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Rachel Rampage joins the show this week and this episode is absolute chaos from the jump. After leaving the adult industry back in 2016 and spending the last decade in a relationship, Rachel is officially back in the game — and fully embracing her wild side all over again. We get into her return to porn, exploring submission after years of domination, gangbang fantasies, DP, fake kidnapping roleplay, and the important question of where she prefers the cumshot.We also talk about her background as a dominatrix, stripping, insane strip club stories, and why she says she wants to get “dicked down” as much as humanly possible. Oh — and somehow her and her tits ended up as part of the Marvel Cinematic Universe. This one is funny, wild, horny, and completely out of control in the best possible way.Welcome to EP 227: "The Return Of Rachel Rampage" with Rachel Rampage.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Rachel RampageInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealrachelrampage (@therealrachelrampage) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Send us Fan MailNon-monogamy gets talked about like it is either a cheat code for relationships or a guaranteed disaster, and both takes miss the point. We sit down by the campfire and give a clear, no-fluff intro to consensual non-monogamy, including polyamory, open relationships, and the mindset shift that comes with admitting one person cannot meet every need for every season of your life. We also say the quiet part out loud: consent is not optional, and yes, you can still cheat in non-monogamy when you hide, lie, or break agreements.From there we dig into the emotional side that people rarely prepare for. We challenge the reflex to label every hard feeling as jealousy, and we talk about how unmet needs, insecurity, and bad partner behavior can masquerade as “jealousy problems.” We unpack why trying to control your partner backfires, what you can actually control, and why communication feels terrifying when the real fear is rejection. If boundaries have been hard for you, we connect that to identity, people pleasing, and the uncomfortable reality that you sometimes learn a boundary only after something hurts.We also clear up some common non-monogamy myths: compersion is not required, constant happiness is not the goal, and you do not owe anyone a performance of being “cool.” We talk metamours, privacy, and negotiating how much information you want to hear about other dates. Then we bring it down to earth with the logistics that shape every relationship: time, distance, money, mental energy, and the fact that love may feel infinite but your resources are not. If you are curious about ethical non-monogamy, this is a practical starting point for doing your own research and making choices that fit your real life.Subscribe for new episodes, share this with a friend who needs a more honest take on non-monogamy, and leave a review if the conversation helped. What part of non-monogamy do you want us to go deeper on next?Source material - https://www.nonmonogamyhelp.com/thirteen-things-i-wish-id-learned-before-choosing-non-monogamy/https://www.npr.org/2023/09/28/1196977813/what-to-know-if-youre-exploring-non-monogamy1/6/26 1/6/26Support the showCome let us know what you think! - IG -https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/Yahoo - aroundthekinkykampfire@yahoo.comCome check out our merch!https://www.etsy.com/shop/SafeWordSocietyhttps://tee.pub/lic/F1PtyQ_K8kEhttp://www.redbubble.com/people/safewordsociety
Australian Adult Creator Nova Hawthorne joins the show this week and Episode 226 becomes pure wet and messy chaos in the best way possible. We get into sploshing, looning, drinking piss, slime-covered sex parties, and some corners of the internet I genuinely didn't know existed before this conversation.Nova also talks about going from stripping to mainstream porn, building her world on OnlyFans, Fansly, and Jerkmate, and how ending a relationship opened the door to working with men on camera for the first time. We also get into religion (boooo) and sex positivity, barely missing each other at AVN, and of course, some absolutely insane strip club stories. This one is hilarious, unhinged, weirdly educational, and a total blast from start to finish. Roll out your tarp and enjoy EP 226: "Horny Utopia" with Nova Hawthorne.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Nova HawthorneInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne (@nova_hawthorne) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
This is a replay to get the video version of the episode onto podcast apps that previously only had the audio version. Season 6, Episode 746: From Threesomes to Non-Monogamy: One Man's Journey Beyond Jealousy and Shame with author Adam Darrow about his edgy, honest, and raw memoir "Seek the Risk" (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3KrboVR This was an enlightening conversation and one many should listen to. Expanding our boundaries may seem difficult, and it doesn't pan out for everyone, but either way, valuble lessons are learned about oneself, one's limitations become clearer when faced with new challenges, and what we are willing to do for love becomes obvious. A question to ask yourself, well, more than one, what cultural shame is holding you back? Why should we allow culture to decide what is acceptable and what isn't? Would you ever stare normalcy in the face and give it the finger and do what you want? Even if it cost you relationships? Can you withstand the heat of a cultural assault from a judgmental mob of societal norm enforcers? (even if they are your friends and family?) Or would you just stand up tall, point your chin up, and say FU and just do it? When Adam Darrow met Jane at forty, he thought he was the adventurous one. After all, he'd spent his twenties competing in extreme sports and had explored threesomes—that made him pretty edgy, right? Then Jane, a PhD psychologist who spoke five languages, told him she didn't do boyfriends (and she meant it). Drawing from his background in extreme sports, Darrow spent two and a half years transitioning into non-monogamy, followed by three challenging years of emotional work before finding equilibrium. The journey wasn't easy. He didn't think he could do it. When his partner Jane publicly announced their arrangement on Facebook in 2009, Darrow watched his life wildly transform. His best friend called him derogatory names. But over time, he discovered something unexpected: jealousy could be channeled into motivation to become a better partner. What initially felt emasculating became an opportunity to overcome deep-seated insecurities like imposter syndrome and validation-seeking. His memoir chronicles this transformative experience through vulnerable storytelling that includes explicit extreme sexual details and uncomfortable emotional truths, as well as healing and growth. How did keeping emotions bottled up nearly break him? The book explores that question while advocating for moving beyond societal shame around sexuality, relationship conformity, and focusing on personal authenticity rather than rigid beliefs about relationships. Estimated Timeline: Adam Darrow's Journey Into Non-Monogamy 00:03:40 - PhD Psychologist with Unconventional Past 00:06:43 - Extreme Sports Skills Applied to Non-Monogamy 00:09:13 - Separating Sex from Emotion in Relationships 00:19:57 - Managing Jealousy Through Don't Ask, Don't Tell 00:22:26 - From Jealousy to Compersion in Open Relationships 00:25:11 - Breaking Through Shame and Choosing Each Other 00:28:42 - Walking the Beach: Questioning My Limits, book excerpt 00:33:17 - Understanding Nesting Couples and Non-Monogamy 00:39:43 - Letting Go of Control in Relationships 00:46:22 - Vulnerability and Authenticity in Memoir Writing 00:51:51 - Writing the Book and Her Reaction 00:58:17 - Identity Beyond Sexual Acts, sexuality 01:06:44 - Overcoming Jealousy Through Personal Growth 01:11:27 - Healthy vs Unhealthy Jealousy in Relationships Connect with Adam Darrow: Link to the books website www.seektherisk.net Substack seektherisk.substack.com Email for folks to contact Adam at adam@seektherisk.net insta: @seektherisk Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow
Queen Chloe is a dominant livestream powerhouse with a fanbase that hangs on her every word. She breaks down how she built that intense connection with her audience, what her “dom game” looks like on stream, and why her style of control hits so hard in real time.Then it goes off the rails: party stories with her boyfriend that always turn into a full cuck power fantasy, the pay-to-activate toy tech that makes streams feel dangerously real, a foot-fetish party that's wilder than you'd expect, and a “napping” moment you truly have to hear to understand. We close with the big question — will she ever go mainstream? Her answer might surprise you.Lube up and enjoy EP 225: "Stream Queen" with Queen Chloe.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Queen ChloeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/queen_chloexo1 (@queen_chloexo1)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
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Nicole Sonnefeldt, MA (she/her) is an alternative relationship coach, educator and consultant, and the founder of Freeform Coaching: Relationship Coaching for Conscious Non-Monogamy. A former trauma and couples therapist with a Master's in Counseling Psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology, Nicole blends her personal experience as a queer woman in the lifestyle, non-monogamy, kink and sex work with her professional training and expertise to assist individuals, couples and polycules in creating intentional and equitable relationships of all shapes and sizes. *BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 **ProDx Health | Wellness From Home** Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)** * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mainstream Adult Star and OnlyFans creator Rachael Cavalli joins Sex Party to talk 10 years in the game — and she drops an exclusive announcement you're going to hear everywhere: 2026 is the year she finally does a long-awaited on-camera first.We also get into the real fun: Rachael talks about hooking up with fans (on camera and in real life), what actually turns her on, and the taboo roles she loves playing. And somewhere in the middle of the conversation, she and Dustin discover live on the show that she's got a very real breeding kink — it's the kind of moment you can't script. Which is how we do things around here. Hope you're ready to party HARD. Enjoy EP 224: "Rachael Cavalli Is Down" with Rachael Cavalli. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Rachael Cavalli Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialrachaelcavalli (@officialrachaelcavalli)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
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Betrayal in non-monogamy can feel uniquely isolating. When you've already moved away from the traditional guardrails of monogamy—where exclusivity = safety and infidelity is the clear line of betrayal—what happens when trust is shattered? How do you even know what counts as betrayal when you don't have those conventional frameworks to lean on?This episode picks up where our (amazing!) conversation with Eve Rickert left off. We're moving beyond understanding betrayal to exploring what comes next: How do we actually repair? And here's the thing—repair isn't about returning to some wholesome "before time." It's about transformation. It's about building something entirely new while sitting with the reality that you can never unknow what happened.If you've experienced betrayal in your non-monogamous relationship (or caused it), if you're wondering whether repair is even possible, or if you're struggling with the question "do I even get to have expectations?"—this episode is essential listening. We draw on our own experiences of navigating profound harm and the years-long repair process that followed.In this episode, we talk about:— Why betrayal recovery requires entering a liminal space with no guaranteed timeline or outcome— The difference between repair and just "toughening up" until you don't feel anything anymore— How to reclaim agency when betrayal has left you questioning your reality and your relationship— The interior work required for the person who caused harm (spoiler: it's not just about apologizing)— Why the person who was betrayed gets to define their experience, and what that means for repair— The critical importance of not rushing through the pain—for both the betrayed and the betrayer— How to identify which "part" of you took actions that caused harm, and why that matters— The practice of listening without defending when your partner describes how you've hurt them— Why suppressing betrayal (the "beach ball effect") will cause it to pop up sideways in other areas of your relationship— The role of grief in betrayal—not just sadness, but rage, shame, and the loss of who you thought your partner was— How agreements are "expectations made visible" and why shared meaning matters more than shared values— Why betrayal repair often requires changing activities and expectations during the recovery period— The difference between forgiveness-seeking and negotiation, and how desire smuggling strips away agency— How repair becomes a load-bearing beam in your relationship rather than a fracturing forceResources mentioned in this episode:— 241 Betrayal & Non-Monogamy with Eve RickertGet the support you NEED to have the open relationship you WANT in my year-long group program, The Year of Opening®Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by Blue Dot Sessions
A deep conversation about the “sexual self” — the inner part of you that governs desire, turn-ons, boundaries, and truth — and what happens when you stop silencing it. What if the part of you that governs your sexuality doesn't care about your self-image, your relationship rules, or what makes sense logically? In this episode, I explore the concept of the sexual self — the independent inner persona that holds your desires, turn-ons, boundaries, fantasies, and truth. I talk about: Why so many people feel conflicted in long-term relationships The disconnect between the logical self and the sexual self Why suppressing desire creates tension, numbness, and performance-based sex My own experience of silencing my bisexuality How conversations about non-monogamy often reveal a deeper issue: disconnection from desire itself The powerful shift that happens when you stop treating your sexuality like a problem to solve This is not really an episode about non-monogamy. It's an episode about honesty. About listening to the part of you that has been whispering underneath the performance all along. PS. The movie I mention is called Golden Compass.
