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A podcast dedicated to knowing better and doing better, for ourselves and others

Alexis Barber


    • Aug 15, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 31m AVG DURATION
    • 172 EPISODES

    4.9 from 203 ratings Listeners of Too Smart For This that love the show mention: excited to follow, alexis, young woman, transparent, adore, self, thoughtful, conversations, thank, insightful, guests, amazing, topics, definitely, love this podcast, better, work, content, like, listening.


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    The Too Smart For This podcast is an absolute gem in the world of podcasts. Hosted by Alexis, this podcast covers a wide range of topics including work, love, health, and family. Each episode features a different guest who brings their unique insights and experiences to the table. I have thoroughly enjoyed every guest so far and have found their conversations to be incredibly insightful and thought-provoking.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is Alexis's ability to effortlessly navigate conversations with her guests. Her conversational flow and style are top-notch, making it feel like you're listening to your most articulate friend having an insightful conversation. She asks all the right questions and keeps the conversation flowing effortlessly. It's clear that she puts a lot of thought into each episode and delivers content that is both informative and engaging.

    Another great aspect of The Too Smart For This podcast is the diverse range of topics covered. From business and entrepreneurship to body image, self-reflection, and self-love, there is something for everyone in this podcast. Alexis does a fantastic job of providing content that is relevant to young women who want to talk about business and lifestyle but may struggle to find others in their lives who can relate.

    On the downside, one could argue that the podcast is still relatively new with only a few episodes released so far. However, this can also be seen as a positive as it leaves room for growth and development. The quality of the episodes released thus far has been exceptional, so I have no doubt that future episodes will continue to impress.

    In conclusion, The Too Smart For This podcast is an absolute must-listen. Alexis's ability to navigate conversations with her guests is unmatched, making for an incredibly enjoyable listening experience. The range of topics covered makes this podcast relatable and relevant to a wide audience. I am excited to see where this podcast goes in the future and cannot recommend it enough.



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    Latest episodes from Too Smart For This

    172. Running a Sephora-Approved Brand with Desiree Verdejo (Hyper Skin) and Karen Young (Oui The People)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 25:59


    In celebration of Black Business Month, we collaborated with Lydia from the Boardroom Beauty podcast to spotlight two incredible beauty founders. Join us for a chat with Desiree Verdejo of Hyper Skin and Karen Young of Oui the People as they share the realities of managing a growing businesses that's expanded into international retailers like Sephora, while balancing healthy personal lives, motherhood and self-care beyond beauty and skincare.Listen to the first part of this conversation over on the Boardroom Beauty podcast:https://youtu.be/IHNrsfSEI0U?si=eiD9oA48rX7GeoaHLearn more about these founders and their businesses in the links below:Desiree Verdejo:https://www.instagram.com/desiree.ver...Hyper Skin:https://www.instagram.com/hyperskin/?...Karen Young:/ karen-young-2a166622Oui the People:/ ouithepeopleFollow Too Collective on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enToo Collective Websitehttps://toocollective.com/Too Collective Affirmation Textshttp://toocollective.norby.live/Follow Alexis on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    171. Life updates: they want to expel me from Wharton, burnout recovery, and my trip to the Paris Olympics

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2024 20:02


    Let's sit and gossip for a sec. I have some updates to share regarding Wharton, my trip to Paris, and I've also been implementing some new productivity systems to help with my burnout.Listen to my conversation with Temi: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0w5G0IXOF2MPq3VyNhxvue?si=3db3868e9fd94700Too Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    170. Hate to admit it, but I'm burnt out - here's what I'm doing about it

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 20:29


    I'm not super excited to admit that I feel burnt out, but here we are. In this episode, I'm sharing my real-time journey through burnout, from recognizing the signs to taking actionable steps to recover. Too Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    169. Choosing yourself and making the changes you've been avoiding

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 26:44


    It can feel VERY unsettling when you've been gripping to a vision of yourself for so long, only to realize you no longer want that. In this episode, I'm exploring the concept that has helped me make some tough decisions—like knowing when it's time to move on from dreams, jobs, people, situations, etc. Letting go can often feel shameful, uncertain, and scary, but I hope you leave this episode feeling empowered to transition toward a path that truly fulfills you.Too Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    168. (Q&A) What no one talks about: resenting family, dating, early career, personal finance, and more!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 28:29


    I'm answering all your questions regarding family resentment, jobs you don't want to be in, personal finance, dating, and more!4:47 - How do you not resent family for having opposite life choices?11:04 - How to get the most out of a job you settled for?13:59 - Can you share a hot take about being an entrepreneur or having a side hustle?17:11 - What's something you used to believe in that you've changed your mind on?19:27 - Book recs for personal finance?24:04 - Dating life updates?27:12 - What are your current health routines?Too Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    167. Q2 recap and everything I'm doing to look and feel my best (clothing, skin, health)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2024 30:13


    As we wrap up the second quarter of the year I wanted to share all my biggest lessons, takeaways, and favorites from Q2. We're talking clothing, food, body care, skin care, workouts, and other essentials that have me looking and feeling my best.Clothing favoritesAlo dressAgolde Parker shortsSkims wireless push-up braFood favoritesChompsNora Grab & Go SeaweedDolcezza Gelato (Mascarpone & Berries flavor)Body careL'occitane almond shower oilNaturium Bio-Lipid Restoring Body LotionSol de Janeiro Delícia Drench Body ButterSol de Janeiro Cheirosa 59 Perfume MistFor glowy skinSupergoop glow screenLoreal Lumi GlotionNars Light Reflecting FoundationBiossance squalane body oilPatrik Ta body oilSkin careBioderma Micellar WaterSummer Fridays serumSkinfix collagen perfecting serumClinique Moisture SurgeInnesfree sunscreenClarins Anti Pollution Face SunscreenOther healthy stuffSkinny Confidential Mint RollerSkinny Confidential Mouth TapeCreatine for muscle growthForm pilatesToo Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    166. motivation is fake: how to get through the hard days

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 15:41


    Let's talk about how to work with the natural ebb and flow of our energy as women. In this episode I share my experience working through days where motivation is hard to find and what I've learned about setting realistic priorities and understanding my minimum and maximum capacity. Too Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    165. Forbes 30 Under 30 (in finance!) recipient Temi Butler on charting your own path, fusing your creative and career interests, and self love as a Black woman in finance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2024 56:12


