The Joy Junkie Show

One. More. Thing. One more thing and you may just lose your god-damned mind. If one more person asks something of you… If one more task gets added to your to-do list… You may just Lose. Your. Shit. We've all been in this crazy-ass-stressed-the-fuck-out place where we become, uh-hem, a little less than the best version of ourselves. We scream at our kids when they need something minimal. We lash out at our spouse, or friend, or co-worker when they are just trying to help. In essence, we become somewhat addicted to being super stressed out and overwhelmed.  Here's the unique thing about navigating modern stressors… When our primitive ancestors were dealing with some kind of threat, let's say a lion, they would have a sharp spike of stress, handle the stressful situation (escape the lion) and then easily be able to access a calm, tranquil space. Essentially, they were able to complete the entire stress response cycle. But now we are in many stressful situations that simply don't stop. #rememberCovid Whether it be traffic, dealing with a high-demand job, feeling threatened in your interpersonal relationships, or being stressed out about the state of the world, it's highly likely that you've been existing in your sympathetic nervous system which our bodies respond to like we're constantly running from lions. It's basically really, really fucking detrimental to our nervous systems. If this sounds like I have a hidden camera installed in your place, you need to have a listen to this week's pod. BTW, no camera (#creepy)… I've just been in this place far too many times to count. And in this episode, I discuss what spikes our fear/stress response and share a slew of simple things you can do to let go of the fear, stress, and mortal combat that may be driving you to the brink of insanity. Say hello to some serious peace, tranquility, and happy dances. This pod explores: Understanding how our fear is simply trying to keep us safe (even though it's a shitty communicator) 10+ easy ways to immediately relieve your stress My P.O.D. method for navigating extreme fear, overwhelm, and stress How to start asking for help… even if you really hate asking for help. And how that can be a fierce act of feminism.   GRAB YOUR FREE WORKSHEETS THAT ACCOMPANY THIS EPISODE This episode is part of a limited, 6-part podcast series teaching you all the tools and strategies you need to kick your confidence and self-worth into high gear. I've also created detailed (and #gorge) worksheets to accompany each episode in the series to aid you in cementing all your ah-ha moments and anchor in lasting change.  Recent scientific studies have shown that taking pen to paper helps the brain retain information substantially more than listening alone. Get ready to set powerful boundaries (without guilt), contend with fear and worry like a boss, kick imposter complex to the curb, and finally believe you are ‘enough' already. So clickety-click RIGHT HERE and grab your free worksheets!    ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: FREE WORKSHEETS WITH THIS POD SERIES FREE HYPNOTRACK on Anxiety and Fear Emily and Amelia Nagoski – Burnout  EP#317 – 10 ALL-NATURAL (FOR REAL) ANXIETY HACKS  EP#351 – THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEAR + YOUR INNER CRITIC AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT THEM EP#372 – PRIMITIVE FEAR TO MODERN ANXIETY: UNDERSTANDING THE FOUR MODERN FEAR RESPONSES [AMY SAYS] EP#393 – HOW TO WORK WITH YOUR ANXIETY  [DIAL AN EXPERT] EP#423 – NAVIGATING PATRIARCHY STRESS DISORDER WITH DR. VALERIE REIN   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Tell me if this sounds familiar: You have “this friend”… and perhaps this is someone you've known forever, maybe you saw each other through some tough times, but at this particular place in your life, this friendship has been feeling strained, frustrating, and sometimes downright toxic. But you guilt yourself saying, “Well, we've been friends since college” or “Am I a dick if I don't want to be there for her anymore?” If that sounds at all familiar, you are in the same boat that many people find themselves in when they reach their 30s and 40s and beyond. You've grown as a person, your life has changed, and your priorities have shifted. But, you still feel tethered to this historical relationship that feels more like it's robbing you dry than adding to your fulfillment. A listener of the show wrote to the pod asking how to actually let go of one of these friendships. I mean, how do you go about breaking up with a friend? Is there an approach? How do you know if you're being a big ‘ol meanie? If you've been pulled to part ways with a friendship, but have no idea what-the-hell that really looks like, you may want to have a listen. I discuss six major concepts to keep in mind (you know, to keep your shit straight) and two specific methods you can take to pull the trigger on the “break up”. Additionally, I walk you through how to deal if someone breaks up with you (or simply just ghosts you). This pod explores: How to tap into the “real” reason you're looking to end the friendship How to get connected to the way you need to conduct yourself so you're proud of your own behavior (even if the other person loses their shit) Two specific methods to “break up” with this unfulfilling friendship Four steps to aid in your healing if someone has broken up with you or isn't communicating with you any longer   PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at trylgc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~>   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: [AMY SAYS] EP#496 – HOW TO HAVE DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS (WITHOUT LOSING YOUR MIND) [AMY SAYS] EP#447 – BOUNDARY DEEP DIVE, PART 1 [AMY SAYS] EP#448 – BOUNDARY DEEP DIVE, PART 2 I NEED CLOSURE! HOW TO STOP WAITING FOR CLOSURE + START CREATING YOUR OWN EP#286 4 STEPS TO MANIFESTING DOPE-ASS FRIENDSHIPS EP#313 4 STEPS TO SILENCING YOUR INNER SHIT-TALKER EP#298 [AMY SAYS] EP#487 – THE CONNECTION BETWEEN SPEAKING UP + YOUR SELF-WORTH [AMY SAYS] EP#489 – THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND + WHY YOU DON'T FEEL ‘ENOUGH' THE TWO BELOW ARE ALL ABOUT GRIEF: THE *REAL* REASONS YOU'RE MAD + SAD, PART 1 EP#338 THE *REAL* REASONS YOU'RE MAD + SAD, PART 2 EP#339   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Every single year, over 1 million women question leaving their marriage. And nearly 70 percent of all divorces are initiated by women. And it's no wonder – Marriage makes men's lives exponentially easier while it makes women's lives drastically harder. It is clear that ‘traditional' marriage dynamics are no longer tenable for American women.  Years ago, I remember having a chat with a friend where she was lamenting that she should be grateful her husband wasn't cavorting around, cheating on her, abusing substances, or screaming obscenities at her. I clearly remember her saying, “Wow, the bar is set pretty damn low.” Seriously. Not being abused should be a given, not something to be celebrated.  In my near two decades of coaching, I have found myriad women frustrated, overwhelmed, and downright furious about the inequity in their marriage. Whilst doing all the domestic labor, holding down impressive careers, and digging deep into therapy and personal development, these women often find themselves lonely, heartbroken, and baffled at the lack of ownership and responsibility their partners were exhibiting in the relationship. No wonder recent studies cite single women without children being the happiest in our society. In this week's episode, I chat with my close pal and colleague, Kate Anthony, who has just penned a book entitled, “The ‘D' Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage”. Kate talks with me about her own divorce journey, shares about debunked studies citing divorce negatively affects children, understanding narcissism, and the courageous choice not to settle for subpar relationships. Have a listen and gain more insight on if you should stay or if you should go. This pod explores: Understanding various forms of abuse and the unexpected way financial abuse shows up  The faulty and unfounded research that propagated the notion that you should “stay together for the kids” and what new research has found Why trying to “just communicate more effectively” isn't working for you and what to focus on instead The curious place we are in history where the gender dynamics of marriage are changing dramatically   PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at trylgc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~>   THIS WEEK'S EXPERT GUESTIE Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Advocate, a Co-Parenting Specialist, and a High Conflict Divorce Coach. Connect with Kate on Facebook, Insta, or TikTok   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: [DIAL AN EXPERT] KATE ANTHONY ON ESTABLISHING BOUNDARIES – EP#397   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

At the start of every year, it's likely you get pumped up and excited to make some serious change. You decide on a handful of things that you are GOING to conquer this year, god-damn-it! But what actually makes those goals a reality?  Throughout my 15+ years in this work, I have found that noble intentions have very little to do with bringing goals to fruition. Good ol' fashioned gumption and desire are not enough to make your dreams come true. [sad trombone] In fact, a recent Inc.com article indicated that only 8% of people actually accomplish their goals. WHOA!! 8%!? Well, fuck.  But, wait.  Never fear, Babycakes, because this episode targets seven ways people tend to sabotage their own goals (without even realizing it) and how you can set yourself up to slaaaaay all your goals. It's not rocket science, but if you employ some of these easy tactics, you will kill all your 2024 goals! Yes, please!  This pod explores: My favorite tool to use to ensure you are tackling this goal for YOU (instead of mom/fam/boss/society) The number one way people lose steam while working towards a goal and how you can smoothly move beyond this obstacle like a BOSS Why you need accountability and people in your life to support you and what to do if you don't How to keep your self-talk on point so you are constantly encouraged, kicking ass, and taking names   PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at trylgc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~>   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: [AMY SAYS] EP#497 – HOW TO MAKE SHIT HAPPEN IN 2024 POD #225: Stick with It or Quit with It? Knowing When to Persevere and Knowing When to Quit Science Says Only 8% of People Actually Achieve Their Goals, Inc.com   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

If you're like most people, you have an overwhelming sense of excitement and ambition come the new year. Also like most people, perhaps you hit Jan with a fire under your ass, but when Feb rolls around you have slowly begun to lose steam, fervor, and action. Also, 2023 kicked many of our asses, so there's that to contend with. Many people (and maybe YOU) enter the New Year with many plans and intentions, but somehow end up a bit off track sooner than later. In this episode, I address the biggest obstacles people unknowingly establish for themselves when crafting New Year's goals and “resolutions”. Yep, you read that right… many people actually make their job a shit-ton harder by not setting themselves up for success to begin with. I also share my personal planning tool I use every single year to ensure I establish solid goals in aaaaall areas of my life (not just health and money… but, yes, those too). Be sure to grab your free planning guide so you can plan and organize a seriously epic 2024 by figuring out what categories in which you would like to make headway. Plus, you'll have a sexy Planning Guide to record all your brilliance! This pod explores: The two biggest mistakes people make when crafting goals for the new year How to assess where you are in your life now and where you want to be in a year's time How to create goals that are really about YOUR fulfillment, are totally attainable, and light you up Why you probably don't want to celebrate your 2023 accomplishments, but you kinda, absolutely MUST   FREE PLANNING GUIDE WITH THIS EPISODE GRAB YOURS BELOW! Did you grab your free planning guide that accompanies this episode? Get on it, Babycakes! Here's the deal: our brain takes things waaaaay more seriously when we get out of our heads and get our thoughts/commitments out on paper. It's like, science. So, OF COURSE I want you to make some serious changes and make shit happen in 2024, so be sure you have your Pod #497 planning guide with you while you (re) listen to this pod so you can get into some serious action. Trust… if you just listen and don't DO, you're not going to change a damn thing. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to get your freebies sent directly to your inbox! #yourewelcome   PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE  This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~>   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: THE TOP 5 REGRETS OF THE DAYING + HOW TO LIVE A REGRET-FREE LIFE - EP#306  [DIAL AN EXPERT] EP#436 – THE TRUTH ABOUT BODY POSITIVITY WITH DR. LEXIE KITE [DIAL AN EXPERT] EP#463 – RELEASING A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP TO ACHIEVEMENT + GOAL-SETTING WITH TARA MCMULLIN   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Hello, beauties!! I'm taking a bit of time off for the holidays and wanted to be sure to loop you in! I'll be out of the "pod office" until the new year, so stay tuned for my annual New Year Planning epidsode that will air at the beginning of Jan. #yesplease Hope you have a gorgeous holiday and if you would like some freebies to tide you over, please scoot over to amygreensmith.com/free for a bunch of awesome loot! Thank you so much for your support of the show and I can't wait to connect with you all again! Huge love, a

