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This morning I woke up to part one of an intuitive hit: the Promise of America not looking so promising. However, this hit has three parts so hand on to your hats! Part two is to be patient because now that we have done all we can do: pray, vote and do our inner work to maintain peace—just stand, continue doing the inner work and watch. Watch what? Part 3: the promise will be kept. Victory for the Vice President.I said what I said, or rather I am repeating what Great Mother said to me. Listen cause it is about to get deeper and more divine that we could have ever imagined. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Karma, as the saying goes, is what goes around comes around.There are three types of karma. Mama Drama Trauma is all three. Mother wound empaths need disciplined, conscious awareness and conscientious action to heal. This is not difficult considering the depth of sensitivity to ourselves, others and situations, we possess. However, the task of calling upon, summoning or conjuring these inner powers, is something we must learn.Today's session card pull from the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (each deck includes: PDF guidebook, free 8-part how to read the deck video playlist, and free one on one introductory video call with Tammy) is our foundational tool supporting a daily practice of living in loving detachment based on the core teaching of divinity identity).MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Prior podcasts mentioned in today's session:Are You an Empath with the Mother Wound?Your Moon Sign Is the Way Out How Old Souls Live in Right Relationship with Young Souls (re: MDT Karma) This is for the Real Ones (re: Empath Types)SocialsMDT Sound Therapy (session songs playlist)MDTA InstagramYouTube Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
The good thing about fights is they clarify.Knowing and doing what is right is more than a moral issue for us. Morals change. We need energetic efficiency. The more we know what is right and best for us the more we experience our birthright to be happy, healthy and whole.Here are my reflections on this past week's sociopolitical events, how they affect me and how as a mother wound empath I am processing them with loving detachment. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
What is America's Sacred Contract? According to Caroline Myss, it's to fulfill its promise of the universal inalienable birthright of individual expression of its “cosmic divine force”.There is no creation without chaos and no chaos without creation. This process is internally occurring in all of us and today we talk about it within the context of MDT. Whether you have experienced it your entire life, over a specific period, or are not even sure you have, you may know how overwhelming and inescapable it feels. This is not a bad thing! Chaos signals it is time to transcend material bonds to soul align. As we increasingly answer soul's call, we are more available to experience what we—not mama— imagine our lives to be. On top of that, none of what I'm saying is new.Crazy isn't it?Motherland America, is a lot to transcend but my recent practice has recreated in me a renewed way to perceive the chaos.Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (each deck includes: PDF guidebook, free 8-part how to read the deck video playlist, and free one on one introductory video call with Tammy) is our foundational tool supporting a daily practice of living in loving detachment based on the core teaching of divinity identity).SocialsMDT Sound Therapy (session songs playlist)MDTA InstagramYouTube Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
If taking care of yourself meant going no contact and you not only sacrifice your mother but your daughter too, would—or even could you do it? It takes courage.Ever read a blog post so real, so relatable that you wanted to meet its author? I was lucky enough to do just that in MDTA's first guest interview with author Heather Valentine, creator of Substack's Elastic Heart. Get ready to feel like a fly on the wall as you encounter the vicissitudes and internal victories of her life. Here, we get deep but don't worry Academicians*, Heather knows how to swim…As I read,“1997 Mother's Day,” I saw a woman who has lived through the trials, tribulations and challenges of transcending Mama Drama Trauma. In it, Heather exposes her vulnerability in dealing with the most excruciating parts of her journey. Well written, sure, but I wasn't expecting this bright little summer read to enlighten me so much about how MDT can develop empathy, what it takes to build courage for self-care, and the transformative power of reframing maternal burdens into blessings. A journey far from easy, I had to invite this authentically witty and unintentionally wise author (and person as you will hear), who gets it.Another author and speaker I adore is spiritual mystic and medical intuitive, Carolyn Myss who teaches about the difference between fate and destiny. She says fate is tied to “we” and survival which is taught by the family, but destiny is about “I” which is something we must define through individual soul alignment. MDT healing is a lifelong journey to the destiny of “I” which in my experience can take multiple lifetimes. In it, we eventually choose to align by integrating the experience as another form of love. This love is not the kind of we are or are not taught, but the countless internal actions we choose to transform it into the love we need.We hear a lot about brain plasticity and the power of changing our thoughts but that is impossible without stretching the heart from “we” to “I” and back to “we” after integrating or growing from the pain—every heroine's journey.That's the heart elasticity Heather Valentine shares.So, If you are on the brink of giving up on yourself, the uphill journey to personal peace or life in general listen to her story. You can also download the Substack app for easy reading, listening and to engage on the chat.MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Podcast theme song: The Pretenders I'm a MotherI'm a motherTreat me like a motherYou wanna suck on my breastIt's no surprise you doI'm the source and the forceYou owe your life to, brotherOhOhOhI'm a motherAnd I take like a motherI understand bloodAnd I understand painThere can be no life without itNever doubt itI'm a motherI gave you all my moneyTo help the familyBut what you do to meDon't humiliate meRememberI'm a life-long memberOhOhOhI'm a motherTreat me like a motherIn the middle of the nightI be deep in a dreamYou fancy little companyYou only have to screamLoud, brotherOhOhOhI'm a motherAnd I fake like a motherI understand timeAnd it isn't on my sideBut to service mankindI have to suffer his prideLike a motherOhOhOhYou say your protectionIs proof of your affectionIf I need securityI'll keep a gun on meOhDon't barter with meDon't barter with meLittle sacrificesGo straight to heavenBut hunting season's overThis is the 20th centuryOhDon't barter with meOhOhOhI'm a motherAnd I ache like a motherIf there's a terrible crashAnd bodies thrown everywhereI'll wrap 'em up and carry 'emIf someone has to bury themBrotherOhOhOhCall upon motherI'm the vessel of lifeI got the trauma here to prove itWhen it's time for me to labour for youEverybody move itLike a motherOhOhOhHave something instructive, entertaining or inquisitive to share with us this summer session? Do let me know. Happy summer reading!*Academician = MDTA subscriberMama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (each deck includes: PDF guidebook, free 8-part how to read the deck video playlist, and free one on one introductory video call with Tammy) is our foundational tool supporting a daily practice of living in loving detachment based on the core teaching of divinity identity).SocialsMDT Sound Therapy (session songs playlist)MDTA InstagramYouTube Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
SUMMER SESSION Continues… Life promises ups and downs, but would you rather go through them feeling alienated and alone or at least feeling loved, lubricated, facile and free? Yes, the work is always ours to do, and our divinity ours to prove to ourselves, but we are built for it.Great Mother's message about today's topic The Ops, Optics of No Contact:MDTHOD guidebook revisions discussed here as well. This summer I'm feeling the pulse of millennials on how they handle being a mother wound empath going no contact. Here's the compilation video excerpt from the beautiful Destiny Uteh's channel.Not withstanding parents are people, I have recently got in touch with my ancestral mother rage going all the way back to the Sibyls. Recently, it has been immensely transformational to be called by Mami Wata to liberate myself through deeper self empowerment and healing work. More on that later but for now, here's a pebble from my path.In short, it is what it is.Pamela Gregory astrological visionary imploring us to stay on our eagle's perch.The book The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz organized the Toltec teachings in an exploration of their four agreements: "Be impeccable with your word", "Do not take anything personally", "Do not make assumptions", and "Always do your best."SocialsMDT Sound Therapy (session songs playlist)MDTA InstagramYouTube Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Letting go of the mother we want, birthmother fantasies and expectations, for the mother we have, a drama mama and Great Mother, our intuition, is a lifelong journey. As mother wound empaths we came here with a powerful toolbox of gifts, talents and abilities apparent in our birth charts we can use to make our luck as mother wound empaths. Developed over lifetimes, they anre available for us to employ in healing ourselves and others.In our first Summer Story Time Session, I share how to find yours and ways you can use the gifts, tools and abilities indicated by it as well as how I have done it.Find out the main placement and the three things to consider in your wheelhouse. MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.ResourcesBirth Chart Calculators: Sidereal/Vedic Birth chart Calculator - lunar, soul chartTropical/Western Birth chart Calculator - geocentric, material chartSocialMDT Sound Therapy (session songs playlist)MDTA InstagramYouTube Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Our first empowered choice as a self aware, observant and conscientious psychic empath is: Am I employing my sensitivity to be a Mediator (intervening means, agency of use) or to be a Medium (go between), what are my skills, what skills do I aspire to have, why?Resources:Today's Message:Feel free to contact me via message here or on Instagram. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Ever wonder why we have so much compassion for narcissists? How we know what others are feeling and why? The best way to use these abilities to self heal?Today, in the second session of ‘This Is for the Real Ones' series about the three empath types, we introduce the mother wound intuitive empath. While the instinctive empath can feel what others feel, the intuitive (emotional) empath knows why others feel the way they do.As mother wound empaths, the degree we can let go of the mother we want to accept the one we have is the degree we are healed. Though we have different capacities to do this, by recognizing intuition is the mother we have, and responding to it that way we heal and open floodgates to heal others.The center of the emotional wheel is where our base emotions reside. These correspond to the six chakras and six suits of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck:MDTHOD SUITSRoot (red) - Mad when we acknowledge MDT (“A” Acknowledge Suit)Sacral (orange) - Scared to self inquire about MDT (“S” Self Inquiry Suit)Gut (yellow) - Powerful when we are in our integrity about MDT (“I” Integrity Suit)Throat (blue) - Peaceful when we release MDT (“R” Resurrection/Rebirth Suit)Inner Eye (purple) - Sad when we have to live in loving detachment from MDT (“E” Emancipation Suit).SocialMDT Sound Therapy (soul inspired session songs playlist)MDTA InstagramYouTubeSong‘Hidden Things' by J. Philip Newell with soloist Suzanne Adam from Sounds of the Eternal Meditative Chants and Prayers Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Empaths are kind, wise, old souls. Like all gifts, talents and abilities, empathy is developed over lifetimes. As we mature, we learn our need to accurately determine if, when, where, why and how others may harm or help preserve life is imperative to survival.Self awareness to acknowledge the burdens and blessings of feeling what others feel distinguishes empath types by level of internal clarity, balance and confirmation. We begin our 3 Mother Wound Empath Type Series with the emotional empath.Subscribe to MDT Academy YouTube channel - What videos would you like to see?Great Mother's message this session from the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is a single card pull reading of the card, Sophia.MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a subscriber.Empaths give the consideration, care and compassion desired from others to others.Because MDT overwhelms and overstresses the senses in ways we are only just beginning to explore, further study of Dr. Elaine Aron's seminal research on with Highly Sensitive People (HSNs) and Dr. Judith Orloff's work on empaths provide much needed insight about the relationship between sensitivity and the “mother wound”. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
