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If you aren't on my email list and want to get the emails and resources that go along with this message series, please click here. After dropping in your name and email, you'll be re-directed to all the resources.  ou can do everything right… and still not get the result you expected. So what happens next? Today's episode isn't about motivation. It's about staying power. It's about how you respond when you're frustrated, discouraged, or convinced it's not working, because that response determines everything. Inside this episode: Why your most important progress comes after things stop going to plan The difference between what feels justified in the moment and what actually serves your goals A client story that perfectly shows how we can turn a stepping stone into a cop-out — or a pivot point The simple but high-impact question that will change the way you respond to hard moments

If you aren't on my email list and want to get the emails and resources that go along with this message series, please click here. After dropping in your name and email, you'll be re-directed to all the resources.  You can be right in the moment… and still be really wrong in the pattern. Today's episode is a call to honesty. Not about whether a single choice “matters” but whether the pattern it belongs to is quietly killing your progress. Because here's the trap: We justify what's familiar. We rationalize what's comfortable. We talk ourselves into “one more time” like it's no big deal. But over and over again, we're protecting the very behavior that's holding us back. Inside this episode: Why “familiar” is not the same thing as “neutral” The hidden cost of being “right” in the moment A powerful lens to recognize when a pattern needs to be broken — even if the choice seems harmless The one question you must ask when justifying a pattern

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In today's episode, I'm sharing a powerful and uncomfortable truth: you can be incredibly productive and still be wildly ineffective. If you've ever felt like your days are full but your life feels stuck — this is for you. I'm drawing inspiration from The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis — a book where the devil teaches his apprentice how to keep someone distracted from living a meaningful, intentional life. One of the strategies? Keep them trapped in their to-do list. Make them believe that daily logistics are real life — and never let them question it. We're talking about: The danger of mistaking motion for progress How the “secondary” quietly replaces the “primary” Why the tasks that feel urgent often aren't important How to reframe your days around what truly matters This isn't about doing less — it's about making room for what's real. Join me inside The Consistency Course

We love to call it a comfort zone, but let's be honest — if you were truly comfortable, you wouldn't be emailing me, considering a change, or listening to this podcast. What we call the “comfort zone” is almost never comfortable. It's just known. Predictable. Familiar. And that's a trap. In this episode, I'm walking you through a powerful coaching conversation I had with someone on the fence about making a change. She thought she was afraid to leave her comfort zone… but what she was really bumping up against was the exposure of wanting more. We're getting into: Why what we label as comfort is often just familiarity The real reason you might be afraid to change (and what you're already missing out on) How your current fear might just be a red triangle in the storybook Zoom — you're too close to it to see what it really is And most importantly, I'm sharing three practical ways to get out of the known zone and into forward momentum: Make small changes — simple disruptions to your routines build pattern-breaking momentum Create strategic disappointment — practice saying “no” in low-stakes moments so the harder ones don't knock you down Choose intentional vulnerability — share the thing you'd rather not share; say the thing you usually skip over This isn't about overhauling your life. It's about doing one thing differently — and letting it open the door to change.

Episode Summary: In this powerful solo episode, Elizabeth gets real about what it means to feel like you're drowning—in grief, in overwhelm, in apathy—and why that doesn't mean you get to stop. With raw stories from parenting, business, and everyday life, she dismantles the lies we believe when we're stuck and reminds us that swimming doesn't require strength—it just requires movement. Whether you're spiraling in “I don't care” or paralyzed by “I don't know what to do,” this episode will call you up—not out—and show you exactly what it looks like to keep going when you're not sure you can. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Why panic makes you sink—and how to stop it The difference between being stuck and choosing stillness The real reason “I don't care” and “I don't know what to do” are lies Practical ways to “swim” even in your hardest moments Why resourcefulness is your most underused superpower What Elizabeth tells herself when she's tempted to shut down Powerful Quotes: “You don't need all the answers. You just need your next question.” “If you didn't care, it wouldn't feel like a problem.” “No one is coming to swim for you. But help is everywhere if you reach for it.” “The very feeling that makes you feel stuck is the very reason you need to do something.” Resources & Links: Email Elizabeth: elizabeth@primalpotential.com Join the Consistency Course See some of EB's Favorite Resources If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who's in deep water. Or screenshot and tag @elizabethbenton on Instagram—I want to hear what your next swim stroke is.

