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Ashkenazic custom requires standing during Kaddish, whereas Sephardic practice allows sitting during Kaddish (unless one had been standing before Kaddish began). Hacham Bension Abba Shaul (Jerusalem, 1924-1998) writes that if a Sepharadi is praying in an Ashkenazic Minyan, he must abide by the Ashkenazic custom and stand during Kaddish. If he remains seated, Hacham Bension writes, this would violate the prohibition of "Lo Titgodedu," which forbids following divergent religious practices in the same place. Hacham Bension makes an exception in a case where there are others in the Minyan sitting during Kaddish, such as elderly congregants who have difficulty standing and are thus permitted to sit during Kaddish even according to Ashkenazic practice. Since there are already some people sitting, a Sepharadi is permitted to sit, as well. Hacham Ovadia Yosef disagreed. He argued that the law of "Lo Titgodedu" does not apply when the divergent practices involve a Minhag (custom), as opposed to a strict Halachic obligation. It is thus not relevant to the issue of sitting or standing during Kaddish, and so a Sepharadi is allowed to sit during Kaddish in an Ashkenazic Minyan. Nevertheless, Hacham Ovadia added, if the Sepharadi has reason to suspect that sitting would cause tension and controversy – which we must always try to avoid – then he should certainly stand in the interest of maintaining peaceful relations among Jews. Summary: A Sepharadi praying in an Ashkenazic Minyan is allowed to sit during Kaddish, despite the fact that Ashkenazic custom requires standing. If, however, he suspects that sitting would cause tension and strife, then he should follow the local custom and stand.

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Our practice follows the custom of the Arizal to remain sitting during Kaddish. Although Ashkenazim make a point of standing for Kaddish, Sephardic practice is to remain seated. The exception to this rule is the Kaddish recited before Barechu at the beginning of Arbit on Friday night, when many have the custom to stand. The Arizal taught that one should stand during this recitation of Barechu, as part of the extra Shabbat soul descends upon a person at this point. Therefore, since in any event one stands for Barechu, many have the custom to stand already during the Kaddish that precedes Barechu. As a general rule, however, Sephardic custom allows one to remain sitting for Kaddish. This applies only if a person was sitting before Kaddish began. If one was already standing when Kaddish starts, then he must remain standing. This was the practice of the Arizal. According to some Poskim, if one was standing when Kaddish began, then he must remain standing throughout the entire recitation of Kaddish. Others maintain that one must remain standing only until the Hazzan reaches "Da'amiran Be'alma Ve'imru Amen." Our custom follows a third opinion, that of the Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909) – that one may sit after he completes his "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response, which, according to our community's practice, ends with the words "Da'amiran Be'alma." Once a person completes his response, he may sit, even though the Hazzan has not yet reached "Da'amiran Be'alma." Some have the misconception that it is improper to sit before the Hazzan reaches "Da'amiran Be'alma," but in truth, one may sit once he reaches that point. On Friday night, the congregation stands during the recitation of Vayechulu and the Hazzan's recitation of "Me'en Sheba," which is then followed by Kaddish. In some synagogues, people rush to sit down after the Hazzan concludes "Me'en Sheba" (with the recitation of "Baruch Ata Hashem Mekadesh Ha'Shabbat"), before he begins Kaddish, so they would not have to remain standing during Kaddish. Some Hazzanim even pause before Kaddish to give the congregants the opportunity to sit before Kaddish. Hacham Ovadia Yosef writes that this is improper, as specifically rushing to sit down before Kaddish begins shows disrespect to Kaddish. He brings as an example a ruling of the Ma'amar Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Karmi, 1749-1825) regarding the situation of somebody standing next to a person who is about to begin the Amida. Halacha requires one to stand if the individual next to him is reciting the Amida, unless he was sitting before his neighbor began the Amida, in which case he may remain seated. The Ma'amar Mordechai writes that one who is standing and sees that the person next to him will soon begin the Amida should not rush to sit down so he would not need to remain standing. By the same token, Hacham Ovadia