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The most transformational moment in a young man's life is when he is seen, accepted, and welcomed into manhood. As a father of three sons and a man who has walked through his own journey of becoming, I've seen how powerful it is to receive that blessing—from a father or a man you respect. Too many men are aging without ever feeling like they've become men. They carry a painful emptiness, unsure of their identity, still longing for validation.That's why we created the Rite of Passage at BraveCo. In 2024, we added a 3.1-mile Tough Mudder course to our annual BraveCo Conference. We thought it'd be a challenge—but it became the most powerful moment of the week. Watching grown men speak life into boys—boys who might not even have a father at home—was deeply moving. It wasn't just a physical test; it was a spiritual transition. And now, for BraveCo 2025, we're going bigger: 300 young men, stepping into purpose, identity, and strength.If you've ever longed to be that kind of man—or to raise one—I invite you to step up. Bring your son. Invite the boy who's fatherless. Help us reverse the curse that has plagued this generation. Together, we can rebuild a culture where men are known, empowered, and free. You don't want to miss this. BraveCo 2025 may be the turning point in your story, too.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

As a counselor, pastor, and father, I've seen firsthand how many men carry invisible wounds into adulthood—wounds caused by the absence of true initiation into manhood. This episode dives deep into that missing moment that every man longs for: the point where he is looked in the eyes and told, “You're capable. You belong.” Whether it's your father, a mentor, or a community of strong men, that rite of passage changes everything—and without it, we often grow old without ever really growing up.In this BraveCo episode, I reflect on a pivotal moment from our men's conference where we invited boys into manhood through a powerful and symbolic rite of passage. I also break down the emotional toll uninitiated men face in their marriages. Many husbands are trapped in cycles of shame, unable to “hit the mark” emotionally with their wives—not because they don't care, but because they were never taught how. I explain the differences between sympathy, empathy, and true compassion—and how those three tools can transform your relationships.This isn't just theory. These are real stories from the trenches of marriage, mentorship, and fatherhood. I offer practical tools and language you can use today to connect with your wife, lead your family, and stop the shame spiral that keeps you disconnected. If you're tired of surviving manhood and ready to thrive in it, this one's for you. Let's get to work.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this powerful conversation, Jason and Lauren Vallotton unpack one of the deepest needs of our time: the restoration of godly masculinity. Drawing from personal stories, biblical wisdom, and their experience walking with men and families, they explore why a man's role in the home matters more than ever—and how the next generation is suffering without clear markers of maturity and initiation.Whether you're a father, mentor, or just a man asking deeper questions about your purpose, this episode will stir your spirit and point you toward courageous leadership. It's also an invitation to join the movement at this year's BraveCo Conference, where men are being called up, healed, and commissioned.In This Episode:Why men matter in the home The emotional and spiritual covering fathers provide—and what happens when it's missing.What sons need from their fathers and male mentors Identity, blessing, and challenge. The sacred elements of healthy male initiation.The pain of passive or absent masculinity How a culture without rites of passage has left young men lost, angry, or apathetic.Stories from the field Real moments of breakthrough, father wounds healed, and identity restored at past BraveCo events.Why the BraveCo Conference is different It's not hype—it's holy. A sacred space where men return to the Father, face their pain, and rise into purpose.Join the Movement:The BraveCo Conference isn't just a weekend event—it's a call to rise.Register now for the conference and be part of a movement that's raising up healthy, whole, and wholehearted men!Check out more about BraveCo here!PatreonIf you've enjoyed this podcast, would you consider financially supporting the show? Every donation, big and small, helps the Vallottons continue to prioritize making this content for you. Click this link to support! Thank you!For information on the Marriage Intensive and other resources, go to jasonandlaurenvallotton.com !Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