If you are a true empath who wants to learn what intuitive qualities you have available to assist your MDT healing process, this series is for you.Today's message in answer to the question: What does Great Mother what us to know about the three mother wound empath types? Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Everything we need is available in the daily downloads we receive.In this session Great Mother's message is nudging us out of the nest of external validation. Moving forward we will strengthen our wings to fly above the fray of the everyday, not to escape it, but to expertly engage our divinity identity in it.Get your deck here. It is no longer sold on Etsy. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Divinity is our light of being. Our shadow is what we do not or do not want others to know about us. MDT is a shadow and our shadow work is self observation, self awareness, self compassion, authenticity, forgiveness and service.PART II of this double session about nudging out negative self talk, continues our “All About Empaths” series where we are examining the challenges and rewards of shame, blame and guilt release.Resources“No contact 5 reasons therapists give” Get your MDTHOD here. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Welcome back to the “All About Empaths” series. Today we begin a Two Part session about the shadows and shadow work of healing negative self talk. In it, we will cover 8 tools and techniques me and my clients use to overcome the 8 primary challenges mother wound empaths face when attempting to nudge out toxic formative programming.Mother wound empaths conditioned inner voice leans toward negative self talk because to survive and cope with MDT effects, we become expert readers of our mother's pessimistic energies.But because this consumes so much of our own, to reclaim it, we must transform our intuitive capacity to reliable downloads we need to feel safe and secure. Although most of us can recall the occasional spot on download, its touch and go but we can built evidence of its reliability when we begin reallocating our energies away from these 8 primary loops of confusion, cognitive dissonance and emotional dysregulation.How do we know when we are ready, able and willing? When we are sick and tired of being sick and tired.Religion is for those afraid of hell. Spirituality is for those who have already been there.Negative Self Talk in two parts: Part I “The Shadow and The Shadow of Course Correction” we cover the first 4 Tools to Recognize and Unlock Trauma Blocking. Next time, we do the final 4 in Part 2: “The Shadows and The Shadow Work of Trusting Our Downloads”.Don't miss Great Mother's message in response to our question: What does Great Mother want us to know about how to nudge out negative self talk?Get your MDTHOD here. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Welcome to our new series: “All About Empaths”. As mother wound empaths, beginning our healing journey is the hardest part, but there's no place like home, peace, healed and free. As Dorothy's yellow brick road journey illustrates, being there is a mindset difficult to achieve with Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) but—with Great Mother— is more possible than we are led believed. Today's session begins our new series exploring why this is and how we resolve the dilemma between MDT or trauma induced sensitivity and and Divinity Identity or, knowing and experiencing life as:Dearly loved divine childrenof the Great Mother Father GodWho is never judged, condemned or left alone.Today's Reading Question:What does Great Mother want us to know about managing hyper sensitivity?Today's 9-card Spread:Pink Floyd's Dark Side of the Moon ambient background vibes in first half of the Wizard of Oz movie reveal powerful signs and symbols discussed in this session.~ Resources:Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck - based on MDT survivor poster child, Dorothy Gale's healing journey back home!Judith Orloff - The Empath's Survival Guide: Life Strategies for Sensitive PeopleMalidoma Patrice Somé - The Healing Wisdom of AfricaFeel free to contact me via message here or on Instagram. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
The Official HSP Quiz (courtesy of Elaine Aron)If you answer yes to more than 14 questions, you are likely highly sensitive.-I am easily overwhelmed by strong sensory input.-I seem to be aware of subtleties in my environment.-Other people's moods affect me.-I tend to be very sensitive to pain.-I find myself needing to withdraw during busy days, into bed or a darkened room or any place where I can have some privacy and relief from stimulation.-I am particularly sensitive to the effects of caffeine.-I am easily overwhelmed by things like bright lights, strong smells, coarse fabrics, or sirens close by.-I have a rich, complex inner life.-I am made uncomfortable by loud noises.-I am deeply moved by the arts or music.-My nervous system sometimes feels so frazzled that I just have to go off by myself.-I am conscientious.-I startle easily.-I get rattled when I have a lot to do in a short amount of time.-When people are uncomfortable in a physical environment, I tend to know what needs to be done to make it more comfortable (like changing the lighting or the seating).-I am annoyed when people try to get me to do too many things at once.-I try hard to avoid making mistakes or forgetting things.-I make a point to avoid violent movies and TV shows.-I become unpleasantly aroused when a lot is going on around me.-Being very hungry creates a strong reaction in me, disrupting my concentration or mood.-Changes in my life shake me up.-I notice and enjoy delicate or fine scents, tastes, sounds, or works of art.MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Who Great Mother Is clarifies the special relationship she has with empaths whose birth mother experience is marked by abandonment and abuse. The final part of a six-part series covering the signs and symbols of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. With the help of Dr. Elaine Aron, researcher and author of n, we examine the science behind our sensitivity to Great Mother, the Mother of All Mothers, Comforter, Still Small Voice of Holy Spirit, Intuition, and the Moon.80% of the population have normal sensitivity, 20% are highly sensitive and 5-10% are empaths. Dr. Aron's acronym D.O.E.S. outlines what distinguishes HSPs from the norm.Four Characteristics of Highly Sensitive People (HSP)D) Depth processing and perception - a greater ability to tune into environmental subtletiesWhen you speak from your heart, people look at you like you have a third eye, because you do (others know something is up with you but they don't know what)O) Overstimulation - a greater tendency to experience overstimulation in large crowds, or sensory overloadWhen you decline invitations to avoid drama people take it personally (others believe you think you are a snob and are compelled to bring you down a peg or two)E) Emotional intensity - a greater capacity for empathy (richer inner life)When you go off from 0-10 others call you “too sensitive”, “too need” or just plain “crazy” (others perceive your need for isolation as trial or a joke)S) Sensory sensitivity - a greater tendency to experience sensory (sound, smell, touch, taste, vision overload)Your requests for low light, sound, smell environments are annoying and perceived as phony entitlement or high maintenance (others often bully or belittle you for expressing your needs)Special Thanks:Robert Slap OM Sanctuary Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
We are in “guide training”. One of the blessings of MDT is the opportunity it provides for rapid evolution.Going from highly sensitive, maternally wounded people with a capacity to self heal to healthy operating empaths able to heal ourselves and others is what Angel communication is about for us!This is part II of our AGAS (Angels, Guides and Ancestors series: from sensitivity to ability. Part I is about who they are and how we connect with them. Today, we talk about working with the AGAS. If only they could just tell us what to do…we'd do it. If only being an empath protected us from grief we could use our high sensitivity and advanced intuition to heal.Maybe they already are. We discuss the 7 Steps to Angel Communication, how they work, our ability to do it, our struggle to trust it, and why we eventually do.Angel Communication and the Challenges for Mother Wound Empaths* Everyone doubts but we…self doubt; * Everyone assumes problems with perception and interpretation but the claires we possess are often a liability instead of the asset they are intended to be; * Everyone has expectations of angelic communication but because we are often exhausted from overstimulation or invest our energies into escapism to avoid it expect the angels to fix it instead of redirecting our energies to heal ourselves; * Everyone questions the downloads we receive but we question ourselves; * Everyone has challenges communing with the AGAS positively at all times to match their frequency and optimize the clarity, balance and confirmation we receive but we can be downright enraged with them because of the seemingly impossible obstacles created by all the above difficultiesThey and more can be overcome with divinity identity. MDT Academy Textbook: Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle. Deck Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Our Angels, Guides and Ancestors (AGAS) are Great Mother's spirit team.When the AGAS card appears in a reading it is responding to an inquiry with the message to “approach this person, issue or situation with loving detachment”. Not in a dry and unfeeling way, but with all the loving energy we can muster. Rest assured, when we take one step toward self healing, they take two. Why must we wait? As divine beings, our free will is a power they teach us to wield.I'm sharing with you tips and tools and techniques from my own experience with the AGAS and have learned from my mentors, primarily Barbara Mark and Trudy Griswold, sisters and authors of Angelspeake.As usual, I'll give you what I know about recognizing, understanding and personally connecting with AGAS in our inner work using the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (MDTHOD).Here at MDTA we learn every time we repeat the Divinity Identity Mantra, the foundational affirmation GM gave to mother wound empaths— our conscious mind plants the seed, and the subconscious mind waters it. Altogether with me, now: I AM A DEARLY LOVED DIVINE CHILD OF THE GMFG WHO IS NEVER JUDGED, CONDEMNED OR LEFT ALONE.4 Steps to Connect With Great Mother's Spirit Team (AGAS): 1. Ask — be specific! (do a 1, 2 or 3-card pull for clarity, balance and/or confirmation)* Believe — focus on being still and open to be blessed!* Receive — allow request to show up the way it needs to for our highest good* Say, “Thank you, Angels”!Additional ResourcesConnecting with your angels through numbers. Keep seeing repeating numbers? Have a repeating question? Keep wondering about a date? Real time answer needed—look at the clock…simply input number sequence in upper left field and receive the message.Temptation of Christ Matthew 4:1-11The unified field Dr. Dean Radin Entanglement TheoryThank you toBeats by KADDY, song, “No No No” @prodbykaddyGospel spiritual download compliments of the ancestors, “Jesus is on the Mainline” Want to join the class? Get your deck here. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