    This week, I'm chatting with my dear friend and fellow Wharton MBA student, Temi Butler. Temi walks us through her impressive career journey, from navigating the high-stakes world of finance at top institutions to landing on Forbes 30 Under 30, and ultimately pivoting from a stable job to embrace her creative passions.From big corporate to being a DJ, Temi has been there and done that, and she offers invaluable insights for anyone looking to build a highly ambitious and fulfilling professional path.She shares:The pressure to prove yourself, especially as a black womanHow she hustled her way into top institutions early in her careerAdvice for those looking to break into financeThe challenge of holding back her authentic self at workHer unique upbringing by parents who are dedicated artistsHow she landed on the Forbes 30 Under 30 listHer pivot from investment banking to working for a startupWhy she chose to pursue an MBAHer biggest takeaways from business schoolFollow Temi on Instagram: @temiautomaticToo Collective:Shop our Rare Beauty collabToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    164. Hot girl summer glow-up

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 24:58


    Summer is meant to be ENJOYED! In this episode, I'm sharing my plans for making the most out of the next three months by being super intentional in key areas of my life such as: health, career, finances and relationships and more.SHOP OUR RARE BEAUTY COLLABTime stamps:2:22 Plot girl shit3:36 Confidence4:14 Pinterest boards4:54 Shopping for summer5:59 Setting an intention7:09 Setting goals9:24 Having fun requires planning11:41 Dating13:42 Morning and evening routines16:32 Booking health appointments17:54 Healthy habits for hot girl summer20:00 Beauty tips22:35 Being presentResources/MentionedBeam DreamForm PilatesTia Women's Health Clinic:Beam Street Dental:Athena Club Naturium Multi OilSupergoop Glow ScreenToo Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    163. Chasing dreams, dealing with failure, and trusting your timing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 29:39


    In this episode, I'm celebrating a huge milestone in my business and want to share how I reached this place of feeling secure and at peace with following my dreams. I'll reflect on the setbacks I've faced over the years and share what I've learned about trusting your timing.If you've been feeling defeated, rejected, or behind, this episode is for you.Too Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    162. Recap of my first year as a Wharton MBA student

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 44:36


    In this episode, I'm recapping my first year at Wharton, sharing everything I wish I'd known before diving into my MBA journey, as well as my honest opinion on academics, social life, and the lessons I've learned during this time.I'm also answering your questions on time management, juggling relationships, how to prep for business school, and what's on my radar for year two.Timestamps:02:23 Academics09:16 My study routine12:00 My major13:53 Clubs16:34 Travel22:00 Social life24:41 Entrepreneurship27:38 Time management30:52 Average week in the life34:04 Plans for second year36:54 How to prep for grad school40:55 Product recommendationsToo Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    161. Entreprenuership, perfectionism, and the realities of growing a business

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2024 17:39


    In this episode, we're getting real about the struggles I've been facing as an entrepreneur. And how despite being overqualified in many aspects I still don't feel ready to do a lot of things in my business. We're talking perfectionism, money, and how I'm planning to scale my business with the resources and insights I've gotten from being a Wharton MBA student. Too Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    160. Life lessons and material girl favorites (wellness, beauty, fashion)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 24:39


    As we close off the first quarter of 2024, I'm recapping my biggest takeaways and must-have items in wellness, beauty, and fashion from the past three months.Timestamps:1:40 self-worth is the key to everything6:40 difference between capacity and capability8:49 not letting other people make you feel small12:17 wellness faves17:24 beauty faves20:45 fashion favesProducts mentionedWellness:Armra colostrumSupergut prebioticOwala water bottleSkincare:Supergoop Glow ScreenSummer Fridays Cushion CreamTopicals Faded SerumHero Cosmetics patchesBeauty:Westman Atelier Stick FoundationNars liquid foundationIt cosmetics dual-ended foundation and concealer brushKosas concealerGiorgio Armani ConcealerOle Henrikson lip peptide balmSol de Janeiro Delícia body butterClothing:Agolde low-rise baggy jeansSkims boyfriend pantSporty and rich sweat sets Boys Lie sweat setsToo Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    159. 8 non-negotiable health and wellness habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2024 18:59


    We're all busy but that shouldn't be reason to leave your health at the bottom of your priorities. In this week's episode, I'm sharing 8 health and wellness habits that have helped me feel my best and live a healthier life overall. From daily practices to supplements and workout routines. I hope these habits inspire and motivate you to establish a healthy routine that works for you.Resources mentioned:Pilates workouts:Form appProtein:Oikos 000 protein yogurtChompsOwynMy electrolyte colostrum water:Armra colostrumDrip drop electrolytesFor sleep:Superhuman appBeam dream drinkToo Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    158. Spring glow up guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2024 19:04


    As spring brings fresh new energy, this episode dives into everything I'm doing to glow up for the season. I hope this episode inspires you to hit the refresh button in your life and step into this new season feeling your absolute best.Resources mentioned:Form pilatesStyle archetypes: @asias.jpgToo Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    157. How I manage my money being self employed, career failure, and breakup tips (Q&A)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2024 21:19


    A breakdown of my expenses and how I budget as a grad student and business owner. I also answer your questions regarding career, failure, breakups and ADHD. You asked, I ANSWERED!5:24 Q1: How do you manage money as a grad student and business owner?9:37 Q2: How to navigate failure and career pivots12:25 Q3: What is bringing you joy right now?14:06 Q4: Breakup tips?17:17 Q5: How do you manage ADHD among all the boss girl sh*t you do?Don't forget to DM me on IG to have your questions answered on a future episode.Too Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    156. I'm self sabotaging and here's what I'm doing about it

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 21:01


    I've been putting off this topic for a while… but let's unpack how I've been completely neglecting my mental and physical health through this crazy period of my life. This episode is about getting back on track. I'll share how I'm resetting my priorities, what I'm doing to climb out of this funk, and a daily habit that has been super helpful throughout this time.Show Notes1:20 Navigating the stress of recent events2:35 How to deal with too much on your plate6:39 Realizing when you're engaging in unhealthy habits8:06 Getting my priorities straight!9:44 Being strategic vs trying to accomplish everything12:45 Dealing with the algorithm as a content creator14:02 Examining your priorities16:10 Ask yourself, are you self-sabotaging?17:01 The sacrifice to do the things you love is worth it18:11 Ways I'm prioritizing my health19:43 Orienting yourself with intention20:16 What are five things you're proud of doing?Too Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    155. Dating life, my new job, and current favorites (Q&A)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2024 21:16


    I'm so excited to sit and chat with you guys! Today I'm answering a bunch of questions regarding dating, health, current favorites, classes at Wharton, and everything in between. So let's get cozy and start talking sh*t.Follow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeShop Too Collective:Shop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramShop Alexis's Picks:Shop Alexis's Amazon StoreShop Alexis's Outfits and MoreAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    154. From corporate burnout to a multi-passionate career with Madison Utendahl

