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    168: Kris Vallotton // Fatherless But Not Hopeless: How Men Are Finding Identity Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2025 38:17


    In this week's episode of the Brave Co Podcast, I share one of the most powerful and emotional topics we've ever covered: the transformation that happens when a boy becomes a man — not by age, but through intentional initiation and affirmation by other men. I talk about what happens when that moment is missing — and how we, as a community, can bring it back.We explore what it means to heal the “father wound,” reclaim masculinity, and become the protector, provider, and leader that God designed every man to be. From the biblical example of David to modern-day rites of passage like our Tough Mudder course for young men, this episode dives deep into the importance of community, challenge, and identity.Whether you're a father, mentor, or a man still figuring out who you are — this episode is for you. It's a call to step into the front lines of manhood, to raise up the next generation, and to boldly claim the strength and purpose you were born with. Join us at Brave Co 2025 for a life-changing experience.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    167: Brian Tome - Why Men Are Failing Today (And How We Reverse It)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 57:03


    This is the most important message I've ever shared.Brian Tome: https://www.briantome.com/For generations, young men have grown up without a father, without initiation, and without the confidence they need to thrive. I've seen it firsthand—men who look like adults but feel like boys inside. This episode isn't just a podcast—it's a movement to bring back something society lost: the rite of passage into manhood.At BraveCo, we believe it's not too late. Last year, we introduced a 3.1-mile Tough Mudder Rite of Passage to our conference. What we thought would be just a powerful experience became the most transformational moment of the entire year—for sons and for fathers. I saw grown men cry. I saw boys stand tall for the first time. This year, we're believing for 300 young men to be changed forever. This is a calling, not just a challenge.In this episode, I talk with Brian Tome—founder of Crossroads Church and author of The Five Marks of a Man. We dive deep into identity, calling, spiritual maturity, and why the American church is failing to reach men. We don't hold back. We talk about church, culture, manhood, porn, shame, and what it means to lead a life of honor. If you're tired of surface-level conversations and ready to go deep—this is your episode.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    166: Healing a Fatherless Generation Through Brotherhood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 35:40


    The most transformational moment in a young man's life is when he is seen, accepted, and welcomed into manhood. As a father of three sons and a man who has walked through his own journey of becoming, I've seen how powerful it is to receive that blessing—from a father or a man you respect. Too many men are aging without ever feeling like they've become men. They carry a painful emptiness, unsure of their identity, still longing for validation.That's why we created the Rite of Passage at BraveCo. In 2024, we added a 3.1-mile Tough Mudder course to our annual BraveCo Conference. We thought it'd be a challenge—but it became the most powerful moment of the week. Watching grown men speak life into boys—boys who might not even have a father at home—was deeply moving. It wasn't just a physical test; it was a spiritual transition. And now, for BraveCo 2025, we're going bigger: 300 young men, stepping into purpose, identity, and strength.If you've ever longed to be that kind of man—or to raise one—I invite you to step up. Bring your son. Invite the boy who's fatherless. Help us reverse the curse that has plagued this generation. Together, we can rebuild a culture where men are known, empowered, and free. You don't want to miss this. BraveCo 2025 may be the turning point in your story, too.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    165: Why Most Men Never Grow Up (And How We Break the Cycle)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 20:48


    As a counselor, pastor, and father, I've seen firsthand how many men carry invisible wounds into adulthood—wounds caused by the absence of true initiation into manhood. This episode dives deep into that missing moment that every man longs for: the point where he is looked in the eyes and told, “You're capable. You belong.” Whether it's your father, a mentor, or a community of strong men, that rite of passage changes everything—and without it, we often grow old without ever really growing up.In this BraveCo episode, I reflect on a pivotal moment from our men's conference where we invited boys into manhood through a powerful and symbolic rite of passage. I also break down the emotional toll uninitiated men face in their marriages. Many husbands are trapped in cycles of shame, unable to “hit the mark” emotionally with their wives—not because they don't care, but because they were never taught how. I explain the differences between sympathy, empathy, and true compassion—and how those three tools can transform your relationships.This isn't just theory. These are real stories from the trenches of marriage, mentorship, and fatherhood. I offer practical tools and language you can use today to connect with your wife, lead your family, and stop the shame spiral that keeps you disconnected. If you're tired of surviving manhood and ready to thrive in it, this one's for you. Let's get to work.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    164: Only 1% of Men Understand This About Masculine Leadership: Guest David Norona

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 44:12


    In this powerful conversation, I open up about one of the most defining journeys in my life—fatherhood. From walking through the painful season of divorce to learning how to become the man and leader God called me to be, this episode is a deep dive into healing, leadership, masculinity, and personal transformation. If you're navigating broken relationships, struggling to connect as a dad, or feeling stuck in your growth as a man, this video will speak directly to your heart.Together with my great friend David Norona, we talk raw and real—about wounds from the past, the pressure to fix everything, and how the unprocessed pain we carry shapes our marriages, parenting, and self-worth. We explore what it truly means to lead like a king and love like a servant, all through the lens of faith and emotional resilience. It's more than conversation—it's a call to step up.We also share practical tools for inner healing, emotional connection, and the kind of leadership your family and future need. Whether you're a dad, husband, or simply a man seeking more, this is your moment to rise. Don't settle. Don't retreat. The world needs strong men, and it starts with you.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    163: Tom Crandall: The Dangerous Cost of Living Without Conviction

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 42:13


    In this episode of the BraveCo Podcast, I open up about one of the most critical foundations a man can build: conviction. In a world where compromise is celebrated and conviction is rare, I walk through my personal journey — the encounters, the battles, the wins, and the ongoing process of becoming a man who stands for something greater.From wrestling with shame and addiction to encountering the tangible love of God, this conversation digs deep into why real transformation starts with real conviction. You'll hear powerful stories about battles with pornography, living in compromise, and the radical shift that happens when we encounter God's grace. It's not about religion — it's about relationship, about building your true north, and about becoming the man you were born to be.This episode will inspire you to reflect on your ethos, set your mission, and live life with honor and clarity. Whether you're battling passivity, struggling with shame, or simply hungry to live a higher calling, this conversation gives you practical tools and hope to move forward. Together, let's learn how to build lasting conviction — and rise up in a world that desperately needs strong men.Connect with Tom: https://www.tomcrandall.com/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    162: Greg Hendricks: Raising Men, Not Boys: How to Respond to God's Call in Today's World

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 39:19


    In today's episode of the Brave Co Podcast, I sit down with my good friend Greg Hendricks to unpack a prophetic call for men: it's time to stop reacting and start responding. Whether you're a father, mentor, or man looking to reclaim purpose, this conversation will shake you to your core.We talk about creating ecosystems of health, building emotional resilience, showing up in family and faith, and what it means to be weaponized with wisdom. From real-life marriage challenges to the significance of rites of passage, this isn't fluff—it's a real, vulnerable call to reclaim manhood and occupy your space like a lion. You'll also hear about our upcoming Brave Co Conference and why it may be the most transformative experience for both men and their sons.If you've ever wondered how to grow past shame, how to father from strength, or how to break cycles in your relationships—this is for you. Whether you're just starting the journey or you're seasoned but stuck, it's time to answer the call. This isn't a podcast. It's a call to action.Connect with Greg: https://www.greghendricks.life/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    161: Kris Vallotton - How to Heal Father Wounds and Become the Leader You Were Meant to Be

