Podcast appearances and mentions of christian marriage

We are so busy with so many things of the world, our family, and of keeping our heads above water, that I wonder if we spend time thinking about who we are - how we want to be remembered by our husband, children, family, and friends.In this episode, I talk about how my mom's recent death made me stop and think about how I would like to be remembered.Take time, today, to commit to the woman, the wife, the mother, the grandmother, and friend that you would like to be.Everything else in life is of little importance.  How do you want to be remembered?Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Has sexual intimacy become viewed as "optional" in your marriage?If your spouse came to you before you got married and said "Just so you know, when we are married, I am never going to be sexual intimate with you" would you have still got married? Of course not, because BOTH men and women know that sexual intimacy is vital to a happy and healthy marriage. So why do some many people (low desire spouses) treat sex as "optional" after they get married?So many good husbands reach out to us sharing a similar frustration: they constantly hear that emotional intimacy comes first, so they work hard to meet their spouse's emotional needs. They help around the house, become more intentional with communication, plan date nights, show affection, attend counseling, read books, listen to podcasts, and genuinely try to become a better husband. Yet despite all their efforts, little or nothing changes when it comes to the sexual connection in their marriage. Over time, many of these husbands begin to feel discouraged, rejected, and confused. They wonder why they are putting so much effort into the relationship while their desire for greater sexual intimacy seems to remain unmet. Some feel as though sexual intimacy has become "optional" in marriage and that they have slowly been transformed from a husband into an errand-running roommate who has been placed into the "friend zone."Recently, we received a powerful email from a listener who expressed these exact feelings after spending years investing time, energy, and money into improving his marriage. His message resonated because it reflects the reality and frustration that many spouses experience but often don't know how to talk about.In this week's episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we read portions of his email and dive into this difficult but important conversation. Why do so many husbands feel like they are doing everything they've been told to do, yet still feel disconnected sexually? Has the message of emotional intimacy been misunderstood? Is emotional connection always the missing piece, or are there times when other issues need to be addressed? What responsibility does each spouse have in creating a thriving intimate relationship?Join us as we discuss these questions, share our thoughts on the listener's concerns, and talk about how couples can move beyond frustration, resentment, and unmet expectations to create a marriage where both emotional and sexual intimacy are valued, prioritized, and nurtured.

In this guided meditation, invite God to help you understand and honor your limits with clarity and compassion. Learn to sethealthy boundaries without guilt, protect your heart, and walk in the freedom and love He designed for you.FREE (or Super Affordable) ResourcesEvery Kind of FreeKindle: https://amzn.to/4b1Q2ZNPaperback: https://amzn.to/4bACRz7Hardcover: https://amzn.to/4bJ8xm7 Audible: https://amzn.to/3OeBCgbStories Only Strangers Can See e-book: ⁠⁠https://form.jotform.com/250124488113147⁠⁠If You're in a Difficult Marriage:Safety First: If you're not safe—or if you or your children are being physically or sexually harmed—pleasecreate a safety plan and reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233). Safety plan: ⁠⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠⁠Confidential marriage assessment: ⁠⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠⁠7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠⁠Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠⁠Decision Time e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness⁠⁠If You're Separated, Divorced, or a Single Mom:Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book:⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠⁠All other courses: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness

How to Get More Love and Affection from Your WifeWhen a wife feels distant, trying to convince her to love more often creates pressure and disconnection. In this episode, Coach Jack helps men understand how emotional connection is rebuilt through consistent loving actions rather than reassurance, persuasion, or household responsibilities alone.What You'll Learn: How to focus on emotional connection instead of task-focused efforts  Why gaze, words, voice, touch, and listening matter more than routine responsibilities  How to help your wife feel uniquely special without pressuring her  How consistency helps rebuild trust when loving feelings have faded Want to Work With Coach Jack?Coach Jack's Re-Connections Coaching Package helps men stop pursuing, reduce pressure, and rebuild a friendly emotional connection with a distant wife. The focus is on helping her relax, enjoy the relationship again, and become more open to reconnecting.Key Takeaways: Love grows from actions, not persuasion Routine responsibilities do not replace romance.  A wife needs to feel uniquely valued.  Listening without fixing helps restore connection.  Pressure and pursuit make reconnection harder. Additional Resources: Re-Connections Coaching PackageFree Download: How to Talk to Your Wife: Restoring Loving Communication in a Damaged Relationship (eBook)Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Send us Fan MailDiscover why vulnerability isn't sharing more information- it's revealing what's true, and why that is the foundation of intimacy, connection, and oneness.You can talk for hours and still feel disconnected.You can share your schedule, your plans, your frustrations, and everything that happened during your day… while never revealing your heart.In this episode, Chelsey  unpacks one of the most misunderstood concepts in marriage: vulnerability. Learn why intimacy requires more than communication, how hiding began in the Garden, and why vulnerability is less about sharing everything and more about revealing what is true.Because information doesn't create intimacy.Revelation does. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailSome wounds didn't start in your marriage.They started years earlier.Childhood rejection, abandonment, criticism, betrayal, disappointment, neglect—and then marriage has a way of exposing what was already there.In this episode, Chelsey shares why deep wounds often create deep patterns of self-protection, how God uses marriage to reveal what He intends to heal, and why healing is less about trying harder and more about surrendering the deepest places of your heart to Christ.Because your wound may explain your reaction.But it doesn't determine your future.God is still in the business of making all things new. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself reacting more strongly than a situation seems to warrant?Maybe it's fear, frustration, anxiety, defensiveness, or discouragement. You know what God says, yet you still find yourself stuck in the same patterns.In this episode, Chelsey explores how past hurts, disappointments, and survival patterns can quietly shape the way we respond to our present circumstances. You'll learn why God often uses life's tests to reveal what still needs healing, how old experiences influence our reactions, and what it means to put off the old self, be renewed in Christ, and walk in freedom.Because God isn't interested in managing your symptoms.He wants to transform you from the inside out. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailLearn the five shifts that help couples tear down walls, rebuild trust, and move from self-protection to true oneness in marriage.

Christian Marriage (Colossians 3:18-21) | Chris PriceColossae was a first-century city located in the Roman province of Asia. It was a pluralistic environment of competing philosophies, religions, and ideas fighting for the hearts and minds of people. For first-century Christians, this syncretistic environment found its way into the church, and it was in this setting that Paul encouraged the Colossians to live out an entirely different reality, a reality in which Jesus—and only Jesus—had the ultimate supremacy over everything in their lives. Through Colossians, we will see how we too, are invited to place Christ above all, and over all.The Way Church is a church in Vancouver joining Jesus in the restoration of all things. For more information, visit our website at http://thewaychurch.caLINKSConnect Form: http://connect.thewaychurch.caKids: http://thewaychurch.ca/kidsYouth: http://thewaychurch.ca/youthAlpha: http://thewaychurch.ca/alphaMusicbed SyncID:MB01EXOWT3LNA1K

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Austin have an honest and vulnerable conversation about the real reasons many men turn to porn and the devastating impact it can have on emotional connection, trust, and intimacy in marriage. They discuss the deeper struggles often happening beneath the surface, including loneliness, stress, rejection, shame, unmet emotional needs, unhealthy coping habits, and the lack of true connection many couples silently experience.This episode is not about blame or condemnation. Instead, it's about understanding the “why” behind the behavior, opening up healthy communication, and creating a path toward healing together. Nick and Austin share practical insights for both husbands and wives on how to navigate the hurt, rebuild trust, strengthen emotional safety, and reconnect intimately in a healthier way.This episode will help you better understand the challenges many couples face and offer hope that healing, trust, and deeper intimacy are possible.

