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In this revelatory episode of What's My Thesis?, host Javier Proenza welcomes Chinese-Canadian visual artist Ketty Haolin Zhang for a candid and multifaceted conversation that traverses personal narrative, cultural identity, and the shifting landscapes of the art world. Born in northeastern China and currently based in Vancouver, Chang unpacks the nuances of the “1.5 generation” immigrant experience—a term that resonates deeply in her practice and daily life. Her formative transition from a fifth-tier city in China to cosmopolitan Vancouver was less a relocation and more a system reboot, an abrupt recalibration that continues to echo through her work and worldview. Throughout the discussion, Zhang thoughtfully reflects on her evolution from data analyst at an investment firm to full-time artist, and the calculated risks that led her to embrace painting and mixed media sculpture. Her visual language avoids overt cultural symbolism, instead delving into the atmospheric and emotional terrain of liminal spaces—transitory zones where belonging and alienation coexist in quiet tension. Drawing inspiration from personal snapshots and the intimate memories of others, her work invites viewers to project themselves into the scene, resisting the fixed narratives often expected from artists of diasporic backgrounds. This episode also interrogates the art world's complicated relationship with capitalism, institutional critique, and the silent stigma around commercial ambition. Zhang speaks with clarity about reconciling her creative integrity with the pragmatic need for sustainability, demystifying her approach to grants, residencies, and the economics of art-making in Canada. Together, Zhang and Proenza explore how geography shapes artistic ecosystems—juxtaposing Vancouver's scaled-down, transit-friendly gallery network with the sprawl and ambition of Los Angeles and the high-octane density of New York City. Chang offers a rare, introspective glimpse into the psychology of multilingualism and code-switching, the visceral dissonance of returning to a changed homeland, and the performative nature of self-presentation in the social media age. Themes Covered: The “1.5 generation” identity and its impact on cultural integration Liminality and the aesthetics of in-betweenness Transitioning from a data-driven corporate role to full-time artist Navigating Canada's grant-based art system Cultural tokenization, commercial validation, and institutional critique MFA programs and professionalization across North America Immigrant family expectations and artistic self-determination Choosing between L.A. and New York as an emerging artist Notable Quote: “It is joy to be hidden and disaster not to be found.” – Donald Winnicott, via Ketty Haolin Zhang —

Intervals has been praised by The Guardian, the Observer, Publisher's Weekly, Elinor Cleghorn (author of Unwell Women) and Prospect Magazine. It was longlisted for the Women's Prize for Non-Fiction. Marianne Brooker is based in Bristol, where she works for a charity campaigning on climate and social justice. She has a PhD from Birkbeck and a background in arts research and teaching. She won the 2022 Fitzcarraldo Essay Prize for Intervals, her first book. Get the book here or at your local bookshop. What makes a good death? A good daughter? In 2009, with her forties and a harsh wave of austerity on the horizon, Marianne Brooker's mother was diagnosed with primary progressive multiple sclerosis. She made a workshop of herself and her surroundings, combining creativity and activism in inventive ways. But over time, her ability to work, to move and to live without pain diminished drastically. Determined to die in her own home, on her own terms, she stopped eating and drinking in 2019. In Intervals, Brooker reckons with heartbreak, weaving her first and final memories with a study of doulas, living wills and the precarious economics of social, hospice and funeral care. Blending memoir, polemic and feminist philosophy, Brooker joins writers such as Anne Boyer, Maggie Nelson, Donald Winnicott and Lola Olufemi to raise essential questions about choice and interdependence and, ultimately, to imagine care otherwise.

Vous faites la queue au supermarché, et la personne derrière vous démarre la conversation en déballant très vite tous ses malheurs, ce qui vous met mal à l'aise. En sortant, vous appelez tout de suite un·e ami·e pour lui raconter cette interaction et ce que ça vous a fait. Au fil de la conversation, cet·te ami·e esquive une nouvelle fois de répondre sincèrement à votre question “et sinon comment ça va, toi ?” et vous vous sentez frustré·e de ne pas pouvoir vraiment échanger à son sujet. Comment trouver le bon équilibre entre partager tout ce qu'on vit, et risquer d'exploser à force de ne jamais se confier ? À quel point faut-il préserver des zones d'intimité ? Est-ce que c'est bon pour soi de tout répéter ? Pour comprendre ce qui se joue quand on partage ses émotions, Marie Misset fait entendre les témoignages d'Anne, Sacha et Alexandre, qui ont des rapports différents aux confidences. Elle interroge le neuropsychologue Florian Gatto, spécialisé en psychotrauma, pour parler de régulation émotionnelle, de recadrage cognitif et des bonnes dispositions pour se montrer vulnérable.Pour aller plus loin : Lire Soi même comme un autre de Paul Ricoeur sur l'identité narrative Lire Processus de maturation chez l'enfant de Donald Winnicott et Le drame de l'enfant doué d'Alice Miller sur le vrai et le faux selfLire sur la théorie de la pénétration sociale d'Irwin Altman et Dalmas A. TaylorLire l'étude sur le rôle de la réciprocité en amitié pour le MITLire La clinique de la dignité de Cynthia Fleury à propos de la honteLire Poétique de la relation d'Edouard Glissant sur le droit à l'opacitéSi vous aussi vous voulez nous raconter votre histoire dans Émotions, écrivez-nous en remplissant ce formulaire ou à l'adresse hello@louiemedia.com.Émotions est un podcast de Louie Media. Marie Misset a tourné, écrit et monté cet épisode. La réalisation sonore est de Clémence Reliat, qui a réalisé le générique, à partir d'un extrait d'En Sommeil de Jaune. Elsa Berthault est en charge de la production. Pour avoir des news de Louie, des recos podcasts et culturelles, abonnez-vous à notre newsletter en cliquant ici. Vous souhaitez soutenir la création et la diffusion des projets de Louie Media ? Vous pouvez le faire via le Club Louie. Chaque participation est précieuse. Nous vous proposons un soutien sans engagement, annulable à tout moment, soit en une seule fois, soit de manière régulière. Au nom de toute l'équipe de Louie : MERCI ! Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

(Como, 2025) Con Kate Briggs, autora; y Carlota Melguizo, traductora. ¿Cómo dar voz y convertir en co-protagonista de una novela a quien todavía no es capaz de pronunciar palabra, a quien, por su corta edad, es siempre la encarnación de un misterio? Kate Briggs asume en su escritura el riesgo de enfrentarse a un lugar común, el de la maternidad, y sin embargo su enfoque (atravesado por las ideas de pensadores y escritores de toda índole, desde John Dewey a Donald Winnicott, pasando por E. M Forster y Gertrude Stein) interroga la esencia misma de qué implica continuar existiendo al lado de otra persona.

En este episodio de La Teoría de la Mente, nos adentramos en un tema profundamente humano: la relación con nuestros padres, o con su ausencia, y cómo esto moldea quiénes somos. Hoy, a través de la música de Sufjan Stevens y su conmovedora canción Death with Dignity, exploramos las complejidades de una vida marcada por la presencia y la falta de los padres. La canción abre el álbum Carrie and Lowell, una obra dedicada a la memoria de su madre, Carrie, que sufría de esquizofrenia y depresión. Tras su partida de la vida de Sufjan siendo él solo un niño, y su eventual fallecimiento en 2012, el artista reflexiona sobre el dolor, los recuerdos y el cierre que nunca llegó de manera perfecta. Pero como veremos, incluso en la ausencia, los padres siguen presentes de una manera única, transformando el tejido emocional de nuestras vidas. También profundizamos en el trabajo del psicoanalista Donald Winnicott y su concepto de "objetos transicionales", como los peluches de la infancia que ayudan a calmar la ansiedad ante la separación parental. Esos objetos que dejamos atrás, ¿cómo son reemplazados en nuestra adultez? ¿Por qué a veces elegimos relaciones que nos dañan? Todo esto tiene una raíz que proviene de nuestro pasado familiar y la manera en que intentamos "reparar" lo que una vez nos hizo falta. Pero no todo es pérdida y dolor. Incluso en medio de las historias más complicadas, a veces permanecen destellos de amor, buenos recuerdos y momentos de conexión que, aunque escasos, nos ayudan a sanar. Sufjan Stevens nos recuerda que ser hijo o hija no es algo que desaparezca, incluso cuando los padres ya no están, y que la vida está llena de oportunidades para crear nuevas narrativas que no siempre se ajustan a los dramas familiares que nos precedieron. ¿Y tú? ¿Recuerdas a tu peluche favorito? ¿Qué historias y emociones te traen los recuerdos de tu infancia y cómo han influido en tus relaciones actuales? Hoy, nos proponemos reflexionar sobre nuestras propias historias y sobre la importancia de construir nuevas relaciones que no estén atrapadas en las sombras del pasado. No te pierdas este episodio lleno de introspección, música y sanación. Sugerencia de Títulos: Palabras clave: relación con los padres, ausencia de los padres, Sufjan Stevens, Death with Dignity, Carrie and Lowell, peluches objetos transicionales, Donald Winnicott, vínculos familiares, relaciones rotas, infancia y padres, recuerdos familiares, sanación emocional, esquizofrenia y depresión, crecimiento personal, sanar el pasado, vínculos afectivos, trauma familiar, abandono parental, música folk, canciones sobre pérdida, nostalgia infantil, superar la ausencia, vínculos con los padres, relaciones tóxicas, cierre emocional, madurez emocional Hashtags sugeridos: #RelacionesFamiliares #SanarElPasado #SufjanStevens #CarrieAndLowell #ObjetosTransicionales #TeoríaDeLaMente Enlaces Formateados con Emojis: Nuestra escuela de ansiedad: www.escuelaansiedad.com Nuestro nuevo libro: www.elmapadelaansiedad.com Visita nuestra página web: www.amadag.com Síguenos en Facebook: Asociación Agorafobia Síguenos en Instagram: @amadag.psico Canal de YouTube: AMADAG TV

