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Your relationships don't have to be a disaster. Let bestselling author and relationship coach Jennifer Hurvitz teach you how to have a successful marriage or navigate through a divorce. Listen for tips on parenting, communication, sex, and all things relationships (plus a lot more)!

Jennifer Hurvitz: Author + Happy Divorce Expert


    • Nov 5, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    The Doing Divorce Right (or Avoiding it Altogether) podcast is an incredible resource for anyone going through a divorce or navigating the world of dating and relationships. Hosted by Jennifer Giamo, this show provides valuable tips, advice, and support for those in need. One of the best aspects of this podcast is Jennifer's ability to tackle tough topics with honesty and humor. Her authenticity and vulnerability create a safe space for listeners to explore their own experiences and challenges. Additionally, the show features a variety of guests who bring their expertise and unique perspectives to the conversations.

    Jennifer's knowledge and expertise in the field of divorce and relationships shine through in each episode. She provides practical advice that is easy to understand and implement. Her genuine care for her listeners is evident in every episode as she strives to help them find happiness and fulfillment in their lives after divorce.

    Another great aspect of this podcast is its length. The episodes are kept short and concise, making them perfect for listening on-the-go. This allows listeners to absorb valuable information without feeling overwhelmed or bogged down by lengthy discussions.

    One potential downside of the podcast is that it may not resonate with everyone. While Jennifer's approach is relatable for many, some listeners may prefer a different style or perspective when it comes to divorce or relationship advice. However, it's important to note that no single podcast can cater to everyone's preferences, so this should not deter potential listeners from giving it a try.

    In conclusion, The Doing Divorce Right (or Avoiding it Altogether) podcast is an excellent resource for anyone going through a divorce or looking to improve their relationships. Jennifer Giamo's expertise, honesty, and humor make each episode engaging and informative. This podcast has the power to provide guidance, support, and hope during difficult times while also offering practical tips for building healthy relationships moving forward.



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    Is There a Link Between SEX & HAPPINESS? with Dr. Emily Jamea, Sex and Relationship Therapist

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 6:28


    "One person can't fix the relationship alone." Dr. Emily Jamea    In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz speaks with Dr. Emily Jamea, a sex and relationship therapist, about the intricacies of intimacy, the importance of planning sexual encounters, and the challenges women face in maintaining desire amidst the demands of modern life. Dr. Jamea shares insights from her new book, 'Anatomy of Desire,' and discusses the concept of flow state in sexual experiences, the impact of technology on intimacy, and the necessity of emotional connection in relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the need for couples to actively cultivate passion and connection, especially in the context of parenting and busy lifestyles. In this conversation, Emily Jamea discusses the significance of pre-marital counseling, the critical role of sexual satisfaction in relationships, and the challenges faced in sex therapy. She emphasizes the importance of communication and adaptability in relationships, and shares insights on enhancing emotional and physical connections between partners. The discussion concludes with a message of hope and encouragement for couples to work on their relationships. Takeaways Therapy can be a second career for many, but not for everyone. Sexuality is a window into the psyche. Flow state is crucial for sexual satisfaction. Women often struggle to disconnect from daily distractions. Planning sex can alleviate pressure and enhance intimacy. Love should be seen as an active verb. Parenting can significantly impact intimacy in relationships. Women carry a mental load that affects their sexual desire. Scheduling sex can be reframed as planning for connection. Emotional connection is essential for fulfilling sexual experiences. Pre-marital counseling can provide crucial tools for couples. Sexual satisfaction is linked to overall relationship happiness. Couples often overlook important questions about intimacy before marriage. Adaptability is crucial in navigating relationship challenges. Physical touch can enhance emotional connection and conflict resolution. Therapy requires participation from both partners for effective results. Many couples struggle with communication about their sexual needs. It's important to address resentments to improve intimacy. Research shows that sexual satisfaction impacts relationship satisfaction significantly. Don't give up; tools for improvement are available.  Find Dr. Emily's NEW Book here! https://www.amazon.com/Anatomy-Desire-Secrets-Connection-Cultivate-ebook/dp/B0CPWSJFML?ref_=ast_author_mpb Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.  

    Understanding the Concept of Discreet Affairs with Paul Keable Chief Strategy Officer for Ashley Madison

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 45:16


    "Life is short; have an affair." ~ Ashely Madison Website    I'm uncertain about this tagline and the concept of a "dating site for married people," but it's important to hear other people's perspectives on Doing Relationships Right! So, here we go! People like you join the Ashley Madison® network daily to find discreet relationships. Married, attached, looking to explore, or just curious to discover what's out there – Ashley Madison is the world's leading discreet, like-minded dating community. In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Paul Keable, the Chief Strategy Officer of Ashley Madison. The discussion explores the complexities of infidelity, discreet affairs, and the dynamics of non-monogamous relationships. It delves into the reasons behind cheating, the importance of security and privacy in online dating, and Ashley Madison's unique business model. Keable shares insights on gender perspectives regarding infidelity and highlights the platform's role in providing a space for individuals seeking discreet connections. The conversation challenges traditional views on relationships and emphasizes the need for open dialogue about desires and needs within partnerships. In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz and Paul Keable delve into the complexities of non-monogamous relationships, the dynamics of cheating, and the importance of open communication in defining relationship boundaries. Takeaways Ashley Madison is the world's largest married dating service. The platform also serves as a marriage counseling service. Discretion is a crucial feature for many users seeking affairs. Security and privacy have been significantly improved since past breaches. Many users are honest about their needs and desires on the platform. Women often seek affairs due to unfulfilled sexual needs in their marriages. Men frequently look for emotional validation through affairs. The concept of a 'compassionate affair' exists for caretakers of ill partners. Many people fear discussing their sexual needs with their partners. Sexless marriages can lead to feelings of isolation and frustration. Privacy concerns exist around background checks related to infidelity. Misconceptions about women's sexual desires persist in society. Comprehensive sex education is lacking and necessary for healthy relationships. Non-monogamous relationships can be ethical and fulfilling. Open communication is critical to understanding and meeting partner needs. Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.  

    Is Egg Freezing Right for You? Understanding Fertility: A Modern Perspective with Beth Gulotta, LMHC

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 36:59


    Is EGG FREEZING right for you?  In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Beth Gulotta, a licensed mental health counselor and host of the podcast 'Quiet the Clock.' They discuss Beth's journey from finance to mental health, the societal pressures surrounding relationships and parenthood, and the importance of egg freezing. Beth shares her experiences with egg freezing, its emotional weight, and the significance of being ready for major life decisions. The conversation also touches on the changing dynamics of dating, the importance of understanding fertility health, and the need for supportive environments for women navigating these choices. Takeaways:  Beth transitioned from finance to mental health counseling. The podcast 'Quiet the Clock' addresses societal pressures on women. Egg freezing is a personal decision that can alleviate pressure. Time is perceived negatively, but it can be a gift. Readiness for relationships and parenthood is crucial. Women often feel societal pressure to have children by a certain age. Support systems are essential for women making reproductive choices. Understanding fertility health is vital for informed decisions. Parents should support their children's choices regarding family planning. Drowning out external noise is important for personal decision-making. Thank you, Beth, for joining this critical discussion today!  Happy Dating and Relationships!    FIND BETH GULOTTA https://www.nyctherapeuticwellness.com/beth-gulotta/ Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.  

