Podcast appearances and mentions of jessica speer

In this episode, I catch up with two past guests who are making a difference in very different—but equally powerful—ways. Jessica Speer, author of insightful and relatable books for pre-teens, shares what she's been working on and what's coming next in her mission to support young readers. Tia Elie, founder of Acts of Kindness New Hampshire, gives us an update on how her nonprofit continues to serve the homeless and people in need throughout her community. I loved getting to catch up with both of them!You can find out about Jessica's books at Jessica Speer - Author Helping Kids and Families Thrive Home.You can find out more about Tia and Acts of Kindness New Hampshire at Acts of Kindness.Want to be a guest on Life Stories Podcast? Send Shara Goswick a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1718977880777072342a16683

As a follow-up to our episode about middle school friendships with Jessica Speer, we had our own conversation about friendship: what it means, what it doesn't, what you can or should expect or not. Friendships are different from family. They're essential but--like everything that has to do with humans--they can be tricky!

Is there anyone who's on the other side of middle school who loved it and wishes they could go back? It's just hard, and one of the toughest aspects can be navigating friendships, especially with girls.  Jessica Speer, award-winning author of several interactive books about middle school, joins us for this important conversation!   #podmatchjessicaspeer.comBFF or NRF  Jessica's bookMiddle School: Safety Goggles Advised

In this episode of the Helping Families Be Happy podcast, host Christopher Robbins interviews Jessica Spear, an award-winning author, about the complexities of relationships, particularly among preteens and teens. They discuss how to handle situations where friendships suddenly turn difficult and offer guidance for parents helping their children navigate these challenging times. Speer emphasizes the importance of empathy, co-regulation in emotional situations and offers valuable advice for maintaining and mending friendships even amidst differences. The episode also offers strategies for adults feeling isolated, highlighting the significance of close friendships and how to nurture them over time. Episode Highlights 00:00:10: Christopher Robbins introduces the podcast and guest Jessica Spear, discussing her books and expertise in navigating friendships. 00:01:10: Jessica Spear describes her writing focus and educational background, framing the discussion on relationships. 00:01:51: Dialogue begins with a focus on the complexities and challenges of modern relationships in a divisive world. 00:03:11: Christopher shares a personal story about his daughter's upsetting experience with a friend. 00:04:05: Jessica offers advice on empathizing with children when friendships falter, emphasizing the learning nature of social skills. 00:06:11: Discussion on how stress and anxiety impact decision-making and the importance of calming techniques. 00:06:48: Role of parents in emotionally supporting children through co-regulation and healthy emotional management. 00:09:11: Introduction to another personal scenario about feeling isolated despite being friendly and outgoing. 00:10:24: Jessica explains that feelings of loneliness are common and offers strategies to help children find connections. 00:12:26: Christopher shares his method of maintaining lifelong friendships through regular, simple gestures. 00:14:22: Addressing conflict within close relationships, Jessica discusses strategies for setting boundaries and apologies. 00:18:13: Jessica's final thoughts include the importance of controlling our own actions in improving relationships. 00:19:18: Christopher concludes the podcast, providing information on where to find Jessica Spear's work and advice on nurturing friendships. Key Takeaways Fostering emotional intelligence and empathy in children is crucial when they face friendship challenges. Close friendships are rare and valuable, and they require effort and understanding to maintain. Parents play a crucial role in co-regulating children's emotions and setting a calm example. Boundaries and effective apologies are key in repairing and maintaining strong relationships. Regular, thoughtful gestures can help sustain lifelong friendships. Shareable Quotes "We can only control ourselves, and there's so much we can do in any situation right now." – Jessica Spear "Close friendships are hard to find, and that's perfectly normal." – Jessica Spear "Help children recognize and manage big emotions when hard things happen." – Jessica Spear "Remember, it's not what you said, but how you made them feel that people remember most." – Jessica Spear "Emotional intelligence can help in navigating the messy world of friendships and family dynamics." –Christopher Robbins Show Notes by Barevalue.

Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School - Safety Goggles Advised. Her interactive books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities and practical insights. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids. Why are friendship and social struggles common in the preteen and teen years? The book shares nine hidden friendship truths. What are some of these truths? What is the Friendship Pyramid, and why is it useful? The book explores the difference between conflict and bullying and ways to respond to each. The book has interactive components, like quizzes and fill-in-the-blanks. Why is that important? Sponsored by EdGerety.com Resources Website: https://jessicaspeer.com/

Send us a textStruggling with the rollercoaster of preteen and teenage social struggles in today's digital age? Is navigating the maze of middle school friendships, social media, and digital drama leaving you and your grandchild feeling lost? Yearning for solutions in an increasingly connected world?I'm Laura Brazan, and on this week's episode of 'Grandparents Raising Grandchildren,' we dive deep into "9 Truths About Navigating Social Struggles for Teens and Pre-Teens." Joining me is Jessica Speers, social sciences expert and accomplished author dedicated to guiding preteens through the complexities of friendships and technology. We'll explore practical strategies, discuss her enlightening interactive books, and share insights on building a family tech agreement.Discover how to delay smartphone use safely, approach important conversations about digital responsibility, and nurture healthy social skills that stand the test of time. Let's tackle the friendship truths, relationship phases, and teach our grandchildren to thrive socially and emotionally.Tune in for a profound discussion aimed at equipping you with the knowledge and tools to support your grandchildren in their journey through adolescence. Join us in this important conversation to understand, engage, and empower the next generation. Jessica Speer's books strengthen social awareness and help kids and families navigate common struggles. Her award-winning writing engages and entertains readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities and practical insights. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids, schools and familiesJessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to preteens/teens, parenting, social-emotional topics and friendship. Read more at https://jessicaspeer.com/Subscribe now to 'Grandparents Raising Grandchildren' and become part of a community committed to uplifting each other every step of the way.Thank you for tuning into today's episode. It's been a journey of shared stories, insights, and invaluable advice from the heart of a community that knows the beauty and challenges of raising grandchildren. Your presence and engagement mean the world to us and to grandparents everywhere stepping up in ways they never imagined. Remember, you're not alone on this journey. For more resources, support, and stories, visit our website and follow us on our social media channels. If today's episode moved you, consider sharing it with someone who might find comfort and connection in our shared experiences. We look forward to bringing more stories and expert advice your way next week. Until then, take care of yourselves and each other.Liked this episode? Share it and tag us on Facebook @GrandparentsRaisingGrandchilden Love the show? Leave a review and let us know! CONNECT WITH US: Website | Facebook

Please welcome author Jessica Speer to this episode of Getting to the Heart of Why We Write! Jessica is such a phenomenal human and I've enjoyed every time our paths have crossed in SCBWI events, seeing her present at panels and conferences.  If you ever get the chance, sign up for one of her classes or presentations. Highly highly recommend!

Principle Season 4 Ep 20Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of books for kids and teens, including: - The Phone Book - Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand, - BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships, - Middle School - Safety Goggles Advised.For more information, visit www.JessicaSpeer.comP.S. Whenever you're ready, check out my other stuff here:Books:Check out my business book that was seen on Forbes: The Key to the GateWhat I Want My Children to Know Before I DieGet practical tips for How to Be a Record Breaking Sales Gladiator: http://xfactoredge.com/subscribeGet practical tips for How to Have Extreme Influence: https://eksinfluence.com/subscribeGet practical tips for How to Be The Dad You Were Meant To Be: eksayn.com/subscribeI am about to launch a new course for dads to be awesome. Get notified here.Sign up for my SubstackShout out to Alex Sanfilippo and Podmatch!

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Join us in this insightful episode of the Developing Tomorrow's Leaders podcast as we sit down with award-winning author Jessica Speer. Jessica has a talent for blending social science, stories, and activities to address the tricky topics that surface during childhood and adolescence. With a Master's Degree in Social Sciences and a knack for connecting with kids and teens, she has authored impactful books like "The Phone Book," "BFF or NRF? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships," and "Middle School - Safety Goggles Advised." In this episode, we dive into the essential advice Jessica offers for navigating the digital world, understanding friendship dynamics, and tackling the challenges of middle school. Jessica shares her approach to writing about complex topics in ways that resonate with young readers and discusses the importance of social-emotional learning. Tune in to gain valuable insights and strategies for supporting the next generation. Stay connected with Jessica Email: jessicabspeer@gmail.com Website: https://jessicaspeer.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JessicaSpeerAuthor   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antwaunthompson/support

In this episode, I sit down with Jessica Speer, acclaimed author of books designed to empower pre-teens and teens. We delve into her insightful works that address the challenges of friendships, the complexities of middle school life, and the responsible use of cell phones. Jessica shares her inspiration, key messages, and practical advice for young readers and their parents. Her compassionate and knowledgeable approach offers valuable guidance for navigating these formative years. You can find out more about Jessica at jessicaspeer.com. Thanks for listening!