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 49:06


    From corporate burnout to building her own creative agency, this week's guest, Madison Utendahl, walks us through her inspiring and multi-hyphenate career journey. We'll delve into her time at HBO, Refinery29, and her experience leading social media at the Museum of Ice Cream, and finally, how she founded her creative agency - Utendahl Creative, which has earned her recognition by Adweek's Creative 100 and Forbes' 30 Under 30.Madison shares her candid story: navigating an identity crisis, finding creative fulfillment, planning a strategic job exit, setting business standards that prioritize work-life balance, and finding a supportive life partner. You will definitely walk away with so many tangible insights to create a life and career you love.Show Notes0:57 Welcome Madison Utendahl!3:28 Recognizing and embracing your multi-hyphen life5:12 Madison's career trajectory7:12 You are not above the early stages of your job8:01 Life after HBO8:49 Understanding the nuances of things you dislike10:21 Holding space for people and their differing creative ideas12:24 You're sabotaging your privilege by accepting an unhealthy way of life14:31 Stop taking on unnecessary burdens 16:22 Importance of peer accountability in the workplace18:27 Know your basic needs and accept the sacrifices20:02 Money can't buy you happiness21:07 Realizing the corporate grind doesn't work for you22:29 Nothing you see on social is real24:46 Advice for when you're burnt out28:01 When you have strong boundaries, you don't let your job/people push you to burn out30:43 You don't have to reinvent the wheel, you can just emulate other successful companies/societies you look up to31:56 Questioning systemic/archaic constructs35:47 Having to be “twice as good”39:00 Discussing the engagement party41:40 Finding someone who supports your ambition42:52 Finding the right one once you accept your ambition43:48 Instrumental resources for personal and professional development46:08 Rapid fire questions!Keep up with Madison!Utendahl Creative@madison.utendahl on InstagramResources/MentionedThe Art of Gathering by Priya ParkerThe Big Leap by Gay HendricksThe War of Art by Steven PressfieldBig Magic by Elizabeth GilbertShop our Limited Edition Patches!Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    153. What no-one admits about self-love

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2024 19:49


    Discover four key elements that will reshape your self-image and strengthen your relationship with yourself. Tune in for practical inner work insights to help you build a more fulfilling and loving life.Featured Links:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    152. Being selfish is self-care

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2024 19:23


    It's time we redefine selfishness, break free from old people-pleasing habits, and unapologetically prioritize our needs. It's easy to let life slip by without realizing how much we bend over for others' expectations, responsibilities, or demands that don't contribute to our well-being or personal growth.We'll explore the consequences of sacrificing our needs for others and dive into the transformative journey of declaring our 'selfish era.' Tune in for practical insights on shifting your mindset and embracing an authentic, unapologetic way of living.Show Notes1:37 Managing the emotions that come with the end of a long-term relationship2:23 Entering your selfish era and prioritizing your needs3:07 Importance of investing in yourself 4:04 Ways to be intentional with your time and energy5:20 Developing a hobby/identity to create a sense of self outside your relationship6:59 Ask yourself, are you doing things for yourself or to appease someone else?7:38 What do you want your life to look like?8:44 The drawbacks of giving too much11:43 Relinquishing control over certain outcomes12:51 Utilizing calming affirmations to remain levelheaded13:56 What does being selfish mean to you?15:59 Knowing when to walk away16:37 Self-esteem vs self-worth17:55 Stop seeking validation from others18:49 Stop taking responsibility to make everyone help19:27 Self-care isn't selfish, but being selfish is self-careFeatured Links:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    151. How to deal with people who try to make you feel small

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2024 22:47


    Join me for a raw and candid conversation as I unpack recent insults, dealing with haters in real life, and strategies for facing those who try to make you feel small.We're unraveling the layers of people-pleasing, and why it's crucial to protect your energy in a world full of energy vultures.Show Notes2:00 You can't be everything and still be liked3:11 Protecting your energy as an ambitious person4:31 Avoiding relationships with insecure people5:32 Using accolades to remedy insecurities7:00 Feeling as though you have something to prove8:48 Understanding your subconscious lack of boundaries10:12 Discerning between people pleasing and genuine interest12:19 Chasing perfection never yields happiness13:22 Feel the pain that comes with someone neglecting your success, but don't let it define you15:20 “If you don't like me that's fine…”16:22 It's only embarrassing if you're embarrassed17:24 Having the courage to be yourself19:22 On being Nice and Pretty20:31 Nice girls don't win21:34 It's important to be discerning with who you trust/share information with23:11 No one can make you feel inferior without your consentResources/Mentioned Westman Atelier Vital Skin Foundation StickFeatured Links:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    150. My ins and outs for 2024 (habits, mindsets and self care)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2024 28:58


    Let's catch up! Tune in for some recent life updates, reflections on my dating life, and my ins and outs of 2024. I'll be sharing insights on mindsets, habits, self-care, and what I will absolutely NOT be tolerating this year. Join me for a breakdown of what's been happening and what's on the horizon!Show Notes2:42 Life update!6:36 Burnout prevention8:01 What classes am I taking!9:29 Going with the flow10:48 Dating again after a long-term relationship breakup – learning to be intentional13:37 Setting personal standards and sticking to them14:08 New Year's resolutions – planning for a year of fun and achievement15:24 Stopping to reflect on how far I've come18:32 Enjoy the fruits of your labor!19:09 Ins and Outs of 202419:22 Outs!19:29 Sleeping with your phone20:26 Favoring aesthetics in lieu of genuine connection21:29 Dating content from people who've never been in relationships22:48 Believing that your dreams are too big24:24 Neglecting to get pedicures25:53 Ins!25:26 Hard gel manicures26:30 Pampering yourself27:17 Baths for stress relief27:42 Supplements and increased water intake28:24 Investing in bodycare29:24 Being unapologetic!Products mentioned:Naturium Glycolic Acid Exfoliating Body WashNaturium Multi-Oil Body WashOsea body oilFeatured Links:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    149. The 411 on getting off birth control and healthy habits to balance hormone health

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2024 37:06


    Today, we're diving into my journey getting off birth control and the lifestyle changes I've made to balance my hormones. I'll walk you through how I prepared my body to remove hormonal birth control, discuss the side effects I noticed, and share my research on the impact of birth control on our bodies. Additionally, I share what I'm doing now to balance my hormones, my list of favorite supplements, and other non-negotiable habits that have transformed my health.Note: around minute 16:00 when I mention excess progesterone, I meant to say excess estrogen.Resources mentioned:Women Code by Alisa VittiMoody Bitches by by Julie HollandAura RingBeam Dream (supplement for sleep)Binto SupplementsArrae Bloat PillsNutrafol (for hair growth)Elix (healing elixirs)Alive App (workouts)Peloton App (workouts)Flo app (cycle tracking)Simple Modern 40oz CupStudy: High cholesterol in women because of skipping breakfastToo Collective:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    148. My 2023 favorites: skincare, makeup, home, fashion and more

