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Today I'm diving deep into one of the most important topics for men: building and maintaining a thriving marriage. If you've ever felt disconnected, stuck in conflict, or unsure how to bring joy back into your relationship, this episode is for you.As a pastor and counselor, I've spent years helping couples rekindle their connection, and today, I'll share my insights on emotional bank accounts. You'll learn:+ Why marriage isn't broken by conflict—but by how you handle it+ The importance of daily deposits into your relationship+ How to recognize and respond to your partner's bids for connectionIf you're tired of withdrawing without making deposits, I'll walk you through practical steps to restore balance, trust, and intimacy. From real-life stories of couples on the brink of divorce to proven tools for building emotional reserves, this episode is packed with value.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share to help others strengthen their relationships. Together, let's build marriages and lives we love.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this conversation, Jason Vallotton shares his journey through pain, forgiveness, and healing after experiencing a difficult divorce and becoming a single parent. He discusses the importance of processing pain, understanding needs, and setting boundaries in relationships. Jason emphasizes the role of hope and vision in overcoming challenges and highlights the significance of self-awareness in recognizing and addressing emotional needs. He also introduces his ministry, BraveCo, aimed at supporting men in their personal growth and healing journeys.TakeawaysSharing painful experiences can help others heal.Pain can lead to anger and feelings of powerlessness.Acknowledging pain is the first step to processing it.Forgiveness is a multi-layered process that requires time.Self-awareness is crucial for understanding emotional needs.Healthy relationships are built on clear needs and boundaries.Hope is essential for moving forward in life.Mourning is a necessary part of healing and should be embraced.Creating a vision for the future can provide purpose in pain.Check out Jason's website: https://jasonvallotton.com/Braveco: https://www.braveco.org/Jason's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/Follow the next brave thing podcast on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nextbravethingpodcast/For life coaching: www.ella-hooper.com

In this lively and candid episode, Jason welcomes back his dear friend Cole Zick for their monthly conversation, and this time they dive into the intense topic of temptation and sex drive. It's a friendly but heated back-and-forth debate as Jason and Cole take on one of the most prevalent challenges of today's culture: managing our sex drives in a world that constantly bombards us with temptation.Humanity has stumbled into a "sexual storm," but is it possible to condition our sex drive to honor our spouses alone? Cole argues that not only is it possible, but it's also practically doable, pointing to James 4:8 and the call to resist temptation. Our sex drive and the devil are not the same, and through practice, we can train our minds to the point where frequent temptations lose their power over us.But Jason pushes back, exploring the difficulty of daily resistance, especially in a culture so saturated with sexual imagery and distraction. Together, they tackle the reality that lust is the willful participation in telling a story that isn't ours—a dangerous narrative that pulls us away from our true purpose.They remind listeners that even Jesus was tempted in every way, meaning He understands what we go through. His death wasn't just for us, but as us, offering us the strength to make powerful choices in the face of temptation. In this life, we may not be able to eliminate temptation completely, but that's where the nobility lies—in overcoming, in saying no, and in making decisions that lead us toward freedom.If you've ever struggled with managing your sexual urges or wondered if it's even possible to retrain your mind, this conversation is for you. Join Jason and Cole for a real, raw discussion that will challenge and encourage you to make powerful decisions in your daily battle.Connect with Cole Zick:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colezick/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cczickABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Hey BraveCo Men! Tune in as Jay sits down with Rick Chavez, a man whose life has been radically transformed by God's grace. Rick's journey is one of intense conflict, growing up in a chaotic home filled with violence while experiencing glimpses of God that only added to his internal turmoil. Despite Rick's conflicting choices, His belief in the Lord remained. From a young age, Rick was caught in a whirlwind of drugs, gang life, and the weight of becoming a father at 15. Just days after his son was born, Rick faced a charge of attempted murder—a moment that pushed him further into a battle between addiction and his desire to be the father he never had.Rick's life took a sharp turn when a public defender gave him a choice: rehab or prison. What he didn't expect was that the rehab would be a deep dive into prayer, fasting, and hours immersed in the Word. Through this, God began to work in Rick's heart, showing him the power of surrender and transformation.In this conversation, Jason and Rick discuss the struggles men face—feeling conflicted, inadequate, or uncertain about their roles in life. Rick's story is a powerful reminder that no matter how far gone we may feel, God is willing to move mightily in our lives, especially in our marriages and families. The question remains: will you show up and trust Him?Rick, now a leader in men's core groups at Bethel, shares the lessons he's learned through pain, redemption, and the power of showing up. Tune in to hear his story of how God can transform a yielded heart, no matter the past.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this powerful episode of the March or Die Show, host Jeremy Stalnecker sits down with Jason Vallotton, the Pastoral Care Overseer at Bethel Church in Redding, California. Jason shares his personal journey of faith, mental health struggles, and his passion for discipleship through the men's ministry -  BraveCo. Jason talks about growing up in a small Christian town, getting married young, and facing immense challenges, including a difficult divorce, raising children as a single father, and overcoming a nervous breakdown. He also opens up about dealing with anxiety and OCD, blending a family after remarriage, and his struggle with infertility. Learn more about Jay: https://jasonvallotton.com/ Learn more about BraveCo: https://www.braveco.org/ Follow Jason: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/ Please Hit The LIKE and SUBSCRIBE BUTTONS as well as the NOTIFICATION BELL. Thanks For Watching.  Follow Me on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremystalneckerofficialInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremystalnecker/Twitter: https://twitter.com/jstalneckerAlso at: https://jeremystalnecker.com/ #mentalhealth #ministry #podcast Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Hey BraveCo Men! Get ready for a powerful episode as Jason sits down with his dad, Kris Vallotton, to dive into the vital topic of spiritual intelligence. In today's world, this is our secret weapon as believers—it's the distinct advantage that sets us apart and draws others in. Why? Because we can only access it through the Holy Spirit.When we receive Jesus Christ, our human spirit connects with the Holy Spirit and comes alive, transforming us from the inside out. Before that, our spirit was incomplete, deformed even, but with His presence, we're made whole.Many people overlook the importance of spiritual intelligence, but it brings an irreplaceable dimension to our lives. The spiritual realm is very real, and it's up to us to grow in our understanding of it. Unlike the world, we have the Holy Spirit living within us, empowering us to think beyond human capacity.The Holy Spirit doesn't just rest upon us—He lives inside of us, giving us access to what Kris calls the third dimension of thinking. We have IQ (intelligence), EQ (emotional intelligence), and now SQ—spiritual intelligence—the mind of Christ. It's not just thinking like Jesus; it's thinking His actual thoughts.This episode is for anyone hungry to experience more of God in their everyday life. Tune in and be inspired!Connect with Kris Vallotton: Website: https://www.krisvallotton.com/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Hey BraveCo Men! Tune in as Jay is interviewed on Bethel Church's Transformation Center's podcast: It's Time for Breakthrough.In this compelling episode, Jason Vallotton takes us on a journey through the often-avoided territory of pain and emotional processing. As men, we're frequently taught to run from pain, to downplay it, or to stuff it down, believing that life is about avoiding discomfort at all costs. But what if the key to true healing and growth lies in doing the exact opposite?Jason challenges the cultural narrative around pain, explaining the importance of making room for our emotions—whether it's anger, sadness, grief, guilt, or shame—and how embracing these emotions can lead to profound inner healing.This episode will dive into the nuances of different types of pain and offer practical steps on how to unpack and process them effectively. True strength isn't about avoiding pain but about facing it head-on, understanding it, and allowing it to shape us into better, more whole individuals.Join us as we explore what it means to embrace the unseen parts of our emotional lives and discover the freedom that comes from processing pain with intention and grace. This is an essential conversation for anyone seeking deeper emotional and spiritual health.Connect with the Transformation Center:Website: https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/podcast ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Hey BraveCo Men! Listen in as Jay and Cole recap the BraveCo Conference 2024. Beware, you might feel a little fomo while listening to this episode!We have all been in conferences where you are glued to your seats, just listening, and as men, it can be tough to participate in this style of learning, where the expectation of massive impact can leave you feeling a bit disappointed. At BraveCo, the conference model of “come, sit, listen and sing” has been a model we've sought to break out of. We've been exploring new options for how to engage men in a life-giving way that reforms the standard experience, where men get to feel the strength that comes with being seen, being part of a tribe, and engaging in ministry that is not reserved for the special few, but where the whole team contributes in a significant way. ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Money can be a tough topic for marriages and relationships, especially in today's challenging financial climate. Finances can become a minefield for some couples, but achieving a life of peace and power in every area, including finances, is possible. Peace isn't about the absence of conflict or troubles; it's about having a plan.In this dynamic and empowering episode, Jason Vallotton sits down with his good friend Chris Lamm, owner of Mortgage One in Redding, California, and host of the Money Whole podcast. Together, they address the keys to moving towards financial freedom and fostering financial harmony in relationships.Seek Expertise: Find someone who's better at managing finances than you and ask for help.Budgeting: Utilize a personal family budget to track and manage expenses effectively.Long-Term Vision: Create a long-term vision for where you want to be financially, then reverse-engineer that vision to set achievable goals.Strategic Financial Management: Be strategic with income, investments, and savings by either increasing your income, cutting unnecessary spending, or both.Overcoming Barriers: Address barriers to financial growth, including fear and uncertainty.Take Action: Take proactive steps towards your financial goals, no matter how small they may seem.Quotes:"Peace isn't the absence of conflict or troubles; it exists when you have a plan.""People want to feel powerful in every area of life, finances included."Resources:Mortgage OneMoney Whole Podcast Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

