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As a woman, have you ever wondered if your man is from a different species or on a different planet when communicating with him? In 1992, Dr. John Gray revolutionized how we view relationships between men and women with the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are From Venus. It was the highest-ranked non-fiction work in the 1990s and was on the best-seller list for over 121 weeks. USA Today listed it as one of the top 10 most influential books of the past 25 years selling over 20 million copies. Dr. Gray's newest book is called Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. This episode with Shelley Johnson and Kathy Tuccaro reveals new insights by Dr. Gray on the complexities of male-female communication. He talks about how they respond to stress in different ways – especially today and how men and women view and give love differently. You need to understand these differences to create great relationships. This episode gives women tips on how to communicate and rewire a man's brain to get what they want in a relationship. Dr. Gray is internationally recognized in communications and relationships. He is a Certified Family Therapist, a member of the Distinguished Advisory Board of the International Association of Marriage and Family Counselors, and consulting editor of the Family Journal. Tune in and get the level of emotional and romantic support you need from your man. Listeners! Get a 50% discount on Dr. Gray's upcoming relationship seminar in Northern California by clicking this link here:https://www.marsvenus.com/https://women-road-warriors.captivate.fmhttps://womenroadwarriors.com/ https://www.podpage.com/women-road-warriors/https://womenspowernetwork.netwomen empowerment, communication differences, relationships, gender differences, Dr. John Gray, Men Are from Mars Women Are from Venus, relationship advice, emotional support, stress management, oxytocin, testosterone, estrogen, nonverbal communication, couples therapy, personal development, listening skills, effective communication, understanding men, relationship skills, Beyond Mars and Venus, Shelley Johnson, Kathy Tuccaro, Women Road Warriors

Title:  Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for TODAY with Dr. John Gray I couldn't be more excited to have Dr. John Gray, who wrote one of the most well-known and trusted relationship books of all time: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (the #1 bestselling book of its decade).  We had such a good chat that you're going to love; John lost his loving partner of decades and has found love AGAIN!  We talked about love, loss, new love, and getting the BEST out of your partner - whether your relationship is brand new or decades old.  He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. We talked about: How he got over his wife of 34 years' passing and how he found love again What the biggest change in relationships is since he wrote his first book What the difference is in what men need and women need in a relationship Enlightened sexuality and what it means Why men need to reconnect with their masculine side and women with their feminine side How to have a happy relationship Can't wait for you to listen to and LOVE this episode!   If you love it, please subscribe to our podcast, and feel free to give it the top rating so we can keep it going for you!   For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter!   https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Follow us on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/

Conversations with patients can get tricky. But with the right approach, even the toughest discussions become easier. Puzzled by the disconnect between how men and women communicate, Dr. John Gray decided to dig deeper. He discovered the underlying emotional and biological drivers of communication and built a framework that has helped millions improve relationships in their personal and professional lives. In this episode, John offers practical techniques to build stronger connections and tailor your conversations for better engagement with patients and team members. Dr. John Gray is best known for his groundbreaking book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, a bestseller that changed how men and women communicate. He has written over 20 books and regularly shares practical advice on relationships, stress management, and emotional well-being. In this episode, Kevin and John will discuss: - Why men and women communicate so differently - How hormones affect stress and behavior - Natural ways to boost energy  - The link between belly fat and hormone health - How hormone balance impacts success in life and work - Why stress hits men and women differently - Communication tips to strengthen patient relationships - Simple strategies to reduce conflict - The impact of modern work life on hormone levels - Personalized communication for better patient outcomes - The power of active listening in patient care - And other topics… Dr. John Gray is a globally recognized relationship expert and author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, which has sold over 50 million copies worldwide. With a career spanning over three decades, he has written over 20 books on communication and relationships, including his most recent, Beyond Mars and Venus. He holds a doctorate in psychology and human sexuality and has conducted seminars worldwide. John has been a frequent guest on Oprah, The Dr. Oz Show, and Good Morning America, and has been profiled in Time and USA Today.  Connect with John: John's Website: https://www.marsvenus.com/  John's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marsvenus/  Resources Mentioned: John's Books:  Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World: https://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Mars-Venus-Relationship-Today%C2%92s/dp/1942952295  Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex: https://www.amazon.com/Men-Mars-Women-Venus-Understanding/dp/0060574216  Get 50% off John's Relationship Seminar: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/mars-venus-relationship-weekend-for-singles-couples-2-12-days-tickets-980727260637 The Only Thing: If you're an audiologist and want to grow your practice – we've got a FREE, expert guide to help you achieve your goals. It's called The Only Thing.  This expert guide will show you how to increase new patient calls by 5 to 57 a month, schedule more new patients each week, help more people, and increase revenue. It's the best resource I know for growing your audiology practice. Get your copy for free at http://medpb.com/mastery.

Talking points: relationships, testosterone, estrogen, stress I had John on the show years ago, and it seemed like the right time to ask: has anything changed since publishing his seminal book? Turns out the answer is yes—and no. Dig in with us as we cover John's take on conflict, mindset, confidence, emotions, hormones, and a lot more! (00:00:00) - How have things changed since you wrote your book, and do men and women deal with stress differently? (00:16:40) - John's take on why testosterone has become somewhat demonized, and the limits of talking about your feelings in a relationship (00:36:32) - John on truth, and the meeting place of mindset and reality (00:44:41) - The paradox of confidence and the comfort zone, and the basics of emotional processing (00:56:25) - The balancing act that is testosterone and estrogen, and its effects on aggression and self-esteem John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller. Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. Connect with John -Website: https://www.marsvenus.com/ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johngraymarsvenus_official/ -Books: https://www.marsvenus.com/books *** This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Easily match with a therapist who can help you through the tough times and empower your best self. Visit BetterHelp.com/mantalks today to get 10% off your first month. Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

He's back by popular demand! Dr John Gray of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus fame.Touted as one of the top 10 most influential books of the past 25 years, John's also one of the most influential relationship counsellors of our time. His latest book, Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World, continues his legacy. Check out his website MarsVenus.com.John's always a captivating guest; in this episode, he winds through various biohacks for relationships.Tip: Listen more than once as you always pick up something new. He generally speaks to heterosexual people but some hormonal/nutritional aspects may be helpful for same-sex couples too.In this episode, we talk about:01:04 Intro 02:26 The biological difference men & women04:00 Women and stress06:07 Libido, attraction and peri and post-menopause09:50 Relationship skills in a complex world14:12 Biohack 1: protein and elevated cortisol (stress)15:54 The committed relationship effect18:18 Traditional gender roles; masculine and feminine27:58 Biohack 2: estrogen and relationships in menopause (for singles and couples)30:00 What turns a man on?33:55 Biohack 3: an exercise to raise estrogen and connect to a man39:38 Singles: how to get a man in your life52:09 Getting back on the relationship horse after a loss or a breakup1:05:55 If you're dating in midlifeEpisode Resources:Episode #107 with John hereWebsite: MarsVenus.comFollow John on Instagram hereFollow John on Facebook hereFree Relationship Course: https://www.marsvenus.com/giftJohn's book: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills For Our Complex Modern WorldEvent: 50% off singles and couples relationship weekendWomen On Fire® is sponsored by MenoMe®Follow MenoMe® on Instagram hereFollow MenoMe® on Facebook hereVisit the website hereSubscribe to the YouTube channel to watch the interviews here We're honoured you've joined Women On Fire® and hope you enjoyed this episode. If you did, we'd be grateful if you would leave us a review wherever you listen to your podcasts or subscribe to YouTube. That way, we can reach as many women as possible with Women On Fire®.Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Dr. John Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. His many books, blogs, and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep. Check out our last interview on YouTube Mars Venus Book: https://www.marsvenus.com/ Dr. John Gray's Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have the passionate John Gray back for a second time. John Gray is the author of one of the most influential and best selling books on relationships, ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' and has published his most recent updated book, ‘Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for our Complex Modern World'. John can be a somewhat polarising figure in his teachings around the differences of men and women. We certainly live in an interesting time when highlighting the relationship between masculine and feminine essences can be controversial. John's been through the process and experience of being cancelled, and so this time round, I took the opportunity to ask him deeper questions around having an undeniable commitment to one's own sense of truth, what morality is to him personally, and how do we show up with courage at a time when there is so much condemnation around owning one's individuality and perspective.We also spend some time discussing how women can maintain femininity in a time where there is so much demand for providing and protecting for oneself, and as always, I let John get in his flow towards the end to speak all his wisdom around optimising self and relationships.Connect with Jennah-LouiseInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennah_louiseWebsite: https://www.jennahlouise.comConnect with John GrayWebsite: https://www.marsvenus.com 

Be Honest with Dr. Yana Welcomes Dr. John Gray  Date: 05.17.24 Ep: 25 Topic: MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS: What Makes Us So Different? Guest Bio:  John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller. Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus:Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters

Be Honest with Dr. Yana Welcomes Dr. John Gray Date: 05.17.24 Ep: 25 Topic: MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS: What Makes Us So Different? Guest Bio: John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller. Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus:Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters

I've been eagerly looking forward to this conversation with a dear friend and a true luminary in the realm of relationships and personal development, John Gray. for quite some time. You probably recognize his name as the author of the famous book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. But what's especially exciting is how John has evolved his insights to address the changing dynamics between men and women in the modern world, as he highlighted in his 2020 book, Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World.Now, why is this episode a must-listen? Well, John isn't just a relationship expert; he's also a seasoned biohacker who understands the profound impact of our environment – including relationships – on our hormones, happiness, and dopamine levels. In essence, he's been biohacking before it even had a name. With decades of wisdom, he offers invaluable insights into navigating the complexities of male-female relationships in today's world.Delve into the fundamental differences between men and women, the importance of appreciation in relationships, what truly motivates men, and practical tips on boosting testosterone and managing emotions. We also explore how men and women process feelings differently, the art of setting boundaries, and the language of love as the language of hormones.Get ready for a masterclass in understanding the dynamics of modern relationships and how to create lasting happiness.(00:59) Understanding Fundamental Differences Between Men & Women(04:38) Do Men Exist To Make Women Happy?(06:32) Exploring What Drives & Motivates Men(11:09) How To Boost Testosterone & Navigate Emotions(19:14) Why Men Disconnect When Talking About Feelings(30:22) How Men Can Help Women Come Back Into Balance(39:17) Setting Boundaries & Working on Your Relationship(49:41) Advice for Women for How To Talk About Their Feelings With Their Partner(01:02:22) Why the Language of Love Is the Language of Hormones(01:05:48) What Women Need in a Relationship(01:13:07) The Defense Against Attacks on Your Reputation(01:17:49) Techniques for Processing Emotions(01:25:32) Thoughts on Estrogen Receptor Degraders(01:31:48) What Masturbation Does to Men vs. Women(01:37:42) Advice for Couples Not Having SexResourcesDave Asprey's NEW Book ‘Smarter Not Harder' is out now: https://daveasprey.com/books Website: marsvenus.comRead: Beyond Venus and Mars by John GrayInstagram: @johngraymarsvenus_officialLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/marsvenusThe Human Upgrade is produced by Crate Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.Dr. Gray has written over 20 books.His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance.His many books, blogs, and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others.He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters. John Gray lives in Northern California where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice.Please enjoy my conversation with John Gray.This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/4858435/advertisement

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance.Learn more here: MarsVenusGet my new book 'The Path of an Eagle: How To Overcome & Lead After Being Knocked Down'.► AMAZON US► AMAZON AUS► AMAZON UKCONNECT WITH JAY & THE STORY BOX► INSTAGRAM ► TWITTER ► FACEBOOK ► WEBSITE Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thestorybox. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

John Gray's 1992 breakthrough work—"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus”—set the stage for generations of understanding and improving relationships between men and women. Although the basic principles and practices remain relevant, times have changed. John makes exciting new distinctions tremendously valuable for understanding the dynamic personal and professional roles of men and women today. He joins Paul Scheele in this episode of the MINDTRX podcast. John Gray is the author of 20 books, including the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” It forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John's approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. His most recent book is “Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World.” Learn more and connect with John at www.MarsVenus.com, www.Twitter.com/MarsVenus, www.Facebook.com/Mars.Venus.John.Gray, www.Instagram.com/JohnGrayMarsVenus_Official/, www.YouTube.com/JohnGrayMarsVenus, and www.LinkedIn.com/Company/Mars-Venus-Coaching. Paul Scheele, PhD, is an acclaimed innovator within the fields of neuro-linguistic programming, whole mind learning, preconscious processing, and accelerated learning. As co-founder of Learning Strategies, he has designed and developed over one hundred programs to stimulate personal and professional success, including the Paraliminals on the MINDTRX app. Others include “PhotoReading at 25,000 words a minute,” “Genius Code,” “Abundance for Life,” and “Future Mapping.” Paul guides people to meet critical challenges in their own lives as well as the world. And he helps them achieve extraordinary results in their relationships, work, finances, health, and spiritual well-being. He is the author of “PhotoReading,” “Natural Brilliance,” and “Drop Into Genius.” Learn more about Paul at www.LearningStrategies.com, www.MINDTRX.com, www.YouTube.com/LearningStrategies, and www.Facebook.com/LearningStrategies. To comment or ask a question about this episode please go to our channel on YouTube at https://youtu.be/pObGiwvlNlo.

Relationships are difficult, but they don't have to be as difficult as we make them. It doesn't matter what type of relationship you are in.  Personal relationships, business relationships, they all get complicated from time to time.  And for most of us we get confused as to why.  What is more we seem to get stuck and we cannot seem to find a way to undo the tangled relationship mess that we are not even sure how we got into in the first place. As if relationships were not hard enough, then through in the dynamic of men and women and changing social roles, well the already complex subject just became even more complicated.  So what is the answer to these complicated and complex relationships?  Well, fortunately for us the worlds #1 best selling author on relationships Dr. John Gray (you may recall his book "Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus") joins us on A New Direction to shed some light and some wisdom to help make those complex relationships just a little easier. Dr Grays book "Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World" is a true relationship game changer.  Dr. Gray will help us understand how we got here, and what we can do to help make those relationships become more solid, more meaningful, and more healthy.  His sage advice has applications to our personal and business relationships as well.  So get your note pads and pens, buckle up, because we are going "Beyond Mars and Venus". I would really appreciate if, if you would thank the sponsors of A New Direction: EPIC Physical Therapy from every day aches and pains, to injuries to keeping elite athletes at the top of their game, EPIC pt has the cutting edge equipment and the certified staff to create an individualized treatment program specifically for you.  They are my physical therapists and I think they should be yours too.  So if you want EPIC Relief, EPIC Recovery, and EPIC Results.  Start by contacting the great people at EPIC Physical Therapy….www.EPICpt.com Linda Craft Team, Realtors for 35 years they have been known for having “Legendary Customer Service”.  Unaffiliated and independently owned and operated they can recommend the best real estate professional to help you sell your home or buy your next home anywhere in the world.  That is because they are not attached to a company they are attached to what is in your best interest.  So before you buy or sell start with the “Legends” at Linda Craft Team.  Just click on over to www.LindaCraft.com  

Dr John Gray is the well-known author of the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, the number 1 best-selling book of the 1990s. He has now written over 20 books with his most recent book Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. Mastery of our human self is something we will all need to do in the next 20 years as the global changes occur and in this, second part of the interview, Dr Gray and Host Helen Lee continue to share invaluable insights into spiritual intelligence, emotional intelligence,  gender and relationship intelligence.   KEY TAKEAWAYS Today, more than ever, women need a new kind of emotional support to create female hormones. Your brain changes, as you continue to age and you need it to continue to grow throughout your life because if it's not growing, it's dying. As human beings, we become turned on by fantasy. When a woman can respect and appreciate a man, she becomes more whole. When a man can understand a woman. he becomes more whole. Men can transform themselves but women need help to get back their female side. Spiritual intelligence in women says she is not alone and this is the highest producer of oestrogen and in a man, it also increases testosterone. Women and men don't know how they affect each other. An intimate relationship is allowing someone else to affect you. We are spiritual beings in a human body here to transform our programming to become a better self. BEST MOMENTS ‘If you can't love the opposite sex intimately, you are intimately disconnected from the rest of the world.' ‘It is how we react in life and we are all subject to our conditioning.' ‘Spiritual intelligence is the ultimate coach, it's a higher power that knows more than you...' ‘That's the female side of everybody that says “Hey, do this for me“. The male side of us says “hey, I'm gonna do this for you.” And women have a male and female side. The female is weak today. For men, the male is weak today.'  VALUABLE RESOURCES To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here: www.transformandthrive.club ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results. Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia. The Business Times listed her in its “Who's Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore's top coaches. CONTACT METHOD  www.leeheiss.com  www.facebook.com/leeheiss  www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide  www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss  enquiries@leeheiss.com

Host Helen Lee interviewed world thought leader Dr John Gray this time last year and because of what is occurring in the world right now, Helen is sharing the opportunity to hear again his highly valuable and unique wisdom. He tells us that "WE ALL COME FROM TRAUMA” and Helen discusses with him the various intelligence we'd need to develop to go beyond trauma and thrive greatly, which we most certainly can! Dr John Gray is best known for his book “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, the number 1 best-selling book of the 1990s. He has now written over 20 books with his most recent book  “Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World”. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. In this fascinating interview, Dr Gray and Helen discuss the intelligence we all need to thrive, and the balance of energy that brings confidence, among other things.   KEY TAKEAWAYS In the world, the thinking is going in the wrong direction and people are experiencing more pain and more addiction to avoid the pain so we are a society of addiction. Negativity is addictive and we talk ourselves into our suffering. The fulfilment of desire is always temporary but the journey and process of getting what you want is in your control. When you are blaming someone else for your suffering you are not recognising the cause of your suffering. You can be freed if you learn how to talk about and process your emotions. There has been a powerful evolutionary shift and children are now born with more balanced masculine and feminine energy. Whenever you depend on yourself to feel happy, you are making male hormones. Every time you depend on something else to make you happy you are making female hormones. The challenge for men is feeling successful and confident, needed and trusted when women don't need them so much. When  your hormones are out of balance you can't transform and thrive. We need emotional, spiritual, gender and relationship intelligence.   BEST MOMENTS ‘The consciousness of the planet is now elevated.' ‘To be human is to make mistakes, to be divine is to learn from those mistakes, and to be animal is to blame someone else for your mistakes.' ‘Emotional intelligence is knowing that whatever you are feeling, there are other feelings as well'. ‘Nature gave the perfect balance of hormones and it's called nurturing.'    VALUABLE RESOURCES To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here: www.transformandthrive.club   ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results. Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia. The Business Times listed her in its “Who's Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore's top coaches.   CONTACT METHOD  www.leeheiss.com  www.facebook.com/leeheiss  www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide  www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss  enquiries@leeheiss.com                                                  