In this episode of Dates, Mates, and Babies with the Vallottons, Jason and Lauren Vallotton explore how friendships impact marriage, parenting, and relational health. While friendships often take a backseat to family life, they are crucial in shaping emotional well-being and offering support.As life gets busier with marriage and parenting, friendships are often neglected. However, research shows that maintaining strong friendships improves marital satisfaction and reduces parenting stress. Jason and Lauren discuss why intentional friendships matter and how to build a supportive community.Discussion Points:Do Your Friendships Support or Strain Your Marriage?Jason reflects on early marriage years when he let go of friendships that didn't support his relationship.Lauren shares how she invested in friendships to have connections in the same life season.The Changing Definition of a Support SystemA survey of 2,000 parents with kids aged 0-6 found 78% believe the concept of a support "village" has changed from their upbringing.Modern parents rely on an average of seven people for support, often leaning more on friendships than family.Jason discusses how founding BraveCo helped him build relationships with men committed to personal growth.How a Lack of Friendships Impacts Emotional Connection in MarriageDespite hardships, Jason's strong friendships provided stability.Lauren surrounds herself with women who invest in their marriages, reinforcing the importance of supportive friendships.The Importance of Same-Sex and Opposite-Sex Friendships in MarriageJason's close friendships extend beyond traditional boundaries, such as walking Sum down the aisle.Lauren highlights the security of knowing she has men in her life who would support her and her children.Friendships and Parenting: How Parents' Friendships Shape Their KidsStudies suggest strong friendships lead to happier marriages and lower stress in parenting.Parents modeling healthy friendships significantly influence their children's social development.Jason and Lauren discuss ways to nurture friendships while raising a family.Takeaways:Strong friendships are essential for thriving marriages and healthy families. Jason and Lauren encourage listeners to assess their friendships, invest in meaningful connections, and recognize their profound influence on every aspect of life.Tune in to this insightful conversation and learn how to strengthen your marriage and family life through intentional friendships!PatreonIf you've enjoyed this podcast, would you consider financially supporting the show? Every donation, big and small, helps the Vallottons continue to prioritize making this content for you. Click this link to support! Thank you!For information on the Marriage Intensive and other resources, go to jasonandlaurenvallotton.com !Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Episode Summary:In this special Q&A episode, the Vallottons tackle some of your most heartfelt and practical questions about trust, forgiveness, marriage, and family life. Whether you're looking for ways to rebuild trust, navigate the early months of marriage, or create meaningful family traditions, this episode has something for everyone.What's Covered in Today's Episode:How is trust practically built when it's been broken?Steps to rebuild trust through accountability, transparency, and consistent actions over time.The importance of small, intentional efforts in repairing relational safety.What happens if I forgive but cannot forget?Understanding forgiveness as a journey and why forgetting isn't required.Rebuilding trust is a process that requires seeing repeated success in that area of previous failure and also taking the risk to trust again.How do my wife of 2 months and I better create routine in the craziness of life?Ideas for setting rhythms and routines to strengthen your marriage.Carving out time for intentional connection as newlyweds before the demands of life and family make it harder to prioritize.What's the most repetitive struggle you usually see with men?Insights into common patterns, such as passivity and disconnection.Encouragement and strategies to move past these struggles inside connection with other men through BraveCo.How do you celebrate Advent with your kids?Creative and meaningful ways to engage children during the Advent season.Balancing faith, fun, and family in holiday traditions.Discovering Christmas: A 25 Day Advent Devotional with Activities for KidsCan you share creative family rhythms and traditions that shape family culture?How intentional practices can strengthen bonds and pass on values.Examples of daily, weekly, and seasonal traditions to cultivate connection. Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

In this conversation, Jason Vallotton shares his journey through pain, forgiveness, and healing after experiencing a difficult divorce and becoming a single parent. He discusses the importance of processing pain, understanding needs, and setting boundaries in relationships. Jason emphasizes the role of hope and vision in overcoming challenges and highlights the significance of self-awareness in recognizing and addressing emotional needs. He also introduces his ministry, BraveCo, aimed at supporting men in their personal growth and healing journeys.TakeawaysSharing painful experiences can help others heal.Pain can lead to anger and feelings of powerlessness.Acknowledging pain is the first step to processing it.Forgiveness is a multi-layered process that requires time.Self-awareness is crucial for understanding emotional needs.Healthy relationships are built on clear needs and boundaries.Hope is essential for moving forward in life.Mourning is a necessary part of healing and should be embraced.Creating a vision for the future can provide purpose in pain.Check out Jason's website: https://jasonvallotton.com/Braveco: https://www.braveco.org/Jason's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/Follow the next brave thing podcast on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nextbravethingpodcast/For life coaching: www.ella-hooper.com

In this episode of *Schmidt List*, host Kurt Schmidt has a conversation with Craig Pladson from BraveCo to explore the intricacies of modern marketing. They discuss the challenges businesses face when choosing between marketing agencies that focus solely on implementation and those that provide strategic impact and measurable results. Kurt struggles to find agencies capable of developing comprehensive go-to-market strategies, instead of just executing specific tasks like SEO.Craig emphasizes the importance of identifying target audiences and understanding various growth factors before making promises about return on investment (ROI). Listeners gain valuable insights as Craig explains that small businesses often outsource marketing due to a lack of in-house expertise. He also highlights the necessity of having a dedicated point person to ensure campaign success.The discussion delves into cross-industry learnings, the shift toward flexible marketing models, and the evolution from traditional agencies of record to monthly retainer models. BraveCo, Craig's consultancy, crafts tailored marketing solutions by leveraging a network of independent professionals, focusing on client-specific outcomes such as leads and sales.Craig further explains the significance of understanding audience insights and the customer journey, overcoming "shiny object syndrome," and incorporating empathy into consumer engagement for effective strategies. He offers a refreshing perspective on marketing priorities, setting realistic expectations, and implementing efficient strategies to support small businesses through gradual, project-based engagements.For more information about BraveCo, Craig encourages listeners to visit "Go Brave Co." The conversation concludes with Kurt thanking Craig and expressing anticipation for future discussions. Tune in for an enlightening conversation about aligning marketing strategies with business goals for long-term success.https://gobrave.co/https://www.linkedin.com/company/gobraveco/https://www.instagram.com/gobravecoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/schmidt-list-inspiring-leaders--2664825/support.