There is a stumbling block to the modern-day dating system. With the advancement of social media and the infiltration of p***ography across the board, more and more men are holding onto their choice due to the perceived idea that there is a better option somewhere else. Sathiya Sam is the creator of DeepClean, a proven process for resolving the root issues of p*** addiction. Sathiya took 15 years to fully recover from his own addiction, now uses his education, expertise, and experience to help men get free of p*** addiction.Sathiya has had the privilege of sharing both his story and his work on hundreds of  platforms, including top 1% podcasts, national television broadcasts, and stages around the world.Connect with Sathiya:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ss07tq YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDQC38ppxDd2AAcP5gbUypQ Website: https://www.sathiyasam.com Resources: https://www.sathiyasam.com/case-study ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

RAVE JESUS, a unique musical journey brought to you by King Topher, an internationally renowned DJ and Producer with Billboard-charting hits and hundreds of millions of streams. Dive into an electrifying experience where faith meets music, and the beats bring you closer to a divine celebration.King Topher's mastery in blending captivating rhythms with powerful messages has made him a global sensation. With RAVE JESUS, he takes you on an unforgettable ride, combining his musical genius with a higher purpose. Join us as we rave for Jesus and spread love, faith, and positivity through every beat.Connect with King Topher:Youtube:  @RaveJesusMusic  Website: https://www.ravejesus.com/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/3mPHVEre3DiAHKuOCBFP8D?si=bNAQWGlmR721HfvH16sw-AApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/rave-jesus/1732318793IG: https://www.instagram.com/ravejesusmusic/

Episode 76 is a message that Jason Vallotton preached at Bethel Church on Father's Day, 2024! Following the annual BraveCo men's conference, Jason recalls testimonies and big wins from BraveCo's  largest men's event of the year before diving into a profoundly impactful message.Drawing lessons from the creation story in Genesis, Jason explores how God's structured approach to creating the world can offer us valuable insights for managing our own lives. Each day of creation holds a lesson on bringing order to our personal chaos.To wrap it up, Jason confronts chaos head-on, exploring themes of divine order and the necessity of setting boundaries. Personal stories highlight financial struggles and the fears that come with instability, offering lessons from biblical stories like the Israelites in the wilderness. He shares the importance of seeking support and true repentance as keys to transforming chaos into order in every area of life. Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Repentance makes you clean, but confession brings freedom.In this episode, Jay sits down with Dave Harvey, where Dave shares the recent upgrades experienced through the gateway of honesty that comes with grief and pain, without blanketing over wounds and offense. When we are honest with our wounds, and allow God to meet us in those areas, we can show up clean and strong as sons, brothers, husbands, fathers, and leaders. God desires for us to deal with our pain, and work through forgiveness–not in theory, but in true freedom.Dave & his wife, Taff are the Directors of the Bethel Leaders Network (BLN) which exists to connect, encourage, and empower leaders across the world. Prior to this role, Dave was a pastor and manager at Bethel's School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM). Dave is a gifted motivational speaker who has a powerful prophetic voice and international influence. His passion is the empowerment of individuals, leaders, and communities, in all spheres of society, helping them to live naturally supernatural lives. Dave worked in Australia as a secondary teacher, consultant to schools and community organizations, and has pioneered many effective programs and motivational seminars which continue to empower young people and families. He has also authored and ghost-written several books which have impacted the global community. Dave is also the founder of ‘INCREASE', releasing testimonies of God's goodness through print and the ‘Increase' Testimony App. His passion to steward the testimony is contagious. Connect with Dave:Website: https://www.bethel.com/people/dave-harvey Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dave.harvey.940 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daveharvey7/?igsh=MTMzNG51eHozZzBiZA%3D%3D Bethel Leaders Network: https://www.bethelleadersnetwork.com BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org 

Let's debunk the saying that there are “bad” emotions. Emotions just are! We experience them all on some level every day. In this episode, Aaron Zint, leader of The Whole Man Project, and author of Numb to Known, joins Jay to talk about mastering your emotions.Connect with Aaron:Website: https://aaronzint.wixsite.com/website Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aaron.zint Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintmarriagelab/?hl=en Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-lab/id1559373076Book: https://www.amazon.com/Numb-Known-Surprising-Path-Away-ebook/dp/B0BDW3TLGJ Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/