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 64:47


    160: Pastors, You Don't Have to Burn Out — There's a Better Way // Helping Leaders Before They Fall

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 24:28


    Register Today for "Lead Strong": 4-Week Pastors CohortClick Here: https://admin389846.wixsite.com/mysiteIn this episode we unpack the deep emotional, spiritual, and mental battles that pastors and male leaders face every day. From a life-altering dream that revealed a divine mandate to help leaders on the brink, to personal stories of pressure, burnout, and breakthrough — we're calling men on the frontlines to strengthen before they collapse.This isn't about performance. It's not about building bigger churches. It's about building strong men—men who can lead well at church, at home, and in their own hearts. We're launching a 4-week online training for pastors focused on emotional health, spiritual grounding, relational strength, and creating space for sustainable leadership. It's the kind of support we wished we had early on—and now, we're offering it to you.If you're a pastor or leader—or if you know one who's carrying more than they should—you're not alone. Share this with them. Invest in them. Let's build something that lasts, together. Because great men aren't born—they're built. And the battle starts within.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    159: The Most Asked Questions From Our Listeners - You May Or May Not Like The Answers

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 27:14


    Register Today for Lead Strong: 4-Week Pastors CohortIn this week's episode we dive headfirst into the real questions men are asking: What does it mean to be a man in today's world? How do I lead my family, heal my wounds, and step into real purpose? I sit down with Cole Zick to answer the most asked questions from our listeners—everything from marriage and identity to mental health and masculinity.We share raw stories about facing shame, struggling with emotional connection, and the painful process of growth. You'll hear how I overcame a five-year battle with anxiety and the lie that I was “fragile,” and what real accountability between men looks like when it's both defensive and offensive. Whether you're a husband, father, single man, or just searching for clarity—you'll find tools here to help you become who you were made to be.Masculinity isn't toxic—it's transformational when rooted in truth, presence, and purpose. If you're ready to lead boldly, love deeply, and pursue greatness with courage and humility, you're in the right place. ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    Men's Mental Health: How Do You Rebuild Your Masculinity After Depression & Failure

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 23:44


    In this deeply personal episode, I open up about a hidden struggle many men face but few talk about—passivity, shame, and the internal disconnect that comes from breaking your own promises.Years ago, I hit a wall. I had gone through a nervous breakdown, lost the use of my arms, and spiraled into years of depression and disengagement. I wasn't chasing anything meaningful, I wasn't pushing myself, and most importantly—I wasn't proud of the man I was becoming. Not because of some public failure, but because I kept letting myself down in small ways… every day.This episode is not a motivational pep talk—it's a raw blueprint for transformation. I share the exact moment I realized my lack of self-respect was tied to my passivity and how rebuilding my mindset, identity, and discipline—one tiny habit at a time—completely changed my life. If you're feeling stuck, fragile, or just tired of not feeling like the man you know you were called to be, this conversation is for you.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    157: How to Take Control of Your Child's Education & Future! - Dr. Tyler Thigpen

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 59:44


    More About The Forest School: https://theforest.school/The Forest School Online: https://online.theforest.school/The Learner-Centered Microschool Accelerator: https://www.selfdirect.school/acceleratorThe public school system is broken. Too many kids feel left behind, uninspired, and stuck in a one-size-fits-all education model that doesn't prepare them for the real world. As a dad, educator, and leader, I believe we need a radical shift in how we teach the next generation. That's why I sat down with Tyler, an education innovator, to explore a new model of learning—one that builds independence, critical thinking, and real-world skills.In this episode, we dive into the history of the education system, why it's failing so many students, and what parents can do to take control. Tyler shares insights from years of redesigning schools, working with top institutions, and creating self-directed learning environments that equip kids for success. Whether you're a parent questioning your child's education or someone looking for a better way, this conversation will challenge and inspire you.If you're ready to rethink how kids learn, share this episode. Let's start a movement toward real education that prepares our kids for life—not just tests. Drop a comment below: What's been your experience with the school system? Are you considering an alternative path? Let's talk about it.More about Dr. Thigpen: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thigpentyler/Tyler grew up in Georgia and has worked in innovative district, private, and charter schools, as well as statewide and national nonprofits. Tyler is co-founder and CEO of The Forest School: An Acton Academy in Trilith, The Forest School Online, and the Institute for Self-Directed Learning, Academic Director at the University of Pennsylvania Graduate School of Education, and Guest Lecturer at the Harvard Graduate School of Education. Formerly, Tyler was partner at Transcend, a national nonprofit in school redesign, and worked closely on innovative school projects such as nXu, Whittle, The Academy Group, Washington Leadership Academy, Art in Motion, Hebrew Public, Teton Science's Place Network, EL Education, and the Brooklyn STEAM Center. Tyler also co-founded MENTOR Georgia, Transforming Teaching at Harvard, and the Chattahoochee Hills Charter School. Earlier, Tyler worked as head of the upper school at The Mount Vernon School in Atlanta, Spanish teacher in Gwinnett County public schools, and minister at the Grace family of churches where he led international development in Peru in areas of healthcare, education, poverty reduction, and infrastructure. Tyler holds a doctoral degree in education leadership from Harvard Graduate School of Education, a master's in public administration from Harvard John F. Kennedy School of Government, and a master's in theological studies from Regent College of the University of British Columbia. Tyler has written about the future of learning in the Washington Post, Education Week, Atlanta Journal-Constitution, Getting Smart, and others. Tyler lives with his four children, all of whom attended The Forest School, in Trilith, GA.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    156: How To Break the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Cycle // This Wealth Secret Will Change Your Future

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 43:57


    Welcome back to the Brave Co Podcast! Today, we're tackling a crucial topic every man should think about—Building Wealth. I'm joined by Carlton Moore, a former stock market analyst at Google who retired at 31 years old. Carlton now runs Kingdom Wealth Builders, a completely free financial course offered at churches and Christian schools nationwide. His mission? To help believers manage their money wisely, invest smartly, and gain financial freedom.Connect with Carlton: https://www.kingdomwb.org/In this episode, we discuss:✅ How Carlton built wealth and retired early✅ The mindset shifts needed to break free from living paycheck to paycheck✅ Practical investing strategies—even if you're starting with just $1,000✅ Why most men fear finances and how to overcome it✅ How hidden fees are stealing your money and what to do about itIf you've ever felt stuck financially or wondered how to make your money work for you, this episode is for you! Don't let financial stress control your future—take action today!ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    155: Parents Are Losing Rights—Are You Next? Why Schools Keep Secrets from Parents (And What You Can Do)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 37:00


