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Talking To Teens
Ep 154: What to Say to Motivate Your Teen

Talking To Teens

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2021 27:34


Click for full show notes, exercises, and parenting scripts from this episodeEnforcing rules on teens is no easy task. Half the time they ignore you, sometimes they lie to you, and they love to find plenty of reasons to do the exact opposite of what you asked! As they gain independence, teens just don't want to abide by your rules...even if they're living in your house.Plus, as much as we want kids to listen to us and take us seriously as authority figures...gosh dang it, we want them to like us! We know that it's important to give kids restrictions and limits, but it's hard to see why when they're slamming the door and screaming at us for taking their XBox away. To be a parent is to constantly walk that fine line between being close to your kid and knowing when it's time to be tough….and it can be really hard!Luckily, William Stixrud and Ned Johnson are back to give us more great advice on finding that parenting balance. They were last on the show to discuss their bestseller, The Self-Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives.  Today, they're here to share some groundbreaking material from their brand new book, What Do You Say? How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance and a Happy Home. Although they're big believers in giving kids autonomy, Bill and Ned know that parents still have an irreplaceable role in guiding kids through the perils of adolescence. That's why we're discussing how parents can best respond to a child who comes to them with a crisis. Plus, we're debating the idea that kids should always “try their best” and revealing how you can start equipping kids with the independence they need to survive college and beyond.Click for full show notes, exercises, and parenting scripts from this episode

Keen On Democracy
William R. Stixrud on How to Talk to Teenagers

Keen On Democracy

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 35:52


In this episode of "Keen On", Andrew is joined by William R. Stixrud, one of the authors of "What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home", to discuss delivering constructive feedback to kids; boundaries around technology; sleep and kids' brains; the anxiety of current events; and family problem-solving. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Keen On Democracy
Ned Johnson on Communicating with Teenagers

Keen On Democracy

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 33:40


In this episode of "Keen On", Andrew is joined by Ned Johnson, one of the authors of "What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home", to discuss delivering constructive feedback to kids; boundaries around technology; sleep and kids' brains; the anxiety of current events; and family problem-solving. Ned Johnson is an author, speaker, and founder of PrepMatters, an educational company providing academic tutoring, educational planning, and standardized test preparation. A professional “tutor-geek” since 1993, Ned has spent nearly 40,000 one-on-one hours helping students conquer an alphabet of standardized tests and honing his insightful interpersonal skills. A battle-tested veteran of test prep, stress regulation and student performance, Ned coaches clients to manage their anxiety and find the motivation to reach their full potential. In 2006, Ned co-authored the book Conquering the SAT: How Parents Can Help Students Overcome the Pressure and Succeed, which tackles the outsized role anxiety plays in standardized testing. With Dr. William Stixrud, Ned co-authored The Self-Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives. Their book explores how fostering children's autonomy can help solve two challenges endemic to kids today: facing anxiety and developing intrinsic motivation. Ned is a sought-after speaker and teen coach on study skills, sleep deprivation, parent-teen dynamics, and test anxiety, and his work is featured in The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Wall Street Journal, NPR, BBC, and many others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Idaho Matters
As Idaho Kids Return To School, Expert Shares Tips On How Parents Can Improve Communication

Idaho Matters

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2021 16:45


Idaho Matters talks with Ned Johnson, a child psychologist who co-authored the new book "What Do You Say?" about how to talk with kids to build motivation, stress tolerance and a happy home.

The Daily Stoic
Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson on Building Resilience and Communicating Effectively | It's About What You Make of It

The Daily Stoic

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2021 74:28


Ryan reads today's meditation and has another conversation with Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson about their new book What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home, experiencing adversity and developing resilience, why we should look at the last year as a gift that can improve our lives rather than a burden, how to teach kids to find purpose and control in their own lives, and more. Ned Johnson is the president and founder of PrepMatters. A 1993 graduate of Williams College, Mr. Johnson has a BA in Economics and Political Science. Originally from Connecticut, Mr. Johnson now resides with his wife and children in Washington, DC.William R. Stixrud, Ph.D., is a clinical neuropsychologist and founder of The Stixrud Group. He is a member of the teaching faculty at Children's National Medical Center and an assistant professor of psychiatry and pediatrics at the George Washington University School of Medicine.GiveWell is the best site for figuring out how and where to donate your money to have the greatest impact. If you've never donated to GiveWell's recommended charities before, you can have your donation matched up to $1,000 before the end of June or as long as matching funds last. Just go to GiveWell.org/STOIC and pick podcast and The Daily Stoic at checkout. Talkspace is an online and mobile therapy company. Talkspace lets you send and receive unlimited messages with your dedicated therapist in the Talkspace platform 24/7. To match with a licensed therapist today, go to Talkspace.com or download the app. Make sure to use the code STOIC to get $100 off of your first month and show your support for the show.KiwiCo believes in the power of kids and that small lessons today can mean big, world-changing ideas tomorrow. KiwiCo is a subscription service that delivers everything your kids will need to make, create and play. Get 30% off your first month plus FREE shipping on ANY crate line with code STOIC at kiwico.com. Ten Thousand makes the highest quality, best-fitting, and most comfortable training shorts I have ever worn. They are a direct-to-consumer company, no middleman so you get premium fabrics, trims, and techniques that other brands simply cannot afford. Ten Thousand is offering our listeners 15% off your purchase. go to Tenthousand.cc and enter code STOIC to receive 15% off your purchase.Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://DailyStoic.com/signupFollow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookFollow Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson: Homepage, Twitter, Facebook See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tests and the Rest: College Admissions Industry Podcast
229. Helping Teens Find Motivation And Insight

Tests and the Rest: College Admissions Industry Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2021 25:47


