Primal Potential

A client recently said something that completely stopped me in my tracks: "My mindset determines the choices I'm going to make. Don't decide from a shitty mindset — otherwise, I've rigged the game against myself." Mic. Drop. It immediately made me reflect — how often do we do this? How often do we unconsciously (or consciously) make it harder to follow through, succeed, or feel good? In this episode, I'm sharing: What it actually means to rig the game against yourself How to recognize when you're doing it (with real client stories + examples) What it looks like to rig it in your favor instead The mindset shift from “positive” to helpful that changes everything A journaling prompt to help you create your own breakthrough today

You might feel fine. But chronic inflammation could still be running the show — silently disrupting your hormones, energy, digestion, mood, and metabolism. This episode pulls back the curtain on: Why chronic inflammation is the hidden driver behind so many frustrating symptoms (and major diseases) What you can measure — from blood to stool — to actually track it The difference between CRP and hs-CRP (and why it matters way more than you think) What your body fat, cortisol, gut health, and mitochondria have to do with inflammation And most importantly: what you can do this week to lower inflammation and feel better fast If you're tired of chasing symptoms — and ready to get to the root — this is for you.

If you've ever told yourself “I don't have time to take care of myself” because you're too busy taking care of everyone else — this one's for you. Whether it's your kids, your job, your partner, aging parents, or your community — a lot of us are constantly pouring out… while running on empty. In this episode, I'm sharing a concept from CrossFit — “core to extremity” — and how it changed the way I think about showing up for others. We're talking about where real strength comes from, what happens when we don't start at the center, and how taking care of yourself first is not selfish — it's strategic. If you feel stretched thin or burned out, this might be the reframe you didn't know you needed.

You're not broken. You're not lazy. But you might be stuck in a loop of trying the same things over and over — even when they've never worked. In this episode, I'm diving deep into learned helplessness: why you feel like nothing works, how your brain tricks you into repeating the past, and what you can do to finally break free. We'll unpack: Why recycling effort isn't the same as solving the problem How you've been overemphasizing options and underemphasizing choice The trap of only considering what you've already tried The epidemic of passive consumption (and why it's costing you your ability to think) This is a wake-up call and a relief — because once you see the loop, you can step out of it.

What if procrastination isn't the real problem? What if what you see — the delay, the excuses, the inconsistency — is just smoke… and the real fire is underneath? In today's episode, I'm walking you through a real conversation I had with a client in DEFENSE, where we uncovered the truth behind her procrastination — and it wasn't time management. It wasn't planning. It was belief. Identity. A narrow picture of what change had to look like… that she didn't even want to live. We talk about: Why solving surface problems doesn't lead to lasting change How “diet food” and “I don't like exercise” become unconscious blocks What to do when you tell yourself “I'm just not worthy” Why you don't need to be addicted to your comfort zone anymore

I've been asked about this multiple times, so here we go. Today's episode is a little different. It's personal. It's about my faith. You don't have to agree with me, in fact, I think it might be most valuable to listen if you don't. Because this isn't about convincing anyone. It's about sharing how my faith impacts the way I experience fear, anxiety, the world around me, and how I lead my family. I'm not a theologian. I'm not here to debate doctrine. I'm just here to tell the truth about what's changed for me and how that plays out in real life. Whether you've been curious about my faith journey or you're just struggling to stay grounded in a chaotic world, I hope this meets you right where you are.