So . . . you got a phone! You can text your friends, play games, and take cool pictures! You have the whole world in your pocket—power to be used as a force for good or, um, not so good. But have no fear —The Phone Book is here! Packed with research-based explanations, techy tidbits, and stories, this book explores healthy screen habits and ways to stay safe online. Plus, fun activities and secret codes reveal the power of your phone and your superpowers to wield it as a force for good. Jessica Speer is the author of books for kids and teens, including The Phone Book - Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand. She has a Master's Degree in Social Sciences and a knack for writing about complex topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica regularly contributes to media outlets on content related to kids, parenting, friendship, and social-emotional learning. Join us on the Authors Alley with Dori DeCarlo. For more information on Jessica, visit JessicaSpeer.com. Be sure to support the mission of UnsilencedVoices.org. Take the hassle out of security with StadiumBags.com - they're not just for sports fans! We thank Smith Sisters and the Sunday Drivers for our theme song, "She is You". Connect with Word of Mom on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter and email us at info.wordofmomradio@gmail.com for more info. WordofMomRadio.com - sharing the wisdom of women, in business and in life.  

In a world where childhood is drastically different (thanks to mobile devices and social media) how can parents build strong connections with tweens and teens? How can we cultivate healthy relationships and boost their self-confidence when external validation holds so much power?Jessica Speer, our insightful guest, understands the developmental growing pains facing adolescents perhaps better than anyone. As an author and former friendship mentor for middle schoolers, she's extensively studied this transitional life stage's psychology and social dynamics.In our conversation, Jessica reveals the root causes of why grades 6-8 can profoundly test one's confidence. You'll discover the “friendship truths” essential for students to internalize and why certain bonds strengthen while others rupture. We discuss the risky allure of perceived popularity and how parents can equip kids with perspective.Tune in and learn simple but sage phrases to employ when children need empathy rather than advice. This episode is brimming with science-backed insights and practical wisdom to smoothly guide your child's journey through the inherently messy middle school years.“Our kids know when we're triggered and we go off. And then we're not really there for them. And the worst-case scenario is as they get older, they stop coming to us. Because they don't want to have that effect on us.” — Jessica Speer In this episode, you will learn:Simple ways to have meaningful conversations with your tween or teen The words that guarantee your child feels heard during tough talks (and no, they're not "I understand") Helpful tips for empathizing with your kid's friendship frustrations, even when you don't fully comprehend social media drama The formula to ground yourself before emotionally charged conversations How to embrace your child's quest for identity without judgment How to teach your tween resilience without criticism Before you hand your kid a smartphone, ask yourself these vital questions How less advice and more listening can deepen trust with your tween or teen (75% of parents don't realize this) Resources:The Phone Book by Jessica Speer BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)?Connect with Jessica Speer:Website Connect with Cam Hall:WebsiteDads Making A Difference Connection CallFacebookInstagramTwitterLinkedInYouTubeEmail - cam@dmdpodcast.comWant to join a holistic group coaching call with Cam? - Send him a message on Instagram...

In this episode Jessica and Cara discuss social, emotional learning for young people. They emphasize the importance of regulating one's own emotions in order to effectively help children manage theirs. The conversation touches on the idea that toddlers and teenagers are essentially the same person, with the same skills applied throughout both age groups. They also stress the importance of repairing relationships with children when parents make mistakes, and the need to allow children to experience difficult emotions and navigate through them. Jessica Speer is the author of books for kids and teens, unpacking tricky stuff that surfaces during childhood and adolescence. Join her free monthly newsletter here! Share your parenting goals, struggles and topics you'd love to hear about! Know a great guest expert? Share that too! Share with me at www.caratyrrell.com/share and you have a chance to win a one on one coaching session with me! About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is a Vermont-based Early Childhood Educator, Conscious Parenting Coach, and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology(™), a birth-to-five, soul and science-based framework that empowers parents to maximize their child's early learning while raising fantastic human beings who succeed in school and life. While teaching preschool and Kindergarten, she noticed her students knew their ABC's and 123's, but struggled with their social, emotional, and interpersonal skills. At drop-off, parents would say, “We're so glad that you are their first teacher”, but she knew she wasn't -- their parents were! This realization led to her professional pivot as an online Early Childhood Parent Educator and Coach.  Cara has embraced her role as a thought leader and fierce advocate for Pandemic parents raising the COVID Generation (GEN-C). Through keynotes, teacher training, and her podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she's teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world. Cara holds degrees in American Sign Language (ASL) and Linguistics and a Master's degree in Education. She lives in southern Vermont with her two nearly grown-and-flown daughters and a husband who is her biggest cheerleader. Ready to raise world-ready kids who change the world? Visit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.caratyrrell.com/bio⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to begin your Collaborative Parenting journey! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/core4parenting/message

Healthy friendships are food for the soul. Indeed, the best relationships are rooted in mutual kindness, honesty, and respect. With loneliness at epidemic levels, it's all the more important for us to know how to cultivate loving, healthy friendships. We often think that great friendships "just happen," but, like every truly wonderful relationship, solid friendships require effort and tender loving care. Dr. Carla is joined by friendship expert Jessica Speer for a warmhearted exploration into loneliness, toxic friendships, and the keys to crafting healthy friendships from childhood and middle school through later life.Books by Dr. Carla Manly: Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend Aging Joyfully: A Woman's Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships Books by Jessica Speer:BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends): A Girl's Guide to Happy FriendshipsMiddle School―Safety Goggles Advised: Exploring the Weird Stuff from Gossip to Grades, Cliques to Crushes, and Popularity to Peer PressureThe Phone Book: Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your HandConnect with Dr. Carla Manly: Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/ Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carlamariemanly8543 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

In this episode of Imperfect Mommy, we welcome back a very special guest, Jessica Speer, who has a new book titled "The Phone Book: Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand." Jessica's book is designed for pre-teens, specifically aimed at children aged eight to twelve who are navigating the world of smartphones. Hosts engage Jessica in a conversation about her inspiration for writing the book, the challenges parents face when it comes to their children's digital lives, and the impact of technology on kids' mental health. Jessica provides insights on how parents can empower their children to make informed choices while using smartphones and balance the positive and negative aspects of technology. Throughout the episode, they discuss topics like FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), the influence of tech companies on children's online experiences, and the importance of having open, non-judgmental conversations with kids about their online activities. The episode touches on the growing concern of how social media and technology affect kids' mental health and self-esteem, and the need for parents to educate themselves and their children about responsible online behavior. Jessica shares resources like books and documentaries that can serve as conversation starters for parents and their kids to navigate the digital landscape while emphasizing the positive aspects of technology. The conversation concludes with gratitude for Jessica's valuable insights and a commitment to continue discussing the ever-evolving challenges of parenting in the digital age. Join Imperfect Mommy in this informative and thought-provoking conversation about parenting and technology in today's rapidly changing world. Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships (2021) and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised (Releasing August 2022). Her interactive books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities, like quizzes and fill-in-the-blanks. Blending humor, a dash of science, and practical insights, her writing unpacks the tricky stuff that peaks during adolescence. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship. For more information, visit www.JessicaSpeer.com   Connect with Jessica: https://jessicaspeer.com/   IG: https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SpeerAuthor www.raisingenlightenedchildren.com Connect with me: linktr.ee/raisingenlightenedchildren --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/momsupportcoach/support

C4 Leaders – the ONLY nonprofit to utilize the pizza making process to create space for our companions to be seen, heard, and loved.   We also write children's books, host this podcast, and use the most amazing handmade, hand-tossed, sourdough pizza to bring out the best in each other.   Please check out PIZZADAYS.ORG to support our important work. Season 3 Episode #22 Jessica Speer is coming from Colorado You can find Jessica via her website jessicaspeer.comAbout our guest: Jessica Speer is the highly acclaimed author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School - Safety Goggles Advised. On August 8th – you release The Phone Book as well – congrats! A review from BFF or NRF “This book is an excellent guide to friendship for "tweens." It is super engaging with the quizzes and "fill-in-the-blank" sections; the cute graphics make it really fun and accessible; AND it provides really great info that resonates with tween girls, without ever seeming "preachy." Jessica's interactive books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities and practical insights. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores topics in ways that connect with kids.Jessica, thanks for sharing your gifts with the world and for choosing to guide our youth and families in their quests to develop their best selves.   Welcome to the show!TOTD – "Family should be the place where you can be your most complete self. Where you're accepted and appreciated, seen and valued, even in moments of disagreement. It should be your soft place to fall, the place where you're reminded that no matter what happens to you, in the face of your deepest challenges, you are loved."   Oprah Winfrey                                                                                                          In this episode:What was life like growing up?What are your life's essential ingredients?The importance of family!Congrats on your work as an author – three books, plans for more…Why children's books?What can we/parents/teachers do to help children with healthy digital habits?Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised… What did the research tell you?How can we best help youth during that difficult transition?What is the best thing parents can do to support their child?BFF or NRF – what did you learn in writing that book?How do you define friendship?Post Pandemic Friendships… how has the pandemic changed friendships for children?What is the Friendship Pyramid?Was bullying covered in the book?What is I POWER?The YODA WAY?  What is it?Helping youth work through difficult emotions – what tips do you provide?Legacy   

Jessica Spear is the author of The Phone Book. Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better With the Powerful Device in Your Hand.  It is just the latest of books she has written that help tweens and teens become their best selves. We talk about all of the fun things included in her book (think puzzles, code breaking, trivia and more!) as well as why tweens and teens make amazing teachers. If you have kids, you're going to want to listen to this episode…and probably buy the book…you can find a link in the shownotes ;)   Listen today!  

