Podcast appearances and mentions of christian marriage

Send us Fan MailBefore your spouse can faithfully hold your heart, God must have it first.In this opening episode, we uncover the foundation of every thriving marriage: a heart fully surrendered to Christ. Discover why God isn't after your performance but your heart, how we've unknowingly asked our spouses to carry what only God can, and why right order changes everything. When Christ becomes your first love, marriage becomes the beautiful overflow- not the source- of intimacy. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

What if the biggest problems in marriage are not actually the problems you can see? In this heartfelt and practical conversation, I sit down with Christian marriage coach Casper Stockham to talk about communication, selfishness, hidden emotional wounds, and the small daily habits that shape healthy relationships. Casper and his wife Cheryl have spent nearly two decades helping couples move from conflict and disconnection into deeper understanding, partnership, and joy. Together, we unpack why couples often wait until the “11th hour” to seek help, how unresolved frustrations quietly build over time, and why learning to communicate differently can transform a marriage. This conversation is honest, relatable, and full of practical wisdom for couples who want more than survival; they want connection, peace, and partnership.In this episode:✨ The hidden issues underneath relationship conflict✨ Why selfishness quietly damages marriages✨ How communication changes everything✨ The power of addressing problems together instead of attacking each other✨ Real stories from Donna and Casper about everyday marriage struggles✨ Love languages, emotional needs, and creating lasting connection✨ Why marriage should still include joy and funConnect with Casper & Cheryl Stockham:

Send us Fan Mail Why God's Design Was Always Bigger Than You What if God's ultimate purpose for your marriage isn't simply your happiness—but His glory?In this final episode of the series, we discover that marriage has always been about something greater than two people. Through Ephesians 5, you'll see how God's design for husbands and wives is a living picture of Christ's love for His Church. When we stop making marriage about ourselves and start making it about revealing Jesus, everything changes. Flourishing isn't the goal—it's the fruit of lives surrendered to God's authority and committed to displaying the Gospel to the world. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat does biblical submission actually look like on an ordinary Tuesday?In this practical episode, we're moving beyond misconceptions to discover how submission is lived out in everyday marriage. We'll talk about respect, honor, influence instead of control, making specific requests, handling disagreement, and why your obedience is an act of worship- not a strategy to change your husband. God's design isn't about making women smaller; it's about creating marriages that flourish for His glory. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat if the goal of your marriage isn't simply a better relationship—but becoming more like Jesus?In this final episode, we bring the entire series together by looking at the heart of biblical marriage: daily surrender. Through John 3:30, Galatians 2:20, and the Gospel, you'll discover that flourishing isn't found in demanding more from your spouse but in giving more of yourself to Christ. As we decrease and He increases, our marriages become living testimonies of God's love, grace, and glory. Because the greatest gift you can give your spouse isn't a perfect version of you—it's a life fully surrendered to Jesus. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Many couples tell us, and we've seen it in our own marriage too, that they keep running into the same arguments over and over again. Even after trying counseling, things might improve for a short time… but before long, they slip right back into the same patterns.So what actually creates lasting change in a relationship?In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with Nick and Amy, we talk with Austin, a therapist who often works with couples after they've already seen two or three other counselors and are feeling discouraged that nothing has worked. Instead of repeating the same approaches, Austin takes a different path, one that helps couples break out of stuck cycles and finally start moving forward.He shares what he does differently in therapy and why those shifts lead to real, lasting progress for the couples he works with.

Send us Fan MailSubmission has become one of the most misunderstood words in the Church. But before it was ever about marriage, it was about trusting God.In this episode, we'll explore why God is a God of order, why Ephesians 5 begins with reverence for Christ, and why obedience always comes before the outcome we're praying for. Discover why biblical submission isn't about losing your voice- it's about trusting the heart of the Designer and allowing His order to bring flourishing to your marriage Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailHave you unknowingly asked your spouse to do what only God can do?In this episode, we uncover one of the greatest obstacles to intimacy: expecting our spouse to become our source of peace, security, identity, or worth. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, but it makes a terrible god. Discover how putting Christ back on the throne frees you to delight in your spouse instead of depending on them, and why the strongest marriages are built by two people whose deepest needs are already being met by Jesus. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWe're always just one generation away from forgetting God. And wives are no different.In this episode, we'll explore how God's people went from readying for war against their brothers across the Jordan to forgetting about what He had done for them in just ONE generation. Discover how this impacts marriage and also future generations.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

