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Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Rewriting Your Relationship Code: Ditching the Defaults for Real Freedom, Ep. 130

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2025 17:15


Are you stuck running relationship patterns you never consciously chose? In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm breaking down how to identify the default “rules” you inherited about love, sex, and partnership, and how to rewrite them so your relationships actually work for YOU.So many of us grew up believing myths like:“If you're really in love, you won't be attracted to anyone else.”“To be a good partner, you have to want everything your partner wants.”“Jealousy means love.”The problem? These defaults often create shame, confusion, and conflict in non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships.In this episode, you'll learn the 5 steps to rewriting your relationship code so you can experience real freedom:Identify the beliefs you inherited.Question what's actually true for YOU.Create new agreements with intention.Practice new habits until they stick.Celebrate every time you choose yourself.By the end, you'll see how rewriting your defaults allows you to show up with more confidence, clarity, and joy in every connection.What you'll take away from this episode:Why inherited relationship beliefs hold us back in non-monogamy.The surprising truths about love, attraction, and jealousy.Practical tools to create new agreements with your partners.How gratitude and celebration make new patterns stick.Why freedom is a daily practice, not a one-time decision.Send us a textSupport the show

Sex Ed with DB
Ethical Non-Monogamy: How Pleasure Expands in ENM with Claire Perelman

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 52:01


In this episode, DB talks with Claire Perelman all about the pleasure of non-monogamy! ENM, polyamory, swingers, monogam-ish -- there's so many ways to be non-monogamous, and so many reasons living a life outside of monogamy can be a tremendous joy. Non-monogamous listeners, we see you! Monogamous listeners, this is a great moment to learn about what makes ENM so appealing to so many. Guest Details Claire Perelman (she/her) is a Queer, Jewish, Certified Sex Therapist and Educator living and working in the Bay Area. She is passionate about creating accessible sex education and normalizing play, pleasure, and sexuality through her work with clients, workshops, and across social media. Like many therapists, she channeled her greatest source of pleasure and heartbreak into her area of focus, leading her to specialize in relationships, sex, and intimacy for couples, individuals, and polycules. You can find her at @sexclarified (on all platforms) and www.sexclarified.com ABOUT SEASON 12 Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 12 SPONSORS Lion's Den, Uberlube, & Magic Wand Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 12 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen (she/her) Growth Marketing Manager and Producer: Wil Williams (they/them) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 193: "Jade Greene Loves To Fuck" with Jade Greene

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 66:57


FUCKED IN A GIANT MOUSE COSTUME.Jade Greene is back—and she's on an absolute RAMPAGE.Since her last visit, she's been in two gangbangs, an orgy, two glory holes, a swap, and even filmed a scene dressed as a giant mouse getting wrecked. If that doesn't make your jaw drop, wait until you hear the strip club story she drops mid-episode—it might be the most unhinged one we've had on the show to date. Jade also opens up about wanting to try DVP, her first anal scene, and breaks down the right way to choke someone during sex—safely, with intensity, and a little style.This episode is pure, filthy, sex-fueled chaos—but it's also a deep dive into sexual boundaries, fantasies, and agency from one of the most driven creators in the game. Whether you're here for the gangbang gossip, the mouse costume chaos, or just want to hear Jade talk about what turns her on, this is one you won't forget. Enjoy EP 193: "Jade Greene Love To Fuck" with Jade GreeneWatch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Jade Greene Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorjadegreene (@authorjadegreene)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

The Confident Swinger Podcast
When NOT to Play

The Confident Swinger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 24:50


Send us a textIdeally, the Lifestyle is meant to enhance your life and your relationship. But there are times when that doesn't happen... there are times when it breaks people down and tears them apart.The key is to know when to participate, and when to take a step back and NOT play. Jo talks about some things to look for, some warning signs, so you know when it's time to take a break and focus on your relationship.Support the showOld music (

Three Shades Of Grey
Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party--Episode 20 / Would You Rather?

Three Shades Of Grey

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025 53:57


Its a real sleepover this time!  Pinky and Ava are cozied up in pajamas, kicking back with laughs, secrets, and a little mischief. In this special pajama party episode, the ladies dive into a round of “Would You Rather?”—but not your average playground version. These spicy, flirty, and thought-provoking questions were generated by ChatGPT, keeping the fun unpredictable and oh-so-naughty. From playful hypotheticals to steamy scenarios, Pinky and Ava don't hold back as they reveal what turns them on, what makes them squirm, and what they'd never choose in a million years. Grab your favorite PJs, pour a glass (or two), and join in on the giggles and gasps—you'll definitely be asking yourself how you'd answer these questions. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website MiamiSwings Swinger Podcast | Website “Florida Couple” Rooftop Resort Normalizing Non-Monogamy | Ava, Pinky, (& Anthony) We Gotta Thing — Episode 136 | The Enneagram- Know Your Numbers! Expansive Connection | Non-Monogamy Coaching

Mistakes Were Made
Ep 60: Holding Boundaries, Meeting Needs | Season 4 finale

Mistakes Were Made

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 80:58


What are my boundaries? What are my needs? How do I share them with my partners? Sarah and Alex try to understand the differences between rules and boundaries, needs and desires. Mentioned in the episode:  Glitter & Greed: The Lisa Frank Story mistakescast@gmail.com | https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ Logo design by roy franklin: www.whateverfactory.org Links to bookshop.org are affiliate links.

