with others—in community, with guidance, and without shame.There's something incredibly healing about hearing someone else say,“We're struggling too.”Because suddenly… you're not alone anymore.If your marriage feels stuck right now, I want you to know:there is hope.You're not behind. You're not broken.You may just be missing the support you need to take that next step.And that next step could be as simple as scheduling a conversation.Listen to the episode and hear more about why this matters—and if you're ready to explore what working together could look like, I'd love to talk.Because this kind of transformation doesn't happen in isolation.And you don't have to walk this road alone anymore.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFacebook

The more of the Four Eden Marriage Steps we take the better our expectations for a successful and blessed marriage. Some people skip one or more - or even all - of these steps. How is that working out today? Bruce C. E. Fleming takes us back to the text of Eden from Genesis chapters 1-3. He noticed the first of these four steps while living the the Congo where multiple wives and even kidnap marriage was practiced. The Tru316 Foundation (www.Tru316.com) is the home of The Eden Podcast with Bruce C. E. Fleming where we “true” the verse of Genesis 3:16. The Tru316 Message is that “God didn't curse Eve (or Adam) or limit woman in any way.” Once Genesis 3:16 is made clear the other passages on women and men become clear too. You are encouraged to access the episodes of Seasons 1-11 of The Eden Podcast for teaching on the seven key passages on women and men. Are you a reader? We invite you to get from Amazon the four books by Bruce C. E. Fleming in The Eden Book Series (Tru316.com/trubooks). Would you like to support the work of the Tru316 Foundation? You can become a Tru Partner here: www.Tru316.com/partner

After a two-year break, we're dusting off the mic and diving back into the heart of marriage. In this first episode of Reed Between The Vows, we're keeping it honest—sharing why we stepped away, what life's taught us since, and why now felt like the right time to return.From parenting to partnership, faith to frustration, we're holding nothing back. This isn't just a podcast—it's a space for couples to grow, heal, and laugh together again.Whether you're married, engaged, or somewhere in between, you're welcome here. Let's get back to the vows—and what happens after “I do.”

Pastor Greg and Cathe Laurie take their 51 years of marriage and share their wisdom for Christian men and women navigating singleness, marriage, and life in general. -- Learn more about Greg Laurie and Harvest Ministries at harvest.org. This podcast is supported by the generosity of our Harvest Partners.Support the show: https://harvest.org/supportSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this can't-miss episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into one of the biggest sources of stress—and connection—in marriage: finances. Whether you're newlyweds or 20 years in, money matters can make or break intimacy and trust.We're joined by Dan and Kay Ockey, financial experts who specialize in helping couples thrive in their financial journey together. They break down the real talk around money—how to get on the same page, why most couples avoid the topic, and simple yet powerful steps you can take to build a strong financial foundation without the stress.From practical budgeting advice to tools for healthy communication, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughs, and eye-opening moments.Ready to replace tension with teamwork when it comes to money?Tune in now and start turning your finances into one of your marriage's greatest strengths.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.www.centseifinance.comEnjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Wallet Win Catholic financial coaches Jonathan & Amanda Teixeira dive into the housing market and when to buy a new home on Trending with Timmerie. (2:09) What about a one-income family, how do you address that issue in terms of buying a home? (22:01) The most common question Catholic financial coaches receive – how do we drop down to a one income home and bring mom home? (33:59) Resources mentioned : https://walletwin.com/ Casti Connubi – Encyclical on Christian Marriage https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.vatican.va/content/pius-xi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-xi_enc_19301231_casti-connubii.html&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1647565051866630&usg=AOvVaw0Q23g0i_XaOhIZCLPYn37v Complete My Joy – Apostolic Exhortation to Christian Spouses https://family.dphx.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/2018-Complete-My-Joy-Apostolic-Exhortation-English.pdf

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"The Portrait of a Christian Marriage" | Philippians 2:1-10 | Pastor Bruce Barker | Faith Bible Baptist Church | Lake Odessa, MI Recorded April 27, 2025

