Raising Other People's Kids Podcast

During this episode, I interview my special guest, Barry Farmer. Barry grew up in kinship care and became a foster parent at the age of 20 and adopted his oldest son at the age of 22. Barry Farmer is a spokesperson for Adopt Us Kids. He’s an advocate, speaker, mentor, blogger, and podcast host of the Barry Farmer Show. Barry is a single adoptive father of three, and I’m confident you’ll be encouraged by his story. Barry Farmer is a Native of Richmond, Virginia. He grew up in Kinship Care with his grandmother from ages 5-18. For the last 15 years he's been devoted to working inside and outside the classroom with youth and their families. At age 20, Barry became a foster father with a local therapeutic agency to further help youth within his community. At age 22 he adopted his oldest son. Three years later, Barry's two younger sons were placed in his home, making him a proud father of three amazing young men. With these additions to his family, he closed his home after 7 years as an active foster parent. Today, as a single father, Barry is a Spokesman for Adopt Us Kids, Foster Care Adoption Advocate for children awaiting adoption, Speaker, Mentor, Podcast Host of The Barry Farmer Show and The FosterCare & Adoption Life talk Web Series, as well as the Creator/Administrator of one of the largest online support group for Foster Care and Adoptive families.

During this episode, China Jackson and I define Conflict Circumvention and how it’s different from conflict resolution. We also discuss ways teachers, foster parents and service providers can teach young people to circumvent their conflicts. China and I also talk about some of his other film and music projects. China Jackson holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Trine University and has over eight years of practical experience as a program coordinator for both conflict resolution and literacy enrichment programs which serve inner city schools.

During this episode, Eric and I will discuss how he builds supports and advocacy within the school district, and how this work impacts vulnerable families in Pasadena, California. We’ll also discuss the role mentors have played in his life, and his work as a Liaison for the DeVos Urban leadership Initiative.  Eric V. Johnson has served urban youth for over 40 years as a pastor/director/educator. He currently serves as the Director of Partnerships & Collaborations for Stars, where he is responsible for building support and advocacy within the school district around systemic issues impacting vulnerable families in Pasadena, California. Born during the “Jim Crow era” in our country, he is the son of a law enforcement officer, who with his partners were part of a notoriously abusive culture with no accountability. As a result, he endured tremendous physical and emotional abuse at home and later became a victim of molestation. Through his mother’s intervention, the church became a refuge and at an early age committed his life to changing that culture.   “Pastors and mentors reached out to me as a teenager dealing with abuse and molestation. They gave me hope and let me see my God-given value. Ever since then my passion was to give that same hope to others.” This passion fuels his collaborative work which includes, administrating a Summer School on behalf of the local school district and serving as the Southern California Liaison for the DeVos Urban Leadership Initiative. Eric’s other passion is writing scripts for film, TV, animation and comics with his partners in their trans-media company, Blaqueink. “I love storytelling!! I love how this medium can impact people in a way that no pulpit can. I have no doubt that if Jesus was walking the Earth today, his parables would have been films and TV!” He pastors a house church with his wonderful wife, Ana Maria that reaches out to others in the industry. Eric and Ana currently live in Arcadia. They have one daughter, Daniella, who is finishing her Masters program at USC in order to teach Special Needs students.

Andre Porter is a single foster father and works in a school district with alternative students who have intensive mental health needs. During this episode, Mr. Porter and I discuss resistance for being single foster fathers, we’ll talk about the challenges and successes of raising teen boys, and how we juggle career, personal life and home.  Corporate America has afforded many valuable lessons for everyday living. Nothing is more fulling nor rewarding than being a part of nurturing young men and giving them the tools for success - Now and beyond Foster Care !  Only by Divine guidance can such a task be fulfilled.  In 1998, GOD told Andre Porter while house hunting " this home will be a Safe Haven for young men", later years GOD also spoke the words " although, he did not have a Father, I will use him to Father many".  Some 40 plus Foster Care Placements later, he deems every young man in his care as a top priority.  Insuring they are SAFE, COMFORTABLE and LOVED are the main components without compromise! Working with Indiana Department of Corrections, Juvenile Probation, Indiana Department of Children Services, Warren School District, Mount Olive Church and the Department of Justice - having been exposed to support and resources that help place the "right youth in the right home (my home) " has proven beneficial.   Nothing is more important than making sure we are making a difference in the lives of our children.  No excuses, make it happen !  Wishing he had the ability to support more youth in need of a home,  For whatever the reason, the demand continues to grow !

Bruce Wooldridge is an adoptive parent and the Special Education Coordinator at Indianapolis Lighthouse Charter School South. During this episode, Bruce and I discuss negative stereotypes of scholars who receive special education services, he'll also suggest some exceptional methods to use with exceptional learners, and we’ll talk about his experiences as an adoptive and foster parent. Bruce Wooldridge's passion for educating special education scholars was ignited in high school.  He had the life changing opportunity to volunteer in the special education classroom. During this opportunity, Bruce realized all students have varied learning ability, and he wanted to help them reach their highest ability. Bruce's educational path led him to Western Kentucky University, where he earned a Bachelor’s of Science degree in 2001 in Exceptional Education with an emphasis in learning and behavior disorders. Being a lifelong learning, Bruce furthered his education by earning a Master’s Degree in Education and Principal Licensure. Bruce Wooldridge served as the Director of Special Education of the Charles A. Tindley Network Schools. His current educational role is the Special Education Coordinator at Indianapolis Lighthouse Charter School South. Bruce's commitment to destroying the negative sterotypes of special education scholars and improving the instruction to all scholars fuels his passion. Bruce is married to a special education teacher, Annette Wooldridge and they have five children together.

Grant is an adoption attorney with his family’s law firm Kirsh & Kirsh and the proud sponsor of this podcast. During this episode, Grant and I discuss non-traditional families that adopt, lies and misconceptions about adopting, and what motivates him to be a support to the cause of fostering and adopting. Growing up as the son of an adoption attorney, Grant Kirsh has been surrounded by adoption his entire life.  As a second generation adoption attorney, he enjoys continuing his family’s legacy in Indiana. Grant grew up in Carmel, Indiana, graduating from Carmel High School, Indiana University for his Bachelor’s Degree, and Indiana University School of Law for law school.  He is married to Emley, whom he has known since high school, and they have two lovely children:  Anna & Brogan. Grant loves his family very much and enjoys spending the weekends with them on the lake, walking on the Monon and playing in the yard.  Grant, Emley and Anna have 3 dogs – Daisy, India, & Jake.  