Join host Tess Connolly LCSW as she engages in an enlightening conversation with special guest Jessica Speer. Award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised. In this episode, Tess and Jessica delve deep into Jessica's latest book  The Phone Book: Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand.    ⭐Tess and Jessica dissect the contents of Jessica's book, revealing its invaluable insights for parents and their tweens and teens. ⭐️ Tess and Jessica explore practical strategies for managing tech boundaries with your teens as Tess shares her own "Tech Reset Agreement " used with her son and the families she works with.  ⭐ Tess and Jessica discuss the social pressures tweens and teens face in the digital age concerning tech and social media. ⭐Discover how our online presence can shape our lives and future as Tess and Jessica discuss the significance of a digital footprint and reputation. ⭐Tess and Jessica talk about changes that are being made with regards to rules and regulations that are now outdated that are being put in place in the future to help to create a safer online world for our tweens and teens.  ⭐ Tess and Jessica emphasize the vital role of real-life interactions for maintaining mental health in a digitally driven world. ⭐ Dive into the world of text slang, FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out), and group texts, and learn how to navigate through the potential pitfalls. ⭐Recognizing Tech Addiction: identifying when tech usage becomes a significant problem for your tween or teen. ⭐ Tess and Jessica address crucial topics such as online safety, stranger danger, and cyberbullying. ⭐ ️ Jessica is most grateful for her two teens and that she still gets to hang out with them and enjoy their time together.       Find out more about Jessica here

Middle school sucks for most kids. They feel awkward, embarrassed by everything, want more than anything to fit in and be part of the crowd. And navigating friendships can be ridiculously difficult...but when you throw smart phones in the mix, it's next-level.   On today's episode I talk to Jessica Speer, the author of three wonderful books for kids and teens, who has two teenage daughters herself. She has a masters in social sciences, but what really makes her an award-winning author is her knack for writing that connects with her readers. Her books  Middle School (Safety Goggles Advised), BFF or NRF (not really friends), and The Phone Book, are packed with quizzes, choose your ending scenarios, stories, and secret codes…because she knows what she's competing with.  Show Notes and Transcript"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens ListenerPlease be sure to share this episode with another mom you think may find it helpful and follow the show right here where you're listening. New episodes are uploaded every Tuesday morning. I would love to get your feedback and ideas for the show. Reach out to me with ideas for the show or guest suggestions at acoleman@speakingofteens.com. This show is for you, and I want to make sure I'm bringing you the insight and information you need the most!Follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and FacebookAnn ColemanPrivacyIf you get any value from the show, we'd so appreciate a little donation towards production costs. Thank you in advance!Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get immediate access to all the parenting guides above!) And add your name to the Waiting List to be notified of the launch for the next Parenting Course from neurogility.

On today's episode of the "Helping Families Be Happy" podcast, host Adina Oberman, talks to Jessica Speer. She is an award-winning author known for her books "Not Really Friends," "Middle School Safety Goggles Advised," and the newly released "The Phone Book," which are interactive books aimed at preteens and teens. These books entertain while addressing important topics, blending humor, science, stories, and insights to help young readers navigate challenges during adolescence. Episode Highlights: 02:14: Jessica shares the challenges of children using devices more frequently or differently than they did during the summer. 02:45: Jessica gives her advice by suggesting practical steps for families to prepare for the school year transition. 04:28: Jessica emphasizes the importance of encouraging healthy communication between children and their teachers when it comes to using technology.  05:20: Digital literacy is a crucial new form of literacy, given that so much information is now presented on screens. With the rise of digital communication, it's challenging for kids to discern what is true and what is not, and even the emotional nuances in messages can be lost. 05:46: To help children become more media literate, Jessica suggests a gradual process that starts with teaching them how to assess the credibility of information. 06:21: In today's parenting landscape, a significant aspect involves guiding kids to be safe online, promoting good digital citizenship, and fostering literacy. 06:39: With the power that devices provide, children can communicate through texts and messages either positively and kindly or in a harmful way. 06:57: By teaching kids about their digital influence and encouraging them to make positive choices online, parents can help mold their children into responsible and empathetic digital citizens. 07:39: Digital social interactions can be even trickier than in-person interactions due to the absence of nonverbal cues and the involvement of more people in online conversations. 08:46: Family tech agreements are widely available online, but they can vary in content. Parents need to review a few options and choose one that best suits their family's dynamics and values. However, the tech agreement is just the starting point. 10:33: Jessica provides valuable guidance on how to handle situations where things may not be going well about technology use and its impact on various aspects of a child's life. 15:03: Jessica highlights the importance of helping kids create healthy habits around screen time. 3 Key Highlights Jessica discusses how her book "The Phone Book" helps both adult and younger readers understand media literacy in the context of phones, screens, and the internet. Jessica explains how it is crucial to identify specific areas or times in the house where screens are not allowed. Jessica highlights her approach to "The Phone Book," emphasizing its aim to facilitate important conversations with kids about their phone usage. While the book is written for preteens and early teens, she encourages parents to read it as well to engage in discussions about topics such as stranger danger, digital literacy, digital footprints, and reputation. Tweetable Quotes "In elementary school where children might be encountering devices for the first time or using them more extensively for assignments and testing." - Jessica Speer "If a child is having trouble with a device or encountering challenges, they should feel empowered to communicate their issues to their teacher so that they can receive the necessary support." - Jessica Speer "By creating a calm and understanding atmosphere, parents can address challenges related to technology use without creating unnecessary tension or conflict. The focus should be on finding solutions together and supporting the child's overall well-being and success." - Jessica Speer Resources Mentioned Helping Families Be Happy Podcast Apple https://jessicaspeer.com/ Podcast Editing

This week on Real Life Momz, we're joined by Jessica Speer to uncover what kids don't like about social media and why they should be concerned about their digital footprint. Jessica is a renowned author of books for kids and teens, including The Phone Book - Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand, the award-winning BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends): A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships, and Middle School - Safety Goggles Advised. Hear from Jessica about her experience working with kids and get her advice on navigating the digital world. Grab your copy of The Phone Book: Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand, by Jessica Speer Amazon: ⁠https://amzn.to/3qs8l5I (As an Amazon affiliate, at no extra cost to you, we will earn a small commission from qualifying purchases.) About Jessica Speer: Website: https://jessicaspeer.com/ Connect on Twitter: https://twitter.com/SpeerAuthor Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/ Connect on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUjYFOUUwHn3Hhqe0FV5AHg Real Life Momz website⁠⁠: https://www.reallifemomz.com/⁠⁠ Follow Real Life Momz on Instagram:⁠⁠ instagram.com/reallifemomz⁠⁠ Follow Real Life Momz on Facebook: ⁠⁠facebook.com/reallifemomzpodcast Watch on YouTube at https://youtu.be/eKHKZaiV4Wg?si=BCHbzbYpA6QTY_YF Learn more about Dynamic Therapy Services: Visit ⁠www.DynamicTherapyServices.org ⁠to learn more about how to apply for funding as a family in need of movement-based services or how to sponsor a family. Don't miss this incredible opportunity to make a real difference in a child's life. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifemomz/message

Social scientist and author Jessica Speer returns to the Brainy Moms podcast a third time to discuss her book, “The Phone Book: Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand.” In this illuminating conversation, Jessica shares stories, insights, and tips for parents about how to help support their preteens and young teens as they navigate life online. From persuasive design (which pulls users back into the digital world) and the good that can come from digital life to new acronyms and terminology and ensuring middle schoolers are getting enough sleep when their technology beckons, this episode of the Brainy Moms is chock full of useful advice and real-life stories. Don't miss this conversation between Dr. Amy, Teri, and Jessica!  ABOUT JESSICA SPEERJessica Speer is the award-winning author of “BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships” and “Middle School—Safety Googles Advised.” Blending humor, activities, stories, and practical insights, her writing unpacks the tricky stuff that peaks during preteen and teen years. Jessica has a master's degree in social sciences and a knack for exploring complicated topics in ways that connect with kids. Her newest book, “The Phone Book; Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand” was released in August 2023. CONNECT WITH JESSICA SPEERWebsite https://jessicaspeer.comFacebook at @JessicaSpeerAuthorPinterest at @JessicaSpeerAuthorLinkedIn at @Jessica-Speer-authorTwitter at @SpeerAuthorPurchase her book, “The Phone Book; Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand,” (Aug. 8, 2023) from any of these retailers:https://jessicaspeer.com/jessica-speer-books/the-phone-book-by-jessica-speer/CONNECT WITH US Website: www.TheBrainyMoms.com Email: info@TheBrainyMoms.com Social Media: @TheBrainyMoms Dr. Amy's website: www.AmyMoorePhD.comSponsor's website: www.LearningRx.com

"When can I get a phone?" It's a question that is coming from younger and younger kids each year. Is there a right time to get your kid a phone? And when you do, how do you make sure they're being safe and responsible? Jessica Speer, an acclaimed author for teens and kids, chats with Maria to answer some of those questions and plenty more! Jessica shares her tips for setting boundaries, educating kids, and modeling healthy tech habits. Follow along on with Jessica Speer on Instagram: @jessica_speer_author_______Check out all of the MOM2MOM episodes: nbcboston.com/mom-2-momFollow along on social: @thehubtoday & @mariasansone_______Sign up for The Hubbub: nbcboston.com/newslettersSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Phones. Tablets. Social media. All of this can be very overwhelming to us parents as we try to navigate this new world of technology with our kids.  In this episode, Jessica Speer, a highly acclaimed author of books for kids and teens, returns to share some great tips on how to talk with our kids about the safety of devices, things they should know, and understanding that this is an ever-changing conversation to have with our kids.  She shares some of the awesome tips you can learn from her NEW book "The Phone Book- Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better With The Powerful Device in Your Hand." Listen to her past Mom Essentials episode here (#45). To find out more about Jessica and what she's up to, check out these links: Website Instagram Facebook Twitter Essential Minute: Learn More About Adpativ.

