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Best podcasts about lindsey ellison

Latest podcast episodes about lindsey ellison

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast
High Conflict Divorce: MAGIC Words that Get You What you Want from a Narcissist

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2023 54:00


In this enchanting episode, we unlock the secrets of using "magic words" to navigate interactions with narcissists. Join us as we explore the fascinating world of communication techniques that can help you get what you want from a narcissistic personality. Today's episode offers a unique and powerful approach to communicating with a narcissist that enables you to protect your interests without conflict or drama! This strategy neutralizes combative and emotionally charged power struggles and inspires the narcissist to cooperate. (Get ready to take notes!)Special guest, Lindsey Ellison, is the author of Magic Words, a Relationship Coach and Founder of Start Over Coaching. As a result of struggling to communicate with her narcissist ex-spouse and support her clients to do the same with theirs, Lindsey brilliantly applied her experience from her previous marketing career to design a simple yet powerful 5 step strategy to get you what you want from a narcissist.More ways to connect with Lindsey: Website: https://lindseyellison.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindsey_ellison Podcast: https://lindseyellison.com/podcastJourney Beyond Divorce Resources mentioned in this episode: Join the Ultimate High Conflict Divorce Summit: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/summit2023

CEO Podcasts: CEO Chat Podcast + I AM CEO Podcast Powered by Blue 16 Media & CBNation.co
IAM1746 - Speaker and Relationship Coach Helps People Navigate Their Divorce or Break up

CEO Podcasts: CEO Chat Podcast + I AM CEO Podcast Powered by Blue 16 Media & CBNation.co

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2023 16:59


Why it was selected for "CBNation Architects": In this episode of the "I Am CEO" podcast, Gresham Harkless interviews Lindsey Ellison, a speaker and relationship coach who helps people navigate through divorce or break-ups.   Lindsey shares her expertise on the emotional and practical aspects of any relationship and the "messiness" of it. Her CEO Nugget about the importance of hiring the right people (including coaches) and finding the resource was why we saw how important it is for CBNation Architects. Check out one of our favorite CEO Hack's CEO Web Shop. Get your free audiobook and check out more of our favorite CEO Hacks HERE. I AM CEO Handbook Volume 3 is HERE and it's FREE. Get your copy here: http://cbnation.co/iamceo3. Get the 100+ things that you can learn from 1600 business podcasts we recorded. Hear Gresh's story, learn the 16 business pillars from the podcast, find out about CBNation Architects and why you might be one and so much more. Did we mention it was FREE? Download it today!   Previous Episode: https://iamceo.co/2019/11/23/iam467-speaker-and-relationship-coach-helps-people-navigate-their-divorce-or-break-up/

The Love Fix
Codependency, Love Addiction and Getting Out of the LaLa Love Cycle with Lindsey Ellison

The Love Fix

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2023 33:34


Sherry and Carla first start the show talking about the overuse of the word “narcissist” and then identify what hoovering is in breakups. They then welcome Lindsey Ellison, author, podcaster, and relationship coach who helps people discover their breakthrough after a breakup. Lindsey believes that all breakups and divorces are catalysts for self-discovery, and a gold mine awaits them when they are able to identify their destructive relationship patterns. She specializes in childhood trauma, codependency, and communicating with narcissists and high-conflict relationships.   Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching The Love Fix Relationship Quiz   Sherry Website | Sign up for your FREE strategy call for life coaching/psychotherapy with Sherry Sherry Gaba | Psychotherapist, Life Coach & Author | Join Sherry's Inner Circle for healing from Narcissistic Abuse, Codependency, and Love Addiction -($1 trial or 1/2 off 6 months free)   Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts  "I love Sherry and Carla and The Love Fix!”-  If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! Scroll down to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast.    Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp   Lindsey  Website | Blessons of a Break Up | Podcast   Sign up to be in TDR database: https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo   Today's episode is sponsored by Carla's book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry's book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love    Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.   What You'll Hear In This Episode: When you lean into healing and grieving during a breakup, the faster you focus on yourself and the less you worry about someone texting you. What is withdrawal in a relationship? Lindsey talks about having moderation around love. What does recovery look like for somebody who is a love addict? Lindsey talks about the three steps to a relationship: dating, courting, and committed. How dysfunction usually is learned from your family system growing up and typically way before we meet our romantic partner. Why does Lindsey think a breakup can be one of the best things to ever happen to someone? You can actually be a love-avoidant and a love addict in the same relationship. Lindsey talks about the “lala love” relationship dynamic. Why is no contact a great idea for any breakup, and what should you do if you have to have contact? More on Lindsey's work in surviving and thriving after a breakup, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence.   Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.  

Moms Moving On: Navigating Divorce, Single Motherhood & Co-Parenting.
Finding Magic After Divorce: How to Discover Your Breakthrough in Your Break-Up; with relationship coach Lindsey Ellison

Moms Moving On: Navigating Divorce, Single Motherhood & Co-Parenting.

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2022 41:23


Your breakup doesn't have to be a setback. This week relationship coach and author Lindsey Ellison joins Michelle Dempsey-Multack to discuss how you can find your magic and turn your breakup into your breakthrough. In this episode of Moms Moving On, Lindsey and Michelle discuss: Having empathy with boundaries Co-parenting with a high-conflict person Finding the root of your co-dependency and MUCH MORE! Lindsey Ellison is a breakup breakthrough coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. She is the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist and her latest book, Blessons of a Breakup. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken or on her website lindseyellison.com.  Follow Lindsey on Instagram: @lindsey_ellison To get an extra $100 when you sell your engagement ring to Worthy by going to https://worthy.com/moms Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

KAJ Studio Podcast
The secret formula for keeping your cool with difficult people

KAJ Studio Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2022 45:58


We discuss with Lindsey Ellison, Relationship Coach & Founder of Start Over Coaching on "The secret formula for keeping your cool with difficult people" We also talk to her about Trauma Triggers, what they are and how do one manage them? And lots more! Watch here: https://youtu.be/rlji1MJwtH4 Listen on top podcast platforms here: https://pod.link/thekajstudio For instant updates on Lives and episodes follow/subscribe to me here, on YouTube at https://bit.ly/3jm0q2N, or on my LinkedIn Page The KAJ Masterclass LIVE. And do tell a few friends if you can! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kaj-studio/message

Emerge. Evolve. Lead.
Admitting Love Addiction with Lindsey Ellison

Emerge. Evolve. Lead.

Play Episode Play 58 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 13, 2022 41:36


My guest this week is Lindsey Ellison. Lindsey is a relationship coach, who helps people discover their breakthroughs in their breakup. Her breakups were a catalyst for self-discovery and with insightful reflection, she identified her own destructive relationship patterns. She had a co-dependency relapse and came to surrender in a whole new way to reach the freedom she now has. She learned that the love addict's greatest fear is that of abandonment with an underlying fear of intimacy. Lindsey believes that all breakups (and divorces) are a catalyst for self-discovery. She specializes in childhood trauma, codependency, communicating with narcissists, and high conflict relationships. Lindsey is an international best seller of her book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist, TEDx speaker, and also host of her highly-rated podcast, Unbreakable You: Break up Without Being Broken.If you want to learn how to spot a narcissist then you've go to listen to this episode. www.lindseyellison.com - Get your free copy of Blessons of a Breakuphttps://www.facebook.com/ThriveWithLindseywww.linkedin.com/in/lindsey-ellison-8884643Podcast Promo: Unbreakable You: Break up without being brokenBook: MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist *************************************************************************Ready to make changes in your career and personal life? Learn more about Recovery@Work, by clicking HERE.Thank you for listening and being a part of a supportive community to help people with solid recovery step into leadership. If you liked this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the show HERE through Apple Podcasts, or HERE if you're an Android user, and help us spread the word about this inspiring free content. Take the Quiz HERE to find out what animal best represents your leadership style and get on the mailing list so you don't miss a single episode. Check out our FREE resources at: Emerge Leadership Academy  Do you manage a team and would like to see lest turnover, more cooperation and higher levels of productivity? Schedule a free consultation with me today to discuss team training: https://Maureenrg.youcanbook.me Connect with me here on LinkedIn

The Divorced Dadvocate
#102 - The MAGIC Formula For Co-Parenting With A Narcissist

