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Lesley and Brad break down the mindset shifts that helped them go from feeling stuck to living with purpose—drawing from the conversation with transformational coach Kevin Carton. They dive into the four levels of consciousness, the surprising truths about vision and identity, and the importance of curiosity when stepping into who you're meant to be. Tune in for a conversation about intentional living and the inner work it takes to grow into your next level. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co.And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:How the four levels of consciousness reveal what's really keeping you stuckHow curiosity can help you reconnect with your soul's purpose. Why many people unintentionally avoid going after what they desire. How daily gratitude shifts your mindset and reinforces identity.Episode References/Links:OPC UK Mullet Tour - https://opc.me/ukeLevate Mentorship Program - https://lesleylogan.co/elevate/Pilates Studio Growth Accelerator - https://prfit.biz/acceleratorCambodia October 2025 Waitlist - https://crowsnestretreats.comOPC Perks - opc.me/perksKevin Carton Website - https://kevincarton.com/Kevin Carton Instagram - https://instagram.com/kevinfcartonScience and Spirituality - https://beitpod.com/scienceandspiritualitypodMetacognition Meditation - https://beitpod.com/metacognitionmeditationBuy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster – https://a.co/d/81moWWDEverything is Tuberculosis by John Green - https://a.co/d/0YpCvguJohn Green on The Chris Haye Podcast - https://beitpod.com/chrishaye If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox. https://lovethepodcast.com/BITYSIDEALS! 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I have that thing already. I am an entrepreneur. I am a super mom. I am a race car driver. I am a whatever it is, the thing that you want, you know, in your life, instead of when that happens for me, you act as if you are it now, already. That is the definition of be it till you see it. Lesley Logan 0:20  Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Lesley Logan 0:59  Welcome back to the Be It Till You See It interview recap where my co-host in life, Brad, and I are going to dig into the profound convo I have with Kevin Carton in our last episode. If you haven't yet listened to that interview, feel free to pause us now and go back and listen to that one or you can listen to this one and listen to that one. He's such a sweetheart. I mean that in like, the not.Brad Crowell 1:19  Really brilliant guy.Lesley Logan 1:20  Brilliant and patient and kind and profound is a good word for him. It really, really is. I learned so much and we actually got to have him in the Agency group as well, elaborating more on what we talked about. So Agency members, you can check out that goodness. Brad Crowell 1:35  Yeah, we're actually going to be including it in the Agency curriculum pretty soon, so stay tuned for that it's gonna be great. Lesley Logan 1:41  Yeah, if you wanna know what Agency is here let's stay tuned, Brad's going to talk about Accelerator in seconds. Today is May 15th and it's National Notebook Day. National Notebook Day is celebrated on the third Thursday of May, and this year it falls on May 15th. It's a holiday that encourages people to record their thoughts, events and information in a notebook. It's especially important to have a notebook or journal if you're the type of person whose mind goes to so many places at once. One of the many reasons why keeping track of varieties is beneficial is that it helps you focus the mind. People will often revisit their journal entries when they need inspiration or ideas. And I just thought, focus the mind, we, I feel like it's a Kevin Carton thing, but also, because I can't choose one, I have ADHD, and I like a lot of things. And so also, Today is National Senior Fraud Awareness Day. So go check that out. Essentially, it means what it means. Make sure you're seeing your people in your life. Brad Crowell 2:29  Educate your parents. Educate your parents.Lesley Logan 2:30  You guys don't deal, don't don't touch the toll link that they're sending you. Brad Crowell 2:35  Yeah, the toll link isn't real. Lesley Logan 2:37  They're never gonna text you. They don't know your number. They don't know your license plate. Brad Crowell 2:40  We just had someone try to hack your Instagram account. They sent us a spam email that said your post has been. Lesley Logan 2:45  Oh, yeah, copy, copyright infringement. And I told the team. I was like, guys, that's my face and it's my word.Brad Crowell 2:51  Yeah and there was no music. So what copyright infringement could there be? But it was a fraud link. So they're getting real sneaky. Lesley Logan 2:57  Yeah, yeah, really. Because, I mean, I sent to the team, because I was like, there's something wrong here. But no, just assholes. And then also, it's Tuberculosis Day, TB Day. There's actually a couple different holidays to have to do with this. And the reason I'm bringing it up right now is, actually listen to Chris Hayes do an interview. Was it with John Green or with a guy who talked about John Green? Brad Crowell 3:16  No, I think it was the author. Lesley Logan 3:18  Oh, with John Green. Okay, so here's the, John Green wrote a book, Everything is Tuberculosis. By the way, have you ever looked at tuberculosis the word? It's tubular something, something sclerosis. And so everyone like it's.Brad Crowell 3:30  Tubular sclerosis? Lesley Logan 3:32  No, it's got, like, there's like, extra S's and O's, at any rate, you can see why we call it TB. It's really important that you guys actually understand what's going on in the world of fucking things around, is that.Brad Crowell 3:46  Wait, what? In the world of.Lesley Logan 3:49  They're fucking things up like. Brad Crowell 3:50  Yeah, they're fucking things up. They're fucking around.Lesley Logan 3:51  In the world where they fuck around, we're about to find out what that means, which is, according to John Green, we didn't just go back a couple steps, we fell down the steps. Brad Crowell 3:52  We like fell down the ladders. Lesley Logan 3:54  And like, everything is TB is just that, like, TB actually can't kill people, does kill people. There are drug resistant versions of this, and when they study TB, it helps them understand every other disease and illness out there. And so I highly recommend reading Everything is Tuberculosis. And if you're like me and you have a hard time focusing on a book. Go listen to the episode with John Green on Chris Hayes' podcast. No sponsorship here. I would love to have Chris Hayes on or John Green. I don't know what the be it till you see it angle would be, except just tell me how bad we really are. Anyways, but that it's TV day as well. Lesley Logan 4:36  Okay, we're headed to the UK. We have two stops. It's our first time in a couple of years. Space is super limited. Legitimately, guys, there is 18 spots in one space and 20 in another. And that might sound like a lot to you, but it's not a lot of people. So you want to snag your spot for that. The deal is amazing, opc.me/uk we're going on a summer tour this summer and if you want to make sure that you are in on the deets, which will be announced any day now, then you want to go to opc.me/events, we make sure those people always hear about it.Brad Crowell 5:04  And then I'll be spending the weekend by myself because. Lesley Logan 5:08  I'm spending the weekend by myself. You're with friends. Brad Crowell 5:11  Lesley is going to be teaching the Cadillac Workshop Weekend for eLevate, round five, which is very intense. It's literally 24 hours on Zoom over three days.Lesley Logan 5:21  That's overwhelm. Those of you who are seeing eLevate, it's only 12 hours for you. Brad Crowell 5:25  Yeah, it's only, it's only half of that for participants, but she's doing two rounds. But we love these weekends, eLevate is really a fun, amazing program, and I can tell you, as someone who watches it all happen from the side, how epic it is, because people actually come together and nerd out like deep, deep, deep dive on Pilates over nine months, and what they get out of this program is literally life changing in every element of their life. It's not just about the Pilates, but this weekend is really, really cool. So if you're ever considering deeper dive into Pilates and you're a teacher, that's the one requirement, if you're already a teacher, go to lesleylogan.co/elevate that's L-E-S-L-E-Y logan dot co slash elevate for more information, when you get started, there you and I can talk, and we'll talk through the whole thing. If you are a teacher and you're taking clients at all, I want you to join me for a free webinar. It's a Profitable Pilates webinar. We're going to talk about money. Okay, we're gonna talk about money. We're talking about clients marketing. We're talking about mindset. We're gonna dig in, and we're gonna get nerdy on how do you apply these things to what you're doing to change the trajectory, okay, if you're like, I feel like I'm spinning my wheels. I'm feeling very stuck. I can't seem to get new clients. I hate trying to get new clients. I hate telling people how much I charge. If any of these things resonate with you, come to this webinar. It's called the Growth Accelerator, prfit.biz/accelerator. It's totally free. We're gonna dig in, and then you can there's Q&A element to it as well. So that's profit without the O dot biz slash accelerator. It's totally free. And then finally, Cambodia. Lesley Logan 7:07  Cambodia. Come and have Pilates for free with us. This is for you. If you just love Pilates, if you're pie curious, if you want to go travel the world and you want someone to curate it for you, this retreat is for you. It's an amazing experience. You're in the village with us. You stay at our house. We do five Pilates classes. We do breath work, we do some manifestation workshop, not just the woo, woo type. We actually get down and dirty on like, how do you actually make sure that your schedule allows you to live the life that you want to live, which includes taking care of you and making yourself a priority. And we tour temples, and we do a water village, and we do a lotus run, and run, like a lotus tour, and then we also eat amazing food. So I want you to come.Brad Crowell 7:41  Yeah, it's gonna be amazing. It's like our favorite place to be, honestly, with everything that's insane going on right now in the world, in life.Lesley Logan 7:49  I can't wait to be out of all of it for a week. Brad Crowell 7:52  It's like an opportunity to set yourself up for some peace, relaxation, a little bit of adventure, exploration. It's going to be a great reprieve. It's going to be a retreat and on purpose. So come join us for it. You deserve it. It's your time. Lesley Logan 8:07  Yeah, you're going to vote whenever it's time to vote. You're going to protest whenever it's time to protest, and you're going to take a week with us in Cambodia to recharge and refresh and get back out there. Brad Crowell 8:16  crowsnestretreats.com crowsnestretreats.com.Lesley Logan 8:21  I got halfway through filling this out and like. Brad Crowell 8:23  Before we get any further, we got an audience question here.Lesley Logan 8:26  Right, babe. Brad Crowell 8:27  Right, so Fit Prom Karen is asking on YouTube, hey, what's the difference between the black nylon and leather straps? How do they hold up or move for circular movement? And she was talking about on the Reformer. Lesley Logan 8:40  Yeah, so, okay, there's so many different types of Reformers out there, and there are Reformers that use, like, ropes and pulleys, and they usually have loops, and those loops can be cloth, and then, because of COVID, they've turned into this, like, vinyl type of a thing, which is not super comfortable. It's a little thick, but it's easy to wipe down. And then there's also the leather straps that also on wheels, and they also have handles, and then they have extension straps to make the loops. So there's a huge difference. And as far as the circular movement, I actually think that if you work with the leather straps and handles. Brad Crowell 9:11  Sorry, where are these straps? I'm trying to envision this because there's, like, multiple straps on a Reformer. We're not talking about the long straps, are we?Lesley Logan 9:18  We're talking about the long straps. Brad Crowell 9:19  The long straps, okay, so we're not talking about the things that hang over the tail.Lesley Logan 9:22  You know, when we're on a tour, yeah, not the one, well, those are extension straps, but yes. Brad Crowell 9:22  Extension straps, okay, so that's the difference.Lesley Logan 9:22  You know when we're on tour and some of them I have to push the risers down because they use ropes. Okay, so the particular device that it's on will turn around so when they make circles, the ropes stay in this little groove thing, and it circles like it turns with it. And the leather straps don't have that. They're just on a wheel, but you can still circle. You can still circle. What I would say is actually a lot, a lot of people that I work with who use the ropes. I highly encourage you to order the neoprene handles. They usually are on your Cadillac, or you can order them on their own and clip it on to your straps, because you are going to get even more out of those circles every single exercise if you have a handle in your hand, because the way your hand reacts to the handle will tell me if your arms are connected to your back. So I can look at a room of people. Brad Crowell 9:49  Which does not happen if it's just a loop. Lesley Logan 10:18  Well, it can, but you have to, you have to be aware, and it's really hard because you don't have anything visually to show you that your hand is turned at an angle. So if you're watching on YouTube, it's really easy for your hand to be at a 45 degree angle, versus perfectly holding a bowl of soup or perfectly ready to shake someone's hand. Brad Crowell 10:38  Is that what we're doing, we're holding soup? Lesley Logan 10:39  Usually I tell people to hold a margarita. So at any rate, the pinky side of your hand needs to be attached to the handle at all times. And when you're using those loops, it's kind of touching it. So you think it's working, but then your hand is actually not the right angle to help you to connect your muscles from your back. And a lot of people end up using the top of their shoulders or the front of their shoulders, or their biceps and their elbows, and they're not using their back. And then the other thing that those loops can encourage without you noticing it is really easy for your wrist to bend, and so then you're holding this loop with your bent, wrist is bent, and now you're not getting any of the benefits. So loops are great for the feet. There's nothing wrong with it, and I actually am not knocking anything like, we have affiliate links to Balanced Body and to Contrology, so if you prefer the ropes, you can have them. I just highly encourage you to get handles and use handles in your hands and loops on your feet. Brad Crowell 11:23  Yeah, if you're interested in that link, go to opc.me/perks P-E-R-K-S opc.me/perks and scroll down, you'll find the links to all the equipment that we recommend. So stick around. We'll be right back. We're going to dig into this fantastic conversation that Lesley had with Kevin Carton, and he's going to share some fancy metaphysical stuff with you all. We'll talk to you soon. Brad Crowell 11:48  All right, everybody, welcome back. Let's dig into this convo with Kevin Carton. He's a multifaceted individual dedicated to helping others achieve their potential. Certified by the Brave Thinking Institute, he operates as an inspirational speaker, teacher and transformational life coach. That's what the Brave Thinking Institute is, they certify life coaches, and it's not like a, you know, $250 weekend certification y'all this is way bigger deal than that. With significant experience, he focuses on empowering individuals to identify their life's purpose, overcome personal obstacles and build self-belief through various methods, including his widely popular podcast, Science and Spirituality, co-hosted with his brother Chris Carton, Science and Spirituality, they are, like, you know, a million plus downloads. It's a big pod. It's a really cool thing. I definitely recommend you check that out. Science and Spirituality and his brother Chris, two of them are enjoyable to listen to, just very knowledgeable. So.Lesley Logan 12:43  Also, can you say it like, how cute, Chris and Kevin Carton, like, it's just like. Brad Crowell 12:45  Chris and Kevin Carton. Lesley Logan 12:46  You know, I love when people make sure alliteration happened. It just all flows together. So many things to love about what he said. But I really enjoyed that he talked about he believes that our soul's purpose is really what our heart calls for the most to live the most alive life that we possibly can. And he, also about focusing on becoming more alive, more aware, more happy, more loving. He also said that if you're struggling to identify your purpose, it's because you have to get curious. And it made me just think, you know, when you're a kid, you're like, asking all these questions. You're like, so curious. Why is the sky blue? Why is this? Why is it? And because parents are fucking exhausted and overworked and underpaid, and they are stressed out to the ninth, especially the parents today, because why wouldn't you be, it's really easy to kind of like, crush that curiosity and. Brad Crowell 13:31  I mean even, not, also inadvertently, it could just be like, here's an iPad I can't deal with you right now.Lesley Logan 13:36  It's all, I actually would say it's all inadvertently. But and then at school, the curiosity is not what actually is you're graded on. It's like, on how well you memorized. And so I think that, like, you start as a kid as very curious, and then you go through life and you're just forced to, like, memorize what's right and what's wrong. And so you don't actually cultivate a curious brain. I actually was really grateful, because Pilates made me get really curious. Because, well, not not just Pilates in general, I will say very specifically, Pilates with Vintage, with Jay, with Sandy and Karen. Like, there was not a one answer to a question. It was like, well, I don't know, how's it feel? And they would want you to get curious, like they. Brad Crowell 13:43  You have to dig in and connect with yourself to actually draw a conclusion. Lesley Logan 14:15  Was really hard for me. I would just go, just tell me what it is, right. I just want to get it right. So I think that's why I can really attract this perfectionist, but also why I love what we do. But I just thought it was really great, like, be more curious, you know. And then he also said, we're given dreams, and it's up to us to accept and become aware of them like we're given them. And that made me just think of Big Magic and how, like, ideas want to be born and things want to happen. And if we're not there to, like, pick what's being left for us, they're gonna go. But if we can be aware of them, we get to actually enjoy them, and we get to have this gift that we've been given. What did you love? Brad Crowell 14:49  He talks about the four levels of consciousness. This is effectively applied to how each of us lives, our lives, how we experience our lives. So there's four levels of consciousness, and I'm gonna briefly run through with them all. So level one is victimhood, two is responsibility, three is called flow, and then four is oneness. Okay? Now, what does that actually mean? Level one, victimhood, life is happening to me, at me, you know, against my wishes. Why do these things happen to me? I'm blaming everybody except for myself, right? It's considered the lowest state of consciousness, and it's actually it diminishes your life. So sometimes what we default to, and the thing is, it's easy to stay in the victimhood. Lesley Logan 15:33  I think we all get annoyed by those people. Like, once you're not that person, you're like, I gotta get away. Brad Crowell 15:37  Yeah, so level two responsibility, life is happening by me. You're taking responsibility for your actions, for your thoughts, for your responses. You're recognizing your own ability to create desired outcomes. And this is like, probably, I think, most people live life more often than not, in levels two and three, kind of transitioning between two and three, and then four. We tap into four occasionally, but then we shift around like that was a good question that you had for him. But life is happening by me is level two, responsibility on making decisions, on purpose. Level three. Life is happening through me. This is the flow state, a sense of connection to a larger life force, letting go of excessive control, experiencing a natural flow of things, where things work out more easily. You know, I think we've all experienced the flow state, right? We're in the zone, as like to call it. I know when I was working in the office, my entire goal, like when I worked for somebody else, my entire goal was once a day, to forget what time it was, because I was so in the zone, right? Put my headphones on, drown out the rest of the world. Get focused and allow myself to be in that state. And honestly, when that happens, I would be happy about it. At the end of it I'd be like, yes, I got so much work done today. When I didn't get into the flow state, I will be frustrated about my day. And be like, oh, I feel like I didn't do anything today, right? So life is happening through me, and then finally, oneness, life is happening as me. This is definitely more of like a mystical experience, no separation between yourself and the entirety of the universe. And you know, you can experience this through meditation, connection with others, with the nation, but also, actually, he also suggested that oneness, or life is happening as me, the most common experience of this is an orgasm where you're experiencing it with somebody else. I thought it was interesting to think of that that way. And it's not something that you're in that state for the longest periods of time, but you can tap into that occasionally here and there. I just found these really interesting. Lesley Logan 17:44  These are the four things that he dug into more deeply in his talk, right? Brad Crowell 17:48  Yeah, he, we also went through these levels of consciousness and, in fact, also his tool at the end of the episode, where he's like, hey, this is my gift to you. We actually did that exercise together on in the webinar. So if you're looking for more on that, come join us in Agency. You know, also go check out the things that he's doing. Lesley Logan 18:07  You can check out his pod. I mean, like. Brad Crowell 18:08  Yeah or check out the pod, yeah. Lesley Logan 18:10  This is I just really liked him. I subscribed to the pod because I was like, I think I want to keep listening to this person. I really like what they're saying. And I think also I got a lot of those stages, and it's like, oh, that last one, I kind of just thought that's what the shamans do in the white, you know, on the top of the hill, and they leave the world behind. But I liked he's, like, no this is like, you could just tap into it. You could just be, like, in this moment, we could be part of the world again. So I think that's really cool. Brad Crowell 18:32  Yep, yeah, awesome. Well stick around. We'll be right back, because we have some really powerful Be It Action Items shared by Kevin Carton. We'll be right back after this. Stick around. Brad Crowell 18:41  Welcome back. Let's talk about those Be It Action Items. What bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted action items can we take away from your conversation with Kevin Carton? He talked about the power of a clear vision. He defines a vision as a written out version of the life you love to live, a written out version of the life you love to live. And I thought was really cool, because we have this idea for ourselves, but how often do we actually put it down on paper so we can see it, read it, hold it. We won't forget it, because we wrote it down. He said be detailed, be clear, be specific. Use emotion and just be big. And he said the main thing that people and he and I had a really interesting conversation about this, one of the things that I used to do, and I still catch myself doing occasionally, is saying to myself, I want this thing for me, whatever this thing might be. And then I would say, it would be really nice if this thing happened for me or to me, ironically, it's like victimhood level one. It would be really nice if this thing happened for me, right? That to me is a cop out. Cop out in two ways. One, I might not actually be actively pursuing this thing that I want to happen for me. And two, if the thing doesn't happen, then it's okay. It didn't happen to me, for me, right? This is really interesting, because I used to intentionally not get my hopes up, right? Because if it never happened for me, then I'd be really disappointed, or it'd be failing, or I'd be let down. And I just found, like what he said, when you're writing out your vision, the mistake that most people make is taking that approach. It'd be great for me if this happened right, and then, and then, what's the next generation of that is we say, oh no, no, not if it happens, when it happens right? And he's saying, not even that but there's one step further, I am that thing. I have that thing already. I am an entrepreneur. I am a super mom. I am a race car driver. I am a whatever it is, the thing that you want, you know, in your life, instead of when that happens for me, you act as if you are it now already. That is the definition of be it till you see it. Lesley Logan 20:58  Oh, yeah. My, my client, I was like, hey, baby, I can only see you at eight o'clock or whatever I gave her. And I really only did it for her, because I would never do it for anyone. And she said yes. And I was like, oh, okay. And I said well, I'm really surprised you accepted this. She's like, well, I am a healthy person, and a healthy person would work out at this hour. And I was like, oh. Brad Crowell 21:17  Great for her. Lesley Logan 21:18  I'm practicing this I am thing and helping me filter my decisions. And I think it's, you know, it takes some time, be kind to yourself, like I just saw her again today, and she's like, still working out the I ams and I haves, but you can do it.Brad Crowell 21:32  Good. Good for her. That's awesome. I thought that was super powerful. What about you? Lesley Logan 21:38  I love that you know about gratitude. Gratitude is a powerful practice for being it till you see it. You know what, gratitude, I think it gets tossed around a lot. It's like, do this, but actually, do you really do it? Do you have a gratitude practice, really? And I'm gonna. Brad Crowell 21:42  What is it? What does the gratitude practice look like? Lesley Logan 21:49  Well, I will give you a perfect example from someone else. So the book is called Buy Yourself the Fucking Lilies, or tulips, or something like that. And I think her name is Tara. I would love her on the pod. I would obviously need to learn her name, but it's from five years ago, so it's really, really great. And she, in her third chapter was every single day, write down 10 things you're grateful for. Brad Crowell 22:07  Yeah, you're right. Buy Yourself the Fucking Lilies by Tara Schuster. Lesley Logan 22:09  Tara Schuster, okay, she's just committed to it. So anyways, I think a lot of people do it at night. And I will just say, everyone, I actually, in the middle of the day, typically have a moment where, like this. Brad Crowell 22:18  We were just talking about this. Lesley Logan 22:20  I start the day feeling fucking amazing, and then somewhere in the middle of the day, after all the onslaught of all the things that are going great but not going great, the chaos and then the fucking news widget that tells me what else we're fucking killing around here, I just find myself like, what are we doing? And so I was like, I'm gonna try this thing, and I open up my reMarkable tablet, and I have my schedule of the day on my reMarkable tablet, and if you just scroll, like, swipe, it's a journal place, and it's not enough to do like, journal entry, really. So I just list 10 gratitudes. And literally, just go, one, I'm grateful that I have the time to do this. Two, I'm grateful. And you just keep going, and what you find is like, by the end, when you get to 10, like to find 10 things to be grateful for in a day, especially when it feels like it fucking sucks, changes mine all the way around. And it really helps you get back to being the person you want to be, the person you believe you are, the I am, the I have and so. Brad Crowell 23:17  I actually think, so that's a cool practice. Another thing you can use is the five minute journal. Lesley Logan 23:22  You can. Brad Crowell 23:23  Yeah and that one you're writing it into a journal, it already has the prompts right in front of you. Lesley Logan 23:27  I can't really read my own writing, so I just do it on the reMarkable and hoping they translate it if it wants to. But we talked about like, how my therapist is really helpful at helping me remember, like, gratitude and judgment can't live in the same space. If you are feeling like, pissed, this isn't working and this isn't working, that's the judgment zone. And then you can start doing gratitudes, and the gratitude pushes the judgment out of the way. He also mentioned a gift.Brad Crowell 23:47  Oh, his gift. This is the thing that we did together, the metacognition meditation.Lesley Logan 23:51  So it's a 23 minute guided meditation, and it's designed to help individuals notice their thoughts, connect with their spiritual being, and gain clarity over their purpose and desires. You guys, this gift is less than 2% of your day. So we're talking about 1.5% of your day. So go to beitpod.com/metacognitionmeditation, beitpod.com/metacognitionmeditation. I'm not spelling that out. I think it spells the way it sounds. Thank you, Kevin, I learned so much from you. I can't wait to stalk you in the best way, a little bit more, and learn so much from you and your brother. I'm Lesley Logan. Brad Crowell 24:27  And I'm Brad Crowell. Lesley Logan 24:28  Thank you so much for listening to this today. We're so appreciative to have you. Can you believe? First of all, it's the middle of May. Second of all, this podcast is at episode 524 because of you. Because of you, we get guests like Kevin Carton who has a million downloads on his podcast because you listen to this one. So keep downloading the episodes. It is helpful for us to get big, amazing guests that can help you be it till you see it.Brad Crowell 24:49  And share it with somebody new. Lesley Logan 24:51  Yes. Brad Crowell 24:51  Pick one person right now. Share this episode to one person right now. Lesley Logan 24:52  Yes. And if you also leave a review that, too, helps this podcast out. see you. None of that costs you any money and you got a free meditation. Thank you so much. And until next time, Be It Till You See It. Brad Crowell 25:06  Bye for now. Lesley Logan 25:07  That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. 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Recapping Lesley's powerful conversation with Monique Rhodes, a globally recognized happiness strategist, this episode explores how small, intentional shifts—like practicing gratitude, creating a “bubble of influence,” and embracing discomfort—can lead to greater joy and emotional strength. Tune in for Monique's actionable steps for managing negativity and reclaiming your peace and purpose.  