We hope you enjoy this BSSM Online session with Jay, as he recently shared on all things addiction–uncovering where it stems for most individuals, the implications of the way that we are wired, and the practical needs that need to be met to overcome. When you grow up in a home with strong bonds and attachment, your nervous system blossoms in a healthy way, with regulated emotions. When there are gaps in the concrete of our lives, those chasms, if not met in a healthy way, can quickly and chronically be filled with addiction. If you are someone you love, struggles with addiction, or brokenness, we pray this session blesses you and helps you move forward in healing and freedom.Connect with BSSM Online:Website: https://bssm.net/school/online/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/bssmredding Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Calling all those who are ready to have healthy boundaries and deep connections with those around them! This episode is a session led by Jason Vallotton at the Boundaries Lab at Bethel Church, Twin View Campus.  In this session, Jason gives a Biblical introduction through the foundation in Genesis as to how God showed great love to us by giving us the boundaries of earth, and all that He created as good, before He formed man. Our inheritance, from the start, was beautiful.God set a perfect stage, where all forms of life were instructed with order, in a place where we could succeed. We find in the story of Creation that He didn't set us up to fail, but He created a place for us to thrive with order and instruction; not a task out of reach, or impossible for us. We hope you enjoy this session where Jason covers the how-to's, whys, and what it looks like to implement boundaries in love with practical examples, and Q&A. Connect with the Transformation Center:Website:https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bethel.tc2 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tc.bethel?igsh=cmZkODB1ZHQ4NGFk YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tc.bethel Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/3zRXWTT2mTTJna1Z2Hz8LC?si=7Aa-ZxgZT5-rPNSHtgA1cQ&nd=1&dlsi=a9263d63c49341a0 Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Ever find yourself battling with doubts and insecurities in your relationship? How do you know if it's God or you or your upbringing? You're not alone. We delve deep into the complexities of relationship anxiety. From identifying the signs to practical strategies for overcoming it, we're here to offer support and guidance. Whether you're in a new romance or a long-term relationship, navigating relationship anxiety can be challenging. But fear not, we've got your back! Jason Vallotton, unpacks 3 root causes and steps to overcome them. Tune in, share your experiences, and let's embark on a journey toward healthier, happier connections together. #RelationshipAnxiety #LoveAndRelationships #MentalHealthAwareness #moralrevolution #christianrelationships Get More From Jason: Winning the War Within Book - Jason Vallotton

Calling all those who are ready to have healthy boundaries and deep connections with those around them! This episode is a session led by Jason Vallotton at the Boundaries Lab at Bethel Church, Twin View Campus.  In this session, Jason gives a Biblical introduction through the foundation in Genesis as to how God showed great love to us by giving us the boundaries of earth, and all that He created as good, before He formed man. Our inheritance, from the start, was beautiful.God set a perfect stage, where all forms of life were instructed with order, in a place where we could succeed. We find in the story of Creation that He didn't set us up to fail, but He created a place for us to thrive with order and instruction; not a task out of reach, or impossible for us. We hope you enjoy this session where Jason covers the how-to's, whys, and what it looks like to implement boundaries in love with practical examples, and Q&A. Connect with the Transformation Center:Website:https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bethel.tc2 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tc.bethel?igsh=cmZkODB1ZHQ4NGFk YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tc.bethel Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/3zRXWTT2mTTJna1Z2Hz8LC?si=7Aa-ZxgZT5-rPNSHtgA1cQ&nd=1&dlsi=a9263d63c49341a0 BraveCo 2024 Conference:https://brushfire.com/bethelevents/BraveCo2024/566251 Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org Connect with BraveCo:Website: https://www.braveco.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.men  Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D 

How do I find out what my unmet needs are? How do you teach a group of people how to process pain? How do you build connection with your teenager? What do I do if a certain date of the year always brings me crushing pain? Jason Vallotton answers these questions and more during his Q&A on KYLO University. Watch this episode to find out if Jason answered your questions on how to forgive and processing pain.To learn more about KYLO University: https://www.lovingonpurpose.com/kylo-universityFoundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood and misused tools in the kingdom. In this episode, Jason Vallotton breaks down what forgiveness actually is and walks us step by step on forgiving someone.To learn more about KYLO University, check it out here: https://www.kylouniversity.com/Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

What does it look like to go to God to get our needs met? How can you help someone close to you who feels like a victim? Jason Vallotton answers these questions and more during his Q&A on KYLO University. If you have questions around processing pain, listen here. Check out KYLO University here: https://www.kylouniversity.com/Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Most of us go through life doing our best to avoid pain. But the real challenge is that life is full of pain. How would our lives change if we learned to embrace pain? In this episode, Jason Vallotton speaks on KYLO University about how pain is the doorway to our greatest breakthroughs and how we can learn to welcome pain. Learn more about KYLO University here: https://www.kylouniversity.com/Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this inspiring conversation, Nicholas Bayerle and Jason Vallotton dive deep into the world of personal growth, masculinity, and building meaningful relationships among men. Join us as we explore the power of vulnerability, authenticity, and shared experiences in fostering strong bonds. Jason shares insights from his organization, BraveCo, which focuses on helping men develop emotional strength, authentic masculinity, and healthy relationships. Discover the importance of intentional growth and camaraderie, and learn how to initiate deeper conversations and connections with fellow men. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking discussion that could transform the way you approach personal development and relationships. TIMESTAMP: [00:00-00:50] Introduction to the Importance of Authentic Relationships [00:50-04:00] Men's Struggle with Vulnerability and Authenticity [04:00-08:00] Men's Fear of Being Judged and Not Liked [08:00-12:20] Importance of Genuine Friendships for Personal Growth [12:20-15:40] Initiating Deeper Conversations with Friends [15:40-19:50] Overcoming the Fear of Sharing Personal Failures [19:50-24:40] The Role of Discipleship and Building Strong Relationships [24:40-28:10] Benefits of Joining a Group or Program for Personal Growth [28:10-32:00] Finding Common Ground and Shared Hobbies [32:00-35:30] The Role of Shared Experiences in Building Relationships [35:30-39:00] Building Intentional Connections with Men [39:00-42:10] Challenging the Idea of Wives as Substitute Mothers [42:10-45:10] Stepping Up in Relationships and Setting High Standards [45:10-48:10] Taking the Initiative to Create Deeper Connections [48:10-51:14] Wrapping Up the Conversation and Closing Remarks Takeaways: Exploring Masculinity and Bonds: Nicholas Bayerle and Jason Vallotton delve into personal growth and meaningful relationships among men, uncovering the transformative power of vulnerability and shared experiences in building strong bonds. Authenticity and Emotional Strength: Jason Vallotton, founder of BraveCo, shares invaluable insights on cultivating authentic masculinity and emotional resilience, emphasizing the significance of intentional growth. Unveiling Camaraderie's Impact: Join the conversation to grasp the importance of camaraderie in personal development, and learn how to ignite deeper conversations and connections with fellow men. Empowering Brotherhood: Don't miss this thought-provoking dialogue that could reshape your approach to personal growth and relationships, as Nicholas and Jason inspire listeners to embrace their true selves and support one another. A Journey of Transformation: Embark on a journey towards authentic masculinity, discovering the potential for personal and relational transformation through vulnerability, shared experiences, and intentional growth. Resources: Connect with Jason on Instagram  Connect with Jason on Facebook Listen on YouTube here Join the Kings brotherhood Fb Group  