This episode is a mix of practical strategies and personal philosophy, pulled straight from your questions about how I run my home and raise my kids — while still prioritizing consistency, growth, and sanity. Here's what we cover: ✅ Why I don't pick up after my kids — and what that has to do with leadership, growth, and long-term habits ✅ What I really want to instill in my kids (hint: it's way deeper than manners or obedience) ✅ The power of “restraint + kindness” — and how that's redefining the way I see mercy ✅ How I work to avoid helicopter parenting (even when I really want to intervene) ✅ Easy, healthy meal ideas for busy moms (or anyone who doesn't want to live in the kitchen) ✅ My personal food strategy: “Dinner once, lunch twice” ✅ How to keep food and parenting simple — but effective

We're quick to spot the truth in other people's choices: “If he would just manage his time better…” “If she'd finish one thing before starting the next…” But when it comes to our own patterns? The truth feels harder to see — and even harder to admit. In this episode, I'm digging into the critical practice of telling yourself the truth — the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Because the stories we tell ourselves don't have to be true to shape our lives. They just have to go unopposed. You'll hear: Why it's easier to analyze their problems than to face our own How “permissive phrases” like “I'll start tomorrow” or “I need this to take the edge off” quietly run the show A client story that shows exactly how to challenge vague justifications and uncover the truth The difference between evaluation (judging yourself) and coaching (creating a way forward) A simple 3-step challenge to practice radical honesty and break free from excuses and procrastination If you've ever wondered why you keep starting over, why you feel stuck in cycles of “I'll do better tomorrow,” or why it's so much easier to see solutions for other people than for yourself — this episode will be a game-changer. ✨ Your breakthrough is on the other side of one question: “What's the truth here?”

The Red Pen: Why Your Plans Always Fall Apart You've been here before: the shiny new plan, the clean fridge, the big motivation… and then life gets lifey. Pizza at the work meeting, a missed workout, one “I already blew it” moment — and suddenly the whole thing unravels. It's not that your plan was bad. It's that your plan had no defense. In this episode, I pull out my imaginary red pen and circle the exact spots where most plans are doomed to fall apart — and why you don't need a stricter plan, you need a defensive strategy. Here's what you'll learn: The three biggest “red circles” that sabotage your progress every time Why chasing a perfect 9 or 10 keeps you stuck at zero How Defense gives you a playbook for the moments when life gets messy If you're tired of doing and undoing the same work, it's time for a different approach.

This week, in two vastly different conversations, the same question came up: Why bother? Whether it's the weight of repeated failure or the heartbreak of a world that feels broken, it's easy to wonder what the point is. In today's episode, I'm sharing two real-life moments — one rooted in personal frustration, and another in the aftermath of a community tragedy — that both led to this question… and the truth I believe we need to hold onto: Your health matters. Not for the number on the scale. Not for appearances. But because healthy people create healthy communities. We need physically, mentally, and spiritually well individuals now more than ever — in homes, schools, workplaces, and online spaces. If you're feeling powerless to change what's happening around you, this episode is for you. You have a part to play — and your health equips you to play it well.

Episode Summary: In this episode, I'm sharing the supplements I take in this season of life—and why I take them. I'll walk you through my non-negotiables, seasonal support, and individualized tools, plus offer thoughts on how to choose what's right for you instead of being swayed by supplement trends on social media. You'll hear a bit about my background in the supplement industry, the role of personalized data (like gut testing), and how I approach this area of wellness with intention—not overwhelm.

Most people are stuck in the cycle of starting strong, burning out, and wondering what's wrong with them. The truth? It's not just about effort; it's about protection. In this episode, we're unpacking why your success in health, finances, relationships — all of it — hinges on one critical skill: defense. It's not just about what you do; it's about what you protect. And if you're not protecting your peace, your clarity, your energy… you're probably sabotaging your own progress.

If you've ever had one of those days where you were busy all day but not actually productive…this episode is for you. I'm sharing the morning rhythm that's working for me right now — a flexible structure I call 30x4. It's not about what time your day starts. It's about what you start with. Instead of getting lost in emails, minutia, or life management, this rhythm helps me lock in the “big rocks” first. And because it's flexible, it works whether my day starts at 4:30 AM, 7:00 AM, or even later. Here's what I'll walk you through: Why “busy” doesn't always mean “productive” — and how to change that. The 30x4 framework: four 30-minute blocks that set up my day for success. How I layer activities like exercise + learning + sunlight to maximize time. Why I focus on order instead of a fixed start time. Examples of how this rhythm can look different depending on your season of life. By the end of this episode, you'll have a simple but powerful structure you can adapt to your own goals — whether that's health, faith, finances, family, or business. ✨ Remember: it's not about the time you start, it's about what you start with.