If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co.And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:How the "bubble of influence" creates joy for yourself and others.Our societal obsession with comfort and why embrace discomfort.How gratitude reframes your mindset and increases happiness.The danger of toxic positivity—and why feeling all emotions matters.The “Sixes Method” for letting go of stress and gaining perspective.Episode References/Links:April UK Mullet Tour Waitlist - https://opc.me/ukApril Spring Pilates Training - https://opc.me/eventsPilates Studio Growth Accelerator - https://prfit.biz/acceleratorCambodia October 2025 Waitlist - https://crowsnestretreats.comMonique Rhodes Website - https://moniquerhodes.comMonique Rhodes Happiness Activation System - https://iintendtobehappy.comTara Schuster's Book: Buy Yourself the Fucking Lilies - https://a.co/d/etSRpDr If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox. https://lovethepodcast.com/BITYSIDEALS! 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I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Lesley Logan 0:53  Welcome back to the Be It Till You See It interview recap where my co-host in life, Brad, and I are going to dig into the gratifying convo I had with Monique Rhodes in our last episode. I was also a happy episode. It was like a happy convo. Brad Crowell 1:04  It was awesome. Lesley Logan 1:04  It was so, I'm obsessed with this woman. Gotta figure out how to get on a retreat with her. Anyways, you have to listen to that one. I don't care when you listen to it, but it's a must. Brad Crowell 1:14  It's a directive. We're telling you, you gotta go listen to the last episode. Lesley Logan 1:18  I really enjoyed. It was just so great. Brad Crowell 1:19  She's very inspiring, very compelling. Lesley Logan 1:21  Yeah. But also I found myself going, oh crap, I have to stop the episode. Like, I have to stop interviewing her, because it's time. Brad Crowell 1:29  Oh, you mean it just kept going. You were like keep going. Lesley Logan 1:31  I just kept going. I was just like, I'm just gonna keep talking. I like, love this woman. Anyways, before we get into Monique Rhodes, today is April 3rd 2025 and it's Weed Out Hate Day. It's a day that speaks of the importance of being kind and thoughtful towards others. This holiday is much needed in today's world, especially in today's world so where selfishness reigns supreme and assholes do, too. I inserted that myself. Marc Daniels came up with the holiday in honor of his grandfather, Ross Daniels, the inventor of the Ross Root Feeder. This revolutionary irrigation tool allowed nutrients to get to the deepest roots and trees of our plants, thus helping them achieve peak health and more bountiful harvest. The main goal of Weed Out Hate Day is connect gardeners and kindergarteners with the natural world while improving society in the process. Weed Out Hate Day removes the roadblocks that prevent children from achieving their full potential. Those who participate in the ceremony learn to kick out any negative influences in their lives and bring in more positive aspects. I think that's cool. I think somehow they took they're like, we take out weeds, and we are gonna help children take out the weeds in their lives. Brad Crowell 2:40  Yeah, they're gonna inspire kids. I think that was really great. Lesley Logan 2:42  I think so too. I think I love it so much. Brad Crowell 2:44  That's a heck of a marketing team. Lesley Logan 2:46  It really, really is Ross. Ross the rooter. Brad Crowell 2:52  Marc came up with it. Lesley Logan 2:53  I know, but his dad was, grandfather was Ross the rooter. Anyways. Well, I mean, there are certain people in this world that I think are freaking worthy of all the hate in the world. There are individual people with names we all know. But that being said, unfortunately, we live in a world where they're like just people are hating on entire groups of people, or trying to inspire hate on all groups of people. And I think we can all understand that everyone just wants love and to feel seen, and it actually is a lot easier to love strangers, than hate them. It's really freaking hard. But also, if you're like, I don't have the time to think about other people in this world, Lesley. That's fine. Remove the haters in your life. Block and bless. Goodbye. Lesley Logan 3:30  Okay, we are getting really, really close to a couple April things that you need to know about, and one of them is when we go to the UK this fall. If you are in the UK or the EU and you want to join the workshops that we're doing, at two different cities, you're going to want to go to opc.me/uk to get on the waitlist, because those on the waitlist will get the early bird price, and these events can sell out pretty quickly, because they sold out last time we were there. Space is small, so we're only gonna have so many. So not only would you get the best price, but you would also get the option to actually attend, because it will only go public if there are rooms, there are spots left. So, opc.me/uk. Also happening in April. It's going.Brad Crowell 4:10  Meaning get on the waitlist, because if it sells out on the waitlist, then we're not even going to announce it. Lesley Logan 4:15  Right, right. You'll just hear that we're going, and you'll have missed out. Brad Crowell 4:18  Yep. So, opc.me/uk. Lesley Logan 4:21  And we're not doing the UK in 2026 I'm going to tell you right now. So the next one, I don't know when that is. April 27th through May 3rd is going to be the. Brad Crowell 4:30  Spring Training. Lesley Logan 4:31  Spring Training. You guys, I just picked out the uniforms for the teachers.Brad Crowell 4:35  Oh, you did.Lesley Logan 4:35  Yeah. Brad Crowell 4:36  Nice. Lesley Logan 4:37  Yeah. It's like an actual baseball tee. Brad Crowell 4:38  Oh, cool. Lesley Logan 4:39  It's so cool. It's so cute. But now, because August is the bat dog, I feel like we need to get, like, a costume for him. I just gotta, I gotta find it out. Anyways, it's going to be April 27th through May 3rd. If you're an OPC member, it's free. If you're not an OPC member, you're going to want to go to opc.me/events to get on the waitlist, because those on the waitlist will save money on the ticket to your Spring Training. And the theme is the Pilates Push Up, and if you hate it, then this is for you. And if you love it, then we'll see you there. But if you hate it, you have to come, because whatever you hate you gotta do twice. We got not 10 classes. So there you go, plenty of opportunities to discover some love for it. Brad Crowell 5:15  Opc.me/events, oh, side note, it actually wraps up on the International Pilates Day, which is May 3rd. So, how fun is that? Lesley Logan 5:23  Is that possible because are we ending on a Saturday? Brad Crowell 5:25  Yeah. Lesley Logan 5:26  Oh, then it is on International Pilates Day. Some, in my brain we were ending on a Sunday. And I'm like, okay, somehow we got that wrong. But no, and you know what, guys? Call your friend. Yeah. Okay. Up next, Brad has something very special for the Pilates teachers and studio owners in this world. Brad Crowell 5:42  Yeah, that's right. If you're feeling stuck in your Pilates business and you're trying to figure out, how do I grow, or how do I make more money, or how to get new clients, I want you to join me. Come to a free webinar where I'm talking about growth, growth for your Pilates business, whether you have a studio, whether you have a home studio, or you're taking clients and renting from someone else, it's all applicable. Lesley Logan 6:04  This is all really important. It's important you know the growth that you want, and that's very, that's really important to me because a lot of companies that coach Pilates businesses, they all have one way to coach you, and it is to grow you to a place that might not be where you want to go, might mean not how you want to teach. And I just had someone DM me today that they're like, quitting teaching because they're exhausted from the model that they've been doing. She's like, yeah, I'm gonna get another job. I just can't do it anymore. And I was like, well, that's really sad. It's sad for you. It's sad for the people who could be taught by you. And if you are feeling like you're in burnout, if it keeps going the way it's going, then you actually need our help. The world can't lose you because you're the only person who can do what you do the way that you do it. So go to prfit.biz/accelerator to hear more about all that goodness, and then.Brad Crowell 6:49  Profit without the O, prfit.biz/accelerator.Lesley Logan 6:52  And then, you guys gotta come to Cambodia. I want to spend, I get to spend a week with you. It was so funny when people were leaving, I was like, oh, they're gone. There was a space missing on Friday morning. And we're like, oh, everyone has left the space for Sarah, because she had to leave on the Thursday night, well it's almost like Friday morning, so she got to all the things but the last class. And we're like, oh, Sarah's gone. And then we said goodbye to everyone, because they were leaving. And so we went off to do something, and we're like, oh, it's just the four of us now. And then the next day we say goodbye to that, last year, we're like, oh, we're alone. We're alone by now. Like, you just think, I'm a family, and it's so fun. So you want. Brad Crowell 7:33  It was amazing. We had an incredible group in February. Lesley Logan 7:35  Well, we already have a great group coming this October. We have people who have come before, so they're doing that second one. Brad Crowell 7:40  That's right, coming a second time and bringing somebody new. A couple of OPC members are coming. Agency members are coming. Do we have eLevators yet on this one? Regardless. Lesley Logan 7:50  One of the repeaters is an eLevator. Brad Crowell 7:52  Oh, eLevators. Yeah. Lesley Logan 7:53  You don't have to be any of those things. You can just come and then we can hang out and you can see if you want to do more things with us, or you can say that was fabulous. Thank you for my lovely vacation. Bye. Just really awesome. So go to crowsnestretreats.com to snag your spot for this October. In 2026, we're only offering the retreat one time, and so you don't want to wait two years. I'm just saying. You don't want to wait two years. Okay, we have to get to Monique, because I really want to talk about Monique, but first we have an audience question. Brad Crowell 8:25  Okay. Sierra Pilates in Prague on the IG says, Hey, regarding the 100, what are your favorite cues when teaching it to beginners? Lesley Logan 8:28  So everyone's obsessed with cues. I think we've talked about cues before on this podcast. There are no favorite cues for beginners. Beginners just need to do the best that they can, and it needs to be simple. So no straightening your legs across the room like a mermaid tail. That's not it. Like, honestly, it's curl your head and chest up, pump your arms up and down. Okay. Are you breathing? Breathe in, breathe out, and then give them a break, and then do it again.Brad Crowell 8:54  Especially for beginners, like, I'm a beginner, okay? I don't even know how the damn exercise works when the cues get complicated, I'm thinking more about the analogy or the complication than I am about the thing I'm supposed to be doing.Lesley Logan 9:09  And then when I say, do the 100 the next time you're like, what exercise is that? Because there was so many cues coming at you that you couldn't actually remember the name of the exercise, but the movement of the exercise to do the exercise so you can get corrections, which is, to me, what people mean when they mean cues. I think they mean like a correction or a direction.Brad Crowell 9:27  And I actually think that when you get to the point where somebody understands, you say the 100, and they're still doing it wrong, or they need to improve on something, the cue then that you are making it's personal to the body in front of you. Lesley Logan 9:42  Way to go, babe. That's exactly it. You can't just, there could be 75,000 things you could say.Brad Crowell 9:49  You might end up with half a dozen different ones that you regularly use, because you see that many clients, and you see a similar problem. But honestly, it's not a one size fits all. It's literally, it's not possible for that to be the thing. Lesley Logan 10:01  So I would just say, like, I actually don't necessarily have beginners lift their legs up for the 100. I also, we've talked about this before, I don't teach them in tabletop either. I just leave their legs down and I see if they can actually do the head and chest curl and without using their neck. And if they can, then when they come down, I'm like, okay, this time we're gonna lift your legs up and then, and if that goes like crap. Guess what, this time, put your legs down, pump your arms. That's what I would just say. So no cues, because they gotta know what they exercise. Thank you for that question. Send your questions and I love answering them. They're so much fun for me. Okay, now we gotta get into Monique Rhodes. Brad Crowell 10:34  Yes, stick around. We'll be right back. Brad Crowell 10:36  All right, welcome back. Let's talk about Monique Rhodes. Monique is a globally recognized happiness strategist and expert in mental resilience, mindfulness and purposeful living. She teaches practical methods to help individuals shift perspectives, build emotional resilience and cultivate a fulfilling life. Her work is featured in over 70 colleges and universities worldwide, which I didn't know that, that's insane, and she collaborates with leading corporations to enhance well being and productivity through her programs, retreats and speaking engagements. Monique empowers thousands to live with more ease and intention. What an inspiring conversation. Lesley Logan 11:15  So inspired. I was so inspired. I've actually talked about this little thing I'm about to talk about right now, almost daily, because I just really love it. She said everywhere we go, we've got all these things that are showing us there's loads of reasons to be miserable. Like, literally, every time you open up your phone, anytime you talk to a friend, they're like, here are 70 ways to be miserable. Or if you even, hey, oh my God, this is going on, someone else goes oh, but this is happening over here. People just want to bring us down all the time, because there's a fuck ton of shit going on in this world. But you know what, you can also be happy, and there can be a fuck ton of shit going on this world. Not that you're like, the shit makes you happy, but like, you have a life that's happy and there's this going on. So anyways, she said, instead of absorbing stress and chaos, you can create a little bubble of influence that is our small ways you can create joy daily. And she talked about the bubble of influence is like us doing nice things for other people. That brings us joy, because we did something nice for other people, and it makes other people also have joy as well. And so it was really quite cool. She said there are so many small ways that we can influence our lives that we don't even think about. We can sit every day and say to ourselves, what am I grateful for?Brad Crowell 12:19  I feel like this is the episode that people are going to save. Favorite it, not this one, but the one before, the interview, and they're going to listen to it again and again, because I don't even remember her saying that, and I recently listened to it, right? There's so many things in this episode. I also think that in the section, she was talking about chaos and politics and all this stuff. And she said, we don't have any control over that. We don't have any control over that. My argument would be, we can participate by voting, and we can participate by. Lesley Logan 12:50  Calling our congressman. But once you've done all that, that's really it. You can vote with your dollars all those things. So that's what you can do. But beyond that, I can't make the people that I voted for do the thing that I asked them to do. I can't make them so I can only do what I can do. So I can't just go, oh, I'm gonna stress around what they didn't do today. Instead, I can actually go, what am I grateful for, though? And here's what's really, gonna add to this. I'm reading another book. Buy Yourself the Fucking Lilies or something like that. Anyways, I thought it was new. It's not. It's been around for a while, but I'm gonna try to get her on the pod. I'm gonna DM her, since it's not a new book, she clearly is not busy promoting the book, but she said do a daily 10 gratitudes in your journal, so if you don't know what to journal, yeah. Tara Schuster, hi, Tara, if you're listening, I want you on the pod. Okay, that would be amazing. So buy yourself the Fucking Lilies, and I got a signed copy, by the way. I know. I just bought it off a shelf, and there it was. So anyways, she suggested in your journal just write down 10 things you're grateful for. It can be like, I'm really grateful that I painted my walls white and not the orange color that they were before. I don't know. You can come up with 10 things you're grateful for, because it does change how you feel about your day, which will change the happiness that you are experiencing in your life. Brad Crowell 14:04  I also like the bubble of influence, this idea that we can separate ourselves from the fear, the chaos that is bringing us down. I thought that was really cool.Lesley Logan 14:14  So we talked, the bubble of influence was like a simple compliment to a someone's smile. I love your smile. And I talked about this in the pod, like, my mom has this way of like, she doesn't let a person go by without giving them a compliment. Oh my God, those shoes are so good on you. Like, this person is just walking by, but you do it too. You just did it at the airport. He does it at the airport. He's, I like your jacket. The person didn't notice. So he's like, hey, I like your jacket. And this other guy goes, who me? And Brad said, no.Brad Crowell 14:40  I said no. And he goes, I didn't think so as he looks down his jacket, that's not awesome. It wasn't bad, but it wasn't like complimentary. It was funny. Lesley Logan 14:48  Complimenting other people actually makes them feel good, and it also reinforces your positive mindset, because it shows that you're looking for things to compliment people on or do things for people. So anyways, it's just really great. Go on, Brad. You say yours. Brad Crowell 15:00  Okay, all right, all right, all right. So I really loved when she was clarifying toxic positivity, right? Because people who are happy all the time, they must just be ignoring what isn't beneficial or happy to them, like they're suppressing it somehow. And she said, whatever emotions you suppress means that you're suppressing emotions across the spectrum, right? So you can't just suppress negative emotions. If you're suppressing emotions, you're suppressing emotions everywhere, right? The way that I took this too, is like, I guess it's not possible to suppress the negative emotions and still feel the positive emotions. Is what that really meant to me. Lesley Logan 15:37  Yeah, I mean, our yoga teacher, he talked about, you can't have love without hate, right? Like you can't actually experience love without having experienced hate. You cannot actually experience being healthy without experiencing sickness. So I love that her to talk about, if you suppress negative emotions, you're suppressing the emotions around that across the spectrum, so you're just starting, and then you're not going to feel anything at all, which is like, not, that's not a joyful life, either. Brad Crowell 16:06  Yeah. Well, she mentioned that we are stuck on this idea that we have to be comfortable all the time. And this really resonated with me. Lesley Logan 16:15  This was such a fun part of the conversation. Brad Crowell 16:17  Yeah, it was, just listening, like, first off, y'all, she decided to just move to India and motorcycled around India for four years. It wasn't like I did a trip for a month, no, four fucking years. That's insane. I loved it. I think that's amazing. And she said she intentionally picked these tiny little guest houses. And she said, life was kind of crazy, and you survived on the people being generous around you, and that just she obviously is not from India, right? So she stands out, but she was able to do it, and loved it. And she said it was an absolutely incredible experience. But she said, it's not comfortable. It's literally not comfortable.Lesley Logan 16:56  I actually really like this. And this is going to be another shout out to the retreat, if you want to experience a little discomfort, but you would like it to be comfortable, the retreat is really great for that, because. Brad Crowell 17:06  We don't have an infinity pool. Lesley Logan 17:07  We don't. We have curated an amazing schedule, but we can't control the weather. And on this trip, it was 94 degrees Fahrenheit, with 50% humidity, and you would be out, and we're like, wow, but you would also be taking in all this amazing stuff going on, and so you were uncomfortable, but also enjoying yourself. And it was just so cool to watch people who like, that's not how they would choose to live. That's not how their life is. But it also shows you what you're capable of, like, I'm capable of going out sweating like a crazy person and still having a good time. Brad Crowell 17:40  We do have air conditioning in the room. Lesley Logan 17:41  We do. Also, the beds are extremely comfortable. I really like them. Brad Crowell 17:45  Yeah. But this idea of being obsessed with comfort, and that's our society, especially in the United States, we are obsessed with comfort. We feel like we have to make things luxurious for ourselves at all times. And she said, what if you ate dinner sitting on the floor, like, you could do that in your house, where you have all the luxuries. Lesley Logan 18:03  Yeah, we were in line for security, you and me in Singapore, and in Asian airports, you guys, they don't have one security system that everybody goes through. And then you're on the other side of security. You actually have to have a ticket to get into the airport, but you can go get coffee, you have a nice meal, and go shopping all the things, and then you go to your gate, and that's where there's a security thing, right? Brad Crowell 18:24  So you don't do security until you're about to board. Lesley Logan 18:27  So there's literally, which is so nice, because sometimes you come into the airport with something, you're drinking. So you can do that at these airports and come in with some of what your drinking. So anyways, they only have, like, four bins, and this woman, who's five people behind us, so Brad and I have our bins, we are putting our stuff in our bin. And this woman, and she was an American, and she's like, walks up to the lady who's so nice and like, getting people their bins and giving it to them and answering questions, like, we don't have enough bins back here. And she said it so loud. Brad Crowell 18:59  She takes one of the bins, and clearly isn't looking, clearly doesn't actually pay attention at all. Lesley Logan 19:04  So now there's less bins for the people in front of her. Brad Crowell 19:07  Right, because there's only four or five in the entire security line, and they're being sent back to her on a little conveyor belt, and she snags one out of it, and the the lady that's working it like looked at her and kind of went, okay. Lesley Logan 19:20  I did an audible, I looked her in the eyes and kind of rolled my eyes at her, because that was like me going, that was dramatic. That was like unacceptable behavior. And I'm now Canadian, if you're from the States, because we're not the same person. She could not be uncomfortable standing in line waiting for her turn. And so I'm just going to say, lady, if you're listening, hi, you were seen. And this podcast is for you. Learn to be uncomfortable, because you'll have, we, it was such a happy experience, I know.Brad Crowell 19:51  So here's, here's where we go with this, right? She said, if you're uncomfortable like that, she said, instead of letting emotions take over, which this woman clearly did, she suggests observing them without judgment. If you're feeling angry, sit with that anger. Where is it in your body? Wow, this anger is in my this is inside of me right now. It's making my shoulders tight. It's making my stomach feel a little sick. It's making me feel warm. But I'm just going to sit here and I'm going to observe it. Lesley Logan 20:16  Right, because then you actually feel your feelings. You're not suppressing them, and you're also not letting them control you. You get all the benefits of all of the things, which I think is just what we all need. So anyways, you guys, next time you're uncomfortable, take Monique's and think about it. What was it? What are you feeling? Anyways, we could talk about Monique forever, but really you could just go listen to her, but before, we have to talk about her Be It Action Items. Brad Crowell 20:39  Yes. So stick around. We will be right back. Brad Crowell 20:43  All right, let's talk about those, Be It Action Items. What bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted action items can we take away from your convo with Monique Rhodes? She said, hey, to avoid holding on to negativity or stress, assess what's worth your energy. And she said, there's the sixes method, which I thought was really interesting. She said, if this thing that is bending you out of shape, will it matter in six minutes, six hours, six days, six weeks or six months from now? If the answer is six months from now, this is going to be a problem, then you can then focus on it. But if it's not, then she says, I literally say to myself, let it go. Let it go. Right? And she said you can build resilience by stepping into discomfort daily. And it's a practice, just like happiness is a practice. She suggested small daily challenges for 90 days, like trying a new recipe or taking on a different route to work. Lesley Logan 21:39  Yeah, that's uncomfortable when you don't know if it's going to work or not, if it's going to make you late. I think these are.Brad Crowell 21:43  Yeah, it's simple and it's small. Lesley Logan 21:44  You want to know what your daily discomfort challenge is. You got to tag the Be It Pod. You got to send it to us. I want to know. Brad Crowell 21:50  Yeah, and what about you? Lesley Logan 21:51  She said, get to know you, which I think is very bold, because I think it requires us to, like, take some time to just get to know ourselves. Know how you can do that? Get uncomfortable. You'll start to learn a lot about yourself, and then you can see how you can calm yourself down, where you're feeling things. But another way you can do it is, she talked about, like, having a three minute meditation practice where you are literally sitting still quietly, and when you do just three minutes, you start to, like, learn a lot about yourself, because like, thoughts come in. Meditation is not about like, I have no thoughts. You're actually noticing the thoughts that you have, and that's going to help you get to know yourself. So I think that that is a really cool thing to do. If you're like, well, how do you like your eggs? Do you like a window seat or aisle seat? Know, the things you like? Because then you can advocate for yourself, and you can also have better experiences that are also uncomfortable, but just you can just enjoy yourself more. I just thought, what an interesting conversation, because when I said she was a, so she was a happiness strategist, I was like, okay, let's do this because, like, episode three was a happiness strategist, right? Or a happiness expert, but this was nothing like I expected. I learned so much about how to have a joy-filled life without it being like I have a joy-filled life. Here's my halo. Brad Crowell 22:59  Here's how joyful I am. Lesley Logan 23:00  Oh, why? Nothing bothers me. No, she lives a really awesome life. It's and, like. Brad Crowell 23:05  She challenges herself a lot. You know, she talked about being a musician, and she said you could put together a set list to go out and play, where you know the songs, and it's going to be a solid set list, she said, or you can put that song in there that's going to make you stretch for the high note, and then you can go out on stage and you can rock it. Lesley Logan 23:24  Yeah. And I just think often we think happiness means having no unhappiness. But after listening to her, it's actually just having a happy life is actually really just noticing what is going on in your life, and where do you feel it, and then also, how are you giving joy to others? So go tell someone they have a beautiful smile. Go get uncomfortable. And until next time, Be It Till You See It.Brad Crowell 23:52  Bye for now.Lesley Logan 23:54  That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review and follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcast. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the Be It Pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it. Help us and others Be It Till You See It. Have an awesome day. Be It Till You See It is a production of The Bloom Podcast Network. 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In this episode of The Wise Woman Podcast, Erin Doppelt chats with Tara Schuster, a former Comedy Central executive turned author and coach, about her journey from the chaos of a difficult childhood to becoming her own source of healing. Tara opens up about her struggles with anxiety and depression and how a rock-bottom moment led her to take control of her mental health through daily practices like journaling, exercise, and gratitude. She shares powerful insights into how to create a life that doesn't drain you, offering practical tools like her “values filter” for making decisions that align with your true self. The conversation dives deep into Tara's transformation and the rituals that helped her find stability, purpose, and a new sense of joy. Tara Schuster is an accomplished entertainment executive turned mental health advocate and best-selling author of the runaway hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies and Other Rituals to Fix Your Life from Someone Who's Been There. She has sold over 250,000 books to date in the U.S. alone. With her unique blend of hilarious, poignant personal stories and refreshingly honest, optimistic advice, Tara launched intothe book world as the millennial voice the self-help space craved. In January of 2024, Tara released the paperback edition of her highly-anticipated second book, Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way -- a relatable, easy-to-follow guide to healing your deepest soul wounds, getting off your “good enough” plateau, developing habits that will give you lasting courage and resolve, and creating the spectacular life that you actually want. Full of practical, free baby-steps we can take today, it's for people who are ready to liberate themselves from their emotional suffering, discover their purpose, and finally sit in the driver's seat of their experience. Kirkus has called GLOW “an approachable, exuberant combination of memoir and self-help.” Tara's Instagram You can buy Erin's book Nothing Can Stop You Here. If you buy 25 books you get a 1:1 session with Erin, just email receipt to hello@erinracheldoppelt.com Join Erin inside Nourish Tuscany

