Podcasts about divorce support

We've all been there—those moments during divorce when our minds spiral with thoughts that feel absolutely true: "I wasn't good enough," "I've ruined my children's lives," or "I'll never recover from this." But what if these certainties are simply stories your brain has constructed, not objective facts?  In this episode, I reveal how the thoughts dominating your divorce experience have been shaped by forces largely outside your control—biology, family conditioning, and societal expectations. Your brain, constantly seeking patterns and explanations, often manufactures meaning that aligns with these influences rather than reflecting reality.  When I faced my own divorce, society told me it would devastate my children and destroy my future. Instead of accepting this narrative, I consciously chose to define divorce differently—as growth, new beginnings, and ultimately a path to greater happiness. Years later, that decision has proven transformative not just for me, but for my entire family.  The power lies in recognizing that when we're stressed and emotionally overwhelmed, our primitive brain hijacks our reasoning abilities. Through a simple 3-5 minute writing practice I teach my clients, you can learn to distinguish between objective facts and subjective interpretations. This distinction creates space for choice—the choice to interpret your divorce and future differently.  This isn't about toxic positivity or ignoring genuine feelings. It's about recognizing that most thoughts causing your suffering aren't unassailable truths but interpretations you can question and replace. When you separate fact from story, you reclaim your power to chart your own course through divorce and beyond.  Ready to stop believing everything your brain tells you about your divorce? Try the practice outlined in this episode, or schedule a free 30-minute call with me to experience how liberating it feels to distinguish between what's happening and what it means.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep215

Join Karen McMahon for a powerful and inspiring episode on spiritual resilience and transformation after divorce. In this heartfelt conversation, Karen is joined by Carrie Hopkins-Doubts, a seasoned Spiritual Resilience Coach and long-time member of the JBD team, who shares her wisdom on navigating grief, reclaiming your identity, and finding spiritual strength after the end of a marriage. Carrie dives into the essential elements of healing after divorce, guiding listeners on how to shift from heartbreak to healing. She emphasizes the importance of embracing your authentic self and leaning into spiritual resilience to not only survive divorce but to grow from it. Through personal stories of grief, recovery, and renewal, Carrie shows how self-compassion and support can empower your journey forward. Carrie is also the creator of the Rebuilding Your Life After Loss program, offered in both individual and group coaching formats. Her transformative courses are designed to help individuals reconnect with their heart, reclaim their personal power, and re-align with their deeper purpose—laying the foundation for the next meaningful chapter of life. Whether you're in the early stages of divorce or seeking deeper healing long after, this episode offers the tools and encouragement you need to experience lasting change. Discover how spiritual transformation can become the guiding force in your divorce recovery journey. To learn more about Carrie's approach to grief, loss, and spiritual growth, visit her website and explore her programs focused on healing from the inside out.   Connect with Carrie:  Free Gift: Transitions and Transformations Course - https://bit.ly/43mWV3W Join the waitlist for Rebuilding Your Life After Loss - https://lifesnextchaptercoaching.mykajabi.com/waitlistrebuilding Website: https://lifesnextchaptercoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifesnextchapter/ Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg

In this raw and relatable conversation, Stacey opens up about something many women will recognise like handing over financial power in a relationship. We talk about how easy it is to lose control and why, as I always say, finances are one of the leading causes of divorce.But we don't stop there.We also dive into:  

In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, host Karen McMahon speaks with somatic healer and coach Lori James about the powerful role of somatic healing in recovering from the trauma of divorce. They explore how emotional pain from divorce and toxic relationships often becomes stored in the body, manifesting as anxiety, depression, and physical tension. Lori shares her own post-divorce healing journey and explains how somatic practices — such as breathwork, movement, and body awareness — can help individuals reconnect with their inner wisdom, process deep emotional wounds, and rebuild a sense of safety and empowerment. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking divorce recovery tools, emotional resilience, and a deeper understanding of how the body holds and heals trauma. Discover practical strategies to support your emotional healing after divorce and begin moving forward with clarity and strength. Connect with Laurie: Free Gift: My free Beginner's Guide to Somatic Healing: https://laurieejames.myflodesk.com/bgtsh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurie.james/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/laurie.james.79219754 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurie-james-8336a0168/ Website: https://www.laurieejames.com/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/confessions-of-a-freebird-midlife-divorce-heal/id1694026063 Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg

The divorce conversation has happened—and now you're still living together.** Tensions are high, emotions are raw, and the atmosphere at home feels like a ticking time bomb. In this episode, we unpack what to do *after* the divorce bomb drops—how to survive and even strategically thrive in the uncomfortable in-between of sharing space with someone you're separating from. First things first: before anything escalates, it's critical to understand your legal rights and quietly begin gathering financial documentation—especially if there's a risk your spouse might hide or manipulate assets once they know you're serious.** We'll also explore what it looks like to have the divorce conversation with your children—how to support them honestly without oversharing or putting them in the middle. You'll hear how to create emotional and physical boundaries that protect everyone involved. From separate bedrooms to shared parenting time, this episode is packed with real talk and practical strategies. You'll learn how to stop walking on eggshells, communicate calmly, and lead with clarity rather than chaos. Even while still living together, you can begin laying the groundwork for a strategic, empowered divorce—one step, one boundary, one conversation at a time. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Join the Free Divorce Paralysis Workshop: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/overcoming-divorce-fear Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce

Disclaimer: This conversation includes discussions of sensitive topics such as rape and trauma, which may be triggering for some listeners. In this empowering episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, host Karen McMahon sits down with Kyera T. Kacey, Author of Rich B$tch Money Goals and founder of LiberateHER™. Kyera shares her transformative journey of overcoming trauma, including sexual assault and two divorces. She emphasizes the power of personal responsibility, self-love, and authenticity in healing and growth. Kyera discusses how embracing these principles helped her overcome adversity and create a life aligned with her true self. With practical strategies for personal empowerment and navigating life's challenges, Kyera's insights are a must-listen for anyone on the path of healing after divorce, seeking empowerment, and wanting to thrive despite life's struggles. Tune in for inspiration, actionable tools, and a roadmap to a more fulfilled, empowered life! The 9 Rich B$tch Principles are foundational habits that builds a Rich B$tch life. A Rich B$tch always: R -takes Responsibility (personal) I- Has Integrity in all she does C - holds Courageous Conversations H - Heals for the Highest Good B - Believes in herself I - Invests in herself T - Trusts herself C - Consciously Creates her life H - Is Heart-centered in her pursuit of success Connect with Kyera: Website: https://www.kyerakacey.com/ Rich B$tch Money Goals Membership: https://www.kyerakacey.com/rbe2 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kyerakacey/ Book: https://www.amazon.com/Rich-tch-Money-Goals-Energetic/dp/B0CM3JJ5GZ Resources Mentioned in this episode: Join the FREE April 16th Workshop: Overcoming Divorce Fear and Paralysis - https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/overcoming-divorce-fear Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce

Divorce can disrupt every aspect of your life—your home, finances, and family dynamic. Clarity is key to navigating this challenge successfully. In this episode, I sit down with Andrea Vacca, a leading New York divorce attorney and expert in collaborative divorce, to explore essential steps for a smoother process. We discuss understanding your legal rights, organizing financials, initiating the conversation with your spouse, and co-parenting, especially while living under the same roof. It's about starting strong, staying child-focused, and minimizing conflict. Andrea also shares strategies for setting boundaries, improving communication, and avoiding court through a collaborative divorce approach. If you're feeling overwhelmed, know that with the right mindset, you can navigate this transition with confidence and dignity. Andrea Vacca is the founder of Vacca Law and Mediation, specializing in non-adversarial divorce and family law. A certified mediator and collaborative divorce attorney, she's committed to helping clients achieve peaceful resolutions, protect their families, and move forward without unnecessary conflict. Resources Mentioned in this episode: FREE Pre-Divorce Checklist - https://www.vaccalaw.com/pre-divorce-checklist/ Join the FREE April 16th Workshop: Overcoming Divorce Fear and Paralysis - https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/overcoming-divorce-fear Learn more about Pre-Divorce Guidance: https://www.vaccalaw.com/pre-divorce-guidance/ A word from our sponsor: TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd  

Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you.Divorce can feel overwhelming—even when faith is a big part of your life. Many people turn to their church for guidance, but what if you don't feel comfortable talking to your pastor? What if the advice you're given doesn't match up with what you know is best for you and your family? What is there is abuse?  In this episode, Kelly Bennett, Esq., continues her conversation with Denny Brewer—a longtime family law attorney, Executive Pastor, and General Counsel at Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas. They explore what faith communities often get wrong—and right—when it comes to divorce (hint: especially if there is abuse involved), how to navigate faith-based guilt, what to do if your place of worship isn't the right fit for support, and why mediation can be the best choice for handling divorce for privacy and mental (and financial!) well-being reasons. Kelly and Denny chat about:Why many people feel uncomfortable discussing divorce with their faith leaders Why pastors and religious leaders should ask, “Is there abuse?”How abuse can go unmentioned and lead to tragedy When to seek professional guidance outside of your faith community Why mediation is often a better option than going to court Why there is no better time to embrace faith and lean into prayer than during divorce Plus, a couple of very surprising stories… Dennis Brewer is longtime family law attorney, and executive pastor and general counsel at Texas mega Church Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas. He is the co-author of the new book, Back to Court: A Complete Guide to Child Custody Litigation.  Note: This episode touches on abuse and real-life incidents with unfortunate endings. If these subjects are difficult for you, please listen with care. RESOURCES:DENNY BREWER'S BOOK: Back to Court: A Complete Guide to Child Custody Litigation. WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart PodcastFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:  Instagram.com/saperelawfirmJOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK:  Facebook.com/saperelawfirmNEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & MediationNEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges

Today, I'm introducing you to "Morning Pages," a transformative practice developed by Julia Cameron in "The Artist's Way." This simple yet profound exercise helps you tap into mental and emotional honesty. When navigating divorce, we often tell ourselves we shouldn't feel certain emotions or we pretend they don't exist. Morning Pages creates a private space to acknowledge everything without self-contempt. What emerges on these pages isn't "truth," just thoughts that need release. What makes Morning Pages uniquely powerful for divorce recovery is that it functions as both a mindfulness practice (clearing mental clutter) and a somatic practice (calming your nervous system). Letting go rarely happens in a single moment. It's a process requiring consistent practice, which is why incorporating Morning Pages into your daily routine may gradually release what you've been holding onto. In this episode you'll learn: What Morning Pages is.How it's a practice in both mind (mindfulness) and body (somatic regulation)How to practice Morning PagesLetting go is a process, not a one-time eventHow to have compassion with yourself as you get better at this practiceIf this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep206

In this episode, we dive into the transformative journey of navigating divorce with emotional resilience. We explore how societal expectations and limiting beliefs often shape our approach to divorce and healing. With practical strategies for building emotional strength, self-compassion, and empowerment, listeners will learn how to break free from outdated conditioning and embrace a future of personal growth. Whether you're at the beginning of your divorce journey or thriving post-divorce, this episode provides tools to move forward with confidence. Guest Megan Dalla-Camina, a globally recognized leader in women's empowerment, shares insights from her work with over 10,000 women and her book Women Rising. Discover how to reclaim your power and rise above challenges to create a fulfilling life post-divorce. Connect with Megan: Contact: https://megandallacamina.com/ Take the Inner Critic Quiz: https://megandallacamina.com/innercriticquiz/ Women Rising Program: https://womenrisingco.com/program/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/megandallacamina/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/megandallacamina/ Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Reclaim Your Mind Program: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/reclaimyourmind A word from our sponsor: TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd

Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you.Hey friends, divorce can shake your faith to the core, right? Whether you're struggling with guilt, a fear of being judged by your faith community, or questioning what your beliefs say about divorce, you're not alone. What if the very thing you're afraid of could actually be a source of healing and strength? In this episode, Kelly Bennett, Esq., chats with Denny Brewer, Board Certified Family Law Specialist, about the impact of divorce on faith. They break down common struggles—like shame, isolation, and judgment—and give real-life insights on getting through divorce while staying true to your beliefs. Key Takeaways from This Episode:The “Shame Factor” in Divorce – Why people feel judged and isolated during divorce—and how to break free from that mindset.Faith's Role in Divorce – How some churches/places of worship get it wrong by ostracizing divorced members—and how others actually provide support and healing.Are You Stuck in Victim Mode? – How to recognize if you're wallowing in self-pity or using your faith to find strength and purpose.The Power of Forgiveness – What true forgiveness really means (and why it's actually for you, not your ex).The Right “They” – Why surrounding yourself with the right people during and after divorce is critical to healing and rebuilding your life.Faith-Based Therapy & Divorce Recovery – Why religious counseling alone may not be enough and how faith-based therapy can help you move forward.Making Your Misery Your Ministry – How your greatest struggle can become your greatest source of strength in helping others. Whether you're the one filing or the one who never wanted the divorce, this chat will help you find strength, clarity, and a way forward.Denny Brewer is an Executive Pastor and General Counsel at Fellowship Church in the Dallas-Fort Worth Metroplex, and a partner at BrewerLang.  He is the co-author of the new book, Back to Court: A Complete Guide to Child Custody Litigation.  Want more? Tune in for a bonus episode (coming soon) that continues the conversation om divorce and faith. RESOURCES:WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart PodcastFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:  Instagram.com/saperelawfirmJOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK:  Facebook.com/saperelawfirmNEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & MediationNEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges

Divorce can be a profound emotional upheaval, bringing along a whirlwind of grief that often is ignored. In this episode the conversation will navigates through the unique ways grief can manifest in the context of divorce, tackling societal pressures that often lead to minimizing one's emotions.  As you listen, discover actionable steps for creating space to grieve and heal. By embracing the messiness of emotions, we can allow ourselves to grow and expand from our experiences. This podcast explores the often-overlooked emotional aspect of divorce grief, teaching you how to embrace the grieving process without judgment, while offering tools for healing and resilience. If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep205

Making the decision to divorce is one thing—telling your spouse is another. In this episode, I walk you through the emotional and practical aspects of this pivotal conversation. I know how overwhelming this moment can feel, which is why I want to help you prepare, not just with what to say, but how to say it with clarity and confidence. This is not a request or a debate—it's your decision, and I'll guide you in delivering it with strength and compassion. We'll explore the key elements of timing, setting, and emotional preparedness, because how and when you share this decision can make all the difference. I'll also help you anticipate their reaction—whether it's shock, anger, or grief—so you can hold firm without getting pulled into unnecessary conflict. And if safety is a concern, I'll offer ways to ensure you have the right support in place. This is a hard but necessary step, and you don't have to do it alone. If you're struggling with how to begin, feeling anxious about their response, or simply need reassurance that you can do this, this episode is for you. Let's take this step together—with clarity, confidence, and care. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com 

Feeling stuck in the whirlwind of divorce and its aftermath? Learn how to reclaim your power and find alignment between your mind, body, and intuition. In this episode of "Becoming You Again," you will learn the four-step process of divorce recovery. Understand how misalignment can lead to indecision and helplessness, and discover practical tools that will help you regain control of your life. By reconnecting with your true self and trusting your intuition, you can move forward with confidence and purpose.  This podcast episode will explore the feelings of being stuck that often accompany divorce and provides actionable steps for reconnecting with oneself to facilitate healing and GET UNSTUCK. This episode covers: • Discovering the common emotional challenges during and after divorce • Understanding the misalignment of mind, body, and intuition • Learning to create emotional safety in the present moment • Managing challenging emotions for greater self-awareness • Breaking down unhelpful beliefs that limit happiness • Building new beliefs aligned with personal values and priorities If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep204 

The gang explain Dennis Rodman's pivotal role in both the Chicago Bulls and US-North Korea relations. This is a preview of the Patron-exclusive second part of our episode with Eleanor Penny 'Divorce Support Club'  - you can get the whole thing on Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/122552378

Co-parenting after divorce is hard enough—but when every decision turns into a battle, it can feel impossible. Are you stuck in a cycle of never-ending arguments over schedules, school decisions, or medical choices? Do your attempts at communication seem to fuel more conflict rather than resolve it? If you're navigating a high-conflict co-parenting dynamic, you may be wondering if there's a way to break free from the chaos. In this episode, we explore an underutilized yet powerful resource: Parenting Coordinators—who they are, what they do, and how they can help you move from constant tension to a more peaceful co-parenting arrangement. We'll dive into the complexities of parenting coordination, exploring how these professionals act as neutral facilitators to help parents make decisions, reduce conflict, and create a more stable environment for their children. What does a Parenting Coordinator actually do? When should you consider working with one? And how can they help enforce or modify a parenting plan without dragging you back into court? If you're feeling exhausted by the emotional toll of co-parenting disputes, this episode will give you insights into how a Parenting Coordinator might be the missing piece in your post-divorce journey. Joining us is Carolyn Kalos, a seasoned family lawyer, mediator, and parenting coordinator with over 25 years of experience in family law. Carolyn has seen firsthand the toll that ongoing conflict takes on parents and children, and she specializes in helping families find practical, sustainable solutions outside of court. From her work as a trial attorney to her extensive mediation and training experience, Carolyn brings a wealth of knowledge on navigating high-conflict parenting situations. Whether you're considering a Parenting Coordinator or simply want to understand your options, this conversation will offer valuable insights into making co-parenting smoother and less stressful. Tune in! Connect with Carolyn: Website: https://www.dfkfamilylaw.com/ More about Parent Coodinating: https://www.dfkfamilylaw.com/services/parenting-coordination/ Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  A word from our sponsor: TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd  