You sent us your questions, and we are answering them. This week's Q&A features questions about unraveling OCD, disappointment, how much of Jason's nervous breakdown was physical/mental vs. spiritual, and how to start forming healthy brotherhoods. Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

What takes out more men than anything else? An inflated ego. Jason Vallotton shares his story on how vulnerability and honesty saved him from an inflated ego. If you feel like your ego is getting in the way of experiencing true connection, there's no shame, it's just a matter of taking ownership and recognizing where you feel powerless. Then get fresh perspective from the Lord—He is near to the humble. Foundations of Masculinity Small Groups: https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org/Foundations of Masculinity For Your Church: https://www.church.braveco.org/Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this week's Live Q&A, Kris and Jason Vallotton answer questions on healthy masculinity, how to grow in masculinity and the role of fathers in their children's lives. They discuss the responsibility of a man to provide, promote and protect while also encouraging men to prioritize community in this process. Connect with BraveCo: BraveCo Conference: https://www.bethel.com/calendar/braveco-conference Website: https://www.braveco.org/ Connect with Kris Vallotton: Website: https://www.krisvallotton.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kvministries/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kvministries/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kvministries Additional Resources by Kris Vallotton: https://shop.bethel.com/collections/kris-vallotton About Kris Vallotton: Kris Vallotton is the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church, Redding, and is the Co-Founder of Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM). He is also the Founder and President of Moral Revolution and a sought-after international conference speaker. Kris and his wife, Kathy, have trained, developed, and pastored prophetic teams and supernatural schools all over the world.

Courage isn't only for the battlefield— we need courage to show up in our own lives and for others. In this episode, Jason Vallotton, breaks down how to win the war within. By changing how we see the battle, how we see ourselves and persevering with the Lord—we can't lose. BraveCo 2023 Conference: https://www.braveco.org/eventsFoundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

So many of us go through challenges in life and instead of those challenges being for a season, we end up carrying them through our entire life. What are you carrying in your backpack that's weighing you down? We hope that this episode inspires you to stop and take a look at what's yours to carry and what burdens you're supposed to share. BraveCo 2023 Conference: https://www.braveco.org/eventsFoundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

As a part of Moral Revolution's Date Well series, Jason Vallotton and Abram Goff discuss emotional health, learning yourself, boundaries, opening up emotionally in dating, and jealousy. Whether you are in the dating phase or just want to be more self-aware, check out this episode.BraveCo 2023 Conference: https://www.braveco.org/eventsFoundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this episode, Jonathan Helser and Jason Vallotton continue their conversation about living as powerful, healthy men. “Where are you?” This was the first question God asked in the Bible to Adam and Eve after they sinned and were hiding. It is so important for us all to grow in understanding our stories so that we can confess to God and others where we actually are and ask for help. This is where discipleship happens. Jason Vallotton is a pastor and counselor in Redding, CA. He is a longtime friend of Jonathan and Melissa who has made a significant impact on our community and our discipleship schools. (Learn more about Jason's ministry and the BraveCo podcast here: https://braveco.org) To listen to the “Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons” Podcast, click here. Our 18 Inch Journey discipleship school exists to close the gap between what we know about God in our heads and who we believe Him to be in our hearts. Our vision is to see sons and daughters who are yielded to Jesus, tending to their inner life, and thriving in their relationships. If you are interested in learning more about the 18 Inch Journey, head over to http://18inchjourney.com. We have created resources for discipleship and tools for stewarding your life with the Lord at https://engagingcultivate.com.  You can also watch this podcast on the Cageless Birds YouTube channel.  

Authentic connection is not a luxury for men, it's a necessity. When a man's true self (the good, the bad, the ugly) is exchanged with others, he thrives. Disconnection breeds unworthiness which breeds addiction, depression, etc. Men, you were created for connection and to be seen and loved just as you are. If you struggle with hiding yourself and feelings of unworthiness—check out this episode to be encouraged. BraveCo 2023 Conference: https://www.braveco.org/eventsFoundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Hear from our special guest, Jason Vallotton!

In this episode, Jonathan Helser and Jason Vallotton dialogue about the work of living as a healthy man in today's culture. Taking a season to slow down and strengthen our roots is a courageous and necessary step in the process of becoming who we were made to be.  Jason Vallotton is a pastor and counselor in Redding, CA. He is a longtime friend of Jonathan and Melissa who has made a significant impact on our community and our discipleship schools. (Learn more about Jason's ministry and the BraveCo podcast here: https://braveco.org) To listen to the “Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons” Podcast, click here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dates-mates-and-babies-with-the-vallottons/id1664279770 Our 18 Inch Journey discipleship school exists to close the gap between what we know about God in our heads and who we believe Him to be in our hearts. Our vision is to see sons and daughters who are yielded to Jesus, tending to their inner life, and thriving in their relationships. If you are interested in learning more about the 18 Inch Journey, head over to http://18inchjourney.com. We have created resources for discipleship and tools for stewarding your life with the Lord at https://engagingcultivate.com.  You can also watch this podcast on the Cageless Birds YouTube channel. Thank you for listening!

God's plan for the earth is you! You were created to lead where you are at. This episode is for those who are confused or discouraged about their purpose. You are not here by accident.Foundations of Masculinity Church Curriculum: https://www.church.braveco.org/BraveCo Conference 2023: https://www.braveco.org/eventsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

We're in a war whether we know it or not. In this episode, Jay gives you tools to ready yourself and face challenges with courage.Foundations of Masculinity Church Curriculum: https://www.church.braveco.org/BraveCo Conference 2023: https://www.braveco.org/eventsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this episode, Jay and Tim talk through depression and some signs you are struggling with it. Take heart that depression isn't a life sentence. It can be overcome. We pray this episode encourages you and give you the hope you need today.Foundations of Masculinity Church Curriculum: https://www.church.braveco.org/BraveCo Conference 2023: https://www.braveco.org/eventsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