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In this episode of The Localist, host Carrie Rollwagen discusses the importance of nurturing new ideas by carefully choosing whom to share them with first. She outlines the concept introduced by Tara Schuster of categorizing people into "hype men," "road warriors" and "absolutely nots" to effectively protect and develop ideas before exposing them to criticism. The episode highlights the value of positive feedback and strategic advice in the early stages of idea formation.   Mentioned in this episode: Carrie's Instagram: https://instagram.com/crollwagen Sign up for Carrie's newsletter: https://gmail.us20.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=9c59a060684d71f12f6e495fc&id=98cd3122b9 Carrie's Website: https://carrierollwagen.com/ Tara Schuster's Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/buy-yourself-the-f-cking-lilies-and-other-rituals-to-fix-your-life-from-someone-who-s-been-there-tara-schuster/12072763?ean=9780525509905  Duquette Johnston's Localist Episode: https://carrierollwagen.com/podcast-episodes/beyond-the-brick-and-mortar-with-duquette-johnston/  

Tara Schuster is an accomplished entertainment executive turned bestselling self-help author for people who don't love self-help. After serving as vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central, she wrote the runaway hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, and this year released Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way. She joins the show to discuss why getting what you think you want might not be what you expect and how to build real self confidence, self worth and self esteem instead of relying on external validation. She shares simple tips to get out of a rut, overcome imposter syndrome, feel better about money and be the best version of yourself. Tara brings levity and humor to some heavy topics in this lively, fun conversation!Tara's latest book: https://amzn.to/3S0hDRbSubscribe to Patreon for exclusive weekly content: patreon.com/ArielleLorreThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Go to betterhelp.com/FILES to get 10% off your first monthVisit qualialife.com/BLONDE for 50% off of Qualia Senolytic and code BLONDE at checkout for an additional 15% offGo to fatty15.com/BLONDE or use code BLONDE for an additional 15% off their Starter Kit.Get who gets you, on eHarmony! Sign up today at eharmony.com Use MALK's store locator to find MALK Creamers at a store near youProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever felt like you were living someone else's life, trapped in a narrative that didn't quite fit? Or perhaps you've experienced the transformative power of taking ownership of your story, rewriting the chapters that no longer serve you, and embracing the authentic self that's been waiting to emerge? In this episode, Dr. Scott is joined by Tara Schuster, a best-selling author, playwright, and accomplished entertainment executive whose journey of self-discovery and healing is as inspiring as it is relatable. Tara's story is one of resilience, of confronting childhood neglect and abuse, and of taking responsibility for her own life through the powerful acts of reparenting and self-care. In this conversation, they'll delve into the importance of accepting and allowing suffering, and the transformative power of taking accountability for one's own narrative.But this isn't just a story of pain; it's a story of understanding, forgiveness, and of seeing the underlying pain behind abusive behavior. Tara will share her insights on the process of understanding and forgiving her parents, and the profound impact it had on her own healing journey.Together, Dr Scott and Tara also explore the practical aspects of self-care, the importance of structure and routine in making life easier, and the need to find one's own point of view, unshackled by limiting beliefs. Tara will encourage us to question our beliefs, to prioritize our values, and to live in alignment with the authentic selves we've uncovered.Listen in as they embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and the reclamation of our stories. Topics We Break Down:Getting to the root of your trauma and accepting the things that happened in your suffering.How acceptance, accountability, and responsibility are not the same as assigning blame. What we can learn from identifying and understanding personal values. Making time for self-care How there is no hack to healing, only discipline and hard work. Trusting the process, introspection, and allowing yourself to make mistakes.Living in alignment.