    How to Build a Legacy to Die For: Helping Prepare our Loved Ones for a Life Without Us with Dr. Kimberly Harms

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 32:08


    "The greatest legacy is love." ~Dr. Kimberly Harms  We all know the importance of life insurance to make certain our loved ones are financially secure after we pass on, but what can we do to ensure they are emotionally secure without us?  Dr. Kimberly Harms has been around the block in life!  She has served as a Commissioned Officer in the United States Public Health Service, a dental school professor, a grief counselor, a clinical dentist and practice owner with her late husband Jim in Farmington, MN, a death doula, a civil mediator, a school board Chair, President of an international women's organization, the first woman President of the Minnesota Dental Association, co-founder of the 65 Eric Harms Memorial Libraries through Books for Africa in Rwanda, an award-winning bestselling author and an international speaker.  She has also suffered many personal losses, including the suicide deaths of her mother and son and the death from the broken heart of her husband, Jim. Her most important role now is as a mother to her two surviving children and grandmother to six precious grandchildren.  In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz speaks with Dr. Kimberly Harms, a grief counselor and author, about her journey from being a dentist to navigating profound personal losses, including the suicides of her mother and son. Dr. Harms shares her insights on managing grief, the importance of legacy planning, and how to prepare for death to prevent family conflicts. She emphasizes the need for emotional support and community in the grieving process.  She offers practical advice on creating a legacy binder to ease the burden on loved ones after passing. The conversation is heartfelt and informative, providing listeners with valuable tools for coping with loss and fostering resilience.  Thank you, Kimberly, for sharing your story of strength and vulnerability with us- and reminding us that forgiveness and reconciliation are vital in healing. Legacy planning is a gift of LOVE to your family.  Grief affects everyone around you, not just the individual. Fighting through grief is essential for healing. Creating a legacy binder can ease family burdens after death. Community support is crucial during times of loss. It's critical to prepare for death to avoid family conflicts. Emotional life insurance is as important as financial planning. Grief is a long process that requires time and effort. 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Kim Harms 01:13 Journey from Dentistry to Grief Counseling 04:48 The Impact of Personal Loss 07:40 Fighting Through Grief 10:41 Lessons from Rwanda 14:31 Preparing for Death and Legacy Planning 18:20 Navigating Family Dynamics After Loss 22:23 The Importance of Support and Community 26:21 Emotional Life Insurance and Legacy Binder 30:55 Conclusion and Call to Action   FIND DR. HARMS BOOK, Are You Ready? How to Build a Legacy to Die For HERE  Reach out to Dr. Kim for more information Also, check out her website to see all of her books and resources: https://www.drkimberlyharms.com/   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    Tips for Surviving Midlife: What I Wish I Knew Before Turning Fifty-Two, with your host Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2024 18:12


    In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz reflects on her life as she turns 52, sharing valuable lessons she wishes she had known earlier. From self-care tips like wearing sunscreen and using Retin-A to the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing mental health, Jennifer emphasizes the significance of personal growth and self-love. She also discusses the impact of alcohol on health, the necessity of dental care, and the value of travel and experiences in shaping one's identity. The episode concludes with a heartfelt birthday wish and a call to action for listeners to support her work. Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Life and Birthdays 03:53 The Importance of Boundaries and Saying No 07:16 Mental Health Awareness and Support 09:44 Understanding Alcohol and Its Effects 12:08 Finding Your Authentic Self 14:29 The Value of Travel and Experiences   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.  

    Finding Humor in the Menopause Journey: Tips on Building Your Emotional Connection, with Jim Healey

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2024 26:10


    Looking for Coconu? Here you go! Just use my code MS15 to get 15% off your first order! https://discovercoconu.com/shop.php In this episode, Jennifer and Jim discuss the complexities of menopause and its impact on relationships. They explore various symptoms of menopause, such as hot flashes and mood swings, and emphasize the importance of communication and support between partners. The conversation highlights the emotional and physical changes during menopause and offers practical advice for maintaining intimacy and understanding. They also touch on the mental health aspects of menopause and the need for patience and open dialogue in relationships. Takeaways Menopause can significantly affect relationships and intimacy. Communication is critical to supporting a partner through menopause. Hot flashes and night sweats are common symptoms that should be acknowledged. It's essential not to take a partner's lack of interest in sex personally. Menopause can lead to increased anxiety and depression. Support can come in many forms, including emotional reassurance and practical help. Understanding that menopause affects everyone differently is crucial for partners. Maintaining intimacy may require adjustments and open discussions about desires. Seeking professional help, such as couples therapy, can be beneficial. Humor and fun can help you navigate the challenges of menopause.    Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Menopause and Relationships 02:15 Understanding Menopausal Symptoms 05:06 Supporting Your Partner Through Menopause 10:02 Communication and Emotional Support 15:03 Navigating Changes in Intimacy 20:15 The Impact of Menopause on Mental Health 23:09 Conclusion and Future Topics Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.    

    Understanding and Healing Core Wounds: How to Become Securely Attached with Thais Gibson

