The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly Watts challenges the deeply ingrained belief that we must “start over” any time we slip up in our habit change journey—especially when it comes to drinking. Drawing from neuroscience, behavior psychology, and the Alcohol Minimalist framework, Molly explains why this mindset is not only emotionally unhelpful but also neurologically inaccurate.Listeners will learn how to reframe off-plan moments not as failures, but as meaningful data points that contribute to long-term growth and brain change. Whether it's drinking, eating, spending, or any behavior you're trying to shift, this episode offers an empowering new narrative: you are not behind, you are evolving.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why the idea of “starting over” is a product of traditional recovery models like Alcoholics AnonymousHow the AA concept of relapse and abstinence has shaped our cultural view of success and failureWhy your brain doesn't erase progress, but rather integrates and learns from each experienceHow to shift away from shame and into self-compassion without compromising growthThe role of automaticity in habit formation, according to Dr. Wendy WoodHow the brain builds resilience through “returning,” not perfectionA 3-step process to reframe setbacks and keep moving forwardKey Concepts & Tools:The Iterative Mindset – Growth is not linear; it's a spiral of adjustment and awarenessPause the Narrative – Catch the story you're telling yourself about failureName the Learning – Reflect on the experience with curiosity, not blameMake a Micro-Move – Realign in the moment with one small actionNeuroplasticity – Your brain is always adapting; no step is wastedSelf-Compassion Science – Dr. Kristin Neff's research shows kind self-talk leads to more consistent behavior changeReferenced Episode:Think Thursday: The Iterative Mindset Takeaway Quote:“Let's drop the idea of Day One. You are not behind. You are learning. You are aligning. You are leading your brain—one choice at a time.” ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode SummaryIn this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly dives into one of the most challenging but common scenarios: staying committed to your goals when everyone else around you is celebrating with alcohol. As summer ramps up—bringing with it weddings, barbecues, vacations, and concerts—the social pressure to drink can feel stronger than ever.Molly explores the neuroscience behind our desire to fit in, how FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) hijacks our behavior, and why choosing intentionality over impulsivity can feel so hard—but is absolutely doable. She shares mindset tools, practical planning strategies, and science-backed techniques to help you enjoy life fully without sacrificing your peace or self-trust.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why our brains are wired for social belonging—and how that impacts drinking decisionsWhat Solomon Asch's conformity studies reveal about peer pressureHow FOMO combines scarcity and shame (and how to spot it)Ways to shift your thinking from “missing out” to “building something better”Four brain-based tools you can use to feel more confident at social eventsThe power of novelty in rewiring the brain's reward systemHow to ground yourself in the moment and align with your long-term goalsTools & Concepts Discussed:Play the Movie to the End – visualizing the real outcomes of drinking off-planIf–Then Planning – a simple framework to prepare for triggers ahead of timeDistanced Self-Talk – how using your name can help regulate your emotionsGrounding Techniques – practices to stay present and calm in the momentThe Behavior Map – Alcohol Minimalist's foundational tool for changeNovelty as a Catalyst – why small, intentional changes can shift how you feelIdentity-Based Decisions – aligning your choices with who you are becomingReferenced Think Thursday Episode:“The Brain Loves Novelty—Use It to Reinvent Summer” — a short companion episode on how newness boosts engagement, motivation, and brain health.Mentioned Resources:Drink Less Success: More Dry July – Molly's 31-day email program + live coaching Takeaway Quote:“Peace isn't about perfect behavior. It's about aligned behavior. It's about becoming someone who desires alcohol less—even when the world around you doesn't.”If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone you love. And remember: peace is the goal—not perfection.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this insightful Think Thursday episode, Molly dives into the surprising power of novelty and how it can support meaningful behavior change. While consistency remains a cornerstone of habit transformation, Molly explores how introducing small shifts in your routine can re-engage the brain, disrupt unhelpful patterns, and open new pathways for intentional living—especially during seasonal transitions like summer.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why novelty activates the brain's dopaminergic reward system and what that means for motivation and attention.How neuroplasticity supports lasting change—and why new experiences help strengthen it.The paradox of the brain craving both efficiency and stimulation, and how you can work with this tension to support your goals.Why seasonal changes, like summer, naturally disrupt routines and how that disruption can become a tool for habit change.Key Takeaways:Shift Your Sensory Cues Change what you see, hear, smell, taste, and feel. Rearrange a workspace, change your walking route, or experiment with new mocktails. Novel sensory input breaks habitual patterns and opens the door to mindfulness.Run Mini Experiments Instead of overhauling everything, try low-pressure, short-term changes like replacing your evening drink with a new non-alcoholic option for a few days. Observe how it feels rather than focusing on outcomes.Leverage Seasonal Disruption Use the natural shifts of summer—lighter evenings, altered schedules, and more outdoor time—to gently reframe routines and rewrite old stories connected to alcohol.Mentioned in This Episode:Dr. Andrew Huberman on novelty and neuroplasticityDr. Wendy Wood's work on habit change and context shiftsMolly's “dopamine-driving” summer playlist Final Thoughts: Novelty doesn't have to mean a complete transformation. Often, the smallest shifts provide the greatest openings for change. Use this summer as your mini reinvention lab—a season to experiment with new patterns, and to gently interrupt the old narratives that no longer serve you. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary: We're officially halfway through the year, and today's episode is your invitation to pause, check in, and realign. If you're feeling like you've drifted from your intentions around alcohol—or life in general—this isn't about judgment. It's about awareness. Molly introduces a powerful, science-informed tool called the PEACE Self-Audit to guide your mid-year reflection and help you gently reassess where you are and where you want to go.This episode ties back to a recent Think Thursday episode on values alignment and burnout, highlighting how the gap between our professed and practiced values can impact our emotional and physical well-being. Through five thoughtful prompts—Progress, Emotions, Alignment, Consistency, and Expectations—you'll reconnect with your goals and reclaim your power to move forward with peace.What You'll Learn:Why the midpoint of the year is a psychologically powerful time to reflectThe meaning of cognitive dissonance and how it shows up in our habitsHow to use emotions as data instead of judgmentWhy values alignment is essential for lasting change (including a callback to a Think Thursday episode)How habit science supports small, consistent actions over big overhaulsThe difference between expectations rooted in growth vs. shameReferenced Framework: PEACE Self-AuditP – Progress: Recognizing small wins and the “Progress Principle” (Dr. Teresa Amabile)E – Emotions: Understanding emotional states as behavior signals (Dr. Marc Brackett, Yale)A – Alignment: Exploring congruence between values and behavior (Self-Determination Theory)C – Consistency: Anchoring change in repetition, not perfection (Dr. BJ Fogg, Charles Duhigg)E – Expectations: Shifting mindset around what success looks like (Dr. Carol Dweck)Mentioned In This Episode:Download the PEACE Self-Audit PDFThink Thursday episode: “Why Burnout Lives in the Gap Between Your Professed & Practiced Values”Sunnyside App – Start your 15-day free trialResources for Continued Support:Making Peace with Alcohol Group CoachingIf this episode resonated with you, share it with someone you love. And remember: peace is the goal—not perfection.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this short and powerful Think Thursday episode, Molly explores a feeling we all face—discomfort—and why it's so often misunderstood. Rather than being a sign that something's gone wrong, discomfort is often evidence that change is happening.Through the lens of neuroscience and personal insight, you'll learn why your lower brain instinctively resists unfamiliar experiences, how to engage your higher brain to override outdated fear responses, and why discomfort is a natural and even necessary part of learning and growth.You'll Learn:Why the lower brain (your survival brain) misinterprets discomfort as dangerHow the motivational triad (seek pleasure, avoid pain, conserve energy) works against growthWhat Dr. Andrew Huberman says about friction and neuroplasticityWhy Dr. Jo Boaler's research shows that struggle is the best signal of brain developmentA simple mindset shift: how curiosity builds resilienceKey Quote: “Discomfort isn't a red flag. It's a signal to stay curious. It means your brain is being asked to grow. And while your lower brain might resist, your higher brain is ready.”Referenced Experts:Dr. Andrew Huberman – Neuroscientist, Stanford UniversityDr. Jo Boaler – Author of Limitless Mind, Stanford UniversityResources Mentioned:Listen to my conversation with Dr. Jo BoalerJoin the Community: Looking for more support in changing your habits and building peace with your mind and choices? Join our private Facebook group:  Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking HabitsWork With Molly: Explore coaching programs and courses at:  www.mollywatts.com ★ Support this podcast ★

If you've ever said, “I just don't have the discipline,” or wondered why it feels so hard to follow through on your intentions—this episode will help you understand what's really going on in your brain.Molly takes a science-forward look at dopamine, the neurotransmitter that drives motivation, pleasure, and effort. With insights from Dr. Andrew Huberman and Dr. Anna Lembke (Dopamine Nation), she shares why alcohol's unnatural impact on dopamine matters and how to support your brain's reward system as you change your drinking habits.This episode doesn't prescribe one-size-fits-all advice. Instead, it offers useful frameworks, practical tools, and a compassionate perspective on how to manage dopamine to support motivation and self-discipline—without relying on willpower alone.In this episode, you'll learn:Why dopamine isn't just about pleasure—it's the foundation of motivation and effortHow alcohol hijacks the dopamine system and rewires your brain's reward pathwaysSix key strategies to stabilize dopamine and strengthen self-discipline, including:Avoiding the layering of high-dopamine activitiesDelaying rewards to build intrinsic motivationStarting your day without artificial dopamine spikesUsing movement and gratitude to raise baseline dopamineWhy Molly didn't start with a 30-day break—and why gradual change still worksHow to think critically about neuroscience trends online while staying curious about your own brainThe importance of working with your brain rather than against itResources and Links:Listen to the episode with Dr. Anna Lembke: Dopamine Nation Go back to Think Thursday: Understanding Dopamine Learn more about Making Peace with Alcohol, the 12-month group coaching experienceGet started with a free trial of Sunnyside www.sunnyside.co/mollyStay Connected:Have questions or want support applying what you heard today?Reach out to Molly directly at molly@mollywatts.comYou don't need more willpower. You need the right tools—and a way to work with your brain. ★ Support this podcast ★