Author of “Glow in the F*cking Dark” and “Buy The F*cking Lillies”, Tara Schuster joins us today for an incredibly note worthy episode (literally, grab a note pad and be ready to take notes). Tara dives into reparenting yourself, navigating jealousy of other's stories, self care (it's the cake, not the icing!) and so much more. CONTENT WARNING: mentions of suicidal ideationFind Tara @TaraSchuster on IG and her books wherever you buy books. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Joining Hannah today is Tara Schuster. Tara is the author of "Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies", and her new book "Glow In The F*cking Dark". Tara and Hannah have down-to-earth chats about being real and living life to the fullest. Tara shares stories and tips to help you handle life's ups and downs, love yourself more, and grow into the best version of you. Get ready for inspiring stories, practical advice, and heartfelt moments that'll leave you feeling ready to live authentically, happily, and in a way that will help you unlock your glow. Follow Better Tomorrow:INSTAGRAMTIKTOKYOUTUBE

Trigger warning: This episode contains mentions of suicide. You are worthy. If you need more convincing, this week's episode is not to miss. Tara Schuster, author of Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way, joins Lily on the show! In the book and throughout this conversation, Tara shares practical steps to liberate yourself from emotional suffering, heal your past, and own your future. Tara served as Vice President of Talent and Development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of critically acclaimed shows such as the Emmy and Peabody Award–winning Key & Peele, the Emmy® Award winning @Midnight (now After Midnight on CBS) amongst many others. Over the last twelve years, Tara has spent her “10,000 hours” on the other side of the couch studying philosophy, therapies, religions, and even memoirs of the adults she admired so that she could find emotional freedom from a neglectful and psychologically abusive childhood. Lily and Tara get into: “It's not magic having a different life. You can't sit back and wait for it to happen; you have to work for it.” What inspired Tara to write Glow in the F*cking Dark and its mission: the practice of finding your essential self. Thoughts and advice for overcoming lack of self-trust and self-criticism  Tara shares her self-compassion party trick! How Tara got to a place to make decisions rooted in her own best interest, especially in dating Links: Pre-order Lily's upcoming book, Thank You, More Please! Get Instant Access to Creating a Confident and Joyful-as-fuck Dating Life That Makes the Right Relationship Inevitable Glow in the F*cking Dark, Tara Schuster Tara's website Tara on Instagram The Loveland Foundation Show notes:  http://datebrazen.com/blog/glow-in-the-dark-with-tara-schuster  

In this conversation, Tara Schuster discusses her journey from being an executive in the TV industry to becoming a published author. TakeawaysYour upbringing and past experiences can shape your mental health and self-perception.Transitioning from one career to another is possible with determination and hard work.Imposter syndrome can be overcome by acknowledging gaps in knowledge and seeking help.The publishing process can be challenging but having a strong pitch and industry connections can increase your chances of success. Pitching is of paramount importance in the publishing industry, and the pitch document plays a crucial role in getting noticed by publishers.The development process for a book allows for more creative control and decision-making compared to the TV industry, where there are often more cooks in the kitchen.The TV industry has undergone a sea change, with more fragmentation and less job security, making it a different job than it used to be.Overcoming fear and money trauma is essential in embracing a writing career and pursuing one's passion.Taking control of one's creative projects and starting to write is the key to progress and success as a writer.Mentioned in the episode:Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies (affiliate link)Tara's episode on the Expanded podcast Episode Credits:Produced and hosted by Charla LauristonTheme song and Segment Jingles composed and produced by Brendan ByrnesCanva Artwork by Daiana Cordo Join hundreds of ambitious writers and creatives learning how to take their career to the next level with The Werking Writer newsletter. WHERE TO FIND THE WERKING WRITER thewerkingwriter.comInstagramLinkedInYoutube

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap Edition! Today, we are joined by Tara Schuster and Ciara Robinson to chat about all things reality television. First, we talk to Jessica Vestal about her time on Love is Blind Season 6. Then, we talk about Vanderpump Rules and Tom Sandoval's dark thoughts (Trigger Warning). We also get to ask Tara about being on Watch What Happens Live with Rachel Leviss and Scheana Shay the night Scandoval broke. Next, we talk about Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and what we thought of the finale. Then, we tackle Episode 9 of Traitors. Finally, we talk about the Bachelor and how we finally saw a different side to Joey.  “They act like they can convince themselves that they're in love.”  Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Papaya - If you want to stop buying jumbo packs of paper towels, go to https://www.PapayaReusables.com and use code VIALL for 30% off sitewide. Peloton - Wherever you're starting, get moving with a Peloton Bike or Bike+ rental at https://www.onepeloton.com/bike/rentals Terms apply. Sundays For Dogs - Get 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to https://www.sundaysfordogs.com/VIALL or use code VIALL at checkout. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @jess.ves @taraschuster @ciaracrobinson @alison.vandam @justinkaphillips @leahgsilberstein @dereklanerussell Timestamps 00:00 - Intro 11:00 - Jessica Vestal Interview 33:23 - Welcome Tara 38:29 - LIB Recap 01:22:59 - Vanderpump Rules (TW) 01:46:14 - RHOBH 02:08:42 - Traitors 02:13:45 - Bachelor 02:39:21 - Outro  

In her debut self-help memoir, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, author Tara Schuster candidly recounts her escape from a brutal home life and her efforts to re-parent herself as an adult. In her follow-up, Glow in the F*cking Dark, Tara navigates the emotional ripple effect that occurs after she is fired from her executive post at Comedy Central. In a frank discussion, we talk about how we allow our jobs to define us, journaling out of spite, the validation in defining one's trauma, and how we cannot (and should not) force forgiveness. The only way “Group Text” happens is with YOUR support and support from mm amazing sponsors! Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal PLUS $1 steaks for life by going to EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code 49GROUPTEXT. Subscription must be active to qualify and redeem $1 steak This episode is sponsored by LolaVie, an award winning haircare line founded by the fabulous Jennifer Aniston! Go to LolaVie.com and use the promo code GROUPTEXT and checkout for 15% off your ENTIRE order! That's LOLAVIE.com with the promo code GROUPTEXT. This is another Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a podcast network and digital media production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network by going to HurrdatMedia.com or Hurrdat Media YouTube channel! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder how to build a true sense of self-worth? It starts with learning how to take care of yourself. And today's process episode with accomplished TV exec turned best-selling author on the power of inner healing, Tara Schuster, is about to give you the full download. Her story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of self-worth. From a neglected childhood to an empowered adulthood, Tara discusses her struggles with anxiety, self-neglect, and the quest for external validation, revealing how she pivoted towards a life of self-love and manifestation. Her insights into reparenting, overcoming fear, moving through a rock bottom and embracing one's innate worthiness offer invaluable lessons for anyone focused on personal growth and building self-worth. Join us as Tara inspires with her openness and profound understanding of what it means to truly embrace oneself.**Content Warning: This episode discusses childhood neglect and mention of intended self-harm.** Timestamped segments that reference intended self-harm (12:25 - 15:00) (17:30 - 18:00)988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline:The 988 Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones. To talk with a crisis counselor, call or text 988 on your phone. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast In This Episode We Talk About:Tara's childhood marked by neglect and a feeling of worthlessness, leading her to seek external validation.Her rise as a young executive at Comedy Central, masking internal turmoil.The pivotal moment of a breakdown, leading to a journey of self-discovery and reparenting.The concept of "glowing in the dark" and embracing one's inherent stardust identity.Her transition from seeking status to finding purpose in helping others.The role of manifestation and To Be Magnetic's influence on her life path.Insights into dealing with romantic relationships and learning to set boundaries.The importance of aligning actions with an authentic code of values.Tara's experience with silent meditation retreats and its impact on her mental state.The creation of her own business focused on personal growth and community.Embracing an abundance mindset and redefining personal success.The significance of Tara's name in her journey of self-acceptance and purpose.The impact of self-nurturing on her overall well-being and relationships.Tara's future aspirations in continuing her path of personal growth and helping others. THEMES / TIME STAMPS:Navigating childhood neglect and finding a path to healing (00:09:45)Tara's life turning point and moving from a bedrock of authentic self-worth (00:38:20)Finding TBM, passing tests, and how the work has shaped Tara's healing process (00:40:25)Resources: Share your Challenge Manifestation Testimonials for a chance to be featured on Expanded!Join The Manifestation Challenge! Available in the Pathway until Feb 29th at midnight PSTARMRA - Use code TBM for 15% offColostrum: Immune Revival - Immune barrier superfood  BITE - 20% off your first order with code MAGNETICFresh mint toothpaste bits  Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way by Tara SchusterBuy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara SchusterLearn about Dr. Richard Shwarz teachings on Internal Family Systems (IG)No Bad Parts by Dr. Richard SchwarzBooks and work by Martha BeckFind the Inner Child DI and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Monthly Check-in)Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@Lacyannephillips@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcastWhere To Find Tara!@taraschuster (IG)Subscribe to Tara's newsletterLearn more about Tara at TaraSchuster.comGlow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way by Tara SchusterBuy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster Other ResourcesSubmit to Be a Process GuestText Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower RemedyTBM Manifestation JournalDid you Finish the Manifestation Challenge? Share your experience with us! Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryAre you in a Rut, Rockbottom, Next Level or Magic Dark? Take the Quiz

Author Tara Schuster grew up in a neglectful, abusive household where “things came to die,” as she puts it. After a suicidal episode at age 25, she began a journey to reparent herself which led to two practical self-help books, “Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies,” and “Glow in the F*cking Dark.” Tara teaches Sam how to use a “values filter” to make choices, why unfollowing a friend on social media may be the best thing you can do for yourself, and how journaling unlocks your soul. Follow Tara Schuster @taraschuster on Instagram, @taraschustar on X (formerly Twitter), and @taraschuster on TikTok. Keep up with Samantha Bee @realsambee on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter). And stay up to date with us @LemonadaMedia on X (formerly Twitter), Facebook, and Instagram. For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at bit.ly/lemonadapremium.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One of the most common complaints from high-performers? “I can't turn off my brain.” So we turn to doomscrolling, alcohol and other substances. Tara Schuster used weed to cope — until she blacked out and left a terrifying voice message for her therapist. [Episode 26] Tara is a former executive at Comedy Central (Key and Peele, David Spade) and 2x best-selling author. This episode discusses suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or visit988lifeline.org LEARN MORE ABOUT TARA Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life, from Someone Who's Been There Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way Instagram Substack REFERENCES FROM THE SHOW No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model by Richard Schwartz Self Therapy: A Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Wholeness Using IFS, A Cutting-Edge Psychotherapy by Jay Earley Affect labeling JOIN OUR GROUP COACHING COHORTS: Are you looking to ask deep, introspective and provocative questions about your own life (with Khe and likeminded peers) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply today⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ BECOME A RADREADER:

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong." Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life. Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes! Today's Sponsor:Quince - Get affordable luxury with Quince! Go to https://www.quince.com/adulting for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?27:53 You have to make you love yourself31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure47:51 The benefits of active journaling56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you01:06:31 We aren't here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life Connect with Tara on:https://www.taraschuster.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster https://www.tiktok.com/@taraschuster https://twitter.com/taraschustar Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

“Low self-worth makes authentic sex impossible.” So says bestselling author Tara Schuster, who broke out with her runaway bestseller Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies and released the life-affirming page-turner Glow In The F*cking Dark this year. On this episode, Tara opens up about hating her body, having sex exclusively in the dark, and how she rewired her brain to love herself (and her body). Tara and I also take your listener questions, where we discuss dating burnout, sexual triggers, and solo sex as self-care. When you've just gotten out of a toxic relationship, how can you feel more confident when you go out in public? When dating is one long string of disappointments, what gives? And finally, how do you have exploratory sex when you don't have a partner?See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever5 Steps to Your Happiest, Healthiest VaginaGlow In the F*cking Dark, Tara Schuster: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & NobleGlow Getters Journal ClubMore Tara Schuster: Instagram | Twitter | WebsiteEMDRIAYes, No, Maybe List & Other GuidesSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: Home | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week I spiraled out with the disarmingly honest, lovely, hilarious & brilliant writer Tara Schuster! (Glow In The F*cking Dark, Comedy Central) Talking shame with Tara was hilarious, delightful, and honestly inspiring AF.  We talked shame and trauma, the relief and empowerment that comes from knowing when the past is crash landing into the present, drunk dialing your therapist, self-compassion & forgiveness, the good side of "selfishness," reparenting yourself, existential angst and SO MUCH MORE. Tara is the author of two incredible mental health/self-help books (with a fabulous dash of memoir.)  Her book Glow In The F*cking Dark came out just a few months ago, and her first book Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies was a finalist for Goodreads Best Non-Fiction Book of 2020. Before pivoting to writing, Tara served as Vice President of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the exec at the helm of iconic shows like Key & Peele!Follow Tara on IG, TikTok & Twitter @taraschuster, buy her books and check out her substack: taraschuster.substack.com! And you can follow me on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok @elykreimendahl, and the pod on Twitter and Instagram @podshamespiral, where I'm regularly posting fun video clips of especially juicy or hilarious moments from the episodes.  Audio Engineer/Editor: Sarah Gabrielli @cruisingpodOriginal Music: Shadwick Wilde, Instagram and Twitter: @shadwickwildeCover Art: Cassidy Kulhanek, Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @heavenlygrandpaNew episodes every Tuesday! Don't forget to subscribe, review and please leave those five shining stars!twitter.com/podshamespiralinstagram.com/podshamespiralinstagram.com/elykreimendahltiktok.com/@elykreimendahltwitter.com/elykreimendahl