If your routine only works when life is calm and controlled… it's not a routine. It's a trap. In today's episode, we're diving into one of the biggest blocks to progress: the belief that consistency isn't possible when life is unpredictable. Whether it's school breaks, travel, toddler wake-ups, late meetings, or just the everyday chaos—this episode is here to help you build something that works in real life, not just in ideal conditions. We'll walk through: Why your chaos might be more predictable than you think How to stop starting over every time life changes What “anchor habits” are—and how to build your own Real examples from clients and my own routine The shift from “all or nothing” to “always something” Plus, I'll introduce you to a brand new tool inside The Consistency Course that can help coach you through your disruptors, anytime, anywhere.

You're not confused about your goals. You're not unclear on what matters. You want change — so why aren't you following through? That question came up again and again in this past week's check-ins, so I pulled the most common themes and patterns and unpacked them here. This episode is for anyone who feels frustrated that their actions don't line up with their intentions — and wants practical tools to break that cycle. We'll talk about: Why “this one thing won't hurt” is keeping you stuck The danger of vague excuses like “I just let it get away from me” How to define the ideal — and why you need a vision to move toward The real difference between having a plan and being prepared to execute How to use “the lifespan of pleasure” to make better decisions And the skill that matters most when you drift off track (spoiler: it's not willpower)

This is your wake-up call. Not because you're lazy. Not because you're broken. But because you're stuck in patterns that are keeping you from the life you say you want. In this episode, we're cutting through the noise with a direct, no-fluff pep talk for the days you're tempted to quit, coast, or wait for “later.” Whether you're in a funk, making excuses, or just need a reminder of what's at stake — this is for you. You'll hear about: Why your comfort zone is costing you more than you think The brutal truth about giving yourself “a pass” The mindset that makes success inevitable How every excuse is a vote for the life you don't want Why change won't happen until you decide it's non-negotiable If you keep putting it off, you're not just delaying the life you want — you're building regret. You're either going to do the work, or you're going to wish you had.

Ever feel like you're arguing with yourself all day long — about getting up early, skipping the snack, following through — and somehow, the wrong voice keeps winning? You're not broken. You're just unprepared. In this episode, I'm bringing you inside the debate team that's happening inside your head every day — and breaking down why your internal arguments are falling flat... and what to do about it. If you showed up to debate class with the kinds of excuses and one-liners you use on yourself — you'd get crushed. So why are you trying to win the battle for your goals that way? We'll talk about: The 4 major ways we drop the ball in our internal decision-making Why “I said I would” isn't strong enough to beat a craving How to build a better case for the choices that move you forward Real-life examples (goldfish snacks, alarms, girls' night wine — we're going there) What conviction, energy, and preparation actually sound like If you've been stuck in a cycle of “I know better but I don't do better,” this episode is going to feel like a mirror, a wake-up call, and a strategy session — all in one.

We have to stop giving ourselves a pass with vague, soft language. “Emotional eating.” “Self-sabotage.” “Checked out.” “Comfort food.” These phrases sound like awareness — but most of the time, they're actually avoidance. They're smokescreens that help us label the pattern without actually examining it. But if we want to get out of the cycle, we've got to stop naming things in a way that lets us off the hook. In today's episode, we're getting real. I'll walk you through: Why vague labels keep us stuck How to replace them with specific, honest observations The role clarity plays in breaking patterns And how this one shift alone can change everything — without needing more willpower or motivation If you've ever said, “I just keep sabotaging myself,” this one's for you.

We've been sold a lie that progress has to be painful—and that if we enjoy the path, we're probably doing it wrong. But what if the opposite is true? In this episode, I'm introducing you to an idea I'm calling 75 Fun—not a challenge, not a reset, but a rhythm. A summer rhythm that actually feels good to live. One that includes strength, rest, play, and connection… without guilt or burnout. We'll talk about: Why most plans fall apart (hint: they're miserable) The fear that “ease” means “failure” How I'm designing a life I don't want to escape from this summer The difference between indulgence and intentional joy What my personal 75 Fun rhythm looks like (and how you can create your own) This isn't about perfection. It's not about doing more. It's about finally creating a life you love to live—one small decision at a time. Mentioned In Today's Episode:  Join me inside The Consistency Course! Grab my fave protein powder (use the code BENTON to save $10 on your first order)

You don't need more time — you need fewer false fires. If you constantly feel like there's just not enough time, this episode will change the way you see your life — and your to-do list — forever. Inside the Consistency Course, I hear it every day: “Life got busy. I meant to do XYZ. But the day got away from me.” And the problem isn't laziness or lack of motivation — it's the fact that we've confused pressure for priority. We've been taught to answer to what's loud, urgent, and externally expected. But that kind of pressure has nothing to do with what actually matters to us. In today's episode, I'll show you exactly how to stop working in your life — and start working on it. You'll walk away with tools to clarify your true priorities, protect your time, and reset your habits so they actually reflect what matters most to you.