writes, it is inappropriate to specifically rush to sit down before Kaddish in order to avoid having to stand during Kaddish. During Arbit, one may remain seated during the recitation of the Kaddish that precedes the Amida. Since one is already seated during Hashkibenu, he may remain seated for Kaddish, and then stand for the Amida prayer. On days when Tahanunim are not recited after the Hazzan's repetition of the Amida, and only the brief "Yehi Shem" recitation precedes Kaddish, it is proper to remain standing for Kaddish. Some people mistakenly think that they may sit down for Kaddish – even though they had been standing before Kaddish began – if the Hazzan sings the Kaddish and thus prolongs its recitation. This is incorrect; one must remain standing even if the Hazzan sings the Kaddish. However, the Poskim write that if the Hazzan knows that people are standing, he should ensure not to prolong the recitation of Kaddish, in order not to overburden the congregation by making them remain standing for several minutes. This Halacha alerts us to the care that must be taken to avoid "Tirha De'sibura" – causing the congregation even minor inconvenience. If Hazzanim are discouraged from prolonging the Kaddish recitation by several minutes when people are standing, then this shows us the sensitivity that Halacha requires toward the congregation. In fact, a well-known Hazzan told me that when he led the service on the High Holidays in Hacham Ovadia Yosef's synagogue, and he wanted to sing a special melody for Birkat Kohanim that was traditionally sung in Jerusalem communities, Hacham Ovadia instructed him not to. He explained that it would be inconsiderate to overburden the congregation who are standing during Birkat Kohanim – especially on Yom Kippur, when the people are fasting – by prolonging this part of the service. Unfortunately, it has become common to sing a great deal at Huppa ceremonies, which causes a great deal of inconvenience to the guests, and this practice should be discouraged. Summary: Sephardic custom is to remain seated during Kaddish. If one was standing before Kaddish began, then he must remain standing until he completes his "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response, through "Da'amiran Be'alma," at which point he may sit, even if the Hazzan has not yet reached "Da'amiran Be'alma." A Hazzan who knows that people are standing for Kaddish should not prolong the Kaddish recitation. It is improper to rush to sit down before Kaddish to avoid having to remain standing.

We're coming up on the 40th yahrzeit of Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, and this episode is a guided tour through Rav Moshe's Torah on the questions every Ben Torah eventually faces:How do I build a life where Torah stays central… while I'm working, providing, and living in the real world?Our guest, Rabbi Moshe Kurtz (rabbi, podcaster, and serious Rav Moshe researcher), just released a new sefer: Me'oros Moshe — a curated collection of Rav Moshe's divrei Torah on Pirkei Avos, pulling from Igros Moshe, derashos, chidushim, and key writings from talmidim and family.You will hear: how Rav Moshe frames kollel, parnassah, college, career choices, and what it means to live with “aseh Torascha keva” even outside the beis medrash.What you'll learn in this episode:1) Kollel isn't “all or nothing”2) “College” is not automatically the derech ha-parnassah3) The big idea: “Aseh Torascha keva” is about orientation, not just hours4) Career choices: Rav Moshe's lens on medicine and “zero-sum” tradeoffs5) Rav Moshe's greatness wasn't only brilliance — it was care-driven psakTo order Meoros Moshe, click hereBio: Rabbi Moshe KurtzRabbi Moshe Kurtz serves as the Rabbi of Congregation Sons of Israel in Allentown, PA. He is the author of Meoros Moshe (Aleh Zayis, 2025), a Pirkei Avos anthology of scholarship and stories about HaGaon HaRav Moshe Feinstein zt”l. Rabbi Kurtz previously hosted Shu"T First Ask, Questions Later, published Challenging Assumptions (Mosaica Press, 2023), and writes about contemporary halachic issues in forums such as the Journal of Halacha and Contemporary Society (RJJ Journal), OUTorah, The Lehrhaus, Torah Musings and Jewish Action. Rabbi Kurtz proudly serves as a member of the Allentown Police Department's chaplain unit as well as the Allentown School District Superintendent's Interfaith Council. He also contributes to The Morning Call and was featured on Business Matters, a production of the Lehigh Valley Chamber of Commerce (WFMZ Studios). Rabbi Kurtz hosts the As I Walk Through the Valley podcast, and is currently writing a book based on his Unpacking the Iggerot column at Tradition. He can be reached at rabbi@sonsofisrael.net. 