Most parents and educators seek to become the wind filling their children's proverbial sails, but unwittingly become hurricanes driving them way off course. Amy and Mike invited authors William Stixrud, Ph.D. and Ned Johnson to share insights into helping teens find motivation and insight. What are five things you will learn in this episode? Why do adults nag teens, and what should they be doing instead? How true is the claim that many parents don't care about what their kids do so long as they always do their best? What does it mean to be a non-anxious consultant? Why are sleep and technology such hot button issues to address with teens? How important is modeling the right behaviors when parenting teens? MEET OUR GUESTS William Stixrud, Ph.D. is a clinical neuropsychologist and a faculty member at Children's National Medical Center and George Washington University Medical School. Bill writes and lectures widely on the adolescent brain, meditation, and the effects of stress, sleep deprivation, and technology overload on the brain. He is on the advisory board of the David Lynch Foundation, and he plays in a rock band, Close Enough. Ned Johnson is the founder of PrepMatters and the coauthor of Conquering the SAT: How Parents Can Help Teens Overcome the Pressure and Succeed. Ned also hosts the PrepTalks podcast.  A sought-after speaker and teen coach for study skills, parent-teen dynamics, and anxiety management, his work has been featured on NPR, NewsHour, U.S. News & World Report, Time, the Washington Post, and the Wall Street Journal. Bill and Ned are leading voices in parenting and child psychology and the bestselling authors of The Self-Driven Child, which Ned discussed on Tests and the Rest in episode #80 concerning Creating a Homeschool Plan During a Crisis. Bill and Ned's newest book is WHAT DO YOU SAY? How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home.  Find Bill and Ned at selfdrivenchild.com. LINKS WHAT DO YOU SAY? How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home The Self-Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives RELATED EPISODES ADVOCACY FOR PARENTS OF HIGH SCHOOLERS EXECUTIVE FUNCTION IN TEENS BRINGING GRIT TO TESTING AND ADMISSIONS ABOUT THIS PODCAST Tests and the Rest is THE college admissions industry podcast. Explore all of our episodes on the show page.

No Guilt Mom
101- How to Talk with Your Kids to Build Motivation with Ned Johnson and William

No Guilt Mom

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2021 30:46


In this episode, we are joined by a dynamic duo- William R. Stixrud, Ph.D. & Ned Johnson as we discuss how we as parents have such a crucial role in our kids' motivation and how many times as parents if we step back a little it gives such HUGE rewards to our kids!   William R. Stixrud, Ph.D., is a clinical neuropsychologist and founder of The Stixrud Group, as well as a faculty member at Children's National Medical Center and an Assistant Professor of Psychiatry and Pediatrics at the George Washington University School of Medicine.    Ned Johnson is an author, speaker, and the founder of PrepMatters, an educational company providing academic tutoring, educational planning, and standardized test prep. A battle-tested veteran in the fields of test preparation, anxiety management, and student performance, Ned coaches kids on how to manage their stress while simultaneously motivating and empowering them to reach their full potential. Together they are the co-authors of the national best-selling book, The Self-Driven Child, and of their newest book, What Do You Say? Talking with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home. Resources We Shared: Happy Parent Checklist   What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home   William Stixrud, PhD   Ned Johnson   The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids in a Culture of Dependence   No Guilt Mom Podcast #60 Guarding Kids Against Addiction with Jessica Lahey   No Guilt Mom Podcast #29 How to Raise a Brave Kid with Ned Johnson   Download the Transcripts HERE The best mom is a happy mom. To better take care of you, download our No Guilt Mom mindset here .  These reminders will help you second guess less, and feel more confidence every day in your parenting.

Therapy For Real Life Podcast
How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation with William Stixrud, Ph.D. and Ned Johnson

Therapy For Real Life Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2021 48:01


Host Anna Lindberg Cedar, MPA, LCSW is joined by two guest experts in today's episode to discuss research-backed communication strategies to help children build motivation and make healthy choices. William Stixrud, Ph.D. and Ned Johnson are the best-selling authors of the Self-Driven Child and have more than 60 years of combined experience mastering the art of effective and respectful dialogue with kids. They discuss their newest book in today's episode, What Do You Say? How To Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home. Johnson and Stixrud share effective strategies for parents and coaches to improve conflict resolution with kids without resorting to manipulative, old-school "Because I said so..." techniques. Instead, Johnson and Stixrud draw from decades of scientific literature and motivational enhancement strategies that show that children must learn how to make choices that create a sustainable and healthy lifestyle of their own making. This is not therapy. This is Real Life. Therapy For Real Life. Learn more: TherapyForRealLife.com and WorkshopsForRealLife.com .

Akrasia
38: The Other Worst Part

Akrasia

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2021 112:29


This week begins with a lot of talk about reality TV. Matt tells us what annoys him about The Bachelor franchise, and Tyler explains Big Brother. After a brief chat about theme parks, Tyler talks about all of the mystery videos he’s been watching on YouTube. The accidental main topic this week is the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. Your hosts haven’t discussed it in a while, but unfortunately, it’s relevant again. Links and Show Notes Big Brother 2015 floorplans - Imgur A858 - The Most Mysterious Subreddit - YouTube The Story of OldRoot: Minecraft’s Strangest Mystery - YouTube A Redditor’s Dark Confession - YouTube Let’s Crack Zodiac - Episode 5 - The 340 Is Solved! - YouTube Cicada 3301: An Internet Mystery - YouTube Internet Story - Official Video - YouTube Reply All | Gimlet Alternate reality game - Wikipedia Opinion | Your Friend Doesn't Want the Vaccine. What Do You Say? - The New York Times Covid-19 Vaccinations: County and State Tracker - The New York Times 469. The U.S. Is Just Different — So Let's Stop Pretending We're Not — Freakonomics Radio — Overcast Coronavirus Pandemic (COVID-19) - Statistics and Research - Our World in Data James O’Brien gobsmacked over Perth’s reaction to one Covid case | LBC - YouTube I Tell a Prince Philip Joke, Then He Dies | Lewis Spears | Stand Up Comedy - YouTube