You get super jelly that your partner gets to have extra time off work, so you say (in a snarky-ass tone), “Wow. Must be nice to have so much free time”. Or maybe a work group you're a part of is trying to decide how to handle a specific project and instead of voicing your true thoughts you say, “We can certainly do it your way” and mutter under you breath, “And good fucking luck with that.”  What we have here, folks, are two examples of the Passive-Aggressive Communication Style. Everyone's fav. But, even though we find it infuriating, many of us do it ourselves aaaaaall the time. If you weren't properly taught how to advocate for your own wants, needs, and opinions [spoiler: none of us were], it's likely that you find yourself falling into one of the less-than-effective communication styles. Research has shown that there are four main communication styles: passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive (#guilty), and assertive. Fifty points if you can figure out which one is most effective. Yup, Assertive. But, if you're like most, you probably dip your toes in a bit of the other three. And, you certainly are not alone. In this episode, part two of two, I take a deep dive into the Passive-Aggressive and Assertive communication styles. I cover off what they typically sound like, what their go-to tactics are, what to do if you communicate this way, and what to do if you're engaging with someone who employs the Passive-Aggressive style. Be sure to have a pen and paper handy as I spell out specific verbiage and phrases you can use… like, yesterday. This pod explores: My absolute favorite tactic in calling someone out (without royally pissing them off) when they are being Passive-Aggressive How to untangle your own go-to Passive-Aggressive tendencies and what to say instead What to do if your entire family system relies on being Passive-Aggressive to communicate My favorite Assertive go-to phrases to use when you need (and want) to be clear, kind, and concise   HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. LEARN MORE >> I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs.   PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at trylgc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~>   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: #227: NO”vember: HOW TO SAY “NO” (AND NOT FEEL GUILTY)  #302: True or False: Vulnerability Edition #426: 4 Step Process to Understanding + Navigating Anger (without losing your damn mind) #428: [Amy Says] Hypnosis Session To Foster Emotional Intelligence #429: [Dial An Expert] Emotional Intelligence And Relationship Communication With Dr. Shyamala Kiru #430: Understanding + Working with the 4 Communication Styles – Part 2 The Gottman Institute Alvernia University Article: 4 Types of Communication Styles BetterHelp Article: What To Do When You Recognize Passive Behavior In Yourself Or Others   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!  

Someone does something that really bothers you, but you'd rather pull your own teeth out than have a confrontation… so you just stay quiet. Or maybe your family is so damn aggressive that you find it easier to hide in the shadows instead of “rocking the boat”.  If you weren't properly taught how to advocate for your own wants, needs, and opinions [spoiler: none of us were], it's likely that you find yourself falling into one of the less-than-effective communication styles. Research has shown that there are four main communication styles: passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive (a fan fave), and assertive. Twenty points if you can figure out which one is most effective. Yup, Assertive. But, if you're like most, you probably dip your toes in a bit of the other three. And, you certainly are not alone. In this episode, part one of two, I take a deep dive into the Passive and the Aggressive communication styles. I cover off what they typically sound like, what their go-to tactics are, what to do if you communicate this way, and what to do if you're engaging with someone who employs one of these styles. Be sure to have a pen and paper handy as I spell out specific verbiage and phrases you can use… like, yesterday. This pod explores: Understanding where a Passive Communication Style typically stems from and why it's not always a bad thing How to mitigate the eventual eruptions (hello, volcano!) that a Passive Communication often leads to The sneaky way Aggressive Communication can show up (and what to do about it) The absolute #1 priority if you are dealing with an extreme Aggressive Communicator (it's non-negotiable, y'all)   HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. LEARN MORE >> I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs.   PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~>   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: Grab your seat at my new workshop!! FOR FREE!! #304: Dealing With Confrontation (When You Hate Confrontation) #426: [Amy Says] 4 Step Process To Understanding + Navigating Anger (Without Losing Your Damn Mind) #428: [Amy Says] Hypnosis Session To Foster Emotional Intelligence #429: [Dial An Expert] Emotional Intelligence And Relationship Communication With Dr. Shyamala Kiru The Gottman institute Alvernia University Article: 4 Types of Communication Styles BetterHelp Article: What To Do When You Recognize Passive Behavior In Yourself Or Others Atlas of the Heart, Brené Brown   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!  

Ever wonder why having difficult conversations causes soooo much anxiety, often leaving you tongue-tied, frustrated with how you're getting your point across, and down-right bummed-the-fuck-out? It can be super stressful to approach a sticky topic with someone in your life, especially if you are anticipating a less than enthusiastic response. Believe it or not, there are actually a handful of things you can do to totally shift in your approach in order to get your message across in a MUCH more effective way. You know, without throwing your partner's shoes at them. This episode targets 8 steps you can easily employ to feel much more powerful when you tell your mother-in-law to stop trying to parent your kids. Or whatever other challenging topic you need to address. You'll learn the most effective way to communicate your needs (and in turn get what you want) without feeling like a big ol' asshole. This pod explores: What you need to do BEFORE you have a tough conversation in order to set yourself up for success How to begin a conversation in such a way that the other party is totally willing to hear you out How to get really clear on what you're asking for or requesting How to own your shit and feel good about what you're expressing, even if the other person isn't diggin' it   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: [AMY SAYS] EP#495 – 9 WAYS TO CONTROL YOUR TONE OF VOICE + COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY [AMY SAYS] EP#494 – 9 POWERFUL COMMUNICATION HACKS   HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. LEARN MORE >> I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs.   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!  

Ever feel like you're expressing yourself like a #boss and the other person is like, “Why are you yelling? Please don't scream at me.” And then you're all, “Whaaaa?! I'M NOT SCREAMING!” Or have you ever addressed something with your partner/bestie/co-worker and they told you your tone was a bit harsh? Um. Yeah. Me too. Recently, a listener reached out to the show and asked how she could better control her voice when talking about serious issues with her husband. Often we think we are being crystal-fucking-clear about WHAT we are saying to another person, but in the passion of our emotions, we often lose sight of HOW we are expressing our thoughts. In this episode, I spill nine, super-easy-to-implement communication hacks you can use to control your tone, not lose your ever-lovin' mind, and communicate in a way that gets your point across and your needs met. Boom. Just like that. This pod explores: My favorite body-related, go-to tactic to use in the middle of a heated conversation How to develop a “code word” or “phrase” to signal the convo is going off the rails What to do if you actually DO lose your shit and need to clean up your mess   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: [AMY SAYS] EP#494 – 9 POWERFUL COMMUNICATION HACKS   HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. LEARN MORE >> I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs.   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

You know *that thing* when you get totally caught off guard by a request and don't know how to say “No”, so you say, “Um, yeah, sure. Totally”? Or how ‘bout this one: You know you need to address something with your bestie by you keep thinking, “Am I overreacting? Am I being dramatic? I feel like I should say something, but I'm so nervous!” Or maybe your boss walks into your office and asks for another report to be completed and instead of saying “I don't think I can add one more thing to my plate”, you just verbally list out a litany of things that you have to accomplish, hoping that she'll magically get your drift. Real talk. No one teaches us how to articulate our thoughts, feelings, needs, and opinions in an effective manner. We stumble around thinking we can't ever let anyone down and god forbid we actually say “No”! So we learn to “sweep things under the rug” and tell ourselves that it's not that serious until we erupt like a god-damned volcano.  If you're sick of this rat race, but still don't know #WTF to say, then prepare to burn a hole in this episode. I go off about nine, easy-to-implement communication hacks that will have you speaking up for yourself and feeling damn good about it. Get your pen and paper ready because this is your new bible. This pod explores: Tons of specific phrases/scripts you can use in the toughest of interactions My go-to word to use to kick off a tough conversation like a boss How to stop those arguments before they even start (for reals) How to use humor and sarcasm without being a total asshat   HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. LEARN MORE >> I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs.   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!  

Um. I guess I kinda lied. BUT I DIDN'T MEAN TO!

Taking a quick break from the show to catch up on a few things. Be sure to grab your freebies! "See" you next week!

One of the most amazing things about our current social climate is the influx of personal growth concepts and ideas. Although it's been beautiful to see the self-help space blossom and expand, there are certainly some ways in which these concepts can stir up problems and sticking points. For instance… Ever have a situation where you're all pumped up to speak up for yourself and the other person does NOT react well? Or have you ever heard a new podcast or read a book and your first thought was that you HAVE TO tell your sister about it because Lawd, knows she needs it… and you completely forget to look at the application to YOUR life? Or maybe you've fallen into a hoarding pattern… where you collect program after program or book after book and you don't actually implement what you're learning. Or maybe they simply collect dust on your bookshelf or hard drive. If any of those examples rings a bell, you'll #def want to catch this episode. I share 6 ways self-help can go wrong and what you can do about it. And, trust, the remedies are actually super simple. Have a listen, call yourself out if needed, and get your ass back to your powerful life. This pod explores: Why some of your friends/fam may not be that interested (at all) in hearing about your personal growth  Why thinking “I've already dealt with this!” will actually set you back and how to shift your thinking to something more powerful How to know if you are a personal development “collector” and how to actually IMPLEMENT what you've been learning How to check that you aren't branding someone as “toxic” simply so you can avoid a tough convo WORTHY. APPLICATIONS OPEN THRU 8.28.23! 1 SPOT LEFT! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? The doors are officially open for an exclusive, group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello! Want in? Of course you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get the invitation and apply for WORTHY. so we can get shit handled. HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Just believe in yourself, they said. It will be easy, they said. Good vibes only, they said. So, why-the-hell does it feel like it will take an act of god to actually believe in yourself!? If you've ever found yourself wondering why self belief feels so damn illusive, you are certainly not alone. I mean, if you're worried about what others think about you and you constantly find yourself spinning off into the land of “what ifs” it can be hard to simply tell yourself “you've got this” and actually believe it, amiright!? In this week's episode, I share 10 tangible tips you can implement TODAY that will aid you in cultivating some confidence and belief in self. Maybe you find yourself second guessing every choice you make or everything you say. Maybe you worry what your family will think if you tell them you aren't a fan of marriage or having kids or running the family business. Or maybe you're just sick and tired of getting in your own way so damn much. If any of that sounds like you, be sure to grab a pen and paper because this episode is loaded with ideas you'll want to record and use. Like, yesterday. This pod explores: My favorite confidence-boosting assignment that will give you an immediate dopamine hit When to use positive self-talk to pump yourself up and when it is absolute WORST thing you can do (Wait, what!? Yep.) Understanding the science behind self-belief and knowing that confidence is available for absolutely everyone (Yes, YOU) One of the most effective tools in snapping you out of the “what if” spiral WORTHY. APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN! 1 SPOT LEFT! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? The doors are officially open for an exclusive, group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello! Want in? Of course you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get the invitation and apply for WORTHY. so we can get shit handled. ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEAR + YOUR INNER CRITIC AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT THEM EP#351 TRUE OR FALSE: INNER CRITIC EDITION EP#352 [AMY SAYS] EP#487 – THE CONNECTION BETWEEN SPEAKING UP + YOUR SELF-WORTH [AMY SAYS] EP#488 – THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING ‘NOT ENOUGH' + BELIEVING YOU'RE ‘NOT ENOUGH' AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT [AMY SAYS] EP#489 – THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND + WHY YOU DON'T FEEL ‘ENOUGH' [AMY SAYS] EP#490 – 6 WAYS TO TACKLE DISEMPOWERING PERFECTIONISM + CATAPULT YOUR SELF-WORTH [AMY SAYS] EP#491 – 6 WAYS A STRONG SELF-WORTH AFFECTS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!      