On this episode we dive into some mature themes involving mental health. As a trigger warning, we do address depression, anxiety and suicide briefly. Our hope is that this conversation will bring hope and resources. Please call 988 for a 24/7 lifeline for you or a loved one. We are glad you're here! 988lifeline.org Dr. Arianna is a clinical psychologist, speaker, educator, and mental health advocate. She provides expert, individualized treatment of anxiety disorders, depression, and other life issues in her NYC-based private practice. You can find her on Instagram at @DrAriannaAnswers. She also offers practical mental health guidance to thousands more through her podcast, Dr. Arianna Answers. IG: instagram.com/drariannaanswers Website: drabrandolini.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/arianna-answers/id1551584748 Books mentioned: Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts: A CBT-Based Guide to Getting Over Frightening, Obsessive, or Disturbing Thoughts by Sally M. Winston PsyD & Martin N. Seif PhD Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself by Nedra Glover Tawwab The Supernatural Power of Forgiveness: Discover How to Escape Your Prison of Pain and Unlock a Life of Freedom by Jason Vallotton and Kris Vallotton Clinical Psychologist Everett Worthington Produced by On Air with Q

In this episode, Jay goes through questions sent in by our Instagram BraveCo community. If you have questions you would like Jay to answer, DM us and we'll add them to our next episode. Stay brave!Foundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

How do you know if you have forgiven someone? Jason Vallotton shares in this episode how to apply forgiveness to your life.  Living without the burden of pain and resentment will give you the strength to live a full life. Foundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Emotions are a gift to us. In this episode, Jay talks about triggers, self-awareness, self-talk, and more. You may not have been taught how to do this, but it isn't too late to learn.Foundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

In this week's episode of Cultural Catalysts, Kris Vallotton sat down for a conversation with his son Jason Vallotton, who is the founder of BraveCo. In their conversation, they discussed the importance of knowing your true identity and how to become a man that actually changes the world. Register for the Father Series in partnership with Kris's new book: Uprising at www.theuprisingbook.com

Where did you learn how to date? In this episode, Alley Vallotton, Jay's daughter-in-law, joins Jay to talk about dating. This subject can be confusing and anxiety-filled. Jay provides some questions you will want to consider while dating someone.  If you're single or know someone who is, this conversation will be insightful.Foundations of Masculinity: https://www.braveco.org/foundationsJason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

“Servanthood is the way to the top. You will never outgrow serving…the more you have the more you're required to give.”   dadAWESOME   We're on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We're passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God's awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook   Jason Vallotton   Recovering mental health, Cultivating spiritual fathers, and Living with Hope. Jason Vallotton is the pastoral care overseer at Bethel Church in Redding, California and is a sought-after counselor, teacher, and speaker. Previously, he served for 10 years in the Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry as a pastor, counselor, and overseer. Jason and his wife Lauren live in Redding, California, and have 4 wonderful children. Jason's primary passion is for the hearts of men to live fully alive to their calling. In his downtime, Jason can be found hiking in the Trinity Alps, fishing the Sacramento River, or hunting anywhere that wild game can be found!   Ministry Shout Out!   Crazy Cool Family A family whose mission is to show parents how to connect the relationships in their family to Jesus and each other.   Conversation Notes   3:16 – Story of Jason's first son being born when he was 19 years old 5:11 – The gift of patience turning the burden into an opportunity. 5:35 – Having friends and community gives perspective. “But we actually get to multiply our experience the closer we are to our friends because if we walk through a hard time with them, we get to gain the wisdom and the learning and understanding.” 6:48 – Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. James 1:2-3 7:49 “Great opportunity comes with every hard season for those who have eyes to see it.” – Quote from Winning the War Within by Jason Vallotton 9:17 – You can try and grow through the easy times but there's not as much opportunity to grow in easy times because you're not getting as much feedback. You're not really being stretched. The easy times are a poor indicator of what you're good at and what you're not good at. It's challenging to grow when you're not being tested.” There is fruit in hard times. 10:02 – Psalm 126:5 -”Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy.” Relating this to the story of a farmer making the hard choice between feeding his family the only seed he has and starting a poverty cycle, or choosing to plant the seed and watch his family starve for a season but ultimately breaking the poverty cycle. 11:07 – We're forced into this worldwide [question], “what are you going to do with the challenge you've been given?” 12:07 – Going through a nervous breakdown in 2009. 13:26 – His dad told him, “You're gonna have to decide how your kids are gonna remember you.” 14:26 – “I only get to decide what I do when I'm awake.” 14:53 – “If I don't check out, but I stay in the game even with my kids and my family, I gain so much more than if I check out for the evening.” 15:05 – Quote from Danny Silk – “Kids are gonna pull 60 pounds of energy from you whether you give it to them or whether they take it from you you just get to decide how it happens.” 16:07 – “There's an opportunity for people like never before not just to make a difference in history, but to learn how to embrace challenging times with confidence.” 16:46 – The inside-out dad life – what were the warning signs before the nervous breakdown? 19:50 – Moral Revolution 20:45 – Everything was good – it was so hard to decide what to put down. 22:02 – “Whether it's hard things or whether it's good things, it has a weight to it. It has a weight value and good stress is still stress.” 22:56 – Cultivating spiritual fathers: “If you're going to put someone on your team, make sure they know they are on your team.” 25:39 – “My dad told me once, never apologize for favor, just make sure you use the favor well.” 26:30 – “What is covenant? You have permission to change my mind and I have permission to change your mind.” 27:01 – “Servanthood is the way to the top. You will never outgrow serving…the more you have the more you're required to give.” 28:17 – we're building an inheritance for our kids…the relationships that you create today, that you sacrifice for, it's not it's not as fun as people think. It's not easy I can tell you all those relationships that I just mentioned, there's conflict inside of them. We use all of our communication skills and conflict resolution and honor to keep those relationships going.” 29:33 – Clint graham david and his mighty men series of books? Linked 30:45 – Attending church for yourself is the lowest level of living for a Christian. 31:12 – His dad told him, “People need what you have. They need what you have, and you need to go to youth group and find someone that needs what you have and give it to them.” 34:52 – “Look at what you want your life to be in 10, 20, 30 years and live from now.” 35:10 – How to get out of [dark places], #1 – find new hope. Find who's overcome what you're going through. 35:22 – Curt Richter – Rats with Hope – Sample article 35:43 – #2 – Hope is literally gonna energize you. For hope, you wanna you want to get some vision and create some goals for tomorrow, and then weekly goals and then monthly goals. That's how I overcame the addiction to medication. 36:30 – #3 – Pull yourself objectively outside of yourself and be able to understand that the moment that you're in there's a real opportunity 36:47 – “You'll probably go through it whether you want to or not, so you might as well make it awesome, and getting some outside perspective is really, really helpful.” 37:47 – “What we hide, becomes a definer in our lives and it begins to tell us who we are. And so it probably will be the hardest thing that we ever do, is to go ‘this is really Who I am' but you'll receive love in a way you've never received love because people will love you exactly where you're at, and not for what you want to show you are, they'll know the real you. And therefore you'll have the power to get out of it.”   Conversation Links:   Jason's Website Winning the War Within by Jason Vallotton

Jason Vallotton is the founder of BraveCO – a global men's movement - and overseer of the Bethel Transformation Center. He has helped thousands of men and women discover their God-given identity, find freedom, and walk out their true calling. His personal testimony, insight, and wisdom have brought powerful breakthroughs to difficult situations for both leaders and families. In today's episode, Sathiya and Jason deep dive into the role of a father in a home and society at large, how men can heal if their fathers were absent, a practical way to deal with pain in a manly way, and the importance of leaving a legacy by instilling a sense of identity in the people around you. Visit BraveCo's Discipleship Program Check out Jason Valloton website for more updates Follow @braveco.men and @jasonvalloton on Instagram   Get my blueprint to experience lasting freedom. Order a copy of The Last Relapse Join DeepClean Inner Circle, a free, private community of men from around the world pursuing freedom just like you.