In This Episode You Will Learn About:  Finding your own stardust self What happens when you slow down and address the problems  How to be truly honest with yourself and your feelings Resources: Website: www.taraschuster.com Newsletter: http://www.taraschuster.com/newsletter  Journal Club: Glow On with Tara Schuster Read Glow In The F*cking Dark TikTok & Instagram: @taraschuster Twitter: @taraschustar LinkedIn: Tara Schuster  Visit heathermonahan.com Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Go to 4Patriots.com and use code CONFIDENCE to get 10% off Go to stopboneonbone.com/confidence, stock up 55% OFF today on Native Path Collagen Visit Indeed.com/monahan to start hiring now Show Notes:  Are you ready to let go of “good enough”? This is your time to confront your fears and unleash the GLOW you have inside! Today Tara Schuster, former Comedy Central executive turned mental health advocate, coach, & best selling author, will tell us the SIMPLE and PRACTICAL ways to find our inner courage and embrace true joy and stability. The life you deserve is right in front of you so stop the hustling and start the healing!  About The Guest: Tara Schuster is an accomplished entertainment executive turned mental health advocate and best-selling author. She is the author of the forthcoming Glow in the F*cking Dark, and the runaway hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, a finalist for Goodread's Best Non-Fiction Book of 2020. It was selected by Cosmopolitan, Real Simple, Goop, Publishers Weekly, and many more as one of the best books of the year on mental health and self-care. Previously, Tara served as vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of such critically acclaimed shows as the Emmy and Peabody Award–winning Key & Peele. She has contributed to InStyle, The New Yorker, and Forbes, among others.  If You Liked This Episode You Might Also Like These Episodes: Listener Favorite: Get UNSTUCK From Your Negative Thoughts with Trish Blackwell Top-Ranked Podcast Host & Confidence Coach Top Hacks of Breakthrough Thinkers, With Jeremy Utley The Director Of Executive Education At Stanford  How To Show Up As The Most CONFIDENT Version Of Yourself, With Kim Rittberg Digital Video Expert & Content Strategist  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's episode is filled with stories, wisdom, and tools that actually work to heal even the deepest of wounds. My guest, Tara Schuster spent a decade on herself repairing the emotional wounds inflicted during what she refers to as her neglected, “mess-wreak disaster” of a childhood. She was able to bring radical self-care, healing rituals, and self-love into her life…but it wasn't always easy. A breaking moment insisted she go deeper and through her radical awakening she now is able to shine her brightest light. In today's episode she gives tools to help you heal your deepest wounds, getting off the “good enough plateau", developing habits that give you lasting courage and resolve, and creating the life you actually want.  Tara Schuster is a former Comedy Central executive turned mental health advocate and bestselling author. She is the author of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, a finalist for Goodreads' Best Nonfiction Book of 2020 and selected by Cosmopolitan, Real Simple, Goop, Publishers Weekly, and many more as one of the year's best books on mental health and self-care, as well her new book Glow in the F*cking Dark, -Simple practices to heal your soul from someone who learned the hard way. Previously, Schuster served as vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of such critically acclaimed shows as the Emmy and Peabody award-winning Key & Peele. She shares her story along with honest and practical lessons for healing your past and owning your future so you can radiate strength, bravery, and joy when life gets dark. In this episode you will learn... Tools to find inner peace Shifting into a new identity, and how to do with ease How to practice loving your body Learning to practice gratitude Learning to set healthy boundaries How to reparent yourself and heal your soul Episode Sponsored by: Go to https://betterhelp.com/plppodcast for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored For full show notes and episode resources head to: https://ericalippy.com/tara-schuster/ Find our guest at: Tara Schuster | Website,  Instagram ,Facebook Buy her new book: Glow In The F*cking Dark Join her newsletter Follow me on Social Media: Your Host: @ericalippy Podcast: @passionlovepursuit Facebook YouTube PASSION LOVE PURSUIT PODCASTS: https://ericalippy.com/the-podcast/

Author Tara Schuster is on the podcast to talk about Glow In the F*cking Dark, the follow up to the hugely successful Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies. I felt an instant connection with her, which I kinda of suspected I would from her books, but then I sort of think maybe a lot of people do since she's extremely open, vulnerable and bright. That being said there were two moments where I got chills talking to her and she said she felt it too so I think we're really besties? We talk about stuffed animals, emotional neglect, loneliness, writing routines, reparenting oneself, therapy, external validation, working at Comedy Central, being the bartender on Watch What Happens Live with Scheana and Raquel the night #Scandoval broke and so much more. We also did a round of Just Me Or Everyone and HGFY. Products I Use/Recommend/Love: http://amazon.com/shop/alisonrosen Check us out on Patreon: http://patreon.com/alisonrosen   Buy Alison's Book: Tropical Attire Encouraged (and Other Phrases That Scare Me)  https://amzn.to/2JuOqcd You probably need to buy the HGFY ringtone! https://www.alisonrosen.com/store/ Try Amazon Prime Free 30 Day Trial

Gettin' Better with Ron Funches # 234 - Can I Still Glow with Tara Schuster   Today on the podcast I sit with my friend Tara Schuster. We talk about her new book Glow in the F*cking Dark, working as a Comedy Central Executive, dating life, her recent work as an author and how Tara is Gettin' Better.   Follow Tara on social media   https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/ https://twitter.com/taraschustar http://www.taraschuster.com taraschuster.substack.com     Follow me on my Twitch channel for comedy nights, video games with friends, and more! https://www.twitch.tv/ron_funches   Become a Patron at http://www.patreon.com/gettinbetterwithron and get perks like personal affirmations, shoutouts, hand written letters, tickets to my shows, and much more!   We have an Instagram! Give us a follow for classic clips and positive affirmations at @gettinbetterpodcast   For all tour dates and merch go to http://www.ronfunches.com   Don't forget to hit subscribe for weekly podcasts!      

Tara Schuster was Vice President of Talent and Development at Comedy Central, and much of her identity and self-esteem was founded on that Emmy and Peabody Award-winning work. But when she was laid off during the pandemic, a severe identity crisis followed. Now, Tara is the author of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies and the forthcoming Glow in the F*cking Dark, two nonfiction powerhouses that use Tara's life story to explore universal truths about finding internal validation. She and David sit down to discuss “unlearning” negative behaviors rooted in childhood trauma, silencing your inner frenemy, the beauty of journaling in the morning, and more.  Ranked as one of the top 25 CEO podcasts on Feedspot, Keep Connected with Meetup CEO David Siegel is a podcast about the power of community. For more details on other episodes, visit Keep Connected on the Meetup Community Matters blog.We hope you'll keep connected with us. Drop us a line at podcast@meetup.com. If you like the podcast, be sure to subscribe and leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts and Spotify!Learn more about Keep Connected host David Siegel's experience as a leader and decision maker in his book, Decide & Conquer. 

EPISODE #70 - We are thrilled to welcome on the podcast the accomplished entertainment executive turned mental health advocate and best-selling author, Tara Schuster. She just released Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way -- an amazing memoir slash emotional healing guide. It's really beautiful and powerful and you don't need to take our word for it. It received glowing endorsements from Glennon Doyle, Adam Grant, Chelsea Handler, Dick Schwartz, the creator of IFS, and many others. In February 2020, Tara released her first book titled Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: and Other Rituals to Fix Your Life from Someone Who Has Been There. The book was a runaway hit -- it was a finalist for Goodreads' Best Non-Fiction Book of 2020; and was selected by Cosmopolitan, Real Simple, Goop, Publishers Weekly as one of the best books of the year on mental health and self-care. Previously, Tara served as Vice President of Talent and Development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of one of our favorite shows of all time, Key & Peele.On this episode, we talk to Tara about what it was like to reveal so many intimate details about her life so freely in her books, what it actually means to glow in the effing dark, how emotional healing has transformed her dating life, and of course we get into her drama-infused, stint as a bartender on the Vanderpump Rules Aftershow. You won't want to miss this one!Show LinksTara's official website: http://www.taraschuster.com/Glow in the F*cking Dark: http://www.taraschuster.com/glow Tara's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/Yes Collective is co-hosted by Justin Wilford, PhD and Jenny Walters, LMFT.Justin Wilford, PhD, is a co-founder of Yes Collective, an educator, a writer, and an emotional health coach. He earned doctorates from UCLA (cultural geography) and UC Irvine (public health), and specializes in translating complex, scientific ideas into actionable programs for mental and emotional health. Jenny Walters, LMFT, is a licensed marriage family therapist and senior expert contributor to the Yes Collective. She is a graduate of the Pacifica Graduate Institute and is the founder and director of Highland Park Holistic Psychotherapy in Los Angeles, California.

Zibby interviews entertainment executive, mental health advocate, and bestselling author Tara Schuster about her latest book Glow in the F*cking Dark, a powerful, ruthlessly honest, and irreverent guide for taking charge of your mental health. Tara describes the traumas that led her to write this book – an abuse-filled childhood, getting laid off from the job she'd had for a third of her life, and a terrifying dissociative episode on the highway. She also shares her book's message: we are all made of stardust, and once we've cleared the traumas and problems that obscure us, we can shine the way we were meant to.Purchase on Zibby's Bookshop: http://bit.ly/3LM03yaPurchase on Bookshop: https://bit.ly/3ZbHRRiSubscribe to Zibby's weekly newsletter here.Purchase Moms Don't Have Time to Read Books merch here. Now there's more! Subscribe to Moms Don't Have Time to Read Books on Acast+ and get ad-free episodes or exclusive access to the in-store author events at Zibby's Bookshop in Santa Monica, CA. Join today! https://plus.acast.com/s/moms-dont-have-time-to-read-books. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Author, Tara Schuster joins the circle this week to talk about her new book, Glow in the F*cking Dark!  Gather ‘round as we discuss exactly what led Tara to write this second book, how to reclaim your power, and what meditation tools work for someone who might be a bit skeptical.  We also answer a couple voicemails during story time about talking to our younger selves, and competition.    Tara's most recent book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, is out now and available everywhere books are sold. Check it out HERE.   Leave me a voicemail here!   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.   Sponsors: Nuuly.com code CIRCELTIME20 at sign up to get $20 off your first month   Produced by Dear Media.

Tara Schuster was a 25-year-old working at Comedy Central who'd worked her way up from interning at The Daily Show with Jon Stewart to curating …

Mandated reporting can be the trickiest of situations for therapists to navigate. Jenna shares her experience navigating the fallout of making a child abuse report without telling her client first. Did something in the show resonate with you? Help us spread the Am I a Bad Therapist message! Follow Am I a Bad Therapist on Instagram for sneak peeks, previews, and all of the latest information about the podcast! ✨ Register here for the *free* Book Club for Therapists to read Tara Schuster's newest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, with us this March! ✨ Connect with Jenna on the Teletherapist Network or LinkedIn. Connect with Kathryn inside the Teletherapist Network or follow the Network on Instagram. Connect with Allie on Instagram, access the Creative Intervention Library, or shop all things mental health on her Etsy store! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/am-i-a-bad-therapist/support

“Captions On”Ex-Comedy Central exec turned self help author Tara Schuster chats about her weekend with Hilary and Derek! Her brand new book Glow in the Fucking Dark came out last week so she has her very exciting book party in LA! Plus, she's dating someone new and he falls off the treadmill. Derek catches up on the Vanderpump Rules drama that Tara witnessed on Watch What Happens Live. Hilary sees a show at The Slipper Room and underdresses for a party in New Jersey. And of course, The Oscars! Buy Tara's new book Glow in the Fucking Dark and follow her online at @taraschuster! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit cartoonsbyhilary.substack.com/subscribe

Tara Schuster is an author, contributor to InStyle, The New Yorker, and Forbes, among others, and former vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central. Her latest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, is a guide to healing your deepest wounds, getting off your “good enough” plateau, and creating the spectacular life that you most desire. We're talking about...  - What it was like growing up in a neglectful psychologically abusive household - How Tara used weed to cope - How she uses meditation and journaling to find safety - What her reparenting process looked like - How being raised by emotionally immature parents impacted her mental health - Why it's important to heal your trauma - How establishing boundaries with her parents helped her heal - Where her fear around money and loss stems from - How she used exercise to improve her depression ...and so much more!  ✨ If you loved today's conversation, and you know someone who'd benefit from hearing it, please share it with them (even better if you share on social).  ☕️ Click here to save 10% off your Kion coffee order when you use code COURAGE at checkout.  HANGOUT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM TODAY'S SHOW NOTES

Collecting overdue payments from clients is rarely easy, but what do you do when your client abruptly ends treatment and leaves the country with a large balance? Christina joins us this week to share her difficult experience navigating this exact situation, as well as how we deal with having to refer out someone who we thought was an ideal client. You won't believe the twists and turns in this one! Did something in the show resonate with you? Help us spread the Am I a Bad Therapist message! Follow Am I a Bad Therapist on Instagram for sneak peeks, previews, and all of the latest information about the podcast! ✨ Register here for the *free* Book Club for Therapists to read Tara Schuster's newest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, with us this March! ✨ Connect with Christina via her email: christinajviera@gmail.com Connect with Kathryn inside the Teletherapist Network or follow the Network on Instagram. Connect with Allie on Instagram, access the Creative Intervention Library, or shop all things mental health on her Etsy store! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/am-i-a-bad-therapist/support

On this week's episode of Guys We Fcked, C and K read an email from a from a listener who caught her boyfriend sexting his ex. Corinne then presents a case for why it's better to be effective than liked. Later they are joined by author Tara Schuster. The trio talks about taking control of your own mental health, dating through a matchmaker, and her new book “Glow In The Fcking Dark”. Commentary from a man who's extremely effective unless he's had too much drink, Mike Coscarelli.   WATCH THE GWF COMEDY SPECIAL -- "OUR SPECIAL DAY" -- FOR FREE: https://www.youtube.com/guyswefcked   Donate To An Abortion Fund  https://www.thecut.com/article/donate-abortion-fund-roe-v-wade-how-to-help.html   Follow Tara Schuster- @TaraSchuster   Follow Guys We Fucked on IG/Twitter/TikTok: @guyswefcked     Follow Corinne Fisher on Twitter/IG: @PhilanthropyGal (And follow Corinne's store on IG @PerfectlyCenteredStore) www.corinnefisher.com    Follow Krystyna Hutchinson on Twitter/IG: @KrystynaHutch www.krystynahutchinson.com    Follow Mike Coscarelli on Twitter/IG: @MikeCoscarelli    THIS WEEK'S FEATURED MUSIC: Shawn Chasten Song 1-7 Butterfly Song 2- Hey Girl     https://open.spotify.com/artist/0WefXMTXAz6FGmd1XvfHEJ?si=dcU4GIH8STC4EDbHDZIUYASee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Time to shine! TV Executive turned mental health advocate and best-selling author Tara Schuster joins Heather to talk about her new book Glow in the F*cking Dark, losing her job during the pandemic, the fear of journaling, Heather's first job ever, the concept of reparenting, feeling agency over your life, when a bag is more than just a bag, and how your emotions are like a salted caramel brownie! PLUS: Heather talks about her recent trip to Cabo! Check out our great sponsors! Cerebral: GET 50% OR MORE OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH OF THERAPY BY GOING TO Cerebral.com/heather Rocket Money: Cancel unwanted subscriptions and manage your expenses the easy way at RocketMoney.com/heather ZocDoc: Go to Zocdoc.com/heather and download the Zocdoc app for FREE!

Author & former development exec at Comedy Central, Tara Schuster, joins Jameela this week to discuss surviving a neglectful childhood, the need to re-learn worthiness, the importance of owning and affirming your own experiences, learning to separate internal validation from external validation, gratitude practices, and learning the importance of stardust. Check out Tara's book - Glow In The F*cking Dark - wherever books are sold! Follow Tara on Instagram @taraschuster & Twitter @taraschustar You can find transcripts for this episode on the Earwolf website. I Weigh has amazing merch - check it out at podswag.com Jameela is on Instagram @jameelajamil and Twitter @Jameelajamil And make sure to check out I Weigh's Twitter, Instagram, and Youtube for more! 

After a chaotic childhood, Tara Schuster hustled to appear glamorous, successful and well-adjusted on paper by earning an Ivy League education and securing the role of Vice President at Comedy Central. In her first bestselling book Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, Tara recounts her years-long journey of re-parenting herself through simple daily rituals. When Tara lost her job, the one on which she had staked her entire adult identity, she found her harshest childhood traumas resurfacing as she battled severe depression amidst the isolating pandemic. Today, Tara shares her journey to reclaiming her agency by healing her deepest wounds and how you too can shine even in bleak circumstances. With actionable advice for taking charge of your emotional health, this conversation with help you find true resilience.  

Tara Schuster (author of Buy Yourself the F*ing Lilies, and Glow In The F*ing Dark), was a VP at Comedy Central, having worked on shows like Key and Peele and the Daily Show, won Emmy's, attended an Ivy League and seemed to have it all. In the pandemic, Covid let to her being laid off from her job. This led her to an incredible journey. In this episode we: Talk about her journey with therapy; specifically EMDR to release the trauma in her life and build a home for herself. How she tapped into her emotions using the emotion wheel. Her experiences dating the same person over and over again. Her self-love journey through learning Internal Family Systems Therapy. Anchoring herself on things that are unshakeable and not able to be taken away from her. Her journey working with a matchmaker to find love Follow Tara at: IG: https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/?hl=en Buy her book now, it's incredible! https://www.amazon.com/Glow-cking-Dark-Practices-Someone/dp/0593243099

One of the most inspiring self-help gurus and author of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, Tara Schuster is joining the ladies to share the little rituals that can change your life. Plus, her new book, Glow in the F*ucking Dark, is out now! Check out our amazing sponsors!!! Angi: Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com Stamps.com: Use code LADYGANG at Stamps.com for a special offer that includes a 4-week trial, plus free postage, and a free digital scale! Next Evo: Go to NextEvo.com/podcast and use promo code LADY to get 20% off your first order of $40 or more! European Wax Center: Book your smooth escape with the experts at European Wax Center! Make a reservation today - your first wax is free! Tree Hut: Check out treehutshea.com/podcast for more details!

