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What if someone had actually taught you how to have a great relationship? While Sex and the Psyche takes a short production break, we're bringing back some of the conversations our listeners connected with most. In this Encore Episode, we revisit our conversation with Zach and Sally Maxwell and explore The Relationship Framework Nobody Taught You. Relationships don't come with an instruction manual. Most of us learn how to communicate, navigate conflict, build intimacy, and stay connected by trial and error—and sometimes by making a whole lot of mistakes along the way. Zach and Sally offer a fresh perspective on the skills and framework that can help couples better understand each other, communicate more effectively, and create a stronger, more connected relationship. Whether you heard this conversation the first time around or you're discovering it for the first time, this is one worth revisiting. Take another listen, share it with someone you love, and remember: a better relationship starts with better conversations. New episodes of Sex and the Psyche return soon. Until then, enjoy this Encore Conversation—and keep your questions coming! Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok and please DM us with your questions! Guest Information: sally@max-wellcoaching.com https://www.max-wellcoaching.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
OnlyFans, Fansly and LoyalFans creator, cam girl and stripper Rogue has one hell of a story to tell. We get into her love of facials, taking her infamous “cum walks” into public, interviewing strangers with the evidence still on her face, gangbangs, DP, discovering just how intensely she can cum from anal, and the mishap that temporarily put her favorite kind of play on hold.We also get into orgies with men and women, the wildest requests from her fans, her surprisingly heartwarming road into sex work, and, of course, the craziest stories from her years in the strip club. One of them involves Fettuccine Alfredo. We close with Rogue's potential move into mainstream porn and whether or not she believes in aliens. Get ready to go completely off the fucking rails with EP 238: "Going Rogue" with Rogue.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow RogueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stellar_rogue (@stellar_rogue)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
"Non-monogamy is just about sex." "It means you love your partner less." "It's inherently unstable." Thorhildur has heard it all, and in this episode she's busting the 7 biggest myths, one by one. Drawing on her own decade-long journey from monogamy to polyamory, plus years of coaching clients through the same terrain, she unpacks mononormativity: the invisible belief that monogamy is the "correct" default that everything else has to justify itself against. She takes apart the idea that opening up means something is broken, that it's just a phase, that it's for people running from commitment, or that it means no rules and no structure. Along the way, she gets into the post-traumatic growth research behind why hard conversations can actually build deeper trust, and why love, unlike time, isn't something you run out of. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this one's going to challenge what you thought you knew. Ready to go deeper? ❤️ JOIN the waitlist for Life Beyond Monogamy & get over 50% OFF the standard price if you want to stop fantasizing about Non-Monogamy and start living it with full safety, respect & clarity: https://risewiththorhildur.com/waitlist-bigcourse
Fox Emerson moves to Milan with his husband for a fresh start, then lets a charismatic man he met in Atlanta follow him there. The man settles into the apartment, grows colder and stranger by the day, and one late-night argument escalates until Fox is the one in handcuffs, alone in an Italian jail cell with no idea why. Patrick Holbert convinces himself his marriage is quietly open, books an appointment with a dominatrix in Queens, and spends the next six weeks deciding whether to tell his wife. His confession lands nothing like he pictured. Funny, filthy, and more honest about marriage than he probably planned. Both men skipped the conversation that might have changed everything. Leave your comments on the stories and find episode details and music credits at risk-show.Be Part of RISK!
What happens when you really click with another person or couple, maybe even have great sex, and then find yourself hurt or jealous when they connect with someone else?In Episode 83, April and Scott talk about the invisible agreements we sometimes create in non-monogamy without ever discussing them.Maybe you've played together before and assumed it would happen again. Maybe you went to an event together expecting to spend the night together. Maybe you felt close to someone and were surprised by your jealousy when they met someone new. Problems can arise when those assumptions affect how we treat someone who never knew we had them.We also explore how differently people experience sexual desire. Attraction, chemistry, and opportunity may lead one person toward sex, while someone else can enjoy the same chemistry without wanting to take it further. Previous sex doesn't guarantee future sex.We talk about what happens when disappointment creates pressure, why someone else shouldn't have to manage our reaction to hearing no, and how this can affect consent. April also shares how fear of disappointing people influenced some of her own choices in the past.Plus, we get into jealousy between friends and play partners, compersion, autonomy, community, and why communicating our hopes can prevent unspoken expectations from creating hurt feelings.Want more of our deeper conversations? Join us on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/naughtygymWILD LOVE THEORY BOOK LAUNCHMinneapolis, MN | September 4–7, 2026https://www.naughtygym.com/wildlovetheorybooklaunch
In this episode we bring back Dr Jane Guyn to discuss ENM (ethical non-monogamy). Dr Jane Guyn Terra Blanca
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Ravyn Alexa proudly calls herself the Fantasy Slut, and after this episode, you'll understand exactly why. We get into working for Brazzers, what she's building on OnlyFans, the requests that fill up her inbox, the ones she never saw coming, and why fans can't seem to get enough.We also talk about her years as a stripper, the craziest stories from the club, partying with a famous rapper, people doing lines off of her asshole, pulling off her first DP, and why she's putting every major studio on notice: stop making her wait and book her first gangbang already. This is a wild one. Enjoy EP 237: "In The Trenches" with Ravyn Alexa.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Ravyn AlexaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ravynalexaagain (@ravynalexaagain)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
This week we're hearing from some of our listeners. We recently polled listeners and asked you all to tell us what the hardest, complicated, messy parts of non-monogamy are, as well as the reasons why you wouldn't trade it for anything. We're going to hear from a few listeners about their struggles and joys, and answer the questions ourselves. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.FREE TOYS OR GIFT CARDS FOR TOYS! Everyone who signs up to our giveaway with @bellesacowins something! bbvibes.com/multiamory,Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What is consensual non-monogamy and why does it seem to be gaining influence? What problems easily can come up from encouraging people to engage in relationships in this way? Ricky and Bonnie discuss this and more in today's episode!