Welcome back to The Trip Report Podcast, a production of Beckley Waves..Today, we're speaking with Reed Finlay, a visionary designer and the founder of Set and Setting Design, a company dedicated to creating transformative spaces for healing and human connection.Reed's journey began in traditional architecture, where he spent over 25 years designing everything from high-end homes to sustainable, off-grid buildings. But his career took a radical turn after a life-changing plant medicine experience that revealed the profound impact of the environment on human consciousness.Since then, Reed has focused on designing spaces specifically intended to support healing, growth, and transformation. From psychedelic ceremony rooms to retreat centers and even the Temple at Burning Man, Reed's work transcends conventional architecture by weaving together elements of nature, mysticism, and human psychology.In this conversation, we discuss:* The power of set and setting in shaping psychedelic experiences* How sacred space design can deepen emotional healing* His transformative experience that inspired his career shift* The role of architecture in the emerging field of psychedelic therapy* How principles from Donald Winnicott's "holding environment" influence his designs* The intersection of spirituality, community, and space in modern culture* And much more.And now, I bring you my conversation with Reed Finlay.Listen to the episode on Substack, Spotify, Google or Apple.Credits:* Hosted by Zach Haigney* Produced by Zach Haigney, Erin Greenhouse, and Katelin Jabbari* Find us at thetripreport.com* Follow us on Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn and YouTube* Theme music by MANCHO Sounds, Mixed and Mastered by Rollin Weary This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.thetripreport.com

REDIFFUSION. Il s'appelait comment votre doudou quand vous étiez petit·e ? Et celui de votre enfant ? Que ce soit un bout de tissu bariolé, une peluche Disney ou un torchon troué, on a parfois du mal à mesurer ce qui nous lie à cet objet inanimé, qui peut nous suivre toute notre vie. Les doudous, c'est un sujet sérieux, tellement sérieux que plusieurs scientifiques français se sont penchés sur la question. Leur étude vient de paraître dans le Journal of Positive Psychology et on y apprend notamment que près d'un·e adulte sur deux aurait conservé la peluche de son enfance. Mais alors, quelles fonctions remplissent les doudous auprès des enfants ? Est-ce qu'ils sont vraiment importants ? Et doit-on un jour s'en séparer ? Dans cet épisode, Marine Revol s'entretient avec Adrien Blanc, psychologue clinicien en Centre-Médico-Psychologique auprès d'enfants et d'adolescent·e·s, enseignant-chercheur en psychanalyse et psychologie à l'Université de Paris ainsi qu'au Centre de formation Saint-Honoré. Ensemble, iels parlent de doudous de secours, de première possession, de fonction transitionnelle, d'odeur et de poisson rouge.Pour aller plus loin : Le livre “Mon doudou, l'objet transitionnel qui fait grandir” d'Adrien Blanc, aux éditions In PressLe livre “La mère suffisamment bonne” de Donald Winnicott, aux éditions Payot Et si vous ne savez pas quoi écouter ensuite, on vous suggère l'épisode "Comment faire en sorte que les enfants s'ennuient ?" ou "Ce soir T'choupi, demain le Nobel"Faites des gosses est une production Louie Media, présentée par Marine Revol. Elle a écrit et tourné cet épisode. Il a été réalisé par Anna Buy et la musique est de Jean Thévenin. La prise de son et le mix ont été faits par Sam Jamin. Charlotte Pudlowski est à la production exécutive, Elsa Berthault est attachée de production et Mélissa Bounoua directrice des programmes.Cet épisode a été diffusé pour la première fois le 29 mars 2023 sous le titre "La vérité sur les doudous."Envoyez-nous vos questions, vos remarques et vos notes vocales à hello@louiemedia.com ! Et suivez Louie Media sur Instagram, Facebook, Twitter. Si vous souhaitez soutenir Louie, n'hésitez pas à vous abonner au Club. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

What if the mind could fish for ideas just as easily as one casts a line into the sea? Join us on a voyage into the enigmatic world of the late David Lynch as we explore his profound influence on creativity. From the haunting landscapes of "Twin Peaks" to the visceral imagery in "Eraserhead," Lynch's work has left an indelible mark on the arts. We share personal stories about encountering Lynch's films for the first time and how his distinct vision has shaped our own artistic paths. The episode also highlights Lynch's unique approach to capturing ideas, likening them to fish swimming in the vast ocean of our subconscious, just waiting to be caught with the right amount of patience and silence.The art of meditation takes center stage in our conversation, revealing how it can be a powerful tool for achieving balance in your studio practice. By examining David Lynch's philosophy and the insights from his book "Catching the Big Fish," we delve into how meditation aids in nurturing the true self. This introspective journey includes reflections on the wisdom of philosophers like Donald Winnicott, historical figures such as Abraham Lincoln and musical poets like Nick Cave, with anecdotes that illustrate how meditation serves as both a shield and a weapon against life's inevitable challenges. The discussion underscores the importance of clarity and focus in the pursuit of artistic expression.In the quest for creative freedom, we navigate the essentialism and the balance between light and darkness in the artistic journey. We uncover the liberating potential of saying no to distractions, embracing the mystery of the unknown, and documenting fleeting thoughts to ensure they aren't lost to time. Practical tips come to life, offering listeners ways to capture inspiration through journaling and other methods. Whether you're a seasoned artist or a curious beginner, this episode invites you to rethink the boundaries of your creative process and rediscover the joy of genuine artistic freedom. We will mis you David Lynch.Send us a message - we would love to hear from you!Make sure to follow us on Instagram here:@justmakeartpodcast @tynathanclark @nathanterborg

The older he gets, the bigger the baby. Donald Trump has turned the U.S. government into one giant pacifier to calm his fear of seeming less than all-powerful. Consider those billionaires now dropping bags of gold at his feet, concerned that he would use his presidential powers to hurt them. Donald Winnicott, a prominent English pediatrician and psychoanalyst, famously wrote that babies have “the illusion of omnipotence.” They think the world revolves around their needs being met. To reinforce his illusion that he embodies Roman Emperor command, Trump has turned to the cameras to publicly name formerly skeptical, or even...Article Link

"Het moeilijkste voor een mens is om te beseffen dat hij een ander niet kan controleren." - Stine laat psycholoog Marte Kaan aan het woord over de beroemde kinderarts en psychiater Donald Winnicott.