Over 18 years ago, I was a substitute teacher, and I found a relationship book on the teacher's desk in the classroom I was in for the day. While the students focused on their work, I started reading it and was instantly enamored. I went home that night and ordered my own copy, realizing there was so much more to understand about relationships than I ever imagined. It was the first book on relationships I had ever read, and even people who aren't necessarily into personal development have likely heard of this one particular book: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by Dr. John Gray. In fact, USA Today listed it as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century and, in hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. It has been translated into approximately 45 languages and sold in more than 100 countries. Still today, it continues to be a bestseller. Dr. Gray has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters. Dr. Gray has now written over 20 books, including his most recent: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His passion is helping men and women understand one another better, and we dive into just that in this insight-filled conversation. Some of what we cover... - How how John Gray went from a celibate monk to being a best selling author on relationships - What causes a breakdown in communication - The role of male and female hormones in creating a harmonious sexual relationship - How good communication can bring out the best in your partner - Learn how Dr. John structures his therapy sessions very differently for men vs. women - The unique needs of men and women in love and why selfishness is sometimes good - Steps to shift from being in a power struggle to being connected and open - How biology helps sustain love and grow it over a lifetime - Strategies to get more of what you want in your relationship - Learn what a Thriving Relationship means to Dr. John Gray ✨ HELPFUL LINKS ✨Learn more about Dr. John Gray at https://www.marsvenus.com/ Learn more about the Center for Thriving Relationships at https://centerforthrivingrelationships.com https://www.instagram.com/centerforthrivingrelationships  

More Beyond Mars and Venus~ Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World with John Gray John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continue to be a bestseller. Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. His many books, blogs, and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep.  He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters. John Gray lives in Northern California where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice. https://www.marsvenus.com/john-gray Video Version: https://youtu.be/DBDg0IcgU74 Call in with a comment or Chat with Teresa during Live Show with Video Stream: Call 646-558-8656 ID: 8836953587 press #.  To Ask a Question press *9 to raise your hand. Or click YouTube icon to write a question Learn more about Teresa here: www.webebookspublishing.com http://authenticendeavorspublishing.com/

Today, I interview Dr. John Gray. In John's family there were lots of siblings, and there was lots of love. However, his mother clearly had a sweet spot for John and favored him a little. In turn, his siblings expressed their jealousy by picking on and torturing him. He learned to stay alert, but this meant he was always on edge and quite afraid. John's fear wasn't really recognized or discussed in his family until a concerned aunt pointed it out to him when he was still pretty young. So he became aware that he had an issue with fear but didn't yet understand how to work through it. John felt very loved by his parents. He says that by the time he came along, his parents realized that things like spankings and other punishments hadn't worked on his older siblings. They decided not to punish him in the same way and just to "leave him in the hands of God." This added to the growing jealousy of his siblings, and their anger was another source of intimidation, keeping John from building - or even using - his voice. On the other hand, John's mother supported all of his ideas and encouraged him to keep learning and figuring out life. She would later add a wing onto her bookstore to house and sell all of the books he would write. At the age of 19, John became the youngest teacher of Transcendental Meditation. During his first lecture, he was so nervous he fainted. But he was so passionate about TM, he decided to keep working at it, trying to overcome his anxiety. Then he found Improv. Instead of focusing on a speech and feeling like everyone was there to judge any misstep, he felt like a cloud lifted when his improv peers supported him and cheered him on for his creativity. In this welcome and safe space, he was able to begin to release his fears and move forward. Today, his thoughts and ideas are known internationally, and his voice has changed the lives of thousands. _________ Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. His many books, blogs, and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters. John Gray lives in Northern California where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice. Find John here: https://www.marsvenus.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/marsvenus/ https://www.facebook.com/Mars.Venus.John.Gray https://www.instagram.com/johngraymarsvenus_official/ https://twitter.com/MarsVenus ______________I'm your podcast host, Dr. Doreen Downing, and I help people find their voice so they can overcome anxiety, be confident, and speak without fear. Get started now on your journey to your authentic voice by downloading my Free 7 Step Guide to Fearless Speaking: https://wwwdoreen7steps.com.

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. Not bad for a first ever guest on The Wellness Way. He's here to talk about his most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. KEY TAKEAWAYS Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.In 1969, he began a nine-year association with Maharishi Mahesh Yogi and lived as a celibate before beginning his career as an author and personal relationship counselor. In 1992 he published the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus to share what he had learned after reconnecting with sex. In order to have lasting passion in a relationship you need to have good communication skills. Finding forgiveness and healing the past.John also follows the EFT practice mentioned in a previous episode. If you go to John's website in the notes below you'll receive a free gift. BEST MOMENTS ‘I had a dream, it was about making love to a woman'‘When men are on their female side their estragon is higher and testosterone is lower'‘When you're getting less you should give to yourself'‘We're like monkeys, monkey see money do, we need to become adults' EPISODE RESOURCES https://www.marsvenus.com/giftBeyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex Worldhttps://www.tiktok.com/@phillyjlay1https://www.instagram.com/phillyjlay/https://www.phillyjlay.com/ ABOUT THE GUEST  John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller. ABOUT THE HOST Philly J Lay is the author of The Natural Wellness Journal, EFT practitioner, and  is also a long-standing advocate for our health and that of our planet. After a near death experience and years of grief, resulting in a range of chronic illnesses, she discovered personalised natural medicine and the associated miracles of the body and power of the mind. Philly is passionate in her belief that everything is connected and that when we learn to heal ourselves, it will help to heal this beautiful world. Find all my socials and links here https://linktr.ee/PhillyjLay ABOUT THE PODCAST The Wellness Way with Philly J Lay is a layperson's guide to your natural health systems. Your very own NHS. Join me as I chat through many of the astonishing natural ways I used to self heal from a near death medical procedure, PTSD, addiction to opioids and alcohol, and years of grief that lead to many chronic illnesses including a tumour in my throat. I will be sharing clips from my new Fasterclass series, Your Natural Wellness Journey, and interviewing some of the remarkable guides that have transformed my life. We will discuss their stories, specialist fields, and what led them down the path of natural health.heavening, meditation, healing, sciences, manifestation, wellness, ecology, natural health, wellbeing,: https://www.phillyjlay.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. Not bad for a first ever guest on The Wellness Way. He's here to talk about his most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World.   KEY TAKEAWAYS   Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. In 1969, he began a nine-year association with Maharishi Mahesh Yogi and lived as a celibate before beginning his career as an author and personal relationship counselor. In 1992 he published the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus to share what he had learned after reconnecting with sex.  In order to have lasting passion in a relationship you need to have good communication skills. Finding forgiveness and healing the past. John also follows the EFT practice mentioned in a previous episode.  If you go to John's website in the notes below you'll receive a free gift.   BEST MOMENTS   ‘I had a dream, it was about making love to a woman' ‘When men are on their female side their estragon is higher and testosterone is lower' ‘When you're getting less you should give to yourself' ‘We're like monkeys, monkey see money do, we need to become adults'   EPISODE RESOURCES   https://www.marsvenus.com/gift Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World https://www.tiktok.com/@phillyjlay1 https://www.instagram.com/phillyjlay/ https://www.phillyjlay.com/   ABOUT THE GUEST    John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.   ABOUT THE HOST   Philly J Lay is the author of The Natural Wellness Journal, EFT practitioner, and  is also a long-standing advocate for our health and that of our planet. After a near death experience and years of grief, resulting in a range of chronic illnesses, she discovered personalised natural medicine and the associated miracles of the body and power of the mind. Philly is passionate in her belief that everything is connected and that when we learn to heal ourselves, it will help to heal this beautiful world. Find all my socials and links here https://linktr.ee/PhillyjLay   ABOUT THE PODCAST   The Wellness Way with Philly J Lay is a layperson's guide to your natural health systems. Your very own NHS. Join me as I chat through many of the astonishing natural ways I used to self heal from a near death medical procedure, PTSD, addiction to opioids and alcohol, and years of grief that lead to many chronic illnesses including a tumour in my throat.  I will be sharing clips from my new Fasterclass series, Your Natural Wellness Journey, and interviewing some of the remarkable guides that have transformed my life. We will discuss their stories, specialist fields, and what led them down the path of natural health.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Did you know that hormones affect our relationships? In fact, healthy relationships are the unknown key to human health. That's why I asked Dr. John Gray, one of the most well-known and trusted relationship experts in the world, to be on the show.  Dr. Gray is the author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, which was the #1 best-selling book of the entire 1990s. Having written over 20 books, he has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, and Good Morning America. In today's episode, Dr. Gray shares the different relationship patterns and how changes in hormones impact our relationships and behavior.  Ever wonder why men tend to get cranky in old age while women become hyper-independent? Dr. Gray dives deep into both men's and women's hormone health and why mood changes with age. He'll help you learn how to best work with your partner from a hormone perspective. This episode will give you some much-needed hormone clarity and the motivation to focus more on your hormone health!    Key Takeaways: [2:46] What has changed in hormone health since Dr. Gray's first book. [6:36] Why hormonal balance is essential for men. [11:53] What happens to men when estrogen levels go too high.  [16:38] What happens to women when estrogen levels go too high. [20:02] How sex organs actually work. [23:09] Estrogen dominance. [24:26] What to do when you feel burnt out.   Connect with Dr. John Gray:   MarsVenus.com   @johngraymarsvenus_official    Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus: The Classic Guide To Understanding The Opposite Sex   Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World   Memorable Quotes:   “Due to the shift in the consciousness on the planet, and the toxicity of the planet, our hormones have gone out of balance.” - Dr. Gray   “Men and women 50 years ago had a huge advantage when it came to the world, and it's out of date without a doubt.” - Dr. Gray   “Every relationship is reciprocal. If you make a change, it will change him.” - Dr. Gray   “We're built for sacrifice. Women are not. You're built to love.” - Dr. Gray   “Once you're in a negative state, you tend to get locked into looking at more reasons why I should feel like a victim.” - Dr. Gray

