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415. Are You Addicted to Drama? How to Know & How to Fix it with Dr. Scott Lyons Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and author, discusses the concept of drama addiction. He explains the physiological and psychological mechanisms behind this addiction, how to know if you have one, and how we can begin to break free from these cycles.  -The top question to ask to yourself to understand your trauma -Why you may feel unsafe when relaxed -How drama addiction shows up in our own bodies -Why boredom is actually a good sign on the path to healing -Beginner steps to start divesting from drama Dr. Scott Lyons is a licensed holistic psychologist, educator and author of the best selling book Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others Scott is also the host of The Gently Used Human Podcast, a delightfully depthful and often hilarious exploration of what it is to be human, to have lived life, and come out gently used. As a renowned body-based trauma expert and Mind-Body Medicine specialist, Scott also helps people to break free from cycles of pain, limited beliefs, and trauma. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this intimate episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and body-based trauma expert, to explore how vocalizing pleasure can transform your intimate experiences. From a candid discussion about their couples massage experience in Vegas to practical advice on overcoming sexual silence, this episode reveals why making authentic sounds during sex creates deeper connection and more intense pleasure. We dive into the psychology behind sexual silence, examining how childhood conditioning, shame, and societal expectations keep us quiet when we should be expressing ourselves. Dr. Scott explains the nervous system science behind vocalization, including how making sounds stimulates the vagus nerve and helps regulate our bodies during intimate moments. We also tackle the difference between authentic pleasure sounds and performative moaning influenced by porn culture. This episode addresses common concerns like being too loud with roommates or kids in the house, offers practical exercises for gradually increasing your vocal expression, and explores how sound creates crucial feedback loops between partners. Whether you're naturally quiet or overly performative, you'll learn how to find your authentic voice of pleasure. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - The Vegas Massage Story: Learning from Authentic Sound 03:00:00 - Why We Stay Silent During Pleasure 06:41:00 - Men, Masturbation & the Culture of Quiet Sex 08:26:00 - Sound as Nervous System Regulation 11:07:00 - Authentic vs. Performative Vocalization 15:38:00 - The Sixth Limb: Your Voice as Extension of Your Body 18:06:00 - Shame, Control & Sexual Expression 23:10:00 - Practical Exercises: Touch for Pleasure Practice 28:14:00 - Sensory Play & Exploration 30:04:00 - Parents, Kids & Sexual Noise Concerns 33:08:00 - The 10% Challenge: Starting Small Join Dr. Emily and Dr. Scott as they share personal insights and professional expertise on breaking through sexual silence to unlock deeper pleasure and connection. This episode includes a live demonstration and practical homework to help you discover your authentic voice of pleasure. Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/  Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ  (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let's get social:  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/  X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily  Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily   Let's text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Host Tony Harwood is joined by Scott Lyons, union officer and former teacher, for a no-holds-barred conversation about violence in schools and its impact on teachers. Drawing on data from recent surveys and first-hand experiences, they explore the growing concerns around pupil-on-teacher aggression, the challenges of restorative practice, and the blurred lines between school and parental responsibility. The discussion also touches on the rise in misogynistic behaviour, the effects of the pandemic on pupil development, and the future of education in a world shaped by AI and shifting demographics. Sponsored by: John Catt Educational – visit the John Catt Bookshop and use code JCTTR2425 for 20% off professional development titles.

This week on Sex With Emily, we're tackling one of the most harmful and outdated questions in modern dating: "What's your body count?" In conversation with holistic psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Scott Lyons, we explore the troubling origins of this term, once used to count military casualties, and how it's been repurposed to judge sexual history, often unfairly targeting women. We unpack the double standards rooted in purity culture, the insecurities this question provokes, and the shame it can breed in both high and low numbers. More importantly, we discuss why the number of sexual partners has nothing to do with sexual skill, emotional readiness, or compatibility. #intimacy #love #relationships Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Body Count: A Sex-Positive Discussion 00:03:00 - Judging Past Relationships 05:51 - Body Count & Insecurities 08:24 - Why Judging is Wrong 10:46:38 - Historical Shame Roots 13:22 - Societal Shame & Body Count 15:47 - Regrets & Sexual Experiences 18:13 - Reframing the Conversation 22:44:04 - Ditching the Question 25:38 - Addressing Relationship Insecurities 37:53 - Pleasure, Goodbyes & Outro If you're 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order go to ⁠https://viia.co/EMILY⁠ and use code EMILY! #viiapartner Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Join the SmartSX Membership : ⁠⁠https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:⁠⁠ https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ ⁠⁠ SHOP WITH EMILY!: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ ⁠⁠ (free shipping on orders over $99)Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠⁠ Let's get social: Instagram ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠⁠ X ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/sexwithemily⁠⁠ Facebook ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠⁠ TikTok ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily ⁠⁠ Threads ⁠⁠https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily ⁠⁠ Let's text: Sign up here ⁠⁠https://sexwithemily.com/text ⁠ Full show notes: ⁠

Have you ever felt that you could be addicted to drama? What should you know about understanding, breaking, and healing the cycle of crisis and chaos? How does unregulated or unresolved drama impact your nervous system and life in general?  In this podcast episode, Joe Sanok discusses mindfulness and how to avoid trauma with holistic […] The post Mindfulness: Drama Helps You Avoid Trauma with Holistic Psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons | POP 1200 appeared first on How to Start, Grow, and Scale a Private Practice | Practice of the Practice.

What if the key to deep healing and self-discovery isn't just in the substances we take, but in how we prepare for and integrate them? In this illuminating and thought-provoking conversation, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with somatic therapist, teacher, and author Manuela Mischke-Reeds to explore the evolving landscape of psychedelics, trauma healing, and embodiment practices.Together, they unpack the importance of preparation, integration, and the often-overlooked nuances of psychedelic experiences. Manuela shares her personal journey growing up between cultures, the role of somatics in healing trauma, and why true transformation requires more than just taking a substance—it demands a relationship with it.From understanding "set and setting" to the dangers of chasing peak experiences, this episode dives deep into how we can navigate the psychedelic space responsibly. Scott and Manuela also discuss how practices like Continuum Movement, somatic awareness, and radical self-inquiry provide alternative pathways to healing and wholeness.Topics We Break Down:The difference between recreational drug use and psychedelic-assisted therapyHow psychedelics can dismantle trauma patterns—and why integration is keyThe power of "set and setting" and how cultural context influences healingWhy chasing "peak experiences" can become another form of bypassingHow somatic practices like Continuum Movement can support psychedelic integrationThe dangers of mistaking activation for truth in trauma healingThe importance of staying in inquiry and dismantling expert mindsetsThis episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the deeper layers of psychedelics, somatics, and the journey of self-discovery.

In this episode of Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily takes a deep dive into the evolving landscape of infidelity in 2025. She unpacks how cheating today goes far beyond physical acts—covering emotional connections, digital interactions like DMs, social media behaviors, and even fantasies. Dr. Emily challenges listeners to rethink old assumptions and instead foster open conversations about boundaries, values, and intimacy, drawing insights from how polyamorous relationships navigate these topics. With real-life stories, listener questions, and expert advice from holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, this episode explores the impact of porn, the gray areas of "micro-cheating," and how communication can prevent betrayal. Dr. Emily also shares strategies for healing after trust is broken, including key statistics, self-reflection practices, and tips to understand your attachment style. #relationship #dating #cheating Show Notes; 00:00:00 - Defining & Preventing Infidelity 00:03:15 - Defining Infidelity in Relationships 08:12 - Relationship Boundaries & Communication 13:41 - Marriage Insecurities & Betrayal 19:19 - Confessions of a Reformed Cheater 22:31 - Open Relationships & Cheating 25:00 - Regret, Empathy & Modern Love 35:38 - Overcoming Relationship Hurdles 38:28 - Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity 45:44 - Monogamy, Polyamory & Attachment Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx ⁠Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let's get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let's text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text