Kelley Stevens of the Private Practice Pro joins us to share all of her common missteps in the therapy room. We talk about how to handle double-booking clients, what to do if you call clients by the wrong name, and how ageism shows up in the therapy room. This might be our most relatable episode yet! Did something in the show resonate with you? Help us spread the Am I a Bad Therapist message! Follow Am I a Bad Therapist on Instagram for sneak peeks, previews, and all of the latest information about the podcast! ✨ Register here for the *free* Book Club for Therapists to read Tara Schuster's newest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, with us this March! ✨ Connect with Kelley on Instagram, her website, and listen to her podcast! Connect with Kathryn inside the Teletherapist Network or follow the Network on Instagram. Connect with Allie on Instagram, access the Creative Intervention Library, or shop all things mental health on her Etsy store! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/am-i-a-bad-therapist/support

“And we are made of stars, you know. It's not some fun little thing I'm trying to make everyone feel happy with. It's the carbon in your muscles, the calcium in your bones, the iron in your blood, born in stars. And so I just sat there on the road and the question was, okay, if I've got that in me, if those stars can shine despite everything they've been through, can, can I have some glow? Can, can I have something that lights the way even when things are really grim? Because at that moment I felt so lost. I felt like, how is it possible that I wrote this whole book about self-care? I had this whole career. I've done all this work. How is it possible that I'm still reeling from things that happened to me when I was a kid? Sort of the journey you go on with me on this book is, you know, kind of recognizing we all suffer. I mean, you know, I feel like trauma is almost like a taboo word. People think that it's being used too much. It's like, no, it's, it's suffering. Right? Like every major religion refers to this as suffering.There's pain and rather than ignore it, what I have found is my life is much easier when I deal with it. It's just a better way to live.”  So says Tara Schuster, author of the breakout hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies. Tara joins us today to discuss her ongoing work to unravel the mystery of the self—tales and tribulations captured in her latest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way.  By all external accounts, Tara is someone who had it all figured out—by the time she was in her late twenties she had worked for The Daily Show with Jon Stewart and was a rising star at Comedy Central where she was in charge of critically acclaimed shows like Key & Peele. Beneath it all, she was on the road to rock bottom—anxious, depressed and haunted by her chaotic upbringing. She wrote her first book, in many ways, for herself—a candid and practical guide to healing on the inside through the implementation of simple, daily rituals to transform mind, body, and soul.  But just as Tara thought she had gotten through the hardest work, and even wrote a book to bring others along with her, she suddenly lost her job—in the middle of the pandemic. One terrifying, dissociative experience while driving down a highway late at night later, she had to come to terms with the fact that her hardest internal work was just beginning. Tara shares with us the things that helped her the most along the way—from journaling to build internal safety and wisdom, to rejecting helplessness and restoring faith in our own agency—Tara makes the sometimes lofty lessons of complex theories such as internal family systems and deep trauma therapy accessible. Self-awareness comes from perpetual curiosity, she reminds us, and we must learn about ourselves before we can extend those learnings for the good of the world.  EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: Self-retrieval… Trusting internal authority… Perpetual curiosity… MORE FROM TARA SCHUSTER: Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life, from Someone Who's Been There Explore TARA'S WEBSITE Follow Tara on INSTAGRAM To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tara Schuster is the friend we all need. She's kind, supportive, genuine, and her latest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, is a guidebook for deep soul healing (minus the annoying self-help language and unnecessarily complicated meditation terms). Tara joins Julie in this episode to talk about growing into herself, the life events that preempted her journey to get off the “Good Enough Plateau,” and celebrating that we are all–quite literally–made of stardust. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

EPISODE #67 - Each month in Yes Collective we focus on a central theme that ties together our new therapy tools, podcasts, and conversations. This month, we're focused on cycle-breaking! Cycles are the patterns of behaviors, emotions, and beliefs. There can be inter-generational patterns that get passed down from one generation to the next. There can be personal patterns that have set in over years of coping, defending, and managing one's internal world. Or there can be relational patterns that take root in long-term relationships. Cycle-breaking is the conscious act of freeing yourself from destructive, unhealthy, or disruptive patterns in any area of your life. This week, Jenny & Justin are kicking off March by talking about what cycle-breaking means to them, how it's shown up in their lives, how it shows up for their clients, and some steps they've taken in their own lives to notice cycles they might want to modify, if not break. They also, talk about the amazing guests they have lined up for March. Best-selling author and former Comedy Central executive, Tara Schuster will join them for the March 8th pod, and somatic experiencing coach and author, Lauren Lovett, will join them later in the month. Yes Collective is co-hosted by Justin Wilford, PhD and Jenny Walters, LMFT.Justin Wilford, PhD, is a co-founder of Yes Collective, an educator, a writer, and an emotional health coach. He earned doctorates from UCLA (cultural geography) and UC Irvine (public health), and specializes in translating complex, scientific ideas into actionable programs for mental and emotional health. Jenny Walters, LMFT, is a licensed marriage family therapist and senior expert contributor to the Yes Collective. She is a graduate of the Pacifica Graduate Institute and is the founder and director of Highland Park Holistic Psychotherapy in Los Angeles, California.

Tara Schuster‘s first book, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, was selected by Cosmopolitan, Real Simple, Goop, Publishers Weekly, and many more as one of 2020's best books on mental health and self-care. She served as VP of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of such critically acclaimed shows as the Emmy and Peabody award-winning Key & Peele. Her new book, Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way, is out now. Become a Genius Life Premium Member and get ad-free episodes of the show and more! Learn more: http://thegeniuslife.com

Buckle up, another deep but poignant conversation on this week's show! Catt's dear friend, author Tara Schuster drops by the studio to talk all about her new book: Glow in the F'ing Dark, Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way.   You may recall, Catt and Tara met when Tara released her first book Buy Yourself the F'ing Lilies and became fast friends. As you'll hear in this conversation, the two confided in one another during many walks in their neighborhood throughout the pandemic. This inside intimate knowledge of Tara's journey makes for a visceral interview that you won't want to miss.   From how to journal so it actually makes a difference, to uncovering the real reasons for your anxiety, to making room for your wounded inner child, to finally freeing yourself from repeated toxic relationships – there are so many takeaways on today's show!   Make sure to scoop up the book and gift to those you know might benefit! Follow Tara on IG and subscribe to her weekly newsletter – it's packed with goodness.    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.   While you're at it, try sipping on a little MONDAY. #ABD listener get 15% off this delicious non-alcoholic craft cocktail at drinkmonday.co/catt.   Enjoy!   Produced by Dear Media.

Dr. Solomon's guest on this episode is Tara Schuster, an accomplished entertainment executive turned mental health advocate and best-selling author. In this touching conversation, Tara shares her inspiration for her new book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, and how she has lived the mission of building a nurturing home within herself, even when life presents challenges.Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way by Tara Schuster:https://bookshop.org/p/books/glow-in-the-f-cking-dark-simple-practices-to-heal-your-soul-from-someone-who-learned-the-hard-way-tara-schuster/18679351?ean=9780593243091Tara's website:http://www.taraschuster.com/Tara's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Take Dr. Solomon's "Relationship Superpower" Quiz:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/rsa-quiz/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kelly connects with former Comedy Central executive Tara Schuster to talk about her powerful book about the work she’s done as an adult to overcome a very rough childhood. “If you're not dealing with the thing you know you need to deal with, it's dealing with you.”  “Time does not heal all wounds; it just gives them […]

Tara Schuster is a former executive at Comedy Central and the best selling author of Buy Yourself the Fucking Lillies and Glow in the Fucking Dark. Join us in one of the most authentic conversations to be had on this podcast where we discuss the true meaning of self-care and what it looks like to love oneself. We explore these concepts through the lens of healing and relationships through candid and real-time discoveries that you don't want to miss. This episode was recorded in September 2022, and aired on February 28, 2023 alongside the drop of Tara's second book, Glow in the Fucking Dark. You can find details for Tara herself, as well as where to buy her books below: Tara Schuster: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/2158892/tara-schuster/ Glow in the Fucking Dark: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/673405/glow-in-the-fcking-dark-by-tara-schuster/ Buy Yourself the Fucking Lillies: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/565945/buy-yourself-the-fcking-lilies-by-tara-schuster/ As for TCP freebies and goodies: Find Your Purpose: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63ced0f0ecc6781900626387 Focused in 4 Minutes (A Mindful Intention Setting to Keep Your Meetings on Track): https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63e3c4e08e06d4dae94937db Tarot Quickstart Guide: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63cf52c8de520bd60dc337b0 & to book a Genesis session: ttps://welcoming-dew-469.myflodesk.com/ & to request a custom mindfulness experience in your office: https://www.honeybook.com/widget/the_corporate_psychic_194130/cf_id/63dd7db46d8eaa195eaad4b6 All other inquiries are more than welcome. Reach out at hello[@]thecorppsychic.com Episode Themes: Self Love, Personal Development, Trauma and Healing, Practical Development, Love & Relationships, Self Awareness, Awakening & Growth, Confidence, Self Esteem, Identity, Forgiveness, Self Worth

The seventh episode of our advice series, where every single month, I'll be joined by a new special guest and this month I am so excited to welcome my friend Tara Schuster to answer your questions. On this episode, we talk about:  a genius solution for dealing with money anxiety how to figure out who you are, at your core the first step to start healing your childhood trauma  how to successfully draw boundaries with toxic parental figures  when it's time to actually cut off contact with someone (+ how to do it)  advice for being single in your 30s + how to navigate other life timelines how to become comfortable with uncertainty  how to make progress towards your dreams (despite the challenges of your daily reality) productivity tips to achieve your goals and so much more! For more from Tara, go to www.taraschuster.com and check out her brand new book, Glow In The F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way, which comes out February 28th, 2023.  To join the Healthier Together Podcast Club Facebook group, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/healthiertogetherpodcast. Don't forget to grab my brand new, limited edition Strawberry Black Pepper Cashew Butter from Ground Up!  This episode is sponsored by:  AG1 by Athletic Greens: visit athleticgreens.com/healthiertogether and get your FREE year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs today.  Olive and June: visit oliveandjune.com/HEALTHIER20 for 20% off your first Mani System.   Healthier Together cover art by Zack. Healthier Together music by Alex Ruimy.

Join us for lots of laughs as we hear from Dr. Ali Mattu as he shares a hilarious story with a surprisingly deep message. We talk about imposter syndrome, exposure therapy, being put into unexpected situations with clients, and how our own stuff can come into the therapy room. Did something in the show resonate with you? Help us spread the Am I a Bad Therapist message! Follow Am I a Bad Therapist on Instagram for sneak peeks, previews, and all of the latest information about the podcast! ✨ Register here for the *free* Book Club for Therapists to read Tara Schuster's newest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, with us this March! ✨ Connect with Ali on Instagram, Youtube, or his website. Connect with Kathryn inside the Teletherapist Network or follow the Network on Instagram. Connect with Allie on Instagram, access the Creative Intervention Library, or shop all things mental health on her Etsy store! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/am-i-a-bad-therapist/support

On episode 84 of Outside The Studio: How often do you allow yourself the joy of purchasing a small, modest gift for yourself? Tessa Tovar talks to Tara Schuster on her new book, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, where she encourages everyone to do just that; get yourself something small and beautiful. Tune in for the story on Schusters journey from Comedy Central executive to author, what self-care means, and gaining confidence in our bodies. Previously, Tara served as vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of the Emmy and Peabody Award–winning Key & Peele. Schuster is the author of several books such as Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies and Glow in the F*cking Dark. Timestamps (00:00) Intro (02:30) Tara's background (05:35) Comedy Central to author (16:45) Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies (25:15) Holding space for opposites (31:25) Low level anxiety and emotion wheels (39:35) Repairing the relationship with our bodies (46:30) Purpose (52:40) Connect Key Takeaways 1. At times, we can feel that we are not worthy of modest gifts to ourselves; small acts of self-care become distant. Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies speaks to that. Buying yourself a small want. Maybe it's in the form of a quality cup of coffee, a side of guacamole that's a dollar extra, or a small bundle of flowers. This isn't about an expensive purchase that will financially screw you, it's about a loving gesture towards yourself. 2. Low-level anxiety may be the secondary feeling to what we are actually wanting to feel. We may struggle to express or allow feelings such as anger, distress, or resentment, often because we don't have the vocabulary to even begin describing it. Using an emotion wheel is the perfect tool to ask yourself what you may be actually feeling. 3. Repairing the relationship with our bodies is difficult, especially for women when we are advertised that everything is wrong with us and we need a grandiose, expensive product that industries are trying to shove down our throats. To start that relationship, beginning with gratitude for a body that's capable of keeping us alive is a simple practice to start. Connect with Tara Schuster Website: https://www.taraschuster.com/ Glow in the F*cking Dark: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/673405/glow-in-the-fcking-dark-by-tara-schuster/ Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: https://www.taraschuster.com/lillies Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/?hl=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/taraschustar?lang=en Connect with Tessa Tovar Website: https://tessatovar.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tessamarietovar/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tessa-tovar-baa27613 Twitter: https://twitter.com/TBenedicktus

We've all thought about it. What happens if a client dies by suicide? Viri gets vulnerable with us and shares how she handled the aftermath of a client dying by suicide. From fears of legal issues to self-care and ethics, we cover it all in this heavy, but important, episode. Did something in the show resonate with you? Help us spread the Am I a Bad Therapist message! Follow Am I a Bad Therapist on Instagram for sneak peeks, previews, and all of the latest information about the podcast! ✨ Register here for the *free* Book Club for Therapists to read Tara Schuster's newest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, with us this March! ✨ Connect with Vidi on Instagram or her website. Connect with Kathryn inside the Teletherapist Network or follow the Network on Instagram. Connect with Allie on Instagram, access the Creative Intervention Library, or shop all things mental health on her Etsy store! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/am-i-a-bad-therapist/support

Waking up to the realization that you drunk-dialed someone the night before can be pretty embarrassing. But for Tara Schuster, it was life changing. The night of her 25th birthday, Tara drunk-dialed her therapist pleading for help. The next morning, she decided to find that help she begged for. Tara tells Claire how she realized she needed to re-parent herself, the techniques she initially scoffed at that proved most helpful for her, and what advice she has for people at the beginning of their own healing journey. Plus, she reveals to Claire what celebrity she uses as her stand-in for an ideal parent.   Resources from the show Lemonada's February Book of the Month: Glow in the F*cking Dark by Tara Schuster Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron   Do you have something you want Claire's help with? Send her a question to be featured on an upcoming episode by emailing us at newday@lemonadamedia.com or submitting one at www.bit.ly/newdayask.   Want to connect? Join the New Day Facebook Group!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/newdaypod   Click this link for a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this show and all Lemonada shows go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors.   To follow along with a transcript and/or take notes for friends and family, go to lemonadamedia.com/show/newday/ shortly after the air date.   Follow Claire on IG and FB @clairebidwellsmith or Twitter @clairebidwell and visit her website: www.clairebidwellsmith.com.   Stay up to date with us on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia.    Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at bit.ly/lemonadapremium.   Sign up for our online community of fellow Lemonada lovers for free at lemonadamedia.com/mylemonada.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A special show for my birthday. We're in conversation with one of my favorite new authors, Tara Schuster, who wrote the acclaimed, wildly popular book Buy Yourself the Fucking Lilies. She will soon release her highly anticipated new book Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way. I am reading it now and in true Tara style, the book is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom. She and I discuss easy ways to heal your deepest wounds, getting off your “good enough” plateau, and the power in loneliness. Visit my Instagram to learn how to enter to win a free copy of her new book. And if you'd like to enter to win a copy of Ramit Sethi's I Will Teach You to Be Rich Journal: — LEAVE A REVIEW in Apple podcasts. Preferably a review of one of Ramit's appearances on So Money.  And/Or — CREATE A FAN POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA. This can be a video, reel, feed post on Instagram or TikTok. Tags:  Instagram: @farnoooshtorabi and @ramit TikTok @farnooshsomoney and @ramit.sethi  Giveaways announced February 19th, 2023. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Very Best Self Podcast, we are joined by Tara Schuster. She is an accomplished entertainment executive turned mental health advocate and the author of the forthcoming Glow in the F*cking Dark, and the runaway hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, a finalist for Goodread's Best Non-Fiction Book of 2020. Her books are about healing, self love and falling in love with your life. Stay tuned for the next 40 minutes for an amazing episode. Get “Glow in the F*cking dark” - http://www.taraschuster.com/glow  Connect with Tara - @taraschuster (02:36) - About Tara Schuster. (03:44) - The first book 'Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies ' (22:53) - Relationship with your parents and healing? (29:28) - Are you seeing the same therapist you were seeing at 25? (36:44) - What is the best piece of advice you'd give to your younger self? --------------------------------- Let's connect! DM us on Instagram: @verybestself  Follow my personal Instagram account to learn more about the host! Instagram: @victoriabrown If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review the show on apple podcasts! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/very-best-self-podcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ania gets fired by her first client and the aftermath that follows triggers insecurity, doubts and feelings of failure. Many of us have been in this situation, and it doesn't necessarily get any easier when it happens again! Join us for a relatable conversation about the tricky parts of the work we do and how to navigate when we're fired by a client. Did something in the show resonate with you? Help us spread the Am I a Bad Therapist message! Follow Am I a Bad Therapist on Instagram for sneak peeks, previews, and all of the latest information about the podcast! ✨ Register here for the *free* Book Club for Therapists to read Tara Schuster's newest book, Glow in the F*cking Dark, with us this March! ✨ Connect with Ania on Instagram or her website. Connect with Kathryn inside the Teletherapist Network or follow the Network on Instagram. Connect with Allie on Instagram, access the Creative Intervention Library, or shop all things mental health on her Etsy store! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/am-i-a-bad-therapist/support

Author Tara Schuster joins The Mental Game to talk mental health with Brandon Saho. Tara opens up about her childhood trauma, therapy experiences, why she started writing books, and fun stories from Comedy Central.