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 50:49


    "We have to go in there and find out what the core wounds are associated with the trauma and recondition those ideas about ourselves." ~Thais Gibson  In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Thais Gibson, a counselor and co-founder of The Personal Development School. They discuss topics such as shadow work and attachment styles. Shadow work explores and integrates the parts of ourselves that we try to deny or hide. It involves identifying triggers and examining the root causes of our reactions. In this conversation, Thais Gibson discusses the importance of reconditioning core wounds and beliefs about oneself to heal from trauma and develop a secure attachment style. She emphasizes the need to move beyond simply blaming others for our problems and instead focus on understanding and changing our beliefs. Thais also explains the five key pillars of becoming securely attached: reconditioning core wounds, knowing and communicating our needs, setting boundaries, regulating our nervous system, and positively reinforcing good behavior. She provides practical tips for effective communication and suggests setting a timeline for personal growth and relationship change. Takeaways Core wounds are subconscious beliefs about ourselves that often stem from past experiences. Healing core wounds involves reconditioning the subconscious through repetition, emotion, and imagery. The three-step process for healing core wounds includes finding the opposite of the core wound, identifying ten memories of feeling the opposite, and recording and listening to those memories for 21 days. Reconditioning core wounds and beliefs about oneself is essential for healing from trauma and developing a secure attachment style. Blaming others for our problems is not productive; instead, we should focus on understanding and changing our beliefs. The five key pillars of becoming securely attached are reconditioning core wounds, knowing and communicating our needs, setting boundaries, regulating our nervous system, and positively reinforcing good behavior. Effective communication involves positive framing, clearly showing what we need, seeing our needs through, and positively reinforcing good behavior. Setting a timeline for personal growth and relationship change can help determine if the other person is willing to do the work and make a positive difference. 00:00 Introduction of Thais Gibson 08:26 Exploring Shadow Work 19:09 Understanding and Healing Core Wounds 23:23 Reconditioning the Subconscious Mind 29:22 The Five Key Pillars of Becoming Securely Attached 36:59 Knowing and Communicating Our Needs 39:27 Setting a Timeline for Personal Growth and Change   Find Thais Gibson here: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/quiz?utm_source=google-search&utm_medium=cpc-lead&utm_campaign=18002521894&utm_term=&gc_id=18002521894&h_ad_id=627022430545&utm_content=thais%20gibson&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmOm3BhC8ARIsAOSbapVXHyvN9RJxNmNtZEIzdKCU-ep6KM8Mum1CvfK7kL7XvGK1kGRfSqYaAirBEALw_wcB Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.      

    Finding A Love That LASTS with Renowned Matchmaker and Dating Guru, Aleeza Ben Shalom

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 34:55


     "You need to know if you like the human being. How you feel with them, if they are good, you can work on the rest later. If you don't like the human being, I don't care how they feel. It means nothing." ~ Aleeza Ben Shalom  Aleeza Ben Shalom is a renowned matchmaker, dating coach, speaker, and soulmate clarity expert who empowers marriage-minded singles to find The One. As a dating coach, Aleeza works with people of all backgrounds. Her impressive track record has earned her the title of “Jewish Dating Guru,” as she has successfully coached hundreds of people, regardless of age, affiliation, or life stage. As an entrepreneur and the founder of Marriage Minded Mentor, she connects singles globally with skilled professionals, having trained over 350 dating coaches and matchmakers worldwide. Aleeza has been featured across various media platforms, including The Cut, NBC News Daily, Men's Health, NPR, Rolling Stone, Good Day NY, Time Out, The Guardian, and Insider. She lives in Israel. If you watched the first season of Jewish Matchmaking on Netflix, you've met the incomparable Aleeza Ben Shalom. You've seen her guide clients with her tried-and-true practices, such as “date ‘em ‘til you hate ‘em” and “no touching for the first five dates.” She's bringing that wisdom to everyone, backed by real-world examples. In her paradigm-shifting book, Aleeza will guide readers through her highly original perspective on dating, revealing the surprising ways in which a person's dating habits directly influence their chances of finding lasting love.   00:00 Introduction and Recommendation of Aleeza Ben Shalom 02:32 Aleeza's Background and Move to Israel 07:28 How Aleeza Got into Dating and Matchmaking 11:07 Discussion of Aleeza's New Book 13:04 The Five-Date Rule: Testing Compatibility Through Patience 15:14 Getting to Know Someone 17:23 The Five-Date Rule 21:45 The Evolution of Attraction   Grab Aleeza's NEW BOOK, Matchmaker, Matchmaker Find Me A Love That Lasts here   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.    

    Tips for Dating During Midlife: How to Get Back in the Game After Divorce!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 22:01


    In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses dating during midlife and provides tips for navigating the modern dating scene. She emphasizes the importance of being authentic, confident, and patient while dating. Jennifer also encourages daters to be open-minded and to use technology effectively. She reminds listeners to stay positive and not settle for perfection. Overall, she highlights the rewards and challenges of dating over 50 and offers her services as a dating coach. Takeaways Dating during midlife differs from dating in your 20s or 30s and comes with challenges. Be authentic to yourself when dating. Embrace your unique qualities and be honest about your interests, values, and goals. Prioritize your health and well-being, both physically and emotionally, and be confident in yourself. Be open-minded and date outside of your usual type or criteria. Focus on deep connections and broadening your horizons. Learn to use technology effectively for online dating and be mindful of your online presence. Be patient and trust that the right person will come along. Don't rush into anything, and stay positive throughout the dating process. Use your words and communicate your intentions and desires. Don't waste time with someone who doesn't share your needs. Don't search for perfection, and enjoy the company of others. Keep an open mind and be true to yourself. Consider hiring a dating coach to help you navigate the dating scene and find the love and companionship you seek.   Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!  xo j   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    The Importance of Financial Security in Relationships with Nikki Tucker, CDFA ®

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 33:49


    If a financial counselor and a personal organizer decided to create the perfect "lab love child," it would be Nikki Tucker! She's a mom and financial professional who firmly believes all women deserve financial security. Going through a separation or divorce is hard enough. When a woman's economic security is threatened, the stress can become overwhelming. Nikki's goal is to help women feel confident, inspired, and ready to take control of their financial futures during one of the most challenging times of their lives. In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Nikki Tucker, a financial professional and mom, about the importance of financial security in relationships. They discuss the impact of money stories on individuals and relationships, the need for financial compatibility, and how to approach money conversations in relationships. They also touch on red flags in money-related relationships and the importance of teaching children about money from a young age. In this conversation, Jennifer and Nikki discuss the importance of financial conversations in relationships, including the role of upbringing and prenuptial agreements. They also touch on the benefits of keeping finances separate and the need for financial education before marriage. Nikki shares information about her programs for those considering divorce and for post-divorce financial support. Takeaways: Money stories, shaped by our experiences and emotions about money, have a direct impact on our daily lives and relationships. Financial compatibility is crucial in relationships and should be discussed early on. Regular money conversations in relationships help create a safe space for discussing finances and building financial intimacy. Red flags related to money in relationships should be taken seriously, especially if they involve character issues. Teaching children about money from a young age, including giving them structure and teaching them about budgeting, can set them up for financial success in the future. Financial conversations are crucial in relationships and can be influenced by upbringing. Prenuptial agreements can help reduce money fights and make divorces easier. Separate finances can provide autonomy and protection in a relationship. Financial education before marriage is essential to avoid future financial issues. Nikki offers programs for those considering divorce and for post-divorce financial support.   Chapters  00:00 Introduction and Guest Bio 02:05 Understanding Money Stories 06:00 Starting Money Conversations in Relationships 09:07 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships 12:33 The Importance of Financial Compatibility 14:21 Teaching Children About Money 17:00 The Influence of Upbringing on Financial Conversations 19:12 The Role of Separate Finances in Relationships 21:35 The Need for Financial Education Before Marriage   Find Nikki here: https://thefiirmapproach.com/ Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    FIND JENNIFER:  Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Are You Involved in an Emotional Affair? with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2024 13:23