For full show notes, resources mentioned, and transcripts, go to: www.drmindypelz.com/ep118/ To enroll in Dr. Mindy's Fasting membership, go to: resetacademy.drmindypelz.com This episode is all about the power of hormones on our behaviors and relationships.  John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continue to be a bestseller. Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance. His many books, blogs, and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep.  He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters. John Gray lives in Northern California where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice. Please see our medical disclaimer.

“Want to live a life by design not by default? Register for the upcoming life by design summit HERE”https://thedreamoutloudmethod.com/summitIn today's episode, I chat with John Gray, author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continue to be a bestseller.He has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.Juicy gems from this episode:01:06 - Who is John Gray?04:47 - How do relationships work with differences?06:56 - How does gender fluidity affect relationships?13:50 - Can hormonal imbalance affect relationships?16:56 - How do you grow intimacy17:46 - Common reason why marriages are falling apart23:11 - Why do women need a man to get back to their female side24:47 - What do men need most from a woman25:52 - What is polarity33:05 - How to keep the real romance in a relationship53:33 - Types of emotions59:40 - How to know the difference between just a really good friendship or their soulmate1:00:04 - What happens when you don't have intimacyTune in to learn more epic values from this episode!Connect with Johnhttps://www.marsvenus.com/Join the Dream Out Loud Facebook Communityhttps://bit.ly/2RSBKVFFollow me on Instagram herewww.Instagram.com/morgantnelsonAre you ready to launch your own successful podcast? Hit the link below, fill out the application, and if you are accepted, you're going to a free strategic call with Morgan to plan a strategy for your own podcast and to hear more about the Podcast Mastery course on how you can explode your podcast for the next 30 days.https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSez6RiA4rWLTZsKlxln9kYQRmb3iPbbPx1qcCnCEvVaMg0Udg/viewform

Join Host Helen Lee and Dr John Gray in part two of this incredible interview. If you missed part one, do tune into and listen to episode 20 first and then continue with this episode. Don't miss out on any of the valuable information and wisdom shared in both! John Gray is the author of the ultimate relationship book, Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus. This book is now more than 20 years old, yet it still appears in hot lists across the globe. John has gone on to write many more relationship books, including his most recent Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex Worldand also has a substantial career as a speaker and relationship counsellor. Join both John and Helen again in part two of this interview where they delve deep into the societal impacts on relationships today, understanding the power of spirituality and much, much more! John talks about porn, masturbation, sex, celibacy, hormones, self mastery, emotional mastery, self reflection, brain development, spiritual awareness, his years as a Hindu monk when he was the Maharishi's personal assistant, the great awakening, transforming and thriving through relationships. And the most useful message that Helen thinks John shared in this conversation with her is that the more we change at this time, "the more we will suffer less”, as there will be great suffering in the years ahead. This is precisely why Helen created “Transform & Thrive”both as a podcast and membership club early this year, to support individuals and organisations worldwide to truly change and flourish, and help others to do the same. This message can be found at the very end of this episode, along with the simple and powerful process he kindly gifted Helen and her listeners. The process involves our raising our hands with the palms facing outwards and later, shifting both hands to partially facing each other. This interview was conducted over Zoom video which will be included in the youtube video version of this podcast to be launched later on. KEY TAKEAWAYS We have to know and understand how men and women are different from each other. Inclusivity means understanding and accepting differences, not denying difference to the point where we ignore diversity. Understanding differences is the way to personally develop and grow your brain when you’re older. Anything that isn’t growing is dying, that’s the law of entropy. That’s why when we are older we are often the catalysts for understanding difference. Today more than ever, women need the right hormones to be produced in them to be happy and content. If you are in balance, both spirituality and physically, then you are happy. We are spiritual beings in a human body, here to transform your programming to become a more loving person. That’s the challenge. Some things you have to do for your wellbeing. Some things are desirable, but not vital. You have to make sensible choices and discard actions that are eventually unproductive for you. With simple techniques you can connect to the divine, you can receive its energy into your body and eject your negativity and pain. If you do this enough and have the intention, emotional, spiritual intelligence you can transform yourself by accessing the energy that is all around us. BEST MOMENTS "When a man can understand a woman, who he doesn't understand and now he understands her better, he becomes more whole. When a woman can accept and appreciate a man for things that she maybe doesn't appreciate before, she becomes more whole.' 'Another form of help that you (Helen) have mentioned that is missing in the world today which could be a major crux of the problem allows us to go in the wrong direction, is lack of spiritual intelligence.' 'Spiritual intelligence says to a woman, "I am not alone." That's the biggest oestrogen producer in the world. Spiritual awareness in a man increases testosterone because he feels "I have to be a good person to be loved by God"....It is the ultimate coach, it is a belief that there is a higher power that knows more than you and will reward you when you do good.' 'I am a spiritual teacher as well but I teach through love.' "What I need is different to what she needs" "If you don't have emotional intelligence then when your partner upsets you, you think they have to change. No, you have to change your emotions then your partner will change [their behaviour]." So there is gender intelligence in my book. Most people change overnight sometimes with my books because it’s just a correction of “Oh, I didn’t realise what was most important to her” and she goes “Oh I didn’t realise. I thought I was doing something to make him feel better and it was actually making him feel worse. I misunderstood his behaviour. He’s just in his cave, it’s not that he’s mad at me.”’ ‘So you have to know what you’re attracted to and why you’re attracted to it. Don’t even think about having sex with a man until you can be naked mentally and emotionally. Then you can become naked physically, otherwise it’s an inappropriate desire.’ ‘That’s the female side of everybody that says “Hey, do this for me“. The male side of us says “hey, I’m gonna do this for you.” And women have a male and female side. The female is weak today. For men, the male is weak today.’ ‘God’s there. The divine is there. In Christian terms that’s the Holy Spirit now filling us up. Coming through the fingertips. It’s just like a switch, an antennae to pull the energy in.’ ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results. Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches. VALUABLE RESOURCES To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here: www.transformandthrive.club CONTACT METHOD www.leeheiss.com www.facebook.com/leeheiss www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss enquiries@leeheiss.com