Krazy Truth
Krazy Truth about Swinging #346 Room Service with special Guest Co Host Hunny B

Krazy Truth

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 58:42


This week Ms Amanda is still at the Bunny Ranch so the lovely and talented Hunny B steps in and is co pilot on this Krazy Adventure.  This week we are talking about the hotel room, who pays, common courtesy, how do you bring it up and if something goes south when do you cancel.  This is a very real issue in the lifestyle so give the show a listen and see what new ideas you might add.https://discreetdirtyco.com/http://www.motorbunny.comhttp://www.asnlifestylemagazine.comhttp://www.fullswapshop.comhttps://www.onlyfans.com/msamandakasbh: http://www.krazykasbh.com:  http:// www.youtube.com/kasbhTwitter:  @TruthKrazySupport the show

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Relationship Anxiety in Polyamory: It's Not Just You, Ep. 129

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 25:58 Transcription Available


Are you polyamorous and anxious? Does your chest tighten every time your partner mentions a new crush? Are you constantly asking yourself, “Why am I feeling this way if I chose non-monogamy?” You're not broken and you're definitely not alone.In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, relationship coach and recovering bathroom-floor-cryer Ellecia Paine (that's me

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 192: "Dominate Frame" with Kyaa Chimera

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2025 68:15


SHE DOMMED HER OWN GANGBANG.Kyaa Chimera isn't just a dom — she's an architect of control, even in total chaos. The professional dominatrix, adult performer, and OnlyFans powerhouse joins Dustin to talk about what it means to hold a dominant frame through anything — including a 10-guy gangbang, intense facials, and the most boundary-stretching scenes in adult film.We dive into the mindset it takes to stay powerful while giving yourself over to wild situations, and how Kyaa keeps her autonomy, identity, and edge through every scene. Oh — and yes, she's put fully grown adults in diapers and used a real police taser on her partner. She also tells one of the quietest but most jaw-dropping stories ever told on the show — it doesn't scream, but it stays with you. Trust me.She's intelligent, intentional, and in full control — even when the room's on fire. Welcome to EP 192: "Dominate Frame" with Kyaa Chimera.Watch the video version the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Kyaa ChimeraInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kyaa_chimera (@kyaa_chimera)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Gender Stories
Radical Relating with Mel Cassidy

Gender Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 65:19 Transcription Available


Dr. Alex Iantaffi talks with Mel Cassidy about relationships, non-monogamy, queerness, the power of somatic practices, and love on the path towards collective liberation. Mel Cassidy is a somatic relationship coach committed to the path of liberatory love and rewilding intimacy. They specialize in working with queer and questioning humans (and those who love them) exploring post-monogamous relationships—with a focus on polyamory, solo polyamory, and relationship anarchy. They are of Irish, Greek, and Khorakhane Romani descent and have lived in 3 countries, across 3 continents. They currently live in British Columbia, Canada, and work with clients and students around the world. Their first book, Radical Relating, A Queer and Polyamory-Informed Guide to Love Beyond the Myth of Monogamy, is published by North Atlantic Books.Find out more about Mel and their work at the following links: Website: radicalrelating.caSocial Media: @radicalrelating on IG/FB/Substack/Insight TimerMore on the Radical Relating Book: www.radicalrelating.ca/book Instagram: GenderStoriesHosted by Alex IantaffiMusic by Maxwell von RavenGender Stories logo by Lior Effinger-Weintraub

The Confident Swinger Podcast
What the LS Means to Me

The Confident Swinger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 29:25


Send us a textIn today's episode, Jo and Chad each share 5 ways that the LS has changed or improved their lives. Couples are made up of individuals, and it's important to understand your own personal why, as well as your why as a couple.The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink PodcastCurious about Dominance & submission? Real stories, real fun, really kinky.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showOld music (

Three Shades Of Grey
Three Shades Deeper--Jon Simons / Ep.8 - From Feathers to Barbed Wire (The Spectrum of BDSM)

Three Shades Of Grey

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2025 66:33


In this episode Anthony, Pinky, and Ava sit down with coach and educator Jon Simons of GSRM Coaching for an open, nuanced conversation about the wide world of BDSM. Together, they explore how BDSM exists on a spectrum—ranging from the soft, sensual caress of feathers to the intensity of barbed wire and beyond. Jon shares insight into the many ways people engage with kink, the importance of communication and consent, and how curiosity can unlock deeper connection and self-discovery. Whether you're brand new to exploring BDSM or have years of experience, this episode will broaden your understanding of how diverse, playful, and profound the kink landscape can be. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website GSMR Coaching

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
Help us make history: The biggest non-monogamy study ever conducted!

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2025 4:21


Participate in this anonymous 20-30-minute survey here: Chapman University StudyThis year, we've partnered with OPEN and Dr. Amy Moors at Chapman University, a leading non-monogamy researcher, to bring a new level of academic rigor to this research!Why participate: This data directly supports advocacy work – previous surveys helped win legal protections in major cities. Eligibility: 18+ and practice any form of consensual non-monogamy (polyamory, open relationships, swinging, relationship anarchy, etc.)Study details: Chapman University IRB approved (IRB No. #26-13). Research questions: Dr. Amy Moors, moors@chapman.edu. IRB concerns: (714) 628-2833 or irb@chapman.edu.Survey LinkParticipation is completely voluntary and anonymous. Please share with your non-monogamous networks – more voices = better data = stronger advocacy!