Trinity Infinity pulls up with pure brat-dom energy — the kind that makes people behave. She breaks down the psychology behind being a dom, who she likes to control, what she uses, and the rare moments she'll actually flip the script and go submissive. It's filthy, funny, and way more intimate than you're expecting.We also get into AVN: fan encounters, who she secretly fangirled over, and what it's really like moving through a convention as a creator everyone wants a piece of. Then she takes us into the deep end — her most unhinged toy, the requests her fans can't stop asking for, and the wild world of bi encouragement content (and why it works so well). Trinity's story is also real as hell: sex work didn't just change her life — it helped her break out of generational poverty. And yes, we finish with the only debate that matters: Star Trek vs. Star Wars.Feed your fish, crank the volume, and enjoy EP 223: "In The Pink" with Trinity Infinity.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Trinity InfinityInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trinfinity69 (@trinfinity69)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Thinking about opening your relationship—but already feeling tension, anxiety, or uncertainty?You're not alone.For many couples, conversations about non-monogamy or open relationships quickly become overwhelming. One partner may feel excited and ready to explore, while the other feels hesitant, worried, or emotionally unsafe.In this episode, I break down why that happens—and how to approach non-monogamy in a way that actually supports your relationship instead of destabilizing it.Because the truth is:
Supreme Court Case on Religious Liberty: Sean and Scott discuss a new case involving Catholic preschools in Colorado that were denied public funding for refusing to enroll children from LGBTQ families. The debate centers on whether the state can mandate non-discrimination policies for faith-based organizations receiving public funds.The Ethics of Monogamy and Infidelity: Despite a near-unanimous American disapproval of infidelity, the hosts analyze a recent article questioning if it is time to move beyond traditional monogamy. They explore the rise of "consensual non-monogamy" and how individualistic cultural tendencies are shifting moral perspectives on relationships.Developing Virtuous AI Models: The team examines an article discussing a new AI model from Anthropic that incorporates religious and philosophical principles to create a "virtuous" chatbot. They question the effectiveness of using technology to simulate wisdom and the theological implications of "religious" machines.Policy Shifts on Psychedelics: A discussion regarding an executive order loosening restrictions on psychedelics explores the potential medical benefits and moral risks of these substances. The hosts weigh the clinical applications of such drugs against the biblical call for sobriety and sound-mindedness.Audience Question: AI Actors and Necromancy: In response to an audience question on using AI to represent deceased actors, the hosts discuss whether this technology crosses a line into digital necromancy. They explore the ethical boundaries of interacting with simulations of the dead versus using them as creative tools.Audience Question: AI as Tools vs. Beings: The team addresses whether AI models should be viewed strictly as machines or if treating them like social beings compromises our understanding of personhood. They emphasize maintaining a clear distinction between human "Imago Dei" and man-made technology.Audience Question: AI in Job Interviews: Responding to employers who use AI to conduct job interviews, Scott and Sean discuss concerns about algorithmic bias and the loss of human connection. They argue that the hiring process should recognize the dignity of individuals rather than reducing them to data points.==========Think Biblically: Conversations on Faith and Culture is a podcast from Talbot School of Theology at Biola University, which offers degrees both online and on campus in Southern California. Find all episodes of Think Biblically at: https://www.biola.edu/think-biblically. To submit comments, ask questions, or make suggestions on issues you'd like us to cover or guests you'd like us to have on the podcast, email us at thinkbiblically@biola.edu.
On this episode of the Natasha Helfer Podcast, Lauren Hayes joins to discuss the recent Non-Monogamy Lifestyle Cruise both she and Natasha joined a few months ago. Lauren also shares a bit about her book, "For Better or Even Better." Lauren Hayes is a relationship coach and author who helps couples explore ethical non-monogamy with clarity, communication, and connection. Through her coaching, retreats, and her book For Better or Even Better, she guides people to create relationships rooted in honesty, choice, and deeper intimacy. Lauren also travels and teaches nationwide, and hosts the podcast The Examined Lives (ENM Vibes). You can find out more on Lauren's website: https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com. The information shared on this program is informational and should not be considered therapy. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services. There are also several upcoming workshops. Visit natashahelfer.com or symcounseling.com to find out more.
Adult Megastar Lexi Luna joins Sex Party fresh off her biggest moment yet: winning AVN 2026 MILF Performer of the Year. She breaks down a decade in the industry and what it felt like sitting in the crowd, hearing her name called, and walking onstage to accept the award.Then it gets wild and surprisingly deep: the taboo step-mom roles she's known for (and whether they actually turn her on), her origin story from school teacher to porn star, and what she's up to on OnlyFans. The episode also unpacks “free use” as a genre — what it means, why it's popular, and how to understand it without getting lost in internet chaos — plus her wildest online request, her on-camera preferences, what she may be up to next, and whether she'd ever do a gangbang or a DP.Strap yourself in and enjoy EP 222: "MILF Of The Year" with Lexi Luna.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Lexi LunaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beyondlexpectations (@beyondlexpectations)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
What if the relationship you are in is not fundamentally broken, yet lacks transparency? This episode delves into the complexities of navigating feelings, desires, and questions that often remain unspoken within partnerships. We explore the aftermath of infidelity and the emotional turbulence that ensues, discussing the importance of honesty and communication in fostering genuine connection. Joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton, a distinguished relationship coach, we dissect what constitutes effective relational dynamics, what leads to disarray, and the critical self-awareness required before embarking on a journey of ethical non-monogamy. This conversation is particularly pertinent for those currently dating or contemplating their own relationship structures, as we seek to illuminate the path to authenticity and fulfillment in love.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS00:00 Picking Up Where We Left Off00:42 The Reality of Non-Monogamy03:15 What People Get Wrong06:28 Boundaries and Where It Breaks10:12 Jealousy and Emotional Triggers14:05 Building Trust and Doing the Work18:22 The Hard Truth Most People Avoid22:40 When It Starts to Fall Apart27:18 What She Would Do Differently31:55 Advice Before You Try This