Dr John Gray, the internationally famous American relationship expert is best known for his book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus. Host Helen Lee is both delighted and most appreciative to be able to share the invaluable content he generously provided during a 1.5hr interview on his truths that would help people transform and thrive today. Especially as John is someone who has repeatedly appeared on Oprah, The Dr Oz Show, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America and many other US programs. And Barbara Walters also hosted a 3hr special with him. He certainly shared a substantial amount of knowledge and wisdom during his conversation with Helen on spiritual, emotional, gender and relationship intelligence. He has also been featured in Time, Forbes USA Today and People. In fact, USA Today even listed his book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus as one of the top ten most influential books of the last quarter of a century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990’s. Translated into about 45 languages in more than 100 countries, John’s book amazingly continues to be a best seller till today, with more than 15 million copies sold to date! Furthermore, John has written more than 20 books in the meantime and the most recent is Beyond Mars & Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. The most useful message that Helen thinks John shared in this conversation with her is that the more we change at this time, "the more we will suffer less”, as there will be great suffering in the years ahead. This is precisely why Helen created “Transform & Thrive”both as a podcast and membership club early this year, to support individuals and organisations worldwide to truly change and flourish, and help others to do the same. This message was at the very end of the interview which you will find in Episode 21 This interview was divided into two episodes), along with the simple and powerful process he kindly gifted Helen and her listeners. This will be out next Monday, April 25th. Meanwhile, check out the great wealth of knowledge and wisdom John Gray pours out, right from the beginning in this episode. KEY TAKEAWAYS It is very clear to John that the world is going in the wrong direction because he can feel people's suffering which always comes about with wrong thinking or what Helen calls "misaligned thoughts". He knows, however, through his own experience, that growth comes from pain. John talks about how social norms change. For instance, child discipline is now non violent and this has resulted in parents floundering to find a way to handle their children’s behaviour. When the mother and father don’t love each other, children cannot love themselves, they can’t access the divine plan. They are confused about who they are and are easily offended by things, so now we have a culture that is offended by everything. BEST MOMENTS ‘Whenever you’re in pain, when anybody is in pain, their thinking is in the wrong direction. And that’s what’s going on in the world, their thinking is in the wrong direction. So people are experiencing more pain and more addiction to avoid their pain.’ 'Fulfilment of desire is always temporary but the journey of having a desire, the process of getting what you want without doubting yourself and doubting the process and demanding that you have that thing right now, otherwise you can't be happy, that's something we have control over.' 'We all come from trauma, there is no question about it. Even if you came from what was normal in the past, it would be traumatic today because we have so much more wisdom. We deserve so much more, we know that." ‘I grew up in Houston, Texas and Texas was pretty much like the rest of the country, just maybe a little bit more tough. And six boys, we were unruly, mom's going to say “I’m going to tell your dad” and we would stop because if we didn’t stop or we did something to bother her, not cooperative, not supportive, "I'm going to tell your father" and father would come home and say bend over and took out his belt, and you’d get whipped. That was normal.' ‘I know the darker it gets the deeper it goes and the more ecstasy I’ll feel later. After my wife’s death, it’s four years now and it’s still there. I go for a walk to the forest to a little waterfall and the trees are so tall and I go into a heightened state of ecstasy and meditation.’ ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results. Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches. VALUABLE RESOURCES To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here: www.transformandthrive.club CONTACT METHOD www.leeheiss.com www.facebook.com/leeheiss www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss enquiries@leeheiss.com

Dr. John Gray is the world-famous author behind the best-seller, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” He has sold over 50 million copies of books in 50 different languages and has impacted millions of relationships worldwide. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. In this interview, we cover a wide-range of mystical and practical topics around creating a world where men and women understand, respect, and appreciate their differences and ultimately work together.  After spending almost a decade in his 20s as a celibate monk, John Gray has learned a variety of ancient secret techniques taught in India such as semen retention and becoming multi-orgasmic. We will learn how to harness our sexual energy to become more creative, passionate, and unlock abundant sources of motivation and discipline.  Since the release of his world-renowned Mars/Venus book on the nature of relationships, John Gray has released the follow-up titled, “Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World.” It had been named, “the new playbook for empowered partners & powerful love.” We will also dive into the power of the next generations to access both male and female sides, and learn how to balance our hormones and emotions. There's a new masculinity rising, not rooted in toxicity, and John Gray will reveal his vision and thoughts on the new masculine and feminine role in society. Lastly, we will learn about the harms and dangers of porn addiction, over-ejaculation, and engaging in sexual encounters where love is not present. There's been an eye-opening decline in testosterone levels and a surge in estrogen levels in men due to habits and lifestyle behaviors. We will learn ways to bring these hormones back into balance and even boost them in both men and women.     ✦ Top Quotes “When you are confident that you can solve a problem, your testosterone levels will go up.”    “When you get upset, and you are a man, that means your estrogen levels are going up and your testosterone is going down.”    “When you are not stressed and you have a desire, then that desire if it comes from an open-hearted place, it's a seed and within that seed is the knowledge of how to get there and it will come. Life will take you on a journey that will lead you where you want to go."   "[Being a celibate monk] was the foundation of not depending on the outer world to change for me to be happy. Now I do depend a lot on the outer world to change to become happier."   "Whenever I'm unhappy, it becomes I'm demanding it change before I'm happy and I open my heart.”   "For our masculine journey, don't even think about getting into a super-serious relationship until you found your way, you know yourself, you can find your way back to happiness no matter what happens.”  ✦ Connect further with Dr. JohnGray  Website Courses Books Instagram   ✦ Special Offerings: Receive 15% off any purchase from Ra Optics, the world's best blue light-blocking glasses. Click here and use our code “justtapin” at checkout from your special discount.   ✦ Connect with your Host - Emilio - and Co-host - Ryan  Subscribe on YouTube Follow Emilio on Instagram  Follow Ryan on Instagram   Our mission at Just Tap In is to bridge the new consciousness and empower the next generation of leaders to co-create the New Earth.  

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance.His many books, blogs, and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters.John Gray lives in Northern California where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice.www.marsvenus.com

My guest today is John Gray, author of Beyond Mars and Venus. Dr. John Gray is the author of the classic dating book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. His books have sold tens of millions of copies and have been translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries.In this episode, John shares how relationship dynamics have changed over the past 20 years, why men need Cave Time to get in touch with their masculine side, why women need Talk Therapy to get in touch with their feminine side, why little things make a big difference for women, and much more about maintaining a happy relationship.TIMESTAMPS:[00:24] - The biggest change in relationships over the past 20 years[04:15] - Men need to reconnect with their masculine side & women with their feminine side [06:15] - Explaining  Cave Time & why  how it helps men  [1 2:00] - Explaining Talk Therapy & why how it helps women[17:35] - Why complaining doesn't work & how to actually get your partner to change[27:10] - Why little things make a BIG difference for women [43:28] - Things a man can do to help their woman reconnect with their feminine side [52:45] - A common mistake men do in relationships [1:06:20] - A sex tip to boost your testosterone Resources:Twitter: @MarsVenusWebsite: MarsVenus.com***If you enjoyed this podcast, make sure to subscribe.Every week I send out a free newsletter with actionable advice from amazing books. Join 7,900+ readers here.Connect with Alex & Books:Twitter: @alexandbooks_Instagram: @alexandbooks_YouTube: Alex and Books

My guest today is Dr. John Gray who is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. In hardcover, it was the #1 bestselling book of the 1990s. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter century. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.

John Gray author of one of the most influential relationship books of all time ‘Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus’ is talking to Angela about how we are all now living in a different reality which has changed our hormonal foundation and means we now need a revised approach to develop the relationship skills required in such a complex world. They discuss how you can work towards a balance between your masculine and feminine and achieve an open heart being authentic in your relationship if you learn to understand and feel your deeper emotions.   KEY TAKEAWAYS When women are stressed their oestrogen levels are low when men are stressed their testosterone levels are low Connection is one of the key elements in oestrogen going up We are not designed to be together all the time. detachment for men can increase testosterone We long for connection but if we get too much it has the opposite effect You need the right balance of connection and separation if you are solving problems with confidence your testosterone is rising Previously men were taught to meditate and this was an effective way of rebuilding testosterone Part of men’s bonding happens when women’s oestrogen is very high You need higher levels of testosterone to sustain interest in someone you love than someone you don’t love Women have the feminine power of attraction to draw in opportunity and it’s then the masculine that makes use of it There is more to the world than what we can see and hear. Find in your heart peacefully what it is you really want in your life If you are both analysing and feeling you can experience feeling the deeper emotions When you learn how to process your emotions you can grow and manifest your potential I recommend a positive mindset, good nutrition and sometimes supplements if you are going through a crisis The ultimate accountability is when you have the source of happiness within yourself   BEST MOMENTS ‘You need love and when you feel this your oestrogen levels go up’ ‘The world is a projection to help you get in touch with how you feel’ ‘What holds a man’s attention is vulnerability, emotion and authenticity   VALUABLE RESOURCES High Performance Health podcast series Transform your sleep DNA optimization High Performance website  MarsVenus website Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World, John Gray   ABOUT THE HOST Angela Foster   Angela is a Nutritionist, Health and Performance Coach. She is also the Founder and CEO of My DNA Edge, an Exclusive Private Membership Site giving individuals the tools and bio hacks needed to optimise their genetic expression for optimal health and performance. After recovering from a serious illness in 2014, Angela left the world of Corporate Law with a single mission in mind: To inspire and educate others to live an energetic, healthful and limitless life. Angela believes that we can truly have it all and has spent the last 5 years researching the habits and routines of high performers, uncovering age-old secrets, time-honoured holistic practices and modern science to create a blueprint for Optimal Human Performance.   CONTACT DETAILS Instagram Facebook LinkedIn High Performance Health FB Group                                         See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we talk about John's new book, Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World. We discuss how men and women can approach relationships by first getting to know and understand their own psychology and physiology to better the health and happiness of their relationships. John Gray is the author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus as well as numerous other books in the areas of health and relationships. He has been speaking, teaching, and coaching all over the world for over 40 years. I hope you enjoy this episode and get something out of it as I did. Useful Links: https://marsvenus.com/

