Podcast appearances and mentions of eric oberembt

When your name carries weight in the trades, it's not because someone handed you a title — it's because you earned it. Jim Ziminski brings that kind of legacy to the table. In this raw and honest episode, we unpack how to command respect without ever raising your voice, how to lead without the ego, and what it really takes to build something worth a damn.From grinding it out in the field to leading global teams, Jim drops hard-earned wisdom on dealing with entitlement, raising the bar, and keeping your soul intact in a world full of shortcuts. If you're ready to shut up, listen, and actually learn something — this one's for you.CHAPTERS00:00 - Intro: Who Is Jim Ziminski?02:00 - Working With Family & Holding Your Own06:50 - Earning It vs. Entitlement in Today's Workforce11:30 - Leadership Without Ego16:15 - Bringing People Together Through Service19:00 - The Shift from Roofing to Private Equity22:40 - Building a Strong Culture on the Jobsite27:00 - Authenticity as a Leadership Currency31:15 - Creating Value That Outlasts Your Role34:20 - Getting Real About Mistakes and Growth38:00 - Jim's Core Leadership Philosophy42:30 - Wrap Up: Don't Just Lead — Build Something That LastsListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Authenticity isn't just a buzzword—it's a way of life. Eric Oberembt and Joe Hoffman discuss their path to financial freedom, diving deep into the sacrifices, struggles, and triumphs of leadership.Join Eric and guest Joe Hoffman in this dynamic episode of Be Authentic or GTFO. From exploring the transformative power of scuba diving to discussing the critical role of Virtual Assistant services in scaling businesses, this conversation dives deep into personal growth, business insights, and authentic connections. Learn about Joe's journey, the value of SMA Support Services, and how embracing authenticity can change your life and business.*TIMESTAMPS:*0:00 Intro: The Butcher the Cow Mentality0:19 Welcome to Be Authentic or GTFO0:36 Shoutout to SMA Support Services1:03 Setting Up at ROFCON 61:17 Introducing Joe Hoffman2:47 Diving into Event Participation4:04 Joe's Goal of Paid Speaking Gigs5:08 Scuba Diving Experiences and Insights8:11 Finding Spirituality Underwater9:16 Planning a Red Sea Diving Trip13:36 Passion for Helping Others Achieve Financial Freedom18:00 Launch of SMA Support Services21:17 Focus on Contractors and Personalized VA Services24:12 Benefits of SMA's Dedicated Model31:02 Challenges Contractors Face and SMA's Solutions38:05 Discovering Biological Father's Schizophrenia43:48 Embracing Self-Awareness Through Life Experiences47:05 Wrapping Up with SMA and CCM Culture Movement52:26 Closing Remarks: Be Authentic or GTFO#AuthenticityMatters #BusinessGrowthTips #EntrepreneurMindsetListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this episode of UNLOADED on the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, host Eric Oberembt dives into the power of being present to build meaningful connections. In a world filled with constant distractions, staying grounded and authentic can transform both personal and professional relationships. Eric shares actionable tips on how to ditch the noise, be present in the moment, and establish deeper connections that foster trust and genuine understanding.If you're ready to level up your relationships and embrace authenticity, this episode is packed with strategies for anyone looking to grow, connect, and build stronger networks by simply being present. Tune in to unlock the power of presence and transform your interactions today.#BeAuthentic #MindfulLiving #GenuineConnectionsListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "Why Insurance Companies Fear Public Adjusters," host Eric Oberembt is joined by Chris Aldrich, a seasoned public adjuster, to discuss the powerful role public adjusters play in the insurance claims process. They dive deep into why insurance companies often fear public adjusters and the strategies adjusters use to advocate for policyholders, ensuring they receive the compensation they deserve.Chris shares insider knowledge on how public adjusters level the playing field, uncovering hidden tactics used by insurance companies to minimize payouts. Whether you're a homeowner, contractor, or just curious about the claims process, this episode provides valuable insights into the benefits of working with a public adjuster and how they can help secure fair settlements. Tune in for expert tips and real-life experiences that reveal the truth behind insurance claims.#insurancecompanies #publicadjusters #insuranceclaims Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "How to Master Business Finances for Growth and Success," host Eric Oberembt sits down with Randy Brothers, a seasoned entrepreneur and financial expert. Together, they dive into the critical strategies that every business owner needs to know to manage finances effectively. From understanding cash flow and budgeting to making smart investments that fuel growth, this episode is packed with actionable insights.Randy shares his journey of overcoming financial challenges and the key lessons he learned along the way. Whether you're struggling with your business finances or looking to take your company to the next level, this episode offers practical tips and expert advice on mastering your business finances for sustained growth and long-term success. Tune in and discover the financial strategies that can transform your business.#businessfinances #growth #success Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, host Eric Oberembt sits down with Brian Arnold to discuss the transformative journey from being an employee to becoming a successful entrepreneur. Drawing from personal experiences and industry insights, Brian shares the challenges and triumphs he faced while making the leap to entrepreneurship.Eric and Brian delve into essential strategies for building a thriving business, highlighting the importance of mindset, risk management, and seizing opportunities. Whether you're contemplating a career shift or already on the entrepreneurial path, this episode offers actionable advice and inspiration to help you navigate your own journey. Tune in to learn how to harness your potential and build a business that aligns with your passion and goals. #fromemployeetoentrepreneur #businessmindset #businessjourney Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "How to Build a Thriving Auto Repair Business," host Eric Oberembt is joined by industry expert Woody Casey to explore the key strategies for creating and growing a successful auto repair business. They dive deep into the essentials of running an efficient shop, from maximizing workspace to streamlining operations. Woody shares his insights on navigating the challenges of the auto repair industry, including managing customer expectations, optimizing workflows, and staying competitive in a crowded market.Whether you're a seasoned shop owner or just starting out, this episode offers valuable advice on scaling your business, improving profitability, and building a loyal customer base. Learn how to transform your auto repair shop into a thriving business by focusing on quality service, strong relationships, and smart management practices. Tune in for actionable tips and expert guidance on taking your auto repair business to the next level.#autorepair #thrivingbusiness #autorepairshop Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and guest Danny Pessy on the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast for an insightful episode titled "Empowering Sales Teams for Success." In this engaging discussion, Eric and Danny explore powerful strategies for building and nurturing high-performing sales teams that meet and exceed their targets.Discover the secrets to effective leadership, the importance of authentic communication, and how to foster a culture of success within sales teams. Danny shares his experiences and tactics for motivating sales teams, reducing attrition, and harnessing the potential of every team member. Whether you're a sales manager looking to improve your team's performance or a salesperson aiming to enhance your skills, this episode offers valuable tips and actionable advice to help you thrive in the competitive world of sales.Tune in to learn how to empower your sales team and drive success through innovation, collaboration, and authentic leadership. Don't miss this opportunity to transform your sales approach and achieve remarkable results.#empoweringsales #salesteamsuccess #salestipsListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and guest Stephen Whetstone on the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast for "How Overcoming Addiction Leads to Inspiring Others." Stephen shares his harrowing journey from addiction to recovery and how it propelled him to help others. He delves into the critical roles of support systems and treatment in overcoming addiction and transforming lives.Tune in as Stephen discusses using his experiences to inspire and assist others facing similar struggles. This episode is packed with insights into the transformative power of recovery and the impact of using one's past as a tool to foster hope and change in others.#beauthenticorgtfo #overcomingaddiction #inspiringothers Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and wellness expert Dee Taggart on the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast for "How to Achieve Wellness by Transforming Body and Mind." Dive into the essentials of holistic health as they discuss the benefits of syncing physical fitness with mental resilience. Dee provides practical tips on nutrition, exercise, mindfulness, and overcoming mental barriers.Whether you're starting your wellness journey or looking to deepen your health practices, this episode is packed with actionable advice for a balanced lifestyle. Tune in to transform your body and mind, and step into a more fulfilled life with guidance from Eric and Dee!#healthandwellness #wellnessjourney #holistichealthListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Tim Brown on this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "Roofing vs. HVAC: Industry Secrets and Influencer Drama." Dive deep into the competitive worlds of roofing and HVAC as Eric and Tim unveil the behind-the-scenes dynamics and the emerging influencer culture that's reshaping these industries.In this episode, Tim shares his expert insights on the nuances of both sectors, from the unique challenges and opportunities to the latest trends in marketing and customer engagement. They'll discuss the impact of social media influencers, the drama that unfolds behind the scenes, and how these elements affect business strategies and consumer perceptions.Whether you're part of the industry, considering a career change, or just fascinated by the interplay of trade and drama, this episode offers a wealth of knowledge and intriguing stories. Tune in to hear all about the rivalries and collaborations that are driving innovation and change in the roofing and HVAC markets. Don't miss this eye-opening discussion on the power of influence and competition in shaping two crucial industries.#Roofing #hvac #beauthenticorgtfo Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and guest Jacob Paul Guidry on this episode of Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast titled "How to Build Genuine Connections for Success." In this enlightening conversation, Eric and Jacob delve into the essential strategies for overcoming mental health struggles and finding hope, building genuine relationships, and nurturing them for lasting success.Discover Jacob's inspiring journey of recovery after a life-altering accident and learn how embracing acceptance and letting go can lead to inner peace. Explore the power of trust and loyalty in building strong relationships and uncover the secrets to navigating the often shady truths of the business world. Whether you're aiming to unlock your athletic potential or seeking to transform your life through positivity and kindness, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable tips to help you succeed in all areas of life.Tune in to learn how to build a strong support network, find happiness in family, and master time management for success. Don't miss this opportunity to elevate your personal and professional life with Eric Oberembt and Jacob Paul Guidry.#howtobuildgenuineconnections #mentalhealthstruggles #successmindsetListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Douglas Quinn on this revealing episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "How to Uncover Claims Adjuster Tactics." Dive into the intricacies of the insurance industry as Eric and Douglas expose the strategies used by claims adjusters to manipulate and devalue claims.In this episode, you'll gain critical insights into the hidden tactics of insurance adjusters, learn how to identify fraudulent activities, and discover effective methods to protect yourself from being shortchanged. Douglas shares his extensive experience and expert knowledge to empower you with the tools needed to navigate the complex world of insurance claims.Whether you're a policyholder, a professional in the industry, or simply interested in understanding the inner workings of insurance claims, this episode provides essential information to safeguard your interests and ensure fair treatment. Tune in to learn how to uncover the tactics of claims adjusters and take control of your insurance claims process. Don't miss this chance to hear from industry experts and protect your financial future.#beauthenticorgtfo #claimsadjuster #insurancefraudListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Brian Galke in this intriguing episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast titled "Understanding People Through Face Reading." Dive deep into the fascinating world of physiognomy as Eric and Brian uncover the secrets of decoding facial features to better understand people.In this episode, discover:- The art and science behind face reading- How facial features can reveal insights into personality and behavior- Practical tips for applying face reading in personal and professional settings- Brian Galke's personal journey and expertise in face readingWhether you're interested in enhancing your interpersonal skills, improving your professional relationships, or simply curious about the power of face reading, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to unlock the secrets of understanding people through the subtle cues of their facial features. Don't miss this opportunity to elevate your communication skills and deepen your connections with others.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Ashton Buswell on this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "Building a Lasting Legacy." Ashton shares his remarkable journey from National Sales Director to Vice President at Legacy Power, revealing the strategies and mindset that fueled his success. Discover the key principles of building a lasting legacy, both professionally and personally.In this episode, Eric and Ashton delve into the importance of hard work, accountability, and the transformative power of seizing opportunities. Learn how Ashton's experiences in sports shaped his character and success, and how his father's sacrifices provided the foundation for his achievements. Gain valuable insights into balancing work-life harmony, cherishing quality time with loved ones, and overcoming challenges to create a meaningful and impactful legacy. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with actionable advice and real-life stories of perseverance and triumph.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Raymond Little on this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "A Father's Journey to Redemption." Raymond shares his compelling story of overcoming addiction and rebuilding his life to become a supportive father and successful professional. Discover how parenthood shaped Raymond's path to redemption and learn valuable insights on overcoming challenges and achieving financial success.Tune in to hear Raymond's experiences with addiction, recovery, and the crucial role of family support in his journey. Eric and Raymond provide practical advice on rising above life's challenges, the importance of perseverance, and the impact of personal growth on achieving lasting success. Don't miss this inspiring episode packed with real-life stories and actionable insights.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Luke Ward on this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast titled "From Homelessness to Millionaire." Delve into the inspiring journey of overcoming adversity and achieving remarkable success as Eric and Luke share their personal experiences and insights.Discover the strategies and mindset shifts that propelled Luke from homelessness to millionaire status, gaining invaluable wisdom on resilience, determination, and financial empowerment. From navigating challenges to seizing opportunities, this episode offers actionable advice for anyone striving to turn their life around and achieve their dreams.Whether you're facing your own obstacles or seeking inspiration to pursue your goals, tune in to learn how to overcome adversity and unlock your full potential. Don't miss this opportunity to gain insights from Eric Oberembt and Luke Ward on building a brighter future from the depths of hardship.#FromHomelessnesstoMillionaire #BeAuthenticorGTFO #addictionrecoveryListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Book a call with us: http://calendly.com/sydneeolsen/30minOur Website: https://hookagency.com/I sat down with Eric Oberembt in the Cayman Islands at his Cult Culture Movement event. We discussed the shark diving we did the day before, why most business owners fail (chasing the wrong reasons), and the power of relationships in success.