When a person recites Kaddish, he says at several points, "Ve'imru Amen" ("And say: Amen"), urging the congregation to respond "Amen" to what he has recited. The question thus arises as to what to do when all the men in the Minyan need to recite Kaddish. If they all recite Kaddish, then, seemingly, they cannot say, "Ve'imru Amen," because there is nobody present whom they can invite to respond "Amen." Some Poskim rule that in this situation, one or two men should volunteer not to say Kaddish, so there will be people responding to Kaddish. Others, however, contend that the men may all recite Kaddish without concern. These Poskim point to the fact that we end the silent Amida prayer with "Oseh Shalom Bi'mromav… Ve'imru Amen" – saying, "Ve'imru Amen" even though there is nobody listening. According to the Kabbalists, when we say, "Ve'imru Amen" at the end of the silent Amida, we are speaking to the angels. This can be applied also to Kaddish. Therefore, even if there is nobody responding, it is still acceptable to recite, "Ve'imru Amen." This is the position of Rav Eliyahu Mani (Hebron, 1818-1899), cited by the Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909), in his work Rav Pe'alim. However, in Ben Ish Hai (Parashat Vayehi), after mentioning this position of Rav Eliyahu Mani, the Ben Ish Hai writes that it is preferable to have at least one person refrain from reciting Kaddish so he can respond. The Kaf Ha'haim (Rav Yaakob Haim Sofer, Baghdad-Jerusalem, 1870-1939) added that it is best to have two people refrain, as the phrase "Ve'imru Amen" is formulated in the plural form, inviting more than one person to respond. This is, indeed, the final Halacha – that although it is acceptable for everyone in the Minyan to recite Kaddish, it is preferred that at least two people refrain from reciting Kaddish so they can respond to the others.

One who recites Kaddish should do so loudly enough for the entire congregation to hear him. If, however, one is incapable of reciting Kaddish loudly, he may nevertheless recite Kaddish – as long as others in the congregation are reciting Kaddish loudly at the same time. This is the ruling of the Petah Ha'debir (Rav Haim Pontromoli, Turkey, d. 1873), and of the Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909), in his Rav Pe'alim. The Ben Ish Hai adds that the practice in Bet El – a yeshiva of Kabbalists in Jerusalem – was that the Hazzan recited Kaddish aloud with the deep kabbalistic intentions, and those who did know these intentions recited Kaddish silently along with the Hazzan. This way, they could be considered to recite Kaddish with these deep intentions. Nevertheless, the Ben Ish Hai writes that as a general rule, congregants reciting Kaddish should do so in a loud voice. The Kaf Ha'haim (Rav Yaakob Haim Sofer, Baghdad-Jerusalem, 1870-1939), by contrast, maintained that this practice is valid, though he added that the congregants who silently recite Kaddish should stand at a distance from the Hazzan, and that they should recite Kaddish loudly enough for two or three people near them to hear. By contrast, the Binyan Sion (Rav Yaakov Ettlinger, Germany, 1798-1871) ruled that one may not recite Kaddish silently. As for the final Halacha, one who cannot recite Kaddish loudly may recite it quietly, though he should try to ensure that at least two or three people near him can hear his recitation. Hacham Bension Abba Shaul (Jerusalem, 1924-1998) ruled similarly regarding the case where many people recite Kaddish, and because they do not recite it in unison, the recitation is chaotic and none of them can be heard. While this situation is, of course, undesirable, and the people reciting Kaddish should strive to do so in unison, nevertheless, if the recitation is chaotic, one is nevertheless permitted to recite Kaddish with the others, even though he will not be heard. Summary: One who recites Kaddish must do so in a loud voice, so that he can be heard by everyone in the synagogue. If one cannot recite Kaddish loudly, he may recite it quietly, though he should try to ensure that at least two or three people near him can hear his recitation.