Send us Fan MailLearn how old receipts from your past may be shaping your present reactions—and how God uses surrender, renewal, and new experiences to rewrite the story and create lasting transformation.What if you're not reacting to what's happening right now?What if you're reacting to a receipt from years ago?The husband who feels unwanted. The couple stuck in the same argument. The woman God is calling into a new season but whose body still responds with fear.Different stories. Same root.Old receipts.In this episode, Chelsey explores how past experiences shape present reactions, why God uses life's tests to reveal what still needs healing, and how surrender creates space for God to write a new story.Because the goal isn't to erase your past.The goal is to stop letting it interpret your present. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailLearn how to identify the subconscious self-protection keeping you stuck, surrender it to God, and move toward deeper intimacy, healing, and oneness in marriage.“I forgave… so why do I still react this way?”Many couples find themselves stuck in a frustrating cycle: they want connection, intimacy, trust, and oneness, yet something inside keeps pulling the brake.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the “gas and brake” phenomenon that often shows up after hurt, betrayal, disappointment, or broken trust. You'll learn why self-protective reactions are often subconscious stress responses—not intentional rejection—and how God uses marriage to reveal the places He still wants to heal.Together, we'll explore the difference between forgiveness and healing, the biblical call to put off the old self and be renewed in Christ, and how true intimacy is restored when mind, body, and spirit come into agreement under the authority of Jesus and the truth of God's Word.Because the goal isn't to shame the brake.It's to surrender what it's protecting and allow God to heal what still needs healing. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailMost couples think conflict is what destroys intimacy.It's not.Self-protection is.A husband jokes instead of admitting he feels rejected.A wife withdraws instead of admitting she feels hurt.One pursues. One avoids.Different behaviors. Same root.Self-protection.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the hidden ways self-protection shows up in marriage, why God often uses marriage to expose the wounds and fears He wants to heal, and how our identity in Christ gives us the security to stop hiding and start moving toward one another.Because intimacy was never built on performance, control, or self-preservation.It was built on vulnerability, truth, and trust.And self-protection and intimacy cannot coexist. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 침묵의 방 | The Room Nobody Talks About: On Sex, Shame and Christian Marriages — The One with Pastor Temi Areo | Episode 3 (2026) There is a room in most marriages that nobody talks about. Not the kitchen where the arguments happen. Not the living room where everything looks fine for visitors. The bedroom. The one that started full of something and somewhere along the line went quiet. No dramatic moment. Nobody planned it. It just happened.This episode I walked into that room with Pastor Temi Areo, co-lead pastor of Citizens of Light Church in Lagos, prophet, teacher, founder of a mentoring school, and author of several books including her newest, Undressing Sex. We did not tiptoe. The church has tiptoed for long enough.Here is what we get into:The three trouble spots almost every marriage runs into, and why couples can rarely tell you which one is actually doing the damage. The fire principle: why desire dies when you leave it alone, and what putting wood on the fire actually looks like in a real marriage. Pastor Temi's concept of expensive sex, and why leaving your own house might be exactly what saves it. What every husband should know about when sex actually starts for a woman. Hint: it is not at night, and it is not in the bedroom.The difference between sex as a binding agent and sex as a cop out. The line between softening a fight and skipping the conversation entirely. What 1 Corinthians 7 actually says about the marriage bed, the word defraud, and what it means to weaponize sex. Why God is not absent from your sex life, and the analogy that made it finally click.The shame so many women inherited from their culture. Why a lot of women in this part of the world do not orgasm, and why that is a cultural wound, not a body problem. The moment Pastor Temi got free of it herself. And the chapter of her own book that shook even her.Then a listener question from a young woman carrying vaginismus alone, with a response I hope reaches every woman who has ever been told her desire was dangerous.For every quiet room, there is a way back.Press play.