In this episode, we explore one of the biggest questions we hear: is non-monogamy actually right for you?We break it down into three parts, first looking at the reasons you probably shouldn't open your relationship, signs you might be ready to start exploring, and finally we share what it feels like when you are ready to start exploring non-monogamy.We explore the red flags, the green lights, and the deeper questions that reveal whether opening your relationship will expand your connection or expose what's already not working.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | Youtube | Retreat This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe
Cody had a wife who was fully on board, agreements in place, and an open relationship by design…and still got his heart broken wide open. This week, Cody joins me and Rose to talk about what ethical non-monogamy actually looks like inside a marriage, what happens when you fall in love with someone outside of it, and the part of polyamory nobody prepares you for: the grief. Send us your questions and stories to be featured on da pod https://www.brokegirltherapy.com/contact-page Stefanie Maegan https://www.instagram.com/brokegirltherapy/ https://www.instagram.com/stefaniemaegan/ https://www.brokegirltherapy.com/ Rose McAleese https://www.instagram.com/rose_ettastone/ https://thenewblogontheblock.com/ Cody P. https://www.instagram.com/codyflux/ https://intentionismagic.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Non-monogamy is usually seen as something that destroys relationships.But what if, in some cases, it can actually save them?In this episode, I'm talking with a non-monogamy expert about a perspective that challenges everything most couples have been taught about love, sex, and commitment.We explore how Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) can sometimes be a more honest and sustainable way to navigate real relationship challenges—especially when it comes to mismatched libidos, unmet needs, and resentment.This isn't about telling you to open your relationship.It's about helping you think more clearly about:What you actually needWhat your partner can realistically provideAnd what options exist beyond the default model of monogamyWe also get into:Why expecting one person to meet all your needs can create pressure and disconnectionHow resentment builds when sexual needs go unmetThe difference between choosing monogamy vs defaulting into itHow people navigate open relationships, polyamory, and other forms of non-monogamyThe role of honesty, communication, and emotional security in polyamorous relationshipsWhy some couples explore swinging, swingers communities, or other forms of shared sexual experiencesThe emotional realities (not just the fantasy) of ethical non-monogamyWe also talk about the different roles partners can play—and why one person often can't be everything for you over time.Whether you're firmly monogamous, curious about ENM, or somewhere in between, this episode will give you a new lens on relationships, desire, and what it actually means to get your needs met.
Is This Freedom or Just Chaos - Could Ethical Non-Monogamy Be for You? Get ready to dive into the world of ethical non-monogamy as James Preece welcomes the brilliant Daniella Guimaraes, founder of Velvet Ties - the world's first ethical non-monogamy matchmaking service. This episode is packed with playful curiosity and real answers on why more people than ever are exploring ethical non-monogamy. Wondering about jealousy, boundaries, or the infamous "kitchen table polyamory"? Daniella Guimaraes reveals how Velvet Ties is serving up a new kind of relationship adventure - from globe-trotting, heart-opening events to matchmaking that's all about consent, honesty, and meaningful connection. You'll hear stories of real couples, throuples, and curious singles finding their way in a judgement-free community. Whether you're ENM-curious or simply want to up your relationship game, tune in for loads of insight and some candid talk on sex, intimacy, and why honesty matters more than any Hollywood fantasy. Curious? So are we. Press play and find out if ethical non-monogamy could change your view on love forever. About Daniella www.velvetties.com WHATSAPP GROUP https://www.instagram.com/velvetties_/ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 21 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/
Wes has a new podcast! You can subscribe at the Sex and Sensibility page. Mary Zoso, Holistic Wholesome Sex Coach is joined by Wesley Fenza and Gina to make sense of sex and relationships.In this inaugural episode, they will be discussing The Pain and Glory of Nonmonogamy by Aella.Mary Zoso is available for hire! She offers one-on-one counseling, multi-week courses, and one-day workshops, all available to attend remotely. She charges on a sliding scale, so anyone can afford her services. Click here to see her current offerings.Intro and Outro music: Spectre by The Fine Vintages This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mindkiller.substack.com
Jealousy in non-monogamy doesn't always look dramatic.Sometimes it's not a big blow-up or obvious conflict. Sometimes it's the slow build.A little comparison. A little overthinking. That subtle drop in your stomach when your partner mentions someone else.And before you know it, it's affecting your mood, your communication, and the way you show up in your relationship.In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm talking about the hidden cost of ignoring jealousy, especially in polyamory and open relationships, and why trying to “be chill” or push past your feelings usually creates more distance, not more security.We're getting into:→ why jealousy doesn't stay contained to one moment→ how ignored triggers stack over time and impact your nervous system→ the sneaky ways jealousy affects communication in polyamory→ why your reactions might feel bigger than the situation→ how to stop overthinking and start feeling more grounded→ what actually helps you work through jealousy in a healthy wayIf you've been feeling anxious in your relationship, struggling with comparison, or noticing that jealousy is quietly shaping how you show up, this episode will help you feel less alone and give you a place to start.This is for anyone navigating: → jealousy in polyamory → jealousy in open relationships → comparison in non-monogamy → relationship anxiety → fear of not being enough → feeling activated when your partner dates others
What if the people around you are no longer helping you grow, but quietly keeping you small? My boyfriend interviewed me and asked me some deeply personal questions about growth, relationships, and polyamory. We talked about the moments in my life where I wish I had been challenged differently, how new people and fresh perspectives have shaped me, and why growth often comes in waves of expansion and integration. We also explored what I've learned from being polyamorous for eight years, whether I've ever wanted to go back, and what I would say to someone who is curious about non-monogamy. More than anything, this conversation is about freedom, self-trust, and what it means for me to choose a life and relationships that feel true.