    Is texting another person when you're in a relationship cheating?  In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses whether texting someone while in a relationship is considered cheating. She believes that if you are doing something you can't share with your partner, it is cheating. She shares her experience texting her ex and how it started to feel wrong. Jennifer also talks about poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it. She provides examples of when texting can be considered emotional cheating and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and communication in relationships. Takeaways Texting someone while in a relationship can be considered cheating if it is something you can't share with your partner. Poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it, is a common issue in relationships. Examples of emotional cheating through texting include skipping time with your partner to text someone else, sending risque or nude selfies, sexting, sharing intimate information about yourself that your partner doesn't know, and speaking ill of your partner to someone else. Setting boundaries and communicating early on in a relationship is important to avoid misunderstandings and emotional cheating. If you are falling out of love with your partner, it is important to have open and honest conversations rather than seek emotional connections with others through texting. Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    FIND JENNIFER:  Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    The Power of Forgiveness and Clearing Negative Energy with International Celebrity Psychic Medium, Colby Rebel

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2024 29:44


    "Acknowledge and notice the times when you didn't listen to your intuition and learn from those experiences." ~ Colby Rebel  Colby Rebel is an award-winning International Celebrity Psychic Medium, best-selling author, and host of the acclaimed Colby Rebel Show podcast. Her unmatched accuracy and precise guidance have made her the go-to confidante of Hollywood's elite, serving a roster of celebrity and influencer clients. Colby's unique no-tools approach emphasizes her authenticity and natural gifts and has made her one of the most sought-after psychic mediums of our time. In 2022, she was awarded the distinguished title of Best Psychic of Los Angeles.  In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Colby Rebel, an award-winning psychic medium. They discuss intuition, trusting oneself, forgiveness, and fearing death. Colby shares insights on how to trust your intuition, including surrendering to the universe and practicing breathwork. She also emphasizes the importance of forgiveness for personal healing and growth. Colby provides practical tools such as the use of salt baths and the practice of clearing negative energy. The conversation concludes with Colby encouraging listeners to take proactive actions while surrendering to the universe for guidance.  Takeaways  Trust your intuition by surrendering to the universe and practicing breathwork. Forgiveness is vital for personal healing and growth. Clear negative energy through salt baths, exercise, and practicing gratitude. Focus on the present moment and what brings you joy and balance. Take proactive actions while surrendering to the universe for guidance.   Chapters:  00:00 Introduction and Colby Rebel's Background 03:32 Trusting Your Intuition and Surrendering to the Universe 06:08 The Power of Forgiveness for Personal Healing 09:38 Clearing Negative Energy for Emotional Well-being 13:36 Living in the Present Moment and Finding Joy 18:30 Taking Proactive Actions while Surrendering to the Universe 27:19 Colby Rebel's Services and Contact Information   FIND COLBY HERE: https://colbyrebel.com/ Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    FIND JENNIFER:  Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/      

    Is Your Partner Cheating or are YOU Paranoid? with Private Investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 46:02


    In this episode, host Jennifer Hurvitz interviews private investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant about infidelity and cheating in relationships. They discuss the prevalence of cheating, the role of social media in infidelity, and the different types of cheating. The private investigators also share their stories of getting into the business and explain the process of hiring a PI. They emphasize the importance of trust and communication in relationships and offer advice for those who suspect their partner is cheating. In this conversation, Bari Kroll and Jen Rosant discuss the signs of infidelity and the role of technology in relationships. They emphasize the importance of trust, communication, and the need to listen to intuition. They also share tips for investigating suspicions of cheating, such as checking phone bills and receipts. The conversation highlights the impact of past experiences and trauma on relationships and the importance of therapy in moving forward. Bari and Jen also mention their podcast, 'Private Eyes,' where they answer questions and provide insights into relationship issues.   Take Aways! Cheating in relationships is more prevalent than we realize, and it can be emotionally damaging. Social media has made it easier for people to reconnect with past partners and engage in emotional or physical infidelity. Hiring a private investigator can provide evidence of infidelity, but it's important to be prepared for the truth and consider the impact it may have on the relationship. Rebuilding trust and communication are crucial for repairing a relationship after infidelity. Setting boundaries and having open conversations about expectations and fidelity in a relationship is important. Trust and communication are essential. Listening to your intuition is important when suspecting infidelity. Investigating suspicions of cheating can involve checking phone bills and receipts. Past experiences and trauma can impact trust in relationships. Therapy can help move forward and build healthy relationships. Find Bari and Jen at: https://www.instagram.com/blaureninvestigations/ https://www.blaureninvestigations.com/ https://www.facebook.com/BLaurenInvestigations/ PRIVATE EYES THE PODCAST: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/private-eyes/id1760237093 Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    FIND JENNIFER:  Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/      

    The BEST Relationship Advice I Ever Heard: Doing Relationships RIGHT!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 18:01


     In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz shares the best relationship advice she has ever heard and uses when coaching. She emphasizes the importance of saying goodbye and hello to your loved ones, learning how to communicate effectively, understanding attachment styles and love languages, and watching your tone. She also discusses the benefits of sharing household and child-rearing duties, finding levity in the relationship, taking turns in emotional support, prioritizing mental and physical health, picking your battles, owning your mistakes, staying calm during arguments, and never stopping dating your partner.   Takeaways  Always say goodbye and hello to your loved ones. Learn how to communicate effectively and seek help if needed. Understand your attachment style and your partner's. Be aware of your love language and your partner's. Watch your tone and avoid belittling or emasculating your partner. Share household and child-rearing duties to increase happiness in the relationship. Find levity and laughter in your relationship. Take turns in providing emotional support. Prioritize your mental and physical health. Continue dating your partner and prioritize quality time together. Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!  xo j   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    FIND JENNIFER:  Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/        

    Sober Connections: Navigating the World of Sober Dating with guest Holly Walsh, Positive Psychology & Alcohol-Free Coach

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 27:14


    In this episode of Doing Relationships Right, we dive deep into sober dating.  Whether you're newly sober or have been sober for years, dating can present unique challenges and opportunities. I'm thrilled to have my guest, Holly Walsh, a Positive Psychology and Alcohol-Free Coach. Holly is a positive psychology and alcohol-free coach and will host wellness retreats starting in 2025. She has been sober for almost one year and will be launching a sober dating app so that people can go on dates without alcohol! She is also training to become a yoga teacher and is on an exciting path of self-development that happened when she stopped drinking in 2023. Join us as we explore tips, share personal stories, and offer insights on how to build meaningful connections without the influence of alcohol. Understanding Sober Dating  What does sober dating mean, and why is it important? The benefits of dating without alcohol. Challenges of Sober Dating Common hurdles faced by those in recovery. Navigating social situations and peer pressure. Building Confidence  - Tips for boosting self-esteem while dating sober.  - How do you communicate your sober lifestyle to potential partners? Fun Sober Date Ideas  - Creative and engaging activities for sober dates.  - How to make the most of your time together without alcohol. Personal Stories - Holly shares her experiences with sober dating.  - Success stories and lessons learned along the way. Resources and Support   - Recommended books, online communities, and apps for sober dating.  - How to find support in your sober journey.  Join us next week as we continue discussing healthy relationships and doing dating right!  Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find Doing Relationships Right! Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!  xo j Find Holly here: hellohollycoaching.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-walsh-3571a621/   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    FIND JENNIFER:  Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/        