What does it look like to follow Jesus in the everyday tension of motherhood, marriage, leadership, and personal healing? In episode four of our Summer Recap Series, Shelley Giglio is joined by author, Bible teacher, and podcaster Jackie Hill Perry for a raw and wisdom filled conversation about humility, trust, and the hidden work of sanctification. Jackie shares candidly about parenting four children while staying rooted in her calling, building a marriage grounded in friendship with her husband Preston, and learning to trust God in places of deep personal hurt and uncertainty. Together, they unpack what it means to live as disciples who choose obedience over ego, faith over fear, and gratitude over envy. This episode will encourage you to see God differently in your suffering, to embrace the narrow road of discipleship, and to trust that He is faithful in every step of your story. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Send us Fan MailModern culture has discipled women to believe freedom is found in rejecting God's design. Scripture teaches the opposite.In this episode, we're asking one question: Who defines womanhood- culture or Christ? We'll explore how competing worldviews have shaped marriage, why God's design isn't oppressive but protective, and why Christian wives cannot build flourishing marriages on a foundation that contradicts God's Word. God's design has always been for our good, our freedom, and His glory. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

When you hear the word gentleness, what comes to mind? If you're anything like me, you may think of someone who is quiet, passive, or soft-spoken. But what if we've misunderstood biblical gentleness all along? This week on The Love Offering Podcast, I had the joy of talking with Christie Thomas, author of Everyday Prayers for Gentleness. As fellow authors in the Everyday Prayers series through Million Praying Moms, we share a passion for helping women become more like Jesus through the power of prayer. Christie reminded me that gentleness isn't weakness at all—it's Spirit-empowered strength. In our conversation, we discussed: • Why gentleness is one of the most countercultural fruits of the Spirit.• How Jesus perfectly modeled both strength and tenderness.• Practical ways to respond with gentleness in marriage, parenting, friendships, church relationships, and even online.• How choosing gentleness can transform the atmosphere of your home and point others to the heart of Christ. One statement Christie shared has stayed with me: "Jesus is never just the Lion, and He's never just the Lamb. He's always both." What a beautiful picture of the kind of strength God wants to cultivate in us. If you've been feeling frustrated, overwhelmed, or quick to react lately, I think this conversation will encourage you. It reminded me that the strongest people aren't always the loudest—they're often the ones most surrendered to the Holy Spirit. I hope you'll take a few moments to listen. My prayer is that God will use this conversation to help all of us become women whose words, attitudes, and actions reflect the gentle heart of Jesus. Connect with Christie Thomas: Website: https://littleshootsdeeproots.com Instagram: @littleshootsdeeproots Connect with Rachael Adams: Website: https://rachaelkadams.com Instagram: @rachaeladamsauthor Podcast: The Love Offering Podcast Support the Show: https://rachaelkadams.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

For most couple's, talking about sex is a very difficult thing to do. It often times turns into an argument and can cause even more of a disconnect in the relationship. If you are one of these couples, you are not alone and will see from our poll that most couples have a hard time talking about sexual intimacy in their relationship. But remember, if you want to get better at something, or even become an expert at it, you have to talk about it all the time!Consider this, if something causes an argument in your marriage, that means it is a problem. And if you have a problem, wouldn't that make it even more important to talk about so it doesn't become a bigger problem, or you can eliminate the problem in your relationship? Most couples just don't know where to begin or how to approach it the right way. Trust us, we were one of these couples for the first 15 years of our marriage. In this episode, we share the secrets on how to master the art of having intimate conversations, and transform your relationship. After listening to this episode, you are going to want to have these type of intimate conversations together all the time :)❤️ Listen now and share this episode with someone who wants a stronger marriage.

Send us Fan MailWhy do we ask God to restore what we're unwilling to surrender?In this episode, we're opening the book of Judges to uncover a sobering pattern: partial obedience always leads to compromise. The Israelites entered the Promised Land but refused to fully obey God's commands, and one generation later they had forgotten the Lord and were living according to their own ways. What does this have to do with marriage? More than you think. If we're praying for God's blessing while resisting His authority, we're building on the wrong foundation. Flourishing begins with conviction, confession, repentance, and wholehearted obedience. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

