Podcasts about system jo

Keepers! This month Bree welcomes a very good friend of the show Liz Stone. The two of them talk about life after divorce, the disaster that is dating, how paranoid pro athletes really are, and how it's okay to not want a relationship. You can also find out "well maybe he wants comfort on his feet and has a cold neck" means. Be sure to go to the keeping it casual podcast website to sign up for a sensuality workshop with MJ and Bree. Shout out to System Jo's for being this month's sponsor and sending us a ton of tasty treats.

Essentially, Jo loves sharing how our bodies and brains function to support understanding of where we hold trauma patterning, limiting beliefs and blocks and moving towards release, healing and expansion. "The more I listen to the wisdom in my body, the more I can release, regulate and connect deeply spiritually with my soul purpose"Jo´s main business is MindbodyWise and she also has a focused Nervous System programme called RegulationWise. In this episode, we discuss many different areas such as peri-menopause, anxiety, limiting beliefs, trauma, management of anxieties and much much more... #neuroscience #psychotherapist #healingtrauma ************************Is anxiety holding you back from taking part in daily activities, social events, business growth?

On this episode, we welcome Ryan McCrobie from System Jo and we're talking lube, one of the most under-appreciated sexual aids out there!Here's what we covered:The word "moist"The lifespan of lubeWhat sets System Jo apartFDA regulationsLube testingPainful sexWater based vs. silicone lubeUsing coconut oil as lubeLube storageLubrication standardsParabensConsumer panelsAnal sexFlavored lubesand so much more!Do you have a favorite lube? Tell us about it at comewithusconfessions@gmail.comWANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.comL I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!Website: https://sexyedschool.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcastCoaching: https://sexyedschool.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcastContact Come With Us:comewithusconfessions@gmail.comSupport the show (https://comewithuspodcastmerch.myshopify.com/)

On today's Best of episode, I'm explaining how to spot red flags when you're dating someone new, healthy ways to address conflict, and actionable tips to amp up a low sex drive. I also take your calls about getting past jealousy in an open relationship, what to do when you want more sex than your partner, and how squirting can happen even without an orgasm. Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Bellesa, System Jo, Promescent Show Notes: Episode Bedroom Goals & Relationship Roles with Lisa Bilyeu For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

On today's throwback show, I'm discussing the ins and outs of a fantasy that has become a lot more popular: cuckolding or “hot wifery”. I share tips to bring up your fantasy with your partner, why people enjoy it, how you can navigate FFM and MMF threesomes, and what to consider before you dive into your next sexual fantasy. I also take your calls and answer questions like how to get over the jitters when you want to go to the strip club with your husband for the first time, and what to do when your partner has extreme separation anxiety when you leave town and why writing your own erotica can be incredibly hot (and even help with initiating sex). Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Promescent, Good Vibrations, System Jo, Magic Wand For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

Who is ready for a hotter, wetter summer? Today, I'm joined by squirting expert, author, and educator Deborah Sundahl, a pioneer in female ejaculation and G-spot (or g-area) anatomy. Deborah and I discuss the difference between squirting and having an orgasm, a step-by-step guide to tapping into your squirting potential, where the G-spot (aka female prostate) is located and how to find it, and the best sex position to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. We answer your top questions about how to squirt and what ejaculate consists of, and the best ways to make sure you and your partner can relax and experience all the pleasure and release of a full-body orgasm. Find Deborah Sundahl here: https://deborahsundahl.com Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE:  Je Joue, Pill Club, System Jo, Good Vibrations For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

On today’s Best of episode, I am joined by renowned biological anthropologist and author of Anatomy of Love, Dr. Helen Fisher. We discuss whether love at first sight is possible, how our personality traits shape our attraction to others and the way our biology influences who we love. We dive into the parts of your brain responsible for your sex drive, romantic love, and deep attachment. Dr. Fisher also shares findings from studies she has done with Match to answer the question: why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? We also explore the best age to marry, why orgasms create connection, the importance of space in a relationship and why casual sex is not really so casual (hint: catching feelings is real). You can take Dr. Fisher’s personality test to learn about how your personality impacts who you love and how you bond. Take Dr. Fisher’s Personality Test here: https://theanatomyoflove.com/relationship-quizzes/helen-fishers-personality-test/ Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Je Joue, Foria, System Jo, Good Vibrations For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