    JENNIFER IS BACK: All New Episodes!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 10:27


    Jennifer Hurvitz returns with a new season of Doing Relationships Right!  She's got BIG NEWS to share!  She briefly updates her life and introduces her new gig as a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today. Jennifer also mentions her courses and offers an Ask Me Anything session for those seeking dating advice. She encourages listeners to follow her on YouTube and Instagram. Jennifer is excited to be back and looks forward to connecting with her audience. Takeaways Jennifer Hurvitz is back with a new season of Doing Relationships Right She is a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today Jennifer offers courses and an Ask Me Anything session for dating advice Listeners are encouraged to follow her on YouTube and Instagram Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!  xo j   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!  You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.  

    How to Communicate with an AVOIDANT Partner- with your host Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 37:07


      If you don't already know, your attachment style, which is basically how you relate to others in your close relationships, falls into one of four categories: secure, anxious, avoidant (sometimes known as dismissive-avoidant), and disorganized (also known as fearful-avoidant). Today, we'll focus on romantic relationships with someone with an avoidant attachment style — a discomfort with emotional closeness, a deep need for independence, and a reluctance to rely on others. Having a relationship with someone with this attachment style has some unique challenges.  Thank you, Jim Healey, for being so honest and open!  Happy Dating!  xo j      Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    Common Dating Mistakes and How to Avoid Them with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 19:12


    Are you finding the guy but need help to get past the three-month mark?  Does online dating seem frightening and way too time-consuming?  Give this episode of the Doing Relationships Right podcast a listen to learn about the dating mistakes you might be making and how to fix them! Dating isn't easy. I've experienced divorce, dated, and been in numerous relationships - some good, some not so good. I've lived it, so I understand! Dating can be challenging, but it can also be amazing!

    The Dos And Don'ts Of Getting Back Together With Your Ex with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 33:34


    We're back and better than ever- after our one year breakup, that is!  Today's episode features my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey, my best friend and partner for the last eight years.  We will delve into our entire story, including what's beyond the pages of my book, Midlife Priceless, and leave no topic untouched. In this episode, we're plunging into a subject many of you have been asking about navigating the path of rekindling a relationship with your ex the right way! It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. We're excited to share this with you! xo j    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    What Is Gaslighting in a Relationship? Signs and Warnings with Dating Coach, Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 17:17


      In this episode, we delve deep into gaslighting in relationships. We discuss what gaslighting is, its signs and symptoms, the psychological impact on victims, and ways to address and overcome it. Jennifer shares her personal experiences with gaslighting and how she found herself in these situations repeatedly, even in her role as a coach. Jennifer will discuss:    - Definition and origins of the term "gaslighting."    - Historical context and examples. Identifying Gaslighting    - Common tactics used by gaslighters.    - Signs and symptoms of being gaslighted.    - Real-life examples and scenarios.  Impact of Gaslighting    - Short-term and long-term effects on mental health.    - How gaslighting undermines self-esteem and self-trust.    - The cycle of abuse and why it's hard to break free. Handling Gaslighting in Relationships    - Strategies for recognizing and acknowledging gaslighting.    - Communication techniques to address the behavior.    - When and how to seek professional help. Recovery and Healing    - Steps to rebuild self-esteem and regain confidence.    - Support systems and resources for survivors.    - The importance of self-care and self-compassion. Jennifer's Expert Advice    - How to prevent gaslighting in relationships.    - Red flags to watch for in new relationships.    - How to support a loved one who might be experiencing gaslighting. Please remember to take good care of your mental health and seek help if you're experiencing gaslighting. You're not alone.     Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/  

    Living Apart Together: What is it and Why Do Couples Do it? with Jennifer Hurvitz and her partner, Jim Healey

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 33:08


    This episode generated a lot of buzz among my listeners back in January, so why not re-air it?  Today on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is back, and we're talking about "Living Apart Together" - an old trend that's getting more popular. It's something we've been doing since we met in 2017! It's been good for us, but could it work for you? Listen to our chat to hear the upsides and downsides. It's important to do what's right for your relationship. Scientific evidence suggests that living apart could really strengthen a long-term relationship. Are you great partners but terrible roommates? You two make a great team, but do you have different ideas about what success means? Is it essential to you NOT to blend families?  A successful connection means different things to different people, as gender roles, parenthood, and cultural background all play a role in relationships. What was once a deal breaker may now be an opportunity to adapt to modern society. We are here to destigmatize the negativity of going against the "norm."  Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know!  Happy Relationships!  xo j    And use MS15 to get 15% off COCONU!  Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Can Menopause Cause Relationship Breakdown? with your host Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 15:02


    It's been a couple of months, so I thought I'd bring back one of my favorite episodes about my new bestie, PERRY! Perry Menopause and all she brings to the table. UGH! If I don't laugh, I will lose my cool. Are you with me? And men, this one is for YOU, too. It's essential to understand how your partner is feeling! Menopause can affect a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes, mood swings, and decreased libido can be challenging to deal with. It's a tough time for couples, but I've got you! And I'm here to share some great tips to help. I'm getting real - and no-nonsense, y'all! You are NOT ALONE in this journey! Communication is crucial in helping couples. Keep your new bestie at bay and your boo in your bed! Ha. There are ways to ACCEPT THIS AND FEEL GOOD! Let's talk about menopause today on Doing Relationships Right! Happy Dating During Midlife!  xo j  Looking to improve your relationships? Check out 'Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to Finally Doing Relationships Right!' This book features an authentic and relatable style filled with humor and personal anecdotes. It provides practical tips and tricks to help you navigate dating more effectively. Make sure to check out my website jenniferhurvitz.com to find everything you need.

    Love, Relationships and Valentine's Day: The Secret to Getting What You Want with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 16:28


    Let's get into it: Valentine's Day. Whether you love it or hate it, you can do a lot of things to make it work for you.  We're diving into all of it today, so buckle up. Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know!  Happy Relationships!  xo j    And use MS15 to get 15% off COCONU!     

