Oh, I Like That

On this episode, I am joined by romantic comedy scholar Ella Cerón, who is also the author of the excellent coming-of-age YA novel Viva Lola Espinoza. We talked about rom-coms and their tropes, especially focusing on Pride & Prejudice (2005) and Fire Island. Ella also recommends a bunch of her favorite romantic comedies, explains who Mr. Wickham is and why he's an example of an important archetype, caramel Frappuccinos on Christmas, and much more. Come for the deep dive, stay for the stray meows from Ella's cat, Olive.Buy Ella's book ASAP: Viva Lola Espinoza. And follow her on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok.Things we talked about:Almost FamousThe Wedding Planner HitchHow to Lose a Guy in 10 DaysAlmost FamousTo All the Boys I've Loved BeforeViva Lola EspinozaManhunt by Gretchen Felker-MartinGet Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Ella and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.

On this episode, I am joined by writer, astrologer, and teacher, Jeanna Kadlec, author of Heretic: A Memoir. We talked about Kadlec's excellent book and how it braids her astute analysis and cultural history with her own memoir. Then we got deep into astrology and how it can inform how we see and understand what's going on in our lives on both small and large scales. If you are interested in understanding astrology more, this episode is for you!Buy Jeanna's book ASAP, it's so good: Heretic: A Memoir! And follow her on Twitter, Instagram, and TiktokThings we talked about:Virology by Joseph OsmundsonThe work of author Melissa FebosAstrologer on instagram Diana Rose HarperSam Reynolds on Talking Astrology with Bill NyeStargazing on TLCAstro TwinsWritten in the Stars astrological dating showQueer Cosmos: The Astrology of Queer Identities & Relationships by Colin BedellBreach (2007)¡Viva Lola Espinoza! by Ella Cerón The Hundred Thousand Kingdoms by N. K. JemisinGet Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Jeanna and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.

On this episode, I am joined by noted Cate Blanchett enthusiast and Scorpio, Aubrey Gordon (@yrfatfriend) who you know from the excellent podcast Maintenance Phase. We talked about (and spoiled btw) the movie Tár. We talked about queer anti-heroes/villains, what this movie says (if anything) about cancel culture, whether this is a horror movie, and a lot more.Buy Aubrey's books on Bookshop. Things we talked about:Imitation of Life Can You Ever Forgive Me?Michael ClaytonCarolThe Worst Idea of All Time podcastThe Best Idea of All Time podcast“‘Tár,' Reviewed: Regressive Ideas to Match Regressive Aesthetics” by Richard Brody for The New Yorker“Tár is actually a horror movie” by Martin Millman for ColliderThread from r/blankies about ghosts in the movie TárGet Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Aubrey and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.

On this episode I'm joined by Josh Gondelman to talk about why being an NBA fan is a great hobby no matter how into sports you are or are not. We talked about doing trash talk but nicely, building community via sports fandom, which NBA team to become a fan of depending on what vibes you are in search of, and lots more.  Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:Josh on TwitterJosh's newsletter That's Marvelous!Josh's touring scheduleBill Burr's Philly rantJosh's standup set in Philly when he talked about the Eagles being in the Super BowlSpinsters podcast episodes: an ode to Black hair, what it feels like to get traded, and reckoning with how pro sports teams deal with sexual assault and domestic violenceDesus & MeroZach Lowe's podcast The Lowe PostChicago Bull Patrick Beverly showing a ref a missed foul on a cameraKatie Heindl's newsletter Basketball FeelingsJaylen Brown Is Trying to Find a Balance by Logan Murdock for The RingerTipping PitchesFlagrant MagazineNBA fits of the week from Laura Jane FauldsNBA PaintsJoel Embiid trolling Ben Simmons with the  “RIP Bozo” memeThis episode was produced by Sally and Josh and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.

For this episode, I'm joined by Rachel Vorona Cote (@RVoronaCote), author of the excellent book Too Much: How Victorian Constraints Still Bind Women Today to talk about the concept of “too muchness” (or, how social norms and expectations constrain women's bodies, minds, and sexualities). Specifically, we looked at too muchness and the BBC series on HBO Gentleman Jack, a series based on the diaries of Anne Lister, aka “the first modern lesbian" who lived from 1791 to 1840. We talked about too muchness and: Anne Lister's gender and sexuality, women's mental health and the threat of institutionalization, and lots more. It was GREAT.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Rachel and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:Too Much: How Victorian Constraints Still Bind Women Today by Rachel Vorona CoteForbidden Notebook by Alba de CéspedesGentleman Jack: The Real Anne Lister by Anne ChomaThe Reform Act of 1832Tim Burton's Alice in Wonderland (2010)The Victorian City: Everyday Life in Dickens' London by Judith FlandersSally's Veronica Mars newsletter Mars InvestigationsMy Gender is Maximalism by Frankie de la Cretaz for AutostraddlePretty Hate Machine by Nine Inch NailsPeaker Blinders (2013-2022)Poker Face (2023)Julia Furlan's podcast recs for Women's History MonthAlex Sujong Laughlin's podcast recs for Women's History Month

For this episode, I'm joined by Kira Deshler, lesbian pop culture expert, and writer of the newsletter Paging Dr. Lesbian. Kira and I talked about the movie Carol and why we and so many queer people are obsessed with it. From the longing glances and the shoulder touches to the whole Mommy's Baby of it, we dove very deep. We also talked about lesbian pulp novel, sapphic romance movies generally, and Carol's place in the overall canon.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Kira and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:Queer Female Fans: A Master's Thesis by KiraThe 1945 movie Brief EncounterThe Price of Salt by Patricia HighsmithCarol is Not the Romance of Your Memes by Frankie de la Cretaz for VultureAmmonite (2020)Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019)CarmillaMarvel's Agent CarterLong Live MILFs: On Stanning Middle-Aged Actresses by Kira for her newsletter

On this episode, Aubrey Gordon (@yrfatfriend) is here to talk about the 2022 Christmas romcom Looking For Her. We recapped the movie and then talked more in-depth about this affable, mild foray into the queer romcom space. We also tried to figure out what even makes a movie gay. Don't forget to check out Aubrey's 2021 book What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat!Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Aubrey and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:Aubrey's forthcoming (2023) book You Just Need to Lose Weight And 19 Other Myths About Fat People (which you can pre-order here)The Society‘Looking for Her' delivers a cozy holiday romance story by Gary M. Kramer for Gay City News