Sedona Reign is a mainstream adult performer, OnlyFans creator, stripper — and a hot wife with a real origin story. She breaks down how it started: a secret she kept from her husband, the confession that shifted their relationship, and how that moment opened the door to hotwifing… which eventually led to porn.Then we get into the chaos: strip club life, strip club “extras,” and the kind of stories you only hear from someone who's lived it. We talk her first porn scenes, the alter ego that is Sedona Reign, DP, DVP, what she might do next (gangbang questions included), she then closes with one of the most UNHINGED CUSTOM REQUESTS we've ever heard on this show. Buckle up.Welcome to EP 221: "Hot Wife Origin Story" with Sedona Reign.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sedona ReignInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesedonareign (@thesedonareign)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
There's a very specific kind of loneliness that can happen when you're dating someone who's already partnered.The connection can be real. The feelings can be real. And still… something feels off.If you're navigating non-monogamy as a solo person, especially when you're dating someone who already has an established partner, this episode is for you.Because this dynamic can be beautiful… and also confusing, activating, and quietly painful if you don't have language for what's happening.In this episode, we're talking about: → Why you can feel deeply connected and still feel lonely → The difference between choosing this dynamic vs. settling for it → How your needs can change as you get more emotionally invested → Why early dating is still early dating (even in polyamory) → The impact of couple's privilege (and how to recognize it) → How to advocate for your needs without overcompensating → Why you have to date what's actually available… not potential → What it looks like when this dynamic is actually healthyAnd most importantly… How to stop centering couplehood as the only way to feel loved, supported, and fully met.This episode is about staying anchored in yourself, even when the connection is strong.Because you don't have to become the “cool, low-maintenance partner” to make this work.And you don't have to convince yourself that less is enough.Send us Fan MailSupport the show
Andi Avalon is a mainstream adult star and OnlyFans favorite with a reputation for getting absolutely soaked on camera — and she's here this week, ready to spill everything. We talk about how she discovered her squirting, what it feels like, how wild it gets, and the first time she did a DVP — including the detail that makes you do a double take: squirting 40+ times during the experience.Then we go off the rails in the best way: her past as a swinger, the difference between luxury parties and chaotic free-for-alls, and one swinger-party story you won't be able to stop picturing in your head. We also hit AVN fan behavior (how to approach her without being weird), underwear sales, dick ratings, and the most bizarre custom request she's ever gotten. Horny, hilarious, and totally unfiltered. Because that's how we do things around here. Grab your poncho, pour a strong one, and enjoy EP 220: "Deep Green" with Andi Avalon.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Andi AvalonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrsandiavalon (@mrsandiavalon)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
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Partners and friends can help with the admin burden of checking accessibility. That's what mutual aid is all about. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month.Our discussion question this week came from the Odder Being Polyamory Conversation Cards. Pick up your own copy using my affiliate link and use NONMONOHELP at checkout for 10% off.Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com.Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
Dr. Alix Agar returns for her third time on Sex Party, and we jump straight into the state of sex in America right now. Are we really in a sex recession? What's happening with dating apps, modern intimacy, and the growing disconnect — and what can people actually do if they want things to improve? Alix brings the kind of insight that's equal parts comforting and confronting.Then we go future-forward: AI sex bots, sex with ChatGPT, AI girlfriends/boyfriends, even AI throuples — and whether any of it is as dystopian as it sounds. Along the way, Dustin tells the story of a sex doll torso being mailed to him (yes, really), we unpack the Madonna-Whore complex and how it quietly poisons desire, and we end with something incredibly useful: when to seek a sex therapist versus a general therapist, and how to know the difference.Funny, dark, and way too real. Welcome to EP 219: "AI Gangbang" with Dr. Alix Agar.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Dr. Alix AgarInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dralixagar (@dralixagar) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Today we're excited to be sharing an episode with Eli Finkel and Paul Eastwick of the Love Factually podcast! We're critiquing Vicky Cristina Barcelona's portrayal of non-monogamy and discussing the film as a whole. Eli Finkel is a professor at Northwestern University, with appointments in the psychology department and the Kellogg School of Management. He also serves as a founding co-director of the Litowitz Center for Enlightened Disagreement and as the Morton O. Schapiro Fellow at the Institute for Policy Research. His research topics range from marriage to political partisanship. He is the author of The All-or-Nothing Marriage, a co-host of the Love Factually podcast, and a guest essayist for The New York Times. The Economist declared him “one of the leading lights in the realm of relationship psychology.”Paul Eastwick is a Professor of Psychology at UC Davis and the author of the book "Bonded by Evolution" that offers an exciting new look at the science of attraction and compatibility. Along with Eli Finkel, he hosts the podcast Love Factually where they analyze rom-coms and romantic dramas from the perspective of relationship science. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Get 10% off sexual health supplements at https://vb.health/discount/multi?utm_source=multiamory with promo code MULTI.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and keep learning at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Record your own podcast or videos with the same platform as us! Check out multiamory.link/riverside to try it yourself for free.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if the thing you thought made you “too much”… was actually the doorway to deeper connection, more honest relationships, and a whole lot more pleasure?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm joined by writer and poet Kate Heskett, whose story appears in the new anthology Pillow Talk, a collection of real, raw, awkward, and hilarious experiences of sex, intimacy, and desire.Kate shares what it was like to show up alone to their very first swingers hotel takeover, the anxiety, the curiosity, and the unexpected validation of finding people who see the world the way they do.We talk about what happens when monogamy never quite made sense, the messy transition into non-monogamy, and what it actually looks like to build “love-first” relationships without rigid rules.In This Episode, We Cover:→ What a swingers hotel takeover is really like (beyond the fantasy)→ The anxiety and courage of showing up alone to your first lifestyle event→ Kate's story “Pineapples in the Snow” and what it represents → Growing up feeling “wrong” and trying to fit into monogamy → The transition from monogamy to non-monogamy (and why it can be messy)→ What “love-first” non-monogamy looks like in real life→ Navigating triad dynamics, distance, and communication → Compersion, voyeurism, and different turn-ons in open relationships→ Why real, honest stories about sex and relationships matterAbout Kate HeskettKate Heskett (they/them) is an award-winning poet, writer, and canoe guide based in Whistler, BC. Their work has been published in Pique and The Lupine Review, and they are a contributing author in the anthology Pillow Talk: Real People. Real Stories. Real Awkward.Their story, Pineapples in the Snow, shares their first experience at a swingers hotel takeover, exploring risk, desire, and the powerful validation of finding community.Pillow Talk: Real People. Real Stories. Real Awkward. is an anthology featuring 18 writers sharing frank, funny, and deeply human stories about intimacy, desire, and the moments we don't usually talk about.From awkward encounters to moments of joy and self-discovery, this book helps normalize the full spectrum of human experience.