Welcome to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, where we explore the power of your brilliant human brain. In this episode, we're revisiting the very first Think Thursday conversation. If you're new to the series or need a powerful reminder of just how capable you are of creating change, this episode is a must-listen.Molly is taking a brief pause this week, making it the perfect opportunity to revisit the core concept that sparked Think Thursdays—how your mindset literally changes your brain.This episode explores one of the most exciting and empowering discoveries in neuroscience: neuroplasticity. It's the science that explains how your thoughts and beliefs influence the physical structure of your brain, ultimately shaping your habits and behaviors.What You'll Learn:How your brain is constantly reshaping itself based on your thoughts and actionsWhy the belief that you can change is essential for rewiring your brainWhat a growth mindset looks like—and how it supports lasting changeWhy old patterns feel so automatic, and how to replace them without willpowerThe neuroscience behind habit formation, including synaptic pruningHow to start shifting your internal dialogue to align with your goalsKey Insight:Your thoughts are not just passive ideas floating in your mind. They are the foundation for the physical structure of your brain. When you change your mindset, you change your brain's wiring. That's not motivational fluff—it's science.If you've ever felt stuck in your drinking habit or frustrated by how hard it is to make a change, this episode will give you both the understanding and encouragement to try again—this time, with your brain on your side.Listen With Intention:Whether your drink of choice today is alcoholic or not, make it a moment to sit with this episode and reflect on the habits you're reinforcing—and the new ones you're ready to build.Additional Resources:Explore Molly's book, Breaking the Bottle LegacyJoin the Alcohol Minimalists private community on FacebookFinal Note:Lasting change doesn't come from gritting your teeth. It comes from training your brain to make the new habit easier than the old one. This episode lays the groundwork for doing exactly that. ★ Support this podcast ★

In honor of Memorial Day Weekend in the U.S., we're revisiting a popular episode that dives into the practicalities of drinking like an alcohol minimalist. If you've ever wondered what the day-to-day approach looks like or how to create a plan that helps you drink less and worry less, this episode is for you.Molly shares actionable tips and strategies that go beyond theory. She breaks down how alcohol minimalists navigate drinking decisions with intention and how the Alcohol Minimalist approach differs from other moderation-based communities.In this episode, you'll learn:What it really means to be an alcohol minimalistWhy planning ahead of time is a tool for empowerment, not restrictionHow to create an alcohol plan that aligns with your long-term goals and reinforces your autonomyTactical guidance for drinking more mindfully and with less anxiety, including:Choosing lower alcohol-by-volume (ABV) optionsManaging mixers and understanding how caffeine interacts with alcoholHow to split one drink into two by making simple swapsScience Meets Strategy:This episode reflects the heart of the Alcohol Minimalist philosophy—science-based strategies paired with practical tools to help you shift habits and thinking patterns. With relatable stories and a dose of science, Molly shows that making alcohol a non-factor is not only possible but peaceful.Quote from the Episode:“Changing your drinking habits starts with how you think about alcohol. Your plan isn't punishment—it's proof of your power.”Links and Resources:Get your copy of Breaking the Bottle LegacyJoin the free Facebook community: Alcohol Minimalists - Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Welcome to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast — where we take a moment to pause, reflect, and recalibrate. This week, we're honoring Mental Health Awareness Month by digging into a powerful insight from Brené Brown:“The space between our professed values and our practiced values is where burnout lives.”In this episode, Molly explores what that space looks like in everyday life and why it might be the real reason behind your emotional exhaustion — not just your schedule.You'll hear:Why busyness has become a badge of honor in our cultureA personal story about raising four boys and how a simple narrative shift changed everythingThe difference between behavioral misalignment and mental misalignmentHow to identify the gap between your actions and your valuesA 3-step reflection practice to gently bring your life back into alignmentIf you're feeling off, overwhelmed, or like you're going through the motions — this episode will help you reconnect with what really matters.Reflection PromptWhat's one value I say I care about — and what's one small way I can actually live it this week?Write it down. Let it guide you.Links Mentionedhttps://www.valuescentre.com/pva (optional paid resource Molly references for identifying your top values)Join the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook Group for deeper discussionEmail Molly directly: molly@mollywatts.com ★ Support this podcast ★

Memorial Day weekend often marks the unofficial start of summer—and for many, it can also signal the return of old drinking patterns. In this episode, Molly explores how to approach holiday weekends with clarity, confidence, and a sense of peace—whether you plan to drink or not.You'll learn:Why holidays feel neurologically “loaded” and how nostalgia and social cues activate habit loops.How mindfulness disrupts old behavior patterns and quiets negative mental chatter by downregulating the Default Mode Network.The neuroscience of craving and why anticipation creates more dopamine than the drink itself.What to do if you overdrink—and how to reframe it without spiraling into guilt.Three planning prompts to help you stay intentional and proud through Monday and beyond.Whether it's your first alcohol-free Memorial Day or just another chance to practice moderation, this episode will help you prepare your mind, your habits, and your heart for a peaceful summer.Referenced Experts & Resources:Dr. Jud Brewer, neuroscientist & author of Unwinding Anxiety and The Craving Mind Listen to my interview with Dr. Jud Brewer →Dr. Anna Lembke, psychiatrist & author of Dopamine Nation Listen to my interview with Dr. Anna Lembke →Key Takeaway: You're not required to drink to have fun. You're not obligated to say yes to anything you don't want. Your relationship with alcohol is yours to define—especially on holiday weekends.Join the Conversation: Come join our private Facebook community: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking HabitsWork With Molly: Ready for deeper transformation? Learn more about my coaching programs and resources at:

In this deeply honest and science-backed episode, Molly explores a topic that often gets misunderstood in the world of personal development: toxic positivity. While optimism, hope, and gratitude are powerful tools for creating a more peaceful relationship with alcohol—and life in general—Molly dives into the real science of why ignoring negative emotions does more harm than good.Learn how suppressing your feelings can lead to stress overload, impaired decision-making, and disconnection, and how true emotional resilience means feeling your emotions, not avoiding them.What You'll Learn:Why toxic positivity isn't helpful (and can actually be harmful)What happens in your brain when you suppress emotionsHow emotional suppression affects your mental and physical healthThe difference between emotional resilience and emotional repressionA powerful, practical method to process emotions with the Four S Belief System:See – Gain awareness of what you're thinking and feeling.Soothe – Offer self-compassion and calm your nervous system.Separate – Distinguish between facts and the story your brain is telling you.Shift – Choose small, believable thoughts that help you move forward.Takeaway Message: You don't have to fake being okay. Feeling your emotions fully and honestly is what allows your brain to process them and grow your resilience. It's not about avoiding discomfort—it's about learning to navigate it with care.Let's Practice Together: Take a deep breath and ask yourself: Where have I been pushing myself to stay positive instead of allowing myself to feel honestly? Your emotional truth is the beginning of your clarity.Resources & Links:Learn more about the Four S Belief System inside Molly's programs: mollywatts.comFree E-book: Alcohol Truths – How Much Is Safe?Connect with Molly on Instagram: @alcoholminimalistSubscribe & Review: If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it really helps others discover the podcast! ★ Support this podcast ★