Zahra Barnes (head name nerd) is back to talk about names and naming things. We talked about our own names, our cats' names, names and gender norms, name trends, and plenty more.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Zahra and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:r/namenerdsAll of Us Are DeadThe 50 Most Game of Thrones-y Names on Game of Thrones By Rachel Handler for Vulture@SonnyHoneyBubba

On this episode, Aubrey Gordon, writer and co-host of Maintenance Phase joins to talk all about working from home. We discuss how we get things done and stay focused as well as how we take breaks and take care of ourselves, all while trying not to work ourselves into a fine powder. Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Aubrey and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:The Last KingdomQuestion Team

On this episode, Zahra Barnes joins as guest co-host to talk about weddings. We talked about intentional planning, satisficers vs. maximizers, weird gender shit, and the depravity of getting married at a plantation. We also weighed in on whether a bride's FAQ list for her wedding party was genius or rude.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Sally and Zahra and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:The Love of My Life by Rosie WalshThe Art of Gathering by Priya ParkerOILT episode 22 (How to Throw a Better Party—During the Pandemic, or Whenever), where talked about The Art of Gathering in detailThe video game StrayA bride-to-be's expectations list that went viral Airlie, where Zahra got married Reddit's r/WeddingPlanning

Writer and audio producer Alex Sujong Laughlin is here to guest co-host and we're talking about hobbies where you grow and make things. We went deep thinking about why some people are drawn to these activities while others (Sally!) are not. Also, Alex shares a bunch of great tips for getting into gardening, composting for beginners and experts, and tons of (non-gardening) ways to be less extractive in your relationship with food and the earth.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:The podcast Alex produces, Normal Gossip!Plant hardiness zonesHudson Valley Seed Co.I Tackled My Climate Anxiety by Becoming a Parks Department Super Steward by Stephanie Foo for CurbedMaking Mr. RightThey Thought I Was YouThis episode was produced by Sally and Alex and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.

Donate to the National Network of Abortion FundsDonate to If/When/How's Repro Legal Defense FundGet involved with the Working Families Party Volunteer to send texts with Movement LabsTransgender Legal Defense and Education FundSouthern Equality FundAubrey Gordon (co-host of Maintenance Phase) is back!! We talk all about our favorite things to watch when we're in the mood for comfort. We also discussed our own personal approaches to comfort and how comfort can mean different things at different times. After all, there's no one right way to comfort view! We also explored our own strategies for remaining critical and engaged viewers, particularly when it comes to problematic faves.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:Megan Amram's tweet of food puns she came up with The Good PlaceDropout, streaming channel of Dirty Laundry and Game ChangerOnly Murders in the BuildingRutherford FallsHarley Quinn on HBO MaxSherlockThe Good PlaceNailed It!TaskmasterGame ChangerSpyNew GirlParks and RecreationElementaryBabylon 5This episode was produced by Sally and Aubrey and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.

Donate to the National Network of Abortion FundsDonate to If/When/How's Repro Legal Defense FundGet involved with the Working Families Party Volunteer to send texts with Movement LabsFor this episode, guest co-host Aubrey Gordon (co-host of Maintenance Phase) joins Sally to talk about ways we connect with friends when they're going through a hard time. We discussed all different kinds of checking in, from “messages in a bottle” to sharing airline miles, to curating playlists, and a lot more. We also thought through some of the macro aspects of being there for friends, like how to tell if what you're doing is more for you than it is for the person you're trying to show up for.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:Greenfeast: Spring, Summer [A Cookbook] by Nigel SlaterWho Framed Roger Rabbit“Why Venmo is My Favorite Sympathy Card” by Rachel Miller for BuzzFeedThis episode was produced by Sally and Aubrey and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram  @OhILikeThatPod.

For this episode Sally sat down with Caroline Moss, of Gee Thanks Just Bought It, to talk all about bulk shopping. We discussed tips and tricks for buying bulk, things to never ever buy in bulk, booking vacations through Costco, favorite Kirkland-brand snacks, and a lot more.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:The This American Life episode “Get Your Money's Worth”The Points GuyBlade Runner 2049Top GunThis episode was produced by Sally and Caroline and edited by Aram Vartian. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod and on Instagram @OhILikeThatPod.

In this episode, we answered a bunch of your AMA questions. We talked about our writing routines, where we spend time online, summer plans, and more. We also announced that Rachel will be leaving the show because of her rad new job as EIC of Self. We already miss Rachel here at Likehead HQ! But keep Oh, I Like That in your feed so you can stay on top of what's next for the pod!Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:Covid-19 safety doesn't have to be all or nothing. Here's how to think about it going forward. by Rachel for VoxAt-home Covid-19 tests are getting better. Experts say: Stock up for winter. by Sigal Samuel for VoxDetect Covid-19 TestThis episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.

Now that we know for certain the Supreme Court intends to overturn Roe, please consider contributing to one of the U.S.'s local abortion funds or use this link to split money across 80 different abortion funds. This doc is also a great resource: How to show up for abortion accessWe're thrilled to get a chance to talk about our latest obsession, the Apple+ TV show Severance. We talked, in a very non-spoilery way, about why we love the show so much, and then pivoted to heavy spoiler territory to discuss theories and storylines. (Don't worry if you haven't seen it; the episode is edited in a way that makes it easy to skip ahead so nothing is spoiled.) After that, we recommend our favorite media (movies, TV, podcasts, books) that remind us of Severance either in vibe, themes, or both.Our next episode will be an Ask Us Anything so send in your questions to ohilikethatpod@gmail.com. Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:“Behind the Scenes of Severance's ‘Very Creepy' Office Dance Party” by Roxana Hadadi for Vulture“The Stories Behind Severance's Eerie Office Design” by Jackson McHenry for Vulture“The Diamond Desk, Surveillance Shots, and 7 Other Stories About Making Severance” as told to Roxana Hadadi, Jackson McHenry, and Kathryn VanArendonk for VultureSeverance recaps at VultureHelly stairwell scene in one continuous timeline posted by u/Veto111 on RedditHelly color theory discussion posted by u/RedRiotingHood on Reddit (SPOILERS ALL THE WAY DOWN)The Lexington LetterAdam Scott, possible hunkThe Program audio seriesThe Deca Tapes, an 8-part mystery podcastSoft VoiceThe following Black Mirror episodes:“The Entire History of You”“Be Right Back”“White Christmas”“Hang the DJ”“Nosedive”“San Junipero”“15 Million Merits”TV shows: Russian Doll, Dollhouse, HumansEternal Sunshine of the Spotless MindThe Memory Police by Yōko Ogawa