In this engaging and insightful episode, we are joined by the renowned author and friendship expert, Jessica Speer, as we delve into the world of children's friendships. Join us as Jessica shares her expertise, providing valuable strategies and practical advice to help children navigate the complexities of building and maintaining healthy and meaningful friendships. Biography Jessica Speer's books strengthen social awareness and help kids and families navigate common struggles. Her award-winning writing engages and entertains readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities and practical insights. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids, schools and families Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to preteens/teens, parenting, social-emotional topics and friendship. She lives in Colorado, USA with her husband and two daughters. Learn more from Jessica at:https://jessicaspeer.com/ About Theresa Inman A wife and a mother to two children and grandmother, Theresa Alexander Inman is a Parenting Coach, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, and Infant Toddler Development Specialist. She was introduced to the field of behavior analysis in 2007 after working in many capacities in the juvenile justice system. Her goal is to improve the lives of children and families by helping them strategize child develop skills to prevent or reduce the effects of possible delays while having fun! Theresa is also an author, having published ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠“How Can I Help My Child Communicate?”⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ in 2022. Connect with Theresa today! • Instagram | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Theresa Inman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • LinkedIn | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Theresa Inman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • BabyBoomer.org | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Theresa Inman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • YouTube | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Parenting with Confidence⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • Tiktok | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@parentcoachtheresa • Spotify via Anchor.fm | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Parenting with Confidence ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ About Parenting with Confidence Parenting with Confidence with Theresa Alexander Inman presents you with answers if you are a tired and frustrated parent with a child diagnosed with a developmental delay. We aim to lift you up from the pressure of doing it right and provide you with the resources to set you and your child up for success! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theresa-alexander-inman/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theresa-alexander-inman/support

Jessica Speer wrote The Phone Book to provide knowledge and empowerment for kids and families regarding smartphone use. The book includes quizzes, real stories, techie tidbits, and secret codes to engage readers. In this informative chat, she suggests modeling healthy tech habits, creating a tech agreement, having regular conversations about the dark side of tech, and teaching digital literacy and citizenship to help kids form healthy digital habits. Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised. Her interactive books for preteens and teens entertain readers while exploring important topics. Blending humor, a dash of science, stories, and insights, her writing unpacks challenges that surface during adolescence. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, teens, parenting, and social-emotional development. Transcription: You can read the transcription on The Children's Book Review. Order a Copy: The Phone Book: Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand: ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bookshop.org⁠⁠. Resources: For more information, visit www.JessicaSpeer.com. Discussion Topics: The Phone Book balances knowledge and empowerment for kids and families regarding smartphone use Working with kids to gather information and stories How watching "The Social Dilemma" highlighted the need for guardrails around technology use for kids and inspired The Phone Book Helping kids understand technology and its impact The design elements and interactive features of The Phone Book Modeling healthy tech habits, creating a tech agreement, having regular conversations about the dark side of tech, and teaching digital literacy and citizenship for parents to help their kids form healthy digital habits Creating more informed young users of tech through her book Encouraging families to have guidebooks on hand for when kids hit a bump in the road --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thechildrensbookreview/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thechildrensbookreview/support

On today's episode of the "Helping Families Be Happy" podcast, host Christopher Robbins, co-founder of Familius Publishing, husband, father of nine, author, fisherman, backpacker, and aspirational musician based in the Central Valley of California, is going to talk to Jessica Speer. She is an award-winning author known for her book "BFF or NRF? Not really friends: A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships." Her books incorporate interactive elements and tackle social-emotional topics for preteens and teens. Jessica also has a forthcoming book called "The Phone: Stay Safe, be Smart and Make the World Better with That Powerful Device in Your Hand."    Episode Highlights: 02:24: Christopher Robbins mentions his wife, who is a teacher. He explains that when she enters the classroom, all the kids have their phones with earbuds in. She is unsure whether they are paying attention, playing games, watching videos, etc. 02: Jessica shares that she started writing the book when her kids were preteens. She enjoys researching and exploring the experiences of kids and adolescents. Phones and technology have become prominent aspect of their lives. 03:50: Jessica focuses on writing directly to kids because she believes they are intelligent and prefer information in their language. 04:05: Jessica discusses the lack of clear guidelines and the need for families to navigate the challenges of introducing smartphones to children. 04:33: Christopher shares their family's rule of not getting a phone until college but acknowledges the current frustration of their son. 05:10: Jessica talks about the importance of self-control, maturity, and understanding how children use phones differently. 05:36: Jessica expresses surprise at the extent of what is still unknown about the impact of phones on kids. She mentions the recent advisory from the US Surgeon General regarding social media and mental health. 07:25: Jessica emphasizes the need for more research, guidelines, and support for families in navigating this challenge. She suggests open conversations, staying informed, and making rules that align with the family's values. 09:05: Jessica recommends taking time to think, considering the child's developmental stage and safety, and exploring alternative options like simplified communication devices. 09:53: Jessica encourages open conversations with children and emphasizes the importance of understanding their desires and concerns. She suggests discussing the available choices and incorporating knowledge about risks and safety. 10:01: Consider different options based on what the child truly wants and conclude by emphasizing the importance of ongoing dialogue and staying informed. 10:39: Jessica highlights the importance of ongoing dialogue and honest conversations with children regarding smartphones and their impact. 11:45: Christopher expresses interest in how the book helps navigate the issue of distinguishing truth from fiction online. 13:53: Jessica mentions sites like factchecker.com and discusses the importance of teaching kids how to identify reliable information. 14:18: Jessica emphasizes the need to educate kids about false information for profit. 14:57: Jessica introduces the topic of algorithms and their influence on information consumption, mentioning how they can lead to rabbit holes and addictive content. 16:01: Kids should be aware of how algorithms work and be proactive in choosing positive content to counteract the negative impact of rabbit holes. 16:39: Jessica shares a study called "Change Your Feed" which explores how kids can modify their algorithmic experience by deliberately choosing different content. 17:15: Christopher recalls his experience with early texting and learning the meaning of "LOL." 17:44: Christopher asks about slang terms used in text messaging and the chapter dedicated to text slang in the book. 20:25: Jessica emphasizes the power children have in using technology as a force for good and making the world a better place.     3 Key Highlights Jessica shares how she decided to write a book that speaks directly to kids and also highlights the deeper, darker side of technology that we kind of learn over time. Jessica highlights the ongoing lack of conclusive evidence regarding phones and the differences in guidelines and laws across countries. Jessica explains the concept of FOMO (fear of missing out) and FOJI (fear of joining in) and how they can affect teenagers in the digital realm.     Tweetable Quotes "Kids are so smart and really like to hear this information directly, so I thought I'm going to try to write a book that speaks directly to them, kind of in their language." - Jessica "Phones offer awesome positive stuff, but we also need to address the deeper, darker side of technology that we learn over time." - Jessica "During the pandemic, as we got sucked into our phones, it was the perfect time for me to research and understand the evolving landscape of kids and technology." – Jessica "Teenagers can potentially manipulate algorithms for fun and amusement." - Christopher     Resources Mentioned Helping Families Be Happy Podcast Apple Familius.com JessicaSpeer.com Podcast Editing

In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with Jessica Speer. She is the author of 3 books, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends), Middle School (Safety Googles Advised), and The Phone Book. She helps youth discover, evaluate and value friendships and the complexities of relationships. A fantastic listen and even better resource for teens, and preteens in the most important years of connection building. https://jessicaspeer.com/Support the show