    Connect with Vernadette Broyles:Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vernadette-broyles-9027a730/For the past few years, parents across the country have been fighting an uphill battle—one they didn't even realize they were in. Schools, policies, and even legal systems have shifted in ways that strip parents of their rights and place children in the hands of institutions that push hidden agendas. Today, I'm sitting down with Vernadette Broyles, an expert in family law and parental rights, to uncover the shocking reality behind these changes.As a father, pastor, and advocate, I know firsthand how critical it is to be aware, informed, and ready to protect our children. The decisions we make now will shape the future of our families. From secret school policies to government intervention in parenting, this conversation will expose what's really happening and how we can fight back.If you're a parent, grandparent, or someone who deeply cares about the well-being of children, this episode is a must-watch. Stay informed, stay prepared, and most importantly—stay brave.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    154: How to Build a Growth-Oriented Mindset in 2025 for Men // Every Man Needs a Hard Challenge in Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 50:08


    I sit down with my good friend Benjamin Goodpasture – an entrepreneur, real estate investor, and adventure-seeker who has mastered the art of risk-taking and personal growth.Ben didn't start out with a golden ticket. Instead, he built his life by making bold moves, taking calculated risks, and embracing discomfort. From launching a rock climbing gym to building a real estate empire, his journey is filled with setbacks, wins, and lessons that every man can learn from.Connect with Benjamin: https://www.instagram.com/benjamingoodpasture/We talk about:✔️ How to build wealth through real estate (even with no money!)✔️ The power of calculated risk-taking in business and life✔️ Overcoming fear and developing an unstoppable mindset✔️ The insane 112-mile bike & mountain challenge that pushed his limits!If you're a man looking to break free from limitations and build a legacy, this episode is for you!ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    153: Why Most Marriages Fail - How to Avoid It! // The Key to Saving Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 39:20


    Have I created space for hope in my home? Is my home a place where my wife and kids can truly believe in a better future? That question hit me hard, and in this episode of the Brave Co Podcast, we dive into why hope, perseverance, and connection are the foundation of thriving marriages. We've seen more breakthrough in relationships this year than ever before, and today, we're unpacking why—and how you can experience it too.Lately, I've watched countless men step up—not just in words, but in real action. I've had guys come to me, fully owning where they've fallen short, saying, “I don't want to be here anymore, and I'll do whatever it takes to change.” And that's the difference. So many couples are running on empty, trying to fix their problems with arguments and facts, instead of building their emotional bank account first. The truth is, love isn't about keeping score—it's about showing up, day in and day out, even when it's hard.We also get into politics, faith, and this new era we're stepping into—where things are shifting in ways we never expected. Whether it's in marriage, leadership, or culture, one thing is clear: this is a time for men to rise up, take ownership, and build something strong. If your marriage feels like it's on the rocks, if you're wondering how to move forward—this episode is for you.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    152: Are you Blessed or Cursed? The Truth About Life & The Secret to Overcoming Life's Challenges

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 40:39


    Life is full of unexpected twists—some moments feel like blessings, while others seem like unbearable curses. But what if the biggest hardships in your life were actually preparing you for something greater?In this solo episode of the Brave Co Podcast, I share my personal journey of turning pain into strength, overcoming trauma, and learning how to thrive despite life's hardest moments. From experiencing a nervous breakdown and divorce to facing seven years of infertility, I've learned one powerful truth: what seems like a curse today might be the greatest blessing of your life tomorrow.You'll also hear the story of Joseph from the Bible, who went from betrayal and imprisonment to becoming one of the most powerful men in Egypt. His journey is a reminder that our struggles are not the end—they are the preparation for something greater.

    151: Havilah Cunnington: The Truth About Masculinity That No One Talks About!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 57:22


    I sit down with one of my best friends, Havilah Cunnington, a powerful leader, author, and mentor, to talk about the real struggles men and women face in marriage and leadership. We live in a time where masculinity is often misunderstood, and many men feel lost about what it truly means to be a leader in their home, marriage, and community. As a pastor and counselor, I've spent my life equipping men with the tools and wisdom they need to walk in strength, confidence, and integrity.This episode is packed with real, raw, and practical wisdom for men who want to step into their God-given roles with confidence. If you've ever struggled with feeling like “you're not enough” or wondered how to navigate powerful women, leadership, and faith, this episode is for you.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    150: Stop Arguing, Start Connecting: Marriage Breakthrough Tools with Jason Vallotton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 28:26


    Today I'm diving deep into one of the most important topics for men: building and maintaining a thriving marriage. If you've ever felt disconnected, stuck in conflict, or unsure how to bring joy back into your relationship, this episode is for you.As a pastor and counselor, I've spent years helping couples rekindle their connection, and today, I'll share my insights on emotional bank accounts. You'll learn:+ Why marriage isn't broken by conflict—but by how you handle it+ The importance of daily deposits into your relationship+ How to recognize and respond to your partner's bids for connectionIf you're tired of withdrawing without making deposits, I'll walk you through practical steps to restore balance, trust, and intimacy. From real-life stories of couples on the brink of divorce to proven tools for building emotional reserves, this episode is packed with value.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share to help others strengthen their relationships. Together, let's build marriages and lives we love.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    149: Lyle Wells: Why Being Easy to Follow is the Secret to Great Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 49:04


    Welcome! This week's episode is packed with life-changing insights for men aspiring to be impactful leaders. I'm joined by Lyle Wells, a seasoned coach, pastor, and leadership expert with a wealth of wisdom drawn from decades of experience.Together, we explore the true essence of leadership—how it's built, not born, and why great leaders must embody resilience, empathy, and execution. Lyle  shares his personal journey of growing up without a father and how it shaped his relentless pursuit of leadership excellence. You'll also hear about the profound importance of feedback, building grit, and leading with purpose in your home, workplace, and community.If you've ever struggled with feeling "not enough" or wondered how to overcome fear and take actionable steps toward greatness, this episode is for you. Lyle's practical wisdom—like starting with one small improvement and leaning on God for guidance—will inspire you to lead with courage and integrity.Don't forget to subscribe and share this episode to inspire the leaders in your life. Let's stay brave, stay resilient, and lead well.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    148: Jonathan Helser - How to Lead with Strength and Vulnerability in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 47:32


    Connect with Jonathan: https://www.instagram.com/jonathanhelser/Today, I'm joined by the incredible Jonathan Helser as we dive deep into what it truly means to be a powerful man in a world that often misunderstands masculinity.In this episode, we explore the tension between strength and vulnerability. Jonathan shares powerful lessons from his personal story, including how he learned to show weakness and embrace honesty in his marriage, his struggles with anxiety, and how turning to God transformed his leadership as a father and husband.If you've ever felt the weight of carrying life's burdens or struggled with finding peace amidst the chaos, this conversation is for you. Let's break the mold, build authentic connections, and redefine what it means to be a man. Grab a coffee, dive in, and let's get stronger together.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    147: The Missing Link in Modern Masculinity: What Men Must Reclaim