Winter is over (mostly, kind of, we think) and it's (sort of) spring. So, we're kicking off this delightful season by taking a page from Ross Gay's The Book of Delights and talking about all the little things that delight us, from ducks and squirrel heists to Twitter threads and great tunes. (Also, if you're allergic to gratitude lists, know that a list of delights is not the same thing, for reasons we'll explain.) Our next episode will be an Ask Us Anything so send in your questions to ohilikethatpod@gmail.com. Get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about:The Book of Delights: Essays by Ross GayBackyard Squirrel Maze 1.0- Ninja Warrior CourseBackyard Squirrel Maze 2.0- The Walnut Heist“How does a duck change its sex?” by Rory Galloway for BBC NewsAn Ask a Manager comment from a work-life balance iconA Twitter thread by Rebecca Makkai about John Arbuthnot FisherThe Philadelphia 76ers victory song76ers player Tyrese Maxey singing a bit of the song during a post-game presser76ers player Tyrese Maxey singing the song during an interviewTrucks: Last Week Tonight with John OliverSeverance on Apple TV+This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.

This episode originally aired on August 12, 2021 (listen here).Poetry can be really delightful, but it can also feel really inaccessible. In this episode, we talked about our favorite poems, how to discover poems you love (and disregard everything else tbh), and then how to find poems that fit your specs. Stick around after the outro to hear our editor Lucas reading some selections.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: The Anti-Sleep Routine That's Actually Helped My Insomnia by Terri Pous for Apartment TherapyThe mockingbird that humiliated Sally on her own front porchVerse Dailyr/PoetryPoetryFoundation.orgMatthew Ogle's poetry newsletter Pomestacy-marie ishmael, whose newsletter The Main Event, often includes poetryPoetry Rx: There Are Enough Ballrooms in You by Sarah Kay for the Paris ReviewThe Ultimate List of (Non-Cheesy) Wedding Poems by Najva Sol for A Practical WeddingAre You Using a Poem in Your Wedding? by Emily Threlkeld for A Practical WeddingJapanese Death Poems: Written by Zen Monks and Haiku Poets on the Verge of Death by Yoel HoffmannDevotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver by Mary OliverDew point versus humidityWeather Time Machine: Old ships' logs are giving scientists new insights into the past and future of the earth's changing climate by Feilding Cage for ReutersRachel's favorite poems:The Orange by Wendy CopeDifferences of Opinions by Wendy CopeFrida Kahlo to Marty McConnell by Marty McConnellOn This the 100th Anniversary of the Sinking of the Titanic, We Reconsider the Buoyancy of the Human Heart by Laura Lamb Brown-LavoieSally's favorite poems:Por que cantamos/Why We Sing by Mario BenedettiPoem (The day gets slowly started) by James SchuylerResolution # 1,003​ by June JordanPoems read by Lucas after the outro:Banyan by Mary OliverA selection of Japanese death poems from here

Resources for Ukraine and trans people and families in Texas:“How You can Help Ukranians” by Kelsey Piper for VoxTransgender Education Network of TexasTrans Kids and Families of TexasThread of resources to make use of if you're a caregiver or educator in TexasGet Oh, I Like That merch here! In the last episode, we share our top-level thoughts about choosing games to play and how to think about teaching them to others. This week we dive into our recommendations for exactly which games to play. We cover games you play solo, games that are fun to play with one other person, and games that are good for groups and social situations.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:9 Things You Probably Don't Know About Daylight Saving Time by Rachel for BuzzFeedOne-player tabletop roleplaying games like: Thousand Year Old Vampire, The Wretched, Ironsworn, Red SnowThe 1974 board game Anti-MonopolyAnimal Crossing MonopolyMonopoly Was Designed to Teach the 99% About Income Inequality by Mary Pilon for Smithsonian MagazineHow to Solve the New York Times Crossword by Deb Amlen for the New York TimesSETTussie MussiePARKSTrails: A Parks GameWhy is it called Mexican Train Dominoes?MastermindSushi Go!AnomiaHunt a Killer mystery subscription boxi'm sorry did you say street magicDevotions: The Selected Poems of Mary OliverThe Good Luck Girls by Charlotte Nicole Davis

Resources for Ukraine and trans people and families in Texas:“How You can Help Ukranians” by Kelsey Piper for VoxTransgender Education Network of TexasTrans Kids and Families of TexasThread of resources to make use of if you're a caregiver or educator in TexasHave you ever thought about how many games are available to us these days? Card games, board games, roleplaying games. Games of chance, games of strategy, games where you win by buying up all the property and then charging people to use it. This is the first installment of a two-part series about games and gaming. In this first episode, we talk about the art of getting people into games, the science of teaching complicated games to newbies, resources for finding games you want to play, and also hot tubs.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:“Iceland's Water Cure” by Dan Kois for the New York TimesThe tarot card The TowerHello Wordl, off-brand WordleWordle spinoffs Quordle, Semantle, Poeltl, and WorldleShut Up & Sit Down's game pickerGeek & Sundry's Game the Game seriesTwo tweets that perfectly sum up the agony of teaching a game and being taught a new gameHow to Teach Board Games Like a ProThe Slate podcast Decoder Ring

Greg Abbott, the governor of Texas, has directed state agencies to treat gender-affirming care for trans kids as child abuse. This is part of a national, coordinated effort to systemically harm trans youth, deprive trans people of their rights, and make hard right ideologies the law of the land. Here are some resources to learn more and also to support trans youth, organizers, and advocates in Texas:Texas' Attorney General is Laying the Groundwork to Separate Trans Kids From Their Families by Melissa Gira Grant for The New RepublicTransgender Education Network of TexasTrans Kids and Families of TexasThread of resources to make use of if you are in Texas and to support This week we're bringing you an episode of one of our favorite podcasts, Gee Thanks, Just Bought It, hosted by our friend (and recent guest of OILT), Caroline Moss. You already know Caroline from episode 31 of OILT but now you'll get to know her beyond her Real Housewives scholarship. In this episode, Caroline asks us about great gifts we've given this year and, as a result, we go deep talking about road safety and fake foods. Subscribe to Gee Thanks, Just Bought It and follow the show on Instagram!Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was edited and mixed by Lucas.Things we talked aboutSally's pick for car safety kitCaroline's pick for standalone car battery jumperThe Judy BagPee funnelDisplay Fake Foods dot comHome Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House by Cheryl MendelsonRachel on episode 19 of Gee ThanksRachel's blog Just Good ShitSally's Veronica Mars rewatch newsletter