Today, Maria welcomes author Tara Schuster.Tara Schuster is an accomplished entertainment executive turned mental health advocate and best selling author. On February 28th, she'll be releasing her highly anticipated new book, “Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way.” Pre-order your copy of “Glow in the F*cking Dark: Simple Practices to Heal Your Soul, from Someone Who Learned the Hard Way” at https://amzn.to/3QGDU4F.Follow Tara on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/ Follow Maria on Instagram for more dating and relationship content: http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria Or join Maria on an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Want to work with Maria? Book a Dating Strategy call with a member of her team and learn more about her matchmaking and coaching programs. https://calendly.com/felix-louie

This week on Radically Loved, Tessa speaks with Tara Schuster about her book, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies. She explains the meaning of the book's title and how it encompasses the path towards reparenting and self-healing. Our life story begins in childhood. And how it begins essentially determines how we will continue to write our journey. Unfortunately, many of us develop trauma from a neglectful upbringing. These traumas manifest later in our lives and may cause us to go down a spiral of setbacks and hiccups. But it is possible to break free from these narratives. The healing process may seem like an endless one, but there is hope.This episode is brought to you by: FAHERTY www.fahertybrand.com/rosieUse Code: ROSIE for 20% OFF Remedy+Use code 'Rosie20' is up and running. Customers will save 20% on everything available on the site.https://myremedyproducts.com/ Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:Understand the process of reparenting yourself.Learn how adopting a gratitude practice opens your eyes to life's bigger picture.Find out where you can find the lilies in your everyday life.Episode Highlights[00:57] Who is Tara Schuster? 03:10] The Context of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies[05:18] Titling the Book Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies[09:33] The Gratitude Process[14:53] Converting to Self-Help [17:07] Writing a Thank You Card[21:05] The Difference Between Self-Care and Self-Celebration[24:54] Spending Money on Small Luxuries[28:55] Glow in the F*cking Dark [33:09] How Tara Feels Radically Loved Resources: ● Connect with Tara Schuster ○ Website: https://www.taraschuster.com/ ○ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/ ● Sign up for Tara's newsletter at https://www.taraschuster.com/newsletter or by texting GLOW to 66866! ● Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster: https://www.amazon.com/Buy-Yourself-cking-Lilies-Rituals/dp/0525509887 ● Glow in the F*cking Dark by Tara Schuster: https://www.amazon.com/Glow-cking-Dark-Practices-Someone/dp/0593243099 ● I Feel Bad About My Neck by Nora Ephron: https://www.amazon.com/Feel-Bad-About-My-Neck/dp/0307276821 ● I Remember Nothing by Nora Ephron: https://www.amazon.com/I-Remember-Nothing-Other-Reflections/dp/0307742806 ● Born Standing Up by Steve Martin: https://www.amazon.com/Born-Standing-Up-Comics-Life/dp/1416553657 ● Pre-order Rosie's book, You are Radically Loved: https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Radically-Loved-Self-Love/ ● Radically Loved is now part of the iHeartMedia Podcasts: https://www.iheartmedia.com/podcasts ● Have a specific topic in mind? Email us at info@radicallyloved.com. Don't forget to add the subject Wisdom Wednesday topic! ● Create a daily meditation ritual in just seven days! Download BUILD YOUR DAILY MEDITATION RITUAL and other freebies at https://www.radicallyloved.com/free-stuff! ● FREE Action Guide! Apply the lessons you learn from this episode as you listen! Sign up at https://www.radicallyloved.com/episode-show-notes, and I'll send it right away! ● Stay updated! ○ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosieacosta/ ○ Twitter: https:twitter.com/rosieacosta ○ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/radicallylovedrosie ○ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrosieacosta

This week on Radically Loved, Tessa speaks with Tara Schuster about her book, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies. She explains the meaning of the book's title and how it encompasses the path towards reparenting and self-healing. Our life story begins in childhood. And how it begins essentially determines how we will continue to write our journey. Unfortunately, many of us develop trauma from a neglectful upbringing. These traumas manifest later in our lives and may cause us to go down a spiral of setbacks and hiccups. But it is possible to break free from these narratives. The healing process may seem like an endless one, but there is hope.This episode is brought to you by: FAHERTY www.fahertybrand.com/rosieUse Code: ROSIE for 20% OFF Remedy+Use code 'Rosie20' is up and running. Customers will save 20% on everything available on the site.https://myremedyproducts.com/ Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:Understand the process of reparenting yourself.Learn how adopting a gratitude practice opens your eyes to life's bigger picture.Find out where you can find the lilies in your everyday life.Episode Highlights[00:57] Who is Tara Schuster? 03:10] The Context of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies[05:18] Titling the Book Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies[09:33] The Gratitude Process[14:53] Converting to Self-Help [17:07] Writing a Thank You Card[21:05] The Difference Between Self-Care and Self-Celebration[24:54] Spending Money on Small Luxuries[28:55] Glow in the F*cking Dark [33:09] How Tara Feels Radically Loved Resources: ● Connect with Tara Schuster ○ Website: https://www.taraschuster.com/ ○ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/ ● Sign up for Tara's newsletter at https://www.taraschuster.com/newsletter or by texting GLOW to 66866! ● Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster: https://www.amazon.com/Buy-Yourself-cking-Lilies-Rituals/dp/0525509887 ● Glow in the F*cking Dark by Tara Schuster: https://www.amazon.com/Glow-cking-Dark-Practices-Someone/dp/0593243099 ● I Feel Bad About My Neck by Nora Ephron: https://www.amazon.com/Feel-Bad-About-My-Neck/dp/0307276821 ● I Remember Nothing by Nora Ephron: https://www.amazon.com/I-Remember-Nothing-Other-Reflections/dp/0307742806 ● Born Standing Up by Steve Martin: https://www.amazon.com/Born-Standing-Up-Comics-Life/dp/1416553657 ● Pre-order Rosie's book, You are Radically Loved: https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Radically-Loved-Self-Love/ ● Radically Loved is now part of the iHeartMedia Podcasts: https://www.iheartmedia.com/podcasts ● Have a specific topic in mind? Email us at info@radicallyloved.com. Don't forget to add the subject Wisdom Wednesday topic! ● Create a daily meditation ritual in just seven days! Download BUILD YOUR DAILY MEDITATION RITUAL and other freebies at https://www.radicallyloved.com/free-stuff! ● FREE Action Guide! Apply the lessons you learn from this episode as you listen! Sign up at https://www.radicallyloved.com/episode-show-notes, and I'll send it right away! ● Stay updated! ○ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosieacosta/ ○ Twitter: https:twitter.com/rosieacosta ○ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/radicallylovedrosie ○ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrosieacosta

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files, Going Deeper Edition! Today we are joined by author, playwright, and entertainment executive, Tara Schuster! We start things off by talking about gratitude, dealing with your family over the holidays, AI-generated art, and if robots will take over the world. We then get into the recap itself, diving into the first volume of episodes, covering episodes one through three of Harry and Meghan! We get into the recap, talking about getting really invested because of this documentary and understanding why England cares so much about the crown. We talk about Harry being sensitive because of his mother, Harry addressing his past mistakes in a genuine way, discerning if some of Meghan's statements are genuine or not, and analyzing Harry and Meghan's first few dates. We get into wanting more dirt, questioning if you should profit off the brand of the Royal Family, and how this documentary compares to the Oprah interview. We then wonder why they're making a tell all, the media's focus on Meghan's family, and getting into the situation with Meghan's father. We also talk about being high character in a low character environment, trying to do good with the privilege you have, and working to heal your wounds. We then bring on our Texting Office Hours caller who is struggling after getting ghosted by a friend of ten years over a small miscommunication. After recognizing this is a repeating pattern, she wonders the best way to establish a new system of communication in order to form a relationship that isn't about trying to win. We then close by talking about Tara's upcoming book! “We're above this, but here's the tea.” If you are interested in running a book club in your city, send an email to: DTYEHBBookClub@gmail.com  Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.  If you would like to get some advice on Office Hours send an email to asknick@kastmedia.com with “Office Hours” in the subject line!  Be sure to check out my sports radio show Fandemonium, Wednesdays @ 3PT / 6 ET on Amazon's Amp app. Click the link to download Amp using my code NICKVIALL https://apps.apple.com/us/app/amp-host-live-radio-shows/id1586403838 To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com Support a Local Bookstore: https://bookshop.org/books/don-t-text-your-ex-happy-birthday-and-other-advice-on-love-sex-and-dating-9798212185622/9781419755491 THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp: Learn more and save 10% off your first month at http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALLFILES. Total Wireless: Total by Verizon is available at http://www.TotalByVerizon.com and at retailers nationwide. Away Travel: This Holiday season gift Away at http://www.AwayTravel.com/viall. Manscaped: Get 20% Off and Free Shipping by going to http://www.Manscaped.com/viall. Happy New Year to your Balls! Episode Socials: @viallfiles@nickviall@taraschusterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, we welcome Rita Sodi and Jody Williams on the show. They are the duo behind some of New York City's favorite restaurants, including Buvette, the Commerce Inn, I Sodi, and Via Carota—“New York's Most Perfect Restaurant,” according to the New Yorker. In this episode, we talk about the couple's new cookbook, a tribute to the West Village's Via Carota. We also find out how the restaurant stays fresh, what it's like to expand a brand overseas, and some of their favorite recipes from regional Italy. It was so great getting to know two legends in the chef world.Also on the show, we catch up with Tara Schuster, author, playwright, and accomplished entertainment executive. Schuster served as VP of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of the Emmy and Peabody Award–winning Key & Peele. We talk about writing for comedy as well as her book, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life, from Someone Who's Been There.More from Rita Sodi and Jody Williams:On Doing Things Their Own Way [Cherry Bombe]Will Shaker Food Be the New Shaker Furniture? [WSJ]Recipe: Dark Chocolate Semifreddo [Bon Appetit]

Tara Schuster had a rough childhood. By her mid-twenties, she was checking all the boxes on the outside but she was falling apart on the inside. Once she hit rock bottom, she began the process of rebuilding herself, essentially giving herself the parenting she'd never received, in order to start becoming the person she wanted to be. Her story and her process line the pages of her runaway hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, where she shares all the ways she learned to put herself back together.     Guest Bio Tara Schuster is an accomplished entertainment executive turned mental health advocate and best-selling author. She is the author of the forth coming Glow in the F*cking Dark, and the runaway hit, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, a finalist for Goodread's Best Non-Fiction Book of 2020. It was selected by Cosmopolitan, Real Simple, Goop, Publishers Weekly, and many more as one of the best books of the year on mental health and self-care. Previously, Tara served as vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of such critically acclaimed shows as the Emmy and Peabody Award–winning Key & Peele. She has contributed to InStyle, The New Yorker, and Forbes, among others. She lives in Los Angeles.   For episode homepage, resources and links, visit: https://kristenmanieri.com/episode220   Learn more about coaching: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com   Mentioned in this Episode Guest's book: Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life, from Someone Who's Been There https://www.amazon.com/Buy-Yourself-cking-Lilies-Rituals/dp/0525509909   Guest's website: http://www.taraschuster.com/     Host Bio Kristen Manieri is a coach who works with teams to increase both productivity and wellbeing. She also helps individuals navigate transition with clarity and confidence. Her areas of focus are: stress reduction, energy management, mindset, resilience, habit formation, rest rituals, and self-care. As the host of the weekly 60 Mindful Minutes podcast, an Apple top 100 social science podcast, Kristen has interviewed over 200 authors about what it means to live a more conscious, connected, intentional and joyful life. Learn more at kristenmanieri.com/work-with-me.    Learn more about coaching: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com Connect with the 60 Mindful Minutes podcast   Web: https://kristenmanieri.com Email: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/60MindfulMinutes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristenmanieri_/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/kristenmanieri/  

In this episode Brenda and Julia are joined by award winning author, mental health advocate, and former Comedy Central executive Tara Schuster to get real and raw on going from a self-hating 20 year old to a self-loving adult! We talk: -Self work is hard but it's better than what we may be doing -Finding your non-negotiable's that bring you self-esteem -Identifying our emotions -Journaling -Who even are you? -Frenemy within -Finding and keeping habits -Self-talk -Dealing with shame -Navigating difficult family dynamics around the holiday season & SO much more! ♡ Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rawring-twenties-podcast/id1494981855 ♡ Subscribe to RAWring Twenties on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqIjQO1tys3_U-aaHYkHUuA Contact #R20 Squad! ♡Email: RAWringtwentiespodcast@gmail.com ♡Instagram: @rawringtwentiespodcast Host personal pages: ♡Brenda @balancewithbrenda, @officialbrendaa ♡Julia @Julia_tolchin

Author Tara Schuster joins Not Another Personal Finance Podcast to discuss her self-care journey from avoidant 25 year-old to self-care warrior.    Tara, who decided to get her shit together after drunk dialing her therapist (big yikes), opens up with us and gives honest and practical lessons for healing your past and owning your future so you can radiate strength, bravery, and joy when life gets dark.   Tara is the author of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, selected by Cosmopolitan, Real Simple, Goop, Publishers Weekly, and many more as one of the best books of the year on mental health and self-care.   Previously, she served as VP of talent and development at Comedy Central, where she was the executive in charge of such critically acclaimed shows as the Emmy and Peabody award-winning Key & Peele. She is also a contributor to InStyle, The New Yorker, Forbes and more.   In this episode, we chat about: How to reevaluate your personal finances and go down a healthier path The cultural obsession of extreme wealth + capitalism Why we need to buy the fucking Lilies (no matter what that looks like for you)  The importance of taking advantage of the resources you have access to Pausing, getting curious, and making a plan when it comes to your money + more MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE: https://www.amazon.com/Random-Walk-Down-Wall-Street/dp/0393330338  https://10k.radreads.co/join-syp12  https://www.taraschuster.com  https://www.taraschuster.com/books  GUEST SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram Twitter Website ABOUT NAPFP: Not Another Personal Finance Podcast: Unfiltered Finance Between Friends is a no-bs personal finance podcast unlike any other you've heard.  Award-winning personal finance content creators and business owners, Haley Brown-Woods and Vee Weir, discuss money management, debt payoff, savings, investing, and more, in an easy-to-understand and hellaciously funny way. Haley and Vee leave censorship up to other podcasts and wear direct messaging, dry humor, and foul-language as badges of honor.  If you're ready to get better with money and need real friends guiding you along the way, this podcast is for you. FIND HALEY AND VEE ONLINE + SOCIAL MEDIA HERE: Haley's Instagram, Twitter, Facebook Vee's Instagram, Twitter, Website, Facebook Join the Price of Avocado Toast Newsletter Join the Vee Frugal Fox Newsletter OTHER LINKS: 1:1 Coaching With Haley Become a Patreon RECOGNITION: Audio engineer: Garrett Davis Research: Haley Brown-Woods + Vee Weir Podcast Artwork: Heather Divoky Podcast Support: Weir Digital Marketing

Waking up to the realization that you drunk-dialed someone the night before can be pretty embarrassing. But for Tara Schuster, it was life changing. The night of her 25th birthday, Tara drunk-dialed her therapist pleading for help. The next morning, she decided to find that help she begged for. Tara tells Claire how she realized she needed to re-parent herself, the techniques she initially scoffed at that proved most helpful for her, and what advice she has for people at the beginning of their own healing journey. Plus, she reveals to Claire what celebrity she uses as her stand-in for an ideal parent.   Resources from the show Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron   Do you have something you want Claire's help with? Send her a question to be featured on an upcoming episode by emailing us at newday@lemonadamedia.com or submitting one at www.bit.ly/newdayask.   Want to connect? Join the New Day Facebook Group!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/newdaypod   Click this link for a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this show and all Lemonada shows go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors.   To follow along with a transcript and/or take notes for friends and family, go to lemonadamedia.com/show/newday/ shortly after the air date.   Follow Claire on IG and FB @clairebidwellsmith or Twitter @clairebidwell and visit her website: www.clairebidwellsmith.com.   Stay up to date with us on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia.    Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at bit.ly/lemonadapremium.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rituals are a type of anchoring.  They help to stabilize the world around you when it is a hot mess express.  What does it mean to intentionally develop a ritual in your life? Why does it matter? Join Olivia Pelts as she talk candidly about some recent conversations she has had with clients and how she has seen rituals change the game in her own personal life... We're all walking ourselves back home.  p.s. check out Tara Schuster's book Buy Yourself The Fucking Lillies. You can thank us later