In this fun and lighthearted episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the secret language of marriage and uncover what wives really mean when they say things like:“I'm fine…”“Nothing's wrong.”"It's Ok."“Go ahead.”And the legendary… “Whatever.”Guys, this episode might just save your life!Nick and Amy break down these classic marriage phrases with humor, honesty, and real relationship wisdom as they talk about communication, emotional connection, misunderstandings, and why spouses sometimes say one thing while meaning something completely different.You'll laugh, cringe, and probably recognize a few conversations from your own marriage along the way.Whether you've been married two years or twenty, this episode is packed with fun insights that will help you better understand your spouse and strengthen your connection.Trust us… when your wife says “It's ok,” you'll want to hear this episode first.

Parenting grown kids requires surrender, trust, and a whole lot of grace. I'm sharing what I'm learning along theway.Reflection questions:In what ways am I trying to parent from fear instead of trust?What would it look like to move toward peace when someone I love is struggling?What part of my identity as a mother or stepmother needs gentle loosening in this season?Where have I seen God's faithfulness in the long arc of my family's story?What is one prayer of release I can pray today?FREE (or Super Affordable) ResourcesStories Only Strangers Can See e-book: ⁠⁠https://form.jotform.com/250124488113147⁠⁠If You're in a Difficult Marriage:Safety First: If you're not safe—or if you or your children are being physically or sexually harmed—please create a safety plan and reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline(1-800-799-7233). Safety plan: ⁠⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠⁠Confidential marriage assessment: ⁠⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠⁠7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠⁠Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠⁠Decision Time e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness⁠⁠If You're Separated, Divorced, or a Single Mom:Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book:⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠⁠All other courses: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness

Send us Fan MailMany couples think they have a communication problem when they actually have an ownership problem.When hurt, frustration, loneliness, and disappointment go unnamed, it's easy to fall into blame, defensiveness, criticism, and distance. But emotional intimacy grows when two people learn to take ownership of what they're feeling, anchor themselves in truth, and move toward one another with a shared path forward.In this episode, I'm sharing a simple framework to help couples reignite emotional connection through honesty, responsibility, repentance, and oneness.Because emotional intimacy isn't built through winning arguments.It's built through being known, speaking truth, and choosing to move toward one another again. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

For decades, the church's answer to struggling marriages has been clear: pray more, submit more, give him what he needs. Sheila Wray Gregoire's research asked a different question: What if the advice itself is the problem?Drawing on a survey of 20,000 women, the largest ever done on Christian women's marital and sexual satisfaction, Sheila lays out what the data actually shows: a stark gap between men's and women's experiences, the quiet damage done by teaching women that sex is only his need, and why so many couples reach intercourse on their wedding night only to wonder if something is broken in her. She makes the case, gently but firmly, that if a teacher consistently produces bad fruit, the teacher's teaching deserves a second look.This is a rebroadcast of a 2021 conversation that remains one of the most meaningful in the show's history.Sheila Wray Gregoire is a researcher and author of The Great Sex Rescue.Support the showENGAGE THE RESTORING THE SOUL PODCAST:- Follow us on YouTube - Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Follow us on Instagram & Twitter- Follow Michael on Twitter- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.com Thanks for listening!