Episode focus: What GLP‑1 actually is (your body already makes it), when/where it's released, why food noise exists, and practical ways to nudge the same mechanisms without a prescription. Listen for: simple definitions, meal/lifestyle plays that boost satiety signals, and a week‑by‑week experiment plan. Quick Summary GLP‑1 (glucagon‑like peptide‑1) is a peptide hormone your gut releases after you eat. It helps meals feel calmer by slowing stomach emptying, supporting insulin only when glucose is high, and signaling the brain to turn down cravings. Release is biphasic (two waves): a quick early wave soon after food hits the upper small intestine, and a later, longer satiety wave 30–120+ minutes after—especially when meals include protein, some fat, and fermentable/viscous fiber. Food noise is multi‑factor: hyperpalatable foods, fast eating/liquid calories, sleep debt and stress, microbiome shifts, and environment/cues. Meds mute it fast; habits keep it quiet. What it is: a gut‑made peptide hormone that coordinates the after‑meal response. Where it's made: special gut cells called L‑cells (mostly in the ileum and colon). When it's released: Early wave: minutes after you start eating. Late wave: 30–120+ minutes later as nutrients and fiber fermentation products reach the lower gut. What it does: Slows the stomach so fuel trickles in (you feel fuller, longer). Supports insulin only when glucose is high (smaller spikes, gentler landings). Signals the brain via the vagus nerve to turn down “keep eating” urges. Why meds feel stronger: prescription GLP‑1s are engineered to last much longer than your natural hormone. Food/lifestyle can raise your own signals but won't extend them like a drug. Why Food Noise Gets Loud (and Stays Loud) Hyperpalatable foods (sweet+fat+salt+crunch) keep reward circuits fired up. Removing them for 7–14 days usually turns the volume down. Sleep debt & stress: more ghrelin (hunger), less leptin (satiety), and higher reactivity to cues. Meal speed & form: soft/ultra‑processed textures and liquid calories outrun gut signals. Microbiome: low‑fiber patterns → fewer short‑chain fatty acids → weaker late satiety wave. Environment: visual cues, routines, social context, alcohol, and easy access keep the cycle going. Food Levers (Evidence‑Aligned, Practical) 1) Protein‑forward meals (especially breakfast) Aim ≥30 g protein. Whey (if tolerated) is a strong pre‑meal option: 20–30 g, 15–30 min before a carb‑heavy meal. Why it works: raises satiety hormones (including GLP‑1 and PYY) and lowers “hunt for more” at the next meal. 2) Viscous & fermentable fibers Viscous (slows the meal): oats/barley (beta‑glucan), legumes, chia/flax, okra, eggplant. Fermentable (late‑wave satiety): beans/lentils; cooked‑then‑cooled potatoes/rice (resistant starch); green bananas/plantains; Jerusalem artichokes/asparagus (inulin). Supplements (optional, measured): Psyllium 5–10 g in 12–16 oz water 10–15 min pre‑meal (start with 2–3 g). PHGG (partially hydrolyzed guar gum) 5–10 g/day (gentle fermentable fiber). Glucomannan or inulin/FOS (build slowly; watch GI tolerance). 3) Some fat with meals Sources: eggs, salmon, olive oil, avocado, nuts/seeds. Why it works: helps release bile and triggers fullness signals; supports slower stomach emptying when paired with protein and fiber. 4) Bitter & spicy nudges (optional) Bitter greens (arugula, radicchio), citrus pith, dark cocoa. Capsaicin (chili peppers) or capsinoids (non‑pungent pepper extracts). Start small to check tolerance. 5) Meal order & pace Water/salad/broth first, then protein + veg, then starch. Minimum 15–20 minutes per meal; chew well. Optional: 1–2 tsp vinegar in plenty of water before higher‑starch meals (skip if reflux or enamel sensitivity). Lifestyle Levers (That Amplify Satiety Signals) Vigorous exercise windows: hard sessions can suppress appetite acutely for 1–3 hours; follow with protein + viscous fiber to extend satiety. Sleep 7–9 hours: normalizes hunger/satiety hormones and reduces cue‑reactivity. Early time‑restricted eating: a daytime 8–10 hour window often eases appetite even at similar calories. Environment design: strip hyperpalatables, reduce visible cues, pre‑portion foods, limit variety within a meal.  