What if the key to better health, deeper connections, and a more fulfilling life is actually doing hard things? In this enlightening and often humorous conversation, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Jeff Krasno, founder of Commune and Wanderlust, who transformed his health and life by embracing discomfort rather than avoiding it. Five years ago, Jeff was 65-70 pounds heavier and facing a diabetes diagnosis when he discovered the power of "good stress" - the kind that makes you stronger, more resilient, and more connected to others.Jeff shares his remarkable journey from being a "chubby kid" constantly relocating (11-12 times before age seven) to becoming what Scott calls "the fascia of community" - a super connector who brings people together. His childhood struggles to fit in across different countries and languages eventually became his superpower, leading him to create spaces where others could belong. Through his personal health transformation and spiritual awakening, Jeff discovered that chronic dis-ease is often the result of chronic ease - and that leaning into discomfort might be exactly what we need.From cold plunges and fasting to facilitating difficult conversations between Israeli and Palestinian students, Jeff reveals how embracing "good stress" can transform not just our physical health but our relationships and spiritual lives. As he beautifully puts it: "The true wonderful ease that we're looking for requires a degree of inconvenience."Topics We Break Down:How chronic ease leads to chronic diseaseThe concept of "good stress" and hormetic stressors (cold, heat, fasting)Jeff's protocol that helped him lose 65 pounds and reverse diabetesBuilding a "psychological immune system" through difficult conversationsThe spiritual dimensions of practices like fasting and cold exposureFinding the space between stimulus and response as the key to personal freedomWhy true ease comes from meaningful connection, not comfort

Is the spark gone? Dr. Scott Lyons, as I explore how to get the spark back in relationships and sex. We're talking about why the spark is not what you think and what you're actually looking for. In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons and I discuss: ● Why the initial 'spark' might be misleading. ● The importance of evolving and growing in relationships. ● How trauma responses affect attraction and intimacy. ● The difference between intensity and intimacy. ● Practical ways to cultivate a sustainable and fulfilling connection. I share personal experiences and insights on dating, attraction, and the journey toward deeper self-understanding. Dr. Scott Lyons brings his expertise as a trauma therapist and somatic healer to help us understand the complexities of relationships and sexuality. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Rekindling the Spark: What You Need to Know 00:02:45 - The Reality of Growth: Attraction Can Evolve 00:07:57 - Freedom vs. Attachment: Different Relationship Patterns 00:11:10 - Evolving Attraction: Hemisexuals, Saposexuals, and Demisexuals 00:15:03 - The Attraction ICK: Is There an Attraction Spark? 00:19:29 - Peeling Away the Layers: The Beauty of Intimacy 00:22:49 - The Honeymoon Period Is Drunk: Sobering Up and Finding Organic Excitement 00:27:40 - Variety and Newness: Keeping the Spark Alive 00:31:17 - Passion or Safety: Cultivating Eroticism in Safety 00:35:56 - Arousal Runway: Pottery Classes and Cooking Meals 00:40:19 - Developing New Habits: Making Time for Connection 00:42:51 - Chasing the Familiar: Red Flags as a Spark 00:46:16 - The Importance of Feeling Safe 00:49:54 - Childhood Was Perfect: Somatic Therapy and Nervous System Regulation 00:53:10 - Grounding in Our Senses: Getting Back to Sensuality and Connection 00:56:26 - Healing Patterns: Not Taking the Bait 00:58:20 - Sustainable, Healthy, Loving Relationships: Going the Distance Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Try Dipsea Free for 30 Days! Right now, you can get a 30-day free trial PLUS 25% off your annual subscription at DipseaStories.com/SWE See the full show notes at www.sexwithemily.com

Have you ever felt misunderstood? Like the world keeps trying to put you in a box that just doesn't fit? Then this episode is for you.Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Dr. Rae Johnson, a leading researcher, professor, and author exploring the intersections of somatics, social justice, and identity. Rae's work challenges us to reconnect with our bodies, question the systems that shape us, and embrace our full, unfiltered selves.Together, Scott and Rae explore why we brace ourselves against misunderstanding, how validation changes our nervous system, and what it really means to be witnessed. Plus, they unpack how a simple shift in perspective—or the right words from a total stranger—can change everything.Topics We Break Down:Why we over-explain & brace for misunderstanding – The social conditioning that keeps us apologizing for who we are.The ‘Validation Reflex' – How being truly seen creates a physical release in the body.Why strangers can sometimes know us better than our friends – The science behind why an outside perspective can feel so powerful.The cost of authenticity – What we sacrifice to be fully ourselves—and why it's worth it.Witnessing & being witnessed – How deep presence can transform our relationships and sense of self.✨ This is a conversation about freedom, embodiment, and breaking free from outdated stories—don't miss it!

Heartbreak isn't just emotional—it's chemical. That's right, breakups trigger withdrawal symptoms in your brain just like a drug, and if you've ever felt literally addicted to your ex, there's a reason why.In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with neuroscientist Nicole Vignola to unpack the science of breakups, love addiction, and how to rewire your brain for healing. Together, they explore why we can't stop thinking about certain people, the dopamine loops that keep us stuck, and the fastest ways to break free from the past.Plus, they get real about their own breakups, the neuroscience-backed hacks that actually help, and why blocking your ex might just be the most scientifically sound decision you'll ever make.Topics We Break Down:Why Breakups Feel Like an Actual Addiction – The neuroscience behind heartbreak withdrawal.Checking Your Ex's Social Media? Here's Why You Can't Stop – How dopamine fuels obsessive behaviors post-breakup.The Power of ‘Cold Turkey' – Why cutting off contact is the fastest way to rewire your brain.Re-Scaffolding Your Life – How to rebuild your identity after a relationship ends.Why You Keep Dating the Same Type – Breaking free from unconscious relationship patterns.✨ Whether you're freshly single, healing from an old breakup, or just fascinated by the brain's wild ways—this episode is packed with insights to help you move forward.

Are you letting self-doubt, over-explaining, or other people's opinions keep you small? Not on Niyc Pidgeon's watch. This episode is all about stepping into your power, shifting your mindset, and harnessing the science of success to create a life that actually excites you.Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Niyc Pidgeon, an award-winning positive psychologist, best-selling author, and high-performance business mentor, to explore the psychology behind resilience, joy, and confidence. Author of Now Is Your Chance and Unstoppable Success, Niyc has helped thousands of people rewire their thinking and create their best lives.Together, Scott and Niyc unpack what it really means to be happy—not in a ‘toxic positivity' way, but in a real, grounded, and science-backed way. If you've ever felt stuck, exhausted, or like you're tolerating way too much in life, this conversation will help you break free.Topics We Break Down:Why positivity isn't about ignoring the hard stuff – The difference between real happiness and toxic positivity.Over-explaining & self-abandonment – Why we do it and how to stop apologizing for simply existing.The ripple effect of awe – How small moments of joy can transform your energy (and impact 135 people around you!).What's your Organizing Principle? – The hidden force guiding your choices, and how to harness it for success.The power of curiosity – How asking better questions can lead to deeper connections and greater clarity.✨ This episode is packed with insights, humor, and some seriously life-changing mindset shifts. Tune in now and get ready to step into your most unstoppable self!

Have you ever felt like you were following invisible rules you didn't agree to? Do you catch yourself playing small, staying “good,” or holding back while others take up space? And what if those subconscious beliefs—about power, success, and even desire—aren't actually yours?In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Elise Loehnen, a writer, editor, and cultural critic known for her sharp insights on power, patriarchy, and personal growth. As the former Chief Content Officer at Goop, Elise helped shape the modern wellness landscape before turning her focus to deconstructing the subconscious rules that shape our lives. She is also the New York Times bestselling author of On Our Best Behavior, which explores how deeply ingrained cultural norms—particularly the Seven Deadly Sins—still dictate women's behavior today.Together, Scott and Elise dive into the hidden forces that govern us, how to unlearn restrictive narratives, and why recognizing our own internalized biases is the key to true liberation. If you've ever felt stuck in a system that doesn't quite serve you, this episode will give you the perspective shift you need.Topics We Break Down:The Cultural Programming We Can't See – How we internalize and reinforce social norms without even realizing it.The Patriarchy Isn't Just ‘Men' – Understanding how women also uphold and police patriarchal structures.Envy as a Compass – Why the things (and people) that trigger us the most might be showing us what we truly want.How We Keep Ourselves Small – The self-imposed rules that hold us back, and how to rewrite them.Moving from ‘Against' to ‘For' – Shifting from resistance to creation, and learning how to build the world we actually want.Tune in for an honest, mind-expanding conversation that just might change the way you see yourself—and the world around you.