We've dabbled in reality TV over the years and decided it was high time we talk about it on OILT. So, we invited our friend and Real Housewives expert Caroline Moss to talk about reality TV and how it's changed and evolved since the early 1990s, and also to dive deep into the Real Housewives phenomenon and franchises. Caroline provides a great overview of the entire genre of reality TV, and has recommendations for the Housewives-curious who aren't sure where to start.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutCaroline's podcast Gee Thanks, Just Bought ItAnd the episode of GTJBI we were on: Fake Food and Highway SafetyBravo fired one Housewife over racism. What about the others? by Alex Abad-Santos for VoxThe Housewives: The Real Story Behind the Real Housewives by Brian MoylanI Lived, Laughed, and Loved My Way Through the BravoCon Experience by Tracie Morrissey for Jezebel‘Heartbreak' Is a Post-Divorce Exploration of Grief, Self-Discovery, and the Healing Power of Nature by Elizabeth Hightower Allen for Outside OnlineNora McInerny's storePass the BallNobody Asked with Nora and Caroline (Caroline's reality TV Patreon podcast with Nora McInerny)

Whew — it's been a while, but we're back! We eased our way into 2022 by chatting about some of the things we've been enjoying lately. Considering it's not only winter, but another pandemic winter, we figured it was a good time to focus on the activities and hobbies that are bringing us comfort and delight.Get Oh, I Like That merch here! This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutThe board game ParksFeminist Bird ClubBird Collective bird patch monthly subscriptionBird-a-day calendarLive Bird Feeder camDUCKumentary (rentable on Amazon if you don't have PBS access)East Heaven Hot TubscityWell BrooklynScrabble Deluxe Edition from Fat Brain ToysList of companies named after peopleTV shows: Yellowjackets, Mare of Easttown, ElementarySally's Veronica Mars rewatch newsletter

We are once again celebrating holiday season, this time by talking all about queer Christmas movies with our special guest Aubrey Gordon, writer and co-host of the wonderful podcast Maintenance Phase. We discussed a few specific movies: Under the Christmas Tree, Christmas at the Ranch, Syed Family Xmas Eve Game Night, and the horny commercial for Norway's postal service, When Harry Met Santa. In addition to discussing these specific movies, we also talked about more broadly what it means to portray queer intimacy, how queer cinema has evolved over the years, the absolutely delightful weirdness of Hallmark movies, and—and we can't stress this enough—a lot more.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutUnder the Christmas TreeChristmas at the RanchSyed Family Xmas Eve Game NightWhen Harry Met SantaSingle All the WayHow Hallmark takes over your TV every Christmas by Emily VanDerWerff for VoxThe perfect storm that created Hallmark's current ratings boom by Gwen Ihnat for the AV ClubWhat it's really like to write made-for-TV Hallmark Christmas movies by Ruth Kinane for EW.comHot tub boat tourBonus video: Drag Queens Trixie Mattel & Katya React to Single All The WayTransanta: Deliver gifts to trans youth in need, safely and anonymouslyTaskmaster

Now that it's December, a lot of people are thinking about a topic we like to obsess about year round: gifts. Giving them, receiving them, gift etiquette, gift guides, you name it. If it's gift-related, we're interested in it. In this episode we'll talk about our own Grand Unified Theory of Gift Guides and how to use them, as well as some of our all-time favorite crowd pleasing gifts to give. We also discuss our best practices for keeping gift exchanges chill, fun, and reasonably drama-free.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutMike's Hot HoneyThe ComfyAmped Fleece Throw Blanket (Urban Outfitters)Smartwool socks Maldon sea salt Tony's ChocoloneyWinning Solutions Linen Bookshelf Games6 Easy Holiday Gifts You Can Give Everyone In Your SquadSoda bread that Sally madeNoel (Caity Weaver's Christmas music playlist)Nightline, an atmospheric subway riding experiencePlaces to buy gifts that we mentionedFishs EddySociety6CameoEtsy

Last year we shared our thoughts and feelings on gift-giving and how to be great at it. This year we're coming at you with more gift ideas, plus a bunch of places to shop for them that aren't Amazon. OILT listeners sent us a ton of awesome ideas for things to buy from independent shops and sellers, all of which make great gifts. (And we also threw in a few of our own.) We think you'll be able to find stuff for a lot of the people on your list this year, while supporting independent sellers and getting a jump on that unpredictable supply chain!Btw, get Oh, I Like That merch here! Things we talked about: OILT Episode 5: Great Gifts and How to Give ThemOILT Episode 6: AITAWICTG (Am I the Asshole When It Comes To Gifts)?Custom airbrushed T-shirtsHIGHTIDE Store DTLA How a Board Game About Birds Became a Surprise Blockbuster by Dan Kois for SlateUnofficial Wingspan Board Game Pastel Birdhouse Action MarkersWingspan, the beautiful board game by Elizabeth HargraveMariposas, Hargrave's other board gameThe Papi Shop, art by John Paul BrammerInkbox temporary tattoosNewsletters like Xena Worrier Princess, Good Morning It's Basketball, Fran's Joy Digest, and Numlock NewsBtw, to gift a newsletter subscription on Substack, go to the newsletter's main Substack landing page and there will be a large “gift a subscription” button in the upper rightChani Nicholas' astrology workshopsCafe con Libros feminist book subscriptions A decent headlampEm & Friends for stickers, cards, etc. by  Emily McDowellDeclan microfiber clothsPaper Pastries custom return address stampsLockwoodYou can order today from these Black-owned independent bookstores by  Corinne Segal for Lithub56 LGBTQ-Owned Bookstores You Can Be Proud to Support by Michelle Hart for Oprah Daily This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.