In this powerful episode of the March or Die Show, host Jeremy Stalnecker sits down with Jason Vallotton, the Pastoral Care Overseer at Bethel Church in Redding, California. Jason shares his personal journey of faith, mental health struggles, and his passion for discipleship through the men's ministry -  BraveCo. Jason talks about growing up in a small Christian town, getting married young, and facing immense challenges, including a difficult divorce, raising children as a single father, and overcoming a nervous breakdown. He also opens up about dealing with anxiety and OCD, blending a family after remarriage, and his struggle with infertility. Learn more about Jay: https://jasonvallotton.com/ Learn more about BraveCo: https://www.braveco.org/ Follow Jason: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/ Please Hit The LIKE and SUBSCRIBE BUTTONS as well as the NOTIFICATION BELL. Thanks For Watching.  Follow Me on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremystalneckerofficialInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremystalnecker/Twitter: https://twitter.com/jstalneckerAlso at: https://jeremystalnecker.com/ #mentalhealth #ministry #podcast Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Episode 76 is a message that Jason Vallotton preached at Bethel Church on Father's Day, 2024! Following the annual BraveCo men's conference, Jason recalls testimonies and big wins from BraveCo's  largest men's event of the year before diving into a profoundly impactful message.Drawing lessons from the creation story in Genesis, Jason explores how God's structured approach to creating the world can offer us valuable insights for managing our own lives. Each day of creation holds a lesson on bringing order to our personal chaos.To wrap it up, Jason confronts chaos head-on, exploring themes of divine order and the necessity of setting boundaries. Personal stories highlight financial struggles and the fears that come with instability, offering lessons from biblical stories like the Israelites in the wilderness. He shares the importance of seeking support and true repentance as keys to transforming chaos into order in every area of life. Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Does conviction precede courage? This week, Jay and Danny Silk go after the topic of courage, which is a trait all good character hinges upon. But, to truly develop courage, it takes practice. Men were created and designed to be protectors, providers, and connectors, all requiring great measures of courage. Be convinced of where you are going to show up in your life.  As an author and speaker, Danny Silk offers life-changing books, conferences, and other resources drawn from decades of experience as a counselor, social worker, advocate, pastor, spouse, parent, grandparent, and leader. He is the President and Co-Founder of Loving on Purpose, a ministry to families and communities worldwide. Danny's passion centers around helping people build, strengthen, and heal their vital relationships.Connect with Danny:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dannylovingonpurpose/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=danny%20silk Website: https://www.lovingonpurpose.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@lovingonpurpose New Book: https://www.dragonslayers.co BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org Connect with BraveCo:Website: https://www.braveco.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.men Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D

In today's live replay, Kris shares about his book, Uprising: The Epic Battle for the Most Fatherless Generation in History. Join us as Kris talks about the origin of this parental problem, how it unfolds in culture today, and how we can discover the role we play in this fight. Kris shares how a father's role is to provide, promote, and protect, but society is challenging this noble call. Listen in as Kris shares how we can help boys become men, men become fathers, and fathers become great fathers! Get the Book Uprising here: https://www.amazon.com/Uprising-Battle-Fatherless-Generation-History/dp/0800762738 Click here to learn more about BraveCo: https://www.braveco.org/ Connect with Kris Vallotton: Website: https://www.krisvallotton.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kvministries/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kvministries/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kvministries Additional Resources by Kris Vallotton: https://shop.bethel.com/collections/kris-vallotton About Kris Vallotton: Kris Vallotton is the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church, Redding, and is the Co-Founder of Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM) and Spiritual Intelligence Institute. He is also the Founder and President of Moral Revolution and a sought-after international conference speaker. Kris and his wife, Kathy, have trained, developed, and pastored prophetic teams and supernatural schools all over the world.

Greg Hendricks is an author, leader, consultant, and pastor. Greg's background in professional sports has allowed him to consult with churches, athletes, businesses, government officials, and community leaders domestically and globally.One exemplary figure from American history who demonstrated extraordinary discipline is Booker T. Washington. Born into slavery in 1856, Washington rose to become one of the most influential African American leaders of his time.Booker T. Washington's legacy as a champion of education and economic empowerment continues to inspire people today. His disciplined pursuit of excellence and his unwavering commitment to uplifting his community exemplify the values of hard work, resilience, and self-discipline that define the American spirit.Connect with Greg:Website: https://www.greghendricks.life/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@greghendrickslife/videosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/greghendrickslifeAmazon: https://www.amazon.com/Way-Truth-Life-Greg-Hendricks/dp/1733254889/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org Connect with BraveCo:Website: https://www.braveco.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.men  Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D 