Eleanor Penny (Novara Media) joins the gang to talk about Coldplay, Benihana chefs phoning it in, and divorced parents. Check Eleanor out on Twitter here: https://x.com/eleanorkpenny This episode features guest hosts Huge Davies and Bella Hull. Check out Huge on Instagram here - https://www.instagram.com/hugedavies/ Check out Bella on Instagram here - https://www.instagram.com/bellabellahull/ Get the Patron-exclusive second part of this episode (over 35 mins of bonus content) on Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/122552378 Follow us online to get Glue-related clips and updates: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@glue.factory.pod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gluefactorypodcast BSky: https://bsky.app/profile/gluefactorypod.bsky.social Twitter: https://twitter.com/gluepodcast

Feeling trapped in a cycle of financial anxiety and scarcity? Discover how you can break free after divorce. In this episode I share my personal journey from a limiting belief system about money during my marriage to embracing a mindset of abundance and financial empowerment. I open up about the struggles of constantly feeling like I couldn't afford anything and how I was inspired to challenge and transform those outdated beliefs post-divorce. This episode is packed with insights designed to help you identify and reshape your own relationship with money.   This episode covers:• Understanding the emotional challenges of money after divorce • The impact of a scarcity mindset on financial well-being • Personal stories of overcoming limiting beliefs about money • Practical questions to evaluate your relationship with money • Strategies for transitioning to an abundance mindset • The vital role of belief in achieving financial successIf this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep203

What would it feel like to let go of trying to control everyone around you, and instead shift your focus on what is actually within your control. This episode is a journey into liberating ourselves from the emotional burden of others' behaviors by insights from Mel Robbins' compelling book, "The Let Them Theory." Discover how Robbins' straightforward and scientifically-backed approach can help you reconnect with yourself and navigate relationships post-divorce.Understanding how to reclaim your power during and after divorce starts with recognizing how to apply this concept of Let Them and own your power by Let Me, which will lead to freedom and healing in our relationships. This episode will: • Introduce Mel Robbins' Let Them Theory for those going through divorce • Discuss the significance of letting go of control in relationships • Explore the implications of autonomy and choice in emotional well-being • Show the psychological benefits of the Let Them approach • Encourage self-discovery through identifying personal values and priorities • Recap on the transformative potential of embracing the Let Them Theory   If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep202

In this episode, Karen McMahon explores the outer journey of divorce—navigating the practical challenges and taking actionable steps toward your new life. From deciding whether to stay or go, to understanding your legal rights, managing overwhelming emotions, and creating stability in your home, Karen offers guidance for the road ahead. Learn how to build a supportive team, including legal professionals, financial experts, and divorce coaches. Explore different approaches to divorce like litigation, collaboration, and mediation, and find the path that works for you. Karen also shares tips for navigating negotiations with grace and dignity, and how to prioritize self-care as you rediscover yourself after divorce. Tune in for actionable advice and support as you move forward with confidence after divorce. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd

In this raw and honest episode, Sara Davison opens up about the shock, heartbreak, and isolation she felt after discovering her husband's affair. If you've ever questioned your reality in a relationship, you're not alone. Recognising manipulation is the first step to reclaiming your power.

What if embracing your emotions during a divorce could be the key to finding independence and fulfillment? Join me, Karen Nelson, as we explore this transformative idea in "Becoming You Again." Society often tells us to hide hard emotions, like anger, fear, and sadness. But the most effective way to heal from your divorce is to create a safe space to process these emotions fully and develop the emotional resilience needed to thrive post-divorce.  I'll walk you through a gentle approach to navigating difficult emotions. From initial resistance to eventual acceptance, I discuss the five stages of opening up to our feelings, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embracing them. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to reconnect with yourself, creating a lasting foundation of emotional resilience that supports a fulfilling and independent life.This episode focuses on emotional healing during and after divorce, emphasizing the importance of allowing difficult emotions rather than resisting them.  This episode: • Explores the common resistance to difficult emotions • Teaches healing through embracing rather than avoiding feelings • Teaches the five stages of emotional healing  • Promotes self-compassion as a critical part of the healing process • Offers tools to support emotional resilienceIf this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep201 

Unlock the secret to emotional resilience with one simple practice. Imagine shedding your stress and emotional baggage with a transformative technique called rhythmic shaking. This is an empowering somatic practice that helps you release tension and stress, especially if you're navigating grief or feeling overwhelmed. This episode will teach you the power of gentle movement and rhythm in fostering emotional independence.  This episode will:• Introduce rhythmic shaking as a somatic practice for stress relief • Guide listeners through a rhythmic shaking practice • Encourages slowing down to find stillness and groundingIf this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep200

We're kicking off the year with a refreshed website, new programs, and a wealth of resources designed to help you navigate the toughest divorce challenges. Whether you're dealing with narcissism, manipulation, or other complex relationship dynamics, Journey Beyond Divorce is here to support you every step of the way. In this episode, co-founder, Karen McMahon, reflects on the lessons learned in 2024 – a year filled with uncertainty and personal challenges.  You can expect to hear about the new direction Journey Beyond Divorce is taking in its focus on high-conflict divorce support. We'll discuss how to identify the key warning signs of being in a high-conflict divorce and the value of specialized support to help you navigate emotional and legal challenges. You'll also learn about the variety of programs and resources available to assist you at every stage of your divorce journey, as well as how to access free resources like coaching calls and helpful gifts. Plus, we'll give you a sneak peek at upcoming events, including free “taste test” sessions for our new support and training groups. Visit the NEW Home Page of Journey Beyond Divorce: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/homenew Free gifts for each stage of divorce: On the Fence: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/onthefence Just Starting: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/juststarted In Negotiations: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/innegotiations Moving On: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/movingon