Cheerleader Kait is one of the biggest new stars in adult right now — an AVN award-winning mainstream performer who runs a thriving OnlyFans and Fansly. This interview is already wild, but the reason she didn't make it on weeks ago is even wilder: her house burned down. Kait breaks down what happened, how she handled it, and how she still kept moving forward.We get into what it felt like winning AVN Best New Starlet 2026, where she wants to take her career next, and how she built her audience before anyone even knew who she was. For two years she created faceless content then flipped the switch and leveled up fast. She also shares what fans can expect on her platforms, the craziest requests she gets, and real advice for anyone who wants to start creating. Smart, funny, and fully on fire — in every single way. Enjoy EP 218: "Light My Fire" with Cheerleader Kait.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Cheerleader KaitInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/fitkaitlynxoxo (@fitkaitlynxoxo)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Outlouders, enjoy this free taster of Mia Freedman on today's subscriber episode. Listen to the full conversation — 'Three Very Different Opinions On Lindy West’s Throuple' — at 5 pm TODAY. What do you mean, you're not a subscriber yet? Solve that problem HERE.The death of millennial feminism. A bad marriage. Absolutely none of our business. These are just some of the Internet’s takes on the memoir Adult Braces by millennial icon Lindy West. And of course Mia — who has met and interviewed Lindy and found her delightful and blisteringly smart — has a few opinions of her own. Joined on this subscriber episode by Clare Stephens and Holly Wainwright, Mia asks and answers some questions about the most talked-about memoir of the moment. Questions like: If you spill all the details of your polyamorous throuple in a series of personal essays, can you actually argue that your relationship is not 'for public audit'? And: Do we just find it impossible to believe a woman can be happy in a non-monogamous relationship? And: When someone tells you they really, really don’t want to be monogamous, shouldn’t you just believe them? Remember, this is your free sample of today's subs episode. The full debrief drops for subscribers at 5pm. Get 25% off Nala with your Mamamia subscription. Click here to get your code ends April 1st. What To Listen To Next: Listen to Lindy West on No Filter: Lindy West Isn't Afraid to Take Up Space Listen to our latest episode: Polyamory, Cheating & The Marriage No One Wants To Believe Listen: An Unhinged List Of Rules No One Asked For Listen: Mia's Diary Note: Burnout & Bras & Books, Oh My! Listen: A Dangerous Influencer Trend & Scurrilous Lip-Reading Gossip Listen: 'Are Flaps In Or Out?' Mia's Rogue Oscars Fashion Feedback Listen: A Very Awkward Oscars & That Manosphere Doco Listen: What We Did Before 9am Listen: A Lil' Treat: Jessie’s Very Surprising, Very Wonderful Twins Update Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Discover more Mamamia Podcasts here including the very latest episode of Parenting Out Loud, the parenting podcast for people who don't listen to... parenting podcasts. SUBSCRIBE here: Support independent women's media Watch Australia's #1 podcast, Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: Author Lindy West thought she had a 'perfect' marriage. Then her husband asked to open it. Lindy West: "I was in a relationship with a guy who was embarrassed to be seen with me in public." Lindy West: "My abortion was simple with no pain. We need to hear these stories." He set up a fake profile of her deceased father, just to mess with her. THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Courtney Boyer was trying to figure out what was going on in her life when she realized she was polyamorous. What is polyamory? Is that you? How do you figure it out? Courtney has written about her journey in the new book Opened, available anywhere you get books.For more information or to schedule a coaching session, check out her website.
Do you think humans are biologically wired for one partner? Or have we been socially conditioned into monogamy? We deep dive into the science and history of human relationships to figure out whether pairing with one person for life is our natural state of being, or if we're actually biologically predisposed to be non-monogamous.SHOW NOTES:Our biology wants us untethered. So why does society place so much emphasis on monogamy?:https://www.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la-oe-barash-why-humans-choose-monogamy-20160320-story.htmlMonogamous Animal Study - where humans rank:https://www.theguardian.com/science/2025/dec/10/humans-rank-among-leading-monogamous-mammals-study-findsPODCAST: Science Vs - True Love: Is Monogamy Unnatural? https://open.spotify.com/episode/1gm9BvCWsHhXN2erbvNXivPODCAST: Lives Well Lived w/ Anna Machin: Monogamy Is Unnaturalhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/3WyhifKm70RhzlLUChN8S3BOOK: Esther Perel - Mating In CaptivityBOOK: Sex At Dawn - Christopher Ryan and Cacilda JetháBOOK: Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution - Cat Bohannon VIDEO: Helen Fisher + Chris Ryan + Esther Perelhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jMji-YE1qVADM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.