Repentance makes you clean, but confession brings freedom.In this episode, Jay sits down with Dave Harvey, where Dave shares the recent upgrades experienced through the gateway of honesty that comes with grief and pain, without blanketing over wounds and offense. When we are honest with our wounds, and allow God to meet us in those areas, we can show up clean and strong as sons, brothers, husbands, fathers, and leaders. God desires for us to deal with our pain, and work through forgiveness–not in theory, but in true freedom.Dave & his wife, Taff are the Directors of the Bethel Leaders Network (BLN) which exists to connect, encourage, and empower leaders across the world. Prior to this role, Dave was a pastor and manager at Bethel's School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM). Dave is a gifted motivational speaker who has a powerful prophetic voice and international influence. His passion is the empowerment of individuals, leaders, and communities, in all spheres of society, helping them to live naturally supernatural lives. Dave worked in Australia as a secondary teacher, consultant to schools and community organizations, and has pioneered many effective programs and motivational seminars which continue to empower young people and families. He has also authored and ghost-written several books which have impacted the global community. Dave is also the founder of ‘INCREASE', releasing testimonies of God's goodness through print and the ‘Increase' Testimony App. His passion to steward the testimony is contagious. Connect with Dave:Website: https://www.bethel.com/people/dave-harvey Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dave.harvey.940 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daveharvey7/?igsh=MTMzNG51eHozZzBiZA%3D%3D Bethel Leaders Network: https://www.bethelleadersnetwork.com BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org 

Calling all those who are ready to have healthy boundaries and deep connections with those around them! This episode is a session led by Jason Vallotton at the Boundaries Lab at Bethel Church, Twin View Campus.  In this session, Jason gives a Biblical introduction through the foundation in Genesis as to how God showed great love to us by giving us the boundaries of earth, and all that He created as good, before He formed man. Our inheritance, from the start, was beautiful.God set a perfect stage, where all forms of life were instructed with order, in a place where we could succeed. We find in the story of Creation that He didn't set us up to fail, but He created a place for us to thrive with order and instruction; not a task out of reach, or impossible for us. We hope you enjoy this session where Jason covers the how-to's, whys, and what it looks like to implement boundaries in love with practical examples, and Q&A. Connect with the Transformation Center:Website:https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bethel.tc2 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tc.bethel?igsh=cmZkODB1ZHQ4NGFk YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tc.bethel Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/3zRXWTT2mTTJna1Z2Hz8LC?si=7Aa-ZxgZT5-rPNSHtgA1cQ&nd=1&dlsi=a9263d63c49341a0 BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org Connect with BraveCo:Website: https://www.braveco.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.men  Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D 

Aron welcomes Jay Vallotton back to the show. Jay is an Emotional Health Guide, Pastor, and runs a men's discipleship program called BraveCo.  They have a good conversation going over mental, physical, and spiritual health.  They dive into stoicism, controlling your emotions, and different elements of self-discipline.   Another great conversation between these two over some non-typical topics.  

The rare few who have spent a significant amount of time in the cockpit of an F-18 fighter jet know the value of strategy and the power of focus. In this episode, Jason sits down with Ed Rush, speaker, 5-time #1 best selling author, and a successful business consultant who has effectively taken the principles that he learned flying faster than the speed of sound, and translated them into good business.Ed Rush is a fighter pilot and a card-carrying member of the Million Mistake Club. Despite failing kindergarten, Ed graduated from Top Gun. Despite typing like a chicken on amphetamines, Ed wrote several best-selling books. Ed's hobbies include hiking, golf, fly fishing, and writing his own bio in the third person. He lives in San Diego with his wife, four offspring, and a bearded dragon named Smaug. Oh… and sometime in the future, there's bound to be a puppy because — as everyone knows — every great story has a puppy. Ed's superpower is showing entrepreneurs how to use their messages to change the world by creating more income and impact. His mission is to connect you with God and let Him do the rest because, frankly, He's got this.Connect with Ed Rush:Website: https://edrush.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EdRush?_rdr=p YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBLiWEvV7DUoIvbQUW4_edg?view_as=subscriber TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@edrushpilot?lang=en Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/edrushpilot/ BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/

In this episode, Jason interviews his dear friend Cole Zick. Cole and Jason dig deep into the power of practicals within marriage relationships, the man's need for respect, intimacy, and support. Men, what does it look like to practically pursue your wives? Do you have the courage it takes to truly hear them, their emotions and their concerns? Does your wife feel safe, seen and heard? We hope this episode challenges you to take your connection with your spouse to the next level.Cole and his wife Caitlin are the lead pastors of Risen King Community Church in Redding, CA. They have been married for 15 years, and have four beautiful children. The Zicks poured out their lives for several years leading Moral Revolution, and continue to live passionately to see God's design for healthy sexuality imparted to a generation, equipping and empowering society to live in wholeness. Cole and his wife carry a heart to see God's design for family to take place throughout the world. Before Moral Revolution, Cole was a youth pastor in Sacramento, CA where he spent 13 years.BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org Connect with BraveCoWebsite: https://www.braveco.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.men  Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D Connect with Cole:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colezick/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D Risen King: https://www.risenking.org/about Moral Revolution: https://www.moralrevolution.com 