You are a goddess.It's not about what you wear, how you look or even what you do. Goddesses are daughters of Great Mother Father God. As such we are molded, set molds and preside over them. What's yours? Your gift? Your talent? Your unique gift? Going goddesses is about embracing the essence of divinity identity in meaningful, practical and present ways of feeling healthy, happy and whole.DIVINITY MANTRAI am a dearly loved child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone.6 Reasons It's Important for Empaths with Mother Wound to “Go Goddess”* It is good for everyone to self regulate but for empaths energy management requires self awareness of the energy releasing to compensate for their intense need to feel safe and secure—even to the extent of energetic care and protection of others who are perceived as threats. Individuals with MDT must be decisive and dedicated to maintaining mental and emotional balance to avoid the trap of vulnerabilities this default behavior creates.* Getting out of toxic entanglements is important for everyone but for empaths the goal is not only to overcome but to live beyond them to support other Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) release this self created turmoil. With the power to create is the power to dismantle detrimental mental and emotional states but everyone needs help to do so, even old souls.* Everyone has some grievance about unmet maternal needs and how it feeds into feeling blamed or unworthy of having their wants and needs met but empaths experience self afflicting grief, guilt and doubts around this hypothesis. Unlike nonempaths, their strong intuition affords access to experience data from many empowering lifetimes denying them the refuge of self pity.* Everyone feels divided about what their real wants and needs may be but empaths receive precise intuitive downloads about theirs unless their energy is blocked which makes them more confused than most about their identity. This creates a kind of "desire limbo" (e.i. not knowing what they want) that attracts narcissistic energies acted out by themselves or others to clarify and resolve the identity crisis.* Everyone can get dysregulated but empaths empaths can feel higher frequencies (e.g. animals, plants, angels and ancestors, etc.) and must own and employ this connection to successfully live in loving detachment from MDT.* Everyone is wounded or injured in some way by life experiences but individuals with MDT carry soul wounds they must address to feel divine, and to do so they must tap into their god/dess for the nitty gritty of what makes them tick so they can effectively use their healing shield and armor.Perfection is not our goal. Evolution is. By combining the signs and symbols in our readings we use them to gain immediate mood clarity, emotional balance and intuitive confirmation.The moon sign gives us a sense of the emotional balance we seek, the chakra symbols clarifies our mood state and the god/dess signifies the story we are telling ourselves of need to address about an issue so our goddess can show up!Every moment we see our goddess, we can be it. Every time we go goddess is another step we take back to peace, home and freedom from MDT.Great Mother delivers her loving messages to us through the 39 gods (3) and goddesses (36) of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. As the mother of all god/dess archetypes, she uses them to signal what issues we share at the time of inquiry and how their mythologies symbolize what attitudes and actions may be useful to employ from their lessons to support us in feeling more happy, healthy and whole.InstagramYouTubehttps://youtube.com/shorts/AwSOcqSVAvk?si=sd00KxpU6NIRIizg Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Over consuming emotional data because you don't know how to refocus your energy on your self? Need to develop intuitive accuracy to clarify emotional data? How do you distinguish between useless and meaningful data worthy of your response, energy, focus?Today, through the power of chakras, we discover the power grid that sustains all life. Empaths possess the capacity to intuit the difference between the soul body and the body mind; the emotion and the form; and the ego and soul. Empaths with the mother wound are called by Great Mother, the Mother of all mothers to use this awareness to heal ourselves and others.Chakra BOOM is about the nuclear grid inside of our body minds and how to we tap into the soul body to use it. This requires us the shift gears to the direction of Great Mother guidance.Last week, we talked how to use our moon sign's moon sign opposing sign find our way out of emotional disregulation, feelings of shame, discouragement and exhaustion. The soul is not designed for self abandonment. The body was not created for this kind of continuous abuse. Sooner or later if self abandonment and abuse is not arrested, feeling like the dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God we are is impossible because we are not experiencing it. MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Use the Moon Sign Axis for daily emotional maintenance and for trauma triggers use the chakras. Here's how the moon signs and chakra symbols of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck synchronize the ego:soul.Subscribed to our YT Channel?~ Related posts Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
With MDT our healing journey is more than a path, it's a trip! Today, we take a trip to the moon. While Saturn Moon is our birth chart signature, your unique moon sign (Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, etc.) shows how you are wounded, or in lovingly detached terms, “maternally maladapted”. (Listen to Saturn Moon session).Because we are dearly loved divine children of the Great Mother Father God who are never judged, condemned or left alone—no matter how, when, where, or why we trip on this journey— we have a way out, upward and onward toward greater and greater healing.This is the first session of a series about the signs and symbols of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (MDTHOD) where we deep dive into the inner world, collective unconscious, and universal hologram as healed by empaths with the mother wound.Let's start by dipping our toes into the waters our moon sign. Like the sun, the moon was in a specific sign when we were born. With MDT, it is essential we know its specific challenges and learn how to overcome them by drawing from the strengths of its opposite sign to strike the balance any time or place we need it. Taking this powerful step in turn empowers our angels, guides and ancestors to help us more easily and rapidly come into your own.While many of us do not look like what we've been through, our physical bodies and, or material worlds are upside down, and all the while our moon sign— the sign of our emotional well-being and soul memory is waiting dormant to bring the you out of this Saturn Moon into the light at end of its dark tunnel.Calculate Your Moon Sign Vedic Tropical/WesternEach system is equally valuable. One centers wo/man, the other the galactic center, Divine Mother. None is superior to another. These variant celestial approaches—as above—reflect our internal polarities (geocentric:cosmic, science:spirituality, ego:soul, etc.) —so below…Infinite Waters' Ralph Smart, the man who coined the term deep diving, says “Those afraid of going to hell seek religion. Those who have already been to hell seek spirituality”.Religion is a system of beliefs one uses to govern faith and worship of a deity. Spirituality pertains directly one's soul and one's internal alignment with that spirit.The moon sign symbol of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (MDTHOD) is prominent because Great Mother speaks to us through our moon sign. Indeed, the mother of all mothers is the inner light that always lets us know we are home.Additional Resources:New Moon Astrology: The Secret of Astrological Timing to Make All Your Dreams Come TrueMDTHOD 6 Suit playlist Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Though the mother wound experience expresses externally in universal ways, internally individuals with normal sensory sensitivity have a more muted emotional response to it than empaths.Empaths don't just have the mother wound. Empaths have Mama Drama Trauma. This session defines why and how we distinguish between the two.Empaths With the Mother WoundFacebookEtsyClub HouseInstagram DM Readings Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
While many relationships check all the boxes: kind, considerate, concerned and supportive, but not about the things or in the way we need to be related. We need soulful companionship. This is why we tend to fantasize or daydream so much. Though we may not realize it, we are communing with our angels, guides and ancestors—with those we can relate.None of this make sense? When the cognitive dissonance between MDT and divinity identity becomes conscious we have to make difficult choices. Who goes and who stays in our life is the most important for us. Want to hear my story? Here it goes. Click tab to read transcript.Click tab to order the Mama Drama Trauma Oracle Deck.QUESTION: What is MDT?ANSWERS:FacebookInstagramYouTube
Class Outline:I. Mama Drama Trauma definitionII. Emotional Intelligence definition III. Attachment Style Theory* 4 attachment styles* 3 attachment styles for empaths with the mother woundVI. How attachment style impacts emotional intelligence of MDT survivors V. Importance of knowing yourself - Whats your attachment style? (Quiz) a. What happens when you know yourself b. Why knowing yourself is necessary to know anyone else c. Know yourself better than Mama to distinguish, depersonalize and detangle your feelings from hersVI. Suggested ways to get to better know yourselfVII.How to use the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck to develop Emotional Intelligence Previous Podcasts MentionedEmpathic Agency6 Mother Wound TypesHow to Get Off the Trauma TrainSession Credits:Featured MelodyIntro Beats “Honestly” by @blaqbeatz If you have or know someone who has MDT reach out to my Linktree?FacebookInstagramYouTube