When something goes wrong who's the first person to feel your wrath? If you're like most women, it's you. The viper tongue shows up with a barrage of ways you're not good enough and it's all your fault.  In this episode I talk about why we, as women, are so mean and full of self hate and how to switch the narrative learning to like (and hopefully even) love yourself. In this episode I confront the damaging societal influences that often lead us to undervalue ourselves, and I'll share practical steps to help you recognize your inherent worth. By challenging the negative self-talk that haunts many of us, we'll foster a kinder, more loving relationship with ourselves.This episode focuses on the deep-rooted struggle many we encounter when learning to love ourselves, particularly after a divorce. You'll come away from this episode:  • Understanding the psychological effects of societal expectations on women's self-worth • Identifying the "mean girl" voice that perpetuates self-hatred • Encouraging self-appreciation through daily lists of love and achievements • Emphasizing the importance of self-validation and recognizing intrinsic worth  If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep199

When was the last time you felt frustrated, annoyed or downright angry at something your ex did? If it was recently, or if you've ever thought, it would be so nice if they'd just do things the way I do them, then this episode is for you.  In this episode, we'll explore the concept of 'manuals'—those pesky expectations we impose on others—and how releasing them can lead to dropping the excess suffering you're feeling.  You'll learn that ‘manuals' are the unwritten expectations we create about how others should behave to make us feel good. By recognizing these manuals, we learn to let go of unnecessary emotional burdens, improve our relationships, and embrace the dualities of life, particularly during challenging times like divorce. In this episode I'll cover:  • Exploring the 50-50 principle in life • Understanding the concept of manuals in relationships • How expectations create emotional resistance • Recognizing personal autonomy in interactions • Emphasizing self-responsibility for our feelings • Empowerment comes from owning what you can actually controlIf this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep198

Alcohol often plays a hidden role in divorce and relationship breakdowns. In this episode, we explore the impact of alcohol on emotional intimacy and how emotional sobriety can heal relationships. Our guest, Veronica Valli—psychotherapist, sobriety coach, and author—shares her powerful journey from addiction to emotional sobriety, offering practical tools for rebuilding trust and fostering deeper connections. What You'll Learn: The Role of Alcohol in Divorce & Relationships: How alcohol hides emotions and erodes trust and communication. Emotional Sobriety as a Key to Healing: The importance of addressing emotional triggers in addiction for lasting relational change. Practical Tips for Sobriety in Relationships: How to improve communication, set boundaries, and rebuild intimacy. Veronica's Sobriety Journey: Real-life wisdom on how emotional sobriety transforms relationships and life after addiction. Takeaways: Emotional sobriety is more than just abstaining from alcohol; it's about gaining self-awareness, emotional resilience, and building healthier, more authentic relationships. Join the Conversation: Tune in to learn how emotional sobriety can transform your relationships and help you rebuild after the impact of alcohol in your life. Connect with Veronica: Website: https://soberful.com/ Soberful - The Book: https://www.amazon.com/Soberful-Uncover-Sustainable-Fulfilling-Alcohol/dp/1683648293 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veronicajvalli/ Soberful - Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soberful/id1371013717 Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd

Divorce can feel like an overwhelming and never-ending process, but what if there were ways to make it go faster while ensuring a smoother transition to your new life? In this episode, we dive deep into strategies for speeding up your divorce without skipping the essential healing and personal growth needed for a successful new beginning. While it may seem like the ultimate goal is simply to sign the divorce papers and be done with it, the real work lies in how you handle the emotional and psychological aftermath. If you rush through the process without addressing your underlying issues—like people-pleasing, shaky boundaries, or ineffective communication—those struggles will only follow you into your post-divorce life. We discuss how you can make your divorce go quicker by not avoiding the hard work of healing, setting firm boundaries, and learning how to communicate effectively with your ex. It's about doing the inner work so that, when you finally reach the other side, you're not just free legally, but emotionally and mentally as well. Tune in for actionable tips on how to accelerate your divorce process while evolving into a stronger, healthier version of yourself. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd

Imagine breaking free from the chains of self-blame that you're feeling, especially after going through divorce. This episode explores the profound self-blame women often experience during and after divorce, rooted in societal conditioning and expectations. I'll discuss the fine line between taking responsibility and succumbing to guilt and offer tools to reprogram your conditioned societal beliefs to step into a healthier self identity. Things that you'll get from this episode:  • Understanding societal conditioning around blame and worth • Exploring the impact of self-blame on motherhood and relationships • Strategies for recognizing harmful thought patterns • Encouraging self-compassion and embracing imperfection • How to rewrite narratives keeping you stuck in self blame  If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep197

Healing from divorce trauma is a journey that requires more than just time—it demands a commitment to understanding and nurturing your own emotional health. What if you could move past paralyzing grief and disconnection from yourself that often come with a divorce? In this episode, I share four transformative steps to help you heal from the trauma of your divorce, guiding you toward reclaiming your life. This throwback episode delves into the importance of establishing safety, regulating emotions, deconstructing core beliefs, and creating new experiences for a fulfilling future. Things you'll get out of this episode:   • Understanding the impact of divorce as a trauma • The necessity of establishing emotional and physical safety • Learning the art of emotional regulation • Observing and deconstructing limiting core beliefs • Shifting into positive, corrective life experiences • Empowering support systems for healingIf this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep196

Divorce can be especially difficult when one partner has a serious mental illness, such as bipolar disorder or psychotic disorders. The mood swings, erratic behavior, and episodes of psychosis can make communication, decision-making, and co-parenting challenging, adding stress to an already complex process. For those navigating divorce, balancing compassion for a partner's mental health with the need for personal safety is crucial. In this episode, we're joined by Julie A. Fast, a leading expert on bipolar and psychotic disorders, and author of Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder & Psychotic Disorders: Understanding and Helping Your Partner. Julie shares practical advice on managing relationships affected by mental illness, offering insights into setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating divorce and custody issues. If you're dealing with mental illness in a relationship, this episode is packed with essential tips for finding stability and support. Connect with Julie: Website: https://juliefast.com/ Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheStableBed/ Be the Winner of the Book Free Gift: Email admin@journeybeyonddivorce.com you mental health story and you will immediately be entered to win one of Julie's books. Winner to be announced on January 6th 2025 Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Juliefast/ Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd  

