THE SJ CHILDS SHOW

Send us a textWhat if the key to meaningful connections isn't trying harder to fit in, but learning how to authentically stand out? Coach Lee Hopkins transforms this question into life-changing guidance for late-diagnosed autistic adults struggling with social connections.Growing up watching sitcoms where problems resolved neatly in 30 minutes, Coach Lee assumed real relationships would follow the same pattern. Instead, he spent decades "destroying relationships" without understanding why. Through therapy, he discovered the foundation of connection—acknowledging that both he and others had feelings—but something was still missing. As an undiagnosed autistic person, his direct communication style clashed with neurotypical expectations, leaving him perpetually disconnected despite being surrounded by people.Sarah Brafford shares similar experiences of feeling "like a unicorn in the horse and cow pasture," visible but fundamentally different. Both describe the exhaustion of masking—that survival strategy of nodding, smiling, and suppressing authentic responses to appear "normal." When they finally attempted to unmask, rejection often followed, creating a painful cycle that kept them isolated.The conversation takes a powerful turn as Coach Lee reveals his transformative insight: "Rejection is redirection." Through his coaching practice, Patterns of Possibility, he guides clients to identify their values and seek connections in aligned environments. Rather than forcing yourself into spaces that require masking, he suggests finding communities where your authentic self naturally fits. The path requires vulnerability—something he teaches through practical, actionable steps rather than vague encouragements to "just be yourself."Whether you're autistic, neurodivergent, or simply feeling disconnected, this episode offers hope through personal stories of finding genuine connection. Learn how small acts of recognition—like thanking the often-overlooked workers in our daily lives—can create ripples of positive change while building your connection muscles.Ready to move from merely being invited to truly belonging? Visit PatternsOfPossibility.com for free resources, including a 7-minute guide on "How to be vulnerable without being overexposed" and information about joining the Trust and Thrive Tribe community.Support the show

Send us a textDiscovering you're twice exceptional—both gifted and neurodivergent—can be transformative, especially when diagnosed as an adult. In this fascinating conversation, Sara welcomes authors Deb Gennarelli and John Truitt to explore the complex world of twice exceptionality (2E) through their book "Navigating Neurodiversity."John shares his remarkable journey of being diagnosed at 45 as both gifted and on the autism spectrum with dyslexia, dysgraphia, and dyscalculia. Unlike many narratives in the neurodiversity space, John describes a childhood where he excelled socially, becoming a class leader who dated "pretty, smart girls" and never experienced bullying. Yet his academic experience reflected classic 2E patterns—excelling tremendously in certain subjects while struggling inexplicably in others, facing accusations of laziness despite his obvious intelligence.Deb brings her 30+ years of expertise as a gifted intervention specialist, explaining how twice exceptional students often fall into three categories: those whose gifts outshine their challenges, those whose challenges mask their gifts, and those who appear deceptively "average" when their exceptional abilities and struggles effectively cancel each other out. This insight proves crucial for parents and educators trying to identify and support 2E children.The conversation takes a fascinating turn as John discusses workplace struggles that led him to entrepreneurship. "I've tried to fit into the office environment... it just doesn't work for me," he explains, articulating a common experience among highly capable neurodivergent adults. He poignantly observes the irony that many historical figures who shaped our modern world—from Einstein to Steve Jobs—were likely twice exceptional themselves: "It baffles me sometimes that we create the very world that we're not accepted in."Whether you're a parent of a 2E child, an educator, or someone discovering their own neurodivergent traits, this episode offers invaluable insights into navigating the beautiful complexity of twice exceptional minds. As John powerfully states, "I don't want to be cured, I want to be understood."Support the show

Send us a textWhat happens when your entire life changes in an instant? For Sara Freeman Smith, losing 95% of her vision wasn't the end of her story—it was the beginning of something much greater.In this profound conversation, Sara shares her remarkable journey as a disability advocate, career navigator, and author of "Turning Stones Into Gems: Learn How to Find Purpose in Your Life and Career." With warmth and wisdom, she reveals how her greatest challenge became her greatest gift, teaching her the power of asking for help and the patience to receive divine guidance."God does not call the equipped; He equips the called," Sara explains, describing how her initial resistance transformed into acceptance and eventually purpose. Through her "Six P's" approach beginning with prayer and planning, she demonstrates how detours and challenges actually prepare us for future opportunities we couldn't imagine for ourselves.The episode showcases remarkable accessibility technology, from smartphone features to the revolutionary Ray-Ban Meta smart glasses that allow Sara to read menus, mail, and navigate the world independently. For employers wondering about accommodations, Sara offers practical insights on creating accessible environments and understanding that simple adjustments make all the difference.Perhaps most powerful is Sara's approach to disclosure and self-advocacy in professional settings. With the mantra "rejection is protection," she demonstrates how confidence in explaining one's needs while highlighting one's abilities creates the right match between talent and opportunity.Whether you're facing your own challenges, supporting someone with a disability, or simply seeking inspiration to transform obstacles into opportunities, this episode will move you from what Sara calls a "pity party" to a "propel party." Visit urGems.com to discover more resources and connect with Sara's transformative message.Support the show

Send us a textEver wondered why some brilliant minds struggle with reading, writing, or math? What if the key isn't trying harder, but learning differently?Dr. Emily Levy, founder of EBL Coaching, takes us into the world of multi-sensory learning strategies that transform education for students with diverse learning needs. Drawing from her twenty-one years of experience and childhood immersed in special education (her mother founded a school for students with learning disabilities), Dr. Levy shares how targeted, research-based approaches help students not just overcome challenges but discover their unique strengths."Every child, even if they struggle tremendously in school, has gifts," explains Dr. Levy. Her organization's one-on-one tutoring programs serve students from preschool through adulthood, addressing dyslexia, dysgraphia, dyscalculia, ADHD, autism, and other learning differences. Through success stories—like the severely struggling student now studying engineering at Georgetown—we see how proper support creates life-changing outcomes.Parents will find practical advice for identifying learning challenges early, from difficulties with letter recognition to math fact memorization. Dr. Levy also addresses adult learning needs, explaining how workplace demands often trigger adults to seek help for long-unaddressed learning difficulties. The conversation explores summer learning strategies, from specialized programs to everyday opportunities like baking (measuring teaches fractions) and journaling to maintain skills between school years.This episode offers invaluable insights for parents, educators, and anyone interested in how multi-sensory approaches can transform learning. Whether you're supporting a child who's struggling or looking to enhance your own learning capabilities, you'll discover why building on strengths while addressing challenges creates the foundation for lifelong success.Have you noticed learning challenges in your child or yourself? Explore how the right approach might change everything at eblcoaching.com.Support the show

Send us a textWhat does authentic autism advocacy look like when powered by faith? Ron Sandison offers a compelling answer in this thought-provoking conversation from the International Autism Summit. As a mental health professional speaking to over 30,000 people annually across 70 events worldwide, Ron brings a unique perspective shaped by his extraordinary gift—15,000 scriptures memorized word-perfect—and his journey as one of only two openly autistic licensed ministers in the Assemblies of God's 114-year history.Ron takes us behind the pages of his new book, "Adulting on the Spectrum," revealing the critical connection challenges autistic individuals face. "Most of us are like old, 30-year-old Velcro shoes—we don't connect well," he explains, before outlining his three-part framework for building meaningful relationships through mentoring, marketing, and the ability to delight others. Through powerful stories and accessible metaphors, Ron demonstrates how identifying personal strengths while accommodating limitations can transform an autistic person's relationship with both the world and themselves.The conversation tackles persistent misconceptions head-on, particularly the damaging assertion that autism can be "outgrown." Ron eloquently describes how autism's manifestation evolves from childhood meltdowns to adult "neuro-crashes," emphasizing that sensory challenges persist regardless of outward appearance or public speaking abilities. His vision for truly inclusive faith communities goes beyond token participation, advocating for autistic voices in leadership positions where they can influence institutional change. Most powerfully, Ron introduces his concept of developing a "hope complex" through spiritual connection, offering neurodivergent individuals an antidote to the "hopeless complex" that often accompanies autism's social and employment challenges. Whether you're autistic, support someone who is, or simply want to understand neurodiversity through a spiritual lens, Ron's insights will transform your perspective on advocacy, faith, and human potential.Support the show