The Art of Being Well
Narcissists, Non-Monogamy, Porn Addiction, AI Love Affairs & The Spiritual Work of Relationships | Jillian Turecki

The Art of Being Well

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2025 65:03


Relationship coach Jillian Turecki joins Dr. Will Cole for a powerful conversation on what it really takes to build and sustain love. Together they explore the difference between accountability and blame, why unresolved childhood wounds often play out in adult relationships, and how interdependence - not codependency - is the key to healthy connection. They also discuss the rise of loneliness, the role of social media and AI “relationships,” and the impact of unhealed patterns on both mental and physical health. If you've ever wondered how to break cycles in love and create relationships that last, this episode is for you. For all links mentioned in this episode, visit www.drwillcole.com/podcastPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors: For a limited time only, our listeners are getting a HUGE discount on the iRestore Elite when you use code WILLCOLE at iRestore.com - PLEASE support our show and tell them we sent you.You can now find Everyday Dose in Target stores across the country. Celebrate with a Buy-One-Get-One deal. Just buy any two Every day Dose products at a Target store near you, and they'll pay you back for one. Visit everydaydose.com/WILLCOLE for more details.As a listener ofThe Art of Being Well, you'll get30% off your first purchase of Get Joy's Freeze Dried Raw Dog Food plus two exclusive gifts: a free scoop and a 4oz bag of treats. Shop getjoyfood.com/willcole to fuel your dog's gut health and longevity.Go to Quince.com/willcole for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five-day returns.Go to drinkag1.com/willcole to get a FREE Frother with your first purchase of AGZ.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
The Polyamory Trap of Finding Different Partners to Fill Different Needs, Ep. 128

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2025 15:55


Have you ever thought, “If my partner can't meet all my needs, maybe another partner will”? In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I break down why that belief is one of the biggest traps in polyamory and open relationships.We hear it all the time in the ENM community: “No one person can meet all your needs.” That's true, but when we take it as a free pass to collect partners to fill every emotional gap, it backfires. Instead of feeling fulfilled, we multiply our insecurities, create pressure on new relationships, and leave our existing partners feeling like they're not enough.

Please Me!
Bonus Episode: Kitchen Table Polyamory: Two Couples, One Household, Infinite Love | Ethical Non-Monogamy

Please Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2025 46:17


Episode Title: Kitchen Table Polyamory: Two Couples, One Household, Infinite Love Episode Intro:What happens when two married couples not only love openly but also live together under one roof? In this special episode of Please Me!, I sit down at the kitchen counter with Tig & Nadine and Jerry & Eunice to explore the intimate, complex, and surprisingly fun world of kitchen table polyamory. Episode Shownotes:In this in-person conversation, we dive deep into ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swingers' lifestyles—all under one roof. Our guests share their lived experiences, the joys and challenges of shared living, and how they maintain communication, boundaries, and personal sovereignty. Topics covered in this episode include: Defining your relationship style: polyamory, swinging, and open relationships Navigating jealousy and insecurity with radical honesty Day-to-day life for two couples sharing one home Authenticity in relationships and being your full self The power of communication and trust in alternative relationship structures How friendships and community support enhance their lifestyle Whether you're curious about polyamory, exploring alternative relationship models, or just love hearing stories about love, intimacy, and connection, this episode offers a candid look at life outside traditional monogamy. Resources & Links: Visit our website: Please Me for more episodes and content Check out previous episodes exploring relationships, intimacy, and sexual wellness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 191: "Spiritual Kinky Cheerleader" with Rose Heartsong

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2025 71:03


ATTEND WILD SEX PARTIES. HERE'S HOW. Rose Heartsong is what happens when sacred sex meets kinky filthy fantasy. The Intimacy Coach and Conscious Kink Practitioner joins Dustin to talk about shadow work, sex parties, and how to make wild, horny experiences intentional. She's had her fair share of wild nights — facials, orgies, threesomes, women, men, and moments that pushed her to the edge — but always on her own terms.We dive deep into her approach to conscious kink: helping clients explore the darkest corners of their desire while staying in total control. Rose shares the wildest sex party stories she's lived through, how she helps people drop their shame, and the new program she's launching to guide others into erotic freedom.She's part coach, part seductress, part spiritual hype woman — and she's here to make you feel seen, turned on, and totally unleashed.Welcome to EP 191: "Spiritual Kinky Cheerleader" with Rose Heartsong.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Rose HeartsongInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/roseheartsong (@roseheartsong)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

From Mrs. to Ms.
Ep 108: AI Infidelity & Ethical Non Monogamy with Amy Watts

From Mrs. to Ms.

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 53:22


What happens when the affair isn't with a person… but with AI?

The Confident Swinger Podcast
Vanilla vs. LS Travel

The Confident Swinger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 27:32


Send us a textJo and Chad just got back from a vanilla cruise, and they talk about their experiences with vanilla travel versus lifestyle travel.Support the showOld music (

Three Shades Of Grey
Episode 021: Single Men: Myths, Manners, & Mayhem

Three Shades Of Grey

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2025 79:46


Think being a single guy in the lifestyle is easy? Think again. Pinky and Ava put Anthony and Nirvana Lover (aka P*$*y Destroyer) in the hot seat to talk about what it's really like. They cover everything from etiquette to ego checks, building a good name, and yes… that time Hot Mama "pimped" them out. Buckle up—this is the single man's guide to staying in the game without becoming the cautionary tale. #ThreeShadesOfGrey #NonMonogamy #LifestyleCommunity #PolyLife #SwingersLife #OpenRelationships #EthicalNonMonogamy #SingleMen #SoloInLifestyle #LifestyleEtiquette #HotMamaPimped #StagLife #MythsMannersMayhem #SingleButNotSorry #SoloButPlayingNice #CautionaryTales #PodcastLife #RelationshipTalk LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Splash Takeovers 

Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach
134. Polyamory and Non-Monogamy in Dating with Leanne Yau

Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2025 55:56


Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we're diving into the world of polyamory with Leanne Yau!  Leanne is an award-winning polyamory educator and through her platform PolyPhilia, she creates educational and entertaining content to help people navigate non-monogamous relationships with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Inside the episode, we'll get into what polyamory is (and isn't), the biggest myths that surround it, what monogamous daters could learn from polyamorists, and how to take the first steps if you're poly-curious.  We'll explore frameworks like the relationship escalator and relationship anarchy, the different types of polyamory, and cover dating essentials like communication, boundaries, and even jealousy! But that's not all, we answer some of your top questions like when do I tell someone I'm polyamorous, what if I don't have much experience, but am dating someone who does, and how do I know if polyamory is right for me? Whether you're new to polyamory or just curious, this conversation will give you insights and tools to approach dating and relationships with more ease. Alright Flirties, let's do this, and meet Leanne! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! Work with me! Take the FREE Flirt Styles Quiz Get INSTANT ACCESS to my anti-anxiety flirting and dating guide Download my FLIRTING AND TEXTING CONVERSATION GUIDE Grab my FREE Dating App Survival handbook Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit Ask the Flirt Coach About our guest:  Leanne Yau is a British award-winning polyamory educator, writer, speaker, certified sex and relationships educator, and trainee psychosexual therapist whose work is all about non-monogamy and sex positivity. She creates educational and entertaining multimedia content about creating healthy and sustainable non-monogamous relationships, drawing from her lived experiences as a polyamorous, bisexual, neurodivergent, kinky, and Asian agender femme who has been openly non-monogamous since 2016. Since 2020, Leanne has connected with millions across the globe through her social media posts, online and in-person talks, workshops, panels, and lectures, in the media, and her private non-monogamous peer support sessions. She also writes ‘A Polyamorous Perspective', a polyamory advice column at Gay Times. Leanne was named in ‘15 LGBTQ+ Educators Who Took Instagram Infotainment To The Next Level' (Buzzfeed, 2021), '10 Polyamory Experts to Follow on TikTok' (Cosmopolitan, 2022), and ‘60 Top Influencers Who Are Actually Worth the Follow' (Men's Health, 2023). She holds a Special Recognition and Appreciation Award for her contributions to the non-monogamous community (The Panel ENM, 2021), and was nominated for Sex and Relationships Creator of the Year (BCreator, 2024). Follow Leanne on Instagram Book a Peer Support Session Join Leanne on Discord YouTube, Other Socials + Offers/Coaching About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage. Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self. His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Polyamory's Biggest Struggle Isn't Jealousy — It's Scheduling, EP. 127

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2025 52:52 Transcription Available


Most people think the toughest part of polyamory is jealousy. But according to Richie, it's actually… logistics. Yep, the calendar.After a life-changing cancer journey with his partner, Richie realized that the hardest part of opening their relationship wasn't emotions, it was managing schedules, consent, and privacy across multiple partners. With his background in software product management, he decided to do something about it, and created PYE, a scheduling and consent management app designed specifically for the polyamorous community.In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Richie and I dig into:Why scheduling is considered an “unsolvable math problem” (and why we need more self-compassion when we feel polyunsaturated).How misunderstandings about dates, boundaries, and consent are quietly breaking relationships.The creative ways poly folks use calendars as safety tools.Why color coding, structure, and intentional planning actually free us up for more intimacy and fun.Richie's vision for cutting down burnout and building more trusting, joyful relationships with better tools.If you've ever juggled multiple Google Calendars, forgotten to communicate a boundary, or lost a relationship to logistics overwhelm — this one's for you.

Loving Without Boundaries
EPISODE 276: Interview with Bethany Snyder & Kris Maul

Loving Without Boundaries

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2025 23:16


EPISODE 276: Interview with Bethany Snyder & Kris Maul. Bethany Snyder and Kris Maul are a queer couple living in Urbandale, Iowa with their amazing 14-year-old kiddo and adorable pets. Bethany grew up in Altoona and attended the University of Iowa, while Kris was born in Illinois and moved to the Madison, WI area in middle school. They have lived all over the country from Washington, DC, to Minneapolis, and Northern California, before moving to Iowa in 2019. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 190: "First MILF" with Rachel Steele

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2025 71:44


MEET AMERICA'S FIRST MILF. Before the trend, before the tag, before MILF was a household genre — there was Rachel Steele. This week, the legendary performer, producer, and adult innovator joins Dustin to talk about her decades-long career, from pioneering taboo content before it was cool to helping push the term “MILF” into the mainstream spotlight.We dive into her first-ever reverse gangbang for Adult Time, the wildest custom request she's ever received on OnlyFans, and how she continues to reinvent herself in both independent and studio content. Rachel also drops some real talk on how anyone — man or woman — can get into the world of content creation and make it their own.She's a pioneer, a powerhouse, and still pushing limits. This is the one that started it all.Welcome to EP 190: "First MILF" with Rachel Steele.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQListen to the showApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1607014303Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5HINKYCFqmamOuCRXmtS3gFollow Rachel SteeleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_steelexoxo (@rachel_steelexoxo)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

The Confident Swinger Podcast
Some Good Advice

The Confident Swinger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2025 21:00


Send us a textJo and Chad are headed on vacation, but we wanted to give you a quickie episode with some of our favorite pieces of advice.Support the showOld music (

Mistakes Were Made
Ep 56: Splitsville Instant Reaction

Mistakes Were Made

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2025 64:58


Hollywood made a movie about open relationships (sort of). We watched it so you don't have to! Mentioned in the episode:  Splitsville | Together | Together's free couples therapy gimmick |  mistakescast@gmail.com | https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ Logo design by roy franklin: www.whateverfactory.org