I’m joined by sexologist, relationships expert, body image specialist, and author of Playing Without a Partner Dr. Megan Stubbs. We dive into how to embrace every aspect of singlehood (hello, masturbation!) and why being single doesn’t have to be a layover, it can be your destination. We give tips for loving your body, ways to elevate your orgasm, and how to alleviate skin hunger when you aren’t in a relationship. Plus, we’re sharing tips for sending nudes, ways to create an optimal pre-date ritual, and ideas for being with a new partner. We also answer your questions about what to do if you feel insecure about the number of people you have slept with, how to increase emotional intimacy in the bedroom and what to do if you feel you’re in a “dry spell.” Show Notes: Yes No Maybe List Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, Magic Wand, System Jo, Yarlap For more information about Dr. Megan Stubbs, visit: sexologistmegan.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

With Matthew Wright. Matthew is the Brand Ambassador for Europe at System JO. He chats to Bibi and Miranda about how you can get the most from your lubes! It's all about pleasure and play! Stay in touch with the girls on social media... twitter.com/goodsexbadsexxx instagram.com/goodsexbadsex

How do YOU think we can create a better future for learning? What is the difference between Education and School? Are we growing our next generation into conformist compliant people who will serve the economic system or are we empowering our next generation to feel that they can be apart of the change that is clearly needed in our society This week we met up with 'Jo Clark' to speak about his experience of outdoor learning and why he wants young people to really experience life skills rather than just classroom learning. We travelled to Jo's Farm in Devon to discuss all things Education… Support the podcast: Via our Patreon page - https://www.patreon.com/Ascend Show Notes - http://ascendbodymind.com/ascend-podcast/ Donate - https://www.paypal.me/ascendpodcast

ABOUT THE HAND PILOT Former criminal defense attorney and mom Dee Bertino started in the adult industry over 20 years ago as the co-owner of adult chain Fantasy Gifts. With the rise of male masturbators, Dee saw a need in the marketplace for men to have better choices than their hand and to tackle the topic of male masturbation, remove the stigma, and normalize the conversation. She also noticed the rise of subscription boxes, and so, The Hand Pilot was born. They’re the world’s first and only monthly subscription box featuring the most innovative toys geared toward men and their sexual needs, as well as couples. With less than six months in, The Hand Pilot has taken flight and featured quality products from Tenga, Sir Richards, Pipedream Products, Zero Tolerance, Evolved, System JO, WET Lubricants and Screaming O. They offer boxes for flying solo or with a co-pilot/partner in three different box programs Recreational Pilot (monthly), Captain (quarterly) and Commander (higher end quarterly box). Men no longer need to leave their homes to get the ultimate sexual experience. The Hand Pilot has been featured on Men’s Health, All the Sex, Gross Misconduct, Demon Seed Radio, The Totally Inappropriate Radio Show, Rocket XXX Radio, and the Johnny Dare Show. It’s been reviewed by CandySnatch, Emmeline Peaches, Scandarella, A Year of Boxes, and My Subscription Addiction. Dee Bertino has been nominated by the XBIZ Awards Adult Businesswoman of the Year in 2018 and Fantasy Gift was nommed for Retail Boutique of the Year in 2017. She was also featured as the Women in Adult (WIA) Adult Businesswoman for January 2018 and was recently interviewed by AVN for an online and print article. Keep up with everything in The Hand Pilot’s world by viewing and subscribing to their boxes at https://thehandpilot.com/, as well as visiting their online store to purchase specific items at https://thehandpilot.com/shop/. Follow them on Twitter and IG at @TheHandPilot, join over 4k monthly viewers on their Pinterest page https://www.pinterest.com/thehandpilot/, subscribe to their YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYFoV9Dx3v3JYjiXHbnPLng/videos and like them on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TheHandPilot/

Today’s throwback podcast is a live recording of Emily’s 10 year anniversary show at the Hollywood Improv. Emily shares how it all began at her kitchen table and reveals, for the first time, the story behind how she got started, her challenges around podcasting back in 2005 to now, and how talking about sex for a living definitely impacts her personal and professional life. Emily also has Menace, Anderson, and Dr. Drew on stage to talk about some of their favorite moments, as well as a live Q&A from the audience. This episode is full of awesome and funny memories from the last decade of sex talk, plus everything that has made Sex With Emily what it is today. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Intensity, System JO, Mystery Vibe, SKYN

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson, creators of the podcast “Guys We Fucked” and authors of the new book “Fucked…Being Sexually Explorative & Self-Confident In a World That’s Screwed,” to talk about confidence and self acceptance, not only in the bedroom, but in all areas of your life. Emily, Corinne, and Krystyna cover a range of topics, including sexual shame, embracing your sexy imperfections, why it’s necessary for women to celebrate other women, masturbation by imagination, and the right way to communicate before a threesome goes down. All this and more, in a jam-packed show. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, Womanizer, System JO, UVee