You can now get some sweet Oh, I Like That merch! Check out our store at Teepublic and buy some things!Also, we want your gift recs! Please send us your favorite things to give (and be given) that do not come from big box stores or chains (including Amazon). Email us your recs at OhILikeThatpod@gmail.com or DM us on Instagram or Twitter @ohilikethatpod. We had a nice long talk with freelance writer Britni de la Cretaz, one of our favorite people on Twitter and also the co-author (with Lyndsey D'Arcangelo) of the new book Hail Mary: The Rise and Fall of the National Women's Football League. Britni told us about what it was like to research the league and write the very first book about this watershed moment in sports history. We also talked about the intersection of gender, sexuality, media, and sports. It was a blast and the book is great!This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:The NBA Would Like You to Stop Talking About Kyrie Irving by Will Leitch for New YorkAlmost Undefeated: The Forgotten Football Upset of 1976 by Britni de la Cretaz for Longreads“Born to Play” on HuluHow One Women's Football Team Took Control Away From the Men by Briti de la Cretaz and Lyndsey D'Arcangelo for Sports IllustratedBritni's work at Vice (some edited by Rachel)

It's almost gift-guide season and this time around we want to compile ideas for holiday gift-giving that rely as little as possible on places like Amazon, Walmart, and other chain stores. So, please tell us your favorite gifts to give (and receive!) that can be bought either from the company that makes them or from independent shops and sellers. Also fair game: easy-to-make DIY gifts, recipes, and items that would be widely available at local grocery stores (like Maldon sea salt for example).  We will compile the recommendations we get, add our own, and put them all into an upcoming episode. You can email us or send us a voice memo at OhILikeThatpod@gmail.com. You can also DM us your recommendations on Twitter or Instagram. Just let us know any info you want us to share about you—name, location, pronouns, etc. If you don't specify we'll keep it anonymous. Thanks for listening and sharing your faves with us!

To celebrate our one-year anniversary and our 25th episode, we're bringing you things that make us say “Oh, I really like that!” We covered a ton of ground and think it's fair to say there's something here for everyone. We talked about movies, Jojo Siwa, coffee bean grinders, house shoes, and way way way more.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: Abigail Koffler's pumpkin bread recipeAsk a ManagerSeasonal but not-too-scary movies:Death Becomes Her (1992)The Addams Family (1991)Hocus Pocus (1993)Beetlejuice (1988)Clue (1985)The Faculty (1988)You're Wrong About (specifically these episodes: Urban Legends Spectacular! and Halloween Special! Ed Gein and Slasher Movies)I Like to Watch (Fear Street episode) hosted by Trixie Mattel and Katya ZamolodchikovaThings we really like:Easy Walk dog harnessStroll the Moon pillow slides Lipton onion soup & dip mixJojo Siwa On Dancing with the Stars on Britney nightOne Dancing with the Stars as Prince CharmingAt age 11 on Dance Moms being told she has to watch the movie CarriePalmer's swivel stickThe board game ClueQueer Zine ArchiveCapresso infinity burr grinderThe Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya AngelouRolling Stone cover story on Green Day (January 25, 1996)Manta SILK maskFuzz by Mary RoachWildfang Virtual Fit Sessions

We sat down with our former co-worker, health journalist Casey Gueren, to chat about her new book It's Probably Nothing: The Stress-Less Guide to Dealing with Health Anxiety, Wellness Fads, and Overhyped Headlines. We talked about health anxiety in the age of COVID, as well as how to make sense of everything we read online about health and wellness. There are tons of practical tips from Casey and the experts she talked to for her book. If you've ever wondered about the supplements you keep seeing all over FitTok, wondered whether to believe that new health trend or study, or have a tendency to assume every minor pain or skin thing you experience is a rare and deadly disease, do we have a treat for you (this episode).This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: It's Probably Nothing: The Stress-Less Guide to Dealing with Health Anxiety, Wellness Fads, and Overhyped Headlines by Casey Gueren (on Twitter @CaseyGueren and Instagram @caseygueren)STAT newsAcadia National ParkSmiling face with tear emoji

What better time to talk about organization than back to school season? We are kicking off fall by sharing our grand unified theories for getting/being more organized. We also talked all about our all-time favorite, go-to strategies for staying on top of shit, both digitally and IRL. This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: The Subversive Joy of Lil Nas X's Gay Pop Stardom by Jazmine Hughes for the New York TimesThe video for “That's What I Want” by Lil Nas X“Jolene” cover by Lil Nas X (OK, we didn't talk about this but the video came out between recording and release so we're including it here)How The Good Place taught moral philosophy to its characters — and its creator by Dylan Matthews for VoxBonus content at our official website: Exactly how to organize your Slack sidebar + the screenshots of Rachel's inbox labels.

Resources and reading about current events: Stop It With The Fucking Coat HangersHow Ida Turned Basement Apartments Into Death TrapsUnderground Lives: The Sunless World of Immigrants in QueensWhy an East Harlem Street Is 31 Degrees Hotter Than Central Park WestWe Looked for Some of the Hottest Places in California. We Found Climate Injustice in a Nutshell.How to find, contact, and donate to your local abortion fundChip in for Texas Abortion FundsFor Reproductive Equity » Lilith FundJust Ida Recovery – Another Gulf Is Possible/Otro GOLFO ES POSIBLEThanks to the pandemic, gathering with others, whether for social or professional reasons, has become complicated, overwhelming, and fraught. But when we read The Art of Gathering, which was published in 2019, we both realized that author Priya Parker's guidance and expertise means it doesn't really have to be any of those things. And in fact, hosting gatherings that are special, enriching, and enjoyable is actually possible, even during the pandemic. We decided to prove it in this episode by planning a pretend (small, outdoor, vaccinated) party.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters by Priya ParkerThe New Rules of Gathering (Priya Parker's free gathering planning guide)Just a Bunch of East Ways to Make Vaxxed Hangouts Safer in the Delta Era by Rachel Wilkerson Miller for VICEThe Design Sprint by Google Ventures19 Unforgettable Ways to Make Up for Lost Time With Friends This Summer by Amy Rose Spiegel for VICEMeme declares it's finally fall, now you 'can really start dressin' by Nicole Gallucci for MashableUntold: Malice at the Palace on NetflixUntold: Deal With the Devil on Netflix (content note: this documentary includes graphic discussion of intimate partner violence)WEATHER IS HAPPENING (on Twitter @WEATHERISHAPPEN)  