In this timely episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, host Molly Watts takes a deep dive into a public health conversation that few people are having—but everyone should be listening to. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, Molly tackles the proliferation of legal but dangerously unregulated mood-altering substances that are readily available at gas stations, vape shops, and convenience stores.From kratom and delta-8 THC to nitrous oxide and nicotine salts, Molly explains how these substances affect the brain, the risks they pose (especially to teens and young adults), and why they are anything but harmless. She shares critical scientific insights on how these substances hijack brain chemistry and emotional resilience—and why genuine peace doesn't come from a bottle, capsule, or vape pen.This episode is both educational and urgent, equipping listeners with the awareness needed to protect themselves and their communities.What You'll Learn:The science behind substances like kratom, Neptune, phenibut, delta-8 THC, and othersWhy these products are addictive—even when marketed as “natural” or “legal”The impact these substances have on dopamine, glutamate, GABA, and acetylcholine systemsWhy teen brains are especially vulnerableHow these substances are a false solution to emotional distressA call to rethink how we cope, connect, and seek calm in a chaotic worldKey Quote: “We are living in a world where brain-altering substances are being sold next to chewing gum—and we are not prepared. But we can be.”Mentioned in the Episode:Mental Health Awareness MonthThe importance of internal emotional regulationMolly's reflections on her mother's struggles and legacyResources to support your journey to peace with alcohol—and beyondIf you found this episode eye-opening, please consider sharing it with a friend, parent, or community leader. These conversations matter—and they start with awareness.Website: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, host Molly Watts explores the transformative mental health benefits of self-transcendence.After recently visiting the South Rim of the Grand Canyon for the first time, Molly shares her personal experience of awe and expansion, describing how moments of transcendence can shift perspective, lighten emotional burdens, and promote mental well-being.Drawing from Abraham Maslow's later work on human needs, Molly explains why self-transcendence sits above self-actualization as the highest human goal. She discusses how practices that cultivate transcendence — like connecting with nature, practicing gratitude, serving others, experiencing awe, and mindful meditation — can help individuals move beyond rumination, stress, and loneliness.Listeners will come away with practical strategies for creating small moments of transcendence in everyday life, even without traveling to iconic locations like the Grand Canyon. Molly issues a weekly challenge to encourage listeners to experience the power of stepping outside of themselves and into a deeper connection with the world around them.This episode is part of a special Mental Health Awareness Month series and continues the Alcohol Minimalist commitment to science-based strategies for building a more peaceful, mindful life.Topics Covered:Defining self-transcendence and why it matters for mental healthMolly's Grand Canyon experience as a personal example of peak experienceHow Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs evolved to include self-transcendenceThe role of transcendence in countering anxiety, depression, and ruminationFive daily practices for cultivating transcendenceResources and Links:Join the Alcohol Minimalists Facebook GroupWork with MollyRelated Episodes:The Science of AweIf you enjoy the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, please share the show with a friend, leave a review on your favorite podcast platform, and connect with Molly Watts on Instagram and Facebook. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Molly revisits a listener favorite: Undoing the Urge to Overdrink — a heartfelt and informative conversation first shared just before Thanksgiving 2023. Molly reflects on how emotional triggers, life events, and deeply rooted habits shape our relationship with alcohol — and how we can interrupt the cycle to create lasting change.Molly also shares a poignant personal moment, connecting the episode's theme with the anniversary of her father's passing on Thanksgiving night in 2022, making this revisited conversation especially meaningful.This episode coincides with the launch of Just One More, Molly's new two-week mini-course aimed at helping binge drinkers take the first powerful step toward a peaceful relationship with alcohol. (Sign-ups are open now! Check the link in the show notes.)Key Topics Covered:Defining Overdrinking and Binge Drinking: Molly clarifies what constitutes a binge for women (4+ standard drinks) and men (5+ standard drinks) — emphasizing why even gradual consumption across a day still counts as overdrinking.Impact of Overdrinking Beyond Intoxication: How even without reaching a "drunk" state, overdrinking disrupts sleep, elevates anxiety, taxes the liver, and triggers inflammatory responses.Holiday Drinking Traps: Common ways Thanksgiving and other holidays can lull us into overdrinking patterns — and why "spreading it out" doesn't negate its negative effects.Personal Reflections on Thanksgiving: Molly shares her experience navigating family-induced stress (especially dealing with her mother-in-law's anxiety) without turning to alcohol, highlighting the importance of mind management.The Cycle of Overdrinking: Breaking down the behavioral patterns and emotional triggers that drive overdrinking — and how building awareness interrupts the urge before it turns into action.Tools for Undoing the Urge: Molly emphasizes key strategies:Practicing mindfulness during urgesChoosing empathy over resentment in stressful family situationsReframing thoughts to shift emotional responsesFocusing on gratitude and emotional resilienceImportant Reminder: Changing your drinking habits isn't just about counting days — it's about understanding your brain, managing your mind, and creating a lifestyle of peace and intentionality.Featured Resource: Just One More A two-week mini-program designed to help binge drinkers interrupt old patterns and create a sustainable path toward mindful drinking.  Sign up here (link in the show notes)Connect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.comFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this week's Think Thursday episode, we explore an unexpectedly powerful topic: the science of smiling. Is being a "natural smiler" something you're born with? Can smiling actively improve your mood, or is it just a reflection of how you feel?And what role does a simple grin play in rewiring your brain for resilience, positivity, and emotional peace?Molly dives into the research on genetic influences on smiling, the concept of the facial feedback loop, and the emotional benefits of practicing intentional smiles. You'll also hear a heartwarming story about how even our beloved dogs have evolved to smile at us—showcasing the profound social importance of smiling across species. If you're interested in learning how a small daily action can contribute to building emotional resilience and improving your relationship with alcohol, this episode is for you.Key Topics Discussed:Is being a "natural smiler" genetic or learned?How smiling activates dopamine, serotonin, and endorphinsThe Facial Feedback Hypothesis: influencing emotions through physical expressionsSmiling as a low-stakes, daily practice for emotional regulationHow dogs evolved to recognize and return human smilesWhy mindful smiling can be a strategic habit change toolWhy It Matters for Alcohol Minimalists: Creating small, intentional shifts in behavior—such as practicing a mindful smile—supports the larger work of reshaping your relationship with alcohol. It's about using neuroscience-backed techniques to create positive feedback loops in your brain, promoting calmness, resilience, and emotional flexibility.Notable Quotes:"Genetics sets the stage, but your environment writes the story.""Smiling isn't just a reflection of how we feel—it actively creates our mood.""Dogs smiling back at us is a beautiful example of how emotional connection transcends species."Take Action This Week:Practice mindful smiling when you wake up in the morning, even before any external circumstances influence your mood.Try smiling intentionally when encountering minor irritations to train your brain toward a more resilient emotional response.Reflect on where you might use a simple smile to interrupt old emotional habits and create a new feedback loop.Join the Conversation:Follow Molly on Instagram: @alcoholminimalistJoin the Alcohol Minimalists private Facebook group for additional support.Subscribe & Review:If you're enjoying the podcast, please consider leaving a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps more people discover the show! ★ Support this podcast ★

Welcome (or welcome back!) to the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast with your host, Molly Watts, coming to you from salubrious Oregon!In this final episode for Alcohol Awareness Month, Molly gets personal and shares the three major ways her drinking habits — and more importantly, her thinking about alcohol — have evolved over the years.This isn't just about counting drinks or cutting back to a “magical low number.” It's about creating peace with alcohol and living intentionally. Molly dives into how shifting from automatic drinking to intentional, mindful drinking has been the cornerstone of her transformation. She also introduces her brand-new mini-program, Just One More, designed to help you rewire the "binge brain" for vacations, weekends, and parties where overdrinking used to sneak in.If you're looking for inspiration and actionable strategies to rethink your relationship with alcohol, you won't want to miss this episode.Key Takeaways:Intentionality over Autopilot: Molly explains how she shifted from drinking mindlessly to making conscious, purposeful decisions about alcohol.Alcohol as an Option, Not a Solution: She no longer uses alcohol to solve problems or enhance experiences — vacations and celebrations are about the moments, not the drinks.Freedom Through Planning: Rather than feeling restrictive, planning her alcohol consumption ahead of time actually brings freedom and protects her long-term goals.New Program Launch! Get the inside scoop on the upcoming mini-program, Just One More, launching May 6th — perfect for anyone who struggles with binge drinking during "special occasions."Resources Mentioned:Just One MoreWebsite: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Have you ever said to yourself, “This habit feels unbreakable”?Whether it's procrastination, nighttime snacking, or pouring that end-of-day drink, it often feels like these behaviors are wired into our identity. But what if the real thing holding you back isn't the habit itself—but the story you're telling yourself about it?In this Think Thursday episode, we're exploring why some habits feel impossible to change—and why negative self-talk might be quietly reinforcing the loop. We'll unpack the science behind the negativity bias, the way your brain treats repeated thoughts as evidence, and how to finally start rewriting the narrative using the 4-S New Belief System.This is the real work—not just changing what you do, but changing what you believe is possible for you.What You'll Learn:Why your brain defaults to old habits even when they no longer serve youHow the negativity bias evolved—and how it keeps you hyper-focused on mistakesWhat research tells us about the impact of self-critical thinking on behavior changeWhy the story you tell yourself becomes the blueprint for your identityA step-by-step breakdown of the 4-S New Belief System:See the beliefSoothe the inner criticSeparate fact from fictionShift into a next-best thoughtMentioned in the Episode:Clinical Psychology Review (2010): Research on negative self-talk and health outcomesJournal of Behavioral Medicine: Study linking self-talk to follow-through and stressThe Alcohol Minimalists Facebook Group – Join hereMaking Peace with Alcohol Group Coaching ★ Support this podcast ★

In this compelling episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly reconnects with Katie Lain, founder of Thrive Alcohol Recovery, to explore the power of neuroscience-based strategies for changing your relationship with alcohol. Katie shares her personal recovery story and how the Sinclair Method, a treatment protocol that uses the medication naltrexone, gave her a new lease on life.This conversation goes beyond the medication to highlight the vital role of mindset, habit formation, and long-term commitment to behavior change. Molly and Katie discuss the real-world challenges people face in recovery, the importance of self-compassion, and how small, sustainable steps create the most lasting transformation.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How the Sinclair Method works and why it's effective for both binge and daily drinkersWhy medication is a support tool, not a standalone solutionThe mental space that opens up when cravings start to fadeThe average timeline to regain control and build a peaceful relationship with alcoholUnique challenges for binge drinkers, including compliance and thought patternsThe critical importance of mindset and identifying unconscious beliefsWhat to expect on the journey: setbacks, progress, and learning to keep goingWhy self-compassion and curiosity are non-negotiables for long-term changeKey Message: Naltrexone can be a powerful part of the journey, but it must be paired with thought work, intentional habit-building, and a willingness to take small steps forward—even after setbacks. There is no one-size-fits-all approach, and both Molly and Katie emphasize that you don't have to wait until alcohol becomes a serious problem to start creating change.Resources Mentioned:Learn more about Thrive Alcohol Recovery: thrivealcoholrecovery.comKatie Lain on YouTube, Instagram, and other social platformsMolly's coaching programs and podcast archive: www.mollywatts.comLet's Connect:Website: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook: Join the Alcohol Minimalists GroupLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

This Think Thursday episode may just become one of your favorites. Molly explores the overlooked but powerful connection between water and brain health. From hydration to hydrotherapy, sound to sensation, this episode unpacks four science-backed ways water supports your brain, helps regulate your emotions, and contributes to meaningful, lasting behavior change.Whether you love a hot bath, play ocean waves to fall asleep, or are curious about cold plunges, you'll come away with practical tools and deeper insight into how water can shift your mindset and support your alcohol minimalist journey.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why staying hydrated is foundational for mental clarity and emotional regulationHow the sound of water activates your parasympathetic nervous system and enhances alpha brain wave activityThe role of warm water immersion in releasing oxytocin and reducing cortisolHow brief exposure to cold water can support your nervous system and build emotional resilienceKey Insight"You don't always have to fight your thoughts. Sometimes, you can just let them flow."Molly brings her signature blend of neuroscience and real-world practicality to show how water is more than just a basic need—it's a regulating, mindset-shifting, nervous-system-supporting tool. With each method, she explains how and why it works, and encourages listeners to build small rituals that support lasting change.Try This:Drink a full glass of water when you're feeling mentally foggy or emotionally off balanceUse water sounds during journaling, meditation, or focus timeTake a hot shower or bath as a way to downshift your nervous system and activate self-compassionExplore cold water exposure for mood regulation and alertness (even a 30-second burst can help)Resources Mentioned:Think Thursday Hydration EpisodeMolly's go-to sound apps for sleep and calm https://www.bettersleep.com/Further reading and brain-supportive tools at www.mollywatts.com ★ Support this podcast ★