In this episode we review our trip to 'The Resort' which was first introduced by George in episode 137. The Resort is a new opportunity to step into ethical non-monogamy in a new format and market. This property is set on the cliffs of western Jamaica and is absolutely stunning! The views, the service, the food, the entertainment, the sensual vibe and of course the sexy people were all amazing! Spoiler alert: you won't be disappointed.... Mentioned in this episode: The Resort website Music by Pornoson (used with permission) Devious Dragonfly Events The Free We Gotta Thing Info Hub Contact Mr Jones for a WGT community promo code
Mainstream Adult Star and OnlyFans/Fansly favorite Andie Anderson steps into Sex Party and immediately turns the dial to chaos. We talk AVN and XBIZ, what the convention circuit is actually like (polite fans, smelly fans, grabby weirdos — pick your fighter), and why leaning into the step-mom fantasy isn't a bit for her — it's a super power.We get into men's taboos and where she thinks they come from, her experience with gangbangs (and whether she'll do more), and what DVP feels like — including what it's like to cum during it. Then she drops her craziest custom OnlyFans request and caps it off with a strip-club story that'll make you sit up straight and say "NO FUCKING WAY" and then immediately text at least 3-7 people. It's that crazy. Please pull over if you're driving. Welcome to EP 217: "Andie's World" with Andie Anderson. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Andie AndersonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/peachyandie (@peachyandie)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Before we jump into today's conversation, we share a major announcement: after months of quiet work behind the scenes, we reveal that we've been involved with a group that is under contract to acquire what many consider one of the premier lifestyle resorts in Florida. Because of SEC rules, we have to be careful about what we say publicly, but we're excited to share the project, the vision, and the role we hope to play in helping shape its future.After that, we sit down with two very special guests, Clint and Danine, our first-ever Naughty Gym members and longtime friends, for a candid conversation about their journey into non-monogamy. They share how an unexpected early experience got put on the shelf for years, how their marriage nearly fell apart before deeper self-work changed everything, and what it looked like to move from survival mode into a more expansive, honest, and adventurous partnership.This is a fun, raw, and deeply personal episode about growth, sexuality, healing, and what can become possible when a couple stops settling for the default script.Naughty Gym Website:www.NaughtyGym.comNaughty Gym Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/cw/NaughtyGymOur Upcoming Events:1. Wild Love Theory Retreat -- https://www.naughtygym.com/wild-love-theory-retreat2. Barcelona Adventure Trip -- https://www.naughtygym.com/barcelona-20263. El Salvador Retreat -- https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador4. Wild & Wise Women's Retreat - https://www.naughtygym.com/Wild-Wise5. Mancation Men's Retreat - https://www.naughtygym.com/mancation-mountain6. Holidaze - https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they tackle a thought-provoking question: Would they still be together if they weren't in the swinger lifestyle? In this candid conversation, they explore how the lifestyle defines (or doesn't define) their relationship, and what challenges they might face if their relationship model was different.
Shelby Terrell is a sex & relationships coach, a pleasure-informed therapist, and an intimacy coordinator for film and TV — which means she understands desire and how to create real safety and trust when things get hot. She also proudly owns being a filthy freak with her own nudes online, and honestly? That's part of what makes her so powerful. No pearl-clutching. No judgment. Just the kind of honesty that makes you exhale and relax.We get into what to do when you're not getting what you need from your partner, how to bring up threesomes without detonating your relationship, why roleplay can be wildly healing, and how kink/BDSM can actually set you free. This episode is part therapy, part permission slip — and fully Sex Party approved.Settle in, buckle up, and enjoy EP 216: "Filthy Fucking Sex" with Shelby Terrell.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Shelby TerrellInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theshelbyterrell (@theshelbyterrell)Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacywithshelby (@intimacywithshelby)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Get 10% off sexual health supplements at https://vb.health/discount/multi?utm_source=multiamory with promo code MULTI.,Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYMultiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of The Swingers Couch Podcast, Carlosand Autumn break down the Word of the Week: Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM)and explain what it really means in the lifestyle (LS). Is ENM the same asswinging? How do couples practice it while maintaining trust, honesty, andrespect?We also highlight something amazing happening in our Discordcommunity—listeners continuing the conversation after the episode drops.Members are sharing advice, supporting newcomers, and helping couples navigatetheir LS journey.Then in Swingers News, we discuss the shockingheadline about former reality TV personality Tony McCollister pleadingnot guilty by reason of insanity in a case that has people talking across thelifestyle community.Finally, we close the episode with a Sexy Story thatwill leave your imagination running wild.If you're curious about ethical non-monogamy, swinging,open relationships, and lifestyle advice, this is an episode you don't wantto miss.
Betrayal isn't a fun topic for anyone. But when it comes to non-monogamy, betrayal can actually be really hard to identify, because we often don't have clear cultural scripts and shared assumptions about what's okay and what's not. This can open us up to profound experiences of betrayal that make you question not just your partner, but yourself and reality.Eve Rickert (co-author of the second edition of More Than Two and publisher at Thornapple Press) joins us for a MUCH-needed conversation about her powerful new book, Nonmonogamy and Betrayal. We're talking situationships that masquerade as real relationships, people who act like they're building attachment-based connections while secretly keeping one foot out the door, and the ways non-monogamy's flexibility can actually get weaponized against us.If you've ever felt like you were in one relationship while your partner thought you were in something completely different, or if you're struggling to name what went wrong when someone hurt you (but technically didn't break an explicit agreement), this episode is essential listening. We draw on personal experiences of both experiencing and causing betrayal, and we get real about the repair work that has to happen.In this episode, we talk about:— How betrayal is more than just breaking agreements—it's a violation of trust that removes your agency and ability to consent to the reality you're actually living— The difference between betrayals within a relationship (like broken agreements) and betrayals about the relationship (where you discover the whole thing wasn't what you thought it was)— Eve's concept of "bees in the closet"—when your partner makes major changes without your input and then acts like you should have explicitly negotiated against something no reasonable person would expect— Situationships and Schrödinger's relationships: how refusing to define what you're doing creates plausible deniability and sets the stage for betrayal— Why casual relationships actually require more communication and clearer agreements than "serious" ones— The secretly monogamous partner who uses non-monogamy language but is really just waiting for you to become their life partner— How betrayal destroys self-trust, not just trust in your partner, and why repairing with yourself has to come before repairing the relationship— Poly under duress as a potential betrayal that can go both ways, and how self-betrayal happens when you say yes but mean no— Why the flexibility of non-monogamy can get weaponized— The reality that repair isn't always possible (and why that might be the case)— Practical approaches to rebuilding trust after betrayalResources mentioned in this episode:— Eve Rickert's book Nonmonogamy and Betrayal (available at Thornapple Press and wherever you buy books)— The second edition of *More Than Two* by Eve Rickert and Andrea Zanin— Eve's blog post "Bees in the Closet"— Visit thornapplepress.ca for all of Eve's books and more!— Episode 212: Repair Skills— Repair Skills YouTube playlistJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at www.TheYearOfOpening.comLearn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by Blue Dot Sessions