Why is slowing down so uncomfortable? And more importantly—what's on the other side of that discomfort?In this episode, we're sharing about why we're "pressing pause" on releasing new episodes, in order to intentionally make space to make something (and this process) even juicier. If you've ever felt resistance to slowing down, this conversation is for you.We're talking about: Why rest feels so hard—and why it's necessary for growth How to recognize when it's time to press pause & create space for clarity How to uncover what's really driving our busy-ness Tools for shifting your state & bringing more juiciness to your to-do list How to rewire our well-worn pathways to stress & replace them with rest and nourishment The challenge of keeping creativity alive when your passion becomes your job The Productivity of Rest—how slowing down can make us more aligned, creative, and inspiredThis is an invitation to step back and ask: What's on my plate? Why is it there? And what can I shift to allow more wisdom, ease, and alignment?Additional Resources Mentioned: Our episode with Dr. Scott Lyons - "Our Addiction to Drama + Stress | #53" Let us know what you're craving in Community! What's missing - email or DM us :) Work with Aliyah Work with LaurenWe'd love to hear your thoughts—how do you navigate slowing down in a world that tells us to speed up?

What are trauma tingles, you ask? Oh, you know them. They're those wild, exciting, tantalizing, and misdirecting feelings that magnetize you into the same shitty relational dynamics you've been dealing with your whole life.Oof, It's wild out there in the complex realm of relationships. Sometimes we find ourselves more interested in the chase than the embrace or confusing intensity for intimacy- all the while declaring that we want and need love. If red flags feel like home and you find yourself or people you know in the merry-go-round of relationship pains, welcome to the world of trauma tingles... Let's talk about it.In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons chats with Kai Cheng Thom and Nkem Ndefo about red flags in dating and why trauma tingles feel irresistible. If an ordinary life feels risky and red flags cause a buzz of excitement, don't worry—this is a normal part of being human and an adaptive response to trauma. Through witnessing patterns unfolding and learning how to form safer boundaries for ourselves and others, we can heal to the point that those trauma tingles become boring and unsexy- red flag couture no more!Topics we break down:How trauma tingles relate to your attachment style.Why dating apps can be dehumanizing.Communicating your needs.Reconfiguring relationships.Maintaining boundaries.Choosing yourself.Kai Cheng's work focuses on the intersection of social justice, pleasure activism, and transformative approaches to healing conflict.Connect with Kai ChengWebsite | Facebook | Instagram | TwitterArise EmbodimentNkem is the founder of Lumos Transforms and the creator of the Resilience Toolkit.Connect with NkemWebsite | Facebook | Instagram | TwitterThe Resilience ToolkitConnect with Dr. ScottWebsite | Instagram | TikTokAddicted to DramaSave 10% at OMALA with offer code DRSCOTT10Save 10% on The Embody Lab with offer code GENTLYUSED10Want to see the Rorschach Drawings? Head over...

What if the key to unlocking your potential wasn't waiting for the perfect opportunity but realizing that you get to create it?In this episode of The Gently Used Human, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Maha Abouelenein, a global expert in communications, branding, and self-reliance, to explore the mindset shifts that turn hesitation into action, connections into opportunities, and self-doubt into unshakable confidence.Maha's career spans decades as a trusted advisor to Fortune 500 companies, CEOs, and some of the world's most influential brands. She understands what it takes to build influence, create lasting relationships, and step fully into your strengths. In this conversation, she shares the strategies she's used to navigate her own journey—from overcoming personal challenges to becoming one of the most sought-after voices in branding and communication.Together, Maha and Scott break down how to reframe self-doubt, develop confidence through action, and build a personal brand that reflects who you truly are. They explore why networking doesn't have to feel transactional, how the simple shift from have to to get to can change your entire outlook, and why true success comes from showing up, creating value, and taking bold steps forward.This episode is filled with practical insights on how to stop waiting, start owning your story, and build the kind of influence that opens doors.Topics We Break Down:Reframing self-doubt – Why waiting for confidence is a trapBuilding your network – How to connect with people authenticallyThe power of gratitude – Why shifting from have to → get to changes everythingPersonal branding – Why your reputation matters more than everTaking the first step – How to break free from hesitation and just startThis is a conversation about power, presence, and the freedom that comes from stepping into who you truly are. Listen now on The Gently Used Human.Maha's "Icebreaker Questions for Introverts"How can I help? What brought you to this event? What do you enjoy most about your work?What projects are you excited about working on next?How did you first get started in [industry]? What do you find most challenging/rewarding about your job? What inspired you to pursue a career in [specific field]? Are there any industry trends or developments that particularly interest you right now? How do you see your industry evolving in the next few years? What advice would you give to someone just starting out in [industry/profession] What are your thoughts on [current industry news/topic] Have you attended any interesting conferences or workshops lately? Are there any skills or knowledge areas you're currently looking to develop?

Are you struggling to stay focused in a world full of distractions? Do you feel like your memory isn't as sharp as it could be? In this powerful and deeply insightful episode, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with the world-renowned brain coach, memory expert, and author Jim Kwik. Jim has dedicated his life to helping people break through mental barriers and unlock their full cognitive potential. From overcoming his own childhood struggles with learning difficulties to becoming the go-to brain coach for top performers, Jim shares his transformative journey and the essential tools to supercharge memory, focus, and productivity.Throughout this conversation, Jim and Scott dive into the impact of digital distractions, the hidden costs of our reliance on technology, and how to reclaim mental strength in a world that often works against us. Jim offers practical, neuroscience-backed strategies that listeners can start using immediately to improve concentration, beat burnout, and optimize brain health.By the end of this episode, you'll be inspired to take charge of your mental fitness and equipped with actionable techniques to sharpen your mind, cultivate resilience, and create a more fulfilling life.Topics We Break Down: • The modern digital habits that are eroding focus, memory, and decision-making • How the brain rewires itself and how you can train it for peak performance • How outsourcing our memory to devices is making us mentally weaker • Daily techniques to rebuild attention span and mental clarity • What your brain needs to stay sharp and resilient • The self-imposed beliefs that hold us back and how to overcome them • How challenges and adversity can be transformed into personal superpowers • Simple, effective exercises to remember names, learn faster, and stay presentThis episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to reclaim their cognitive power, improve learning skills, and develop unshakable mental resilience.Where to Find Jim Kwik:

Valentine's Day is here, and we're making it hot. Whether you're single, partnered, or just here for the pleasure tips, I'm joined by Dr. Scott Lyons to talk all things intimacy, gift ideas that actually turn up the heat, and how to keep things exciting beyond February 14th. We're covering the best sexy gifts (hello, remote-control vibes), why curiosity is the key to lasting passion, and how to avoid becoming that couple scrolling at dinner. Plus, our wildest V-Day stories—think surprise proposals, foursomes, and one very awkward TSA moment. Let's make this Valentine's Day one to remember.

What if you could design a life where you're truly unmessable with?In this episode of The Gently Used Human, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with the powerhouse of transformation, Josselyne Herman-Saccio, founder of Be Unmessablewith. With over 30 years of experience helping people break through overwhelm and burnout to create lives filled with purpose, Josselyne shares her unique approach to turning vision into action and dreams into reality.Together, Dr. Scott and Josselyne explore what it means to take control of your life by shifting from reaction to creation. They discuss practical strategies for honoring your word, building resilience, and finding fulfillment—not by working harder but by designing smarter. Josselyne's wisdom will inspire you to embrace the chaos of life, harness your inner power, and finally say “yes” to the life you've always wanted to create.Whether you're a high performer looking for your next breakthrough or someone ready to overcome the pull of procrastination, this episode will leave you empowered to take action, no matter where you are in your journey.Topics We Break DownWhy overwhelm happens—and how to shift back into creation modeThe power of vision: How to create it, live it, and keep it aliveBreaking free from the myth of “motivation” and leaning into actionThe secret to working less while achieving more: Delegation and designHow to honor your word, even when things don't go as plannedPractical tools to transition from reacting to creating in every momentHow to use promises as a tool for transformation and empowerment