    How Can Menopause Affect Your Relationships? with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 15:02


    Let's get REAL about MENOPAUSE!  The stigma around women's health during menopause can leave women feeling like they are just too old and that nobody would want to date them- not true!  Prioritize your health, eat well, and look after your mind and body. Get help from a coach or therapist to support you while you learn to date again, and it can be a positive experience! Menopause can mess with a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes happen, and the mood swings and decreased libido can be hard to deal with. It's a tough time for couples to get through, but Jennifer has some great tips to help. She shares real-life advice and practical strategies to help couples communicate better, keep the intimacy alive, and come out the other side with a better understanding of things.  So don't worry; you're not alone: let's TALK about all things MENOPAUSE today on DRR!  And use MS15 to get 15% off COCONU!         

    Living Apart Together: What's Up with This New Trend? with Jennifer Hurvitz and Jim Healey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 33:08


    You ask, you get it!  This week on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is BACK, and we are discussing LIVING APART TOGETHER- a growing trend. And one that we have been doing since we met in 2017! It has worked for us, but can it work for YOU? Listen to our conversation and hear the pros and cons; doing what suits your relationship is essential. Scientific evidence shows that living apart may significantly strengthen a long-term relationship. Are you great partners but terrible roommates? Are you great partners but with different definitions of success? Is it essential to you NOT to blend families?  A successful connection means different things to different people, as gender roles, parenthood, and cultural background all play a role in relationships. What was once a deal breaker may now be an opportunity to adapt to modern society. We are here to destigmatize the negativity of going against the "norm."  Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know!  Happy Relationships!  xo j    And use MS15 to get 15% off COCONU! 

    Gaslighting in Relationships: Signs and How to Stop it with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2024 17:17


    GASLIGHTING: SIGNS & HOW TO STOP IT! I'm back with ALL NEW EPISODES of DRR! It's 2024, baby!  This JUST JEN episode lights up the truth about gaslighting in the dating world.  Don't let anyone dim your shine or twist your reality. Trust your instincts, set boundaries, and keep your heart guarded- but not too closed off! Not everyone is GASLIGHTING YOU! Remember, you deserve genuine connections, not mind games. Stay true to yourself and let the right one light up your life. xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Common Mistakes Women Make in the Early Stages of Dating with Midlife Dating Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 19:12


    Dating and not succeeding may seem frustrating. I'm here to talk to you about the common mistakes women make during the early stages of dating. xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Home Alone for the Holidays with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 17:59


    Happy Holidays! But it may not seem as happy if you're spending it alone, maybe for the first time, or maybe for the 10th time.  I'm here to talk to you about some ways to enjoy your holiday, even if it's not exactly like the ones you had before! xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Underrated Qualities of a Great Partner with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 14:04


    Jump back to 2021, right after the pandemic shut down the world, my oldest son went off to college, and shit started getting REAL.  Really.  I started to take my partner for granted after being in "captivity" with him for so long during COVID-19; we were both frustrated, and I was annoyed. It's time for a wake-up call for both of us!  Listen as I talk about those qualities that go overlooked in our partners, the ones that are sometimes forgotten.  Right now, one of the most popular things people want is a satisfying relationship, happiness, money, freedom, and peace. But what about the less obvious?  Listen to what I came up with in 2021 and see if you agree.  xo j    Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Dating During Midlife: What's Different?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 19:34


    DATING AT MIDLIFE CAN BE ABSURD! I know, I've been there. But it can also be amazing!  Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me!  I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below!  Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j        Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Signs Your NEW Relationship Isn't Going to Last with Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2023 17:55


    Don't waste your time if they do these things. These are some signs it won't last. Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me!  I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below!  Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j  Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    Tips for an Awesome First Date After Midlife with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 15:29


    DATING AFTER 40 CAN BE ABSURD! Rough. Wild!  But it can also be amazing!  Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me!  I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below!  Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j        Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

    The Art of Speaking Your Partner's Love Language with your host, Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2023 19:00


    Let's talk about love languages - the five ways people show and feel love. You've got words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Knowing your partner's love language can help you express your feelings better and improve your relationship. Want to know more? Let's dig in! xo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/    

    Communicate Better with your Avoidant Partner with Relationships Expert, Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 37:07


    We're back. Today's episode is AGAIN featuring my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey. We discuss our communication strengths and weaknesses, and how to improve. xo j Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    Better Together: Tips for Getting Back with an Ex and Doing it Right

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 33:34


    We're back, and better then ever. Today's episode is featuring my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey. We will share our entire story, including what's not in my book, and leave no topic untouched. We're discussing how to get back with your ex the right way! It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. Oy. And even coaches fuck up, y'all. We make mistakes, learn from them, hold ourselves accountable, and move on. If I can pick myself up after the last year I endured, anyone can- tune in today and grab a glass of wine. ;) xo j Oh! And if you are feeling birthday-like, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    JEN AGAIN: HAPPY 50-ish to ME, with your host Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2023 15:35


    IT'S MY BIRTHDAY...I can PODCAST IF I WANT TO! So, I'm doing my 50th all over again this year. Why? Last year didn't feel right, so I figured I'd give it another shot. More to that story read on: Yup, last year I wasn't with the right person; it was kind of a superstition of mine. This year, I will celebrate this “Midlife which is truly PRICELESS” with the person I will spend the rest of my life with--and that's all that matters. Looking for all the TEA? Don't miss the special 50-ish Birthday Episode of DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT today, October 12th, featuring my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey. We will share our entire story, including what's not in my book, and leave no topic untouched. It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. Oy. And even coaches fuck up, y'all. We make mistakes, learn from them, hold ourselves accountable, and move on. If I can pick myself up after the last year I endured, anyone can- tune in today and grab a glass of wine. ;) xo j Oh! And if you are feeling birthday-like, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    How to Feel Better About Your Finances with Money Coach, Carrie Casden

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2023 39:25


    I'm thrilled to have Money Coach and Business Manager Carrie Casden on Doing Relationships Right to discuss all things finance- and much more! After over 20 years as a business and personal finance manager, Carie Casden knows this much is true – when it comes to financial challenges, it's rarely actually about the money. Specific patterns tend to repeat themselves, particularly when it comes to women and money. Most of us grew up with a special relationship to our finances due to our upbringing and life events, and it sticks with us – for better or worse. This reality, compounded by the fact that systems are stacked against women, makes matters even more challenging. And even if we've managed to shatter the glass ceiling, find our purpose, and build a solid foundation for ourselves, life inevitably throws us curveballs. Career changes. Divorce. Family drama. Loss. We are confronted with these matters at some point, but are we prepared for them? In Carrie's experience, most people aren't – and it's not because they're incapable. Find Carrie Casden here: CLICK HERE FOR CARRIE CASDEN! Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   

    Why Won't My Kid Stop LYING? with Kimball Lewis the CEO of Empowering Parents.com

