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Have you ever wondered what your favorite podcast host can't-live-without items are? Yes, I finally agreed to the episode that I've been dreading to do - the favorite things episode. In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, Lauren and I got to ditch the gatekeeping and spill the tea on our absolute favorite things. From morning rituals and must-have beauty products to go-to recipes and inspiring books, this episode is a peek into the life of your favorite podcast host and my co-host/BFF Lauren. Join the Conversation! We want to hear from you! Share your favorite things, morning rituals, or dream dinner guests on social media using the hashtag #FriendsDontGatekeep. Don't forget to tag us @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous and you will be entered to win some of our favorite things! Details below.  Share the love and subscribe, rate, and review the podcast!  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Favorite Things List: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/dv5ds7sqwxf0wqvttksbj/WGT-Ep-177-Favorite-Things-List.pdf?rlkey=pewgctmobkmxvh0vz9mhf9scr&st=u9s3h5mu&dl=0  Giveaway rules: 1. Eligibility: Open to ​​everyone. Must be ​1​2 years or older. 2. How to Enter: Follow: Follow ​Bianca @biancaolthoff and Lauren @laurenbronsonpetrous on ​Instagram account. Like: Like the post associated with this episode. 3. Prize: ​5 lucky winners will receive:  1 Travel-size Grande Lash MD Lash Serum 1 Travel-size Caudalie Face Spray, and 1 "Grit Don't Quit" book. The prize is non-transferable and has no cash value. 4. Winner Selection: The winner will be selected at random. The winner will be notified via ​Instagram direct message. 5. Deadline: The giveaway​ starts on Monday, ​December 2nd​ at 1am PST through ​Monday, December ​9th ​at 1pm PST 6. Additional Terms: By entering the giveaway, you agree to ​I​TNOL's rules. ​I​TNOL reserves the right to modify or cancel the giveaway at any time. ​I​TNOL is not responsible for lost, late, or misdirected entries. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/ESrHfNI14ww Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the hustle and bustle of the holiday season? Let's take a moment to pause, reflect, and focus on the simple joys of life. Gratitude matters and it is more than just a fleeting feeling of thankfulness. It's a powerful practice that can transform your life. By cultivating gratitude, you can: Reduce stress and anxiety: Focusing on the positive aspects of your life can help ease stress and anxiety. Improve your physical health: Studies have shown that gratitude can boost your immune system, lower blood pressure, and improve sleep quality. Enhance your relationships: Expressing gratitude to loved ones can strengthen your bonds and deepen your connections. Increase your overall happiness: By focusing on what you have, rather than what you lack, you can cultivate a greater sense of happiness and fulfillment. Practical Tips to Practice Gratitude Keep a gratitude journal: Write down three things you're grateful for each day. Meditate on gratitude: Spend a few minutes each day focusing on the things you're grateful for. Express gratitude to others: Let people know how much you appreciate them. Volunteer your time: Giving back to your community can boost your sense of gratitude. Practice mindfulness: Pay attention to the present moment and appreciate the small things. I invite you to join us in a gratitude challenge. For the next week, commit to practicing gratitude daily. Share your experiences and reflections with us on social media using the hashtag #Gr8ful. Let's inspire each other to live a life of gratitude and joy. Don't forget to tag me @biancaolthoff. Wishing you a blessed and grateful holiday season! B RESOURCES/LINKS Takeaways Thanksgiving is a time to embrace gratitude. Desiring more can lead to emptiness and dissatisfaction. Gratitude is a powerful tool for joy and fulfillment. Practicing gratitude can transform our lives. Contentment is not wanting more, but appreciating what we have. Complaining can destroy our sense of gratitude. Gratitude should be a daily practice, not just a holiday sentiment. We are responsible for cultivating our own gratitude. Sharing our gratitude with others enhances its impact. The holiday season is an opportunity to reflect on our blessings. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here. https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=1df497a2742c4ea9  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube: https://youtu.be/q94QT3u_KyE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship? Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages.  We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us.  Some key takeaways are: Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive. Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections. Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end. It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being. Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-Host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4 Resources Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202  Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies  Takeaways Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships. Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends. It's important to evaluate friendships regularly. Friendship requires risk and investment. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships. Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees. Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored. Adaptability is crucial in friendships. Friendship is a choice, not an obligation. Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships. Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=sgf1iKWzQg6QzjEMEvuW2A ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Have you ever faced a crisis that tested your resilience and self-awareness? Are you needing to find peace amidst the chaos of significant life changes? Joining me today again is my co-host and dear friend Lauren and together we explore the profound themes of mind shifts, grief, and new beginnings. This episode was very difficult to do, but I opened up about my personal journey through a major crisis following my divorce.  We talk about important topics like: Leadership in Crisis: Bianca shares the raw and real challenges she faced while leading her church through a turbulent period. The Role of Therapy: The conversation delves into the necessity of therapy and its transformative power in processing grief and loss. Resilience and Self-Care: Bianca's journey emphasizes the importance of taking time for self-care and seeking help when needed, providing inspiration for others navigating their own struggles. Identity and Community: The episode highlights the importance of maintaining one's identity outside of the church and the power of community in fostering personal growth. Intentional Relationships: The dialogue underscores the significance of intentional relationships and leadership development. Finding Peace Amidst Chaos: Bianca discusses her journey of self-discovery, grieving, and finding excitement in new beginnings within her church community. Friend, I want to highlight the importance of community support, self-awareness, and resilience during challenging times.  