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 54:21


    Welcome to this transformative episode of the Brave Co Podcast, where we tackle the pressing challenges of masculinity and leadership in today's world. Together, we'll uncover the tools and insights you need to become a stronger, more impactful man.This week, I sit down with my friend Brad Klynsmith, a former award-winning musician from South Africa turned pastor of young adults. Brad's journey from the vibrant music scene to leading youth ministries at Bethel Church offers a powerful perspective on connecting with the next generation. From his days as a surfer and worship leader to his revelations about the difference between church culture and the Kingdom of God, Brad shares his heart for developing spiritually empowered young leaders.We also explore the crisis of fatherlessness and the growing need for mentorship and spiritual guidance. Brad and I delve into how parents and leaders can bridge generational gaps by instilling gospel truths while addressing modern challenges like mental health, emotional intelligence, and spiritual growth. This episode is a call to action for men to step up as fathers, mentors, and kingdom builders. Let's redefine what it means to lead with strength, empathy, and purpose.Connect with Brad: https://www.instagram.com/bradklynsmith/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    146: How to Raise Boys into Men: A Father's Guide to Responsibility and Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2024 47:30


    In this episode of the Brave Co Podcast, I dive into the critical role fathers play in turning boys into men. Joined by my good friend Cole, a dedicated father of three boys, we share practical tools and stories to help dads navigate this journey. From teaching responsibility and conflict resolution to creating a family ethos, this conversation is packed with insights that will challenge and inspire you.We also discuss the importance of vision in raising boys, why setting clear expectations matters, and how meaningful conversations can foster growth. Parenting isn't easy—it requires sacrifice, intentionality, and sometimes tough love. Whether it's sharing lessons from my dad or how to discipline with grace, this episode is filled with wisdom for fathers, mentors, and anyone shaping the next generation.If you're looking for practical tips on building strong young men, teaching accountability, and creating a legacy of leadership in your family, this episode is for you. Plus, don't miss out on learning about our free courses on masculinity and relationships to help you on your journey.Connect with Cole Zick:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colezick/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cczickABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    145: Why Men Struggle in Silence // Transformation vs Willpower: The Key to Lasting Change

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 53:37


    In this powerful episode of the Brave Co. Podcast, I sit down with Chris Cook, pastor, coach, and author of Healing What You Can't Erase. Together, we dive deep into the challenges men face in today's culture, where masculinity is often shamed, and emotional health is overlooked. Chris shares his deeply personal story of overcoming profound loss, trauma, and the mental toll of carrying a broken spirit for years.We unpack why transformation outperforms willpower and explore the critical role of community and surrender in true healing. This episode is for any man ready to confront hidden shame, embrace vulnerability, and step into the freedom that comes from a renewed spirit. If you've ever felt stuck in cycles of pain or burdened by unspoken struggles, this conversation offers hope, practical steps, and a reminder that healing is possible.Stay tuned for practical tools, thought-provoking insights, and encouragement to walk the path of transformation. Don't miss this opportunity to grow stronger as a man and reclaim the life you were meant to live.Links for Chris:Instagraminstagram.com/wintodaychrisFacebookfacebook.com/wintodaychrisTwittertwitter.com/wintodaychrisWebsitewintoday.tvABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    144: Mastering Modern Masculinity: Building Faith, Fitness & Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 32:24


    It was Summer 2023 in Oahu, HI when two Nashville guys were hiking the famous Stairway to Heaven and got hit with the idea to create a brand around maximizing their greatest weapons…their Vessels. What began as a joke and jab at each other to not put bad food into their bodies quickly became a mission to live by. Vessel Training Co. is about taking greater care of your Vessel today so that you can create the outcome of the world tomorrow. The better we fuel and train our bodies today, the longer we live, the longer we live, the greater impact we can make in the world around us. No one can create it for you. It's up to you to create the outcome, to maximize your Vessel. Welcome to the journey, we're just getting started…Graham Popadic shares his entrepreneurial journey—from childhood hustles to starting a business rooted in faith and fitness. We discuss the importance of taking action, overcoming challenges in business and life, and embracing a long-term vision for success. Whether you're looking for inspiration to start your own venture or tips on aligning your physical fitness with your faith, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and actionable insights.

    143: Carl Lentz // The True Story About His Scandal, His Restoration & Laura's Strength Amid Disconnection

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 59:58


    Connect with Carl and Laura Lentz: Carl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/Laura Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauralentz/In this week's episode of The Brave Co Podcast, I share one of the most vulnerable and transformative conversations I've ever had. As a pastor and counselor, I've spent years equipping men to rise stronger, yet my own journey has been deeply tested. Together with my wife, we open up about the trials in our marriage, the pain of betrayal, and the process of rebuilding trust from the ground up.We're joined by Carl and Laura Lentz, who courageously share their story of overcoming public scandal, personal failure, and the hard path back to healing. This episode dives into the nuances of addressing hidden pain, repairing broken trust, and creating a new foundation for relationships—not by erasing the past but by learning from it.Whether you've faced challenges in your marriage, struggled with trust, or simply want to know that restoration is possible, this episode is for you. It's an honest conversation that doesn't shy away from the hard truths but offers hope, practical insights, and a reminder that no matter how deep the wound, healing is always possible.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    142: How Wrestling and MMA Shape Resilience in Life and Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 50:54


    Caleb is a 2x California State Placer, 4x High School All-American, Division 1 College Wrestler at Oregon State, Professional MMA fighter and Jiu Jitsu Black Belt. With over 15 years of coaching experience,  Caleb finds his purpose in training young athletes to become top competitors on the mat and in life. In this episode of The Brave Co Podcast, I sit down with my cousin Caleb, an inspiring coach, former MMA fighter, and wrestling advocate, to discuss his journey through sports, fatherhood, and building a meaningful legacy. Caleb shares stories from his wrestling roots, his transition to MMA, and the life lessons he's gained along the way.From his early days of state-level wrestling to training with some of the best MMA fighters in the world, Caleb opens up about the highs and lows of competitive sports, overcoming failures, and finding purpose in coaching and mentoring the next generation. We also dive into the founding of his nonprofit, Danger to Dreams Foundation, which supports young athletes in achieving their goals.Whether you're a parent looking to empower your kids, a sports enthusiast, or someone seeking inspiration to run toward your own challenges, this conversation will encourage you to embrace hard work and resilience. Don't miss Caleb's insights on cultivating grit, the importance of mentorship, and the value of stepping into the unknown.Connect with Caleb: https://www.runtodanger.com/instructorsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/k_lub_val/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    141: Inside the Secret Service // From Secret Service to Pastor: Lessons on Resilience, Family, and Faith

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 51:14


    In this powerful episode of the Brave Co Podcast, I sit down with David Johnson—a former law enforcement officer, Secret Service agent, and now pastor—who shares his incredible journey of service, sacrifice, and transformation. Together, we dive into what it means to navigate the challenges of masculinity in today's world while balancing the call to be a present father and husband.David opens up about his career highlights, including high-stakes missions with the Secret Service, near-death experiences, and the emotional toll of the job. He also reflects on his transition from protecting some of the world's most prominent leaders to becoming a spiritual leader in his community. His story is one of redemption, resilience, and finding purpose in the midst of life's storms.Whether you're wrestling with your identity as a man or looking for inspiration to pursue wholeness and healing, this episode is packed with real talk and actionable insights. Don't miss it!ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    140: Authentic Leadership, Fatherhood, and Finding True Identity – Confrontation as a Tool for Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 50:52