Recently, in one of my programs, the topic came up about how our relationships start to change as we get further and further into personal development. Sometimes you come up against some opposition from a handful of peeps in your life who don't really love the “new, empowered you”… The “you” who is setting boundaries. The “you” who is standing up for themselves and knows how they deserve to be treated.  But… something we haven't talked about as much on the pod is the multitude of other ways that your relationships start to change as you begin to grow and take a stand for yourself – When you start to actually believe that you're “enough”. And, often, when you're in the painful, murky waters of looking at all of your shit, you just want to know that something good is going to be on the other side. I mean… tell me that I will love my life even if I'm setting all these boundaries… it won't always be this hard, right? RIGHT!?  So, this week, I thought I would dig into 6 ways that a strong sense of self-worth radically impacts your relationships For. The. Better. So, you can look at this journey through the lens of what you're gaining instead of what feels painful. Have a listen and change your perspective on this roller coaster we call Personal Growth. This pod explores: How valuing yourself changes how you address what you need in any given relationship How worthiness changes how much you blame others (like, if only my mom wasn't such a nag… ) How a strong self-worth changes the sorts of relationships you are willing to tolerate The absolute BEST side effect of cultivating your worth and self-love (Hint: It involves other badasses) WORTHY. APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN! 2 SPOTS REMAIN! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? The doors are officially open for an exclusive, group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello! Want in? Of course you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get the invitation and apply for WORTHY. so we can get shit handled. ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: [AMY SAYS] EP#487 – THE CONNECTION BETWEEN SPEAKING UP + YOUR SELF-WORTH [AMY SAYS] EP#488 – THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING ‘NOT ENOUGH' + BELIEVING YOU'RE ‘NOT ENOUGH' AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT [AMY SAYS] EP#489 – THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND + WHY YOU DON'T FEEL ‘ENOUGH' [AMY SAYS] EP#490 – 6 WAYS TO TACKLE DISEMPOWERING PERFECTIONISM + CATAPULT YOUR SELF-WORTH HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

I used to flippantly refer to myself as a Perfectionist and oftentimes I would refer to it being a badge of honor. As I got older and my anxiety increased, I realized that being a chronic perfectionist was actually STEALING my joy instead of making my job easier. But, how does one just stop being a perfectionist? Perhaps you find yourself in the same boat; Vacillating between being SOLD on the idea that everything has to be just perfect and the conflicting desire to let things “go with the flow” or just be “good enough”. If you've found yourself in this dance, you are most certainly not alone. In this week's episode, I break down just how detrimental the strive for perfection can be and how it often leads to much suffering, frustration, and angst. Additionally, I dig into 6, easy-to-implement steps you can take to begin allowing room for your humanity without sacrificing excellence and how you can maintain your integrity AND your sanity. This pod explores: Why “Perfect” doesn't really exist and how the pursuit of perfection can be #supes detrimental – But how it also can be exactly what is called for sometimes (Wait, WHAT!?) How to figure out the personal “Rules” you've established for yourself that have locked you into perfectionism and chronically delay your happiness My favorite tool to catch and re-route your perfectionism in the moment (without overthinking it to death) How to allow room for excellence and integrity in what you do, without the “pressure of perfect” WORTHY. APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? The doors are officially open for an exclusive, group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello! Want in? Of course you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get the invitation and apply for WORTHY. so we can get shit handled. ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: EP#306 – THE TOP 5 REGRETS OF THE DYING + HOW TO LIVE A REGRET-FREE LIFE [AMY SAYS] EP#459 – THE CONNECTION BETWEEN PERFECTIONISM, PROCRASTINATION, AND FEELING STUCK + WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT [AMY SAYS] EP#487 – THE CONNECTION BETWEEN SPEAKING UP + YOUR SELF-WORTH [AMY SAYS] EP#488 – THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING ‘NOT ENOUGH' + BELIEVING YOU'RE ‘NOT ENOUGH' AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT [AMY SAYS] EP#489 – THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND + WHY YOU DON'T FEEL ‘ENOUGH' HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Have you ever wanted to change a belief about yourself and so you gather up all your new-founded enthusiasm and hope and begin diligently repeating positive mantras to yourself? But your enthusiasm is short-lived because the minute you begin speaking kindly to yourself, your inner shit-talker jumps in and tells you how ridiculous this whole self-talk thing is and how cute that you think you can do a damn thing about your lack of self-worth. If you've ever rolled your eyes at someone telling you to “just think positively” and you're like, “Wow! I never thought of that!” then you know exactly what I'm talking about. Here's the deal: What we want to believe consciously doesn't matter… like at all, UNLESS it's congruent with the beliefs in your subconscious mind. So if you have a deep seated belief that you aren't ‘enough' and you try to tell yourself otherwise, the beliefs in the subconscious mind will win every time. Every. Time. So how-the-hell does one change a belief that has a death grip on the subconscious mind? So glad you asked. In this episode I explore how beliefs are made, the different tools of the conscious and subconscious mind, and what you can do right now to start changing your relationship to your ‘enoughness'. This pod explores: Why your Inner Critic is not your enemy and is often SPOT ON. Wait, WHAT!? I know. My favorite self-talk ‘hack' to get around your Inner Critic if it's talking shit The two major ways to change beliefs How you came to the conclusion that you aren't worthy, ‘enough', or loveable   WORTHY. APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? The doors are officially open for an exclusive, group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello! Want in? Of course you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get the invitation and apply for WORTHY. so we can get shit handled.   ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: EP#372 – PRIMITIVE FEAR TO MODERN ANXIETY: UNDERSTANDING THE FOUR MODERN FEAR RESPONSES [DIAL AN EXPERT] EP#483 – ALCOHOL, ADDICTION, + REFRAMING SHAME WITH ANNIE GRACE This Naked Mind by Annie Grace [AMY SAYS] EP#487 – THE CONNECTION BETWEEN SPEAKING UP + YOUR SELF-WORTH [AMY SAYS] EP#488 – THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING ‘NOT ENOUGH' + BELIEVING YOU'RE ‘NOT ENOUGH' AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT   HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes   WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!  

Have you ever had a situation where you were super disappointed, hurt, or overwhelmed and you jumped to the conclusion that you must certainly not be ‘enough'? Perhaps you've been having a difficult time finding a job and the stress you've been feeling has you non-stop thinking how you mess everything up. Or that you simply aren't smart enough. Or maybe you had a friend distance themselves from you and you interpret the hurt you feel to mean you aren't worth being friends with. When we are feeling uncomfortable emotions, it can be so easy to immediately conclude that we aren't worthy, lovable, or deserving of the life we want. Our emotions are fleeting experiences, yet we often create a lasting, all-encompassing story about who we are. As in, if this person doesn't love me, I must not be lovable. The first experience is a fleeting life situation with short-term emotions, so why do we make up a bullshit story that we carry through the rest of our lives? In this episode, I look at the difference between the emotions we feel around not being “enough” and how that differs from a deep-seated belief that you aren't enough. This is a deep dive on emotional intelligence, how to feel through hardship to gain healing, and why you are never, ever wrong for what you feel. Get ready to untangle your temporary emotions from your sense of self-worth. This pod explores: Understanding how to work with your emotions (instead of eating/drinking them away) Understanding the difference between physical feelings and emotional feelings (and why we commonly conflate the two) My house metaphor and how it can dramatically change your view of your worth The first two steps to take toward untangling your emotions from you self-worth   GET ON THE VIP LIST! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? I'm about to open the doors for an exclusive, small group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO all-inclusive, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello! Want in? Of course, you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get on the VIP list and be the first to be notified when the application window is open for WORTHY. ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: ATLAS OF THE HEART BY BRENÉ BROWN EP#356 – UNDERSTANDING EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE – CONNECTING WHAT YOU FEEL WITH WHAT YOU DO EP#370 – TRUE OR FALSE: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE EDITION [AMY SAYS] EP#428 – HYPNOSIS SESSION TO FOSTER EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE [DIAL AN EXPERT] EP#429 – EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE AND RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION WITH DR. SHYAMALA KIRU [AMY SAYS] EP#487 – THE CONNECTION BETWEEN SPEAKING UP + YOUR SELF-WORTH HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

When I'm a guest on podcasts, I am frequently asked, What does speaking up have to do with self-worth? What is the connection? What do they have to do with one another? I get it… It seems like we silo many personal development topics without looking at how they directly connect with one another. Or how they impact one another. In this episode, I discuss how the act of speaking up for yourself or establishing boundaries can directly influence how worthy you feel. Think about it like this: Do you think most people who are confident, love themselves, and believe they are ‘enough' have a difficult time speaking up for themselves? No, Not really. When you are truly anchored into the belief that you really, truly matter, it's not likely you'll be phased by folks not liking what you have to say.  Additionally, I discuss how soooo many cards have been stacked against women as they fight to find their intrinsic “enoughness”. In fact, almost everywhere you turn you are being told that you are certainly not thin enough, successful enough, a good enough parent, you name it. We'll look at how the subconscious mind impacts your belief about yourself, how to figure out the folks in your life who prefer the people-pleasing version of you (yikes!), and the first step you can take to give a little booster shot to your self-worth. This pod explores: The message you send to your subconscious mind every time you're afraid to speak up for yourself [hint: it's not good] How to figure out who benefits from you staying quiet The four major categories you must address if you want to change the belief that you aren't enough Understanding the impact of social hierarchies on self-worth and how you can create radical change by establishing boundaries GET ON THE VIP LIST! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? I'm about to open the doors for an exclusive, small group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO all-inclusive, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello! Want in? Of course, you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get on the VIP list and be the first to be notified when the application window is open for WORTHY. ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: [AMY SAYS] EP#428 – HYPNOSIS SESSION TO FOSTER EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE [AMY SAYS] EP#396 HOW-THE-HELL TO ESTABLISH LASTING BOUNDARIES [TOOL] EP#387 – HYPNOSIS SESSION TO HEAL THE IMPOSTER COMPLEX EP#352 – TRUE OR FALSE: INNER CRITIC EDITION EP#351 – THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEAR + YOUR INNER CRITIC AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT THEM EP#298 – 4 STEPS TO SILENCING YOUR INNER SHIT-TALKER EP#261 – SHIT YOUR INNER CRITIC TELLS YOU ABOUT PLEASING OTHERS FREE HYPNOSIS TRACK ON DEALING WITH ANXIETY AND FEAR HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!      

Hi, friends!  Quick note to let y'all know that your girl is a bit burnt out at the moment and am taking some time off of the podcast. I am taking off the remainder of April and May and possibly June, but stay subscribed so you'll be the first to see new episodes when they drop!  Thank you for your continued support of the show through the years and I am so incredibly honored to be a small part of your journey.  Stay tuned for fun stuff coming up and in the meantime, be sure you've snagged all my freebies over at https://amygreensmith.com/free/. So much love to you, my friend!