Let us know if this episode has helped you find strength and hope through adversity by tagging and me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous  Watch the video on Youtube Takeaways Community support is crucial during challenging times. Leadership requires integrity and self-awareness. Therapy can provide necessary tools for healing. Loss can transform you into a stronger individual. It's important to have accountability in leadership. Navigating crises requires both personal and professional strategies. It's essential to have guardrails around your identity. Grieving is a necessary process that should not be rushed. New beginnings can emerge from grief and loss. Peace can coexist with chaos and uncertainty. Being vulnerable about struggles can foster deeper connections. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Candace's season with Bianca Juarez Olthoff they talked about people praying for their kids, and Candace mentioned Priscilla posting on social media about affirming and praying for her sons.  In this episode, Priscilla goes in depth about how and why she prays for her boys, and offers encouragement to listeners about how to be intentional with prayer in their lives. Candace shares a personal story about praying for her son when he was experiencing fear. Links mentioned:  Lifeway:  Experiencing God  Purchase Experiencing God book here. Operation Christmas Child: https://samaritanspurse.org/operation-christmas-child/pack-a-shoe-box/

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Have you ever felt lost or alone after a significant life change? Are you ready to find strength and resilience in the face of adversity? In this emotional conversation with my friend and co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous, I share how I've had to navigate a significant life change, my experience with divorce and the subsequent journey of self-discovery and healing.  I've experienced many challenges while making difficult decisions, but holding on to God's provision and support during tough times throughout the healing process has kept me going. Some of the topics that we will highlight are: Navigating significant life changes The journey of self-discovery and healing The role of faith and community in difficult times Lessons learned from aloneness and personal growth Distinguishing between secrecy and privacy Challenges and healing in the aftermath of divorce The importance of accountability and community support Experiencing God's provision and support Embracing wholeness after loss Friend, change is hard, especially when it is thrust upon you. I want to encourage you to embrace change and growth through life's toughest moments, using faith, community, and self-awareness as powerful tools for healing and personal development. If you are on a similar path to finding hope, let us know by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com Takeaways Faith plays a crucial role in accepting life's changes. It's important to distinguish between secrecy and privacy. You cannot force someone to change; it takes two for a healthy relationship. Healing requires accountability and community support. God can be a provider and protector in times of need. Being alone can reveal deeper truths about oneself. Embracing wholeness is essential after experiencing loss. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wrestled with being alone? How can a season of solitude be a catalyst for personal growth?  I am in a very difficult season of forced aloneness and I wanted to share my story with you. Thankfully my good friend Lauren Bronson Petrous is joining me as my co-host and we delve into the importance of changing our perspectives on aloneness. We emphasize that being alone does not equate to being lonely and explore the power of solitude for self-discovery, personal growth, and emotional health, while addressing societal perceptions of being alone.  Our goal is to underscore the significance of self-awareness and the journey of understanding one's identity, particularly in a culture that often prioritizes community and partnership. Some key topics are: Redefining aloneness and its importance The power of solitude for self-discovery and personal growth Societal perceptions of being alone versus being lonely The role of self-awareness in personal and professional success Intentional solitude as a catalyst for growth and resilience Insights from the Bible on the value of aloneness Scientific support for the benefits of solitude Empowerment and liberation through being alone Balancing community and self-understanding Profound personal insights gained from forced aloneness We want to encourage you to embrace the transformative power of aloneness, using it as a tool for self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. Let us know how you are embracing aloneness by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous &  @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/tnJVOdDVLS8  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like a leader but didn't know it? Bianca sits down with Jordan Montgomery, the host of the Growth Over Goals podcast. Together, they explore Bianca's remarkable journey as a leader, delving into the challenges she faced growing up as a first-generation American and the valuable lessons she has learned along the way. Key Discussion Points: Bianca's Leadership Journey: Bianca shares her personal story, highlighting the obstacles she overcame and the pivotal moments that shaped her path to becoming a recognized leader. Challenges of a First-Generation American: Insights into the unique challenges Bianca faced and how these experiences influenced her leadership style. Leadership Insights: Bianca emphasizes the importance of time and patience in developing leadership skills, encouraging young leaders to serve others and prioritize personal growth. Health and Boundaries: The significance of maintaining personal health and setting boundaries to ensure effective leadership and overall well-being. Hope and Redemption: Bianca discusses the role of hope and redemption in leadership, sharing her perspective on overcoming adversity and inspiring others. Upcoming Projects: Bianca gives a sneak peek into her upcoming projects, offering listeners a glimpse of what's on the horizon for her. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for aspiring leaders. This is a testament to the power of resilience, hope, and the importance of serving others in the journey of leadership. Friends, listen now to gain inspiration and actionable tips for your own leadership journey. Follow @jordanmmontgomery and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jordan Montgomery  The Growth Over Goals Podcast Takeaways Bianca identifies as a leader only in the last five years. She faced significant challenges growing up in East LA. Time is essential for developing leadership skills. Young leaders often overlook the importance of patience. Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining health. Soul health is a game changer for leaders. Rest and recovery are vital for productivity. Serving others can lead to personal growth. Redemption and healing are always possible. The health of a leader reflects the health of their organization. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a textWhat if you could uncover your spiritual gifts and harness them in ways you never imagined? Join us on the Joyful Order podcast as we host my mentor and Pastor Bianca Juarez-Olthoff for an enriching conversation about understanding and utilizing spiritual gifts in your faith walk. From her upbringing in a pastor's family to her deep-rooted familiarity with church life, Pastor Bianca shares how these experiences shaped her understanding of spiritual gifts. We explore how these divine gifts are recognized within the Christian community, emphasizing the importance of discerning God's voice in a practical and relatable manner.Explore the depths of spiritual gifts with us as we dive into their theological foundations and practical applications. You'll hear personal stories of discovering the Holy Spirit and how these powerful encounters transformed our faith.  This episode will equip believers with a deeper insight into how the Holy Spirit operates in our lives.If you'd like to learn more about Spiritual Gifts Click Here:https://www.lifeway.com/en/articles/women-leadership-spiritual-gifts-growth-serviceConnect with Pastor BiancaWebsite: https://www.biancaolthoff.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancaolthoff/ Get her Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/hqWu9FWConnect with Leslie: Follow on IG: @yourjoyfulorderstyle Website: https://www.yourjoyfulorder.com/Email: lmartinez@yourjoyfulorder.com to schedule- Speaking Events, Interviews or Life Coaching SessionsListen to this Episode on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsXoAYIM2mfclNtYiaOzIUw Shop my Journal (Gratitude, Goals & Prayer Journal) on Amazon:https://a.co/d/09Djvaw Read Blog Here: https://www.yourjoyfulorder.com/blog/

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Have you ever had feelings of insecurity and inadequacy? Ever felt like an imposter when surrounded by big names? Friends, today I get real about feeling like a fraud. That's why I delve into the concept of imposter syndrome and that nagging inner voice that questions our abilities and worthiness. Some of the insights that I want you to walk away with are how to: Overcome insecurity and use it as a tool for growth Recognize your inner saboteur and challenge its negativity Use feelings of insecurity as a springboard for action, not self-deprecation I've had to battle with self-doubt and the voices in my head that whisper I'm not good enough. I want us to use self-doubt as a tool for growth, not a weapon of self-destruction. Ask yourself ‘If not me, then who? If not now, then when?' Unleash your Godfidence to find your voice; The world needs your message! Let us know how you are taming your inner saboteur by tagging me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Quote The beauty of that voice of insecurity is an earnest recognition that I'm not everything. But the dark side of that voice is when we let that voice convince us that we're nothing. Takeaways Imposter syndrome is common and can make us doubt our abilities and feel like frauds. The voice of insecurity can be used as a tool for self-reflection and growth. Humility is a choice and allows us to recognize our limitations while still using our gifts. We should remind ourselves that we are called to fulfill a purpose and use our voices. Asking 'If not me, then who? If not now, then when?' can help overcome self-doubt and take action. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube: https://youtu.be/mD3Nlb5YZ5s Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome to the show today! We are in the middle of Smart Girl Summer. Today, we are bringing back a favorite Smart Girl Summer episode with the wonderful Bianca Olthoff. She is a favorite of mine, and she's a favorite on the show. She's been on many times, and today, she is sharing about her behind-the-scenes.  Bianca Juarez Olthoff is a best-selling author and host of the We're Going There podcast. She is a passionate Jesus-loving, Bible-teaching, book-writing MexiRican who loves to help people navigate life, connect in community, and live significantly.  In her book, Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience and Faith When Giving Up Isn't an Option, Bianca helps us cultivate perseverance when giving up isn't an option. Perseverance requires hope that is rooted in the One who can go beyond our wildest dreams to accomplish more than we could ever imagine. Join Bianca and I as we talk about: God's grace for various seasons of life What to do when you are not sure what to do next Creating space in our lives to look back and see how far God has brought us The practical ways Bianca accomplishes so much in her everyday life Moving forward after failures Favorite quotes:  “If the Lord is asking you to lay this down, it's because it's not yours to carry, and when you pick this backup, it will be with even greater strength.” (14:20 audio)  “Right now, we have access to every amazing biblical communicator across the globe. What happens is that we are prone to emulate the voice and the sound of other people we admire. That's great to be inspired by. It's dangerous to be influenced by.” (29:13 audio)  “You have to discover your voice, be disciplined, and really do the work.” (30:29 audio) “It is going to take sacrifice, and it is going to take work. So whether you feel called inside the church or outside the church to communicate, you're going to have to work.” (32:17 audio)    Coaching this week:  Boosting Your Mood (40:49 audio)  This week I share secrets to get out of negative self-talk soup. The secret is to boost your body. Do small things to boost your mood in the morning. Really positive, powerful chemicals are ready in your body to be tapped into.   Recommendations: (46:49 audio) I'm talking this week about Little Things Studio, the Nashville-based business I bought half of at the end of last year. All of the products are handcrafted in America by women. We are woman owned and employ women locally.    Links to great things we discussed:  Bianca Olthoff Website Bianca Olthoff Instagram Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience and Faith When Giving Up Isn't an Option First Class - Jack Harlow Top Gun: Maverick Keeping Up with the Kardashians Charlotte Tilbury Flawless Filter Stracciatella The Father's House OC on YouTube Little Things Studio Proverbs Tea Towel Apply for Alli's Free Coaching Create a Course Alli on YouTube Order your copy of Remaining You While Raising Them here. Hope you loved this episode!  Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :) xo, Alli