Front Row Dads:  Family Men With Businesses
How to Talk with Kids with Ned Johnson and Dr. William R. Stixrud

Front Row Dads: Family Men With Businesses

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 54:28


“I just can't handle you right now.” That's how I'm feeling around my kids lately.  As many of you know, I've been on a pretty epic family road trip across the country. We've been making some incredible memories and having a ton of fun, but it hasn't been without some serious challenges.  My wife has been sick for the past week, the boys are constantly fighting, I'm trying to manage my business (while keeping everyone engaged), and there've been some tragic events with my extended family, to name just a few.  To be honest, I feel like I'm reaching my breaking point. I've lost all patience, I'm emotionally drained, and I just don't have the bandwidth to deal with my kids immediate needs.  And I can feel the negative impact that my energy is having on my kids—which doesn't sit right with me.  I don't want to be the Dad who replies to my kids with the classic “Because I said so…” line.  Well, the timing for today's episode of the podcast couldn't be better. Returning guests, Ned Johnson and William Stixrud, join the show to talk all about their new book, What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home.  Ned and Bill reminded me that nobody gets it right all the time. In fact, perfect parenting just doesn't exist, and my current feelings are completely normal.  Thankfully, they shared some pro tips for practicing self-compassion and dealing with the kids when life gets crazy—ones that I know you'll appreciate!  If you sometimes find it hard to talk with our kids, you're going to love this conversation. Ned and Bill share some really powerful strategies for creating deeper connections, building empathy, and engaging in respectful and effective dialogue. This is your comprehensive guide to effectively communicating with kids!   Ned Johnson Podcast Highlights How to talk to kids (and really listen) in order to build powerful connections. Changing the energy in the way you talk to your children. Letting your kids know when you're having a tough day/week. How to practice non-judgmental self-compassion. Why nobody needs perfect parents. In fact, ‘good enough' is better than you may think. The power of spending one-on-one time with your kids. Talking with kids about the pursuit of happiness. Using reflective listening to build empathy with your kids. Helping kids find their own motivation. How does a kid's age impact how you speak to them? Why you should want your kids to solve their own problems as much as possible. Are you accidentally bailing on your kids emotionally? Get the Full Show Notes Want access to the full show notes, including links to all resources mentioned during today's conversation? Visit FrontRowDads.com/281 Want to learn more about Front Row Dads? We are in the business of building better families. While most dads would say that family matters most, the challenge is they feel guilty knowing their careers get the best of them, and their family seems to get the rest of them. We help Dads become family men with businesses, not businessmen who have families, so they can thrive personally AND professionally. Subscribe to the Front Row Dad podcast to learn about fatherhood, marriage and how to level up your game at home, or if you're ready for the best coaching and true brothers to grow with, Join The Brotherhood! Are you getting all the shows? Subscribe today! Want to leave a review? THANK YOU! http://FrontRowDads.com/review

The Bible for Kids Podcast
S3Ep21: Lexi Young Pack - What Do You Say to a Dragon?

The Bible for Kids Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2021 50:56


This week host Amy Parker and Mike Nawrocki talk with Author Lexi Young Pack about her new book What Do You Say to a Dragon, a whimsical book that empowers children to express their emotions and use their imaginations to change the power dynamic of anxiety while also giving parents a healthy approach to helping their kids face fears. Lexi Peck is one of six children and the daughter of William Paul Young, author of The Shack. She was raised and still resides in the Pacific Northwest on a farm raising cattle with her husband, Josh, and their two children, Vivian and Xander. She graduated summa cum laude from Portland State University with a BA in psychology, centering her studies on childhood development. Her passion to deeply understand how children develop and thrive in the world became a driving focus. Lexi became a children's author with the intention of passing on her insight to those who are hoping to engage parenting to the fullest. Lexi's first children's book, What Do You Say to a Dragon?, was born out of a real-life situation with her daughter, Vivian, waking from a recurring nightmare. 

ill Mannered Media
Opinions While Black: Episode 137 - "Mutually Assured Destruction"

ill Mannered Media

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2021 154:42


This week, Oz and D. Randle sit down and pour up to talk about John Oliver passing the Jamal Test, people's fear about taking the vaccine, review Ziwe and the new Michael Che show on HBO Max. Also, a new installment of Drakewatch and the brewing back and forth between Umar Johnson and Kevin Samuels. Plus, #WhitePeopleMustBeStopped, your listener letters and the Top 3 STFUs. Pour Up! Song of the Week: Common feat. PJ- "What Do You Say? (Move It Baby)"

Ghetto Of The Mind
Episode 6: Gerald

Ghetto Of The Mind

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2021 49:24


He wanted to be great, but didn't have the bandwidth. "Do you know who I think I am?" was his life's philosophy. He would wreak havoc if you didn't constantly put him in check. Still, he knew a mean bop when he heard one... 01. Intro - Silk Sonic 02. Speak Low - Tall Black Guy 03. Rosie - Figmore 04. Fishnet - Morris Day & The Time 05. Cascade - Stokley & The Bonfyre 06. Got To Have Your Love - Mantronix 07. What Do You Say feat. PJ - Common 08. Sunbeams - J Dilla 09. Show Me Your Soul - Robert Glasper & Lalah Hathaway 10. Make It Last Forever - Inner Life 11. The Don & The Boss (Kaytranada remix) - Busta Rhymes 12. Aint Got Everything (Jenifa Mayanja Remix) - Gene Tellem