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Dan Walrack on this episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast titled "Mastering Sales and Building Success." Dive deep into proven strategies for achieving success in sales and building a thriving business. Eric and Dan share their wealth of experience and insider tips on mastering relationship building, boosting sales rep morale, and developing a lucrative business while serving your community.In this episode, discover:• Key strategies to unleash your inner competitiveness and excel in sales• Tips for rekindling and rebuilding lost friendships and professional relationships• The ultimate motivation techniques to keep sales reps driven and successful• The secrets to building a strong brand and empowering your team for lasting success• How to create a thriving company culture that fosters growth and productivityWhether you're a seasoned entrepreneur, an aspiring sales rep, or someone passionate about personal and professional growth, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you succeed. Tune in and learn how to unlock your full potential and stand out in your field. Don't miss this opportunity to elevate your sales game and build a successful business with Eric Oberembt and Dan Walrack.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Scott Riopelle on the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast for an inspiring episode titled 'Rebuild Your Life for A Brighter Future.' In this empowering conversation, Eric and Scott delve into strategies for personal transformation, accountability, and overcoming challenges to create a brighter tomorrow. Discover actionable insights and real-life experiences as they explore the journey of rebuilding one's life and paving the way for a successful and fulfilling future. Tune in to gain invaluable wisdom on navigating life's ups and downs with authenticity and resilience. Don't miss this opportunity to unlock the keys to a brighter, more authentic future!#rebuildyourlife #brightfuture #beauthenticorgtfoListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join us for a powerful and transformative episode of the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, hosted by Eric Oberembt. In "Breaking Free From Addiction," our special guest Taylor Ammons shares his inspiring journey of overcoming addiction. Discover effective strategies for addiction recovery, hear personal stories of triumph, and gain valuable insights into the path to sobriety. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking hope, support, and real-life advice on breaking free from the chains of addiction. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from Taylor's experiences and discover how you or your loved ones can embark on the road to recovery.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this captivating episode of Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Becca Switzer as they embark on a profound exploration of the journey through the passage of death. Delve into the depths of mortality, spirituality, and the mysteries of the afterlife as Eric and Becca share their insights and reflections on this transformative experience. Gain valuable wisdom and inspiration as they navigate through the complexities of life and death, offering profound insights into self-discovery and spiritual awakening. Whether you seek solace, enlightenment, or simply a deeper understanding of the human experience, this episode promises to enlighten and inspire. Tune in now to embark on a journey of introspection, growth, and profound revelation.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Welcome to UNLOADED, Eric Oberembt's Solo Episode series, presented by the Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast. Join us every Sunday as Eric brings his authentic self to the forefront in candid discussions. In the inaugural episode, Eric dives deep into the topic of authentic connections, exploring the nuances of thriving in one-on-one interactions over crowded environments. Discover Eric's personal insights, experiences, and practical tips for fostering genuine relationships in today's fast-paced world. Tune in weekly to embark on a journey of self-discovery and authenticity with Eric on UNLOADED. #AuthenticConnections #Unloaded #BeAuthenticorGTFO #EricOberembtListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In the second episode of Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast, titled "How to Improve Yourself and Your Team for Success," host Eric Oberembt is joined by special guest Tony Flattum to explore essential personal and team growth strategies. Delve into the secrets of building a successful team and cultivating personal development that leads to success in both professional and personal realms. Gain valuable insights and actionable tips to enhance your leadership skills, empower your team, and drive sustainable growth. Tune in to discover how to unlock your full potential and succeed in every aspect of your life.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this episode of Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast titled "Unlocking Success Through Personal Growth, Leadership, and Community Building," host Eric Oberembt is joined by guest Dylan Mullins to explore the transformative power of developing your personal, professional, and communal skills. Discover the secrets to enhancing your leadership abilities, fostering meaningful relationships, and building strong communities. Eric and Dylan share their personal experiences and professional tips to guide you toward achieving remarkable success in all areas of your life. Whether you're an aspiring leader, a business owner, or someone passionate about personal and community development, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you grow and succeed. Tune in to learn how to unlock your potential and elevate your impact in the world.#unlockingsuccess #personalgrowth #leadership #communitybuilding  #BeAuthenticorGTFOListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Tune in to "Be Authentic or GTFO" as host Eric Oberembt and guest, Nathan Tebedo engage in a wide array of topics, from personal anecdotes to profound insights on human behavior and growth. In this episode, Nathan shares invaluable insights on the power of authenticity in both personal and professional realms. From navigating challenges to embracing vulnerability, Nathan's journey illuminates the importance of staying true to oneself. With humor and wisdom, he discusses the impact of authenticity on building genuine connections and fostering growth. Join Eric and Nathan for an enlightening dialogue that challenges conventional norms and celebrates the beauty of being authentic.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt and Hunter Ballew as they get into a dynamic discussion spanning leadership, societal dynamics, and personal growth. From navigating the streets of Uganda to insights gained in the communities of Orlando, Hunter brings a wealth of knowledge and firsthand encounters to the table. Together, they tackle pressing issues with candor and empathy, offering fresh insights and actionable takeaways for listeners eager to make a difference in their own spheres of influence.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Eric Oberembt in a captivating conversation with Kirsten Mark, renowned online fitness coach, as they explore triumph over adversity in this compelling episode of Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast. Kirsten opens up about her transformative journey from battling body image issues to establishing a thriving online fitness platform. Dive deep into discussions on personal growth, authenticity, and overcoming addiction, while gaining insights into navigating life's challenges with sobriety and resilience. Discover firsthand experiences and invaluable wisdom on embracing authenticity and seizing control of your personal and professional life. Tune in now for raw perspectives and empowering insights that inspire action and change!Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, host Eric Oberembt leads a dynamic conversation with special guest Mike Goldstein. Together, they explore a diverse range of topics, including their experiences in fostering children and navigating various industries. They emphasize the significance of authentic connections in both personal and professional spheres.The episode dives into their core values, willingness to take risks, and unique perspectives on authenticity. Throughout the discussion, you'll discover a treasure trove of valuable insights and wisdom. Don't miss out on this inspiring conversation.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Join host Mike Claudio and guests as they share powerful stories, lessons, and principles to help you become that Championship version of yourself. Lessons you can learn from others who will help you avoid unnecessary pain, disappointment, and failure. Every episode will be the shot in the arm, the kick in the ass, and the NO BS inspiration you need, to push through the fog and create the success you want in life.   Follow us and leave a review:   The Big Stud Podcast - BigStudPod.com WinRate Consulting - Winrateconsulting.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winrateconsulting/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@themikeclaudio For guest inquiries: mike@bigstudpodcast.com   Win Fast, Win Often

In this video, Eric Oberembt, a true advocate for health and wellness, invites you to witness a candid conversation with his special guest, Cole Taylor. Together, they explore the profound impact of prioritizing health and well-being in one's life.Eric Oberembt shares his personal journey, revealing the challenges he has overcome and the pivotal moments that motivated him to embrace a healthier lifestyle. Cole Taylor, a renowned expert in wellness, adds his valuable insights and experiences to the discussion.Discover the importance of understanding your body's unique needs, whether influenced by genetics or dietary choices. Dive into the mental and emotional aspects of making proactive decisions that lead to a longer, more fulfilling life.Don't wait for a crisis to make positive changes. Join Eric Oberembt and Cole Taylor in this thought-provoking exploration of health, wellness, and personal growth. Hit that play button and start your own transformation today!

Join host Eric Oberembt and special guest Corey Berrier as they unmask their trials and triumphs through addiction recovery in this thought-provoking podcast episode. They open up about their experiences with personal insecurities and the life-changing impacts of an effective recovery program. But that's not all. Diving into Corey's expertise, they highlight the essential role AI technology plays in business growth. Curious about how sobriety and AI intertwine in their narrative? You'll need to tune in to find out. This episode promises a blend of raw personal stories and insightful professional advice - one you won't want to miss!Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Uncover the real talk about relationships in our new podcast, "Redefining Connections." Eric Oberembt and Clay Moffat spill the tea on personal growth, sharing stories that hit close to home. Get ready for a ride into the ups and downs of connections, even when trust is tested. This episode is about keeping it real and making you think about your own ties with others. Don't miss out on this raw exploration of human connections! #RealTalk #Connections #PodcastJourneyListen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Get ready for a raw and authentic conversation in this episode of "Be Authentic or GTFO" with your host, Eric Oberembt. Today, we sit down with the incredible John Senac, a seasoned professional in construction and roofing.Meet John Senac as he opens up about facing fears, navigating life's challenges, and staying true to oneself. This is not your typical podcast; it's a real and unfiltered discussion on the highs and lows that shape our journeys.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Explore the world of leadership with Mike Claudio in a compelling conversation hosted by Eric Oberembt. From sales to steering a financial service company, Mike's journey unfolds with invaluable insights. Gain knowledge about his coaching evolution, decision-making strategies, and the superpower of adaptability.Get ready for straightforward business wisdom and practical tips. Subscribe to Eric Oberembt's channel for more interviews that blend leadership insights with real talk. Don't miss out on learning from Mike Claudio's experience. Tune in now!

Over a decade ago, Eric was completely lost, alone, and facing 5 years in prison for drug and alcohol charges, ranging from DUI to distribution of a controlled substance. Eric was given a second chance at life and ended up in a treatment facility. Eric learned that he didn't have to be that person anymore—he didn't have to hurt people, and he didn't have to be alone. Eric could have genuine relationships based on more than just what he could offer. Today, Eric is that man, and he has the privilege of sharing his message with others, hoping it reaches those who need to hear it most.    In this episode, Brad and Eric discuss his personal growth, both within his business and personal development. They also focus in on why the right choices are so powerful.   Bombs: Why take the risk. Eric desires to create a community where he can help recovering and recovered addicts reenter society and help with jobs and networking.   Follow Eric @Oberembt  Learn more about what Eric does at https://DAndMRoofing.com  Watch the full video episode on Brad's Rumble here: https://rumble.com/c/c-2544182  Watch the full video episode on Brad's Youtube Here: https://bradlea.tv 

Culture is a integral part of every environment in your life - family, business, friends, etc.A healthy culture leads to growth, while a negative culture can be devastating for any environment.In this episode we feature high level entrepreneur, speaker, and consultant, Eric Oberembt, talking all things culture. How has Eric created incredible cultures in his teams, his family, and the clients he consults with? Tune in so you can implement these same strategies.Listen in!Connect with Eric:https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembthttps://instagram.com/oberembtOur resources:Join our free community, The Optimized Entrepreneur, for free resources and trainings to optimize your health & performance:www.facebook.com/groups/optimizedentrepreneurApply for 1on1 coaching with Cole & The Starting Line team to optimize your health & performance:www.thestartingline.fit/coachingConnect with Cole:www.cole360.com

In this episode of "Be Authentic or Get the Fuck Out," your host, Eric Oberembt, is joined by special guest Lance Bachmann at the Blue Collar American Dream Conference. They delve into an unfiltered conversation about their experiences, success, and the importance of giving back.Lance Bachmann, a serial entrepreneur who has scaled multiple companies from small to multimillion-dollar businesses and sold them to private equity, shares his insights into the essential role of systems and processes in scaling a business. He emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with the right people and the power of learning from others' experiences to achieve success.Join them as they discuss Lance's journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a successful entrepreneur and the impact of his unique perspective on life and business.Don't miss this engaging and inspirational episode that reminds us to conquer self-doubt, build strong relationships, and be authentic in our pursuits. Tune in for practical takeaways and powerful insights from a true business maverick.Join the conversation and be inspired to embrace authenticity and drive change in your life and business.Listen to this episode on other podcast platforms: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyGoogle Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGooglePodcastApple Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticApplePodcastAmazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazonMusic Connect with "Be Authentic or GTFO" on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorGTFOInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorGTFOWebsite: https://beauthenticorgtfo.com Follow Podcast Host Eric Oberembt on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt

Feel like your company runs you instead of you running it? We all start off with the dream of being a business owner. However, too many business owners feel trapped by their businesses. The main reason for this is that few business owners ever actually build a team. Eric Oberembt is the owner of D&M Roofing. In this conversation, he shares his TEAM Method with us, which has enabled him to have a very successful roofing company in Omaha, while he lives in Houston with his family. Eric also gives us a sneak peak into his new venture called Cult Culture, where leaders can learn and implement the TEAM Method to grow their organizations. Connect With Eric: http://ericoberembt.com/ Learn More About Cult Culture: Home | Cult Culture Progr Learn More About The Contractor Dynamics Marketing Training Program: https://www.contractordynamics.com/long-book-a-call/

Today we have another great episode lined up for you. He has one incredible story. My guest and I have only met virtually through Facebook, and had a series of conversations back and forth over the past few months. I love consuming his content because he's real, raw, and authentic in everything he does. He is someone you will want to make sure to follow after today's episode. My guest today is Eric Oberembt. He is the President of D&M Roofing Siding, VP & Co-Founder of Roofers in Recovery, and Podcast Host at Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast. Over a decade ago, I was completely lost, alone, and facing 5 years in prison for drug and alcohol charges, ranging from DUI to distribution of a controlled substance. I was given a second chance at life and ended up in a treatment facility. I learned that I didn't have to be that person anymore—I didn't have to hurt people, and I didn't have to be alone. I could have genuine relationships based on more than just what I could offer. I discovered that I could have a loving family. Today, I am that man, and I have the privilege of sharing my message with others, hoping it reaches those who need to hear it most. I want them to realize that they don't have to live like that and that there is another way. My genuine desire is for people to uncover the true essence of the humans they were meant to be, not the version they may currently be living with.Connect with Eric:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembt Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-authentic-or-gtfo/id1594641371 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@beauthenticorgtfo/videos 

Beginning with the detail of Eric Oberembt's past with a drug and alcohol addiction, this podcast episode between Omar Medrano and Eric Oberembt explores the importance of empathy, understanding different points of view, and taking action in order to be successful. They discuss the dangers of following the masses and the need to stay consistent and engaged in order to keep the good times. They emphasize the importance of being in service to others and how it can lead to a sense of fulfillment, as well as the need to focus on coming to a common solution rather than just being right. They also discuss the concept of the "silent majority" and how it relates to the current political climate, and the phenomenon of people being addicted to watching documentaries about serial killers. Finally, they encourage Eric to be the best version of himself and to take action in order to make his purpose a reality.the podcast host of Be Authentic or GTFOwww.youtube.com/@beauthenticorgtfoJoin the What if it Did Work movement on FacebookGet the Book!www.omarmedrano.comwww.calendly.com/omarmedrano/15min