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we continue our discussion with Natalie Hoffman. Natalie is the author of, “Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual abuse,” and “All the Scary Little Gods.” She's also the host of the Flying Free Podcast. She is a passionate advocate for Christian women in abusive homes and churches. Through the Flying Free Sisterhood, she empowers Christian women to use their voices and gifts for their spiritual, emotional, and physical wellbeing. We Will be Discussing: Discussion around the roles within a system with emotional and spiritual abuse. If she chooses, how can she shift her role? Lyschel's wrestle and decision What does the path from emotional and spiritual abuse look like? Resources mentioned in this show: “Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse” “All The Scary Little Gods: A Memoir” Flying Free Sisterhood Community Episode 59: “So What, Lord?”

Have you ever wondered what it really takes to unlock female pleasure and orgasm? Let's be honest—most men don't fully understand the female body, and what works one night might not work the next. The female sexual response can be complex and often feels confusing to navigate. That's why we brought in Cindy Sharkey, a nurse and expert on the female body, to help decode it all. In this episode, we dive into the secrets of female pleasure and orgasm—what truly matters, and how couples can create deeper, more satisfying intimate experiences together. This is one episode you definitely won't want to miss.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

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In this powerful message, Pastor Steve teaches us about what a true christian marraige looks like. We take a look at both the roles of the man and the woman in a marraige. Join us Sundays at 8:30 and 10:30am, and Wednesdays at 7:00pm,

What should we think of divorce? Matthew 19:1–12 prepares us for the sermon in the morning public worship on the coming Lord's Day. In these twelve verses of Holy Scripture, the Holy Spirit teaches us that we should hate divorce, just as God does.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're joined by one of our favorite guests, Cindy Sharkey—a nurse and expert on the female body. Cindy dives into the topic of perimenopause, sharing essential information every couple (both husbands and wives) should know, along with practical tips to navigate this season of life while keeping intimacy strong. Statistics show that sex can actually become even better for couples over the age of 50, so don't let this stage hold you back. There's so much hope—and potential—for an amazing intimate life during and after perimenopause!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of Cogitations, Tony Bruin explores what it truly means to walk in the light of Christ. Drawing from John 8:12, 1 John 1, and Daniel 7:28, Tony unpacks how spiritual light and spiritual life are inseparable. He outlines how genuine fellowship with God requires faithful obedience, how ongoing cleansing comes through Christ's blood, and how walking “light-adjacent” is a dangerous deception.Alongside the main lesson, Tony addresses real-world challenges: the misuse of shame, moral confusion in modern Christianity, gender roles in marriage, and the implications of abandoning biblical truth for cultural comfort. With illustrations from the lathe, the shower, and even Crocodile Dundee, this episode challenges listeners to step into the light—and stay there.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview01:03 Community Engagement and Support02:49 Technical Issues and Solutions06:35 Walking in the Light: Introduction10:26 Walking in the Light: Fellowship with God and His People15:21 Walking in the Light: Having the Light of Life19:22 Walking in the Light: Obedience and Cleansing25:17 Conclusion and Call to Action26:55 Comments and Interaction28:10 The Misguided Paths of Modern Men28:48 The Hypocrisy of Modern Christian Women30:13 The Tale of the Bat: A Lesson on Hypocrisy33:47 The Role of Shame in Christian Life34:47 The Modern Marriage Dilemma44:37 The Patriarchy and Gender Roles46:17 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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In this special Mother's Day episode, Dr. Kim Kimberling sits down with bestselling author Melanie Shankle to talk about her latest book, Here Be Dragons. Together, they unpack the complexities of generational trauma and explore what it means to break old cycles in order to build a new legacy of healthy relationships. It's a conversation that's honest, refreshing, and full of humor. Whether you're a mother or not, this episode has something for you! Episode highlights include:  Generational trauma affects emotional growth and relationships. Self-worth can be deeply impacted by parental relationships. Humor can be a coping mechanism for deeper issues. Recognizing unhealthy patterns is crucial for personal growth. Parenting requires intentionality and awareness of past traumas. Melanie embraced her daughter's individuality instead of molding her. Healing can come from being the parent you wished you had. True love is built on friendship and authenticity. Identifying generational trauma requires honest self-assessment. Creating a positive legacy is essential for future generations. God's timing is perfect in relationships. Healing is a journey that takes baby steps. There can be beauty in the ashes of our past. Couples Conversation Guide:    Main takeaway:  If you were raised in the midst of unhealthy relationships, take heart—there is hope in Christ for a better future. Healing from past wounds opens the door to the freedom and joy of healthy, life-giving relationships. Along the journey, boundaries will protect your peace, forgiveness will soften your heart, and Christ must remain the foundation of it all.   Questions to Discuss:  What messages or behaviors from our families growing up do we find ourselves repeating—intentionally or not—in our relationship or with our children?   When we face conflict or stress, do our reactions feel like our own—or do they echo how our parents or caregivers responded?   Are there parts of our past—such as experiences of neglect, abuse, shame, or loss—that we haven't fully processed and might be impacting how we show up for each other and our children?   What do you hope your legacy will be?   Quotes from today's episode: "It's okay to not be perfect." “You've gotta have your truthtellers” “There are things we may not see as big, but they become big.”  “I always deflected with humor because I didn't want to feel anything too deeply.”  “They've achieved all these things that the world says is success, but they're still empty.”  “It's so healing to be the thing in someone else's life that you wish you would have had in your own.”  “I didn't get to have that mother, but I get to be that mother.” “There is something so beneficial about having someone who's not your friend, validate some of the experiences you've been through.”  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Self Check Up Guide as an opportunity for honest self reflection.  Melanie Shankle's Here Be Dragons Listen to Melanie on her wildly popular podcast The Big Boo Cast If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources for families- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!  