The Divorced Dadvocate

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 59:55


This is a must listen if you are a co-parenting with a narcissistic ex. Lindsey Ellison, founder of Start Over Coaching, joins Jude to share the secret from her book MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From A Narcissist.Lindsey's Website: https://lindseyellison.com/Lindsey's Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/315947Lindsey's Book: https://www.amazon.com/MAGIC-Words-What-Want-Narcissist/dp/1989161480/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1544116773&sr=8-1&keywords=magic+words+lindsey+ellisonLindsey's Podcast Episode "How To Think Like A Narcissist (Without Being One)" - https://www.buzzsprout.com/315947/10375108-how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-without-being-oneHow Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - Click Here*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce - Download HereFREE No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule hereFREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - Join HereThe Divorced Dadvocate WebsiteThe Divorced Dadvocate YouTube ChannelThe Divorced Dadvocate PodcastThe Divorced Dadvocate Facebook GroupMusic Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil ThemeSupport the show

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast
High Conflict: How to Communicate To Get What You Want from a Narcissist

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 55:40


As we began discussing in our last episode, communicating with a high conflict personality (HCP) is often frustrating and fruitless, and leaves us feeling angry, exhausted and unheard.   Today's episode offers a unique and powerful approach to communicating with a narcissist that enables you to protect your interests without conflict or drama! This strategy neutralizes combative and emotionally charged power struggles and inspires the narcissist to cooperate. (Get ready to take notes!)   Special guest Lindsey Ellison, is the author of Magic Words, a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching.  As a result of struggling to communicate with her narcissist ex-spouse and support her clients to do the same with theirs, Lindsey brilliantly applied her experience from her previous marketing career to design a simple yet powerful 5 step strategy to get you what you want from a narcissist.    Need support? Request a Free Rapid Relief Call at  www.rapidreliefcall.com For more information on Journey Beyond Divorce visit:  www.jbddivorcesupport.com

Teach Me How To Adult
Teach Me How To Get Through A Breakup, with Relationship Coach Lindsey Ellison

Teach Me How To Adult

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 44:37


If you're fresh out of a breakup and are feeling alllll of the feels, this one's for you. Navigating a breakup is never easy, but you're far from alone. A study last year showed 25% of Canadians between the ages of 18-24 split up during the pandemic, and 5 million Canadians have experienced a recent breakup. Experts say it can take 6-8 weeks to get over the initial intensity of heartbreak, but with a lack of access during lockdowns to the normal stuff we do to get over our exes, and an ongoing mental health crisis, the “getting over it” part has been hard lately. That leaves us with the inner work we have to do: Finding out who we are again, rewriting our narratives, filling that void, and loving ourselves first. We called in breakup expert Lindsey Ellison to help us fall in love with our life again and manifest the dream partner that we deserve. Because when you can feel happy on your own, you're raising the bar for the next partner you bring into your life.Lindsey is a relationship coach who helps people navigate breakups or divorce. She's the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist, and host of the popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken.Listen to our chat to learn more about:Gill's biggest advice for navigating a breakupHow to know when it's time to leave a relationshipThe best way to heal and change your mindset after a breakupHow the type of breakup you're going through affects your recovery time/processTips for getting over trust issuesManaging triggers and relationship remindersHow to avoid becoming jaded or cynical about loveBuilding up your confidence after heartbreak​​We hope this episode helps you get through the tough moments, and inspires you to start putting your needs first.For show notes and more adulting tips, visit: teachmehowtoadult.ca Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow Lindsey:https://lindseyellison.com/@lindsey_ellisonFollow us on the ‘gram:instagram.com/teachmehowtoadultpodcast Follow Gillian:@yunggillianaireFollow Cailyn:@cailynmichaan

Doing Divorce Right (or Avoiding it Altogether).
If There's DRAMA, You Have TRAUMA: What Your Relationship Is Telling You About Your Childhood With Breakup Coach, Lindsey Ellison

Doing Divorce Right (or Avoiding it Altogether).

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 52:57


It's difficult living with known traumas, going through them every single day, and trying to heal from them. How much more when you have to go through your life with unidentified trauma?   In this episode, we're going deep into childhood traumas and how it affects your relationships with our guest, Lindsey Ellison. She is an author, speaker, relationship coach, and fellow podcaster… yey! We talk about childhood trauma, how it manifests in your relationships, how you can address it, and how you can finally heal from it.   Lindsey Ellison is an author, a relationship coach, and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc. She specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, navigate their divorce or break-up, and find happiness and peace.   Originally stemming from her own personal experiences, Lindsey's mission is to inspire you to make those amazing changes in your life to help you start over and find happiness. She takes you from victim to victor.   Reach out to Lindsey at: Website: https://lindseyellison.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/ThriveWithLindsey/ Twitter:https://twitter.com/startovercoach IG: https://www.instagram.com/lindsey_ellison/   Access her online course: https://breakfreefromyournarcissist.com/   Get her book at: https://www.amazon.com/Lindsey-Ellison/e/B07KYVWPHS     Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast     Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!     You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.     Show notes: [2:11] More about Lindsey [13:11] What exactly is childhood trauma? [16:30] What to do when you have childhood trauma [21:51] Hypervigilance [25:18] Look at the behavior [26:40] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [28:52] Hyper parenting and co-dependency [36:11] Nascent reasoning [42:42] Childhood trauma and relationships [46:56] Love avoidants and love addicts

The Divorced Woman's Guide Podcast
Blessings of a Breakup with Lindsey Ellison

The Divorced Woman's Guide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 37:56


As an author, coach and expert on relationships, Lindsey Ellison went through 2020 with so much devastation and felt like dying from grief, self-doubt and shame. She never felt so heartbroken and like a fraud should she be "exposed" that her second marriage has failed.⁠ Today she comes back stronger, wiser and happier with a book full of blessings.  

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Blessons of a Breakup with Lindsey Ellison

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2021 52:03


Lindsey Ellison returns to the show this week. You know her as the author of MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From a Narcissist. She has a new book out called Blessons of a Breakup. In this episode, both Lindsey and I share some of our unique experiences with healing from trauma, codependency, or co-addictive relationships. We also explore love addiction and being love avoidant, including what it is, and how it manifests. For those of you new to Lindsey, she is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc. She helps people navigate their divorce or break-up and also helps people break free from narcissistic abuse.  Our conversation was healing and beautiful for me; I hope it is for you as well.  Show Highlights Lindsey shares a personal story of resurfaced codependency and the emotional triggers that manifested. (5:23) What Lindsey learned at The Meadows and how it informed her choice to break up with someone she truly loved due to their copendendent and co-addictive relationship. (11:00) Being unprepared for the pain of a breakup and in deep pain of grief. (14:32) Love addiction: what it is and how it shows up in relationships. (15:39) A love addict's greatest fear is abandonment and an underlying fear of intimacy. (18:03) Love addiction versus love avoidance. (18:38) Why Lindsey says the spiritual process matters to the healing of a broken heart. (32:11) “Our ego is the CEO of all things from the past. Our spirit is only right now.” (41:38) Why Lindsey wrote her book Blessons of a Breakup. (42:44) Learn more about Lindsey: Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc. She helps people navigate their divorce or break-up and also helps people break free from narcissistic abuse. Her newest book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist, offers a step-by-step formula on how to create a communication plan and provides a script of empowering “magic” words that can neutralize the power struggle.    Resources & Links:Resources can also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/blessons-of-a-breakup-with-lindsey-ellison Private Coaching with Kate Anthony Lindsey's websiteLindsey on Facebook Lindsey on Twitter Lindsey on YouTube

The Terri Cole Show
359 Lindsey Ellison - Negotiating with Narcissists

The Terri Cole Show

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2021 32:07


Today I'm interviewing Lindsey Ellison, a breakup breakthrough coach, author of two books, and podcaster. She gives us some advice about all things narcissist and how to break up without being broken. Plus, she shares her personal experience with discovering her own higher power helped her stop treating a codependent relationship as one. Find the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/359

Toxic To Triumph With Matthew Phifer
Divorcing a Narcissist with Guest Lindsey Ellison

Toxic To Triumph With Matthew Phifer

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 47:18


In this episode, we are going to hear the story of Lindsey Ellison a divorce coach and content creator. Lindsey teaches men and women how to move their life forward after dealing with the experiences of narcissistic abuse. To work with Matthew: www.mattphifercoaching.com To work with Lindsey: https://lindseyellison.com/

The Dr. Kinney Show
33: Find Your Healing Journey After a Breakup or Divorce with Lindsey Ellison

The Dr. Kinney Show

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2021 42:45


Many of us have been through a breakup or a divorce…   They can be both emotionally and physically tolling, but have you ever thought about the transformation that you go through because of it?   I am glad to be joined by Lindsey Ellison in this episode to chat about the effect of relationships on our emotional body and our physical body, and how all of this comes into play when we are trying to go through any sort of healing journey.   Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. Lindsey also specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the best-selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken, or on her website lindseyellison.com.    I'm so glad to have her on the show because she has personally helped me so much during a major transition in my life, and her perspective and advice are so helpful.   Listen in for a really eye-opening and important conversation about healing after a relationship has ended!   Resources Mentioned:  https://lindseyellison.com/ https://lindseyellison.com/podcast/ https://www.instagram.com/lindsey_ellison/   I would love to connect on Facebook or Instagram! Show notes available at www.drerinkinney.com/33

RNZ: Country Life
Learning on the land

RNZ: Country Life

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2021 20:28


A circle of log seats placed around a fire will be one of the outdoor classrooms when the Motueka Steiner School moves onto its new farm campus in May. The school bought the 14 hectare block on the outskirts of town a decade ago but it took years of planning before work could begin.