Cooper S. Beckett sat down with us to talk all things swinging. What’s the difference between swinging and polyamory? Why don’t the sexual subcommunities always play nicely together? What’s the deal with bisexuality in the swing lifestyle? When is the right (and wrong) time for couples to explore non-monogamy? What the heck does the 2008 financial collapse have to do with non-monogamy today? We also discuss Cooper’s coming out and how the current political climate has affected him as a leader in the sex-positive community.   Guest bio Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. Episode 8 topics the ethics of unicorn hunting, sex-positive snobbery, queer swinging, the best sex clubs in the US, strictly dickly, toxic monogamy in the swinging lifestyle, kik & snapchat, Life on the Swingset, boring times at sex clubs, everyone wants to fuck Jack Harkness, the personal is political, David Bowie holding the fabric of the universe together, swinging etiquette, millennial swingers, Becker S. Coopet, how to navigate the poly scene, the age gap in the swing community, Approaching the Swingualrity, SLS, bro-jobs, Desire Resorts, bi visibility, Donald Trump golden shower sex tape, Lord of the Cock RIngs, bar-sexuals, sex scandals, swinging for the wrong reasons, the one couples problem swinging can solve, swinging for single men Episode 8 links & info  Get Cooper’s book including his new Approaching the Swingualrity audiobook: https://coopersbeckett.com  Cooper’s blog and podcast: https://lifeontheswingset.com Episode 8 links Sponsor/Promotional information American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and a Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration & Contest Week 4 Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month on September. Every Purchase you make in store or online will automatically enter you in the the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/22-9/30 30% off all Velskin Silicone dildos and penis extenders 20% off Castle Megastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)

Lenora Claire has spent years living in terror. Her stalker contacts her every single day, violating the restraining order she has in place, often with violent threats. He made a name for himself stalking the first daughter, Ivanka Trump. Despite his long, well-documented history of terrorizing and threatening women, Lenora’s stalking continues. Ivanka has the secret service to protect her. Lenora and the 7.5 million American victims of stalking don’t. In this episode, Lenora discusses how the justice system fails stalking victims and the work she’s doing to change that.     Guest bio Named one of LA Weekly’s  “People of the Year” as well as the “Erin Brockovich of stalking” by Vice,  Lenora Claire is a complex career juggling artist and advocate working to promote safety and respect for the misunderstood and marginalized across her various projects and platforms. With diverse accomplishments ranging from her years as an entertainment journalist , media and nightlife personality, national news making art curator, casting director, and TV producer,  Lenora has dedicated her life to the creation of legislation to protect victims and is currently at work on multiple TV projects, apps, initiatives, and a non-profit V. E. R. S. E  to empower others using advancements in technology. Episode 7 topics  Julie Newmar, failures in the justice system, victims rights, nude Bea Arthur, senior sexuality, domestic violence, Rebecca Schaffer murder, crowdfunding a legal initiative, Pauley Perrette, serving someone without an address, World of Wonder Gallery, death threats, Golden Girls XXX, Ivanka Trump, glass eating clowns, victim shaming, Sandra Bullock’s stalker, when the secret service comes knocking at your door, staying safe in the internet age, lack of mental health care in the US, emotional support for stalking victims, the ankle monitor initiative, Dave Navarro,  getting a restraining order, erotomania, property damage having more value than human life, Showgirls 2,  Justin Massler, Cloud Starchaser, Congressman Adam Schiff Episode 7 links & info Lenora Claire Instagram Lenora Claire Twitter Lenora Claire Website To watch the 2 part 48 Hours episode featuring Lenora Claire, Pauley Perrette from NCIS, and other women advocating for better stalking laws, you can stream both episodes on CBS All Access (it’s $5.99 a month but you can sign up for a free 1-week trial).  You can also stream Lenora’s Crime Watch Daily segment free on YouTube. Are you a victim of stalking looking for support? This stalking victim resource website may be a good place to start.    Episode 7 links Sponsor/Promotional information American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and a Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration & Contest Week 3 Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month of September. Every Purchase you make in-store or online will automatically enter you in the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. Entry with Every Purchase You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Pssst! Check out Sunny & Ken's favorite picks here!  Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/15-9/21 30% off Wonder ‘O’ Wand (seriously, one of our favorites, HIGHLY recommended!) 30% off in-store purchases of Schoolgirl Skirts and Shirts 20% off Castle Megastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)

This is a Sex With Emily first! We know how much you love roundtable shows with lovely ladies, but today’s a roundtable of three real and down-to-earth guys to talk all things sex and relationships! Emily is joined by Chad, Hartwick, and Gavin– three guys having fun in the single lane. From dating apps to casual sex to what makes for a bad blowjob, the crew covers it all. Emily gets these guys to open up about their best sexual experience and what they’ve yet to cross off their sexual bucket list. So, if you’ve ever wanted to know what real men actually think about sex, tune in! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Adam & Eve, Womanizer, Intensity, System JO