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2023 39:08


    This one's for all the material girls out there! In this episode, Alexis shares her 2023 favorites. Discover the secrets behind Alexis's glowing skin, must-have makeup essentials, luxurious home picks, fashion picks, and even book recs!Shop Too Collective:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeMAKEUPREFY BROW GEL: https://howl.me/cli2ELNZUu7  REFY LIP IN FAWN: https://howl.me/cli2EMpvKXc AMI COLE LIP OIL: https://howl.me/cli2ELouUFp DIOR ROSEWOOD BLUSH: https://howl.me/cli2ELBhcM5 SKINPEACH AND LILLY GLASS SKIN: https://howl.me/cli2ELhWFXH SUMMER FRIDAYS MOISTURIZER: https://howl.me/cli2EL6YhZI & SUNSCREEN: https://howl.me/cli2ELUmHPz BODY & FRAGRANCEOUAI ST BARTHS SCENTS: https://howl.me/cli2hTY0d0Z& https://howl.me/cli2EMN8BxY YSL BLACK OPIUM: https://howl.me/cli2ELKYNHX 11:11 BODY OIL: https://howl.me/cli2EMqB5lg SOL DE JANIERO NIGHT ONEHAIROUAI DETOX SHAMPOO: https://howl.me/cli2EM3BIaF REV AIR: https://myrevair.com/products/q4tp2023 WOW SPRAY: https://howl.me/cli2ENqsEgv CURLING IRONhttps://amzn.to/47b3zsV HAIR STICKhttps://amzn.to/3TA2yaC HOME11 11 DIFFUSERShttps://howl.me/cli2EMzwwVV NESPRESSO MACHINEhttps://www.nespresso.com/us/en/vertuo-coffee-machines DYSON FANhttps://amzn.to/47gRJgR https://howl.me/cli2ENaOzej OUAI X DEDCOOL LAUNDRY DETERGENThttps://howl.me/cli2EM4RDKx BYREDO SOAPShttps://howl.me/cli2EMVFB4m CLOTHINGLULULEMON ALIGN MINI FLAREShttps://howl.me/cli2EMMCmfe MONDAY SWIMWEAR SWIMSUITShttps://mondayswimwear.com/ AGOLDE LOW RISE JEANShttps://howl.me/cli2EMt4QTO HOUSE OF CB DRESSEShttps://howl.me/cli2EMq9Ldu SKIMS BRA: https://howl.me/cli2ENr0YYx  ACCESSORIESVIVRELLE: vivrelle.com MY BLUE LIGHT GLASSES; https://amzn.to/3NJow7h  AMAZON EARRINGS: https://amzn.to/48lTU3w  BOOKSTHE MOUNTAIN IS YOU: https://amzn.to/3tqq1At THE PERFECTIONISTS GUIDE TO LOSING CONTROL: https://amzn.to/3THi4Se TRAVELAWAY SUITCASES : https://howl.me/cli2ENiiJlx LULULEMON DUFFLE BAG: https://howl.me/cli2EMQ5uGP MINI WHITE NOISE MACHINE: https://amzn.to/3RWz5q7 STONEY CLOVER POUCHES: https://www.stoneycloverlane.com/ OTHER / TECHSUPERHUMAN APP PINTERESTTRIPOD: https://amzn.to/3NIHPgR MY MICROSOFT SURFACE PRO 9: https://amzn.to/48fFItf MY DJI POCKET 2: https://amzn.to/3TJgnU6 TV SHOWS:Real HousewivesThe CrownThe BearShop Alexis's Picks:Shop Alexis's Amazon StoreShop Alexis's Outfits and MoreAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    147. How to reinvent yourself in 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2023 39:03


    In this week's Too Smart For This, Alexis shares her goal-setting tips for the new year! Chock full of insight, practical tips, and inspiration, this solo episode is a must for empowering you on your journey toward a fulfilling and purpose-driven future. Tune in to discover the keys to unlocking your potential and making 2024 the year you turn your aspirations into reality!Show Notes3:27 How to set goals and create a vision board!5:05 You can't control time, but you can change your relationship with the clock6:07 The subtle power of changing your identity7:47 Rewriting your narrative and crafting your identity9:57 Transforming resilience into suffering11:30 Using goal visualization to get what you want13:35 Categories for creating a personal brand/identity16:30 Use/focus on what you don't want17:09 Understanding your capacity and capabilities19:44 Reviewing and evaluating your calendar performance21:15 Create capacity buckets!25:21 Goals: feelings vs accomplishments29:21 Capacity and intent in identity development29:55 Building accountability structures for yourself31:26 Aim for the maximum!33:09 Utilizing the structures that exist around you33:50 The benefits of morning meditation(s)35:02 Develop a framework for responding to negative situations35:13 Move, regulate, vent36:48 Build a self-care buffer zone38:48 Making vision boards for the 5 areas of your lifeResources/MentionedNespresso Vertuo – use code 20Alexis!Atomic Habits by James ClearSuperhuman AppGoogle Calendar hacks videoNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    146. Wharton AMA: cliques, finances, academics, parties

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2023 34:00


    Welcome back to Too Smart For This episode 146! In this episode, Alexis shares details of her first semester experience in the Wharton MBA program. She covers everything you want to know - from finances and academics to social life.If you're considering applying for an MBA, especially at a top program like Wharton, this episode is essential listening. Alexis tells all about the realities of B-school and life on campus as a first year MBA student.Show Notes1:20 Wharton Q&A!2:29 Overview of business school8:04 Utilizing the deferred enrollment program9:21 Breaking down the b-school landscape11:23 Let's talk academics17:08 Social dynamics of an MBA program20:20 Navigating the social scene25:57 Budgeting for social travel/events32:36 Scholarships33:47 First semester summaryResources/MentionedThe ConsortiumManagement Leadership for TomorrowShop Too Collective:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeShop Alexis's Picks:Shop Alexis's Amazon StoreShop Alexis's Outfits and Morealexisbarber.nycBusiness Inquiries: hello@alexisbarber.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    145. Lessons from 24, goals for 25

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 27:44


    Welcome to a special milestone episode of Too Smart For This! Today, Alexis is celebrating her 25th birthday, and she's taking a moment to reflect on the valuable lessons she's learned in the past year. Join her as she shares personal insights, growth moments, and the wisdom gained on her journey so far. It's a candid episode filled with reflections, gratitude, and the anticipation of what lies ahead. Let's celebrate and learn together on this birthday edition of Too Smart For This!Quick Notes1:20 Recapping 242:15 Thank you!2:30 Life lessons from 24 years2:41 Putting yourself first without feeling guilty5:45 The myth of the balanced life7:04 Embracing the unexpected8:11 No one is coming to save you11:05 Viewing failure as a good thing13;43 How to own your shit and stop blaming others16:57 Figuring out what's most important to you18:43 Trust YOUR timing22:07 Goals for 25!22:48 #1 Have fun and enjoy life23:06 #2 Become a version of you your younger self would look up to23:31 #3 Show up for yourself25:50 #4 Invest in personal care27:20 #5 Don't allow yourself to dream smallNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    144. breaking free from boy stress, desperately trying to stay sane in the chaos, avoiding self-sabotage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 22:51