    This week on the BraveCo Podcast, I sit down with one of my closest friends and true legend, Todd Pierce. We dive deep into leadership, fatherhood, and the journey of discovering our identity as sons of God. Todd's insights into what it means to lead from a place of authenticity and connection hit home as we talk about the challenges of raising kids, building relationships, and staying true to who we are amidst life's uncertainties.One of the most powerful moments came when Todd shared about his work with wild horses. His incredible ability to connect with these animals becomes a moving metaphor for how God builds relationships with us, patiently guiding us toward trust and purpose. We also tackle the dangers of comparison, the trap of measuring spiritual performance, and the freedom that comes from knowing our worth in God's eyes.This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating the tension between striving and resting in their identity. Whether you're a father, a leader, or someone searching for deeper purpose, Todd's wisdom and vulnerability will encourage you to lean into God's grace. Don't miss the final prayer—it's a powerful way to end this heart-to-heart discussion.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    139: Finding Hope in the Darkest Times: My Journey from Depression to Faith

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 41:16


    In this episode of the Brave Co Podcast, I sit down with DJ Hernandez, a man whose powerful story of faith and resilience has touched thousands. DJ opens up about his journey through deep depression, a battle with suicidal thoughts, and how he found hope when he felt most abandoned. From his high school years of struggling to fit in to a life-changing experience at the beach, DJ shares how his faith helped him escape the spiral of despair.Through the grace of God and the steadfast support of close friends, DJ's story highlights the transformative power of community, honest conversations, and unwavering hope. We discuss the epidemic of depression and loneliness that grips so many young people today, diving into the devastating statistics on suicide and mental health. DJ's message is simple yet profound: even in your darkest hours, you are not alone, and hope is closer than you think.Whether you're facing similar struggles or just want to be inspired, this episode is a reminder of the light that faith can bring to a broken world. Join us as DJ prays over the Brave Co community, sharing words of encouragement and strength for anyone in need.I am Second  - https://youtu.be/XCUojO8DtVI?si=6Y89w3cHrYqhQ1UsABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    138: Kris Vallotton // Spiritual Warfare 101: Understanding the Basics & Essential Tools for Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 65:45


    Hey BraveCo men! This week, Jay dives deep into spiritual warfare with his dad, Kris Vallotton, revealing why understanding the spiritual battle we face is crucial. Together, they break down Spiritual Warfare 101: where it comes from, how to recognize it, and—most importantly—how to stand firm against the attacks of the enemy. As Kris puts it, “This wasn't a subject I chased after; it chased after me.” At 22, he experienced debilitating panic attacks and a breakdown that became a turning point. Now, Jay and Kris share insights into the spiritual layers behind these experiences, showing how facing our battles with faith can lead to freedom.Here's the truth: once we're saved, Satan's power over us is broken—except for what we give him through fear and belief in his lies. We need to authorize it for him to have any power! Fear opens the door to faith in the wrong kingdom; meditating on fear empowers the very things we're called to resist.In this episode, Kris explains how to keep your spiritual "ecosystem" healthy: change what you look for, and you'll start to see through a new lens. He shares practical tools for discerning what's from God and what isn't, helping you spot deception before it takes root.If you're looking for a book to dig deeper into this topic with a biblical worldview, we recommend Kris' book Spirit Wars. Learn how to find freedom, stay free, and step into the authority you've been given.Spirit Wars: https://www.amazon.com/Spirit-Wars-Winning-Invisible-Against/dp/0800794931 ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    137: Overcoming Masculine Challenges: Hunting, Brotherhood, and Mental Resilience // Live Younger & Grow Wiser with Pat Donaldson

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 62:01


    Hey BraveCo men! This week's guest is one of my closest friends and hunting partners, Pat Donaldson. Pat is an incredible man—generous, loving, and one of the manliest guys I know. We've been hunting together since 2007, and this episode is packed with stories, laughs, and powerful lessons from our adventures in the wild.Join us as we dive into some unforgettable hunting and fishing moments, including our recent moose hunt in Alaska! Beyond the thrill of the outdoors, Pat shares a profound testimony from his visit to Bethel. During a SOZO session, he had a life-changing encounter with God's voice that reshaped his life from that moment on.This conversation is more than just hunting stories—it's about friendship that challenges and sharpens each other. We reflect on how hunting strengthens our relationship and helps us become better, stronger men. For Pat, it's about living younger; for me, it's about growing wiser.At BraveCo, we believe that building confidence as men means stepping out of our comfort zones and testing ourselves. This episode will inspire you to embrace challenges, pursue meaningful friendships, and grow into the man God designed you to be.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    136: Derek Teel: Bouncing Back from Near-Death // Real Strength Isn't Just About Muscles

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 49:50


    From near-death to top-tier training, Derek's story is one of grit, growth, and grace. His mission? To help others tap into their strength—on and off the bike. As a former pro downhill racer, Derek knows that muscle power isn't just a competitive edge—it's armor that keeps you fast and injury-free. Now, as the founder of Dialed Health, he's coaching cyclists to build strength and mobility, making them faster and stronger on every ride.Fitness has been in Derek's DNA from the start. With a dad who led by example, always working out and inviting the kids to join, Derek grew up with a love for movement. But it wasn't just the gym that captured his heart; action sports became his playground. Racing downhill was the dream... until the dream didn't feel quite right anymore. Unsure about his future in the sport, he stepped into personal training full-time, but there was unfinished business on the trail.Then, life threw him a curveball. Derek survived a brutal hit-and-run accident, suffering a shattered femur, fractured spine, broken ribs, a torn colon, and a collapsed lung. The road to recovery was grueling—but it shaped him. Through the kindness of people who knew what it was like to go through pain, Derek found a new perspective. As a coach, he now trains with heart, believing that real strength isn't just about muscles—it's about bouncing back.Connect with Derek:Website: https://dialedhealth.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dialedhealth/?hl=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6xKmv1q7-oQEWoosfldtRQ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    135: Dru Hammer SPEAKS OUT: How Faith Saved Her Life after a Broken Marriage, Divorce & Single Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 57:10


    Jason and Lauren welcome Dru Hammer to share her incredible journey of faith, resilience, and healing. Dru opens up about her challenging marriage, the painful process of divorce, and the profound role of her relationship with Jesus in restoring her heart. As the daughter of a man who entered a miraculous healing ministry, Dru has witnessed firsthand the transformative power of faith, forgiveness, and surrender.Throughout this conversation, Dru also reflects on raising children, including navigating her son's (Armie Hammer) struggles and success in Hollywood, and the spiritual battles that families face. This inspiring episode offers deep insights into maintaining hope and faith through life's darkest times. Don't miss Dru's emotional story and the practical wisdom she offers to those facing their own challenges.Dru Hammer was married to the late Michael Armand Hammer until 2012 and they share 2 sons – in her book, she opens up about the ‘emotional pain she endured through a difficult divorce: https://druville.com/products/hammeredbookConnect with Dru:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/druhammer/?hl=enABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    134: Managing Your Sex Drive in 2024 with Jason Vallotton and Cole Zick