To some, the term “social justice” is a dirty word. But to others, it means “basic human decency” and should be everyone’s default setting. When it comes to dating, relationships, sex, or navigating sexual sub-communities it’s important. It can make or break your dating and sex life. But how and why do things like race, gender, ability, size, etc, affect getting laid? Sex is just sex, right? Not necessarily. This week’s guest, Dirty Lola, explains why your dick (or whatever genitals you happen to have) should care about social justice. Guest bio Dirty Lola is a storyteller, edutainer, sex educator, sex toy peddler, and the creator and host of the live sex Q&A and variety show and podcast Sex Ed A Go-Go. During the last six years, she has shared her distinctive brand of kickass body and sex-positivity and her personal journey into the kink and polyamorous lifestyles with the masses on and off stage. Lola has taken Sex Ed A Go-Go across the country from New York City to Los Angeles and beyond. She has presented at various conferences and expos such as Catalyst Con, Woodhull, The Sex Expo, and AVN, and during sex week at Baruch College, Hofstra University and the University of New Mexico. When she’s not hosting Sex Ed A Go-Go or teaching folks about pleasure, kink polyamory and sex positivity you can find her behind the counter at Shag, a sex shop in Brooklyn. Episode 6 topics  Donald Trump talking about sex to Boy Scouts, our favorite sex toys, racial dating preferences, POC representation in the media, 13 Reasons Why on Netflix, cultural trauma, growing up black, pickup artists/PUA, mixed chick problems, BDSM & polyamory, racial ambiguity, body size acceptance, being the only black person in the room, sugar daddies, Splenda daddies, light skinned privilege, sex club rules & inclusivity, Kevin Patterson, being fetishized for your race, how to get dates on OKCupid, how NOT to get dates on OKCupid, how to become a sex educator, titty pics, negging, white privilege, South Carolina, Mollena Williams-Haas, internalized racism, having a woke partner Episode 6 links & info Dirty Lola Instagram Dirty Lola Twitter To book Lola for workshops, bachelorette parties or her infamously funny and educational Sex Ed A Go-Go send requests to Lola@SexEdAGoGo.com Episode 6 links Sponsor/Promotional information: American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration Contest Week 2 Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month on September. Every Purchase you make in store or online will automatically enter you in the the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. Entry with Every Purchase You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/8-9/14 30% off Mighty Wands & Champions Dual Density Silicone Dildos 30% off in-store purchases of Dreamgirl Packaged Lingerie 20% off Castle Megastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)

Some people have a stem of unhealthy relationships, and can’t seem to figure out why. On today’s show, Emily is joined by best selling author Neil Strauss to talk about his journey through relationships that will help others get to the root of their issues!   Emily and Neil converse about the importance on emotional health and working on yourself before opening up to relationships. They talk about different types of therapy, ways to regain confidence, and communicating to become better lovers and people overall. Oh, and an impromptu discussion about dick pics! Don’t miss this truly invigorating discussion.   Thanks for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand RC, System JO, Fleshlight, UVee

In 2015 Mark Shrayber & his fiance Allen traveled to Morehead, KY to get married-- the same town where county clerk Kim Davis refused to issue marriage licenses to same sex couples citing religious beliefs. Davis was held in contempt of court and jailed for 6 days. Mark & Allen arrived in Morehead just in time for her release. As a journalist, Mark was chasing a story. As a couple, they were realizing a dream. Then they found themselves in the middle of a terrifying family values rally facing both violent discrimination and unconditional acceptance. Intense, happy, scary, exciting, suspenseful, joyful, hilarious, and starkly sobering, Mark's story is a ‘must listen’! Guest Bio  Mark is a freelance writer whose work has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Jezebel, Vice, The Daily Dot, and The Awl (among others). Most recently, he was the deputy editor of the LIFE vertical at UPROXX. Mark is also a psychology lecturer at San Francisco State University. Episode 5 Topics  Do you get more head in Morehead Kentucky?, marriage equality, media martyrdom, all denim all the time, fucking a pizza, Kentucky is for lovers, Carter County, KY, The Wizard of Oz, Mike Huckabee, Moldova, fake news, hate the sin love the sinner, anti-Semitism, grappling with privilege, internalized homophobia, RuPaul’s Drag Race, wedding night sex, the personal is political, San Francisco, Liza Minelli, weekend white supremacy, traditional family values, gay wedding destinations, activism for non-activists, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence,  fighting the alt-right, Chesterton Indiana, growing up LGBTQ in rural America Episode 5 Links & Info Mark’s Jezebel piece on his experience in Morehead, KY Mark Shrayber twitter: @MShrayber Mark Shrayber email:  m.shrayber@gmail.com Video of Mark & Allen’s Morehead, KY wedding experience   Mark really did write about having sex with pizza in Cosmo, BTW Episode 5 Sponsor/Promotional Information American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway: Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and a Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration Contest: Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month on September. Every Purchase you make in store or online will automatically enter you in the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials: All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/1-9/7 30% off Leg Avenue Hosiery (in stores only) 30% off Spank Provocateur Bed Coupler Restraint System 20% off CastleMegastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)  