This week on The Five Minute Advocate, Julie Macken dives into the views of the influential psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott on democracy as laid out in his work Home Is Where We Start From. Winnicott argues that democracy thrives not just through conscious efforts, but also through our unconscious actions and maturity as individuals. Whilst our current political landscape may seem discouraging, Julie argues if we engage in internal work of self-reflection and development we can rebuild a thriving democracy.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

En este episodio de La Teoría de la Mente, nos adentramos en un tema profundamente humano: la relación con nuestros padres, o con su ausencia, y cómo esto moldea quiénes somos. Hoy, a través de la música de Sufjan Stevens y su conmovedora canción Death with Dignity, exploramos las complejidades de una vida marcada por la presencia y la falta de los padres. La canción abre el álbum Carrie and Lowell, una obra dedicada a la memoria de su madre, Carrie, que sufría de esquizofrenia y depresión. Tras su partida de la vida de Sufjan siendo él solo un niño, y su eventual fallecimiento en 2012, el artista reflexiona sobre el dolor, los recuerdos y el cierre que nunca llegó de manera perfecta. Pero como veremos, incluso en la ausencia, los padres siguen presentes de una manera única, transformando el tejido emocional de nuestras vidas. También profundizamos en el trabajo del psicoanalista Donald Winnicott y su concepto de "objetos transicionales", como los peluches de la infancia que ayudan a calmar la ansiedad ante la separación parental. Esos objetos que dejamos atrás, ¿cómo son reemplazados en nuestra adultez? ¿Por qué a veces elegimos relaciones que nos dañan? Todo esto tiene una raíz que proviene de nuestro pasado familiar y la manera en que intentamos "reparar" lo que una vez nos hizo falta. Pero no todo es pérdida y dolor. Incluso en medio de las historias más complicadas, a veces permanecen destellos de amor, buenos recuerdos y momentos de conexión que, aunque escasos, nos ayudan a sanar. Sufjan Stevens nos recuerda que ser hijo o hija no es algo que desaparezca, incluso cuando los padres ya no están, y que la vida está llena de oportunidades para crear nuevas narrativas que no siempre se ajustan a los dramas familiares que nos precedieron. ¿Y tú? ¿Recuerdas a tu peluche favorito? ¿Qué historias y emociones te traen los recuerdos de tu infancia y cómo han influido en tus relaciones actuales? Hoy, nos proponemos reflexionar sobre nuestras propias historias y sobre la importancia de construir nuevas relaciones que no estén atrapadas en las sombras del pasado. No te pierdas este episodio lleno de introspección, música y sanación. Sugerencia de Títulos: "Sufjan Stevens y la Ausencia que Siempre Está Presente" "Cuando los Padres se Van: Reflexiones con Sufjan Stevens" "Objetos Transicionales: Del Peluche a las Relaciones Adultas" "Carrie and Lowell: Sanando las Heridas del Pasado Familiar" "Elegir Buenos Peluches: Lo Que Nos Dejaron Nuestros Padres" Palabras clave: relación con los padres, ausencia de los padres, Sufjan Stevens, Death with Dignity, Carrie and Lowell, peluches objetos transicionales, Donald Winnicott, vínculos familiares, relaciones rotas, infancia y padres, recuerdos familiares, sanación emocional, esquizofrenia y depresión, crecimiento personal, sanar el pasado, vínculos afectivos, trauma familiar, abandono parental, música folk, canciones sobre pérdida, nostalgia infantil, superar la ausencia, vínculos con los padres, relaciones tóxicas, cierre emocional, madurez emocional Hashtags sugeridos: #RelacionesFamiliares #SanarElPasado #SufjanStevens #CarrieAndLowell #ObjetosTransicionales #TeoríaDeLaMente Enlaces Formateados con Emojis: Nuestra escuela de ansiedad: www.escuelaansiedad.com Nuestro nuevo libro: www.elmapadelaansiedad.com Visita nuestra página web: www.amadag.com Síguenos en Facebook: Asociación Agorafobia Síguenos en Instagram: @amadag.psico Canal de YouTube: AMADAG TV

Can trying to solve every student problem actually hold them back? Join us as we explore this provocative question, inspired by Donald Winnicott's concept of the "good enough parent.” We'll dissect the instinct to "fix" and consider how stepping back can empower students, helping them build resilience, self-advocacy, and problem-solving skills, ultimately fostering their independence and emotional strength while lightening your workload.We'll also challenge the unrealistic standards set by the ASCA National Model, questioning whether the relentless pursuit of perfection is truly beneficial. With only 1.1% of schools achieving RAMP status, it's clear that these high bars can create an unsustainable work environment. Instead, we advocate for "good enough school counseling," embracing imperfection and focusing on meaningful, manageable impacts. 00:00 Introduction: The Well-Meaning Instinct of School Counselors00:41 Empowering Students by Doing Less01:06 Listener Reviews and Feedback02:55 The Urge to Fix: A Common Challenge04:25 The Concept of 'Good Enough' Counseling07:54 Statistics and Realities of School Counseling10:45 Sustainable Practices for School Counselors21:54 The Importance of Empowering Students22:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts*********************************References/Resources:Clemens, E. V., & Milsom, A. (2008). The school counselor's role in addressing the mental health needs of students: A model for prevention, intervention, and crisis intervention. Journal of School Counseling, 6(23).Winnicott, D. W. (1953). Transitional objects and transitional phenomena: A study of the first not-me possession. International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 34, 89–97.Winnicott, D. W. (1965). The maturational processes and the facilitating environment. London: Hogarth Press.**********************************Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.Hang out in our Facebook groupJump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.)Join the School for School Counselors MastermindThe Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!

Send us a Text Message.Welcome to The Relationship Maze! In today's episode, Angela and Tom delve into the fascinating world of transitional objects—those cherished items or objects, like a childhood teddy bear or a keepsake, that provide comfort during challenging times. The notion of transitional objects was developed by pediatrician and psychotherapist Donald Winnicott; they serve as a bridge between our internal emotions and the external world. But what role do they play in our adult lives, and can our reliance on them sometimes indicate deeper, problematic issues that need addressing? From phones as modern-day comfort objects to the role of transitional objects in relationships, we explore both the benefits and potential pitfalls of these psychological safety nets. Stick around to uncover how understanding transitional objects can help you improve your relationships and personal well-being. Don't forget to head over to therelationshipmaze.com for more resources and take our free argument style quiz to discover your conflict style in relationships. Let's get started!00:00 Psychotherapy term stems from child-mother separation.05:22 Comfort objects provide a sense of security.07:09 Transitional objects provide comfort and reassurance.09:45 Negative emotions labeled bad, need to change.15:35 Reflect on the impact of digital disconnection.17:03 Using Niles' presence and hair for winning.21:05 Questioning projection and expectations in relationships.24:43 Therapy is important for personal development.Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.Tom's websiteAngela's websiteStruggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

Neste episódio de estreia do "Self Sem Filtro," mergulhamos nos conceitos fundamentais da teoria de Donald Winnicott: o verdadeiro e o falso self. Vamos explorar como esses conceitos são relevantes para a nossa vida, ajudando você a entender melhor as dinâmicas que moldam sua autenticidade e como elas influenciam suas experiências diárias. Descubra a importância de se reconectar com seu verdadeiro self e veja como a psicanálise pode ser uma ferramenta poderosa nessa jornada de autoconhecimento e crescimento emocional. Se você está buscando viver de forma mais autêntica e plena, este episódio é o ponto de partida ideal. Acompanhe-nos e dê os primeiros passos para encontrar e nutrir seu verdadeiro self. Site: fernandocardoso.net Instagram: @psifernandocardoso

Qu'il est mignon, cet enfant qui s'endort avec son doudou serré tout contre lui ! Cette habitude s'observe chez les bébés de toutes les cultures, qu'elle que soit la taille ou l'apparence du doudou en question. Elle perdure même chez certains adultes, qui s'endorment lovés contre leur partenaire ou leur oreiller. Pourquoi ce phénomène s'avère-t-il aussi efficace pour favoriser l'endormissement des bébés ?La sécurité émotionnelleLes nourrissons se montrent très vite sensibles à la séparation, notamment à celle qui accompagne le coucher. Dès l'âge de 6/8 mois, bébé comprend que ses parents existent même lorsqu'ils ne sont pas avec lui. Il intègre alors la notion de permanence des objets et des individus, et peut développer une appréhension à l'idée d'être séparé de son père ou de sa mère. Le simple fait de tenir une peluche familière contribue à apaiser l'enfant, car elle représente un élément constant dans son environnement. Lors du coucher, la peluche devient le substitut temporaire aux parents, apportant confort et protection dans un moment de potentielle insécurité.L'attachement aux objets transitionnelsC'est le pédiatre Donald Winnicott qui introduit la notion d'objet transitionnel. Qu'il s'agisse d'un doudou, d'un vêtement ou d'un jouet, cet objet a pour but d'aider l'enfant à surmonter son angoisse de séparation. Le bébé investit sa peluche émotionnellement, de sorte qu'elle lui procure une continuité de présence rassurante lorsque ses parents sont absents. Le fait d'avoir un objet transitionnel est un comportement parfaitement sain pour l'enfant, qui lui permet de développer sa confiance en soi et sa faculté à s'auto-apaiser.L'effet des peluches sur le stressLe contact d'une peluche contre soi permet d'expérimenter une baisse du stress et de l'anxiété. Cela s'explique par un phénomène tout à fait réel, qui est la baisse du cortisol. Le toucher doux et la présence de la peluche agissent sur le système nerveux, qui traduit ce stimulus par un message apaisant, réduisant les niveaux de cortisol, l'hormone du stress. Détendu, l'enfant peut alors s'endormir plus facilement.Autres facteurs biologiquesAu-delà de l'aspect émotionnel, serrer une peluche contre soi entraine des effets biologiques bénéfiques au sommeil. Le contact physique favorise la régulation du rythme cardiaque et de la respiration. Il stimule aussi la libération d'ocytocine, l'hormone du bien-être, qui induit une sensation de confort et de bonheur très efficace pour un endormissement serein. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