The Wellness Revolution Podcast with Amber Shaw
410. Non-Monogamy, Erotic Glory & Reclaiming Your Sexuality with Andre Lazarus

The Wellness Revolution Podcast with Amber Shaw

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 50:56


What if your desire isn't gone—it's just been buried under shame, obligation, and disconnection from your body? And what if reclaiming your sexuality didn't have to follow the rules you were taught?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with intimacy and relationship guide Andre Lazarus for a conversation that is both expansive and deeply grounding. We talk about the journey of reconnecting with your erotic self after divorce, what healthy non-monogamy actually looks like, and how to create a relationship with pleasure that centers your body, your truth, and your joy.   Whether you're single, dating again, or just beginning to ask, “What do I want?”—this conversation is an open door to self-exploration. Andre shares tools for building safety in the body, rewriting your sexual story, and cultivating authentic connection, whether in monogamous or alternative partnerships.   Resources Mentioned: How to Master Masculinity and Become the Kind of Man She Craves: https://opentomore.mykajabi.com/masterclass Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: Why women often feel disconnected from their bodies post-divorce How nervous system safety influences your relationship to pleasure The difference between shame and embodied curiosity What ethical non-monogamy actually looks like Creating intentional erotic containers Reclaiming your eroticism—whether solo or partnered   Find more from Andre Lazarus: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingcloserwithandre/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 37:23 Transcription Available


What if midlife wasn't the decline everyone warns you about, but a second spring?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I sit down with Carla Wainwright, Holistic Wellness Coach, Sexual Awakening Facilitator, and self-proclaimed Midlife Alchemist. We talk about what really happens to women's desire, relationships, and identity in midlife, and how it all ties into exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, and rewriting the love scripts we didn't ask for.Carla shares why:

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 189: "The Girlfriend Experience" with Stormi Maya

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2025 65:03


YOU CAN'T MAKE HER BEHAVE.Stormi Maya isn't playing by anyone's rules. The former stripper, current OnlyFans Creator, and metal musician joins Dustin to talk about her signature blend of early 2000s Playboy/Penthouse glamour and unfiltered, modern-day sex appeal. Her content is raw, lush, and unapologetically horny — more Pamela Anderson, less algorithm bait.We get into how platforms like Instagram and OnlyFans built empires on the backs (and asses) of sex workers — only to turn their backs on them once the checks cleared. Stormi's not afraid to say it out loud. She also drops a few of the wildest strip club stories the show's ever heard, opens up about life in a metal band, and reflects on what it really means to create content that connects emotionally and erotically.She's bold, brilliant, and burning the typical blueprint. Welcome to EP 189: "The Girlfriend Experience" with Stormi Maya.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Stormi MayaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stormimaya (@stormimaya)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

The Confident Swinger Podcast
Don't Kiss & Tell

The Confident Swinger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2025 33:57


Send us a textToday, Chad and Jo talk about sex. Or, more precisely, they talk about PEOPLE talking about sex.People are going to talk, it's human nature. They are going to talk about their experiences, good or bad. And in the LS, that often includes sexual experiences, which can cause some unintentional problems.Chad and Jo warn against the natural desire to kiss and tell, and against the desire to hear all the dirty details. Remember, there are real people, with real feelings, on the other side of that story.Support the showOld music (

Get Schooled Podcast
“Rewriting Love Rules: Non-Monogamy, Therapy & Psychedelics with Paige Bond

Get Schooled Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2025 64:17


Paige Bond is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and owner of Sweet Love Counseling. She specializes in helping folks tackle relationship anxiety, strengthen their relationships, and navigate non-monogamy so they can feel more secure, empowered, and intentional in their love life. Using tools like Accelerated Resolution Therapy and Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy, Paige helps people create long-term healing in a short amount of time by going beyond just talk therapy.   Websites: https://paigebond.com https://SweetLoveCounseling.com This episode is brought to you by Olipop, a new healthy brand of soda. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/ and use code Marcela15 at checkout to get 15% off your first order. This episode is brought to you by Shopify. Shopify can help you take your business to the next level. Click HERE to set up your Shopify shop today and watch your business soar! This episode is brought to you by BranditScan, the best defese you have against social media fraud. Click HERE to get started with BranditScan today and get your first month for free. There is no better service to protect your social media accounts and your name and likeness. This episode is brought to you by Playboy. Click HERE to get a membership today and unlock a premium Playboy experience like no other. This episode is brought to you by Skillshare. Click HERE to start exploring all the courses Skillshare has to offer, from drawing and music, to graphic design and marketing, start expanding your knowledge today. This episode is brought to you by Fiverr. Click HERE to start hiring professionals to help you in various areas and take your business to the next level. This episode is brought to you by PodMatch. Click HERE to bring your podcasting journey to the next level by getting set up's Only Fans  VIP Membership HERE Free Membership HEREn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Project Relationship
219 A Patient Path into Non-Monogamy with Laura & Bill