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2023 37:03


    Managing child behavior problems is a skill that we can learn.  And the tools and resources available through EmpoweringParent.com and The Total Transformation® child behavior program ensure that you don't have to learn through trial and error. Instead, you can learn from parents and professionals who effectively manage disrespect, defiance, backtalk, lying, laziness, motivation, and other behaviors. My guest today, Kimball Lewis, is the CEO of EmpoweringParents.com. In addition to his leadership and management roles, he contributes as an editor, a homeschooling expert, and a parent coach. He resides in Orlando, Florida, with his wife and two teenage sons. Thank you, Kimball, for joining me today on Doing Relationships Right to talk about WHY KIDS LIE and how we can stop it! Check out EmpoweringParents.com Check out Marriage Helper here: MARRIAGE HELPER Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   

    Attachment Styles and How they Affect YOUR Relationships with Relationship Coach Flora Ong

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2023 34:01


    Today, it's FLASHBACK TO MY FAVORITE EPISODES; we've got the incredible Flora Ong. Flora is a Dating and Relationship Coach as well an Integrated Attachment Specialist.  As a certified Health and Life Coach, Flora focuses on working with men and women, helping them identify their blocks around dating. Her purpose is to find them what they want and to make sure they experience inner peace in the process. "You need to know yourself to be in a relationship." ~ Flora Ong. Today's conversation highlights the importance of understanding yourself. You need to find THE ONE, and, spoiler alert, that is YOU! We dive into the various attachment styles and how to work with those to have a healthy relationship. Thank you, Flora, for joining me and sharing your wisdom. I appreciate you; my audience requested this discussion, so I'm excited to share it with them. Peace, love, and truth, xo j   Find Flora here Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/ Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

    Back to the Future: Overlooked Traits that Make the PERFECT Partner with your host Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2023 14:04


    Today's episode is a not only a Flashback to my FAVES but also a bit of self-reflection. When I recorded this episode in September of 2021 Jim and I were still dating- jump ahead to the present...things are much different.  Do I wish I could turn back the clock and make some much-needed changes? YES, ma'am! But we wouldn't be where we are now. (More to come soon!)  Enjoy!  xo j    Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.  Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

    FLASHBACK FAVE: SEXY, SPICY & HOT LOVE AFTER DIVORCE with Host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy Podcast, Sadie Marie

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2023 31:09


    Let's go back in time to 2020 when I had my friend and colleague SADIE MARIE, host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy Podcast, on the show!  After her divorce, Sadie has realized the importance of being determined, self-loving, and fierce. She now prioritizes being resilient and relentless in her pursuit of happiness for herself and her loved ones. Through her podcast, Sadie hopes to share her thoughts and gain insights from both her guests and listeners. Here are the main points Sadie has learned about post-divorce:  Authenticity is more valuable than perfection. Your mindset affects both your emotional and physical well-being. Having faith in what's possible is just as important as being fully engaged in the present moment. LIsten to Sadie's Divorced and Happy Podcast here: https://www.divorcedandhappy.net/podcast And follow Sadie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy/   Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.  Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!    

    FLASHBACK EPISODE: Forget What You Learned About Dating it's All BS! with Dating Expert Jennifer Hurvitz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2023 21:17


    ITS A FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES ON DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT PODCAST! Let's go back to the archives to 2022 and listen to one of my Favorite Just Jen episodes, kay? Dating has changed since I was in my 20's! Evolved, maybe? There are some "rules"  y'all just need to forget; myths about dating that are total nonsense! No worries, I've got you! Today on Doing Relationships Right!  Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.  Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!

    How to Find Your Person and Avoid Bad Relationships with Clinical Psychologist Dr. Tari Mack

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2023 30:11


      It's a FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES TODAY ON DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT!  Are you tired of searching for love in all the wrong places or at the wrong time? Let clinical psychologist, Dr. Tari Mack, guide you in finding your ideal partner and steering clear of toxic relationships.   Tari Mack, Ph.D., has been featured on CBS and Cosmopolitan magazine. She has also worked with high-profile clients, assisting them in enhancing their lives and relationships. Meet Dr. Tari - a renowned speaker, author, coach, and clinical psychologist specializing in relationships. Her expertise has helped countless individuals across the U.S. as she shares her knowledge via radio programs, podcasts, and blogs. Dr. Tari believes relationships are essential to our lives, yet we need more education on cultivating them in school, professional life, or home. During her talks, she provides audiences with valuable tools to build successful and meaningful relationships, empowering them to transform themselves and their lives.   Grab a copy of her book: Every Relationship Is A Test: Master Your Love Lessons and Finally Get The Love You Deserve: https://www.amazon.com/Every-Relationship-Test-Lessons-Finally/dp/1796750077   Reach out to Dr. Tari at: Website: https://www.drtarimack.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/thepathofjoy/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/drtarimack/   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!

    Do's and Don'ts of Online Dating with Michael Kaye, Director of Brand Marketing and Communications at OKCupid and Archer Dating Apps

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2023 29:18


    It's a FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES with the fantastic Micheal Kaye from OkCupid!  Meet Michael Kaye, the Head of Global Communications at OkCupid and the newly appointed marketing communications lead for ARCHER, a dating app for queer men. With his extensive experience, Michael has valuable insights on how to become the best online dater possible. In addition to his professional work, Michael also teaches Communications at NYU and serves on the Board of Governors for the Human Rights Campaign. Like me, Michael has made a career by helping people find success in relationships; it's our jam. We dive into the secrets to the best profile, cuffing season, the hookup culture change, and much more! "Ask your friends for help with your dating profile. Those people know you best." ~Michael Kaye In today's discussion, we will cover the proper etiquette for online dating, including what to do and what to avoid. We will also provide tips on how to initiate a successful first conversation online and move it offline just in time for the cuffing season (we will reveal the start date during the episode!). Michael will share his expert advice on how to maximize your online dating experience. Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!

    Are Post-Divorce Breakups More Difficult than Divorce Itself? with your host Jennifer Hurvitz inspired by WTF divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2023 9:44


    Thank you, Rob Roseman, from WTF DIVORCE, for the inspo for this episode!  It's a FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES with a great Just Jen episode inspired by a question I got from a follower off of Rob Roseman's INCREDIBLE community, WTF DIVORCE!  Let me explain!  Of course, your divorce was the most challenging break-up EVER- but if you think your first RELATIONSHIP post-divorce breakup is any easier, guess again! Some might say it's even more complex.  Listen to today's Just Jen episode and hear me out! Then share your thoughts on my private FB Page!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!