What do you do with all the emotions that linger after a fight with your spouse? Even when the argument is over, the hurt, disappointment, frustration, and unmet expectations can continue to swirl around in your mind and heart. In this episode, I sit down with Dave and Ann Wilson from FamilyLife Today to talk about what happens after marriage conflict and how to process those emotions in a healthy, Christ-centered way. We discuss recurring arguments, unmet expectations, disappointment in marriage, and practical ways to bring your emotions to God so resentment doesn't quietly take root. If you've ever felt stuck in the same marriage conflict over and over again, this conversation will remind you that healing and hope are possible. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN [00:00] Why Marriage Often Brings Our Deepest Emotional Triggers to the Surface [04:00] How to Find the Real Issue Underneath the Argument [15:00] The Hidden Wounds We Bring Into Marriage [20:00] Grieving the Marriage You Thought You Would Have [27:00] Help for Managing Emotions in Marriage: Tip #1: Asking God Before You Speak [32:00] Help for Managing Emotions in Marriage: Tip #2: Own Your Mistakes [35:00] What to Do When You Feel Hurt But Your Spouse Doesn't Understand [40:00] Protecting Hope During Long-Term Marriage Struggles [44:00] Using the A.D.D. Method to Process Marriage Emotions RESOURCES: Vertical Marriage: The One Secret That will Change Your Marriage by Dave and Ann Wilson How to Speak Life to Your Husband When All You Want to Do Is Yell at Him by Ann Wilson FamilyLife Today Podcast RELATED EPISODES: Ep 299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)? Ep 301: What to Do When Your Husband Shuts Down Emotionally with Sathiya Sam Ep 342: Help for Emotional Overreaction in Relationships Ep 328: When Your Husband Is Driving You Crazy with Ann + Dave Wilson   Send us Fan Mail

Have you lost yourself in your marriage? If you've ever wondered "Who am I anymore?" or felt like your identity has become wrapped up in your spouse, conflict, or past hurts, this episode is for you. In this episode, explore how reclaiming your God-given identity can transform your christian marriage. You'll discover why so many Christian couples struggle with conflict, people-pleasing, insecurity, and emotional distance—and why the solution starts with knowing who God says you are, not who your spouse or your circumstances say you are. In this episode, you'll learn: How identity affects every area of your marriage Why looking to your spouse for validation leads to disappointment What the Bible says about your identity in Christ The four pillars of a healthy identity: spiritual, emotional, relational, and physical How attachment styles influence conflict and connection Practical ways to rebuild confidence and strengthen your marriage through God's truth Whether you're newly married, have been together for decades, or feel stuck in unhealthy patterns, this conversation offers biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you experience lasting transformation.

Send us Fan MailWhen was the last time you had that desire for your husband as an overflow from that desire for God, your Father, your Creator, your Maker? The maker of everything? Where you heart is, there also is your treasure.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan Mail"I believe, Lord, Help my unbelief!" Learn how to move from "I know" but don't really believe deep down TO "I believe with every cell in my body and so I live like it's already done!" And that belief changes everything. Starting with YOU. But it has to start with the SOURCE. The ONLY Source. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

In most marriages, one spouse has a higher desire for intimacy, while the other has a lower desire. And if you're being honest… navigating that difference can feel exhausting, confusing, and lonely.You talk about it. You have the hard conversations. Things improve for a few days… maybe even a week. But then somehow, you find yourselves stuck in the exact same argument again and again, wondering why nothing is actually changing and why your spouse still doesn't seem to hear or respond to what you need.So what do you do when communication alone isn't working?The truth is, you are far from alone.This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy have sex therapist Austin on to discuss one of the most common. and emotionally charged struggles couples face: mismatched desire in marriage. They unpack why couples keep having the same frustrating conversations, what's really happening underneath the conflict, and how to finally create lasting change and deeper connection together.

Send us Fan MailBuild on purpose with discipline and consistency! Break free from the "hard" of marriage and actually like each other again.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

A bright and cheerful, joyful home is not one where everything goes according to plan. It's a home where family members learn to adapt, adjust, and respond with generosity when things don't go according to plan. The more flexibility we cultivate in ourselves and our children, the more peace, resilience, and joy we will experience as a family.  Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us Fan MailGrab the new free guide: https://chelsey.coach/hlwreset Recognize when your body is speaking and what it's saying... this is the PATTERN.And then what to do with the info as INFO, not authority. Anchor into Truth, biblical Truth. This is how we regulate and respond; disrupt patterns and walk in freedom and healing! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

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Send us Fan MailGod created us as holistic beings: mind, body and spirit. Learn to integrate biblical Truth as anchor and recognize information we receive from our bodies. And how we submit BOTH under the authority of Christ- the FINISHED work of the Cross.Let's dive in! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the most important questions in marriage: What does true love actually look like in marriage?Real love is about so much more than attraction, romance, or grand gestures. It's revealed in the everyday moments, through kindness, sacrifice, emotional connection, commitment, physical intimacy, and the way spouses continue choosing each other through every season of life.Whether your marriage feels strong right now or you're working to reconnect, this episode will encourage you to nurture the habits that create deeper intimacy and lasting connection.The strongest marriages are not perfect marriages, they are marriages where two people keep learning how to love each other better every single day.