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
ERP 250: How to Use the Blueprint of Pain for Healing and Growth with Lindsey Ellison

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2021 53:59


In today’s episode, I’m joined by Lindsey Ellison, and we discuss the ways we cope with trauma and pain. We all have pain points, and it is important to understand the origins of our pain points and why we are addicted to the pain itself. She talks about her personal battle with alcoholism, why she had a breakdown, and how she decided to take the next treatment step. Lindsey speaks about her journey with deep trauma work, her experience with relationship death, and how she previously diminished her pain. Trauma+fear+wounds=addiction is the formula that we are often working with. Lindsey helps us understand how this process plays out in our lives. Our fear and trauma fuel our addictions without even being aware of their presence. Listen in to learn about why it is critical to look closely and deeply at our pain and what it is teaching us about our underlying needs, our inner-child work, and our unresolved trauma.  (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories, and examples.)   Bio:  Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. Lindsey also specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken.    In this episode, Lindsey and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss:  Why we are addicted to the pain in our relationship How we form habits to deal with the source of our pain The factors of co-dependency and how this affects who you are How Lindsey created her blueprint of pain The role of defense mechanisms in adulthood How our trauma feeds into the fear cycle The adult child and how we use habits to maintain our fear and trauma What Lindsey learned around her deeper need for trauma and fear How to manage the pain of your inner child daily Triggers and why we need to avoid them Why we need to give attention to, not judge, our wounds How the little “t’s” affect your emotional health over time The process of finding out the “I am nots” and how to overcome these false beliefs and triggers   Mentioned:   Hold Me Tight the book   Hold Me Tight Workshop   Connect with Lindsey Ellisen   Magic Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist    Lindsey Ellisen on the web Magic Words workbook   Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins:   Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts  Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com Get access to my new group coaching starting in January. Sign up today! If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me.

Surviving to Thriving
The Impact of Childhood Trauma and Domestic Abuse with Kate Anthony (Part4)

Surviving to Thriving

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 22:24


 “Our responsibility is to recognize the toxic pattern in ourselves so we can heal the trauma.” This episode is part 4 of my conversation with Kate Anthony, an expert in communication, co-parenting, divorce, and emotional intelligence. She is passionate about helping other women to survive from the coercive control of abusive relationships and domestic violence.  If you weren't able to follow this episode, please go back and listen to parts 1 to 3.  Join us in part four of this interview as Kate talks about the responsibility to heal ourselves and more about her programs,  [00:01 – 07:19] The Responsibility to Heal as the Victims of Domestic Violence  Kate talks about the spectrum of domestic violence victims and the responsibility of showing up in it. Our responsibility is to recognize the toxic pattern in ourselves so we can heal the trauma. Kate talks about how the pattern is affecting the statistics of marriage and divorce. Being a victim is real. But you still hold responsibility for your healing and growth, so then we can choose better. Kate shares the story of how she got molested when she was eight years old by a stranger. Get your power by recognizing your responsibility so you can work to change it. [07:20 – 14:19] Should I Stay or Should I Go. Kate talks about her program's main modules; https://www.kateanthony.com/stay-or-go-group (Should I stay or should I go). Self- work; understanding codependency patterns and habits. Abuse education; mapping your pattern Interpersonal; Communication style and healthy relationship. Kate talks about https://www.gottman.com/ (John Gottmans)' relationship advice.  It's all about repairing, not just avoiding the fight in a relationship. Her first task is to get people to be open and get outside of their jar. [14:20 – 22:24] Closing Segments What are you working on now, and what are your year-long goals? Launch an upcoming new program in January  Launch a new program called the divorce course. Release her book What would the new you say to the old you? Trust in yourself; we all have a voice inside that tells us when something goes wrong. What is something that you would recommend to get someone through a tough situation? Be active in your healing journey and get into coaching or therapy. Find a coach or a therapist who has the advanced certification or specified in the particular issue that you need to overcome. Kate's podcast and book recommendation. https://www.kateanthony.com/podcast-1 (Divorce Survival Guide Podcast By Kate Anthony ) https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 (Attached by Amir Levine ) https://www.amazon.com/MAGIC-Words-What-Want-Narcissist-ebook/dp/B07L465JK8 (MAGIC words by Lindsey Ellison) https://www.amazon.com/BIFF-Responses-Conflict-Personal-Meltdowns/dp/1936268353 (BIFF by Bill Eddy ) Connect with Kate online! See the links below. Final words from me. Tweetable Quotes:  “Our responsibility is to recognize the toxic pattern in ourselves so we can heal the trauma.” - Kate Anthony. “Get your power by recognizing your responsibility so you can work to change it. ” - Kate Anthony. “Trust in yourself and your intuition; we all have a voice inside that tells us when something goes wrong.” - Kate Anthony. Find out more about Kate by visiting herhttps://www.kateanthony.com/ ( website), and you can connect with her through social media like https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcesurvivalguide/ (Instagram )and https://www.facebook.com/groups/shouldistayorshouldigo/ (Facebook).  Surviving to Thriving is brought to you by Knight Protection Services. A veteran-owned and operated company, Knight Protection Services employs a diverse group of former law enforcement officers and military veterans of the highest integrity, with extensive experience in risk assessment and crime prevention. Find out more by...

Thriving In Chaos with Paulette Gloria Rigo
Ep. 67 Lindsey Ellison: MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist (and how to understand them too!)

Thriving In Chaos with Paulette Gloria Rigo

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2020 51:09


Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people wake up from their break up. She is also the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken, or on her website lindseyellison.com. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thriving-in-chaos/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thriving-in-chaos/support

Divorce Source Radio
High Conflict Divorce: MAGIC Words that Get You What you Want from a Narcissist

Divorce Source Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2020 53:48


As we began discussing in our last episode, communicating with a high conflict personality (HCP) is often frustrating and fruitless, and leaves us feeling angry, exhausted and unheard.   Today’s episode offers a unique and powerful approach to communicating with a narcissist that enables you to protect your interests without conflict or drama! This strategy neutralizes combative and emotionally charged power struggles and inspires the narcissist to cooperate. (Get ready to take notes!)   Special guest Lindsey Ellison, is the author of Magic Words, a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching.  As a result of struggling to communicate with her narcissist ex-spouse and support her clients to do the same with theirs, Lindsey brilliantly applied her experience from her previous marketing career to design a simple yet powerful 5 step strategy to get you what you want from a narcissist.    Need support? Request a Free Rapid Relief Call at  www.rapidreliefcall.com For more information on Journey Beyond Divorce visit:  www.jbddivorcesupport.com

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast
High Conflict Divorce: MAGIC Words that Get You What you Want from a Narcissist

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2020 53:48


As we began discussing in our last episode, communicating with a high conflict personality (HCP) is often frustrating and fruitless, and leaves us feeling angry, exhausted and unheard.   Today’s episode offers a unique and powerful approach to communicating with a narcissist that enables you to protect your interests without conflict or drama! This strategy neutralizes combative and emotionally charged power struggles and inspires the narcissist to cooperate. (Get ready to take notes!)   Special guest Lindsey Ellison, is the author of Magic Words, a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching.  As a result of struggling to communicate with her narcissist ex-spouse and support her clients to do the same with theirs, Lindsey brilliantly applied her experience from her previous marketing career to design a simple yet powerful 5 step strategy to get you what you want from a narcissist.    Need support? Request a Free Rapid Relief Call at  www.rapidreliefcall.com For more information on Journey Beyond Divorce visit:  www.jbddivorcesupport.com

Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast
Magic Words: How to Get What You Want From a Narcissist with Guest Lindsey Ellison on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #214

Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2020 35:52


Feeling frustrated when trying to communicate with that narcissist in your life?   Do they leave you feeling frozen or paralyzed with what to say?  This week, Rebecca speaks with Lindsey Ellison, author of the book, Magic Words: How to Get What You Want From a Narcissist, is here to give you tips and tricks on what to say and how to respond when you are feeling beaten down, used and abused.   Her approach is in a business like format and is direct and to the point.  If you are looking for those magic words and phrases to disarm that narcissist, communicate with a narcissist, deal with or outsmart that pesky narcissist in your life, take a listen to this episode.     GRAB YOUR COPY OF LINDSEY'S BOOK, MAGIC WORDS: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT FROM A NARCISSIST RIGHT HERE.   Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. Lindsey also specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken or on her website lindseyellison.com.    _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   For more information from our Sponsor BetterHelp.com Online Counseling, offering convenient and private online access to licensed therapists from the comfort of your own home, visit www.betterhelp.com/breakingfree  Listeners of the podcast will receive 10% off on their first month of counseling with discount code "BREAKINGFREE"! _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE!  SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE.  HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca'a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE!  To get your copy of Rebecca's bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.      Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on "How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality" and "Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps".   _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com ........................................................................................................................ Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Instagram Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show - your feedback really matters  DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

The Heidi B Show
Lindsey Ellison talks Narcissism

The Heidi B Show

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 48:17


Lindsey Ellison is the founder and CEO of Start Over Coaching.  She is the host of the Unbreakable You Podcast. Her book, Magic Words: How to Get What You Want From a Narcissist is an amazon bestseller and is #1 on Audible.  Lindsey and I talk about what differentiates the behavior of someone who is an actual narcissist from someone who has narcissistic tendencies.  We also discuss the flip side of the narcissistic relationship, the codependent who loves the narcissist.   Lindsey walked me through it all; because she's been through it all.  You won't want to miss this one! IG: @Lindsey_ellison Web: https://lindseyellison.com/

Husband In Law
41: Narcissism With Lindsey Ellison - Part 2

Husband In Law

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2020 36:38


In this episode, Matt, Steve, and Jessica will share the second part of their conversation with Lindsey Ellison, a speaker, writer, and relationship expert whose main expertise comes from her experiences and studies dealing with narcissists. Lindsey specializes in narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the bestselling book, “MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist.” She comes on to share her inspiring story from growing up with a narcissist father, being married to a covert narcissist, being divorced and single at 35, dating a psychopathic narcissist, and grappling with an identity crisis, to discovering what narcissism is, and starting to help people understand it. She will also discuss her step-by-step formula for creating a communication plan and script of empowering magic words that can help neutralize the power struggle that one has when they are co-parenting with a narcissist, and detail exactly what to do, how to do it, and why it works. If you listened to part one then you definitely won’t wanna this one. And if you haven’t listened to part one then you should go back and have listen before you jump onto this one. Either way, you’ll wanna stay tuned. Highlights of the discussion: Being clueless about unconditional love and how narcissistic parents affect their children (00:53)Creating drama in her life so that she could get attention from her dad (06:14)The only way a narcissist can make things work in a codependent relationship (08:50)A classic narcissist move to identify one even when they seem to be a great guy (13:46)Teaching teenagers the consequences of narcissism to nip it in the bud (18:10)How narcissists get their supply from their own kids (20:01)The importance of teaching our children boundaries and to be okay with the consequences of the boundaries (24:01)It’s alway either outsmarting them or neutralizing the power struggle (25:44)A dysfunctional relationship is when someone doesn't respect your boundaries (30:40)Additional Resources:Magic Words By Lindsey EllisonUnbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken Podcastwww.LindseyEllison.com/Lindsey on Instagramwww.Linktr.ee/TheBoldLogic--Be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook!--You can find the podcast on Apple, Google, Spotify, Stitcher, or wherever you listen to podcasts.If you haven’t already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

SISTERHOOD OF SWEAT - Motivation, Inspiration, Health, Wealth, Fitness, Authenticity, Confidence and Empowerment
Ep 173: Are You In Love With A Beautiful Narcissist? with Lindsey Ellison

SISTERHOOD OF SWEAT - Motivation, Inspiration, Health, Wealth, Fitness, Authenticity, Confidence and Empowerment

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2020 75:01


Have you ever been in a bad relationship?  Have you been worried that you’re in love with a narcissist?  In this episode, we discuss how to spot narcissists, and how to deal with narcissists in our lives, and how to leave your narcissist relationship behind. In this episode, I talk with Lindsey Ellison, Relationship coach and founder of Start Over. Find Happiness, a coaching practice that helps women navigate through their divorce or breakups, joins us to discuss her personal journey, how she left her marriage because she realized something was wrong, and her journey to become the relationship coach and expert she is today. We discuss how to spot a narcissist, how to get out of an unhealthy relationship, and even how to get into a new healthy relationship. So much value in this show! Questions I asked: What really is a Narcissist? What is gaslighting and how can we protect ourselves from it? Do gaslighters and narcissists believe their own stories? How did you leave your relationship? Why is a narcissist threatened by someone being who they are? What are some tools for someone to survive a narcissist? How to explain why you’re leaving a narcissist? How do you avoid getting into another bad relationship? Is there any hope for a narcissist to change?   Topics Discussed: How to know when someone is a narcissist. How to live and work with a narcissist. Leaving an unhealthy relationship. How to protect from gaslighting. The subtle abuse from a narcissist. How to notice the red flags early on. How to get your power back. Knowing who you are. The importance of meditation and getting help. Parenting with a narcissist. Quotes from the show: “Narcissists are a master of manipulating.” @startovercoach @SisterhoodSweat “Self-love is kryptonite for narcissists.” @startovercoach @SisterhoodSweat “It was just reprogram my brain like “I can do this”.” @ startovercoach @SisterhoodSweat “Just remember who you are.” @startovercoach @SisterhoodSweat “A true narcissist cannot tap into any pain.” @startovercoach @SisterhoodSweat   How you can stay in touch with Lindsey Ellison: https://lindseyellison.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ThriveWithLindsey/ https://www.instagram.com/lindsey_ellison/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDQRnkwWkOxZcTNbSEx_q8w https://www.pinterest.com/lindsey_ellison/ https://twitter.com/startovercoach Grab her book: to/2DbdBiV Listen to the podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unbreakable-you-breakup-without-being-broken/id1464567583 How you can stay in touch with Linda: Website Facebook Twitter Instagram Pinterest YouTube SoundCloud   "Proud Sponsors of the Sisterhood of S.W.E.A.T"   Essential Formulas   My daily energy stems from mushrooms... mushroom coffee that is! Have you checked out Four Sigmatic yet? If you want a coffee that contains superfoods and adaptogens like rhodiola, eleuthero, and schisandra to help you live a healthier, more enhanced life, then you need Four Sigmatic mushroom coffee in your daily routine! Check out their products here and be sure to let me know what you think of it!    

Husband In Law
40: Narcissism with Lindsey Ellison - Part 1

Husband In Law

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 36:14


In this episode, Matt, Steve, and Jessica will have a conversation with Lindsey Ellison, a speaker, writer, and relationship expert whose main expertise comes from her experiences and studies dealing with narcissists. Lindsey specializes in narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the bestselling book, “MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist.” She comes on to share her inspiring story from being married to a covert narcissist, being divorced and single at 35, dating a psychopathic narcissist, and grappling with an identity crisis, to discovering what narcissism is, and starting to help people understand it, so they can stop being victims and take charge of their own lives. She will also discuss her step-by-step formula for creating a communication plan and script of empowering magic words that can help neutralize the power struggle that one has when they are co-parenting with a narcissist, and detail exactly what to do, how to do it, and why it works. If there has ever been a resourceful episode not to miss, it’s this one. So stay tuned. Highlights of the discussion: Lindsey amazing backstory and her experience being with a narcissist (03:43)How she became a narcissism expert and found out that her ex-husband was a covert narcissist (06:27)Helping people understand narcissism and how skilled narcissists are at making their partners feel crazy (08:14)Levels of narcissism and the physical, financial and emotional abuse that comes with each (09:51)Boundaries are kryptonite to narcissists (15:44)The real tragedy of the narcissism disorder (19:22)Matt’s classic parental alienation experience with his ex (23:34)The work you have to do on yourself is to not be afraid of them (27:06)We attract our partners who reflect the parent that wounded us the most (32:11)Additional Resources:Magic Words By Lindsey EllisonUnbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken Podcastwww.LindseyEllison.com/Lindsey on Instagramwww.Linktr.ee/TheBoldLogic--Be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook!--You can find the podcast on Apple, Google, Spotify, Stitcher, or wherever you listen to podcasts.If you haven’t already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

Doing Divorce Right (or Avoiding it Altogether).
How to Co-Parent with a Narcissist with Lindsey Ellison

Doing Divorce Right (or Avoiding it Altogether).