  Because we live in a culture that values logic, reason, and rationale over intuition, it is likely you have come across individuals who are leery (or even fearful) of psychics, mediums, and the healing and lessons gleaned from such modalities. Maybe you have always been curious if your loved ones are still with you or if you could connect with your spirit guides to aid you in making a challenging decision. Maybe you receive messages that seemingly come out of nowhere, but you don't want to be ‘silly' and give them any credence. Maybe you have a difficult ailment or disease that has been bothering you and you'd love to know if there is any deeper meaning behind this struggle.  So much clarity, healing, and comfort can be accessed by working with a skilled medium or psychic who is capable of conducting past life regressions. I first learned about this process in Hypnotherapy school and I was eager to learn more. What support can we gather from a past life? Is that even real? Aren't people just making up stories about their past lives? Seems a bit too woo, right? Or perhaps we live in a culture that doesn't encourage spirituality, leaning on your intuition, and connecting with others on a spiritual plane. Maybe that's why it seems a bit “out there”. Rounding out our final episode in our Spirituality Series, I called up my pal, Denise Correll, who is an Evidential Medium and Psychic to get her take on Past Life Regression and how that relates to mental health and wellness. Denise explains how she works with “Blending” to express messages from those who have passed on, the boundaries she has to establish so as to not overload herself with persistent energies, and if she has ever had to fire one of her spirit guides. This is a juicy one you won't want to miss! This pod explores: Denise's favorite tools to help you tap into your psychic ability (and it's actually super simple) Understanding the “Auric Field” and how we absorb energies of those around us… Hello, Energy Vampires! The difference between psychic abilities and mediumship and how we can all condition these skills The age when your psychic abilities tend to make themselves known HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF   I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs.   RESOURCES Edgar Cayce's A.R.E.    THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Denise is a psychic medium who has been highly sensitive since she was very young. She is able to connect with the energies present in a person's life as well as those in Spirit. Denise's father was a gifted psychic medium who always told her to listen to that little voice within. She has this same gift of clairaudience as well as clairsentience, clairvoyance, and claircognizance. As an empath, she deeply feels emotions and often physical symptoms a person may be experiencing. Her mother was also very intuitive, so growing up in a home where these gifts were seen as a normal part of life was a gift beyond measure. After many years hiding these talents and natural abilities, she is so very grateful and thankful to be able to share these gifts and be of service in bringing through messages to help people connect with their own inner knowing and light. Denise is the cohost of the podcast Enlightened Empaths which focuses on how to navigate this world as a highly sensitive empathic person. Prior to her current work, Denise was a special education teacher for many, many years. She lived all over the country and taught all grade levels from pre-K through community college. Her undergraduate degree is in Emotional Disturbance, and her masters degree is in Educational Leadership with post graduate work in education and counseling. Connect with Denise on her website or on Insta. ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

It's likely you've seen psychics or mediums on television or on social media (Hi, Tyler Henry!) but that's about as far as mainstream media goes in discussing spiritual matters outside of religion. Until fairly recently I couldn't tell you what the “Four Clairs” are (as in… CLAIRvoyant, etc.) or distinguish the difference between channeling or mediumship. Because this realm of spirituality was demonized (quite literally) for me growing up, I have an increased fascination and curiosity about various spiritual modalities.  Perhaps you are the same. I have found that many of the women I work with are very curious about experiencing a spiritual world outside of religion. Perhaps you speculate about what happens when we die. Maybe you wonder if you are receiving signs from loved ones who have passed on. Or perhaps you would like to learn more about spirit and angel guides. Maybe you even connect with them regularly without really realizing it. Furthering our series on Spirituality, I give a call to my pal Michaela McGivern who is a psychic, a medium, and an energy healer with over two decades of experience. We talk about Michaela's difficult childhood and how she dealt with her gifts while hiding them from her family, the easiest way to connect with loved ones who have passed, and how connecting with the afterlife can allow access to unbelievable healing. Packed with woo and even more love, this episode is a must-hear. This pod explores: Michaela's favorite process to connect with loved ones who have passed on The one spiritual practice she does every single day (and it's actually super simple) How nature can be our biggest guide in slowing down and being present You first place to start if you want to connect with spirit guides or angel guides (no special training necessary) HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ RESOURCES POD #484: [Dial An Expert] Spirit Guides + Lessons From The Afterlife With Suzanne Falter Desda Zuckerman and Your Sacred Anatomy ____ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Hello, my name is Michaela, and I'm a Psychic, Medium, and Energy Medicine Healer. I have 22 years' experience and am clairaudient, claircognizant, and clairsentient. My aim is to provide you with healing and guidance that is delivered with compassion and serves your soul's highest Evolution. As a Medium, I am honored to be the bridge between those on earth and those who have crossed over. I bring answers that you are seeking and messages of reassurance and heart connections. Clients find that mediumship sessions help release pain and grief while establishing a new foundation for their life. In addition to my Psychic and Medium experience, I have had an Energy Medicine and Shamanic practice since 2000 and provide deep transformational healing I was a Licensed Occupational Therapist from 1981-2020. Connect with Michaela on her website. ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

When Suzanne Falter's daughter suffered an unexpected and unexplainable cardiac arrest at the fragile age of twenty-two, she had no idea that her daughter's death would open up a completely different world to her. She never thought that ten years later she would write a book on the many lessons her daughter, Teal, would teach her from the afterlife. At the time of her daughter's passing, Suzanne was in the throes of hustle culture – doing, doing, doing, so much so that she couldn't be bothered to look up from her work to enjoy a sunset.  I wanted to bring Suzanne on the show to talk about the precious experiences she has had communicating with Teal from beyond the grave and how that informs the work she does in the world. In this tender and intimate discussion, I share some of my own experiences of communicating with my father who has passed and how meaning and guidance is often all around us… we only need to get out of our way to see them.  We talk about what it means to truly surrender, what to do if you feel like you suck at meditation, and how to let go of all the stress, overwhelm, and worry that clouds you from operating at high vibration. In Suzanne's memoir, entitled Free Spirited, she writes, “First she would have to die, then I would as well so we'd both be reborn in completely different ways.” If you like the idea of connecting with the afterlife or your spirit guides but have no idea where to start, you won't want to miss this one. This pod explores: The messages Suzanne received from her daughter during the 6 days she was in a coma What it truly means to surrender and why so many of us don't do it How Suzanne has learned to channel and communicate with her daughter and her spirit guides (even though she resisted it for so long) The absolute first place you need to start to cultivate a strong spiritual self and connect with your loved ones who have passed on _______ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF.   I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______  PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at trylgc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> ______ RESOURCES POD #482: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Privilege, Race, And Addiction With Laura Cathcart Robbins POD 483: [Dial An Expert] Alcohol, Addiction, + Reframing Shame With Annie Grace ____ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Suzanne Falter is the author of a memoir about her daughter Teal's death Free Spirited; How My Daughter Healed Me from the Afterlife. She is an intuitive healer who helps people suffering from upset, confusion, and stress. She also hosts the Self-Care for Extremely Busy Women podcast, where she brings better self-care to thousands of busy people each week in 98 countries around the globe. ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Did you know that alcohol is addictive… to everyone? Not just those with “addictive personalities” (which may not even be a real thing), but literally everyone. All human bodies. And did you know that alcohol is a carcinogen? As in, it fucking CAUSES CANCER? How ‘bout this one… did you know that the word “alcoholic” is an outdated term and experts categorize alcohol consumption as Alcohol Use Disorder, which of course has a broad spectrum. Did you know that nearly anyone who drinks alcohol, even in “moderation” would be categorized as having Alcohol Use Disorder? Whoa. This week on the show, I'm chatting with Annie Grace who is one of the most predominant voices in the alcohol-free movement. Until I stumbled on Annie's work, I had no idea that alcohol was addictive for everyone, let alone that it can cause cancer. And how would I? Every other item we consume from food to cigarettes to prescription drugs come with a host of information and warnings. But alcohol? Nope. You basically get the alcohol content and that's about it. No warnings. No “hey, this shit could be the death of you!” or anything. And, let's not forget that our culture sexifies everything surrounding alcohol… it makes you relax, you can escape your kids/stress/problems, you are wildly more entertaining, and of course, you are way more attractive. In this candid conversation, I chat with Annie about her personal relationship with alcohol, recent neuroscience highlighting efficacy in behavioral change (aka why white-knucking doesn't work), and your first place to start if you want to get more curious and intentional about how much alcohol you consume.  This pod explores: How to use Annie's ACT technique when processing uncomfortable emotion The role self-trust plays in your relationship to substances Why the term “alcoholic” can be hugely problematic in certain cases How to remove (or scale down) on the shame and blame involved with being alcohol-free _____ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ RESOURCES POD #482: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Privilege, Race, And Addiction With Laura Cathcart Robbins  Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett Dr. BJ Fogg ____ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Annie Grace is the author of This Naked Mind: Control Alcohol, Find Freedom, Discover Happiness & Change Your Life and The Alcohol Experiment: A 30-day, Alcohol-Free Challenge to Interrupt Your Habits and Help You Take Control.  She grew up outside Aspen, Colorado, in a one-room log cabin without running water or electricity. Having discovered a passion for marketing, Annie Grace earned a Masters of Science (Marketing) and dove into corporate life. As the youngest vice president in a multinational company at the age of 26, her drinking career began in earnest. At 35, in a global C-level marketing role, she was responsible for marketing in 28 countries; she was drinking almost two bottles of wine a night. Knowing she needed a change but unwilling to submit to a life of deprivation and stigma, Annie Grace embarked on a journey to painlessly gain control of alcohol — for her that process resulted in no longer wanting to drink. Never happier, she left her executive role to write and share This Naked Mind with the world.  In her free time, she loves to ski, travel (26 countries and counting), and enjoy her beautiful family. Annie Grace lives with her husband and three children in the Colorado mountains. Find out more about Annie's FREE Alcohol Experiment  ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

After a secret, six-year love affair with prescription drugs and alcohol, Laura Cathcart Robbins begrudgingly checked herself in rehab. She knew that if she had any hope of a future and any hope of parenting her precious children, she needed to get some help. And, fast. And the timing couldn't have been worse. She was in the beginning stages of what could potentially be a horribly contentious divorce and had just signed on to a prestigious community position. In the space of a short ten months, Laura had ended a very high-profile marriage, went to rehab, got sober and fell in love.  This week on the show, I chat with Laura about the chronology of her addiction, including a brief stint with freebasing cocaine, hiding pills and booze in a vault of shoe boxes, and terror she felt when she realized that her maternal instinct to caretake for her children, THE driving force in her life, was now superseded by the drive to get high. The strongest pull she had ever known was now dethroned by the urge to use.  In this candid and unabashed interview, Laura shares her elitism around her addiction and how that kept her from getting the help she needed, her defense tactic of stonewalling others, and how she healed herself from taking ten Ambien daily… washed down with a few shots of Vodka. We discuss how her perspective on intimacy and vulnerability has changed in her relationships now that she's in recovery, the role race and privilege played in her addiction, and the first step you should take if you are concerned about your substance use. This pod explores: Understanding the difference between privacy and secrecy and how addiction thrives in secrecy How Laura defines addiction and how it shows up in our work, fitness, and relationships How Laura opened up to vulnerability and what her first step was (spoiler: you can do it to) Exploring the lack of Black and Brown voices the recovery space and how Laura is shifting that paradigm _______ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______  PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at trylgc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> ______ RESOURCES Postcards From the Edge, Carrie Fisher Drinking: A Love Story, Caroline Knapp A Drinking Life, Pete Hamill ______ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Laura Cathcart Robbins is the host of the popular podcast, The Only One In The Room, and author of the forthcoming Atria/Simon & Schuster memoir, STASH (March 7, 2023). She has been active for many years as a speaker and school trustee and is credited for creating The Buckley School's nationally recognized committee on Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Justice. Her recent articles in Huffpo and The Temper on the subjects of race, recovery, and divorce have garnered her worldwide acclaim. She is a 2022 TEDx Speaker and LA Moth StorySlam winner. Currently, she sits on the advisory boards of the San Diego Writer's Festival and the Outliers HQ podcast Festival. Connect with Laura on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