Poetry can be really delightful, but it can also feel really inaccessible. In this episode, we talked about our favorite poems, how to discover poems you love (and disregard everything else tbh), and then how to find poems that fit your specs. Stick around after the outro to hear our editor Lucas reading some selections.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: The Anti-Sleep Routine That's Actually Helped My Insomnia by Terri Pous for Apartment Therapy The mockingbird that humiliated Sally on her own front porchVerse Dailyr/PoetryPoetryFoundation.orgMatthew Ogle's poetry newsletter Pomestacy-marie ishmael, whose newsletter The Main Event, often includes poetry Poetry Rx: There Are Enough Ballrooms in You by Sarah Kay for the Paris ReviewThe Ultimate List of (Non-Cheesy) Wedding Poems by Najva Sol for A Practical WeddingAre You Using a Poem in Your Wedding? by Emily Threlkeld for A Practical WeddingJapanese Death Poems: Written by Zen Monks and Haiku Poets on the Verge of Death by Yoel HoffmannDevotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver by Mary OliverDew point versus humidityWeather Time Machine: Old ships' logs are giving scientists new insights into the past and future of the earth's changing climate by Feilding Cage for ReutersRachel's favorite poems:The Orange by Wendy CopeDifferences of Opinions by Wendy CopeFrida Kahlo to Marty McConnell by Marty McConnellOn This the 100th Anniversary of the Sinking of the Titanic, We Reconsider the Buoyancy of the Human Heart by Laura Lamb Brown-LavoieSally's favorite poems:Por que cantamos/Why We Sing by Mario BenedettiPoem (The day gets slowly started) by James SchuylerResolution # 1,003​ by June JordanPoems read by Lucas after the outro:Banyan by Mary OliverA selection of Japanese death poems from here

Summer is the time of year when we're all supposed to be footloose and fancy-free, cavorting in the sunshine and enjoying all kinds of outdoor social activities. But for some of us, summer is about making it through three or so months of being extremely sweaty, having to decide between clothing that's functional or stylish, and feeling immense pressure to be social. No matter what your feelings are about summertime, this episode is for you because we're sharing the things and strategies that help us get the most out of this season.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: How to Have a Great Summer if You Hate Summer by Rachel for ViceWeather apps, like OILT faves AccuWeather and Weather StripRachel's beach tentRachel's preferred brand of beach chairPeppermint Cooling & Reviving Spray from The Body ShopSex and the City and Us: How Four Single Women Changed the Way We Think, Live, and Love by Jennifer Keishin Armstrong Calamine sprayMoisture-wicking socks and underwearAloe vera with lidocaineSally's portable USB-charging pedestal fan

We recorded this episode at the end of June, so we decided to talk a bit more about more of our queer (and queer-themed) faves. We have a ton of book recommendations to share, some podcasts to check out, a few video games, and a handful of queer miscellany.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: Reading list: Pride edition by Rachel for her blog Just Good Shit67 of the Best Queer Books of 2020 by Casey for AutostraddleDoes the Dog Die, the site that warns people about distressing scenes in movies (like whether an LGBTQ person dies or the movie contains homophobic slurs)13 Queer Books To Read at the Beach, Pool, or Wherever You Are This Summer by S. Bear Bergman for ViceCasey McQuiston Will Remind You What It Feels Like to Be Alive by Nolan Feeney for The CutBooks and things to read Beebo Brinker by Ann BannonThe Killer Wore Leather by Laura AntoniouOne Last Stop by Casey McQuistonNothing to See Here by Kevin WilsonHola Papi: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons by John Paul BrammerValley of the Dolls by Jacqueline SusannIn the Dream House by Carmen Maria MachadoTipping the Velvet by Sarah WatersOn Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean VuongSomething to Talk About by Meryl Wilsner The poem “Warming Her Pearls” by Carol Ann DuffyPodcasts The Bright SessionsSweetbitterThe Nancy episode “Return to Ring of Keys” The You're Wrong About episode “The Stonewall Uprising”The You're Wrong About episode “Kitty Genovese and ‘Bystander Apathy'”Instagram accounts @h_e_r_s_t_o_r_y@sapphic.arthistory @queerloveinhistoryVideo games Gone HomeThe Walking Dead by Telltale GamesLife is Strange and Life is Strange: Before the StormThe Last of Us: Left BehindThe Last of Us Part IIQueer grab bagAsh + ChessAutomic GoldThe newsletter Paging Dr. LesbianAutostraddler/HobbyDramaPeaches

We decided to keep the Pride-themed conversation rolling, and this time around we discuss our favorite movies (and one episode of TV) that feature queer characters, queer love/romance, and queer stories. We cover ‘90s indie movies, sweet romcoms, cult hits, period dramas, and a lot more.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: Queer movies/things to watchAll Over MeAmmoniteBoundCarolHappiest SeasonMoonlightMosquita y MariPortrait of a Lady on Fire“San Junipero” (Black Mirror S3, E4)Saving FaceShowgirlsSteven Universe (the movie)The Half of ItThe Incredibly True Adventures of Two Girls In LoveThe Watermelon WomanYou Don't NomiQueer miscellanyRachel's T-shirt that pays homage to Gina Gershon's Showgirls character Cristal ConnorsThe Bury Your Gays tropeQueer women have been killed on television for decades. Now The 100's fans are fighting back. by Caroline Framke for VoxThe SNL skit “Lesbian Period Drama”The 200 Best Lesbian, Bisexual & Queer Movies Of All Time by Drew Gregory for Autostraddle

Every year when June rolls around, a whole bunch of conversations continue and other ones begin anew—conversations about identity, representation, safety, freedom, liberation, and…rainbow-colored corporate logos. So we decided to jump right into a few of those topics, and share our thoughts on things like cops at Pride (no), kink at Pride (yes), what it means to show up as an “ally,” and more.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: A couple of social media posts about Pride merch (like this one and this one) This mask chain from Shopbizla on EtsyPictureThis plant identifying appA Misstep by the Organizers of Pride by the NYT Editorial Board (we’re not linking)“No Cops at Pride”: How the Criminal Justice System Harms LGBTQ People by Melanie Langness and Gabriella VelascoThe rise of anti-trans "radical" feminists, explained by Katelyn Burns for Vox