In this episode, I am joined by Dr Sophie Brock, a Motherhood Studies Sociologist and Mother who offers education on the sociology of motherhood and how our broader society shapes our experience as mothers.Here's a summary of the main points discussed in this episode:Sense of Self and Identity: Mothers of multiples, particularly those with children who may have additional needs, grapple with the challenge of maintaining their sense of identity outside of their role as mothers. Grief and Othering: There's a grieving process experienced by mothers of multiples, especially when their experiences don't align with the idealised version of motherhood. This can be compounded if one or more of their children have disabilities. Mothers may feel othered within the community of mothers of multiples, particularly if their children have additional needs.Individualization Theory: The individualization theory, which prioritizes individualism and independence, doesn't fit well for mothers, especially those caring for children with disabilities. It invisibilises socioeconomics, trauma, and the realities of marginalisation and privilege. Instead, interdependence and vulnerability are important aspects of human relationships and should be acknowledged.The Good Enough Mother: The concept of the good enough mother, coined by Donald Winnicott, emphasizes that there's no perfect mother. It's about embracing the reality of our humanity and acknowledging that tolerable failures are beneficial for both mothers and children. We discuss how mothers can examine their internalised ideals of motherhood and define motherhood on their own terms.Dealing with Judgments: Mothers, including those of multiples, often face judgment from others and themselves. Building tolerance for discomfort, connecting with personal values, and disentangling social scripts can help mothers navigate these judgments and find acceptance in their own mothering journey.How to connect with Dr Sophie Brock:Website:https://drsophiebrock.com/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/drsophiebrock/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/drsophiebrock/Thanks for listening! If you are a soon-to-be or current parent of multiples, be sure to head over to my website http://www.fiercekindmama.com to get my FREE resources designed specifically for you! Be sure to follow me on Instagram and Facebook too. Credits:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/aylex/with-youLicense code: YLMJTQCPKRANEOVB

Masud Khan (1924-1989), was an eminent and, ultimately, scandalous British psychoanalyst who trained and practised in London during an important period in the development of psychoanalysis. From August 1967 to March 1980, he wrote his 39 volume Work Books, a diary containing observations and reflections on his own life, the world of psychoanalysis, his evolving theoretical formulations, Western culture, and the turbulent social and political developments of the time. In Diary of a Fallen Psychoanalyst: The Work Books of Masud Khan 1967-1972 (Karnac, 2022), readers will find fascinating entries on Khan's colleague and mentor Donald Winnicott and other well-known analysts of the period, including Anna Freud. Also featuring in these pages are leaders in the world of culture and the arts such as Julie Andrews, the Redgraves and Henri Cartier-Bresson. Dr Linda Hopkins was trained as a scholar in Islamic studies many years ago. She then trained in mental health and became a licensed clinical psychologist and then she underwent Psychoanalytic training. She is the recipient of the prestigious Sigourney Award from the International Psychoanalytic Association. Her book on Masud Khan, the False Self that appeared in 2006 has been widely read and appreciated. She then received the Goethe Award and the famous Gradiva award. Dr Steven Kuchuk is a psychoanalyst based in New York and is an expert on Relational Psychoanalysis. His background is both distinctively academic and clinically rigorous. He has taught extensively across the world and in particular at the doctoral program at New York University. He has written several books and was also the president of the International Association of Relational Psychoanalysis. One of his extremely well known books is titled the Relational Revolution in Psychoanalysis. In this interview Linda and Steven, talk about their collaborative effort in putting together this book, which contains a section of Khan´s workbooks from 1967-1972. We talk about the difficulties in putting this volume together and we also go into Khan´s life and his mind, the climate that he created and the cross-cultural nature of his identity. Masud Khan´s workbooks are set to find a space in an archive at the Freud Museum London. Ashis Roy (Ph.D) is a Psychoanalyst (IPA) and the author of Intimacy in Alienation: A Psychoanalytic Study of Hindu-Muslim Relationships Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychoanalysis

Masud Khan (1924-1989), was an eminent and, ultimately, scandalous British psychoanalyst who trained and practised in London during an important period in the development of psychoanalysis. From August 1967 to March 1980, he wrote his 39 volume Work Books, a diary containing observations and reflections on his own life, the world of psychoanalysis, his evolving theoretical formulations, Western culture, and the turbulent social and political developments of the time. In Diary of a Fallen Psychoanalyst: The Work Books of Masud Khan 1967-1972 (Karnac, 2022), readers will find fascinating entries on Khan's colleague and mentor Donald Winnicott and other well-known analysts of the period, including Anna Freud. Also featuring in these pages are leaders in the world of culture and the arts such as Julie Andrews, the Redgraves and Henri Cartier-Bresson. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Masud Khan (1924-1989), was an eminent and, ultimately, scandalous British psychoanalyst who trained and practised in London during an important period in the development of psychoanalysis. From August 1967 to March 1980, he wrote his 39 volume Work Books, a diary containing observations and reflections on his own life, the world of psychoanalysis, his evolving theoretical formulations, Western culture, and the turbulent social and political developments of the time. In Diary of a Fallen Psychoanalyst: The Work Books of Masud Khan 1967-1972 (Karnac, 2022), readers will find fascinating entries on Khan's colleague and mentor Donald Winnicott and other well-known analysts of the period, including Anna Freud. Also featuring in these pages are leaders in the world of culture and the arts such as Julie Andrews, the Redgraves and Henri Cartier-Bresson. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/biography

Masud Khan (1924-1989), was an eminent and, ultimately, scandalous British psychoanalyst who trained and practised in London during an important period in the development of psychoanalysis. From August 1967 to March 1980, he wrote his 39 volume Work Books, a diary containing observations and reflections on his own life, the world of psychoanalysis, his evolving theoretical formulations, Western culture, and the turbulent social and political developments of the time. In Diary of a Fallen Psychoanalyst: The Work Books of Masud Khan 1967-1972 (Karnac, 2022), readers will find fascinating entries on Khan's colleague and mentor Donald Winnicott and other well-known analysts of the period, including Anna Freud. Also featuring in these pages are leaders in the world of culture and the arts such as Julie Andrews, the Redgraves and Henri Cartier-Bresson. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/intellectual-history

Masud Khan (1924-1989), was an eminent and, ultimately, scandalous British psychoanalyst who trained and practised in London during an important period in the development of psychoanalysis. From August 1967 to March 1980, he wrote his 39 volume Work Books, a diary containing observations and reflections on his own life, the world of psychoanalysis, his evolving theoretical formulations, Western culture, and the turbulent social and political developments of the time. In Diary of a Fallen Psychoanalyst: The Work Books of Masud Khan 1967-1972 (Karnac, 2022), readers will find fascinating entries on Khan's colleague and mentor Donald Winnicott and other well-known analysts of the period, including Anna Freud. Also featuring in these pages are leaders in the world of culture and the arts such as Julie Andrews, the Redgraves and Henri Cartier-Bresson. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology

Masud Khan (1924-1989), was an eminent and, ultimately, scandalous British psychoanalyst who trained and practised in London during an important period in the development of psychoanalysis. From August 1967 to March 1980, he wrote his 39 volume Work Books, a diary containing observations and reflections on his own life, the world of psychoanalysis, his evolving theoretical formulations, Western culture, and the turbulent social and political developments of the time. In Diary of a Fallen Psychoanalyst: The Work Books of Masud Khan 1967-1972 (Karnac, 2022), readers will find fascinating entries on Khan's colleague and mentor Donald Winnicott and other well-known analysts of the period, including Anna Freud. Also featuring in these pages are leaders in the world of culture and the arts such as Julie Andrews, the Redgraves and Henri Cartier-Bresson. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/british-studies