If you're waiting to feel confident, prepared, or fully equipped before you go after your goal — this episode is your wake-up call. In this raw and honest solo show, I'm sharing lessons from a recent experience hosting the very first gala for the Dagny Foundation — including what it taught me about discomfort, asking for help, scrappy problem-solving, and why we often stay stuck by thinking the same old thoughts. I'll walk you through the biggest mindset shifts that helped me get through something I didn't feel ready for — and how those same shifts apply directly to your goals. If you've ever felt unqualified, overwhelmed, or afraid to start, this is the conversation you need to hear. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✅ Why waiting to feel ready keeps you stuck ✅ How discomfort can actually be a green light for growth ✅ Why asking for help is your power move, not your weakness ✅ Real examples of resourcefulness in action ✅ How to stop thinking inside the same limiting mental box ✅ Why what you're dreading is almost never as bad as it seems Listener Challenge: Ask for help this week — even if it feels awkward. Do one uncomfortable thing you've been avoiding. Brainstorm 3 “stupid” ideas — and act on one of them. Links & Mentions: The Dagny Foundation The Consistency Course Grab Fit20 - the protein powder I gave away on today's episode. Our family loves it and the code BENTON can save you $10 on your first order.  Tag Me & Share! If this episode hit home for you, share it with a friend and tag me @elizabethbenton on Instagram — I'd love to hear what stood out most!

We've all done it. Started strong. Felt focused. Made a plan. And then… disappeared on ourselves. We check out. Drift. Ghost our own goals. Not because we don't care. Not because we're lazy. But because somewhere along the way, doing the work stopped feeling desirable. In this episode, I'm breaking down the real reasons we stop showing up—and how to finally change the pattern. Because this isn't just about missing a few days. It's about rebuilding trust with yourself and learning how to stay—especially when it's hard. In this episode, we'll talk about: Why your mindset and your strategy both shape your consistency The subtle beliefs that make not showing up feel easier How “eating your emotions” and “self-sabotage” are keeping you vague and stuck Why you need to practice disappointment (yes, really) What overstimulation is doing to your focus—and how to reset it Why showing up at 2% effort still counts (sometimes, it counts more) You'll also hear how I use these same principles in my own life—and how we apply them inside The Consistency Course to help people finally stop ghosting their goals. This is one of those episodes you might want to listen to twice—because we're not just talking about how to show up today. We're talking about how to stop disappearing for good. Ready to stop drifting and start practicing?

Is AI your new accountability partner… or just another shiny distraction? In this episode, I'm sharing a real, nuanced conversation about the rise of AI tools—how they can support your goals, where they fall short, and why none of it matters if you're still skipping the root work. I use AI. I love it. It's smart, fast, and powerful. But I'm seeing more and more people treat it like a replacement for coaching, for community, for consistency—and that's where things get dangerous.

Let's talk about something a lot of people get wrong. Grace is not the same thing as giving yourself a pass. It's not pretending the slip didn't happen, and it's not code for “oh well, I'll try again tomorrow.” In this episode, we're breaking down the critical difference between giving yourself grace and letting yourself off the hook — and why that distinction might be the key to finally building the consistency you've been chasing. I'm sharing personal stories, powerful mindset shifts, and a simple way to move forward when things don't go as planned — without spiraling, shaming, or slipping into all-or-nothing thinking.

We've all been there — an emotion hits hard, and before we even realize it, we've abandoned our plan, quit on the day, or convinced ourselves that we're off track. But what if there's another way? In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between emotional spiral and emotional sobriety — and how emotional leadership is the missing link for so many people struggling with inconsistency. You'll hear real-life examples, practical reflection questions, and simple steps to start shifting your patterns right now. If you're ready to stop following your feelings and start leading yourself through them, this one's for you.

We all have moments where everything feels hard—parenting, food choices, work, motivation. But what if the real problem isn't the hard? What if it's the headline we keep writing about it? In this episode, we're talking about how your internal headlines, orientation, and daily anchors shape your progress—or your struggle. Because it's not just about effort. It's about direction. And if you're not tethered to the right things, you will drift.

Ever notice how your hardest decisions—like skipping a workout or reaching for junk food—usually happen when you're tired, stressed, or just done? In today's episode, I'm sharing a simple but game-changing tool I use in those moments: The 3-Minute Rule. This isn't about forcing willpower or waiting to "feel like it." It's about giving yourself three intentional minutes to shift where you're making the decision from—so you can choose with clarity, not chaos.