Lush Life
Lush Life - Episode February 19, 2021

Lush Life

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2021


Celebrating Black History Month! Episode 3: 1967-1996Playlist: John Coltrane - ImpressionsAlice Coltrane - Galaxy in TuriyaHerbie Hancock - Watermelon ManRandy Weston - African Village (Bedford Stuyvesant)Ornette Coleman - AllDon Cherry - CaliforniaSarah Vaughan, The Count Basie Orchestra - When Your Lover Has GoneGeri Allen - Running As Fast As You Can...tgthOliver Jones & Charlie Biddle - All the Things You AreThe Odean Pope Saxophone Choir - Prince la ShaCarmen McRae - Man, That Was a DreamBobby McFerrin & Chick Corea - Blues ConnotationWynton Marsalis Septet - Hustle BustleRanee Lee - Nana, What Do You Say?Christian McBride - Divergence

Jamel Gibbs Real Estate Investing Podcast
Ep 54: [Idris Talib] From Prison to Pretty House Profits

Jamel Gibbs Real Estate Investing Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2021 55:57


On this podcast episode, Idris Talib talks about how he went from prison to pretty house profits in 60 days, using creative real estate financing strategies. He also reveals how you can do it too. Check it out! Timeline: 0:00 Prelude 0:17 Introduction 4:12 About Idris Talib 7:19 How Many Deals Have You Done? 8:33 Does the Business Become Easier Over Time? 9:27 How Did You End Up In Prison? 13:46 How Long Have You Been Home? 14:06 What Were You Able To Accomplish Fresh Out of Prison? 17:15 What Do You Say to People that Don’t Have a Plan? 22:40 What Would You Say to the Person with No Car? 24:06 What is a Pretty House Deal? 25:05 How Old Are These Houses? 26:22 What Types of Properties Are You Looking For? 27:13 How Do You Contact The Property Owners? 29:35 How Do You Lead The Seller Into a Creative Offer? 31:42 What’s Your Favorite Type of Deal to Structure? 32:45 How Do You Get the Seller to Accept Your Offer? 36:56 What Do You Do After You Find a Property? 38:46 How Do You Collect Your Down Payment? 43:50 How to Avoid Putting Down Money? 47:34 How to Contact Idris Talib? 48:16 Recommended Books 49:45 What Are Some Obstacles Investor Might Face? 53:28 Last Words and Closing Comments

Jamel Gibbs Business & Investing Podcast
Ep 54: [Idris Talib] From Prison to Pretty House Profits

Jamel Gibbs Business & Investing Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2021 55:57


On this podcast episode, Idris Talib talks about how he went from prison to pretty house profits in 60 days, using creative real estate financing strategies. He also reveals how you can do it too. Check it out! Timeline: 0:00 Prelude 0:17 Introduction 4:12 About Idris Talib 7:19 How Many Deals Have You Done? 8:33 Does the Business Become Easier Over Time? 9:27 How Did You End Up In Prison? 13:46 How Long Have You Been Home? 14:06 What Were You Able To Accomplish Fresh Out of Prison? 17:15 What Do You Say to People that Don't Have a Plan? 22:40 What Would You Say to the Person with No Car? 24:06 What is a Pretty House Deal? 25:05 How Old Are These Houses? 26:22 What Types of Properties Are You Looking For? 27:13 How Do You Contact The Property Owners? 29:35 How Do You Lead The Seller Into a Creative Offer? 31:42 What's Your Favorite Type of Deal to Structure? 32:45 How Do You Get the Seller to Accept Your Offer? 36:56 What Do You Do After You Find a Property? 38:46 How Do You Collect Your Down Payment? 43:50 How to Avoid Putting Down Money? 47:34 How to Contact Idris Talib? 48:16 Recommended Books 49:45 What Are Some Obstacles Investor Might Face? 53:28 Last Words and Closing Comments

Inside Personal Growth with Greg Voisen
Podcast 834: Say What You Mean in a Nice Way with Sarita Maybin

Inside Personal Growth with Greg Voisen

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 34:25


My guest on this podcast episode is Sarita Maybin the author of a new book entitled " Say What You Mean In a Nice Way-Working Together Better in High-Tech Times".  Sarita is also the author of another book entitled " "If You Can't Say Something Nice, What DO You Say?"  Sarita has worked inside businesses for years helping employees, managers, and top executives become more skilled at their communications tacticts.

Mitch's 미친영어
Episode 252 - What Do You Say Everybody?

Mitch's 미친영어

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 52:42


On this episode, we listen to some kitschy new Christmas music from Mariah Carey as well as some new music from Mitch. We also discuss a very important documentary about social media and society that we should all watch. We learn what a side hustle is and what mistakes to make when starting one. And we discuss the meaning of the phrase from Mitch's song, What Do You Say?