If you're like most women in our culture, one says the word “health” and that immediately conjures up thoughts about losing weight, exercising, and you know… just being as skinny and appealing to men as possible. Thanks, Patriarchy. But, there are soooo many areas of health… and none of them are about anyone else except YOU.  Listen, if something related to your health is uncomfortable for you, IT MATTERS. Full stop. You have pain during sex or with your period? It matters. You have pain in your gums, feel exhausted all the time, or have a tough time being around certain people? It matters. You deserve to find your healing in every area of your life. Whether that's making your dental appointments or learning to establish boundaries. In this final health-focused episode, I dig into four major categories of our health as well as actionable steps you can take in each category to feel your absolute best. This is not about doing all 40+ items in this pod (I see you, Overachiever), but rather to start truly listening to your body, mind, and spirit, and figure out what health really means to YOU. What activities, people, foods, movement, or education bring you happiness and fulfillment? Time to find out because they all affect your health, my friend. Get your notebooks out because this pod is a “healthy” dose of actionable homework. [See what I did there?]  This pod explores: What-the-hell Sleep Hygiene is and why it's so important Why stalking out your ex (or ex-bestie) on Insta is super bad for your health My favorite exercise to do every morning to improve your mental and emotional health Why you need to have an orgasm (aka Vitamin O) every week   ______ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ RESOURCES Free-sources – some free ways I can help!! Pod #227: “No”Vember: How To Say “No” (And Not Feel Guilty)  POD #250: Tough Convos 101   POD #298: Steps To Silencing Your Inner Shit-Talker Ep#298 POD #313: 4 Steps To Manifesting Dope-Ass Friendships   POD #359: Necessary Rest: What It Means To Truly Restore POD #447: [Amy Says] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 1 POD #448: [Amy Says] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 2 [AMY SAYS] EP#466 – 7 Ways to Amp Up Your Self-Confidence POD #479: [Dial An Expert] Period Pain Is Not Normal (And Other Women's Health Issues) With Dr. Saru Bala POD #480: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Codependency, Polyvagal Theory + Regulating Your Nervous System with Victoria Albina Environmental Working Group PlayFitt ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

So you've been stressed the-f-out, constantly overwhelmed and anxious and you've been noticing that this constant state of hustle, hustle, hustle, is starting to feel like your new normal. Only it's not normal. You're wondering if this is what burnout feels like. And your entire nervous system is screaming at you to slooooooow down. In fact, sometimes when you have down time you're in such a heightened state, that you have a hellova time calming down… reaching for something to “do” while you relax. But, what is actually happening in your nervous system? Many times, when we get into these states of stress, we blame either ourselves, for taking on too much or not being able to handle enough, or we blame external forces. We think that it's our boss's fault or our partner's fault, and whilst there may be some culpable parties, blame really doesn't ever help you feel better. And being pissed that you're anxious hasn't really helped either. But, if you really understood what was happening in your nervous system, you could utilize tools to self-regulate or co-regulate.  Ok, great. But wtf does this really look like? Furthering our series on women's health, I dialed up my pal Victoria Albina who is a Nurse Practitioner, Life Coach, and authority on all things nervous system. We chat all about her take on Polyvagal Theory (wait, what's that?), the three main states of our autonomic nervous system, and how we can work with that system to calm-the-fuck down already. We also discuss how all of this relates to codependency in our lives. Yep, all connected. If you've found yourself in a near constant state of stress and overwhelm, this episode will take you to school.  This pod explores: Understanding Polyvagal Theory and how it impacts your daily life Evaluating what it looks like to be in a “dysregulated state” and how to self-regulate or co-regulate The Ventral Vagal state of our parasympathetic nervous system and how accessing this state allows us to be present, creative and connected Victoria's 3C's of Feminist Wellness and how you can get your hands on her free meditations _______ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______  PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> ______ RESOURCES Free-sources – some free ways I can help!! Pod #479: [Dial An Expert] Period Pain Is Not Normal (And Other Women's Health Issues) With Dr. Saru Bala ______ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE María-Victoria Albina (she/her) is a Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner and Breathwork Meditation Guide with a passion for helping women realize that they are their own best healers, so they can break free from codependency, perfectionism and people-pleasing and reclaim their joy. She is the host of the Feminist Wellness Podcast, is trained in Somatic Experiencing and other somatic modalities, holds a Master's degree in Public Health from Boston University School of Public Health and a BA in Latin American Studies from Oberlin College. María-Victoria has been working in health & wellness for over 20 years and lives on occupied Munsee Lenape territory in New York's Hudson Valley. >> Grab Victoria's FREE meditations. 

I heard something pretty profound recently – Something that shocked the shit out of me, if I'm honest. I was watching a TikTok video where a Naturopathic Doctor was discussing the three things related to hormones she intends to teach her daughter when she grows up. You know what number one was? She said, “I'm going to be sure she knows that painful periods are NOT NORMAL.” Wait, what!? As I began to scour this woman's vids, I started to see a trend… many of the symptoms I experience around my period or even in my everyday life are actually totally treatable. In fact, this doc tends to see her patients dramatically (if not permanently) eradicate their symptoms in just 2-3 menstrual cycles. WHOA. So, of course, I'm all perked up and listening. And, I'm thinking, I need to get this woman on the podcast! This is shit that every woman needs to know. You can see where I'm going with this. This week on the show, I'm dialing up Dr. Saru Bala who spills the details on all things woman's hormone health. We talk about the importance of gut health (and what-the-hell that even means) on the female hormonal system, how to know if you have excessive bleeding during your cycle, and what discomfort is normal for your period… and what absolutely is not. As in… you shouldn't have to call out sick to work.  Oh, AND… If you've gotten aaaaaall the lab work done and it keeps coming back “normal,” yet you feel like shit, you won't want to miss this episode. We discuss how blood work is only a fraction of what needs to be addressed, how stress factors into the equation, and Dr. Saru's favorite 3-step process to lessen your stress instantly. Don't miss this one, my friend! This pod explores: The absolute first place to start if you have a litany of symptoms are overstressed, under-rested, and dying for solutions Understanding gut health and how it is related to your hormones and periods Dr. Saru's favorite (FREE!) breathwork app to immediately improve your sleep hygiene Understanding the effect of blood sugar on your mood How to know if an alternative healing practitioner is the real deal _______ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Dr. Bala is a licensed Naturopathic Doctor with a degree from Bastyr University in Seattle, Washington. Prior to attending medical school, she received her Bachelor's degree in Neurobiology from the University of Texas at Austin. She has done extra training in the areas of women's health and naturopathic endocrinology. Currently, her primary focus is on managing chronic hormonal issues such as PMS, period pain, heavy bleeding, fibroids, endometriosis, Hashimoto's, fertility, and other women's hormonal health concerns. Connect with Dr. Bala on her website, TikTok, and Insta.   ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

So... I've got nothin'. That's right. No pod this week. [womp, womp] And next week too. What!? I know. Listen, I really didn't want to let you down. But, if I've learned anything in the last fifteen years I've been teaching personal development, it is the importance of walking my talk. If I am telling you to take care of yourself, then I should certainly do the same. And I really just needed a few weeks off from creating the podcast. Not to worry... I will be right back in your inbox and podcast feed on February 20th with a brand-new series. In the meantime, why not check out my free eWorkbook on cultivating self-worth and self-confidence? You can grab all of the deets below. Sending heaps of love your way! Amy ------------------------------------------ HAVE YOU GRABBED THIS FREE WORKBOOK YET? Learn how to find your voice and USE IT! My free eWorkbook, Speak Up for Yourself Without Being a Dick, features 9 proven challenges designed to radically improve self-confidence and self-worth. Yes, please! If you need to learn how to start saying “No” to shit you just don't want to do (like that family function your mom has been guilting you about) or want to stop being ruled by fear and constant concern about what everyone else thinks, then you need to get your paws on this lovely little eWorkbook, stat. Designed to create radical change in a short period of time, Speak Up for Yourself Without Being a Dick, offers 9, easy-to-implement challenges designed to rapidly increase your self-confidence and self-worth. Go here or click the fancy image to download your free copy. Get some. #youwontbesorry

=>> HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? EARLY-BIRD PRICING THROUGH TOMORROW! You're scrollin' through Insta or Facebook and you see all these lovely inspirational memes about self-care and making yourself important and you're like, “Yeah, lemme just book a facial. That should help me feel less stress from my shit job.” If you've been cynical about self-care, honey, I feel you. Self-care's online reputation would have you believing that taking care of yourself is all about mani/pedi's, bubble baths, and massages. While these things definitely fall in the self-care category, there are actually WAY more ways to take care of yourself… most likely in ways you haven't even thought of. In this week's pod, I share four-ish major categories of your life that are often overlooked when it comes to truly taking care of yourself. If you've been feeling like you just don't have the desire for a home spa day, but you KNOW something's gotta change or you're going to lose your shit, this episode is a MUST-LISTEN. This pod explores: What-the-hell boundaries have to do with self-care The number one area where Perfectionists tend to majorly lack self-care Dental visits, work relationships,‘Being Lazy', and other surprising forms of self-care ________ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? EARLY-BIRD PRICING THROUGH TOMORROW! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! __________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: Pod #313: 4 Steps To Manifesting Dope-Ass Friendships POD #359: Necessary Rest: What It Means To Truly Restore POD #401: [AMY SAYS] How to Manifest Your Soulmate – Part 1 POD #402: [AMY SAYS] How to Manifest Your Soulmate – Part 2 POD #447: [AMY SAYS] EP#447 – Boundary Deep Dive, Part 1 POD #448: [AMY SAYS] EP#448 – Boundary Deep Dive, Part 2 POD #476: Self-Love and Feeling Good Naked with Chardét Ryel POD #477: [Amy Says] 10 Ways to Boost Self-Love Come As You Are with Dr. Emily Nagoski ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Flip through Insta or Facebook and you'll find a litany of “Love Yourself” and “Just Think Positive” memes and you're likely over here like, “Lemme get right on that.” When you've been struggling to simply accept yourself, actually loving yourself can feel like it would take an act of god. Perhaps you see super confident people and wonder how the hell they actually like themselves so much? Like, how can I get a piece of what she's having? Here's the problem: No one ever teaches you how to love yourself… or speak kindly to yourself… or pay attention to your needs. Lucky for you, I've put together 10 simple things you can start doing TODAY to help catapult your journey of self-love. [Hint: It's actually not about finding the perfect job or the perfect mate that allows you to start loving yourself. #spoileralert This pod explores: How to make sure you have time for YOU on your calendar How to make friends with the voices in your head How pride can actually be one of the biggest supporters of self-love Why you MUST pay attention to your own personal development ________ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE or click that fancy image to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ___________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #351: The Difference Between Fear + Your Inner Critic and What to Do About Them POD #352: True Or False: Inner Critic Edition POD #353: 6 Ways Strong Self-Worth Affects Your Relationships POD #356: Understanding Emotional Intelligence - Connecting What You Feel with What You Do POD #396: [AMY SAYS] How-the-hell to Establish Lasting Boundaries POD #436: [DIAL AN EXPERT] The Truth about Body Positivity with Dr. Lexie Kite POD #437: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Understanding Body Love and Body Image with Summer Innanen POD #447: [AMY SAYS] EP#447 – Boundary Deep Dive, Part 1 POD #448: [AMY SAYS] EP#448 – Boundary Deep Dive, Part 2 POD #476: Self-Love and Feeling Good Naked with Chardét Ryel ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

If you're anything like me, it's likely you don't know one woman who isn't at least mildly concerned about what her body looks like. Our society and culture have created a very strong and lasting message that the value placed on women is in their appearance: how thin, how beautiful, and often how white they can be. What a sad, small box we've been placed into and I, for one, get so fucking livid about how much time I spend worrying about my insecurities that are making other people rich. Especially when I could use that brain power to build my empire, amiright!? So, where does one start? How do you start making peace with the body you reside in and move toward a loving relationship with yourself? Do you just chant a bunch of body positive affirmations in the mirror and hope for a magical shift? Not exactly. On this week's show, I dial up Chardét Ryel, an author, wellness entrepreneur and Behaviour Change Specialist, empowering women globally with body confidence and well-being stripped of the rules. Hello! Let's get some of that. In this conversation, Chardét and I talk about how important it is to analyze your motivation behind your pull to work out, eat “healthy”, and make changes to your appearance. We also discuss the concept of “acceptance” and how so many of us want to jump straight to loving ourselves without doing the work necessary to simply remain neutral. She also walks us through her signature 7-step process to feeling good in your nakedness! You in? Let's go. This pod explores: Understanding what diet culture actually IS and how it disempowers women and women of color in particular Chardét's 7-step process to feeling good naked (and why it's about FEELING and not LOOKING good) The #1 question you must ask yourself if you want to get anywhere in your body love process Chardét's favorite assignment for those wanting to accept and love their body (and why most people reeeeeally resist doing it) ________ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE or click that fancy image to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! __________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE  This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #474: [Amy Says] How To Make Shit Happen in 2023 POD #475: [Amy Says] 7 Ways to Follow Through On Your Goals ___ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Chardét is an author, wellness entrepreneur and Behaviour Change Specialist, empowering women globally with body confidence and well-being stripped of the rules. She is the host of the Feel Good Nakd podcast for women and founder of Corpão Fitness, a Brazilian-inspired wellness brand. Connect with Chardét on Insta. _ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