In this transformative episode of The Gently Used Human Podcast, Dr. Scott Lyons is joined by the extraordinary Dr. Gabor Maté, a celebrated physician, speaker, and bestselling author whose groundbreaking work has reshaped how we understand addiction, trauma, and chronic illness. With over four decades of clinical experience, Gabor is renowned for his compassionate exploration of the mind-body connection and the profound ways stress and trauma manifest in our lives. His bestselling books, including The Myth of Normal and In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, have inspired countless individuals to embrace healing through reconnection with their authentic selves.Together, Scott and Gabor explore the hidden costs of disconnection, the survival mechanisms we develop in response to early trauma, and how those patterns shape everything from our identities to our health. Listeners will learn about the dynamic nature of the brain, the powerful role of curiosity and compassion in healing, and practical ways to notice where we're not being true to ourselves. This episode is an invitation to uncover the unity of mind and body and discover what it means to come home to oneself.Topics We Break Down:The profound impact of disconnection on our mental and physical healthUnderstanding trauma as a loss of connection with oneselfThe survival mechanisms we adopt to protect ourselves—and how they shape our identitiesHow addiction, ADHD, and chronic illness are rooted in early life experiencesThe dynamic nature of the brain and its capacity for healing and changeThe healing power of curiosity, compassion, and connectionHow societal norms and the medical system overlook the unity of mind and bodyPractical steps to notice where we're not being ourselves and move toward wholeness

Have you ever felt like life is an endless cycle of noise and distraction, leaving no room for stillness? What if the silence we avoid holds the key to profound healing and transformation? How might embracing the quiet spaces between moments change everything?In this episode of The Gently Used Human, Dr. Scott Lyons welcomes Elaine Glass to explore the transformative power of intentional silence. After escaping a 13-year toxic marriage that left her health deteriorating, Elaine found healing and purpose through the ancient practice of labyrinth walking. She shares how this sacred tool inspired her to create The Get Quiet Way, a powerful method for creating space, reconnecting with the soul, and reclaiming inner peace.Elaine's journey from chaos to clarity provides listeners with practical insights into nurturing the body, clearing the mind, and cultivating a healthier relationship with oneself. Her reflections and actionable strategies invite us to pause, listen deeply, and move forward with intention.Topics We Break Down:The transformative journey from survival mode to soul alignmentThe power of intentional silence and meditative walkingUnderstanding the three ways we spend our time (in-person, digital, and with ourselves)The seven energy paths to reconnecting with your authentic selfThe importance of creating a healthy state of being to co-create with our purposeThe ancient wisdom of labyrinth walking as a tool for spiritual growth

In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode of The Gently Used Human, Dr. Scott Lyons is joined by the talented Lindsay Roth—a TV producer, author, and mother—to dive into the art of connection, resilience, and self-discovery. From navigating the complexities of modern relationships to finding joy in the present, Lindsay's insights shine a light on how small, intentional choices can lead to transformative change.The conversation tackles the practicalities and challenges of everyday life to the more significant, profound questions. Dr Scott and Lindsay explore the power of setting boundaries and reframing life's challenges as opportunities for growth. Lindsay shares her personal journey of balancing career, motherhood, and self-awareness, offering practical advice on maintaining a positive mindset amidst life's chaos. Together, she and Dr. Scott unpack how asking the right questions—whether about relationships, work, or self—can foster deeper understanding and alignment with what truly matters.This episode is filled with wisdom, humor, and actionable insights, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking clarity, connection, and empowerment in their lives.If you've ever struggled to communicate your needs, felt stuck in life's challenges, or questioned how to align with your authentic self, this episode will inspire and guide you. Lindsay and Dr. Scott's candid, compassionate conversation offers both relatable stories and practical wisdom to help you navigate life with curiosity and courage. You'll laugh, reflect, and walk away feeling empowered to embrace your journey as a “gently used human.”Topics We Break Down:How intentional questions can foster deeper connection and self-awareness.Viewing stress as a resource for growth and adaptability.Redefining boundaries as self-driven actions rather than requests from others.Lessons from challenges, the importance of relational “reps,” and reframing the idea of “failure.”Strategies for finding gratitude, staying present, and discovering what truly matters.

What is sacred rage, you ask? Oh, you know it. It's that fiery, pulsating energy that simmers under the surface when your boundaries are crossed, your voice feels stifled, or injustice has its way again. It's the eruption waiting for permission to move—to transform from destruction to something breathtakingly beautiful.If you've ever felt like rage and anger are forbidden emotions—villains in your emotional spectrum—this one's for you. In a world where feelings are labeled “too much” or “not enough,” it's no wonder we suppress, deny, and numb. But what if we stopped? What if we gave our sacred rage a place to breathe and heal?In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons talks with the dynamic and magical Mia Magik, a healer and guide who has become a voice for emotional release—particularly the misunderstood powers of rage. From volcanic eruptions of suppressed feelings to transformational rituals held in castles (yes, castles!), Mia shares how embracing our emotions can create the paradise we all long for.If you've been bottling up your feelings or shamed into toxic positivity, listen up. This is your invitation to feel—fully, fiercely, and safely.If you're ready to let go, transform, and reclaim your emotions—this episode will light the fire.Listen in, Gently Used Humans, and remember—your emotions are not too much. They're magic waiting to be felt.Topics we Break Down:Why rage and anger are sacred—and essential.The difference between feeling anger and projecting it outward.How suppressed emotions contribute to dis-ease in the body.Creating containers for safe emotional expression.Toxic positivity and the pitfalls of bypassing real feelings.How rage can transform into pleasure, peace, and even paradise.Why healing yourself heals the world.

Mike "C-Roc" sits down with Dr. Scott Lyons, renowned holistic psychologist, educator, and author of Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others. Dr. Lyons, who also hosts the Gently Used Human Podcast, opens up about his journey from the performing arts to becoming a therapist committed to helping others heal and thrive. Together, they delve into the complexities of human emotions, the impact of trauma, and how our early experiences shape who we are. Dr. Lyons shares profound insights on breaking free from patterns of self-neglect, preventing burnout, and navigating the emotional contagion that connects us all. If you've ever wondered what fuels your desire to help others or how to sustain your passion while prioritizing self-care, this episode is for you. Tune in to explore the deeper layers of what we're made of and how embracing our full humanity can lead to transformative growth. Website- https://www.drscottlyons.com/ Social Media Links/Handles- http://instagram.com/drscottlyons https://www.facebook.com/DrScottLyons/ http://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-scott-lyons-1958b473 https://www.tiktok.com/@drscottlyons https://www.youtube.com/@drscottlyons

In this powerful episode of The Gently Used Human, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Sophie Grégoire Trudeau—advocate, former media host, and author of the insightful new book, Closer Together: Knowing Ourselves, Loving Each Other. Drawing from her own life's journey and experiences on the global stage, Sophie shares her wisdom on turning pain into purpose, navigating personal transformation, and how embracing our vulnerability is key to meaningful connection.Sophie's candidness about her own struggles and triumphs creates an inspiring, deeply human conversation. Together, she and Scott explore how cultivating self-awareness and emotional resilience can help us show up more authentically in our lives, for ourselves and for others.This episode will leave you reflecting on your relationship with pain, your patterns of connection, and the steps you can take toward a more empowered and joyful life. Whether you're curious about healing, curious about self-discovery, or just looking for some soulful motivation, this is an episode you won't want to miss.Topics We Break Down:The power of transforming pain into connection and advocacyEmotional literacy: what it is and why it matters in our personal and collective livesTools for regulating the nervous system and finding calm amidst chaosBreaking free from cycles of self-criticism and addictionThe importance of play and joy in rehumanizing ourselves and othersWhy personal healing is a critical piece of global transformation

In this episode, we sit down with Erica Hornthal, a trailblazer in the world of dance and movement therapy. If you've ever felt stuck in life, emotionally overwhelmed, or even disconnected from your own body, this conversation is a must-listen. Erica helps us understand that movement is far more than just exercise – it's a way to rediscover ourselves, heal from past traumas, and connect more deeply with who we are.Are you curious about how movement can be a catalyst for change in your life? Erica invites us to look beyond structured exercise and tune into our bodies' natural rhythms and movements – like the way we sit, walk, or even breathe. She reminds us that movement starts with the smallest, simplest gestures, and that even when we feel trapped in old patterns, moving our bodies can unlock a path to emotional freedom.Together with Dr. Scott Lyons, Erica shares how our earliest movements – crawling, rolling, and even rocking – shape the way we interact with the world and how we can return to these roots to shift stuck energy. They talk about how reconnecting with play and spontaneity can help us break free of rigid thinking and foster more flexibility in body and mind.Erica offers practical ways to get started: maybe it's leaning against a wall and letting go for a moment, exploring playful twirling, or simply noticing how our bodies react when we're tense. She also introduces her Movement Therapy Deck, a tool designed to make reconnecting with movement accessible and engaging for everyone. Whether through mindful practices, body awareness, or gentle movement prompts, the deck offers guidance for tuning into and transforming your physical experience.If you've ever thought, “I'm not a dancer,” Erica reassures you: movement is for everyone. Healing through movement isn't about choreography; it's about reconnecting with yourself, one step at a time.So, whether you're someone who struggles with anxiety, feels stuck in their daily routine, or just wants to reconnect with their playful side, this episode holds something for you. Let's get moving!Topics We Break Down:What is dance and movement therapy, really?The disconnect between movement and traditional exercise.How movement can heal trauma and reconnect us with our bodies.The role of play and spontaneity in finding emotional freedom.Practical tools to integrate movement into your daily life.Using movement to explore and shift anxiety and tension.Rediscovering joy and flow through the body.