When two or more people recite Kaddish together, they must make an effort to recite the words in unison, at the same pace. Otherwise, this causes a great deal of confusion for the congregants, who need to respond at various points during the Kaddish. If the people reciting Kaddish do not say the words in unison, and one reaches "Ve'imru Amen" (or "Berich Hu") before the other, to whom should the congregation respond? The Halachot Ketanot (Rav Yisrael Yaakob Hagiz, 1620-1674) writes that if the people reciting Kaddish reach "Ve'imru Amen" within one second of another, then the congregation may respond to whichever one they choose. This is based on the principle of "Toch Ke'deh Dibur," which allows us to ignore a period short enough to say the words "Shalom Alechem Rebbe," which is approximately one second. If two people say "Ve'imru Amen" within one second of one another, then they may be considered as having recited this together, simultaneously, and so one may respond to either. However, the Halachot Ketanot writes, if the two people say "Ve'imru Amen" more than a second apart, then the congregation answers "Amen" to them both. The Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909) rules accordingly, except that in his view, if the two people recite "Ve'imru Amen" more than a second apart, then the congregation should answer "Amen" to the one who recites it first. This applies only if the two people are reciting Kaddish together in the same Minyan. If, however, a person hears Kaddish from a different Minyan while Kaddish is being recited in his Minyan, then he responds only to the Kaddish recited in his Minyan. This situation arises very often at the Kotel, where different Minyanim pray in a relatively small area, and one is thus likely to hear other Minyanim while he prays with his Minyan. If he hears Kaddish recited in a different Minyan at the same time as Kaddish is being recited in his Minyan, he responds only to the Kaddish in his Minyan. If a person hears somebody else complete a Beracha just when he must respond to Kaddish, then he should respond to both the Kaddish and the Beracha, even if the Beracha ends within one second of the recitation of "Ve'imru Amen" in Kaddish. Since these are two separate recitations, one must answer "Amen" to both. If he must respond at the same time, he should say, "Amen Ve'amen," instead of "Amen Amen." This is the ruling of the Hesed La'alafim (Rav Eliezer Papo, 1785-1828). It sometimes happens that somebody arrives late for Shaharit, and he puts on his Tallit or Tefillin during the Kaddish Al Yisrael recited after "Rabbi Yishmael Omer…" The people near him might then need to respond to his Beracha over the Tallit and Tefillin at the same time they respond to Kaddish. In such a case, they should respond, "Amen Ve'amen." Summary: When two or more people recite Kaddish together, they must make an effort to recite it in unison. If it happens that one person recites Kaddish slower than the other, then the congregation must respond to both of them separately, unless the two people reach "Ve'imru Amen" within one second of each other, in which case the congregation responds to the person who said "Ve'imru Amen" first. If one hears Kaddish from a different Minyan at the same time as Kaddish is recited in his Minyan, he responds only to the Kaddish in his Minyan. If a person hears someone complete a Beracha just as he must respond to Kaddish, then he answers "Amen" to each one separately, even if they end within one second of one another, in which case he responds, "Amen Ve'amen."

When a person answers "Amen Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" to Kaddish, he is expressing his agreement to the prayer recited by the Hazzan, that G-d's Name should be glorified throughout the world. The question thus arises as to whether a person can respond "Amen Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" if he entered the synagogue after the congregation began responding. Must he have heard the beginning of Kaddish from the Hazzan in order to respond, or does it suffice that the congregation is responding at that time for him to join? Hacham Ovadia Yosef, based on the Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909) in Parashat Vayehi, writes that the person in this case may, in fact, join the congregation. As long as the congregation is still in the middle of the "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response, the person may respond together with them. The Poskim debate the question of whether the person in this case should begin his response with "Amen," or if he should omit "Amen" and begin with "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." The Ben Ish Hai brings those who maintain that since the person did not hear the Hazzan's recitation of the beginning of Kaddish, he cannot answer "Amen," as this would constitute an "Amen Yetoma" (literally, "an orphan Amen") – an "Amen" that does not respond to anything, which is improper. Hacham Ovadia Yosef cited opinions that permit the person to begin with "Amen" if he can quickly think of the words of Kaddish to which he will be responding. However, Hacham Ovadia then brought the ruling of the Hida (Rav Haim Yosef David Azulai, 1724-1806) that if a person hears others answering "Amen" to a Beracha which he did not hear, he may not answer "Amen" with them even if he knows precisely which Beracha