Send us a textWhat happens when a simple strep throat infection triggers a devastating autoimmune response that attacks your brain? At age 13, Ethan Pompeo's life changed overnight when mysterious motor tics, compulsive behaviors, and overwhelming anxiety suddenly appeared, beginning a two-decade journey toward answers and healing.Ethan takes us through the frustrating reality of living with PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune Neurological Disorders Associated with Strep) – a condition where strep antibodies cross the blood-brain barrier and create inflammation in the basal ganglia. His vivid descriptions of trying to complete simple tasks while battling uncontrollable tics paint a stark picture of the daily challenges faced by those with neurological autoimmune disorders.The path to diagnosis wasn't straightforward. Misdiagnosed with Tourette syndrome, Ethan became what he calls a "pill guinea pig," cycling through over 40 different medications by age 17, with side effects often worse than his symptoms. This experience fostered a deep skepticism of conventional medicine and pushed him toward finding his own solutions.What makes Ethan's story particularly compelling is his holistic approach to recovery. Moving to Colorado to work on an organic farm became a turning point, introducing him to lifestyle changes that would transform his health. His discovery that CBD's anti-inflammatory properties – not the psychoactive effects of cannabis – were addressing the root cause of his brain inflammation led to a comprehensive healing protocol combining anti-inflammatory diet, strategic supplementation, strength training, and cognitive behavioral therapy.Today, Ethan is 95% symptom-free and dedicated to helping others through PANDAS advocacy. His powerful message about accepting his condition rather than hiding it resonates beyond just those with autoimmune disorders: "The day I decided to be open about what I'm dealing with, it's like I felt a weight lifted off my shoulders."Whether you're battling chronic illness or supporting someone who is, Ethan's journey offers practical insights, scientific understanding, and above all, hope. Follow his continued advocacy work on Instagram @ethan_pandas or visit greenvalleynutrition.com to learn more.Support the show

Send us a textCraig Parks transforms our understanding of connection with autistic children through the profound language of music. Drawing from his dual expertise as both a professional musician and father to an autistic son, Craig reveals how music became the bridge that helped his non-verbal toddler communicate and eventually thrive as a drummer with perfect pitch.The conversation takes us through Craig's personal journey of receiving his son's autism diagnosis at just 16 months old, facing the uncertainty of whether he'd ever hear his child say "Daddy," and discovering how melody and rhythm created pathways of connection where words couldn't reach. "When he is playing music with other musicians," Craig shares, "in that moment there is no neurotypical, there is no autistic—there's just humans creating energy together."This revelation led Craig to develop his groundbreaking "Parenting A to E" course, teaching parents to master their "affect"—the physical manifestations of emotions through facial expressions, body positioning, and vocal tone—to better connect with children across neurological differences. Through specially crafted songs that transform daily routines like bedtime and hand-washing into meaningful moments of connection, Craig demonstrates how parents can create lasting memories and stronger bonds with their children.Beyond parenting techniques, our conversation explores the creation of truly inclusive spaces where neurodivergent children can be celebrated for exactly who they are. Drawing from his 27 years directing summer camps, Craig shares how compassionate communities can be built where differences aren't just accommodated but embraced. Whether you're a parent, educator, or someone who values human connection across differences, this episode offers practical wisdom for using music to bridge neurological divides and foster relationships built on acceptance and joy.Ready to transform your connection with the children in your life? Email Craig at craigparks@parentingharmony.com for special access to his Parenting A to E course.Support the show

Send us a textDr. Gilly Kahn brings a refreshing perspective to our understanding of ADHD, particularly in women, through her dual expertise as both a clinical psychologist and someone with lived experience. Her powerful reframing of ADHD not as an attention deficit but as an "overabundance of attention" challenges conventional thinking about neurodiversity in ways that will resonate deeply with listeners.What makes this conversation particularly valuable is how Dr. Kahn bridges the gap between clinical knowledge and authentic human experience. She vividly describes the ADHD mind as having "a 1920s Great Gatsby party in your brain while trying to do homework" – an image that perfectly captures the overwhelming sensory and cognitive experience many with ADHD navigate daily. This isn't just theoretical understanding; it's rooted in compassion and lived reality.The discussion takes us through several critical topics: misconceptions about ADHD (particularly how hyperfocus on interesting activities doesn't disprove ADHD), the science behind medication options (including fascinating research on neuropromotion), and how neurodivergent brains process information differently as "field-dependent learners." Throughout, Dr. Kahn maintains a balanced approach, acknowledging that while research strongly supports certain interventions, treatment choices remain deeply personal.Perhaps most powerfully, Dr. Kahn shares insights from her upcoming book "Allow Me to Interrupt," which launches September 9th. The Shakespeare-inspired work promises to illuminate the emotional realities of women with ADHD in ways that both validate their experiences and educate others. Her parting advice resonates as both scientific conclusion and profound wisdom: "They don't know you as well as you know yourself." For anyone navigating neurodiversity – whether personally or supporting others – this conversation offers both practical understanding and the courage to trust your own experience despite external judgment or misunderstanding.Support the show

Send us a textBryson Tarbet, founder of That Music Teacher, takes us on a captivating journey through the world of accessible music education. Drawing from his personal experience with ADHD and sensory processing disorder, Bryson reveals how his quest to make the classroom more comfortable for himself evolved into a mission to ensure music is truly accessible for all students.What begins as a conversation about simple seating arrangements quickly expands into a masterclass on creating fully inclusive music environments. Bryson shares practical approaches like offering flexible seating options, adapting instruments with occupational therapists, and color-coding sheet music to help students make visual connections between notation and instrument fingerings. His ingenious solutions range from simple rubber bands that help students grasp mallets to sophisticated one-handed recorders for students with physical disabilities.Beyond the technical aspects of accessibility, Bryson offers a profound perspective on the psychological importance of inclusive music education. He explains how introducing instruments like recorders can create a level playing field where students who typically struggle academically can shine, as everyone starts at the same point regardless of past performance. This insight challenges us to rethink how we structure music education to ensure all students have opportunities to succeed.The conversation takes an unexpected turn when Bryson reveals how COVID-19 forced him to explore alternatives to traditional performance-based music education. This led to the discovery that many seemingly disengaged students were actually deeply musical—they simply resonated with production or technology rather than performance. This revelation has powerful implications for expanding our conception of what music education can and should be.Ready to make your music classroom more inclusive? Follow @thatmusicteacher on Instagram and visit thatmusicteacher.com to access free resources and join the waitlist for the upcoming Elementary Music Summit, where educators worldwide connect to share ideas for creating truly accessible music education.Support the show

Send us a textAngela Fowler, a totally blind accessibility consultant from California, transforms our understanding of digital inclusion in this compelling conversation that challenges common misconceptions while offering practical solutions.The eye-opening discussion begins with Angela sharing her evolution from passionate disability rights advocate to dedicated educator. This transition occurred when she realized that most designers, developers, and business leaders aren't deliberately creating inaccessible experiences—they simply lack awareness about accessibility needs and benefits. Her realization highlights a critical messaging problem in society: we're not educating people effectively about why accessibility matters and how to implement it properly.Angela brilliantly dismantles two harmful myths about accessibility. First, she explains that accessibility isn't just for "those disabled people over there" but creates better experiences for everyone. From clearly labeled buttons that help all users navigate websites to wider store aisles and quieter restaurants that enhance everyone's experience, accessibility features have universal benefits. Second, she challenges the notion that accessibility is prohibitively expensive, advocating instead for a harm reduction approach that prioritizes fixing critical barriers first while gradually implementing other improvements.For businesses and website owners, Angela offers invaluable practical advice: WordPress provides more accessible options than drag-and-drop builders; hiring developers who prioritize accessible user experiences saves money in the long run; and taking small, consistent steps toward accessibility demonstrates good faith efforts that can provide both practical and legal benefits. She also shares thoughtful guidance on interacting respectfully with disabled people—ask if help is needed rather than assuming, respect autonomy, and remember that disability is just one aspect of a person's identity.Looking toward the future, Angela envisions a cultural shift away from models that emphasize dependency toward an approach that celebrates unique capabilities and contributions. Ready to make your digital presence more accessible? Visit RealLifeAccess.com to connect with Angela and start your accessibility journey today.Support the show

Send us a textWelcome to a sneak peek into The International Autism Summit 2024 with special guest speaker Devin MorriseyWhen doctors told three-year-old Devin Morrissey he would never graduate high school, attend college, or live independently, they couldn't have imagined he would one day help transform how the world sees autism. In his powerful presentation "Bringing Autism to the Center Stage," Devin takes us on a journey from his childhood diagnosis to becoming a Netflix personality, podcast host, and fierce advocate who consistently defies expectations.Growing up in Danville, California in the 1990s when autism was often viewed as a "death sentence," Devin didn't learn about his own diagnosis until age twelve. This revelation explained why he had been pulled from recess for various therapies and why certain aspects of social interaction felt challenging. Though initially struggling with this identity, Devin eventually embraced that "being normal is completely overrated" and that his differences were strengths to be celebrated.Devin's accomplishments speak volumes: bachelor's degrees in liberal arts and music from Whittier College, a master's degree from USC completed during the pandemic, experience as an elementary school teacher, and now working as a recruitment coordinator at Sabacon, a neurodiverse recruiting firm. Perhaps most recognizably, he appears as Dani Bowman's best friend on Netflix's Emmy Award-winning "Love on the Spectrum US," offering dating advice and support while helping bring authentic autism representation to mainstream media.Beyond the screen, Devin amplifies autistic voices through his blog "Autistic Superpower" and podcast "Autistically Unapologetic," where he interviews other autistic trailblazers about their experiences. Most recently, he's returned to his performing roots by joining Epic Players LA, a neurodiversity theater company, combining his passion for performance with autism advocacy.Ready to embrace your own authentic story? Follow Devin's journey at www.autisticsuperpower.com or on Instagram @DevinMorrissey and discover how one voice can help break stigmas, defy limitations, and inspire a movement of acceptance.Support the show