Business Confidential Now with Hanna Hasl-Kelchner
How to Constructively Confront Difficult Conversations in the Workplace

Business Confidential Now with Hanna Hasl-Kelchner

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2020 23:31


Difficult ConversationsDifficult conversations can be relationship deal breakers especially at work where it could cost you a valuable customer or your job. So what do you say when you can't say anything nice but you can't exactly follow Mom's advice and say nothing? My next guest, Sarita Maybin has some suggestions for you. What You'll Discover About Difficult Conversations:https://businessconfidentialradio.com/?p=29651&preview=true# (CLICK HERE FOR AUDIO TRANSCRIPT) * How to decide whether it's worth confronting someone and have the difficult conversation. [3:09] * 3 factors that influence the best way to have that difficult conversation. [4:50] * How to respond when someone is having a difficult conversation with YOU. [8:14] * How not to get defensive during a difficult conversation. [11:32] * That there are more than two extreme responses when managing conflicts. [14:52] * The power of seeking to understand instead of blowing up. [19:30] * How conflict and difficult conversations are inevitable. [20:32]   Guest: Sarita MaybinSarita Maybin is an international speaker, communication expert, and former university dean of students who also happens to be the author of https://www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Something-Nice-What/dp/1419630539/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=sarita+maybin&qid=1605291620&s=books&sr=1-2 (If You Can't Say Something Nice, What Do You Say?) In her 20+ year speaking career she has made it her mission to inspire others to embrace positivity, even amid the challenges of our ever-changing high-tech times. She has spoken in all 50 states, nine other countries, and on the prestigious TEDx stage. Growing up as a “military brat” moving from country to country, Sarita mastered how to make friends fast and finesse stressful situations. That's how she discovered it was not just what you say, but how you say it that matters. Over the years she has refined those techniques and she's even street-tested her strategies with clients such as Hewlet Packer, Kaiser Permanente, Los Angeles County, Department of the Navy and hundreds of other world-class organizations. Related Resources:Contact Sarita and connect with her onhttps://businessconfidentialradio.com/linkedin.com/in/saritamaybin ( LinkedIn), https://facebook.com/SaritaTalk (Facebook), https://twitter.com/SaritaMaybin (Twitter), https://www.youtube.com/user/SaritaMaybin (YouTube), and https://instagram.com/saritamaybin (Instagram.) Also visit her http://www.saritamaybin.com/ (website) for more information about her work. Join, Rate and Review:  Joining the Business Confidential Now family is easy and lets you have instant access to the latest tactics, strategies and tips. Subscribe to the show on your favorite podcast app. Rating and reviewing the show helps us grow our audience and allows us to bring you more of the rich information you need to succeed from our high powered guests. Download ♥ Join ♥ Listen ♥ Learn ♥ Share ♥ Review ♥ Comment ♥ Enjoy

E-Block Radio
What Do You Say to Your Son if He is the Abuser in an Abusive Relationship

E-Block Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 55:55


Powered by Restream https://restream.io/ Chime in on today's HOT TOPIC! What Do You Say to Your Son if He is the Abuser in an Abusive Relationship #AbusiveRelationship Hosted by Q. Lewis, Monk Money and Angry Man. Produced by Q. Lewis. Follow us on IG https://www.instagram.com/Q.Lewis313/ https://www.instagram.com/RealMonkMoney/ https://www.instagram.com/eblockradio/ https://www.instagram.com/AngryMan48205 Like Us on Facebook and Enjoy the LIVE Stream : https://www.facebook.com/eBlockRadio/ Episode sponsored in part by The Plugs! Get your pair of The Plugs wireless earbuds right now at https://www.gettheplugs.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/e-blockradio/message

Junk Food Dinner
JFD527: What do you Say to a Naked Lady? After Hours, Andy Colby's Incredible Adventure

Junk Food Dinner

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2020


We're back with three films in which we get lost in New York, lost in television and lost in 1970s sexuality!First up, TV's Allen Funt asks the audience, "What Do You Say to a Naked Lady?" This candid camera movie catches a variety of '70s people in awkward situations. Next, Martin Scorsese takes us back to the streets of New York as an unfulfilled yuppie gets stranded in SoHo in an increasingly bizarre adventure in "After Hours."Next, a kid has to save his little sister from a color wizard that lives in a haunted VHS tape in "Andy Colby's Incredible Adventure."All this plus Nerd News, Junk Mails, the Fallen One, Sex show fact checking, Boris Karloff's sexy voice and so much more!Donloyd HereThanks for listening! Tell a friend! Join us on Patreon!

The Secret To Success with CJ, Karl, Jemal & Eric Thomas

As the Michael Jordan Documentary, The Last Dance, continues, the guys continue digging deeper into the Winner's Mentality of Michael Jordan. This week the guys each focus on a moment in the documentary that blew them away. Karl speaks on Mike's drive, Jemal is intrigued by Mike's fearlessness, never being afraid to fail and always ready to try. ET ties it all together at the close by focusing on how MJ's Vocabulary set him apart. Words are important. The words we say, we hear and, we manifest our realities through the houses we build with the words we choose. Developing and using a great vocabulary is one of the foundational pillars you'll need to become truly great. The Secret to Success Topics: [05:00] - Trey’s Comedy Corner [7:00] - Drums over Flats [17:20] - Drive vs Dad [25:40] - What Do You Say? [40:00] - The Difference  [51:00] - The Edge  [1:02:20] - Real Help Listener Perks: Make Real Estate Real Course Organifi is giving our listeners 20% off of their order just go to www.organifi.com/success. Their superfood green juice powder allows you to get your greens anytime anywhere while on the go. Send your kids to Summer School with ET www.etsummerprogram.com Streamline your team’s communication, ideas, and projects with Notion. An all inclusive creativity platform for entrepreneurs and their teams. notion.com/success Text ET at 313-251-1181 and follow us on IG @S2SPodcast Secrets 2 Success: I’m not afraid to fail but I am afraid to NOT try. If people talk to you in a way that makes you feel defeated you need to remove yourself. Great people have a very distinct vocabulary. The next level of success is moving past what you’re physically capable of doing. Stop speaking death and doubt into your life.   Get connected with a network of over 3,500 people who listen to ET, and embody the work ethic and spirit of ET. To learn more about Breathe University. Subscribe to the podcast via Apple Podcasts. 