For Jay Vallotton, the turning point in his marriage was learning to connect with his wife through her emotions rather than trying to fix them. Now, Jason urges men to reconsider their approach to emotions, both in marriage and parenting. Tune in as he shares practical advice for repairing mistakes, handling dysregulation in a child, and approaching conversations with the end in mind.     Key Takeaways   To live wholeheartedly means addressing sin, being present, and fulfilling your God-given call instead of allowing fear to shrink you.  Your wife needs to feel seen, known, and heard.  Trust is not built through the absence of mistakes but by how you repair.  The #1 conversation hack is to start with the end in mind.  The right time to instruct and discipline is not when your child is emotionally dysregulated.   Jay Vallotton   Jay Vallotton is the founder of BraveCo, a member of the Senior Leadership Team at Bethel Church, and an overseer of the Bethel Transformation Center. He is passionate about helping people discover their God-given identity, find freedom, and walk out their true calling. Jason lives in Redding, California, with his wife, Lauren, and their five kids and daughter-in-law.    Key Quotes   3:48 - "One of the prayers that David prays is, God, search me, know me, reveal to me what's going on in my life. Which honestly, is such a scary, dangerous prayer. But on the other side, I think that in order to live wholeheartedly we do have to address those areas in our life that aren't whole, that have cracks or have a little bit of brokenness or doubt, and that's a very challenging thing to do. But what that really means is when I come home and my wife confronts me on something and I dismiss her feelings, I'm not living wholeheartedly. When I come home and my kids want to play and I don't want to be present, I'm actually not living wholeheartedly. The practical application of being. The things that you write on your heart, the things that you write on your wrist, the truth, God's truth.. You have to live those out in your day to day life. And there's accountability inside of that." 17:05 - "Trust is not built through the absence of mistakes. Trust is built by how you clean up a mess. Your wife will trust you because she knows you can have a bad moment, you're going to go away, you're going to process through that in a healthy way and come back and give her what you wish you would've given her in the moment. That's more valuable than being able to nail it every time, because we innately know no one's going to nail it every time. But what we don't know is, I trust that you're going to come back and repair what has been damaged. If you can repair what you are messing up, you're adding so much more value than just trying to get it right, perfectly or expecting yourself to. You're not and your wife's not, more importantly, your whole environment, isn't. So, your kids are going to watch you do this process. Your wife's going to watch you do this process, and they're going to follow in this ecosystem that it's okay to fail. It's not okay to hurt each other but it's okay to fail because we can go back and clean up a mess."   Links from Today's Conversation   BraveCo BraveCo Conference 2024 (Redding, California - June 12-14, 2024) 131 | Winning The War Within (Jason Vallotton) 145 | Resilience, Servanthood & Showing Up For Others (Jason Vallotton) Follow Jason on Instagram Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons Podcast Make a Donation to DadAwesome FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS Events   Connect with dadAWESOME   Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Receive weekly encouragement by texting "dad" to 651-370-8618  

Jason interviews his dad Kris Vallotton as they go through questions the BraveCo subscribers asked the last few weeks. Get your journal men, it's some good stuff.Kris is an author, international speaker, culture leader, and most of all, a spiritual father to this generation. As the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church in Redding, California and co-founder of Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM) and Moral Revolution, Kris has helped thousands of Believers over the last 20 years realize their identity as sons and daughters of God.He's a bestselling author, having written more than a dozen books and training manuals to help prepare believers for life in the kingdom. Kris has a diverse background in business, counseling, consulting, pastoring and teaching, which gives him unique leadership insights and perspectives.More about Kris Vallotton: https://www.krisvallotton.com/aboutFoundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