Journalist Eliza Lita is a self-confessed bookworm, but her early reading focused more on non-fiction work. As a result, she's picked up a wide variety of useful knowledge, and kept her curiosity alive. She and Mark share an appreciation for good crime fiction, and Eliza has some tips to help Mark finish the books he keeps starting. Eliza's picks In order of discussion: Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life Eliza's first pick is life-changing for her, in a less-than-subtle way. This book can help you connect with your reason-for-being, and could even help you live to 100. The Face: A Time Code How many times do you really look in the mirror? In this book, author Ruth Ozeki does just that... but for a really long time. Sleep Well: Everything You Need to Know for a Good Night's Rest This book helped Eliza navigate through her sleep procrastination. It has a lot of useful, practical advice for improving your sleep hygiene, including a powerful visualisation technique. Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World This book unpacks the differences between the way men and women think, and a more constructive manner than the "men are from Mars" style books of the previous generation. Lady in Waiting: My Extraordinary Life in the Shadow of the Crown Eliza's fascination with the British royal family is piqued with this memoir by peeress Anne Glenconner. If you're ready to take another look at the stereotypes and the lives behind The Crown, this book comes highly recommended by Eliza. Mark's picks In order of discussion: The Chimp Paradox: The Mind Management Programme to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence and Happiness This self-help book is Mark's top pick as it had a dramatic effect on the way he approached the part of the brain that keeps us safe, but also keeps us mired in shame and self-doubt. Self Compassion This book challenges the hitherto lauded notions of "self-belief", instead demonstrating that we're all worthy of love and compassion – even when we make mistakes – because we're human. The Infinite Game This Simon Sinek book helped Mark concentrate less on his small business competitors, and focus more on his ultimate aim. Three Men in a Boat Although this might not be everyone's first thought when it comes to non-fiction, Jerome K Jerome's travelogue has some hilarious moments that opened Mark's eyes to a style of humour he'd previously been unaware of. Alexander Hamilton The book that inspired the smash hit musical is Mark's final pick, as the work it inspired changed his life in a less than subtle way. Honourable mentions History and Myth in Romanian Consciousness The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life More of Eliza You can read Eliza's writings on Medium, and follow @lita_eliza on Twitter. Eliza is also Europe Editor for The Meridian magazine, and you can read some of her contributions there.

There was a time when men and women had specific roles in their relationship.  Typically the man worked at his job, and the wife stayed at home.  While that seems archaic by today's standards the fact of the matter was it actually made the relationship much easier and steadier because everyone knew their role, and as we often say today, "they stayed in their lane". Today's relationships are much more challenging.  More and more couples have their own careers and their own dreams and goals, they try to share not only the financial burden, but the responsibilities at home.  While it is what we are accustomed to the fact of the matter is our ability to stay together in the relationship has suffered as we see a higher break up and divorce rate.  Why?  With all the sharing of responsibility how come it is not producing greater happiness and togetherness within the relationship? It comes down to our male and female biological differences, mainly our hormones.  The fact is men have 10 to 30 times more testosterone then women and women have 10 to 30 times more estrogen than men.  We produce both, but when we are out of balance, meaning when men are producing to much estrogen they get stressed and angry.  And when women get stressed it is because they have too much testosterone.  How does this happen?  Because as men and women are both working they are put in position where the women in her job starts producing more testosterone throwing her out of balance, while a man in his job is producing more estrogen throwing him out of balance.  The result:  A new dynamic in our relationship with each other.  What are we to do?  Thankfully Dr. John Gray the world's #1 relationship expert (And author of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus") joins us no A New Direction to help us get not only our hormones in balance, but also our relationship. His latest book entitled "Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World" is stellar.  It is an eye opening look at how our biological differences, combined with our work, combined with our other relationships affect us both negatively and positively.  Dr. Gray also provides solutions to helping your relationships not only grow and thrive, but take it to the next level.  "Beyond Mars and Venus" is in my opinion as absolute must read!  If you want your relationship to grow and be out of this world, listen to the show, and get your copy of "Beyond Mars and Venus". The Sponsor of A New Direction are so important to bringing great guests like Dr. John Gray to the show!  Please reach out and thank them for their generous support. EPIC Physical Therapy the facility with the most cutting edge equipment and the certified staff to help you recover from an injury or surgery, work with professional and amateur athletes, or just those of us who want to move and feel better.  When you want EPIC relief, EPIC recovery, and EPIC results then start with EPIC Physical Therapy by going to www.EPICpt.com Linda Craft & Team, Realtors when you are looking to sell your home or buy a new home start with what their clients refer to as “the legends of customer service”.  Whether you are in the Greater Raleigh Research Triangle Park area of North Carolina or any where in the world they can help you with your home dreams.  Contact our friends Linda Craft & Team at www.LindaCraft.com

The buildings and infrastructure you see all around you started with a single thought. That thought was communicated to people who then built with skill and hard work. Without that thought, nothing would be created. Just like how those buildings started with a thought, your thoughts and your mindset also play a critical role when it comes to the success of your business. Your thoughts dictate your actions and behavior. Without having control over your mindset, you can make poor decisions in critical situations that will affect you, your clients and even how your employees perceive you as their leader. What can you do to gain greater control? That’s what we’re here to find out in this Construction Genius episode as Casey Grey, founder of The Conscious Builder, shares with us how your mindset can make a difference to the way you manage your employees and your clients. Be a master of your mindset by tuning in to this episode. What’s Discussed in This Episode: Business success is 20% mechanics and 80% psychology [01:51] The brain is a muscle that needs constant exercise [03:12] Meditation helps you control your reaction to uncontrollable events [07:28] Meditation gives you clarity and focus [05:07] Your employees will do as you do, not as you say [11:47] Leading by example is not micromanaging [12:19] Having control of yourself reflects how you are in control of a situation [10:40] The biggest factor in stepping into a role is the want to make the shift [15:59] How to transition from the project-building to the project-leading mindset [14:02] There’s always a next project [18:52] Maintain mutual respect [19:31] To be able to manage clients, you have to get the right ones first [16:48] Asking questions is more important than telling [20:52] To achieve success, you have to keep moving forward and take action [22:48] True success is mastery over self [21:40] Managing family and business both at the same time [24:02] To get on the same page as your spouse, you need to listen [25:49] Casey’s ideal day [28:40] Casey’s favorite restaurant [31:00] About the Guest: Casey Grey is the founder of The Conscious Builder, an award-winning sustainable building company. With two decades of construction experience and over a decade of entrepreneurial experience, he now helps construction companies build homes in a more conscious manner. He hosts The Conscious Builder Podcast and is currently co-authoring a book with Kevin Harrington from The Shark Tank. Resources: Grab hold of Casey Grey’s media kit (https://www.caseygrey.com/media-kit.html) Visit The Conscious Builder website (https://www.theconsciousbuilder.com/) Listen to The Conscious Builder Podcast (https://www.theconsciousbuilder.com/podcast) Watch out for their The 3 Day Cottage series (https://www.theconsciousbuilder.com/threedaycottageseries.html) Learn more about Case Grey (https://www.caseygrey.com/about.html) Subscribe to his YouTube Channel (https://www.youtube.com/c/theconsciousbuilder) Casey’s Restaurant Recommendation: The Whalesbone restaurant Website (https://thewhalesbone.com/) Books mentioned in this episode: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today’s Complex World by John Gray (https://amzn.to/2YJu4VP) Connect with me on LinkedIn. For more podcast episodes, you may also visit my website. Tune in and subscribe to the Construction Genius: A Leadership Master-Class Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Stitcher. Thank you for tuning in! 