RTL2 : Pop-Rock Station by Zégut
Simple Minds, Nada Surf, Eagles dans RTL2 Pop Rock Station (15/03/20)

RTL2 : Pop-Rock Station by Zégut

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2020 118:50


Simple Minds : Alive And Kicking La reprise l'original Better Daze : Golden Brown The Stranglers : Golden Brown Lawrence Rothman, The Turning, Pale Waves : SkindeepSkyhighHeartwide (nouveauté) Toris Amos : Cornflake Girl Oasis : Champagne Supernova Nada Surf : Come Get Me (nouveauté) The Shins : Phantom Limb Michael Malarkey : Graveracer (nouveauté) Toto : Hydra The Menzingers : I Can't Stop Drinking (nouveauté) Eagles : Desperado La reprise l'original Over The Rhine : Ruby Tuesday The Rolling Stones : Ruby Tuesday Eddie Vedder : Hard Sun (nouveauté) Pearl Jam : Dance The Clairvoyants (nouveauté) Poison : Every Rose Has Its Thorn Greta Van Fleet : Anthem Led Zeppelin : The Rain Song Stone Fury : Burns Like A Star Bobbie Gentry : Ode To Billie Joe The Innocence Mission : On Your Side (nouveauté) Holly Throsby : What Do You Say ? (feat Mark Kozelek) Prelude : After The Gold Rush

Mullooly Asset Management
What Do You Say to Worried Investors?

Mullooly Asset Management

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2020 20:57


Mullooly Asset Management - Fee-Only Fiduciary Investment Advisor Financial Planner in Wall, NJ In Ep. 298 of the Mullooly Asset Podcast, Brendan and Tom take a few minutes to talk to worried investors.  We’ve been getting a lot of calls from people worried about the markets, and rightfully so.  However, as they point out, now might not be the best time to do making changes to your investment […] The post What Do You Say to Worried Investors? appeared first on Mullooly Asset Management.

What Do You Say, Anime!?
Anime of the Year Awards!

What Do You Say, Anime!?

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2020 112:53


Anime of the Year Awards Presented to you by What Do You Say, Anime!? Follow us: https://twitter.com/WhatDoyousayani Vary Suite: https://twitter.com/VarySuite | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe9XkMgEDT-XJZRo4LZFBCw Sorry for some of the audio issues. Had an issue with my mic this time around 2:05 Action of the Year 5:45 Isekai of the Year 11:32 OP of the Year 28:47 ED of the Year 41:56 Drama of the Year 49:02 Romance of the Year 56:32 Adventure of the Year 1:01:07 Comedy of the Year 1:07:10 Slice of Life of the Year 1:11:54 Biggest Disappointment 1:19:05 Best Girl 1:26:33 Best Boy 1:34:21 Worst Anime 1:43:12 Anime of the Year

Glorious Way Church Podcast
What Do You Say?

Glorious Way Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 36:05


The post What Do You Say? appeared first on Glorious Way Church.

Social Media Marketing Made Simple Podcast
How Build A Quality Email List And Then Turn Them Into Paying Customers Jill Fanslau

Social Media Marketing Made Simple Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2019 73:50


This week is another interview episode ahead of the Christmas period. In this episode, the very lovely jill Fanslau has joined us to talk about email marketing. As the owner of aWeber, Jill has lots of experience when it comes to email, putting her in the perfect place to give you all of tips you need to succeed. We talk about how you should collect emails, how you should collect them and what you should be sending your list once you’ve started building it. If you want to start building or growing on your email list, this is definitely the episode for you. Key Takeaways Covered in the Podcast ·      You don’t own your social media accounts but you do own your email lists. If Instagram or Twitter were to go down in the next week, where would that leave your business? You need to be smart about how your channels work alongside one another and drive your social media followers to your email list. ·      If you’re struggling to see results with your email list, you need to ensure you’re cleansing and segmenting it. If you need to, let people CHOOSE what list they’re on. Ask them what they want to see. ·      Although building your list is important, you need to be sure you’re actually emailing them. If you haven’t emailed them in a long time, be honest. ·      Don’t be afraid to talk to your email list. You don’t have to only email when you’re selling. You have to be able to provide and bring something to the table without asking something in return. ·      Humans crave stories so if you can weave those into your email, people will connect with you on a personal level. ·      When you’re onboarding new emails, you should use a seven-email strategy. The first email should be a welcome email that should arrive instantly. Introduce yourself and let them know what they can expect from you. Afterwards, you should follow up with a story email as it starts off the likability process. If you don’t want to write a story, shoot a video. ·      Your third email should provide more value. Next, you should send and agitation email that hits their pain point. Although it will make them squirm, you want to remind them of the reason they signed up to your email list. This should go out right before you pitch someone a product or solution. ·      Some people may need a little bit of help making a decision, so this is where you will need to send a proof email. Whether it’s a testimonial, a case study or a review – people will experience intense FOMO if they’re missing out. Once you have sent a proof email, you need to send an ask email. ·      The seven-email strategy can take one month, two months or six months. ·      The best way to determine how long your emails should be is to test. It doesn’t matter what everyone else is doing, it matters what your audience want. ·      Think about whether or not people will be opening your emails on their mobile, rather than their desktop. ·      Link shorterners can cause your emails to end up in spam. One thing you need to remember above all else… No matter how big your list is, write to one person. Highlights you Simply Can’t Miss·      Introducing Jill – 07:40 ·      Why Should You Use Email? – 16:00 ·      Is Honesty the Best Policy? – 22:30 ·      Emails Are Not Just for Sales – 30:10 ·      What Do You Say to Your Email List? - 34:50 ·      What Is A Seven Email Strategy? –...

Southwest Christian Church
11/24/19 What Do You Say?