    Video DescriptionIn this episode of Too Smart For This, join Alexis as she candidly shares some takeaways from what have been chaotic times, to say the least. She talks about prioritizing yourself again, how she came to the decision that she doesn't want to be actively dating and is ok with being single and walking through the uncomfortable changes that she's going through.Show Notes1:46 Whirlwind first semester of Wharton2:30 Life update!6:47 Decentering men8:50 You are in charge of your own happiness9:36 Believing that you can accomplish great things11:26 Cultivating patience in an immediate gratification world14:09 Everything is happening for your highest good … you will be okay14:45 Discomfort as a catalyst for growth15:57 The power of being present18:18 Realizing when you're engaging in self-sabotaging behaviorResources/MentionedRhode Glazing Milke.l.f. Power Grip PrimerNARS Radiant Creamy ConcealerFenty Beauty Match StixThe Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-MasteryAmi Cole Lip Treatment OilNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    143. Tangbile Tips I Used to Glow Up This Year

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2023 27:08


    Welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week, Alexis is sharing the tangible tips she used to #glowup this year! Make sure to rate the show 5 Stars and share on Instagram @toocollectiveDon't forget that Too Collective is having our BIGGEST SALE OF THE YEAR: 25% off all robes! Get them before we sell out! Show Notes2:20 How to transform your life4:23 TooCollective Black Friday sale!5:13 10 tools I've used to glow up over the past year5:57 #1 Dreaming + being honest with yourself8:45 #2 Everything is happening for your highest good11:34 #3 Importance of discomfort for personal growth13:01 #4 Check in with yourself and your priorities!14:49 #5 Minimizing digital interaction18:52 #6 Maximizing calendar productivity 19:37 #7 Build routines that enable you to become your best self21:23 #8 Habit stacking and its importance24:01 #9 You need to live life!27:26 #10 Be present!Resources/MentionedSuperhuman AppBinto SupplementsYou Can Heal Your Life by Louise HayThe Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power by Katherine Morgan SchaflerConscious Luck: Eight Secrets to Intentionally Change Your Fortune by Gay Hendricks and Carol Kline NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    142. q&a: wharton finances, transitioning to single life, should you go to grad school?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 31:18


    Welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week, Alexis is answering all of your questions on everything from Wharton to her new single life. Enjoy and make sure to follow her on Instagram for more!Show Notes4:11 Instagram Q&A!4:59 How do you know if you're ready for Grad School?6:10 Creating an intentional career plan 8:26 How old is the average MBA student?11:01 What is the overall Wharton experience ;ole?13:42 Knowing when to ask for help16:02 What am I learning at Wharton?22:11 Prepare your finances for Grad School!22:45 Navigating life post-break-up24:26 Dealing with your guilt so it doesn't drag you down26:38 Do you like him? Or the attention?28:14 Dating vs relationship30:53 Solitude as a testament to self-love32:42 Shop the TooCollective robes!NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    141. Mented Cosmetics Founder KJ Miller Shares the Realities of Entrepreneurship, Pivots, and Her Take on The Beauty Industry Today

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 68:08


    Welcome back to the Too Smart for This podcast! In today's episode, Alexis is joined by KJ Miller, the dynamic force and co-founder behind Mented Cosmetics. KJ's journey is one of inspiration, innovation, and sheer determination as she has played a pivotal role in revolutionizing the beauty industry. In this exclusive interview, KJ will take us through her remarkable journey, sharing the behind-the-scenes process and experiences that led to the creation of Mented Cosmetics. If you're passionate about entrepreneurship, inclusivity, and the world of cosmetics, this is an episode you won't want to miss! Show Notes5:06 Rapid fire questions!11:08 Nurturing intimacy in your romantic relationships14:26 Debunking the over-glamorized narrative of entrepreneurship16:26 The history of Mented Cosmetics21:14 Embracing the bumps along the road of entrepreneurship24:06 How do you decide when to scale back?25:53 Navigating burn-out 27:18 KJ's week in the life28:11 Foregoing the grindset30:23 Molding your fundraising process to fit the demands of the time34:12 The undeniable purpose of a business plan35:34 Learning and growing from initial feedback38:47 How to build a positive community around your product40:26 Navigating between direct-to-consumer and wholesale 43:14 The importance of capital in the early stages of a business44:31 Resources that enabled Mented Cosmetics to thrive45:52 The necessity of building a founder network47:40 KJ's favorite founders/mentors48:52 Juggling your personal brand with entrepreneurship50:57 Learning from failure as the key to success52:06 Taking constructive from feedback and growing from it54:00 Importance of approaching every experience from a place of learning55:13 The decision to start ‘Not Another Business Podcast'57:49 Gatekeeping in the business-sphere58:29 Why Harvard Business School?1:00:59 Lessons learned from business school1:03:05 Traits of a successful entrepreneur1:07:05 Brands to watch!1:09:43 Entrepreneur resources for starting a successful brandResources/MentionedParfait WigsKeep up with KJ Miller!@kjmiller on Instagram@iam_kjmiller on TikTokNot Another Business PodcastMented CosmeticsNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    140. From Burnout to Forging Her Own Path with Carly Cardellino, former Cosmopolitan Beauty Director

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2023 38:30


    Hi, babes! Welcome back to the Too Smart for This podcast! In this week's episode, Alexis is joined by former Cosmopolitan beauty editor Carly Cardellino, who shares her insights on establishing a thriving career and her bold decision to forge her own path in content creation. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that's sure to ignite your passion for beauty and entrepreneurship!Show Notes1:29 Rapid fire questions!6:04 Importance of prioritizing authenticity9:24 Keys to embracing aging12:19 Refuse to be discouraged13:00 Pivoting from Cosmopolitan15:24 Day in the life of a beauty editor18:06 Going above and beyond18:28 Navigating burnout19:41 Knowing when to walk away21:04 Confidence is a conscious decision22:33 How to stop limiting/putting parameters on yourself23:31 Building your confidence in a new city/environment24:59 Avoid passion burnout28:26 Being consistent with your content even in the midst of changing algorithms30:10 Carly's favorites for vintage clothes and furniture31:05 Gaining confidence in yourself and your style35:43 Book recommendation36:48 Fall in love with the process!Keep up with Carly!@carlycardellino on Instagram@carlycardellino on TikTokResources/MentionedRhode Vanilla Peptide Lip TreatmentRhode Peptide Glazing FluidRishi English Breakfast Tea The Antique WarehouseThe Knack ShoppeSilver Linings ConsignmentHousing WorksChop Wood Carry Water: How to Fall in Love with the Process of Becoming Great by Joshua MedcalfThe Alchemist by Paulo CoehloNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    139. In My Selfish Era: How to Put Yourself First [& A Life Update]