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Are you fulfilling your God given destiny and unlocking your power? How have you embraced your calling with boldness and authority?  In this episode, I share a teaching from the book of Mark given at The Father's House Orange County. In it I delve into the theme of being marked for power and purpose. We are marked by God, and with this divine marking comes the power to overcome any bondage or sin. Some of the key takeaways are: Being Marked by God: Exploring the profound concept that each one of us is marked by God, instilled with a unique purpose and the power to fulfill it. Lessons from the book of Mark: The book of Mark presents a radical explanation of the supernatural power of Jesus and the power that we, as disciples, possess. The Authority of Jesus: I focus on the authority of Jesus, particularly his ability to cast out demons, showcasing the extent of his divine power. Confronting Spirits: I encourage you to recognize and confront the spirits that may be tormenting you, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging these challenges in order to overcome them. Embrace Your Calling: I urge you to embrace your calling with boldness and authority, stepping into the power that has been bestowed upon you. Friend, I want you to recognize the power within you, confront the spirits that torment you, and embrace your divine calling with boldness and authority. Remember, you are marked by God for a unique purpose. Step into your power and fulfill your destiny.  You are MARKED for power and purpose. Embrace it! Let me know how you are stepping into your authority, confronting your challenges, and boldly embracing your calling by tagging me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS The Father's House Orange County MARK'D Series Quote I want you to know that you are marked and that you have power to do what God's called you to do. Takeaways We are marked by God and have the power to overcome any bondage or sin. The book of Mark emphasizes the supernatural power of Jesus and the power we possess as disciples. We have the authority to confront and cast out the spirits that may be tormenting us. Embracing our calling requires stepping out of our comfort zone and confronting the spirits that hold us back. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Youtube https://youtu.be/8Zhi83TYi7U Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Do you have a “game plan for crisis”? Is your goal to finish well in life? Just as athletes prepare for unexpected challenges, we should also anticipate the potential for crisis in our lives and be ready with strategies. Rest and rehabilitation are two strategies that Jesus used to intentionally take time for rest and healing. This serves as a reminder that rest is not a sign of weakness but a necessary part of our well-being. I shared a framework with my church team that has helped me build a plan to navigate adversity. It is the acronym CHIME which stands for Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. This intentional approach helps us face challenges head-on. Friend, I  invite you to reflect on your own lives, consider your responses to crises, and intentionally build resilience. Let me know how your plan for pain is coming along by tagging me @biancaolthoff  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Assignment Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. Quote If you don't turn your pain into purpose or meaning, it will be a stumbling block that you can't get over. Takeaways Having a game plan for crisis is essential for finishing well in life. It is important to be prepared for potential crises such as loss, death, unemployment, divorce, illness, and more. Rest and rehabilitation are both necessary for our well-being and growth. Knowing when to rest and when to seek rehabilitation is crucial for maintaining our physical, emotional, and spiritual health. Jesus' example shows the importance of taking time for rest and solitude, as well as seeking God's presence and guidance. Take care of yourself and don't rely on others to fix or heal you. Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. Know who you are and find purpose in your pain. Rely on the empowerment of the Holy Spirit. Create a plan for your pain to have handles for healing. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you know how to acknowledge and process trauma effectively? Are you in need of strategies to help you through the process? You know I love to talk about how my “Bible Boyfriend” Paul The Apostle had grit, resilience and endurance. But what I had never spoken about before was all of the painful trauma that he had also experienced. Despite being beaten, battered, bludgeoned, and abused many times, Paul found the strength in God to lead in the midst of his trauma.  Ignoring or denying the existence of trauma in our lives is risky and can hinder our healing. That is why vulnerability is key to be able to address the trauma that we're going through. Practice trauma-informed leadership by: Understanding what trauma is and what it is not Having honest and vulnerable conversations about pain Starting the healing process with trusted individuals Trauma impacts different aspects of our lives and it impacts those around us too. Don't allow unhealthy coping mechanisms to keep you stuck in the pain. Seek help from professionals and prayerfully go to God for comfort.  Friend, acknowledging and processing trauma is crucial. Ignoring or denying it only prolongs the healing process. Are you finding purpose in your pain? Let me know by tagging me @biancaolthoff  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Assignment Create a life map: Identify the trauma in your life over the past 10 years.  Quote The idea of being vulnerable feels terrifying, but we will never heal what we conceal. Takeaways Trauma is our response to a painful event, and it can be physical, emotional, spiritual, or mental. It is important to acknowledge and process trauma rather than ignoring or denying it. There are three types of trauma: acute, chronic, and complex. The healing process involves processing the pain with trusted people, prayerfully seeking God's comfort, and finding purpose in the trauma. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by AquaTru. Get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com and use promo code WGT ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever found yourself avoiding pain instead of facing it? I've been there too, friend. That is why I am sharing a three-part series on healing through pain. In today's episode, I want to start by emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and embracing pain rather than avoiding it.  It is important to build a strong foundation and develop daily disciplines to navigate pain effectively. We do this by identifying the root cause of pain. You can not solve the pain unless you:  Acknowledge that there's a problem: Name the pain.  Diagnose the problem: What's the issue behind the issue? What's the feeling behind the feeling?  Treat the problem: What needs to be fixed? Who can or should speak into this? What is the root? What is needed to heal? Revisit: Be committed to the healing process. Are you  interested in your healing or are you committed to your healing? Identify the pain, sit in the pain and the pain will lose its power. Let's be honest about where we're at while being intentional about our healing. Let me know where you're at by tagging me @biancaolthoff  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Homework Identify where your pain is coming from: Pain of growth Pain of self Pain of circumstance What is the root cause of your pain?  Quote The number one thing that I see, people bailing out of their calling, their vocation or ministry or quitting a church, is pain. Takeaways Pain should be acknowledged and embraced rather than avoided. Building a strong foundation and developing daily disciplines are crucial for leading through pain. Identifying the root cause of pain is essential for effective healing. Treating the problem requires a holistic approach, considering both spiritual and practical aspects. Commitment to the healing process is necessary for long-term growth and well-being. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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What do you want to be known for? That question can feel daunting and overwhelming to think about, but as followers of Jesus, we have an opportunity to leave a legacy that impacts the next generation. But how? On this episode, our friend and author Bianca Juarez Olthoff teaches us how to live "poured out" for the sake of others. You'll learn how small steps of daily obedience really make all the difference. We promise you'll be encouraged and excited about making an eternal impact after listening to this teaching!Related Resources:Download our free resource: “How To Share Your Story.” Order Bianca's book Grit Don't Quit today!Join us in person or online July 19-20 for our annual She Speaks Conference!Click here to download a transcript of this episode.Proverbs 31 Ministries is a nonprofit organization, and this podcast is funded thanks to the generous support of our one-time and monthly donors. To learn more about how to partner with us, click here!We want to hear how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

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What happens when a crisis in leadership affects an organization? Is the opportunity for restoration and rebuilding possible? Yes it is!  Dr. Jon Chasteen is on the podcast today. He is a husband and father, an author, the Lead Pastor of Victory.Church, and the Former University & Seminary President. Our conversation helps us understand better: How we can rebuild after a leadership crisis The role and challenges of a Re-Leader The impact of foundation building Planting seeds for future generations Overcoming weariness and burnout The challenges of rebuilding are real. It is important that we don't despise the small beginnings because they will lead to the rewards of re-leading in marriage, business, and other aspects of life. Fixing what you didn't break is hard. Navigating it can make us feel weary or stuck in the process. Remember, doing hard things with perseverance allows God to show up and bring transformation. Not only is my friend Jon teaching us how to shift our mindset to view crisis as an opportunity for growth and improvement, we are also getting strategies on how to do hard things, lead through a mess, and find strength to keep moving forward. Restoration is possible, friend! Let us know how you are making progress rebuilding your life by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @jonchasteen XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jon Chasteen http://releader.co  ReLeader: How To Fix What You Didn't Break  Quote And the real question for every, really every real eater is am I willing to plant a tree and build something that I may never taste the fruit of it. Takeaways Re-leading requires patience and trust-building. Don't despise small beginnings; they are essential for growth. Re-leading can be challenging and discouraging, but it is a calling. Zoom out and envision the long-term impact of your re-leading journey. Doing hard things allows God to show up and bring transformation. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!  ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you holding back in being vulnerable with others? Is not being part of an authentic community a factor?  I had a deep discussion with my friend Jennie Allen on all things emotions and vulnerability. Jennie is founder and visionary of IF:Gathering, a writer, podcaster and public speaker who will be sharing with us: There is power in friendship How to pursue God-Sized dreams Creating space for vulnerability Emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity Healing through confession Living wholeheartedly and authentically  Friends, finding and being part of an authentic community is HUGE because it contributes to personal transformation and growth. And transformation begins by being vulnerable. And if you can't find a community like that follow Jennie's advice and start your own. You can do this! Jennie's heart for revival and vulnerability is contagious! Let us know how you are being transformed by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @jennieallen. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jennie Allen jennieallen.com  Instagram: @jennieallen Book: Untangle Your Emotions: Naming What You Feel and Knowing What to Do About It Quote Because I wasn't comfortable with emotions in myself, I wouldn't allow myself to feel them and because I wouldn't feel them, I would keep getting stuck in places that God wanted to free me. Takeaways Authentic friendships and support are essential for pursuing God-sized dreams. Emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity are key to personal growth and revival. Confession and vulnerability lead to healing and freedom. Living wholeheartedly involves embracing and processing emotions. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by AquaTru. Get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com and use promo code WGT ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever been misinterpreted or criticized by something you said? Are you trying to navigate the challenges of cancel-culture while maintaining your commitment to speaking the truth?  My friend Tim Ross, and my guest on today's show, is a podcaster, social media influencer, author, and preacher who's had his experiences with controversy and conflict, both in public and on social media. Tim shares how he remains unashamed in speaking the truth. He also provides insights on: Responding to criticism  Handling conflict in a mature and loving manner Addressing strong language and misinterpretation Anyone who has a public platform knows that there will always be online criticism and sometimes controversy. Knowing when not to engage is important. Having a space for people to be seen, heard, known, and loved is important for healing from this and other types of trauma. Therapy and confession are a crucial role in the healing process.  Show your appreciation to Tim by tagging him @Upsetthegram and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Tim Ross upsettheworld.com  Book: Welcome to the Basement: An Upside-Down Guide to Greatness  The Basement Podcast Tim Ross Instagram Tim Ross YouTube B-Side App (Apple) (Google Play) Quote Confession is literally good for the soul. It's absolutely good for the soul. And there's a lot of people that confess vertically, but they don't do it horizontally, and therefore they actually don't get healed. Takeaways Dealing with controversy and conflict requires a strong sense of identity and purpose. Navigating cancel-culture involves staying true to one's beliefs and not being swayed by public opinion. Responding to criticism and controversy should be done with maturity, love, and a willingness to engage in dialogue. Using strong language can be effective in conveying strong emotions, but it is important to consider the context and potential misinterpretation. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Are you going through a personal crisis that has been made public? Have you faced scrutiny because of it? Going through challenges and painful experiences is difficult. But know this, friend: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.  