In this transformative episode, Scott Lyons is joined by Nicole Sachs, LCSW, a renowned therapist, author, and expert in mind-body healing. Nicole is the creator of the JournalSpeak method, a groundbreaking practice that helps people uncover and release suppressed emotions that manifest as chronic pain. With over two decades of experience, Nicole has dedicated her career to helping people heal by teaching them to understand the mind-body connection and transform their relationship with pain.Nicole shares her personal journey with chronic back pain, which began in college and led her down a path of medical consultations, surgeries, and prescriptions. However, it wasn't until she discovered the work of Dr. John Sarno that she began to understand how emotional repression and nervous system dysregulation were contributing to her pain. Nicole's own healing experience inspired her to create the JournalSpeak method, and she has since guided thousands of people worldwide in using this powerful tool to find lasting relief.Throughout the conversation, Scott and Nicole explore how pain is often a signal from the body, protecting us from perceived emotional threats rather than just a physical condition. Nicole offers profound insights on how we can begin to change our relationship with pain by embracing curiosity instead of fear and turning toward the emotions we've been suppressing.She introduces the concept of JournalSpeak as a way to safely release emotional energy, and emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and patience on the healing journey. By addressing the emotional roots of pain, Nicole has helped people reclaim their lives from conditions like fibromyalgia, migraines, back pain, and more.Topics We Break Down:How the nervous system creates pain to protect us from perceived emotional threatsThe JournalSpeak method: A powerful tool for releasing suppressed emotions and healing painThe mind-body connection and how emotional stimuli can manifest as physical painHow pain is often a sign of emotional repression, trauma, or nervous system dysregulationThe importance of validating pain and recognizing its emotional originsBuilding self-compassion and patience in the process of healingInner child work and its role in uncovering deep emotional woundsHow curiosity and wonder can help shift fear and open new possibilities for healingReal-life success stories from people who have healed chronic pain using JournalSpeak

It's time to get off the hamster wheel that's leaving you exhausted and overwhelmed.If the idea of “doing nothing” feels almost painful and you feel uncomfortable when you're not busy, this episode is the wake-up call you need. Today, Mel unpacks one of the most common addictions that you probably have never heard of before: the addiction to busyness and stress.Here to give more research and advice is Dr. Scott Lyons, a medical doctor, psychologist, and world-renowned trauma expert. Dr. Lyons explains why over-scheduling every second of your day and constantly feeling “not enough” unless stretched to the limit is keeping you disconnected.By the end of this episode, you'll have actionable steps to break free from the cycle and regain control of your time, energy, and peace of mind.For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.If you liked this empowering and insightful episode, listen to this one next: #1 Stress Doctor: 5 Tools to Protect Your Brain From Stress & Feel Calmer NowConnect with Mel: Watch the episodes on YouTubeGet Mel's new book, The Let Them TheoryFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Sign up for Mel's personal letter Disclaimer

Los invito a escuchar esta nutridora conversacion con Viviana Sanchez Healy de  @desbloqueoscorporales quien nos comparte su experiencia como asistente a un seminario con Gabor Mate, Peter Levine, Scott Lyons, Bassel Van der Kolk quienes hablan y enseñan a través de sus bibliografías y conferencias como sanar y dejar atrás los Traumas que nos impiden ser felices. ¡Espero lo disfruten!

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Scott Lyons, a holistic psychologist, author, and body-based trauma expert, to discuss why we are so drawn to drama as a culture and how fully honoring our stress responses can help us better adapt to stress. Dr. Lyons explains what he defines as “drama,” how trauma often takes us away from ourselves and others, and how overstimulation has become the cultural norm. He also talks about how media is designed to keep our attention away from ourselves, why we are so drawn to reality TV, and why stress is a social glue that bonds us. Finally, he shares how most of us aren't completing our stress cycles, how he checks in with his nervous system during a stressful event, and how he gets out of his cortisol stimulus and brings himself back to center.Key Takeaway / Points:How Dr. Lyons defines “drama”How trauma takes us away from ourselves and othersOn the cultural norm of overstimulationOn the connection between seeking stillness and feeling safeHow media is designed to keep our attention away from ourselvesWhy are we so drawn to reality TV?How gossip bonds people and why stress is a social glueOn the numbing effects of cortisolOn the addictive rollercoaster of toxic relationshipsWhy most of us aren't completing our stress responsesThe power of physically “shaking it out” after stressHow Dr. Lyons fills his cup and calms his nervous systemFind Dr. Scott Lyons' book, “Addicted to Drama,” hereThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Go to quince.com/cameron for free shipping on your order and 365-day returnsVisit Carawayhome.com/cameron or use “cameron” at checkout for an additional 10% off your purchaseVisit join.arya.fyi/cameron for 15% off your subscription todayHead to http://www.manhattanwellness.org/CAMERON to be matched with a perfect-fit provider and get your first therapy session freeGo to Deinde.com and use code CAMERON for 15% off your first orderFollow Dr. Lyons:Instagram: @drscottlyonsWebsite: drscottlyons.comPodcast: The Gently Used HumanThe Embody Lab: theembodylab.comFollow me:Instagram: @cameronoaksrogersSubstack: Fill Your CupWebsite: cameronoaksrogers.comTikTok: @cameronoaksrogersYoutube: Cameron RogersCreative Lead: Amelie YeagerProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this compelling episode of The Gently Used Human, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Rainier Wylde, a gifted writer, teacher, and guide known for his candid and insightful approach to life's toughest questions. Rainier has dedicated his life to helping others awaken to their truest selves through the power of honest reflection, creativity, and storytelling. He leads by example, drawing from his own experiences of profound personal loss and transformation to show us how we, too, can break free from the habits of sleepwalking through life.Rainier's approach blends wisdom from ancient traditions with a modern understanding of life's impermanence, challenging us to confront our fears, embrace discomfort, and cultivate the strength to be fully present. Together, he and Dr. Scott unpack what it means to embrace life in all its fleeting beauty, exploring topics like the connection between joy and grief, the need for community, and how we can reclaim the central role in our own lives. This conversation is an invitation to dive deep into the journey of self-discovery, to live with intention, and to find the courage to show up for the life we truly want.So, find a quiet space, tune in, and let this conversation inspire you to live more fully, bravely, and joyfully.Topics We Break Down:Awakening from “sleepwalking” and learning to live fullyThe importance of facing mortality to enhance presenceSavoring life's impermanent moments as a path to joyFinding solace and strength through grief and personal lossBecoming the main character in our own livesUnderstanding joy versus fleeting happinessUsing artistry and creativity as tools for healing and transformation

In this episode of The Gently Used Human Podcast, Dr. Scott Lyons welcomes Britt Frank, licensed psychotherapist, trauma specialist, and author of The Science of Stuck. Britt has dedicated her career to helping people break through their mental and emotional inertia by exploring how trauma, brain science, and emotional wellness intersect. With her approachable and humorous style, Britt offers deep insights into why we get stuck and how we can reclaim agency in our lives.In this conversation, Britt not only explores why we get stuck but also shares actionable skills to move away from procrastination and self-sabotage. She introduces powerful strategies like using "micro-yeses" to overcome inertia, practical tools for grounding yourself, and methods for cultivating self-compassion to stay present in moments of challenge. Whether you're feeling stuck in personal growth, relationships, or habits, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom and tools to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.Tune in to learn how to shift from being "insightfully stuck" to living with more clarity, choice, and peace!Topics We Break Down:Why we get stuck and the hidden benefits of staying in unhealthy patternsHow to break free from the cycle of self-sabotage using "micro-yeses"The neuroscience of stuckness and why motivation alone isn't enoughPractical, actionable tools to overcome procrastination and create momentumHow to cultivate self-compassion and stop self-abandoning in moments of painThe role of trauma in keeping us stuck and how to gently move through itWhy we need to address both the positives and negatives in our lives for true emotional wellnessPractical tools for creating an internal sense of "home" and stability within yourself