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2020 51:14


Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. Lindsey also specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken or on her website lindseyellison.com.    Today we’re chatting about:  How Lindsey has dealt with Narcissism in her life. How to spot a Narcissist. How to break the Narcissist pattern in your life. Advice for co-parenting with a Narcissist. Who Narcissists really are, the truth.     Connect with Lindsey:  Website: https://lindseyellison.com/ Podcast: https://lindseyellison.com/podcast/ https://www.amazon.com/MAGIC-Words-What-Want-Narcissist-ebook/dp/B07L465JK8              Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.   

The Divorce and Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.
"MAGIC Words to Get What You Want from a Narcissist with Best-Selling Author, Lindsey Ellison" Part Two of a Special Two-Part Episode on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq. #111

The Divorce and Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 31:24


In Part Two of this very special Two-Part episode, Susan Guthrie, top family law attorney and mediator, and the former host of Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast, continues her talk with Author and Coach, Lindsey Ellison about her Best-Selling Book, "Magic Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist" which lays out a simple and effective program for managing your relationship with your high-conflict ex!  If you haven't listened to Part One of this Two-Part episode, you can take a listen here:  Part One of "Magic Words for Getting What You Want from a Narcissist with Best-Selling Author, Lindsey Ellison." Divorcing a narcissist is hard but co-parenting with one after divorce can feel impossible!  Author, speaker and coach, Lindsey Ellison went through the crazy-making process herself and struggled for years to try and co-parent with her narcissistic ex until she couldn't take it anymore.  She sat down and using her impressive research skills, she plotted the path to success in dealing with and managing the narcissist in your life.  Luckily, she shared her formula, in a basic and easily digestible format in her best-selling book, "Magic Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist" and she shares the details with us in these two episodes.  Her MAGIC words have worked for her and they will work for you so be sure to listen and get what you want from your narcissist!  Lindsey told you her story in Part One and shared the first two steps in her Magic Formula for getting what you want from a Narcissist.  Get ready to take notes on the final three steps and get out of that constant conflict cycle with your ex and find your freedom.  All you need to know is here in these episodes! Highlights from Part Two:  What emotion is a Narcissist's driving force and how can you use that knowledge to help you manage them? Why does your narcissistic ex blow up your phone and what can you do about it? What are Lindsey's favorite "magic words" and what is the best way to use them? What are the best words to use when you want something from your narcissist? How do you hit the reset button on your relationship with your ex and move forward in a better way? About Today's Guest: Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. Lindsey also specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken or on her website lindseyellison.com.  SPECIAL OFFER:  To get Lindsey's special offer for listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, "The Magic Words Downloadable Workbook" please click here.  The workbook is designed to help you to go through the Mapping Their Persona exercise and the Assessing Their Fears and Insecurities exercise from Lindsey's book so be sure to download your copy today! ******************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes.  Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform.  Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   HELLO DIVORCE: Hello Divorce is a first-of-it's-kind DIY divorce website that allows individuals in California to complete the necessary forms for divorce as well as provides invaluable help with informative videos, articles, affordable legal advice and services all in an online platform and easy to use app!  Listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast can use the discount code "DIVORCEBEYOND" to receive $50 off the cost of any service or subscription!  Find out more at www.hellodivorce.com.   LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE:  As one of the leading online mediation experts in the country, Susan Guthrie has created a simple and efficient online training program that allows mediation professionals to quickly and easily add an online platform to their practice!  The two hour online program covers the basics of conducting mediations through an online platform like Zoom, and reviews the ethical and practical considerations that arise in this format.  You even receive a copy of, and the right to use, Susan's Online Mediation Guidelines and Ground Rules to make your online mediations even easier for mediator and clients alike!  Learn more at www.learntomediateonline.com or reach out to Susan directly at susan@learntomediateonline.com.  Listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast receive $50 off the cost of the one-on-one training so be sure to mention that you heard about it here! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook Susan on Instagram Susan on Twitter Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel!  Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

The Big Talk with Tricia Brouk
Aligning Your Internal & External Voice - Lindsey Ellison

The Big Talk with Tricia Brouk

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 29:07


Do you struggle with developing your authentic voice? If so, you are in good company. Today's guest shares her journey of going through a divorce that helped her begin aligning her external and internal voices. You will be inspired to step into your authentic calling and begin speaking your truth.

The Divorce and Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.
"MAGIC Words to Get What You Want from a Narcissist with Best-Selling Author, Lindsey Ellison" Part One of a Special Two-Part Episode on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq. #110

The Divorce and Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2020 34:37


In Part One of this very special Two-Part episode, Susan Guthrie, top family law attorney and mediator, and the former host of Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast, chats with Author and Coach, Lindsey Ellison about her Best-Selling Book, "Magic Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist" which lays out a simple and effective program for managing your relationship with your high-conflict ex!  Lindsey has lived the nightmare herself and her formula is so important that we had to make this a special two-parter so that we could share it all in detail with you! Divorcing a narcissist is hard but co-parenting with one after divorce can feel impossible!  Author, speaker and coach, Lindsey Ellison went through the crazy-making process herself and struggled for years to try and co-parent with her narcissistic ex until she couldn't take it anymore.  She sat down and using her impressive research skills, she plotted the path to success in dealing with and managing the narcissist in your life.  Luckily, she shared her formula, in a basic and easily digestible format in her best-selling book, "Magic Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist" and she shares the details with us in these two episodes.  Her MAGIC words have worked for her and they will work for you so be sure to listen and get what you want from your narcissist! Highlights from Part One: Lindsey tells the story of her journey through marriage, divorce and co-parenting with a narcissist and how her Magic formula has helped her to break the conflict cycle with her ex. Find out what Lindsey calls Kryptonite for Narcissists and how to use this information to get out of the tornado of dealing with your Narcissist. What are the most common issues that arise when co-parenting with a Narcissist? How does codependency mix with Narcissism and how can you get off the hamster wheel of conflict? How do Narcissist's view their children and how does that affect the co-parenting paradigm? About Today's Guest: Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc., a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. Lindsey also specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, and is the author of the best selling book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist. You can find Lindsey on her popular podcast, Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken or on her website lindseyellison.com.  SPECIAL OFFER:  To get Lindsey's special offer for listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, "The Magic Words Downloadable Workbook" please click here! The workbook is designed to help you to go through the Mapping Their Persona exercise and the Assessing Their Fears and Insecurities exercise from Lindsey's book so be sure to download your copy today! ******************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes.  Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform.  Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   HELLO DIVORCE: Hello Divorce is a first-of-it's-kind DIY divorce website that allows individuals in California to complete the necessary forms for divorce as well as provides invaluable help with informative videos, articles, affordable legal advice and services all in an online platform and easy to use app!  Listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast can use the discount code "DIVORCEBEYOND" to receive $50 off the cost of any service or subscription!  Find out more at www.hellodivorce.com.   LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE:  As one of the leading online mediation experts in the country, Susan Guthrie has created a simple and efficient online training program that allows mediation professionals to quickly and easily add an online platform to their practice!  The two hour online program covers the basics of conducting mediations through an online platform like Zoom, and reviews the ethical and practical considerations that arise in this format.  You even receive a copy of, and the right to use, Susan's Online Mediation Guidelines and Ground Rules to make your online mediations even easier for mediator and clients alike!  Learn more at www.learntomediateonline.com or reach out to Susan directly at susan@learntomediateonline.com.  Listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast receive $50 off the cost of the one-on-one training so be sure to mention that you heard about it here! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook Susan on Instagram Susan on Twitter Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel!  Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
[Rebroadcast] How To Co-Parent with a Narcissist with Lindsey Ellison

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2019 58:06


This week I am taking some time off to celebrate the Christmas holiday. If you celebrate Christmas, well then, Merry Christmas to you!  A break this week means no new podcast episode. But, I still got you covered.  Instead, I am re-airing my interview with Lindsey Ellison.  Lindsey is the author of the book, MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From a Narcissist.  Navigating co-parenting any time of the year can be difficult, but during the holidays it can be especially hard. In this episode, Lindsey and I discuss her step-by-step formula for creating a communication plan and script of empowering magic words that can help neutralize the power struggle that you have when you are co-parenting with a narcissist. She details exactly what to do, how to do it, and why it works. After you listen to this episode (and maybe even grab her book) you’ll be armed with information you can use to engage with your narcissistic ex with confidence and authenticity.  Here are just a few of the topics we touch on in this episode:  Providing your children with the tools to empower them and help them communicate with a narcissistic parent, without labeling the parent as one (to your children) Breaking the cycle of narcissism No contact messaging and why it’s confusing For show notes and more visit:  https://www.kateanthony.com/podcast-1/co-parent-with-narcissist-lindsey-ellison  

CEO Podcasts: CEO Chat Podcast + I AM CEO Podcast Powered by Blue 16 Media & CBNation.co
IAM467- Speaker and Relationship Coach Helps People Navigate Their Divorce or Break up

CEO Podcasts: CEO Chat Podcast + I AM CEO Podcast Powered by Blue 16 Media & CBNation.co

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2019 16:59


Lindsey Ellison is an author, speaker, relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc, a coaching practice dedicated to helping people navigate their divorce or break up. She has a best selling book titled MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist, and a popular podcast called Unbreakable You: Break Up Without Being Broken. Website: http://www.lindseyellison.com/   Instagram: @Lindsey_Ellison  My book: https://www.amazon.com/MAGIC-Words-What-Want-Narcissist/dp/1989161480/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1544116773&sr=8-1&keywords=magic+words+lindsey+ellison My podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unbreakable-you-breakup-without-being-broken/id1464567583

The Enough Podcast
How To Safely Escape From A Narcissist

The Enough Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 60:35


*TRIGGER WARNING: Emotional AbuseJoin us for Anna's first one-woman-show that provides tips on how to safely escape from a romantic relationship with a narcissist.Note: the no-contact rule does not apply to ex-partners with whom you share children, nor does it apply to employer/employee relationships or other relationships in which no-contact is not an option. For an additional resource, check out Lindsey Ellison's book here: https://www.amazon.com/MAGIC-Words-What-Want-Narcissist/dp/1989161480/ref=nodl_

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken
Should You Stay or Should You Go?