Send us a textHow do you navigate the complex landscape of parenting adult children while fostering their independence? In this enlightening episode, we delve into the essential principles of navigating this transition with love, support, and a focus on boundaries. Our expert guest, a seasoned psychologist, offers invaluable strategies that help parents understand the dual roles of love and discipline when guiding their children into adulthood. From discussing the varying challenges young adults face, especially those with developmental disabilities, to practical tips on creating a five-year plan together, each segment is designed to empower parents to foster emotional and social growth while allowing for independence. Discover how focusing on intentional parenting and recognizing cultural biases surrounding independence can significantly impact both your relationship and your child's trajectory. Join us on this journey of understanding how to let go while reinforcing the bond that sustains a nurturing family dynamic. We encourage you to reflect on your experiences and engage with our community—subscribe, share your thoughts, and leave a review to help us support families embarking on their parenting journey.Support the show

Send us a textWhat does it mean to truly support special needs families, and how can we as a community come together to offer that support? In our latest episode, we bring you a heartfelt conversation with John Fela, a dedicated advocate who has turned his personal journey as a parent of a nonverbal autistic son into a powerful mission working with Joni and Friends, a global Christian disability ministry. John's inspiring story of creating a support group for special needs dads not only highlights the importance of community but also reveals the transformative power of shared experiences. Join us as we promise to open your eyes to the resilience and hope that emerge when families navigate the complexities of autism together.Navigating the world of special needs parenting comes with its unique set of challenges and victories, especially for single parents. Drawing from real-life experiences, we share stories of overcoming fears and breaking through isolation by building connections with other parents and community organizations. Schools, churches, and local groups all play pivotal roles in this journey, offering vital support from early childhood into adolescence and beyond. We explore how preparing for guardianship and continuously adapting to the needs of the autistic community requires a deep understanding and unwavering commitment to inclusion.Churches have a unique opportunity to foster genuine acceptance for families and individuals with disabilities, moving beyond surface-level inclusion. John Fela shares invaluable insights into how religious communities can create environments that truly celebrate all abilities, encouraging meaningful participation. We touch on the future concerns many parents face, urging church leadership to develop sustainable programs that address these anxieties. As we wrap up, we express gratitude for the stories of courage and resilience shared, reminding us all of the enduring impact these narratives hold. Tune in for an episode filled with inspiration, practical advice, and a promise of community support that shines brightly.www.johnfela.comSupport the show

Send us a textJoin us for an enlightening conversation with Leroy Slanzi, an educator whose journey ranges from principal roles worldwide to his fulfilling work at an Indigenous school in British Columbia. This episode sheds light on the nuances of global educational systems, highlighting Canada's impressive standing in education. Leroy offers insights into how the digital age and environmental factors are reshaping student behavior, and why emotional intelligence and holistic learning are critical in today's classrooms.We dive deep into the urgent need for emotional education in schools, where traditional subjects often overshadow social-emotional learning. Facing a looming mental health crisis, we discuss equipping educators and students alike with the tools necessary for emotional intelligence. I also introduce my books as resources, offering pathways through these challenges and advocating for the integration of play to combat the decline in children's perseverance and grit. Together, we strive to fill the missing piece in the education system, championing a holistic approach for nurturing well-rounded children.The episode doesn't just stop at theory—it explores practical implementation through emotional audits in schools, which help boost emotional intelligence and well-being. Imagine schools where a common emotional language and mindfulness practices are part of everyday life, aiding not just students but teachers as well. We also touch on the unique needs of children with autism, advocating for environments that allow their emotional growth. By fostering empathy and compassion, we aim to inspire a transformation in how education meets the emotional needs of all its students.Support the show

Send us a textAnneke Elmhirst, a coach with a unique focus on neurodivergence, shares her transformative journey from behavior analysis to coaching. We explore the complexities of ADHD and autism, challenging the conventional one-size-fits-all approach and advocating for a personalized understanding of mental health. Anneke 's shift was driven by a need for values alignment, and she provides insight into how late diagnoses can manifest differently across individuals. Together, we question the efficacy of standard medical testing for atypical brains and highlight how identifying with neurodivergent labels can foster community building and support.Imagine transitioning from a traditional career path to the dynamic world of relationship coaching. We dive into the motivations and personal experiences behind such dramatic shifts, using a metaphor to compare therapists to contractors who fix problems, while coaches are like interior designers who enhance and personalize spaces. We emphasize the importance of standards and ethics in coaching, particularly for neurodiverse individuals, while discussing how therapy and coaching can complement each other. Self-reflection is another key topic, as understanding one's desires is crucial for effective communication and relationship success.The journey of self-love and personal growth takes center stage, highlighting the importance of fostering confidence from an early age. Through heartfelt anecdotes, we discuss the impact of community support and the power of love in shaping young lives. Anneke 's inspiring work in creating spaces where people feel valued is celebrated, emphasizing empathy and understanding as tools for empowerment. With aspirations for writing and self-education, we reflect on the potential for personal growth and the thrill of embracing the unknown, all while expressing gratitude for the positive impact of our guest's contributions to the community.Support the show

Send us a textDiscover the inspiring journeys of Marlene and Judi, two extraordinary advocates reshaping the autism community. Judi, the mastermind behind Autism and Entertainment and leader of the Orange County Asperger Support Group, reflects on her dual role as a mother and high-tech marketing professional. Marlene, with her rich experience in animation as a producer and writer, shares her vision for bridging education with the entertainment industry through her work with the Center for Learning Unlimited. Together, they reveal the story behind their innovative autism and entertainment conference that has become a cornerstone for community and connection.Experience the magic as we recount the triumphs of the autism conference, initially conceived during a casual meeting in May 2022 and growing into an unexpected success with over 400 attendees. This vibrant gathering, graced by speakers like Jorge Gutierrez, was more than just an event; it was a celebration of belonging, healing, and joyful reunions. Marlene and Judi's pioneering efforts underscore the transformative power of networking, as the conference sparked organic partnerships and lifelong friendships, providing a platform for hope and collaboration within the entertainment industry.Embrace the future of autism advocacy and employment as we explore innovative strategies for personal and professional growth. Exciting initiatives, such as incorporating Toastmasters programs, are enhancing communication skills and empowering individuals on the spectrum to overcome employment challenges. By addressing concerns like the fear of losing benefits, these efforts are paving the way for a more inclusive workforce. Through the spirit of collaboration and community building, this episode invites listeners to participate in a movement where success is shared, and everyone thrives together.• Importance of community support and networking• Personal journeys advocating for autism in entertainment• Statistics on unemployment in the autistic community and the need for change• Themes of empowerment and the "superpowers" of autistic individuals• Successful outcomes from the Autism and Entertainment Conference• Addressing fears surrounding failure as part of personal and professional growth• Future projects and continued advocacy for autistic individuals• Insight into Social Security challenges faced by autistic adultsSupport the show

Send us a textEver wondered how a personal journey can ignite a movement that changes lives? Meet Tamika Lecheé Morales, the dedicated founder of the Autism Hero Project, who turned her son Legend's autism diagnosis into a mission to transform the landscape for autistic individuals and their families. From offering crucial medical insurance to pioneering educational scholarships and hosting inclusive community events, learn how the Autism Hero Project is making a real difference. Tamika's story is not just about overcoming challenges; it's about creating opportunities and bridging gaps for those who need it most.Join us as we explore the emotional terrain of living with autism and the supportive networks that form in its wake. Discover the raw honesty of families navigating this journey, confronting societal perceptions, and finding beauty in neurodiversity. Through heartfelt narratives and shared experiences, Tamika illuminates the transformative power of understanding and acceptance, emphasizing that autism affects entire families, fostering connections that are both profound and enduring.The episode also showcases the broader advocacy work being done to raise autism awareness and acceptance. From legislative victories like Autism Acceptance Week in Illinois to practical tools like noise-canceling headphones, Tamika and the Autism Hero Project are leading efforts to create a compassionate world for neurodiverse individuals. Discover how their expanding outreach through social media is helping to spread this vital message and how you can be part of this inspiring journey toward inclusivity.Support the show