Project Relationship

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2025 54:58


Many of us hear stories about couples who dive headfirst into non-monogamy without preparation (what I call the "jumping out of the airplane without a parachute" approach). But after 33 years of marriage, Bill and Laura decided to explore non-monogamy through a gradual, education-centered path.They're joining us to share their experience with this slow and steady approach, which demonstrates the value of taking time to learn, process, and grow together before making significant changes to your relationship structure. Their journey shows us that opening a relationship doesn't have to be impulsive or chaotic—it can be thoughtful, intentional, and deeply rewarding at any stage of life.In this episode, we talk about:— How becoming empty nesters created space for Bill and Laura to explore "something more expansive" in their relationship— The importance of unlearning social conditioning and stepping off the "relationship escalator" (the traditional path of falling in love, getting married, having kids, and then... what?)— Why the process of "unenmeshing" from each other was crucial to their journey and how they practiced it in everyday ways— The challenge of moving from theoretical knowledge to real-world experiences when Bill spontaneously met someone "in the wild"— How they navigated their first big emotional hurdle when Laura had a "freak out" and Bill initially tried to fix it by stopping what he was doing— The rejuvenating effect that opening up has had on their relationship in their 50s, challenging the notion that non-monogamy is "just for young people"— The value of taking things slowly and allowing each person to move at their own pace— How they've become more individuated while maintaining a deep connection with each other— The ongoing process of working with difficult emotions like jealousy and envy rather than expecting them to disappear— Why connecting with community and seeing others model different relationship styles was crucial to their growthJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

Three Shades Of Grey
Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party--Episode 19 / What We Did This Summer: A Recap

Three Shades Of Grey

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2025 73:33


School may be out, but Pinky and Ava prove the learning never stops—especially when summer adventures are the teachers. In this episode of Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party, the ladies spill the tea on their travels, trysts, and everything in between. From steamy liaisons to unforgettable getaways, they share the lessons, laughs, and little indulgences that made their summer sizzle.

Loving Without Boundaries
EPISODE 275: Interview with Ellecia Paine

Loving Without Boundaries

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2025 37:58


EPISODE 275: Interview with Ellecia Paine. Ellecia Paine helps people break free from monogamous conditioning, guiding them through the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging. She turns challenges like jealousy and insecurity into trust and open communication. As the host of the “Nope! We're Not Monogamous” podcast, Ellecia champions authentic connections. With a decade of living and coaching non-monogamy, she shares insights that resonate deeply, making her clients feel understood and empowered. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Modern Anarchy
226. The Psychedelic Dose of Non-Monogamy with Moss Herberholz

Modern Anarchy

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2025 83:50


On today's episode, we have Moss Herberholz (he/they) join us for a conversation about the paradigm expansion of psychedelics and non-monogamy. Together we talk about learning from our jealousy, shattering the Madonna and the Whore complex, and pausing to integrate growth.

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 188: "Inside Violet Voss" with Violet Voss

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2025 49:06


VIOLET VOSS IS COMING.... FOR EVERYTHING.In just eight months of mainstream porn, Violet Voss has already filmed for Brazzers, Team Skeet, and, yes — she rode The Bang Bus. This week, the Adult Star and OnlyFans Creator joins Dustin to break down her rise, her ride, and the raw, sweaty chaos that comes with getting railed in a van with no A/C somewhere in South Florida.We talk about the scene where she strapped one on and went full dom, the positions that left her breathless (and clueless about what they were even called), and her honest preferences when it comes to where a guy finishes. Violet also gets into her old-Hollywood-meets-goth-punk energy, how it feels to be constantly compared to Morticia Addams, and whether we'll ever get the Stepmom/Stepdaughter Wednesday/Addams Family porn parody she was clearly born to star in.From facials to femdom, submission to sweat, and gangbangs that might be coming soon — we're going inside Violet Voss, and we're going deep.Welcome to EP 188: "Inside Violet Voss" with Violet Voss.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Violet VossInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/violetvossxo (@violetvossxo)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

The Confident Swinger Podcast
Let's Talk about Flirting

The Confident Swinger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 42:45


Send us a textIn today's episode, Jo talks about one of the things that a lot of people struggle with in the LS... flirting.Flirting is important, especially in the LS. And it can really make or break your success. The most important thing about flirting is the way you feel about it, so don't put too much pressure on yourself. There is no right or wrong way to flirt, there is just you, being you.Jo gives some ideas and tips to get you more comfortable with flirting, and to hopefully get you out of your head.Support the showOld music (

Three Shades Of Grey
Three Shades Deeper--Meshai Olivares / Ep.7 - Why Choose? Living the Swolly Life

Three Shades Of Grey

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2025 61:15


What happens when swinging and polyamory overlap? In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we dive into the term “Swolly”—a playful way to describe those who enjoy both. The group sits down with Coach Meshai from Expansive Connection, who opens up about her own journey in embracing a swolly identity. Together, they unpack the pros and cons of living at the intersection of swinging and polyamory, the misconceptions people often have, and what it really looks like to claim space in both communities.  Whether you're a swinger, poly, swolly, or just swolly-curious, this conversation takes you deeper into the nuances of non-monogamy, identity, and authenticity.

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 187: "The Big 5-0" with Maria May

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2025 67:10


FROM HOUSEWIFE TO HARDCORE. She just turned 50, got nominated for an XMA, and holds the record for the most unhinged custom request in OnlyFans history — Maria May is here, and BELIEVE ME WHEN I TELL YOU, she's only getting started. In this episode, the newly minted Adult Performer takes us through her wild first year in sex work: the BBCs, the facials (which makes her go BONKERS), the girl-on-girl hookups, and the way things with her husband escalated from “let's film something fun” to “oh wow, I'm actually in porn now.”We talk about what it's like diving into the mainstream side of the adult world at full speed, what scenes she's dreaming about next (spoiler: it rhymes with gangbang), and how turning 50 didn't slow her down — it lit a fire.Maria's proof that you can start your Freak Era anytime — and make it a legendary one.Pour yourself a triple, zip up your flight suit, and enjoy EP 187: "The Big 5-0" with Maria May. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Maria MayInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealmariamay (@therealmariamay)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

The Openlove101 Show
The Dance of Differences: Making Non-Monogamy Work for Every Personality Type

The Openlove101 Show

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 7:36


Do Opposite Personalities Work in Non-Monogamy? | Open Love 101 Podcast Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite personalities in consensual non-monogamy and swinging relationships. In this candid discussion, the couple explores how their own introvert-extrovert dynamic plays out in their relationship and at their famous Colette Swingers Clubs. With over twenty years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie share valuable insights on how different personality types can complement each other in the lifestyle. Learn how to leverage your differences to strengthen your relationship rather than letting them become obstacles.

The Confident Swinger Podcast
Let's Talk About Sex

The Confident Swinger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 42:59


Send us a textChad and Jo talk about sex in the LS... the good and the bad. They talk about what makes sex so good, and some of the things that make it challenging.Support the showOld music (

Reclaim Your Radiance
48 | Erotic Autonomy & Non-Monogamy: How to Create the Relationship Style That Works for YOU

Reclaim Your Radiance

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 78:28


What does it really take to thrive in consensual non-monogamy? In this episode, I'm joined by Megan Veaudry, founder of Non-Monogamy Coaching Vancouver, to explore the art of erotic autonomy and how it can transform your relationships, whether you're solo, partnered, or part of a polycule.We dive deep into:The difference between emotional & sexual exclusivityHow erotic autonomy fuels aliveness in ALL your connectionsQuestions to ask before opening up a relationshipNavigating jealousy, desire mismatches, and fearWhy non-monogamy isn't “better” than monogamy—it's just differentHow to communicate with a regulated nervous system (and why it matters)Whether you're curious about polyamory, exploring open relationships, or simply want to expand your sense of erotic self-expression, this episode will give you tools, perspectives, and real-life insights to help you create a relationship style that's nourishing, consensual, and uniquely yours.About Our Guest:Megan Veaudry is a teacher of Erotic Autonomy, and the founder of Non-Monogamy Coaching Vancouver. She offers workshops, group programs, and private coaching to help people create and sustain the consensual non-monogamous relationships they desire while retaining their erotic autonomy. Her work is to help people understand erotic energy is a life-giving force that's bigger than all of us. Her relationships, both in her personal life and those of her clients, are her biggest teacher, and she will always be drawn by the mystery of connection. https://www.nonmonogamycoachingvancouver.com/https://www.instagram.com/nonmonogamycoachingvancouver/JOIN THE PLEASURE PARTY: Redefine your pleasure in just 15 minutes: https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal Get clarity on what you really want your sex life to look like. Schedule a free clarity call to take control of your life today.https://calendly.com/krishall2/clarity-call Join our intimate sacred sexuality retreat: Wild Women Rising! https://forms.gle/6xHBEt9Vic3Zt9M49Grab your yoni egg or crystal wand (Canadian-women owned!) - 10% off with code KRIS10https://waands.com/?ref=illhavewhatsheshaving Instagram:@kris.hall.coachingJoin our newsletter:www.krishall.ca 

Self-Helpless
The Psychology of Infidelity: Why People Cheat, Non-Monogamy vs. Monogamy, and Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Tara

Self-Helpless

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2025 54:37


Delanie Fischer is joined by Dr. Tara—Tenured Professor of Relational and Sexual Communication and Quantitative Research at California State University Fullerton, TV Sexpert on Celebs Go Dating, and Co-Host of the iconic radio show Loveline—to unpack the “whys” behind infidelity. Dr. Tara shares the 3 main reasons people cheat, how to begin healing from betrayal, and what to consider for creating healthier relationship dynamics.Plus:+ 2 Sexual Health Myths Debunked+ Serial Cheaters vs. Serial Monogamists+ A Breakdown of Catastrophe TheoryMore episodes related to this topic:When My Husband Came Out: Sexuality, Betrayal, and Healing with Jessica Frew: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/229e6642/when-my-husband-came-out-sexuality-betrayal-and-healing-with-jessica-frewMeeting Your Soulmate (While Married) and Breaking Free From "Good Girl" Conditioning with Amber Rae: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/21afaab6/meeting-your-soulmate-while-married-and-breaking-free-from-good-girl-conditioning-with-amber-raeDiagnosed Narcissist (Lee Hammock) and Clinical Psychologist (Dr. Ramani) Offer Insights Into Manipulation And Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD): https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/241deda3/diagnosed-narcissist-lee-hammock-and-clinical-psychologist-dr-ramani-offer-insights-into-manipulation-and-narcissistic-personality-disorder-npdDeceptive Affection, Betrayal Trauma, and Multidimensional Healing with Támara Hill: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/24cc8b07/deceptive-affection-betrayal-trauma-and-multidimensional-healing-with-tamara-hillYour Burning Relationship Questions Answered with Rachel DeAlto: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/3f1ddb9c/your-burning-relationship-questions-answered-with-rachel-dealtoIs It Porn Addiction? Inside the Impact, Neuroscience, and Recovery with Steve Moore and Mark Kastleman: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/2230ec70/is-it-porn-addiction-inside-the-impact-neuroscience-and-recovery-with-steve-moore-and-mark-kastlemanSelf-Helpless on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mistakes Were Made
Ep 56: Parents Fast for Gaza + Poly-tics (Encore)

Mistakes Were Made

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2025 79:25


Sarah and Jessica are fasting this week, so we're sharing an episode that first aired in the spring of 2024. Is polyamory inherently apolitical? Is it just an excuse for rich people to avoid thinking about climate change? Did Sarah accidentally make out with a Trump supporter at the ferry dock??? Tune in to find out!  Mentioned in the episode:  Parents Fast for Gaza | @parentsfast4gaza on instagram | @stute on instagram | The Atlantic - Polyamory, the Ruling Class's Latest Fad | Time Magazine - Polyamory isn't just for liberals: The Surprising Political Evolution of American Polyamory | More: A Memoir of Open Marriage | Stranger in a Strange Land   mistakescast@gmail.com | https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ Logo design by roy franklin: www.whateverfactory.org Links to bookshop.org are affiliate links.

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
The Cost of Shrinking: When Monogamy Doesn't Fit, Ep. 123

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2025 19:57 Transcription Available


“What's wrong with me? Why can't I just be happy with what I have? Why do I keep wanting more when I already have a ‘good' relationship?” If that question has been looping in your head, this episode is for you. Spoiler: there's nothing wrong with you. You've just been taught your whole life that love only “counts” if it fits in the monogamy box—even if that box is crushing you.I'm getting real about my own story—how I contorted myself in my first marriage until I barely recognized who I was, why I stayed way too long, and how my second marriage turned into something more honest, more spacious, and more us once I stopped shrinking and started telling the truth.We're diving into:The sneaky, everyday ways self-erasure shows up in relationships.Why “compromise” isn't the same as collaboration (and how to tell the difference).How your nervous system tries to keep you small—and how to rewire it so you can take up space.A quick grounding practice you can use before those scary, important conversations.Six tools to help you be fully yourself without automatically burning it all down.If you've ever thought you're “too much” for wanting more—more love, more connection, more you—this one's your permission slip to stop twisting yourself into a shape you don't even recognize.Links & Resources:Join Breaking Free From Monogamy → https://www.elleciapaine.com/breakingfreeHang out with me on TikTok → http://tiktok.com/@elleciapaineShare the Love:If this episode hit home, send it to your partner, your best friend, or that one person who's definitely tired of playing small. Let's stop pretending everything's fine and start talking about what love could look like when it actually fits.Send us a texthttps://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show

Three Shades Of Grey
Episode 020: From Flight Fiascos to Bedroom Buzz: Pinky & Anthony's Naughty Nawlins 2025 Recap

Three Shades Of Grey

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2025 68:09


Buckle up, because this Naughty N'awlin's 2025 recap is anything but tame. With Ava stuck at home living that #MomLife, she grills Pinky and Anthony about their wild, laughter-filled, and occasionally chaotic journey to the Big Easy. From travel headaches that almost kept them from the party, to Pinky pushing herself out of her comfort zone (and loving every second), to a whirlwind of classes that ranged from eye-opening to downright delicious—this episode serves up the play-by-play you didn't know you needed. Whether you're here for the travel drama, the sexy education, or the cheeky behind-the-scenes stories, you'll feel like you were right there… beads, bourbon, and all.

Strictly Anonymous
1194 - Hotwifing and Cuckolding, Non-Monogamy and More w/Dr. David Ley author of Insatiable Wives

Strictly Anonymous

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2025 72:26


Dr David Ley, author of Insatiable Wives: Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them called in to talk all about hotwifing, cuckolding, non-monogamy and more. Tune in to hear him discuss all the details including how and why he wrote the Insatiable Wives which was called the Bible of cuckolding and hotwifing, how his groundbreaking book was received,, how he felt about cuckolding before he studied it and how and why his views changed, the percentage of men who enjoy watching their partners with other men and the percentage of women who want to be watched by their partners, cuckqueaning and why women are into watching their partners with others too, the many reasons men are into cuckolding,  how and why he doesn't believe in sex addiction, how and why labels can be helpful, how and why he decided to focus on sex when he became and clinical psychologist, where he found the cuckolds he researched for his book, how the media and others use sexual anxiety and insecurity to manipulate people, what research shows about non monogamous couples, why rules in non monogamy tend to go out the window over time,  the different styles of non-monogamy and what draws people to one style or the other, plus a whole lot more. To purchase his Book: Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, click here: https://amzn.to/4fxSg3H **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Try VIIA and use code STRICTLYANON for great SEX and sleep ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://liferx.md⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Start your transformation now and get $50 OFF your first month, use code: ANONYMOUS ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Load Boost and Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
EP 186: "Night Shift" with Lissa Aires

Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2025 74:32


SHE DID IT ON LIVE TV....Lissa Aires has done it all — London strip clubs, Miami hustles, New York neon, and even televised phone sex — but now the longtime OnlyFans queen is making her official splash into mainstream porn, and she's doing it loud. In this week's episode, Lissa joins Dustin to talk about her journey through the shadows and spotlights of sex work, the wildest moments from her strip club era, and what it was really like whispering dirty talk to strangers on live UK TV.We talk rap videos, famous rappers (Did they hit on her? Did she say yes?), and the strategic shift she's making as she moves from fan-powered content to big-budget productions. Lissa spills it all — with a wink and a few jaw-dropping stories along the way.This one's glamorous, gritty, and full of the kind of late-night energy that only the real ones bring. Get ready to clock in for EP 186: "Night Shift" with Lissa Aires.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Lissa AiresInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lissaaires (@lissaaires)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

In Depth With Graham Bensinger
Nikki Glaser: Candid thoughts on non-monogamy | Trending Now

In Depth With Graham Bensinger

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 6:21


Comedian Nikki Glaser walks us through the ebbs and flows of her long-term relationship with boyfriend Chris Convy, including their first meeting, Nikki's request for Chris to entertain experiences with other women and her admission that she's found “the one.” Plus, we hear from Nikki's father EJ, who says that it's about time Nikki and Chris “sh*t or get off the pot.”