they are responding to. The Kaf Ha'haim (Rav Yaakob Haim Sofer, 1870-1939) agreed with this ruling. According to this opinion, one should not answer "Amen" to Kaddish if he did not hear the Hazzan, even if he can quickly think of the Hazzan's words in his mind. Hacham Ovadia thus concluded that it is preferable not to begin with "Amen" in this case, though he added that one who wishes to begin with "Amen" has a basis on which to rely. Hacham David Yosef, in Halacha Berura, noted that different views exist among the Poskim as to whether the rule of "Amen Yetoma" applies to one who responds to Kaddish. In light of this question, Hacham David ruled that one may, in fact, respond "Amen" to Kaddish even if he did not hear the Hazzan, as long as he can think the words in his mind. We generally follow the rulings of Hacham Ovadia, and so it is preferable in this case for the person to begin his response with "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba," omitting "Amen." This entire discussion applies only if the Hazzan had not yet begun "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." If a person arrives after the Hazzan had begun "Yeheh Shemeh," then according to all opinions, he should not begin with "Amen." This situation is comparable to one who did not answer "Amen" to a blessing of the Amida during the Hazzan's repetition, until the Hazzan began the next Beracha. Once the Hazzan begins the next Beracha, one can no longer answer "Amen." By the same token, one cannot answer "Amen" to Kaddish once the Hazzan had proceeded with "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." The Poskim debate the question of whether one answers "Amen" if he arrived in the synagogue during Kaddish just as the Hazzan recited, "Ve'imru Amen" ("And say: 'Amen'"). The Ben Ish Hai implies that the person cannot answer "Amen," even though he heard the Hazzan announce "Ve'imru Amen," since he did not hear the words to which the congregation now responds. By contrast, both the Kaf Ha'haim and Hacham David Yosef maintain that the person can answer "Amen" in such a case. The Hazzan must ensure not to repeat the word "Amen" before he begins "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." After declaring, "Ve'imru Amen," and then pausing to allow the congregation to begin their response, he should proceed directly to "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba," and must not make the mistake of repeating the word "Amen." Summary: If a person arrived in the synagogue as the congregation was responding "Amen Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" to Kaddish, he may join in their response, unless the Hazzan had begun reciting "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba," in which case it is too late to respond. If the Hazzan had yet to begin "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba," the person joins the congregation's response but should preferably omit "Amen" and begin from "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." If a person arrived just when the Hazzan recited "Ve'imru Amen," he may respond "Amen" with the congregation.

Discussion of the ways to create "pirsumei nissa" in order to say beracha on Megilla reading, distinctions between "zmana"/not, including women, etc.

Kaddish is a prayer asking that Hashem's Name shall be recognized, revered and glorified throughout the world. When we answer to the Hazzan, "Amen, Yeheh Shemeh Rabba," we are essentially joining in this prayer, affirming that we, too, pray and yearn for the time when G-d's Name will be great. The Rabbis teach that during our period of exile, G-d's Name is "incomplete," as it were, consisting only of the first two letters – Yod and Heh. This is indicated in Hashem's pronouncement following the war against Amalek, "Ki Yad Al Kes Y-ah" (Shemot 17:16) – that as long as Amalek has yet to be defeated, and evil still exists in the world, G-d's Name is "Y-ah," consisting of only two letters. In the future, the Vav and the second Heh will be added to complete the Name. The Hazzan thus begins Kaddish with the words "Yitgadal Ve'yitkadash," which together consist of eleven letters – an allusion to the letters Vav and Heh, which have the combined number value of 11. "Yitgadal Ve'yitkadash Shemeh Rabba" is a prayer that G-d's Name shall be "completed" through its glorification among all peoples on earth. We therefore proclaim in our response to Kaddish, "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" – that Hashem's Name shall be "Rabba," "large" and complete, with the arrival of Mashiah, when G-d's Name will be acknowledged and respected throughout the world. Because we respond to Kaddish so often – numerous times each day – we are prone to answering mindlessly, without paying attention to what we are saying. We should try, as much as possible, to concentrate on the meaning of the Hazzan's declaration, and on the meaning of our response – that we are praying for G-d's Name to be known and glorified throughout the world. Some have the custom when the Hazzan begins Kaddish to recite the verse, "Ve'ata Yigdal Na Koah Hashem…" (Bamidbar 14:17). However, the Arizal taught that this practice is incorrect. One should listen silently and attentively to the Hazzan's recitation, and then have in mind when responding that we are joining in his prayer for the glorification of the divine Name.