In this special Alcohol Awareness Month episode, Molly Watts sits down with Ben Kramer, a licensed psilocybin facilitator and educator in Oregon. As the state pioneers legal psilocybin services, this insightful conversation unpacks how this once-taboo compound is emerging as a powerful therapeutic option for mental health and substance use struggles. Ben, a veteran of the U.S. Marine Corps and former firefighter, shares his personal and professional journey to becoming a facilitator and advocate for psychedelic-assisted therapy.What You'll Learn:What psilocybin is and how it's being used legally and safely in OregonBen's personal experience with psilocybin and how it changed his lifeThe critical role of preparation and integration in therapeutic psilocybin useHow psilocybin can support individuals dealing with PTSD, depression, anxiety, OCD, and substance misuseThe growing movement toward alternative, science-based mental health treatmentsHow psilocybin experiences are structured legally, ethically, and professionallyThe challenges and opportunities of working in a newly legalized, uncharted therapeutic fieldWhy This Episode MattersAlcohol Minimalist is rooted in using science and compassion to help listeners develop a peaceful relationship with alcohol. This conversation offers a fresh, thought-provoking perspective on healing and transformation, especially for those who've tried conventional tools without success. Whether you're curious about psilocybin or skeptical, this episode offers a grounded, informative discussion worth hearing.Resources Mentioned:Oregon Psilocybin ServicesClinical Cognitive Facilitator TrainingUphold Our Troops (scholarship organization for veterans)Connect with Ben:www.fungimentalpdx.comConnect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.com Facebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary In this episode of Think Thursday, we're diving into the psychology and neuroscience of reminiscing. Why does it feel so comforting to revisit our past? What is actually happening in our brains when we do it? And how can we intentionally use this experience to feel more grounded, present, and connected?This isn't just about nostalgia—it's about using our memories as a powerful tool for self-awareness, emotional regulation, and identity reinforcement. You'll learn why reminiscing matters, what research says about its benefits, and how to intentionally evoke it to support a life of peace, meaning, and alignment.In this episode, you'll learn:How the brain's default mode network supports self-reflection and memoryWhy reminiscing lights up the brain's reward system and releases dopamineThe therapeutic power of reminiscence and its effect on mood and stressFive ways to trigger positive, intentional reminiscingHow reminiscing supports personal growth, especially in midlife and beyondThe role of life review and reflection in building wisdom and inner calmResearch Highlights:Speer et al., 2014 (Cognitive, Affective & Behavioral Neuroscience): Positive memory recall activates the ventral striatum, part of the brain's reward system2013 study in Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience: Reminiscing increases self-esteem, social connection, and perceived life meaningMeta-analysis in Aging & Mental Health (2014): Structured reminiscence therapy improves mood and well-being in both clinical and non-clinical groupsHarvard Grant Study: Individuals who reflect on life with curiosity and compassion report higher satisfaction in later yearsErik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development: Life review in midlife and later years is a key developmental task for achieving wisdom and integrationPractice This Week:Take ten minutes to intentionally revisit a positive memory. Choose one of the following:Play a song from your younger yearsLight a candle or smell that reminds you of homeLook through old photographsHold a personal keepsakeCall a friend and share a “remember when” momentThen ask yourself:What strengths or values were alive in me during that memory?What part of myself am I reconnecting with?What could I bring forward into today?Reminiscing is not about living in the past. It's about building strength and clarity in the present by remembering who you've always been.Support the Show: If this episode resonated with you, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps others find the show and keeps the conversation going.For more episodes, resources, and support for building a peaceful life through mindset, science, and habit change, visit www.mollywatts.com. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode kicking off Alcohol Awareness Month, Molly Watts dives into the subtleties of emotional drinking, helping listeners uncover unconscious patterns and build emotional resilience to disrupt them. Drawing inspiration from an episode by Corinne Crabtree on emotional eating, Molly makes powerful parallels to alcohol habits many listeners may not even recognize as emotionally driven.What You'll Learn in This Episode:A clear definition of emotional drinking—and why it may not look like you expect.How seemingly harmless habits, like a nightly glass of wine, might actually reflect emotional needs.Why emotional drinking is more about mental load and reward beliefs than willpower.How subtle daily rituals become signals of self-worth and stress relief.The truth about shame cycles, secrecy, and the false binary of being either “good” or “bad” with alcohol.The connection between alcohol and emotional regulation, and how to begin shifting the cycle.Key Concepts Discussed:Emotional drinking doesn't require drama—if you're using alcohol to relax, cope, or mark the end of the day, emotions are involved.Emotional resilience is foundational—not just for changing your drinking, but also for improving your relationship with yourself.Common beliefs like “I deserve this” or “this is my time” are tied to deeper unmet needs.The parallels between secret eating and emotional drinking: both serve as a way to signal “I matter.”Mentioned in This Episode:Sunnyside App – A science-backed tool Molly recommends that focuses on:Pre-commitment and intention settingConscious interference through trackingPositive reinforcement with coaching support Try Sunnyside Free for 15 DaysLosing 100 Pounds with Corinne PodcastPowerful Quote:“If you're pouring a drink to shift emotional gears—whether to relax, reward, or disconnect—you are emotionally drinking. And that's not a problem, it's just a place to get curious.”Let's Connect:Website: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook: Join the Alcohol Minimalists GroupLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

If you've ever thought, “I know what to do—why am I not doing it?”, this episode is for you.In this Think Thursday edition of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly breaks down the Hierarchy of Competency, a science-backed framework that explains why sustainable behavior change can feel frustrating—and why that doesn't mean you're doing it wrong. From the origins of the model in the 1970s to how neuroscience confirms its relevance today, you'll discover a practical roadmap for moving from struggle to sustainability.To bring this to life, we follow the fictional story of Mary, a woman who wants to build an exercise habit after years of being sedentary. As Mary progresses through the four stages—from Unconscious Incompetence to Unconscious Competence—you'll see how this framework applies to any change you're working on, including drinking less, improving your mindset, or adding healthier habits to your routine.You'll walk away understanding:The 4 stages of the Hierarchy of Competency and why each one mattersWhat neuroscience tells us about habit formation and identity changeHow to identify which stage you're in—and how to move forwardWhy struggle is not failure—it's a necessary step on the path to peaceIf you're trying to change your relationship with alcohol, shift your mindset, or add a positive habit to your life, this episode will help you stop shaming yourself and start supporting yourself like a learner—not a perfectionist.What You'll Learn:Why “I know better, but I'm not doing better” is not a personal flawHow the Hierarchy of Competency explains the emotional rollercoaster of changeWhat behavior change research and neuroscience (including BJ Fogg and Lally et al., 2010) reveal about how long it really takes to form habits5 clear action steps you can take this week to keep moving forwardResources + Mentions:The Hierarchy of Competency model (originally attributed to Noel Burch, Gordon Training International)Research on habit formation by Dr. Phillippa Lally, University College LondonConcepts inspired by BJ Fogg's behavior model and the Stages of Change frameworkJoin the free Facebook group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking HabitsConnect with Molly:Email: molly@mollywatts.comWebsite: www.mollywatts.comReady to Go Deeper?Explore the Making Peace with Alcohol coaching program—designed to help you move from Conscious Incompetence to lasting transformation. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Molly kicks off Alcohol Awareness Month by shining a light on five pervasive myths about alcohol that many people still believe—and why they matter. These aren't opinion-based takes or moralistic warnings. They're data-backed truths designed to help you reassess your relationship with alcohol through the lens of science, compassion, and practicality.Molly revisits commonly held beliefs like “red wine is good for your heart” and the idea that there's a universally “safe” level of drinking. She also unpacks the misconceptions surrounding alcohol dependence, the blurred line between moderate and excessive drinking, and why conscious choice—not unconscious habit—is the cornerstone of peaceful drinking.If you're someone who's been “justifying” your nightly pour with old headlines or fuzzy statistics, this episode is your call to reframe, recalibrate, and realign your drinking decisions with facts—not feelings.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The truth behind the red wine “heart health” narrativeWhy “moderate” drinking might not be as safe as you thinkWhat the data says about alcohol and disease riskThe reality that 9 out of 10 excessive drinkers are not alcohol dependentWhy the language we use around alcohol can keep us stuckHow science supports self-awareness over abstinence mandatesKey Quote: "It's not about shame or absolutes. It's about awareness, choice, and a willingness to meet yourself where you are—without pretending alcohol is something it's not." —Molly WattsMentioned in This Episode: Episode 111: Global Burden of DiseaseEpisode 31: Using Science to Guide Your Alcohol DecisionsAlcohol Truths 2023 (Free eBook)Breaking the Bottle Legacy (Book)Take It Further:→ Download the Alcohol Core Beliefs guide to uncover the unconscious thoughts keeping your drinking stuck. → For deeper change, explore the Making Peace with Alcohol 12-month coaching group program. Let's Connect: Website: www.mollywatts.com Instagram: @alcoholminimalist Facebook: Join the Alcohol Minimalists GroupLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