A quick note from us: When we recorded this episode, Israel was five days into its violent offensive on Gaza. Since then Israel’s aggression has only escalated, killing as of this writing, more than 200 hundred Palestinians. Hamas rockets have killed about 10 Israelis. Please check out the resources below and join us in supporting human rights for Palestinians, an end to the occupation, and a free Palestine.A Guide To the Current Crisis in Israel/Palestine from Jewish CurrentsDecolonize Palestine, an independent, self-funded project founded by two Palestinians living in RamallahDifficult Conversations about Israel and Palestine from Jewish Voice for PeaceThe Hundred Years' War on Palestine: A History of Settler Colonialism and Resistance, 1917–2017 by Rashid Khalidi-- In this episode, we answer your questions about friendship. We talk about how to deal when you don’t like your friend’s partner, how and when to have courageous conversations, and dealing with unwanted vaccination advice from friends. We weren’t able to get to all of the awesome questions we got, so we will definitely be recording a second installment!This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: Thunder ForceLipton iced tea (+ a bonus recipe!)

In this episode, we talk all about how to construct apologies that sincerely express empathy, regret for having messed up, and a promise to do better in the future. Once you’ve taken the time to really think about what you’re saying and why you’re saying it, offering a solid apology isn’t so elusive. We also talk about getting better at receiving apologies, an oft-overlooked aspect of the apology process. P.S. On an upcoming episode we will be answering your questions about friendships—starting them, ending them, maintaining them, etc. If you have a question or need advice (or want to hear our thoughts about being or having a friend in 2021), we want you to ask us. Email us your question at OhILikeThatpod@gmail.com. Or you can record a voice memo and send that to us at OhILikeThatpod@gmail.com, and we will play your memo in the episode. Just make sure you tell us your name (and if you’re writing in, please let us know how to pronounce it) and your pronouns. If you want to submit a question anonymously or would like to send us a voice memo but not have it played on the air, just let us know that too!This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about: How to apologize Like a Goddamn Adult by Sally for BuzzFeedThe Five Ingredients of an Effective Apology by Guy Winch, PhDWhy Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts by Harriet LernerThe Apology Language QuizThe Five Languages of Apology by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas The 5 Love LanguagesBoring Books for Bedtime podcastEveryday Dinners: Real-Life Recipes to Set Your Family Up for a Week of Success: A Cookbook by Jessica Merchant

On an upcoming episode, we will be answering your questions about friendships—starting them, ending them, maintaining them, etc. If you have a question or need advice (or want to hear our thoughts about being or having a friend in 2021), we want you to ask us. Email us your question at OhILikeThatpod@gmail.com. Or you can record a voice memo and send that to us at OhILikeThatpod@gmail.com, and we will play your memo in the episode. Just make sure you tell us your name (and if you’re writing in, please let us know how to pronounce it) and your pronouns. If you want to submit a question anonymously or would like to send us a voice memo but not have it played on the air, just let us know that too!This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.

Note: Because of our recording schedule, we didn’t talk in this episode about Daunte Wright, a 20-year-old Black man, was fatally shot by a police officer in Brooklyn Center, Minneapolis-St. Paul area, MN. To support Daunte Wright’s girlfriend, Chyna, and son, Daunte Jr., check out this post from @holisticheaux, who is in direct contact with and collecting funds for them. And if you need it, here’s Rachel’s VICE piece, Self-Care Tips for Black People Who Are Really Going Through It Right Now. -Here in the U.S. it’s looking like enough people will be vaccinated by summer that we’ll be able to do at least some of the stuff we’ve been missing since the pandemic started last year. But the idea of socializing like we did Before feels….overwhelming. This week, we talk about how we’re planning on approaching re-entry. We also discuss some of the online discourse about this moment in the pandemic, as well as post-pandemic friend breakups.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about“The Nanny” on HBO MaxHouse Hunting by Todd HidoThis thread which starts kinda iffy but goes somewhere interestingA post from Ask a Manager that we didn’t mention but that is very good and related to lots of what we discussed in this episode

Recent polling reveals that about 41% of people care a medium amount about their birthdays. So where does this leave the 23% of people who are indifferent to their birthdays? And the 23% of people who care a huge amount about their birthdays? We get into all of it in this episode. We discuss our own feelings about birthdays and posit some theories about why birthdays can be such a polarizing subject, and get into the often-divisive topic of the “birthday adult.”Also, check out two previous episodes where we touched on some birthday- and birthday celebration-related topics: Great Gifts and How to Give Them (Episode 5) and Staying In and Getting Through It (Episode 4).This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutDutch Birthday calendarPerpetual birthday calendars on Etsy"The Orange Years" trailerCaptain Awkward's Birthday Blues Bulletin Board: Advice + Open Thread

A quick note from us: We recorded this episode before March 17th, when eight people, six of them women of Asian descent, were murdered in an act of anti-Asian, misogynist, white supremacist violence in Atlanta.  Join us in standing against white supremacy in all its forms and taking action in solidarity with AAPI communities. Here are orgs to follow and support, and things to read for more information: National Asian Pacific American Women’s ForumRed Canary SongTwitter thread from Lisa Lowe (@driftinghouse) of more anti-carceral, anti-policing orgs to supportTwitter thread from Jenny Yang (@jennyyangtv) with the names of the people who were murdered along with pronunciations--It’s been a year of staying in, staying masked, staying on Zoom, and also kinda staying sad/angry/anxious. Even though Spring is almost here and vaccines are rolling out, we thought it might be a good time to talk about what the last year has been like. We basically go month by month and chat about what we were thinking and feeling throughout the pandemic. Then we talk about the habits we picked up this year that we hope to bring into our post-pandemic lives, and share our extremely cautious optimism about the year ahead.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about:"Come to My Garden" (1970) by Minnie Riperton