William F. Buckley once observed, “The most important intellectual enterprise is the distinction between right and wrong.” In today's episode of the MY Devotional Podcast, Dr. Michael Youssef reminds believers that compromise with the world's view of sin can quickly dull our sensitivity to God's Truth. Our emotions are unreliable guides. When we build decisions, relationships, or moral convictions on feelings alone, we become confused and miserable. This is especially true in close relationships, including marriage, where we must learn to live from the perspective of what is true, right, and pleasing to God. Dr. Youssef points to James 4, where Scripture exposes the root of fights and quarrels: desires battling within us, selfish motives, coveting, and prayer aimed at personal pleasure rather than God's will. Genuine happiness does not come from forcing our own way or avoiding God's plan. It comes through obedience, surrender, and humble submission. When God is involved, submission is not bondage—it is freedom. A life submitted to Jesus experiences lasting joy, restored relationships, and the liberating peace of walking in His will each day. The voice you hear on the MY Devotional podcast is digitally generated with Dr. Youssef's permission. If today's devotional stirred a question, burden, or need for prayer, you don't have to walk through it alone.

Send us Fan MailFollowing Jesus isn't complicated—but it will cost you your pride, your control, and your timeline.In this final episode, we're bringing the series full circle by returning to the beauty of simple obedience. If you've been waiting for another sign, another answer, or another confirmation, perhaps God is inviting you to simply obey what He's already made clear. Because when you seek Him first, give Him your attention, and surrender your heart, everything else begins to find its proper place. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailHave we confused grace with passivity?The gospel doesn't call us to sit back and do nothing. It calls us to work, steward, build, and serve—but from acceptance, not for acceptance. In this episode, we'll unpack the difference between striving to earn God's favor and faithfully stewarding the life He's already given you. Discover why discipline is not the enemy of grace but one of its greatest fruits. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat if worship isn't something you attend or a song you sing—but the way you live?In this episode, we're redefining worship through the lens of Scripture. From your workout to your marriage, your parenting to your work, every ordinary moment becomes holy when it's offered to the Lord. Discover how consecrating your attention transforms everyday responsibilities into acts of worship and why seeking God first changes not just your quiet time—but your entire life. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

In this powerful follow-up episode, we continue our conversation with therapist Austin about one of the most misunderstood topics in marriage: obligatory sex. If you haven't listened to Part 1 (Episode 483), we highly recommend starting there first.In this episode, we dive deeper into why obligatory sex happens, the emotional and relational patterns that fuel it, and what couples can do to break free from the cycle. If you want to build greater intimacy, understanding, and connection in your relationship, you won't want to miss this important conversation.

Send us Fan MailWhat has your attention right now?Because whatever consistently has your attention is shaping your heart.In this episode, we're exploring one of the most powerful principles in spiritual formation: attention shapes affection. We'll talk about why the enemy fights for your attention, how what you repeatedly notice changes your marriage, your parenting, and your relationship with God, and why learning to intentionally direct your attention may be one of the most practical ways to seek the Kingdom first. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhy does God care so much about being first?Because whatever comes first shapes everything that follows.In this episode, we're unpacking the biblical principle of first—from Genesis to Matthew 6—and discovering why seeking God first isn't another box to check but the foundation for peace, wisdom, and right order. When God has your first attention, every other decision begins to fall into its proper place. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat if God isn't withholding an answer… what if He's building your foundation?So often we bring God questions about decisions, timelines, relationships, parenting, or the future, while He's inviting us into something much deeper: seeking Him first.In this episode, we'll unpack why God often focuses on the condition of our hearts before the circumstances around us, what the wilderness was really for, and why the foundation God builds in you is far more important than the decisions you're asking Him to make for you. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Denise Renner joins me for a powerful conversation on identity, marriage, and the transformative power of hearing God's voice, even when you feel you've lost yourself. We dive deep into the real-world struggles Christian wives face and how to find true freedom and purpose in Christ.

We are getting close to 500 episodes of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, and after all this time, we've talked about almost every marriage topic imaginable — communication, connection, intimacy, conflict, trust, romance, and everything in between.But every once in a while, something crosses our path that makes us stop and say, “We need to talk about this.”That happened when we came across a post titled “The 11 Golden Rules of Marriage.” It wasn't just another list of marriage tips — it was a simple but powerful reminder of the things that truly matter when it comes to building a strong, passionate, and lasting relationship.The truth is, marriage can sometimes feel overwhelming. We hear about all the things a wife needs, all the things a husband needs, all the things we should be doing better… and before long, it can feel like we're failing because we aren't doing enough.But what if it doesn't have to be that complicated?What if focusing on a few foundational principles could completely change the way we love, serve, communicate, and connect with our spouse?In this episode, we break down these 11 Golden Rules of Marriage and share our own thoughts, experiences, and lessons we've learned throughout our journey together. These are simple things every couple can start applying today to create a marriage that doesn't just survive... but truly thrives.Whether you've been married for 6 months or 60 years, we believe these reminders can strengthen your relationship and help you reconnect with the person you chose forever.We'd love to hear your thoughts after listening as to which rule stood out to you the most?❤️ Listen now and share this episode with someone who wants a stronger marriage.