We've all said it: “I know what to do, I'm just not doing it.” But here's the truth: willpower and intention aren't strategies. That's why you can have the best plan in the world and still feel stuck. In today's episode, I'm sharing 3 fresh approaches that will change the way you think about follow-through — including: Why discipline flows from identity (and how to rewrite yours in tiny, powerful ways). What beans in my garden taught me about building reachable steps instead of impossible leaps. How the Mary Poppins Effect can make consistency feel fun instead of like punishment. This isn't about trying harder. It's about trying smarter, with strategies that actually work for real life.

Join me for a casual chat with my husband, Chris! Let's lighten things up, but we'll also chat about how we navigate different priorities and preferences around food. 

Episode Summary: In this episode, I'm unpacking the new Netflix documentary Fit for TV about The Biggest Loser—and the uncomfortable parallels to today's GLP-1 craze. On The Biggest Loser, contestants were willing to humiliate themselves, punish their bodies, and risk their health for rapid results. Fast forward 20 years, and we're seeing the same mentality play out in a different form—this time with injections. Just like the show, GLP-1s promise dramatic, fast weight loss. But behind the glamor lies a dangerous truth: severe caloric restriction, significant muscle loss, and a metabolism that slows to a crawl. And when the meds stop—because of side effects, cost, or insurance changes—most people find themselves right back where they started, but worse off. This isn't about hating the drugs. It's about raising a flag. It's about questioning our obsession with extremes and asking: why are we willing to do the most drastic things for a quick fix, but so resistant to the slow, sustainable path that actually works? The truth is, real change doesn't come from the extremes. It comes from mastering the basics and building consistency—the thing no one wants to talk about because it feels too slow. But slow is the only way that lasts. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why Fit for TV is a cautionary tale for the GLP-1 craze The hidden costs of extreme approaches—whether it's reality TV or injections How muscle loss and metabolic slowdown set you up for long-term struggle Why the slow, unglamorous work is the only thing that sticks How to shift out of the “one chance” mindset and into daily, consistent action Ready to Stop Chasing Extremes? If you're tired of quick fixes that don't last, The Consistency Course is for you. This program is designed to help you finally master the basics and build the steady, sustainable habits that actually work—for life. It's not flashy, and it's not about overnight transformations. It's about consistency. It's about proving to yourself that you can stay in the game. It's about freedom from the cycle of starting over again and again.

ou've read the books. You've listened to the podcasts. You know exactly what to do to reach your goals. So why… are you still not doing it? If you've ever found yourself saying: “It's just one little thing — it won't matter.” “I'll start again Monday.” “I don't have the time right now.” …this episode is for you. Today, we're digging into: The hidden lies behind your most convincing excuses — and how to call them out in real time. Why “just a little” always makes a difference (and how to prove it to yourself). The simple debate-club trick for shutting down an excuse before it derails you. The fastest way to bounce back after you've drifted — without waiting for the perfect Monday or the perfect mood. How to create momentum in minutes with “first choice, second choice, third choice.” This isn't about learning more information — it's about using what you already know, breaking the pattern of self-sabotage, and getting back in the driver's seat of your choices. You don't need to overhaul your life to make progress. You just need to stop letting your excuses call the shots. LISTEN NOW to learn how to see through your own stories, take back control in the moment, and get back on track faster than you thought possible.