Eric Oberembt: From Roofs to Recovery  The road to recovery is always an uphill challenge, and oftentimes, people are reluctant because it is never easy to face yourself. In this episode of WAKE UP with Patti Katter, Patti is joined by Eric Oberembt, CEO of D&M Roofing and Siding as well as the host of "Be Authentic or GTFO" as they talk about Eric's journey to recovery, and the realization about being true to yourself in order to help others.     Here's a breakdown of what to expect in this episode:  Falling in love with sales at a young age.  From building his business to making podcasts  An experiment, addiction, and the road to sobriety  On the current drug problem                                            How do you help someone who doesn't want it?  Reason for helping others.    About Eric Oberembt:    Eric is the CEO of D&M Roofing and Siding in Omaha, NE. He is the co-founder of the non profit "Roofers in Recovery" sending people in addiction to treatment centers to get the help they need. He is the author of two books about residential and commercial roofing. He is a coach at the "Commercial Roofing Academy'' and Co-founder of the National Vendor Network "Advanced Roofing Technologies". Lastly, the Podcast host of "Be Authentic or GTFO and Keynote Speaker. Eric has spoken at D2DCon, SRC Summit, and as a Mainstage Keynote at Roofcon. Eric is passionate about finding ways to help others make sure they have the opportunity to become the person they were supposed to be.    Connect with Eric Oberembt    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beauthenticorgtfo/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beauthenticorgtfo/  Podcast Website: https://www.beauthenticorgtfo.com/  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3C968qG5W7CGkwjGlTuAuy  Yotube: https://www.youtube.com/@beauthenticorgtfo   ~   Connect with Patti Katter!  Website: https://pattikatter.com/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/PattiKatter/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pkatter  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pattikatter?lang=en  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wakeupwithpattikatter/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wakeupwithpattikatter/support

In our latest podcast episode, Cody Mack joins Eric Oberembt to discuss the power of authenticity and personal transformation. We also dive into the topic of how one insulting remark can be a catalyst for positive change and how Eric turned that negative experience into a force for good, motivating others to be authentic and true to themselves.They also talk about Cody's passion project, Lan King, an organization that provides a safe space for kids who love playing video games. Cody wanted to create a community where these kids could thrive and find opportunities to discover themselves and go to college, instead of being left behind.Executive Producer - Eric OberembtProducer/Editor - Alexis ReedOther podcast platform links:https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticSpotifyhttps://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticGoogle...https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAppleP...https://tinyurl.com/BeAuthenticAmazon...Be Authentic or GTFO podcast Social Media:FB: https://www.facebook.com/beauthentico...IG: https://www.instagram.com/beauthentic...Website: https://beauthenticorgtfo.comPodcast Host: Eric OberembtFB: https://www.facebook.com/eric.oberembtIG: https://www.instagram.com/oberembt/

Eric Oberembt, CEO of D&M Roofing and Siding in Omaha, NE. He co-founded the non-profit "Roofers in Recovery," sending people with addiction to treatment centers to get the help they need. He is the author of two books about residential and commercial roofing. Eric is a coach at the "Commercial Roofing Academy'' and Co-founder of the National Vendor Network "Advanced Roofing Technologies."   In this episode, Eric shares with Mike his journey as a young salesman for his grandfather's company and how he grew into his role learning everything about the business. Eric is passionate about finding ways to help others make sure they have the opportunity to become the person they are supposed to be.

Are you looking for ways to build a successful and sustainable business? Then this episode of the Mobile Workforce Podcast is for you! We are joined again by Eric Obremt, president and owner of D&M Roofing and Sighting and host of the Be Authentic or GTFO podcast. Our host, Mike Merrill discusses the importance of building up your employees and trusting them to do the right thing with Eric. Eric argues that if you do this, the money will come, the jobs will come, and the revenue will come. This is how you leave a legacy that keeps going even after you're gone. 

This week on the Mobile Workforce Podcast, Mike Merrill is joined by Eric Obremt, president and owner of D&M Roofing and Sighting and host of the Be Authentic or GTFO podcast. We're excited to have him on to discuss why authenticity is so important to him, both in his work and personal life. As Eric explains, he's authentically himself, which can be attractive or off-putting to people. But he believes it's important to always be authentic as it is the only way of building the business, and family, that you can truly be happy with.

Joining Benny on episode 47 is Eric Oberembt, President and Owner of D&M Roofing and Siding. Eric has been in the business since he was just 10 years old, helping to build the company started by his grandfather in 1965 into the premier residential and commercial roofing contractor of the Omaha NE/Des Moines IA area and the winner of numerous industry awards. A tireless advocate for the industry he loves, Eric is a proud, professional member of the American Policyholder Association, helping to fight insurance fraud at all levels. He's also a founding member of the nonprofit organization: Roofers in Recovery, an author of two books, entrepreneur, podcast host and a sought-after public speaker! Connect with Eric: https://dandmroofing.com/ https://roofersinrecovery.org/

Eric Oberembt, President and Owner of D&M Roofing and Siding, has been in the business since he was just 10 years old, helping to build the company started by his grandfather in 1965 into the premier residential and commercial roofing contractor of the Omaha NE/Des Moines IA area and the winner of numerous industry awards. A tireless advocate for the industry he loves, Eric is a proud, professional member of the American Policyholder Association, helping to fight insurance fraud at all levels. He's also a founding member of the nonprofit organization: Roofers in Recovery, an author of two books, entrepreneur, podcast host and a sought-after public speaker! To View This Episode- https://youtu.be/IW8JDMHcAcM #podcast #whoknewinthemoment #roofing #entrepreneur