Yes, there are cool things about middle school, like more independence, new friends, and new activities. But there's plenty of hard stuff too, like cliques, harsh judgment, the whole “popularity” thing, and, of course, drama.Today my special guest is Jessica Speer. Jessica is an award-winning author of books for kids and teens. She blends science, and stories, and unpacks tricky stuff that surfaces during childhood and adolescence. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores topics in ways that connect with kids.We discuss some of the important topics facing middle schoolers today that are covered in her latest book Middle School―Safety Goggles Advised: Exploring the Weird Stuff from Gossip to Grades, Cliques to Crushes, and Popularity to Peer Pressure. We discuss the tween/teen social dynamics and development. Let's dive in. Jessica shares:Why middle school is such a tricky time for so many kids - boys and girls. What is happening socially that can tend to make the tween and teen years particularly difficult socially to navigate? What some of the repeated themes are that middle schoolers face today.Why changing friendships are so common in middle school, and how parents can support their kids during this time. What she learned while interviewing middle schoolers about conflict and aggressive behavior. Advice for moms that have a struggling middle schooler.  LinksWebsite: https://jessicaspeer.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/Twitter: https://twitter.com/SpeerAuthorJessica's Books: https://jessicaspeer.com/jessica-speer-books/Check out our Moms of Tweens and Teens website HERESign up for our Moms of Tweens and Teens newsletter HERE Find more encouragement, wisdom, and resources: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/momsoftweensandteens/ Join our Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Momsoftweensandteens Find awesome resources on MOTTs University: https://www.mottsuniversity.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsoftweensandteens/ Sheryl also has an Inner Circle weekly Parenting Program with a community of like-minded moms, personal coaching, and tons of resources to equip and support you to love well, navigate the challenges and meet your tween and teen's unique needs during these pivotal years. Get on the waitlist to get all the details and to be the first to know when it opens! https://momsoftweensandteens.lpages.co/waiting-list-for-membe...

Friendships at any age can be challenging! When kids are growing up, understanding friendship truths and how to navigate the changes in their relationships is so important. But sometimes, even as adults, we aren't sure how to best guide them.  Tune in as my guest, Jessica Speer, the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised, shares some amazing advice on the lessons we can teach our kids. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, teens, parenting, and friendship. She is also one of the speakers on the upcoming 3-Day Parent Masterclass! To see what Jessica is up to, follow this link:  https://jessicaspeer.com/ Instagram Twitter Friendship Pyramid Get a ticket to the Build Your Parent Toolbox 3-Day Masterclass here. Use the code JESSICA to save $5 on your ticket: https://theparenttoolbox.info/masterclass

Explore the mind of your children through their perspective. In this episode, Jessica and I discuss the various contributions to the ever-changing world of your child. Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships (2021) and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised (Releasing August 2022). Her interactive books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities, like quizzes and fill-in-the-blanks. Blending humor, a dash of science, and practical insights, her writing unpacks the tricky stuff that peaks during adolescence. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship. For more information, visit www.JessicaSpeer.com Connect with Jessica: https://jessicaspeer.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SpeerAuthor www.alysialyons.com Connect with Alysia: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsupportcoach/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/momsupportcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/momsupportcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/momsupportcoach/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/momsupportcoach/support

This week we tackle the "tricky" Middle School Years. Join me and my wonderful guest, Jessica Speer, the award-winning author of “BFF or NRF "(Not Really Friends) and “A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships, and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised.” Jessica's interactive books for preteens and teens entertain readers while exploring social-emotional topics. Blending humor, a dash of science, stories, and insights, her writing unpacks the social stuff that surfaces during childhood and adolescence. Jessica and I discuss how children change physically, mentally, and emotionally during the formative middle school years and their tendency to fluctuate between friendships as their identities and interests continue to evolve. Resources: Books (As an Amazon affiliate, at no extra cost to you, we will earn a small commission from qualifying purchases.) BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends): A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships by Jessica Speer Middle School―Safety Goggles Advised by Jessica Speer The Phone Book by Jessica Speer Guest Website: https://jessicaspeer.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUjYFOUUwHn3Hhqe0FV5AHg Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/ Real Life Momz: https://www.reallifemomz.com/ Do you love the Real Life Momz Podcast and want more? Subscribe to Real Life Momz, and for just $1.99 a month, you will receive access to all archived ad-free episodes from past seasons, early access to new episodes, and monthly bonus content. And subscribers-only will have access to upcoming topics and the ability to ask upcoming guests questions. When you subscribe and opt-in to receive emails, you can have your questions answered on the podcast. So click here and subscribe today. https://anchor.fm/reallifemomz/subscribe --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/reallifemomz/message

In middle school, social relationships become a lot more complicated. It is a time when many friendships start to change. Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School- Safety Goggles Advised. She joins The Compass to discuss how to best support your child navigate their social relationships through this difficult period.  To learn more about Jessica's work, visit https://jessicaspeer.com/

In middle school, social relationships become a lot more complicated. It is a time when many friendships start to change. Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School- Safety Goggles Advised. She joins The Compass to discuss how to best support your child navigate their social relationships through this difficult period.  To learn more about Jessica's work, visit https://jessicaspeer.com/

Hey Friend,  Have you lost a friendship and were left wondering what the heck just happened?  I have. And truthfully the older you are, the harder it can to handle the loss of a friend and friendship. This week we are talking with Jessica Speer. She is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised (Releasing August 2022). Her interactive books engage and entertain readers by combining stories with fun activities, like quizzes and fill-in-the-blanks. Blending humor, a dash of science, and practical insights, her writing unpacks tricky social stuff. She has a master's degree in social sciences, is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to parenting and friendship.   Listen in as we talk about What are Friend truths   Keeping it about you.   Majority of friendship actually fade away   Feeling a disconnect with friends and navigating away  Friendships on average last 7 years  Media pressure on the BFF concept  NRF - Not Really Friends Friendship length - Reason / Season / Lifetime  Shared interests key to maintaining friendships  Teen friendships during the pandemic became more challenging  Women Friendship - can be amazing or destructive and highly emotionally charged  Gossip - toxic part of friendships  Why it's dangerous to label someone else as your best friend  Being your own best friend  How best to maintain a network of friendships - Little things  Jessica's Books -  BFFor NRF and Middle School Safety Goggles Advised.      Do you love the show? I would appreciate your support in keeping the show growing. You can do so by joining the Podcast Patreon here.    I'd love to connect with you: Come follow me on Instagram @jess.loves.life  Signup for my new newsletter here    Connect with Jessica Speer  https://jessicaspeer.com/ - Get a copy of the Friendship truths  https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/

On today's show, listen to Jessica Speer's expert advice on how to help your kids navigate middle school. She shares impactful insight from the middle school kids she interviewed, and how to discuss difficult conversations with a light-hearted and solution-oriented approach. Guest:Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised. Her interactive books for preteens and teens entertain readers while exploring social-emotional topics. Blending humor, a dash of science, stories, and insights, her writing unpacks the social stuff that peaks during adolescence.She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, teens parenting, and friendship. For more information, visit www.JessicaSpeer.comFollow Erin on Instagram at: @LoveRaisingUs

Tess Connolly LCSW talks with Jessica Speer, an award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised. In this second interview with Jessica, they will discuss her book BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships. Jessica introduces herself and tells us about the books that she has written for pre-teens and teens. Tess and Jessica talk about the phase that our tweens and teens go through when friendships get tough and they struggle with the changes happening when they start this new phase of development.  Jessica shares information and explains her friendship pyramid which you can download through the link at the bottom of the show notes.  Tess and Jessica talk about the changes of interests between friends and how this shift  changes friendships and affects our tweens and teens emotionally at this time of transition.  Tess and Jessica talk about normalizing the fact that friendships change and shift depending on what time of our lives we are in.  Tess and Jessica speak about talking to our tweens and teens about finding that deeper connection and friendships that are healthy, safe, and accepting.  Tess and Jessica discuss the importance of getting your child to stop and think about how they are feeling when they are with different friends. Do they feel liked and accepted for who they are? Jessica talks about us realizing that everyone develops friendship skills at a different pace. Tess and Jessica discuss how we deal with situations such as when our child isn't invited to a party and how we can navigate this.  Jessica explains NRF (Not Real Friends) to us and the meaning behind it.  Jessica encourages parents to realize that this time is hard and messy to watch but there is a lot going on as your children's friendships shift and change as they find the friendships that are the right fit for them. Stay calm and make yourself available to them.  Jessica is most grateful for the hindsight that she has now and she wishes she had 10 yrs ago, that everything was going to be ok. The stuff that worried her then, is now ok. It all worked out and she is grateful for the knowledge she has learned and been able to share with others.    You can purchase Jessica Speers book here - BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships   Friendship Pyramid - Friendship Pyramid.pdf    You can find out more about Jessica Speer here - www.JessicaSpeer.com   Jessica Speers first interview can be found here - The Parenting Reset Show: 71.Navigating Middle School Years on Apple Podcasts

About Our Guest: Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised. Her interactive books for preteens and teens entertain readers while exploring social-emotional topics. Blending humor, a dash of science, stories, and insights, her writing unpacks the social stuff that peaks during adolescence.She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, teens parenting, and friendship. For more information, visit www.JessicaSpeer.comFor more from Erin, go to:Instagram: @LoveRaisingUswww.theunitedstateofus.com