Brandi Wilson is an author, coach, speaker, and my friend. We will listen to her personal journey of going through divorce and starting over. She discusses the challenges she faced as a pastor's wife and the public fallout of her marriage ending.  For someone going through a divorce, maintaining a sense of self and direction amidst the turmoil of the process can be shattering. That's why it's important to take time for healing and to prioritize personal growth after a divorce.  Finding hope and sense of restoration after the end of a significant relationship is possible. Healing will come and restoration is found in Jesus. Tag me @biancaolthoff and @lovebrandiwilson to share your experience. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Brandi Wilson  https://lovebrandiwilson.com/  Books - Better Than Ok: Finding Hope and Healing After Your Marriage Ends Quote A role in a title can be taken away, but no one can take God's call on your life but Him. Takeaways Divorce can be a challenging and painful experience, but it also offers an opportunity for personal growth and starting over. Supporting friends going through divorce requires empathy, patience, and allowing them to grieve and heal at their own pace. It is important to avoid speaking negatively about the ex-spouse in front of children and to create a safe and honest environment for them. Before starting to date again after divorce, it is crucial to take time to heal, seek therapy if needed, and focus on personal growth. God is with you in the midst of divorce and can bring healing, restoration, and a new beginning. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Listen & subscribe to The Best of You - https://tinyurl.com/TheBestOfYouPodcast ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Did you know that food has the ability to elevate moods and foster connections? Are you ready to find healing and restoration in the kitchen? My friend and renowned chef, Aarti Sequeira, shares how she found her passion for cooking and how it can be a source of peace, connection, and healing. Find out how: Food can lift spirits and bring people together Cooking as a reflection of life Finding peace in the kitchen You know that it's always a party when Aarti is around! She shares a recipe for Persian Spinach and Eggs and encourages listeners to cook and share your creations with us by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @aartipaartipics XO B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Aarti Sequeira  Books Unwind: A Devotional Cookbook for the Harried & Hungry My Family Recipe Journal An American Kitchen with an Indian Soul Ep 42: Soul Food for Your Ears with Aarti Sequeira   Persian Spinach and Eggs Recipe Video Persian Spinach and Eggs (Nargesi) Ingredients: 1 red onion, finely chopped 1 pound of baby spinach (or regular spinach), washed and drained 1/2 teaspoon turmeric Salt and pepper, to taste 1 to 2 large eggs per person Instructions: Heat olive oil in a large pan over medium heat. Sauté the chopped onion until it turns light and translucent. Add the spinach to the pan and cook until wilted (about 10 minutes). You might need to add the spinach in two batches. Cook until excess water evaporates. Season with turmeric, salt, and pepper. Create small wells in the spinach using a spoon and crack the eggs into these wells. Cover the pan and cook for a few minutes until the eggs reach your desired doneness. Serve the Persian Spinach and Eggs on its own or with some bread (such as lavash, barbari, Turkish pide, or pita bread). Quote I'm constantly amazed, flabbergasted, humbled by the fact that, you know, the first thing that Jesus did for his disciples after he resurrected was to cook for them. Takeaways New beginnings can lead to unexpected and fulfilling paths. Mistakes in cooking can often lead to delicious surprises. Cooking can be a source of peace, connection, and healing. Food has the power to lift spirits and bring people together. The transformative way that cooking brings joy to our lives.  ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!  ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you have a calling as a woman in ministry or in leadership and are facing opposition and resistance? If God called you, He will make a way! I'm always in awe at the stories that I hear from other women in ministry. Some knew their calling from early on. Others, like me, found themselves “unintentionally” entering into ministry and how my ambitions and desires changed over time because of God's call in my life. No one said this would be easy. That's why I share my stories in order to encourage you. I remember how I: Faced rejection from seminary   Was asked to step down from leadership roles  Encountered opposition and resistance along the way Understood my calling and committed to personal growth Despite the challenges, I want you to know that if God calls you, He will make a way. My commitment is to God and to sharing His word. Don't let difficulties discourage you from pursuing your calling. Stay away from comparison and surround yourself with truth-tellers that will help you persevere and not give up.  Friend, it all starts with you. Remember: Be what you want to see! Share your story of perseverance by tagging me @biancaolthoff. XO B RESOURCES/LINKS Bianca Juarez Olthoff - Women in Ministry Quote Don't compare your calling to someone else's. Do what the Lord has called you to do and let Him do the rest.  Takeaways God's calling often unfolds gradually and unexpectedly, and it may require us to step out of our comfort zones. Rejection and opposition can be discouraging, but they should not deter us from pursuing our calling. Women in ministry often face unique challenges and may encounter resistance from both men and women. If God calls you, He will make a way for you to fulfill your purpose. Preaching the word of God should be the focus, regardless of gender or societal expectations. Representation and inclusion are crucial in leadership spaces, and efforts should be made to invite and welcome diverse voices. Men should take responsibility for creating an inclusive and respectful environment for women in leadership. Women in leadership face unique challenges, including the pressure to navigate communication and appearance expectations. Leadership is not easy, but it requires perseverance and a commitment to personal growth. Women should find their voice and be patient, understanding that their calling may take time to fully develop. Surrounding oneself with truth-tellers and receiving constructive criticism is essential for personal and leadership growth. Individuals should strive to be the change they want to see in the world, creating a more inclusive and equitable environment. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by AquaTru. Get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com and use promo code WGT This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GOINGTHERE and get on your way to being your best self. Sign up today to get 10% off your first month. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you need massive clarity on how to thrive? If you are ready for a framework that will help you to live authentically by unlocking your highest emotional need, this is the episode for you!  