[00:00:00]  Welcome to the Successful Life Podcast. I am your host Corey Berrier. And I am here with my man Eric Oberambt.  [00:00:16] dang week. You did. Dang, it. It's Oberambt. Dang, it. Yeah. I think I practiced that. Like it's the twang. You can't get it with the twang, . Cause you have to pronounce and you just, you can't do that with, you can't do that with the accent. We got a little southern accent down here. [00:00:36] Yeah, that's okay. That's all right. . What's up brother? I've been super excited to talk to you, dude. You and I are about to have a really great conversation, but first, Introduce yourself. Tell every, tell everybody about you, who you are. Yeah. I'm, yeah. I'm EricI I've got a little sizzle reel and it starts in the beginning it says, I do a lot of things, but the thing I'm, which is true, I do a lot of things. [00:00:59] And it's funny cuz like at the beginning of our conversation it's what do you actually fucking do, Eric? And it's that's a really good question. So I've been in the roofing space since I was 10 years old. My grandfather started our roofing company back in 1965 and I started working with him when I was a little kid. [00:01:13] Cause I lived with him since I was seven. So I literally, since I was 10, was up on roofs and graduated through. Building roofs and putting roofs on to sales to eventual ownership. And then learning how to scale the business. That's my main source of income. [00:01:27] That's how I pay for shit. But what I found out in the last 4, 5, 6 years is that I really have a passion for other things as far as being in the recovery space, obviously is one of 'em. Being the co-founder of Roofers in Recovery with Paul Reed and being able to help people find out who they were actually supposed to be and that they don't have to still live and be that piece of shit that they think that they are, on a daily basis. [00:01:51] And so I get, I'm really passionate about that and I'm really passionate about talking about leadership. I've been given some really cool opportunities in the last few years to be able to speak and be on stage and be able to take the messages that I built and shared on a micro level inside of my company. [00:02:09] And I realized, I was like, this is awesome, but how much cooler would it be to be able to share these same things on a macro level with other people? And so being able to get on stages and to be able to do podcasts with people like you and then start our own [00:02:26] podcast with being authentic or get the fuck out, that has been probably one of the most rewarding things that I do. [00:02:31] I'm a business owner. I'm a real estate guy. I'm a fucking podcast host. I'm a former drunk, I'm a coke addict. Do you know what I mean? Like I'm all those fucking things. But I'm also just Eric Obra and a dad and a husband. Yeah. It's a lot of stuff. I get that. But one thing you said that I thought was interesting, so you're actually like a true roofer in the roofing space. [00:02:54] You're like, I don't know if I've met too many people that have grown up in the roofing. No, there are only a couple of us left. Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah. That's really cool. That's why me and Paul I think, hit it off too. Like we, we figured out that we both were sober, but we also figured out that we both actually roofed back in the day. [00:03:15] And I think that I thought at one time that was just what I was going to be. I was just gonna be this labor guy. Like I loved working, right? I loved getting up in the morning at 5:00 AM and going to work and building something, and at the end of the day, being able to go home and go, look what I did. [00:03:33] Look what I did right there. And that was very satisfying. Now, as you get older and you start to break down, and you're not 1925 anymore, you can't do that. And you especially can't do it hungover if you're still drinking. You have to figure out a different path. [00:03:49] And that was what led me into, obviously sales and trying to get out of, but I roof roofed like I was up on roofs until I was 30. Wow. Yeah. And then that was when I got sober. And so maybe getting sober made me realize it was fucking stupid to continue doing that because it killed me and I'd probably be dead. [00:04:08] But that was like, I literally didn't get off of roofs until I was about 30 years old. So what changed at 30? So let's just get into, walk me through what happened at 30 years old that made you one-stop drinking, and two quit your, shift gears, so to speak. Yeah, absolutely. So I had always drank, and I drank a lot, and I started young, like a lot of people that kind of have the same story. [00:04:32] I had my first drink of alcohol in like seventh grade, right? Yes. I remember stealing my buddy's parents' booze and drinking in his bedroom and, you mix it with fucking in a two-liter bottle of Sprite or whatever it is, right? But I remember that even that first time that I drank so much, [00:04:52] so fast. [00:04:52] I threw up in a corner and I fell in it, and I slept in that pile of puke, right? Like the first fucking time that I drank. That was obviously the precursor. But I always drank. I have the same boring stories, like everybody's wild in college and, whatever. And I went to the Uni University of Nebraska in Lincoln, and I partied balls down there and everything else. [00:05:17] But, I also was I'm, I was married twice. And I'm on my third marriage, and every marriage, every relationship that I had always ended because of my drinking, generally speaking. And, but at the time I would always say, I'm fucking 19, or I'm 20, or I'm 25. That's what we're supposed to do in that timeframe, right? [00:05:39] That's just normal. And I got a couple of DUIs. I got my first DUI when I was 19. I got my second DUI when I was 23 which was after my first divorce. I got my third DUI when I was 20. Six or 27, which was after my second divorce. It's always a woman. It's always a fucking woman that like, like spirals, you outta control because your identity is with that relationship. And then once that identity's gone, you don't know what the fuck you are or where you're gonna go, right? So you spiral outta control. And so I got my third DUI then, and I finally got out of that. But it was 2008 when I really thought that my, I thought that my life was pretty much over. [00:06:30] I was almost 30 years old. I was twice divorced. I had no kids, I had no family to speak of. I had immediate family, but I had no, no prospects, right? I was 310 pounds. I was a big fat person. Did you watch my keynote at Roof Con? Yeah. That picture that was up on the screen was me. [00:06:51] I clearly forgot the picture. The big, fat, bloated Eric. I was 300. I do remember that. I standing in the kitchen. Yep. Yep. There's a big plate of Coke underneath me. Nobody could see. That was my 30th birthday. And I, but I remember, I was like, there was I had nowhere to go and I had no prospects and I didn't know what life even was gonna look like, and so I got to a point where I just didn't give a fuck anymore. [00:07:16] And it was like, so every [00:07:18] day was the same. It was drunk do coke so I could stay awake I could drink more and stay up later. Because what I found out was if you drink as hard and as fast as I do, you pass out really early. And if you pass out really early, There's no chance for sex. . I swear to God, that was what went through my head and I was like, how can I fix that cocaine? [00:07:45] Yep. And so like I literally, that was why I found drugs and cocaine and I got heavily into that and started selling. And I got popped for my fourth DUI in October or September of 2009. And when that happened, it was the last, it was the last straw because I was able to get out of every situation that I got put into prior. [00:08:10] I never really had any consequences. I always had a good lawyer that got it dropped down to something else, but this time all cards were on the table. They were enhancing everything. I was looking at one to five years in prison. I narrowly dodged drug charges because I had all kinds of drugs on me. [00:08:29] I narrowly dodged drug charges. But just for the DUIs, for the fourth offense, felony DUI that I was looking at, I was looking at one to five years in prison. And even looking at that, I still didn't wanna stop. I still didn't think that I was ready to stop. I still thought that I could control it and that I could figure it out. [00:08:54] And my attorney came to me and said, here's the deal. You're gonna get one to five in prison. The only chance that you get out of that is if you go do 30 days in a rehab facility. Because if you do that and we show the judge that you did that, then maybe they'll show leniency on you. And I was like I can do fucking math. [00:09:14] And 30 days in rehab is significantly less than one to five years in prison. And let's be honest, big fat Coke head, Eric White guy wasn't gonna do well in prison. Like I, I wasn't gonna fit in. So I went to treatment and I went to a place called Valley Hope in O'Neill, Nebraska in the middle of the fucking sticks. [00:09:35] And I went there. I was there for 30 days and I didn't really participate for the first 10 to 12. [00:09:44] I checked out. I just showed up. I went through the motions and I've told this story a million times, but I don't think I told it on stage. But I was literally sitting in the lecture hall, right? [00:09:55] I was sitting in the lecture hall and somebody was lecturing, and it was November. It was cold as balls, fucking snowing. And I remember looking at the window and up there they had all these plates and mugs and shit on the wall. So like the people that graduated or whatever, you get a cup, right? And then you come back and you hang your cup up. [00:10:14] And I look around and I'm looking at all these plates and these mugs on the wall, and I look out the window and I audibly go, holy fuck, I'm in rehab. [00:10:26] And everybody stopped what they were doing. What's wrong with crazy over here? he's just talking out loud. And I was like, whoa. And I just had this like influx of, okay dude, normal people don't have to go to fucking rehab. If you had your shit together, you wouldn't be living in a facility where they're trying to teach you what the fuck is wrong with you. [00:10:50] Maybe you should shut the fuck up and listen . And from that point on, I said, I'm willing to do what you tell me to do because I don't wanna live like this anymore. I don't want to be the person that has to go to rehab. I don't want that to be how I'm defined. And from that moment on, I made a decision that I was going to figure out how to be better and I was going to listen to people that had done it before me. [00:11:19] So that I could learn from their experience. And that's how I got here. And I did have one relapse, but it was only for a night. But I've been sober. I've been sober ever since. It's interesting because, we, by the way, it was fantastic. One of the things that you said, in particular, is you mentioned that the 13th day or 12th day, whatever day it was Right? [00:11:45] The light came on and I lost what I was gonna say. I'm gonna have to cut this part out, so give you a second. Fuck. I hate when I do that. Adhd It happened. Yeah. Or I may just leave it in. Who knows? Anyhow, I don't remember exactly what I was gonna say. Oh, it was okay. It was being told what to do. [00:12:03] It's being able to ask some, another, I'll just say from a man's standpoint, I can't really speak from a woman's [00:12:10] standpoint, but from a man's standpoint, it's really hard to ask somebody for that help. One, and then two, it's really hard to listen and not think you know everything. Right? [00:12:22] And we're going get into that in just a few minutes. But I think that what keeps a lot of people out is that it was my ego. It's all fucking ego. It's all ego. It's all ego and recovery. And AA does a really cool thing though. They trick you, but they say these are suggestions, right? [00:12:41] And they do. Everything you read in the big book is a suggestion, right? Nobody's ordering you to do it. Because what do addicts and alcoholics, what do we hate? We hate being fucking told what to do. Hundred percent. We rebel at being told what to do. I can accept a suggestion, but the best sponsors out there go, yeah, it's a suggestion, but if you don't do it, you're gonna fucking drink. [00:13:05] Yep. So it's completely up to you whether or not you do it, but this is, if you do these things, then it can work. Then you can see the miracle that can happen for you, right? But if you don't do 'em, then it probably won't. Does that make sense? Do More than that I'll tell you why it really makes sense and why this is probably important that we're talking about this right now. [00:13:32] You and I had a conversation, I don't know, it was probably less than 10 days ago. Yep. And I shared with you my feeling about AA because, I got sober in AA and for a long time, AA did what it was supposed to do for me. And I just got caught up. My ego, I'm just, this is pretty new information. [00:13:53] My ego goes, got caught up. The language and I meant, you and I talked about this off camera a little bit or previously, and I got caught up in the language. And when you explained to me, you reframed the way I was thinking and not in a, it wasn't even in a forceful way or anything like that. [00:14:11] What I'm saying is, you just made me think about something different. This is where I'm going with this. So today was my third meeting and I picked up a spoon, and I don't tell say all that too, for a pat on the back. I say that because I figured out what I've been missing and this is really important because the spiritual portion is the portion that I've been missing. [00:14:34] I meditate every day. , but I don't, [00:14:36] my ego says do you really have to say God or do you really have to, can't you just think it? No, dude. That's just not how it works. So I've been missing the spiritual experience of this whole thing. Now I understand it because I've had it right. [00:14:54] I've been there. And I'm not sure, other than the language portion, what happened, or maybe it was just my own thinking is probably what happened. But I didn't go to AA for almost six years I would, there's no telling how many people I could have helped in the last six years no telling where I'd be today if those things, would've happened. [00:15:18] But the most important thing is that now I understand and I guess the point of this is the spiritual portion of not just not drinking. We hear this all the time. Just don't drink. That is part of it. You, of course, can't drink, right? You just don't drink. The other side of that is you gotta work the program. [00:15:35] So what I'll say about that is that people that are in the depths of it right now will disagree with this because they're in the depths of it. Quitting drinking is the fucking easy part. Yeah. Living after and learning how to do that while being happy, that's the hard part. That's why there is a program, and that's why there are 12 steps to teach you how to live. [00:16:08] The steps are not to teach you how to not drink. The steps of AA are to teach you how to live because to not drink, all you gotta do is not pick up. Because the only thing that I can control as, an alcoholic and an addict, the only thing that I can actually control is whether or not I pick up the first drink. [00:16:28] So as long as I don't do that, I won't have the 10th. And I know that right? And it's the only thing I can control. The minute I have one though, I lose all control. Because I am built. I truly believe that I am built differently. Whether it's structural, it's part of my DNA. I am absolutely fucking built differently. [00:16:46] And when a drink hits my body, it reacts differently than normal motherfuckers that can have one drink sit at a bar, and go No more for me. Thanks. And actually fucking mean it. If I say no more for me. Thanks. Inside, I'm going, I fucking want one more, but I know I'm not [00:17:02] supposed to, right? That's the difference. [00:17:04] And I know that my body reacts differently. So my first line of defense is just that I can't fucking have that first one right now. Then there you have two options. After that, your two options are, one, I can just not drink and be a miserable fucking dry drunk prick. Afterward. And we all know those people, right? [00:17:26] And they say, I don't go to fucking meetings. I don't do this. I don't help people. I just don't fucking drink. It's yes, and you're a miserable cocksucker, right? Yeah. But the people that don't drink anymore, because it just doesn't fucking work for them. And then they work a program that I think everybody in fucking Human society should actually work the program because it teaches you how to live as a better person and as a better human so that you can have these spiritual experiences that you're talking about so that you can have, these spiritual awakenings and the term that I love that really resonates with me, that's in the big book is a psychic change. [00:18:04] Yes. You have a psychic change because I am not that fucking person anymore. And this is what you and I were getting into, right? Is that you're not that person anymore, but. But it's still fucking in you. So if you take that drink, it doesn't go away. , right? It doesn't go away. So whether you identify as an alcoholic or an addict or whatever makes no fucking difference. [00:18:31] But it's still in your fucking DNA. And I think that you believe that. I believe that there'll be people that listen to this, that go Fuck you. I don't believe that. But I a hundred percent believe that. So now I need to understand if I made that psychic change, and I'm not that person anymore, now what am I doing right now? [00:18:50] What am I doing with my life? Am I writing wrongs? Am I making amends and making apologies? Am I taking an inventory of what I did in the right order? In the right order? Correct. Did I, am I taking an inventory of my life and the people that I've harmed, and there a lot of people have talked about this when they relate it to business, right? [00:19:10] What do you do in fucking business every year when you get to the end of a year, end of a quarter, or end of whatever, you go back and you take an inventory on everything that you did for that previous quarter, and what did you fucking do wrong so that you can fix it and make the next quarter or the next year better. [00:19:27] We have to do that as [00:19:28] humans. It doesn't matter if you're a drunk or if you're an addict or if you're sober or if you're, whatever you are, you should be taking a goddamn inventory all the time. That's hard. But we here're the cool thing for us. We, as addicts and alcoholics have been given this program that teaches us how to do that. [00:19:45] Yes. And everybody else thinks that they don't need it. So then, you know what people did, they packaged. Like the fucking 12 steps of AA and put it into personal growth and development. Sell it for fucking $20,000. Wow, I didn't think about that. Yeah, that's what they do. You can get it for fucking free by going to aa. [00:20:06] Yeah, we get it for free cuz we're drunks and we're addicts. Every retreat that I go to and they do exercise, I'm like, you fucker, you're doing the four-step like, like I've done all this shit, you just repackage it and you charge me 20 grand for it. Yeah. But all these other people then get access to it and then all of a sudden they have this psychic change because they're not the same individual. [00:20:27] They're figuring out how to grow and learn and have this trajectory and path where they get to be better. Like how fucking exciting is that? That's awesome. It is awesome. Without a shit ton of pain, I don't know. I know for me, I wouldn't have gotten there. I have no way. I would've made that change. [00:20:43] No way. And. Yeah, I agree with you a hundred percent without pain. That is absolutely true for you and I, yes, for you and I, for you and I, that is a hundred percent true, but there are hundreds of thousands of people that can watch this, that don't have to go through what we went through to be able to take certain steps, to be able to come, to be able to become that person that they were supposed to be. [00:21:13] They don't have to go through that because they're not wired like we are. Right? And good for you, but because they're not wired like we are. They're not gonna have that Oh shit moment. They're not gonna have that bottom necessarily to be able to trigger what do I have to do? We had to have that pain. [00:21:34] I'm the guy that has to be hit over the head 85 fucking times with a hammer before I go, oh, it hurts when you hit yourself in the head with a hammer, . Yeah. But it takes that many times. And some people are that way. A lot of us are that way. Not everybody. Takes what it takes. But it's great. [00:21:50] I go on tangents, I apologize. No, but it's great. No, this is [00:21:54] great because we're just bringing it full circle around everything that we've been talking about sobriety and just to bring it back to the spiritual portion. You're right. And when I was speaking earlier, I'm glad you mentioned that you're new. [00:22:05] The new person's not gonna understand what I was saying before, so that was really great. I'm glad you said that. Because it's super important. You never know whose life this conversation could change. And I think that's one of the things that you pointed out to me, you said, I don't know if you said it's your responsibility, but I feel like it's my responsibility because duty. [00:22:25] It's your duty. It is my duty. I've been avoiding that. And that's now I'm gonna, now I'm gonna fuck with you though. You should. Okay. Now I'm gonna fuck with you because you have made this amazing decision that you need to give back and you need to help others that have been through what you've been through, right? [00:22:44] Yes. The next thing you need to do, which is actually in a backwards order, but it's the next thing that that you need to do as well. Because I have to do it all the time. I have to have somebody that I'm accountable to as well. If I knew that was. I have to have somebody, and it doesn't have to be a sponsor, it doesn't have to be whatever, but you have to have somebody that you're accountable to because if you are helping somebody else and giving advice, they're going to put you in a spot at some moment in time that you don't know the fucking answer to their question, and it'll be disingenuous for you to make some shit up like we do as sales people to make it sound like, you know what the fuck you're talking about, to get 'em through something when maybe it's not really good advice because you can't relate or you can't, like you haven't been through it. But when we have other people that are in the same or longer stage of what we've, been going through or doing the steps or whatever it is, to be able to have somebody to lean on for that's the difference, right? It's just like a coach having a coach, right? [00:23:40] All coaches have coach all the good ones, right? All the good coaches have coaches, and those guys have coaches. I bet you a million fucking dollars. Ed Millet has a coach. He's got probably 10. Correct. Yeah. So it's the same thing in sobriety. If you're helping and coaching somebody along to, to become that version of themselves, they're supposed to be, you better have somebody coaching you too, so that you continuously get better to be able to help those people. [00:24:07] It's the same thing as coaching. And I figured you you'd buy in with the coaching analogy, I e a coach, but you know what I'm saying? But it makes total sense. And so that's my next challenge to you is that down the road you figure out who that accountability partner is, to be able to have [00:24:20] those conversations with, to be like, man, I'm of fucking stuck here. [00:24:22] Billy's telling me some shit. I don't even know what I don't even know what he is talking about. You know what I mean? And it helps for sure. Sounds like you just picked up some accountability. Yeah. Fuck . I figured I fucking volunteered myself by bringing this up. Yeah. [00:24:37] Here's the thing, and I'll be honest with you. It's pretty ironic that you bring that up because. I literally had this realization today in that meeting. As I'm listening to people, I'm like, almost exact. Why does my camera keep going out? Exactly. You got that weird zumi thing that like follows you. [00:24:56] Yeah. I don't know what's going on. Yeah. Follows you. Stop moving. Alright. So I had that thought today in the meeting. I thought, I ha I have to have somebody that I'm accountable to because if not, I may not do this thing right. Correct. I can't not do it. I've already done that. [00:25:12] I'm not gonna not do it right again. And I shouldn't say not do it. I didn't do it. I didn't do the second part of the program. . You're right. Yeah. The entire 12 step. Yeah. Yeah, exactly just skipped over that. But the entire 12 step, that 12 step is what keeps us sober. [00:25:29] Yeah. And so we mentioned dry drunk earlier yeah. I've done a lot of, I've done a lot of cool things in this dry drunk period. Yep. But dang dude, I know for sure. I can't even fathom what could have happened. We're gonna find out, right? How much better could it have been? Exactly. So much better. [00:25:47] And I've already seen that. And look, I'm not saying that I'm going to AA because I get something, I do get something out of it. I get the pleasure of sharing and helping other people in the room. And I also get the ab have ability to, hear other people's stories and learn from those experiences as well. [00:26:05] So it's multifaceted. I, I wanna be clear, this is not a this is not like an intentional thing. The intention is to do the 12 step, and that's the only intention. Yep. Yep. I love it. It's very fulfilling and rewarding to me just to be able to have this conversation with you again, to see somebody like yourself that has went through all of it and has come out and is still succeeding, right? [00:26:33] You're fucking, you're winning, right? You're not winning in spite of, or despite of anything. Like you're fucking winning already. But then to see you have that light go on [00:26:46] to be like, I could fucking win so much more if I was doing this right. Which goes back to we can never stop learning. [00:26:55] We can never stop getting better, right? The minute, like guys like John Maxwell, what is he? 197 years old and he is still fucking sitting up on stage and talking about still learning. Yeah. I don't know. Like I want to think that I can be like that when I'm 197, but it's hard to fathom that at a certain age. [00:27:13] I just go, fuck it. That's all I got. That's all I can get, but to like, to have that consistent mentality that you always need to be learning and you always to be able to win more and not win things, right? Yeah. Not win material things, but to just to be better and to live. It goes back to how do we live, right? [00:27:30] I was listening to a podcast on my drive home last night from the airport, and it was all about, it was all about living. And this person had this near death experience and they had these moments kind of flash and whatever, and they were like, did I live right? And this gives us that opportunity to live so that we don't have these regrets of man, I could have helped so many fucking people and now my time's up. [00:27:52] That's sad. I don't want to have that. I don't want to have that feeling at the end of the day. I want my kid to be able to write a eulogy that's not only did my dad love me and help me with all these different things that we did, but the amount of people that he helped and helped save their lives and put families back together. [00:28:12] That's his legacy. And I don't know if you mentioned this, you may have mentioned it and I may have just missed it, but your dad, was he recovering alcoholic as well? No. So my dad, my parents got divorced when I was seven, and that was when we moved in with my grandparents. So my grandpa became my dad. [00:28:29] My dad for all intents and purposes is out of the picture. I'd reconnect every once in a while and I was like that was a bad idea. And then, go back and forth, whatever. I don't think I've seen him for a decade probably. Which, Part of that's on me and it's not good. But then the other part's on him, fuck you. [00:28:45] And he'll probably see this, I think he follows me. I, one day I literally saw like on my YouTube channel, it was like subscribed and I was like, oh fuck, God. I bet that was uncomfortable. It was a little uncomfortable. Yeah, it was. So and I'm sure like, obviously we'll take this and we'll post it, wherever. [00:29:02] And so I'm sure, like it'll get fucking seen. But my dad my, my dad wasn't really in the picture that much. My grandpa was my grandpa drank and he drank a pretty good amount. [00:29:12] He definitely had alcoholic tendencies for sure. And he's the one that taught me to drink, right? Like he's, I, he's the person I, I drank beer with him when I was 15 on Christmas, right? [00:29:22] And I remember one of the lessons he taught me, I'll never forget this. I tell this story all the time, but he used to drink this shitty old style classic gold. You remember that in the fucking gold cans. And it was old style, classic gold. I don't know how long they made it for, but it was fucking garbage. [00:29:39] But he would buy 20, 30 cases at a time and stack up next to the fridge so that he could just always have the fridge, full. And I remember one Christmas, I was like maybe 16, and that was like on Christmas Eve. It was always okay to have drinks with the family. And I remember going and getting an old style classic gold and drinking it. [00:29:58] And I went up to my grandpa and I said, grandpa, you, this is te, like you can't even sip this beer. And he looked at me and he said, Eric, beer ain't made for sipping. And I was like, mother fuck, he's right. And I don't know if that's what stuck with me or not. It could have I'm definitely not blaming grandpa, but That kind of stuck. [00:30:21] And it was like none of this shit's made for sipping, like in my mind it's made to get me fucked up. Yeah. You wanna be like your grandpa, right? You looked up to your grandpa just like I looked up to my grandpa. So maybe by default. Yeah. What you said, maybe that is Oh, there was definitely some in my family. [00:30:38] I know my dad's dad was definitely a fucking drunk and he died, he never got sober. Nobody in my family has ever gotten sober. But then on the other side of it, like my mom and my grandma on that side don't drink at all. Never have. That's so funny. My mom's side almost identical. Like my sister. [00:30:56] My sister doesn't drink, never has. Yeah. Like she's got other stuff that she deals with, but like never drank. She's wild to me. Yeah, it's wild to me because like they definitely do not fucking get me. They don't understand me. And none of them are entrepreneurs either. So except my grandpa. [00:31:12] And he wasn't really an entrepreneur, he was just, he owned a business, right? But but he understood like doing it your way and figuring out how to figure shit out so you can make money, right? Cause I'm like what are we gonna do? I'm like, we don't have any money to go to the track. [00:31:26] And he goes, I'll figure it out. I'll go find some money. I'm like, the fuck do you mean you'll go find some money? And he is ah, I'll go find it. I'll go sell a couple reco jobs and we'll pick up a thousand bucks and we'll go to the track and go gamble. I'm like, okay. And he just always figured it [00:31:38] out. [00:31:38] But the rest of my family's no, you have to go to work at nine o'clock and then you work until five and then you get a 401k, and then when you're 65, you'll have $80,000 a year to live on. And maybe they'll give you a watch or an iPad and say, thank you so much for that. And it's fuck, I'll go buy my own fucking iPad. [00:31:57] You know what I mean? Like that. But that's but that's how a lot of people are. And I'm not shitting on it. Sure. I'm not shitting on it because we, the world needs those people too. It just isn't. It just isn't me and I don't understand it. And then they look at me and go, dude, you're fucking crazy. [00:32:12] Like you just did what? You just went and invested that much money that you