As a part of Moral Revolution's Date Well series, Jason sits down with Alley Vallotton to discuss all things dating from the women's perspective. How do you know if a guy is healthy? What do you do if he's not pursuing you in the way you want to be pursued? How do you guard your heart, and when is the appropriate time to divulge certain information? We're pulling back the curtain on dating so that you can grow in dating confidence.If you want to dive deeper into dating well, check out Letsdatewell.com, and use promo code BRAVECO.Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this inspiring conversation, Nicholas Bayerle and Jason Vallotton dive deep into the world of personal growth, masculinity, and building meaningful relationships among men. Join us as we explore the power of vulnerability, authenticity, and shared experiences in fostering strong bonds. Jason shares insights from his organization, BraveCo, which focuses on helping men develop emotional strength, authentic masculinity, and healthy relationships. Discover the importance of intentional growth and camaraderie, and learn how to initiate deeper conversations and connections with fellow men. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking discussion that could transform the way you approach personal development and relationships. TIMESTAMP: [00:00-00:50] Introduction to the Importance of Authentic Relationships [00:50-04:00] Men's Struggle with Vulnerability and Authenticity [04:00-08:00] Men's Fear of Being Judged and Not Liked [08:00-12:20] Importance of Genuine Friendships for Personal Growth [12:20-15:40] Initiating Deeper Conversations with Friends [15:40-19:50] Overcoming the Fear of Sharing Personal Failures [19:50-24:40] The Role of Discipleship and Building Strong Relationships [24:40-28:10] Benefits of Joining a Group or Program for Personal Growth [28:10-32:00] Finding Common Ground and Shared Hobbies [32:00-35:30] The Role of Shared Experiences in Building Relationships [35:30-39:00] Building Intentional Connections with Men [39:00-42:10] Challenging the Idea of Wives as Substitute Mothers [42:10-45:10] Stepping Up in Relationships and Setting High Standards [45:10-48:10] Taking the Initiative to Create Deeper Connections [48:10-51:14] Wrapping Up the Conversation and Closing Remarks Takeaways: Exploring Masculinity and Bonds: Nicholas Bayerle and Jason Vallotton delve into personal growth and meaningful relationships among men, uncovering the transformative power of vulnerability and shared experiences in building strong bonds. Authenticity and Emotional Strength: Jason Vallotton, founder of BraveCo, shares invaluable insights on cultivating authentic masculinity and emotional resilience, emphasizing the significance of intentional growth. Unveiling Camaraderie's Impact: Join the conversation to grasp the importance of camaraderie in personal development, and learn how to ignite deeper conversations and connections with fellow men. Empowering Brotherhood: Don't miss this thought-provoking dialogue that could reshape your approach to personal growth and relationships, as Nicholas and Jason inspire listeners to embrace their true selves and support one another. A Journey of Transformation: Embark on a journey towards authentic masculinity, discovering the potential for personal and relational transformation through vulnerability, shared experiences, and intentional growth. Resources: Connect with Jason on Instagram  Connect with Jason on Facebook Listen on YouTube here Join the Kings brotherhood Fb Group  

You sent us your questions, and we are answering them. This week's Q&A features questions about unraveling OCD, disappointment, how much of Jason's nervous breakdown was physical/mental vs. spiritual, and how to start forming healthy brotherhoods. Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

As a part of Moral Revolution's Date Well series, Jason Vallotton and Abram Goff discuss emotional health, learning yourself, boundaries, opening up emotionally in dating, and jealousy. Whether you are in the dating phase or just want to be more self-aware, check out this episode.BraveCo 2023 Conference: https://www.braveco.org/eventsFoundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this episode, Jonathan Helser and Jason Vallotton continue their conversation about living as powerful, healthy men. “Where are you?” This was the first question God asked in the Bible to Adam and Eve after they sinned and were hiding. It is so important for us all to grow in understanding our stories so that we can confess to God and others where we actually are and ask for help. This is where discipleship happens. Jason Vallotton is a pastor and counselor in Redding, CA. He is a longtime friend of Jonathan and Melissa who has made a significant impact on our community and our discipleship schools. (Learn more about Jason's ministry and the BraveCo podcast here: https://braveco.org) To listen to the “Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons” Podcast, click here. Our 18 Inch Journey discipleship school exists to close the gap between what we know about God in our heads and who we believe Him to be in our hearts. Our vision is to see sons and daughters who are yielded to Jesus, tending to their inner life, and thriving in their relationships. If you are interested in learning more about the 18 Inch Journey, head over to http://18inchjourney.com. We have created resources for discipleship and tools for stewarding your life with the Lord at https://engagingcultivate.com.  You can also watch this podcast on the Cageless Birds YouTube channel.  

Our guests this week continuing our Singles Series are Jason and Lauren Vallotton. Check out their resources below:BraveCo, a 2-month Discipleship Program we equip men for the journey of manhood and embrace the truth that no person was designed to thrive alone & Dates, Mates and Babies, a podcast where they crack open topics like dating, marriage, family and parenting to encourage, entertain and equip you for a deeply fulfilling life of relational health.--Do you have a question that you need answered? Record and submit your question at http://thekyloshow.com. Danny and Brittney may answer your question on the show and you'll get the breakthrough you've been looking for!--Support The KYLO Show by making a tax-deductible donation https://lovingonpurpose.givingfuel.com

In this episode, Jonathan Helser and Jason Vallotton dialogue about the work of living as a healthy man in today's culture. Taking a season to slow down and strengthen our roots is a courageous and necessary step in the process of becoming who we were made to be.  Jason Vallotton is a pastor and counselor in Redding, CA. He is a longtime friend of Jonathan and Melissa who has made a significant impact on our community and our discipleship schools. (Learn more about Jason's ministry and the BraveCo podcast here: https://braveco.org) To listen to the “Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons” Podcast, click here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dates-mates-and-babies-with-the-vallottons/id1664279770 Our 18 Inch Journey discipleship school exists to close the gap between what we know about God in our heads and who we believe Him to be in our hearts. Our vision is to see sons and daughters who are yielded to Jesus, tending to their inner life, and thriving in their relationships. If you are interested in learning more about the 18 Inch Journey, head over to http://18inchjourney.com. We have created resources for discipleship and tools for stewarding your life with the Lord at https://engagingcultivate.com.  You can also watch this podcast on the Cageless Birds YouTube channel. Thank you for listening!