Southwest Christian Church

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2019 31:38


11/24/19 What Do You Say? by Southwest Christian Church

Reformed Church of Hastings.

Evening Worship Service, What Do You Say – Ephesians 4:25 – Pastor P Kloosterman

Jennifer Zelop
Encore: The Power of our Words

Jennifer Zelop

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2019


Does it matter what we say and how we say it? The answer is YES! Tune in for this episode to hear more about the true power of the tongue.

Sunday service
03.24.19 What Do You Say to a Burning Bush?

Sunday service

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2019 33:25


03.24.19 What Do You Say to a Burning Bush? by CityChurch

Community Church Huddersfield
What Do You Say?

Community Church Huddersfield

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2019 35:58


In the final session of our Belong and Become weekend Mark encourages us to be really intentional about what we choose to say. The post What Do You Say? appeared first on Community Church.

Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington
Sarita Maybin: Ask for What You Want

Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2019 46:36


About our Guest Sarita Maybin is an international speaker and communications expert. She has worked with clients like Hewlett Packard, Kaiser Permanente, Los Angeles County, Department of Navy and the Las Vegas Convention Center and has spoken all over the world. In 2012 she was voted Top 5 Communication Speaker and has had the privilege of speaking on the TEDx stage. She’s also the author of If You Can’t Say Something Nice, What DO You Say? and an expert in confronting tough communication situations in a positive and fun way. Episode Summary: Today, we continue the Powerful Women Series in honor of Women's History Month. Our focus today is on the people pillar and how we communicate. We tackle the complex topic of speaking up when it  might not be comfortable and talk about the importance of finding a middle ground to say what needs to be said before things blow up. We discuss how to ask for what we want using the right language. This includes giving the other party a vote by using collaborative phrases and the power of positive communication phrases. This episode is full of practical tactics for both personal and professional communication. CLIFF NOTES It’s important to speak up and say what needs to be said. Use phrases like, “I would appreciate” to make requests not demands. We need to just ask for what we want. Use a phrase like, “would you be willing to?” Use collaborative phrases at home. When giving feedback focus on the positive rather than the negative and use positive communication phrases like, “help me understand.” 3 Clues that you should pick up the phone instead of email or text. Sensitive subject, conflict, or when there’s a back and forth. Instead of a spellcheck do a “please and thank you check.” The 3Ps by Dr. Martin Sullivan: Don't take things PERSONALLY. It's not PERMANENT. Don't let it ruin the big PICTURE. We can use “if”, "as soon as" and "when" to set boundaries. Quotes from the show: If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all doesn't work anymore. Sometimes you have to say what you need to say. - Sarita Maybin We can all benefit from more truth tellers in the workplace. - Sarita Maybin If we don't tell the truth, how do people improve?  - Sarita Maybin You can tell people the truth and leave them with their dignity intact. - Patrice Washington Say what you mean, mean what you say and don't say it mean. - Sarita Maybin We can make subtle changes in how we talk to each other while remaining assertive. - Sarita Maybin Instead of a demand, its okay to make a request. - Sarita Maybin We need to just ask for what we want. - Sarita Maybin Sometimes our biggest challenges are the communication in our own home. - Sarita Maybin Give feedback with a positive rather than a negative.  - Sarita Maybin We do a spell-check on email, but what we should do is a "please and thank you" check. - Sarita Maybin Don't take things PERSONALLY. It's not PERMANENT. Don't let it ruin the big PICTURE. - Dr. Martin Sullivan Don't take other people's problems on and allow it to ruin your day by taking it personally. - Sarita Maybin When people say something negative it says more about who they are than who you are. - Sarita Maybin Just because you're in a drama, you don't have to be dramatic. - Tim Storey Participating in other people's drama is a choice. - Sarita Maybin Are you the person who brightens the room when you walk in OR when you leave? - Sarita Maybin Sarita's Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions Define Success: Enjoying what you do and making a difference. Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less: Feeling that you have enough for yourself and enough to share with others. One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth: Lean In Fill-in the Blanks… “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”: “My name is Sarita and the truth about wealth is it's possible.”   Links: Sarita Maybin Get the 50 Phrases for Communication Text: Sarita Talk to 22828 @SaritaMaybin on Twitter Sarita Maybin on Facebook Sarita Maybin on LinkedIn If You Can't Say Something Nice, What Do You Say?: Practical Solutions for Working Together Better Mattie James: The Responsibility of Influence Black Women’s Network Sarita Maybin, M.A. -TEDx Talk To advertise on the podcast: www.patricewashington.com/podcastads Become an Official Purpose Chaser: http://www.iamapurposechaser.com Join Patrice’s Pod Club: http://www.patricespodclub.com To check out ALL of our past guests + episodes: www.patricewashington.com/Listen If you have questions about booking Patrice or sponsoring the podcast, email us at info@seekwisdomfindwealth.com. To advertise on the podcast: www.patricewashington.com/podcastads Find me in Social Media: Our podcast hashtag is #RedefiningWealth Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW Twitter: @SeekWisdomPCW Facebook: @SeekWisdomPCW YouTube: @SeekWisdomPCW

HopeChurch_PC
Next | Part 3

HopeChurch_PC

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2019 38:40


January 27, 2019 | What Do You Say to Your Mountains? | We’re LIVE after a snowy week talking about “What do you say to your mountains?” #NEXT #myhopechurch

Jennifer Zelop
The Power of our Words

Jennifer Zelop

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2019


Does it matter what we say and how we say it? The answer is YES! Tune in for this episode to hear more about the true power of the tongue.

Open Door Fellowship Church Phoenix, AZ
1 Thessalonians 1:9-10 - 1 Thessalonians

Open Door Fellowship Church Phoenix, AZ

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2018


What Do You Say?