don't even fucking have to try and do that thing. I invest other people's money that I don't fucking have all the goddamn time to try and figure some shit out. Yeah. Look, but it's, and your majority of people honestly are not like you and me. [00:32:30] If I had to guess. Most thank God. Thank God. Really? Yeah. Cause we'd have, it would be, it'd be a crazy world, but, and you're right, we do need those people. But when you're describing that and you're walking to me through that just now, like I just don bound up inside. Like I just cringes me to think that I would have to do anything from nine to five or better. [00:32:50] Yeah. For anybody tell me I gotta do anything between nine and five every day. Like I just, oh. But as business owners, We've all had that moment where we've went, man, I could really go for a job right now. Yeah, the hell with all this worry and strength. It's a lot. It's a lot more than people think. [00:33:10] Yeah. We all have that fleeting moment though. It'll usually only last a day or whatever it is. But we all have that moment. Paul and I talk about it. I'm like, how many times a week do you just wanna burn the whole motherfucker down? Dude, , right? Yes. We don't, and that's the difference between us and others, is that we don't, and we change our mindset and everything's cool, but if we're actually being honest, because most people aren't and they fucking lie and they pretend that everything's golden and fucking unicorns and rainbows. [00:33:38] But as entrepreneurs and business owners, we all have moments where we're like, do I know what the fuck I'm doing? Do I actually have a clue what the fuck I'm doing? Like I'm just gonna burn this whole goddamn thing down and go figure something out and work for somebody else. And then it flips. [00:33:53] And we're like no. Like of course I know what I'm doing, right? Like I, I've got this, whatever. And we trudge forward. And that's the difference between, I think that's the difference between successful people and non [00:34:04] successful people, is that the non successful people listen to that voice. [00:34:08] Yes. And the successful people don't. And they say, fuck you other guy. I'm going, right? I think that's, I think that's the difference, right? And I've failed at that. But I've succeeded at that too. It's the decision, right? At the end of the day, you just have to make the right decision, or I say the right decision. [00:34:27] You just have to make a decision. And lots of times that's where we get stuck, right? We will be pinging all over the place in our brains about all the million things that we've got going on. And it's that's when I wanna burn it down. I'm like, I wanna shut down. And I do, I wanna just burn it to the ground because. [00:34:41] And part of that, as has been because I haven't been treating the other part. So we still get that, whether you're treating it or not. I just get it a little bit. I've been having it a little bit more often. Yep. And that's part of the reason I don't like having those thoughts. [00:34:53] I don't like having the, I wanna burn it to the ground thoughts, the, and the other way that we keep from keeping those thoughts in our mind though. And again, I know that a lot of this shit is like redundant and a lot of people talk about it on different po and maybe it's just because you and I are doing so much personal development and growth and stuff. [00:35:10] Like we hear these things all the time, so we just assume other people are hearing them, but maybe they're really not. You know what I mean? Probably not actually. But I, yeah. But I think that one of the ways that we keep those thoughts from staying inside of our head is that it goes back to who we're surrounding ourselves with, right? [00:35:26] And if we're surrounding ourselves with people that don't fucking quit, Then we're not gonna fucking quit. I'll give you an example. My buddy Paul, who's literally my, one of my best friends, he decided that he was gonna go start this other business, right? He was gonna go start this other business in this other state. [00:35:50] I moved to Texas and say, absolutely not. I am not starting another roofing company down here. I don't have any desire to have another goddamn roofing company. I've got enough fucking problems with the one that I have. It's enough of a pain in my ass. I don't want that. I wanna focus on, working with guys like you and doing shows and blah, blah, blah. [00:36:07] That's what I want to do. Sure, shit. He goes and does that, and I go, what kind of a fucking idiot are you? You're being a pussy because you know that the thing that you are absolutely the best at is building a business, building people around you. And building a roofing company you've been doing since you're fucking 10, now you're in [00:36:30] Texas, you've got connections coming outta your ass. [00:36:32] You can literally have work thrown your fucking way, but you're being too big of a pussy to do it and to set it up. And because my best friend said, just went and fucking did it, I went, fuck you. I'm doing it too. So I literally incorporated a business while taking a shit on the toilet, because you can do that on Legal Zoom, right? [00:36:55] I literally, just to hold myself accountable, I got on legal Zoom in the toilet and incorporated, came up with my business name, did the whole thing, registered it, and in a week had my EIN number and everything sitting on the table. I'm getting space, I'm interviewing people tomorrow, and I'm starting this motherfucker up, right? [00:37:15] So I'm continuing to go forward because of the people around me, because they push me to make sure that I'm not holding back. And not reaching my potential, and that my friend is vitally important. Vital, it's such a big deal and everybody talks about it. And one thing that I'll say is there's people listening that say, that is easier fucking said than done Eric. [00:37:45] I wanna surround myself with these people, but they don't want to be around me. It goes back to if I want to spend time, with like high level, like I wanna spend time with an ed, my letter, I wanna spend time with an Andy for seller. I wanna spend time with a Sean Whelan or whoever, right? [00:37:59] Like just making her names. But what value do I fucking bring to these people? Like why the fuck, why would they let me in a circle? Of theirs. They wouldn't, like why there's no reason on the surface that they would, so I came home from a retreat about five years ago, and I had to write down everybody that I interacted with on a daily basis. [00:38:21] Okay. I had to write down every person that I interacted with on a daily, weekly, monthly basis, whether it's personal work like social groups, whatever it is. Every single person. Then I had to assign them a number. If they were below me at my level or above. Yeah. So the first part is of tough because like you don't wanna share that list, right? [00:38:47] Because your people on it and they're below you, or you think that they are right, but you count those numbers up, you count [00:38:56] those numbers up. And if I had, let's say 20 people on that list, everybody on that list was at or below my level of what I saw as my level say, quote unquote, right? [00:39:13] But I had people on the list, then I had to write the list of who's above that I want to spend more time with, right? And I picked out like those business owners or those people that have done more than me and that I wanted to learn from. And that's where you start. You don't start by going, I want to fucking be an Andy Fela circle, right? [00:39:37] You start by figuring out who's that business owner in your community that you can surround yourself with that knows way fucking more than you. And you start there and you say, I don't want anything from you. I'd love to provide you some value. If there's anything that I can do from you, I'd love to be able to learn from you. [00:39:56] And that's how you start. Because people love to help. And if you ask them to help because you wanna learn and you can maybe provide them something down the road, right? In value in reciprocating, in, in being a friend. Right now, all of a sudden, over the course of five years, I've went, right? And now I'm like, One, two degrees removed from an ED Mylet. [00:40:24] That's right. Does that make sense? You know what I mean? Yeah. So so for people listening, don't be intimidated and think that you need to go from here to fucking up here. You're not going to, you're delusional if that's what you think you're going to do, understand that. There's so many people in your community right now that are fucking right here and you're not. [00:40:43] So figure out who those people are and talk to them. Ask them if you can go to lunch, not to sell them something, but to ask them some questions and learn from them. And once they see that you're genuine and they, and that you're just, you're wanting to learn and be better, guess what they're gonna do? [00:41:00] They're gonna introduce you to the person that they're learning from up here. Yeah. And then you get to keep going. And that's what's fun. That's the journey. And that's how you get to those higher levels, right? Like I'm still working on it. Yeah. A hundred percent. And you don't wanna be at those high levels when you're not prepared. [00:41:18] What'll happen, right? You're looking like a fucking [00:41:22] asshole. Absolutely. And completely destroy any future possibilities that you may have. And you shouldn't be in those rooms until you're ready to be in those rooms. A hundred percent. Because they'll know if you're not supposed to be in that room. [00:41:32] Like it's relat obvious, right? Blatantly. We, you and I got to see a lot of that not to people on stage. We had a few people drop by our table. Yeah. . Absolutely. It's a pretty crazy conversations and Correct. You just know when somebody's talking about something that they don't know what they're talking about. [00:41:52] They don't know what they're talking about. But at the same moment, you and I both gave them fucking props internally in our head for the. Absolutely . And there was no judgment. Dude I'm, we're talking to you and me, but at the time there's zero judgment cuz we've been there. Yep. [00:42:09] We've been that guy at some point. We've been that guy. And so I know what that, what we also knew is what you were just alluding to was that when we started talking it was completely different. Oh absolutely. Yeah. It was totally different. Yeah. But you just know it. Yeah, you do. You just know it. [00:42:29] And if you're supposed to be in those rooms, but it doesn't mean don't stop fucking trying to be in those rooms. Incrementally. Get into those rooms, spend popular, unpopular opinion, don't give a fuck. Spend money to get into fucking rooms to learn. Yep. Spend money to get into rooms, to learn from people. [00:42:53] Because guess what? It's like going to the hotel has free breakfast and that's why you go to the hotel. Cause it has free breakfast. You wanna be hanging out with the other people that want free breakfast. So you gotta pay your way into these circles. And I like it or not, it is what it is. If you want to get around the big boys, you gotta pay to play sometimes. [00:43:10] And it is what it is. Until you can gain enough influence to be invited into these circles, you gotta pay to play. Yep. Yep. It seems gross in the beginning though. A little bit. It does. It, it made me feel very gross in the beginning because there was a joke in the beginning, like when I first became friends with Sam. [00:43:30] , me and Steve and Richard would joke and be like, man, you're my most expensive fucking friend. But here's what happened. I did that. It gave me an opportunity to connect with somebody. And now we are just actually friends. That's the difference. And it happened organically. [00:43:48] Yes. I paid to get into a sphere, right? [00:43:54] Yeah. But I didn't. But I, you can't pay to actually be somebody's friend. That's right. But here's, I wanna give everybody a quick tip too. So if there's somebody, let's just take Sam for example, right? Sam's fairly influential guy. If you wanna get around somebody like Sam, here's how you do it. Follow him online, comment on his posts. [00:44:15] Make sure he see you Don't even have, you don't even have to do, he doesn't have to know you, but he can get to know you if you start showing up, right? If you start showing up, like at meetings, start showing up and sharing people, get to know your name, guess what, it's magic. Same thing online, right? Yeah, a hundred percent. [00:44:33] Absolutely. And I'll be honest, I'm bad at that. I am too. I'm really bad. I'm really bad at that because I still have the I'll still have that. Are people judging what I'm saying? Moment. You know what, I gotta take that back. I actually don't, I actually do a great job with this at this point. I actually do a good job with this cuz I figure out who it is now. [00:44:57] Yeah. Now, but I have a system, I figure out who it is I want to do business with or whatever it is. Or maybe it's just somebody I just wanna be close to because like we're talking about, right? You gotta pour into those people. And I'll tell you one thing that the biggest mistake I think people make when they're talking to somebody that's influential is they ask them, how can I add value to your life? [00:45:21] So essentially what you're doing when you ask me that question is, you're making me think about how you can help me. Yeah. That's convenient for me. Absolutely not. And don't get a job. . Don't ask me how you can help me. You tell me how you can help me. Yeah. A hundred percent. No, I agree. [00:45:38] Yeah, a hundred percent. I agree with that. Yeah. You figure that out. You figure out what conversations bring value to them, right? And that's not, it's not easy. Nobody's saying that's easy, right? And it's not gonna be with everybody, right? Because you have to find your circle. That's it. Just because you want to be friends with Sam, or you want to be friends with Ed, or you want to be friends with whoever it is, doesn't mean that you should be right. Guess what? It may not even know that person. It might be somebody else that has the same stature that you're looking for, but you're [00:46:14] able to connect with them on a different level because of shared experiences. [00:46:18] I'm gonna take this a step further. I think that part is more valuable. Then being close. Okay, so here's an example. I've been into both of the other groups that worked. I've been in both of those groups. And the truth of the matter is [00:46:34] the chances of me being more successful talking to my local people than it would be for me to try to spout out a bunch of stuff in that group and expect to have to get closer to Ed Mylet. I'm better off getting closer to somebody that actually, knows who I am and wants to actually do business with me, or whatever the case may be, whatever it is there. [00:46:55] Ultimately, it all comes down to business, these groups. Does that make sense? It does. So now my reasons are different in this conversation about like those people, right? So my goal and just to be fair on every single podcast I do, whether it's mine or somebody else's, I throw this shit out into the universe because someone's gonna fucking see it, right? [00:47:18] Yep. So the reason that like I want to be able to have a conversation with an ed is not because I want to do business with him. It's not because I necessarily want anything from him. It's because we're filming the Roofers and Recovery documentary, and that documentary is going to help possibly thousands and thousands of people. [00:47:43] And I want Ed to tell the story about his dad on the documentary to give it more of opportunity to reach more and more people. So I'm literally, every conversation I have with people is, if you've got an in, I wanna send a trailer. Because the ask is, we want you to be able to help other people. [00:48:02] I don't want anything from you. I don't wanna be on your show. I wanna be on your show, but I don't wanna be on your show. I'm not asking you to be on my show. I want you to, I'm probably gonna make that happen for you. I want you to help facilitate this, right? That's the, I can make that happen for you. [00:48:15] I can make that happen for you. I don't know how quickly, but I can make it happen. Here's the other thing, dude. I sat in this chair exactly where I'm sitting right now, and I have never cried that hard. I don't know about ever, I cried so hard listening to that cause I told you I was in RTE and. Told that story to our group and I sat here and I baed my eyes out. [00:48:39] Yeah. When he told that [00:48:40] story. I understand exactly why you want to, when I heard it, and I bawled my fucking eyes out was at Roof Con last year. So that was one of the first times I think that he told the story publicly was at Roof Con last year. And I was sitting fucking up and it was me and Paul and like a few other people, and thank God it was dark. [00:49:04] And I am sitting there like in public with people. At least you got to be in your chair, right? . And I was bawling and I was like, God damnit. I'm like, this can touch so many people. And obviously he's gotta reach with, normal people and like he doesn't, he's not about recovering and whatever. [00:49:20] But that story is so powerful in our space that it has to be fucking told. In our space at least once, so that I can get it out to millions of people to be able to hear it as well. Because a lot of people in our space, and by our space, recovery space, right? And people that are in the depths of addiction that aren't out of it yet. [00:49:45] They probably don't know who he is. It's really funny. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. Because they're living in their world of drugs and alcohol and fucking whores and that's the world that they're living in. They're not living in the world of growth and development and the Ed Mylet of the world, right? [00:50:04] You go up to somebody and go, you know who Ed Mylet is? Who's fucking on a bender? Be like, what the, who are, what are you talking about? Is that the drug dealer? I don't know what you're saying. You know him, dude. So that's my thing because that's the value that I want to add to the world. [00:50:17] By being able to ask somebody that has influence to use that influence to help them not to help me. I'm not making money on this fucking documentary. I'm just shelling out tens of thousands of dollars to make it. Yeah, that make sense? Totally. Yeah, man, that would be, yeah, that'd be incredible. I, we could talk off air about how we could, anyway, so yeah. [00:50:37] That, dude, that would be, that'd be great if you could make Yeah, I, that'd be incredible. That story just, it's got me jammed up, dude, because it just ripped my, it ripped my heart out, ripped my heart out. Because it's so close to Yeah. It's close to us. It's close. Aa, right? [00:50:51] If you and it goes back to how we started this conversation. It goes back to this old man dying, wanted to help somebody in the last 15 minutes of his. And that's [00:51:06] how he'll be remembered. Yeah. Or you could be remembered as I got what I needed from you. Thanks. See you later. And you had the epiphany of that's not what I want. [00:51:20] And to be able to become that, like that's what I want to be. I want to be what he was. When I'm laying there, I would say you probably are, you're just not a hundred. But I won't be if I don't continue doing the work. A hundred percent correct. Cause it's, it would be very easy for me to pull off. [00:51:42] And again, back to what you said. People know who we are. People know who we are. People know what we do, people, people listen to us for whatever fucking reason, . But people, there are certain people that listen to us and care about what we have to say. And if we let our ego take that over, I have to, I don't, I think we maybe talked about this, but I have to, once a month, I have to, once a month I have to sit down and do a little self-aware ego check with myself, and I have to ask myself questions and say, okay, Eric, why are you going to speak at this event? [00:52:21] Why are you continuously doing these podcasts and paying the money that it costs to travel and do all this stuff and spending a lot of hard earned money to do this? Are you doing it because you want the fucking attention and it's your ego talking, or are you doing it because you genuinely want to help? [00:52:39] People. And I know that when it started, it was about helping people. But when you start getting attention feels good. And it makes your fucking ego open up even more. And if we don't, if we're not self-aware of that, to make sure that doesn't take over what we're doing, then you'll lose everything that you have because ego never wins. [00:53:03] Helping always wins. Your ego is not true of ego [00:53:12] that I wish it was by saying, but I took that for, I've heard it a million times, but it makes me laugh every time. , it's so true. It really is. Eric. Dude, this has been, it's been such a great conversation and it's interesting. I didn't, I don't think I, I don't think I, I don't think I started this call thinking I was gonna finish it or this podcast finishing it with an [00:53:32] accountability partner. [00:53:32] But that's how God works. Literally. Now, and this is not a joke. Like I had that thought today. I was, this is not a joke. Like I had that thought today. And then you bring that up. This is God working in my life and doing for me what I can't do for myself. Yep. Like you put me in this position live. [00:53:52] Yep. I have no choice but to say you did give me a choice, but I understand gift. I understand when God's trying to help me out. Yep. And I'm not gonna turn my back on that. So thank you. I appreciate that. Yeah. And here's the cool thing. I always end any conversation. When we're talking about recovery or talking about AA or whatever it is, right? [00:54:12] Because the God thing that you bring up is what usually scares most people away from recovery and the steps and whatever, because that word is in there, right? And a lot of people run away from that because they and I did. So just to be clear, I did as well because I still, to this day, I loathe organized religion. [00:54:40] Me too. Okay. And I have a lot of friends, like very close friends, that are the polar opposite of me, and that is a very strong belief system of theirs. And I absolutely respect it for them because it works for them, right? It doesn't, it just doesn't work for me. Because though I have this thing that I don't agree with organized religion per se, for a multitude of fucking reasons, right? [00:55:06] But I thought that meant that I wouldn't be able to do any of these other things because God was in them, right? So I was running away from it, but when I shut the fuck up and listened for a second, I realized that in our program, they let you choose your higher power and your God of your understanding. [00:55:36] I was like, wait, what? Wait, what do you do? I was like, I'm intrigued about this. And it was really cool that I got to sit down and talk with other people. Like I didn't just make up shit. Like they tell you like, oh, it could be a doorknob, boo, whatever. That's fucking stupid. But when you get to say I believe in the universe, I believe in energy, I believe in God, right? [00:55:56] Just to give people a look into me a [00:55:58] little bit. Like my spiritual belief system is very like in line with Native American. In what way? In the land and the water and the fire and the sun and the wind and the trees and the energy and the, like in the environment, right? There's something fucking to that. Now other people will argue and be like, yeah, it's called evolution asshole. There's the big bang theory and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I'm like yeah, I understand that. But something triggered that. And there's some kind of energy, there's some kind of higher power, right? [00:56:33] Whatever you want to call it. I don't think that there's a fucking dude in the sky with a beard that's looking down and judging what the fuck I do. I don't necessarily believe that, but I believe that there is something greater than myself out. That has a part in all of this, in what we do. [00:56:53] And the other thing that I know is that I'm not him. Yep. I agree with everything you said. I agree with everything you said because, and I'm so glad that you brought that up about the god part because I actually I do view this as a universe, like that's who I, I don't, as you said, I don't think about it a dude. [00:57:12] I don't think about a person. We're all God. God is one, one as God and taught whatever you want, but things look, things like that have happened in our life don't happen by accident. Correct. It's not a coincidence. I don't believe you in coincidence. I think things happen for a reason. [00:57:27] There's a reason, there's a reason that I got saved, and I don't mean saved in the religious sense, like I'm fucking born again and whatever. I mean that there's a re there's a reason that I was allowed to continue. And not rot in jail, or not die in a car accident or not die from an overdose, right? [00:57:49] There's a reason that I was spared and that reason wasn't to be selfish and to be a pile of shit for the rest of my life and only think about myself. It was to give me an opportunity to give back help, and we have a duty to do that, and if we don't, then we squandered all that fucking shit that we went through. [00:58:16] It was all for absolutely fucking nothing. If we don't take it and turn it into something good. If you don't take it and turn it into [00:58:24] something good. If you're listening to this and you're somebody that has went through that shit and then everything that you do is for a selfish gain, you don't deserve to be here. [00:58:35] That's right. I'll just say it. I don't give a fuck. You don't deserve to be here. I wanna clarify one thing in there because you said you, you gotta help other people. But I want, I wanna be a little bit more specific because I, for years I've helped other people, but I wasn't helping other alcoholics and that Oh yeah. [00:58:51] That was the part that was missing for me. And I guess the reason that I kept it vague was because , there's other people that go through other shit that has nothing to do with alcoholism. Yes. That have went through these trials and tribulations of whether it's depression or it's, you know what I mean? [00:59:07] Or it's divorce or it's, whatever it is. You go through something like that. And if you don't take the lessons from that, and not only apply 'em into your life, but to be better. But then once you do that, cuz it, it is the old saying, right? You gotta use the oxygen mask for yourself first. [00:59:22] And then you give it to your neighbor, right? Yeah. But who's the prick that just keeps it on himself and doesn't give it to his neighbor after they're, okay. So it doesn't matter if you are in recovery, right? Like for you and I it that is what it is. That's part of it, right? Sure. But for o but for other people listening, cuz I'm sure you have a large percentage of your audience that isn't right in recovery for sure. [00:59:43] But they went through some shit too, and they still have a duty to figure out how they give back from the shit that they learn from. Because it's not all about you. You gotta take care of yourself first. Make your money right, take care of your family. And then once that's handled, start fucking giving back and start helping other humans because that's how you'll genuinely become fulfilled in life. [01:00:09] And it gets you outta your own way, right? Gets you outta your own way and health just for the period of time that you're at. Asking about somebody else or you're listening to somebody else's things, providing that you're actually listening, it does take you out of yourself. It gives you a almost a reprieve. [01:00:26] You can just, you have Yeah. You get it. Yeah. How, what's the easiest way to forget about your problems? Ask you about yours? [01:00:37] That's the truth. That's the easiest way to forget about your problems if you're fucking the old joke when we were kids. Oh, my head hurts. Let me punch in the dick. Your head won't hurt anymore. That's right. Same thing, right? Same thing. Same thing. [01:00:50] Yep. Yep. My analogies aren't quite the same as some other shows, but yeah. [01:00:54] That's alright. I'm sure. I'm sure everybody's gonna love that. Totally makes sense. Paint a picture. That's right. Paint a picture. Dude, Eric, thank you. I, dude, this has been incredible. I really appreciate this. This has been such a good conversation, and unless I've forgotten anything I'd love for you to make sure, I do want you to tell everybody where they can find roofers in recovery and tell 'em anything about yourself as well. [01:01:16] Where they can find Absolutely. Anybody that's looking for, so one, if you're in recovery and if you're in our space not to sound like a, like we discriminate, but we do we have a niche, right? And we want to help people in our industry, right? So if you're in the roofing space or the construction space, and again, that can be attorneys, PAs, actual roofers, salesman, owners, whatever. [01:01:39] If you're in the, if you're in the roofing storm or storm restoration, whatever industry, roofers in recovery, we are a nonprofit. We raise money every year to send people to treatment. But we also have a. And we have a community online and we have Zoom meetings twice a week where we all get together and then when we're in public places, like at a conference, we'll hold meetings at that event as well, like we did at Roof Con. [01:02:04] So I want people to know that resource is available and if you know somebody that needs help that's in that space, reach out to one of us and so we can figure out if we can help send them to treatment as well, right? So that's number one. Number two is obviously please check us out at be authentic or Get the fuck out, right? [01:02:22] I don't know if you see this right here. Yeah. This was my first business slogan that I put on the back of t-shirts was fuck fitting in. Stand Out Daddy and I put on the back of Dnm Roofing t-shirts as well. Swear to God, I just xed out the, like I made the c and exclamation point, but they're on the back of every worker's t-shirt. [01:02:46] Because I wanted everybody to know we do shit differently, we're going to stand out. And that was the basis of be authentic or get the fuck out. And every guest that we have on, if now it hasn't happened yet because I think people have figured out that like that, I'll sniff it out. And so it's never gonna happen. [01:03:03] But the intent was, is that if you came on my show and I sniffed that you weren't being authentic and you were pretending to be somebody else, I'll just turn the motherfucker off and I'll start with somebody else next. Never happened [01:03:16] though. Hasn't happened yet. Because people know who I am now. . And so if I invite somebody that like would have an inkling that they would be like that, they're like no, I'm good. [01:03:26] They won't, sorry. Yeah, they won't come on. So it's morphed. It's morphed into something other than that where like we talk about recovery like we did here today, but we also talk about business and leadership and all kinds of different things. I love hearing other people's stories about how they came from nothing and they became something. [01:03:42] And the other thing to end with that I love talking about, and the real purpose of my show was, is to take the time to learn about the differences in humans and figure out where the common ground is. And have, and learning what empathy really is in understanding somebody else's point of view. [01:04:04] I don't have to agree with it. But it is really cool if I can at least get to understand why you believe it, because then we can still be friends, right? Yeah. It goes back, I it's why I get so angry at just the state of affairs in the world today, whether it's in politics or it's fucking, c discussions and all that. [01:04:26] I am a hard line. Go fuck your mask and shove it up your ass. But I have people in my life that aren't like that and don't believe what I believe. But here's the thing. I love them and I respect them, and so I want to know where they're