God is in His kindness will bring you back to the stages you need in life. This episode is part 3 of John Eldredge's sessions at the 2021 BraveCo conference. We pray that God fathers you during this session and that you feel his love for you.Foundations of Masculinity Church Curriculum: https://www.church.braveco.org/BraveCo Conference 2023: https://www.braveco.org/eventsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Aron welcomes Jay Vallotton to the podcast.  Jay is an Emotional Health Guide, Pastor, and runs a men's discipleship program called BraveCo.  They have a good conversation going over mental, physical, and spiritual health. Jay works with men from all walks of life from business executives to military special operations soldiers in making sure they are where they need to be mentally.  Not your typical podcast, but its definitely one that everyone needs to listen to!

What does BraveCo do? In this episode, Jay interviews Group 32 (Byron Crisp, MJ Salvatore, Chris Boyd, William Brainard, Louis Dalton, and Dan Grotberg). These men journeyed through 12 months of BraveCo's guidance.  Listen to what God did in that time and how you can benefit as well.Foundations of Masculinity Church Curriculum: https://www.church.braveco.org/BraveCo Conference 2023: https://www.braveco.org/eventsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this introductory episode, Jason and Lauren share a little about themselves and why they've started this podcast. Married for nearly 12 years, the Vallottons have a complex combination of relational dynamics. Divorce, remarriage, blended family, adult children, and babies are all a part of the story. They're both pastors and leaders at Bethel Church in Redding, California where Jason serves on the Senior Leadership Team, oversees the counseling department, and runs a men's ministry called BraveCo. Lauren is focussing on the babies in this season but also serves on the Senior Leadership Team at Bethel. The genesis of "Dates, Mates & Babies with the Vallottons" was birthed out of their journey of leading themselves and others through the ups and downs of life in pursuit of the highest level of relational fulfillment and health. Jason and Lauren believe that as humans, we're created in the image of God, designed to live in family and community, but learning to thrive in these contexts is learned rather than innate. They're excited to unpack subjects of relational health, relatable stories from their own journey, interviews with experts, and series on relational topics of interest. If you want to learn about dating, marriage, raising kids, journeying through infertility, blending families or a variety of other subjects, subscribe and stay connected!Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Faith doesn't avoid emotion. This episode is a message from our last BraveCo conference. Brian Johnson shares about the role Jesus modeled as a man.BraveCo Conference 2023: https://www.braveco.org/eventsFoundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

This is episode is from a session from our BraveCo conference in 2021.  Aaron Zint, leader of The Whole Man Project, speaks about his journey with porn and what helped him get freedom. If this has been something that has plagued you in the past or currently, this episode with give you language and hope for the future.BraveCo Conference 2023: https://www.braveco.org/eventsFoundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

When did you last feel fully alive? This episode is from our BraveCo conference last year where John Eldredge spoke to the men about battle, adventure, and beauty. We pray this message sits with you for a while and challenges you. Foundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Men are the chief lover in the home. This episode is a teaching from Danny Silk at our last BraveCo conference. Men, this message will challenge you to take ownership and lead with love and humility.  Foundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsMoral Revolution: https://www.moralrevolution.com/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/Transformation Center: https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this week's episode of Cultural Catalysts, Kris Vallotton sat down for a conversation with his son Jason Vallotton, who is the founder of BraveCo. In their conversation, they discussed the importance of knowing your true identity and how to become a man that actually changes the world. Register for the Father Series in partnership with Kris's new book: Uprising at www.theuprisingbook.com

Failure reveals 2 things: How we see ourselves and what poor mindsets are holding us back. In failure, disappointment, and/or unmet expectations, we have to have identity above our actions and not dependent on them. Also, we have to develop mindsets that aren't dependent on the results but overcome them. Listen to my recap of Episode 89 with Eric Nickoli of BraveCo to find more on how failure is your key to success. For more of MEN ARE FORGED, go to... Youtube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjklTnT2LOd_06VLlth3DSg Instagram: www.instagram.com/menareforged/ Twitter: twitter.com/CartMorris3 Purpose Driven Coaching: menareforged.com/defineyourpurpose

Eric Nickoli runs his own Consulting Business focused on helping his clients solve problems and establish scalable systems. With 14 years of experience in operations, management, and the C-Suite in both the for-profit and non-profit spaces, Eric has become a voice of authority in problem solving. Coupling his experience with his skillset as a Mechanical Engineer, Eric has a unique ability to see areas needing improvement as well as utilizing the available resources to deploy necessary changes. Eric also currently serves as CEO for a global non-profit, BraveCo. BraveCo is Men's Discipleship movement focused on getting men connected, healthy and whole. "If you heal a Father, you heal a Family, and if you can heal a Family, you can heal the Nations." For more on MEN ARE FORGED, go to... Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjklTnT2LOd_06VLlth3DSg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/menareforged/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/CartMorris3 Purpose Driven Coaching: https://menareforged.com/defineyourpurpose