Jason Vallotton is the founder of BraveCO – a global men's movement - and overseer of the Bethel Transformation Center. He has helped thousands of men and women discover their God-given identity, find freedom, and walk out their true calling. His personal testimony, insight, and wisdom have brought powerful breakthroughs to difficult situations for both leaders and families. In today's episode, Sathiya and Jason deep dive into the role of a father in a home and society at large, how men can heal if their fathers were absent, a practical way to deal with pain in a manly way, and the importance of leaving a legacy by instilling a sense of identity in the people around you. Visit BraveCo's Discipleship Program Check out Jason Valloton website for more updates Follow @braveco.men and @jasonvalloton on Instagram Get my blueprint to experience lasting freedom. Order a copy of The Last Relapse Join DeepClean Inner Circle, a free, private community of men from around the world pursuing freedom just like you.

Aside from leading BraveCo, Jason is a counselor/pastor at a megachurch in northern California. He and his wife have been married for 10 years, and have 4 children with 1 on the way. He's also an avid hunter and fisherman, a novice-but-aspiring jiu-jitsu fighter, and an overall hobby enthusiast. In this episode, Jason Vallotton teaches how to weaponize your story.  When we own our story, we walk and talk more powerfully in life.  - Whatever you get breakthrough in, you have authority over. - Your testimony is fuel for others.- Your story is not fixed. You are not stuck.- The challenge you are in today will be a breakthrough for someone else tomorrow.Revelation 12:11, 1 Timothy 6:12Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Join BraveCourse: https://www.braveco.org/bravecourseShop: https://shop.braveco.org/ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Aside from leading BraveCo, Jason is a counselor/pastor at a megachurch in northern California. He and his wife have been married for 10 years, and have 4 children with 1 on the way. He's also an avid hunter and fisherman, a novice-but-aspiring jiu-jitsu fighter, and an overall hobby enthusiast. In this introduction to the BraveCo Podcast, Jason Vallotton shares his story and the heart and mission of BraveCo. We hope you are encouraged by not only what Jason survived but how he's helping others with what he walked through. Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Join BraveCourse: https://www.braveco.org/bravecourseShop: https://shop.braveco.org/ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Love and lust are a constant battle. But what's the difference and how do you know which one you are following? Join us with Jason Vallotton as we talk about it, and don't forget to pick up your copy of the 40 Day Journey To Purity today! #moralrevolution #moralrevpodcast #soonerissafer #letstalkaboutit --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

Tune in to a conversation with Kathy and her son Jason Vallotton on what it looks like to raise sons into Godly men. In this episode, you'll get a sneak peek into how the Lord moved in the Vallotton home, and how He can move in yours. Kathy's book is available now! Get The Good, The God, and The Ugly: http://bit.ly/GGUBook

This week I sit down with Jason Vallotton to discuss how real men deal with pain. Jason is an author, speaker, and founder of BraveCo. His heart is to see emotional prosperity increase through pastoring, counseling, teaching and equipping. You can connect with Jason on Instagram @jayvallotton. You can also get to know me personally at @raydelanuez and don't forget to follow this podcast @becoming.men. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube SIGN UP for our Email Newsletter HERE Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message

Today's conversation is all about how to stay in the fight, choose hope, and reject the lies that so easily distract and discourage us from setting foot on an everyday life of purpose. So maybe today, even as we've begun a new year, you're battling crippling anxiety and depression and don't know what to do. And maybe, you've said, "It's a new year.  And after 2020, I'm scared about what might happen next." Well, all of that is valid. And so today, my good friend, Hannah Brencher, joins the conversation to give you the boost you need to fight forward. If you enjoyed this episode with Hannah, I'm sure you'll also enjoy: 197: Winning the War Within, Justice Warriors, the Danger of Avoiding Pain, and How to Live Fully-Alive (feat. Jason Vallotton) 215: Why Future-Tripping is Depressing and Why Transformation Destroys Self-Improvement (feat. Paul Young, author of “The Shack”) Episode Links: Hannah's Website | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Buy a copy of the book on Amazon! Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow.

This week’s encore conversation is with Jason Vallotton, whose life resonates with the proof that you can win the war against your inner critic and against the lies that keep you from living fully alive. Most people go through life trying not to get hit. But that reactionary posture of avoiding pain is exactly what will keep you from living a strong and successful life in the here and now. So, in today’s conversation, you’re going to walk away with some practical strategies to win in your mental and emotional health and stop the up-and-down inconsistencies that I know you wish you could change if you had a plan. Well today, you’ll get that plan. Episode Links: Jason’s Website | Facebook | Instagram | YouTube | Buy “Winning the War Within” on Amazon! Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow.

Today's conversation is all about living with mental illness, how to set boundaries for your mental health, and how to quiet down a noisy world. Maybe you're here today, and your mental and emotional health is teetering. The first thing I want to say to you is that there is no shame to be had in what you're experiencing. The second thing I want to say is that today's conversation with my friend, Jamie Grace, is going to validate you right where you're at and give you the courage to move forward in health and wholeness. If you enjoyed this episode with Jamie, I'm sure you'll also enjoy: 197: Winning the War Within, Justice Warriors, the Danger of Avoiding Pain, and How to Live Fully-Alive (feat. Jason Vallotton) 215: Why Future-Tripping is Depressing and Why Transformation Destroys Self-Improvement (feat. Paul Young, author of “The Shack”) Episode Links: Jamie's Website | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Buy a copy of the book on Amazon! Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow.