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Send us Fan MailWhat you reach for first every morning reveals what is leading your heart. In this short episode, we're talking about why right order isn't a religious routine- it's the foundation for daily surrender. If you've been feeling reactive, overwhelmed, or spiritually dry, this simple shift could change everything. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailCommunication isn't the deepest issue in most struggling marriages.Repentance is.In the final episode of this series, we're talking about the uncomfortable but freeing truth that transformation begins when we stop asking God to change everyone else and invite Him to search our own hearts.We'll unpack why communication tools can never replace surrender, why repentance restores what pride destroys, and how God uses marriage to sanctify us into the image of Christ.If you've been praying for breakthrough, this episode is an invitation to start where revival has always begun—with your own heart. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailGod is a God of order, and when our lives drift out of His design, we often experience unnecessary overwhelm, frustration, resentment, and exhaustion.In this episode, we're talking about what right order actually looks like in everyday life. From putting God first to stewarding yourself well, prioritizing your marriage, and leading your home with intentionality, you'll discover that right order isn't about perfection—it's about alignment.Because when your priorities are aligned with God's design, peace becomes the overflow instead of something you're constantly chasing. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailPeace isn't something you buy. Joy isn't something you chase. Self-control isn't something you white-knuckle.They're all fruit.In this episode, we're diving into John 15 to discover what Jesus actually meant when He said, "Abide in Me." We'll explore why so many wives are trying to produce the fruit of the Spirit while feeding the flesh, how God uses pruning to produce lasting transformation, and why abiding—not striving—is the key to flourishing.If you've been exhausted trying harder, this episode is an invitation to remain connected to the Vine. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailThis Podcast is part of a 10-year project to complete an in-depth, daily study of the entire Bible, chapter by chapter, verse by verse. Episode Notes:  Walking in Submission - Advice for Christian Marriage. (Ephesians 5: 21-33)  The text now turns to one of the most practical, most needed, and let's be honest, most misunderstood subjects in the entire New Testament: Because we are advised to walk in submission. And we are going to consider it in the context of where most people live, this aspect of the Christian walk out that is within marriage.  With so many marriages falling apart today, with so many couples struggling, with so much confusion about roles, expectations, and responsibilities, with so much advice given online by so-called influencers, one of the greatest needs in our society is a clear, healthy, godly model of marriage. A model people can look at and say, “If we lived like that, we would have a strong, joyful, lasting marriage.” I wonder if you know a couple like that? A couple whose marriage you would gladly recommend as a model for others? I think many of us might struggle to think of one, but the good news is this. God Himself has given us the perfect model for marriage. Not a cultural model, not a modern model, not a traditional model, and certainly not a psychological model. A biblical model. A Christ‑centred model. A Spirit‑filled model. And Paul lays it out for us in Ephesians 5. Now, some of you might be thinking. “I'm not married — why do I need this?” Let me tell you why. If you're single, you need this more than married people do. Married people are already in the middle of their story; they're already living out the consequences of the choices they made. But if you're single, you still have the opportunity to choose wisely, to prepare well, to know what to look for, and to build your expectations on God's design rather than the world's confusion. And even if you're single and have no plans to marry, you still need this passage. Why? Because you know married people. You will be asked for advice. You will be asked to pray. You might be asked to support, encourage, or guide, and you need to know what God says, so you can help others wisely. So today, we are going to look at: ·         God's model for marriage,·         The meaning of biblical submission,·         The sacrificial love of Christ,·         And how marriage becomes a living picture of the relationship between Christ and His church. And it all begins with one foundational verse: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” (Ephesians 5:21) This is the doorway into everything that follows. Before Paul speaks to wives, before he speaks to husbands, before he speaks about roles, before he even speaks about love and sacrifice, he lays down this principle: The Christian life is a life of mutual submission. A life shaped by Christlike humility. A life marked by self‑giving love. This is the heartbeat of Christian marriage. This is the heartbeat of Christian relationships. This is the heartbeat of the gospel….Support the showThis podcast is not associated with the Bible Project YouTube channel or any other associated podcasts that use the name 'Bible Project'. It is entirely the work of Jeremy R McCandless...Follow and support me on Patreon.Jeremy McCandless | Creating Podcasts and Bible Study Resources | PatreonTo receive my weekly newsletter and keep up to date with all five of my podcasts, subscribe at:Jeremy McCandless | SubstackCheck out my other Podcasts.My History of the Christian Church: https://thehistoryofthechristianchurch.buzzsprout.comThe L.I.F.E. Podcast: (Philosophy and current trends in the Arts and Entertainment Podcast).https://the-living-in-faith-everyday-podcast.buzzsprout.comThe Renewed Mind Podcast. My Psychology and Mental Health Podcast:https://www.buzzsprout.com/2568891The Classic Literature Podcast:https://www.buzzsprout.com/2568906To visit my Author page on Amazon and view my entire back catalogue of books on both Amazon and Kindle, and now also on Audible, Visit:Amazon.com: Jeremy R Mccandless: books, biography, latest...