At the start of every year, it's likely you get pumped up and excited to make some serious change. You decide on a handful of things that you are GOING to conquer this year, god-damn-it! But what actually makes those goals a reality? Throughout my 12+ years in this work, I have found that noble intentions have very little to do with bringing goals to fruition. Good ol' fashioned gumption and desire are not enough to make your dreams come true. [sad trombone] In fact, a recent Inc.com article indicated that only 8% of people actually accomplish their goals. WHOA!! 8%!? Well, fuck. But, wait. Never fear, Babycakes, because this episode targets seven ways people tend to sabotage their own goals (without even realizing it) and how you can set yourself up to slaaaaay all your goals. It's not rocket science, but if you employ some of these easy tactics, you will kill all your 2023 goals! Yes, please! This pod explores: My favorite tool to use to ensure you are tackling this goal for YOU (instead of mom/fam/boss/society) The number one way people lose steam while working towards a goal and how you can smoothly move beyond this obstacle like a BOSS Why you need accountability and people in your life to support you and what to do if you don't How to keep your self-talk on point so you are constantly encouraged, kicking ass, and taking names ________ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ___________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #225:Stick with It or Quit with It? Knowing When to Persevere and Knowing When to Quit POD #474: [Amy Says] How To Make Shit Happen in 2023 ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

FREE PLANNING GUIDE WITH THIS EPISODE! If you're like most people, you have an overwhelming sense of excitement and ambition come the new year. Also like most people, perhaps you hit Jan with a fire under your ass, but when Feb rolls around you have slowly begun to lose steam, fervor, and action. Also, 2022 kicked many of our asses, so there's that to contend with. Many people (and maybe YOU) enter the New Year with many plans and intentions, but somehow end up a bit off track sooner than later. In this episode, I address the biggest obstacles people unknowingly establish for themselves when crafting New Year's goals and “resolutions”. Yep, you read that right… many people actually make their job a shit-ton harder by not setting themselves up for success to begin with. I also share my personal planning tool I use to ensure I establish solid goals in aaaaall areas of my life (not just fitness and money… but, yes, those too). Be sure to grab your free planning guide so you can plan and organize a seriously epic 2023 by figuring out what categories in which you would like to make headway. Plus, you'll have sexy, little worksheets to record all your brilliance! This pod explores: The two biggest mistakes people make when crafting goals for the new year How to assess where you are in your life now and where you want to be in a year's time How to create goals that are really about YOUR fulfillment, are totally attainable, and light you up Why you probably don't want to celebrate your 2022 accomplishments, but you kinda, absolutely MUST ______ FREE PLANNING GUIDE WITH THIS EPISODE GRAB YOURS BELOW! Did you grab your free planning guide that accompanies this episode? Get on it, Babycakes! Here's the deal: our brain takes things waaaaay more seriously when we get out of our heads and get our thoughts/commitments out on paper. It's like, science. So, OF COURSE, I want you to make some serious changes and make shit happen in 2023, so be sure you have your Pod #474 planning guide with you while you (re) listen to this pod so you can get into some serious action. Trust… if you just listen and don't DO, you're not going to change a damn thing. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR to get your freebies sent directly to your inbox! #yourewelcom _____ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE or click that fancy image to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ___________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE  This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ___ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #306: Top 5 Regrets Of The Dying + How To Live A Regret-free Life POD #437: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Understanding Body Love and Body Image with Summer Innanen ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

As we grow through our teen years into adulthood, it's not uncommon to find a wealth of information about puberty, pregnancy, and infertility. Those transitions and obstacles are readily talked about and addressed.  But, our shifts in hormones are clearly not done after our thirties and sadly, our society has done women a massive disservice in not properly setting us up with education and tools to navigate perimenopause and menopause… or even how to know if they're happening for you or not.  Add on the extreme stress of juggling careers, parenthood, ailing parents, and relationship struggles and many women find themselves in front of their doctors asking what the hell is happening to them. And sadly, the common western medical sentiment is to simply ride it out, lesson your stress (gag!), or start hormone therapy. There's got to be a better way! [infomercial voice] Fortunately, there is. This week on the show, I dial up Dana La Voie, a Tonic Herbalist & Acupuncturist who has spent her career helping women balance their hormones naturally. She has over 20 years of experience specializing in women's health and an over 90% success rate of getting women menopause relief. I mean… Yes, please! Have a listen to this convo where I ask Dana all the things about what it actually means to support one's hormones through menopause, how to understand the evolutionary reason for this transition, and how this can actually be one of the best times of your life. (I know. It blew me away too.) This pod explores: Understanding the “three best friends” of hormones and how to makes sure they *stay* friends (instead of enemies) How the midlife change in hormones supports your most creative, expansive, and wise chapter of life How to lessen the negative effects of menopause and supply your body with what it needs  Dana's secret key to healthy aging (don't miss this!) ____ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> ______ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE With 20 years of experience specializing in women's health and an over 90% success rate of getting women menopause relief, Dana LaVoie wants more women to know their options for managing menopause and healthy aging naturally – the things their doctor's not talking about. More than anything, she wants more women to know how to keep menopause and aging from interfering with their careers, home life, and dreams. She believes every woman deserves to feel vibrant, alive, and great at every age (no matter what their hormones are doing!) As a Tonic Herbalist & Acupuncturist, Dana has spent her career helping women balance their hormones naturally with over 10K client visits and hundreds of women in her online programs & coaching. And when not on the computer you'll find Dana working in the garden, building things with her partner in their backyard, playing her guitar, hiking, biking, or paddling… And slowly becoming more of a world traveler. Connect with Dana on her website and grab her 10 Ways To Reduce Inflammation. ______ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #471: Embracing Mid-Life with Jennifer Arthurton POD #472: Dial A Non-Expert] Forty-Something Af: An Honest Conversation On Midlife + Aging With Andrea Owen ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

When told by older women that she would one day settle into her age and things would get easier, author Kaya Oakes thought, “Apparently at some point I would reach a magical age when I had ‘no fucks left to give.' But no one had warned me that before I hit that magical age, I'd have to survive my forties.” If it's not your face falling down, your bladder starting a coup, your hair falling out, or needing waaaaay too much sleep (I mean, this is unreasonable, isn't it?), then it's dealing with feeling invisible, grappling with your identity shifts, and wondering if it's only going to get worse. Now don't get me wrong, I know I have it easy. I know being in my forties is far from the end of the world. But something is for sure changing and I don't hear a bunch of folks talking about it. In fact, when I look at social media, television, or other media, middle-age women seem to be visible only when advertising fiber supplements. Try searching any stock photo site for middle-age women and you'll get a ton of women in their nineties… almost like we've been erased.  In this candid and very non-expert discussion, I chat with my very best friend, Andrea Owen, on what we've been processing as we process changes of mid-life. This episode is an inside look into two 40-somethings discussing what it feels like to constantly advocate for your health, reckon with physical changes, and what we actually love most about aging. If you've been wandering around like, “What is this body!? What is this life!?” then pull up an ear, my friend. You are not alone. This pod explores: Understanding the “ambiguous grief” of navigating changes in your forties The currency of beauty and youth in our culture and how that affects you as you age How we each approach feminism as we find botox and fillers more appealing The connection between the personal growth industry and being transparent about middle age ____ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL A NON-EXPERT' GUESTIE Andrea Owen is an author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach who helps high-achieving women maximize unshakeable confidence, and master resilience. She has taught hundreds of thousands of women tools and strategies to be able to empower themselves to live their most kick-ass life through keynote speaking, her books, coaching, and her wildly popular podcast with close to 4 million downloads. She is the proud author of three books including the newly updated and expanded How To Stop Feeling Like Shit: 14 Habits That Are Holding You Back From Happiness (Seal Press/Hachette Books) which has been translated into 19 languages and is available in 23 countries. Andrea is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC) from The Coaches Training Institute, a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) with the International Coaching Federation, a SHE RECOVERS® coach, as well as a Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator; a modality based on the research of Dr. Brené Brown. When she's not juggling her full coaching practice or writing books, Andrea is busy riding her Peloton bike, hanging out with her two teenagers, or making out with her husband, Jason.  Learn more about Andrea at andreaowen.com and join the fun and wisdom at facebook.com/heyandreaowen and instagram.com/heyandreaowen. ______ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #471: Embracing Mid-Life with Jennifer Arthurton We Are Not Middle Aged: What Medieval Women Taught Me About My 40s, Kaya Oakes ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