In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Jason Vallotton about developing a healthy inner dialogue. Jason is a husband, dad, pastor, counselor and leads a Men's Ministry called Brave Co. Tune in to hear the keys Jason shares to overcome the obstacles of life, develop a healthy game plan for challenges and become an expert and finding the help you need. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

It's time to reframe our understanding of pain in terms of redemption. It is possible to steward the deepest hurts in our lives so that God can lay the foundation for our future. While it might seem incomprehensible that good can ever come from such profound pain, especially in the midst of our most painful moments. We will discover that God not only can heal our wounds but will use the healing process to equip us for a restored, fulfilled, and powerful life!   Get your own copy of Jason Vallotton's book Winning the War Within: The Journey to Healing and Wholeness.   For additional show notes, visit ShaunTabatt.com/524.   The Shaun Tabatt Show is part of the Destiny Image Podcast Network.

dadAWESOME   We're on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We're passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God's awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Jason Vallotton   Recovering mental health, Cultivating spiritual fathers, and Living with Hope. Jason Vallotton is the pastoral care overseer at Bethel Church in Redding, California and is a sought-after counselor, teacher, and speaker. Previously, he served for 10 years in the Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry as a pastor, counselor, and overseer. Jason and his wife Lauren live in Redding, California, and have 4 wonderful children. Jason's primary passion is for the hearts of men to live fully alive to their calling. In his downtime, Jason can be found hiking in the Trinity Alps, fishing the Sacramento River, or hunting anywhere that wild game can be found!   Conversation Notes:   Full Conversation = Episode 131 Takeaway #1 - Perspective Switch - there is opportunity in the hard times 1:38 - “Great opportunity comes with every hard season for those who have eyes to see it.” 1:58 – “I only get to decide what I do when I'm awake.” 2:29 – “If I don't check out, but I stay in the game even with my kids and my family, I gain so much more than if I check out for the evening.” 2:37 – Quote from Danny Silk – “Kids are gonna pull 60 pounds of energy from you whether you give it to them or whether they take it from you you just get to decide how it happens.” Takeaway #2 - Friendships & Mentorship We must build these relationships “What is covenant? You have permission to change my mind and I have permission to change your mind.” 3:40 - “Servanthood is the way to the top. You will never outgrow serving...the more you have the more you're required to give.” "we're building an inheritance for our kids...the relationships that you create today, that you sacrifice for, it's not it's not as fun as people think. It's not easy I can tell you all those relationships that I just mentioned, there's conflict inside of them. We use all of our communication skills and conflict resolution and honor to keep those relationships going.” Takeaway #3 - People Need What You Have 4:55 - Attending church for yourself is the lowest level of living for a Christian. 5:23 - His dad told him, “People need what you have. They need what you have, and you need to go to youth group and find someone that needs what you have and give it to them.”   Conversation Links:   Jason's Website Winning the War Within by Jason Vallotton

In the words of today's guest, "Life is about being fully present and alive in the embrace of relentless affection, dealing with the world as it really is, not in a non-existent future trip." Wholeness is when the way of our person matches the truth of our being. It's exactly why future-tripping is so futile. Today, my dear friend, Paul Young joins us. Paul is the author of the iconic book, "The Shack," and his life has inspired me more times than I can count. So today, we're diving deeply into the experience of transformation from the inside out and why our beloved self-improvement tactics keep us from seeing the truth of who we are and from receiving love that compels us out of the self-inflicted prison of the soul we call "home." If you enjoyed this episode with Paul Young, I'm sure you'll also enjoy: 197: Winning the War Within, Justice Warriors, the Danger of Avoiding Pain, and How to Live Fully-Alive (feat. Jason Vallotton) 160: “The Shack” Author Wm. Paul Young on Lies We Believe About God, Intimacy, Being Known, and Why the Unexposed Remains Unhealed Episode Links: Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow.

dadAWESOME   We're on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We're passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God's awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Jason Vallotton   Recovering mental health, Cultivating spiritual fathers, and Living with Hope. Jason's heart is to see the emotional prosperity increase through pastoring, counseling, teaching and equipping. His insight and wisdom have brought powerful breakthrough to difficult situations for both leaders and families. Jason is on the Core Team of Bethel church and has been on staff for over 15 years. He currently oversees the departments focused on emotional health and pastoral care for the local church including: the local church pastoral care team, the pre-marrieds ministry and the men's ministry. Jason has a vision for a global men's ministry that will “turn the hearts of fathers back to the hearts of sons!” Jason and his father, Kris, are currently developing and hosting men's events across the country to fulfill this call. Jason and his wife Lauren live in Redding, California, and have four wonderful children. In his downtime, Jason can be found hiking in the Trinity Alps, fishing the Sacramento River, or hunting anywhere that wild game can be found!   Conversation Notes:   1:08 - Mark 1:11 “And a voice came from heaven: "You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased." 1:40 - DA Daily. To join simply text "dad" to 77222 3:20 - Story of Jason's first son being born when he was 19 years old 4:48 - The gift of patience turning the burden into an opportunity. 5:22 - Having friends and community gives perspective. “But we actually get to multiply our experience the closer we are to our friends because if we walk through a hard time with them, we get to gain the wisdom and the learning and understanding.” 6:32 - Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. James 1:2-3 7:35 “Great opportunity comes with every hard season for those who have eyes to see it.” - Quote from Winning the War Within by Jason Vallotton 9:05 - You can try and grow through the easy times but there's not as much opportunity to grow in easy times because you're not getting as much feedback. You're not really being stretched. The easy times are a poor indicator of what you're good at and what you're not good at. It's challenging to grow when you're not being tested.” There is fruit in hard times. 9:47 - Psalm 126:5 -”Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy.” Relating this to the story of a farmer making the hard choice between feeding his family the only seed he has and starting a poverty cycle, or choosing to plant the seed and watch his family starve for a season but ultimately breaking the poverty cycle. 10:58 - We're forced into this worldwide [question], “what are you going to do with the challenge you've been given?” 11:53 - Going through a nervous breakdown in 2009. 13:11 - His dad told him, “You're gonna have to decide how your kids are gonna remember you.” 14:16 - “I only get to decide what I do when I'm awake.” 14:41 - “If I don't check out, but I stay in the game even with my kids and my family, I gain so much more than if I check out for the evening.” 14:47 - Quote from Danny Silk - “Kids are gonna pull 60 pounds of energy from you whether you give it to them or whether they take it from you you just get to decide how it happens.” 15:54 - “There's an opportunity for people like never before not just to make a difference in history, but to learn how to embrace challenging times with confidence.” 16:34 - The inside-out dad life - what were the warning signs before the nervous breakdown? 19:30 - Moral Revolution  20:32 - Everything was good - it was so hard to decide what to put down. 21:49 - “Whether it's hard things or whether it's good things, it has a weight to it. It has a weight value and good stress is still stress.” 22:35 - Cultivating spiritual fathers: “If you're going to put someone on your team, make sure they know they are on your team.” 25:23 - “My dad told me once, never apologize for favor, just make sure you use the favor well.” 26:17 - “What is covenant? You have permission to change my mind and I have permission to change your mind.” 26:49 - “Servanthood is the way to the top. You will never outgrow serving...the more you have the more you're required to give.” 28:05 - we're building an inheritance for our kids...the relationships that you create today, that you sacrifice for, it's not it's not as fun as people think. It's not easy I can tell you all those relationships that I just mentioned, there's conflict inside of them. We use all of our communication skills and conflict resolution and honor to keep those relationships going.” 29:10 - Clint graham david and his mighty men series of books? Linked 30:25 - Attending church for yourself is the lowest level of living for a Christian. 31:01 - His dad told him, “People need what you have. They need what you have, and you need to go to youth group and find someone that needs what you have and give it to them.” 34:34 - “Look at what you want your life to be in 10, 20, 30 years and live from now.” 35:05 - How to get out of [dark places], #1 - find new hope. Find who's overcome what you're going through. 35:15 - Curt Richter - Rats with Hope - Sample article 35:34 - #2 - Hope is literally gonna energize you. For hope, you wanna you want to get some vision and create some goals for tomorrow, and then weekly goals and then monthly goals. That's how I overcame the addiction to medication. 36:16 - #3 - Pull yourself objectively outside of yourself and be able to understand that the moment that you're in there's a real opportunity 36:34 - “You'll probably go through it whether you want to or not, so you might as well make it awesome, and getting some outside perspective is really, really helpful.” 37:36 - “What we hide, becomes a definer in our lives and it begins to tell us who we are. And so it probably will be the hardest thing that we ever do, is to go ‘this is really Who I am' but you'll receive love in a way you've never received love because people will love you exactly where you're at, and not for what you want to show you are, they'll know the real you. And therefore you'll have the power to get out of it.”   Conversation Links:   Jason's Website Winning the War Within by Jason Vallotton  