Send us a textFacing the complexities of divorce is challenging enough, but when special needs are involved, the journey can feel even more daunting. Join us as we explore this sensitive topic with Mary Ann, a special needs divorce coach who has not only lived through the experience but has dedicated her career to helping others navigate these turbulent waters. Through her work with Special Family Transitions, Mary Ann offers invaluable insights into managing the emotional and logistical hurdles of divorce, especially for families with children on the autism spectrum. We discuss the high divorce rates in these communities and the urgent need for resources that prioritize the well-being of children, while also fostering effective communication between all parties involved.Throughout our candid conversation, we emphasize the critical role self-care plays in maintaining emotional balance during a divorce. Mary Ann shares practical strategies like exercise and gratitude to mitigate stress, along with the importance of treating interactions with an ex-spouse professionally to encourage amicable resolutions. Looking ahead, Mary Ann reveals her plans to launch a private Facebook group in 2025, designed to offer a supportive community for families facing similar challenges. This episode isn't just a guide through the storm; it's an empowering toolkit, providing listeners with the understanding and support needed to focus on positive outcomes during one of life's most difficult transitions.Support the show

Send us a textThe SJ Childs ShowWhat if your life experiences could transform the lives of those you love most? Join us as Philip Blackett shares his compelling journey of personal growth and autism advocacy. Approaching his 40s, Philip reflects on how his grandmother's unwavering love shaped his understanding of autism and how his twin daughters' diagnoses became a turning point. Through heartfelt storytelling, Philip offers valuable insights into the importance of empathy, understanding, and shared experiences in supporting individuals on the autism spectrum.Ever thought about bringing the tranquility of a spa into your own home? Discover how you can create a sanctuary of relaxation without breaking the bank. We explore the art of crafting a home spa experience that nurtures both your body and mind. From daily rituals that strengthen relationships to embracing activities that rejuvenate your spirit, learn how personal routines can enrich your life and well-being. Philip's expertise guides us through these transformative practices, offering a compelling case for investing in self-care.Our conversation takes a motivating turn as we discuss the power of mindset and the commitment required for fitness success. It's not about quick fixes but rather the dedication to becoming the best version of yourself through consistent effort. Philip highlights the ripple effect of healthy lifestyle choices, inspiring those around you to aim higher. For those eager to dive deeper into the world of home relaxation, Philip invites listeners to visit his website and explore his book "Relax, Recover, Rejuvenate: How to Create Your Ultimate Home Spa," offering a wealth of knowledge and resources to enhance your journey to wellness.Support the showSupport the show

Send us a textWhat if you could find peace and purpose after facing life's toughest challenges? Join us in this episode as we uncover the inspiring journey of Gage, a passionate advocate for autism awareness who transformed his early struggles into a powerful voice for change. Diagnosed with autism at age five, Gage didn't speak until then and found solace in building snack-box towers. His story is a testament to resilience and personal growth, taking us from a young boy in Pennsylvania to a determined advocate in Florida.Gage opens up about confronting trauma and depression, particularly during the pandemic, a time that demanded introspection and healing. With the support of his older brother, who introduced him to meditation and personal growth practices, Gage navigated the challenges, learning patience and self-respect through his experiences at a diner. A pivotal move to Florida marked a new beginning, filled with optimism and the pursuit of his dreams. We explore how these experiences shaped Gage's journey towards becoming a motivational speaker, reigniting his passion through opportunities like the ICANN autism conference and Toastmasters.Dive into the importance of spreading awareness and acceptance within the autism community through platforms like Gage's podcast, Autism Talk. By showcasing uplifting stories of individuals who overcome challenges without adopting a victim mindset, Gage aims to inspire and educate listeners. Be ready to hear heartfelt advice for parents of children with autism and encouraging words for adults diagnosed later in life. This episode is a celebration of potential, collaboration, and the power of sharing impactful stories that uplift and inspire.Support the show

Send us a textDaniel Durany's journey from job losses to discovering his place on the autism spectrum offers a raw and inspiring narrative. His experiences growing up in a socially reserved family, juxtaposed with his outgoing nature, shed light on the complexities of forming friendships and finding one's identity. As we catch up with Daniel, he shares his insights from navigating the world as a sports referee and the joys and challenges of fatherhood, all while advocating for greater understanding and acceptance within the autism community.The path for an autistic entrepreneur can be fraught with unique challenges, but Daniel's story is one of resilience and innovation. We discuss the often overlooked career skills essential for success and the strategy of balancing multiple jobs, akin to managing a stock portfolio. Daniel's reflections on the value of diverse experiences highlight the creativity and adaptability that neurodivergent individuals bring to the table, challenging conventional career paths and expectations.As the conversation unfolds, we explore the power of diverse skill sets and meaningful connections. Daniel's anecdotes underscore the importance of empathy and listening in relationships, whether in marriage or professional settings. Mentorship emerges as a crucial element for neurodivergent individuals, and we eagerly anticipate Daniel's upcoming speaking engagements in Oklahoma and Texas. This episode is a call to action to stay connected through social media and to continue supporting Daniel's endeavors in creating a more inclusive world.Support the show

Send us a textWhat happens when a childhood dream takes an unexpected detour through the world of speechwriting only to emerge as a vibrant career in adolescent fiction? That's what our guest reveals as she recounts her unique journey towards becoming an author, inspired by personal experiences and a flair for capturing diverse voices. Discover how her life as a mom, wife, and writer intertwines, offering a refreshing take on managing a bustling household while nurturing a passion for storytelling. Her books, "Hurricamp" and "Miscommunicamp," embody this lively blend of humor and heart, connecting with readers in ways that are both engaging and deeply personal.As we explore the power of literature to forge connections, particularly with young readers, our conversation turns to the influence of literary giants like Beverly Cleary and Judy Blume. These authors have left an indelible mark on our guest, driving her belief in the importance of relatable characters that foster a lifelong love for reading. We also discuss the myriad ways books can reach diverse audiences, from traditional hard copies to e-books and audiobooks, ensuring every reader finds their unique gateway to the literary world. The impact of early literacy programs and creative strategies, such as brainstorming and journaling, also come to light, showcasing their crucial role in a writer's toolkit.Navigating personal identity in the digital age can be as amusing as it is challenging, and our guest shares her humorous encounters with name confusions and the intricacies of personal branding. Through these tales, she emphasizes the importance of dreams and the excitement of future projects, offering a peek into her upcoming literary ventures and the supportive community that surrounds her. Whether you're a seasoned writer or an aspiring one, this episode promises a wealth of inspiration, laughter, and the anticipation of stories yet to come.Support the show

Send us a textAaron DeVries, a devoted advocate for disability inclusion, brings his heartfelt journey to our conversation, inspired by his daughter's battles with epilepsy and cerebral palsy. As a father navigating a predominantly female advocacy space, Aaron shares the importance of belonging over merely fitting in, urging more fathers to lend their voices to the cause. We explore how personal experiences, including his upbringing, have shaped Aaron's advocacy approach, encouraging others to question societal norms and embrace emotional sensitivity.Facing the daunting transition from pediatric to adult care, Aaron offers invaluable insights for parents of children with disabilities. We discuss the challenges of managing medical and educational environments that change with age, underscoring the need for proactive advocacy and early planning. Through Aaron's experiences, we learn the importance of balancing family life with therapy demands, and recognizing the human side of medical professionals to ensure the best care for children.Aaron's Inclusive Dad Podcast becomes a beacon for promoting a more inclusive world through honest conversations and small actions. We delve into the unexpected opportunities that arise from following one's passion, like starting a podcast, and the empowerment it brings to those who share their stories. Wrapping up with a lighthearted weather chat between Minnesota and Utah, we find appreciation for the changing seasons, much like the transformative change in attitudes towards inclusion that Aaron champions.Support the show