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2024 45:23


    In this lively and candid episode, Jason welcomes back his dear friend Cole Zick for their monthly conversation, and this time they dive into the intense topic of temptation and sex drive. It's a friendly but heated back-and-forth debate as Jason and Cole take on one of the most prevalent challenges of today's culture: managing our sex drives in a world that constantly bombards us with temptation.Humanity has stumbled into a "sexual storm," but is it possible to condition our sex drive to honor our spouses alone? Cole argues that not only is it possible, but it's also practically doable, pointing to James 4:8 and the call to resist temptation. Our sex drive and the devil are not the same, and through practice, we can train our minds to the point where frequent temptations lose their power over us.But Jason pushes back, exploring the difficulty of daily resistance, especially in a culture so saturated with sexual imagery and distraction. Together, they tackle the reality that lust is the willful participation in telling a story that isn't ours—a dangerous narrative that pulls us away from our true purpose.They remind listeners that even Jesus was tempted in every way, meaning He understands what we go through. His death wasn't just for us, but as us, offering us the strength to make powerful choices in the face of temptation. In this life, we may not be able to eliminate temptation completely, but that's where the nobility lies—in overcoming, in saying no, and in making decisions that lead us toward freedom.If you've ever struggled with managing your sexual urges or wondered if it's even possible to retrain your mind, this conversation is for you. Join Jason and Cole for a real, raw discussion that will challenge and encourage you to make powerful decisions in your daily battle.Connect with Cole Zick:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colezick/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cczickABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    133: Wolf of Wall Street & CO-Founder of Planet Fitness John Clancy finds Jesus

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 73:15


    John Clancy's life once revolved around Wall Street wealth—luxury yachts, fast cars, and a Manhattan penthouse. But his world came crashing down when he was indicted on charges of grand larceny and fraud, accused of defrauding thousands of investors. Facing 13 felony counts and years in prison, John found himself at a crossroads.A former stockbroker at the infamous Stratton Oakmont, featured in The Wolf of Wall Street, and co-founder of Planet Fitness, John experienced a dramatic transformation when he encountered the message of hope in the midst of his crisis. Ultimately, he was acquitted of all charges, but more significantly, John was set free through faith in Jesus Christ, finding forgiveness and new life.Today, John lives out his faith with his family and is the principal owner of several Planet Fitness locations, including the top-performing location in Allentown West, PA. Through his journey, John continues to give generously and share his story of redemption and grace.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    132: Uncertain about Your Role as a MAN? Jason Vallotton and Rick Chavez

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 83:34


    Hey BraveCo Men! Tune in as Jay sits down with Rick Chavez, a man whose life has been radically transformed by God's grace. Rick's journey is one of intense conflict, growing up in a chaotic home filled with violence while experiencing glimpses of God that only added to his internal turmoil. Despite Rick's conflicting choices, His belief in the Lord remained. From a young age, Rick was caught in a whirlwind of drugs, gang life, and the weight of becoming a father at 15. Just days after his son was born, Rick faced a charge of attempted murder—a moment that pushed him further into a battle between addiction and his desire to be the father he never had.Rick's life took a sharp turn when a public defender gave him a choice: rehab or prison. What he didn't expect was that the rehab would be a deep dive into prayer, fasting, and hours immersed in the Word. Through this, God began to work in Rick's heart, showing him the power of surrender and transformation.In this conversation, Jason and Rick discuss the struggles men face—feeling conflicted, inadequate, or uncertain about their roles in life. Rick's story is a powerful reminder that no matter how far gone we may feel, God is willing to move mightily in our lives, especially in our marriages and families. The question remains: will you show up and trust Him?Rick, now a leader in men's core groups at Bethel, shares the lessons he's learned through pain, redemption, and the power of showing up. Tune in to hear his story of how God can transform a yielded heart, no matter the past.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    Unlocking Spiritual Intelligence: Kris Vallotton & Jason Vallotton

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 54:02


    Hey BraveCo Men! Get ready for a powerful episode as Jason sits down with his dad, Kris Vallotton, to dive into the vital topic of spiritual intelligence. In today's world, this is our secret weapon as believers—it's the distinct advantage that sets us apart and draws others in. Why? Because we can only access it through the Holy Spirit.When we receive Jesus Christ, our human spirit connects with the Holy Spirit and comes alive, transforming us from the inside out. Before that, our spirit was incomplete, deformed even, but with His presence, we're made whole.Many people overlook the importance of spiritual intelligence, but it brings an irreplaceable dimension to our lives. The spiritual realm is very real, and it's up to us to grow in our understanding of it. Unlike the world, we have the Holy Spirit living within us, empowering us to think beyond human capacity.The Holy Spirit doesn't just rest upon us—He lives inside of us, giving us access to what Kris calls the third dimension of thinking. We have IQ (intelligence), EQ (emotional intelligence), and now SQ—spiritual intelligence—the mind of Christ. It's not just thinking like Jesus; it's thinking His actual thoughts.This episode is for anyone hungry to experience more of God in their everyday life. Tune in and be inspired!Connect with Kris Vallotton: Website: https://www.krisvallotton.com/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    130: Reclaim Your Time: Jay & Cole Zick Discuss The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 38:32


    Hey BraveCo Men! Join us in today's episode as Jay sits down with Cole Zick to dive into the profound insights Cole has gained while reading The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. They explore the importance of reclaiming your idle time—those precious moments that are often stolen by distractions we barely notice. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone feeling the strain of a hurried life, looking for ways to reclaim their time and mental energy!Cole shares how, for many of us, these stolen moments are most often taken by our phones. He emphasizes that our best brain space is found in those idle times when we allow our minds to wander freely. It's in these moments that we solve problems, spark creativity, and generate fresh ideas. However, when we reach for our phones during those in-between moments, our brains operate at a lower level, robbing us of that valuable cognitive space.They also discuss the misconception that constant activity equals productivity. Cole sheds light on the pressure many feel to always be doing something, yet he challenges this notion, suggesting that there is a more focused and intentional way to live. Just because we have access to more information and education than ever before doesn't necessarily mean we are becoming more intelligent, healthy, or productive.Tune in for practical advice on how to slow down, be more intentional with your time, and ultimately live a more focused and fulfilling life!Connect with Cole Zick:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colezick/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cczickABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    129: Why Men Need To Face Pain with Jason Vallotton & Bethel Church's Transformation Center

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 40:06


    Hey BraveCo Men! Tune in as Jay is interviewed on Bethel Church's Transformation Center's podcast: It's Time for Breakthrough.In this compelling episode, Jason Vallotton takes us on a journey through the often-avoided territory of pain and emotional processing. As men, we're frequently taught to run from pain, to downplay it, or to stuff it down, believing that life is about avoiding discomfort at all costs. But what if the key to true healing and growth lies in doing the exact opposite?Jason challenges the cultural narrative around pain, explaining the importance of making room for our emotions—whether it's anger, sadness, grief, guilt, or shame—and how embracing these emotions can lead to profound inner healing.This episode will dive into the nuances of different types of pain and offer practical steps on how to unpack and process them effectively. True strength isn't about avoiding pain but about facing it head-on, understanding it, and allowing it to shape us into better, more whole individuals.Join us as we explore what it means to embrace the unseen parts of our emotional lives and discover the freedom that comes from processing pain with intention and grace. This is an essential conversation for anyone seeking deeper emotional and spiritual health.Connect with the Transformation Center:Website: https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/podcast ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    128: Jehovah's Witness to True Witness - The Story of Jeff Sawyer, How Most Men Would Just Quit