If you are a woman in your 40s or 50s or beyond, it's likely you've been slapped in the face with the realization of how emphatically our society values youth and beauty. You're cruisin' along, building a career, maybe raising some kids, and then BOOM! Everything gets thrown out of whack, your eggs shrivel up, and you're wondering who's body is this anyway? And, also am I fucking invisible? Navigating midlife isn't really something we're set up for… I mean, think about it. We get tons of “shoulds” about going to college, getting the good job, buying the house, having the family, etc. and then what? Once you've checked off all the boxes, you stand around wondering, Is this really all there is? I thought this was supposed to be the part where I'm happy! This week on the show, I dial up Jennifer Arthurton, the founder and creator of Old Chicks Know Shit, a community and a podcast designed to inspire and support midlife women in chasing their dreams and creating their kick ass next chapter. In this candid conversation we chat about the Midlife Paradox, what to do if you keep thinking “I'm not where I thought I would be at this point in my life,” and how Jennifer reinvented herself after a difficult midlife breakdown. As she was approaching 50, she found herself divorced, unemployed, and bed-ridden from a stress-induced illness with zero idea of what direction to take her life. Have a listen and find out how she used this crucial moment to pivot into the most rewarding chapter of her life and how you can do the same. This pod explores: How Jennifer's “Three S's” tool can help you figure out what your next chapter will look like… even if you currently have no idea What “The Maven Years” are and how to embrace your journey through mid-life Jennifer's “Mid-life Must-Haves” and how to let go of society tell us about women 50+The blessing in feeling “invisible” as you age (Wait, what!? I know) ________ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE or click that fancy image to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ___________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> _____ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Jennifer Arthurton is the founder and creator of Old Chicks Know Sh*t, a community and a podcast designed to inspire and support midlife women in chasing their dreams and creating their kick ass next chapter. Jennifer is a midlife mentor, podcast host, writer and speaker. Having made her own midlife course corrections, she has a passion for helping other women uncover the inherent power and wisdom of a time of life when they often feel overlooked and doubt themselves most. Jennifer regularly appears as a guest on blogs and podcasts and as a speaker at women's events. Connect with Jennifer on Insta or Facebook. _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: Free-sources – some free ways I can help!! POD #468: How to *NOT* Lose Your Shit With Your Family This Holiday POD #469: 6 Ways to Deal with Grief During the Holidays POD #470: 6 Ways to Manage + Recover From Holiday Stress ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Even though the holiday season is supposed to be all merry and bright and full of glad tidings, it's quite certain that you've found yourself engaged with total overwhelm, buckling from the stress, and dangerously approaching burnout. Although fun and festive, it can take a sheer act of god to keep you from losing your ever-lovin' mind during the chaos of this time of year, amiright!? If it's not the multitude of gifts to buy or the food to prep, then it's surely the family drama or workplace obligations that bring you to your breaking point. And while you're spending money on shit you don't want to buy or baking food for people you don't even enjoy very much, you find yourself wondering why the fuck peace on earth has eluded you. But, lord help you if you don't show up to the office party with the secret santa gift or all hell might break loose if you tell the in-laws you can't make it this year. If you have found yourself overloaded by holiday stress and obligations, get ready for a huge sigh of relief. On this week's show, I sound off on six things you can start doing immediately to relinquish all the holiday overwhelm and chaos so you can actually enjoy the things about this time of year that truly mean the most to you. This pod explores: How your attachment to things being P E R F E C T may be causing you unnecessary stress and overwhelm My favorite tool to figure out exactly how (and with whom) I want to spend my time and energy How to decline unwanted invitations with the utmost grace and kindness… because you need some downtime, Babycakes! How to not get sucked into other people's holiday stress and obligations ____ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #277: 5 Ways To Gain More Peace POD #379: Confidence Hangover: Feeling Guilty After Speaking Up For Yourself  POD #396: [AMY SAYS] How-the-hell to Establish Lasting Boundaries POD #398:[COACHING SESSION] Working with Isabel on Familial Boundaries POD #399:[TOOL] Working with Handwriting Analysis to Create Boundaries  POD #429:[DIAL AN EXPERT] Emotional Intelligence and Relationship Communication with Dr. Shyamala Kiru POD #447: [AMY SAYS] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 1 POD #448: [AMY SAYS] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 2 POD #468: How To *Not* Lose Your Shit With Your Family This Holiday POD #469: 6 Ways To Deal With Grief During The Holidays ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Ever feel like you just can't quite enjoy the holidays because you're in the middle of an emotional shitstorm that seems to make the season trying, stressful, and overwhelming? Maybe it's your first holiday after being newly divorced. Or maybe it's the fifth Christmas without your beloved mother, and you can't seem to understand why it's still so damn hard for you. Or perhaps you just moved your family across the country and although it was an amazing decision for you, you still find yourself incredibly nostalgic, overly emotional, and sensitive. If any of that sounds familiar, it's likely that there is something in your world that needs a little processing. (And, no, there's nothing wrong with you.) Perhaps what's tugging at you is the need for full-on grieving the loss of a loved one, which feels exacerbated by the sentimental tone of the holiday. Or perhaps it's as simple as “a case of the blues” because you've changed jobs and aren't able to do the gift exchange with your previous company you were with for ages. Whatever you may be going through in your life, if you've created any changes in patterns, it's likely there may be a bit (or a shit ton) of emotion to work through… especially during this time of year. Even if you don't think grief is called for, have a listen through this episode where I share six things you can do to work through all the “feels” you're having during this temperamental time. And, P.S. Dealing with your feels doesn't mean you're weak, too dramatic, or too sensitive. It just means you're fucking human. And brave. This pod explores: The real reason why you might be drinking too much, eating too much, or spending too much during the season The best way to set yourself up for success if you KNOW the holidays will make your current life circumstances extra tough How to let go of the past in a powerful way and create a new, empowered meaning behind the season Who you should (and should not) be turning to for support ____ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> ____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #338: The *Real* Reasons You're Mad + Sad, Part 1   POD #339: The *Real* Reasons You're Mad + Sad, Part 2   POD #396: [AMY SAYS] How-the-hell to Establish Lasting Boundaries POD #398:[COACHING SESSION] Working with Isabel on Familial Boundaries POD #399:[TOOL] Working with Handwriting Analysis to Create Boundaries  POD #429:[DIAL AN EXPERT] Emotional Intelligence and Relationship Communication with Dr. Shyamala Kiru POD #447: [AMY SAYS] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 1 POD #448: [AMY SAYS] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 2 POD #468: How to *NOT* Lose Your Shit with Your Family this Holiday  Comparative Suffering, the 50/50 Myth, and Settling the Ball, Brené Brown  ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Ahhhhh, the holidays. The lovely time of year where your mom pesters you about why you don't go to church anymore. Or your aunt gives you shit for not having kids or not being married. Or your uncle gets in a heated (uncomfortable) “discussion” about gun rights. Your favorite, amiright? Or perhaps you're dreading the impending convo where your bro asks you for money. Again. Even though the holidays are supposed to be merry and bright, they can often be the most stressful when it comes to dealing with our families. Enter years of baggage, a shit-ton of guilt, mix in some alcohol, and you have a family holiday that leaves you feeling like shit instead of connected with those you supposedly love the most. If this sounds any kind of familiar, all is not lost. And, believe it or not, you can totally take back your holiday experience, boundary your ass off, and consciously CHOOSE your focus this holiday. Even if your sister is an ass-hat. This pod explores: How to prepare for your family function ahead of time to set you up for success… even if your family is giving the circus a run for their money What it *really* looks like to set up healthy boundaries and actually follow through on them How to avoid (or end) uncomfortable conversations with the utmost grace How to decide exactly what you want to focus on during the get-together… you know, so you can actually enjoy yourself #gladtidingsmuthafucka ____ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #316: 9 Communication Hacks to Control Your Tone of Voice + *NOT* Fly Off the Handle  POD #357: 6 Ways To Start Speaking Up For Yourself POD #396: [AMY SAYS] How-the-hell to Establish Lasting Boundaries POD #398:[COACHING SESSION] Working with Isabel on Familial Boundaries POD #399:[TOOL] Working with Handwriting Analysis to Create Boundaries  POD #429:[DIAL AN EXPERT] Emotional Intelligence and Relationship Communication with Dr. Shyamala Kiru POD #447: [AMY SAYS] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 1 POD #448: [AMY SAYS] Boundary Deep Dive, Part 2 POD #450: [AMY SAYS] When *NOT* to Speak Up + When Grace + Kindness Don't Work POD #466:[Amy Says]  7 Ways to Amp Up Your Self-Confidence POD #467: [Dial An Expert] Confidence, Thought Work, and Dealing with Failure with Jane Atkinson ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Let's say you want to go for a promotion at your work, but your inner voice keeps telling you that you're an imposter. Who are you to go for this job? Or maybe you are thinking of starting your own business, but you know you're lacking some serious confidence. Don't you have to be super confident right off the bat to do something like that? Or maybe you tried going back to school but you failed your first test so you threw in the towel and haven't been back since. When we talk about personal development topics like confidence, imposter complex, or navigating failure, we often think there is one specific trick or tool that will magically imbue us with all the confidence we desire, get rid of all our self-doubt, or make us immune to hardship. You know… just shittin' glitter over here. Sadly, that isn't the case. This week on the show I chat with my pal, Jane Atkinson, who shares a 5-part Thought Work Model which can help you bust through self-doubt, conjure some serious confidence, and contend with failure like a badass. If you have a hard time getting into an empowering mindset or tend to go down negative rabbit holes on tv or social media, you will definitely want to pull up an ear for this one. This pod explores: Jane's two-prong approach to conjuring confidence… and how you've already proven to yourself that you can be courageous Jane's 24-hour “wallow rule” and how it can help you process your feelings around failure The 5-step Thought Work Model Jane uses to keep her mindset in the right place Understanding imposter complex and what to do about it _____ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE or click that fancy image to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ___________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> _____ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Jane Atkinson has been helping speakers catapult their careers for more than 30 years. She is the author of The Wealthy Speaker 3.0 (out this Fall), The Epic Keynote, The Wealthy Speaker Daily Success Planner and Journal, and Scaling Your Speaking Business. Prior to coaching, Jane worked as an agent for several speakers whose careers skyrocketed. She also served as Vice President of a Speakers Bureau in Dallas where she represented several celebrities, best-selling authors and business experts. Jane is the Founder of The Wealthy Speaker School which helps speakers build the businesses of their dreams through their course, community, masterminds and coaching. Connect with Jane on LinkedIn, Facebook, or Instagram. _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #384: [COACHING SESSION] Working with Rachel on Imposter Complex POD #385: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Tanya Geisler on Imposter Complex POD #386: [AMY SAYS] 5 Ways to Stop Feeling Like a Fraud POD #387: [TOOL] Hypnosis Session to Heal the Imposter Complex POD #466: 7 Ways to Amp Up Your Self-Confidence Amy Cuddy Ted Talk on body language affecting how we feel about ourselves Lisa Steadman ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Applications are open now for my Mexico Retreat! Ever see super confident people and wonder how-the-hell they became so sure of themselves? Ever wonder if they were just born that way or if someone taught them or if some life experience shaped them into that person who oozes confidence and self-assuredness? However they came to that state, you could sooo get in on that action, amiright? In this episode, I dig into 7 super easy ways to build confidence immediately. You don't have to read an entire book or become a totally self-help guru to learn how to place value on yourself… and it also doesn't have to take decades. The tools presented in this episode will help you nail down what might be in the way of your self-confidence, identify what will kick your ass into gear, and snag some serious self-confidence in no time flat. This pod explores: Why “pride” is integral to your personal self-confidence and how to get you some How to get a handle on your self-talk so your inner voice is more like a cheerleader instead of a bully How your body posture completely affects your confidence Why having an opinion builds confidence ________ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE or click that fancy image to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ___________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE  This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: Amy Cuddy Ted Talk on body language affecting how we feel about ourselves POD #384: [COACHING SESSION] Working with Rachel on Imposter Complex POD #385: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Tanya Geisler on Imposter Complex POD #386: [AMY SAYS] 5 Ways to Stop Feeling Like a Fraud  POD #387: [TOOL] Hypnosis Session to Heal the Imposter Complex   ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Ever find yourself cruisin' through Facebook, just minding your own business, and then BOOM! You see someone who is thinner than you posing in her bikini in her exotically sexy, annoying vaca pics and you instantly start comparing yourself to her. Or maybe it's that one guy you used to work with sharing about his amazing work promotion for his new, totally awesome company, and your mind starts GOING OFF about how you just aren't smart enough… not good enough… not accomplished enough. Just. Not. Enough. Maybe it's not even Facebook or Insta… although they can be BEASTS in the whole comparison thing. Maybe it's your co-worker, your neighbor, your bestie, or even your spouse that you constantly compare yourself to. And it usually ends the same way… with you CONVINCED that you totally suck. How do I know? Oh, honey, because I have soooo been there. And you are certainly not alone. In this week's episode, I share four ways you can change how you address the comparison trap which will allow you to actually enjoy stalking out your nephew's hilarious pics on Facebook instead of plummeting into self-hate. This pod explores: How to catch yourself when you start “making up” what other people's successes mean about you How to get to the root of what triggers you How to be sure you are setting yourself up for success by hanging out with the right peeps How to switch your focus so you feel empowered instead of feeling like shit _____ GET ON THE RETREAT VIP LIST! BE THE FIRST TO HEAR ABOUT THE EXTRA DISCOUNTS, BONUSES, AND SECRET OFFERS! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries? And gain serious self-confidence? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge destination? Of course, you do! At the beginning of November, I will open registration for a radically transformative, IN-PERSON retreat and if you're like, “AMY!! Tell me first!” then, Love, I've gotchu. This retreat focuses on truly believing you are ‘enough' and will be a deep dive into confidence, boundaries, and forgiveness. But space will be super limited (only 10 available!) If you'd like to be the absolute FIRST to hear about all the early-bird steals and deals, be sure to get your ass on this little list right HERE or click the image to the right. Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #310 – 6 Steps to Dealing with Imposter Complex Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, by Elizabeth Gilbert ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