My guest today is best-selling author, speaker, and executive coach Mike Foster. He will help us understand the power of our primal questions. We go over: Shifting from the scramble to the primal truth How our highest emotional needs drive our behavior  How identifying our primal question can lead to personal growth and transformation Mike explains the seven primal questions and shares a simple yet powerful way to uncover your hidden programming, emotional needs, and supernatural gifts. He also shares the importance of understanding ourselves and others in order to build healthier relationships.  Share with us how you are embracing your primal power by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @mikefoster2000 XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Quote We spend a lot of time cutting branches instead of dealing with the roots and really dealing with the core of who we are and really understanding that. Takeaways Understanding our primal question can lead to personal growth and transformation. Identifying our highest emotional need allows us to make better choices and live in our truth. Recognizing the primal questions of others can help us build healthier relationships. Living in the truth of our primal question empowers us to overcome challenges and pursue our purpose. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How can faith help you heal from trauma and rebuild your life? What are some of the benefits of grieving and reframing pain after a collapse? My guest today is my friend Mike Noriega who shares his experience of starting over after facing trauma. Mike shares his story of the collapse of a building in Surfside, Florida, which resulted in the loss of his grandmother.  He discusses the concept of: An uncollapsible soul Finding comfort and strength in faith during this difficult time.  Mike opens up about the collapse of his marriage and the healing process he went through. He emphasizes the importance of grief, community, and reframing pain in the journey of rebuilding after a collapse. Share what you've by tagging me @biancaolthoff  I Love you, friend, B RESOURCES/LINKS Quote When you can go through things that will break your heart, but not allow them to break your spirit, when you don't allow something to go from being a life season to a life sentence, that's how you make your soul uncollapsible. Takeaways Facing trauma and starting over requires strength and faith. An uncollapsible soul is one that can endure pain and loss without losing hope or purpose. Grief and healing are essential steps in the process of rebuilding after a collapse. Community and connection play a crucial role in finding support and healing. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!  This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Are you drawn to underdog stories like I am? Have you ever witnessed ordinary people who find themselves in extraordinary circumstances and rise to the occasion?  You don't want to miss out on this episode where I talk to Andy Erwin, producer of the film Ordinary Angels, about the uplifting and emotional film based on this true story. This is a story of a hairdresser who becomes a hero and a friend to a widowed father and his two daughters. Andrew and I discuss: The shift in faith-based films The impact of telling authentic stories The criticism and challenges faced by Christian films  Friends, we get the scoop on the story behind the film Ordinary Angels and how it came to be. Andrew tells us about the involvement of Dave Matthews and John Berg in championing the project. He also touches on the message of the film, which focuses on finding purpose and the church as a place of hope.  I love to see excellence portrayed in faith-based films. That's why I loved watching Ordinary Angels in theaters, and I hope you go watch it too! If you've seen the film, head on over to Instagram and let's show Andrew some love. You can use #OrdinaryAngelsMovie and tag me @biancaolthoff and @KingdomStoryCompany Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Ordinary Angels will be available in theaters nationwide on February 23, 2024 OrdinaryAngels.movie Official Trailer Starring: Hilary Swank, Alan Ritchson, Nancy Travis, Tamala Jones, Drew Powell, Amy Acker, Skywalker Hughes, Emily Mitchell  Directed by: Jon Gunn Quote All of us are messy. All of us are desperately in need of redemption and hope.  Takeaways Faith-based films are experiencing a shift towards more authentic storytelling. The film 'Ordinary Angels' was inspired by a true story and championed by Dave Matthews and John Berg. The film explores the themes of purpose and the church as a place of hope. Christian films should strive for authenticity and not shy away from portraying real-life struggles. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!  ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: R.A.D.

Are there things in your life today that don't align with your vision of tomorrow? What do you need to leave behind as you move forward into the future that God has for you?  It's hard to let go of things. Trust me, I know. It is important to realize that in order for us to experience personal growth and find spiritual success, we need to have necessary endings in our lives.  Boundaries are necessary, and so are endings. That's why today we will explore: The need to manage expectations and investments in our relationships The concept of pruning and setting boundaries The emotional epidemic of entitlement The dangers of enabling others If there is a relationship or a situation that is holding you back from reaching your best self, it's time to let it go. Trust God and His plan for your life. If this series has made an impact in your life, share it with me by tagging me @biancaolthoff  I Love you, friend, B RESOURCES/LINKS Necessary Endings // When to Say Good Bye // Boundary Lines // Bianca Olthoff Quote If somebody says that they love you, but they reject your boundaries, they're not for you. Takeaways Endings are hard, but they are necessary for growth and spiritual success. Setting boundaries is an act of love and self-care. Evaluate your expectations and investments in relationships. Letting go of relationships and situations that no longer fit your future is essential for personal growth and fulfilling God's plan for your life. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Do you find it hard to make sense of the different views on sex in culture? Is it time for you to reevaluate your view of sex? Join me on today's episode to have an open and honest conversation on… sex. Society keeps sending mixed signals on what sex is all about. I want us to discuss the topic of sexual boundaries but from a Biblical perspective. It's high time we redeem the narrative that the enemy has stolen from us! That is why we will explore:  God's original, good, and divine design for sex  Biblical view of sex vs. Cultural view Freedom from sexual shame  We all need practical handles on sexual boundaries in marriage and for singles. Because of that, I'm highlighting the importance of respect, communication, accountability, and non-sexual intimacy.  