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we welcome Natalie Hoffman to the podcast. Natalie is the author of, “Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual abuse,” and “All the Scary Little Gods.” She's also the host of the Flying Free Podcast. She is a passionate advocate for Christian women in abusive homes and churches. Through the Flying Free Sisterhood, she empowers Christian women to use their voices and gifts for their spiritual, emotional, and physical wellbeing. We Will be Discussing: Can you share the key signs of covert emotional and spiritual abuse?  How can women see these subtle tactics in their marriage or environment? Has he always been this way and I just didn't see it? What are some of the key things you need that an abusive relationship cannot provide? What hope can we offer our listeners? Resources mentioned in this show: Emotional Abuse Quiz Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse All the Scary Little Gods: A Memoir Natalie's Website, Flying Free Now

Have you ever initiated with your spouse only to be denied time and time again? In this fun lighthearted episode, we share the ways to "successfully" initiate with your spouse, and the fun ways to do so!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us a textLet's talk about the conversation that everyone tiptoes around—but desperately needs to have.Why is it so easy for some wives to submit to their boss, their pastor, their friends… yet struggle to submit to the one man God called them to honor—their husband?

In this episode of the For The Gospel Podcast, Costi Hinn kicks off a new series on marriage by walking through nine biblical keys to strengthen your marriage. Whether you're currently married, engaged, dating, single, or even widowed or divorced, this episode offers timeless wisdom grounded in God's Word. Learn how prayer, forgiveness, communication, intimacy, and more can fortify and transform your marriage.

In this episode, I'm answering a few personal questions, and getting very real about how feminism has failed women.Meghan Markle, Blake Lively, and countless other women were promised that hustle, fame, and independence would lead to happiness. Instead, what many have found is emptiness, confusion, and loneliness.We'll talk about why family is the true calling, why building a Biblical household matters more than career accolades, and why women need strong, alpha men to lead — not passive, agreeable partners like Prince Harry or Ryan Reynolds.Feminism sold us a lie. It's time to tell the truth: God's design works, and submission isn't oppression — it's order.--https://policecoffee.com/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=11458848849&gbraid=0AAAAACG7qmLDRFHf6EC_qYHR8HjYF23Xm&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIiaGz_fuZjQMVlgytBh3lKRQnEAAYASAAEgJUg_D_BwE