In today's episode of the “Helping Families Be Happy” podcast, host Dr. Carla Marie Manly, a practicing Clinical Psychologist, Wellness Advocate, and Author based in Sonoma County, California talks with guest Jessica Speer, an author focused on helping kids and families thrive. She talks about her new book ‘Middle School Safety Goggles Advised'. This is a deep dive into the middle school experience in a way that's fun, but also honest and filled with the voices of students.   Episode Highlight 01:07 – Dr. Carla says that she loves Jessica's subject matter because it's all about kids, all about helping children and their parents. 03:22 – Jessica mentions that she spent a lot of time in seventh-grade classrooms because she really wanted to understand what is it like to be a middle-schooler today. 05:00 - It's not about blaming, shaming, should or shouldn't, it's about waiting, slowing down, taking a look at what works for us, and what would create a healthy positive outcome, states Jessica. 07:02 – Dr. Carla states about Jessica's book that the book helps prevent some of the things from happening. We can't control everything but this book gives really solid tips and tools for self-awareness.  09:04 - It was a joy to work with kids and Jessica added as much as she could. She included a lot of their insights and wisdom in this book because kids have a ton and that makes it so real. 11: 35 – Dr. Carla enquires when we look at the book - ‘Middle School Safety Goggles Advised', how is this book going to help make families happier?  14:23 – Jessica says, being in the classroom was so fun, and she loves getting to know the kids over the course of the year. 16:12 - Dr. Carla enquires from Jessica about what would she say to the parents who say, “What stress our child possibly could have as they are provided with food, clothing, shelter, and all of these luxury items?” 18:01 – Jessica shares, what parents can do to mitigate some of that stress in each of those three areas. 20:15 - People think middle schoolers need seven or eight hours of sleep, but as per research it is around 10-12 hours instead. 22:04 – Dr. Carla says, she is a firm believer in phone technology out of the bedroom and it's important for parents to have the same rules. 24:00 – If we do notice overtime that they're struggling more than they should be maybe not wanting to go to school and starting to complain and using gigs and things like that, that might be a time where we do need to step in and get some extra help. 25:38 – Dr. Carla enquires from Jessica if a parent notices that something's wrong and suspects that a child's being bullied, what would she say to such parent, and how does a parent proceed? 27:08 – Jessica states that kids need to lead the charge as to how we're going to fix it and how we're going to create this change. 29:20 – Jessica mentions they've done a great job of bullying awareness in this book. 31:00 - In all these situations, as parents staying as calm and grounded as possible and trying to get as much information and understanding as we can be a great place to start, mentions Jessica. 33:22 – Dr. Carla says that for a parent, it really helps them understand a little bit more what today's struggles are like, for that middle schooler. 36:00 - Jessica says, it was fun to write those and they're really thought-provoking for kids and adults.   Three Key Points Jessica says about the book that it's kind of a gentle but fun way to help kids, think through common but difficult situations. So yeah, it's got beautiful illustrations that she's super excited about, she thinks it's going to be a fun read for kids and a read that will help parents get their head back in the middle school game, what middle school was really like. This book will quickly bring them right back into their middle school years. Jessica explains how this book is going to make families happier from the parent's perspective, it's helpful to get their head in that space when their kids are about to enter or are in middle school, and then for kids, just the chance to kind of learn and grow and know that there are resources out there and there are resources within themselves and they've got choices. So, it's written in a way like they're reading what their friend might be telling them because there are tons of stories and quotes from peers.  Dr. Carla says - another one of the pieces that she really loves about Jessica's book is that educators can read it and can take a lot of insights from the book. Parents can read it, better understand their children and have a better idea of how to help their middle school years. Not be perfect, nothing's perfect, but be healthy and fun. Tweetable Quotes “This book is super interactive, filled with humor and fun and stories.” - Jessica Speer “The best insights I heard kids which I incorporated in the book is ‘choose your own ending story.” - Jessica Speer “It just gives a sneak preview into middle school for kids entering or like right in the thick of it.” - Jessica Speer “If they read it, they will tap into the tricky part of middle school.” - Jessica Speer “Some of the best insights I got when I had little slips of paper and just asked a simple question.” - Jessica Speer “The trickiest things that they named were, the social media is tricky” - Jessica Speer “There are three different kinds of stress.” - Jessica Speer “Parents can do a lot taking the pressure off that academic stress.” - Jessica Speer “We need to get those stress levels back down to a healthy level.” - Jessica Speer “It's okay to let go of activities.” - Jessica Speer “The kids I was talking to they were pretty clear they were not getting enough sleep.” - Jessica Speer “As humans sometimes have to learn how to deal with mean people, how to stand up for ourselves, how to not take things personally, and how to just move on.” - Jessica Speer “It's important for parents to understand that difference too because we don't want to go off the handle if it's not a situation of bullying.” - Jessica Speer “We all are on these journeys to figure out, what are our strengths, what are our weaknesses, where are opportunities to grow.” - Jessica Speer   Resources Mentioned Helping Families be Happy Podcast Apple Dr. Carla Marie Manly Website LinkedIn Twitter   Instagram Jessica Speer: Website Podcast Editing

Middle School is a time filled with big changes and big stressors for many adolescents. On this episode of Brainy Moms, Dr. Amy and Teri interview Jessica Speer, social scientist and author of the new book, Middle School: Safety Goggles Advised. Jessica shares what she discovered from interviewing middle schoolers about what they defined as their top stressors. The big ones? Social media, judgement by peers, friendships, crushes, gossips, and popularity. Jessica talks about many of the struggles identified by kids in middle school and gives parents some tips and advice on how to help our kids navigate these challenges. Find more about Jessica Speer at jessicaspeer.com and find us at BrainyMoms.co

In this episode, we discuss preteen/ teen friendships from a social emotional perspective. The book is geared to girls but can help any child navigate friendships. We dive into different friendship dynamics, struggles, and the experiences they may encounter in school.Jessica Speer's book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships grew out of her friendship program that strengthens social awareness and helps kids learn to navigate common struggles. Her books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities and practical insights. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids.She is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship. To learn more, visit www.JessicaSpeer.comCheck out Jessica's book here:https://amzn.to/3vMaYOtThis episode was originally recorded via video on facebook:Free gift

Tess Connolly LCSW talks with Jessica Speer an award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised. Today they will be discussing her book Middle School - Safety Goggles advised which is all about navigating middle school. Jessica introduces herself and tells us a little bit about her experience and how she came to write her books for pre-teens and teens. Tess and Jessica talk about what the book is about and how it can help our tweens and teens.  Tess and Jessica discuss the shift that takes place for our children during Middle School.  Jessica shares with us about her time doing research and what she found out from the tweens and teens that she worked with.  Tess and Jessica talk about the word “popularity” and how this plays a part in our child's lives when they go through middle school.  Tess and Jessica talk about relationships throughout middle school and how tween and teens can navigate this time.  Tess and Jessica speak about crushes and dating through middle school and what this means for our children at this time in their life.  Tess and Jessica discuss social media and the positives and negatives that come along with this for our tweens and teens and how we should be helping our tweens and teens navigate their use when on social media.  Jessica speaks about peer pressure and how we can talk and support our tweens and teens through this stage.  Jessica talks about the “choose your own ending” element of her book and how this helps tweens and teens think about different scenarios and how this can help build confidence and clarity when faced with different situations.  Tess and Jessica discuss how relaying past experiences to our tweens and teens and how it is a great way to connect.  Jessica is most grateful for having the opportunity to do this kind of work and writing the books that she has written and being able to pass on her knowledge to her kids and others.    You can purchase Jessica Speers book here - Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised.    You can find out more about Jessica Speer here - www.JessicaSpeer.com  

Consent, people pleasing, friendship goals. Hear the 9 friendship tips that can be passed along to your children to help foster rewarding social interactions. Celeste shares her most recent favorite book and how to approach engaging in emotional conversations by approaching the ‘left' and ‘right' brain. Author Jessica Speer joins Celeste in an insightful discussion on having emotional talks with your kids at an early age, explaining trust using the ‘friendship triangle', and how friendships evolve during the course of a lifetime.  Jessica Speer's Website Celeste Busa IG Dave Hill IG THE SHOW: Please rate and review the show on iTunes. It helps the show grow and be discovered. Follow WEEK BY WEEK on Instagram, @weekbyweekpodcast Check out our playlist on YouTube Browse our blog at weekbyweekpodcast.com You can contact us at WeekByWeekShow@gmail.com © 2022 Gumption Pictures

WHO YOU ARE...Is often tied closely to who you spend your time with. As we take time to understand our relationships, we can learn a significant amount about our own identity.Listen in as we talk with relationship expert and author, Jessica Speer, about how our relationships affect our identity! HABIT TO PRACTICESee if you can notice moments when you are making negative assumptions about others, and replace those thoughts with positive thoughts.READY TO LEARN THE MOST IMPORTANT SKILL OF YOUR LIFE?Join The Seven Day Habit Masters Challenge!Master the fundamentals of habit building and start living your best life now!>>CHECK OUT THE COURSE

Are you a parent to a highly sensitive adolescent? How can you support your teenager in their journey through the emotional fluctuations of adolescent friendship phases? When should you repair a rupture in a friendship or let it go? In this podcast episode, I speak about how to navigate friendships as a highly sensitive teenager with Jessica Speer. We discuss emotional communication, and what parents can do to support their children's friendships. Thanks for listening, I'd love to connect with you over on Instagram and Facebook. Sign up for my Free Email Course. SHOW NOTES AND RESOURCES: Click here WEBSITE: www.amiokpodcast.com

Jessica Speer is a thought leader, speaker, and author with expertise in helping others cultivate healthy relationships. She has a master's degree in social sciences and is regularly featured in media outlets on topics related to parenting, social-emotional development, and friendship. In this episode, we discuss the meaning of friendship and related topics, including: *the difference between conflict and bullying *nine friendship truths *why social struggles intensity during adolescence *the seasonal nature of friendships *how parents, grandparents, and caregivers can support children experiencing friendship struggles *how to build healthy relationships And More... Learn more about Jessica, her books, and her work on her website JessicaSpeer.com

Talking with Jessica Speer, author of BFF or NRF we discussed the following:- How the pandemic has affected the relationship dynamic among children.- Are relationships among pre-teen girls more complicated than pre-teen boys and why? - What's the friendship pyramid, and how there are friendships change through time- Publishing a book in the midst of the pandemic- Is there a stigma on being a full-time writer?- Are we living in a world with less civility where friendships are ending more than before?

Jenna and I chat with Jessica Speer about navigating friendships as a teenager. We talk about how friendships change in middle school and why friendship and social struggles are common in the preteen and teen years. Jessica has a great concept called NRF (Not Really Friends) to help kids realize that not everyone who comes into their life has to be their friend. You can be kind, but you don't have to have a close relationship with them.   She also has nine friendship truths in her book. We talked about a few of them – Everyone develops friendship skills at a different pace, Friendships have different phases and change over time, Close friendships can be hard to find and may not happen until you are older, and We teach others how we want to be treated by speaking up. Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of https://jessicaspeer.com/jessica-speer-books/ (BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships) (2021) and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised (Releasing August 2022). Her interactive books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities, like quizzes and fill-in-the-blanks. Blending humor, a dash of science, and practical insights, her writing unpacks the tricky stuff that peaks during adolescence.  She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship. She lives in Colorado with her husband and two daughters. Website -  http://www.jessicaspeer.com/ (www.JessicaSpeer.com) Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/ (https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/)

In addition to bodily changes, pre-teens typically experience social changes during their growing up years. To help young people navigate these changes, particularly within friendships, this week’s episode of the Puberty Prof features Jessica Speer who chats with Dr. Reichel. Author of BFF or NFF, not Really Friends: A Girl’s Guide to Friendships, as well as mom of two children... SourceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are currently looking for authoritative guests to come on the show who are experts in parenting, if that's you, get in touch https://podmatch.com/signup/peacefulparentingpodcast Helping Your Kids Navigate #Friendship With Jessica SpeerJessica's Bio:Jessica Speer's book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships grew out of her friendship program that strengthens social awareness and helps kids learn to navigate common struggles. Her books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities and practical insights. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids.Her writing unpacks the tricky and awkward stuff that peaks during adolescence. She hopes that BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends) serves as a warm and supportive guide as girls journey through the inevitable bumps in their social worlds. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship. She lives in the mountains of Colorado with her husband and two daughters.https://jessicaspeer.com/jessica-speer-books/ 

Jessica Speer's award-winning book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships grew out of her friendship program that strengthens social awareness and helps kids learn to navigate common struggles. Her books engage and entertain readers by combining the stories of preteens and teens with fun activities and practical insights. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids.She is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship. Jessica lives in Colorado with her husband and two daughters.For more from Jessica: @Jessica_Speer_Authorwww.JessicaSpeer.comFor more from Erin: @LoveRaisingUSwww.theunitedstateofus.com

In this episode, author Jessica Speer returns to chat with host Carmelita Tiu, to share more pointed and practical advice on navigating specific friendship scenarios. Jessica discusses: Understanding friendship breakups Navigating toxic people handling things when friends grow apart And more! Other references: Episode 18:  https://knowberaise.captivate.fm/episode/jessica-speer-girl-friendships (Grappling with Girl Friendships) To learn more about Jessica Speer and her work: Visit www.jessicaspeer.com Instagram: @jessica_speer_author Facebook: @https://www.facebook.com/JessicaSpeerAuthor (https://www.facebook.com/JessicaSpeerAuthor) Twitter: @SpeerAuthor LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/) If you're interested in social-emotional  development, friendship and parenting topics, Jessica has a free monthly eNewsletter. Signup on her website, http://www.jessicaspeer.com (www.JessicaSpeer.com).  New subscribers receive a PDF of the Friendship Pyramid from BFF or NRF as well as social emotional resources.  Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them Subscribe here:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/know-them-be-them-raise-them/id1581581645 ( Apple),https://open.spotify.com/show/4TUKrwCnfgyMRxjZjJjQWO?si=BiWQGIAtQtque1801ggjTQ ( Spotify),https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9rbm93YmVyYWlzZS5jYXB0aXZhdGUuZm0vcnNzZmVlZA?sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjU08G6wszyAhWBU80KHcTLD14Q9sEGegQIARAC ( Google). New episodes drop every Tuesday (and sometimes in between).  And if you liked what you heard, leave a 5-star review! On Apple, go to the show page and scroll to the very bottom...there's a spot where you write a review and tick off how many stars you'd like to give. For more doses of information and inspiration:  follow @knowberaisethem on https://www.instagram.com/knowberaisethem/ (Instagram)   Like the podcast page on https://www.facebook.com/knowberaisethem (Facebook) https://mailchi.mp/3b8ba41f6629/stay-in-the-know-add-me-to-mailing-list (sign up) for our monthly newsletter  visithttps://knowthembethemraisethem.godaddysites.com/ ( www.knowberaisethem.com)

Do you have school-age daughter? Then you know all too well the perils of friendships, cliques, and girl drama. Are you frustrated with the tears and the fights and the complaints of feeling left out? On this episode of Brainy Moms, Dr. Amy Moore and Teri Miller, MS Psy interview Jessica Speer, author of the book, BFF or NRF: A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships. We explore topics of gossip and drama, and hear from Jessica about some ways to help girls navigate difficult friendships and nurture the important ones. Join us for some great tips from an expert in social science and school-age relationships.  Find us at BrainyMoms.co or on social media @TheBrainyMoms. Like our show? Please subscribe to our channel!

Amanda is joined by author Jessica Speer to discuss navigating friendships with our children especially during the preeteen and teenage years.Included in this episode:How to help our toddlers/preschoolers navigate friendships (Sharing, hitting, tantrums)How to help our children when they are young to use their words to express themselves with their friendsLabelling children and why this is harmfulJessica shares advice for parents whos children are having trouble socializing since the pandemicGirl friends- Why are they so hard to navigate especially the preteen and teenage years. How can we help our children through these years?Purchase Jessica's book on amazon at: https://www.amazon.ca/BFF-NRF-Not-Really-Friends/dp/1641701951/ref=sr_1_2?crid=8XFPY1E6BRMH&keywords=bff+or+nrf&qid=1641837639&sprefix=bff+or+nrf%2Caps%2C73&sr=8-2Follow Jessica on Instagram @jessica_speer_author

Jessica Speer is the author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)?  foHer writing unpacks the tricky and awkward stuff that peaks during adolescence. She hopes that BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends) serves as a warm and supportive guide as girls journey through the inevitable bumps in their social worlds.   Jessica has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids. She is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship.Link to Jessica's book: BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends): https://jessicaspeer.com/jessica-speer-books/Also, check out Stan's Parenting Book - FearLESSly Parenting: [https://tinyurl.com/258uf3ma]Link to FearLESS Parenting Podcast Website: https://lnkd.in/ehHng2H where you can find other great podcast episodes. 