All social constructs are being deconstructed including the body politic. Because empaths are internally oriented as the chairs are shifted on the deck, we react one of either two ways: 1)it triggers our own unresolved gender issues, or 2)go with the flow and rearrange our internal space to adjust.To empower our empathic abilities to short circuit MDT and self regulate at will when triggered, we have agency through:* RAW Emotion Scoring. Being ready to heal is about devotion, discipline and dedication to the process. Being able to heal is about applying this mindset to a healing plan, technique or protocol. Being willing to heal is about following it daily and each time you need to bend the mind back to divinity.* How to use RAW Emotion Scoring to mind bend. What are the 8 key questions we routinely ask ourselves to self select the ideas, memories and emotions we need to strengthen to experience our divine birthright to be happy, healthy and whole instead of shame, blame and guilt?* How the Self Inquiry suit of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck breaks down RAW Emotion Scoring. Does being ready, able and willing to do the inner work to self regulate provide immediate relief?* Why divinity identity and emotional intelligence is the same thing for old souls without or healed of MDT. Are healthy empaths more consciously aware of their needs and emotions than unhealthy empaths?* Your RAW Score of momentary unmet need and specifically what phrase the mind needs to be bent back to divinity identity. For instance, a RAW Score of 25/46 indicates momentary misalignment with feeling divine in the inquired triggering situation as seen in the 25 - 30 score range. Try it!0 - 6 I am unhealthy, unhappy, broken > I AM7 - 12 I feel unloved > DEARLY LOVED13 - 18 I feel unworthy > DIVINE19 - 24 I feel guilty > CHILD25 - 30 I feel unsure of my divinity > OF THE GREAT MOTHER FATHER GOD31 - 36 I feel judged > WHO IS NEVER JUDGED37 - 42 I feel condemned > WHO IS NEVER CONDEMNED43 - 46 I feel isolated, alone or alienated > OR LEFT ALONE.As always, practice makes perfect. Did this episode clarify your understanding of how the deck is used in daily practice? What Self Inquiry is and how to use it? Comments are welcome. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Self Emancipation and Spiritual LiberationThe most important thing for empaths is to live by our intuition. The freedom to think, do and believe what we want is a grace we must extend to ourselves.MDT is the root cause of empathic disruption, or the inability to distinguish one's's feelings from others. Combine that with what can show up as mental illness, hearing voices can become a complex issue.To live by our intuition we must trust it.To trust it we must test it. To test it we must use it.To use it we must recognize it. The snag for empaths with the mother wound is are conditioned to doubt our intuition. Regardless of how it screams out to us what our needs are (calm environment, space, time alone, organic food, organic chemicals, creative expression, etc), the maternal presence, provision or protection we need to have them fulfilled is lacking. For those who express their maternal needs and get s**t down, so does their intuition. A love, hate relationship to it forms because while it is a powerful asset to have for daily survival in what often feels like grim circumstances, we resent how lonely it feels to follow it. To overcome this requires a desire to reconstitute it. If you can distinguish between your emotions, Mama's voice and the Still Small Voice of the Holy Spirit, aka the inner voice, or your intuition, you can learn to trust it by testing it's internal validity. Does it feel forced, insistent and impatient or loving, kind, supportive and suggestive?Hit me up on Facebook and IGIntuition song
Empaths don't just have the mother wound. Empaths have Mama Drama Trauma (MDT). Yet, everyone claims to be an empath. If you can comprehend this episode, you are because we know when we think we are in control is when we are completely out of control. We blow up (internal sickness or external outburst, doesn't matter), feel desperate shame, blame and guilt then are right back at ground zero feeling unevolved because no revolution in thought or behavior has occurred. For old souls this is problematic because we actually feel energetically drained when we do not live our core belief in divinity identity.This causes the anger, depression cycle that is at the root of our self sacrificing behavior which is a misguided attempt to externally energize. Whether we allow others to direct our energy flow, and, or absorb others in exchanges that leave us short changed, it is nothing nice. So what can we do? One of my empath mentors once told me, “We learn tarot to live on terra without terror.” Early in my journey of learning signs and symbols, it sounded a bit dramatic but I clearly see what she meant now.Trauma is the norm for empaths with the mother wound. Defined as soul dissociation, from the soul perspective the body it chose to incarnate becomes useless when it no longer aligns with its life purpose. From our perspective, it is the ultimate alienation from self which it why it shows up the way it does as addiction, or pain avoidance. Trying to fill this gap with any and everything is a cycle that lasts lifetimes. Add MDT to mix, the mental and emotional bodies wear thin and routinely break.The upside is that over these lifetimes, we mature in our experience and wisdom of divine grace and mercy through miraculous survival and inexplicable blessings. Divinity Identity becomes our core belief:I am a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone.. The challenge with MDT is the rage inherent in living in a world increasingly occupied be newer souls, often including our mothers, who do not yet share this core belief.The fatal choice we make to survive by acquiescing to the crudity of MDT's unexamined and unchallenged toxic code of behaviors (shame, blame and guilt), costs us dearly. Low quality lifestyles limiting our ability the cultivate, share and teach our gifts, talents and abilities gained does not have to be our story.But, how to do we get off the train?Choose to, no matter what, be vigilantly self observant of our unconscious, unchecked, expressed yet repressed emotion. Do so with the intention of becoming accountable for our own emotional and attitudinal habits, addictions and defaults to identity the reactionary rides we take to feel in control by avoiding the inevitable pain of grieving MDT.We have to take the initiative by discipline,iing our sensitivity to interrupt toxic mind body addictive cycles…one little step at a time. What works for others in this regard, doesn't work or us. We need intuitive work for it to catch because of how deeply we feel and absorb energy. For instance, although it may be the commonly unexamined and unchallenged thing to do, we cannot pit our needs of self preservation against pleasure. We need the energy too much. We literally have to have pleasure in our lives to be healthy, happy and whole.We work hard. We internally work hard for others' healing, happiness and wholeness. So, it's more than taking care of ourselves first. Karmically, having been mothers many times, we sense the lives of prior children in this lifetime and feel we have too many to humanly serve which is why, for us, self care is about release. Doing the daily work to live in loving detachment from others to focus on building our energetic reserves helps with efficient exchange of it. Divinity identity accountability amplifies the power our angels, guides and ancestors have to assist us to enjoy being human with divine consciousness. QUESTION:Do I Want to Do the Work to Get Off the Trauma Train?ANSWER:From the Resurrection suit to our next stop off the trauma train train is the Emancipation suite of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck where we'll discuss the payoff for all of this continual inner work.QUESTION:What is MDT?ANSWERS:FacebookInstagramYouTube
What do Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, Court Korbane, James Dean and Jim Morrison have in common? Saturn Moon.Saturn represents karma in our birth chart. While we all know our Sun sign based on the zodiac sign it was in when we were born, few of us know our moon sign, let alone where Saturn was placed. That's why MDT Academy is here!All of us aspire to live a phenomenal life! Our dreamy aspirations and loving hearts make us very special within a world desperately needing us to show how to powerfully and lovingly achieve one's hearts desires to be of service to the world.This podcast is a follow up to the last three covering the first three suits of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck: Mind Bend to Redefine Yourself (Processing), Let Them Be Right (Self Inquiry suit) and What Healing Gives (Acknowledge suit). As we continue with the fourth Integrity suit, we delve into the astrology of MDT, the spiritual science, ancient wisdom and collective soul memory of the celestial signature of this karmic experience.While science of the mother wound is typically relegated to social and psychological studies, today we are unlocking the astrological signature of the mother wound, “the dark side of the moon” (aka the maternal shadow). This science proves empaths don't just have the mother wound. We have Saturn Moon, or Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) when combined with other planetary aspects indicating high sensitivity.Knowing our moon sign gives us the self awareness and grace we need to apply the tips, tools and techniques learned here to heal.Vedic Moon Sign birth chart calculator Western Moon Sign birth chart calculator Integrity is telling yourself the truth about what does and does not work for you. As individuals with MDT there is a common laundry list of what works for us, and here, specifically what enables us to live or divine birthright based on our core belief in divinity identity (I AM a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged condemned or left alone). Did you know we can experience, feel and fully live our divine birth right to be happy, healthy and whole, the more effort we put toward living our truth? Not Mama's truth, but yours? Also: Heart chakra (Integrity suit) cards show up in spreads to help us work through conditioned shame blame and guilt, sift it out and throat chakra (Resurrection suit) cards confirm how our intuition is guiding us to live it. Using our empathy to tune into our moon sign to confirm our true needs and desires, we can be more self forgiving and compassionate of others, especially mama except its no longer forced and insincere but based on integrity. That's the legacy of healing the mother wound we are all here to leave.Thanks @kenzistudioco for artwork and @waytoolost for background beats!Are You an empath with the mother wound? Mama Drama Trauma Academy sometimes delivers firsthand original situational content from my personal and professional experience, including direct submissions. Readings and video lessons detailing distinct and specific opinions, analysis and reactions to events, Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck reader questions and lessons are exclusive content. Of course, I also share my observations of major themes, challenges and analysis which do not carry the ‘Exclusive' mark.QUESTION:What is MDT?ANSWERS:FacebookInstagramYouTube
This podcast is a follow up to the last two covering the first two suits of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck: Let Them Be Right (Self Inquiry suit) and What Healing Gives (Acknowledge suit). As we continue with the third Processing suit, we dive headlong into how we as empaths with the mother wound tend to process emotions. Emotional processing implies filtering or deriving meaning from how we feel about a thought, or think about a feeling. When emotions are compounded, new or in flux its difficult to immediately assess how we feel or what we think in response to them. Individuals with MDT and a core belief in divinity identity (I AM a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged condemned or left alone). This means we must constantly double filter our emotions: once to delineate between ours and others, and second to process our own.Did you know building our capacity to do this strengthens the emotional intelligence we need to be self sufficient materially, emotionally and spiritually? Also: The overwhelm we feel is mental overload. Using our natural ability to tune in allows us to capitalize on the brain being a recorder we self select what it repeats, or as we discuss here, bend the mind to refine or delete.Are You an empath with the mother wound? Mama Drama Trauma Academy sometimes delivers firsthand original situational content from my personal and professional experience, including direct submissions. Readings and video lessons detailing distinct and specific opinions, analysis and reactions to events, Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck reader questions and lessons are exclusive content. Of course, I also share my observations of major themes, challenges and analysis which do not carry the ‘Exclusive' mark. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Right fighting, jockeying to be seen, heard or to self seclude gets us nowhere if we are abandoning or abusing ourselves in the process. Are you an empath with the mother wound sick and tired or being sick and tired yet with the right tool ready, able and willing to develop your deep capacity for self inquiry? I got you. Also: The brain is just a recorder so we can choose what it repeats, or as we discuss here, bend the mind.Mama Drama Trauma Academy is a series covering everyday tools, techniques and tips for empaths with the mother wound. Suggestions and insights address the unique challenges old souls have when learning to live in lovingly detachment from emotionally dysregulating situations. Have a situation to share? I treat all messages as anonymous.Todays all about using Self Inquiry to align the brain with our core belief in divinity identity (I AM a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged condemned or left alone). How do we empower our empathic abilities to short circuit MDT (shame, blame and guilt) to self dysregulate at will? In this lesson, we cover:* RAW Emotion Scoring. Being ready to heal is about devotion, discipline and dedication to the process. Being able to heal is about applying this mindset to a healing plan, technique or protocol. Being willing to heal is about following it daily and each time you need to bend the mind back to divinity.