Send us a textJoin us for an enlightening conversation with Healey Ikerd, a seasoned licensed counselor from Arkansas who brings 17 years of expertise in mental health to our discussion. Healey passionately shares her journey from working with children to focusing on adults in her private practice, and the significance of modeling good mental health practices. Her insights are not just professional but deeply personal, as she draws from her experiences. Discover how believing in one's potential can transform lives, and why teaching children coping skills is more crucial now than ever.Our chat takes an intriguing turn as we explore the transformative power of therapy through compelling personal stories. You'll hear about how therapy helped an individual overcome a challenging upbringing in group homes and juvenile detention, finding clarity and purpose along the way. Healey highlights how children's books are not just tales but powerful tools for emotional learning and forgiveness. The stories serve as a bridge between personal anecdotes and broader discussions on inclusion and kindness, with a sneak peek into Healey's upcoming children's book inspired by her family's history.In the realm of anxiety management, we unravel both adult and child-friendly strategies, showcasing the journey of writing books that foster discussions on important topics. Healey's personal experiences with anxiety pave the way for practical insights on transforming fear into a friend rather than a foe. We discuss adventurous activities that stretch comfort zones and promote growth, while Healey shares her new book, "The Anxious Little Goat," which creatively blends education and reassurance. As we wrap up with tales of farm life and healthy living, you'll be inspired to embrace life's adventures and challenges with a fresh perspective.Support the show

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textWhat happens when you challenge societal norms and prove the naysayers wrong? Join us as Christian takes us through his inspiring journey from overcoming the stigma of autism to becoming a beacon of hope and inclusion. Diagnosed in 2001, when understanding was limited, Christian defied discouraging predictions of his future by breaking stereotypes. From obtaining his driver's license to becoming a passionate public speaker, he embodies resilience and determination. Discover how celebrating small wins, embracing unique learning styles, and leveraging social media can promote understanding and inclusion, as shared by Christian, who encourages everyone to harness their strengths and challenge assumptions.Christian's story doesn't stop at defying odds; it transforms into a powerful narrative of self-discovery and empowerment amidst life's challenges. Navigate through his battles with depression, the need for mental health breaks, and the demanding pressure to conform to societal norms. Listen as he emphasizes the importance of friendships, generational differences, and the synergy between neurodivergent and neurotypical communities for mutual growth. Through vulnerability and collaboration, Christian invites us all to step beyond our comfort zones, try new things, and embrace inclusivity. Tune in to learn how Christian's message of unity and hope can inspire you to build a supportive community and foster a more inclusive world.

Send us a textWhat happens when an occupational therapist and a devoted mother come together to tackle the pressing issues surrounding autistic adult transition support? Join us in a heartfelt exchange with April as we uncover the real challenges faced by autistic individuals and their families as they step into adulthood. With April's personal journey as both a professional and a parent, we navigate the complexities of post-secondary education and the glaring gaps in autism-specific services, particularly in states like Kentucky. Our conversation sheds light on the vital need for a unified system across states, ensuring these talented individuals find their rightful place in society with the necessary accommodations in housing and employment.Prepare to be inspired as we offer strategies for parents bracing for the transition of their autistic children from high school to the broader world. We stress the importance of early preparation and realistic assessments, helping families align their children's aspirations—be it college, employment, or unique interests like video gaming—with the right opportunities. Discover the value of community resources, ongoing education, and the collective push for legislative change, especially as autism prevalence climbs. As our dialogue wraps up, feel the warmth of future collaboration and genuine connection, as April and I share our mutual enthusiasm for continued advocacy and support for autistic adults.Adulting with Autism Podcasthttps://adultingwithautismpodcast.podbean.com/https://www.sjchilds.orgSupport the show

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textNavigating the emotional waves of an autism diagnosis can feel overwhelming, but it also opens doors to empowerment and understanding. Join us as we share the emotional journey of embracing this new reality, featuring Bridget Hamstead, the visionary behind Vishnu Tree. Bridget offers valuable insights on transforming initial fears into a sense of freedom, where families can tap into resources, educate others, and find strength in supportive communities. We honor lives lost to suicide within the neurodiversity community, highlighting the urgent need for compassionate and tailored support systems. Through these conversations, we aim to foster a more inclusive and understanding environment for all neurodivergent individuals.Unpacking the unique challenges within the autistic community, we address how race, gender, and sexual orientation intersect to impact mental health and suicidality. Alarming statistics reveal the compounded risks faced by autistic individuals, calling for early diagnosis and neurodiversity-affirming mental health services. This episode advocates for the training of mental health professionals to meet the complex needs of this community. We emphasize the power of human connection through personal stories of struggle and resilience, expressing gratitude for the voices rising above adversity and showcasing the importance of vulnerability in building community. Together, these narratives create a tapestry of empathy and understanding, reminding us of our collective strength.

Send us a textJoin us as we welcome the remarkable Tamika Lechee Morales, founder of the Autism Hero Project. Born from her personal journey with her son's autism and ADHD diagnosis, Tamika's nonprofit has been a beacon of hope since 2015. Originally focusing on providing essential medical insurance in Illinois, the Autism Hero Project has grown to include educational scholarships, inclusive events, and first responder training. Tamika opens up about the raw and emotional process of accepting her son's diagnosis and shares how building a supportive community has been crucial.We'll also tackle the real-life challenges and triumphs of raising a neurodiverse child. From transitioning between school stages to the importance of self-regulation and acceptance, we discuss it all. Hear firsthand about impactful initiatives like Autism Acceptance Week and practical strategies such as noise-canceling headphones for public outings. This episode is a heartfelt celebration of neurodiversity and underscores the necessity for empathy, understanding, and celebrating the unique qualities of autistic individuals. Don't miss this powerful conversation!Support the show

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textWhat makes Stephen Wright's surreal humor so uniquely captivating? Join us as our friend Andrew, known for his sharp wit and keen intellect, takes us on a journey through Wright's world of deadpan delivery and bizarre punchlines. Discover how Wright's offbeat humor resonates profoundly with the autistic experience, turning what many see as different into a source of beauty and laughter. Andrew draws fascinating parallels between Wright's jokes and the way those on the autism spectrum interpret rules and definitions, offering insights that will make you see humor in a whole new light.But that's not all! Andrew's wisdom extends beyond comedy as he navigates the challenges faced by autistic individuals, especially in the healthcare system. We highlight the alarming statistics and personal stories that underscore the urgent need for better insurance coverage. Through Andrew's anecdotes and light-hearted humor, we touch on serious issues with a sprinkle of laughter, advocating for a more inclusive environment. This episode is a heartfelt blend of comedy, meaningful reflection, and a call for better communication and care for everyone.

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textWhat does it mean to truly support someone with undiagnosed autism? Our latest episode promises a journey through the eyes of a humanities professor from Metro Detroit, who has navigated the complex terrains of life and academia without the clarity of a diagnosis until the age of 41. Discover how survival skills from a challenging childhood turned into indispensable tools for creating an innovative humanities department and fostering community support. Through their storytelling, you'll hear how an Appalachian upbringing shaped their empathetic approach to teaching and organizing.Our guest candidly shares the often-overlooked realities of living with undiagnosed autism, especially within the realms of marriage and parenthood. This episode dives deep into the personal transformations that occurred post-diagnosis, revealing how simple yet profound micro accommodations and community support played a pivotal role. The account highlights the immense energy required to "fit in," and how therapy and new coping mechanisms provided much-needed relief and understanding.But it doesn't stop there. The discussion expands into the realm of autistic rights advocacy, where our guest's dedication to creating resources like a non-speaking communication aid is both inspiring and practical. Learn about the founding of a grassroots organization aimed at empowering the autistic community through research, advocacy, and tangible support. Finally, the episode offers a heartfelt reflection on the impact of late diagnoses on personal relationships, touching on the crucial and often silent intersection between autism and mental health. Join us for a powerful session that champions resilience, open-mindedness, and the transformative power of acceptance.

Send us a textWhat happens when a New Jersey native with dreams of joining the Army turns those dreams into a 22-year journey of service? Join us as we chat with Rich LaMonica, a retired Army veteran who opens up about the values instilled in him by his hardworking parents and the challenges he faced, including a last-minute scramble to prepare for college. We reflect on his four combat deployments and how the patience and communication skills he honed over the years contrast with today's culture of instant gratification. It's a heartfelt discussion that touches on the host's own memories of waiting for letters from her father during Desert Storm and the unique bond formed through those exchanges.In a raw and candid segment, Rich delves into the psychological aftermath of war, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when to seek help. Rich shares personal stories about how combat changes a person and the subsequent struggle to find appropriate mental health support. He highlights the power of family support, resilience, and humor, offering practical advice like stacking small daily victories to maintain momentum. Rich also stresses the significance of finding tailored professional help and the supportive networks available to veterans and first responders, making this a crucial listen for anyone facing similar challenges.Rich also shares invaluable resources for mental health support, including podcasts and nonprofit organizations like Team RWB and the Travis Manion Foundation. We discuss his upcoming book about soldiers transitioning back to civilian life and his ongoing mentorship projects with the Travis Manion Foundation. We wrap up with a heartfelt conversation about the unexpected joys of meaningful encounters and their lasting impact on our lives. For more information, visit The Misfit Nation website and check out The Misfit Nation Podcast on all social media platforms.Support the show