Send us Fan MailWhat if the reason you keep feeling stuck isn't because you lack peace—but because you've been chasing relief instead?In this episode, we're unpacking the difference between temporary relief and the lasting peace that only Christ produces. We'll talk about why we reach for quick fixes when life feels overwhelming, the difference between rest and escape, and why God often uses discomfort to reveal, heal, and transform us.If you've ever found yourself wanting to "take the edge off," this episode will challenge you to stop settling for relief and start pursuing the Prince of Peace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhat do you reach for when life feels overwhelming?For some wives it's scrolling. For others it's shopping, food, busyness, wine, supplements, endless productivity, or simply staying distracted.This episode isn't about condemning a product or a habit. It's about asking a deeper question:What are we asking created things to do that only Jesus can do?We'll explore the modern counterfeits of peace, why they never truly satisfy, and how abiding in Christ produces the lasting fruit we're actually longing for.If you've ever found yourself trying to “take the edge off” instead of bringing your burdens to the Lord, this episode will lovingly challenge you to choose the better portion. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy explore the 10 things wives wish their husbands truly understood. Drawing from conversations with thousands of women, personal experiences, and years of helping couples strengthen their marriages, they discuss the emotional, relational, and practical needs that often go unspoken.From the importance of emotional connection and feeling appreciated to communication, affection, partnership, and intimacy, this episode offers husbands valuable insights into what many wives desire most in a healthy, thriving marriage. Nick and Amy also share simple, actionable ways husbands can better love, support, and connect with their wives, helping build greater trust, closeness, and lasting intimacy.Whether you've been married for a few years or several decades, this conversation will help couples better understand one another, improve communication, and create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. If you've ever wondered what your wife may be thinking but hasn't quite found the words to say, this episode is a great place to start.

I share an honest conversation about trusting God in seasons that feel unbearably heavy. Through real stories of women facing heartbreak and my own journey through pain and rebuilding, I offers hope, grounding practices, and gentle reminders that God hasn't forgotten you. If you're carrying something hard, this episode will steady your faith and your breathing.Genesis 28 - I will protect you in challenging times Matthew 12 - I will limit the quantity of pain and difficulties you face Jeremiah 30 - I will bring you healing when you are broken Hebrews 13 - I am with you and will never leave you Revelation 22 - I will eventually end your sorrow and bring you a wonderful future Isaiah 41 - I am your strength Galatians 6 - I will reward your faithfulness 2 Corinthians 3 - I will revolutionize you into something beautiful (which I am already doing) Acts 14 - I will give you joy Matthew 11 - I will make your burden light John 14 - I will give you peace Psalm 103 - I will remove your sin from you as far as the east is from the west Matthew 11 - I give you rest John 3 - I will love you completely all the days of your life   FREE (or Super Affordable) ResourcesStories Only Strangers Can See e-book: ⁠⁠https://form.jotform.com/250124488113147⁠⁠Every Kind of FreeKindle: https://amzn.to/4b1Q2ZNPaperback: https://amzn.to/4bACRz7Hardcover: https://amzn.to/4bJ8xm7 Audible: https://amzn.to/3OeBCgbYou're Going to Make It ThroughAmazon paperback: https://bit.ly/Youre-Going-to-Make-it-Through-paperbackKindle: https://bit.ly/Youre-Going-to-Make-it-Through-kindleAudible: https://bit.ly/Youre-Going-to-Make-it-Through-audibleIf You're in a Difficult Marriage: Safety First: If you're not safe—or if you or your children are being physically or sexually harmed—pleasecreate a safety plan and reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233). Safety plan: ⁠⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠⁠Confidential marriage assessment: ⁠⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠⁠7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠⁠Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠⁠Decision Time e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness⁠⁠If You're Separated, Divorced, or a Single Mom:Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book:⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠⁠All other courses: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness

Send us Fan MailDo you love Jesus, love your family, and still feel anxious, overwhelmed, overstimulated, and like you're constantly carrying the weight of everyone else's world?In this episode, we're diving into the story of Martha and Mary in Luke 10—not to shame busy wives, but to uncover what Jesus was actually addressing. Martha wasn't rebuked for serving. She was anxious, troubled, and distracted by many things.We'll unpack what it looks like to be a “modern Martha wife,” how good responsibilities can become disordered priorities, and why right order always begins at the feet of Jesus.This episode lays the foundation for a new series on abiding, counterfeit peace, and what it means to flourish as a surrendered, Spirit-led wife. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

  Are boundaries biblical? Can setting boundaries actually strengthen your christian marriage instead of hurting it?   In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove explore why healthy boundaries are essential for thriving Christian marriages and relationships.   Many Christians believe boundaries are selfish or unloving, but Scripture paints a very different picture. Learn how Jesus modeled healthy boundaries, why emotional maturity matters, and how respecting personal responsibility leads to stronger, healthier relationships.   In this episode, you'll learn:   ✔️ What healthy boundaries really are—and what they are not ✔️ Why boundaries are biblical, not selfish ✔️ How to communicate boundaries with love and respect ✔️ The difference between controlling someone and controlling yourself ✔️ Why saying "no" can actually strengthen your marriage ✔️ How boundaries reduce resentment and improve communication ✔️ Biblical principles for healthy Christian relationships   Whether you're struggling with conflict, people-pleasing, family dynamics, or marriage communication, this episode offers practical, Bible-based wisdom to help you build healthier relationships.   If this episode encouraged you, be sure to Like, Subscribe, and Share to help more couples build Christ-centered marriages.

Send us Fan MailThis vulnerability series isn't ultimately about communication.It's about the Gospel applied.In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks God's design for intimacy through vulnerability—not just so couples can feel closer, but so they can become one, reflect Christ, and live on mission together. From Genesis to John 17 to the fragrance of Christ in everyday life, this conversation will challenge you to see your marriage as more than a relationship to manage.It's a place where the Gospel gets worked out in real time.Because healthy oneness doesn't stop with you.It multiplies into your children, your church, your witness, and the greater Body of Christ. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailYou want to be vulnerable… but what do you actually say?In this episode, Chelsey gives you the practical framework to express hurt, loneliness, rejection, overwhelm, and disconnection in a way that creates intimacy instead of conflict.If you've ever found yourself blaming, shutting down, over-explaining, or hoping your spouse can just “figure it out,” this episode will help you move from self-protection to clarity, ownership, and connection.Because vulnerability isn't about saying more.It's about revealing what's true—and offering a path forward together. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

If you're a regular listener of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, you've probably heard Austin talk about the importance of becoming "one" in marriage. But what does that really mean, and why is it so important for creating a thriving relationship?In this episode, Austin dives deep into the concept of unity in marriage and explains why so many couples struggle to feel connected despite living under the same roof. In today's world, it's easy for spouses to become independent roommates—pursuing separate interests, managing their own lives, making individual decisions, and gradually drifting apart without even realizing it.While individuality is important, a strong marriage requires more than simply coexisting. It requires intentionally building a life together. Becoming "one" doesn't mean losing your identity; it means aligning your goals, priorities, decisions, and hearts so that you are moving in the same direction as a team.Austin shares practical insights on how couples can create greater unity, strengthen emotional and physical intimacy, improve communication, and avoid the subtle habits that create division within a marriage. He discusses what it looks like to truly partner with your spouse, make decisions together, support each other's dreams, and build a relationship where both partners feel connected, valued, and understood.