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2023 19:04


    In this episode of Too Smart For This, Alexis takes the listeners on a candid journey through the challenging months that prompted her to prioritize self-care and make some necessary, selfish decisions. Don't miss this inspiring episode as she discusses the power of choosing oneself and the personal growth that can arise from even the toughest of times.Show Notes1:00 Embracing adversity and finding the courage to choose yourself1:47 Setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself/your needs2:17 Reflecting on the past few months3:33 You are capable of change5:05 Spending time with yourself to visualize your future5:47 Being unapologetic in your personal decisions to create success on your own terms7:33 Nothing is permanent. Not even your problems.8:03 Importance of putting yourself first in your relationships11:16 Using data in the decision-making process over emotions13:31 Stop arguing for your limitations14:19 No one can hurt you unless you allow it15:53 Knowing that you are capable of learning and accomplishing new things19:16 Sometimes, letting go means loving yourself more than you love themNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    138. What All The Hot Girls Are Doing To Glow Up Ft. 4AM Skin Founder, Jade Beguelin

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2023 50:22


    This week on the Too Smart For This podcast, we welcome Jade Beguelin, a content creator and businesswoman whose journey through entrepreneurship and personal growth has been nothing short of aspirational/inspiring. The two dive into Jade's story, sharing invaluable insights into the world of business, and information bound to ignite your passion and help you chart your own path to success!Show Notes1:13 Rapid fire questions9:38 Learn about Jade!13:41 Souls searching process to find your life's purpose15:05 4am Skin beginnings17:24 How to spot a gap in the market19:24 Gaining initial traction for your brand21:22 Signs it might be time for a career pivot22:23 The product launch process27:20 Biggest challenge(s) for new business owners29:40 Framing “No's” as a blessing in disguise34:20 Pivoting from private social media to creating content36:37 Steps for glowing up!38:44 #1 Finding confidence without comparison38:27 #2 Creating healthy habits for yourself40:04 Adapting to a society that rewards extroverts43:48 Complimenting strangers will change your life44:48 Tackling organizing and prioritizing habits for success46:30 Hot girl maintenance things47:17 Nails!47:47 The Real Real – encouraging more intentional buying49:40 Apps that enhance your lifeKeep up with Jade!@jadebeguelin on Instagram@jadebeguelin on TikTok4am SkinResources/MentionedSuperhumanNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    137. Healthy Habits That Have Changed My Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2023 16:30


    Busy is an understatement! As Alexis continues her journey at Wharton, she shares her tips/tricks/habits for staying mindful and maintaining composure amidst the chaos. Show Notes2:41 Doing your best is good enough!3:13 Importance of making time for movement4:32 Role of exercise in boosting self-esteem5:17 Benefits of working out in the morning5:28 Using the “Power Hour” approach to get things done6:26 How to quantify things in a healthy way6:52 How tools like Google Calendar can elevate your life7:48 Using the Two-Minute Rule to stop procrastinating9:18 The Closing Shift strategy!10:44 Habit Stacking as your best friend12:18 Journaling to heal14:21 Benefits of walking meditations16:57 Shop the robes!Resources/MentionedSuperhuman AppNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    136. My First Month at Wharton: Finances, Schedule, and Life Updates

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2023 16:21


    Alexis is BACK with the Sunday Solo Series, and today she shares her first impressions of Wharton, balancing her hectic life, and more!Show Notes1:04 Smart tip of the week1:41 Superficial tip of the week2:51 Wharton observations!3:03 Finding time for introspection amid chaos and uncertainty5:20 Navigating increased expenses9:24 Approach to socializing9:49 My class schedule!12:26 Poconos recap!Resources/MentionedDellara's DiaryThe Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan WattsKosas Revealer ConcealerNars Radiant Creamy ConcealerHourglass Ambient Soft Glow Foundation BrushNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    135. HBO Sweet Life's @AmandaSaidSo: Living Life on Your Own Terms, Financial Literacy Tips, and Managing Friendships as an Adult

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2023 53:48


    From the PR world, to reality television, Inglewood-born Amanda Scott is this week's guest on Too Smart For This! The ‘Sweet Life: Los Angeles' star discusses everything from the realities of being in the limelight, to her self-care journey, and even money management advice for recent grads. It's an episode you won't want to miss!Show Notes2:00 Rapid fire questions11:07 Reality TV portrayal12:24 Developing and maintaining friendships with age15:46 Confident people make better friends18:24 Managing interpersonal conflict20:52 Best part(s) of being on Sweet Llife: Los Angeles23:14 Worst part(s) of being on Sweet Llife: Los Angeles24:28 Recovering from being in the spotlight25:43 Amanda's career trajectory after college30:24 Quitting your job to figure things out31:34 Reprioritizing your life33:13 Focus on yourself and be your own priority36:03 Self-care resources37:52 Importance of effectively communicating your needs39:12 Homebuying process45:19 Pertinent money management advice45:30 #1 Max out your 401K46:16 #2 Life insurance as an investment47:17 #3 Have an emergency savings!47:59 #4 Credit cards are your friend49:25 Current aspirationsKeep up with Amanda!www.amandasaidso.com@housepartycreative on Instagram@amandasaidso_ on InstagramResources/MentionedJoyce Meyer Devotional BooksSula by Toni MorrisonNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    134. What To Do When You're Starting a New Era (In Career, Life, Or Otherwise)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 22:28


    In this week's Solo Sunday, Alexis delves into her tips for beginning a new era. Tune in as she discusses her product faves, the importance of leaving your comfort zone, and more! 2:01 Smart tip of the week4:48 Superficial tip of the week7:18 Life update!10:33 Setting your anchor – the power of prioritization11:16 Making friends in a new environment12:42 Leaving your comfort zone to experience motivation, growth15:30 The stress of social comparison16:12 Instagram Q&A!17:54 Starting a new job the right way19:02 Importance of staying grounded20:23 Why work friends are crucial21:51 Take advice from good leadersResources/MentionedHow to Be a Founder: How Entrepreneurs Can Identify, Fund and Launch Their Best Ideas by Alice Bentinck and Matt CliffordRhode Glazing MilkRhode Peptide Glazing FluidRhode Barrier Restore CreamRhode Peptide Lip TreatmentNEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    133. How to Manage Your Time When Life is Unpredictable