Send us a textMiss Zorina, a resilient veteran and dedicated caregiver, joins us to share her wisdom on intentional parenting and child development. We delve into the unique challenges faced by parents in the wake of COVID-19 and the strategies that can help overcome them. Zorina recounts her personal journey of raising her son and granddaughters, highlighting the transformative power of consistent affirmations and accountability. We reflect on our own parenting experiences, emphasizing the importance of creating a safe space for open communication and nurturing children into respectful, responsible citizens.We also explore Zorina's creative projects, including her thrilling new game "Zomatic Shift" and her touching children's book "Dancing Teardrops." Zorina opens up about the hurdles and triumphs she faced getting her game picked up by Walmart online, as well as the heartfelt themes of family bonding and resilience in her book. The discussion underscores the significance of helping children handle transitions with creative strategies and staying connected with them through meaningful moments. As we contemplate the fleeting nature of childhood, we stress the value of cherishing time spent together and remaining engaged in our kids' lives.Support the show

Send us a textEver wondered how sensory strategies can transform speech therapy? In this episode, Jessie Ginsberg, a seasoned speech-language pathologist and mother of four, shares her innovative approach to integrating sensory techniques into speech therapy. With years of experience running a clinic in Los Angeles and creating online programs, Jessie provides invaluable insights into understanding the sensory system and its critical role in effective communication. She also discusses her new book, which aims to make essential educational resources accessible to families everywhere, regardless of their situation.We navigate the often daunting journey parents face when seeking professional help for their child's communication issues. Jessie highlights the essential role of speech therapists, especially for late talkers, preschool kids, and those with autism. She emphasizes the importance of early intervention and offers practical steps parents can take at home to support their child's development. This episode also covers key communication milestones to help parents gauge their child's progress and the significance of trusting parental instincts in choosing the right therapy.Delving deeper, we explore understanding sensory differences in autism, advocating for a strengths-based approach that views autism as a unique neurotype rather than a set of challenges. Jessie shares the benefits of play-based therapies and introduces an exciting sensory gym that combines physical activities with educational elements. We wrap up with a focus on the specific language needs of children and highlight valuable resources provided by Sensory SLP, including Jessie's "Ready Set Connect" book and its associated bonuses. Join us for an inspiring conversation filled with expert advice, personal stories, and a wealth of resources to better support your child's communication journey.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered how to turn everyday conflicts into opportunities for growth and understanding? Join us as we sit down with Kat Newport, a seasoned conflict management expert and mother of four, to unpack her transformative journey from the corporate world to raising three neurodiverse children. Kat's personal story is a testament to the power of evolving conflict resolution skills, and in this episode, she contrasts her early parenting struggles with her 28-year-old daughter to her more refined techniques with her nine-year-old. We'll also explore how she navigates her relationship with her eldest daughter, who is now a mother herself, offering invaluable insights into multigenerational conflict resolution.In today's digital era, parenting teenagers comes with its own set of challenges, which Kat expertly addresses. We explore the implications of technology on communication and conflict resolution among teens, highlighting the nuances often lost in text-based interactions. Kat shares practical advice from her book "Smart Conflict," available on Amazon and her website, and directs listeners to a wealth of resources on her social media platforms. This episode is packed with actionable tips and heartfelt reflections, aiming to equip you with the skills to foster more harmonious relationships both at home and in the workplace. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation!https://share.hsforms.com/1OhnWOJZ5QPq6Up4toMtHdgnwn0rSupport the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Unlock the secrets to effective conflict resolution with insights from Kat Newport, a mother of four from Canada, whose journey spans from a corporate career to mastering parenting techniques with three neurodiverse children and two grandchildren. Kat reveals how her corporate background influenced her approach to managing conflicts at home, emphasizing the importance of modeling good behavior from an early age. Discover how her oldest daughter, now a mother herself, seeks guidance from Kat's evolved methods, illustrating the profound impact of early conflict resolution skills on family dynamics.In this episode of the SJ Child Show, we highlight the significance of teaching children emotional self-regulation and accountability through meaningful conversations rather than explosive actions. Kat introduces the SMART conflict resolution model, which helps both children and adults understand situations, measure emotions, allow for pauses, and set a mending agenda. Learn how these techniques can lead to healthier interactions at home and in the workplace, equipping individuals with the tools needed for successful conflict management. Join us for a deep dive into Kat Newport's unique perspective on parenting and conflict resolution, and find out how you can apply these valuable lessons in your own life.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.https://www.eventbrite.com/e/3rd-annual-1-in-36-mix-ii-virtual-autism-summit-tickets-928621290277Ever wondered how to navigate the world of autism therapies, employment, dating, and advocacy? Join us from August 15-18, 2024, for the 1 in 36 Mix 2 Virtual Autism Summit, where we bring together a stellar lineup of speakers and panelists who are at the forefront of autism research and community support. Hosted by Sara Bradford, aka SJChilds, and co-hosted by experts like Robert Schmus and Jamiel Owens, this event is designed to offer you a wealth of knowledge and firsthand experiences. From essential services and therapies on Thursday with experts like Dr. David Greenberg, to employment and training tips on Friday featuring Dr. Adam Hazlett and Kimberly Frey, each session is packed with valuable insights.Saturday shifts gears to discuss the often-overlooked experiences of girls and women with autism, led by keynote speakers Dr. Matt Zakreski and Larissa Minner. We'll round off on Sunday with compelling advocate stories from individuals like Andrew Arboe and Jeffrey Snyder, enriching your understanding of the diverse autism community. Don't miss your chance to gain transformative insights, hear powerful stories, and connect with advocates and experts who are making a difference. Mark your calendars and get ready for four days of enlightening and empowering discussions!Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Are you aware of the hidden dangers that could be lurking in your teenager's life post-pandemic? Tune in to this eye-opening episode of the SJ Child Show, where we welcome back our esteemed guest, Richard, a seasoned expert in education and mental health with a wealth of experience from the Menninger Clinic. We'll uncover the alarming rise of fentanyl and explore how parents can stay vigilant and informed about the substances their children might encounter today. Richard's insights will help demystify the decrease in substance abuse during the pandemic and the essential role of parental education in safeguarding our youth.We'll also delve into the often-overlooked vulnerabilities that teenagers face during their middle and high school years. Richard shares a compelling neuroscience-based approach to educating kids about brain development and the consequences of substance use. By fostering a deeper understanding of how their brains work, teens can make more informed decisions about their health and behavior. This segment is designed to equip parents with the tools they need to observe changes in their children's behavior without judgment, creating an open dialogue about these critical issues.Finally, we offer practical guidance for parents grappling with concerns about their child's mental health or potential substance abuse. Richard highlights the importance of psychological assessments to identify underlying problems and discusses a range of treatment options from outpatient to residential programs. We'll also address the critical need for parental support systems, especially for single parents, and provide actionable advice on creating a supportive home environment. From the dangers of fentanyl to the significance of addressing vaping, this episode is a comprehensive resource for any parent navigating these challenging waters.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Imagine growing up knowing that one leg is significantly shorter than the other, with no quadriceps or hamstring on your right side. Our guest shares the profound impact this physical difference had on their life, shaped by their grandmother's unwavering love and wisdom. They recount a crucial moment in childhood when a proposed surgery promised a semblance of normalcy but ultimately led to a lifelong brace. Through the heart-wrenching experiences of bullying and societal judgment, they found inner strength and resilience that became their guiding light. I also open up about my own journey with outer ear microtia, finding common ground in our shared experiences of moving beyond physical differences to discover our self-worth.Rahz Slaughter, a passionate advocate for at-risk youth, joins us to share his transformative journey. After losing his gym business during the COVID-19 pandemic, Rahz redirected his focus to mentor young boys, teaching them the power of the mind. From a bullied child without a father figure to a successful trainer and author, Rahz's story is one of resilience and triumph. We delve into the critical role of mentoring youth in today's rapidly changing world, discussing the importance of instilling values, love, and dignity early on to shape a better future. Rahz's insights and personal stories are a beacon of hope for parents and mentors alike.Parenting in the modern world comes with its own set of challenges and responsibilities. We discuss the need to break negative generational cycles and foster environments that nurture independence and self-expression. Highlighting the analogy of a bow and arrow, we emphasize the importance of guiding children up to a point and then allowing them to navigate the world on their own. Practical techniques for building confidence through positive communication and understanding love languages within the family are shared, offering actionable steps for parents. Our conversation with Rahz Slaughter culminates in insights on how to connect with him on social media, underscoring the value of mutual growth and understanding within families. Join us for an episode brimming with real, raw stories and empowering messages!Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.How do you turn a life-threatening accident and a struggle with mental health into a story of hope and resilience? The incredible Carolyn Sophia joins us on The SJ Childs Show to share her journey of overcoming a nonverbal learning disability, anxiety, and depression. Carolyn's life took a dramatic turn during her senior year of college after surviving a car accident, which became a pivotal moment for her to start advocating for mental health. Her story is a testament to the power of self-worth and the importance of how we treat others, even in the face of societal beauty standards.Carolyn takes us through her profound journey of resilience and self-acceptance. Following her accident and a previous suicide attempt, she experienced a sense of divine intervention and gratitude that led her to write the book "Unbreakable." This book became her way of providing hope and inspiration to others facing similar struggles. We discuss how writing became a cathartic process for Carolyn, allowing her to highlight alarming youth mental health statistics and foster a message that life is worth living. Her story is a powerful reminder of overcoming societal pressures, especially those amplified by social media.Managing social media usage for teens is a unique challenge, and Carolyn offers her insights from a parent's perspective. We explore strategies for setting boundaries and teaching self-regulation to teens, emphasizing the importance of real-life interactions. Carolyn shares her ideas of parenting while being neurodivergent and highlights the evolution of parent-child relationships. The conversation underscores the importance of open communication and validation of feelings to foster mutual respect and trust. Finally, we reflect on the passion for storytelling and the impact of sharing personal experiences through podcasting, aiming to inspire and connect with others. Join us for an inspiring episode that showcases the strength of the human spirit and the power of perseverance.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.What if you could challenge societal norms and change the world's perception of individuals with disabilities? Join us in an inspiring conversation with Laura Hope Whitaker, CEO of ESP, as she shares her incredible journey of leadership, community building, and the transformative metaphor of the dandelion. At just 19, Laura stepped into the role of CEO after the sudden passing of ESP's founder, and she has since grown the organization to serve over 1,200 individuals. We uncover the often-overlooked beauty of dandelions, paralleling it with the misunderstood potential in people with disabilities, urging a shift in perspective to appreciate inherent value beyond labels.In a candid discussion, Laura recounts the initial hurdles of leading a nonprofit, from financial struggles to limited support, and the importance of building a knowledgeable community. She shares her battle with imposter syndrome and the valuable lessons learned from both nonprofit and for-profit sectors. Listeners will be moved by heartwarming testimonies of families and communities impacted by ESP's services, and inspired by the organization's adaptability and unwavering pursuit of knowledge and support. Laura's story emphasizes the significance of community, resilience, and continuous growth, both personally and organizationally.Discover the transformative power of meaningful employment for individuals with high support needs through ESP's social enterprise, JavaJoy. Laura explores how JavaJoy provides opportunities and confidence for neurodiverse individuals, fostering positive connections and breaking down barriers in diverse environments. From corporate events to the Mercedes-Benz Stadium, the journey of Joy Ristas exemplifies the importance of inclusivity in the workforce. Additionally, we discuss creating upward mobility within organizations and supporting individuals with disabilities in finding fulfilling employment opportunities. This episode is a powerful call to action to support inclusive organizations and follow Laura's mission to uplift individuals and families through community service.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.What if you could transform your approach to parenting an autistic child while shedding the burden of guilt and frustration? Join me for an illuminating conversation with Andrea Pollack, a former lawyer turned autism educator and coach, who shares her compelling journey from the legal field to homeschooling her autistic son and founding Autism Parent Solutions. Andrea's insights are not only eye-opening but also incredibly actionable, focusing on problem-solving strategies and the critical importance of reducing parental guilt. We discuss the multifaceted challenges of homeschooling and navigating the post-COVID landscape, emphasizing the need for recognizing individual progress and creating social opportunities that align with a child's unique interests.Building a strong parent-child connection is at the heart of our discussion. Andrea and I delve into the significance of self-regulation, realistic expectations, and the powerful impact of prioritizing support over punishment. With practical examples like the engaging game "Ready, Set, Go," we uncover effective ways to communicate and interact with children. We also tackle the delicate balance between discipline and support, offering constructive methods that both guide and uplift your child. This chapter is packed with actionable advice and relatable anecdotes that will resonate with any parent striving to create a nurturing environment for their autistic child.Our conversation also explores the evolving perspectives within the autistic community and the importance of listening to the diverse experiences of autistic individuals. Andrea emphasizes the need for parents to build their understanding and confidence, while also remaining open to new therapeutic approaches. We wrap up by highlighting the resources available through Autism Parent Solutions, including community support on Facebook and personalized coaching opportunities. If you're a parent looking to enhance your understanding and support for your autistic child, this episode is a treasure trove of information and encouragement. Tune in to discover how you can transform your parenting journey with confidence and compassion.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Get ready to unlock the secrets of family wellness with our special guest, Sharon Fillmore, known affectionately as the "Mary Poppins of family wellness." In this captivating episode, we explore Sharon's incredible journey from a registered nurse with over 45 years of experience to a dedicated family wellness expert. Sharon's passion for helping families thrive and her transformative insights on breaking the cycle of dysfunctional parenting will leave you inspired and eager to apply her wisdom to your own life.Discover the humor and heartache of raising kids, especially as they transition from young children to teenagers. Sharon shares practical tips on instilling life skills early, fostering independence, and reducing parental burden. You'll also learn invaluable self-care strategies for moms, such as taking short breaks, trading off childcare with friends, and practicing gratitude. Sharon's down-to-earth advice is designed to help you create a balanced, nurturing environment while maintaining your own well-being.As we continue our conversation, we delve into the power of compassion and connection in parenting. Sharon reflects on the profound impact of guiding children with understanding and emotional support, and how this approach can foster personal growth and behavioral change. She also opens up about her own journey of overcoming self-doubt and pursuing her dream of writing, sharing the joy of collaborating with her children on creative projects. Don't miss Sharon's generous offer of a free downloadable copy of her book and details on her coaching programs, all aimed at supporting your path to family wellness and personal growth.https://calendly.com/thevitallinkmentorSupport the Show.