In this episode of The Gently Used Human Podcast, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with Ann Weiser Cornell, a leading expert in the practice of focusing—a process for deep self-awareness and emotional healing developed by Eugene Gendlin. For over three decades, Ann has dedicated her work to helping people navigate their inner worlds, untangle stuck emotions, and create more compassionate relationships through her workshops, books, and courses. Ann is also the co-author of Untangling: How You Can Transform What's Impossibly Stuck, a practical guide to breaking free from entrenched emotional patterns.In this conversation, Ann shares her wisdom on how we can become better listeners—not only to those around us but to ourselves. With simple, yet profoundly impactful techniques, Ann helps us understand the importance of presence, clarity, and listening as tools for emotional healing and connection. Whether you're seeking to improve your relationships or find a deeper sense of self-compassion, this episode provides tangible tools to take with you. Tune in to this episode for a compassionate, insightful conversation that invites you to take a moment for yourself and explore the transformative power of listening!Topics We Break Down:The transformative power of deep listening and how it can heal relationships and ourselves.How to cultivate a “clear pool” within, so we can listen to others from a place of calm and openness.Focusing: The practice of listening to ourselves and how it helps untangle stuck emotions.Practical steps for becoming a better listener—both externally and internally.The role of language in facilitating meaningful, open dialogue.How to create a compassionate relationship with yourself by welcoming all parts of your experience, even those that feel shameful or uncomfortable.

In this episode of The Gently Used Human podcast, Dr. Scott Lyons sits down with psychotherapist and author Rachel Kaplan to explore her unique and powerful approach to emotional healing. Rachel is a psychotherapist, emotional educator, and host of the Healing Feeling Sht Show* podcast. She's also the author of the amazing book Feel, Heal, and Let That Sht Go*, which introduces the concept of “emotional potty training” — and yes, it's exactly as clever and transformative as it sounds. Rachel's method encourages us to reconnect with our feelings, process them in real time, and ultimately release the emotional backlog that so many of us have built up over the years. Rachel dives into the idea that just as we learned to manage our physical needs as children, we need to "train" ourselves to process emotions in a healthy way. With humor and a relatable perspective, she explains how most of us were taught to repress our emotions early on, leading to what she calls "emotional constipation." This buildup of unprocessed pain and feelings can manifest in our lives as stress, numbness, or even physical illness.Dr. Lyons shares his own experiences of struggling to fully feel emotions, resonating deeply with Rachel's insights on how avoiding feelings leads to greater suffering. Together, they discuss practical tools for releasing emotions, including how to "schedule" emotional release and why it's essential to be with our emotions, rather than intellectualizing or bypassing them.This conversation is filled with humor, wisdom, and practical guidance for anyone who feels emotionally stuck, numb, or overwhelmed. It's about learning to move toward discomfort, release emotional baggage, and cultivate a deeper, more compassionate relationship with ourselves.This episode is perfect for anyone seeking more emotional balance and resilience, and it will leave you inspired to reconnect with the parts of yourself you may have hidden away for too long.Topics We Break DownHow decades of unprocessed emotions affect our physical and mental health, and how to begin releasing them.The importance of reintegrating the parts of ourselves that we've hidden away and learning to let them express their pain.Dr. Lyons and Rachel explore why repressing emotions leads to greater suffering, and how facing them head-on can lead to lasting relief.How to schedule emotional release sessions, and techniques to allow emotions to move through the body naturally.Why healing isn't just about trauma recovery, but about creating a sustainable relationship with your emotions so you can face life's challenges with strength.

Dr. Scott Lyons joins Sabrina to discuss the high highs and low lows of dating, focusing on the addiction to drama in relationships. He and Sabrina explore how unresolved trauma can lead to seeking emotionally unavailable partners or chaotic relationships, mirroring past experiences. They highlight how many people are drawn to emotional intensity, mistaking it for love, and how this creates a cycle of self-abandonment, as individuals chase someone else's emotional rollercoaster instead of staying grounded in themselves. Trauma often causes people to confuse present and past experiences, making it difficult to separate healthy dynamics from old emotional patterns. Scott emphasizes that healing begins when the red flags of chaotic relationships no longer feel attractive. He also introduces the concept of "memory spread," where past emotional triggers amplify reactions in the present, causing unnecessary tension. Sabrina and Scott discuss the importance of co-regulating with a partner, articulating needs before stress builds, and learning to enjoy the calm and stability that healthy love brings. Scott notes that for some, calmness may feel unsafe, as they are habituated to chaos and seek it out to fill their anxiety. Ultimately, Sabrina and Scott both agree that true connection is built on curiosity and communication, and that chasing emotional intensity—like butterflies or drama—keeps individuals from experiencing the deeper, more stable intimacy of a healthy relationship. Get Dr. Scott's book! Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others Struggling with a breakup? Join the Make It Make Sense: Getting Through a Breakup course from Sabrina and Britt Frank HERE! Stuck After the Podcast? Master Implementation in 8 Weeks with Sabrina's Foundation Course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and The Sabrina Zohar Show on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Donate to CUDDLY today! For every $20 donated through a one-time donation, CUDDLY will gift a soft and snuggly blanket to a rescue animal in need. Head HERE and help make a difference! Use code SABRINA20 for $20.00 off your first order at Mycrologi HERE! Get Zocdoc for FREE HERE! Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SABRINA HERE! #oneskinpod Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formally known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons shares a conversation with Sabrina Zohar, a renowned relationship coach whose insights have transformed countless lives. Sabrina's personal journey, from navigating toxic dynamics to building healthy and authentic connections, is deeply inspiring. She candidly discusses how growing up in a dysfunctional environment led her to repeat the same cycles of toxic relationship patterns, but through relentless self-discovery, she has emerged as a voice of clarity in the dating world.The episode explores some of the most pressing questions surrounding dating and relationships: How can we navigate the complexities of modern dating without losing ourselves? How do we stop seeking validation from others and instead cultivate security within? And most importantly, how can we truly show up authentically in our relationships?Sabrina's approach is both relatable and practical. Her vulnerability in sharing her personal hardships, including how hitting rock bottom became a catalyst for her growth, offers hope and actionable insights for anyone struggling with relationships. From setting healthy boundaries to understanding attachment dynamics, this episode is filled with tools that listeners can apply to their own lives.On a more personal note, this conversation prompted Dr. Lyons to reflect on his own journey, particularly the question: How do I want to show up in a relationship? Sabrina's ability to navigate the complexities of connection while staying true to herself inspired him to reconsider how he shows up as a partner, friend, and human. The hope is that this discussion will encourage listeners to explore these same questions in their own lives.A quick note before we dive in: Sabrina speaks openly about her experiences with violence in her childhood. If this is a sensitive topic for you, please take care while listening or skip ahead as needed. Your well-being is always the priority.Topics We Break DownHow childhood experiences influence adult relationship patterns.The difference between attachment and connection.Setting healthy boundaries in relationships.How to navigate modern dating with clarity and self-respect.The role of vulnerability and authenticity in creating healthy, lasting relationships.