Send us Fan MailWomen often think they're being vulnerable because they're talking.Explaining.Processing.Venting.Sharing every detail.But sometimes all those words are keeping the real heart hidden.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the feminine side of vulnerability and why so many wives communicate around the wound instead of revealing it. You'll learn how self-protection can show up through over-explaining, how to identify what's actually happening underneath the words, and why emotional intimacy grows when we stop hiding behind information and start telling the truth.Because your husband doesn't need more details.He needs access to your heart. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

We are so busy with so many things of the world, our family, and of keeping our heads above water, that I wonder if we spend time thinking about who we are - how we want to be remembered by our husband, children, family, and friends.In this episode, I talk about how my mom's recent death made me stop and think about how I would like to be remembered.Take time, today, to commit to the woman, the wife, the mother, the grandmother, and friend that you would like to be.Everything else in life is of little importance.  How do you want to be remembered?Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us Fan MailLearn how male vulnerability often shows up in unexpected ways—and how understanding the heart underneath your husband's behavior can help rebuild intimacy, connection, and oneness.What if your husband is more vulnerable than you think… you just don't recognize it?In this episode, Chelsey breaks down the masculine side of vulnerability and why many men reveal their hearts differently than women expect. From silence and sarcasm to frustration, joking, or withdrawal, you'll learn how self-protection often masks deeper fears, longings, and needs for connection.Because vulnerability in men doesn't always look soft.Sometimes it comes out sideways.And if you can learn to hear the heart underneath the behavior, it can change the way you respond—and the intimacy you build. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailDiscover why vulnerability feels so difficult, what you're actually protecting, and how trusting God allows you to move toward deeper intimacy, healing, and connection.If vulnerability is the pathway to intimacy, why is it so difficult?Why do we want connection but pull away? Why do we long to be known yet struggle to reveal what's really happening inside of us?In this episode, Chelsey explores the real reason vulnerability feels so hard: self-protection. Drawing from Genesis, Colossians, and everyday marriage dynamics, she unpacks how old hurts, fear, and past experiences often teach us to hide, control, defend, and protect ourselves from further pain.You'll learn why self-protection and intimacy cannot coexist, how old receipts influence present reactions, and why true vulnerability isn't ultimately about trusting your spouse perfectly—it's about trusting God completely.Because healing begins when we stop asking, “What's wrong with me?” and start asking, “What am I protecting?” Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Has sexual intimacy become viewed as "optional" in your marriage?If your spouse came to you before you got married and said "Just so you know, when we are married, I am never going to be sexual intimate with you" would you have still got married? Of course not, because BOTH men and women know that sexual intimacy is vital to a happy and healthy marriage. So why do some many people (low desire spouses) treat sex as "optional" after they get married?So many good husbands reach out to us sharing a similar frustration: they constantly hear that emotional intimacy comes first, so they work hard to meet their spouse's emotional needs. They help around the house, become more intentional with communication, plan date nights, show affection, attend counseling, read books, listen to podcasts, and genuinely try to become a better husband. Yet despite all their efforts, little or nothing changes when it comes to the sexual connection in their marriage. Over time, many of these husbands begin to feel discouraged, rejected, and confused. They wonder why they are putting so much effort into the relationship while their desire for greater sexual intimacy seems to remain unmet. Some feel as though sexual intimacy has become "optional" in marriage and that they have slowly been transformed from a husband into an errand-running roommate who has been placed into the "friend zone."Recently, we received a powerful email from a listener who expressed these exact feelings after spending years investing time, energy, and money into improving his marriage. His message resonated because it reflects the reality and frustration that many spouses experience but often don't know how to talk about.In this week's episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we read portions of his email and dive into this difficult but important conversation. Why do so many husbands feel like they are doing everything they've been told to do, yet still feel disconnected sexually? Has the message of emotional intimacy been misunderstood? Is emotional connection always the missing piece, or are there times when other issues need to be addressed? What responsibility does each spouse have in creating a thriving intimate relationship?Join us as we discuss these questions, share our thoughts on the listener's concerns, and talk about how couples can move beyond frustration, resentment, and unmet expectations to create a marriage where both emotional and sexual intimacy are valued, prioritized, and nurtured.