March is National Sleep Awareness Month, and in this Think Thursday episode, we're revisiting one of the most overlooked—but absolutely essential—pillars of brain health: sleep.Molly shares compelling new research from a December 2024 Yale School of Medicine study showing that sleeping too much or too little is linked to measurable brain changes that can precede stroke and dementia. If you're working to change your drinking habits or build better behaviors, understanding the role of sleep in neuroplasticity is critical.This episode unpacks the science behind sleep and habit change, especially how sleep disruption—often caused by alcohol—can interfere with your ability to rewire your brain. You'll walk away with science-backed tools to make better sleep part of your alcohol minimalist journey.In This Episode You'll Learn:How neuroplasticity is strengthened during sleepWhy 7 to 9 hours of sleep is the “sweet spot” for brain healthWhat white matter hyperintensities and fractional anisotropy reveal about long-term cognitive risksHow alcohol interferes with deep and REM sleep, increasing cortisol and reducing emotional resiliencePractical ways to improve your sleep and support your behavior change goalsScientific Insight“Sleeping too much or too little is associated with silent brain injuries that clinicians know to foreshadow stroke and dementia years before their onset.” — Journal of the American Heart Association, December 2024Key TakeawaysAim for 7 to 9 hours of sleep per night to optimize brain function and long-term healthConsider sleep a core pillar of your wellness strategy, alongside mindful drinking and thought workUnderstand the reinforcing relationship between reducing alcohol and improving sleep qualityTake small, consistent steps to support better sleep—start by limiting screens or swapping a nightly drink for herbal teaResources and LinksListen to the original Think Thursday episode on sleep and neuroplasticity (September 2024) https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/6e94ccc6/85d6d4a2.mp3Explore Alcohol Minimalist programs like Making Peace with Alcohol www.mollywatts.com/workwithmeSupport the ShowIf this episode was helpful, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast. Your support helps more people discover the science-based, judgment-free work of the Alcohol Minimalist.Closing Message Sleep well. Think better. Keep choosing peace. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Molly revisits one of the most important conversations around changing your relationship with alcohol—how shame can keep you stuck, and how to break free from the shame spiral.This episode is a spring break replay, and for good reason—it's one of Molly's favorites and a foundational message for anyone working to become an alcohol minimalist.In this episode, you'll learn:What shame really is and how it's different from guiltWhy shame is especially destructive for daily habit drinkersThe role shame played in Molly's personal journey with alcoholHow shame often masks itself as “powerlessness” and leads to hiding, isolation, and more drinkingWhy understanding your thoughts is the key to disrupting shameThree science-informed strategies to stop the shame spiral: Name it – acknowledging shame takes away its powerSelf-compassion – treating yourself like you'd treat a friendSeparate your thoughts from your identity – you are not your drinking behaviorYou'll also hear:A powerful quote from Brené Brown on the unspeakable nature of shameHow common narratives (like the AA concept of “powerlessness”) may unintentionally reinforce shameWhy living in the gains rather than the gap is essential for motivation and long-term changeTakeaway Message:Shame doesn't help you change. In fact, it keeps you stuck. The pathway to lasting transformation starts with understanding your thoughts, practicing self-compassion, and learning how to disrupt the automatic cycles that have been running your drinking habit.Resources Mentioned:Brené Brown's definition of shamePrevious episodes on “The Gap and The Gain” (Think Thursday episodes)Tools for becoming a better thinker and understanding your brainWant more support?Check out our programs at www.mollywatts.com or join our free Facebook group Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking Habits. You're not alone—and you are absolutely capable of creating peace with alcohol.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Hey there, and welcome back to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast!Today's episode explores why March might actually be a better time to start new habits than January. If you've struggled with keeping those ambitious New Year's resolutions, this might be exactly what you need to hear.What You'll Learn:Why 80% of January 1st resolutions fail—and why it's not your faultThe neuroscience behind habit formation and why timing mattersThe difference between a 31-day challenge (like Dry January) and real, lasting changeHow seasonal shifts in neurochemistry can actually help your motivationThe Fresh Start Effect—and why March, Mondays, and birthdays are prime times for changeScience-Backed Insights:Dr. Nora Volkow (National Institute on Drug Abuse) explains how temporary alcohol breaks reset tolerance but don't rewire drinking habitsDr. Katie Milkman (University of Pennsylvania) on the power of temporal landmarks in goal-settingDr. Trevor Kashi on how sudden transitions (like post-holiday resolutions) can shock our brain's reward systemDr. John Arden on how spring's increasing daylight boosts serotonin levels, naturally improving motivation

Podcast Episode: Radical Transformation with Becca JacobsonWelcome back to The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast! In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Becca Jacobson, an author, coach, and host of the Sober Living Snippets podcast. Becca's journey is nothing short of extraordinary—her transformation from a life of addiction and secrecy to a thriving career as a college professor and now a sobriety coach is truly inspiring.What You'll Learn in This Episode:✅ How Becca overcame a lifetime of addiction and self-limiting beliefs ✅ The impact of secrecy and shame on mental health and personal growth ✅ The pivotal moments that led her to sobriety and a new career ✅ Why coaching can be a game-changer in the recovery journey ✅ How to reframe obstacles as opportunities for radical transformationMeet Becca Jacobson:Becca is the author of Prostitute to Professor: A Guide to Radical Transformation, an international bestselling memoir that details her journey from addiction and secrecy to self-acceptance and empowerment. She now coaches mature women struggling with addiction and helps them create lasting change in their lives.Resources & Links:

In this episode of Think Thursday, host Molly Watts explores an unconventional yet profoundly impactful idea: how thinking about death can actually help us live happier, more meaningful lives. Drawing from personal experiences, research, and books like Being Mortal by Atul Gawande and Briefly, Perfectly Human by Alua Arthur, Molly discusses how acknowledging our mortality enhances gratitude, presence, and purpose.Key TakeawaysDeath Isn't the Opposite of Life—It Gives It MeaningMany of us resist thinking about death because it feels uncomfortable, but embracing it can deepen our appreciation for life.As death doula Allu Arthur states, "Death isn't the enemy of life. It's what gives it depth."Scientific Research on Mortality Awareness & HappinessStudies in terror management theory suggest that when people are reminded of their mortality, they become more present, grateful, and focused on what truly matters.The "Scrooge Effect" describes how facing the reality of death can inspire positive life changes—just like Ebenezer Scrooge's transformation in A Christmas Carol.Three Powerful Mindset Shifts to Apply This PerspectiveAsk yourself, "How many more times?"Instead of taking moments for granted, reflect on how many more times you'll experience meaningful events (e.g., holidays with loved ones, sunsets, road trips, coffee dates).This shift fosters gratitude and helps us prioritize what truly matters.Use the "Will this matter?" test.If something won't matter in five years, don't spend more than five minutes worrying about it.Let go of small frustrations and focus on what really enriches your life.Create a Reverse Bucket List.Instead of listing what you want to do, list what you're grateful to have already done.Celebrating past experiences helps shift focus from scarcity to appreciation.Challenge for ListenersTake five minutes to reflect: 

Episode Summary: In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly Watts tackles one of the most frequently asked questions: How long will it take to feel at peace with my relationship with alcohol? If you've ever wondered whether 12 weeks, 30 days, or a year of effort will be enough, Molly breaks down why the answer is both simpler and more complex than you might think.Key Takeaways:Mindset Shifts Alone Aren't Enough: While changing your thoughts about alcohol is critical, it's only one piece of the puzzle.The Missing Link is Action: Learning about alcohol, neuroscience, and habit formation won't create change unless you apply what you learn.Beware of Passive Action: Consuming content without implementation can make you feel like you're making progress when, in reality, you're staying stuck.The Formula for Change:Challenge and shift your alcohol core beliefs.Take consistent, imperfect action.Evaluate, adjust, and keep improving.Listener Challenge:This week, take at least one concrete action toward changing your drinking habits. That could be tracking your drinks, practicing an alcohol-free day, or reflecting on your core beliefs about alcohol.Resources Mentioned:Making Peace with Alcohol – Molly's signature online course and group coaching program.Proof Positive – One-on-one coaching for women ready to go deeper.Sunnyside App – A recommended tool for tracking and reducing alcohol consumption.Join the Conversation:Follow Molly on Instagram: @alcoholminimalistJoin the Alcohol Minimalists private Facebook group for additional support.Subscribe & Review: If you're enjoying the podcast, please consider leaving a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps more people discover the show!Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In today's Think Thursday episode, we're diving into one of the most powerful, yet often overlooked, tools for behavior change: human connection. We're not just talking about any connections, but deep, meaningful relationships—the kind that profoundly shape our brain, our well-being, and even our relationship with alcohol.We'll explore what I call the “Connection Economy”, where investing in quality relationships provides neurological, emotional, and physical benefits. Unlike the Attention Economy, which constantly pulls us into distraction and stress, the Connection Economy is where we all profit—gaining better mental health, stronger habits, and a more fulfilling life.What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How deep relationships reshape the brain and impact behavior change✔️ Why the Harvard Study of Adult Development proves that quality relationships are the key to long-term health and happiness✔️ The brain chemistry of connection—how oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin create lasting well-being✔️ The dangers of our current connection crisis and why loneliness increases our reliance on alcohol✔️ 5 science-backed strategies to strengthen connections and support lasting behavior changeKey Takeaways:

In this episode of Alcohol Minimalist, Molly speaks once again with Dr. Carl Erik Fisher, an addiction psychiatrist, author, and person in recovery, to discuss the complexities of addiction beyond just alcohol. We explore the fascinating (and often overlooked) intersection between behavioral addictions—like gambling—and substance use disorders.Dr. Fisher recently penned a compelling piece for The New York Times about the public health consequences of gambling addiction, especially in light of the recent surge in sports betting. He shares insights on why we need to move beyond a binary approach to addiction—where you're either "an addict" or "fine"—and instead recognize the spectrum of harmful behaviors that can impact anyone. They also discuss:✅ How gambling and alcohol addiction share common psychological patterns✅ Why addiction isn't just about loss of control but also about societal and environmental influences✅ The impact of marketing and corporate interests in promoting problematic behaviors✅ How our cultural narratives around addiction shape recovery and treatment options✅ Practical ways to rethink our own habits and reduce harmDr. Fisher's expertise and thoughtful perspective challenge conventional ideas about addiction and highlight why we need a more nuanced public health approach to substance use and compulsive behaviors. If you've ever wondered where you fit on the spectrum of alcohol use—or how to better navigate your relationship with alcohol—this episode is for you.About Dr. Carl Erik Fisher:Dr. Carl Erik Fisher is an addiction physician, bioethicist, writer, and person in long-term recovery. He is an associate professor of clinical psychiatry at Columbia University and author of The Urge: Our History of Addiction, which was named one of the best books of the year by The New Yorker and The Boston Globe. His work has been featured in The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Guardian, and Scientific American Mind. Dr. Fisher also hosts Flourishing After Addiction and runs the Rat Park newsletter on Substack.Links & Resources:

In this episode of Think Thursday, we dive into an often-overlooked aspect of brain health—mental rest. Not sleep, not meditation, but true cognitive downtime, the kind that helps your brain recover from the overwhelming levels of input we're exposed to every day.