"The ability to play means we can indulge in a kind of illusion, not delusion, and make a distinction. It always amazes me that when the patient arrives, they like the routine of an analysis; nobody breaks that, it's an illusion; it is a piece of theater every time. We open the door to our patients and they lie on the couch, and yet there is something enormously gratifying as the patient works out their sense of  reality from that illusory field. I think it is exactly what the mother is able to bring to the infant - this capacity to play and this capacity to continue to evolve beyond the analysis as an internalization of that experience of being listened to and being with someone. The details of that is related to an intrapsychic surviving and non- surviving object in the analyst  who continues to think and feel and be with the patient in the consulting room.”   Episode Description: Joel begins his conversation with Jan around Winnicott's conceptualization of aggression in development and in the analytic encounter. She noted that he had a very sophisticated developmental theory of aggression which culminated with the role that the destruction of the object plays in constituting reality. Jan explains that she has elaborated Winnicott's late theory of aggression with her notion of the ‘surviving object'. She distinguishes the 'surviving object' from the 'good object', especially as it stands apart from a moralizing position. She considers its internalization as an essential condition for healthy development. They discussed the role that insight continued to play for Winnicott after he emphasized the importance of the patient's experience in the analytic process. They also consider the ‘fear of woman' as a root of misogyny. After discussing the uniqueness of the analytic setting to facilitate play, fantasy, and “magic which is not psychosis,” Jan concludes by emphasizing the importance of in-person treatment in order to have an in vivo experience of the non-retaliatory analyst.   Linked Episode: Episode 144: Why Winnicott? Joel Whitebook, PhD   Our Interviewer and Guest: Joel Whitebook, PhD is a philosopher and psychoanalyst. He is on the Faculty of the Columbia University Center for Psychoanalytic Training and Research and was the founding Director of the University's Psychoanalytic Studies Program. In addition to many articles on psychoanalysis, philosophy, and critical theory, Dr. Whitebook is also the author of Perversion and Utopia (MIT) and Freud: An Intellectual Biography (Cambridge). Jan Abram, PhD is a training and supervising analyst of the British Psychoanalytical Society and in private practice in London. She is a Visiting Professor of the Psychoanalysis Unit at University College London and is currently Vice President of the European Psychoanalytic Federation for the Annual Conferences. She is President-Elect for the EPF to start her term in March 2024. She is a Visiting Lecturer and supervisor at the Tavistock Clinic in London. In 2016, she was a Visiting Professor at the University of Kyoto, Japan, where she resided for a writing sabbatical. Jan Abram has published several books and articles notably The Language of Winnicott, Donald Winnicott Today (2013), The Clinical Paradigms of Melanie Klein and Donald Winnicott: Comparisons and Dialogues (co-authored with R.D. Hinshelwood 2018); The Surviving Object: psychoanalytic clinical essays on psychic survival-of-the-object (2022) and her second book with R.D. Hinshelwood: The Clinical Paradigms of Donald Winnicott and Wilfred Bion: Comparisons and Dialogues (2023).     Recommended Readings: ben Abram, J. (2022) The Surviving Object: Psychoanalytic Clinical Essays on Psychic survival-of-the-object New Library of Psychoanalysis Routledge   Abram, J. (2023) Holding and Containing: on the specificity of Winnicott's object relations theory Holding und Containing: Zur spezifischen Natur der Objektbeziehungen bei Winnicott. Psyche - Z Psychoanal 77 (9), 768-796 DOI 10.21706/ps-77-9-768  

How can Christianity address the climate crisis? Isn't the objectifying of nature and the drive to improve our lot a secular legacy of Christendom? And isn't individual conversion more or less irrelevant in a time of systemic crisis?I was delighted to be sent an essay by Gunnar Gjermundsen that asks these questions and more. His insights are wide-ranging, integrating, inspiring and challenging, focusing on a Christianity that is not so much moral as transformative, inviting us to consider again the sayings of Jesus, via theologians such as Maximus the Confessor and psychotherapists like Donald Winnicott.In this discussion we unpack his argument in broadly three moves.First, an analysis of current anxieties that, at heart, are to do with time. A linear view of history has fostered a hope of panicky escape, sacrificing the present for the future as a false substitute for eternity, with devastating consequences for ourselves and the world around us. The problem needs to be addressed at root, which comes in a second section exploring the misunderstanding of eschatology as an event to come and be feared, rather than an unfolding now, to be welcomed. We explore Jesus's teaching as well as how it came to be so profoundly misunderstood.The third section draws in psychological insights, particularly in terms of considering the schizoid, addictive and dread-filled nature of the modern psyche, and turns again to the Christian tradition and the remarkable notion of the kingdom of God that is near, and being born again.The apocalyptical has become a master metaphor for the contemporary imagination, inducing fatalism and denial. Christianity has a vision to undo this terror via the transformation of our consciousness and experience of time. The apocalyptic is not to come but is an unveiling in every moment, a theosis, of the eternal present.And we can live by that alternative.The essay we are discussing is Living on This Earth as in Heaven: Time and the Ecological Conversion of Eschatology, published in Modern Theology, online - https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/moth.12930Gunnar Gjermundsen works in the Faculty of Theology, University of Oslo - https://www.tf.uio.no/english/people/aca/gunnargj/For more on Mark Vernon's work, see http://www.markvernon.com

Is a recipe a text? What happens when it's translated, via cooking, into food? In episode 71 of the Podcast for Social Research, live-recorded at BISR Central, author Rebecca May Johnson joins BISR faculty Sophie Lewis and Rebecca Ariel Porte and Dilettante Army's Sara Clugage to read from her autotheoretical "epic in the kitchen" Small Fires and discuss the ways cooking relates to language, the body, knowledge, politics, power, and thinking. What's creative about cooking from a recipe? What kinds of bonds and connections do recipes create—between both intimates and strangers? Why is Donald Winnicott wrong about sausages (and, can we ever be recipe-less)? Why cook a recipe 1,000 times? When is cooking labor; and when, if ever, is it not? What would it mean to abolish the kitchen?

"Instead of the analyst being in a position where they know something about the patient, they are with the patient. As Winnicott says in his late work, if you are a philosopher in your armchair, you have to come out of your armchair and be on the floor with the child playing. I don't think that one should act that out with an adult patient- however  it is that approach to actually being with the patient, listening to the patient's words, listening to their state of mind without preconceived ideas. That's almost impossible, but  Winnicott says that psychoanalysis is an objective study, an objective way of looking at things without preconceived ideas, without preconceived notions. It links with what you said about ‘normative' - if we go into the consulting room feeling that our patients need to be as we are or need to fit in some kind of norm, then I don't think this is psychoanalytic. I think it is against the whole aim of psychoanalysis.”   Episode Description: Jan begins her conversation with Joel by sharing her background in theater and the steps she took to train as an analyst. She describes what drew her to Winnicott and how she sees him as broadening, not replacing, Freudian thinking. She distinguishes her understanding of Winnicott from others who believe that, by speaking of the importance of the environment, he minimized constitutional factors and the unconscious. She interprets what he meant by the environment in terms of the ‘psyche-body' and the mother's unconscious. Jan discusses a paradox in Winnicott in that he offers a positive theory of health while also being uniquely non-judgmental and non-pathologizing. She concludes with a controversial observation that a five times weekly in person training analysis is essential to achieve a deep regression that will familiarize analysts with the primitive parts of their personalities so they will be able to accept and deal with those parts of their patients' personalities.   Our Interviewer and Guest: Joel Whitebook, PhD is a philosopher and psychoanalyst.  He is on the Faculty of the Columbia University Center for Psychoanalytic Training and Research and was the founding Director of the University's Psychoanalytic Studies Program.  In addition to many articles on psychoanalysis, philosophy, and critical theory, Dr. Whitebook is also the author of Perversion and Utopia (MIT) and Freud: An Intellectual Biography (Cambridge).   Jan Abram, PhD is a training and supervising analyst of the British Psychoanalytical Society and in private practice in London. She is Visiting Professor of the Psychoanalysis Unit, University College London, and is currently Vice President of the European Psychoanalytic Federation for the Annual Conferences. She is President-Elect for the EPF to start her term in March 2024. She is a Visiting Lecturer and supervisor at the Tavistock Clinic, in London. In 2016, she was a Visiting Professor for the University of Kyoto, Japan, where she resided for a writing sabbatical. Jan Abram has published several books and articles notably: The Language of Winnicott, Donald Winnicott Today (2013), The Clinical Paradigms of Melanie Klein and Donald Winnicott: comparisons and Dialogues (co-authored with R.D. Hinshelwood 2018); The Surviving Object: psychoanalytic clinical essays on psychic survival-of-the-object (2022) and her second book with R.D. Hinshelwood: The Clinical Paradigms of Donald Winnicott and Wilfred Bion: comparisons and dialogues (2023).   Learn more about Jan Abram    Recommended Readings: Abram, J. (2007) The Language of Winnicott: A Dictionary of Winnicott's use of terms Routledge   Abram, J. (ed) (2016) André Green at the Squiggle Foundation Routledge   Abram, J. (2008) Donald Woods Winnicott (1896 – 1971): A brief introduction Education Section Int J of Psychoanal 99: 1189 - 1217   Abram, J. (2021) On Winnicott's Concept of Trauma Int J of Psychoanal 102: 4 10  