She's back, and this time, it's even wilder. Award-winning, AVN-nominated OnlyFans and Fansly creator Kera Bear returns to Sex Party. We dive into meeting in person at X3, reuniting at AVN, and what it's like collaborating live with 10,000 fans watching. From her first strap-on scene with Abby Rose to what's next in her girl-girl adventures, Kera shares it all.We ask what turned her on during the live show, who's on her collab wish list, and whether a filmed threesome is next. It's wild, hilarious, and everything you've been begging for in the DM's. Pour a strong one and enjoy EP 215: "Strapped" with Kera Bear. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Kera BearInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerabear_official (@kerabear_official)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
On Today's show.. A man rediscovers passion after a dry spell, only to find himself on the receiving end of a strap-on surprise that leaves him craving more. A closeted lesbian steps into a strip club and confesses her fetish for verbal humiliation, leading to a lap dance she'll replay every night. A former therapy patient reunites with his stunning ex-therapist in a professional setting, but things quickly turn personal – and wildly intimate. Stick around for these stories and more.Join us over on Discord. https://discord.gg/uqqxsCSDfw Content Warning: This episode contains explicit sexual content, including graphic descriptions of nudity, public sex, infidelity, and boundary-pushing consensual fantasies. Stories are fictional and depict enthusiastic consent. Listener discretion advised; 18+ only. Submissions involving bestiality, incest, underage role-play, rape, non-consensual content, or racial slurs are not aired. Get Involved:Submit Your Story: Got a secret fantasy or steamy confession? Write to Nikky at Nikky@dearnikky.com or submit anonymously at DearNikky.com/confessions. By submitting, you certify:You're the sole creator of the submission.You're 18+ and legally able to submit erotic material.No prohibited themes (bestiality, incest, underage, rape, non-consensual content, racial slurs).Names/identifiable info may be changed.You release all rights to the submission.Say Hello: Have a burning fantasy or just want to chat? Email Nikky@dearnikky.com or connect on Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162) , or Facebook (@DearNikky). Nikky wants to hear your naughtiest thoughts!Support the Show: Love these private peeks into filthy lives? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Spreaker or your favorite platform to help new listeners discover the heat. Your support keeps the conversation sizzling!Support Nikky:Patreon: Unlock exclusive confessions, bonus thoughts, and steamy Q&As at Patreon.com/DearNikky. Join the inner circle for extra spice!Nectar.ai: Explore your wildest fantasies with immersive AI experiences at Nectar.ai. Perfect for Frisky Friday fans craving more.Featured Release: Dear Nikky: Sex Confessions From People Just Like You is out now! Dive deeper into the raw, unfiltered stories you love. Contact:Email: Nikky@dearnikky.comWebsite: DearNikky.com/confessionsSocials: Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162), Facebook (@DearNikky)Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dear-nikky-hidden-desires--6316414/support.
Genna James is a super popular cam star, creator, and chaos technician — and this one gets nasty in the best way. We go deep into the cam world from someone who actually lives there: marathon live sessions, thousands of people watching in real time, chat going bonkers, and what it feels like to be on camera while the whole room is watching you cum.She tells the Black Friday fuck-machine story, gets into collabs with other women and her neighbor, and breaks down the requests she gets nonstop — from the regular stuff to the truly unhinged. We also hit cam-room etiquette, audience control, where she likes the cumshot, and whether she's thinking about making the jump into mainstream.Welcome to the Season 5 Premiere, welcome to EP 214: "The Tit Factor" with Genna James.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Genna JamesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mypnkgf (@mypnkgf)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Hour 2 for 2/20/26 Drew prayed the Chaplet of Divine Mercy with Brooke Taylor (1:00).Then, Doug Hinderer discussed the rise in non-monogamy (26:01). Topics: caller – I stayed single after divorce (31:06), Harvard happiness study (38:09), being unequally yoked (40:10), non-monogamy can’t make you happy (43:29), and I’ll never forget my husband’s cheating (44:37). Original Air Dates: Chaplet of Divine Mercy: 1/30/26 Doug Hinderer Segment: 3/28/25
Dedeker Winston is a co-host of Mulitamory, relationship coach, writer, and advocate for polyamory and non-traditional relationships. She is the author ofThe Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know about Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love, published by Skyhorse Press. This episode originally ran in 2023. Shira Heisler is a prolific and longtime contributor to the show. She was last on to share about talking through grief. Her advice from today's episode is from 2020. ---Wanna help Zak continue making this show? Become a Weird Helpful right now! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today we're excited to be joined by Brett Chamberlin and Dr. Amy Moors to discuss the recent results of the largest non-monogamy survey done to date. Brett Chamberlin (he/him) is the Founder & Executive Director of OPEN, a grassroots nonprofit advancing legal rights and cultural acceptance for non-monogamy. Under his leadership, OPEN has passed landmark non-discrimination protections in multiple cities and established itself as a leading voice in the rapidly growing movement for relationship freedom.A repeat nonprofit founder with over a decade of movement-building experience, Brett has led global grassroots campaigns reaching millions, including for the Emmy-winning documentary film "The Story of Plastic." His work has been featured in The New York Times, NPR, CNN, and NBC.Dr. Amy C. Moors is an Assistant Professor of Psychology and Faculty Affiliate in Engineering at Chapman University. She serves as a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University and the founding co-chair of the American Psychological Association's Division 44 Committee on Consensual Non-Monogamy. Dr. Moors has published more than 60 journal articles and dozens of educational materials on topics related to sexuality and consensual non-monogamy. Dr. Moors has received several awards for her pioneering research on polyamorous, swinging, and other forms of consensually non-monogamous relationships, including the Kenneth R. Haslam, MD, Relationship Diversity Research Award and the Distinguished Professional Contribution Award from the American Psychological Association Division 44.Find Dr. Moors on social media @professormoors, and find more about OPEN and Brett at www.open-love.org. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Get 10% off sexual health supplements at https://vb.health/discount/multi?utm_source=multiamory with promo code MULTI.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices