Podcast appearances and mentions of scott stanley

What's the secret to making love last a lifetime? On today's edition of Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson welcomes marriage expert Dr. Scott Stanley to share powerful insights from his research on lasting relationships. They'll explore the crucial difference between dedication and constraint in marriage, and explain why commitment is the foundation for building trust. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss the books, podcasts, and resources that have most deeply affected their marriages. With a lot of great resources out there, we want to help you to be thoughtful about the resources that impact your marriage.  Scriptures:Proverbs 11:2Job 12:12Proverbs 13:20Resources Mentioned:The Glorious Pursuit, by Gary ThomasThe Meaning of Marriage, by Tim and Kathy KellerCherish, by Gary ThomasMarried Sex, by Gary Thomas and Debra FiletaThe Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, by John GottmanReady or Knot?, by Scott KedershaThe Ready or Knot Prayer Guide, by Scott KedershaOutdated, by Jonathan PokludaFriends, Partner, and Lovers, by Kevin ThompsonMarried Into the Family, by Dave & Ashley WillisHold Me Tight, and Created For Connection by Sue JohnsonA Lasting Promise, by Scott StanleyUs In Mind, by Ted LoweGreater Joy Twogether, by Ted CunninghamMore Than Roommates, Episode 35 – How to Identify the Four Negative Horsemen of Communication and ConflictMore Than Roommates, Episodes 53 – Friends, Partners, and Lovers in Marriage feat. Kevin ThompsonMore Than Roommates, Episode 58 – How to Thrive in a Blended Family feat. Ron DealMore Than Roommates, Episode 43 – The Not-So-Secret Guide to In-Law Relationships, feat. Dave WillisMore Than Roommates, Episode 12 – Identifying Negative Communication PatternsWebsite & Podcast - Authentic Intimacy, Juli SlatteryWebsite & Podcast - Fierce MarriageWebsite & Podcast – Family Life TodayQuestions to Discuss:1. If you were on a deserted, and could only bring 1-2 books (besides the Bible), what book(s) would you bring with you?2. What marriage book has been most helpful for you and your spouse?3. Out of all the resources mentioned, which one will you and your spouse read and/or listen to?

Hey everybody! Episode 138 of the show is out. In this episode, I spoke with Scott Stanley. Scott is the founder of the ayahuasca church, Arizona Yage Assembly (AYA) as well as the North American Association of Visionary Churches (NAAVC). I was interested to bring Scott on to speak about the legal status of plant sacraments in the US. I think Scott is a really good representative in that he has been involved in a legal battle with the US government over religious freedom and actually is suing the DEA (Drug Enforcement Agency) and seems to be in a good position. We spoke about his background, ayahuasca, the history of churches and religious freedom in the States, principles and morality, and why he's involved in doing this work. I think its a very relevant conversation in regard to plant medicines and I hope you all find it insightful. As always, to support this podcast, get early access to shows, bonus material, and Q&As, check out my Patreon page below. Enjoy!This episode is sponsored by Real Mushrooms. As listeners, visit their website to enjoy a discount of 25% off your first order: https://www.realmushrooms.com/universe“Scott Stanley has spent some 15 years working with ayahuasca and Amazonian master plants. He has led over 500 ayahuasca ceremonies across the US, since founding the ayahuasca church, Arizona Yage Assembly (AYA) in 2015. He also founded the North American Association of Visionary Churches (NAAVC). Both organizations have sued the Drug Enforcement Agency to ensure free and legal access to the visionary practice of religion. His organizations have worked to bring combat vets into ayahuasca ceremonies through support of the veteran led AYA Mission. AYA has also started a nature conservancy for preserving the virgin rainforest of the upper amazon.AYA currently conducts bi-weekly ceremonies in their ceremonial maloca in Tucson, AZ.”To learn more about or contact Scott, visit his website at: www.ayaguide.orgTo view the recent documentary about us, Sacred Tobacco, visit: https://youtu.be/KB0JEQALI_wIf you enjoy the show, it's a big help if you can share it via social media or word of mouth. And please Subscribe or Follow and if you can go on Apple Podcasts and leave a starred-rating and a short review. This is super helpful with the algorithms and getting this show out to more people. Thank you in advance!For more information about me and my upcoming plant medicine retreats with my colleague Merav Artzi, visit my site at: https://www.NicotianaRustica.orgTo book an integration call with me, visit: https://jasongrechanik.setmore.comSupport this podcast on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/UniverseWithinDonate directly with PayPal:https://www.paypal.me/jasongrechanikMusic courtesy of: Nuno Moreno (end song). Visit: https://m.soundcloud.com/groove_a_zen_sound and https://nahira-ziwa.bandcamp.com/ And Stefan Kasapovski's Santero Project (intro song). Visit: https://spoti.fi/3y5Rd4Hhttps://www.facebook.com/UniverseWithinPodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/UniverseWithinPodcast

"More sexual partners seems to correlate with higher divorce ratings. In 2000, the Center for Disease Control began tracking women who had reported different numbers of extramarital partners. Within five years, only 5% of women with 0 sexual partners before marriage had divorced. Women who had reported just one single sexual partner before marriage jumped up to a 22% divorce rate. That's a 17% increase due to just one partner. The average for 2-9 partners was 30%, and above 10 partners was 35%." Studies Mentioned: Mary Eberstadt, “Adam and Eve After the Pill,” https://www.amazon.com/Adam-Eve-After-Pill-Revolution/dp/1586178229 Nicholas H. Wolfinger, “Counterintuitive Trends in the Link between Premarital Sex and Marital Stability,” https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability “Sexually Transmitted Diseases — Reported Cases and Rates of Reported Cases*, United States, 1941–2021,” https://www.cdc.gov/std/statistics/2021/tables/1.htm “Reported STDs in the United States,” https://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/fact-sheets/std/std-us-2021.html Scott Stanley and Galena Rhoades, “Premarital Cohabitation is Still Associated with Greater Odds of Divorce,” https://ifstudies.org/blog/premarital-cohabitation-is-still-associated-with-greater-odds-of-divorce Michael J. Rosenfeld and Katharina Roesler, “Cohabitation Experience and Cohabitation's Association with Marital Dissolution,” https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_and_Roesler_Cohabitation_Experience_NSFG.pdf Colleen N. Nugent and Jill Daughtery, “A Demographic, Attitudinal, and Behavioral Profile of Cohabitating Adults in the United States,” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29874161/ Meg Jay, “Downside of Cohabitating before Marriage” https://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/15/opinion/sunday/the-downside-of-cohabiting-before-marriage.html

All marriages go through periods of discord, where it feels like all you do is argue. Couples must, however, remain faithful to their vows and fight for their relationship instead of waging war against it. On this classic Family Talk broadcast, Dr. James Dobson, along with Drs. Scott Stanley and Gary Smalley, answer questions from the audience about marital issues. As you listen to their heartfelt discussion, you may find the answers you have been longing for. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

Conflict is an uncomfortable but inevitable part of every relationship. How you and your spouse handle conflict will determine the quality of your marriage. Today on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson continues his discussion with marital experts, Dr. Scott Stanley and the late Dr. Gary Smalley. James 3:6 says, The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one's life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. Discover healthier ways to communicate and foster good will with your spouse instead of tearing each other down. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

Divorce is a painful and discouraging end to nearly half of all marriages, but what if there were warning signs and techniques that could help couples avoid this heartache? On today's classic edition of Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson discusses these crucial details with Dr. Scott Stanley and the late Dr. Gary Smalley. Tune in and take advantage of their years of research. These pearls of wisdom could very well save your marriage. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

A Morning News Update That Takes Into Account The News Stories You Deem 'Highly Conversational' Today's Sponsor: FlowersFasthttp://thisistheconversationproject.com/flowersfast Today's Rundown: Paramount Global Braces For New Round Of Layoffshttps://deadline.com/2024/01/paramount-global-layoffs-february-1235798785/ Fake Biden robocall urges New Hampshire voters to skip their primaryhttps://abcnews.go.com/Politics/fake-biden-robocall-urges-new-hampshire-voters-skip/story?id=106580926 Tim Scott, potential Trump VP, engaged to girlfriend after proposing in South Carolinahttps://www.foxnews.com/politics/tim-scott-potential-trump-vp-engaged-girlfriend-proposing-south-carolina Trump may testify in sex abuse defamation trial, but the court has limited what he can sayhttps://apnews.com/article/trump-carroll-defamation-lawsuit-trial-1e5420d5b28c857220429275ab901a34 Fulton County DA Fani Willis seeks to quash subpoena amid allegations of improper relationshiphttps://abcnews.go.com/US/fulton-county-da-fani-willis-seeks-quash-subpoena/story?id=106556166 Jury selection begins in trial of 2 men accused in murder of Run-DMC's Jam Master Jayhttps://abcnews.go.com/US/jury-selection-begins-trial-2-men-accused-murder/story?id=106552760 Gaza hostage relatives burst into Israeli parliament, calls for action mounthttps://www.reuters.com/world/middle-east/relatives-gaza-hostages-storm-israeli-parliament-panel-2024-01-22/ Teen Stanley Cup Collector Says Her Parents Spent $3K on 67 Quenchershttps://www.businessinsider.com/stanley-cup-quencher-collector-parents-buy-status-symbol-teen-tiktok-2024-1 Website: http://thisistheconversationproject.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/thisistheconversationproject Twitter: http://twitter.com/th_conversation TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@theconversationproject YouTube: http://thisistheconversationproject.com/youtube Podcast: http://thisistheconversationproject.com/podcasts #yournewssidepiece #coffeechat #morningnews ONE DAY OLDER ON JANUARY 23:Richard Dean Anderson (74)Mariska Hargitay (60)Tiffani Thiessen (50) WHAT HAPPENED TODAY:1986: The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inducted its first members: Chuck Berry, James Brown, Ray Charles, Fats Domino, the Everly Brothers, Buddy Holly, Jerry Lee Lewis and Elvis Presley.2018: Twelve camels were disqualified from the King Abdulaziz Camel beauty contest in Saudi Arabia after their owners used botox on their lips.2020: The voice of a 3,000 year old Egyptian priest was recreated by scientists by 3D printing his vocal tract. PLUS, TODAY E CELEBRASTE: Speak Up and Succeed Dayhttps://www.daysoftheyear.com/days/speak-up-and-succeed-day/#:~:text=Speak%20Up%20and%20Succeed%20Day,Days%20Of%20The%20Year TODAY'S POLL QUESTION: Will MrBeast's Content Bring The Numbers Back To X? http://thisistheconversationproject.com/dailypoll20240123

Many couples have a poor picture of the commitment required to thrive in marriage. In this episode of More Than Roommates, we discuss two types of commitment and why they're both required to thrive in your marriage.Scriptures:Matthew 19:3-6Matthew 5:37Ephesians 5:22-33Acts 20:24Phil 3:14John 15:13Phil 1:6Questions to discuss:What does it mean that God is a Covenant keeping God and how does that affect the way you live out your marriage?  What's the difference between constraint commitment and dedication commitment?What does it mean to cast aside all other options and to be fully commited to your spouse?Resources:Book – A Lasting Promise: The Christian Guide to Fighting for Your Marriage, by Scott Stanley, et al

Calling all fishermen! Scott Stanley from the Northeast Florida Marlin Association joins JMN to share details on the 2024 Don Combs Wahoo Roundup this weekend. Visit NEFMA.COM for more information.

The legendary director Ridley Scott returns to the show to discuss reuniting with Joaquin Phoenix for their latest film, Napoleon. We get into his approach to directing, and shooting battle scenes at a massive scale, his interactions with Stanley Kubrick during Alien and Blade Runner, and more. We also get his reaction to Christopher Nolan's praise of the director during our Oppenheimer interview earlier this year. Stick around after the interview for Jake's own review of the film, which he recommends you go see in a theater if you can. ReelBlend PremiumSign up for a bi-weekly newsletter from Sean, and ad-free episodes at bit.ly/reelblendpremium.ReelBlend on YouTubeBe sure to subscribe to ReelBlend on YouTube (YouTube.com/ReelBlendPodcast) for full episodes of the show in video form.Follow The ShowReelBlend - @ReelBlendSean - @Sean_OConnellJake - @JakesTakesKevin - @KevinMcCarthyTVGabe - @gabeKovacsTimestamps (approx. only)00:00 - Intro 8:27 - Ridley Scott Interview34:43 - ‘Napoleon' Review45:17 - OutroSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/reelblend/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

CBS Sposts will be covering our local Bluewater Fishing Tournament this weekend! Scott Stanley, President of the NE Florida Marlin Association, and Erin Johnson, Club manager of the Marlin Association sit in to give us all the exciting developments!

How's your marital communication? Ever need help resolving and managing conflict? In this episode, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss harmful marital communication patterns and how they affect our relationships. Learn how to better communicate by identifying your communication ditches. Check out the book A Lasting Promise by Scott Stanley, Trathen, McCain, Bryan

Scott Stanley, Ph.D., is a research professor and co-director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver. He has published widely with research interests including commitment, cohabitation, communication, conflict, risk factors for divorce, the prevention of marital distress, and couple development before marriage. Along with Dr. Howard Markman and colleagues, he has been involved in the research, development, and refinement of the Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program (PREP) for over 30 years.Among various projects, Stanley and colleagues (Elizabeth Allen, Howard Markman, & Galena Rhoades) are conducting a large, randomized trial of a variant of PREP in the U. S. Army, funded by NICHD.Stanley, Galena Rhoades, and Howard Markman have also conducted a longitudinal study of cohabitation and couple development that was funded by NICHD. Various studies are in progress with this national data set of individuals involved in serious relationships but who were not married at the start of the study. Stanley has authored or co-authored various books including Fighting for Your Marriage, The Power of Commitment, and A Lasting Promise. He is a founder of PREP and co-author of the Within Our Reach, an experiential-based curriculum for couples, and the Within My Reach, an experiential-based curriculum for individuals.

Yelling at him didn't work. Giving her the cold shoulder led to a bigger fight. So, what now? Marriage expert Scott Stanley uncovers why your old ways of dealing with marital conflict aren't working – and he outlines some proven methods to handle your next disagreement with your spouse.

Yelling at him didn't work. Giving her the cold shoulder led to a bigger fight. So, what now? Marriage expert Scott Stanley uncovers why your old ways of dealing with marital conflict aren't working – and he outlines some proven methods to handle your next disagreement with your spouse.

Originally aired on Jason's You Winning Life Podcast, this episode is a must listen to anyone trying to build a healthy relationship.Premarital cohabitation has consistently been found to be associated with increased risk for divorce and marital distress in the United States. Two explanations for this "cohabitation effect" are discussed: selection and experience. We present an empirically based view of how the experience of cohabitation may increase risk for rela-tionship distress or divorce for some people beyond what is accounted for by selection. Specifically, using a commit-ment framework, we suggest that some couples who otherwise would not have married end up married because of the inertia of cohabitation.Leading researcher Dr. Scott Stanley discusses concerns over the patterns of contemporary relationships that most impact a couple's long-term commitment: Sliding through major transitions before making clear Decisions about what they want for the future.Dr. Scott Stanley, Research Professor and Co-Director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, presents his definitions and suggestions for building and sustaining a dedicated commitment in a relationship.http://slidingvsdeciding.blogspot.comTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/DecideOrSlideWant to connect more or work with us?Follow us on IG!@havewegotamatchforyou@chavashaulov@youwinninglifeAnd check out our websites:www.chavashulov.comwww.thefamilyroomsfl.com

Upmarket Convo What do you think about the notion that who you partner with is the most important decision you will ever make? Do you agree or disagree? Do you take your love life as seriously as work or school? Why or why not? Is this something you'd like to change? If so, how? Picking Your Family What sort of family do you imagine having one day? Is this different or similar to the one in which you grew up? Does the notion of “picking your family” set up unrealistic expectations for your partner's family and the role they need to play? Dating Down Is there a way that you sometimes date down or have dated down in the past? How do you think this has affected you? Why do you think this happened and how might you change this or have changed this already? You know what they say: “Practice makes perfect” So be careful what you're practicing What is your “perceived mate value” or how likable or loveable or desirable do you think you are and why? Does the notion of a perceived mate value even make sense or is it too rooted in comparisons to cultural ideals? Cohabitation Effect When it comes to living with someone, the author warns against what cohabitation researcher Scott Stanley calles sliding, not deciding. To make cohabitation a more conscious process, what are some questions you might like to ask a partner before and after you move in together? Lock-in can occur in relationships or at work. How do you know when you're experiencing lock-in in a relationship or in a job that has run its course? And how do you get yourself out? Being in Like Have you ever been in love or in lust but not in “like”? How could you tell and how did this play out over time? The author mentions traveling as one way to find out how compatible you and your partner are. Name five other activities or experiences you could try 29 Convos The author shared 29 conversations she suggests readers should be asking their partners and themselves about their relationships. How many topics can you and your partner disagree on before it's too many? When is the right time to have these sorts of conversations? Is it ever too early or too late to have such talks? Is it ever too soon to be thinking of these scenarios yourself? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Jon Cox and Scott Stanley finally join me in the studio for a podcast. We discuss music that has been recorded in Jon's studio here in the middle of Wyoming. This was a great time and I'm happy to have all the Music that we have recorded embedded into a 2 hour cast. We break down the songs that have occupied years of recording and various local talent. I hope you enjoy, We had a blast recording it for you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/honeycast/support

Howard Markman and Scott Stanley are internationally recognized researchers who have authored over 100 publications and whose work has spanned over four decades. During this episode, they talk about their many years of collaboration including the development of the PREP® curricula for relationship education and enhancement. Reflecting on the clinically relevant findings from 40 years of the program, they also discuss the future possibilities for couples therapy.

After a short break from recording, we are excited about episode 8; the guest, the energy and the information!!! We invite the CEO of Buttonwillow Warehouse Company (BWC), Clay Houchin and CFO, Scott Stanley to the recording studio to talk about their experience in the agriculture service space. BWC is a family owned and operated business with over 50 years of experience serving California farmers distributing fertilizer and crop protection products. The guys discuss the price of doing business in today’s world with all of the changing variables; the cost of products and supplies, the cost and availability of importing and exporting goods, the talent pool availability, and how to best service the farmer. Grab a beverage and join us for the next hour to talk sh*t!

Dr. Scott Stanley of the University of Kentucky describes the challenges conventional drug testing presents and a potential biomarker-based solution.This podcast is the eighth episode in our “Equine Innovators” podcast series, brought to you by Zoetis. Learn more about the equine biological passport in this video. Scott Stanley, PhD, is a research scientist with more than 30 years of regulatory drug testing experience. He currently runs a research lab at the University of Kentucky Gluck Equine Research Center, in Lexington, and a service lab, The Equine Analytical Chemistry Lab, also located in Lexington. One of his research focuses is the Equine Biological Passport, which aims to identify specific biomarkers that will detect drug use by monitoring these biomarkers overtime.

This is Part 3 of a 3-part series.This episode features Brian Sanders, the Marriage Pastor at RockPointe Church. After 30+ years in Marriage Ministry, Brian gives us the top 10 mistakes that people make in their marriages.Here are the links mentioned in each segment:Brian Sanders, Marriage Pastor: Brian.Sanders@rpcstaff.orgMarriage Ministry WebsiteWORKSHEET for this series. 8.    Quitting when the going gets toughRead the chapter on “The Power of Commitment” in the above referenced book by Scott Stanley 9.    Asking for and granting forgiveness on a consistent basisRead the chapter on “Forgiveness and Restoration” in the above referenced book by Scott Stanley.Watch this video on Forgiveness 10. A lack of understanding about personality differences and learning how to use the inevitable differences as a teamAttend RPC's MarriedLife “Different by Design" class.

This is Part 2 of a 3-part series.This episode features Brian Sanders, the Marriage Pastor at RockPointe Church. After 30+ years in Marriage Ministry, Brian gives us the top 10 mistakes that people make in their marriages.Here are the links mentioned in each segment:Brian Sanders, Marriage Pastor: Brian.Sanders@rpcstaff.orgMarriage Ministry WebsiteWORKSHEET for this series.4.    Failing to guard your heartResources for pornography help  www.covenanteyes.com5.    A lack of intentionality in focusing on the right things during all stages of marriage  Watch this video - Essential #3 6.    Stopping (or never starting) to be intentional about fun and friendship during all stages of marriageSign up for MarriedLife Monthly Newsletter HERE7.    Learning how to communicate and resolve conflict in a Godly manner If you only read one book on marriage, read “A Lasting Promise – The Christian Guide to Fighting for your Marriage” by Scott Stanley

Katie and Matt are joined once again by Stacie Johnson and Clark Stevens. The group jump right into their discussion of emotionally healthy marriages, with Clark setting up the conversation by explaining how marriage is designed to showcase God's glory and love. He references a study done by Annette Mahoney, as well as the importance of safety within a marriage and the knowledge that we can't have a healthy marriage without the strength of the Lord. Katie emphasizes that we'll never be perfect in our marriage, so it's important to have a marriage based in humility and forgiveness for when we mess up. Clark agrees and brings up a study by Frank Fincham about forgiveness. With that idea of forgiveness in mind, Matt asserts that we will never be the perfect husband or wife, but we can use our mistakes to highlight God's mercy and grace. Clark adds that realizing you'll never be perfect takes away a lot of negative expectations in a marriage, and sets both partners up with a need for Jesus. Clark brings up studies done by Scott Stanley and articles by John Gottman to help listeners see unhealthy patterns or reactions in a marriage. He also mentions Fellowship Church's Marriage Innovators class. The group transition to talking about the importance of friendship within a marriage. Clark discloses that having a friendship in marriage helps a couple stick together and preserve their marriage, just like a UCLA study found. He also reveals a technique to help with listening to the other person in a marriage. Katie expresses how important it is in a marriage to turn towards each other and be curious about where the other person's at, both spiritually and emotionally. Stacie takes time to offer advice to listeners who either have an emotionally unhealthy spouse, or are walking through an unhealthy marriage with a friend. The whole group is quick to point out that there's a difference between an emotionally unhealthy spouse or marriage and a marriage that isn't safe physically or mentally; they encourage anyone who is in an unsafe marriage to seek help. For more information on this podcast, visit podcast.fellowshipknox.org

This week we talk about the Netflix reality show Indian Matchmaker in Poppin’ Culture. Then in the Academic Deep Dive segment we talk about the article, “Romantic alternative monitoring increases ahead of infidelity and break-up, ” written by Drs. Lane Ritchie, Scott Stanley, Galena Rhoades, and Howard Markman at the University of Denver. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we talk about an article from Very Well Family about advice about how to cope when people judge your parenting.

In today's episode, we interview Scott Stanley, assistant coach at San Diego Christian College, we speak more about the Deshaun Watson trade extravaganza that he is a part of.... also the Tiger Woods documentary stunk. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyler-wilson229/message

Premarital cohabitation has consistently been found to be associated with increased risk for divorce and marital distress in the United States. Two explanations for this "cohabitation effect" are discussed: selection and experience. We present an empirically based view of how the experience of cohabitation may increase risk for rela-tionship distress or divorce for some people beyond what is accounted for by selection. Specifically, using a commit-ment framework, we suggest that some couples who otherwise would not have married end up married because of the inertia of cohabitation.Leading researcher Dr. Scott Stanley discusses concerns over the patterns of contemporary relationships that most impact a couple's long-term commitment: Sliding through major transitions before making clear Decisions about what they want for the future.Dr. Scott Stanley, Research Professor and Co-Director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, presents his definitions and suggestions for building and sustaining a dedicated commitment in a relationship.http://slidingvsdeciding.blogspot.comTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/DecideOrSlideJason Wasser, LMFT is a Licensed Therapist, Certified Coach& Certified Neuro Emotional Technique Practitioner. He works with entrepreneurs and young professionals online and locally in South Florida. To inquire about working with Jason, please reach out on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/youwinninglifeWasser's Furniture Highlighting what's great about buying your furniture from a brick and mortar family business!The Family Room Wellness Associates Online Therapy and Coaching with Jason Wasser, LMFT

 When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week's show features Step 1 - Clarifying Your Vision and Direction. In it he gives you a simple 2-step process and specific ideas on how to implement them. He also offers a special, FREE offer and massive discount! Schedule your FREE, No Obligation 30-Minute Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Click on Contact/Schedule. Resources: Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 1: Clarify Your Vision - https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-1-vision-6d3dc0ee19b1?sk=e7349b5b69a9614fb641f305f2562d9a The Power of Commitment: A Guide To Active, Lifelong Love by Scott Stanley - https://www.amazon.com/Power-Commitment-Guide-Active-Lifelong/dp/0787979287 The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/ Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate)

Scott Stanley a Vancouver lawyer has launched a $900 million Class action lawsuit.   Guest: Scott Stanley Vancouver lawyer has launched class-action lawsuit against ICBC

Scott Stanley went to law school to help people and he's doing in a big way by representing Plaintiffs at Murphy Battista LLP. Murphy Battista is a "tort" firm that exclusively represents Plaintiffs in actionable civil wrongs. The opponent Scott's clients face are usually large corporations and insurance companies with deep pockets who are not afraid to use their resources to fight Scott's clients. It's hardly a fair fight - at least on paper - but Scott has seen it all before and he knows how to navigate the imbalance of power to get his clients justice and fair compensation for the wrongs they have suffered. A veteran litigator who has conducted over 100 lengthy trials - 40 of them jury trials - Scott is one of the top trial lawyers in Vancouver, BC. Scott breaks down the meaning of a "class action" lawsuit with particular emphasis on how they apply to privacy and data breaches following a cyberattack. To learn more about Scott's practice and his firm Murphy Battista LLP go to murphybattista.com. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dfiforensics/message

Scott Stanley of the University of Denver on cohabitation. Chris Harrison of Carnegie Mellon University on turning objects into touch screens. Jill Pilaroscia of Colour Studio on color consultants. Helene Cooper of the New York Times on how Liberia's women overthrew male domination to elect Ellen Johnson Sirleaf. Christopher Oldstone-Moore of Wright State University on what beards tell us about politics, culture and religion. Nathan Silver of Ohio State University on story attachment.

Scott Stanley of the University of Denver on living together before marriage. Justin Jones on milk from genetically-modified "spider-goats." Peter Leimgruber of the Smithsonian Conservation Biology Institute on countering new threats to Asian elephants. Samuel West of The Disgusting Food Museum on the disgusting food. Dan Choi of Remy New York on the hair's industry dark side. Charlotte-Rose Millar of the University of Queensland on witches through the ages.

We are back from a short holiday break! We hope you had a wonderful Christmas and a great New Year celebration! On today's episode we answer one of our most frequently asked questions: Can seriously dating or engaged couples live together? Join us as we look at what culture is telling us, what we see the Bible telling us, and then dive into some deep questions for both men and women. Scripture Songs of Solomon 2:7, 3:5, 8:4 Hebrews 13:4 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 1 Corinthians 6:18 Philippians 2:15 Genesis 39 (The story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife) Matthew 6:9-13 (The Lord's Prayer) Footnotes Waiting to Awaken Love - Iain Duguid, Professor, Westminster Theological Seminary Time to go ahead and shack up? - Scott Stanley, PhD Should Dating or Engaged Couples Live Together? - Geoff Ashley Connect Join us on Instagram @everaftertalk Sign up for our newsletter to be notified of new episodes, the launch of our new website and other important community info. A dedicated email address as well as the new website are launching soon!

LISTENER’S QUESTION: Sharon writes: “I have discovered your podcast recently, and it has helped me so much in my own self-reflection and relationships. My boyfriend and I are considering moving in together, but I am a little worried. We have been together for 9 months. We sleepover with each other a few times a week, so in some ways we are kind of living together already without the financial responsibilities. Regarding habits and lifestyle, I don’t think we will have any problems. He is very excited about living together because he thinks that we will be moving in together anyway. But to me living together is a step closer to marriage and I’m not sure if I’m mentally ready. We are both just starting our careers, and it also seems more practical to live together so we can save up some money. We are still young and definitely not thinking of marriage yet. I’m not sure if I’m just overthinking and worrying too much, which I tend to do. I would love to hear what you have to say on this.” 4 TIPS TO CONSIDER WHEN FEELING UNCERTAIN Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear stories, explanations, and examples. 1. WHAT IS YOUR PRIORITY? WHAT IS YOUR INTENTION? What is most important for you right now? Is it to explore the development of your relationship? Is it to have fun? Is it to focus on your career? Is this a step in the direction of partnership and marriage? 2. WHAT IS YOUR INTRINSIC DESIRE? What do you really want? If you were able to construct the situation exactly the way that you wanted it, what would you do? Are you being influenced by culture, family, friend, your significant other, by research? 3. WHAT IS THE MEANING AND SIGNIFICANCE OF THE THING YOU ARE CONSIDERING? Is this the 1st time living together with someone? If so, does this have meaning and significance to you? Scott Stanley, a research professor identifies a distinction with couples, which is “sliding vs. deciding.” “Two-thirds of cohabiters are in fact sliders, who didn’t much discuss the decision to move into together. It just kind of happened. Moving from dating to sleeping over to sleeping over a lot to cohabitation can be a gradual slope Once a couple is set up with a shared apartment, routine, dog, and group of friends, summoning the will to break up becomes more and more difficult. When two lives become so thoroughly intermingled, separating them out, starting all over again, will take a lot of effort; the prospect becomes a little daunting. It seems easier to just keep going with things as they are, even if they’re not ideal. Inertia sets in. More sobering still, is research which suggests that “couples who otherwise would not have married end up married because of the inertia of cohabitation.” They slide their way right down the aisle: “We might as well share an apartment since we’re already spending so much time together” becomes “we might as well stay together since I might not be able to find someone else,” and finally “we might as well get married since we’ve already been living together for so long.”” by Brett and Kate McKay inShould You Live Together Before Marriage? 4. WHAT ARE YOUR HIGHEST VALUES? Consider doing a values exercise to get clear on what are your top values in life. “Studies have shown that one of the keys to healthy, happy relationships is moving through important transitions deliberately. Whether it’s deciding to have sex, move in together, get married, or have a baby, couples who make these transitions with intentionality — with mutual discussion of meaning, expectations, plans, and purpose — are more likely to flourish.”  by Brett and Kate McKay in Should You Live Together Before Marriage? MENTIONED: ERP 110: How To Manage Two Majorly Conflicting Needs In Relationship(podcast) Smart Couples Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Creating a Rich Future for You and Your Partner (book) Photo by Shea Rouda on Unsplash TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please reach out to me. Here is my contact information. I would really appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you!  If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me.

Once a cheater, always a cheater…right? In our 15th episode, Joe and Dr. Zhana spoke with Kayla Knopp, the lead author on a study that focuses on the likelihood of “serial cheating” in individuals. Based on a nationwide sample of almost 500 people in unmarried romantic relationships followed every 4-6 months over a period of 5 years as they ended their initial relationship and entered a second one found that there may be some truth to that saying. Specifically, those who had cheated on their partner in the first relationship were three times more likely to have cheated on their next partner than people who had not cheated on their first partner (45% vs 18%). About Our Guest Knopp is currently a PhD candidate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Denver, working under Dr. Galena Rhoades, Dr. Howard Markman, and Dr. Scott Stanley in the Center for Marital and Family Studies in the Department of Psychology at DU. Her research focuses on couples and romantic relationships, with particular focus on commitment processes, diversity, and statistical modeling. Don’t Miss This Week’s Foreplay… The number of millennials having anal sex has doubled in the past 12 years, but maybe not for the best reasons. In a review of three UK studies of more than 45,000 aged between 16 to 24-years-old, researchers found teenage girls and young women are now under increasing pressure to have anal sex even though they find it painful. The study, published in the Journal Adolescent Health, found some of the largest increases in the prevalence of oral and anal sex over the past decade were observed among those aged 16-18. Read full article http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5100311/Up-one-five-millennials-anal-sex.html#ixzz4z1KSALpW (here). On the other end of the age spectrum, a new study found that men are three times more likely to experience an increase in sexual frequency after getting a vasectomy. Four out of ten of those surveyed said their sex lives had ‘significantly improved’. Men who had vasectomies also said they had higher sex drives, better erections and orgasms and were more satisfied. And the benefits were not just for the men. Women reported an increase in their sexual arousal after their partner had the operation. Read more http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5099745/Men-sex-vasectomy.html#ixzz4z1Js3hK9 (here). Afterglow Have you ever had trouble keeping your mind at ease during sex? You’re not alone, and your case is far from hopeless! More and more people are practicing mindfulness when it comes to sex, and research is showing that it leads to better sex and can help treat female sexual dysfunction. Mindfulness, simply put, is focusing on what’s happening in the present moment, and while it might sound easy, that’s not always the case. It takes practice and patience, so if you’re curious read more about it here. Read articles discussed here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stress-and-sex/201711/mindful-sex-is-mind-blowing-sex (Stress and Sex) http://www.psypost.org/2017/08/meta-analysis-finds-mindfulness-based-therapies-helpful-treating-female-sexual-dysfunction-49549 (Female Sexual Dysfunction) Facebook Twitter Google+ Pinterest LinkedIn 0Shares

Dating has never been more ambiguous than it is today. People sort of end up with each other without explicitly defining the nature of their relationship, level of commitment, or expectations for the future. What begins as hanging out, slides into spending the night, which slides into moving in together, and can even sometimes slide into marriage. While keeping your romantic relationships ambiguous may seem to make them safer and less complicated, my guest today has conducted research that shows that's not necessarily the case. His name is Scott Stanley, he’s an author and professor of psychology at the University of Denver, and he specializes in studying commitment, co-habitating, and marriage. Today on the show, Scott explains why dating has gotten more ambiguous during the past 20 years and why that has led people to slide into relationships instead of explicitly deciding and committing to them. He then highlights research that shows that, contrary to popular belief, co-habitating before marriage actually increases the chances of divorce when you do decide to get married and how living with someone makes it harder to break up with them, even when you realize you should. We then get into what men can do to make dating less ambiguous and more decisive, and how being upfront about your intentions with women will make you more attractive, reduce drama down the road, and put you in a better position for a happy and fulfilling marriage. Scott then shares what you should do if you feel like you’ve slid into your relationship and what married couples can do to strengthen their marriage. Whether you’re dating, thinking about getting married, or already hitched, this podcast is crammed with research-backed advice on how to have better relationships.

The chemical changes that take place during periods of infatuation can cloud judgement and blur the lines between true commitment and attraction. In a truly committed relationship, both parties desire a future together and are willing to make the sacrifices necessary for that to happen. As opposed to sitting down with children to have a forced, singular “talk,” it's important for parents to guide their children through the increasingly ambiguous world of romantic relationships on a day to day basis. Tune in for insights and tips on how to talk to your children about making smart relationship choices. Special Guest: Dr. Scott Stanley Resident Expert: Dr. Alicia La Hoz Hosts: Omar Ramos & Veronica Avila

One of my mentors and close friend, Scott Stanley, comes and talks about his life and God’s bakery and bookstore.

Today we’ve got world renowned marriage expert and researcher Dr. Scott Stanley, who also happens to be the guy who saved my own marriage! That’s right, 6 months into my miserable marriage I was at a crossroads…I felt doomed to spend a lifetime in a hurting, unsatisfying marriage but then I got trained by this[...] The post An interview with the man who saved my marriage appeared first on Smalley Institute.

NC Family President John Rustin talks with Scott Stanley, Ph.D., Co-director of the Center for Marriage and Family Studies at the University of Denver, about his research regarding cohabitation and why couples should think twice before moving in together before marriage.

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In Part 2 of a two-part series, NC Family president John Rustin continues a discussion with Scott Stanley, Ph.D., Research Professor and Co-Director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, about a new report he co-authored for the National Marriage Project entitled, Before I Do: What Do Premarital Experiences Have to Do with Marital Quality Among Today’s Young Adults.

In Part 1 of a two-part series, NC Family president John Rustin talks with Scott Stanley, Ph.D., Research Professor and Co-Director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, about a new report he co-authored for the National Marriage Project entitled, Before I Do: What Do Premarital Experiences Have to Do with Marital Quality Among Today’s Young Adults.

Right click here to download the mp3.Jenne will be watching the comments to respond to the ideas brought up in her interview. Resources and ReferencesWhat Dreams May Come by Richard Matheson, BOOK and FILMThe Science of Mind by Ernest HolmesFighting for Your Marriage by Howard Markman, Scott Stanley, Susan Blumberg Empowering Couples Building on Your Strengths by David Olson and Amy Olson  First Comes Love by Douglas Brinley and Mark OgletreeWomen of the Church by Gordon Hinckley How Can I Become the Woman of Whom I Dream? by Gordon Hinckley Words of the Prophet: Seek Learning by Gordon Hinckley (Special Counsel for Girls heading)Mormon Podcast CommunityMormon Democrats on FacebookSolace for MothersMutual ApprobationFair How to Worship Our Mother In Heaven (Without Getting Excommunicated) by Kevin BarneyJenne's blog post on the above articleYoga of Christ by Philip McLemoreWomen and Authority edited by Maxine HanksMother Wheel Yo Gabba GabbaSpecial thanks to Carolyn Erigero for taking care of "cute but determined" during the recording of this interview.