Trusting at the End of Days

During Kaddish, the Hazzan must recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" along with the congregation. The Mishna Berura writes that the Hazzan recites "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" silently, and then raises his voice again when he reaches the word "Yitbarach." The work Az Nidberu (Rav Binyamin Zilber, 1916-2008) explains the Mishna Berura to mean that the Hazzan may recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" silently if he so wishes, but he must then raise his voice beginning with the word "Yitbarach." This ruling, the Az Nidberu explains, is based on the Lebush (Rav Mordechai Yoffe, 1530-1612), who writes that when the congregation responds to Barechu by declaring, "Baruch Hashem Ha'meborach Le'olam Va'ed," the Hazzan also makes this declaration, and may do so silently if he so wishes. By the same token, the Hazzan may recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" silently. It is unclear, however, why, according to this view, the Gemara's promise of reward for one who responds to "Yeheh Shemeh" with "all his strength" ("Be'chol Koho") does not apply to the Hazzan. We would assume that just as the members of the congregation are encouraged to respond "with all their strength," this should be true of the Hazzan, as well. The answer, as some have suggested, might be that the "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response is primarily for the congregation, and not for the Hazzan. The Hazzan joins only so that he does not exclude himself from the congregation. Therefore, it is not necessary for him to recite it loudly. However, there seems to be a different reason to require the Hazzan to recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" aloud. The Shulhan Aruch (104:7) writes that if somebody hears Nakdishach or Kaddish while he recites the Amida, he should pause and listen attentively to the Hazzan, whereby he can be considered to have responded to Nakdishach and Kaddish. This ruling clearly assumes that the Hazzan recites the entire Kaddish – including "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" – loudly, such that the congregants who are still reciting the Amida can listen and thereby fulfill the Misva of responding. It is possible that the Mishna Berura referred to a case where nobody in the congregation was still reciting the Amida, and for this reason, he wrote that the Hazzan does not need to recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" out loud. Regardless, the accepted practice is that the Hazzan recites "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" aloud, just like the rest of the Kaddish. In light of what we have seen, the Hazzan must have in mind when reciting Kaddish (and Nakdishach, for that matter) that his recitation should fulfill the obligation for those who are reciting the Amida and thus cannot respond. Those who wish to fulfill the Misva by listening to the Hazzan can do so only if both they and the Hazzan have this in mind, and it is therefore imperative that the Hazzan has in mind to fulfill the obligation for those who cannot respond. In fact, the Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909) writes that if a person reciting the Amida knows that the Hazzan is unaware of this Halacha, and does not have in mind for his Kaddish recitation to fulfill the obligation for those reciting the Amida, then there is no reason for this person to interrupt his Amida prayer to hear the Kaddish. Since the Hazzan does not have in mind for his recitation to fulfill the listeners' obligation, the listeners have no possibility of fulfilling their obligation, and they might as well just continue their Amida without pausing to hear the Hazzan's recitation of Kaddish. Hacham Ovadia Yosef concurred with this ruling. Summary: During Kaddish, the Hazzan recites "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" together with the congregation. He should do so in a loud voice – like the rest of Kaddish – and should have in mind that those who are reciting the Amida, and thus cannot respond, will fulfill their obligation by listening to his recitation.