In this guided meditation, invite God to help you understand and honor your limits with clarity and compassion. Learn to sethealthy boundaries without guilt, protect your heart, and walk in the freedom and love He designed for you.FREE (or Super Affordable) ResourcesEvery Kind of FreeKindle: https://amzn.to/4b1Q2ZNPaperback: https://amzn.to/4bACRz7Hardcover: https://amzn.to/4bJ8xm7 Audible: https://amzn.to/3OeBCgbStories Only Strangers Can See e-book: ⁠⁠https://form.jotform.com/250124488113147⁠⁠If You're in a Difficult Marriage:Safety First: If you're not safe—or if you or your children are being physically or sexually harmed—pleasecreate a safety plan and reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233). Safety plan: ⁠⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠⁠Confidential marriage assessment: ⁠⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠⁠7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠⁠Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠⁠Decision Time e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness⁠⁠If You're Separated, Divorced, or a Single Mom:Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book:⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠⁠All other courses: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness

How to Get More Love and Affection from Your WifeWhen a wife feels distant, trying to convince her to love more often creates pressure and disconnection. In this episode, Coach Jack helps men understand how emotional connection is rebuilt through consistent loving actions rather than reassurance, persuasion, or household responsibilities alone.What You'll Learn: How to focus on emotional connection instead of task-focused efforts  Why gaze, words, voice, touch, and listening matter more than routine responsibilities  How to help your wife feel uniquely special without pressuring her  How consistency helps rebuild trust when loving feelings have faded Want to Work With Coach Jack?Coach Jack's Re-Connections Coaching Package helps men stop pursuing, reduce pressure, and rebuild a friendly emotional connection with a distant wife. The focus is on helping her relax, enjoy the relationship again, and become more open to reconnecting.Key Takeaways: Love grows from actions, not persuasion Routine responsibilities do not replace romance.  A wife needs to feel uniquely valued.  Listening without fixing helps restore connection.  Pressure and pursuit make reconnection harder. Additional Resources: Re-Connections Coaching PackageFree Download: How to Talk to Your Wife: Restoring Loving Communication in a Damaged Relationship (eBook)Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

For decades, the church's answer to struggling marriages has been clear: pray more, submit more, give him what he needs. Sheila Wray Gregoire's research asked a different question: What if the advice itself is the problem?Drawing on a survey of 20,000 women, the largest ever done on Christian women's marital and sexual satisfaction, Sheila lays out what the data actually shows: a stark gap between men's and women's experiences, the quiet damage done by teaching women that sex is only his need, and why so many couples reach intercourse on their wedding night only to wonder if something is broken in her. She makes the case, gently but firmly, that if a teacher consistently produces bad fruit, the teacher's teaching deserves a second look.This is a rebroadcast of a 2021 conversation that remains one of the most meaningful in the show's history.Sheila Wray Gregoire is a researcher and author of The Great Sex Rescue.Support the showENGAGE THE RESTORING THE SOUL PODCAST:- Follow us on YouTube - Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Follow us on Instagram & Twitter- Follow Michael on Twitter- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.com Thanks for listening!

What do you do with all the emotions that linger after a fight with your spouse? Even when the argument is over, the hurt, disappointment, frustration, and unmet expectations can continue to swirl around in your mind and heart. In this episode, I sit down with Dave and Ann Wilson from FamilyLife Today to talk about what happens after marriage conflict and how to process those emotions in a healthy, Christ-centered way. We discuss recurring arguments, unmet expectations, disappointment in marriage, and practical ways to bring your emotions to God so resentment doesn't quietly take root. If you've ever felt stuck in the same marriage conflict over and over again, this conversation will remind you that healing and hope are possible. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN [00:00] Why Marriage Often Brings Our Deepest Emotional Triggers to the Surface [04:00] How to Find the Real Issue Underneath the Argument [15:00] The Hidden Wounds We Bring Into Marriage [20:00] Grieving the Marriage You Thought You Would Have [27:00] Help for Managing Emotions in Marriage: Tip #1: Asking God Before You Speak [32:00] Help for Managing Emotions in Marriage: Tip #2: Own Your Mistakes [35:00] What to Do When You Feel Hurt But Your Spouse Doesn't Understand [40:00] Protecting Hope During Long-Term Marriage Struggles [44:00] Using the A.D.D. Method to Process Marriage Emotions RESOURCES: Vertical Marriage: The One Secret That will Change Your Marriage by Dave and Ann Wilson How to Speak Life to Your Husband When All You Want to Do Is Yell at Him by Ann Wilson FamilyLife Today Podcast RELATED EPISODES: Ep 299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)? Ep 301: What to Do When Your Husband Shuts Down Emotionally with Sathiya Sam Ep 342: Help for Emotional Overreaction in Relationships Ep 328: When Your Husband Is Driving You Crazy with Ann + Dave Wilson   Send us Fan Mail