Ep. 131 Welcome back to the Pursuit of Wellness podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have Dr. Scott Lyons on the show. He's a licensed holistic psychologist and the author of *Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others*. Scott's expertise in body-based trauma and mind-body medicine has helped over half a million people globally, and his insights are both profound and engaging. We'll explore topics like drama addiction, overcoming trauma responses, and practical strategies for maintaining your well-being. Tune in to discover how to break free from the cycles of chaos and find balance in your life! Leave Me a Message - click here! For Mari's Instagram click here! For Pursuit of Wellness Podcast's Instagram click here! For Mari's Newsletter click here! For Dr. Scott's Website click here! For Dr. Scott's Podcast click here! For Dr. Scott's Instagram click here! For POW Brand Promo Codes click here! Sponsors: Visit BetterHelp.com/POW today to get 10% off your first month. That's betterhelp.com/pow  Visit clearstemskincare.com and use code POW at checkout for 20% off your first purchase. Again, that's code POW for 20% off your first purchase on clearstemskincare.com. Head to moshlife.com/POW to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on the Best sellers Trial Pack. That's 20% off PLUS free shipping on the Best sellers Trial Pack at moshlife.com/POW.  Today my listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com/POW and automatically receive 20% off any Aqua Tru water purifier. That's 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com/POW. Show Links: Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Other Topics Discussed 00:03:32 - Dr. Scott Lyon's background in drama and chaos 00:05:12 - Rock bottom with drama addiction 00:06:01 - Defining drama addiction 00:08:25 - Cramming your schedule and detoxing technology 00:10:18 - Origin of drama addiction 00:16:52- Trauma responses and triggers 00:19:33 - Falling back into the habit 00:22:07 - Recognizing trigger moments and reflecting on responses 00:32:54  - Media and drama addiction  00:33:36 - Cancel culture 00:34:40 - Addressing underlying feelings 00:35:49 - Mari' & Scott's strategies for avoiding underlying feelings 00:39:03 - Dr. Scott Lyon's take on coffee 00:39:50 - Examining Greg's chaos and urgency culture 00:44:07 - How to tap into your underlying feelings 00:48:23 - Navigating your identity and sitting in discomfort 00:51:43 - Ketamine treatments and preparatory work 00:55:12 - Dealing with drama addicts 01:00:37 - How to set boundaries with drama addicts 01:02:35 - Walking away from friendships 01:07:15: - Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Other

If you've ever wondered “Am I the drama?” or always find yourself as the receiver for other people's problems, this episode is for you. We are joined by psychologist and author Dr. Scott Lyons to talk about what drama addiction is (and what it isn't), the different types of personalities with this addiction, identifying it in yourself or someone else, how it can affect your health, and how to break the patterns and find peace. We also discuss the difference between trauma bonding and drama bonding, why gossiping feels so good, and the art of “fuck it.” Before Scott joins us, we're recapping our Jackson Hole trip, why we stayed in separate hotels, and Rayna's horseback riding experience. AND we're announcing the themes of all our tour dates! Enjoy! Find Scott on instagram @drscottlyons, listen to his podcast The Gently Used Human, read his book Addicted to Drama, and check out his website.Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for tour dates, merchandise, and more.Thank you to our partners this week:Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first delivery and free veggies for life at hungryroot.com/gge.Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping at nutrafol.com with code GGE10.Bilt: Get points by paying rent at joinbilt.com/gge.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, Dr. Scott Lyons joins Aurora to discuss what might seem like a fabricated issue but is, in fact, a severe and debilitating condition: an addiction to drama. Dr. Lyons shares his personal journey of overcoming this addiction, which manifests as a constant need for chaos and confusion in relationships. The two discuss how similar to other addictions, these behaviors are symptoms of a deeper void or a "God-sized hole," as Aurora describes it. Dr Lyons and Aurora discuss his book as it outlines a pathway to healing, helping individuals recognize and address their dependency on drama. Dr. Lyons also helps Aurora look at her own recent dating chaos, making her wonder if she's been seeking out drama and distraction instead of stable, healthy relationships.To connect with Aurora click HEREFollow Barely Filtered on Tik Tok HEREProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to know if you're addicted to drama & stress (spoiler: we all are) and the Tea for course correction and living a juicy life! This episode goes super deep because we are talking to a world renowned body-based trauma expert & top clinical psychologist, Dr. Scott Lyons. But do not get it twisted - this episode is also FUNNY! You can expect to learn about: Why we actively seek Drama (and why it's often a means to safety) Our “Attention” Economy and how it relates to our addiction to Drama Why it's crucial to have an awareness around our own response to stress  The antidote to Stress & Drama - and how to optimally move towards it. How our awareness around these addictions can help us live a juicer life, and shift the collective We think you'll love this episode - you will gain wisdom, empathy, new awareness about your own patterns, laugh your butt off, and have some new reframes to try the next time you feel anxious, stressed or in need of some drama! More from Dr. Scott: Follow on Instagram @drscottlyons Get Dr. Scott's Book: Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others The Embody Lab—the largest online learning platform for body-based trauma therapies. ⁠The Gently Used Human Podcast

Author Dr. Scott Lyons joins Marcus Antebi and Ralph Sutton on an all new episode of The goodsugar Podcast! Dr. Scott Lyons is an innovator in transformative wellness, combining his work in holistic psychology, mind-body medicine and embodied education with progressive design.  Find Dr. Scott Lyons Here! https://www.drscottlyons.com  The goodsugar store is the epitome of cool, nestled at 3rd avenue + 69th street!

Dr. Scott Lyons, host of The Gently Used Human podcast, talks about his new book, “Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis & Chaos In Yourself & Others”. This week's Dating Dish is: HuffPost shares the reasons why we try to “fix” our matches…and what you should probably do instead. Then our Dear Damona question this week is: How can I attract more culturally open matches? Follow Scott on Instagram @DrScottLyons and be sure to grab a copy of his book! Share the love: Get your copy of Damona's book  F the Fairy Tale on Amazon too and leave a review and Damona could shout you out on an upcoming episode! HuffPost article https://www.huffpost.com/entry/taylor-swift-fix-him-relationships_l_662a5511e4b005d7bf0cbef0 TIMESTAMPS (00:01:36) Why do we try to fix people in our relationships? (00:08:09) Introduction of Dr. Scott Lyons (00:13:32) Causes of addiction to drama (00:17:24) Origin of addiction to drama (00:18:09) Ecosystem and Turbulence (00:19:27) Numbness and Seeking Sensation (00:24:02) Addiction to Drama and Dating Apps (00:27:00) Attentional Economy and Social Media (00:33:13) Interrupting Peace and News Consumption (00:35:26) Dating App Activation and Frameworks (00:37:21) Awareness and Reflexive Behavior (00:38:01) Avoidance Tactics (00:38:24) Escaping Chaos (00:39:30) Milestones of Healing (00:42:41) Processing Trauma (00:43:42) Belonging and Identity (00:47:02) Cultural Diversity in Dating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I caught up with my previous mentor, Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed psychologist, educator, and bestselling author, to explore the depths of healing and transformation. Dr. Scott Lyons shares insights into his pioneering work in somatic stress release through The Embody Lab and Omala. We delve into the concept of being "addicted to drama" and its impact on relationships, with Dr. Lyons providing compassionate guidance on understanding and healing from this pattern. We also talked about the future of the somatic field, coming from the difficulties of the founders of somatics in being seen as legitimate in the field of trauma healing and now exploring how somatics can be applied on a systemic level. Tune in to embark on a journey toward greater self-awareness, resilience, and gentle restoration with Dr. Scott Lyons. Dr. Scott Lyons is a licensed psychologist, educator and author of the best-selling book Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others Scott is also the host of The Gently Used Human Podcast, a delightfully depthful exploration of what it is to be human, to have lived life, and come out gently used. As a renowned body-based trauma expert and Mind-Body Medicine specialist, Scott also helps people to break free from cycles of pain, limited beliefs, and trauma. Scott is an innovator in transformative wellness and trauma therapy, teaching over half a million people internationally over the past twenty years how to relieve stress and restore vitality. ✨Connect with Dr Scott Lyons: https://www.drscottlyons.com/ https://www.drscottlyons.com/gently-used-human-podcast https://www.drscottlyons.com/addicted-to-drama-book http://instagram.com/drscottlyons https://www.facebook.com/DrScottLyons/ http://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-scott-lyons-1958b473 https://www.tiktok.com/@drscottlyons https://www.youtube.com/@drscottlyons ❥❥❥ Apply for 1-1 coaching with me: https://forms.gle/ecM2ehvDveR2KMqv7 Thank you so much for being here! I appreciate and love you so much. Please take a moment to rate the show and subscribe - it would mean the world to me! ❥❥❥ ALL of my online courses can be found here: https://marinayt.com/courses/  These courses support you in using the deepest layer of transformation - your body - to get to the root cause of why you may feel stuck or triggered, and make profound shifts in your relationships and your work. I love these courses so much because they go so deep - to the root, rather than just giving you surface level communication or action tips. Nearly 1,000 students