Cuốn sách này là quá trình khám phá và phục hồi dành cho những người trưởng thành gặp tổn thương từ gia đình. Khái niệm “Đứa trẻ nội tâm” trở thành một phần của nền văn minh nhân loại từ cách đây ít nhất 2000 năm. Carl Jung gọi khái niệm này là “Đứa trẻ thần thánh” (Divine Child), còn Emmet Fox gọi là “Đứa trẻ kì diệu” (Wonder Child). Hai nhà tâm lý trị liệu Alice Miller và Donald Winnicott đã đề cập đến nó như là “chân ngã” (cái Tôi đích thực) của chúng ta. Nhiều chuyên gia khác trong lĩnh vực nghiên cứu chứng nghiện rượu và chất kích thích khác gọi nó là “Đứa trẻ nội tâm” (Inner Child). Thuật ngữ Đứa trẻ nội tâm dùng để nói về phần tâm hồn vô cùng sôi nổi, tràn đầy sức sống, sáng tạo và mãn nguyện trong sâu thẳm mỗi người; đây chính là Đứa trẻ nội tâm – là Chân Ngã – là con người thực sự của chúng ta. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/taosins/message

Dr. Aliza Pressman is a clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience in her field. She is the assistant clinical professor at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai Hospital and specializes in behavioral health in pediatrics. She co-founded The Mount Sinai Parenting Center and hosts the popular podcast "Raising Good Humans”, where she speaks in depth on the journey of parenting and navigating family dynamics. Dr. Pressman received her PhD in developmental psychology from Columbia University and enjoys applying the lessons she has learned personally and professionally to the individuals with whom she has had the privilege to work.    In today's episode of the Conversations on Healing Podcast, host Shay Beider welcomes Dr. Pressman to discuss her clinical work in parenting. They kick off the conversation by introducing the “5 R's of Parenting” which are principles to support good parenting. These are: Relationship, Reflection, Regulation, Rules, and Repair. Dr. Pressman emphasizes the importance of building a strong connection with our children and reflecting on our own childhood without projecting past pains onto current relationships. She discusses the spectrum of parenting styles, from authoritarian to permissive, and encourages parents to find a balance between sensitivity and boundary setting that works for them. The pair also discuss the concept of “rupture and repair” between a child and parent along with the false hope of perfecting parenting. Dr. Pressman shares her personal background that motivated her to go into clinical psychology.   Transcripts for this episode are available at: https://www.integrativetouch.org/conversations-on-healing    Show Notes: Visit Dr. Aliza Pressman's website Pre-order “5 Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans” here Read more about Jack Shoncoff Check out Donald Winnicott here This podcast was created by Integrative Touch (InTouch), which is changing healthcare through human connectivity. A leader in the field of integrative medicine, InTouch is committed to ending isolation in illness and transforming trauma through togetherness. The mission is to provide connection, wellness and healing opportunities that change the lives of anyone touched by pain, suffering, or medical challenges. This includes kids with cancers, genetic conditions, autism, cerebral palsy, traumatic stress, and other serious health issues. The founder, Shay Beider, pioneered a new therapy called Integrative Touch™Therapy that supports healing from trauma and serious illness.  The organization reaches thousands of people each year at the Integrative Touch Healing Center, through Telehealth, and in hospitals and communities. Thanks to the incredible support of volunteers and contributors, InTouch created a Heal it Forward model that brings services to people in need at little or no cost to them. To learn more or donate, please visit IntegrativeTouch.org  

This week Jess and Layne reveal why we named the podcast Very Good Enough. Jess talks about founding Very Good Mothers Club on the belief that a very good mom is someone who loves their kid and tries. Layne walks us through the Donald Winnicott's concept of "the good enough mother" and why being a good enough parent is better for your kids than being a perfect one (there's a real reason and it's not just because perfect parenting is a MYTH - which it is). Join ⁠Very Good Mothers Club⁠ to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month)! Find Jess at ⁠Jessica Hover⁠ on Youtube and ⁠@jess_hover ⁠on Instagram Find Layne ⁠@enquiryco⁠ on Instagram

Are you a “good enough” mother?On the latest episode of Modern Mom Probs, Tara welcomes Dr. Tanya Cotler, a seasoned psychologist specializing in reproductive and maternal mental health and the parent-child relationship. Dr. Cotler explored the idea of the "good enough mother," a term coined by Donald Winnicott in the 1950s. Being a good enough mother means finding a balance between not being overly precise or intrusive in parenting, while also not being dismissive. This approach allows the child to develop into their true self while still receiving the necessary care and support from their mother. Dr. Cotler explains that if a parent is overly hands-on or too dismissive, there is not enough space for the child to develop their own identity. This can lead to the development of a false self or a coping mechanism like people-pleasing. The key is finding the sweet spot!To explore further, she touched on the phase of maternal preoccupation in early motherhood, where the mother is completely focused on the child. However, as the child grows, there needs to be space for them to become their own person. Good enough mothering also involves allowing the child to experience failures and frustrations, which helps them develop trust and frustration tolerance.In this insightful, relatable conversation, Dr. Cotler also emphasizes the need for mothers to create space for themselves, allowing for a range of emotions and reducing shame. She discusses the concept of rupture and repair in parent-child relationships and highlights the importance of inner repair through self-reflection. She is currently working on a book that explores maternal mental health and parent-child attachment.If you've ever wondered if you're a “good enough” mother, you should listen to this episode.Links:https://drtanyacotler.com/https://www.instagram.com/drcotler/https://renni.ca/Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about Donald Winnicott, one of the founders of object relations.Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattleCameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhondaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.hondaJune 5, 2017The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

Thank you so much for listening, in today's episode, I'll be discussing the concept of being a "good enough" parent. This idea might be surprising to some, but it's an essential perspective that can help relieve the pressures and anxieties that often accompany parenthood. So, let's dive in.The term "good enough parent" was first introduced by British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott in the 1950s. The concept suggests that parents don't need to be perfect; instead, they simply need to provide a loving, nurturing, and safe environment that allows their children to grow and develop into healthy, well-adjusted adults. It's important to recognize that no parent is perfect, and that's okay. All parents make mistakes, and the key is to learn from those mistakes and strive to do better moving forward.So, what are some practical tips for becoming a "good enough" parent? One of the main aspects is being present and attentive to your child's needs. This means listening to them, empathizing with their feelings, and validating their experiences. Emotional connection is crucial for your child's well-being.Setting boundaries are also important components of the "good enough" parenting model. Setting boundaries creates a safe and secure environment for your child, helping them understand the consequences of their actions and teaching them important life skills. In Birthing from Within birth classes we do an exercise about what a good enough parent is. I'll summarize it and feel free to join in. To start, think about the term “bad parent”, now write down or think of some words associated with what it means for someone considered to be a bad parent. Next, think about the term “good parent”, and write down or think about the words or phrases you associate with what it means to be a good parent. Finally, think about the term “good enough parent” and jot down or think of the phrases that come to mind. Do you find that the phrases associated with being a good enough parent are somewhere in the middle of the first two, perhaps closer linked with being a good parent? Maybe they are a step down from being a good parent. For instance, if you thought of reading to your kids everyday as something associated with being a good parent, perhaps you could think of reading to your kids every other day or every week as a good enough parent alternative. In conclusion, remember that being a good enough parent is about progress, not perfection. Give yourself grace and be patient with yourself as you navigate the ups and downs of parenthood. Your love, support, and presence are what truly matter to your child. I hope that you found this episode enlightening and that it helps you on your journey towards becoming a "good enough" parent.  Get in touch with me: Sign up for a live virtual birth class in April or MayTake the 4 Day Birth ClassFollow me on Instagram and on TikTokFind other episodes at: www.findingyourvillage.com/podcastSign up for a class here!Support the show

Il s'appelait comment votre doudou quand vous étiez petit·e ? Et celui de votre enfant ? Que ce soit un bout de tissu bariolé, une peluche Disney ou un torchon troué, on a parfois du mal à mesurer ce qui nous lie à cet objet inanimé, qui peut nous suivre toute notre vie. Les doudous, c'est un sujet sérieux, tellement sérieux que plusieurs scientifiques français se sont penchés sur la question. Leur étude vient de paraître dans le Journal of Positive Psychology et on y apprend notamment que près d'un·e adulte sur deux aurait conservé la peluche de son enfance. Mais alors, quelles fonctions remplissent les doudous auprès des enfants ? Est-ce qu'ils sont vraiment importants ? Et doit-on un jour s'en séparer ? Dans cet épisode, Marine Revol s'entretient avec Adrien Blanc, psychologue clinicien en Centre-Médico-Psychologique auprès d'enfants et d'adolescent·e·s, enseignant-chercheur en psychanalyse et psychologie à l'Université de Paris ainsi qu'au Centre de formation Saint-Honoré. Ensemble, iels parlent de doudous de secours, de première possession, de fonction transitionnelle, d'odeur et de poisson rouge. Pour aller plus loin : Le livre “Mon doudou, l'objet transitionnel qui fait grandir” d'Adrien Blanc, aux éditions In PressLe livre “La mère suffisamment bonne” de Donald Winnicott, aux éditions Payot Faites des gosses est une production Louie Media, présentée par Marine Revol. Elle a écrit et tourné cet épisode. Il a été monté par Mélody Wattez et réalisé par Anna Buy. La musique est de Jean Thévenin. La prise de son et le mix ont été faits par Sam Jamin. Charlotte Pudlowski est à la production exécutive, Elsa Berthault est attachée de production et Mélissa Bounoua directrice des programmes. Envoyez-nous vos questions, vos remarques et vos notes vocales à hello@louiemedia.com ! Et suivez Louie Media sur Instagram, Facebook, Twitter. Si vous souhaitez soutenir Louie, n'hésitez pas à vous abonner au Club. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