As the year comes to a close, many people find themselves in a reflective state, especially those who have been experiencing the emotional journey of divorce. Have you ever wondered how grief from a divorce can reshape your life? Join me, Karin Nelson, where I offer insights into understanding divorce grief beyond the traditional stages. By the end of this episode you will see how grief emerges not just as an emotion within us, but as a profound response to the loss of a relationship and the future we once envisioned.This episode explores the often-overlooked aspect of grief during and after a divorce, emphasizing the validity of each individual's emotional experience and the non-linear nature of grief. What you'll get out of this episode: • Understanding divorce grief as a complex emotional response • Discussing the common misconception of the five stages of grief • Embracing the idea that grief is not a linear process • Acknowledging the emotional trauma tied to the end of a marriage • Providing tools to allow grief to coexist with healing • Encouraging personal reflection and understanding of one's unique grief journey • Recognition that it's okay to feel sad and mourn losses associated with divorce If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep195

Making confident decisions during and after divorce can seem daunting, especially if you've been living your life in the shadow of deferring to someone else's authority, not trusting your own opinions, and dismissing your intuition as knowledge of what's best for you. But it doesn't have to be this way. You can develop the skill of making confident decisions. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I share insights from my own journey, coaching my clients and step by step tools to help you explore how reconnecting with your core values can lead to decisions that genuinely reflect your true self. We'll uncover the complex yet enlightening process of understanding how shifting values can reshape our identity, empowering you to make clearer, self-aligned choices even in the most turbulent times.Imagine transforming uncertainty into confidence by trusting yourself to make decisions and having a step by step process to know exactly how to do it. Your journey to becoming you again starts with understanding and owning your decisions, and it can start with this episode. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep194

Ruminating thoughts can feel like a relentless storm, especially during the emotional upheaval of divorce. Imagine finding a way to calm those swirling thoughts without battling them head-on. Join me as we explore how somatic practices can help regulate your nervous system and alleviate stress, allowing your mind to refocus on healing rather than replaying the past. We'll delve into the emotional challenges of grief, anger, depression, and anxiety, and uncover strategies to foster resilience and find a path toward recovery.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep193

In this episode, I'm joined by Nikki Tucker, a seasoned financial professional with over 20 years of experience and the Founder of The FIIRM Approach. Her business is dedicated to empowering women to navigate financial uncertainty and overwhelm, particularly when preparing for uncoupling or divorce.   Nikki is passionate about ensuring all women achieve financial security. Her mission is to equip women with the knowledge and confidence to manage their finances effectively.   In our conversation, we cover:   How Nikki supports breadwinning women   Strategies for women to secure their financial future after a divorce   The critical role of budgeting during a divorce     Tune in to this episode and share it with every woman in your life!   Connect with the host, Patrina Dixon   +Instagram https://www.instagram.com/itsmymoney_/    +Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100013355082005    +Twitter https://twitter.com/itsmymoney_    +YouTube https://youtube.com/c/It%E2%80%99sMyMoneywithPatrinaDixon    +Pinterest https://pin.it/5x8rOTp    +Website http://www.itsmymoneyjournal.info/    Connect with guest, Nikki Tucker +Website https://thefiirmapproach.com/   

Divorce is often full of complex emotional pain and suffering during/after divorce.  Imagine transforming your experience of pain into a manageable part of life by recognizing how self-imposed suffering makes everything feel worse. In this episode you'll gain insight from Buddhist analogy, and learn to empower yourself to take control over your emotional life. By the end of this episode you'll have a new tool to create self awareness designed to identify and reassess the narratives you're holding onto and reduce unnecessary suffering during your divorce. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep192

The holiday season, a time traditionally filled with joy and cheer, can become a daunting challenge for those navigating the complexities of divorce. Juggling family expectations, societal pressures, and personal turmoil can be overwhelming. In this episode, we delve into the unique struggles faced by individuals who are considering or going through a divorce during the holidays. From the delicate balance of maintaining appearances to the overwhelming responsibility of creating lasting memories for children, I explore the emotional toll of these situations. I discuss practical strategies for managing stress, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care. Additionally, I address the internal turmoil of making life-altering decisions during a time of heightened emotions. We emphasize the importance of seeking support, whether through therapy, coaching, or simply connecting with others who understand. By sharing insights and offering guidance, we aim to empower listeners to navigate these challenging times with resilience and hope. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Should I Mend or End Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/should-you-mend-or-end-a-dysfunctional-toxic-or/id1261400624?i=1000653642143 Voices of Celebration Testimonial: https://www.instagram.com/p/DCYHyNspNm_/ Voices of Celebration Testimonial: https://www.instagram.com/p/DA3aA06MTXO/ A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd

I've coached hundreds of people through the mend or end decision and there is understandably a lot of resistance because both the decision to end and the subsequent transition of divorce is overwhelming at best... Which is why i'm so excited to share today's episode.  It's about an ideal BRIDGE from decision to action. We are exploring the concept of a Pre-Divorce Guidance package, which helps clients enter the divorce process feeling calm, educated, and clear. Andrea Vacca shares that the most effective way to approach divorce is by understanding how the process works, from the key issues you'll need to address to the options available for navigating those challenges. With the right guidance, you can avoid devastating surprises and be prepared to make well-informed decisions at the right time. Working with an experienced family law attorney before you start the divorce process offers essential clarity and protection. Andrea Vacca explains how delaying legal decisions out of fear or emotional uncertainty can lead to unintended legal and financial consequences. By getting Pre-Divorce Guidance, clients can confidently face their options, addressing the fears and hurdles that often hold people back, such as concerns around children, finances, and future identity. If you're feeling stuck, Andrea shares valuable advice to help you move forward without regret. Vacca Law's Pre-Divorce Guidance package, helps clients enter the divorce process feeling calm, educated, and clear. It is based on the belief that with the right guidance, you can avoid devastating surprises and be prepared to make well-informed decisions at the right time. Andrea Vacca is a good friend and colleague of mine. As a mediator and collaborative lawyer with over 30 years experience, Andrea she brings more heart and compassion to the table than any attorney I know.  She brings a unique, coaching-style focus to divorce guidance, helping clients understand their legal landscape while providing emotional support along the way. As the founder of Vacca Law, Andrea has helped countless individuals navigate complex, high-conflict divorces with confidence. Vacca Law's Pre-Divorce Guidance package is specifically designed to help you assess your situation calmly and clearly, ensuring you're ready to make empowered, strategic decisions without the risks of uninformed choices. Tune in to learn how Andrea's approach prepares clients for a smoother, more successful divorce process. Connect with Andrea: Pre-Divorce Guidance: https://www.vaccalaw.com/pre-divorce-guidance/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaFamilyLaw/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@andreavaccanewyork Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd  

Rex Wilde, LGBTQ+ educator, speaker, and consultant, and I recap the latest 5 Things (good vibes in DEI) in just 15 minutes. This week our conversation is about anti-racist layoffs, disabled models and designers, and more!There was a recurring theme this week in my conversations with clients: how to recover after you've been called out or accidentally offended someone. Here's the short answer: don't get dramatic. Apologize sincerely once without diminishing their experience. If you're corrected, say thanks. Educate yourself, rather than asking them, so you can do better next time.During an in-person keynote for a corporate client, I was asked a question that took the topic a step further. I was asked, “How much responsibility do I need to continue to take after I've offended someone when, after my sincere apology, they remain angry and/or aggressive?”Here are a couple of guidelines: Remember you don't know what it's like to walk in their shoes and it's a good idea to acknowledge that when speaking with the person. And, after an appropriate period of time, it's OK to ask, “Is there anything I can do to repair this relationship?”Here are the good vibes I found this week:Disabled Models and Designers Take Center Stage at New York Fashion WeekHearst Joins Employers Expanding Benefits to Include Divorce SupportTwilio Promises ‘Anti-racist' Layoffs as Ceo Says 11% Job Cuts Won't Hit Workers From ‘Marginalized Communities' More Than OthersHot Chicken Takeover's Mission Is to Hire People Who Might Be Passed Over Elsewhere, Whether Because of Prior Incarceration, Drug Addiction, or HomelessnessInterior Department Completes Removal of “Sq___” from Federal Use Read the full blog here: https://www.theequalityinstitute.com/equality-insights-blog/5-things-recoveryTo learn more about Rex, visit: https://www.rexwilde.com/  Join thousands of readers by subscribing to the 5 Things newsletter. Enjoy some good vibes in DEI every Saturday morning. https://5thingsdei.com/

Divorce and the holiday season can feel like an overwhelming emotional rollercoaster full of triggers, unexpected bad surprises and a lot of thoughts of just wanting them to be over. But this year can be different. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I share personal insights and practical strategies to help you manage your holiday season this year to make you feel more calm, more capable of handling the negative emotions when they show up and more intentional about what you want your holiday's to actually look and feel like. By the end of this episode you will know EXACTLY how to craft an emotional safety plan which is essential for a peaceful holiday experience. You will understand how to expect the unexpected, develop proactive strategies and arm yourself against any overwhelming emotions you might encounter. You will feel totally capable of supporting yourself in every way throughout this holiday season. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep191

Amidst the turmoil of divorce, managing stress can feel like an insurmountable challenge, but what if you could navigate it with healing, clarity and control? Join me as I teach you about the complexities of the stress cycle and uncover how understanding its nuances can transform your experience during and after a divorce. With insights in this episode, you'll discover how to reclaim your power, manage stress effectively, and lay the groundwork for a resilient future.In this episode, you will learn what the stress cycle is, how it effects your physical, emotional and mental wellbeing, and how to complete the stress cycle to lessen the pain and suffering during your divorce. You'll also learn how to step away from the burnout of divorce - that ugly exhausting element of divorce where we just feel like we have no fight left to give. By the end of this episode you'll have a LONG list of ways you can complete your stress cycle during and after divorce, to return to yourself connected, healed and stronger than ever. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep190

In this episode, Steve is joined by Cherie Morris, a lawyer-turned-coach specializing in divorce mediation, co-parenting, and blended family coaching. Together, they dive into the complexities of co-parenting post-separation and explore ways to achieve better outcomes for children amidst contentious dynamics. Cherie offers insights into overcoming the myth that courts can fix co-parenting struggles, the challenges faced by couples who struggled as co-parents during marriage, and the added stress when a new partner enters the family dynamic. Steven and Cherie also tackle issues of triangulation and provide practical advice for step-parents navigating co-parenting roles. Cherie's expertise shines as she shares strategies to help families transition to healthier, more collaborative co-parenting. To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

Setting boundaries after divorce is a transformative step towards reclaiming your emotional well-being. Ever wondered how boundaries differ from ultimatums, especially when navigating the complexities of post-divorce life? Join me as I walk you through the difference between the two, helping you establish personal limits that protect your emotional safety while fostering healthier relationships. We'll explore how life's challenges can be approached with a hopeful perspective, ensuring that your journey towards independence is both empowering and safe, particularly if you're facing any risk to your physical well-being.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep189