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In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're joined by Nate Whitson, the founder of Get in the Fight—an impactful organization dedicated to helping men become better husbands, fathers, and leaders in their homes and communities. Nate shares the four key attributes that define a great husband and explains how mastering these traits can transform your marriage and elevate your intimate connection. Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship, grow as a man, or create a deeper emotional and physical bond with your spouse, this episode is packed with powerful insight and encouragement. Don't miss this inspiring and practical conversation!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us a textThis one's for the wife who's striving, surviving, and secretly wondering if she's the problem. You're doing all the things—reading the books, saying the prayers, holding it together—and still feeling lost, tired, and unseen.In this episode, I want you to know: I see you. I get it. I've been there.But I love you too much to leave you there.We're talking about what it means to move from self-reliance to surrender, from high-functioning anxiety to holy peace. Because true transformation doesn't happen when we finally figure it all out—it happens when we lay it all down.This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about finally letting God carry what you were never meant to hold. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

We're excited to launch a brand-new format for the Awesome Marriage Podcast—and with it, introduce a highly requested new co-host: Mrs. Nancy Kimberling! In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy Kimberling take you on a heartfelt journey through the story of their relationship, from their blind date to their early years of marriage and parenting, all the way to the joy of becoming great-grandparents. Their marriage hasn't been without its challenges, but what's carried them through it all is a decision they made early on: to keep God at the center of everything. Their wisdom, authenticity, and love for each other will make them one of your favorite couples to learn from. We pray this episode encourages and blesses your marriage.   Episode Takeaways: No matter how your marriage starts, everything changes when you invite the Lord in. He can transform the direction of your relationship in powerful ways. Building a strong, healthy marriage and family takes intentional effort and regular reflection on what's working—and what's not. Join the Kimberlings for an honest, up-close look at every season of marriage. Questions to Discuss:  When's the last time you reflected on where and when your relationship began? What scripture could you hold on to to help anchor your marriage to Christ?  What is keeping your marriage from moving in the direction you want it to move? Quotes: “We had fights and I thought what is going on, I made a mistake.” “You didn't get the picket fence” “I could have been the fun dad and still done discipline” “God taught us He cares about everything” “The more we brought Him into our conversations, our decisions. He was there. To guide us and to help us.  “It's saved our marriage.”  “God was there when they got married, and He's still there, and they made a covenant before Him and it matters.”  “We took divorce off the table and we kept it off the table.” “The most important thing to do in marriage is prayer.” “It's so important to have godly couples who are older than you and come alongside of you with godly wisdom.” “It's so important to have a village, a tribe, a life group to do life with.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to puruse the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

Can a strong marriage actually lead to greater financial success? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore how a thriving relationship can often produce greater financial success in life, and the reasons why it often does.Couples who are emotionally, physically, and spiritually connected often find they're more aligned in their goals, values, and daily decisions. This unity leads to smarter financial choices, better communication about money, and a shared vision for the future. Instead of working against each other, you're building something together—and that creates momentum not just in your relationship, but in your finances too.This episode will help you see how a good marriage impacts every area of your life, including your ability to succeed financially.Tune in to discover why investing in your marriage may be one of the smartest financial decisions you'll ever make!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

When life gets overwhelming—whether it's from busyness, health struggles, or a hard season—it's easy to let your marriage quietly slip to the back burner. In today's episode, we're talking about why putting first things first matters more than ever when you're under pressure. We'll explore the hidden costs of busyness, how to recognize when it's time to say "no" to good things to protect the best things, and why you must be intentional about hearing from God in every season. Plus, we'll share practical steps to help you and your spouse stay connected, even when life feels heavy. If you're feeling stretched thin, stressed out, or spiritually distant, this conversation is for you.  