This week on Best Friend Therapy, we're tackling the thorny issue of self-worth, or the lack of it.Emma explores the difference between self-esteem and "others-esteem" and why we can fall into the trap of outsourcing our sense of self to other people.Elizabeth compares her self-worth to a solar panel and reveals why chunky socks are a better way to keep warm. ---Emma references the psychoanalytical theory of object relations and the work of Donald Winnicott: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Object_relations_theory---Best Friend Therapy is hosted by Elizabeth Day and Emma Reed Turrell, produced by Chris Sharp. ---Social Media:Elizabeth Day @elizabdayEmma Reed Turrell @emmareedturrellBest Friend Therapy @best.friend.therapy

In the 1950s, British pediatrician and psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott introduced the concept of "good enough" parenting and Dr. Ken thinks it's time we brought it back! Parents worry so much about doing parenting "right" and put a lot of pressure on themselves. Even worse, there's this idea that maybe there's some book that you haven't read that tells you how to raise your kids "the right way." Dr. Ken doesn't believe that "perfect parenting" book exists and "Feeding The Mouth That Bites You" is not that book either. All parents do things they shouldn't have done and fail to do things they should have done and yet they've done their job well enough for their kids to succeed. Parents' over-focus on their own parenting failures runs the risk of disrespecting their teens who are old enough to make their own mistakes. Join us on Patreon for bonus content and more: https://www.patreon.com/FeedingTheMouthThatBitesYou Got questions or feedback? We want to hear from you! podcast@feedingthemouth.com Get the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Feeding-Mouth-That-Bites-You/dp/1514762374/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1667269257&sr=8-1

250 – Counselling Terminally Ill Clients Donald Winnicott's True and False Self - Protecting Your Data Online In Episode 250 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics: In ‘Theory in Practice' we'll look at Donald Winnicott's theory of true and false self. Then in ‘Practice […] The post 250 – Counselling Terminally Ill Clients appeared first on Counselling Tutor.

250 – Counselling Terminally Ill Clients Donald Winnicott's True and False Self - Protecting Your Data Online In Episode 250 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics: In ‘Theory in Practice' we'll look at Donald Winnicott's theory of true and false self. Then in ‘Practice … 250 – Counselling Terminally Ill Clients Read More » The post 250 – Counselling Terminally Ill Clients appeared first on Counselling Tutor.

Chapitre 5 : Le triomphe du signifiant.À mesure que nous avançons dans l'histoire des idées de la psychanalyse, les grands noms se succèdent, apportant chacun leur touche à cette grande fresque dont les contours deviennent planétaires.De Carl Rogers à Françoise Dolto, nous abordons aujourd'hui l'étonnant double mouvement qu'a connu la diffusion de la psychanalyse dans la deuxième moitié du XXe siècle.Dans cette passionnante conversation Jacques Van Rillaer évoque les effets bénéfiques de la psychanalyse, mais aussi ce qui l'a mené à arrêter de la pratiquer.•• SOUTENIR ••Méta de Choc est gratuit, indépendant et sans publicité. Vous pouvez vous aussi le soutenir en faisant un don ponctuel ou mensuel : https://metadechoc.fr/tree/•• RESSOURCES ••Toutes les références en lien avec cette émission sont sur le site Méta de Choc : https://metadechoc.fr/podcast/que-vaut-la-psychanalyse/•• SUIVRE ••Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, PeerTube, YouTube.•• TIMECODES ••00:58 : Les facteurs non spécifiques des thérapies : Carl Rogers, psychologie humaniste, démarche scientifique, conditions fondamentales d'une bonne psychothérapie, empathie, sincérité du thérapeute, efficacité de la psychanalyse, déculpabilisation de la sexualité et des fantasmes.05:42 : Bruno Bettelheim : Psychanalyse des contes de fées, La forteresse vide, mensonges, libération des camps, Idriss Aberkane, autisme, culpabilisation de la mère, plagiat, abandon de la psychanalyse aux États-Unis, progrès de la pharmacologie, développement des thérapies cognitivo-comportementales.11:02 : L'avènement de Jacques Lacan : demande d'écoute du patient, concept de désir, jonction avec les sciences humaines, philosophie, Alexandre Kojève, Wilhelm Hegel, retour à Freud, complexe d'Œdipe, exclusion des affects, l'importance du signifiant, interprétations, langage, Noam Chomski, linguistique, forclusion du nom du père, aliénation de l'enfant par la mère, stade du miroir, Henri Wallon, narcissisme, assonances, il n'y a pas de rapport sexuel.26:36 : Les errements de Jacques Lacan : négation de la pathologie, traitement de la psychose par la conversation, effet de détérioration, effet nocebo, romantisation de la psychose, cas d'Aimée, séminaires de Lacan, didactique à durée variable, condamnation des didactiques de Lacan, Donald Winnicott, Marie Bonaparte, pénétration des médias, dévotion au lacanisme.35:49 : Françoise Dolto : place de l'enfant au sein de la famille, relais dans les médias, personnalisme, Emmanuel Mounier, respect de l'enfant, La cause des adolescents, réponses anxiogènes, la femme n'a pas de surmoi, psychologisation à outrance, culpabilisation de la mère.42:16 : La psychanalyse est-elle progressiste ? respect de l'ordre de la Nature, enfant roi, tribune appelant à l'abolition de la protection des enfants victimes d'inceste, l'enfant violé piège l'adulte, primat du phallus, la femme est complémentaire de l'homme, essentialisme, antiféminisme, orgasme vaginal.48:09 : L'attrait pour la psychanalyse dans les années 1960 : connaissance tabou, analyse didactique, Professeur Schotte, Université de Nimègue, test de Rorschach, test de Szondi, approche TCC, critique politique de la psychanalyse, capitalisme, critique sur l'efficacité de la psychanalyse, Lacan est un charlatan, agoraphobie, phobie des ascenseurs, phobie des pigeons, processus de déconversion, associations libres, thérapie rogérienne, formation aux TCC, démission de l'Association belge de psychanalyse. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Chapitre 4 : Une abondante progéniture.Parler de la psychanalyse, c'est parler de Freud bien sûr, et le resituer dans son époque, mais c'est aussi évoquer celles et ceux qui lui ont succédé.De son vivant, Freud a côtoyé et formé énormément de professionnel•les de la santé mentale, qui ont ensuite fait vivre et évoluer la psychanalyse au fil des décennies. Qui sont ces gens et qu'ont-ils apporté à la connaissance de la psyché humaine ?•• SOUTENIR ••Méta de Choc est gratuit, indépendant et sans publicité. Vous pouvez vous aussi le soutenir en faisant un don ponctuel ou mensuel : https://metadechoc.fr/tree/•• RESSOURCES ••Toutes les références en lien avec cette émission sont sur le site Méta de Choc : https://metadechoc.fr/podcast/que-vaut-la-psychanalyse/•• SUIVRE ••Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, PeerTube, YouTube.•• TIMECODES ••01:17 : Les neurosciences confirment-elles les théories de Freud ? Théorie du frayage, plasticité cérébrale, Boson de Higgs, réflexe de Semmelweis, études neuroscientifiques.05:33 : Freud était-il un héros ? Auto-analyse, Freud était-il un charlatan ? mensonges de Freud, traitement par la cocaïne, guérison des hystériques, neurasthénie et masturbation, récits d'incestes, aveux forcés.11:10 : Alfred Adler : volonté de puissance de Nietzsche, socialiste, complexe d'infériorité, psychologue clinicien, biais d'interprétation, biais de sélection, Karl Popper.19:26 : Otto Rank et Sandor Ferenczi : le traumatisme de la naissance, désir de retour à la mère, discorde sur l'efficacité de la thérapie, psychanalyse active, exclusion.25:18 : Carl Gustav Jung : inconscient collectif, archétypes, féminin universel, anima, animus, persona, masque social, synchronicités, individuation, spiritualité, occultisme, conflit avec Freud, archétype de la pomme, analyses didactiques, le thérapeute se met en risque pendant la thérapie, influence sur le mouvement New Age, alchimie, pensée par analogie.38:33 : Wilhelm Reich : spiritualité, intuition, marxisme, libération sexuelle, énergie cosmique, énergie vitale, cuirasse caractérielle, psychologie des masses, paranoïaque, brise-nuage, orgone, critique de la pulsion de mort, thérapie biodynamique, Fritz Perls, Gestalt thérapie, théories très variées en psychanalyse, Wilhelm Steckel, angoisse de la mort, confirmation de la théorie par le patient, L'Homme au rat, la psychanalyse s'autoconfirme.46:57 : Les femmes de la psychanalyse : Lou Andréa Salomé, Anna Freud, Marie Bonaparte, Gustave Lebon, plaisir clitoridien, traduction des textes de Freud en français.52:00 : Dans les pays anglo-saxons : Ernest Jones, fuite des psychanalystes juifs en Angleterre et aux États-Unis, Melanie Klein, inconscient du nourrisson, complexe d'Œdipe, mère dévorante, fantasme de destruction du sein de la mère, Donald Winnicott, objet transitionnel, mère suffisamment bonne, John Bowlby, théorie de l'attachement affectif, Konrad Lorenz, imprégnation, psychologie cognitive. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Today, we answer another listener submitted question about becoming a step-parent! Drawing from Courtney's lived experience as both a stepmom and as the parent of two kids with a stepdad, as well as from the literature of developmental psychology and family counseling, this episode offers tips and insights for navigating this significant change. Courtney offers up strategies for the practical day-to-day operations of running a family and household as well as ways to tenderly, empathically, and compassionately care for ourselves and one another during times of transition and challenge. Courtney also offers a short (three breaths, that's it!) meditation for maintaining equanimity (balance) during times of stress. Today's only shout out is for the work of Donald Winnicott. Like what you're hearing? Don't forget to share this episode! You can also rate, review, and subscribe on your podcast app of choice. Have a question or topic selection? Send your thoughts and ideas to courtney@shineandsoar.com or complete the form on shineandsoar.com/podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pragmaticalchemy/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pragmaticalchemy/support