* How to use RAW Emotion Scoring to mind bend. What are the 8 key questions we routinely ask ourselves to self select the ideas, memories and emotions we need to strengthen to experience our divine birthright to be happy, healthy and whole instead of shame, blame and guilt?* How the Self Inquiry suit of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck breaks down RAW Emotion Scoring. Does being ready, able and willing to do the inner work to self regulate give us immediate relief?* Why divinity identity and emotional intelligence is the same thing for old souls without or healed of MDT. Are healthy empaths more consciously aware of their needs and emotions than unhealthy empaths?* Your RAW Score unmet needs results and where mind needs to be bent back to divinity identity:0 - 6 I am unhealthy, unhappy, broken > I AM7 - 12 I feel unloved > DEARLY LOVED13 - 18 I feel unworthy > DIVINE19 - 24 I feel guilty > CHILD25 - 30 I feel unsure of my divinity > OF THE GREAT MOTHER FATHER GID31 - 36 I feel judged > WHO IS NEVER JUDGED37 - 42 I feel condemned > WHO IS NEVER CONDEMNED43 - 48 I feel isolated, alone or alienated > OR LEFT ALONE.Are You an empath with the mother wound? Mama Drama Trauma Academy sometimes delivers firsthand original situational content from my personal and professional experience, including direct submissions. Readings and video lessons detailing distinct and specific opinions, analysis and reactions to events, Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck reader questions and lessons are exclusive content. Of course, I also share my observations of major themes, challenges and analysis which do not carry the ‘Exclusive' mark. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
After the agony and determination it takes to heal we emerge from MDT primed to fully live our divinity identity in service to others.Learning to heal the mother wound is one thing. Applying the lessons through daily practice such as the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is another. By using it to regulate triggers and gain clarity, balance and confirmation in situations we need it most, we enhance our lives by reconditioning the ego mind's tendency toward self abandonment and abuse.It's been a while since posting and Great Mother has been dealing with me as I transform this habit into the kind of self love and compassion needed for the next evolutionary step. Beyond MDT liberation is where we make final peace with the journey, gather what is still useful and serve others with the best of what we have and have become.This is what healing gives. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
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Each of us is a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone--whether we know or not. Knowledge preciously reserved for rigorously vetted mystery school adepts, is now available to all ready, able and willing to use it for the greater good.This tutorial is a general introduction to New Souls and Old Souls: who we are, how Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) affects us, what we need from one another, and how to create healthy relationships with them. (It is two hours. At the one hour mark is a brief meditation. I suggest taking a break there, or doing the meditation to give your system a break before completing it.)This basic overview covers key points related to empaths, or old souls with the mother wound whose anxiety and amnesia of past lifetimes blocks self healing attempts.>>>> Link to interview with Patricia McGivern Soul ExplorerWhile MDT recovery is a lifetimes, long process, as the soul matures we gain gifs, talents and abilities to completely release it.What are these gifts?How do we use them to get past the unending anxiety?What have we forgotten from past lives that may be useful now?Thank you for reading MDT Academy Newsletter. This post is public so feel free to share it.Transform MDT to Stop Its TransmissionUntil we transform it, we will transmit it onto other souls creating karma that keeps us trapped in the cycle. MDT is a painful and vicious cycle not for faint of heart. Indeed, it cultivates the strong hearts we have. The problem is we will transmit it on to others until we transform it into the healing balm it is intended to be.>>>> Link to tutorial Are You An Empath with the Mother Wound?Everyone is going through something . Processing, how we break things down and trauma, soul dissociation, are the word of the day.As dearly loved divine children, we learn the purpose of trauma is to open the heart to receive more and more divine love and, gradually through consecutive lifetimes, return to divinity consciousness. MDT is the birth canal where we learn to release toxic energy to receive divine energy through free will choice.>>>> Link to blog Are Empaths and Narcissists Codependent?Tips, tools and techniques in this tutorial outline the polarity between old and new souls to better understand how to process the toxicity of our unconscious interactions, what we need to know to deal with them and how.Here are a few MDT integration tools mentioned:- RAW (Ready, Able and Willing) Score for rapid trigger release- Ainslie Macleod Soul Type Quiz- Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle DeckWhat's important for us to realize is that MDT integration is about fully reclaiming our core belief in divinity identity— despite the material experience of maternal abandonment and abuse.We do this with a daily and moment by moment practice of, reciting the mantra to ourselves, when triggered::I am a dearly lovedDivine ChildOf the Great Mother Father GodWho is never judged, condemnedOr left alone.Though challenging at first, reason old souls are more aware of this than others is because our abundance of near death combat, fatal accidents, natural disaster, being and giving birth experiences, know we are loved and cared for beyond material comprehension.MDT is a lifetime test, to prove it. New Souls are not held to the same account.Imagine…You are a spry 94 year old, but with waning vitality. You have been a bit of a loner your entire life so its good to have someone around now. Everyday, when you awaken your nineteen year old nephew helps you into the car and drives you to the city's football stadium for a day-long acid, hard rock concert. While he helps you out of the car and buys all the day's snacks, they conflict with your prescribed diet. You walk from the car to your seat, repeatedly pushed aside, mocked and spending the entire day with sensory overload struggling to digest the process second hand smoke and drug vapors. The concrete, plastic seats makes the noise—music—pounding into your ear drums blow through your body making it sing along to the toxic lyrics. It feels familiar, a sick mediation. Pried down by gravity and baptized by beer spilling on your head like a continual baptismal. After twelve hours, it's back to the car walking is harder, you feel heavier each day. Home again until tomorrow.Sick and tired of feeling sick and tired? This tutorial is for you.MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
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What Is the Mother Wound?The “mother wound” is unmet maternal needs. More specifically, the “mother wound” is a condition in which the mother projects her own unmet maternal needs onto her child causing emotional and, or physical abandonment and, or abuse. While rejection through abdication of responsibilities and physical abuse are observable, and often obvious, each child has unique emotional needs for maternal needs are the: maternal presence, maternal provision of care and maternal protection..Coined by Sigmund Freud, the term ”mother wound” conjures up images of the therapist couch, deep reflection and incurable depression, but beyond that, we know little about it. While used in popular lexicon, this planetary disorder remains taboo, unchallenged and its origin unexamined.We have only begun to scratch the surface of this pandora box of maternal abandonment and abuse opened a century later ago. Because of the diverse perceptions and vying reactions siblings of the same mother have to her, psychologists, inner work life coaches and spiritual counselors are stymied by what constitutes the mother wound.In this post, we'll look at 1)what the wound is 2)the origin of the mother wound 3)how it shows up 4) why it shows up, 5)its affect 6)how to realign with the divine.After the brief definition, dive further into the concept and add more context and explanation if needed. The lack of the kind of maternal presence, care provision and protection—we need—shows up in five different forms: divine mother, great mother, earth mother, birth mother, motherland or other (adoptive or surrogate) mother.Each form is a part of our yin DNA, endocrine and parasympathetic systems and determines our state of emotional balance, calmness, comfort and contentment in life. Mother wounds are excruciatingly painful, not to punish but to signal we have strayed too far from who we are designed and destined to be. Denormalizing Mother SinBeing informed about our mother wound is about self love, compassion and acceptance that is not only emotionally validating and self soothing but releases us and mama from shame, blame or guilt because we understand the cycle.Mama Drama Trauma Academy teaches that breaking it is not about indicting, judging or condemning it but approaching it as a spiritual crisis. This gives us space to heal by reconnecting to our own internal clarity, balance and confirmation of who we are and are worthy of by divine birthright.For too long, we have been baffled by and in mother wound denial because we did not know how to heal it.Faith based on belief in “sin” is the origin of the mother wound.Sin means “separation” and “missing the mark”. The only thing that separates us from God is a belief that we are. By default, we miss the mark. The mark is our divine birthright to health, happiness and wholeness. Therefore, the origin of the mother wound is belief in our inherent disconnection from source.Operating when from a belief we are doomed to be separate deeply wounds both mother and child, we have to get savvy and find out where the wound resides in our psyche, how and why it shows up the way it does, and cut ourselves some slack in the healing process that transcends religious trend, dogma and the wounds they inflict..The truth is we are dearly loved divine children of the great Mother Father God who are never judged, condemned or left alone.6 Types of Mother WoundsThe MDTA (Mama Drama Trauma Academy) categorizes six types of mother wounds. A compassionate examination of the healing crisis, each type shows up differently depending on the energetic quality and combination of unmet the unmet maternal needs of presence, provision of care and protexcion.How and where the mother wound shows up determines how it affects our experience of maternal separation as well as how open we are to circumstances that conspire to create opportunities for us to receive the love we need. #1. Divine Mother How it shows upPerceived Divine Mother separation is a spiritual crisis experienced as internal disconnect from the feelings or the formation of the mother bond. No connection to mother. Deep void and desire for maternal needs to be met without having to ask, wanting others to sense them to prove “their love” or that they care. Need to be “babied”.Where it shows upWounding of the 8th and root chakras associated with mental and rectal health issues, and perceived as a spiraling feeling or perpetual ungroundedness at the intuitive (soul) and instinctual (ego) level where our physical body connects to divine love eight to ten inches above the head and at the coccyx bone.Why it shows upOne can