During this episode, Anthony Beverly and I discuss reasons for violence in our communities, strategies foster parents and others can use to help young people prevent violence, and we’ll talk about the programs and services that Stop the Violence offers. Anthony Beverly is a Servant Leader who believes in community. His purpose in life is helping inner city youth become men of God. He was first introduced to community activism at a very early age. Anthony Beverly graduated from Crispus Attucks High School (Indianapolis Public School). Thereafter, he attended Tennessee State University where he received a Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration. Anthony Beverly’s experiences include over 20 years of youth and family ministry programming, advising, counseling and career planning. Anthony Beverly is the founder and of Stop the Violence Indianapolis, Inc.

During this episode, Stephen and I discuss ways we can help our kids de-escalate from a meltdown, ways meltdowns can be prevented before they start, and we’ll talk about his Dino-Brain video. Stephen Phillips is the School Counselor for both Eastridge and Lakeside Elementary Schools of MSD of Warren Township. He received his Bachelors degree from Indiana University Bloomington in psychology, and immediately returned to graduate school to pursue a masters degree. After receiving his Masters in Education also at IUB with a specialization in counseling Stephen worked for a mental health agency for a short time. He then acquired his education license in counseling and began searching for school counseling positions. After a long search and many interviews later Mr. Phillips landed in Warren and could not be happier! He loves Indianapolis, lives downtown, enjoys live music and local eats! Stephen is very close with his family and definitely a cat person. He's a fan of scary movies, history, and has a small obsession with The Golden Girls!

Jill Rippy is a licensing coordinator at NYAP in South Bend, Indiana, she’s a foster parent and author of her blog, The Foster Life, and she’s part of the leadership team of IFAAP. During this episode, Jill and I will discuss the common Myths of Fostering Teens, resources available to those who foster teens, and ways in which foster parents can help teens transition into adulthood. Jill Rippy is the proud mother of a couple dozen kids. She has two biological and many bonus children. Jill has been a foster mother for nearly a decade and is so proud of all of her children.  Jill's passion for fostering began early in her teaching career when she decided it was time for her to be a part of the solution. When one of her students was removed from his family, it broke her heart that she couldn't take him home with her. Angry and determined, Jill began her foster licensure training the following weekend. After a 12 year teaching career in Indianapolis, Jill's family relocated to Northern Indiana five years ago when her husband accepted a position at Notre Dame. For the past five years, She has strived to serve the local foster community by maintaining foster support groups and creating community partnerships to help serve foster families.  Jill also maintain a foster blog, The Foster Life, and manages several online support groups for the foster and local communities. Jill strongly believes in connection and community. Her family also attends River Valley Church, another strong support for the foster community. 

Pastor Ken Johnson and I discuss his work with the Indianapolis Colts, how he and his wife Della has always opened his home to Other People's Kids, and we talk about him preparing for his legacy by planting a church, New Heights Church. The urgent wail of a police siren provides the background noise for the street where young Ken Johnson walks. He walks the street, absently kicking a discarded beer bottle. The surroundings mirror his own heart; dark and bleak. The neighborhood carries the same poverty-stricken, drug-laced stench of the last four years he has lived. Clutched in his hands is a tattered football; a symbol of the young boy’s one passion. Even though his mother sets aside her own well-being to provide for him, it isn’t enough. By high school graduation, he will have memorized a total of eighteen addresses, each one another dismal ghetto. As a young boy, Ken knew temptation and struggle intimately. Outside of his athletic ability, there was little hope for him to excel. He faced a future as just another urban statistic unable to fly above the tragedy of his own life. Despite success on the high school football field, he continually battled to overcome the obstacles of his desperate surroundings, fighting to pull free. Then in 1979, Ken’s passion became his ticket out. His blue chip success on the high school football field earned him a scholarship to play for the University of Tulsa. His perseverance had finally paid off and he began his career as a college athlete. It was there that Ken was introduced to Jesus by his fellow teammates. After grappling with many difficult truths about himself and about God, Ken decided to follow Jesus and gave his life to Him. That decision that was the beginning of a deep transformation for Ken. Throughout his college career, Ken navigated through adversity and obstacles one day at a time, growing in wisdom and self-esteem with each success. In 1984, he earned a B.S. in Education and was ready to take the next step in life – pro-football. But another obstacle stood in his path. A devasting knee injury would prevent him from chasing his dream. Ken’s relationship with God empowered him to move beyond yet another crushing disappointment. He pulled himself up and decided to serve his country in the military. He then went on to become a police officer, devoting much of the next six years to the inner city neighborhoods of Tulsa.  It was there that he recognized the face of hopelessness in the youth, and it stirred a deep compassion inside him. He saw his own childhood reflected in their eyes, and his heart was moved to take action. By this time, Ken had begun to soar on the wings of hope in his own personal journey. In every facet of his life, he continually made choices that strengthened his commitment to being a man of excellence in Christ. He wanted to share the transformative power of Jesus and eternal hope with people everywhere. Through a series of choices and opportunities, Ken resigned from his commission with the Tulsa police department and moved on to a position in Indianapolis with the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Soon thereafter, he became the Protestant Chaplain to the Indianapolis Colts, a station he still holds today. He uses his platform as a springboard to reach out across America, effectively inspiring and empowering people of all ages and from all walks of life. Ken resides in Indianapolis, Indiana with his wife Della, who accepted in hand in marriage in 1983. They have three adult children, Dominick, Kristina, and national recording artist, Kendall.

Tomeka Johnson, Principal of Eastridge Elementary School and I will discuss some of the things that teachers and administrators are doing to prepare for students, we’ll talk about things parents can do to help their children get ready for Back-to-School, and we’ll suggest ways that the community can partner with our schools. Tomeka Johnson was born and raised in Indianapolis, IN and attended Warren Central High School (Home of the Warriors). She attended Ball State University where she earned her Bachelor of Science and Education Degree in 2003 and Butler University were she received her master's degree in School Administration in 2014. Shortly after returning to Indianapolis, Mrs. Johnson began teaching and developing her passion for working with youth in poverty. Between Indianapolis Public Schools and Warren Township Schools she has over 15 years of teaching and administrative service. Currently Mrs. Johnson spends her time as the Principal of Eastridge Elementary.

Dr. Rascoe, Founder of Boys II Men Inc., and I will discuss his time as a teacher and administrator. We’ll talk about some of the challenges and common life experiences of the boys that he serves. And Dr. Rascoe will offer suggestions on how to help boys develop into men. Dr. Lars Rascoe was born and raised in Indianapolis, IN and attended North Central High School. He attended Indiana State University where he earned his Bachelor of the Arts in Industrial Technology Education. Shortly after returning to Indianapolis Dr. Rascoe began teaching and developing his passion for working with youth. Between Wayne Township, Washington Township, Pike Township, and Jewel Christian Academy he has over 25 years of teaching and administrative service. Currently Dr. Rascoe divides his time between his philanthropic efforts with Boys II Men, serving on the Traders Point School Board, and mentoring youth throughout the city. He is a member of the eastern Star Church for 22 years. In 1995, during Dr. Rascoe's time at Metropolitan School District of Pike Township's Guion Creek Middle School, he searched for an opportunity to challenge boys to mature into young men who become prophet, provider, and protector of the next generation of youth.