On today’s show, Emily is joined by three smart, sexy, and open women to talk about their sex lives–without sparing the details!  Sarah, Stephanie, and Mary are three women in their 30s trying to have the best sex possible– just like all of you. Emily talks to them about everything, from fantasies to how they date to what they like in the bedroom, right down to how they orgasm! This show is like some good ole fashioned girl talk– amplified. Tune in to hear what women truly think about sex. Thanks for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show free: System Jo, Le Tote Select, and Magic Wand

Everyone’s heard them talk about their search for love, but what about sex? On today’s show, Emily is joined by Vinny Ventiera and Daniel Maguire from The Bachelor in Paradise for some incredibly candid sex talk!   These guys aren’t afraid to talk about everything and anything– from dating to sex, masturbation to oral, and foreplay to anal. What are guys and girls turn-ons and turn-offs? What are some new tricks to go down on a girl? Why should you use lube? Emily and the guys cover all of these topics and more, plus they have a live lube taste test! Don’t miss out! Thanks for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: UVee, Intensity, Magic Wand, System JO

Attraction; the initial force that drives sex, love, and lust. Rarely does it stick around… without effort that is. On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex and intimacy speaker and coach John Wineland to help you keep the attraction alive in your sex life! Can you tell how much chemistry you have with someone after just one date?  How do you talk about intimacy with your spouse? Is it possible to create “hot attraction” on your own? Emily and John touch upon these intimate issues, plus they talk all about attraction, seduction, the different types of sex, & how to master them all. Tune in and get intimate! Thanks you for supporting our sponsors who help keep our show FREE: FT London, System Jo, Adam & Eve, We-Vibe

Our bodies are road maps of pleasure– we just have to make time to discover new paths. On today’s show, Emily is joined by the Pleasure Muse, Dolly Josette,  who helps people figure out what they truly want to to have the best sex lives possible! Want some tips on how to light that sex spark after it’s been extinguished? Wondering how to gauge your man’s pleasure meter? Need help mastering the art of seduction? These lovely ladies give their best advice on these issues, plus, they talk about what a sexological bodyworker really does. Don’t miss it! Thanks for supporting our sponsors who help keep our show FREE: Sportsheets, System JO, UVee, Womanizer

Even in the “hookup culture,” the stigma still remains when it comes to casual sex. On today’s show, Emily’s here to reframe the way we think about casual sex– whether you are all for it, hesitant, or it just isn’t your thing. How does one go about initiating casual sex? Are you trying to get your groove back after an STD diagnosis? Trying to cope with your partner's sexual fluidity? Emily gives insight on these not-so-easily-tackled conundrums and more to help you feel empowered and guilt-free, no matter what your situation is. Don’t miss it.  Thanks for supporting our sponsors who keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Casper, System Jo, FT London   

Everyone has a different definition when it comes to “great sex.” What constitutes it? What makes it kinky, or what keeps it vanilla? The variety of answers go on and on. On today’s show, Emily is helping listeners like you figure out what great sex means to them and how to talk to their partners about it! How do you enhance intimacy with your partner after severe medical issues? Can men train themselves to be multi-orgasmic? What are some tips on navigating your girlfriend’s somewhat jealous demeanor? Emily helps callers with these sex and relationship worries, and more. Plus, she gets on the phone with Julie from Sportsheets to talk about how to make your shower time dirtier than ever. It’s the summer show you won’t want to miss! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Magic Wand, System JO, Womanizer,  and Sportsheets

Everyone gets bored once in awhile, even when it comes to sex and dating. On today’s show, Emily is helping you use that boredom as a sign to spice things up in and out of the bedroom! How do you get your wife out of her head when she’s in bed? Are “paingasms” a real thing? What do you do when your partner’s fetish completely turns you off? Emily gives her sage advice on these sex and dating dilemmas, and more in hopes that you'll have the best sex of your life! This show is jam-packed with sexy tips you won't want to miss!  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Sportsheets, FT Toys, In Control, and System JO  

The hardest part about having issues in the bedroom is asking for help. Never fear, because Emily is here, and her favorite thing in the world is helping people improve their sex lives and relationships. On today’s show, she’s helping callers figure out the best way to get past their coital conundrums and dating dilemmas. Struggling in the orgasm department with your beau? What are some great sex toy recs for a lesbian couple? Should you give your ex another shot? Emily and Anderson help callers get through these sex and dating issues and more. Plus, they discuss how some men watch so much porn, it’s causing penis problems! Tune in to get the scoop! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Sportsheets, System Jo, Magic Wand and Adam & Eve.