Ben and Dr. Steven Tuber discuss the life and ideas of 20th century English pediatrician and psychoanalyst, Donald Woods Winnicott. Dr. Steven Tuber is the Director of Clinical Training, Program Head and Professor of Psychology in the doctoral program in Clinical Psychology at City College, CUNY, where he has taught for over 35 years. He is a Diplomate in Clinical Psychology of the American Board of Professional Psychology, a Fellow of the American Academy of Clinical Psychology and a licensed psychologist in New York State. Dr. Tuber has also been awarded the President's Award for Excellence, City College's highest faculty award, for extraordinary teaching, scholarship and service to the College. He is the author of numerous works including Attachment, Play & Authenticity: A Winnicott Primer

I was thrilled to welcome the Rev. Rosy Fairhurst to the Liminal Theology Podcast. Rosy is an Anglican Priest working as Vicar at St Augustine & St Clement Bradford in Bradford, England. She is also an organizational analyst offering organizational analytic skills combined with a spiritual and theological dimension. Rosy has worked as a trainer, researcher, theological educator, pastor,and writer. She is the author of Uncovering Sin: A Gateway to Healing and Calling published by SPCK in 2012. Most recently she co-authored Crossing Thresholds: A Practical Theology of Liminality. Rosy and I had an amazing conversation covering a variety of topics related to liminality. We began by looking at the liminality of Rosy's journey to the priesthood, ordination, and the overall social experience of Bradford, England. Next, we explored her interest in developmental psychology and the work of Donald Winnicott. Together we talked about transitional spaces and objects, religious iconography, and the important distinction between independence and interdependence. Rosy was a wonderful guest and I very much enjoyed her deep insight and wisdom. I know that you will also enjoy Rosy's perspective on liminality. Learn more: https://www.lutterworth.com/product/crossing-thresholds-a-practical-theology-of-liminality/?attribute_format=ePub https://www.heartandanchorbd3.org/ Twitter (@rosyfair)

In this episode, Dr Carveth discusses Donald Winnicott's wish to 'be alive when he dies'. Implicit in Winnicott's quip is that many people are not fully alive - they are walking dead. Psychoanalysis is about the ways we deaden ourselves as defences against the terror of being alive.

Dans cette 16ème case du calendrier de l'avent, Jeane tend son micro à Carine, psychologue clinicienne spécialisée dans l'enfance. A l'écoute de cet épisode vous découvrirez des pistes de réflexion sur la famille, cette entité à fort impact psychologique. Liens utiles pour suivre l'épisode: L'ouvrage "l'enfant et sa famille" de Donald Winnicott, pédiatre britannique : acheter La chanson "Mais les enfants" du chanteur Oldelaf : voir Soutenir Basilic : Le compte instagram de Basilic : voir Production : Jeane Clesse Musique : @Klein Graphisme : Mahaut Clément & Coralie Chauvin Mix : Jeane Clesse & Benjamin Dugré Si cet épisode vous a plu, n'hésitez pas à laisser plein d'étoiles et un commentaire sur la plateforme Apple Podcasts et surtout à vous abonner grâce à votre application de podcasts préférée ! Cela m'aide énormément à faire découvrir Basilic à de nouveaux auditeurs et de nouvelles auditrices.

Are you addicted? You may be a slave to dopamine without realising it, whether in the substances you put into your body or the behaviors you adopt. Anna Lembke, author of Dopamine Nation, joins Vasant Dhar in episode 26 of Brave New World to discuss how we can beat this. Useful resources: 1. Anna Lembke's website. 2. Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence -- Anna Lembke. 3. Drug Dealer, MD: How Doctors Were Duped, Patients Got Hooked, and Why It's So Hard to Stop -- Anna Lembke. 4. Digital Addictions Are Drowning Us in Dopamine -- Anna Lembke. 5. Is Social Media Hijacking our Minds? -- Anna Lembke and Nir Eyal. 6. How Social Media Threatens Society -- Episode 8 of Brave New World (w Jonathan Haidt). 7. True self and false self (Wikipedia). 8. Ego Distortion in Terms of True and False Self (1960) -- Donald Winnicott. 9. Daniel Kahneman on How Noise Hampers Judgement -- Episode 21 of Brave New World. 10. How I Became Extremely Open-Minded -- Ross Douthat.

Hi DT friends and welcome new folks - Wendy here. So happy to see you.Our little experiment creating the world’s first audio-drawing-show seems to have been a hit! So let’s keep going. Welcome to the second episode of what we’re calling the "DrawTogether Podcast.” (Until we think up a catchier name.) Grab a pencil and a piece of paper, and press play above.  Our first episode was a calming, centering drawing exercise. This one is different: it’s about imagination. In this episode I teach you my favorite drawing game… a game with NO RULES. It’s called The Doodle Game. Many artists I know play this game. And I was delighted to learn that psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott - the same guy behind the theory of transitional objects (like blankets and stuffies) and the “good enough” mother - used a version of the doodle game with young children to help them communicate ideas and feelings. But he called it "The Squiggle Game.”  But this isn’t therapy. The Doodle Game is a simple drawing game for kids of ALL ages you can do anywhere, anytime, on your own or with a friend, to loosen up your creative brain and jumpstart your imagination. I’d love to see what you do, and I’m sure others would too. If you want, please share your drawing on Instagram and tag @drawtogether.studio so everyone can see each other’s doodle-drawings. Here’s mine, based on my doodle above. Also, a little note: usually I’d be encouraging you/kids to go your own way, and not be too influenced by my silly looking dog with a monkey’s tail. But part of the magic of The Doodle Game is you can’t help but move in your own, unique direction. No rules. No expectations. You’ll see. :) Okay, let me know what you think in the comments below - about this episode and any suggestions or requests you have about this new audio-drawing-class-show format. The request/feedback line is open. And if you’d like to support this new audio-cast (and DrawTogether in general), you can become a paid subscriber. Thanks so much for being part of the DT fam. Get full access to DrawTogether with WendyMac at club.drawtogether.studio/subscribe

In this lecture, the fourth in the 2015 Freud and Beyond series, Dr Carveth discusses mind-body dualism, centring around Donald Winnicott's transitional area. We need breaks from reality. Winnicott believed the transitional area is where religion, art, and play are rooted.

In this lecture, the third in the 2015 Freud and Beyond series, Dr Carveth discusses Freud's seduction theory. Don then introduces Sandor Ferenczi, detailing his influence on Ronald Fairbairn, Melanie Klien, Donald Winnicott, and John Bowlby.