Eric Nickoli runs his own Consulting Business focused on helping his clients solve problems and establish scalable systems. With 14 years of experience in operations, management, and the C-Suite in both the for-profit and non-profit spaces, Eric has become a voice of authority in problem solving. Coupling his experience with his skillset as a Mechanical Engineer, Eric has a unique ability to see areas needing improvement as well as utilizing the available resources to deploy necessary changes. Eric also currently serves as CEO for a global non-profit, BraveCo. BraveCo is Men's Discipleship movement focused on getting men connected, healthy and whole. "If you heal a Father, you heal a Family, and if you can heal a Family, you can heal the Nations." For more on MEN ARE FORGED, go to... Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjklTnT2LOd_06VLlth3DSg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/menareforged/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/CartMorris3 Podcast Consulting: https://menareforged.com/podcastconsulting

Jason Vallotton is the founder of BraveCO – a global men's movement - and overseer of the Bethel Transformation Center. He has helped thousands of men and women discover their God-given identity, find freedom, and walk out their true calling. His personal testimony, insight, and wisdom have brought powerful breakthroughs to difficult situations for both leaders and families. In today's episode, Sathiya and Jason deep dive into the role of a father in a home and society at large, how men can heal if their fathers were absent, a practical way to deal with pain in a manly way, and the importance of leaving a legacy by instilling a sense of identity in the people around you. Visit BraveCo's Discipleship Program Check out Jason Valloton website for more updates Follow @braveco.men and @jasonvalloton on Instagram Get my blueprint to experience lasting freedom. Order a copy of The Last Relapse Join DeepClean Inner Circle, a free, private community of men from around the world pursuing freedom just like you.

Jason Vallotton is the founder of BraveCO – a global men's movement - and overseer of the Bethel Transformation Center. He has helped thousands of men and women discover their God-given identity, find freedom, and walk out their true calling. His personal testimony, insight, and wisdom have brought powerful breakthroughs to difficult situations for both leaders and families. In today's episode, Sathiya and Jason deep dive into the role of a father in a home and society at large, how men can heal if their fathers were absent, a practical way to deal with pain in a manly way, and the importance of leaving a legacy by instilling a sense of identity in the people around you. Visit BraveCo's Discipleship Program Check out Jason Valloton website for more updates Follow @braveco.men and @jasonvalloton on Instagram   Get my blueprint to experience lasting freedom. Order a copy of The Last Relapse Join DeepClean Inner Circle, a free, private community of men from around the world pursuing freedom just like you.

Aside from leading BraveCo, Jason is a counselor/pastor at a megachurch in northern California. He and his wife have been married for 10 years, and have 4 children with 1 on the way. He's also an avid hunter and fisherman, a novice-but-aspiring jiu-jitsu fighter, and an overall hobby enthusiast. In this episode, Jason Vallotton teaches how to weaponize your story.  When we own our story, we walk and talk more powerfully in life.  - Whatever you get breakthrough in, you have authority over. - Your testimony is fuel for others.- Your story is not fixed. You are not stuck.- The challenge you are in today will be a breakthrough for someone else tomorrow.Revelation 12:11, 1 Timothy 6:12Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Join BraveCourse: https://www.braveco.org/bravecourseShop: https://shop.braveco.org/ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Aside from leading BraveCo, Jason is a counselor/pastor at a megachurch in northern California. He and his wife have been married for 10 years, and have 4 children with 1 on the way. He's also an avid hunter and fisherman, a novice-but-aspiring jiu-jitsu fighter, and an overall hobby enthusiast. In this introduction to the BraveCo Podcast, Jason Vallotton shares his story and the heart and mission of BraveCo. We hope you are encouraged by not only what Jason survived but how he's helping others with what he walked through. Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Join BraveCourse: https://www.braveco.org/bravecourseShop: https://shop.braveco.org/ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

We are so excited to share this week's episode, “Am I A Good Stepparent?”, with special guests, Jason and Lauren Vallotton. Jason is the Pastoral Care Overseer at Bethel Redding. He is a counselor, teacher and outdoor adventure enthusiast! He's given his life to resourcing and equipping people with tools for emotional and relational health and is the founder of BraveCo, an online community of men pursuing wholeness, purpose and brotherhood. Jason is also the author of Winning the War Within and co-author of Moral Revolution. Lauren is an Executive Pastor at Bethel Church in Redding, California where she helps bring pastoral and logistical leadership to the Church Team. With a knack for organizational leadership and strategy, she's fueled by her heart to see individuals, families, and cities transformed to display their greatest potential! She and Jason have recently added a beautiful baby girl to the party, and their family continues to be their greatest joy and deepest fulfillment.In this episode we discuss:How to date after divorceCo-parenting as a team with your spouseBuilding connections and establishing trust with your stepchildrenJason's book: Winning the War WithinAnd more!! This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovementWhere to find Jason and Lauren Vallotton: Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallottonLauren's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lvallottonJason's new book, Winning the War Within: https://shop.bethel.com/collections/jason-vallotton/products/pre-order-winning-the-war-within-the-journey-to-healing-and-wholenessJason's Men's Discipleship Program: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men