* Hier gehts zu Part 1 | Die Biochemie der Liebe | mit John Gray https://go.veitlindau.com/175YT * Bist du dabei? Am 28.07.2020 um 20 Uhr starten wir gemeinsam mit dem brandneuen Onlinekurs schattenwerk | Befreiende Schattenintegration. http://go.homodea.com/hd808 Weißt du, was dich als Frau oder Mann ausmacht? Und fühlst du dich wohl in deiner Rolle? In dieser Podcastfolge kannst du dich auf Part 2 des exklusiven Interviews mit dem bekanntesten Beziehungsexperten der Welt freuen. John Gray ist Autor vieler Bestseller, wie zum Beispiel "Männer sind anders. Frauen auch. Männer sind vom Mars, Frauen sind von der Venus". Er hilft, besser zu verstehen und ist für mich ein wirklicher Altmeister der Beziehungen, der tief gegraben hat und sich speziell auskennt mit der Biochemie unseres Körpers. Es geht um spannende Themen wie... * Weiblichkeit und Männlichkeit * Wann und wie ist Masturbation gut und wann kostet sie dich hingegen Kraft? * Was macht einen Mann wirklich aus? * Erfolg, Gefühle und was Liebe eigentlich wirklich ist. Ich danke dir, dass du diesen Podcast hörst und wünsche dir viel Freude und wertvolle Erkenntnisse. * Alles zu John Gray. https://marsvenus.com/ * Zum Buch | Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World https://amzn.to/31WL4dD * Zum Buch | Männer sind anders. Frauen auch. https://amzn.to/3gDHf11 * Hier gehts zu homodea. http://go.homodea.com/hd191 * Alles zu Veit Lindau. https://go.veitlindau.com/bold-impact * Du kannst dir den Podcast überall auf iTunes, Spotify, meinem Blog, YouTube und allen Podcastapps kostenlos anhören. * Ich freu mich sehr, wenn dich die Folge inspiriert. Schreib mir sehr gern unter podcast@veitlindau.com dein Feedback oder deine Wünsche für weitere Themen und Gäste. In Verbundenheit, Veit Folge direkt herunterladen

* Hier gehts zu Part 2 | Die Biochemie der Liebe | mit John Gray https://go.homodea.com/hd784 * Schon im neuen Kurs liebeswerk dabei? Willkommen im Labor der Liebe! http://go.homodea.com/hd743 In dieser Podcastfolge kannst du dich auf eine absolute Praline freuen. Dich erwartet ein exklusives Interview mit dem bekanntesten Beziehungsexperten der Welt. John Gray ist Autor vieler Bestseller, wie zum Beispiel "Männer sind anders. Frauen auch. Männer sind vom Mars, Frauen sind von der Venus". John Gray hilft, besser zu verstehen und ist für mich ein wirklicher Altmeister der Beziehungen, der tief gegraben hat und sich speziell auskennt mit der Biochemie unseres Körpers. Es geht um die Biochemie der Liebe und unter anderem um... * Geschlechterrollen * was passiert, wenn Frauen ihren Mann stehen müssen * das Gehirn und den Hormonspiegel des Mannes und die Auswirkungen von Erfolg * seine persönlichen Erfahrungen * sein neues Buch "Beyond Mars and Venus" * wahres Frausein und Mannsein Du kannst dich auf ein sehr lebendiges und ehrliches Interview freuen. Ich wünsche dir spannende Erkenntnisse und die konkrete Umsetzung in deinen Lieblingsbeziehungen. * Alles zu John Gray. https://marsvenus.com/ * Zum Buch | Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World https://amzn.to/31WL4dD * Zum Buch | Männer sind anders. Frauen auch. https://amzn.to/3gDHf11 * Alles zu Veit Lindau. https://go.veitlindau.com/bold-impact * Du kannst dir den Podcast überall auf iTunes, Spotify, meinem Blog, YouTube und allen Podcastapps kostenlos anhören. * Ich freu mich sehr, wenn dich die Folge inspiriert. Schreib mir sehr gern unter podcast@veitlindau.com dein Feedback oder deine Wünsche für weitere Themen und Gäste. In Verbundenheit, Veit Folge direkt herunterladen

To My Listeners: I recorded this podcast in Park City, Utah, before coronavirus halted travel.This episode of Bulletproof Radio is quite a ride–both fun and fascinating. Consider it sex ed for grownups taught by a former monk who was celibate for nine years. You’ll be surprised at how much you’ll learn. My guest is John Gray, author of one of the most well-known and trusted relationship books of all time, “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” It’s been recognized as a top 10 “most influential books” of the last quarter century. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. For more than 20 years, he’s helped couples deepen their intimacy and rejuvenate their love lives. His newest title (of nearly two dozen books), “Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World,” covers love and sex in our modern life.His many books, blogs and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. You don’t want to miss our discussion of the many layers of sexuality and how men and women approach intimacy differently.Hormonal balance plays a big role in sexual health. “Just as a rule of thumb,” John says, “anytime a man is passive, irritable, depressed, angry, frustrated, grumpy, his testosterone is low.” Women are affected by rising and falling estrogen levels, as well. Biologically, hormones rule sex lives, so it’s important that we recognize what our bodies are doing.On a practical level, John walks listeners through nine types of orgasm, the benefits of sex without ejaculating and how people can become desensitized by porn or overstimulation. “When you're with someone in physical touching,” John says, “there's a lot of different hormones that get produced to keep sex from being overstimulating because anything which is overstimulating destimulates you, desensitizes your ability to be turned on to your partner.”He also offers some interesting tips and techniques that can increase both your partner’s sexual pleasure and your own.Enjoy the show! And get more resources at Dave.Asprey/podcasts.

To My Listeners: I recorded this podcast in Park City, Utah, before coronavirus halted travel.This episode of Bulletproof Radio is quite a ride–both fun and fascinating. Consider it sex ed for grownups taught by a former monk who was celibate for nine years. You’ll be surprised at how much you’ll learn. My guest is John Gray, author of one of the most well-known and trusted relationship books of all time, “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” It’s been recognized as a top 10 “most influential books” of the last quarter century. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. For more than 20 years, he’s helped couples deepen their intimacy and rejuvenate their love lives. His newest title (of nearly two dozen books), “Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World,” covers love and sex in our modern life.His many books, blogs and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. You don’t want to miss our discussion of the many layers of sexuality and how men and women approach intimacy differently.Hormonal balance plays a big role in sexual health. “Just as a rule of thumb,” John says, “anytime a man is passive, irritable, depressed, angry, frustrated, grumpy, his testosterone is low.” Women are affected by rising and falling estrogen levels, as well. Biologically, hormones rule sex lives, so it’s important that we recognize what our bodies are doing.On a practical level, John walks listeners through nine types of orgasm, the benefits of sex without ejaculating and how people can become desensitized by porn or overstimulation. “When you're with someone in physical touching,” John says, “there's a lot of different hormones that get produced to keep sex from being overstimulating because anything which is overstimulating destimulates you, desensitizes your ability to be turned on to your partner.”He also offers some interesting tips and techniques that can increase both your partner’s sexual pleasure and your own.Enjoy the show! And get more resources at Dave.Asprey/podcasts.

John Gray is a relationship counselor, author, lecturer and family therapist. He is a member of the American Counseling Association and the International Association of Marriage and Family Counselors. Prior to his career as a personal relationship counsellor and author, he was the personal assistant to the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi for nine years. In 1992, he wrote the bestselling book “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” The book also formed the central theme of all his other career activities and subsequent books. “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” sold more than 15 million copies and was hailed one of the “highest ranked work of non-fiction” in the 90s according to a report published by CNN. The book has been published in over 40 languages and has led to weekend seminars, infomercials, videotapes and audiotapes, a TV sitcom and even a contract with 20th Century Fox. John also writes a USA-syndicated column with over 30 million readers. His piece appears in New York Daily News, The Atlanta Journal-Constitution, The Denver Post, San Antonio Express-News, and New York Newsday. He has also made countless media appearances including Larry King Live, Oprah, and The Phil Donahue Show. John has also been profiled on People, Forbes, and Newsweek magazines.   This week’s episode talks about how men and women can be more mindful of their hormone levels, how to understand gender differences, and the modern obstacles to women having normally produced estrogen. John also discusses the link between testosterone and meditation, how one can be less judgmental towards how others think, and the biggest estrogen producer there is. On how estrogen is produced, John has this to say, “Estrogen is produced when you feel dependent. This is like a big revelation. A lot of research went into this. When women feel dependent on someone for something that they can’t get themselves, estrogen levels go up. That’s what estrogen is about.”   Visit my website: mattwilson.co 

John Gray Mars Venus, author of the most well-known and trusted relationship books of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, joins the Aging GreatFULLy show 4/26/19 @ 11amPT/2pmET!Author of over 20 bestselling books, we'll learn to better understand relationships as we discuss his most recent book, "Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World." Dr. John Gray provides practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. He's appeared on Oprah, The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America & many others and it is a huge honor to now welcome him to the Aging GreatFULLy show!John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance. To learn more about him, visit him at www.marsvenus.com.