Send us a Text Message.What if a simple thank you letter could change your life? Join us as we sit down with the award-winning author and filmmaker Carew Papritz to explore his remarkable journey from Hollywood's elite to the cowboy life in southern Arizona. Discover how Carew's diverse experiences with icons like Madonna and Marlon Brando have shaped his belief in the power of curiosity, kindness, and gratitude. From promoting literacy with National Thank You Letter Day to setting a Guinness World Record, Carew's initiatives are a testament to how small acts of kindness can ripple through communities and create lasting connections.We also dive into the transformative power of children's literature and the importance of engaging young minds with creative book readings. Carew's "I Love to Read" video series has captivated millions of young viewers by blending literature with imaginative settings like horseback rides and iconic landmarks. These compelling stories not only make reading an exciting adventure but also foster empathy, imagination, and a lifelong love for books in children. By contrasting the rich narratives found in traditional books with the often superficial content of social media, we highlight the enduring value of books in a child's development.Lastly, we uncover the profound impact of handwritten thank you letters, featuring heartfelt anecdotes and practical advice for parents. Learn about the world's largest handwritten thank you letter project involving hundreds of school children and how it led to the creation of National Thank You Letter Day. Discover simple tips for encouraging letter writing at home, and hear touching stories that illustrate the powerful connections forged through gratitude. This episode is a heartwarming reminder of the joy and community that can be built through small, thoughtful gestures.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Could raising a profoundly gifted autistic child change your perspective on parenting forever? Join us as Alena, a resilient mother of three, shares her remarkable journey of navigating life's transformations with authenticity and grace. We journey through the lush beauty of Sydney's Northern Beaches, drawing parallels between these scenic treasures and other iconic beaches worldwide. Alena's story is a testament to the power of showing up authentically and finding the right support systems to thrive as parents.Motherhood is a delicate balance of fostering independence while providing unwavering support. We explore the unique developmental needs of boys and girls and delve into the specific circumstances of raising a profoundly gifted autistic child. Reflecting on our past and future selves helps us address unresolved issues and fears with a fresh perspective, transforming our day-to-day experiences. Discover simple yet impactful tools that can help you create a nurturing environment for your children while also reparenting yourself.As we wrap up, we emphasize the importance of community and support for women, especially mothers. Learn about the "Unboxable" podcast and other supportive communities designed to offer guidance and tools for personal growth and resilience. Celebrating the power of connection, we stress the significance of asking for and accepting help, fostering an environment where women uplift and inspire each other. Tune in for an enriching discussion on motherhood, authenticity, and the strength of community.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered why mother-daughter relationships are so complex yet crucial for development? Join us for a thought-provoking conversation with Hilary Mae, a former family therapist who now dedicates her expertise to unraveling the intricate dynamics of these bonds. Hilary's journey from general family therapy to focusing exclusively on the mother-daughter connection is both inspiring and eye-opening. Through her professional experiences, she recognized a recurring disconnect between moms and their teenage daughters, compelling her to dive deeper into these unique relationships.Gain practical parenting tips as Hilary shares transformative advice for mothers navigating the turbulent tween years. Learn about the power of listening without unsolicited advice, a simple yet profound technique that fosters emotional awareness and strengthens bonds with 12-year-old daughters. Hilary also emphasizes the importance of teaching emotional literacy from a young age, offering insights on tools like books and flashcards that can empower children to safely express their feelings. By promoting independence and self-confidence, mothers can create a nurturing environment where daughters feel truly heard and understood.In addition, Hilary sheds light on the challenges faced by mothers who have lost their own mothers, providing strategies for honoring their legacy while breaking unhealthy patterns. Whether you're a biological mother or a stepmother, this episode offers valuable advice on building supportive relationships without overstepping boundaries. And for those moments when motherhood feels overwhelming, Hilary highlights the critical importance of accessing expert resources. Tune in to explore how intentionality, open communication, and a commitment to self-care can make all the difference in nurturing strong, healthy mother-daughter relationships.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Can dance transform a child's entire world beyond just physical fitness? Join us on this enlightening episode of the SJ Child Show, where we sit down with Terrell from Once Upon a Dance to uncover the myriad ways dance can enhance children's lives. From boosting brain and body coordination to enhancing social skills and mental health, Terrell shares her incredible journey from being a dance teacher to becoming an author, crafting interactive stories that get kids moving and thinking creatively. Her personal anecdotes reveal the profound impact of dance on confidence, creativity, and problem-solving abilities for both children and adults.Our conversation takes a deeper turn as Terrell reflects on her passion for dance and her commitment to giving back through her books. Inspired by her Peace Corps experience and a strong sense of service, Terrell describes how the COVID lockdown was the catalyst for creating the "Once Upon a Dance" series. With 20 books now in the "Dance It Out" collection and more technical guides for pre-professional dancers, each title is a testament to the universal and healing nature of dance. Learn about the self-taught skills and the collaborative efforts with illustrators that brought these stories to life, each one filled with whimsical illustrations and life lessons designed to inspire young dancers.Finally, we spotlight the importance of community support and advocate for the preservation of the arts in schools. Highlighting how essential it is to back local businesses and musicians, especially in terms of donations and writing reviews, Terrell emphasizes the neurological benefits of engaging children in creative activities. Hear our heartfelt appeal to parents to recognize and promote the arts in their children's education, ensuring that despite budget cuts, the transformative power of dance and creativity continues to flourish in future generations.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Prepare to transform your understanding of chiropractic care as we welcome Dr. Travis Arrington, a pioneering chiropractor with a remarkable journey from battling addiction to mastering brain-based treatments. Discover how Dr. Arrington, alongside his wife, a dedicated marriage and family therapist, combines mental and physical healthcare into a holistic approach that's changing lives. Learn about the neurological scans and home-based programs they use to enhance cognitive and motor skills, providing a comprehensive care plan that integrates seamlessly with mental health.Tonal chiropractic care could be the breakthrough you've been seeking for your child's behavioral challenges. Dr. Arrington explains how his specialized techniques help children transition from a state of stress and survival to one of growth and learning. Gain insights into how these methods can alleviate issues like Tourette's, bed-wetting, and hyperactivity by promoting a parasympathetic state. We emphasize the importance of family-wide support and nurturing environments in fostering a child's development, ultimately leading to a more harmonious home life.Explore the multi-faceted approach to child development that incorporates OT, speech therapy, and ABA, amplified by chiropractic care. Discover why early intervention is crucial and learn about valuable resources to support parents, including recommended readings and workshops. We also address the often-overlooked stress experienced by parents, especially mothers, and the impact of their well-being on the entire family dynamic. Don't miss the inspiring story behind the beautiful mural painted by Dr. Arrington's wife, symbolizing their dedication to their patients. Join us for an episode rich with insights and heartfelt moments that could be the key to unlocking your child's potential.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever wondered how the stories of our grandparents can shape our approach to modern parenting? Join us on the SJ Child Show as we sit down with Victoria, the Chief of Staff at Phoenix Hydrogen, who brings her expertise in renewable energy and a heartfelt commitment to coaching others through life's significant changes. We share personal anecdotes about the profound impact of mentors and the necessity of a tiered support system, specifically for parents raising children with unique challenges like autism. Listen in as we reminisce about our grandparents, highlighting the value of preserving their life stories and using them to process grief and celebrate life.Our conversation with Victoria also explores the evolving dynamics of leadership and parenting, emphasizing the importance of fostering autonomy and support. We delve into modern leadership styles that prioritize service and empathy, whether in the workplace or at home. Through relatable stories, we stress the value of allowing children the freedom to pursue their own interests and the vital role of modeling positive behavior. From my personal journey with my daughter Olive's type one diabetes diagnosis to the unique perspectives that neurodivergent individuals bring to the table, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of strength, resilience, and the power of community.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Ever felt the itch to pick up a pen or open a fresh document and pour your heart onto the page? This episode's conversation with Rochelle Melander will not only scratch that itch but offer a soothing balm for those struggling to find their creative flow amidst a world abuzz with distraction. We journey with Rochelle from her second-grade writing roots to her life as a coach and author, unpacking how simple practices like journaling and embracing Julia Cameron's morning pages can kickstart the writing process. For adults and children alike, especially those navigating the whirlpools of attention issues, Rochelle's insights stand as a lighthouse guiding us toward distraction-free time and the clarity that nature can bestow.The art of storytelling wields a beautiful power to foster empathy in young minds, a truth I've witnessed firsthand during my school visits and through projects like the "I Have a Dream" books. Rochelle and I share a belief in the profound impact of listening to and telling stories, recognizing that each stroke of a pen, each line of a drawing, even each ingredient in a recipe, can be a conduit for creativity and healing. Whether you're a budding author, a parent wanting to guide your child, or simply someone seeking to engage with the therapeutic potency of storytelling, this episode brims with wisdom and actionable advice that Rochelle Melander expertly lays out for you.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.When Matthew Zakreski, with his unique blend of ADHD and giftedness, sits down to share his story, the conversation inevitably turns into a masterclass on neurodiversity advocacy. From navigating personal challenges to championing inclusive workplace practices, his insights offer a beacon of hope for individuals and families alike. Our discussion with Matthew takes a deep and meaningful look at the evolving landscape of neurodiversity, emphasizing the critical roles that education, community support, and policy play in creating environments where everyone thrives.The journey of neurodiverse gifted children takes center stage as we explore the nuanced world of educational advocacy—a realm where giftedness is not just a blessing but a complex neurodivergence that demands recognition and tailored support. We traverse the history of this movement, from the tenacious mothers of the '60s to the robust networks that today champion the cause of these extraordinary children. Personal stories and expert insights merge, highlighting the indispensable need for specialized educational frameworks that can truly unlock the potential of twice-exceptional learners and address the systemic challenges they face.Our exchange culminates in a vision of transformed educational settings, where the diversity of minds is not just acknowledged but celebrated. We recognize that when the educational paradigm shifts to embrace individuality, all students benefit from a richer, more inclusive learning experience. The thoughtful conversation with Matthew serves as a clarion call to educators, parents, and policymakers: to champion the strengths and interests of each child, to cultivate a future poised for innovation, and to foster an academic world where every child's abilities are recognized and nurtured.Support the Show.