Sex was God's idea! He intended it for our good. Don't let the enemy steal that from you. I want you to know that whatever has happened in your life, you can find forgiveness through Jesus and develop a personal intimate relationship with Him. If you found this topic helpful, let me know by tagging me @biancaolthoff  Love you friend, B RESOURCES/LINKS Boundaries in Sex // Boundary Lines // Bianca Olthoff Quote I don't want social media. I don't want pop culture. I don't want the ivory tower of academia to define what sex is. No. Sex was God's idea. Takeaways Sexual boundaries are for our benefit and not a burden. Open and honest conversations about sex are necessary in order to break free from shame and cultural narratives. In marriage, it is important to have regular communication about sexual expectations and desires. For singles, setting personal boundaries and seeking accountability are key to maintaining purity. Sex does not guarantee intimacy, and true intimacy is built on emotional and verbal communion. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Have you turned your boundary line into a boundary wall? If you find yourself lonely because of unrealistic boundaries, today you can take a sledge hammer and Bring.The.Wall.Down.  I want us to have a real talk and address the issues of isolation and loneliness that many people experience. I want to emphasize: The importance of community and relationships The need for boundaries in friendships  The challenges that come with maintaining healthy relationships The different levels of friendships Friendship is not codependency In some cases we can find ourselves looking at our friends and thinking; “what the heck?” That's because we don't have a clear definition of what “friend" means and we've given access to the wrong people into our friendship circles. I want you to walk away knowing what friendship IS and IS NOT.  Remember that true friendship and fulfillment can be found in Jesus. Tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know what healthy lines you've drawn in your life. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Friends With Benefits // Relationship Boundaries // Bianca Olthoff TFHOC Miseducation of Love Series  Quote People should be loved biblically, valued equally, but treated differently. Takeaways The benefits of community and relationships help against loneliness and isolation Different levels of friendship: casual, close & core The importance of investing in healthy friendships ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Do you know how to establish healthy boundaries in your life? Are your boundaries clear to you and to others? Today we start a new series on just that! This week, I'll be discussing the importance of drawing clear boundaries and how they can elevate your life. There have been instances where I have allowed my boundaries to be crossed - like a tiny incident I had at an airport. That and other experiences have taught me to be very aware of when my boundaries are being crossed. In this episode, you will walk away knowing: The need for clear boundaries How God created boundaries to bring order out of chaos Consequences for broken boundaries We will also explore the different types of boundaries, including physical: sexual, emotional, spiritual, and financial boundaries. Establishing healthy boundaries can lead to personal growth, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of self. I encourage you to evaluate your own boundaries and seek God's guidance in establishing healthy boundaries in your life. Let me know what are some of the healthy boundaries you have established by tagging me @biancaolthoff Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Love Lines // Personal Boundaries // Bianca Olthoff  Takeaways Boundaries are not meant to limit us, but to elevate us. Boundaries define who we are and what we are willing to accept. Different types of boundaries include physical, sexual, emotional, spiritual, and financial boundaries. Setting and maintaining boundaries requires self-awareness, communication, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Establishing healthy boundaries can lead to personal growth, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of self. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. Let's start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Have you ever felt like you don't know who you are or what you are meant to do in life? Do you struggle with shame, guilt, or fear of rejection from others? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you don't want to miss this conversation with Real Talk Kim.  Kimberly Jones, a.k.a Real Talk Kim, is a preacher, podcaster, author, and speaker. Throughout our conversation she will share powerful words of encouragement and inspiration for those who feel lost and disconnected from themselves. You will walk away with practical handles on how to: Move forward, let go of shame, and seek approval from God rather than people Learn how to embrace new beginnings and transform your pain into purpose Discover transformation and how to walk in your purpose Healing from past loss and trauma can be a daunting task. We believe in the power of transformation through self-love and forgiveness. God uses our hot mess and turns it into our message. Embrace your new beginning and step into your calling! Share with us how you have been inspired, challenged, and empowered by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @realtalkkim  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Real Talk Kim aka Kimberly Jones: realtalkkim.com Instagram: @realtalkkim  Book: You Gotta Get Up Quote Start in the middle of your mess. Just don't stay there putting a bandaid on your life. Get up, if you don't like your life, change it. Takeaways Learn how to turn your pain into purpose and live a fulfilling life Believe that God has a plan for you and that He is not finished with you yet Hear some real talk from a woman who has overcome loss, trauma, and addiction and is now a pastor, author, and speaker ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca's new book GRIT DON'T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. Let's start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Bianca is a passionate author, podcaster, preacher, and lover of Jesus. Her greatest mission is to see her closest friends, family and community living real, raw and revolutionary lives in Jesus Name. From her books to her preaching style she is genuinely communicating an authenticity to living life on purpose with purpose. To know her is to love her for the vibrancy, zeal and fire she has for Jesus.In this episode, Bianca sits down with The Grove visionary, Shelley Giglio, to discuss the intentional ways we have an opportunity to choose everlasting joy. Throughout the conversation, Bianca gracefully talks about being both a writer, pastor to a local church, and a woman navigating her own needs in life. She transparently opens her heart around all of these subjects to let us know she doesn't have it all together but she does choose Jesus, daily. And it's in choosing Him that she has the everlasting joy only He can provide bringing her complete freedom. To learn more about The Father's House Orange County, where Bianca leads, visit www.tfhoc.org and to access any of her resources she has authored, follow her on IG @biancaolthoff  or visit www.biancaolthoff.com for more information.As women of The Grove, we believe firmly in the power of gathering. If you haven't yet purchased your Grove Conference ticket, then please consider joining us in person in Atlanta, GA. We invite you to be in the room with us by registering at The Grove Conference to claim your spot! And follow us @pcc_thegrove on Instagram and visit thegroveonline.com for more heartbeat around The Grove.