Ahh, millennials; a generation so studied and scrutinized by the generations before them, it’s almost as if they’re another species. But what is it that makes them so interesting? It’s their unique approach to sex and dating. On today’s show, Emily is joined by host and executive producer of YouTube’s Think Tank, Hannah Cranston, who also happens to be a millennial! The two discuss how millennials may be having less sex, but are more experienced and open about the quirks of it all! Are you chick who would rather sleep than cuddle? Are condoms and blow jobs a good mix? How do you do a 180 on your sex life? The dynamic duo discuss these issues, plus reveal five things that guys do that girls absolutely hate. Click, subscribe and listen! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Casper, FT London's G-Ring, System Jo and Magic Wand.

As we progress in time, space and science, we’re also making progress in the way we understand sex and relationships. On today’s show, Emily is joined by modern renaissance man and radio show host, Jason Ellis, and the two are talking open relationships, masturbation, threesomes and answering your emails! Jason hosts his own radio show, fights MMA, is a professional skateboarder and he’s currently enjoying an open relationship with his fiance—and the two couldn’t set a better example of open communication. Emily and Jason help listeners figure out whether an open marriage will solve their own marital issues, how to keep jealousy from joining a threesome and give some hot toy suggestions for oral. Plus, the pair discuss Jason’s own sex life (masturbation included). Nothing is off limits with these two, so tune in! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: FT London, Audible, System Jo and Womanizer.

When it comes to sex toys (and masturbation in general), it’s the women who tend to steal the industry’s focus. However, men can also benefit from a little extra stimulation—with a partner or by themselves! On today’s show, Emily is speaking with We-Vibe’s Global Passion Ambassador, Tristan Weedmark, about how their brand is making sure everyone is getting what they need. Oh, and she’s answering your emails, of course! Why use lube during oral if you have saliva? Is dating your hot housemate really the best idea? How do you last longer when your ex conditioned you to a “hard and fast” sex life? Emily settles these sex and dating debates, plus she gives a rundown of fun, sexy and surprising facts about good ol’ masturbation. Whether you’re considering giving sex toys a first try, you want to improve your masturbation routine or you want to know just how dirty the British are, this show pulls out all the stops. Don’t miss it! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Sportsheets, System JO, Intensity and We-Vibe.

If Emily had her way, there would be a bottle of lube on every night stand all across the world. From flavored, to warming to all-natural ingredients, there’s a lube out there for everyone to enjoy! On today’s show, Emily is joined by her trusty team and an honorary member from System JO, Brie, to talk about all things lube, pubes and so much more! Are your partner’s pubes a deal-breaker? Have you found your g-spot, but are still on the search for your clitoris? How do you get your military man in the mood for making love more often? Emily, Halina, Jamie and Brie give their insight on these common issues and more. Plus, they give the lowdown on the many ways lube has enhanced their sex lives and why pubic grooming remains the hairy situation it is. Let this show slide into your speakers! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: WeVibe, Fleshlight, Adam & Eve and Magic Wand. 

What’s better than a podcast with a sex expert? A podcast with a sex expert AND a porn expert! On today’s show, Emily is joined by porn star and director Joanna Angel, and the two are talking masturbation, anal and so much more! Would a masturbation break make you more productive at work? How do you keep that gosh darn penis from slipping out? What are the first steps for anal play? Emily and Joanna give their sexiest solutions to these coital conundrums and more, plus they discuss masturbation and why it’s so important—even if you’re married! Listen in for a rock star show full of the hottest advice you could ask for. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Sportsheet, System Jo, Casper and Intensity.

We here at Sex With Emily are noticing a trend: you love to talk about threesomes and swinging! We fully support an adventurous sex life, but there are some dos and don’ts to the ins and outs of bringing a stranger into the mix. On today’s show, Emily is joined by show-favorite, Menace, and the two are setting the record straight on all things sex, dating, and masturbation by answering your emails and taking your calls! How do you find a third for your threesome when you live in a small town? Are you ready for anal, but don’t know how to get started? Do you really need to disclose if your penis is uncut? Emily and Menace shed light on these quandaries and more. Plus, they reveal eight bold-faced lies about sex you really need to stop listening to. You may think you know, but you’ll have to tune in and find out! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Sportsheets, System JO, Adam & Eve and Womanizer.