In this guided meditation, bring your exhaustion to God and receive His gift of true rest. Let Him restore your body,mind, and spirit as you pause, surrender, and find renewal in His presence.FREE (or Super Affordable) ResourcesStories Only Strangers Can See e-book: ⁠⁠https://form.jotform.com/250124488113147⁠⁠If You're in a Difficult Marriage:Safety First: If you're not safe—or if you or your children are being physically or sexually harmed—pleasecreate a safety plan and reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline(1-800-799-7233). Safety plan: ⁠⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠⁠Confidential marriage assessment: ⁠⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠⁠7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠⁠Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠⁠Decision Time e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness⁠⁠If You're Separated, Divorced, or a Single Mom:Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book:⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠⁠All other courses: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness

Send us Fan MailWhat if intimacy isn't gone…just buried under years of pain, fear, resentment, disappointment, betrayal, or self-protection?In this episode, Chelsey shares 10 practical ways to restore intimacy God's way—not through pressure, pretending, or rushing healing, but through surrender, safety, grief, openness, and intentionally moving toward one another again.Because God's design for intimacy was never simply physical.It was always:to be fully known…and fully loved. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan Mail“Intimacy will never be the same.”Maybe you've heard that.Maybe you've even believed it.In this episode, Chelsey confronts one of the most hopeless messages surrounding marriage after betrayal, wounds, and broken trust—and asks a different question:What if God actually restores?This episode explores intimacy through the lens of surrender, healing, softness, trust rebuilding, and God's design for delight within marriage.Because what feels impossible to us…rarely limits God. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Why is it that the smallest things in marriage can suddenly turn into the biggest fights?We recently asked YOU — our Ultimate Intimacy audience: “Do little things ever cause bigger issues in your marriage?” …and a shocking 95% of couples said YES! Honestly, it was comforting to know we aren't the only ones who've watched something tiny spiral into tension, frustration, or a full-blown argument.

Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself wondering, "What else can I do?"In this episode, Christine shares a powerful insight from a recent marriage roundtable that challenged the way she thinks about couples who are struggling. The speaker made a simple but profound statement:"Most people don't want to get divorced. They just don't know what else they can do."Together, we'll explore what happens when one spouse is leaning into the marriage while the other is leaning out, why traditional marriage counseling isn't always the right starting place, and how gaining clarity can sometimes be more important than finding immediate solutions.If you're feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure of what your next step should be, this conversation will offer hope, perspective, and a reminder that there may be more paths forward than you realize.In this episode you'll learn:• Why some couples struggle to engage in marriage counseling• The difference between fixing a marriage and finding clarity• The three paths explored in discernment counseling• How self-reflection can create movement when you feel stuck• Why many people considering divorce are actually searching for hopeIf you'd like support navigating your own marriage crossroads, schedule a Courageous Love Conversation using the link in the show notes.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipDoes communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what's true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving.Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now!Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage.More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings....