Your ego will demand a 10… when a consistent 3 would've changed your life. We glorify the grind. We chase the ideal. We obsess over the best way, the most extreme plan, the perfect strategy — and in doing so, we reject the one thing that actually works: consistency at a realistic level. This episode is a deep dive into the lie that's been holding you back — the toxic fantasy that you have to “do it right” or not at all. It's the all-or-nothing trap, dressed up in perfectionism and powered by ego. And it's keeping you sick, stuck, and afraid. You think you need a total overhaul. You think you need discipline, intensity, a fresh start on Monday. You don't. You need to make peace with a 3. You need to build a life you want to stay in. Because the perfect plan you can't stick with will never compete with the “good enough” one you do daily. In this episode: Why your standards might be the reason you're not making progress How perfectionism is just a prettier form of procrastination The hidden ego in “not enough” thinking What actually builds momentum (and why you're probably skipping it) This is a call-out — and an invitation. You don't need a 10. You need to stop waiting for one.

You've got a plan. You've got your motivation. You even start strong. And then… life happens. Work runs late. Stress spikes. Travel throws you off. A single “bad day” turns into a lost week. Sound familiar? Here's the truth: most people have an offense for their goals — the plan, the schedule, the structure — but no defense for when things go sideways. And that's why you keep tripping over the same obstacles again and again. In this episode, I'm going to show you: Why your goals collapse when the unexpected happens (and why “try harder” isn't the answer) How you already use defense strategies in everyday life without realizing it The “luminol moments” that reveal your weak spots — and how to fortify them Real-life examples of personal defenses that keep you on track no matter what Your plan can't just work when everything goes perfectly. It needs to work when life punches you in the mouth. And that's what building your defense will do.

Today's episode was inspired by a message from a listener who's done it all — Weight Watchers, lap band surgery, Ozempic — and still feels like lasting change is slipping through her fingers. If you've ever found yourself wondering, “Will I ever get there?” — this one is for you. We're unpacking: Why your past does not get to define your future How the “just eat less” mindset is sabotaging real progress Why chasing “normal” eating might be the wrong goal What to do when your tools (like Ozempic) feel like they're slipping away If you're feeling stuck or scared — or if you've tried everything and still feel lost — you're not alone. And there's a way forward.

What if one of the qualities you've always taken pride in—your independence—is actually keeping you stuck, isolated, and fragile? In this episode, I'm sharing how the book The Family Economy by Rory Groves completely reframed my understanding of strength, success, relationships, and even coaching. I open up about the way I was raised to value self-reliance, how I wore it as a badge of honor for years, and why I now see it as a form of quiet fragility. You'll hear why dependence—when built intentionally—is not weakness, but a deeper kind of strength. One that stabilizes marriages, empowers families, accelerates progress, and deepens friendships. This episode is for anyone who's ever said, “I should be able to figure this out on my own,” and who's ready to consider a more powerful—and connected—way forward. In this episode: How I was raised to see independence as strength Why The Family Economy changed my view of success How true strength is rooted in interdependence What this means for families, friendships, and coaching Why asking for help strengthens relationships How coaching works best when we lean in, not isolate Links & Resources: The Family Economy by Rory Groves  Apply to work closely with me in our 8-week DEFENSE program! 

Why Your Plan Keeps Failing & What to Do Instead

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It's Primal Potential's 11 year anniversary!  Eleven years. One mission. Thousands of transformations. And a dozen lessons that changed everything. In today's special anniversary episode, I'm reflecting on 11 years of Primal Potential by sharing 12 of the most powerful, real-life lessons I've learned in business, coaching, personal growth, parenting, and beyond. (Yes, 12 lessons in 11 years because let's be honest, I've learned more in some years than others

Episode Summary: If you've ever felt like you're “good when you're on” but completely lost when life throws you off your plan — this episode is for you. In today's conversation, Elizabeth breaks down one of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make: the difference between compliance and consistency. Spoiler: most people think they're building consistency, but they're actually chasing compliance — and that's exactly why they keep starting over. You'll learn: The telltale signs you're stuck in compliance mode Why your plan isn't failing — your rigidity is What it means to build consistency that adapts, flexes, and endures The single mindset shift that makes every week smarter than the last Why flexibility isn't a weakness — it's the foundation of lasting progress This episode will help you let go of perfectionism and start building real, sustainable change — even on the messiest days. Mentioned in this Episode:

In this powerful episode, I'm sharing a message that started with a simple post: “The world needs more men with good intent who are physically, financially, and spiritually dangerous.” But I want to take that message deeper — and broader — to what it means for us as women, as parents, as people who want to live at our fullest potential.

n this episode, we're diving deep into something that holds so many of us back: the fear of being judged. Maybe you don't avoid walking in your neighborhood, but maybe you've skipped going to the gym, avoided putting on a swimsuit, or stayed silent in a room because you were worried what someone might think.

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If you aren't on my email list and want to get the emails and resources that go along with this message series, please click here. After dropping in your name and email, you'll be re-directed to all the resources.  Day 4: The Myth of Momentum & the Power of Staying You don't need more motivation. You need more butt power. Yes, butt power. As in: stay on your butt. Don't escape when it gets hard. Don't jump ship for something shinier just because this path lost its sparkle. In today's episode, Elizabeth shares the powerful story of an elementary school teacher who taught her students that the moment they feel stuck is the moment to stay. And how that principle — staying with the thing — might be the single most undervalued key to your consistency. Here's what we get into: Why novelty isn't a solution but more often avoidance The difference between energy that comes from hype and energy that comes from habit The illusion of a “new start” when what we really need is follow through How to identify where you keep abandoning what would actually work if you just stayed with it A powerful call to abide: to stay connected to your convictions when the feelings fade

If you aren't on my email list and want to get the emails and resources that go along with this message series, please click here. After dropping in your name and email, you'll be re-directed to all the resources.  ou can do everything right… and still not get the result you expected. So what happens next? Today's episode isn't about motivation. It's about staying power. It's about how you respond when you're frustrated, discouraged, or convinced it's not working, because that response determines everything. Inside this episode: Why your most important progress comes after things stop going to plan The difference between what feels justified in the moment and what actually serves your goals A client story that perfectly shows how we can turn a stepping stone into a cop-out — or a pivot point The simple but high-impact question that will change the way you respond to hard moments

If you aren't on my email list and want to get the emails and resources that go along with this message series, please click here. After dropping in your name and email, you'll be re-directed to all the resources.  You can be right in the moment… and still be really wrong in the pattern. Today's episode is a call to honesty. Not about whether a single choice “matters” but whether the pattern it belongs to is quietly killing your progress. Because here's the trap: We justify what's familiar. We rationalize what's comfortable. We talk ourselves into “one more time” like it's no big deal. But over and over again, we're protecting the very behavior that's holding us back. Inside this episode: Why “familiar” is not the same thing as “neutral” The hidden cost of being “right” in the moment A powerful lens to recognize when a pattern needs to be broken — even if the choice seems harmless The one question you must ask when justifying a pattern

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In today's episode, I'm sharing a powerful and uncomfortable truth: you can be incredibly productive and still be wildly ineffective. If you've ever felt like your days are full but your life feels stuck — this is for you. I'm drawing inspiration from The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis — a book where the devil teaches his apprentice how to keep someone distracted from living a meaningful, intentional life. One of the strategies? Keep them trapped in their to-do list. Make them believe that daily logistics are real life — and never let them question it. We're talking about: The danger of mistaking motion for progress How the “secondary” quietly replaces the “primary” Why the tasks that feel urgent often aren't important How to reframe your days around what truly matters This isn't about doing less — it's about making room for what's real. Join me inside The Consistency Course