Having the courage to ask questions shows that you care about improving your life; whether it’s your love or sex life, you’ve identified something that just isn’t going right, and you want it to be better. On today’s show, Emily is answering all of your quandaries to help give you the knowledge you need for a life full of loving—both in and out of the bedroom. This week, Emily is joined by Menace, and the two discuss proper nude etiquette when it comes to swapping photos with potential swing partners, the importance of foreplay (even though you’re wetter than a slip ‘n’ slide) and whether you should tell your fiancé about a sexual slip you made when you were on a break. Plus, there’s a scientific reason that sex with your ex just feels so damn good. Don’t miss it! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Vibratex, System JO, FT London and Adam & Eve. 

Emily and special guest Dr. Drew do what they love doing best: taking listener calls! In this week’s show, Emily and Drew get to the bottom of each caller’s issues, helping them solve their love, sex and relationship worries. The two experts address common condom conundrums (how to stay hard!) and how to meet in the middle when it comes to mismatched libidos. Also, does your guy get his ideas of what sex should be like from watching too much porn and spending too much time masturbating? Are you stuck in a cycle of loving someone who has you in the friend zone, and if so, how do you move on? These specialists provide skillful responses to your most compelling questions, and have a lot of fun while doing it. Join us! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Intensity, Sportsheets, System JO and Promescent.

Sex and dating is complicated. From exes, to dating to orgasms, it can be a lot to process. On today’s show, Emily is answering your questions about everything in the love department to show you how you can simplify the dating game, so you always come out a winner! Also, what really makes a guy a great lover? How do you get your brain aboard the sex train? What tactics can you use to hook a hottie at the gym? Emily gives you her tried and true advice on these sex and dating queries, plus yet another scientific reason (science!) men need to focus on the female orgasm—as if there weren’t enough reasons already! Don’t miss this show packed with solid advice on how to up your dating and sex skill set. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Blue Apron, System JO, Magic Wand and Adam and Eve.

Life is busy and there never seems to be enough hours in the day to accomplish everything we need. It’s a miracle we ever find time for love and sex. That’s why we’re bringing back the Sex With Emily Quickie-- a shorter show that’s—trust me—just as fulfilling. The SWE inbox was flooded with many loyal listeners trying to kick their bad sex and dating habits. On today’s Quickie, Emily is reading her favorite responses to our Spring Cleaning contest and giving her thoughts. From getting rid of the ex, to breaking free from dating apps to taking the TV out of the bedroom, these listeners are committing to a healthier, happier sex life! So tune in and get inspired! One lucky loyal listener will win a Magic Wand! Could it be you? Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Magic Wand, System Jo and Intensity.

Today’s show is all about YOU.. Because seriously, you’re awesome. Are you ready to start exploring your fantasies? Wondering how to help your partner warm up to porn? And is it actually possible to have no-strings-attached sex with an ex? Emily helps callers get to the bottom of their love and sex dilemmas, and also shares “new” findings that could help crack the code on the female orgasm. Here’s a hint: Just go down on her already! There’s more to a fulfilling sex life than just pleasing your partner. You have to make sure your needs are being met, too. Whether that means taking a break from being the perfect lover to discover what turns you on, taking space to truly get over your ex, or taking time to focus on your mental health, sometimes it’s okay to be selfish. Learn all about it in this week’s podcast… Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Pour Moi, Vibratex and System JO

Low sex drive: we never think it will happen to us. But even the most sexual of beings can suffer to the loss of a once-lively libido. On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving personalized advice to help you get your mojo back. Are you a Nervous Norman when it comes to talking with women? Is moving back in with your mom keeping you from getting your groove on? How do you keep the sex sizzling when stress starts to take over? Emily helps callers navigate through these dilemmas toward a happier and healthier sex life, and shares her take on The Bachelor contestant Raven’s not-so-shocking reveal! Stress happens, life happens and low libido definitely happens. This podcast is packed with guidance to help you get your sex drive back on track, so don’t miss it! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Vibratex, Sportsheets, FT Toys, Promescent and System JO

On today’s podcast, Emily tackles some of those love and sex questions that are hard to ask and don’t always come with an easy answer. Should you pursue Round 2 with an ex-one night stand? Are you sick and tired of pulling out? What’s the best way to bring up backdoor play with a hesitant partner? Emily and Anderson offer good news for some, reality checks for others and plenty of sage advice to help listeners in their sexual time of need. Also discussed: the best sex positions for expectant mothers, Cloris Leachman’s top anal sex tip and the #1 worst vacation spot for new couples—but only if you were hoping to stay together. Don’t miss another rousing round of uncensored sex talk in this podcast…   Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: ZOLA, Intensity by Pour Moi, Promescent and System JO