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 72:06


    Hey BraveCo men! In this episode, Jay interviews one of his closest friends, Jeff Sawyer, a devoted father of seven daughters, a loyal friend, and a relentless worker. Jeff's journey is one of remarkable transformation, and we dive deep into his story, uncovering the raw and real experiences that shaped him.From the chaos of gang fights to the challenges of unexpected pregnancies, Jeff's life has been a whirlwind. He was there in the early days of Bethel Church, witnessing the Holy Spirit move in radical ways. His story begins with a tumultuous childhood, growing up as a Jehovah's Witness, and a troubled relationship with his mom and stepdad. This led him to the streets, where he quickly became involved in gang life, facing intense struggles and pain.At sixteen, Jeff's life took a sharp turn when his girlfriend (now wife), Sue, became pregnant. He threw himself into work to provide, but their move to Redding brought a whole new set of challenges. With confusion, fear, and a marriage on the brink of collapse, Jeff eventually fled to LA, adopting a very different lifestyle and even dating other women.While Jeff was gone, Sue began attending Kris Vallotton's home group, where she received a promise of redemption—that Jeff would return. Just as Jeff felt the pull from the Holy Spirit to go back home, he discovered his girlfriend in LA was also pregnant. Tune in to hear how Jeff's story unfolds and the powerful ways God intervened in his life.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    127: From $30 Million is Sales, President of Company to Leaving it all to Follow God's Call, Guest Mitchell Miles

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 34:28


    Hey BraveCo Men! Tune in as Jay interviews entrepreneur, Christian influencer, and mental health advocate, Mitchell Miles.Mitchell grew up immersed in ministry in Tulsa, OK, where he witnessed countless miracles firsthand, including the remarkable healings of his own mother—first from cancer and later from a stroke. Despite facing significant challenges during his middle and high school years, Mitchell found his footing when he ventured into the online marketing space in 2018. By 2020, he had risen to the top 1% of sales reps in his industry. This success led to his recruitment by Closers.io, where he served as Chief Revenue Officer, helping scale sales from $1 million to $30 million in under three years.Shortly after he was promoted to President, stepping down after one year to follow what God called him to do - sharing the message of Jesus and advocating for mental health. Mitchell believes God wants to reach the millennial and Gen Z generations right now. We're poised for a global awakening and one of the most prominent issues amongst this group is their mental and emotional health. Connect with Mitchell:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mitchellmiles Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mitchellmilesconsulting/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themitchellmiles/ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    126: Men's Health: Men need other Men to Survive with Jason Vallotton and Cole Zick

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 42:05


    Hey BraveCo Men! Listen in as Jay and Cole recap the BraveCo Conference 2024. Beware, you might feel a little fomo while listening to this episode!We have all been in conferences where you are glued to your seats, just listening, and as men, it can be tough to participate in this style of learning, where the expectation of massive impact can leave you feeling a bit disappointed. At BraveCo, the conference model of “come, sit, listen and sing” has been a model we've sought to break out of. We've been exploring new options for how to engage men in a life-giving way that reforms the standard experience, where men get to feel the strength that comes with being seen, being part of a tribe, and engaging in ministry that is not reserved for the special few, but where the whole team contributes in a significant way. ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    125: Netflix and Chill Culture, Dating Life Shouldn't be Difficult in 2024 - interview with Moral Revolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 44:50


    Hey BraveCo Men! Listen in as Jay is interviewed by Daniel Maddry, Co-Director Moral Revolution of as they cover the fascinating and incredibly relevant topic of relationship anxiety.So many people experience loads of anxiety in a dating relationship because they didn't grow up in a home where they felt like they could take risks and fail, or perhaps they never truly felt cared for. If this is your story, you may be drawn to the chaos a relationship may bring because it feels safe to you–let's unravel these belief systems!From God's role in dating, what happens when we feel bored, to learning more about how true, healthy commitments are formed, this is an episode for anyone out there in the dating pool, and for those who want to gain insight to come alongside their friends, loved ones, and relatives who are!Whether you call it dating, courting, getting to know someone, or pursuing a possible future - At Moral Revolution, they don't think the process should be difficult. Moral Revolution's goal is to help you walk through the stages of dating with honor, passion, and desire from the first date to the first kiss as husband and wife… and maybe a few rejections in between. Either way, they'll be walking side by side with you the entire journey.Connect with Moral Revolution:Website: https://www.moralrevolution.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moralrevolution Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MoralRevolutionInc Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/4F01jEV2OIloP7o5CihEoy?si=XNleRD44SdqwZTYOhek7lA&nd=1&dlsi=550fd617c26644af ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    124: How Comfort Zones will Lead to Failure with Aaron Zint

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 44:30


    In this episode, Aaron Zint, leader of The Whole Man Project, and author of Numb to Known, joins Jay to talk about PASSIVITY and how to overcome it. Small steps take you to where you want to go. Anytime we dodge a challenge, ignore a problem, avoid weakness, or stay in our comfort zones, passivity wins. Passivity lies to us, saying that avoiding action is easier than facing regret. But, every moment of avoidance is a lost chance to grow.From difficult conversations, physical transformation, to business undertakings, and more, they all begin with tiny steps. You can do hard things!Connect with Aaron:Website: https://aaronzint.wixsite.com/website Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aaron.zint Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintmarriagelab/?hl=en Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-lab/id1559373076Book: https://www.amazon.com/Numb-Known-Surprising-Path-Away-ebook/dp/B0BDW3TLGJ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    123: How to Get Free of P*** Addiction // Sathiya Sam interview with Jason Vallotton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 51:37


    There is a stumbling block to the modern-day dating system. With the advancement of social media and the infiltration of p***ography across the board, more and more men are holding onto their choice due to the perceived idea that there is a better option somewhere else. Sathiya Sam is the creator of DeepClean, a proven process for resolving the root issues of p*** addiction. Sathiya took 15 years to fully recover from his own addiction, now uses his education, expertise, and experience to help men get free of p*** addiction.Sathiya has had the privilege of sharing both his story and his work on hundreds of  platforms, including top 1% podcasts, national television broadcasts, and stages around the world.Connect with Sathiya:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ss07tq YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDQC38ppxDd2AAcP5gbUypQ Website: https://www.sathiyasam.com Resources: https://www.sathiyasam.com/case-study ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

    122: Men Are in a BAD PLACE, Let's Rave // King Topher interview with Jason Vallotton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 59:48


    RAVE JESUS, a unique musical journey brought to you by King Topher, an internationally renowned DJ and Producer with Billboard-charting hits and hundreds of millions of streams. Dive into an electrifying experience where faith meets music, and the beats bring you closer to a divine celebration.King Topher's mastery in blending captivating rhythms with powerful messages has made him a global sensation. With RAVE JESUS, he takes you on an unforgettable ride, combining his musical genius with a higher purpose. Join us as we rave for Jesus and spread love, faith, and positivity through every beat.Connect with King Topher:Youtube:  @RaveJesusMusic  Website: https://www.ravejesus.com/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/3mPHVEre3DiAHKuOCBFP8D?si=bNAQWGlmR721HfvH16sw-AApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/rave-jesus/1732318793IG: https://www.instagram.com/ravejesusmusic/