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2019 56:18


Wondering whether you should stay or go in a relationship can grip you with paralysis and mind boggling uncertainty! But I talk with fellow coach Kate Anthony where we break it down to help you with your decision and give you clarity on how to navigate your uncertain relationship. We discuss that "grey" zone where it isn't always black and white, and what kind of questions you should ask yourself. This episode will leave you feeling more secure with whatever decision you make!Show Notes:Take Kate's handy quiz and check out her website: https://www.kateanthony.com/Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcesurvivalguide/Check out her podcast: https://www.kateanthony.com/podcast-1

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Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken
Don't Give Away Your Cookie!

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2019 57:40


We often give away "the cookie" to men who haven't yet earned it. This means having sex too early, over giving when we shouldn't, and letting things slide in a relationship. Learn about the consequences and how to stop giving away your goods! Keep the cookie, ladies!

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Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Meet Vasavi Kumar, a life coach and successful entrepreneur who's mission was to transform people's lives. She rose from start-up to stardom by appearing on a popular TV reality show, only to give it all up because she realized she couldn't take care of others until she took care of herself. Listen to her candid and hilarious interview, where she gets real about being bipolar, raised in a traditional Indian home, and how she changed her life to get back on top of her game. Explicit Alert! Some content not suitable for the faint of heart or those with little ears!

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Too often we make bad decisions because we feel under pressure by our family, our friends, or just our own selves! How many times have you made a huge life decision - like getting married or having kids - because you felt like you HAD to? Lindsey talks with her girlfriend, Cara, about how we fall into these traps, and how feeling the pressure can have devastating consequences.

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The Enough Podcast
The Pilot

The Enough Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2019 78:41


Anna's very own life coach, Lindsey Ellison, calls in to discuss one of the most fundamental pillars of the Enough mission: protecting yourself from the dangers of narcissism. Plus, we learn Anna's personal reason for starting the podcast and her vision for the brand. You can find more information about Lindsey at her website: www.lindseyellison.com.

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken
Will I Ever Be Free of You?

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2019 57:59


Lindsey talks with Dr. Karyl McBride, author of, "Will I Ever Be Free of You? How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist and Heal Your Family."We tackle the hard discussion of divorcing a narcissist in an often-times difficult legal system, and what you can do to mitigate a long divorce battle. Ideas on how to heal from trauma and develop healthy boundaries are also discussed, as well as how to find the right team of people that will help you move on.

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Lindsey talks with life and business coach strategist, Laura Ann Allahverdi, about the things we do to sabotage money from coming into our lives. Learn about the three money personalities that prevent you from getting what you want, and you'll be surprised to find out which one you are, as was Lindsey! If you're wanting more money in your life, this is a must-listen episode!

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Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken
Co-Parenting When Your Ex Won't

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2019 57:58


I talk with family coach, Karen Becker, who is the author of her book "Co-parenting When Your Ex Won't." We discuss the difficulties of co-parenting with a high conflict person, and some key strategies that will make your life as a parent easier, and with less stress. You must document, maintain boundaries, and set very clear expectations. Don't miss this show!

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Lindsey Ellison talks about navigating your romantic relationships, and how by honoring your Truth and your Spirit will set you on the right path for happiness. Sometimes your truth doesn't always have comfortable consequences, and FEAR can get in the way. How do you face your fears when you know you feel in your heart that you must do the right thing?

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Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

We all talk about going on a "journey" while we are in relationship transition... but what does that really mean? I talk with Christine Crockett Smith, whose spiritual awakening led her to a peaceful divorce and a journey that led her all the way to pilgrimage in Spain. Learn how your break up doesn't have to be painful, but peaceful.

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Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken
Your Wellness After a Break Up

Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2019 57:51


What's the first thing that goes out of your life when you are in a stressful transition? That's right, it's your health and wellness! For this episode, I talk with Bridgit Danner from Womens Wellness Collaborative, and she gives some great tips on how to stay healthy during a break up!

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Unbreakable You: Breakup Without Being Broken

What does happily ever after look like when your love story begins with divorce? Listen to my interview with author Jonathan Weiler who wrote a book with his ex-wife, Anne Menkens, about how their relationship continued to evolve after divorce, and how they co-parented their daughter once they decided their marriage was no longer working. Jonathan gets super honest about his marriage and divorce, so come join me on this episode!

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Loving Without Boundaries
106 Lindsey Ellison Interview

Loving Without Boundaries

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2019 53:19


EPISODE 106: Interview with Lindsey Ellison. Lindsey Ellison is founder of “Start Over Find Happiness”, a coaching practice dedicated to helping people through a divorce or break-up. She can be found at LindseyEllison.com, on Facebook @ThriveWithLindsey, her online course BreakFreeFromYourNarcissist.com, and on iTunes at “Start Over Find Happiness”. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
How To Co-Parent with a Narcissist with Lindsey Ellison

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2019 56:50


This week my colleague, Lindsey Ellison is joining me to talk all about how to co-parent with a narcissist.  She is the author of the book, MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From a Narcissist. If you have an ex who’s a narcissist, you've probably read every book out there about communicating with one. And the advice always given is, go no contact. But for those of us who have to actually co-parent with a narcissist, that’s not an option. So what do you do if you have to continue to have a relationship with someone with whom you’ve struggled to have a relationship for, like, ever?In this episode, Lindsey and I discuss her step-by-step formula for creating a communication plan and script of empowering magic words that can help neutralize the power struggle that you have when you are co-parenting with a narcissist. She details exactly what to do, how to do it, and why it works. After you listen to this episode (and maybe even grab her book) you’ll be armed with information you can use to engage with your narcissistic ex with confidence and authenticity. Show Highlights Lindsey’s divorce story, how we’re divorce twins and when she realized she was married to a narcissist (4:00) What drove Lindsey to write a book about narcissism (7:27) No contact messaging and why it’s confusing (10:12) Act as though every engagement with your narcissistic ex as if it were a business transaction (11:09) Realizing you are the CEO of your life, the captain of your ship and in charge (12:53) Lindsey’s book and the MAGIC formula for getting what you want from a narcissist (17:45) You can have guarded compassion and boundaries with empathy (24:04) Assessing their fears and mapping their persona; and why doing so is in service to your children (27:06) The importance of identifying goals in every engagement you have (28:17) Narcissists and mom issues and how nurturing phrases can help with communication (31:03) Providing your children with the tools to empower them and help them communicate with a narcissistic parent, without labeling the parent as one (to your children) (46:33) Breaking the cycle of narcissism (45:53) Learn More About Lindsey: Lindsey Ellison is a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc. She helps people navigate their divorce or break-up and also helps people break free from narcissistic abuse. Her newest book, MAGIC Words: How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist, offers a step-by-step formula on how to create a communication plan, and provides a script of empowering “magic” words that can neutralize the power struggle.   Links: Lindsey on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ThriveWithLindsey/?ref=bookmarks Lindsey on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/startovercoach Lindsey on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDQRnkwWkOxZcTNbSEx_q8w Her book, MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From a Narcissist: https://amzn.to/2WfARDF Start Over and Find Happiness Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/start-over-find-happiness/id1074313116?mt=2 Should I Stay or Should I Go Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/shouldistayorshouldigo/

Podcast – Narcissist Abuse Support
Interview with Lindsey Ellison

Podcast – Narcissist Abuse Support

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2019


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Podcast – Narcissist Abuse Support
Interview with Lindsey Ellison

Podcast – Narcissist Abuse Support

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2019


Subscribe in a reader Hi! My Name is Tracy A. Malone, founder of Narcissist Abuse Support and I’m here to help!