Sound Health Options - Sharry Edwards & TalkToMeGuy
Autism Awareness with Jeanne Beard

Sound Health Options - Sharry Edwards & TalkToMeGuy

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2018 70:00


Jeanne Beard is a thought leader in the autism arena. The founder of the National Autism Academy, a speaker, coach, consultant, and author ofAutism & The Rest of Us: How to Sustain a Healthy, Functional and Satisfying Life with a Person on the Autism Spectrum. Jeanne is a graduate of Northwestern University, and had a successful 30-year career in business to business sales. The mother of 2 sons, one diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and one diagnosed with ADHD, Jeanne is certified as a life coach and dedicates her time to helping families find success, peace and inspiration in life with autism. Autism Integration: Making Space for those with Autism What everyone should know about the simple requirements that support the success of those with autism. What Do You Say to Someone Whose Child was just Diagnosed with Autism? 10 simple actions that show you care and offer comfort. Revise the American’s with Disabilities Act to include People with autism: In the USA today, there are 3 times more people with autism than in wheelchairs! National Autism Academy National Austim Academy on Fasbeook        

How To Be a Person
Episode 81 - Virginia Jones - How to Counteract Negative Energy

How To Be a Person

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2016 44:42


Comedian Virginia Jones teaches us how to counteract negative energy, how to get anyone to like you, how to follow someone to another city, how to attend a comedy party, how to start fights on the street, and how to work for Nike. Plus, we play a game of, "What Do You Say to Them?" in which Virginia tells us what she'd say to diffuse any situation.

Songcraft: Spotlight on Songwriters
Ep. 25 - JIM LAUDERDALE ("King of Broken Hearts")

Songcraft: Spotlight on Songwriters

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2015 59:42


Known as a respected “songwriter’s songwriter,” Jim Lauderdale is a versatile and highly prolific artist who is equally comfortable writing country, bluegrass, soul, or pop. His 1991 debut, Planet of Love, was packed with original songs that went on to be covered by George Strait, The Dixie Chicks, Gary Allan, Lucinda Williams, Mandy Barnett, and others. Since then, Lauderdale has recorded nearly thirty albums, including the Grammy winning releases Lost in the Lonesome Pines and The Bluegrass Diaries. Patty Loveless has recorded five of his songs, including the Top 10 single “Halfway Down” and her hit duet with George Jones, “You Don’t Seem to Miss Me.” Likewise, George Strait has covered well over a dozen Jim Lauderdale compositions, including the Top 5 hits “We Really Shouldn’t Be Doing This,” “What Do You Say to That,” and “I Gotta Get to You.” Others who have recorded Jim’s songs include Elvis Costello, Dave Edmunds, Tracy Nelson, Shelby Lynne, Vince Gill, The Nitty Gritty Dirt Band, Blake Shelton, Gary Allan, Lee Ann Womack, and Solomon Burke. In addition to his Grammy wins, Jim took home both the Song of the Year and Artist of the Year honors at the 2002 Americana Music Association Awards. In 2015 he was honored by the National Music Council – alongside Kris Kristofferson and Charley Pride – for his “long-term contribution to America’s musical culture and heritage.”

When Style Matters' Podcast
When Style Matters 11-5-14

When Style Matters' Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2014 58:15


Accomplished speaker and author Sarita Maybin is Lynette's special guest as she discusses communication strategies for professionals as well as talk about her book, "If You Can't Say Something Nice, What DO You Say?"

Inside Personal Growth with Greg Voisen
Podcast 71: If You Can't Say Something Nice, What Do You Say? with Sarita Maybin

Inside Personal Growth with Greg Voisen

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2014 22:38


Podcast 71: If You Can't Say Something Nice, What Do You Say? with Sarita Maybin by Greg Voisen

DaEmporess Speaks
Daemporess Speaks : INJUSTICE IS EVERYWHERE

DaEmporess Speaks

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2014 75:00


ITS TIME OUT FOR INJUSTICE OR IS IT? WELFARE DRUG TESTING... CHILD SUPPORT LAWS.. WHAT IS THE DUE PROCESS FOR A PERSON WHO HAS BEEN WRONGLY INCARCERATED FOR YEARS... WHAT DO YOU SAY..?????

First United Methodist Church::Baton Rouge

Now, What Do You Say? by Bishop Robert Fannin; Deuteronomy 8:7-18; II Corinthians 9:6-12; www.FirstMethodist.org

Speaking With Influence
If You Can't Say Something Nice, What DO You Say?

Speaking With Influence

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2009 60:00


Join me as I interview If You Can't Say Something Nice, What DO You Say? author, Sarita Maybin. ********** We've all been told "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." This book provides practical approaches and positive phrases for those times when you need to say something NOT so nice. Learn how to constructively clue someone in, deflect the negative comment of a well-meaning friend, or let a business colleague know what he or she is doing drives you crazy -- without destroying the relationship. ********** What’s the best way to respond to nasty comments like "that’s a dumb idea," "I knew you couldn’t do it" or "what were you thinking?"

Tu Ingles! podcast
Tu Ingles Sesion Siete

Tu Ingles! podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2008 12:41


En Tu Ingles Sesion Siete, viajamos virtualmente a Boston con Cecilia para practicar ingles! En la nueva parte, What Do You Say? ella hace preguntas para encontrar un restaurante y para ir en el metro. In English of the Rich and Famous, we analyze a speech about the relationship of petroleum, war, and terrorism.  Haz click en el link que dice "Direct Download" para escuchar la sesion gratis! Te gustaria leer una transcripcion de esta sesion? Te recomendamos juntarte a nuestro Tu Ingles Club para recibir todas las transcripciones de Tu Ingles!