    121: Bill Johnson: The Makings of a Man // Faith that led to 27 years in prison, Nelson Mandela

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 56:47


    Hey, BraveCo Men! Listen in for this week's episode of our “Makings of a Man” series, as Jason interviews pastor, father, and revivalist, Bill Johnson, in this convicting conversation on the core value of faith.We begin this episode by sharing the inspirational story of the life of Nelson Mandela, whose victory was not just political but also a profound testament to the power of faith and resilience in overcoming oppression and injustice. Arrested for his activism, Mandela spent 27 years in prison, enduring harsh conditions and separation from his family. Mandela's unwavering belief in a better future fueled his resolve, even in the darkest moments. Upon his release, he led a peaceful transition from apartheid to democracy, ultimately becoming South Africa's first black president. For many of us men, we find ourselves grappling with two types of faith: faith in God, who we are serving, and faith in what we are doing. Having a conviction of what we have been assigned to can sometimes be much easier than living a life in purity of heart—but the ease doesn't make it right. There are a lot of men who have faith in the mission and assignment of their lives, but find themselves standing shakily in trusting the One who has led them to their mission or work. We can be committed to our jobs, our assignments, and roles, and not always have purity of heart. When we offer ourselves to the Lord for His glory, we maintain what is precious and invaluable: the constant awareness of God's presence and Person. We hope this episode encourages our men to grow in faith, purity of heart, and the celebration of what God is doing.Bill Johnson is a fifth-generation pastor with a rich heritage in the Holy Spirit. He has been pastor of Bethel Church since 1996 with a one-word mission statement: revival. Bill's priority in life has been to learn how to host the Presence of God and minister to Him, and in fruit, he has remained passionate about seeing the Kingdom of Heaven invade Earth across all spheres of influence. Connect with Bill:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/billjohnsonministries/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BillJohnsonMinistries YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BillJohnsonMinistries Website: https://bjm.org/about/ Resources: https://bjm.org/resources-list/ 

    120: Tracey Amstrong: The Makings of a Man “Self-Reliance”// Great Leaders are Self-Reliant ask Ernest Shackleton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 42:37


    Hey, BraveCo Men! Listen in as Jason interviews Tracey Armstrong in this uplifting and empowering conversation on self-reliance in this week's episode of our “Makings of a Man” series.In our introduction, we tell the story of self-reliance powerfully demonstrated by renown polar explorer, Ernest Shackleton and his Endurance crew of the Imperial Trans-Antarctic Expedition. During the Endurance Expedition of 1914-1917, their ship became trapped in a pack of ice as they were crossing the Atlantic. Twenty-two members of the crew remained on Elephant Island as the men endured entrapment and frigid weather. Miraculously and courageously, Ernest was determined to not lose even one of his team members in the process. After traveling from Elephant Island with two others, to South Georgia Island to organize a rescue mission, Shackleton returned to his crew after over a year stranded in the Antarctic, successfully rescuing all. His leadership ability to keep his crew focused in the midst of adversity has made the Endurance Mission a testament to the human spirit in the midst of adversity.We all have a problem-solver inside us. The people who lead us are those who pushed past temporary deficiencies. Great leaders are self-reliant not because they want to be, but because they are in a position to do what no one else is willing to do.This is the kind of self-reliance we need in this season and this generation. Tracey is a social and economic entrepreneur and a success coach to achievers and wealth builders. Tracey believes God's people must have spiritual, social and economic influence. He has a powerful voice in the men's movement, prophetic gifting, and in life. Tracey and his wife, Nathalie, are on the front line of the new generation of “supernaturalists” being raised up in the world today, as pastors of Citadel Church, located in Seattle Washington. Together with their team, they are committed to reach this generation that is asleep spiritually and absent in most churches. Tracey and Nathalie are equipping the emerging generation for spiritual, social and economic influence.Connect with Tracey:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traceyarmstrong/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/influencerscoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@influencerscoach Website: https://www.traceyarmstrong.school 

    119: Julian Adams: The Makings of a Man “Nobility” Sir Nicholas Winton and 669 Czech Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 50:38


    Hey, BraveCo Men! Listen in as Jason and  Julian Adams engage in a fascinating conversation on nobility in this week's episode of our “Makings of a Man” series.The outworking of nobility is made known in the furnace of pressure. What do we do in the moments when we choose to walk in integrity in the workplace, or in laying our lives down for our families? Or, when we choose to lean into a decision that will likely work against us, but conviction says to do it regardless? Nobility makes decisions that are consistent with the character of Jesus, and is formed when no one is looking. Julian is a director of Frequentsee and leader of The Table Boston church-plant. He is an author, spiritual advisor, revelatory teacher and leadership consultant in political, business and creative spheres. An internationally recognised prophet, Julian has a proven track record in the fulfillment of words released over individuals, communities and nations. He is a director for NEWDAY United, a charity based in South Africa and England that serves the poor and vulnerable in Southern Africa.In our introduction we tell the story of true nobility. Sir Nicholas Winton was known for organizing the rescue of 669 Czech children from Nazi-occupied Czechoslovakia during the 9 months before war broke out in 1939. He died on 1st July 2015 aged 106.His story is told in a new film, One Life, based on his biography of the same name, written by his daughter Barbara. One Life is released in UK cinemas on 1 January 2024, and worldwide in 2024.Watch the trailer here: https://youtu.be/6ethollg-PIConnect with Julian:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_julianadams/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/frequentsee.org/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_JulianAdams Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/214oBIbsg80VYHrujUDgV1 Website:https://www.julianadams.org/ Latest Book: https://www.julianadams.org/terranova Foundations of Masculinity:https://www.smallgroups.braveco.org 

    117: Kris Vallotton, The Makings of a Man // Leadership That Killed Abraham Lincoln

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 60:56


    What are you willing to fight for, and what are you willing to die for?Leadership is one of the most important qualities as men. In this episode, Jay sits down with his dad, Kris Vallotton, as they cover significant qualities of leadership. Trust, vision, courage, grit, having heroes, and taking the time to ask God questions, are powerful contributors to making a good leader. Kris offers a wealth of wisdom when it comes to leading men, as he currently serves as a prominent figure in the realm of leadership development, and brings a refreshing perspective on Kingdom leadership, emphasizing servant-heartedness, integrity, and empowerment.As the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church in Redding, California, and the co-founder of Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry, Vallotton's teachings blend practical wisdom with spiritual insight, resonating with leaders across various sectors. This approach stands in stark contrast to traditional models of hierarchical leadership, instead promoting a culture of honor and humility. Kris is an international speaker, culture leader, and spiritual father to a generation. He has a diverse background in business, counseling, pastoring and teaching that has prepared him with a powerful message that equips both the multitude and individual leaders to fulfill their divine purpose. Connect with Kris:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kvministries/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kvministries YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KVMinistries Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4bW00EHIlEVPWGNRRCPUiU Website: https://www.krisvallotton.com 

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