SHATTERPROOF Thriving After Domestic Abuse
Magic Words to Use with a Narcissist

SHATTERPROOF Thriving After Domestic Abuse

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2019 37:09


Wouldn’t you love to have magic words to use when communicating with your narcissist…or any abuser?  My guest, Lindsey Ellison, tells you exactly what to say on this podcast and in her book by the same title, Magic Words.   Lindsey is an author, a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc.  She specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, navigate their divorce or break-up, and find happiness and peace. Originally stemming from her own personal experiences, Lindsey’s mission is to inspire you to make those amazing changes in your life to help you start over and find happiness. Lindsey shared much of her story of transformation after abuse as my podcast guest in March 2018. That very insightful discussion was titled “You are not the only one…you are not alone”.  Check it out. Today we are talking about her new book “Magic Words, How to get what you want from a Narcissist.” More information about Linsey, her online courses and her book can be found at https://lindseyellison.com/

Woman Worriers
Lindsey Ellison on Narcissistic Partners

Woman Worriers

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2018 38:45


If you’re never quite living up to your partner’s expectations, it’s a problem — and the problem isn’t you. In this episode of Woman Worriers, host Elizabeth Cush and her guest, relationship coach Lindsey Ellison, talk about women in relationships with narcissists.

SHATTERPROOF Thriving After Domestic Abuse
You Are Not the Only One. You are Not Alone.

SHATTERPROOF Thriving After Domestic Abuse

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2018 55:53


Today’s guest, Lindsey Ellison, wrote in HuffPost, “While our culture gets criticized for being too pro-divorce, I’d like to counter that criticism and say we are a culture of over-tolerance. We tolerate bad behavior and bad relationships for far too long. We are rewarded for “sticking it out” and are scolded by our society if we don’t. I am often amazed to hear what my clients and readers tolerate in a marriage, and how they feel guilty for even having thoughts of ending the relationship. Perhaps religion, our childhood influencers or the media interfere with our definition of a good marriage versus a bad one. To me, it’s pretty simple. One makes you happy and the other makes you miserable.” Our conversation addresses living in abusive marriage and the necessity of personal growth in escaping.  If those living in abuse (men and women) don’t change how they perceive the quality of their lives and relationships, nothing is likely to change. Why? Because we are used to how we’re living…we don’t think deeply about how we’re being treated … it’s fearful to admit we are living in abuse … we wonder if we really are living in abuse, especially when there are no physical bruises.   These thoughts and emotions are common.  You are not the only one.  You are not alone.  

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Naked with Adele
Start over Find Happiness Lindsey Ellison Interviews Adele Green about Can You See Me Naked

Naked with Adele

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2016 59:23


Lindsey Ellison who hosts Start Over Find Happiness interviews Adele Green about women who transition in relationship. Learn how to transform as a women becoming authentic and how it affect your relationship. Adele shares how she wrote her book and why she had to share it. This will help you to understand what happens to women when they are confused about who they are and what they need.

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Naked with Adele
Episode 38: Lindsey Ellison - The fear of being alone and dating again PART 2

Naked with Adele

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2016 23:52


Naked with Adele CHAT SHOW presents: EPISODE 38 The fear of not being loved and how to date again   LINDSEY ELLISON VOL 2 OF 3 Adele Green interviews Lindsey Ellison, Huffington Post journalist who is outspoken about narcissists. Lindsey freelances for www.yourtango.com, writes for her own blog and host a chat show “Start Over Find Happiness Again” to empower women. Lindsey motives survivors of narcissists based on her own journey. After the first interview where Lindsey talks about being in a relationship with a narcissist, we now explore: When is enough, enough? Lindsey Ellison shares her own story with us since childhood. Why women crave love Why we are so intoxicated with a knight in shining armour Why we fall in love with narcissists in the first place Why we fear not being loved How we realise and intuitively know we need to break up Patterns appearing in our relationships and what we learn from them If we do not learn we hit rock bottom and what happens then Understanding where we belong Why we have a need to fix our partners and how it gets us in trouble The steps we need to break co-dependency Dotox from our fear of being alone How to cope and heal Letting the void teach us about abandonment When we start dating again and how to do it Discovering how to overcome narcissists Date night with yourself. Interviewed by: Adele Green, Transformation Specialist Coach for women in relationship and Author of www.CanYouSeeMeNaked.com interviews feminine role models to share stories, tools and tips to support and inspire women with daily challenges on their internal journey.   CONNECT WITH LINDSEY ELLISON  www.lindseyellison.com Twitter Facebook   SPECIAL MENTIONED LINKS Free Book Chapter Complimentary Coaching Starter Pack Become a patron    Also listen to: Volume 1 of 3 Volume 3 of 3 TIP GET THE APP to listen on your smartphone.       SaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSave

Naked with Adele
Episode 37: Lindsey Ellison - How to be in relationship with a narcissist PART 1

Naked with Adele

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2016 21:35


Naked with Adele CHAT SHOW presents: EPISODE 37 To be in relationship with a narcissist LINDSEY ELLISON VOL 1 OF 3 Adele Green interviews Lindsey Ellison, Huffington Post journalist who is outspoken about narcissists. Lindsey freelances for www.yourtango.com, writes for her own blog and host a chat show “Start Over Find Happiness Again” to empower women. Lindsey motives survivors of narcissists based on her own journey. Lindsey specifically addresses being in a relationship with a narcissist. In this interview we explore: What happens to relationships with co-dependency The dance between narcissist and co-dependency How narcissism imprints develops in childhood How being  loved by a narcissist creates limitations of what we believe about ourselves Why we attract narcissist into our love relationships Find out if men become narcissist more than women How to deal with a narcissist How to discover a new empowering perspective if you are with a narcissist Why the role of females are easily exploited to be vulnerable to narcissists? Meeting your needs when you are married to a narcissist How to reprogram your brain to break free from a narcissist How to begin rebuilding yourself when you break free from this kind of relationship Interviewed by: Adele Green, Transformation Specialist Coach for women in relationship and Author of www.CanYouSeeMeNaked.com interviews feminine role models to share stories, tools and tips to support and inspire women with daily challenges on their internal journey. CONNECT WITH LINDSEY ELLISON  www.lindseyellison.com  Twitter Facebook   SPECIAL MENTIONED LINKS Free Book Chapter Complimentary Coaching Starter Pack Become a patron  Also listen to: Volume 2 of 3 Volume 3 of 3   TIP GET THE APP to listen on your smartphone. SaveSaveSaveSave

Naked with Adele
Episode 39: Lindsey Ellison - Giving yourself permission to be free: PART 3

Naked with Adele

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2016 24:16


Naked with Adele CHAT SHOW presents: EPISODE 39 Giving yourself permission to be free LINDSEY ELLISON VOL 3 OF 3 LINDSEY ELLISON VOL 3 OF 3 Adele Green interviews Lindsey Ellison, Huffington Post journalist who is outspoken about narcissists. Lindsey freelances for www.yourtango.com, writes for her own blog and host a chat show “Start Over Find Happiness Again” to empower women. Lindsey motives survivors of narcissists based on her own journey. In the other interviews Lindsey told her childhood story, spoke about here relationships with narcissist partners and breaking up she gives advice on: How to decide to get a divorce? When can you afford to get a divorce? How money follows you when you honour your truth Happiness compared to being financially secure The perspective we develop after having a near death experience and mortality How to break free from a narcissist Letting go of a conflict relationship Defining your truth and finding it Thrive in your relationship If you listen to the end of the interview you will find out where to get these courses Interviewed by: Adele Green, Transformation Specialist Coach for women in relationship and Author of www.CanYouSeeMeNaked.com interviews feminine role models to share stories, tools and tips to support and inspire women with daily challenges on their internal journey.   CONNECT WITH LINDSEY ELLISON  www.lindseyellison.com  Twitter Facebook   SPECIAL MENTIONED LINKS Free Book Chapter Complimentary Coaching Starter Pack Become a patron  Also listen to: Volume 1 of 3 Volume 2 of 3 SaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSave

READ MY LIPS with host akaRadioRed
Break Free: Narcissist Partner & Self-Limiting Beliefs… Read My Lips akaRadioRed

READ MY LIPS with host akaRadioRed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2016 61:00