We love to call it a comfort zone, but let's be honest — if you were truly comfortable, you wouldn't be emailing me, considering a change, or listening to this podcast. What we call the “comfort zone” is almost never comfortable. It's just known. Predictable. Familiar. And that's a trap. In this episode, I'm walking you through a powerful coaching conversation I had with someone on the fence about making a change. She thought she was afraid to leave her comfort zone… but what she was really bumping up against was the exposure of wanting more. We're getting into: Why what we label as comfort is often just familiarity The real reason you might be afraid to change (and what you're already missing out on) How your current fear might just be a red triangle in the storybook Zoom — you're too close to it to see what it really is And most importantly, I'm sharing three practical ways to get out of the known zone and into forward momentum: Make small changes — simple disruptions to your routines build pattern-breaking momentum Create strategic disappointment — practice saying “no” in low-stakes moments so the harder ones don't knock you down Choose intentional vulnerability — share the thing you'd rather not share; say the thing you usually skip over This isn't about overhauling your life. It's about doing one thing differently — and letting it open the door to change.

Episode Summary: In this powerful solo episode, Elizabeth gets real about what it means to feel like you're drowning—in grief, in overwhelm, in apathy—and why that doesn't mean you get to stop. With raw stories from parenting, business, and everyday life, she dismantles the lies we believe when we're stuck and reminds us that swimming doesn't require strength—it just requires movement. Whether you're spiraling in “I don't care” or paralyzed by “I don't know what to do,” this episode will call you up—not out—and show you exactly what it looks like to keep going when you're not sure you can. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Why panic makes you sink—and how to stop it The difference between being stuck and choosing stillness The real reason “I don't care” and “I don't know what to do” are lies Practical ways to “swim” even in your hardest moments Why resourcefulness is your most underused superpower What Elizabeth tells herself when she's tempted to shut down Powerful Quotes: “You don't need all the answers. You just need your next question.” “If you didn't care, it wouldn't feel like a problem.” “No one is coming to swim for you. But help is everywhere if you reach for it.” “The very feeling that makes you feel stuck is the very reason you need to do something.” Resources & Links: Email Elizabeth: elizabeth@primalpotential.com Join the Consistency Course See some of EB's Favorite Resources If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who's in deep water. Or screenshot and tag @elizabethbenton on Instagram—I want to hear what your next swim stroke is.

If your routine only works when life is calm and controlled… it's not a routine. It's a trap. In today's episode, we're diving into one of the biggest blocks to progress: the belief that consistency isn't possible when life is unpredictable. Whether it's school breaks, travel, toddler wake-ups, late meetings, or just the everyday chaos—this episode is here to help you build something that works in real life, not just in ideal conditions. We'll walk through: Why your chaos might be more predictable than you think How to stop starting over every time life changes What “anchor habits” are—and how to build your own Real examples from clients and my own routine The shift from “all or nothing” to “always something” Plus, I'll introduce you to a brand new tool inside The Consistency Course that can help coach you through your disruptors, anytime, anywhere.

You're not confused about your goals. You're not unclear on what matters. You want change — so why aren't you following through? That question came up again and again in this past week's check-ins, so I pulled the most common themes and patterns and unpacked them here. This episode is for anyone who feels frustrated that their actions don't line up with their intentions — and wants practical tools to break that cycle. We'll talk about: Why “this one thing won't hurt” is keeping you stuck The danger of vague excuses like “I just let it get away from me” How to define the ideal — and why you need a vision to move toward The real difference between having a plan and being prepared to execute How to use “the lifespan of pleasure” to make better decisions And the skill that matters most when you drift off track (spoiler: it's not willpower)

This is your wake-up call. Not because you're lazy. Not because you're broken. But because you're stuck in patterns that are keeping you from the life you say you want. In this episode, we're cutting through the noise with a direct, no-fluff pep talk for the days you're tempted to quit, coast, or wait for “later.” Whether you're in a funk, making excuses, or just need a reminder of what's at stake — this is for you. You'll hear about: Why your comfort zone is costing you more than you think The brutal truth about giving yourself “a pass” The mindset that makes success inevitable How every excuse is a vote for the life you don't want Why change won't happen until you decide it's non-negotiable If you keep putting it off, you're not just delaying the life you want — you're building regret. You're either going to do the work, or you're going to wish you had.