Episode Summary:In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly Watts unpacks a common misconception that keeps people stuck in their drinking habits: the belief that “It's just a habit.” While it may seem like a harmless or even helpful perspective, this thought can actually prevent meaningful change.Molly discusses how drinking is not just a habit like brushing your teeth—it's often an emotional response to deeper triggers. She explores how shifting your mindset from breaking a habit to addressing the underlying thoughts and emotions can lead to lasting, sustainable change.If you've ever said to yourself, “My drinking is just a habit,” this episode is a must-listen. Tune in as Molly helps you reframe your relationship with alcohol and move toward a more peaceful, intentional way of drinking.What You'll Learn in This Episode:✅ Why the phrase “It's just a habit” can actually keep you stuck✅ The difference between habits and emotional triggers related to drinking✅ How your thoughts create feelings, which then drive your desire to drink✅ Why focusing only on breaking the pattern (e.g., swapping a drink for tea) isn't enough✅ How shifting your perspective can lead to sustainable changeKey Takeaways:

In this week's Think Thursday, we're diving deep into the science of awe—an often-overlooked emotion that has the power to shift our thinking, reduce stress, and deepen our connection to the world around us. Inspired by the book Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life by Dacher Keltner, this episode explores how awe isn't just reserved for grand, life-changing moments but can be cultivated as a daily practice to improve our well-being.What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Episode Summary:In this episode, host Molly Watts revisits a key discussion from 2022, exploring the challenge of changing your relationship with alcohol when you genuinely enjoy drinking. Molly shares insights on how to shift your habits without guilt, deprivation, or an all-or-nothing mindset. She discusses four key strategies for breaking the cycle of daily drinking while still being able to enjoy alcohol in moderation.Molly also reflects on the launch of Step One, a foundational program that is now an integral part of Making Peace with Alcohol. She recounts her own journey of overcoming a long-standing daily drinking habit and provides actionable tips for listeners who want to redefine their drinking patterns.Whether you're struggling with the idea of drinking less or simply looking for ways to be more intentional about your alcohol consumption, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies and real-life wisdom to help you on your journey.Key Topics Covered:✔️ The mindset shift required to change your drinking without feeling deprived ✔️ Why the "I just love to drink" thought keeps you stuck ✔️ How to reframe your beliefs about alcohol without relying on fear-based messaging ✔️ Understanding the science behind habit formation and alcohol consumption ✔️ Four key actions you can take to create a more peaceful relationship with alcoholMentioned in This Episode:

Curiosity isn't just a fun trait—it's an essential function of the human brain that fuels learning, adaptability, and even emotional resilience. In today's Think Thursday episode, I'm diving into the science of curiosity and how asking the right questions can supercharge your brain.We'll explore:✅ How curiosity activates dopamine and enhances memory✅ Why lifelong learning helps delay cognitive decline✅ How curiosity strengthens emotional regulation and relationships✅ Practical ways to reignite curiosity in your daily lifeCuriosity is critical—not just for growth, but for thriving in every aspect of life. Whether you're working on a habit change, improving relationships, or just wanting to keep your brain sharp, this episode is for you!What You'll Learn in This Episode:How curiosity triggers dopamine and fuels motivationWhy curiosity activates the hippocampus, improving memory retentionHow curiosity strengthens the Default Mode Network (DMN), leading to better problem-solving

In this episode, Molly dives into a topic that resonates deeply with anyone struggling to build a peaceful relationship with alcohol: perfectionist or all-or-nothing thinking. Often disguised in subtle ways, this mindset can block progress and contribute to cycles of shame and guilt. Molly uncovers how this cognitive distortion manifests in our drinking habits, why it keeps us stuck, and how to break free by understanding our mind's powerful role in shaping behavior.What is All-or-Nothing Thinking? Understanding how perfectionism leads to feelings of failure when plans don't go perfectly.The Vicious Cycle of Shame and Off-Plan Drinking: How small setbacks can snowball due to mental distortions and negative self-talk.The Cognitive Distortions That Trick Our Brains:Mental filtering – focusing on failures while ignoring successes.Disqualifying the positive – dismissing progress due to minor missteps.Why Being at Peace with Alcohol Doesn't Mean It's Always Easy: Learn how peace is rooted in mindset shifts, not perfection.Rewiring the Brain for Sustainable Change: Molly discusses why progress isn't erased by one mistake and how small consistent efforts build resilience.Challenging AA's “Day One” Mentality: Explore the science-backed benefits of avoiding the punitive “start over” mindset.Key Takeaways:Progress isn't linear: One setback doesn't erase the steps you've already taken.Curiosity and compassion: Treat off-plan drinking as an opportunity to learn, not a failure.Replace rigid rules with flexible strategies: The key to long-term success is a mindset shift, not perfect adherence to plans.Mentioned in This Episode:Cognitive distortions like mental filtering and disqualifying the positive.The role of neural pathways in forming and breaking habits.The behavior map-results cycle for effective habit change.Resources & Links:Join the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook Group for support and connection.Molly's Book: Breaking the Bottle Legacy – Learn more about shifting your relationship with alcohol.Connect with Molly:mollywatts.comWebsite: Instagram: @alcoholminimalistEmail: molly@mollywatts.com ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of Think Thursday, Molly dives into the surprising science behind silence and why it's critical for brain health and emotional growth. While our modern lives are filled with noise, Molly reveals how even brief moments of intentional quiet can be a game-changer. From improving memory to reducing stress and enhancing creativity, learn why silence is more than just the absence of sound—it's a tool for transformation.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The Science of Silence:Discover research from Duke University showing that periods of silence stimulate brain cell growth in the hippocampus (the center of memory and learning).Learn about the Default Mode Network (DMN) and how silence activates this critical part of the brain responsible for introspection and creativity.Find out why two minutes of complete silence can be more relaxing than soothing music.Why Your Brain Needs Silence:Understand how constant stimulation leads to cognitive fatigue, poor decision-making, and emotional overwhelm.Learn how decision fatigue directly relates to alcohol habits and how giving your brain rest can support better choices.Overcoming Discomfort with Silence:Many people avoid silence because it forces them to confront uncomfortable thoughts. Molly explains how leaning into this discomfort fosters growth and emotional healing.Practical Tips to Incorporate Silence Daily:Start your morning with 5–10 minutes of quiet time instead of grabbing your phone.Take short silent breaks throughout the day to combat stress and regain focus.Explore how nature can enhance the restorative effects of silence.Key Quotes:“By simply being quiet, you are literally helping your brain repair itself and grow stronger.”“Silence isn't just about taking a break—it's where creativity, problem-solving, and growth happen.”“Discomfort is a sign you're starting to grow, and silence offers the space to process and heal.”Actionable Takeaways:Morning Ritual: Dedicate time to silence at the start of your day to set a calm tone.Silent Breaks: Schedule 5-minute intervals of silence when you feel overwhelmed or fatigued.Mindful Reflection: Don't avoid uncomfortable thoughts—embrace them and use silence as a tool for problem-solving.Connect with Molly:Website: Molly WattsFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsInstagram: @alcoholminimalistDon't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to the podcast! Your feedback helps spread the message of mindful drinking and intentional living. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores the topic of how drinking trends and behaviors have evolved across generations. From Baby Boomers and Gen X, who often normalized alcohol as a symbol of success and leisure, to Millennials and Gen Z, who prioritize mindfulness and wellness, this episode dives into what's driving these shifts.Molly draws on her personal experiences with family alcohol abuse and her journey to becoming an alcohol minimalist. She examines societal and cultural shifts, including how the normalization of after-work happy hours and weekend benders shaped older generations, and why younger adults are rethinking alcohol's role.The conversation goes beyond abstinence and focuses on embracing mindful drinking, self-awareness, and a changing cultural narrative—a movement that aligns perfectly with the Alcohol Minimalist philosophy.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How Baby Boomers and Gen X viewed alcohol and why it was central to social life.The role economic prosperity and marketing played in embedding alcohol into daily routines.How public awareness around the health risks of alcohol has shifted from past decades.Why Millennials and Gen Z are choosing moderation, mindful drinking, or abstinence.How the broader emphasis on health and wellness is reshaping alcohol consumption patterns.Insights into whether alcohol might face restrictions similar to tobacco in the future.Episode Highlights:[00:01:00] – Molly's reflections on growing up in a household where alcohol was part of daily life.[00:10:00] – The contrast between Baby Boomer/Gen X social norms and modern wellness-driven behaviors.[00:20:00] – How shifts in workplace culture have impacted alcohol use from the 80s to today.[00:30:00] – Understanding the role of preventative health and its connection to younger generations drinking less.[00:40:00] – Speculations on future trends and public health measures regarding alcohol consumption.Memorable Quotes:“Becoming an alcohol minimalist means removing excess alcohol from your life so it doesn't remove you from life.”“Younger generations aren't just saying no to alcohol—they're saying yes to more mindful, conscious decisions.”Resources & Mentions:Molly Watts' book: Breaking the Bottle Legacy Available hereSchedule a FREE call to discuss coaching: https://calendly.com/alcoholminimalist/15minDon't forget to join our private Facebook group, Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol Habits, where we discuss tips, strategies, and personal journeys toward mindful drinking. Join here. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly dives into the neuroscience of fear, mindset shifts, and the power of helping others to create a positive ripple effect on both our lives and mental well-being. She explores how shifting from fear to action through acts of generosity and kindness can help you step out of emotional paralysis and into purposeful living. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world studies, Molly shows that helping others isn't just a good thing—it's biologically rewarding and transformative for your brain and life.Key Topics Covered:Understanding Fear and Its Impact:Molly discusses how fear and uncertainty can trigger the brain's fight-or-flight response, paralyzing us emotionally and mentally. She highlights how this response, while useful in physical danger, often leads to negative coping mechanisms like doomscrolling or turning to alcohol.The Neuroscience of Helping:A 2016 neuroimaging study revealed that acts of generosity activate the brain's pleasure centers, leading to a “helper's high” through the release of endorphins, dopamine, and oxytocin. Molly emphasizes that this isn't just a feel-good moment—it builds long-term satisfaction and resilience.Becoming the Helper:Inspired by Mr. Rogers' famous quote about “looking for the helpers,” Molly takes this concept a step further by asking listeners how they can become helpers themselves. By contributing to others, we not only uplift those around us but also improve our own mental health.Actionable Takeaways:Acknowledge fear as a natural, biological response and recognize that it's not permanent.Redirect fear-driven inaction into small, purposeful acts of generosity.Understand that helping others can create lasting changes in your mindset, with potential to reduce reliance on negative coping behaviors like drinking.Identify one small act of kindness you can perform today and notice how it impacts your mood and motivation.Notable Quotes:“The good news is that fear isn't a permanent state, and we can shift our brains out of fear by engaging that prefrontal cortex.”“When we help others, we don't just improve their lives; we improve our own.”“Helping others is biologically rewarding. It's one of the most natural ways to feel better and shift out of emotional paralysis.”Supporting Research:2016 Neuroimaging Study on Generosity2009 Life Satisfaction Study: Acts of Kindness and Well-beingEpisode Resources:Join Our Facebook Community: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsWant to Dive Deeper?Check out Molly's e-book Alcohol Truths and learn more about balancing your relationship with alcohol using neuroscience and practical strategies. Visit mollywatts.com for more information.Follow Molly Watts:WebsitePodcast ArchiveInstagramLeave a Review: If you found this episode helpful, please leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! ★ Support this podcast ★