At 7:00 PM/ET Are you in a relationship with a Narcissist? Reality-check: Was your spouse or partner initially charming, but is now mean, apathetic, passive-aggressive?Does everyone think your partner is "perfect" no matter what you say is going on?Did your partner cheat on you, but made it into YOUR fault? Lindsey Ellison advises that if you replied YES above, "You are in a relationship with a narcissist … they will never, ever change. Narcissists have an over-inflated sense of self, and expect everyone to adore and admire them. When you ask them to alter their behavior, they perceive it as an injury to their ego. The solution? ONLY YOU CAN CHANGE – YOURSELF." She adds, "Divorce [or leaving them] is a new beginning…a new phase, a new opportunity to get to know yourself and create a life that you truly love." Lindsey will discuss her articles in Huffington Post. At 7:30 PM/ET Carol-Ann Hamilton asks, "Did you know that you have – and need – a sandbox? When and why should you step out of yours?" Her new book, Step Out of Your Comfort Zone Into the Life of Your Dreams!, answers these questions and more about how to get unstuck at work and in your personal life. Carol-Ann will share 6 steps to help you smash barriers and break free of your self-limiting beliefs – and stop being chained to your same-old comfort zones, once and for all. www.CarolAnnHamilton.com  

The Audacious Life - Break Free
Lindsey Ellison on Healing and Thriving After Emotional Abuse

The Audacious Life - Break Free

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2016 64:39


Lindsey Ellison: Shares her story of evolving in a young marriage. Tuning into her sense that things were not okay and yearning for a more loving and fulfilling life. She's achieved that and more, creating a life by design where she helps others learn from her struggles and years as a student of self help. What you'll learn in this episode: - What it means to have a relationship with a narcissist. - What emotional abuse looks like. - The relationship between co-dependence and narcissism. - The connection between childhood and the choices we make in relationships. - Healing and how it allowed Lindsey to meet a healthy partner and remarry. - How we have the power to change ourselves. Why it's important to recognize that and focus on our power vs. giving power to an abusive partner or ex-partner. Lindsey Ellison on Twitter @StartOverCoach Lindsey's website: Start Over. Find Happiness. http://lindseyellison.com/ Lindsey's podcast: http://lindseyellison.com/podcasts/ See more episodes and learn about The Audacious Life: TheAudaciousLife.com

Lessons In Joyful Living
Lessons in Joyful Living's Newest Host - Lindsey Ellison - Start Over, Find Happiness

Lessons In Joyful Living

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2016 57:59


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Real Life Resilience
Divorce From a Narcissist, Part 2

Real Life Resilience

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2015 26:02


Talk back at the mean girl voice in your head! If you don’t have loving people supporting you when you’re in an abusive relationship or you’re unhappy, that mean girl voice in your head starts to take on a life of her own. She represents all the negative people in your life: bad boss, bad mother or father, angry spouse, whoever. You have the power to change that mean girl voice, and anything else about your life. Lindsey Ellison helps people get unstuck and stop beating themselves up. Destructive Journaling vs Constructive Journaling We’re back for Part 2 with Lindsey Ellison, founder of Start Over, Find Happiness to talk about journaling your way to a positive place. Today, we’re going to be covering how constructive journaling can help silence your inner critic and give you clarity when dealing with the narcissist in your life.  For more information specific to narcissism, see Part 1 of Lindsey’s interview at https://www.stacybrookman.com/lindseyellison1/ (www.stacybrookman.com/lindseyellison1/) There is a difference between ‘Constructive’ and ‘Destructive’ Journaling. Stay away from the negative stories that we tell ourselves, such as “I’m so stupid”, “I’m a horrible mother”, “My kids don’t love me”. Instead, create a loving situation for yourself, be kind.  Write as if you are talking to yourself from a 3rd person vantage point. If you’re a faith-based person, what would God say to you? If you are not faith-based, what would your best friend say? When you write to yourself, you will see a completely different angle on the problem than you see from ‘inside’ the problem. Journaling for Healing Many of us live outside of our bodies-we are just powering through our days. Journaling is your one moment where you’re looking inward and dealing with what’s in your heart. There are a lot of healing benefits from that and it’s very similar to meditating. In yoga, it’s called seeing with your Third Eye. Writing can have the same effect. Boundaries There’s a reason why you’re with a narcissist and it is probably traceable to your childhood. If you were being raised with a narcissist or co-dependent, you were likely rewarded for not standing up for yourself. If you spoke up or voiced needs, you were probably told you can’t be so ‘selfish’, and you were probably denied what you needed. These small moments are all a form of rejection. So when you kept quiet is when there was peace in the household. Now, you tend to maintain those patterns through your adult relationships because you haven’t or weren’t able to resolve them. Starting today, you must learn those skills that will make you healthier. When you are dealing with narcissists, you have to have boundaries. They don’t like them. You must say the words ‘that’s not okay’. You don’t have to say it to them, but you have to start by saying it to yourself. Variants can include “You can’t speak to me like that”, ‘I won’t tolerate that”, or “I require change”. Having boundaries also means not engaging the narcissist in their behavior They cause a drama over virtually everything, called ‘The Narcissistic Vortex’, where even a seemingly innocent compliment can escalate into WWIII The tendency for the partner/relative is to get sucked into an argument, try to change their mind, and get them to ‘see the light’. This is a fool’s errand because the narcissist is incapable of having a balanced conversation or realizing they are wrong. The only way for you maintain emotional health is to not engage with them. Walk away. You do not need to be perfect to have boundaries. No one is perfect. We are all a work in progress. You can keep working on yourself while still expecting safe and respectful behavior from the narcissist. Red Flags We all have those feelings when something is ‘not right’. When we feel those ‘not right’ moments, we do tend to react physiologically Write down in your journal...

Real Life Resilience
Divorce From a Narcissist, Part 1

Real Life Resilience

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2015 25:33


“I have somewhat been a magnet for narcissists my whole life,” says Lindsey Ellison, founder of Start Over – Find Happiness, a coaching program. She now runs a course called “Break Free from Your Narcissist” that helps women overcome difficulties and get free from narcissistic partners. Women need to realize that it is impossible to nurture a narcissist enough. That’s where narcissists get the gasoline for their ego. Someone who falls in love with a narcissist is frequently a co-dependent person. They give away too much to someone who hasn’t earned it. Listen to the podcast for insight into how to break free from a narcissist…AND listen to Lindsey read her story of the worst Mother’s Day ever (and what she did about it). Tough Life Writing Helps Other Women Not a lot of people understand narcissists and sociopaths. When Lindsey first started her blog, she was writing to no one, but she started pitching them to Huffington Post. However, her personal story about not wanting to have sex with her husband got picked up and resonated with women. Now, as a regular contributor, she writes specifically about what women go through and receives hundreds of comments on her articles. What is a Narcissist? They are related to sociopaths, and both of these disorders produce manipulating and abusive behavior. Abuse comes in many forms and affects many people in the victim’s life. Emotional, physical, and sexual abuses are common and equally degrading and harmful. They are ALL abuse. How do you spot one? One of the first signs of a narcissist or sociopath is they get people to feel sorry for them. In hindsight, their stories are unbelievable, but their initially charming personalities draw people in. Once they’ve won you over, the mask comes off and they denigrate their victims, devalue and demean them. It’s incredibly difficult to get away from a narcissist or a sociopath. Believe it or not, you have likely encountered one either in your family, your neighborhood, or your workplace.   Blindfolds, Guilt, and Getting Help Lindsey felt she went through her own divorce with a blindfold on, and experienced incredible guilt over what was happening with her children. She started writing through her pain and shared her story which actually helps other women. Knowing that you’re not alone and that others have been through the same thing is a beautiful gift for others. So her pain is helping to heal other people. Women are taught to be nurturers. Sometimes, though, they over nurture. When they want to do something for themselves, they feel guilty. Setting boundaries in place and saying “I deserve better,” provides a healthier perspective. Women need to realize that it is impossible to nurture a narcissist enough. Narcissists are attracted to over givers. That’s where they get the gasoline for their ego. Someone who falls in love with a narcissist is frequently a co-dependent person. They don’t require many things of people and give away too much to someone who hasn’t earned it. Listen to the podcast for additional insight…AND listen to Lindsey read her story of the worst Mother’s Day ever (and what she did about it).   Take Home Message (listen to the podcast for the full scoop): Don’t make compromises until you are in a safe and healthy relationship. That includes your relationships with friends, family, and even children. Teach your kids NOT to be narcissists…by having boundaries and calling them on their behavior.   Lifestory Toolkit: https://www.forever.com/ (Forever.com) (Brought to you by https://www.lifestorytelling.com/ (Lifestorytelling.com) – Discover YOUR life stories!) This episode’s Lifestory Toolkit features a website – https://www.forever.com/ (Forever.com ) helps people collect, curate, and celebrate life’s stories. They offer permanent cloud storage for photos along with...

Lessons In Joyful Living
Inspired Divorce with Lindsey Ellison 05-15-2014

Lessons In Joyful Living

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2014 57:57


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