Ok so you are a commercial contractor out of Omaha and after doing business for a few years and experiencing life, and the ups and downs, you decide that you want to share your knowledge and help others. That's what this podcast is really about. Eric Oberembt is a great friend to ACS, and host of the "Be Authentic of GTFO" podcast, where he seeks to help people become the true versions of themselves and stop caring about what other people think. If you want success, you have to be AUTHENTIC in everything! Let's dive into this, and make sure to check out his podcast! **The American Contractor Show is made possible because of our sponsors!**HailTrace - The most accurate hail mapping application in the world! Learn more at www.hailtrace.com. UglyRoof - DON'T REPLACE YOUR ROOF, REJUVENATE IT!Ugly Roof wants to bring your roof back to life with our wide-ranging roofing services. We use the highest quality materials for roof repair, roof restoration, roof inspection, and state of the art techniques in everything we do. A roof revamp can transform your home while extending its life significantly. REFRESH REPAIR RESTORE. To learn more go to https://uglyroof.com/24HR Bookkeeper - Have confidence in your construction financials with 24Hr Bookkeeper! Sign up for a free consultation today! Visit https://info.24hrbookkeeper.com/americancontractorshowJobNimbus - Trying to get organized? Does your team know what's going on with your customers? Is all the business information in your head? Do you want your program to be EXACTLY what you want it to be? Try JobNimbus 2 Weeks for free, no credit card required. - https://www.jobnimbus.com/try?utm_source=ACS&utm_medium=coolcontent&utm_campaign=ACS&utm_id=American+Contractor+Show Ingage - Close more deals with powerful sales presentation tools in the industry! Equip your team with the tools needed to compete in our industry. Learn more at www.ingage.io Beacon Building Supply - THE BEACON DIFFERENCE Through strategic investments in new technology, an ever-expanding network of locations, and a modern fleet to deliver any job, anywhere; we help contractors save time, manage their work more efficiently, and enhance their business. YOU WORK HARD. NOW WORK SMARTER. Directly email Greg Bloom at Beacon to get started! greg.bloom@becn.com ---#stormrestoration #insurancerestoration #roofingcompany #roofingsales #stormrestoration #roofing #supplementing #insuranceclaim #insurancerestorationpro #roofers #rooferslife #artofthesupplement #jointhemovement #roofersofinstagram #hail #stormers #atlasroofing #c3group #contractorcoachpro #roofscope #americancontractorshow #contractor #construction #constructionlife #contract