What role does your gender play in how you react to stress? And how does it determine the best ways to recover from stress? And what does it mean in terms of your relationship? The more that you understand your biology, the better you’ll be able to help yourself (and your partner) in the stressful times, and in the not-so-stressful times. In this week’s episode, we’re talking with John Gray, author of the international bestseller Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. His latest book, Beyond Mars and Venus, is an update to his work, and offers some insights into how to apply it to your life and relationship. He likes to say that he not only has great advice - he follows it - and John has been married for over 30 years. Our conversation covers a LOT of territory - so enjoy the ride! Stress response: Stress is universal and ubiquitous. It permeates our lives, our bodies, and our relationships. Luckily, while it is true that we have little control over the presence of stress in our environments, research shows that we can have control over our internal stress responses. Cortisol: Internal stress can be measured by the presence of cortisol in our bodies. As cortisol increases it creates a cascade of internal changes, including inhibiting our ability to feel happiness, connection, and motivation. This can be explained partially because as cortisol levels rise, blood stops flowing to the prefrontal cortex so critical in being able to attune to another and hear their point of view. Furthermore, cortisol sends 8 times more blood flow to the hippocampus- activating our tendency to focus on what is not working. Increasing cortisol levels thus impacts our ability to see the good, be grateful, or even see things as they are. We begin to look for faults, place blame, and criticize our way out of connection. It is at this moment that we must engage in activities that bring back hormonal balance, including an increase in oxytocin, so that we can re-engage with our partners from a more loving place. Get curious about how your biology becomes your behavior, and vice versa:  In order to gain control of shifting our internal reactions and responses it is key that we learn about how hormones affect our biology and thus, our behavior. We all have an authentic unique self. And that unique self is a blend of our masculine and feminine qualities. While we each have our idiosyncratic ways of expressing these qualities, it can be helpful to look at the science and biology of general hormonal patterns along the gender continuum. Tending to our biological needs, alone and together: When we are under stress our flight or fight system is kicked in, and often our fear response inhibits our ability to assess what we really need in any given moment. We all have certain biological needs that we are not aware of. Take time (when you are in a calm and regulated state) to learn more about how stress impacts your biology so that you can better meet your (and your partner’s) needs. With increased awareness and understanding you will be more equipped to not only remember what it is you really need to do to find equilibrium again, but you will be able to advocate for this in your relationships. Teach each other what you learn so that you can get, and give, the specific kinds of love that will stimulate the hormonal shifts so critical in regaining balance and well-being.   Be specific in how you support each other! While gender identity is fluid, research shows that men and women need different hormones in order to feel open and ready to give and receive love. For men there must be adequate levels of testosterone, and for women they need adequate levels of estrogen and progesterone. Due to cultural and societal changes, modern society does not provide enough opportunities for appropriate hormonal balance. Without overgeneralizing too much, men are being asked more and more to connect with their feminine sides, almost to their detriment, and women are, for the most part engaging in testosterone inducing work environments. While so many of the recent cultural changes are beneficial to creating a more equal society, it is causing hormonal imbalances that are impacting our relationships without our awareness. Role Reversal: Now that people are more and more free to explore both ends of the gender spectrum (and all the space in between), there is a tendency to get stuck too far from one’s biological homebase. In fact, going to the extreme of the other gender’s hormonal expression can become addictive. This is true because when a woman expresses her masculinity she is often expressing behaviors that have long been repressed, and doing so can release a huge amount of energy. And vice versa for men. Danger! Danger!  Estrogen levels are rising in men from 1) overworking, 2) the freedom to express their feminine side more and more and 3) toxicity in the environment. When men’s estrogen levels rise, inhibiting their testosterone levels, they (ironically it would seem) become less able to be kind, loving and compassionate. The more he expresses his feeling and irritation/complains the more estrogen he produces, and this actually makes him feel worse. In an effort to regain the polarity needed to maintain attraction, his partner (in both homosexual and heterosexual couples) will go further to their male side. The longer these patterns go unnoticed the more ingrained the behaviors and biology become. This can be disastrous for relationships as it sabotages natural instincts and dismisses basic needs. Women are experiencing higher and higher levels of testosterone, and lower than needed levels of estrogen. Toxins from pesticides and ingested hormones act as estrogen disruptors and block the natural production of feminine hormones, leaving women 1) with a false sense of connection, 2) with less and less desire to display their feminine side, 3) overwhelmed and unable to stop and do something for themselves, and 4) less interested in relationships and intimacy. Find balance: In general, what women need in order to counteract the testosterone inducing cultural forces acting upon them is to engage in estrogen and progesterone producing activities. Most importantly they need to create a personal life that supports their feminine side- time put aside for engaging in pleasurable and social activities. The female hormones of estrogen and progesterone are produced whenever people are doing something enjoyable, not rushed, and when they are feeling included and supported by others. Women, in general, need and want to feel connected, heard, and held. In fact, research shows that estrogen levels rise as a result of therapy, and this may explain partially why more women engage in therapy than men do. Men, on the other hand, need their testosterone levels to be 10-30 times higher than a woman’s in order to feel stress free and balanced. To achieve this men require time to detach from relationships, allowing them the time necessary to rebuild testosterone. Behaviors that stimulate testosterone can be defined as ‘cave time’- critical space and time to enjoy doing something non-stressful, but not involved with social bonding. Women need to engage in behaviors that stimulate estrogen and progesterone. For women who find themselves in stressful work environments it can be difficult to shift away from testosterone’s momentum. To help increase estrogen it is critical to prioritize engaging in pleasurable activities. Women spend a lot of energy in ‘YOU-time’- time in which they are sacrificing their needs and giving a lot. To balance this, try to set aside ‘ME-time’ which may include yoga, baths, creativity, walks- whatever is natural, nurturing, easy, and comfortable. Furthermore, find ‘WE-time’ through bonding activities with friends and loved ones. WE-time produces oxytocin (which helps replenish estrogen levels) when it involves 1) feeling safe and able to depend on another, 2) receiving non-sexual touch, and 3) having the opportunity to share and feel heard. Give hugs and/or give space. Listen to your partner’s biological needs, without taking it personally. Let your man have his cavetime. Let your lady vent. Remember- when we are stressed out, actions speak louder than words. Do not try to use logic. Do not try to argue, instead try to allow, and accept. The Venus Talk: The Venus Talk is an exercise that gives women (or people wanting to support their feminine side) exactly what they need, without taxing their partner. It respects women’s need to express and vent their feelings and gives them a chance to feel bonded. The way a venus talk works is this: women have 10 minutes to talk. She can express anything at all, as long as it is not a direct complaint about her partner. During these ten minutes her partner just listens. As listener you don’t have to say anything, do anything other than receive and witness, and especially don’t try to fix anything. When women are given this opportunity and invitation to let it out, they tend to come back to regulation mid-way through sharing, and are able to see from new perspectives. Without having reliable times such as this for sharing, women will try to suppress their emotions, and inevitably these will get displaced and be expressed in complaints, criticisms, and resentments. Creating a sacred time such as this is incredibly supportive and responsive to not only her biological needs, but also becomes protective to the partnership in general. Silently listening to a woman allows men to build their testosterone, and increases a sense of capability and effectiveness needed for confidence and attraction. “Gender intelligence is magnificent! Once people can grasp it and study it and apply it we can create the lasting love that we all want and that is missing today in the world. This new knowledge of relationship skills in a complex world comes at a time when we actually have the potential to create a new kind of relationship of love, attraction, and romance. It is possible!”  (John Gray) Do not let your happiness depend on your partner changing. Follow these four steps (repeatedly) in order to help break patterns of dependency and resentment: First step:  Stop! Stop trying to change your partner! Discover all the ways you consciously or unconsciously attempt to change your partner by being upset with them, by withholding love, by resenting  them, or by making unreasonable demands of them. Bring your curiosity and awareness to the ways you subtly and overtly try to mold or influence your partner to meet your expectations and ideals. Second step: Be happy! Really learn how to increase and influence your own well-being. When stress goes down we are naturally quite happy- work to find the right chemistry of hormones in your body to come back into regulation. Take responsibility for your body and engage in activities and behaviors that increase needed hormones. Third step: Give. Give more, not less, to your partner. And be specific with your giving. Learn what kind of support your partner need the most, and help meet those needs. Fourth step: Ask. Advocate for what you yourself need from your partner and advocate for this. Don’t test your partner’s love and devotion by believing that “if they really knew me they would know exactly what to say/do right now”. Give them the manual, the tips, the clues, the tools, the know-how to give you exactly what you want. Moon cycles: Be open and ready for change! A woman’s hormones are changing every day of the month, and thus, what she needs is going to be constantly shifting. Spend some time together reviewing the menstrual cycle and learning about what is most needed in each phase. Talk to each other about explicit ways you can respect her changing needs, and what the expectations are. It can be incredibly helpful to have a calendar (or a tracking app) so that you both aren’t left guessing about what is occurring. Polarity, practice, and play: While learning the science of hormones can be daunting, and feel like a lot of work, it ultimately can provide insight needed for our relationships to blossom, and our passions to ignite. Attraction is so dependent on polarity, and luckily, with new research we now have the knowledge needed to effectively influence how we express our male and female qualities. Empower yourselves to be your own alchemists and be willing to practice and play with trying different behaviors! This will change your body, and your expand your potential for having a sustained, fulfilling, and passionate relationship! NOTE: Learn about how to counteract modern toxicity: Check out John Gray’s newest book for a comprehensive overview and in-depth discussion about how our bodies are being affected by toxicity in our environment. It is critical to our balance and well-being that we understand the dangers we are being exposed, and take steps to cleanse our bodies and detoxify. Fasting and nutritional supplements can both be supportive in helping to kick out the extra estrogen your body has accumulated. Do your research! Read! Ask the experts! Resources: Read John Gray’s newest book: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today’s Complex World Check out John Gray’s website for more resources, advice, and products! www.neilsattin.com/marsvenus Visit to download the show guide, or text “PASSION” to 33444 and follow the instructions to download the show guide to this episode with John Gray Our Relationship Alive Community on Facebook Amazing intro/outro music graciously provided courtesy of: The Railsplitters - Check them Out

Interview with John Gray, International Bestselling author selling over 50 million copies of: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. We are discussing his new release: "Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World." marsvenus.com