In this special Ask Away “Junior Edition” of the Everyday Judaism podcast, recoded during the Super Bowl Halftime, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe opens the floor to a group of young yeshiva students (ages 12–14) who ask thoughtful, deep questions on halacha, Torah, and Jewish life. The rabbi answers with warmth, clarity, and practical wisdom, often tying responses to broader lessons in emunah, mitzvot, and character.Key questions & answers:Aryeh Buchwald: Why does Hashem put us in Olam HaZeh instead of straight to Olam HaBa? — To remove “bread of shame” (nahama d'kisufa). If Hashem gave reward without earning it, we'd feel shame. This world lets us earn Olam HaBa through free will (bechira), overcoming challenges, and building a real relationship with Hashem.Shlomo Chaim Lieberman: Why is Yisro called “Chosen Moshe” and “Kohein Midyon” after his introduction, not just “Yisro”? — Yisro had seven names/titles. He explored every religion before discovering truth in Judaism and converting. The titles highlight his journey and stature—he overcame big challenges to join Klal Yisroel.Ephraim Yaghobian: Can a Jew work cleaning a church room that doesn't contain Avodah Zarah/Idolatry (e.g., priest's office)? — Generally permissible if no actual avodah zarah is present and no direct involvement in idolatry. Still, a God-fearing person may prefer to avoid any connection or send a non-Jewish worker instead. Each case should be asked to a local Orthodox rabbi.Yitzi Wolbe: Why does Gemara argue back and forth instead of just giving the halacha? — Judaism is about seeking truth (emes), not blind faith. Questions are essential—every page of Gemara has questions & answers to verify and deepen understanding. Other religions often forbid questions; Yiddishkeit welcomes them because truth withstands scrutiny.David Balsam: Why wait 6 hours after meat but only 30 minutes after milk? — Meat flavor lingers longer (stays between teeth); milk clears quickly. Hard cheese (e.g., Swiss) follows meat's waiting time because its flavor also persists.Shlomo Wolbe: Why so many different Minhagim (customs) if all Jews follow Torah? — Halacha gives a framework; minhagim are individual/community expressions of fulfilling mitzvot. Everyone must follow core halacha, but variations (e.g., hat styles, prayer customs) are allowed as long as they're rooted in Torah. Hashem loves diversity within unity—12 tribes each had their lane.Aryeh Buchwald: Is it allowed to pretend not to be home when a meshulach (charity collector) knocks? — Avoid outright lying (“I'm not home”). Better to say “I'm busy now” or “not able right now.” Don't say “I have nothing” (opens ayin hara). Giving with a smile is a huge privilege—Hashem sometimes appears as the poor person to see how we treat Him.Shlomo Chaim Lieberman: Eruv on Shabbos—why do we need it? — Biblical prohibition against carrying from private to public domain. Chazal created eruv as a rabbinic solution: string around neighborhood makes it one domain. One of seven major rabbinic enactments (others include netilat yadayim, Shabbos candles). 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Our custom is to extend the "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response during Kaddish all the way to "Da'amiran Be'alma." It sometimes happens that the Hazzan does not recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" slow enough to allow the congregation to complete their response before he recites "De'Kudsha Berich Hu." The congregation is meant to answer "Amen" to "De'Kudsha Berich Hu," and the question thus arises as to whether they may answer if they are still in the middle of their "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response, having yet to reach "Da'amiran Be'alma." The Arizal, in Sha'ar Ha'kavanot, implies that one should not respond to "De'Kudsha Berich Hu" if he is still in the middle of "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." This is the ruling of the Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909), in Rav Pe'alim. One could explain that the "Amen" response to "De'Kudsha Berich Hu" is less significant than the other "Amen" responses to Kaddish, as evidenced by the fact that not all customs require answering "Amen" at that point. This response therefore does not justify interrupting "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." In truth, however, the Ben Ish Hai applied this ruling even if the Hazzan recites "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" so fast that he reaches "Da'amiran Be'alma" before the congregation. In the Ben Ish Hai's view, even the "Amen" response to "Da'amiran Be'alma" does not justify interrupting "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba." This was the position also of Hacham Bension Abba Shaul (Jerusalem, 1924-1998). Hacham Ovadia Yosef, however, disagreed. He maintained that although one should not interrupt "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" to respond to "De'kudsha Berich Hu," one should interrupt to respond to "Da'amiran Be'alma." Optimally, of course, the Hazzan should recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" slowly, in order to allow the congregation to complete their response before the Hazzan reaches "De'Kudsha Berich Hu." The Ben Ish Hai laments the fact that he was hardly ever able to answer "Amen" to "De'Kudsha Berich Hu," because the Hazzanim in Baghdad recited "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" too quickly. He repeatedly asked them to recite it more slowly, but they did not. The Hazzan should preferably pause before beginning "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba," and then recite it slowly, so that the congregation can finish their response in time to answer to "De"Kudsha Berich Hu." Summary: Hazzanim should recite "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" in Kaddish slowly, to ensure that the congregation completes their response in time to answer "Amen" to "De"Kudsha Berich Hu." If one has yet to complete his "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response before the Hazzan reaches "De"Kudsha Berich Hu," he should not interrupt his response to answer "Amen." Regarding one who does not finish his "Yeheh Shemeh Rabba" response before the Hazzan reaches "Da'amiran Be'alma," different views exist among the Poskim as to whether he should interrupt his response to answer "Amen" at that point.