Cathy S. Tooley and I will discuss what is really happening in our schools today, Charter Schools, standardized tests, and she offers some suggestions on how to fix our schools. Cathy S. Tooley is the President and CEO of Tools for Success. Cathy is an Author/Consultant/ Trainer focusing on academic and professional trainings. She utilizes her strategies to learn and grow individuals, companies and schools. Additionally, the business offers an opportunity to hire an outstanding presenter and an exciting speaker to motivate, to educate, and to inspire any audience. Cathy Tooley is a dynamic presenter, an intuitive educator, and a collaborative consultant, who knows how to deliver innovative content.  Her consultations and presentations on a variety of topics impart practical information, humor and immediate results. Her presentations allow both individuals and companies to learn from themselves and from each other to maximize their results. 

Kathy Kiebel and I will discuss the differences between behavioral management and therapy, her experiences with clients that have Prader-Willi Syndrome, and her work as a Certified Mediator. Kathy Kiebel is a Behavioral Consultant and since 1999 is the owner/operator of her own behavioral consulting agency, Kiebel Behavioral Consulting of Indiana, Inc. Kathy currently provides behavioral consulting services to a highly diversified group of individuals who have been referred through three agencies. She has provided Behavior Management services since 1999 through Professional Assessment of Indiana for Individuals with developmental disabilities, Autism Spectrum Disorder and Traumatic Brain Injury. She is well known in the behavioral needs of those who have been diagnosed with Prader-Willi Syndrome.  Since 2005, she has provided Behavior Management services for children and families involved with juvenile probation and the Department of Child and Family Services through Choices Collaborated Care Systems. Areas of expertise include Trauma based behavioral issues, Reactive Attachment Disorder and Diabetes Education and Management for parents with Children diagnosed with Type I Diabetes. Kathy has assisted families in procuring family support services with the Indiana Medicaid Waiver so that they can have can have sustainable services after Choices and DCS closes their cases. In 2014 Kathy began providing services through Unified Solutions in the area of home based mental health.   Kathy Kiebel was born and raised in Indianapolis, IN.  Kathy is currently a single mother of 3 grown daughters and 7 grandchildren. Her daughter Amy is a nurse.  Daughter Ashley has joined forces with her mother in providing behavior management services as a provider for Choices.  Ashley’s specialty is Applied Behavioral Analysis. She is preparing to take the State Boards this year. Kathy’s youngest daughter, Kayla, caters events at the Indiana State Museum and choreographs and teaches dance to students at Volume Performance Center in Indianapolis.   Kathy is a proud graduate of Carmel High School (1976), Indiana University (1993) where she received a Bachelor’s degree in Special Education, and Ball State University where she obtained her Masters of Science degree in Special Education Behavioral Disorders in Children and Adolescents (2004).  At Indiana University she was a member of Phi Eta Sigma Freshman Honor Society and Kappa Delta Pi for honors in Education.  In addition to her work in the area of Behavior Management, Kathy is a Certified Mediator.      Kathy volunteers time as a mentor to young women referred to the One Girl at a Time Program which operates at North Central High School and Tinley Middle School in Indianapolis. She is also a member of the Women Like Us Foundation and has accompanied and mentored young girls from the One Girl program to retreats and humanitarian efforts in Costa Rica where they delivered educational and other supplies and to the Dominican Republic where she helped with the assembly of a group of volunteers (some from Choices) to build 3 homes for displaced families. In her spare time, she enjoys traveling, spending time with her family and 2 dogs, Lily and Rascal, and helping to design and restore discarded furnishings (primarily mid-century modern) with her daughter, Amy and son-in-law, Joel.  Amy has made sensory therapy stuffed animals for several of Kathy’s younger clients.  

Reba James and I discuss Choices Foster Care Solutions. Reba shares her remarkable journey with Indiana’s Department of Child Services, her successes and challenges of starting a foster care agency from scratch, and Reba encourages and explains how to become a licensed foster parent through Choices Foster Care Solutions. Reba James has worked in the social work and helping profession for the past 35 years.  She has earned her Bachelor’s in Arts majoring in Psychology and holds a Master’s degree in Social Work, both from Indiana University.  Reba began her career at the Indiana Department of Public Welfare (now known as the Indiana Department of Child Services) as the front desk receptionist and held various positions within the agency including public assistance caseworker, child welfare caseworker, supervisor, regional manager, executive manager, and deputy director.  She spent the majority of those years working either directly with families or in a leadership position for those working with families.  Her last position at DCS was in central office supporting the field work.   After 34 years at DCS, Reba accepted a position with Choices, an agency which provides various services, including wrap-around, to families and children in need.  She currently directs their new foster care program called Choices Foster Care Solutions.  Reba’s passion throughout her career is helping children and families overcome challenges in their lives and gain success.  Her focus for the new foster care agency is to help youth in foster care maintain stable lives and to gain permanency through being reunited with their parents or adopted.

Author and retired school teacher, Sylvia Santos and I discuss her book series entitled: Foster Heroes Series. Sylvia will discuss her challenges and successes as a school teacher, her inspiration and motivations behind her book series, and her upcoming journey as a foster parent. Sylvia Santos retired from teaching in 2009, when she had a vision of writing the Foster Heroes Series. During her 30 years of teaching grammar school, Sylvia was the recipient of the Teacher of the Year Award for Muroc Unified School District in California and the Star Award, given by the Superintendent. She was blessed to have taught gifted, talented, children—including some who lived in foster homes. Her goal is to teach everyone acceptance for who we are and where we come from. She is honored to have worked with dedicated teachers and fantastic principals, who all placed children at the center of their hearts, and was especially inspired by one of her principals, Mollie Graham, who taught everyone a love for words.  But Sylvia's post retirement visions didn't stop there! She also began a health and wellness business: Team Vitality by Vi. Health is Sylvia's priority and she loves promoting products that help everyone stay fit and healthy. Mother of two, grandmother to six beautiful grandsons, and one adorable granddaughter, Sylvia's oldest grandson will soon make her a great-grandma! Sylvia is thrilled, and looking forward to this new chapter in her life.  Her new career as a children's book author began with a fresh wave of elevated energy. Sylvia's goal is to touch the lives of everyone who reads her stories, and gets to know her characters and watch them grow. Sylvia lives in California where she enjoys promoting health and wellness throughout the community, and networking with as many people as possible. She has a blast conducting a community workout session every Saturday at a local community park, where she promotes fitness, health and a youthful lifestyle. 

This episode is very personal and very special because it features a conversation between my adopted sons and myself. Roney Brown (32), Jaune Odombrown (34) and I discuss our journey and their lives before and after being fostered and adopted. They agreed to do this interview as my Father’s Day present.  If you find this podcast encouraging and empowering, please go to iTunes or the Apple Podcast app and rate and review us.

Jack Thomas and I discuss, “The LASER Project". Jack Thomas is the President and Founder of The LASER Project, which focuses on: Literacy, Arts, Skills, Empowerment & Recreation for youths and families. During this episode, Jack Thomas will discuss absent fathers, how to better support kids who are struggling in school, and he’ll talk about the various programs & services that are provided by The LASER Project. Mr. Jack Thomas is an Indianapolis native who graduated from Broad Ripple High School. He is the oldest of 6 siblings. He has been married for 10 years to Alesia Thomas. He is the proud father of 3 bright young ladies. He has passionately worked with the youth of the city for over 10 years. He has a heart for the city of Indianapolis, mainly the East Side Post Road area. Mr. Thomas is a very active member of the Sanctuary Church, in Indianapolis. Through his work with the youth, Jack noticed a common thread of low literacy rates. Instead of complaining about the problem, he prayed to God to help him develop a solution to the problem. That led him to birthing The L.A.S.E.R. Project, a literacy inhancement mentoring agency that supports family unification, personal growth and development, while increasing literacy and comprehension skills for all of our clients. Jack believes in collaboration and team building and constantly seeks other likeminded individuals who want to be a part of the solution as well.

Karen Moore and I discuss, “Kids with RAD”. Karen Moore is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and owner/operator of her own private practice, Elevated Minds LLC. During this episode, Karen will explain, what is Reactive Attachment Disorder, she’ll talk about the symptoms of RAD, and Karen will discuss treatments and offer tips for those working with kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder.  Karen J Moore was born and raised in Indianapolis, IN.  Single mother of 3 – two sons, Kamren and Jamar (“Deuce”) and one daughter, Jordan.  She is a proud graduate of Arsenal Technical High School (1991), Florida A&M University (1997) where she received double Bachelors degrees in Psychology and Criminal Justice, and received her Masters of Science in Community Psychology from Martin University (2003).  She is the owner and operator of Elevated Minds LLC, a small private practice located in Indianapolis, IN, and also serves in the capacity of a home-based therapist.  Karen is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), Licensed Clinical Addictions Counselor (LCAC), and Credentialed Sexually Abusive Youth Clinician (CSAYC). She has been working in the field since 1997.   In her spare time, she enjoys spending time with her family and traveling with her children.  Karen is a proud member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Incorporated. 

Sherri Moore and I discuss, “The Indiana Adoption Program” also known as SNAP. Sherri Moore is an Adoption Champion for the SNAP program as well as having adopted and fostered over 50 children herself. During this episode, Sherri will explain, What is the Indiana Adoption Program, she’ll talk about What it takes to get SNAP approved, and Sherri will also discuss her work as a volunteer CASA and the Every Child Symposium.  Sherri Moore has been an Adoption Champion with the Indiana Adoption Program for almost 5 years. She was a foster parent for over 12 years, fostering over 50 children. She has been an educator and a mentor with foster parents throughout the state. Sherri is currently a CASA volunteer and is also on the leadership team that oversees the planning of the Every Child Symposium, an annual conference on how the community can surround the vulnerable children of Indiana. Prior to all of that, she worked for 20 years as a paramedic. 

Kristi Cundiff and I discuss, “Foster-Care Advocacy”. Kristi Cundiff is the founder and administrator of The Indiana Foster and Adoptive Parents Facebook Support Group, aka IFAAP. IFAAP boast over 7,000 members. During this episode, Kristi will discuss the top issues that affect foster parents, she’ll talk about the Foster Parent Bill of Rights, and Kristi will offer suggestions on how NOT to burn-out as a foster parent. The Indiana Foster and Adoptive Parents Resource and Advocacy Group, Inc. (IFAAP), originated as a closed Facebook Group. Kristi Cundiff, Administrator and CEO, wanted a place where foster and adoptive parents in the State of Indiana could network and get support.  Kristi and her husband, Brian, live in a small town in central Indiana. Together they have fostered many children, adopted eight special needs children, and continue to foster youth aged 18-21 for the Collaborative Care Program through the Indiana Department of Child Services. They also are proud parents of four biological daughters (29, and 27-year-old triplets), and dote on a amazing son-in-law and two adorable grandsons.  Family means the world to Brian and Kristi. In fact, Kristi has focused her career on special needs foster and adoptive children. Kristi’s motto is to “Nurture little children and grow big dreams,” which can be found on a small plaque she has sitting on her office desk. Kristi’s desire to offer connection and support to other foster and adoptive parents has grown far beyond her initial goal. Every day, more people ask to join the Facebook group. Today there are more than 7,000 members, and the group continues to expand. With this growth, Kristi saw an opportunity to do even more for Indiana’s foster and adoptive parents and families by formalizing the group’s work as a nonprofit organization. As a nonprofit, IFAAP will be able to offer more coordinated advocacy and support to foster and adoptive families, and raise funds for this important work.

Jennifer Tackitt-Dorfmeyer and I discuss, “Teamwork Makes the Dream Work”. Jennifer Tackitt-Dorfmeyer is the Executive Director of Choices Coordinated Care Solutions. During this episode, Jennifer will define “wrap-around services” & “cross systems of care", she’ll talk about what it means to be “strength-based”, and Jennifer will discuss the challenges and successes of effective teams. Jennifer is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker by trade and has had the following experiences largely in the field of child protection and welfare. Jennifer received her training as a social worker at the University of Indianapolis and then for her graduate degree at IUPUI School of Social work. Jennifer began her career with The Salvation Army working with those that have substance use disorders, then moved to the Indiana Department of Child Services. Her career there lasted 10 years, where Jennifer moved through the ranks beginning as Family Case Manager, Supervisor, Practice Consultant, Regional Manager, and finally Southern Executive Manager. During this time, she was able to lend her skills to teaching and taught for IUPUI School of Social Work’s graduate program. In 2014, Jennifer began to explore working in the private sector and became a Program Director for a residential treatment center. This experience influenced her decision to merge her experiences into teaching a shared team-based practice in California. Jennifer contracted with Tricia Mosher Inc., as an Independent Child Welfare Coach and Consultantin Los Angeles County California.This entailed on-site training the Shared Core Practice Model which is a team-based approach to child protection and shared by residential treatment facilities to maintain consistent communication and practice.  Jennifer is currently employed as the Executive Director of Choices Coordinated Care Solutions, based in Indianapolis, Indiana, and serving most of the state of Indiana. Jennifer leads day-to-day operations for several Indiana programs within Choices, which includes Cross Systems of Care Coordination, Children’s Mental Health Initiative Wrap Around, Safety PIN, and the Choices Emergency Response Team. Care Coordination is the foundation of each, with populations ranging from youth in foster care, to adults with substance use disorders.  Jennifer is a wife and mother of four girls and two granddaughters. Jennifer is active in her family and community never experiencing a dull moment!

Chris Paulsen and I discuss, “Working with LGBTQ+ Youth” Chris Paulsen is the Executive Director of Indiana Youth Group. During this episode, Chris will define LGBTQ+ and gender identity, she’ll talk about some of the common misconceptions of gay youth, and Chris will offer ways to best support LGBTQ youth in the coming out process.  Chris Paulsen is the Executive Director of Indiana Youth Group (IYG). Indiana Youth Group serves LGBTQ+ youth and their straight allies, ages 12-20. IYG provides tutoring, clothing, food, education, suicide prevention programming and a safe space for youth. IYG also runs the Gender Sexuality Alliance in Indiana for youth in over 90 schools statewide. Chris has a been an active member of the LGBTQ+ movement as a board member and President of Indiana Equality Action, a founding board member of Freedom Indiana during the marriage amendment fight, and as a member of the capital campaign committee of Indiana Youth Group.    Chris has an undergraduate degree from Hanover College and a MBA from IU-Southeast. She has lived on the south side of Indianapolis, with her wife Deanna Medsker, for 20 years.

Adrienne Reed and I discuss, “Child Advocates: Guardian Ad Litem's, & CASA’s” Adrienne Reed is the Chief Recruitment and Outreach Officer for Child Advocates, Inc. During this episode, Adrienne will discuss the difference between Guardian Ad Litems & CASA’s, the mediation process that comes before the termination of parental rights, and how you can become a volunteer CASA. Adrienne Reed is the Chief Recruitment and Outreach Officer at Child Advocates, Inc. She earned her Bachelors’ Degrees in Psychology and Sociology at Purdue University and later earned her Master’s Degree in Social Work from IUPUI.  Adrienne started her professional career as a therapeutic foster care social worker at The Villages, then moved into the role of licensing and training therapeutic foster parents. Her work included doing home studies for adoptive parents and foster parents. Adrienne left the Villages after eight years and worked as a high school social worker and as a medical social worker part-time at Johnson Memorial Hospital. When offered the opportunity to work at Child Advocates in 2007 she eagerly accepted.  Adrienne served as a Guardian Ad Litem representing the best interest of abused and neglected children in Marion County for almost seven years before assuming the title of Chief Recruitment and Outreach Officer. She now oversees the communication and marketing department, data analysis, and outreach liaisons in order to effectively recruit and trains CASA Volunteers and with Child Advocates, Inc. 

Brendan Mahan and I discuss, “ADHD” Brendan Mahan is an internationally recognized ADHD expert and the host of the ADHD Essentials podcast. Brendan will explain executive function, he’ll discuss some of the positives of having ADHD and explore some of the best ways to treat and manage ADHD.  Brendan Mahan, MEd., MS, is a dynamic ADHD/Executive Function consultant, coach, and speaker. As a veteran educator, he is skilled at teaching people how to effectively manage the challenges they face. He loves to help people affected by ADHD troubleshoot, and redesign their lives in order to lessen the impact of the disorder. An internationally recognized expert, highly engaging speaker, and host of the ADHD Essentials podcast, Brendan helps individuals, families and institutions address the emotional, academic and lifestyle impacts ADHD has on them. He gets ADHD because he has ADHD. (As well as a heck of a lot of experience and schooling!) When meeting individually with clients, Brendan is caring, and understanding of the difficulties faced by those who suffer from ADHD, as well as the impact it has on those who love them. He sets realistic expectations, while encouraging his clients to strive to be 10% better. In consultation, his interventions are well explained and targeted, while still being highly accessible and useful across multiple domains.  Brendan works with educational institutions, employment organizations, mental health agencies and parenting groups. In his workshops, Brendan shares personal stories, case studies, various intervention techniques, and important insights with a liberal dose of humor and caring.  He trains schools from pre-K though college, Brendan’s insights into the role ADHD plays in the lives of his clients, as well as his strategies for limiting the impact of the disorder, have benefited people from Massachusetts to California, and across the globe.

Pastor Bryan Hudson and I discuss, “Helping Kids Discover their Destiny”. Bryan Hudson operates a multimedia firm, Vision Communications and he’ll define and contrast fate vs destiny, share ways that kids can turn interests and talents into professions and careers, and he’ll explore how trauma can distract kids from discovering their destiny.  Rev. Bryan Hudson, (Th.B.,B.S.,M.S.) is a pastor, author, adjunct professor, and ministry technology consultant. He is the founding pastor of New Covenant Church & Ministries in Indianapolis, Indiana where he has served for 34 years. Bryan operates a multimedia firm, Vision Communications, that equips people, ministries, and organizations with life-changing media and digital media solutions, including regional/national television broadcasts. He has more than 36 years experience in media production, training and consulting. Bryan Hudson has earned degrees in Bachelor of Theology (Rehoboth Christian College), Bachelor of Science in Media Arts & Science (Indiana University Purdue University Indianapolis), and Master of Science in Education with a Specialty: Instructional Systems Technology (Indiana University). His education reflects his calling to serve God's purposes in ministry, media, and education.Bryan’s passion is teaching the Word of God, serving everyday people, and helping Christian leaders more effectively serve their congregations and communities. Bryan also conducts multimedia workshops for youth, with the goal to inspire the next generation to become producers of positive media. Pastor Hudson helped establish a Christian training institute in Lagos, Nigeria Africa and participated in a fruitful mission to Kenya, Africa in  2013 an 2016. He conducts workshops related to publishing and digital media, such as for The Associated Church Press national conference.  Bryan is a former adjunct professor at Crossroads Bible College in Indianapolis where he developed and taught a 300-level college course a called, "New Media for Urban Ministry.” He also teaches ministry-related technology courses. For 39 years, Bryan has been married to Patricia Ann Hudson, an inner-city public school educator. They have raised four children, have two grandchildren, and reside in Indianapolis, Indiana.

David Scotton and I discuss his journey to meet his birth parents, how he navigates his relationship with both his birth & adopted families and his current advocacy for adoption. Adopted at birth and raised in Louisiana, David Scotton is on a journey to Indiana to meet the birth parents he’s never known.  His tattooed birth mother, Melissa, and reserved birth father, Brian, anxiously wait for him, concerned David will reject them for decisions they made before he was born.   I Lived on Parker Avenue is a short documentary about a mother’s agony in choosing what’s best, the joy of a couple starting a family, and young man’s search for where his life began.

Mandy Majors and I discuss pornography, popular apps and programs that kids use, and how to establish open communication with your child to ensure their online safety. Mandy’s parents divorced when she was three. After overcoming many bad teenage decisions, she graduated from Indiana University with a BA in political science and criminal justice and a minor in psychology. Mandy has now been happily married to her husband, Matt, for 18 years, and they’re raising two kids (ages 13 and 10) in a quaint little Texas community. Mandy has worked in the legal field for more than 20 years. For the past 12 years, Mandy has also volunteered at her home church. This whole nextTalk adventure started in 2013 when Mandy’s older child—then 9 years old—asked a highly sexualized question. She didn’t know “this” existed until college. Mandy discovered that another fourth grade child had watched a pornographic video on his own phone and shared specific details with her daughter. This was a lightbulb moment because her daughter didn’t have a phone, and Mandy thought she was protected. She wasn’t. That question set Mandy on a new path. She created a moms’ group that grew from 20 to 200 within three short semesters. At the same time, her online group exploded to more than 1,600 moms from all over the world. And this with no marketing—just word of mouth! Mandy was then asked to speak on television and radio. As Mandy continued on this journey, she recognized we’re in unchartered territory. Parenting has undergone a seismic shift in this new digital era forcing us to address issues previous generations never encountered. Cyberparenting isn’t only about rules and restrictions; it’s about relationship. She discovered the key is a simple solution, open communication. But the process of achieving such a rapport is complicated and time consuming. Parents need to begin relationship-building early, even before their children’s tween years hit. Mandy often continues to mess up as a parent, but she is finding valuable lessons in those mistakes. She’s awake and alert now, ready to face the complicated questions we face today that are caused by early online exposure. Mandy explores all these issues (including, but not limited to: transgender, sexuality, social media, sex, cyberbullying, suicide, addiction, etc.) and shares personal stories/conversation starters in her book, TALK: A Practical Approach to Cyberparenting and Open Communication. Mandy’s time is split between researching, team building, speaking, writing and talking to her family about everything. And she’s completely addicted to Diet Coke.   If you find this podcast encouraging and empowering, please go to iTunes or the Apple Podcast app and rate and review us.

During this episode, Sue Badeau and I discuss: ways to build a positive relationship with birth families, how to work with difficult bio families and how to prepare our kids for reunification.  Susan Badeau (Sue) writes and speaks extensively on topics related to children, particularly those with special needs and is a frequent and passionate keynote speaker and workshop leader at state, regional and national conferences.  Sue and her husband, Hector, are the lifetime parents of twenty-two children, two by birth and twenty adopted (three, with terminal illnesses, are now deceased).  They have also served as foster parents for more than 50 children in three states, and as a host family for refugee youth from Sudan, Kosovo and Guatemala.  Recently, their 35th grandchild and fourth great-grandchild were born.  They have won numerous awards for their work, including being recognized by President Clinton with an ?Adoption Excellence? award, and receiving an ?Angels in Adoption? award from Congress ? both of these awards were for their work on behalf of adoption and children in foster care.  The Badeau family children come from many ethnicities and personal backgrounds. Some children were adopted at birth; others were teenagers when they joined the family. Some are from the United States; others are from countries around the world. Some have mental, physical, intellectual, or emotional challenges.  Active in Summit Presbyterian church, Sue and Hector have always found the motivation, strength and guidance for their life and work in their faith, particularly in Matthew 18:5-6, James 1:27,  and Luke 18: 6-7.  In addition to their own children, Hector and Sue have served as surrogate parents for countless neighborhood and church children. Hector was recently named one of West Mt. Airy (Philadelphia) Neighbor's 50 Good Neighbors because of his charitable work in the community and with the youth of the community.  Active in community efforts on behalf of children and families with special needs at many levels, Sue has particular passion and expertise around a number of topic areas, including the impact of trauma on children?s development, the importance of respite and self-care for caregivers and professionals alike, achieving permanence for older adolescents, the importance of the sibling bond, the lifelong value of birth family connections for foster and adopted children.  In addition, she has a strong belief that the multiple systems and the community supports in which children and families become involved ? child welfare, courts, education, mental health, physical health, developmental disabilities, schools, churches, neighborhood organizations,  etc ? must learn to better communicate and collaborate to best serve children and families.   Susan Badeau has a degree in Early Child Development and Elementary Education from Smith College.  She has worked in child-serving fields as a professional for thirty three years working in adoption, foster care, juvenile justice, children?s mental health and education in both public and private agencies.  She has developed curricula on many topics used to prepare professional child welfare staff, adoptive and foster parents, judges, attorneys and youth.  Past positions have included serving as Director of the Cross Systems Integration team within the Knowledge Management department of Casey Family Programs, as a Senior Fellow within the Department of Justice, Executive Director of the Philadelphia Children?s Commission (focused on all aspects of children?s health and well-being in the city of Philadelphia) and as the Deputy Director of the Pew Commission on Children in Foster Care. In addition, she had been a policy consultant for public and private agencies, universities and court systems.  Sue serves on national boards of the National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN), the North American Council on Adoptable Children (NACAC), National Center for Youth in Custody, All Children, All Families, and Justice for Families. As a speaker and writer she is a member of the Advanced Speakers and Writers Association (AWSA) and the Christian Communicators Conference (CCC). Sue Badeau's Website Sue Badeau's Books

During this episode, Brian Carter and I discuss what a good dad looks, acts and talks like. We explore the role of a dad in his daughter’s life, and the epidemic of absent fathers in both the urban and suburban communities.  Brian Carter is the Director of Dads Inc.  a support program for men and their families. Brian has directed Dads Inc. , a subsidiary of The Villages of Indiana of which he has been employed in various supervisory roles for 24 years. Brian also serves as Educator for Prevent Child Abuse Indiana. Brian is a board member of The Indiana Fatherhood Coalition, Healthy Families Indianapolis and The Indianapolis Black Men’s Group. He facilitates All Pro Dad events throughout the Indianapolis area as well as Nurturing Father classes in the prison system. Brian holds a bachelor degree of Social Work from IU. Brian has a history of work in Juvenile Probation, detention and church youth administration. Brian is a motivational speaker and private contractor. He has taught parenting classes for 12 years with such entities as: The Fathers and Families Center; The Church Federation of Indiana; and with countless church and community groups. Brian has a passion for Parents, Fathers, and Young people. His aim is to empower these populations through information and education.   Website Links: Dads, Inc. Prevent Child Abuse Indiana Dads, Inc. Facebook Page  

During this episode, Kareem Hines and I discuss "Thug Life" and ways to reach this type of kid. We look at Kareem's journey from the streets of Harlem, New York to his current working with boys here in Indianapolis.  Kareem says, "My connection to inner-city & at-risk youth stems from being a product of Harlem, NYC in the 70’s & 80’s. Families were torn apart by the heroin & crack academic. The only reason I'm alive and not in prison was because of various people in my life (non-family members) who took a vested interest in me and saw something in myself that I didn’t. Regardless of the programs I was involved in, it was the relationships that motivated me to “want more” out of life and empowered me with the vision to see & dream beyond the streets of Harlem." Currently, Kareem is C.E.O. of New Bread of Youth, Inc., aka NEW B.O.Y. and works with some of the most vulnerable and challenging boys in Indianapolis. His kids are often on probation, expelled and have lost hope, however Mr. Hines' ability to relate and build rapport instills hope. New Bread of Youth, Inc. Inner Beauty Program  

During this episode, we discuss how to share your faith with your foster kids. And my special guest Dr. John DeGarmo shares with us the challenges of foster care in America, the school shooting in Parkland, Florida, and grief and guilt when our foster kids move placements. Born in 1969, leading international foster care expert and consultant Dr. John DeGarmo has worn many hats throughout his life. Singing and dancing while touring around the world in the international super group, Up With People, serving as a D.J. at four different radio stations on two different continents, working in the professional wrestling industry, teaching English and Drama at the high school level, working as a media specialist,  director of The Foster Care Institute, and founder and national development director of Never Too Late, a residential group home for boys in foster care.  Dr. DeGarmo has had a variety of experiences. Dr. DeGarmo has a B.A. in History, a Masters in Media Technology, a Masters in Educational Leadership, and a Doctorate in Educational Leadership from Walden University. Dr. DeGarmo wrote his dissertation on Responding to the Needs of Foster Children Face While in Rural Schools.  He is the author of several foster care books, including the new book Faith and Foster Care: How We Impact God's Kingdom, the training book The Foster Parenting Manual: A Practical Guide to Creating a Loving, Safe, and Stable Home,  as well as the foster care children's book A Different Home: A New Foster Child's Story.  He is the director of the Foster Care Institute, and acts as a consultant to foster care agencies and legal agencies across the USA. Dr. John is a dynamic speaker and informative trainer on the foster care system, and travels extensively across the globe, meeting with foster parents, child welfare workers, churches, schools, and organizations.  Dr. John has appeared on several TV programs, including CNN HLN, Good Morning America, ABC Freeform, CBS, and others. He writes regularly for many magazines, and is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, several publications, and newsletters, both in the United States and over seas. Dr. DeGarmo is married to Dr. Kelly DeGarmo, who hails from Australia, and the two of them have six children, both biological and adoptive.  Dr. DeGarmo and his wife are also currently foster parents to three siblings, bringing their household to nine children.  Dr. DeGarmo has been a foster parent for dozens of children for over a decade now.  He has a passion for foster children, and is driven to bring education and insight into general society about all things foster care. Dr. DeGarmo and his wife are the recipients of the Good Morning America Ultimate Hero Award, and the Up With People Every Day Hero Award.  The two also were honored with their city's Citizens of the Year Award. Dr. John DeGarmo's Website

During this episode, Dr. Robin Kohli explains to us the benefits of conducting a psychological assessment, defines the difference between psychology and psychiatry, and she explains IQ. Dr. Robin Kohli brings an extensive amount of knowledge and experience to this discussion. She's worked in several treatment facilities such as, Pendleton Juvenile Correctional Facility, Youth Opportunity Center and Lutherwood Residential Treatment Center. Currently, Dr. Kohli has her own private practice, Kohli Psychological Services, and she contracts with Choices, DCS and she works extensively with the courts. 

During this episode we discuss and answer common questions about adoptions. Adoption Attorney Grant Kirsh explains the difference between an open and closed adoption, the TPR process, and how to maximize your adoption subsidies.  Growing up as the son of an adoption attorney, Grant Kirsh has been surrounded by adoption his entire life.  As a second generation adoption attorney, he enjoys continuing his family’s legacy in Indiana. Grant grew up in Carmel, Indiana, graduating from Carmel High School, Indiana University for his Bachelor’s Degree, and Indiana University School of Law for law school.  He is married to Emley, whom he has known since high school, and they have two lovely children:  Anna & Brogan. Grant loves his family very much and enjoys spending the weekends with them on the lake, walking on the Monon and playing in the yard.  Grant, Emley and Anna have 3 dogs – Daisy, India, & Jake.  

During this episode we discuss Special Education. My guest, Dr. Mary Jo Dare explains the case conference process, helps us understand an IEP, defines a 504 and shows us how to navigating through a manifest. Dr. Mary Jo Dare empowers us with her many years of experience. She's the former Special Education Director for IPS (Indianapolis Public Schools), former Assistant Superintendent of Academic Affairs and currently an Educational Liaison for Child Advocates, giving support to children in foster care.

During this episode, Dr. Preston T. Adams III discusses youth violence, mentoring, and how the church can be more effective in working with and Raising Other People's Kids. The Reverend Dr. Preston T. Adams, III, pastor, Certified Pastoral Leadership Coach, and human development expert, was born and raised in Chicago, Illinois.  He is the oldest of four sons born to Priestley T. and Myrtis L. Adams, both of whom are deceased. Dr. Adams, a lifelong learner, has three earned university/seminary degrees. Dr. Adams earned a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration/Computer Science from Central State University, Wilberforce, Ohio (1982), and Master of Divinity and Doctor of Ministry Degrees from Christian Theological Seminary, (Indianapolis, IN., 1996 and 2005 respectively).  Dr. Adams completed his Doctor of Ministry Degree with a 3.9 GPA and in a record two year timeframe! Dr. Adams is the founding and senior pastor of Amazing Grace Christian Church (Disciples of Christ).  Amazing Grace launched in September 2010 on the northeast side of Indianapolis.  Amazing Grace shares the love of Jesus Christ by encouraging, equipping, and empowering all of God’s people to go and make disciples.  Amazing Grace embodies the love of Jesus Christ by its focus on Word, Worship, and Witness.  This represents one of the greatest moves of God in Dr. Adams life. Since its launch in September 2010, Amazing Grace has grown from an initial launch team of 20 families to over 300 families. This phenomenal growth can be attributed to the Holy Spirit equipping Dr. Adams to preach and teach transformational Gospel messages that reach a broad audience. Dr. Adams was ordained in the Christian Church, Disciples of Christ, by Dr. T. Garrott Benjamin, Jr., Resident Bishop of the historic Light of the World Christian Church -- LWCC (Indianapolis, IN), in July of 1997.  Dr. Adams was a member of LWCC for over 26 years, and faithfully served the Light of the World congregation for 20 years in a diverse array of key leadership roles to include Children and Youth Pastor, Associate Pastor, Overseer of The Christian Ecumenical Covenant Fellowship, and CEO of Project Impact (a youth diversion program that ministered to troubled teens referred from the Juvenile Courts). Dr. Adams culminated his stellar ministry service tenure as the Executive Pastor for LWCC in his final six (6) years. Dr. Adams has also completed a number of professional certifications to include the Certificate of Fund Raising Management (CFRM) via The Fund Raising School at the Center on Philanthropy at Indiana University and training as a Certified Empowerment Coach (CEC) via The Institute for Professional Empowerment Coaches (iPEC).  Dr. Adams continuously facilitates a diverse array of leadership development workshops, staff trainings, and staff retreats. Dr. Adams currently serves on a number of boards to include the Board of Trustees for Christian Theological Seminary, the Board of Trustees, Pension Fund, Christian Church (DOC), Treasurer, National Convocation – Christian Church (DOC), and task forces, most related to youth related issues. Additionally, Dr. Adams is very active in ministry to youth and adults who are incarcerated or working to successfully re-enter society via his service as a Chaplain for the Marion County Sheriff’s Department Jail Division.  Dr. Adams is a Life Member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., a member of 100 Black Men, and a graduate of the Diversity Leadership Academy of Greater Indianapolis and FBI Citizen’s Academy. Dr. Adams has traveled extensively in the U.S. and abroad.  His studies and ministry work have taken him to Ghana, West Africa, South Africa, Europe, Jamaica, Mexico, the Bahamas, and Israel. Dr. Adams is the author of three books: “From Hustlin’ To Hallelujah: My Journey From Chicago’s Southside To God’s Side”, his first book which shares his testimony of how God raised him up from the mean streets of Chicago to become a respected pastor and community servant; “Expect A Miracle: A Biblical and Practical Guide To Walking In All Of God’s Promises For You”; and “Amazing Faith!” Dr. Adams is the devoted husband of one wife, First Lady Greta Maul Adams, for over 28 years, and the father of three daughters, Patrice, Alaina, and Quinn.