Send us Fan MailForgiveness is one of the most misunderstood concepts in marriage.Many Christians believe forgiveness means forgetting, pretending it didn't hurt, immediately restoring trust, or never struggling again.Others stay trapped waiting to forgive until the pain completely disappears.In this episode, Chelsey dives into what biblical forgiveness actually is, what it isn't, and how surrendering the healing process to God often looks very different than we expect.Because forgiveness may happen in a moment.But walking out healing, rebuilding trust, and learning to live differently may take much longer. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailYou said you wanted a fun summer.So why does it already feel chaotic?In this follow-up episode, Chelsey shares the 10 rules helping her create a summer built around peace, responsibility, freedom, and connection- not survival.From routines and screens to rhythms and responsibilities, this episode will help you intentionally build an environment where both moms and kids can thrive.Because peaceful summers rarely happen accidentally. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Visit LoveYourPeopleWell.com/marriage for my top resources, tips, and recommendations for 15+ years as a marriage therapist!   Episode 295 // Date nights are wonderful, but my husband and I don't do them very regularly. Yet, we have a very happy marriage! Even during the crazy season of 4 little kids at home.    Today, I'll share my personal experience (and my marriage therapist experience!) around how we handle date nights and what we do to keep our marriage strong.    There's no need to cancel your date nights, but I hope these rhythms and tips that I share will help you and your husband stay connected whether the date nights are happening or not.   Let's dive in.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Grab my free Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet at LoveYourPeopleWell.com/conflict    DEVOTIONAL: Deepen your marriage communication with my “Communicating To Connect” 40-day devotional for wives - Visit LoveYourPeopleWell.com/shop/marriage40    INTIMACY: Find online Christian intimacy support in my resources list at LoveYourPeopleWell.com/marriage    RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Strengthening Your Christian Marriage In A Hard Season (EP 269)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 29 Steamy Tips For An Amazing Married Date Night   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to behind-the-scenes family life encouragement.   Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com

Send us Fan MailYour kids were never supposed to become the center of your home.Yet summer has a funny way of making marriages revolve around:sports activities screens chauffeuring and survival mode.In this episode, Chelsey shares 10 practical rules to help you protect your marriage, stay connected, and build a family culture where your relationship remains the foundation- not an afterthought.Because one day the kids leave.Your marriage stays. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

This week on Trailer Parked Theology, Josh and Kristi share a takeaway from a recent marriage retreat that challenged one of the most common images used to explain Christian marriage: the triangle. They explore how sacramental marriage is about far more than two individuals independently pursuing God.Together they unpack a richer vision of marriage as a living icon of Christ's love for the Church, where spouses become instruments of God's grace for one another and for the world.The conversation then shifts into 1 John 2:7-11, where John speaks of an "old" commandment that is somehow also "new." Josh and Kristi explore how Jesus fulfilled the commandment of love, transforming it from instruction into lived demonstration through His life, death, and resurrection.Episode HighlightsThe popular "marriage triangle" analogySacramental marriage as an icon of Christ and His ChurchHow spouses help lead one another to heavenThe difference between the "old" and "new" commandment in 1 JohnHow Jesus demonstrated perfect love rather than simply teaching itWhy growth often begins when God reveals our blind spotsLearning to receive correction with humility and gracePractical ways to see God's presence in everyday lifeScripture Discussed1 John 2:7-11 Support the show

What if some of the marriage advice you've always believed is actually hurting your relationship? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy reveal the most common marriage advice they were given (or that they have heard) before and after getting married, advice that sounded wise, was widely accepted, and was often shared with the best intentions, but ultimately did more harm than good.From popular relationship clichés to long-held beliefs about what makes a marriage successful, they unpack the advice they discovered was actually creating frustration, misunderstanding, and disconnection instead of strengthening their relationship.You may be surprised by how many of these marriage "rules" you've heard, or even followed yourself. Tune in and see if you agree with their list! We would also love to hear anything you have heard and include them in a future episode.