 Welcome to this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast! As January winds down, we're talking all about Dry January and the opportunity to finish strong. Whether you've stuck to your goals or stumbled along the way, this episode is here to inspire you to recommit, reflect, and take meaningful steps toward creating a peaceful relationship with alcohol.Molly dives into the neuroscience behind habits, why your brain's feedback loops matter, and how finishing what you start builds lasting change. You'll learn why setbacks aren't failures but opportunities to learn and grow. This episode is packed with insights about neuroplasticity, the power of small steps, and how to reframe your goals to focus on progress rather than perfection.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why it's never too late to recommit to your goals.How neuroscience supports habit formation and breaking patterns.The importance of finishing strong and building a resilient mindset.How to use setbacks as tools for growth.Tips for incorporating Kaizen—continuous improvement—into your life.Notable Quotes:“Every choice is a chance to vote for the person you want to become.”“Finishing strong sends a powerful message to your brain: I don't give up on my goals.”“Small steps lead to big wins.”Action Steps:Reflect on your “why” for participating in Dry January and reconnect with your reasons.Challenge any negative narratives about your setbacks and focus on progress.Take one small, positive action today that aligns with the identity you're building.Resources and Links Mentioned:Learn more about the concept of Kaizen in Molly's book, Breaking the Bottle Legacy​.Download Molly's free guide, “Alcohol Truths,” to explore the science of drinking mindfully​.Join the Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol Habits Facebook group for support​.Has this podcast helped you? Please leave a review.Follow me on Facebook & Instagram: @AlcoholMinimalist Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly dives into the fascinating connection between hydration and cognitive health. Learn why even mild dehydration can negatively impact focus, memory, reaction time, and overall brain efficiency. Molly shares practical strategies to stay hydrated and explains how keeping your brain hydrated can help you feel better, think more clearly, and take better actions in your daily life.With January being a time for many to reduce alcohol intake or prioritize alcohol-free days, hydration becomes an even more important topic. Did you know that for every gram of alcohol consumed, your body expels 10 milliliters of water? This means drinking alcohol can contribute significantly to dehydration. Molly also touches on the broader implications of hydration, such as its impact on mood and energy levels.Key Topics DiscussedThe Importance of Hydration:How even a 1% drop in body water affects cognition.Dehydration's impact on neurotransmitters and the brain's homeostasis.Hydration and Alcohol:Why drinking alcohol causes dehydration.The importance of incorporating water into your routine, especially when drinking alcohol.Mood and Energy:How dehydration can lead to confusion, fatigue, and even mild depression.The mood-boosting benefits of staying hydrated.Practical Hydration Tips:Start Early: Begin your day with a glass of water to rehydrate after sleep.Make Water Accessible: Use a reusable water bottle as a visual cue.Add Flavor: Enhance water with lemon, cucumber, or other natural flavors.Set Goals: Aim for at least 8 cups (or 2 liters) of water daily, adjusting based on activity and needs.Key Quote:“When we think better, we feel better. When we feel better, we take better actions, and that's how we create better results in our lives. It all starts with hydration.” – Molly WattsResources Mentioned:Molly's Website: www.mollywatts.comJoin the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsEpisode ChallengeThis week, focus on drinking more water and notice how it affects your mood and cognitive function. Use the tips shared in this episode to build a hydration habit that sticks!Connect with Molly:Email: molly@mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalist ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary:In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly Watts dives into the essential difference between willpower and self-discipline—and why understanding this distinction can make all the difference in your journey to drinking less.Using the definition of self-discipline as “the ability to make yourself do things you know you should do, even when you don't want to,” Molly explains why relying on willpower alone often leads to burnout, frustration, and ultimately, failure.She also shares practical strategies for building self-discipline, including clarifying your “why,” planning ahead for challenging situations, and practicing self-compassion. If you've ever struggled to follow through on your plans to drink less, this episode will give you the tools to make lasting changes—without relying on motivation or perfection.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The Key Difference Between Willpower and Self-Discipline:Why willpower is reactive and short-term.How self-discipline helps you take consistent action toward your goals, even when it feels hard.Why Willpower Alone Isn't Enough:The science behind willpower as a limited resource.How deeply ingrained drinking habits make willpower ineffective for long-term change.How to Build Self-Discipline Around Drinking Less:Clarify your “why” to stay motivated.Plan ahead to avoid relying on willpower in the moment.Practice small, sustainable habits that build momentum over time.Accept discomfort as part of the process—and remind yourself that it's temporary.The Role of Self-Compassion in Lasting Change:Why beating yourself up after a slip-up undermines self-discipline.How to use curiosity and kindness to get back on track.Quotes to Remember:“Self-discipline is the ability to make yourself do the things you know you should do, even when you don't want to.”“Willpower might help you say no once, but self-discipline builds the habits that make saying no unnecessary.”“Discomfort is temporary, but the pride you'll feel for sticking to your goals will last.”Resources Mentioned:Sunnyside App: Molly's favorite tool for tracking and reducing alcohol consumption. Start your free trial today at Sunnyside.com/Molly.Facebook Group: Join the Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol Habits community for support and connection.Podcast Listening Guide: New to the podcast? Grab your free guide to explore episodes tailored to your journey. Take Action:Reflect on your “why” for drinking less. Write it down and revisit it daily.Choose one strategy from this episode to implement this week—whether it's an alcohol-free night, planning ahead, or practicing self-compassion.Share this episode with a friend or loved one who might need support in their own journey.Has this podcast helped you? Please leave a review.Follow me on Facebook & Instagram: @AlcoholMinimalist Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this Think Thursday episode, we're diving deep into the concept of rumination—the exhausting cycle of repetitive, negative thinking. Molly breaks down why our beautiful, brilliant human brains get stuck in this mental quicksand and how it can sabotage our progress, especially when trying to change habits like drinking. More importantly, you'll learn science-backed strategies to interrupt this cycle and start moving forward Key Topics Covered:What is Rumination? Understanding how repetitive negative thinking traps us in unproductive loops.Why Do We Ruminate? Exploring how our brains are wired for survival and how modern-day emotional threats trigger overthinking.The Impact of Rumination: How chronic rumination fuels anxiety, depression, and stress, keeping us stuck in habits that don't serve us.Five Science-Backed Strategies to Stop Rumination:Switch from "Why" to "How": Move from self-criticism to solution-focused thinking.Purposeful Distraction: Engage your mind and body in meaningful activities to break negative loops.Practice Self-Compassion: Speak to yourself kindly and interrupt self-criticism.Set a Problem-Solving Time Limit: Contain overthinking with intentional time boundaries.Name It to Tame It: Label your thoughts to create distance and diminish their power.Actionable Challenge:This week, when you catch yourself spiraling into overthinking, visualize a big red stop sign. Pause, breathe, and ask yourself: What kind of thought is this? Then label it without judgment. This simple act is the first step toward lasting change.Resources Mentioned:

In this insightful episode, Molly Watts dives into the power of challenging and changing your core beliefs about alcohol and yourself. As many navigate Dry January or strive to build a peaceful relationship with alcohol, Molly shares how deeply ingrained beliefs can keep us stuck in unwanted habits. Drawing inspiration from Think Again by Dr. Adam Grant, she discusses how curiosity and resilience can lead to meaningful change.Key Topics Discussed:Challenging Dry January Setbacks:Molly encourages listeners not to use one "off-plan" drinking day as proof they can't change.She emphasizes meeting yourself where you are and focusing on small, consistent actions aligned with long-term goals.Core Beliefs About Alcohol: Molly revisits the five deeply held beliefs about alcohol that often drive drinking habits:Alcohol relieves stress.   (Episode 158)Alcohol makes things more fun. (Episode 159)Alcohol creates connections. (Episode 160)Alcohol is a reward. (Episode 161)Alcohol keeps me going. (Episode 163)She explains how these beliefs contribute to desire and how science contradicts many of them.Self-Limiting Beliefs:Beyond alcohol, Molly discusses the stories we tell ourselves, like "I can't have fun without drinking" or "I've failed before, so I'll fail again."She highlights the importance of questioning whether these beliefs are always true.The Power of Rethinking (Inspired by Think Again): Molly introduces Dr. Adam Grant's insight:"Most of us spend too much time thinking about how to get people to think like us and too little time thinking about how to get ourselves to think differently."She emphasizes developing mental flexibility by embracing curiosity and the willingness to be wrong.Three-Step Framework for Changing Beliefs:Get Curious: Ask, What if I'm wrong about this?Embrace Being Wrong: Recognize that being wrong isn't failure—it's growth.Practice Resilience: Accept that change takes time and keep moving forward despite setbacks.Rewriting Self-Limiting Beliefs:Molly offers actionable steps to identify and challenge limiting beliefs.Example: Replace "I can't manage stress without drinking" with "I'm learning to manage stress with healthier tools like exercise or mindfulness."The Role of Curiosity and Resilience:Molly stresses that curiosity helps uncover blind spots, while resilience allows us to keep going despite challenges.Recommended Resources:Book Mentioned: Think Again by Dr. Adam GrantAlcohol Minimalist Programs:Drink-Less Success– 30-Day Mini-ProgramMaking Peace with Alcohol – 12-Month Group CoachingProof Positive – 12-Week 1:1 Coaching for WomenApp Recommendation: Sunnyside for tracking Action Steps:Identify One Core or Self-Limiting Belief: Write it down and ask, Is this always true?Challenge and Replace It: Develop a new, empowering belief to practice daily.Stay Curious and Resilient: Keep questioning old stories and be patient with your progress.Connect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.comFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsEmail: molly@mollywatts.comClosing Thoughts:Molly leaves listeners with this empowering reminder:"When we change what we think, we change how we feel. When we change how we feel, we change how we act. And when we change how we act, we get different results in our lives."Until next time, choose peace.Have episode suggestions or questions? Reach out to Molly at molly@mollywatts.com. Let's continue this conversation and grow together! ★ Support this podcast ★

In this week's Think Thursday, Molly dives into the fascinating role of dopamine—a neuromodulator at the core of motivation, habits, and long-term satisfaction. With Dryuary underway, this episode is your guide to understanding how dopamine works, why it influences how you feel during a break from alcohol, and what you can do to naturally boost dopamine levels.What You'll Learn:Why dopamine is more about seeking rewards than experiencing them.How activities like eating, exercise, and alcohol affect dopamine differently.Why Dryuary can leave you feeling flat and how to overcome it.Science-backed strategies to balance dopamine and feel motivated, including movement, mindfulness, and effort-based rewards.Key Takeaways:Dopamine loves novelty and challenges—use Dryuary to explore new activities.Movement and creativity are powerful tools to reset your dopamine system.Social connection and gratitude are key to lasting happiness.Celebrate your progress, focus on what you're gaining, and shift your mindset to boost joy and satisfaction.Resources Mentioned:Healthy Dopamine Boosters Guide: Download this free guide packed with simple, science-backed ways to support your brain during Dryuary and beyond. [Download here].Sign up for free group coaching sessions during Dryuary: [Subscribe here].Connect with Molly:WebsiteFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists – Change Your Drinking HabitsNext Steps: If you're navigating Dryuary or exploring your relationship with alcohol, this episode is a must-listen. For more support, grab the Healthy Dopamine Boosters Guide and join the free coaching sessions this month.Choose peace, and have a great week! ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, we're diving deep into the recent advisory issued by the US Surgeon General regarding alcohol and its link to cancer risk. Molly explores the science behind the headlines, unpacking the data and presenting a balanced view to help you make informed decisions about your drinking habits.We cover:A breakdown of the Surgeon General's advisory on alcohol and cancer, including the seven types of cancer linked to alcohol consumption.Understanding absolute risk vs. relative risk when evaluating cancer risk associated with alcohol.The carcinogenic effects of ethanol and how alcohol influences our DNA, inflammation, and hormone levels.How taking part in “Dry January” offers more than just a break from alcohol—it's a chance to evaluate your habits and redefine your relationship with drinking.Why focusing on the why behind your drinking habits can lead to sustainable change.Plus, Molly shares practical tips for navigating your journey as an Alcohol Minimalist, offering strategies to reduce drinking without judgment.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:[Surgeon General's Advisory on Alcohol and Cancer Risk (PDF)][Sunnyside App] – Molly's top pick for tracking your drinking and creating sustainable change.Podcast Episode on Global RiskKey Takeaways:Even small amounts of alcohol can increase the risk for specific cancers, including breast cancer for women and esophageal cancer for everyone.The importance of personalizing your approach to Dry January—whether fully alcohol-free or simply adding more alcohol-free days.How shifting from shame-based narratives about alcohol to informed, science-forward thinking empowers you to take control of your habits.New to the podcast? Download the Podcast Listening Guide.Want to schedule a call to talk about how I work with people?  Click here for a FREE call. Join my private FB group Alcohol Minimalists here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/changeyouralcoholhabitHas this podcast helped you? Please leave a review.Follow me on Facebook & Instagram: @AlcoholMinimalist Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary: In this Think Thursday episode, host Molly Watts explores the profound impact of chronic stress on the brain and its implications for behavior change. Molly delves into the role of the amygdala, the brain's stress responder, and how "amygdala hijacking" can derail rational thinking and decision-making. Drawing on concepts from her book Breaking the Bottle Legacy and the insights of Dr. Aditi Nerurkar, Molly explains the science behind chronic stress and offers actionable strategies to manage it effectively. Whether you're working on your relationship with alcohol or tackling other habits, this episode is packed with insights to help you re-engage your logical brain and make intentional choices.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The Role of the Amygdala:How the amygdala processes emotions, especially fear and anxiety.The concept of "amygdala hijacking" and its impact on rational thinking.Chronic Stress and Its Effects:How chronic stress keeps the amygdala in a state of heightened alertness.The ways chronic stress impairs the prefrontal cortex, making it harder to think clearly and resist impulses.Behavior Change and Chronic Stress:How stress interferes with the Behavior Map-Results Cycle from Breaking the Bottle Legacy.The importance of recognizing and addressing learned stress patterns.Actionable Strategies to Manage Chronic Stress:Mindfulness and Cognitive Reframing: Learn to reframe stress-driven thoughts constructively.Deep Breathing: Activate your parasympathetic nervous system with a simple breathing exercise.Physical Activity: Discover how movement reduces stress hormones and boosts endorphins.Connection: Understand the power of social support in accessing your logical brain.This Week's Action Step: Choose one stress-reducing practice to implement daily this week. Molly recommends starting with deep breathing:Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts, and exhale for 6 counts.As you breathe, scan your body for tension and visualize releasing it with each exhale.Do this in the morning, after work, or before bed for a simple yet powerful way to manage stress.If you take on this challenge, share your experience in the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook group or email Molly at molly@mollywatts.com.Resources Mentioned:Breaking the Bottle Legacy by Molly WattsDr. Aditi Nerurkar's work on stress and resilienceAlcohol Minimalist Facebook GroupConnect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.comEmail: molly@mollywatts.comFacebook: Alcohol Minimalists Facebook GroupTake the Next Step: If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share it with someone who might benefit from learning about the science of chronic stress and behavior change. ★ Support this podcast ★

This week on the podcast I'm joined by Sally Smith. Sally is a London based psychotherapist supporting people with personal development and she is also a fitness trainer and body transformation coach running her 8 week SHRED program both online and in person 4 times a year. I've had the opportunity to work with Sally personally and our messages aligned so much that I thought it would be valuable for us to share this conversation.Listen in as we dive into topics like chronic shame, trauma and how these often lead to alcohol misuse. Learn more about Sally Smith here: www.sallysmith.lifewww.blackheath-bootcamp.co.ukwww.theshredprogramme.co.ukNew to the podcast? Download the Podcast Listening Guide.Want to schedule a call to talk about how I work with people?  Click here for a FREE call. Join my private FB group Alcohol Minimalists here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/changeyouralcoholhabitHas this podcast helped you? Please leave a review.Follow me on Facebook & Instagram: @AlcoholMinimalist Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Overview: Welcome to another Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast! This week, we're diving into one of my favorite topics—your beautiful, brilliant human brain. In this episode, we'll explore some of the incredible things modern science has revealed about the brain, share two inspiring stories from Norman Doidge's groundbreaking book The Brain That Changes Itself, and reflect on the mysteries that still surround this extraordinary organ.This episode is all about wonder, hope, and curiosity—everything you need to appreciate the masterpiece inside your skull.What You'll Learn in This Episode:A brief history of neuroscience and how our understanding of the brain has evolved over the last century.The story of Cheryl Schiltz, who overcame a debilitating loss of balance by retraining her brain to adapt in remarkable ways.The inspiring journey of Dr. Michael Moskowitz, a chronic pain specialist who used his knowledge of neuroplasticity to rewire his brain and overcome relentless pain.Exciting developments in brain science, including how meditation changes brain structure and the potential of brain-computer interfaces to restore lost abilities.A reflection on the mystery of consciousness and the unique, deeply personal nature of your brain.Why You Should Listen: This episode will leave you feeling inspired and amazed by the adaptability and resilience of your brain. Whether you're tackling a challenge, learning something new, or simply curious about neuroscience, this conversation is sure to ignite a sense of wonder about what your brain can do—and what it might still be capable of.Key Quotes from the Episode:"Your brain isn't just a passive recipient of experience; it's an active participant in shaping it.""Even when something as fundamental as balance is disrupted, the brain can find a way to adapt and heal.""Your brain is not only a scientific marvel; it's deeply personal. It holds your memories, your dreams, and everything that makes you, you."Resources and Recommendations:Book Recommendation: The Brain That Changes Itself by Norman Doidge. This book is a fascinating dive into the science of neuroplasticity and the incredible stories of people who've harnessed the brain's ability to heal and adapt.Podcast Episodes on Neuroplasticity: Check out past Think Thursday episodes where we've explored the science of how your brain can change itself.Connect with Molly:Website: Alcohol MinimalistJoin the conversation in the Alcohol Minimalists Facebook Group for more inspiration and community support.Follow on Instagram for daily tips and insights.Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast. Share this episode with anyone who could use a little inspiration about the power of their brain!Closing Thought: “Your brain is capable of incredible things. Keep wondering, keep learning, and keep appreciating the beautiful, brilliant brain that powers your life.” ★ Support this podcast ★