be very empathic and intuitively astute causing them to absorb and project unexpressed rage to detox. There is extreme emotional dysregulation with even the most subtle imagined and unimagined threat to one's safety and security is felt.Difficulty gaining one's footing in life, when achieved is short lived and, or no matter how much is achieved never feeing there is enough safety or security. Constant state of emotional insecurity affecting a lifelong pursuit for a home and belonging. Rage around a lack of affection.MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Inner WorkTo begin receiving clear, balanced and reliable intuition, intentional reconnection with Divine Mother, The Still Small Voice of the Holy Spirit, must be established and vigilantly maintained. Understanding what feels like a lack of care from others is really a karmic need to use one's own gifts, talents and abilities to anticipate and fulfill own needs. Individuals intensely under the spell of this mother sin have harsh planetary aspects in our birth charts for which there are many remedies and effective healing modalities. MDTHOD + (Become a paid subscriber for more on this)Tapping into the universal energy of the eighth chakra in a balanced way reframes the need for birth mother bonding to a nonjudgmental and noncondemning response to mama's:• Death• Inability to bond well with us from the get go• Mental ill• Hospitalization• Lost child, lack of her own maternal bond, or reference point for being an attentive, involved parent• Shock from trauma• Present from her point of view and doesn't/didn't have a clue about what was really needed by usHow to Reconnect with Divine Mother EnergyTransform divine mother sin to self regulation through the rewiring and refiring of the neuro network with daily recitation and practice of the divinity identity mantra:I am a dearly loved divine child of the Divine Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone.#2. Great Mother How it shows upPerceived Great Mother separation is a soul crisis experienced as a disconnect from self love and compassion due to experiencing the Terrible Mother. There are three Mother archetypes: Good Mother who sacrifices her life for her child, Terrible Mother who sacrifices her child's life for her own and Great Mother who is and gives birth to both manifested in light ( Good Mother) and shadow (Terrible Mother), symbolized in composite goddess form of many names, as well as the lunar cycle, earth, water elements and in cycles of birth and rebirth.Where it shows upWounding of the root and sacral chakras associated with reproductive system and elimination problems, lower back, leg, or feet issues, genitalia, sexual addiction or indifference, co-dependency or emotional overwhelm.Why it shows upOne is survival oriented. Aspirations and relationships are based on fulfilling basic necessities such as food, water, and shelter, a drive to thrive materialistically on a grand scale, or an indulgence in some form of sensory sensual pleasure.Feeling unsupported causing a lack of resilience that leads to low self esteem or confidence in one's ability to achieve personal desires.Inner WorkPractice living in loving detachment from mama, drama and the trauma by owning the birthright to be happy, healthy and whole. Individuals feeling intense shame, blame or guilt for need to do inner work of reconditioning the mind with daily recitation and practice of the divinity identity mantra:I am a dearly loved divine child of the Divine Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone.Activating root and sacral energies by setting and achieving creative goals and aspirations we begin to define and establish our unique divinity identity which allows our angels, guides and ancestors to work with us more directly and more effectively to heal the affects of mama being:• Emotionally cut off to protect herself from the unresolved pain of her own childhood• Afraid to show her love, afraid to bond with anyone• Regretting having a child/ren and not wanting to be there• An addict tuned out on drugs and/or alcohol• Attending to her own wounds• Internally conflicted and/or ashamed motherhood felt like work to her How to Reconnect with Great Mother EnergyHealthy integration of Great Mother energies is about creating authentic internal dialogue with our sacred selves instead of focusing on the sin. This allows us to feel loved, cared for and protected when the Terrible Mother within or without is activated for any reason at any time.The inner work of taking power back from the Terrible Mother is a religious practice of self inquiry. Connected with sensuality, and our desires and unique ways we cultivate joy and abundance in our lives, the sacral chakra is our creative powerhouse. Applied to the daily practice of compassionate self reflection, we can defuse triggers, or our unhealed wounds by anticipating and feeling them until they no longer hold a charge for us. This is deep impersonal work that requires patience and the maturity to be intentional and self observing without judgment or condemnation in order to become aware of where our power is being lost, drained, blocked, or taken away from where it would be better applied, enjoyed, or used to serve.#3. Birth Mother How it shows upPerceived Birth Mother separation is an ego body crisis experienced as divinity disconnection, an unwillingness or an inability to perceive the mother as a dearly loved divine child of the Divine Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone.Where it shows upWounding of the sacral and gut chakras associated with issues with the liver, colon, kidney, bladder, improper nutrient processing and absorption, constipation, or irritable bowel syndrome, eating and anxiety disorders.Why it shows upOne feels disconnected from self and others and unable to adjust to present realities remaining stuck in the past or living in the future creating emotional dysregulation or blockage, often vacillating between these states.Emotional crisis stemming from the toxic load of shame, blame and guilt for being less than divine, unworthy of health, happiness and wholeness. Quickly forgetting, suppressing or simply not knowing the cause of one's emotional state.Inner WorkInstead of feeling bad about who we are, one at a time we can focus on one thing that will make us feel better about ourselves now. Would it be taking a bubble bath? Cleaning our room? Finally responding to friend's call or email? Nothing is too small to start the ball rolling. The important thing is to begin to feel better and better about who we are and what we do. Inch by inch, this focus transforms shame, blame and guilt to into health, happiness and wholeness and away from mama's issues:• Spending all her energy trying to protect herself from a raging or abuse partner• Feeling worn out, exhausted, or physically ill• Being too busy with her romantic and sexual liaisons• Avoiding contact with us because she feels guilt and inadequacy as a mother• Having/had too many children to attend toHow to Reconnect with Birth Mother EnergyEmotionally grounding through the process of daily mood tracking to develop self love and spiritual independence, or uplifting inner dialogue with the divine that creates conscious space to process enormous pain bit by bit. Consciously activating the gut the trust what is and is not true for us, we govern our relationship with change and develop our ability to manage it.#4. Earth MotherHow it shows upPerceived Earth Mother separation is a mental crisis experienced as birthright disconnection a result of dissociation or mental illness caused by climatic trauma or experiencing a natural disaster. One's existence is not trusted, the world is perceived was an unsafe place and, or earth as a threat to versus supportive of one's survival.Where it shows upWounding of the gut and heart chakras associated with ulcers, diabetes, pancreas, heart, lungs, chest, arms, hands, circulation and blood pressure.Why it shows upOne feels deep sadness and external world reflects internal battle with feelings of instability, loss and self defensiveness.Disposition of general malaise, broken heartedness causing hopelessness, suicidal thoughts and desires to end one's suffering.Inner WorkTo reverse the loss of power leaking from the root chakra to the heart stand on the ground, close your eyes, enter the imaginary plane and will the earth into being your planetary playground. Visualize the chakras leaking energy from the heart below as it expands to surround the earth and breath. Maintaining the vision, allow it to finish spilling out of the body until your aura completely encircles you and the earth. Breathe. Feel yourself animating the flow of the ocean, rivers, waterfalls and lakes. Breathe. Listen. Feel yourself as the wind blowing, the breeze rustling trees and your gut as the molten center of the earth. Breathe.Allow yourself to feel this powerhouse of energy supporting transformation and unification within you as you exactly how and when it needs to happen.Likewise, allow Earth Mother energy, the flesh of your body to purposely yet impersonally align with your unique life path inviting more bodies in the form of relationships that support to its highest spiritual potential. Using your energy in this way will help you emotionally regulate because it is more worthy of it than focusing on mama being:• Emotionally numb from medication• Depressed and lacking the emotional or mental resources• Just a child herself• Going to school, pursuing her own interestsHow to Reconnect with Earth Mother EnergyMutual respect is the calling card for peace on earth. Earth Mother sin sees her as a plot of land to stake a flag into, use and abuse instead of the ever present, ancient soul portal and sentient being she is. While we can hold her, we do not control how she that cradles, and sometimes rocks the soul. We are but guests of her home paying the dust she gives for rent and to dust we return. How we chose to use this gift of generosity determines the quality of our stay.Thank you for reading MDT Academy Newsletter. This post is public so feel free to share it.#5. MotherlandHow it shows upPerceived Motherland separation is a material crisis experienced as disconnection from “the other” or ego identity attachment. Difficulty experiencing healthy personal or monetary exchange with others because of an inability to see self and others as dearly loved divine beings of the Great Mother Father God who are never judged, condemned or left alone.Where it shows upWounding of the heart and throat chakras associated with circulatory and respiratory systems, heart and lung conditions as well as creativity, self expression, thyroid imbalance, throat, and hearing difficulties.Why it shows upMaterial (money, food, shelter) crisis caused by religious, cultural or political conflicts between tribes, communities and families.Self-imposed separation from humanity through imaginary borders, invented religions and barbaric cultural beliefs judging and condemning entire nations for petty rivalries better settled between individuals or clans at best.Motherland shame, blame and guilt of others causes war, forced emigration and immigration globally impacting individuals' traumas (e.g. mother wound).For example, as the de facto motherland of the modern west, the US is blamed by Russia for not properly integrating them and into global geopolitics after the Cold War; by Saudi Arabia for not leading the Middle East to peace; by China for not stabilizing the region, and by Europe and Africa for not being a good child of its elderly parents.Inner WorkDivinity identity is worth more than clan, team, state or national identity when the payoff is ego:soul unification instead of holding a grudge about mama being:• A “career woman' which took all of her energy• Overwhelmed with practical tasks, like moving the house time and time again• Separated by circumstance (war, natural disaster, economic calamity, prison..)