Send us Fan MailWhy does life suddenly feel chaotic when routines disappear?Maybe summer isn't creating the problem.Maybe it's revealing it.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how easily life drifts out of order- especially during busy seasons—and why many women unintentionally place kids, schedules, responsibilities, and work above the things that actually create peace.You'll learn how God's design for right order creates stability, why environment matters more than motivation, and how to intentionally build a home that flourishes instead of simply surviving.Because peace rarely happens accidentally. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

Send us Fan MailGod gave me this vision of a courtroom. This image should break us of self-righteousness in marriage. Are you standing next to the accuser in agreement over your husband's offenses? Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

Do you feel stuck in the same arguments, frustrations, and disappointments in your christian marriage? Explore the powerful mindset shift that can transform your relationship: moving from Victim Alley to the Leader Highway. Many christian couples unknowingly fall into patterns of blame, judgment, resentment, and hopelessness. But what if lasting change starts not with changing your spouse, but with changing the way you respond?   In this conversation, you'll learn: ✅ The signs you're operating from a victim mindset ✅ How blame and rumination damage relationships ✅ Why healing is essential for healthy conflict resolution ✅ The difference between reacting and responding ✅ Biblical principles for personal growth and marriage transformation ✅ How to move from hopelessness to hope in your relationship   Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, this episode will help you identify unhealthy patterns and discover a Christ-centered path toward healing, growth, and connection.  

Samuel Goulet shares a practical and encouraging message on how strong families are built by centering the home on Christ. He explains that discipleship begins at home through both testimony and structure—parents modeling God's faithfulness while creating a culture marked by love, forgiveness, compassion, and daily spiritual formation. This episode challenges families to move beyond condemnation, embrace conviction, and intentionally build homes where God's Word is lived out, passed on, and reflected in everyday life.

By Stephen Bouchette - Marriage is one of the most rewarding and challenging things in life. Through the seasons of a marriage, what actually holds a marriage together over time? There are four foundational pillars of marriage: humility, effort, communication, and empathy. These are not only interpersonal skills, but

Today is day 146 and we are studying The Sacrament of Marriage. 146. What is Christian marriage? Christian marriage, or Holy Matrimony, is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, uniting them in self-giving love, joy, and faithfulness. It is ordained by God for the procreation and spiritual nurture of children, the sanctification of husband and wife, the mutual support of their common life, and the flourishing of family, church, and society. Husband and wife enter into this covenant by exchanging vows before God and in the presence of witnesses. (Genesis 2:18–25; Song of Solomon 4:7–10; Matthew 19:3–9; John 2:1–11; Romans 7:2–3; Hebrews 13:4; see questions 322–23) We will conclude today with the Address to the Congregation during Holy Matrimony on pages 201-202 of the Book of Common Prayer (2019). If you would like to buy or download To Be a Christian, head to anglicanchurch.net/catechism. Produced by Holy Trinity Anglican Church in Madison, MS. Original music from Matthew Clark. Daily collects and Psalms are taken from Book of Common Prayer (2019), created by the Anglican Church in North America and published by the Anglican Liturgical Press. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Catechism readings are taken from To Be a Christian - An Anglican Catechism Approved Edition, copyright © 2020 by The Anglican Church in North America by Crossway a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Most people who know the five love languages have tried speaking their partner's language — and wondered why it still isn't working. The problem usually isn't the language. It's something underneath it.Dr. Gary Chapman returns with new research showing how personality, empathy, and the subtle dialects within each love language determine whether love actually lands. In this conversation, he and Michael explore why speaking someone's love language can backfire if it runs against their personality, what it looks like to confuse encouragement with pressure, and why the most important question in a marriage might be as simple as "How can I make your life easier?"At 88 years old, Chapman also shares the turning point in his own marriage — a vision of Jesus washing his disciples' feet that changed not his technique, but his posture.Dr. Gary Chapman is a marriage counselor, pastor, and author of The Five Love Languages, which has sold over 20 million copies worldwide, and his newest book, The Love Language That Matters Most.Support the showENGAGE THE RESTORING THE SOUL PODCAST:- Follow us on YouTube - Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Follow us on Instagram & Twitter- Follow Michael on Twitter- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.com Thanks for listening!