In this episode of The Reformed Brotherhood, Jesse Schwamb dives deep into the rich and challenging teachings of Colossians 3:18–4:1 on Christian household ethics. With Tony absent, Jesse takes the reins to explore the revolutionary and countercultural aspects of Paul's instructions to wives, husbands, children, and slaves. He emphasizes how these teachings, though often misunderstood or misapplied, are deeply rooted in the lordship of Christ and the call for submission, love, and service within the family structure. Jesse begins by highlighting the groundbreaking nature of Paul's acknowledgment of women, children, and slaves in a societal context where these groups often held little to no value. Paul's direct address to these groups affirms their inherent worth as image-bearers of God. Jesse also challenges listeners to see how Paul's instructions to men, particularly husbands and fathers, subvert the cultural norms of the time by calling them to love and serve their families sacrificially, rather than exercising dominance. The discussion extends to the broader implications of Paul's teaching, focusing on how Christ's lordship should permeate every aspect of family life. Jesse draws attention to the transformative power of living out these principles in modern Christian households, urging listeners to embrace submission and service not as burdens, but as acts of worship and reverence for Christ. Key Points: Paul's Revolutionary Address to Marginalized Groups: Paul affirms the value of women, children, and slaves by addressing them directly, which was unprecedented in the cultural context of the Roman Empire. The Call for Husbands to Love and Serve: Paul challenges traditional male authority by instructing husbands and fathers to lead with love and avoid harshness, reflecting Christ's sacrificial love. Christ-Centered Family Dynamics: All family relationships are to be oriented around Christ's lordship, emphasizing submission and service as acts of worship. The Surprising Ethics of Slavery: While acknowledging the existence of slavery in the Roman world, Paul subverts its norms by reminding masters of their accountability to their own Master in heaven. Questions for Reflection: How does Paul's affirmation of marginalized groups in Colossians challenge societal norms, both in his time and today? In what ways does the call for husbands to love their wives mirror Christ's love for the Church? How can we ensure that Christ remains at the center of our family relationships and everyday interactions? What does submission look like in a modern Christian household, and how can it reflect reverence for Christ?

In this episode, we open up about what the first year and a half of marriage has really been like — and let's just say, we've learned a lot — sometimes the hard way. We're sharing the real and funny lessons God's been teaching us, the mistakes we made (so maybe you can avoid them!), and some honest advice we wish we had before getting married. Marriage is a gift from God and we hopefully help you make it easier with today's podcast!! Thanks to Our Sponsors ReliefBand: Head to Reliefband.com and use promo code HEALTHY to receive 20% off plus free shipping. CRU: Simply text HEALTHY to 71326 to help today. Fatty 15: get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/HEALTHY and use code HEALTHY at checkout. ORDER MY BOOK! - https://jeanineamapola.com/book Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy: https://www.instagram.com/HappyandHealthyPodcast/ Jeanine: https://www.instagram.com/jeanineamapola/ Jeanine and Kaleb: https://www.instagram.com/jeanineandkaleb/ Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyandhealthypodcast Jeanine: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeanineamapola #firstyearofmarriage #ChristianMarriage #marriageadvice #newlywedlife #faithandmarriage #relationshipadvice #youngcouple #godlymarriage #marriagetips #marriagelessons Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're tackling a topic that's kept too many women trapped in painful marriages: divorce. If you've ever been told "God hates divorce" or made to feel like leaving your abusive husband is somehow worse than what he's doing to you, this episode is specifically for you.We'll dig into some fascinating research by Dr. Valerie Hobbs on how conservative Christian sermons frame divorce - and let me tell you, what's being preached often doesn't match reality. Here's what you'll discover in this episode:The surprising biblical truth about divorce, including the fact that God Himself got a divorce (Jeremiah 3:8) and what this means for women in harmful marriagesHow common Bible verses about divorce are routinely misinterpreted and weaponized against women seeking safety and freedomThe shocking difference between why women initiate divorce (abuse, infidelity, and substance abuse) versus men's reasons (falling out of love, different lifestyles)How the ancient marriage certificate (ketubah) actually protected women's rights and gave them grounds for divorce - completely changing how we should understand Jesus' teachingsThis isn't just theological debate - this is about real women making heart-wrenching decisions every day. I've walked this path myself, and I know the spiritual anguish of believing God wants you to stay in a destructive marriage.If you're questioning what you've been taught about divorce, experiencing emotional or spiritual abuse, or supporting someone who is, please listen to this episode. You'll discover that God cares about your emotional and spiritual safety and wellbeing, and that leaving an abusive marriage just might be the most faithful thing you can do.Read the show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources: Dr. Valerie Hobbs' groundbreaking study that I used for this episode, "The Discourse of Divorce in Conservative Christian Sermons."Some related Flying Free Podcast episodes you may be interested in: “God Doesn't Hate ALL Divorce,” “How Do I Know if Divorce Is the Right Choice for Me?” and “How To Tell Your Kids You're Getting Divorced.” 