• Having too many children to attend to• Working two jobs to keep a roof over your headHow to Reconnect with Motherland EnergyTo sacrifice something is to let go of something of value for something else of greater value. Motherland is our emotional connection to our place of birth whereas Fatherland a patriotic connection to a property gained and maintained through warfare. To end the war, requires ongoing sacrifice of the ego identified with Motherland above the acknowledgment of Divine Mother; Self Inquiry of Great Mother; Processing of Birth Mother and Being Real with Earth Mother.Our priorities must be in order to do this kind of inner work. It pays peace dividends by refocusing from material crisis triggers to the daily practice of healing the internal divide.Picking weeds is a daily chore, and for many the very ground or land we were born has been either plucked from us or we have been uprooted from it.We are healed when the war within ends.#6 Other Mother How it shows upPerceived Other Mother separation is a maternal attachment crisis. Experienced as a lack of self awareness. A void in self identity, an important piece of information intentionally hidden, or a profound sense that something is always missing.Where it shows upWounding of the throat and inner eye chakras associated with the abilities to perceive, conceive and speak our personal truth as well as hear and see others through mystical visions, clairvoyance, the ability to observe chakras and auras, precognition and out-of-body experiences. It is where we develop an impersonal mind and detach from physical and mental illusions.Why it shows upOne feels internal division creating challenges with self trust leading to self sabotage.Lacking a full sense of identity one's entire focus is in achieving one either by the approval and acceptance of surrogate or adoptive mother figures, and, or birth mother reunion.Inner WorkInstead of emotional dysregulation from people pleasing to gain trust to aggressively demanding love, ask for help. Learning to trust is difficult but the good news is we have angels, guides and ancestors specifically assigned to support us and our evolution, to rely on for guidance. They are experienced in our unique needs, challenges and type of wounding of this multiple party soul contract. Once invited and communication is established and maintained, they work with us to on daily tasks to strengthen our sense of self reliance, resilience and loving detachment from maternal abandonment, and or abuse. This helps us to regulate triggers around mama being:• Crowded out by someone else taking over the mothering role• Busy taking care of someone else (sibling, ill parent, spouse, herself, etc.)How to Reconnect with Other Mother EnergyThe Other Mother expression of Divine Mother is about coming to terms with her infinite variant expressions, including surrogate, adoptive, foster, earth and spiritual angels, our maternal guides and ancestors. Divine Mother is not limited by our dictates which is proven by her inexhaustible power to reach us when we most need her love.We feel separated by that love when we are conditioned not to recognize her vastness within and without our conditioned judgments and limited expectations of how, when and why is should be. It just is.Divinity Identity MantraYears ago, when I began downloading this work I asked Great Mother, “If there is one thing you want everyone who is suffering from the mother wound to know, what is it”? She replied, “Tell them that they are:dearly loved divine child of the Divine Mother Father God who are never judged, condemned or left alone.About the Mama Drama Trauma AcademyThe divine mantra is the basis of The Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck used by MDT coaches, MDTA (Mama Drama Trauma Academy), and the Divinity Identity Healing Method curriculum. Blogs and podcasts are available to free subscribers. Paid subscribers interested in becoming MDT informed coaches course, or specific guidance in using MDT tools for self regulation receive weekly video teachings in practical application.Which of the five types describes your wound also reveals how to use the divinity identity mantra to reconnect. Doing the work is its own reward. Become a MDTA paid subscriber for step by step guidance and encouragement.*MDT Academy teaches how to reconnect with the mother through the wound in a way that meets your unique needs. By focusing is where the wound is showing up, whether it is a lack of presence in our own lives, an inability to care for, and, or defend ourselves, a spiritual crisis (divine mother), soul crisis (great mother), mental crisis (earth mother), emotional crisis (birth mother), material crisis (motherland), and, or identity crisis (other mother), by becoming aware of its affects, and the inner work we need, we can always divinely align.I hope these tips, tools and techniques help you experience less shame, blame and guilt from the mother wound and more happy, healthy and wholeness. When experienced as pain, the mother wound feels hollow and conditional, but with a self love practice that allows us to go inside of ourselves we can pull back the layers to see the blessing in disguise to strengthen our ability to accept your divine power to release the perception of Mother Sin at will.Which of the five types describes your wound also reveal how to reconnect. 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www.MamaDramaTrauma.infoMama Drama Trauma is not a punishment. It is soul purification through letting go of the mother we want in order to accept the one we have. It's a high wall to climb and an even higher one to break through, but we were born to do it. How do I know?Listen. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
How the inner child takes over the role as our mother is overlooked in our over focus on mothering or reparenting it. As a result of missing how and why this this happens, self mothering often fails to bring the goods. Our inner child, the wounded, rejected part of us with unmet maternal needs, develops is our first mother because it acknowledges the unmet needs of maternal presence, provision and protection we deny because it feels unsafe. In a hyper focus not to rock the boat, attempting to remain safe in abandoning and abusive situations, we empower the inner child to finds ways to get our needs met. True for us and our mothers in this generational cycle of mother wound, but Empaths don't just have the mother wound. Empaths have MDT. We not only feel hurt, we feel Mama's pain from her own unmet maternal needs. How does a child born of shadow, unrecognized, unregulated and unintegrated emotions mother? Does it have the experience and expertise to do so without hurting itself and others? The answer is terribly. Terrible Mothers are born into this unbroken cycle, impossible to break without acknowledging what our wounded narcissistic inner child needs. Until then, the shadow of our heart and mind is occupied by unhealed wounds triggers by mothering ourselves the same way we were mothered. Let's bring it to light so we can respond to MDT differently. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message
Duality in all things has become apparent. No longer an ethereal concept, we are now confronted with resolving it in ourselves and in our understanding of others. Relationships are intended to constitute mutually self loving acts. When we are not ready, willing or able to love ourselves in a particular way, a soul mirrors where this lack exists. Mama does this for us this lifetime. Unaware, our relationship is experienced as “tough love” or “no love” at all. However, universal law tells us all energy is divine including us. As empaths, we know and feel this. How are we using this energy? Are we honoring our energy in ways that honor us?Only we can determine our value, needs and therefore how we choose to share it.As empaths, we know love is ineffable. It is not an idea, belief or fantasy but a feeling. Because meeting unmet maternal needs dominate our internal space, we never feel we give enough love— forgetting love is equally meant for us. Overcoming the dilemma of feeling loved and knowing we are loved is about filtering our emotional resonance with others for what the soul needs. The question is, “Is this relationship mirroring to me an opportunity to evolve in self love and spiritual independence?” As old souls with MDT, we are learning to live in loving detachment from our defaults, or what love has meant to us in the past. In the past, we expected our maternal needs to be met by our birth mother and this lifetime forces us to refine the way we experience it by learning to truly love ourselves. To do this, we must develop our own relationship with Great Mother, that Still Small Voice of the Holy Spirit that nurtures the spiritual independence we need to trust what we hear, see, feel, and sense.We are changing. Everything is changing, Empaths with the mother wound are being called to ground ourselves in our soul wisdom. As old souls experiencing the birth mother as guru teaching us how to evolve in self love and spiritual independence, we are supported in our choice to use our extrasensory abilities wisely to identify what and who does and does not support us— as well as what and whom we most support.The Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is an excellent method to become familiar with our unique soul frequency, what feeds it and needs it. Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
How the inner child takes over the role as our mother is overlooked in our over focus on mothering or reparenting it. As a result of missing how and why this this happens, self mothering often fails to bring the goods. Our inner child, the wounded, rejected part of us with unmet maternal needs, develops is our first mother because it acknowledges the unmet needs of maternal presence, provision and protection we deny because it feels unsafe.In a hyper focus not to rock the boat, attempting to remain safe in abandoning and abusive situations, we empower the inner child to finds ways to get our needs met. True for us and our mothers in this generational cycle of mother wound, but Empaths don't just have the mother wound. Empaths have MDT. We not only feel hurt, we feel Mama's pain from her own unmet maternal needs.How does a child born of shadow, unrecognized, unregulated and unintegrated emotions mother? Does it have the experience and expertise to do so without hurting itself and others? The answer is terribly. Terrible Mothers are born into this unbroken cycle, impossible to break without acknowledging what our wounded narcissistic inner child needs. Until then, the shadow of our heart and mind is occupied by unhealed wounds triggers by mothering ourselves the same way we were mothered.Let's bring it to light so we can respond to MDT differently.No matter how abrupt, inappropriate or unwelcome our triggers, raw emotion or behavior shows up, just remember that baby inside is always crying for OUR PROTECTION, PRESENCE, PROVISION OF at least one of the following: nurturing, support, appreciation, compassion, respect, space, encouragement or understanding.Here, Narcissism is a term used to describe and characterize how we experience the mother wound, and specifically why it is the shadow side of empaths. The difference between our use of the word as a descriptive term and Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is noted in its formal definition and how it accurately describes how we react to having our needs denied and dismissed.Because we feel Mama's hurt from her own unmet maternal needs that means we also absorb her feelings of shame, blame and guilt for projecting it onto us. Most often, this process is unconscious and her and in ourselves. Not to mention, if she has NPD she is mentally unable to access these feelings without cognitive therapy and even then it is unlikely which is why it is important to acknowledge our models for motherhood, our powerlessness in causing, controlling or curing it. Otherwise, we further buries our wounded narcissistic inner child into the shadows.The following tips help to reverse the loss of power through MDT conditioning in order to effectively self mother with our empathic abilities integrating our inner child instead of :* Lying to ourselves. Admitting over reactions. Give yourself a break PTSD is dysregulating.* Manipulating ourselves and others. Dialing down the people pleasing to avoid being shamed, blamed or guilted. That's what MDT does. * Being selfish. Letting others take care of themselves. Neither you or others need to feel shame, blame or guilt about the time and space you need to decompress. You are an empath, an extreme HSP. It is what it is. * Blaming. Admitting mistakes, promising yourself you'll do better now that you know better, and forgiving yourself to move on. (Eventually, this becomes an instant reaction as you stop looking for fault and finding more self acceptance). * Projecting. Staying present with yourself, protecting and providing your own needs. Fully owning your birthright to be happy, healthy and whole as you own and no one else's.* Putting on a self-pitying drama. Surrendering to the situation as an observer. Use your ability to get a reading from the situation without attaching to it or its potential outcome to allow it to be less about you, and more for you.* Parentifying. Feeling responsible for others' feelings. Be responsible for yours at all times knowing that is more than enough because it is the basis of good mothering. The integrated inner child co-parents empaths who live in loving detachment from MDT. Expanded empathic self awareness through committed daily practice, enlightens understanding of our inner child's cries for nurturance, support, appreciation, compassion, respect, space and encouragement. It informs how to self mother with anticipation instead of dread. Being more fully ourselves, we experience divinity identity every step of the MDT release journey, and all the good it brings.Characteristics of Narcissistic MothersMama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (MDTHOD) supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading.EtsyFacebook group Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