 Welcome to the Successful Life Podcast. I am your host, Corey Berrier. And today, folks, we're gonna be talking about how to build relationships, partnerships, collaborations, and. We're gonna top it off with a quick story about Alcoholics Anonymous and my recent discoveries. [00:00:16] So this is gonna be fascinating. I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna be very, a little bit different than what we're usually talking about. So look, when you think about sales, Most people have a negative connotation with that. Most people have most people think that salespeople are slimeballs, right? [00:00:37] A lot of people think, people in-home services are slimeballs. This is really why I, this is why I love working with the trades because y'all get, y'all get things on just like I do. And so I really understand. I just understand that mindset. That's all I guess I'm trying to say. Anyhow, the point is if you want to grow your business you're gonna want to, you're gonna want to collaborate with other businesses, You're gonna wanna collaborate with other people in your space. Here's an example. I. Partnership agreements with a brand, with branding companies, with Mark marketing companies with the operation. [00:01:12] I have an operations team. So my point is this, I have everything that my customer needs whenever they work with me. So I make it super convenient to work with me because look, at the end of the day, it's like going to you. I don't know. Sam's Club, right? You have everything in one place. I don't do all these things, but I have relationships, partnerships, and or collaborations with people that can do all of these things, right? [00:01:41] There's literally nothing you can come to me and ask me about in-home services that I don't have an option for you and I'm getting ready to lock in lock in a deal with a financing company. Because look, a lot of companies, you're, you, maybe your company who knows. There are a lot of home services out there, service businesses that don't, they don't utilize financing. [00:02:03] And it's bizarre to me because there are a lot of amazing options out there. And I'm not gonna tell you who the company is because I haven't nailed it down yet. But the point is, you wanna make yourself as valuable as possible. And the way I've done that is I've built solid relationships. [00:02:26] With solid people that I believe in, people that I would go to bat for people that would go to bat for me. [00:02:32] And so that's what I think, in my opinion, is a great partnership. Look, at the end of the day, there's one thing that I want out of a partnership, and there's one thing that you want out of a partnership, which is a fair deal, right? If I give you x. Whenever you get the next client, you're gonna give me X or whatever it is, right? [00:02:56] Is there or there, there could be a percentage of kickback, or it could just be that it's a brand recognition partnership. There are a bunch of different ways that you can look at this, right? But you do wanna think about how can you make yourself more valuable If you're a business owner, you probably are listening to the show. [00:03:18] You wanna think about, if you're an HVAC company and you just do HVAC, you need to have a plumbing partner. I don't mean you need to go into business with a plumber. I'm saying you need to build a relationship with a plumber that you love in your, that's local. So whenever your customers have a problem, you have a solution. [00:03:39] You need to have a window guy. You need to have all of all anything that the house needs. You should have somebody in your back pocket. That can solve that problem for the customer, right? Think about this. It makes you invaluable, truthfully, because, look, I don't know anybody else. [00:03:56] I know one other person that does this and he, he's the guy that taught me to do this call Keen, one of my best friends in the whole world, this guy. But he's a master of this and he teaches people how to do this. You should check him out. His name, Yeah, I'll have to spell it for you, is Callye Keen. [00:04:10] Pretty certain. There are not too many Callye, so look him up. He runs one of the largest product manufacturing businesses in the world, so you. He might know a thing or two about collaborations, cuz guess what? He didn't get to whatever his company's worth at this point, without working with people. [00:04:28] In fact, I'll just tell you that's exactly how he built this business, right? Relationships. This is how any good business is built. It's built on relationships, It's built on, trust primarily. And you can't have a good relationship if you don't have trust. I want to dive into,[00:04:52]  [00:04:53] My little excursion to Roof Con, started out interesting, of course. So I left the day early and I didn't even realize that I was looking at, Dude, I messed the dates up on this. I'm just gonna tell you that right now. I messed them up all the way around. [00:05:08] Everywhere I put the dates in, I messed them up. I put 'em all, all in on the fifth and sixth and it completely screwed me up cause it's a sixth, seventh, and eighth. So I got there early, halfway down there. I realized I didn't have a hotel room because I didn't book it for that day. So that worked out perfectly fine. [00:05:22] Worked out great. And but on the way down there I've had this I've been like, I've had this weird itch, like it'll itch in my, like in my hair. It'll itch on my leg. It'll itch on my arm. And I'm like, I thought, to be honest, I smoked cigars. Y'all do this? I thought, honestly, I thought it was these freaking bugs called no cms. [00:05:44] And you're wrong, If you've never heard of that, you probably think I'm an idiot saying that. Cause that's exactly what I thought when I first heard it. But look it up. No cms. I think that's, I think I'm saying it, but either, Anyway, it's like a nat, right? And so essentially, The way it was explained to, I thought I had I was almost, I'll be honest I was partially convinced that I had lights or fleas. [00:06:06] I didn't know what it was and I couldn't see whatever it was. And it was driving me nuts. And I'll be honest, it was a little bit embarrassing, so it wasn't like I could tell anybody about it. I could tell you now about it. It was not any of those things. So it's some kind of sun allergy. [00:06:24] That my doc has said, he's I've seen this seven or eight times this year. And he said, Honestly, Corey, he said, Up until you walked in here, I thought it had to do with the vaccine, to be honest with you. But now I know it, that has nothing to do with the vaccine. It's a weird little thing. And so he, I, anyway, so I get to Florida and it's getting worse and worse, right? [00:06:46] So I'm leaving North Carolina, which is fairly cool. At this time of year down to Florida, which is not cool. And so it was odd, and I didn't even realize this until I got back, but as I got down there, it got worse and worse. And so it got so bad that I had to go to urgent care and figure out literally, I'm like, this is it's driving me nuts. [00:07:10] I, it is the most bizarre thing I think I've ever felt. Like it's just weird. And it [00:07:18] feels like little bugs actually crawled on you. And so how he explained it was, it's some kind of adverse reaction, some kind of allergy to the sun that causes this weird little feeling. And he was like, Yeah, just some allergy. [00:07:34] So just take Zyrtec. That should tamp it down. But anyway, I went to urgent care. Sorry, I'm jumping all over. Went to urgent care. They gave me some medicine and. I made it through roof con, itching, and scratching. Not as bad as I was before. Thank God the guy gave me some medicine. But Roof con was dope. [00:07:51] It was, and I just gotta highlight Hunter for a quick second. I watched Hunter, I'm fascinated by people that do big things, right? Because I'm doing big things and I wanna do bigger and I'm fascinated when I get to be in the presence of somebody that's doing big. So I don't run up and talk and stuff. [00:08:11] I, I watch, right? I'm a silent observer, so to speak. It's one of the best skills that I have in as a salesperson, right? Or as a coach because I know how to listen and I know how to pick up on things, and I know how to execute the conversation when I need to. So I watched Hunter for three days. This dude never he was never amped. [00:08:36] He was cool, calm, and collected. The entire time I saw him. Every single time I saw him, he was just chilling. It was wild. But if that would've been me, I would've been running around that place at 9,000 miles an hour. So it just goes to show you the emotional intelligence Hunter Ballew. It's crazy to me now, who knows what's going on at the side of his head? [00:09:05] He's got a kid, like a really small kid, he just adopted like a baby and this massive event. So the takeaway from that is this dude knows how to run a business, obviously, and he knows how to hire great people. Robert Poseys, is one of 'em, right? He's got a bunch of great people. Don't get me wrong, and I'm not going to list everybody off. [00:09:22] Robert's just one of my tight boys. I like Robert. He's a good guy. He was on my podcast. You should go listen to that. He's got a hell of a story. So Ruth Con was, it was great. The Rhino guys were there. Got to see Michael Vanitas. I got to see Jeff Bowab. Got to see I'm drawing a blank. Tim Tebow. [00:09:43] [00:09:44] Anyhow, I guess at this point you saw who was important for me to see. I guess so anyhow, it was good. It was great. It was really good it was a tremendous event, and I would encourage anybody to go check it out. You can go check it out@roofcon.com. I'm sure they're selling the tickets for next year. [00:10:01] In fact, I know they are. So long story short, with this whole. Flea thing, by the way. I did go get lice stuff and I did put it in my hair thinking maybe that was life and it didn't work. I was partially relieved, but partially not. So I'm Dr., So I'm, so the last night at Roof Con, I had a bunch of amazing conversations I, but I want, I want, and I can't go over all of them because that would take me all day, but I need to point. [00:10:33] One in particular. I'm gonna do my best not to f this name up. Eric Oberembt, I believe is how you say his name if I said that right? I think I just won a hundred points or something. I don't ever get anybody's name right, but I think that's right. I spent about Jesus, I don't know, three hours. [00:10:50] Probably close to three hours talking to Eric, and it was cool because I needed that conversation. And ironically, this is gonna lead me to my next topic, ironically, on the way down there I, to give you a back story, I've been sober for over 13 years. I started out in aa. I hadn't been to AA in six years. [00:11:10] That's where we're at. And so I'm driving down to Florida and I'm thinking about Eric because he does roofers in recovery. Now I don't know that much about roofers in recovery, but I could figure out what that is, right? It's not that hard to figure out, and it got me thinking [00:11:26] and I got to think for about eight hours and so when I talked to Eric, Now I didn't know how that conversation was gonna go cuz I have interesting feelings about AA and sobriety and language that we use around it. And but I don't hold anything back. I just I'm just gonna tell you how I feel can take it or leave it. [00:11:45] But what I realized, and this is probably the most impactful thing that's happened to me in about six years, [00:11:55] so I told Eric my feelings on saying, I am, I'm alcoholic, and I don't agree with. Because I don't feel like I'm an alcoholic, cuz I haven't drunk in over 13 years. And it makes me feel uncomfortable [00:12:10] saying that I'm an alcoholic, but that's not the point. And Eric and I are gonna get into this. He's gonna come to my show next week and we're gonna talk about this. [00:12:19] And it is, it's gonna be great. I love having, I like having these conversations, but I don't have enough is the point. I don't talk to enough people that are struggling with alcohol or drugs. Now, my best, one of my best friends, Nick Jones, who all, who, the reason that I ever got sober to begin with this guy, he called me about, I don't know, two months ago, and he said, Hey, I need you to pick up my buddy. [00:12:45] He smokes crack. I need you to pick him up at the bus station. Take him to the, I need you to get him in somewhere around you. He knows that I'll make it happen. And the guy was coming from Atlanta, and so I picked him up. [00:12:54] It was four 30 in the morning or something, and he's, he's where he's cracked out. And just to give you some backstory, I've not smoked crack, so I don't really, I don't know about crackheads, right? I know what I see on, television or hear stories, but I've not really been around crackheads, like true crackheads. [00:13:14] And I'm not saying that in a derogatory way. The guy smokes crack. Let me say it like that. And so I went and picked this guy up. He was a train wreck, of course, just like I was when I came in and. And that guy's still sober today. If you would've asked me to place a bet whether that guy was gonna stay sober or not, I would've said, I would've bet every dime of money that he wouldn't have stayed sober. [00:13:41] That's maybe not true. I have more hope than that, but he tried to get me to drop him off and buy crack four different times within a two-hour time spend. That's why I'm saying we're lucky we got there. But we did. We got him in and, or I got him in.  [00:13:56] And so it didn't, so my buddy Nick called me and said, Hey, this guy, I'm not gonna tell you his name, doesn't matter who it is. He said he is still sober. And the combination of Nick telling me that, the combination of Eric, my conversation with Eric, here's what I. Now, if you understand Alcoholics Anonymous or if you know anything about Alcoholics Anonymous, then you know the word dry drunk. [00:14:21] So uncomfortable for me to even talk about, to be honest with you. But I want to talk, I want to thank Eric really for that, for telling me. So, so here's the story I explained to Eric. I hadn't been to AA because I am; I just explained all [00:14:36] that he said, Cory. He said, and he said this in the most genuine way, Please. [00:14:40] Corey, like it's not about you. [00:14:48] It's about helping another alcoholic. AA is the vehicle for you to help others. , and it doesn't matter what you think; you believe in the program. And I'm not giving you verbatim, but this is essentially the conversation. And, of course, I do believe in the program. I just don't believe in the, I'm part. [00:15:08] That's the part that, that really trips me up hard, and I'm not going to say it I'm just not going to say those three words. Because I'm not an alcoholic now, I'm a recovering alcoholic, but I haven't had a drink in 13 years. I may not be recovered, but damn, I got a pretty good track record. [00:15:29] And, but I've been a dry drunk for the last six years. And let me explain what that means. That means I haven't had a drink, nor have I had the desire to have a drink, but I., but I also haven't been helping other alcoholics. [00:15:49] I help other people all the time. I always help people, but I've been helping the wrong people. I. I know how to get through this thing, and this is the hardest thing I've ever gone through in my life was stopping drinking [00:16:12] and the thought of having to go through that again [00:16:18] it breaks my heart. And damn. Double a little emotional about that. [00:16:22] My ego, I guess they could call it my ego got in the way because I was so stuck on my dumb ass thought about I, I'm not going back to AA because I'm not saying I'm an alcoholic. How stupid is that? It makes zero sense. Truthfully. It makes no sense. Sometimes it takes what it takes. [00:16:44] And so I've been scraping my knees back and forth; we've had a lot of crap going on in the last six years, right? And I sit here, and I think about all these things [00:17:00] that have gone on and.[00:17:02]  [00:17:04] And it just, [00:17:09] it makes me realize that [00:17:15] I need to give back to the people that gave to me. I, there are people that are struggling out there that I'm not even attempting to touch. That makes me feel awful, right? It makes me feel terrible. And understand Eric wasn't saying this to make me feel bad. He was just asking great questions. And those great questions led to me discovering I don't have to, I don't have to say I'm an alcoholic. [00:17:44] And so Eric said, Look, dude, I went through a very, I won't go into his story because we're gonna get into that later, but he shared his experience with a very similar situation, and that's what I needed to. And that, my friend, is the value of being inside of aa, right? Being inside a group like Alcoholics Anonymous, you can learn from other people. [00:18:06] This is the power. Let's just take it full circle. This is the power of collaboration, right? AA is a collaboration of people trying to stay sober and live a better life. Without that group, if you're, if you like, without that group, the group doesn't exist. Know that probably didn't make much. [00:18:24] But if you think about that, one person's not a group, two people are a group, you can have two people, you can have a meeting. In fact, I started a meeting, I don't know, seven years ago, eight years ago, and maybe longer than that, actually. And, I started with two people, and I grew it. [00:18:49] So the point here with this whole AA story is I went to a meeting yesterday, and I picked up a sponsee, and we're gonna meet. And that's the part I've been missing in my life, right? I've been missing that. As I said before, it feels like I've been given to the wrong group or the wrong people. And so I'm really grateful for that conversation with Eric, and I'm grateful for Jeff Bowab for introducing me to Eric because I needed that conversation that day. [00:19:17] I needed that conversation. It's just it's all on God's time, right? It's all on whatever you believe or whatever you call it, your high power, higher [00:19:28] power, or Buddha, whatever you wanna call it. But you gotta believe in something bigger than you, that's for sure. And I've always believed in, I haven't always, I shouldn't say that, but since I've been sober, I've absolutely thought of something bigger than me because it's, Way bigger than me and bigger than you. [00:19:46] All right, guys, Do me a favor. Share the show with me. I appreciate that. I appreciate you tuning in. We'll see you guys on the other side.  