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2023 20:35


    Welcome back to Too Smart for This! In this week's episode, Alexis delves into the intricate interplay between efficient time management and the essential practice of self-care. Join her as she discusses practical strategies for maximizing productivity while ensuring your well-being remains a top priority. Show Notes2:03 Creating a structured but flexible daily routine2:21 OCEAN personality test3:36 Importance of being more conscientious4:40 Employing measures to offset spontaneity/impulsiveness5:44 Avoiding emotion-informed decisions6:11 Think about how you want to impact the world7:44 Reframing what consistency means to you8:51 What do you value?9:31 “Making it” should include creating space for yourself10:13 Scheduling your days for maximum productivity11:27 Using project management tools to tackle tasks12:21 How to reduce decision fatigue15:41 Importance of mandatory self-care17:15 Translating work into impactfulness19:35 NEW TooClassic Terry Cloth Robe!NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    132. How to Handle [And Give] Criticism Better

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 19:46


    Welcome back to another Sunday Solo episode! Alexis dives into her life updates and gives you a sneak peek into what she's learning in the Wharton Classroom.Show Notes1:27 Superficial tip of the week2:12 Life update!4:49 Making friends at Wharton6:26 How I've been adjusting to Philadelphia8:21 TooCollective GMA3 Mention!10:15 Unlearning rote negativity and choosing to celebrate yourself14:04 Smart tip(s) of the week15:51 How to give negative feedbackResources/MentionedAnthropologie Mugs NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    131. Sixtine Rouyre on Why Your Body Isn't Everything, How to Make Your Dreams Happen While Having Fun

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2023 51:32


    Welcome back to Too Smart For This! Today's guest is the charismatic Sixtine Rouyre, a model and influencer who proudly champions body neutrality. With an SI Swimsuit Issue under her belt, the creator uses her platform to empower women, encouraging them to embrace their bodies unconditionally and regardless of their shape and size. This week, the two get candid about their respective body image journeys, and the unrealistic expectations placed on a woman's beauty.Show Notes7:49 Transitioning from modeling to influencing10:41 Being at the forefront of the Posting Age11:49 Finding your niche as a creator13:21 Embracing self-love and thanking your body17:14 Divesting from the Tumblr pro-ana movement18:57 How TikTok can fuel toxic mindsets21:14 Combating day-to-day disordered thinking25:36 Finding creative inspiration from/in other creators27:41 Life in New York!30:04 Wild dating stories33:58 Meeting people outside of dating apps37:12 Why you should stop expecting others to be who they aren't41:04 Finding the balance between modeling and content creation41:59 It's important to take/make time for yourself!44:56 Londre Bodywear collaboration 47:34 What shooting Sports Illustrated was like!49:41 Not if, but whenKeep up with Sixtine!@sixtine on Tiktok@sixtinerouyre on InstagramResources MentionedHouse of CBYouth to the PeopleSupergoop NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    130. Everything You Need to Know About Getting an MBA: Wharton, Choosing Schools, Interviews, Balance, and More

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2023 26:30


    In this week's Solo Sunday, Alexis answers all your Wharton related questions! Tune in as she details the challenging yet rewarding path of pursuing an MBA while managing entrepreneurship and content creation. If you're in need of some concise insights on harmonizing education, business, and creativity – this one's for you!Show Notes0:52 Wharton Q&A1:34 Excitement about starting an MBA program3:07 How do I know which business school is the right fit for me?7:40 Deciding which classes to take10:52 Thinking about an MBA? Here's how to plan for it.13:28 Aceing your MBA admissions interview15:45 Why get an MBA?17:27 Aspects of B-School I'm most looking forward to19:01 GRE/GMAT study plan20:21 Balancing work, school, and social life24:47 Shop the new Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe!NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    129. From Scarcity to Abundance with Queen of Confidence, Achieng Agutu - @noordinarynoire

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 43:24


    On this week's episode of Too Smart For This, Alexis is joined by the dynamic Achieng Agutu – a model and digital content creator who empowers her audience to embrace their most authentic selves. Tune in as the two discuss the journey of self-discovery, and curating a summer of unapologetic self-love.2:56 Rapid fire questions!8:40 Faking it until you BECOME it11:49 Accepting that life has to continue12:12 How to choose yourself. If you don't, then who will?14:04 No Ordinary Noir beginnings 16:05 Ignoring negative comments18:38 Why vulnerability will change your life20:30 How to deal with hard truths21:50 Moving from scarcity to abundance28:40 Just do it!29:11 There's a space and niche for you30:45 Finding inspiration from others32:45 Product recommendations!34:24 Tips for leading a Hot Girl Summer35:41 Practicing self-care in the day-to-day37:56 It's okay to take up spaceResources/MentionedBrandon BlackwoodOle Henriksen Pout Preserve Peptide Lip TreatmentOsea Undaria Algae Body OilOsea Plant-Based Body BrushMarc Jacobs Perfect Eau De ParfumSol De Janeiro Brazilian Crush Cheirosa 62 Perfume MistRule of ThirdsEveryday PeopleKeep up with Achieng!@noordinarynoire on Instagram@noordinarynoire on TikTokThe Queen's Archives with Achieng AgutuToo Collective Email ListToo Collective GiveawayToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    128. What To Do When You Drop The Ball

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2023 17:45


    Hii ladies! Alexis is back with another Sunday solo - mostly a life update and some inspo on how to get yourself back on track.Too Collective Email ListToo Collective GiveawayToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    127. The 4 Types of Rest: Why Partying is Good For You & How to Have a Blob Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2023 25:06


    In this week's solo episode, Alexis delves into the art of resting and how it holds the key to finding balance in our fast-paced lives. Join her as she explores practical strategies to embrace rest and achieve a realistic work-life harmony.Show Notes1:36 Importance of unplugging in a busy world2:09 The benefits of being alone2:33 The advantages and disadvantages of the different types of rest4:04 Too Collective Robe Launch!5:12 Blobbing, Connecting, Restoring, and Pampering5:31 What is Blobbing?6:25 Slowing down as the answer to better health7:58 What is Connecting?8:48 The power of human connection9:03 What can connecting look like?10:32 Recontextualizing connection in a globalized world1:12 What is Restorative rest?12:16 Choosing activities that are right for You13:54 What is pampering?15:01 Pampering as a necessity16:06 Developing a work-rest balance16:24 Avoiding the depression spiral17:39 Finding time to be alone with yourself19:33 Avoid chasing an unrealistic sense of vitality21:12 When self-care does more harm than good22:04 The hidden dangers of excessive pamperingToo Collective Email ListToo Collective GiveawayToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    126. How to Glow Up For Real This Time with Dr. Danielle Richardson, Author of "The Glow Up Journal"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2023 56:42