    Making the Difficult Decision if Divorce is Right for YOU? with Relationships Decision Coach, Cindy Stibbard

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2023 34:13


    SHOULD YOU STAY OR SHOULD YOU GO? Is divorce truly the right next step for your relationship? While I'm not doing any more NEW episodes, I am picking MY FAVORITES from the last FIVE YEARS! It's FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES and I love this conversation with one of my dear friends and colleagues, Certified Divorce & Relationship Decision Coach-- Cindy Stibbard! @divorceredefined I related to this topic so much; when I wrote my second book, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married, I got so much push-back from the divorce community questioning my stance on divorce. Was I pro-divorce or pro-marriage? Truth is- I am PRO-HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP no matter what that looks like, which is why I am such a HUGE fan of Cindy Stibbard's and what she has created for those struggling to make the RIGHT decision. Leaving your marriage is never easy, especially when kids are involved. Is ending your marriage RIGHT for you? And if it is, how can you do it confidently and with the wisdom you'll need to get through it? Cindy is a ROCKSTAR and has built tools and workshops guaranteed to make whichever path you choose easier; knowledge is power, and a plan is necessary. Listen to this episode, head over to jenniferhurvitz.com, and subscribe so you don't miss her What's Happenin' Hurvitz monthly newsletter!  Listen to Doing Relationships Right as we unpack this and much more.  Where to Find Cindy: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceredefined/ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/divorceredefined TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divorceredefined   Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

    Coaching Parents to Conquer Divorce by Taking the Co-Parenting High Road with Michelle Dempsey-Multack

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 25:08


    It's a  FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES with Bestselling Author, Podcast Host and Co-Parenting Coach my friend-- Michelle Dempsey- Multack!  We're revisiting some of the best episodes from my Fall 2022 Season until I decide what to do with DRR!  If you missed it the first time, don't worry - today is your lucky day! Thank you, Michelle, for being one of my most popular episodes and a personal favorite. Michelle is on a mission to help Moms move on after a divorce, navigate high-conflict co-parenting situations and normalize leaving ANY marriage for any reason you see fit! No more "divorce guilt" or shame for doing what feels right.  I love this and Michelle's "no bullshit" approach to all of it.  Thank you, Michelle, for joining me today on Doing Relationships Right pod to dish the dirt on divorce- dating post-divorce, finding love again, surviving, and thriving. This episode was one of my favorite conversations and a fantastic way to close a great season!  Just two divorced Mommas- shooting the shit about our life's experiences and how to Do Divorce Right. ;)  Michelle Dempsey-Multack, MS, CDS, is a mom, Divorce Coach, certified divorce specialist(CDS), speaker, and now the author of her first book, Moms Moving On: Real Life Advice for Conquering Divorce, Co-Parenting Through Conflict, and Becoming Your Best Self. Michelle graduated from Hofstra University with a degree in journalism and communication and then earned a double master's degree in education from Adelphi University. She hosts Moms Moving On's weekly podcast and writes regularly for Parents, Scary Mommy, and others. A former New Yorker, she lives in Miami with her husband, daughter, and stepdaughter. Michelle's Website MOMS MOVING ON Grab Michelle's Book!  Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   

    It's All Things Relationships with THERAPY JEFF and Jennifer! Flashback Fave Episode of 2022!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 29:06


    Let's return to September 2022 when I had MY FAVE BOY CRUSH- Therapy Jeff on the Pod! Take a listen to this incredible episode!  Jeff Guenther, LPC, earned his master's degree in marriage and family therapy from the University of Southern California and his bachelor's degree in child and family development from San Diego State University. His therapeutic career started at a crisis line, where he worked with people suffering from suicidal thoughts and severe anxiety. He's lived in Portland, Oregon, since 2005, and my private practice focuses on couples and individuals. These days, He spends his spare time making one-minute videos for TikTok and Instagram for his 2.1 million followers! "You can't say the wrong thing to the right person." ~ Therapy Jeff As Jeff explains in today's episode, "If you think someone you're dating thinks you're insecure or needy, show them that side of you and give them the opportunity to walk away so you can find somebody who will actually meet those needs."  I am overly excited (if you can't tell) to have Jeff on my podcast today. I am a huge fan of his content and can't believe we got to chat. This episode is worth sharing! Peace, love, and truth, xo j  FIND JEFF HERE Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/ Grab a copy of Jen's latest book, MIDLIFE PRICELESS: A DATING COACH'S GUIDE TO FINALLY DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT! https://www.jenniferhurvitz.com/ordermidlifepriceless    Show notes: [00:27] Struggling with dating? Check out Weaver Dating! (https://weaverdating.com/) [02:00] Do you know who Therapy Jeff is? [03:42] Do you need chemistry when you meet someone? [04:25]  Red, yellow and green flag chemistry. [08:48] Your type might be based on childhood trauma. [10:52] Sex on the first date, should it happen? [13:03] You won't say the wrong thing to the right person. [15:39] Therapy Jeff helps people break up without meaning to! [18:31] Sometimes, you keep a relationship to feel chosen. [22:18] The struggle with dating as “Therapy Jeff” [26:30] Where to find Therapy Jeff online and what's coming up for him!

    What is WHOLE Self Living? with Lindsay Christianson, MA, LMHC

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2023 31:31


    What really is WHOLE self, and why does it matter? We're ready to learn what it means to have WHOLE self living. Doing Relationships Right podcast is here every Tuesday with all new guest episodes! This week we have Lindsay Christianson, MA, LMHC! Listen to this episode, head over to jenniferhurvitz.com, and subscribe so you don't miss her What's Happenin' Hurvitz monthly newsletter!  Listen to Doing Relationships Right as we unpack this and much more.   Where to Find Lindsay:     Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

    The Family Positivity Movement: Becoming a Solo Mom By Choice with host of Stork'd Podcast, Julia Karol

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2023 37:42


    Family styles are changing, and today we're unpacking all of it.  We're discussing solo parenting by choice, and what that means. Doing Relationships Right podcast is BACK with all new guest episodes! This week we have Stork'd Podcast host and solo mom by choice Julia Karol! Listen to this episode, head over to jenniferhurvitz.com, and subscribe so you don't miss her What's Happenin' Hurvitz monthly newsletter!  Listen to Doing Relationships Right as we unpack this and much more.   Where to Find Julia: Website: https://www.storkdpodcast.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/storkd_podcast/ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/storkd     Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

    Understanding the Art and Psychology of Dating with Master Photographer and Podcast Host Kerry Brett

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 33:21


    What's your dating app picture say about you? If you've never thought about it, you will after this. Doing Relationships Right podcast is BACK with all new guest episodes! This week we have Master Photographer and Podcast Host Kerry Brett Listen to this episode, head over to jenniferhurvitz.com, and subscribe so you don't miss her What's Happenin' Hurvitz monthly newsletter!  Listen to Doing Relationships Right as we unpack this and much more.   Where to Find Kerri: Website: http://www.kerrybrettlifestyleportraits.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerry_brett/?hl=en Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/844231/7845565   Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

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