20 percent of the population are highly sensitive people, but less than ten percent are empaths, or people who feel the feelings of others. We are the later. Not all HSPs are empaths, but all empaths are HSPs. Not all empaths have Mama Drama Trauma (MDT), but all empaths with the mother wound do. Blurred lines between the worlds we walk. How do you use your intuition to clarify who, where and what you are? Let's explore how to use ego:soul communication, that part of us we know knows all things, instead of feeling used by it. I share 7 rules of this journey in this podcast. Join our private Facebook MDT Academy to become a book reviewer to recommend what you think needs to be in a book. Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading. Etsy Club House Instagram DM Readings #podcast #empaths #blurredlines #betweentwoworlds #mamadramatrauma #academy #scorpiolunareclipse #intuition #whatyouknowyouknow #owntheunknown #highlysensitivepeople --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message
20 percent of the population are highly sensitive people, but less than ten percent are empaths, or people who feel the feelings of others. We are the later. Not all HSPs are empaths, but all empaths are HSPs. Not all empaths have Mama Drama Trauma (MDT), but all empaths with the mother wound do. Blurred lines between the worlds we walk. How do you use your intuition to clarify who, where and what you are? Let's explore how to use ego:soul communication, that part of us we know knows all things, instead of feeling used by it.The rules of this journey are:1. Listen to your intuition - agree to download with awareness2. Follow your heart - yield to your claires (clairvoyance, clairsentience, claireaudience)3. Honor your feelings - be humble about how you feel and ask for help4. Courage to focus on message - don't be afraid of change, flexibility5. Swag - confidence to surround yourself with good, positive people6. Practice self-care - activate self care to refine health, happy and holy experience7. Believe in yourself - compassion and belief in self and others divinity identityJoin our private Facebook MDT Academy to become a book reviewer to recommend what you think needs to be in a book.Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading.EtsyClub HouseInstagram DM Readings Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
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Empaths with MDT* have a wounded narcissist inner child as our shadow. Knowing where we are on the empath spectrum tells us 1)how ready, willing and able we are to integrate the rage of maternal abandonment and abuse; and 2)what our natural gifts, talents and abilities are to succeed in this inner work we are destined and designed to do. Access valuable information about how empaths heal MDT in free email course! *Mama Drama Trauma (MDT), a condition in which the mother projects her unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life. Etsy Club House Instagram DM Readings --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) is a condition in which the mother projects her own unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life. Triggers are unhealed emotional wounds. For empaths, trigger coping is our natural default because we feel others' feelings, and with Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) it shows up in these telltale signs. Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading. Click subscribe to access valuable information about how empaths heal MDT in free email course! Etsy Club House Instagram DM Readings MDT Survival Guide https://www.mamadramatrauma.info --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) is a condition in which the mother projects her own unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life. Triggers are unhealed emotional wounds. For empaths, trigger coping is our natural default because we feel others' feelings, and with Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) it shows up in these telltale signs. Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading. Click subscribe to access valuable information about how empaths heal MDT in free email course! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message
MDT is really a spiritual trauma. I approach it as a spiritual illness and I work with it as a spiritual healer. I want to talk to you today about doing what's best for you.Doing what is best for us as empaths is very difficult because we feel the feelings of others often making us unable to distinguish our emotions from others. As a result, it's not only codependence or enmeshment with trauma, but there is an identity crisis. We really don't know who we are because we're always seeing things through the lens of others. It's important for us to remember that we are not responsible for fixing everyone else's problems, and that we need to take care of ourselves first and foremost always remembering we have our own needs and feelings that deserve our attention. As medical intuitive Caroline Myss says, “When you betray yourself, you are no different than the person who hurt you.“There's no denying that our relationships with our mothers can be complex and difficult. The old saying, we can't choose our family, is false. As old souls, we intuit the blessing in disguise because we have learned over many lifetimes, nothing happens to us but for us to evolve. So what do we do when the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck comes into our lives, we begin the evolutionary work of letting go of the mother we want in order to accept the one we haveMDT Academy teaches us how to read the simple signs and symbols of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck in order to receive daily messages of support and encouragement in our healing journey. It's a practice that can help us to see both the light and shadow aspects of our relationship with our mothers. And it's a solution to the difficult problem of knowing what is best for us in our unique healing process involving our own unique needs to while releasing the trauma of others control of our lives, so that we can be the best we can be.Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading.Click to subscribe to this free email course! Access valuable information about MDT and how empaths heal the mother wound.EtsyClub HouseInstagram DM Readings Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT), a condition in which the mother projects her unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life. Using the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is a great way to amp up your mother wound healing ritual. As empaths, we have the ability to heal MDT, the question is how focused we choose to be on living in loving detachment from mama, the drama and the trauma. Having a simple daily practice that gives us immediate clarity, balance and confirmation from Great Mother and her spirit team of angels, guides and ancestors gives us the strength to own who we are with grace. Prefer to watch video showing card discussed? Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading. Subscribe to access valuable information about how empaths heal MDT in free email course! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message
Empaths don't just have the mother wound, we have MDT and this is home to everything MDT. One of the most confusing things for us is distinguishing between how we and others feel. Unless, we have been taught how to use our super powers of focus and intuition, it will have us all up a tree and tumbling down in an endless cycle with MDT. As a result, knowing what is best for us is a challenge we can overcome, we just need to feel confident of our means of determining it. Once we do, Beybea… (Video “How to Do What's Right For You”) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message
Do you feel like an empath? You're not alone. There are over 20 million people in the United States who identify as being empaths, or those with the unique ability to sense and absorb others' emotions, typically making us extremely caring, compassionate, and understanding people. People differ fundamentally in how we perceive and process environment features with some being generally more and some being generally less sensitive. One of the most fundamental traits found in humans and many species, are those more affected by what they experience than others. According to sensory susceptibility researchers, Jay Belsky and Michael Pluis, “differential susceptibility,” refers to individual differences in how we respond to the environment we are exposed. High sensitivity is seen in 20% who are more sensitive, or have greater susceptibility to sensitivity to experiences than others and thirty percent of HSPs are extroverts, meaning HSP and introversion are not mutually exclusive. Empaths are highly sensitive people but not all highly sensitive people (HSN) are empaths. One percent of twenty percent of highly sensitive people are empaths. Empaths with MDT have dysregulated reactions to maternal abandonment and, or abuse which we internalize as not to cause harm to others causing us mental, emotional and physical stress. Left unaddressed, over time, depression, rage, autoimmune, reproductive and digestive disorders require continuous attention and care. Acknowledging our pain gives us permission to redirect the care and consideration we would give to others before ourselves to ourselves first. The mother wound is defined as, “pain, wounding, and trauma that's carried by a mother and inherited by her children. Most people have experienced this definition if maternal wounding. However, empaths get a double dose through inheritance and absorption of our mothers unmet maternal needs which we abbreviate ourselves to accomodate from conception. But there is hope! Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy helps empaths learn how to be present, provide for and protect ourselves from damaging defense and coping mechanisms so we be more emotionally balanced and live with less anxiety. Join the book launch team for the book version of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. In exchange for your review of the book, you will receive weekly empath grounding techniques to: release excess energy or emotions take hold of your body mind stop someone other's moods from affecting your own Subscribe to empower my one person publishing house, and we will all be less drained and feel more divine! You can pre-order your copy here (includes pre-print review copy --so you can mark it up and just snap me a screenshot on IG or FB, or gift your copy and pay it forward!) Let's spread the word about our unique experience with Mama Drama Trauma. Etsy Club House Instagram DM Readings --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tammy-taylor80/message