In this episode, Travis sits down with Eric Oberembt and they discuss life, business, and finding yourself through past and current addictions. Getting help and leading yourself into a better life after addiction.

Paul Reed and Eric Oberembt join us to share their detailed 8 figure annual commercial strategies and answering the How, When, and Why about all things commercial roofing. Paul is the owner of North-West Roofing and Co-Founder of Commercial Roofing Academy. Eric is the owner of D&M Roofing and podcast host of "Be Authentic or GTFO". Together, they have extensive knowledge in commercial roofing as well as a genuine desire for helping roofers and especially those who battle with substance and/or drug abuse through their non-profit sobriety organization, Roofers in Recovery. Paul and Eric are the Co-Founders of this organization, and they plan to share some insight on lives being impacted on this week's show!

Heidi J. Ellsworth takes a very special road trip to meet with Eric Oberembt and Paul Reed of Roofers in Recovery. In this Caught Doing Good Roofing Road Trip, Eric and Paul share the history and challenge of Roofers in Recovery. This nonprofit organization is focused on empowering people in need of stabilizing and improving their lives through treatment programs that serve them best working in partnership with an amazing staff and community of compassionate people. This very special road trip will share the challenge of raising funds to enable 100 rehabilitations in 2022. Don't miss this!

Eric Oberembt is the President of D&M Roofing, Vice President & Co-Founder of Roofers in Recovery, & an Instructor for Commercial Roofing Academy. In this episode, he talks with us about how going to conferences and networking with the right people helped him get his company to where it is today. -- The Rise Above Show Presented by Roofing.com is hosted by Diego Dante Roofing.com is a personal and professional development company that provides coaching and events for roofing and solar professionals of high-integrity to learn from top industry leaders, network with other like-minded individuals, and connect contractors with the best resources necessary to succeed. Our purpose is to help these professionals increase revenue, grow their businesses, and develop as leaders and individuals. Join Our Free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1667966683493967 Apply To Come To A Free Owners-Only Retreat: roofing.com/app Attend RoofCON: https://www.roofcon.com/ Join Our Mastermind, REVOLT: http://roofing.com/revolt Find Out More: roofing.com

HVAC Masters Of The Hustle Podcast is excited to have Eric Oberembt in the Hot Seat on episode 160. Eric has one of the Top companies in the trades when it comes to Roofing. On this episode Eric and I will talk about his journey in the trades and how he overcame addiction. Eric started a non profit to help people in the trades go to rehab if they're struggling with addiction. Eric has helped many people in the trades get help with sobriety and overcome the daily challenges. Eric goal this year is to be a voice for people that you're not alone and thats their is help out there. If you or you know anyone who is dealing with addiction reach out we are here to help you thought your journey!   SHARE

Reggie Brock and Eric Oberembt open up about what it means to be authentic and how to focus your attention on being yourself and owning it. Reggie encourages listeners to make every moment of your life count and to bring hope and encouragement to people by accepting who you are. Reggie explains how it is main goal to determine his influence and abilities to affect people and help them grow to reach their potency in life. To summarize, stop trying to be someone that you are not - embrace who you are and be authentic! 

Welcome to the first episode of Be Authentic or GTFO Podcast! I am your host, Eric Oberembt. Today we are talking with Paul Reed about authenticity, Roofers in Recovery and industry conferences. Don't forget to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE & COMMENT! Thank you for your support! 

 The Commercial Roofing Academy teaches roofers how to become a skilled Commercial Roofer. The claims handling side of things can get more complex, especially in states with UPPA laws. We will discuss some situations that need solutions. This might be a highly contested topic, so don't miss it LIVE to put your 2 cents in! Ask us questions LIVE! Eric Oberembt, President and Owner of D&M Roofing and Siding, has been in the business since he was just 10 years old, helping to build the company started by his grandfather in 1965 into the premier residential and commercial roofing contractor of the Omaha NE/Des Moines IA area and the winner of numerous industry awards. A tireless advocate for the industry he loves, Eric is a proud Board Advisor of the American Policyholder Association, helping to fight insurance fraud at all levels. He's also a founding member of Roofers in Recovery and a sought-after public speaker. 

Join Head Coach Jim Johnson as he is joined by 2 of the founders of Roofers in Recovery, Paul Reed and Eric Oberembt. In this episode, they discuss what Roofers in Recovery is, how and why it started, and ways that you can help or get the help you may need. To donate to Roofers in Recovery and enter for a chance to win a Traeger, head to this link: http://www.toprepgiveaway.com/sales-page1622136178622 0:00 - Introduction to Roofers in Recovery2:15 - Paul Reed and Eric Oberembt3:10 - How Did Roofers in Recovery Start?7:30 - How Paul and Eric Connected12:00 - Who Should Reach Out for Help and When?18:00 - Breaking the "Generational Curse"20:30 - How Do You Hope to Impact the Roofing Industry?27:20 - Donate to Roofers in Recovery for a Chance to Win a Traeger Grill - http://www.toprepgiveaway.com/sales-page162213617862229:10 - Best Story from Roofers in Recovery30:30 - Storm Into the New Era35:30 - How to Get in Touch with Paul and EricFacebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/Roofers-In-Recovery-101679888768264Facebook Private Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1142663682587617Website - https://roofersinrecovery.com/Schedule an Appointment - https://roofersinrecovery.com/request-appointment/Donate - http://www.toprepgiveaway.com/sales-page162213617862240:00 - Parting Thoughts on Roofers in RecoveryA huge shoutout to this year's sponsors that you know you can trust! Thanks for making Contractor Radio possible!Signpost - helping home service businesses attract, connect with, and grow their customer base! https://www.signpost.com/Balanced Claims - solve claims administration problems for contractors who want to grow in the insurance restoration industry! https://balanceclaims.com/Atlas Roofing - the shingle manufacturer that innovates, supports, and enables contractors to gain a competitive advantage in their market. https://www.atlasroofing.com/Kill Your Competition - a distinctively different web design and marketing company.   No hidden fees, more qualified leads. Learn more at https://killyourcompetition.today/GetTheReferral - the industry-leading referral app to proactively get better leads more often! https://www.getthereferral.com/Hail Trace - the industry-leading storm data provider that helps contractors get more customers! https://hailtrace.com/SumoQuote - contractor quotes that and crush the competition. The fastest way to build custom quotes that impress clients and win more work! https://www.sumoquote.com/Beacon - From the first quote to the final invoice, we are dedicated to the success of contractors. We maintain a massive network of 500+ locations in the U.S. & Canada and a suite of digital resources like automated order workflows, live pricing, material ordering, and mobile delivery tracking. https://www.becn.com/ScopeTechnologies - providing contractors with the measuring and estimating tools to win more jobs in more services! Roofing, Gutters, Siding, Painting, Insulation, and Concrete! https://myscopetech.

This week’s show featured Boys Town Memorial Day Run race director Valerie Schramm promoting their annual event to benefit at-risk youth, Eric Oberembt and Lindsey Pate with D&M Roofing describing their efforts to provide a veteran-in-need with a new roof, Nebraska’s Vaccine Action Team’s communications lead Rich Jefferson updating the community with the latest vaccine information, and the Salvation Army’s Jeff Beckman inviting listeners to join the annual DJ’s Hero Awards Luncheon scholarship event.

Eric O joins Michael Gogan to talk about his journey scaling both D&M roofing and his own leadership perspective over the last few years. Get excited to listen in and learn how Eric's passion for people and personal growth have shaped his purpose within his own company. 

If you are working 16 hour days, never able to take a vacation, and just trying to land the next roofing client, our guest today knows exactly what you're dealing with. Eric Oberembt of D&M Roofing has the mantra of working smarter, not harder, in his roofing business. And in today's episode, he shares what he did to free up his time in the company while still building an amazing business. You will learn: The best thing Eric did for himself as a business owner and leader Who to hire and how to keep great team members The kind of company culture he created in his roofing company The steps he took to take Sundays off with no phone calls from his team Eric's top tip for success for a new owner in the roofing industry. Find Eric Oberembt… On his website: https://dandmroofing.com/ On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dmroofingomaha/ Interested in learning more about what we do at Contractor Dynamics? Check us out on social media: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/contractordynamics/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ContractorDynamics/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/contractordynamics