    In this week's episode of Too Smart For This, Alexis is joined by Dr. Danielle Richardson, a visionary entrepreneur who fearlessly left behind a career in optometry that left her unfulfilled. Driven by her passion for empowering others and a burning desire to revolutionize the health and wellness industry, she embarked on an inspiring journey to create a platform specifically tailored for the " healthy baddies" of the world. If you're in need of a little extra clarity or direction in your life, this episode's for you!Show Notes2:07 Rapid fire questions!5:03 The importance of learning to say “No”8:16 What is a healthy baddie?10:22 Recognizing and honoring your multidimensionality14:16 Fierce Clarity beginnings16:36 How to trust your timing17:51 The power of journaling for mental health18:34 Practices/tools to manage the other side of ambition20:25 Leaving situations before misery consumes your life22:02 Taking intentional steps for a satisfying life22:56 Stop complaining, start creating25:44 Meditation to boost health and well-being26:27 How changing how you think of stress could help you be less affected by it31:23 Overcoming “All-Or-Nothing” thinking34:26 Glow Up Journal sneak peek36:08 Finding your personal style38:04 Defining your identity and reconnecting with yourself and the world 39:38 Book recommendations41:56 Becoming a “career chameleon”43:58 Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable 45:11 To find meaning in work, change the way you think about it47:40 Breathe!48:33 Seeing the value of bumps in the road50:01 Stop comparing your life, start living itResources/MentionedThe Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power by Katherine Morgan SchaflerLiving in the Light: A Guide To Personal And Planetary Transformation by Shakti GawainThe Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: A Pocket Guide to Fulfilling Your Dreams by Deepak ChopraBeyonce: Year of FourHomecoming: A Film by BeyoncéOprah Winfrey on Career, Life, and LeadershipLean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead by Nell Scovell and Sheryl SandbergKeep up with Danielle!The Glow Up Journal: Everything You Need to Set Goals, Create Inspo―and Make It Happen! Fierce ClarityFierce Clarity InstagramFierce Clarity TikTokDr. Danielle Richardson O.D. InstagramToo Collective GiveawayToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    125. How to Deal with Bad Mental Health Days [Sunday Solo]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2023 18:40


    Hi friends! Alexis is back with a classic Sunday solo. She shares moving updates, her current favorites, and more!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    124. It's Never Gonna Be Balanced: How to Embrace Flexibility When You're Ambitious

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2023 23:30


    Life is a journey filled with countless possibilities and opportunities. And while it's natural to dream big and aspire to achieve great things, it's equally important to maintain a realistic perspective. Placing unrealistic expectations on ourselves can lead to disappointment, stress, and a loss of motivation. In this week's episode of Too Smart For This, Alexis explores the importance of setting attainable goals, embracing flexibility, and practicing self-compassion. By understanding and avoiding unrealistic expectations, you can cultivate a healthier mindset, find joy in the present moment, and pave the way for a more fulfilling, balanced life.Show Notes1:13 How to relinquish unrealistic standards1:59 Negative self-evaluation resulting from unrealistic goals3:19 Finding stability in the midst of chaos4:03 Making peace with imbalance4:53 Detaching from routines to relinquish pressure on yourself5:35 Importance of creating structures in which self-love thrives5:49 Developing new frameworks for thinking6:22 #1 Set a goal6:29 #2 Establish your priorities6:48 #3 Reframe what consistency means to you6:52 #4 Set personal policies (i.e. boundaries)7:11 The ultimate goal-setting process8:35 Prioritize! Prioritize! Prioritize! 11:41 Importance of writing out your priorities and categorizing them within the context(s) of your goals16:04 Reframing what consistency means to you17:31 How to stop the self-sabotage cycle18:53 Simple ways to check in with yourself19:35 Utilizing habit stackingToo Collective GiveawayToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    123. How to Start Journaling, How I'm Paying for Wharton, and Martha's Vineyard Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2023 21:14


    Good morning friends and welcome to another Sunday Solo episode! Alexis is back to chat all things journaling, Wharton, and her recent trip to Martha's Vineyard.Smart Tip of the Week: Notebook & Pen for JournalingSuperficial Tip of the Week: Amazon Prime Day! Check out Alexis's StorefrontAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    122. How to Invest in Your Mind, Body, Soul, and Career; Soft Life Living, and Glow Up Tips with Jodie Taylor

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2023 60:46


    A fellow Northwestern University alum, Jodie Taylor has dedicated her career towards championing and supporting diverse entrepreneurship in and beyond the tech sector. And with her foray into TikTok, she's using her newest platform to create a space/community for women to navigate their individual journeys. On today's episode of Too Smart For This, join Alexis and Jodie as they engage in a candid conversation about womanhood, career, and all the challenges in between.Show Notes2:24 Rapid fire questions6:12 The role of curiosity in developing a rich, fulfilling life8:04 Finding more joy in Womanhood14:46 Analyzing your career from a brand viewpoint16:00 Importance of developing transferable/tactical skills to aid in switching career paths18:02 When is it time to leave a job?18:00 1) Diminishing returns 18:57 2) Check in with yourself – how is your mental well-being?19:19 3) No longer feeling challenged22:16 Living life with a sense of urgency23:24 Importance of fellowship in hard times25:56 You don't have to have it all figured it out26:50 Pour your energy into you27:06 WEAR! SUNSCREEN!27:56 Utilizing your early twenties as a medium/vehicle for self-exploration + growth30:25 Relinquishing the idea that relationships are the apex of your life34:24 Creating space for vulnerability in relationships36:05 The importance of naming your emotions38:03 Ask for your needs to be met41:52 Manifesting anything you desire 43:14 Standing firm and steadfast in what you seek in life44:46 Plastic surgery in the modern world47:06 Procedure recommendations48:59 Skincare recommendations53:39 How to: build your confidence and brand55:05 Think about your brand ethos from an outsider persecptive55:21 Take inspired action55:45 Creating a brand profile from a social standpoint56:05 Your social media presence will precede you57:52 Creating proof points for yourself to validate your self schemaResources/MentionedPaula's Choice BHA Liquid Exfoliant: https://rb.gy/okw7mObagi Medical-Grade Moisturizers: https://rb.gy/e8vpfEltaMD UV Clear Broad-Spectrum SPF: https://rb.gy/ydtptKosas Revealer Concealer: https://rb.gy/ofrg1Tower 28 Cream Bronzer: https://rb.gy/to169Refy Beauty Brow Sculpt: https://rb.gy/48yx3Rare Beauty Liquid Blush: https://rb.gy/5jajnKorean Exfoliating Mitt: https://rb.gy/yb27aDelina Exclusif Perfume: https://rb.gy/rt09hKeep up with Jodie!@jodiektay on TikTok@jkt823 on InstagramToo Collective GiveawayToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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