Send us a Text Message.Embark on a critical exploration of how individuals and students can successfully transition from high school to college, with Shellee Howard from College Ready guiding the way. You're promised a treasure trove of insights on early planning for college readiness, beginning as early as middle school — a strategic approach to choosing the ideal college environment, and the financial gymnastics of balancing savings and aid to sidestep debt. This episode is a navigational beacon for parents plotting their child's academic voyage and students setting sail toward their educational horizons.Steering through the currents of educational transitions need not be a solo journey. Our conversation charts a course through the choppy waters of guiding children and teens, with an emphasis on the power of open-ended questions and the critical juncture of the summer before ninth grade. Particularly for those youngsters who shy away from future-talk, we outline how to weave these pivotal discussions into the fabric of daily life. As they paddle through the grades, we highlight the landmarks for preparing a robust college application and nurturing a thriving student ready to conquer their next academic chapter.As the compass points towards college readiness and financial resources, we unveil the quest to help a million families send their children to dream colleges devoid of debt's shadow. Not only does this episode unpack how students can dazzle in the admissions arena, but it also casts a light on the treasure trove of scholarships—just last year, students snagged $23 million. Furthermore, we introduce empowering platforms like empowereducation.world and futurenow.com, equipping parents and students with the maps and tools necessary to navigate the educational odyssey with confidence and community support.Support the Show.