Tara Schuster is a best-selling author, playwright, and accomplished entertainment executive. She served as Vice President of Talent and Development at Comedy Central where she was the Executive in Charge of the Emmy® and Peabody Award-winning ​Key & Peele​, the Emmy® Award-winning ​@Midnight​, and Lights Out with David Spade. She developed and oversaw a diverse slate of programming including ​Another Period​, ​Detroiters, and Hood Adjacent. For her work on ​Key & Peele, Jordan Peele remarked that Schuster is “ahead of her time...she sees the future a little bit.”Her book, Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies, debuted as the #1 New Release in Humor Essays and Self-Help on both Audible and Kindle. Goop has called the book, “hilarious, honest, and timely,” while Cosmopolitan has proclaimed it to be “a witty book about growing up–whether you're in your 20s or 50s.” InStyle, People Magazine, Good Reads, BuzzFeed, and many others have chosen Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies as one of the best new books of 2020. Mental health awareness and establishing self-care are topics that I am passionate about, as you know, and we delve deep into these topics on the show. Tara goes the distance about her own personal journey, and she shares openness and vulnerability in a beautiful way. It's fun. She's funny, she's great. She's deep and wise. I learned so much from being with her and talking with her in this podcast episode, and I'm sure you'll walk away with quite a few incredible points and how to take care of yourself that much better. So sit back, relax and enjoy this podcast episode with the one and only Tara Schuster.Connect with TaraInstagramWebsiteLinkedInTwitterSayMazelTov is where you can request personalized videos from your favorite Jewish creators and inspiring thought leaders. Our goal is that you have a personalized easy and professional experience all the while supporting a charity.Use promo code meirkay10 for 10% on your order!Don't forget to subscribe to The Great Day PodcastLove The Great Day Podcast? Want to find out how to support the show? Click the link below to join my new Patreon page.Become Patron on My Patreon Page HERE!Did I mention that I am now an author?! Check out my new book "A Kids Book About Optimism"And be sure to follow my Instagram page and Facebook page to stay up to date on everything I'm working on.I'm Meir Kay and Have A Great Day! Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're wrapping up our website series this week with Janna Stevens, small business owner and Head of Project Strategy at Infomedia! Janna worked on Carrie's website redesign, but she's also working on her own website! We learn more about Janna's business, The Skating Yogi, and her experience with the branding and website process. Janna and Carrie both are experienced in walking clients through this process and break down the why and how of their strategy. We also get insider tips on tackling a website project on your own! Full show notes at LocalistPodcast.com.    Mentioned in this episode:  CarrieRollwagen.com Infomedia  Leslie Johnson on the Localist Podcast Sam Humphries and Caleb Chancey on the Localist Podcast  Squarespace Wix One Quick Question with Infomedia  Janna Stevens on One Quick Question with Infomedia  @TheSkatingYogi on Instagram  Railroad Park  Saturn Birmingham  Church Street Coffee and Books  WordCamp Emily Wells Design on the Localist Podcast Morgan Johnston on Instagram Club Duquette  Alana Harmond on Instagram Buy Yourself the Fucking Lillies by Tara Schuster  TheLocalistBham.com The Localist Book 

Ian chats with author and friend, Tara Schuster about being creative, transitioning from one career to another, formulating a creative practice, and more! Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, the Shelf Helpers meet Tara Schuster and her book: Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life, from Someone Who's Been There. Schuster was the VP of Talent and Development at Comedy Central who started out by cleaning the office coffee maker there and working her way up to the top. This book is sure to ruffle some feathers, so tune in to find out if Tracy and Amanda were rattled or regaled by this very honest approach to the self help journey.The next round of the Shine On! Group + Coaching Program begins soon! Learn more here.Ready to ditch the guilt & fear and live out your crazy big dream? Sign up to receive Tracy's guide: Your Permission Slip to Shine!  It's FREE and will be delivered straight to your inbox.  Simply click here to get started!Follow Amanda's blog about her brewery in progress on the Darkroom Brewing Company's website here:)

On this week's episode, Sami and Aleen sit down with former Comedy Central executive and author of Buy Yourself The F*cking Lillies, Tara Schuster. They discuss how to turn your life around, the importance of creating a morning routine, and how to actually reparent yourself. Next, Tara shares some of her favorite rituals, how journaling can change your life, and why you shouldn't feel like it's indulgent to prioritize self-care. Finally, they discuss delighting in the little mundane moments, hating your boobs, and love languages.

Welcome back to the Pod! Today's episode is a bit shorter and a bit different than normal—an episode for honesty. Today I talk about my own healing journey in loving myself fully, including being honest about where I currently am. This is an honest, hopeful, and love-inspired episode. Please know how worthy you are of the love you desire and that you have the power to give that kind of love to yourself. I talk a bit about Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster (@taraschuster on Instagram). It is a beautiful book about reparenting yourself & self-love! 10/10 recommend. Follow @thedivinemisfits on Instagram to connect! DM me or fill out the forms in our bio to share your story anonymously or inquire about being on the Pod.

'Self Help' books can be a little hit and miss, so whether you're a fiend or foe, there's something for everyone in this episode as Jess (who is notoriously allergic to this type of book) and Lauren (who can't get enough of 'em) explore some of the books in this category they both actually loved! Books Mentioned in this Episode: Big Magic and The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert, Commonwealth by Ann Patchett, Solve Your Happy by Mo Gawdat, Buy Yourself the F-ing Lilies by Tara Schuster, Speak your Truth by Fearne Cotton, The Money is Coming by Sarah Akwisombe and Think Like a Breadwinner by Jennifer Barrett Competition Time: We have partnered with Books That Matter to gift one lucky listener a free Books The Matter gift box! To be in with a chance of winning, all you have to do is subscribe, rate and review this podcast. If you're listening on Apple Podcasts leave a review and put your Instagram handle as your 'Nickname', if you're listening on another platform, subscribe then share our podcast on your instagram story and we'll track your entry that way. Each month a winner will be selected at random and informed via Instagram. Get in Touch: Instagram: @bookreccos Email: bookreccos@gmail.com Jingle written and produced by Alex Thomas licensed exclusively for Book Reccos - you can visit his website here: https://www.alexanderthomasmusic.co.uk/

As we continue to emerge from the pandemic, many of us have felt a need to reprioritize and reevaluate what matters most. And yet, it can still be difficult to honestly acknowledge personal challenges along the way, especially when it comes to emotional wellness and mental health. This week, veteran entertainment executive and best-selling author, … Continue reading Self-care, vulnerability & real talk with Tara Schuster →

Make your bed. Eat a vegetable. Buy yourself the f*cking lilies. Hollywood Exec turned Author, Tara Schuster joins the podcast today to talk about the daily rituals that took her from a hot-mess in her twenties, to a fully functioning adult. Can we say ON BRAND?  Tara seemingly had it all together, but underneath her veneer of career success at Comedy Central, her personal life was spiraling. After years of trying to improve her life, she culminated what worked into a best selling Self Help Book/ Memoir titled “Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: and Other Rituals to Fix Your Life from Someone Who has Been There”. Today we talk about some of those rituals, career advice, re-parenting, skimping on yourself and so much more. Want more from our guests? Tara Schuster Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster/?hl=en (@taraschuster) Website http://www.taraschuster.com/ (HERE) We’ve added her book, “Buy Yourself The Fucking Lilies” to the https://www.amazon.com/shop/bigkidproblems?listId=234KHYSP8P0K5&ref=idea_share_inf (BKP Amazon List)! Oh hey, stay connected with me too! Sarah Merrill BKP IG:  https://www.instagram.com/Bigkidproblems/?hl=en (@BigKidproblems)  Sarah’s personal IG: https://www.instagram.com/sarahamerrill_/?hl=en (@SarahaMerrill)_ Find the Blog, Merch and much more: http://www.thebigkidproblems.com/ (www.TheBigKidProblems.com) Want to chat about the episode or just talk about YOUR BigKidProblems? Join the Secret Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1217632598392356 (HERE!) Big Thank you to our Episode Sponsors!  https://ritual.com/bigkid (Ritual): You deserve to know what’s in your multivitamin! Start your ritual today and get 10% off during your first 3 months! ritual.com/BIGKID  Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair quiz and get 15% off your first order at https://prose.com/bigkid (Prose.com/bigkid) http://www.butcherbox.com/BKP (Butcher Box:) Your new favorite monthly subscription! Get a FREE Essentials Bundle in your first box at ButcherBox.com/BKP Big Kid Problems is a production of http://crate.media (Crate Media)

On this week of LOOKING UP,  Dr. Deepika Chopra talks with VP of Talent and Development at Comedy Central and author of "Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies and Other Rituals to Fix Your Life From Someone Who's Been There,” Tara Schuster. Tara transparently opens up about her journey dealing with years of childhood neglect, depression, anxiety, shame and the struggle for perfectionism. This conversation is a deep dive into worthiness, validation, journaling, the simple daily rituals she has created to transform her mind, body and relationships and, of course, just how important it is to buy yourself the damn Lillies. To purchase your own THINGS ARE LOOKING UP Optimism Deck of Cards please visit ThingsAreLookingUp.co For more BTS footage of this episode and any others follow @drdeepikachopra + @allthingsarelookingup Guest Details: @taraschuster Book That Has Changed The Way Jessica Lives Her Life: The Artist Way by Julia Cameron Produced by Dear Media.

Tara Schuster is an author, playwright, and an accomplished entertainment executive. Upon graduating college, Tara had no idea what she was going to do with her future. Through establishing herself as someone who could do the most hated tasks, and do them well, she was able to seize many opportunities. Tara joins Jeff Gothelf to share her story and to explain why being the best at the worst will make you forever employable. You'll hear Tara Schuster and Jeff Gothelf talk about:  Her foray into the entertainment industry.  Being the best at the worst.  The rarity of true confidence and reliability.  Showing the value that you possess and working around people's expectations.  Planting flags and acting with integrity.  The importance of making writing a habit and a practice. In the Forever Employable podcast, host Jeff Gothelf shares stimulating, impactful stories and interviews with successful professionals as he prepares to launch his new book. It is his aim to provide listeners with the actionable insights to take them from professionally fit to forever employable.  Watch the full conversation between Tanya and Jeff here. Resources Jeff Gothelf on LinkedIn | Twitter JeffGothelf.com Tara Schuster on LinkedIn TaraSchuster.com Buy Yourself The Lilies

Hollywood exec turned author Tara Schuster hit rock bottom, drunk dialed her therapist, and realized she had to change things in a big way. That same day, she started what would become a 600-page document on self love. Today Tara joins us to chat about her new self-healing book, Buy Yourself the F*king Lilies: and Other Rituals to Fix Your Life from Someone Who Has Been There.In this candid conversation, Tara talks about: What happens when we tear ourselves apart all the time Practical steps we can take to feel better about ourselves Why traditional 'success' doesn't make us automatically happyHow to handle body image struggles The power of reparenting Why we need to romance ourselves. For more information on Tara, visit:The book is available anywhere books are sold instagram.com/taraschustertaraschuster.com 

The talented Tara Schuster joins us this week to discuss her career and memoir, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies: and Other Rituals to Fix your Life, from Someone Who’s Been There. Follow Tara’s Journey: Instagram and Twitter: @taraschuster Check out her Book: http://www.taraschuster.com/buy-the-book

C'est un nouveau RDV sur Radio Monaco Feel Good. Un zoom chaque mois sur un livre coup de coeur paru aux Editions Jouvence, axé autour du bien-être et du développement personnel.  Pour ce premier RDV, vous retrouvez Charlène Guinoiseau, directrice éditoriale des Editions Jouvence.  Aujourd'hui coup de projecteur sur le récit d'expérience de Tara Schuster "Achète toi toi-même ces p*tains de fleurs" (et autres rituels pour prendre sa vie en main. Par quelqu'un qui est passé par là.) Un roman initiatique authentique, hilarant & inspirant ! Au fil des pages, comme une amie, Tara Schuster se confie sur cette vie en apparence parfaite qu'elle mène aux Etats-Unis où elle connait une jolie notoriété en tant que directrice d'émissions télévisées. Mais derrière cette réussite professionnelle, se cache une autre Tara Schuster, dévorée par ses angoisses et submergée par ses émotions.  C'est une soirée trop alcoolisée qui agit comme un déclencheur pour Tara. Consciente d'avoir "touché le fond" et avide de rebondir, elle décide de partir à la reconquête d'elle-même via des outils ludiques et pédagogiques.  Tara Schuster signe un guide pratique, un récit touchant, teinté d'humour et empli d'authenticité pour suivre sa "rééducation personnelle". Une vraie bouffée d'oxygène pleine de bon sens pour celles et ceux en quête d'une vie plus équilibrée.  Bienveillante, Tara, vous embarque dans sa vie et vous livre ses outils pour avancer plus sereinement tout en s'amusant. Tara Schuster est décidée à devenir la personne qu'elle serait fière d'être. Et vous ?  Plongeon dans ce roman initiatique qui se dévore comme un page turner  ! Pssst: si vous voulez tenter de remporter un exemplaire du livre de Tara Schuster soyez le premier à nous envoyer un message privé sur Instagram avec le mot : FEEL GOOD  "Achète toi toi-même ces p*tains de fleurs" est paru aux Editions Jouvence dans la collection #sansfiltre  Une nouvelle collection décapante entre authenticité, humour et entraide. La vie, la vraie, sans filtre.

Rendez-vous littéraire :  - "Rabindranath Tagore & le règne de la machine" aux éditions "le Passager clandestin" Un ouvrage publié dans la collection « Précurseur-ses de la décroissance », fondée et dirigée par le philosophe-militant Serge Latouche et rédigé par Mohammed Taleb. - Les éditions franco-genevoises "Jouvence" sortent deux ouvrages :  - «Achète-toi toi-même ces p... de fleurs » Et autres rituels pour prendre sa vie en main  de Tara Schuster - « Ça ne se fait pas d'en parler, Stop aux tabous corporels » ! du docteur Yael Adler  

Join us with Tara Schuster, Author, Playwright, and Vice President of Talent and Development at Comedy Central for some bracingly honest, often hilarious, hard-won lessons in learning to love and care for yourself from a creative executive called “ahead of her time” by Jordan Peele and praised by Chelsea Handler, Adam Grant, and Glennon Doyle. By the time she was in her late twenties, Tara was a rising TV executive who had worked for The Daily Show with Jon Stewart and helped launch Key & Peele to viral superstardom. By all appearances, she was thriving. But beneath that veneer of success, she was a chronically anxious, self-medicating mess. No one knew. Tara will share hard-won lessons from her celebrated new book, "Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies", the story of her path to re-parenting herself and becoming a “ninja of self-love.” In a conversation with IVY CEO Beri Meric, Tara will share the simple, daily rituals she used to transform her mind, body, and relationships. She calls her approach of learning to love yourself in a non-throw-up-in-your-mouth-it's-so-cheesy way. She'll tackle topics so many of us struggle with, including self-criticism, emotional baggage, gratitude, and self-limiting beliefs, with humor and understanding. Tara's candid, practical insights will help create a life you truly love and feel more confident in your choices, no matter where you are in your life.

Tune in to hear from Tara Schuster, best-selling author, playwright, and accomplished entertainment executive! Keep on listening to get inspired, get real, and get that does of motivation to build a life you love. #YouGoGirl

Tara Schuster is an author, playwright, and accomplished entertainment executive serving as the vice president of talent and development at Comedy Central. She is currently the executive in charge of Lights Out with David Spade, was the executive in charge of the Emmy and Peabody award-winning Key and Peele, the Emmy award-winning Midnight, and numerous other shows including Another Period, Detroiters, and Hood Adjacent. In this episode, Tara describes her One Away Moment when she drunk dialed her therapist and in a strange way the call showed a very healthy part of herself that wanted to grow. Tara highlights her strategy in evaluating her life, the ones around her, and provoking questions in the back of her mind by simply writing it down and pulling it apart. She emphasizes how taking care of yourself, specifically taking yourself seriously, is a common problem faced by many individuals especially entrepreneurs. Tara breaks down her reparenting strategies in her book ”Buy Yourself the Fucking Lilies: And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life from Someone Who has Been There.” You can read more about this episode here: https://bwmissions.com/blog/tara-schuster-podcast Follow Bryan Wish on Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/bryanwish/ Follow Bryan Wish on Twitter: https://twitter.com/bryanwish_?s=11 Follow Bryan Wish on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bryanwish_/ Join our Mission: bwmissions.com/join/ Join our Community: my.community.com/bwmissions

Tara Schuster (Author, Comedy Central Executive) is the Author of "Buy Yourself The Fucking Lilies" We talk about re-parenting, crying on the subway and how to rebuild your life.

Comedy Central TV Exec, Playwright and Author, Tara Schuster, tells Stassi about the "rock bottom" moment that inspired new book, Buy Yourself The Fucking Lillies. They discuss Tara's writing process, the necessity of taking time to spoil yourself and daily journaling as a mandatory means of self care, and how it's possible to lift yourself from the "rock-bottom" moments in your life and find your version of "happy". Tara seemingly had it all together -- but underneath her veneer of success, she had to overcome being a chronically anxious, self-medicating mess -- owing in large part to her minimally parented upbringing. After drunk dialing her therapist on her 25th birthday, she knew she needed a wake up call. Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies tells the story of Tara's path to "re-parenting" herself and becoming a "ninja of self-love." Through simple daily rituals, Tara transformed her mind, body, and relationships. Her aim for the book is to help people create a life they truly, totally f*cking LOVE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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