In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Dr. Kim sits down with Jimmy Rollins to unpack the real-life highs and lows of marriage. They dive into why communication, forgiveness, and a strong support system are so crucial—and how those things have played out in their own lives. From the power of simple daily appreciations to creating a safe space for open conversations, Jimmy and Dr. Kim get real about what it takes to build (and rebuild) a strong relationship. They also reflect on how easy it is to chase success in the wrong places—and how to shift the focus back to what matters most. Whether you're in a great season or struggling to find your footing, this episode is full of practical wisdom and encouragement to help you grow and heal in your marriage. Episode Takeaways: Every marriage is hard and requires effort. Forgiveness is a decision, while reconciliation is a process. Daily appreciation can reignite connection in marriage. Creating a safe space is essential for open communication. Winning at the wrong things can harm your marriage. Community support is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. It's important to examine your own behavior in marriage. Practical steps can lead to significant changes in relationships. Couples should seek resources and mentorship for guidance. The goal in marriage is to think together, not alike.   Questions to Discuss:  Are there areas of your marriage you are trying to ignore? Are there areas you are trying to change your spouse? How would you rate the community you have to support your marriage? What one thing can you say “no” to today, so that you have more margin to say “yes”  in your marriage.    Quotes: "Forgiveness is a decision." "Community is what keeps us sober." "You're not in it by yourself." "Every marriage is hard." "The goal is not to think alike." "The best days are ahead of us."   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our FREE Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide to keep intentionally winning in your marriage! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you prioritize your marriage. Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Traffic Signs and Your Marriage: Part 1 If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”

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Main takeaway:  Every relationship can be prone to drifting if we aren't paying attention, and our marriage relationship is no exception. In this episode Dr. Kim and Lindsay talk about how easy it is to begin prioritizing good things over the best things, and how those small compromises lead to big disconnect in marriage.  This episode will help you recognize the signs of drift and begin to fight back against it! Recognizing the signs of drifting is crucial for couples. Prioritizing time together is essential to prevent drifting. Good things can distract from nurturing the marriage. Drifting can happen gradually without realization. Communication and emotional intimacy are key to a strong marriage. Common signs of drifting include changes in communication and intimacy. Non-sexual physical touch can enhance emotional intimacy. It's important to address issues early before they become entrenched patterns. Questions to Discuss:  Is your marriage reflected on your calendar? When's the last time you encouraged your spouse with your words? Do you feel pressure to say yes to things outside of your marriage that in turn forces you to say no to things that would grow your marriage? Are you protecting your energy so that you make the most of the time with your spouse? What's one thing you can do today to show your spouse you're pursuing your marriage? Quotes: “You drift without even realizing it.” “Sometimes good things get in the way of the most important things” “If you're drifting away you're more vulnerable to sin.” “You have to choose the best over the good.” “There are things I could have done different.” “In our culture, life gets in the way and we don't even think about it.” “I've always got to know that Nancy is a gift, and I have to embrace that gift, and treat her like a gift every day.” “Drifting happens gradually.” “Show me where you have your marriage on your calendar.” “It's on my calendar now.” “It's not going great, but everyone's just accepting it.” “You can do something!” “Make sure you go to somebody who can be objective and is for your marriage.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our FREE Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide to help keep the connection and fight the drift! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you fight the drift in marriage? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Pursuing Your Spouse in Marriage Pt 1 If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”