Send us a textIn today's episode of The Good Enough Mompreneur Podcast, host Angela sits down with Michele Locke, an Associate Municipal Court Judge, family law attorney, and passionate advocate for victims of domestic violence and family law issues. Michele brings over 20 years of experience to the table, and she's here to share her insights on empowering victims, understanding legal rights, and transforming trauma into strength. With her unique perspective as a lawyer and mom, Michele gives us an inside look at how the justice system can be a tool for empowerment rather than fear. Stay tuned until the end as Michele shares three actionable tips for handling family law situations with confidence.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Michele's inspiring journey from childhood trauma to a career in family lawHow moms can feel more confident navigating family law challengesFree resources and support for victims of domestic violence, stalking, and abuseThe power of knowing your legal rights and advocating for yourself in difficult situationsPractical self-care and resilience tips for moms balancing family, career, and healingConnect with Michele Locke:Instagram: @attorneymichelelocke (Remember: Michele with one ‘L'!)Website: www.michelelocke.comConnect with Angela:If you're a mompreneur ready to step into your confidence, let's connect! Visit Angela at mombusinesscoach.com to learn more about coaching, resources, and community.Join the Conversation:If you found this episode helpful, we'd love for you to leave a review and share it with a friend who could benefit from Michele's insights. Don't forget to subscribe to The Good Enough Mompreneur Podcast so you never miss an episode! Connect with Angela at MomBusinessCoach.com Apply for Personalized Confidence and Business Coaching Enroll in my FREE mini-course - 5 Keys to Confidence

Do you find yourself spinning in thoughts of worst case scenario after divorce? Do you try to anticipate all of things that could go wrong and try to figure out a way to stop it all from happening? In this episode you will learn to unlock the secret to stopping the cycle of catastrophic thinking. Imagine yourself navigating the storm of intrusive thoughts and worst-case scenarios with understanding, grace and resilience. Join me as I offer insights into how our brains, wired for survival, can sometimes become our worst enemy, amplifying stress, worry and anxiety. You will learn to identify these mental traps, understand their impact on your emotional and physical well-being, and discover effective strategies to regain control over your physical, mental and emotional state.You will learn: Why you turn to catastrophic thinking - and how to normalize that it's happening for a reason.How to stop the relentless cycle of worry by embracing the power of the present moment. To explore practical techniques to ground yourself in everyday activities, turning present moments into anchors of calm and clarity. To turn to self-compassion to transform your anxiety, worry and stress into neutrality, emotional acceptance and grace. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep188

In this episode, I reflect on key patterns observed over the past three years with men navigating divorce, and share insight why the common challenges exist. Many listeners describe long-standing "invisible divorces," feeling trapped in unhappy, often sexless marriages for the sake of family or finances. Upon being left, they're blindsided by feelings of betrayal and unfairness, especially in cases involving parent alienation or financial strain. Men who initiate divorce face guilt and the desire for an amicable split, often met with resistance. Across the board, men seek validation quickly in new relationships, struggle with financial worries, and need short-term, focused support to push through. As we close out 2024, I'm excited to announce a refreshed podcast format launching on December 23—featuring higher-quality audio and video episodes, with monthly guests offering both professional insights and real-life divorce stories.Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

In this episode, I sat down with Carol McKelvey, an experienced therapist and family mediator, to explore the complex issue of parental alienation from her unique vantage point. Carol, who has spent much of her career in behavioral health, transitioned into mediation to support families through divorce with an insightful, balanced approach. We delved into the subtler tactics of parental alienation—behaviors that often go unnoticed in court or mediation. Carol shared her perspective on how even subtle actions, like undermining the other parent's decisions in front of children, constitute alienation, and why these less overt forms can be particularly damaging. She offered practical advice for parents facing alienation on how to effectively advocate for their interests in mediation, along with insights on how the dynamic shifts when legal counsel is present. Throughout, Carol emphasized her role in restoring harmony when tensions run high, underscoring the importance of mediators in helping families reach resolutions that serve the best interests of everyone, especially the children. To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

Over-functioning, especially among women in the midst of divorce, becomes a relentless cycle of exhaustion and misplaced control. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I share insights, personal stories and heartfelt exploration of how societal pressures and more lead us to take on too much, become burdened by the mental load of it all and feel like we have the world on our shoulders - always at the expense of our own well-being. Learn how recognizing and addressing these patterns can be the first step towards reclaiming your identity and peace of mind.This episode sheds light on the deeper roots of over-functioning, revealing how it's often intertwined with self-worth and past experiences. It's not just a habit; it's a stress response learned from a young age, stemming from environments where proving oneself was a necessity. By shifting our focus inward and aligning our mind, body, and spirit, we can begin to understand and appreciate our inherent worth, free from external validation.I'll introduce the concept of weaponized incompetence and discuss the power of setting boundaries and opening up to trusting others. Through grounding techniques, somatic practices and mindset shifts, you will know just how to break free from the cycle of over-functioning. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep187

Part 3 of our series focuses on how to appreciate and benefit from the different voices in your head and their unique perspectives by using “The Brain Huddle”, a practice author Jill Bolte Taylor, PhD refers to as a “Power Tool for Peace”. The four voices or characters generated by four different types of neural tissue in our brains are somewhat stereotypical in their behavioral patterns which means that the more that you are willing to observe their responses/reactions to circumstances the more freedom you (and they) will have to work together to support you in a “whole brain life” Listen to Lisa and Karen review our four characters and introduce you to the five steps of the “The Brain Huddle”, a practice that starts with using your breath to calm the stress center of your brain. Once you've passed the 90 seconds it takes to step back and out of the stress response you'll be able to hear and access the unique skills, knowledge, and perspectives of the other parts of your brain that are equally you. Lisa and Karen share real life examples of using the Brain Huddle to navigate challenging situations that arise during divorce and in life in general. If you want to move beyond the experience of fear, isolation, and despair that arises during divorce and be more effective and happier in your life, this show is for you. Listen to Part 1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/youre-not-crazy-part-i-exploring-the-voices-in-your-head/id1261400624?i=1000671723091 Listen to Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/youre-not-crazy-part-ii-exploring-the-voices-in-your-head/id1261400624?i=1000672385298 Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd

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