This week’s conversation is with Jason Vallotton, whose life resonates with the proof that you can win the war against your inner critic and against the lies that keep you from living fully alive. Most people go through life trying not to get hit. But that reactionary posture of avoiding pain is exactly what will keep you from living a strong and successful life in the here and now. So, in today’s conversation, you’re going to walk away with some practical strategies to win in your mental and emotional health and stop the up-and-down inconsistencies that I know you wish you could change if you had a plan. Well today, you’ll get that plan. Episode Links: Jason’s Website | Facebook | Instagram | YouTube | Buy “Winning the War Within” on Amazon! Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow.

Jason Vallotton joins Will this week to discuss his journey, what boundaries really are, and how to set them in a healthy way. Connect with Jason: www.jasonvallotton.com www.instagram.com/jayvallotton Enjoy video instead of audio? Watch this episode on Youtube! https://youtu.be/hhf7kw7JO68 Stay up to date with Iris Global! www.facebook.com/IrisGlobalOrg www.instagram.com/irisglobal

This month Jason Vallotton and Cole Zick discuss the value of trust-building, intentionality, and core values in relationship. Jason and Cole give practical tools for success, and address the importance of knowing who you are, what your needs are, and what steps to take and look for as you pursue healthy intimacy in dating and marriage. LADDER STEPS: 14 - Forever isn't long enough. 13 - Win-Win 12 - Unconditional Love? 11 - Do they know how to care for me? 10 - How do we do with conflict? 9 - Can we build stability? 8 - Are we going the same way? 7 - Do we communicate well? 6 - Do we have needs and boundaries? 5 - Is God in their God spot? 4 - Do our core values line up? 3- Can we have fun? 2 - Are they safe? 1 - Do I know me? (For more resources visit us at www.moralrevolution.com) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

Forgiveness and freedom are connected. In the journey toward forgiveness we cannot ignore pain or hard things. We sat down with Jason Valloton, a pastor, a sought-after counselor, speaker and author who wrote the book The Supernatural Power of Forgiveness and co-authored Moral Revolution and Outrageous Courage. His own story of learning to walk in forgiveness and freedom is powerful! He is also a man’s man. He loves to hunt, fish and call other men to live fully alive and with adventure. He recently started doing BORN WILD Men’s Retreat’s with the vision to see men reconnect with God and each other in the most authentic, unconventional ways. In a time when masculinity has been confused, abandoned and even villainized, he and several other leaders are calling men to embrace how God has created us. We can’t wait for you to hear this conversation with Jason Vallotton.

Our friend Jason Vallotton joins us this week from Redding, California. Listen in as he tells the story of the world record Grizzly bear he was able to take with his bow last year in Alaska. Jason inspires us through his perseverance and relentlessness. His story proves that there is purpose in your pain. Follow … Continue reading Jason’s Story →

We have today with us Lauren, Elijah and Jason Vallotton. We are seeing God move on our kids and young people in an amazing way over the past few weeks; this is one of many testimonies. Host: Dave Harvey

Jason Vallotton joins us to talk about emotional prosperity and the emotional connections made through dating and sexuality. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

Jason Vallotton oversees all of the counseling, therapy, and inner healing departments at Bethel Church, Redding, CA. This was a total joy to hear his personal process of dealing with trauma and how to help people through their individual journey.

“ On this episode we hear from Bill Johnson when he joined us at Encounter 2018. We are also inspired by our entrepreneurial friend who turned sugarcane waste into buildings. It’s our new norm to bring you resources so we interview Bethel Church counselor and pastor, Jason Vallotton, who developed a tool to help people walk into emotional freedom. All this and more this week on the Jesus Culture Podcast. “

Jason Vallotton and his wife are Pastoral Care Overseers at Bethel Redding and serve the church in many capacities. Jason is a sought-after counselor and speaker. He previously served as overseer for Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry. He's author of The Supernatural Power of Forgiveness and co-author of Moral Revolution. Jason currently serves on the board of Moral Revolution.   What You'll Hear in this Episode:   Why you should do more for people than tell them “go pray about it” What it looks like to “give something to the Lord” Where Jason's passion for people started How Jason's Father really affected his life and love for serving others What can happen in some marriages and what you can do to try to stop it  When Jason finally felt like he was back to being himself What does it look like to fight from victory  Jason's strong points in counseling How should we really forgive? What Jason would tell his younger self if he could go back in time   Resources: The Supernatural Power of Forgiveness  Moral Revolution Working Through Pain Daring Greatly   The Gifts of Imperfection David and Goliath  Spiritual Warfare  Bethel Church  Are You Real?   

Before we can effectively lead our families and others, we need to know how to lead ourselves in emotional health so that the life we are leading is sustainable. Being individually well is key to thriving inside of community! In this teaching, Jason Vallotton shares how we can get our needs met in body, soul, and spirit so we can partner with Jesus to express the joy of His kingdom. This message is from week 5 of Bethel’s Life Series.

Antes de que podamos liderar con eficacia a nuestras familias y a otras personas, tenemos que saber cómo guiarnos a nosotros mismos en salud emocional, de manera que la vida que llevemos sea sustentable. ¡El bienestar individual es clave para prosperar dentro de una comunidad! En esta enseñanza, Jason Vallotton comparte con nosotros cómo podemos satisfacer nuestras necesidades en cuerpo, alma y espíritu y asociarnos con Jesús para expresar el gozo de Su reino. Este mensaje es de la semana 5 de la Serie de Vida de Bethel.

Before we can effectively lead our families and others, we need to know how to lead ourselves in emotional health so that the life we are leading is sustainable. Being individually well is key to thriving inside of community! In this teaching, Jason Vallotton shares how we can get our needs met in body, soul, and spirit so we can partner with Jesus to express the joy of His kingdom. This message is from week 5 of Bethel's Life Series.