We tend to think of cunnilingus as one of the more difficult-to-master sex acts, but penises come with their own package of perplexities. On today’s show, Emily gets deep into the delicate art of fellatio, sharing tricks to help you deliver a bang-up BJ every time… And that’s just the tip!   Would you rather have a partner that makes you laugh or one that makes you moan? How do you get your partner to initiate once in awhile? Is your favorite vibrator holding you back from enjoying oral sex? Emily and Menace shed some light on these salient sex questions and reveal how much time we actually spend having sex throughout our lives… Spoiler alert: it’s a LOT less than you think. Don’t miss this information-packed podcast… Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Adam & Eve, Womanizer, Fleshlight and System JO

We all know that Emily’s mission in life is to get everyone on the masturbation appreciation track, and today’s podcast is no different! Emily shares her best advice to help YOU spread the word about self-love—among other things! What’s the easiest way jump back into the dating scene after a really bad break up? How do you get a timid lover to make a move already? Could your partner’s masturbatory habits make it hard for him to climax other ways? Emily and Anderson offer guidance on these love and sex issues, and also address the age-old question “Can men and women really just be friends?” Get the answer to this and more in this week’s podcast… Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Vibratex, Sportsheets, FT Toys, Promescent and System JO

Dating: How do any of us do it? And more importantly, how do we do it right? On today’s show Emily is joined by writer, talk-show host, and overall badass Zara Barrie to unpack the hot topic of dating in the digital age — the good, the bad, and what it means for us as we try to find our match. Are you experiencing dating burnout? Not sure how to initiate casual sex? How do you find the silver lining from your break up? Emily and Zara discuss tips to help you get out of your dating funk, meet the right people and feel good doing it. And of course, there’s no shortage of hot sex tips, from breast play to teasing to the oral sex secrets you need to know. From toxic relationships to dating yourself first to lesbian sex myths debunked, this show is jam-packed with life, love and sex lessons. Don’t miss it! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Intensity by Pour Moi, Sportsheets, System JO, Promescent and Womanizer...

When it comes to sex and dating, sometimes the greatest thing that’s holding us back… is us. On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you get you out of your heads and into your beds—with tips of course! Have you been having trouble climaxing with a partner? Wondering how to find people to play with, now that you’ve reached your sexual peak? What’s the secret to balancing a family life with a hot sex life? Emily talks callers through their bedroom dilemmas, and provides a few “Do’s” and “Don’ts” to perfect your dating profile. So whether you need help climaxing, swiping, or getting started with solo play, this show has the info you need. Don’t miss it!   Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: ZOLA, Sportsheets, FT London, Fleshlight and System JO

Breasts: They’re beautiful, mesmerizing, and come in all kinds of wonderful shapes and sizes. Although it seems like men are obsessed with them, you’d be surprised how many completely ignore their existence when it comes to getting it on. On today’s show, Emily is doling out some hot boob tips and facts to make sure they’re never forgotten again, along with giving her insight on some of your most titillating sex and relationship inquiries! Wondering how to make HIS orgasms more explosive? How do you take handjobs out of the equation when you’re not a fan? What’s the best way to introduce lube to a current partner? Emily hits all of these subjects, and reveals the biggest turn ons and turn offs for single men and women. Want to know how to really get your a potential partner's juices flowing? Tune in to find out! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Vibratex, Sportsheets, FT Toys, Promescent and System JO!

So you’re ready to take your sex and dating life to the next level, but need a little help taking that first step? On today’s show, Emily is taking your live calls, dropping the sagest sex and love knowledge to get you headed in the right direction… Should you give your ever-present ex a second chance at love? How can you kick up your Skype-sex game? Need tips to take your orgasms from nonexistent to outrageous? Emily helps callers work through these salient love and sex concerns, and even dishes the dirt on her recent screening of the popular 50 Shades sequel. Want to know what was hot and what’s not? Tune in to this podcast to find out! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Vibratex, Sportsheets, FT Toys, Promescent and System JO

Happy Valentine’s Day, lovers! Whether you’re single or coupled up, today’s show is here to help you feel the love (& other sensations) this February 14th. Emily is joined by Jamie and Madison to help you get through your sex and dating hang-ups. The team tackles your emails regarding female masturbation habits, guidelines for ghosting and how to experiment with divisive dirty talk—do most guys like to be called daddy? They also share their favorites from your “Best Valentine’s Day Ever” stories, discuss their own special plans for the evening and reveal why so many millennials are so damn lonely in the digital age. So, don’t go breaking our hearts and tune in for a hot and heavy valentine’s day treat! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Adam & Eve, Pour Moi, Sportsheets and System JO. 

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