Mean girls. Queen bees.  Wannabes.  We've all felt or witnessed the ups and downs of female friendship, especially during those tween and teen years. In this episode, author Jessica Speer chats with host Carmelita Tiu, and explains why tween & teen girls have friendship struggles, sheds light on friendship truths, and shares tips and advice on how moms can help their daughters navigate these challenging times. Jessica discusses: The basis of friendship evolves as kids grow up  How friendship struggles aren't unique to girls; boys have them too The importance of a growth mindset when it comes to friendship What secondary trauma is and how if we overreact, our kids will stop sharing with us How to encourage self-awareness through dialogue, quizzes, and ongoing conversations about friendship Why we should avoid labeling kids Teaching your daughter that you don't have to be friends with everyone, not everyone is going to like you, and you're not always going to be included To learn more about Jessica Speer and her work: Visit www.jessicaspeer.com Instagram: @jessica_speer_author Facebook: @https://www.facebook.com/JessicaSpeerAuthor (https://www.facebook.com/JessicaSpeerAuthor) Twitter: @SpeerAuthor LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-46b6457/) If you're interested in social-emotional  development, friendship and parenting topics, Jessica has a free monthly eNewsletter. Signup on her website, http://www.jessicaspeer.com (www.JessicaSpeer.com).  New subscribers receive a PDF of the Friendship Pyramid from BFF or NRF as well as social emotional resources.  Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them Subscribe here:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/know-them-be-them-raise-them/id1581581645 ( Apple),https://open.spotify.com/show/4TUKrwCnfgyMRxjZjJjQWO?si=BiWQGIAtQtque1801ggjTQ ( Spotify),https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9rbm93YmVyYWlzZS5jYXB0aXZhdGUuZm0vcnNzZmVlZA?sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjU08G6wszyAhWBU80KHcTLD14Q9sEGegQIARAC ( Google). New episodes drop every Tuesday (and sometimes in between).  For more doses of information and inspiration:  follow @knowberaisethem on https://www.instagram.com/knowberaisethem/ (Instagram)   Like the podcast page on https://www.facebook.com/knowberaisethem (Facebook) https://mailchi.mp/3b8ba41f6629/stay-in-the-know-add-me-to-mailing-list (sign up) for our monthly newsletter  visithttps://knowthembethemraisethem.godaddysites.com/ ( www.knowberaisethem.com)

Jessica Speer is the author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)?  foHer writing unpacks the tricky and awkward stuff that peaks during adolescence. She hopes that BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends) serves as a warm and supportive guide as girls journey through the inevitable bumps in their social worlds.   Jessica has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with kids. She is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, parenting, and friendship.Link to Jessica's book: BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends): https://jessicaspeer.com/jessica-speer-books/FearLESS Parenting Podcast Website: https://lnkd.in/ehHng2H

Today on the Dads with Daughters Podcast I spoke with Jessica Speer about girls and friendships. Jessica not only shares experiences about being a mother to daughters but shares some amazing tips and hints from her new book BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships. About the Book Jessica Speer's book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships grew out of her friendship program that strengthens social awareness and helps kids learn to navigate common struggles. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with pre-teens and teens. To learn more, visit www.JessicaSpeer.com If you've enjoyed today's episode of the Dads With Daughters podcast we invite you to check out the Fatherhood Insider. The Fatherhood Insider is the essential resource for any dad that wants to be the best dad that he can be. We know that no child comes with an instruction manual and most are figuring it out as they go along. The Fatherhood Insider is full of valuable resources and information that will up your game on fatherhood. Through our extensive course library, an interactive forum, step-by-step roadmaps, and more you will engage and learn with experts but more importantly with dads like you. So check it out today!  

This week on Parent Tell Kaila talks with published author, Jessica Speer! Jessica's book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships tackles the ins and outs of tween and teen friendship dynamics and how we as parents can support our kids' experiences in social circles. Jessica's book grew out of her friendship program that strengthens social awareness and helps kids learn to navigate common struggles. She has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with pre-teens and teens. When talking with Jessica, Kaila and the author speak about how their various experiences with friends, communication, and relationships in general impact the friendships they have today and also what they want to teach their own children about friendships.Jessica's book can be purchased here, as well as on Amazon, at Target, or wherever you like to shop for books! Be sure to check out her website as well!For more information about Kaila, episode topics and behind the scenes details, and of course painfully relatable memes follow Parent Tell on InstagramIn the mood to tell about your parenting? Shoot Kaila an email at parenttellpod@gmail.com

Last week in episode #10 with author Jessica Speer who wrote BFF or NRF, we talked briefly about her nine friendship truths. We mainly focused on truth #9— which was “You choose which of your friendships to grow. Grow the healthy ones.”  In this mini-episode I am focusing on Jessica's truth #6— "Everyone makes mistakes." If we want wiggle room to make mistakes with friends, we have to allow friends to make mistakes with us. Sounds obvious, but there are definitely people out there with a zero tolerance for others' mistakes (while allowing themselves room to mess up). FULL SHOW NOTES HERE.*ASK AN ANONYMOUS QUESTION ANY TIME!  SEE PAST EPISODES WITH SHOW NOTES.JOIN THE DEAR NINA FACEBOOK GROUP!FOLLOW ALONG ON INSTAGRAM.

In episode #10 we're discussing what to do when you're not interested in pursuing a friendship, but you don't want to be unkind when subtly communicating that message to an acquaintance. And how do we help kids make decisions about which friendships to pursue? It can get hard— really it's tricky—  to simultaneously teach kids to make their own decisions about friendships while teaching them to treat people with kindness. I have the perfect guest to help me dissect this issue of balancing kindness and inclusivity but also boundaries and independence in friendship decisions--author, Jessica Speer.FULL SHOW NOTES HERE.*ASK AN ANONYMOUS QUESTION ANY TIME!  SEE PAST EPISODES WITH SHOW NOTES.JOIN THE DEAR NINA FACEBOOK GROUP!FOLLOW ALONG ON INSTAGRAM.

Today we launch a new series of episodes we are calling Encore! Moments Worth Resharing From The Reading With Your Kids Podcast. October is bullying prevention month, so we are taking a back at four conversations about bullying with Peggy Sapp, Founder of Red Ribbon Week, Eleni Theodoro, author of Noko the Knight, Jessica Speer, author of BFF or NRF & Victoria Gracie, author of Kalyn Finds Her Power Click here to visit our website - www.readingwithyourkids.com

In this episode, Kim interviews author, Jessica Speer about friendships between girls. In the tween and teen years, girls struggle with confidence and friendhsips more than most other stages of life. Kim and her expert guest, Jessica break down why friendships can be so challenging at this stage of life and how parents can help. They talk about popular groups, cliques, exclusivity, social media, peer pressure, gossip, friend "drama," conflict and bullying. This is a must listen if you have daughters. Jessica's IG Jessica's Website The book: BFFor NRF (not really friends): A Girl's Guide to Happy Fiendhsips. Kim's IG Kim's Website

Jessica and I talk about her new book BFF or NRF (NOT REALLY FRIENDS) - A GIRLS GUIDE TO HAPPY FRIENDSHIPS I highly recommend it to all girls and their parents! We can break that mean-girl atmosphere if we work together.

This week on the Mimosas with Moms Podcast, Abbey welcomes Jessica Speer, author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships. The book grew out of her friendship program that strengthens social awareness and helps kids learn to navigate common struggles. Jessica has a master's degree in social sciences and explores social-emotional topics in ways that connect with pre-teens and teens.How can we help pre-teens and teens navigate their friendships? Let's talk about it, CHEERS! ——————————————— You can find Jessica Speer: Website: https://jessicaspeer.com/ Instagram: @jessica_speer_author Twitter: @speerauthor Facebook: @JessicaSpeerAuthor Listeners that sign up for the monthly eNewsletter will receive a PDF of “The Friendship Pyramid” and the kids' worksheet “How to Manage Big Emotions in Healthy Ways.” Visit Jessica's blog on JessicaSpeer.com to sign up for her eNewsletter which is filled with parenting and friendship tips. BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships by Jessica Speer can be found wherever you get your books! ——————————————— Instagram @mimosaswithmoms FB /mimosaswithmoms Email 2mimosamoms@gmail.com An ABC of Families by Abbey Williams - https://www.amazon.com/ABC-Families-Abbey-Williams/dp/0711256535 ———————————————— This episode is sponsored by: * Baby Trend! Check out the Race Tec Jogger available at target.com! * Lugz! Stylish shoes for the entire family! https://lugz.com/ Use code Mimosas30 for 30% off (Full Priced Items – Excludes Sale Section) 

Author Jessica Speer joins host Dr. Carla Marie Manly for a conversation about her upcoming book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends): A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships.  https://www.familius.com/book/bff-or-nrf-not-really-friends/ About the Book: Friendships are tough to navigate, even for adults. The preteen years can be particularly sticky, but we've got your back! Packed with fun quizzes, colorful illustrations, and stories about girls just like you, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends) is the ultimate interactive guidebook to help you learn the ins and outs of friendship. Explore the topics of gossip, bullying, and feeling left out, along with ways to strengthen the friendships that mean the most to you. About the Author: Jessica Speer's first middle-grade book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships, grew out of her friendship program that helps kids develop social awareness and healthy friendship skills. She has a master's degree in social sciences, and her writing focuses on social/emotional topics for kids and families.  

Jessica Speer is on the #ReadingWithYourKids #Podcast to celebrate BFF Or NRF? A Girls Guide To Happy Friendship. This is the ultimate interactive guidebook to help your kids learn the ins and outs of friendship. The book explores topics of gossip, bullying, and feeling left out, along with ways to strengthen the friendships that mean the most to our kids. This is an essential listen to all parents of teenager, or soon to be teenager. Click here to visit Jessica's website - https://jessicaspeer.com/ Click here to visit our website - www.readingwithyourkids.com