4 Questions to Ask Before You Give Up (Again) A guide to breaking your pattern and finally moving forward

This isn't another how-to episode. It's not a checklist. It's a letter — from my heart to yours — for the woman who's tired of starting over, but still hasn't given up. If you feel like you're already halfway out the door… if you doubt it'll work because it hasn't worked before… this one's for you. In this episode, we unpack: The real reason you're stuck (hint: it's not discipline) Why more rules aren't the answer How to rebuild self-trust, fast What “habit debt” is — and how to pay it off The most powerful shift to finally feel unstoppable This one's personal — and it just might change everything.

Episode Summary: When it comes to fat loss, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to carbohydrates. In this episode, we dive into how to personalize your carbohydrate intake based on key factors such as your baseline diet, body composition, activity level, and even your unique blood sugar response. By understanding how your body processes carbs, you can fine-tune your intake for sustainable fat loss and optimal energy levels. Before we get started, grab your copy of my new Fat Loss E-Book! Here's the link. And, head over to my new YouTube channel to subscribe and turn on notifications before the new Carb Series kicks off next week.  What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✔ How to assess your baseline carbohydrate intake before making adjustments ✔ Why muscle mass and body fat percentage impact carb tolerance ✔ The role of activity level in determining your optimal carb intake ✔ How health goals (fat loss, performance, hormone balance) influence carb strategy ✔ Why food sensitivities and individual blood sugar responses matter ✔ Practical strategies for tracking and adjusting your carb intake Key Factors to Consider When Personalizing Carb Intake 1. Your Baseline – Where Are You Starting? Before making changes, assess your current carbohydrate intake. Track what you eat for a few days and consider factors like: Blood sugar response (using a glucometer or continuous glucose monitor) Insulin sensitivity (fasting glucose, HbA1c levels) Energy levels and hunger cues

In this episode of the Primal Potential Podcast, we're diving into three powerful but simple strategies to help you optimize your blood sugar, improve your insulin sensitivity, and increase your energy levels. These are real-world, easy-to-implement hacks that go beyond the usual “eat less sugar” advice. Before we get started, grab your copy of my new Fat Loss E-Book! Here's the link. And, head over to my new YouTube channel to subscribe and turn on notifications before the new Carb Series kicks off next week.  Hack #1: Get Sunlight First Thing in the Morning ☀️ Did you know that getting direct sunlight within the first hour of waking helps reset your circadian rhythm, which plays a major role in blood sugar regulation and insulin sensitivity? Pairing this with light movement (like a 10-minute walk or some gentle stretching) can improve how efficiently your body uses glucose before breakfast. What the Science Says: On average, exposure to sunlight improved insulin sensitivity by 18.75%. Median improvement was 18%, meaning half of people experienced even greater benefits. Range of effects: Sunlight exposure improved insulin function by 15-22%. Glucose tolerance: Participants who got more sunlight saw a 12-16% improvement in how well their bodies processed carbohydrates.

The Inflammatory Reset: My Experience Following the Protocol It's been a while since we've done a book club episode, and I'm excited to dive into The Inflammatory Reset by Dr. Josh Redd. This book is all about reducing chronic inflammation through diet, lifestyle changes, and functional medicine approaches. I've been following the protocol for at least 30 days - in the episode I'll share more about why.

Episode Summary: In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between decluttering your space and achieving weight loss success. Our environment shapes our mindset, habits, and overall well-being. By organizing our physical surroundings, we create space for better decisions, healthier choices, and a calmer mind. Tune in to discover how a clutter-free home can support your weight loss journey. Listener Question: “I am working on decluttering my home, changing my relationship to home and possessions. Any advice or guidance in that area would be great!” Key Topics Covered: How your external environment impacts your internal state. The psychological effects of clutter: stress, overwhelm, and decision fatigue. The identity shift: Becoming a person who takes care of their space and themselves. The financial aspect: Clutter represents money you once had—rethinking purchases. Practical strategies to start decluttering and regain control. Practical Approaches to Decluttering: Stop Spending on Non-Essentials Implement a budget and a 24-hour hold rule before making purchases. Reflect on past purchases: Did they bring lasting joy or just add to clutter? Consider: Would I rather have this item or the money in savings? Ditch and Donate Like It's Your Job Declutter small spaces daily (drawer, shelf, cabinet) to avoid overwhelm. Use the 20-item rule: Find and remove 20 items per day (expired food, unworn clothes, broken items, etc.). Give items to friends, donate to charity, or sell locally for extra cash. Why This Matters for Weight Loss: Decluttering fosters a sense of control and reduces stress-related eating. A tidy kitchen encourages healthier eating and meal prep. Removing distractions makes it easier to focus on self-care and movement. Action Step for Listeners: Pick one small area to declutter today and reflect on how it makes you feel. Share your progress with us on social media or email!