Dr. Scott Lyons, PhD, is a top clinical psychologist, educator, and author who helps people break free from cycles of pain, limited beliefs, stress, and drama. As a renowned body-based trauma expert, he's worked with millions of people to relieve stress and restore vitality. He joins the show to talk about our culture's addiction to drama (aka stress), from toxic relationships to over-scheduling your life, and how to cope with it. We also discuss staying grounded in a performative world, social media rage, authenticity, urgency culture, and trauma. This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Read Dr. Scott's book, Addicted to Drama: https://rstyle.me/+6lEg2EOLo3u0M7Iu_LWaQQGo to Nutrafol.com and use the code Blonde for $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping. Go to BetterHelp.com/files for 10% off yout first month.Visit CarawayHome.com/blonde for 10% off your next purchase.Go to JustThriveHealth.com and use the code BLONDE20 for for 20% off a bottle of Just Thrive Probiotic and Just CalmGo to AloMoves.com and use the code BLONDE30 for an exclusive 30 day free trial and 20% off an annual membership.Go to TryBite.com/BLONDE for 20% off your first order.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

He is back! Your favorite therapist and drama expert, Dr. Scott Lyons!Friend, today we're asking Dr. Scott some hard questions about why we are the way we are online. Why do we cross boundaries? How do we handle an onslaught of criticism in our DMs? What has vulnerability cost us?Dr. Scott has so much wisdom to share. He breaks down why we feel invested in our favorite creators online and how we naturally fill in the gaps of what we know and don't know about them.Don't miss this one friend and remember, you can now WATCH every episode on Youtube at https://nicolewalters.com/youtube!Thanks for being here, friend!Grab my New York Times Bestselling memoir, Nothing is Missing, at https://nothingismissingbook.com/ or your favorite local bookstore.And find the rest of the links and resources from this episode on the show notes at https://nicolewalters.com/episode412Episode Sponsors:Right now, download Netsuite's popular KPI Checklist, designed to give you consistently excellent performance absolutely free, at Netsuite.com/NICOLE.Visit maidenform.com and use code NICOLE20 at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Brave Table fam! In today's conversation, Dr. Scott Lyons and I delve into the profound impact of trauma on the body and the pivotal role of somatic therapy in the healing process. Dr. Lyons stresses how trauma deeply embeds itself within our nervous system and cells, highlighting the significance of infusing play and humor into our lives to release trauma and alleviate inflammation. We discuss somatic therapy's focus on reconnecting with the body's primary language of sensation, breath, and movement as a means of effectively addressing trauma. Furthermore, Dr. Lyons underscores the importance of practitioners cultivating their own embodiment and self-awareness to better support clients on their healing journeys. What you'll get from this episode… Dr. Lyons' personal journey into somatic therapy, driven by experiences with learning disabilities and a determination to challenge limiting beliefs about his future The creation of Embodylab, and its aim to make somatic education more accessible and impactful worldwide The significance of vocal expression and its impact on the vagus nerve and somatic therapy, and its integration into daily life for holistic well-being Introducing somatic practices to children to promote early trauma processing and self-expression Mentioned in the episode:  The Gently Used Human by Dr. Scott Lyons - Finding Meaning in the Mess with Dr. Neeta Bhushan If you loved this episode, make sure you… Follow us on Instagram @neetabhushan & @thebravetable Connect with Dr. Scott Lyons on Instagram Are you addicted to DRAMA? Take the QUIZ here! Grab a copy of Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others here And if you loved this episode, check out: Episode 189: Honoring Your Mental Health with the Millennial Therapist Dr. Sara Kuburic. Apple | Spotify Episode 161: Braving It All: How to Process Grief & Loss with Dr. Neeta Bhushan. Apple | Spotify Episode 144: Vulnerability to Audacity: Exploring the Raw & Real Honestly on Social with Giselle Ugarte. Apple | Spotify Hey loves! Thanks for listening, and I hope you loved this episode! If you did, please consider leaving a 5-star review to help others find and benefit from the show.  After you do, send a screenshot of your review to support@globalgrit.co to receive my FREE gift to you. Thanks for helping us get to the top 50 in Mental Health! So grateful for you all.

Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers' voices as we help them in real-time. In this episode, you'll learn: Effective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable How to feel confident going into a date See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: Magic Wand Micro Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website The Embody Lab SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let's get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let's text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Are you addicted to drama? Dr. Scott Lyons is the expert on drama addiction and in this chat he's going to blow your mind!Dr. Scott breaks down how we can become addicted to stress and drama as a response to trauma and what we can do to slowly break the cycle. Friend, if you're anything like me, this is going to open your eyes WIDE!Finding peace is possible and the tips Dr. Scott shares in this chat can lead you there. Friend, this chat IS A MUST!You can now watch on Youtube at https://nicolewalters.com/youtube!Grab my New York Times Bestselling memoir, Nothing is Missing, at https://nothingismissingbook.com/ or your favorite local bookstore.And find the rest of the links and resources from this episode on the show notes at https://nicolewalters.com/episode406Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

([TW // mentions su*c*de] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through 47:00-48:00.) Do you (or your partner) start fights over nothing? Do stable relationships feel unsettling? Today, holistic psychologist, podcast host, and author Dr. Scott Lyons shows us how some of us may be more addicted to drama than we think. From attachment styles to toxic partners, Dr. Lyons explains how unresolved trauma can show up in ourselves and our relationships. We also talk about the desire to have rough sex, why makeup sex feels so good, how trauma lives in our bodies, and so much more.In this episode, you'll learn:How to work through jealousy in relationshipsHow addiction to drama affects our sexual pleasureHow to identify and sit with uncomfortable emotionsSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Handle Performance Anxiety5 Ways to Pleasure a VulvaMagic Wand MicroSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet's get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let's text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I was talking sh*t about my daughter and got caught red-handed. Talk about unnecessary drama.We've all been there. And according to today's expert, this type of conflict is causing more stress than you think.Today, I am joined by Dr. Scott Lyons, a medical doctor, holistic psychologist, and renowned body-based trauma expert. He says there are 6 telltale signs that you're addicted to stress.I never considered myself to be a person who is addicted to stress until this conversation.Dr. Lyons is certified in more healing modalities than you want me to list and has even created his own body-based trauma therapy called Somatic Stress Release™, taught in over 20 countries.You and I are digging into the fascinating science, research, and psychology of stress. And more importantly, you are going to get the tools you need to remove it from your life.Dr. Lyons will explain why we keep ourselves on edge, why we find ourselves picking fights, gossiping, zombie scrolling, and staying in relationships where drama is present.This is a cycle you need to break. It's time you slow down and learn:The shocking ways you are addicted to stress.How to deal with drama-addicted friends and significant others.What zombie scrolling, zoning out in front of the TV, and always being on the go say about you.What it means when you always need to be the center of attention.What “revving” is and why you need to stop doing it today.The 3 ways to break free from a stress addiction. If you've read this far, it means you want to feel less stress. I want that for you, too.That's why I can't wait for you to listen and learn how to remove all the unnecessary drama from your life. Xo, Mel In this episode, you'll learn:3:28: What exactly does it mean to be ‘addicted to drama'?4:56: Here are the 9 external signs you might be addicted to drama.5:00: If you use these 6 words, you might be addicted to drama.5:15: Do you feel these two emotions when things are calm?5:30: Gossiping is a double-edged sword8:23: How addicts feel inside vs. how they seem to others10:26: What is a revving reflex?11:10: Whoa. I had a major lightbulb moment here.11:50: Addiction to drama is really an expression of trauma.12:57: Mic drop: We chase our drama to avoid our traumas.15:15: How we are reclaiming this word ‘drama'.16:00: The 3 ways drama feels good.16:12: What is drama exactly?20:15: Dr. Scott begins to share his own vulnerable story.21:20: Are you ‘drama bonding'?23:50: This is why hurt people can't let go of drama.27:35: What is dissociation?28:20: Do these signs feel familiar in your own life?36:55: Examples of childhood traumas that can create drama addiction.37:50: Here's what we did so that our kids felt abandoned.43:25: How to be in a healthy relationship with someone like this.48:15: Do this so you don't get involved in their drama cycle.51:40: One surprising sign of dissociated tolerance I bet you'll recognize.54:00: How the heck does stress give you pain relief?1:00:20: How do you create boundaries around controlling children?1:06:22: Here are 4 ways to take control and end the drama addiction.Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.Disclaimer