During this episode, we discuss the strong-willed child. We explore some practical ways to successfully engage this type of child. Joining in on this discussion is our guest, Bwana Clements: Bwana Clements is an Indianapolis native and graduate of the famed Arsenal Tech High School. Raised in the home of a pastor, Bwana grew up in minstry. After working in the ranks for community agencies such as: Indianapolis Housing Agency and Citizens Health Center, Bwana went on to create his own agency. Urban Ministry was incorporated in 2002 with the sole purpose of reaching the most troubled and hard to reach youth of our community. His personable approach and keep it real approach to building relationships with youth makes him an instant favorite of youth in schools, churches and community agencies throughout the state of Indiana.  Mr. Clements knows youth and families. He has build a well established brand throughout the community as a dynamic public speaker, school culture leader and therapist. He is especially motivated to advocate and champion the causes of the underserved. 

During this episode, we discuss children who have been diagnosed as being sexually maladaptive. We'll talk about signs to look for and methods for treatment. And practical things you can do, if you're raising or working with a sexually maladaptive child. Joining in on this conversation is our guest, Romunda Valentine: Romunda started working in a residential treatment facility shortly after she graduated with her BS in Psychology and a minor in Child Development in 1995. She stayed in residential for many years, doing individual and behavioral management. Later, Romunda left residential to work in various other settings (school based, community services, foster care/adoption, contractual work, etc.). In between jobs, Romunda went back to school and obtained her MSW in 2002, while later receiving her LCSW. Romunda obtained certifications to work with sexually abusive youth in 2007 (CSAYC) and later youth who have experienced trauma (TF-CBT). Currently, Romunda manages an agency, Family and Community Partners LLC, that she founded in April of 2014.

During this episode, we'll explore the challenges of working with kids who have experienced trauma. We'll also discuss some practical methods in dealing with these kids. Joining in on this discussion, is our guest, Tina Parham-Araujo:  Tina Parham-Araujo was born and raised in Indianapolis. She has two daughters, Dawn and Joy, and is the proud grandmother of Calvin Peter. She is a graduate of North Central High School (1972), Tennessee State University (1983) and received her masters in Consulting and Counseling Psychology from Harvard University in 1984. She is currently a home-based therapist for families in the Indianapolis area and is an LCSW and CSAYC. Tina is a member of Eastern Star Church and loves to watch Serena Williams play tennis in her spare time.

The Honorable Geoffrey A. Gaither is the Senior Magistrate at the Marion County Juvenile Court in Indianapolis, Indiana.  He has served there since 1995.  His jurisdiction has included delinquencies, child welfare issues, paternities, guardianships, adoption-related matters, child support and custody cases. Community involvement is extremely important to Judge Gaither.  He is a past and present adjunct professor at IUPUI and Martin University, youth mentor, motivational speaker, Marion County Juvenile Court representative at the Undoing Racismworkshops, created the “Is Indianapolis Another Ferguson?” forum and radio, TV, print and podcast legal analyst.  He has been recognized many times locally and nationally for his community service and dedication to children and families.  Judge Gaither developed a much-needed program entitled The Young Women’s Empowerment Conference Series benefiting young women on probation or otherwise involved in the juvenile justice system.  He also created the Male Mentoring Conference which is a young men’s focused event that emphasizes the value of mentorship to educational and career success. Judge Gaither has also hosted the 100 Black Men of Indianapolis’ Beautillion Militaire “Know Your Legal Rights” session several times and moderated public discussions on community issues. The Robert F. Kennedy National Resource Center for Juvenile Justice invited Judge Gaither to serve on its Dual Status Youth Practice Network in Spring 2016. This prestigious organization focuses on children with delinquency, neglect, abuse and/or dependency cases at the same time. Judge Gaither now leads the Dual Status Court in Indianapolis, Indiana. Inspiring and influencing youth through education is important to Judge Gaither. He helped develop the Urban Initiative Hi5 Rallies at local schools empowering young people to take ownership of their educational careers.  Male volunteers form two lines at the school’s entrance and high five students at the start of the school day. Judge Gaither is Hoosier born and raised in Indianapolis, Indiana.  He is a proud public school graduate. Judge Gaither earned his Bachelor of Urban Planning degree from the University of Cincinnati and then later received his Juris Doctor degree with honors from Howard University.  Judge Gaither was an editor and published author on the Howard Law Journal. After graduation, he clerked for the District of Columbia Court of Appeals, is a former Marion County deputy prosecutor, deputy public defender and was in private practice before being sworn onto the bench.  Judge Gaither is a member of Kappa Alpha Psi, Inc. and is also married to Attorney KiKi Gaither, former co-host of WTLC AM 1310’s “Legally Speaking.” They have 3 sons: Jordan, Taylor and Austin and are members of Phillips Temple CME Church.

This episode is an introduction to the Raising Other People's Kids Podcast. You'll learn more about the host, Charles Brown and what to expect from the podcast.