These steps are easy, simple and accessible. More importantly, they work. You're going to want to listen to this episode and give this strategy a try! If you have questions, find me on Instagram and let me know!  Subscribe to EB's YouTube channel! Live show coming soon!   

I want you to do this exercise - even if it takes you a few weeks - and I want to hear how it goes! Find me on Instagram and let me know what you think of it and what it teaches you or unlocks for you!  To learn more about working with me, head here: primalpotential.com/work-with-me/ Episode Summary: Ever feel stuck in the same patterns, making the same excuses, and wondering why change feels so hard? In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful mindset shift that has been a game-changer for me and my clients—the 300 Desires Exercise. It's a simple but transformative practice designed to help you break free from limiting beliefs, shift your focus from problems to possibilities, and train your brain to think differently. We'll dive into why we tend to focus on what we don't want instead of what we do, how to push past resistance when setting new goals, and why this exercise can lead to major breakthroughs in your habits, mindset, and even your daily decisions. Plus, I'll share real-life examples of how this process has unlocked new opportunities and unexpected desires. If you're ready to start thinking like a better version of yourself, this episode is for you! Episode Highlights:

For the longest time, I was chasing change but not true transformation, and my results showed it. I stayed in the struggle for decades.  So many of us find ourselves chasing the same goals for months—maybe even years—without ever feeling like we truly get there. But what if the issue isn't a lack of effort, but rather the approach itself? In today's episode, I'm breaking down the crucial difference between change and transformation and why this distinction matters more than you might think. I'll share my own personal experience of shifting from temporary change to deep, lasting transformation and how identity-based consistency plays a key role in making sustainable progress. Plus, we'll dive into the power of setting personal standards, why root work is essential for breaking free from old habits, and a simple but powerful mindset shift that can help you create real, lasting results. If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of “starting over,” this episode is for you! Episode Highlights:

I recently had a client share that she knows what to do and she's still not doing it. She feels stuck because she doesn't know WHY she isn't doing it. Hear my recommendation and also a super personal lesson that applies around how I'm working through my own fear and anxiety that sometimes make me feel stuck.  Want to join the wait list for The Consistency Course? Drop your info at the link below:  primalpotential.com/work-with-me/

Over on my Instagram, I shared a handful of pictures from when I was near my heaviest to talk about some of the biggest changes I made and today I want to dive into the single most helpful and impactful shift. 

For so many of you, making change feels hard. Today we're taking a perspective from Tools for the Trenches on why change might feel hard and how you can approach it differently. 

Does eating healthy feel hard? Working out feel hard? Getting up with your alarm clock or sticking to a budget super challenging? This episode is for you!  Do you want The Consistency Creed? Head here and I'll send it to you for free! https://primalpotential.com/creed/

We get to make our circumstances and patterns better or worse. Choice by choice, moment by moment, it's up to us. If you struggle with thoughts like "It doesn't even matter" or "I'll start tomorrow", I think you'll get a lot from this episode!

I want to hear from you! Are you enjoying this series? Do you have questions? Follow up topics you want to explore? I hope you love this episode around the idea of productivity and what we're missing! 

We're continuing our Tools for the Trenches series and I'd really love to hear feedback from you on this series! Reach out and let me know what you're thinking as we go through parts of the book. 

This is a tough one, my friends, not gonna lie. But if you've ever wondered how you'll get through a struggle or tough season, I hope you are truly blessed by this episode, the start of a new short series we're tackling. 

Have a couple good days but it never seems to stick? Feel like your weekends lack structure? Feel like you can't do what you want or need to do for yourself because of other people's agendas?  Let's address it all!   

You have to end the on-again-off-again-always-restarting approach to change. Here are 5 shifts you can start to make today! If you want to consider working together in The Consistency Course, head here to learn more and let me know if you have questions! 

If you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for our upcoming free, live trainings! Choose from either Monday January 13th or Wednesday January 15th. Click here to grab your free spot! 

The conversation around these 3 traps is sure to surprise you! A must-listen if you want to be more consistent this year! If you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for our upcoming free, live trainings! Choose from either Monday January 13th or Wednesday January 15th. Click here to grab your free spot!