You've been in the same industry for 20 years and you're dying to make a change but you're scared shitless to throw in the towel. Wouldn't that mean you wasted two decades? You're not totally sure you're getting your Master's because it's what YOU really want or if it's because that's what dad wants… or because it's what a younger version of you wanted. Shit. What if you just don't want that path any longer? Finish what you started? That's what they say, right? You've always wanted to pick up and move to a new country, but jesus, how stupid would it be to quit your six-fig job? But, you're so damn good at what you do! And so many people would kill to be in your position. But, then again, Italy is calling… If you've faced any of these harrowing decisions (or something similar) you know what it can feel like to toe the line of QUIT or PERSEVERE. I mean… how do you know if you should stick with something or if you should just quit while you're (sort of) ahead? In this episode, I cover off five (plus a bonus), specific tactics you can employ to make your decision faaaar easier. Plus, we already know what dad will say… But, with all due respect, it ain't about Dad or your bestie or how much time or money you've invested. It's time to get clear… for YOU. For your happiness. Your fulfillment. This pod explores: How to know why you feel compelled to stick with this “thing” and how to know if that's a bullshit reason or not How to figure out if you are disenchanted with your end goal OR the hard-working getting there My favorite woo-woo, hippie tactic to help you access what you REALLY want How to figure out what each of your options is costing you… and money isn't the only currency, Babycakes! ________ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: Free-sources – some free ways I can help!! POD #399: Working with Handwriting Analysis to Create Boundaries POD #463: Releasing a Toxic Relationship to Achievement + Goal-setting with Tara McMullin POD #464: The Obsession with Achievement + What to Do About It Start with Why, Simon Sinek ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Most folks (maybe even you) who have a love affair with achievement and accomplishment, find that their tenacity and attachment to perfection has created a ton of significant success in their lives. Maybe they even wear the “over-achiever” label as a badge of honor. Sound like you? Maybe your constant striving and achieving has enabled you to succeed in school, your career, or in your community. But there can absolutely be a dark side to achievement.  The obsession to achieve and be perfect at all costs can cause significant impediment to your happiness. How easy is it for you to simply rest, recharge, and do absolutely nothing? [gasp!] How often do you stand in judgment for others who prioritize fun and play over productivity? [shit!] How often do you really celebrate your accomplishments? Most overachievers have a hard time accepting compliments or acknowledging their successes because they are so focused on what's next… What haven't I accomplished? Where am I lacking or coming up short? You may also have a hellova time actually slowing down and resting. I mean… you should at least be folding laundry if you're watching TV, right? In this deep dive episode, I explore the handful of reasons why we are so seduced by overachieving (hello, ‘not enoughness!'), the ramifications of a death grip on achievement, and five things you can do to make sure your achievement is always in service of you rather than stealing your joy. Don't worry… you don't have to become a slacker or anything… we're just going to explore when it's healthy and when it isn't. [whew!] This pod explores: The typical hustle cycle we get obsessed with and how it delays your happiness… like, forever Understanding the ways achievement fulfills us and when it begins to steal our joy How to create an identity that is bigger than your accomplishments (you are MORE than a series of checked boxes, I promise) How marginalized communities are pressured to prove themselves which can sometimes result in an unhealthy relationship with achievement ________ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:   Free-sources - some free ways I can help!! POD #306: The Top 5 Regrets Of The Dying + How To Live A Regret-free Life EP#306 POD #359: Necessary Rest: What It Means To Truly Restore POD#459:  The Connection Between Perfectionism, Procrastination, and Feeling Stuck + What to Do About It POD #463: [Dial an Expert] Releasing A Toxic Relationship To Achievement + Goal-Setting With Tara Mcmullin ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

Tell me if this sounds familiar: You get a Bachelor's degree, but it doesn't really feel like enough, so you apply for a Master's program. You attain the Master's but turns out, it doesn't feel like enough either, so you start your own business. You set the goal to make six figures in your business, but when you achieve that marker, it somehow still doesn't feel like enough. Maybe the key to happiness is to attain seven figures in your biz? Or maybe the goal should be to get married… or have a baby… or lose fifty pounds. So, you set up more lofty goals. Because, if you aren't on a path toward attaining a big goal, what is your life even about? But, also, why haven't any of these goals created happiness? Like, when-the-fuck is happiness going to show up? Does that scenario sound like the strategy of achievement you've employed in your own life? Through societal influences, systems of oppression, and families of origin, we learn very early on that there are those who achieve (aka the GOOD folks) and there are those who don't (aka the BAD folks… the lazy losers). And, in a culture that glorifies hustle, wears burnout like a badge of honor, and focuses on capitalism and productivity, it's no wonder that so many of us collapse our entire sense of self-worth with what we accomplish.  What we lose sight of while we strive, and strive, and strive, is… what actually brings us happiness and fulfillment. This week on the show, I dial up Tara McMullin, a writer, podcaster, and producer, who has spent the last 13 years studying what makes small business owners tick. She has recently written her first book entitled, What Works: A Comprehensive Framework To Change The Way We Approach Goal Setting. In this chat, Tara and I discuss the myriad of influences telling us what we're “supposed to want” and what we “should” strive for and how to discern what is truly a desire of your heart. And, don't worry, you don't have to throw all your goals aways… Tara simply invites you to think critically about why you want to attain them to begin with.  This pod explore How capitalism has a vested interest in keeping us unfulfilled The origin of modern-day goal setting and how it can often steal your joy The intersection between the self help community and goal setting and how it can sometimes cause you to move farther away from yourself  How to use critical thinking to ensure your goals have your “informed consent” ____ LAST CALL TO APPLY FOR WORTHY.! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has all that shit been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? I'm about to open the doors for an exclusive, group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes a 5-day, luxury retreat! Hello! Want in? Of course you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get the invitation and apply for WORTHY. so we can get shit handled. _______ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> ___ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Tara McMullin is a writer, podcaster, and producer. For over 13 years, she's studied small business owners—how they live, how they work, what influences them, and what they hope for the future. She's the host of What Works, a podcast about navigating the 21st-century economy with your humanity intact. Tara is also co-founder of YellowHouse.Media, a boutique podcast production company. Her work has been featured in Fast Company, The Startup, The Muse, and The Huffington Post. Her first book, What Works: A Comprehensive Framework To Change The Way We Approach Goal Setting, will be released in November. She lives in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania with her husband, daughter, and two lovable cats that showed up in the backyard one day. Her heart is always in the mountains of Montana. ________ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

->>APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR WORTHY. Perhaps some of the most challenging relationships we have in our lives are those with our own parents. Although we love them deeply, they are oftentimes the ones who present the most “issues” in our worlds and who tend to drive us the most batty. You feel me? I've worked with many students and clients who have the hardest time figuring out if they should sever a relationship with a parent, try to work on it, try to establish boundaries, or just give up on the whole thing altogether. Maybe you have found yourself tolerating shitty behavior from a parent because they had a horrible upbringing themselves or you've bought into the notion that “blood is thicker than water” so you let them get away with things you would never allow from someone you weren't related to. We tend to emotionally regress around our parents which leaves us feeling inadequate, cowardly, and helpless. This sort of parental frustration is suuuuuper common and I'm sure you're no stranger to a similar dynamic. In this episode, I offer seven concepts to help you address a parent who is actually kind of an asshole and/or you aren't fully sure you want in your life any longer. Unless you have a super flawless relationship with your parents (and if you do, bless you, and go thank them RIGHT NOW), then this pod is a MUST. Plus, many of these concepts can be applied to other challenging relationships in your life. This pod explores: Understanding the multiple emotions you have around your parents and why that's okay How to figure out the role you want a less-than-stellar parent to have in your life What to say if other family members want to get involved and ask you about the issue How to figure out exactly what you need from your parent and how to ask for it (and when not to) APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN! IT'S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL. It's time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It's time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It's time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has all that shit been working? That's what I thought. Let's kick that shit to the curb, shall we? Doors are now open for an exclusive, group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes a 5-day, luxury retreat! Hello! Want in? Of course, you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to get the invitation and apply for WORTHY. so we can get shit handled! HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. LEARN MORE >> I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Join the millions of people who have found huge relief and support from BetterHelp therapists and save on your first month while you're at it! Check it out ~> ______ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #250: Tough Convos 101  POD #304: Dealing with Confrontation (When You Hate Confrontation) POD #337: 5 Ways to Figure Out Your Boundaries POD #357: 6 Ways To Start Speaking Up For Yourself   POD #396: [AMY SAYS] How-the-hell to Establish Lasting Boundaries  POD #459: The Connection Between Perfectionism, Procrastination, And Feeling Stuck + What To Do About It POD #460: Understanding Trauma + The Subconscious Mind POD #461: Dealing With Parental Trauma With Alexa Rae Schiefer ____ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

We've all heard of our inner child, right? That wounded inner child who is still reckoning with incidents occurring in our childhood. But, have you ever heard of your “outer child”? Tell me if this sounds familiar: You are going back home to visit your family and the minute you get around your parents, it's like you're 16 all over again. You're angsty, everything is unfair, and you just want to burn incense and listen to music, yet hanging out with your fam makes you want to lash out and yell and scream and maybe break a lava lamp. And suddenly all of the coping mechanisms you've learned in decades of therapy are out the window. This, my friend, is your Outer Child. It's a way in which we regress to earlier versions of ourselves and act out from that place when surrounded by triggering people. And, let's face it, it's often our family. In this week's episode, I dial up Alexa Rae Schiefer, Trauma Coach and former mental health clinician, to ask her some heavy-hitting questions around the trauma we incur from our primary caregivers. We dig into the concept of “Parentification Trauma”, the inner and outer child, what trauma responses tend to look like, and what the hell a Window of Tolerance is and why we should be aware of it. Alexa Rae and I also discuss what it means to self-soothe and how that process can vary depending on what trauma you are up against. We chat about processing the trauma of our childhoods and how, more often than not, we are trying to pretend we don't have any trauma. Yeah, ok. How's that working out? We even talk about what-the-hell trauma even is. If you know you've got a wound, or two, or twenty, to process from your childhood, be sure to grab a pen and paper. This is a good one.  This pod explores: The definition of trauma and how we all pretty much have it Understanding Parentification Trauma and how that influences your behavior later on in life What common trauma responses look like and what you can do about them Understanding Abandonment Wounds and how they show up in our lives _______ HIRE ME TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT! ACCESS ‘ENOUGHNESS'. POWERFULLY NAVIGATE FEAR. SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. I have three battle-tested (and badass) keynote speeches that are ready to be delivered to your company, organization, group, or association. If you or anyone you know could benefit from me droppin' some gems (um, like, who couldn't use some new tools?) please send them to THIS FANCY INFO PAGE on my site where you/they can message me directly about specific needs. ______ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:  Nadine Burke Harris TED Talk: How childhood trauma affects health across a lifetime Standing up for yourself with Amy Green Smith on Authentically You with Alexa Rae! ___ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE: Alexa Rae (she/her) is known online as the “Authenticity Healer” and woman who decided to shake up the healing game in mental health. Her full first name is Alexa Rae and she used to go by Alexa until Amazon stole her name. Now she goes by “Alexa Rae” or “A. Rae” for short. She is living her purpose on earth to help as many women as possible connect to their authentic selves. She is renowned for her ability to deeply connect with women, help them see their worth, and for being a down-to-earth healer. In her former life, Alexa Rae was a professional mental health clinician who worked in a variety of areas – acute mental health, trauma, forensics, eating disorders, adolescents, education, and more. She left this realm as she struggled working in a field full of gaps in healing and wanted to shake up the mental health game. Since quitting her career to follow her purpose, she has gone on to help hundreds of women reconnect with who they are meant to be on this planet and heal the relationship with themselves and their bodies. Alexa Rae has traveled the country speaking to women at various events, is a part-time professor in a mental health and substance use graduate program where she educates the up and coming clinicians to approach mental health differently, and runs a podcast called “Authentically You.” Grab Alexa's “Get Out of Your Own Dang Way” free email series. Visit Alexa's website for healing programs, courses, and resources.  ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!