It’s March! And that means we are legally required to talk about spring cleaning. Granted, neither of us are big spring cleaners, but that’s because we’re pretty committed year-round, clean-as-we-goers. And, oh boy, could we talk endlessly about our favorite products and tips for cleaning and organizing. But for now, we’ll just start with a single episode.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutDyson V6 Cordless Easy Repair - Starts and Stops, PulsatesDeep-Cleaning Videos Are Getting GrosserI Swear By This Cheap Dupe For Magic Erasers by Tom Vellner for BuzzFeedAn ode to my two favorite stain removers by Rachel for Just Good ShitSo, you should really be using a rinse aid in your dishwasher by Rachel for Just Good ShitThe Magic Cabinet family of productsSmall brush set for cleaning keyboards and other household nooks and cranniesMr. Clean Magic EraserAny One of These 15 Small Habits Will Make You a “Clean as You Go” Person by Shifrah Combiths for Apartment TherapyI Tried Shutting Down My Kitchen Every Night for a Week — Here’s What Happened Ella Cerón for Apartment TherapySesame Street’s iconic Making Crayons videoA gentle revisit of a recording session from 1978 (for the Making Crayons video)IKEA Kallax shelf unit

You might have noticed we took a week off. Well, that's because Rachel was recovering from a mild case of COVID. Now we're back, and we decided to use this episode to talk about what it was like to test positive and what "mild" COVID even is. We also talked about which aspects of having COVID were the most surprising, and what was particularly helpful during her recovery.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutRachel’s post on her blog Just Good Shit about having COVIDHydr-8 32-oz. water bottleSpoonful of Comfort How to manage post-viral fatigue after COVID-19

Now that we’re nine episodes in, it felt like a perfect time to answer some get-to-know-you questions so that you can learn a bit more about us. We talk about our first jobs, what we’re reading right now, how we like our eggs, and much more. Also, this is the episode where we prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that the right icebreakers can be a lot of fun (when deployed properly). This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutThe 25 best icebreaker questions for team-building at workThe surprise reunion of Sally and Janeane GarofaloBecause We Can, an ongoing series about making politics a practice, even when there isn’t a national election looming (Vice)The Lies of Locke Lamora by Scott LynchJust Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan StevensonExerpeutic Folding Magnetic Upright Exercise Bike with Pulse

In this episode, we talk all about our favorite ways to prevent and deal with unforeseen dangers and possible accidents in the home. We promise it’s actually a pretty fun topic! As self-proclaimed safetyheads, we couldn’t be more excited to talk not only about all of our favorite safety-related tips, tricks, and methods, but also to explore the origins of our respective passions for living that safety life.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked about“Crafting Accidents” (At Home with Amy Sedaris)Super Elastic Bubble PlasticHow to Clean With Bleach During Coronavirus by Rachel Miller for ViceSaline wound washPlants that are toxic to catsThe Best Fire Escape Ladder by Doug Mahoney for WirecutterHome Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House by Cheryl Mendelson Knit a Hat: A Beginner's Guide to Knitting by Alanna Okun

Happy romjul, everyone! That’s right, it’s the week between Christmas and New Year’s, which means it’s a great time to reflect on the year we’ve had. 2020 has been….a lot. But there were bright spots—like the things we read, watched, listened to, and delighted in. Some things made us laugh, others helped us reflect, learn, and think, and others were great simply for passing the time gently. We get into all of it here!This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutRomjulHow To with John WilsonMy Mustache, My Self by Wesley MorrisCheerJerry Harris Pleads Not Guilty in Child-Pornography Case (NYT)Architectural Digest home toursThe 'RuPaul's Drag Race' Universe Is Adding Color to My Drab Quarantine LifeThe ReagansDisco ElysiumCalifornia Love hosted by Walter Thompson-HernándezAre Prisons Obsolete? by Angela DavisQueers in Love at the End of the World by Anna Anthropy Walnut shell cat litterSock Fancy masksRoku Mobile appWooden TV traysUnscented taper candlesHouse clogs (Crocs, Calzuros, Dansko, Birks)Baggu masksMy Best New Year's Eve Was The One I Spent Home Alone Making A Listmy life is a movie (Spotify playlist)

It’s still gift-giving season so we’re still talking about giving and receiving gifts. In this episode, we’re reading and discussing two recent gift-related posts from the Am I The Asshole? subreddit, and digging into how habits and values around gift-giving and receiving show up in different relationships. Then we do our first ever listener mailbag segment and read emails from people who have written in to share their own recommendations with us.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutAITA for telling my fiancé that I don't want anymore of his handmade Christmas gifts?AITA for returning all the presents I got and buying my own because I’m tired of receiving what I feel are thoughtless gifts from everyone?Gift guides on Rachel’s blog Just Good ShitDishoom: The First Ever Cookbook from the Much-Loved Indian RestaurantP.F. Candle Co.Paint the Town by NumbersReMix Waffle MixJust Date SyrupHanx Writer

Now that it’s December, a lot of people are thinking about a topic we like to obsess about year round: gifts. Giving them, receiving them, gift etiquette, gift guides, you name it. If it’s gift-related, we’re interested in it. In this episode we’ll talk about our own Grand Unified Theory of Gift Guides and how to use them, as well as some of our all-time favorite crowd pleasing gifts to give. We also discuss our best practices for keeping gift exchanges chill, fun, and reasonably drama-free.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutMike’s Hot HoneyThe ComfyAmped Fleece Throw Blanket (Urban Outfitters)Smartwool socks Maldon sea salt Tony’s ChocoloneyWinning Solutions Linen Bookshelf Games6 Easy Holiday Gifts You Can Give Everyone In Your SquadSoda bread that Sally madeNoel (Caity Weaver’s Christmas music playlist)Nightline, an atmospheric subway riding experiencePlaces to buy gifts that we mentionedFishs EddySociety6CameoEtsy

With COVID-19 transmission rates ramping up all over the country, we’re continuing to hunker down in our homes—and lots of folks are doing the same, or are returning to the stay-at-home lifestyle of the spring of 2020. Because no person can live on Netflix and Zoom get-togethers alone, we’re going to talk about creative ideas for making time at home feel just a bit more special. We’ll discuss throwing at-home pop-up events (Oktoberfest, beach day) and turning your space in the places in the world you especially miss, like coffee shops, bars, and movie theaters. We’ll also talk about an accessible way to get into coffee nerdery.This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.Things we talked aboutCOVID-19 Event Risk Assessment Planning ToolCraft Coffee: A Manual: Brewing a Better Cup at Home by Jessica EastoClever Coffee DripperHere’s How To Make Really Goddamn Good Coffee At Home by SallyThis is the Romantic Gesture of Quarantine by Katie HeaneyFree templates for at-home events (menus, tickets, signage)In Nancy Meyers' Kitchen Spotify playlistCustom airbrush T-shirtsLauren Martin’s art and phone backgrounds