There's a question most people are too scared to ask their partner — and it's not "can I sleep with someone else?" It's will you still love me if I tell you the truth? In this episode, Thorhildur unpacks the real cost of staying silent about what you want in your relationship — and why that silence, not honesty, is usually what causes the disconnection. Drawing from her own experience opening a 10-year marriage and years of coaching clients through the same threshold, she breaks down the difference between freedom and permission, why "reckless freedom" backfires, and why the goal was never to put a label on your relationship — it was always to feel safe enough to speak.
Karen reviews Sex Diaries, the new collection of erotic anonymous week-long diaries focusing on nonmonogamous adventures, based on the popular New York Magazine column.In this episode:Sex Diaries, edited by Alyssa Shelasky Host, sex educator, and writer Karen Yates Get Say It Better in Bed, Karen's free guide to upping your intimacy pleasure. Download here!Show your love for Wild & Sublime: Leave a tip!The Afterglow, our Patreon membership group, brings you regular bonus content, early alerts, and discounts to live shows! Be Wild & Sublime out in the world! Check out our tees and accessories for maximum visibility. Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
Brooksie Brooks is a Babestation streamer, stripper, and self-proclaimed squirt queen—and she has the stats to back it up. Known as “the wettest pussy in the North,” Brooksie once squirted 32 times in 45 minutes. We get into the anything-goes world of Babestation, using “more baby oil than Diddy” (her words), her wild experiences on stream, selling her squirt, and the wildest requests she's ever gotten from fans.Then we get very, very detailed about her collabs with other women, including exactly how messy she likes things to get. And because Brooksie is also a stripper, you know I had to ask for her craziest stories from the club. She gives me three—INCLUDING THE WILDEST STRIP CLUB STORY WE'VE EVER HAD ON THE SHOW. So buckle the fuck up, get out your tarp, strap that helmet on tight, and prepare yourself for EP 236: "Babe Land" with Brooksie Brooks.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Brooksie BrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brooksiebrooks_ (@brooksiebrooks_)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
This week The President of The United States of America and Tech Stuff Guy discuss Iran, Elon Musk, Correspondents Dinner, World Cup Halftime Show, Lebron James, and more. If you enjoy the show leave a rating and review on spotify or iTunes. Join the Patreon for hours of bonus content www.Patreon.com/MPGA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Hazel Heart has a pitch-black Gooner cave in her basement where she disappears for hours with headphones on and completely loses herself. We get into those three-hour sessions, her brutally hardcore work with Hookup Hotshot, what it feels like to get dick drunk and fall completely into subspace, and why some scenes leave her needing a serious recovery nap.Hazel also opens up about her first DP—and what it feels like to actually orgasm during it. We get into her gangbang ambitions, blowbang fantasies, love of sucking dick, cosplay, anime, AVN, OnlyFans, and the wildest request she's ever gotten. This episode is filthy, hypnotic, and completely out of control. As always.Grab your headphones, head to your cave or dark room of choice, and enjoy EP 235: "Heart Eyes" with Hazel Heart. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Hazel HeartInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/xhazelheartx (@xhazelheartx)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Why is Non-Monogamy Still Taboo?In this segment from our throwback episode with Dr. Joli Hamilton, we dig into why non-monogamy still carries so much stigma — even as more people quietly explore it. Dr. Hamilton, a relationship coach and research psychologist, unpacks the cultural scripts that keep monogamy positioned as the "default" and everything else as a deviation, and why that framing doesn't hold up under scrutiny.We talk through the double standards, the assumptions about jealousy and commitment, and what actually changes when couples give themselves permission to question the rules they inherited. A short but pointed listen for anyone curious about where the taboo comes from — and why it's worth challenging.
Some conversations are simply too good to leave in the archives.This week I'm re-releasing one of my favorite early episodes with my dear friend, Wilder. Even years later, this conversation feels just as relevant. We dive into what it actually looks like to build a life outside of traditional relationship norms, from joining an already-married couple to creating a thriving polyamorous family together.Wilder shares her experience of living in a closed triad, navigating the assumptions people make about triads, unpacking monogamous conditioning, and raising children in a loving, intentional polyamorous household.Whether you're curious about polyamory, already practicing ethical non-monogamy, or simply interested in questioning the relationship scripts we've all inherited, this conversation is full of honesty, vulnerability, and hope.Wilder lives in Olalla with her partners, their children, and an ever-growing collection of chickens, ducks, adventures, and beautiful chaos.In This Episode What a closed triad actually is - and what people often misunderstand about them Why labels can be helpful...and where they can become limiting The emotional journey of transitioning from monogamy to polyamory Authenticity, self-love, and creating relationships that fit who you really are Unlearning monogamous programming Navigating jealousy with curiosity instead of fear Raising children in a polyamorous family Imagining new possibilities for love, family, and partnership The difference between control and trust Choosing authenticity over societal expectations Timestamps2:19 – What is a closed triad?4:20 – Labels and identity8:24 – Transitioning into polyamory15:03 – Authenticity and self-love18:59 – Monogamous programming and triad dynamics33:24 – Jealousy44:49 – Raising kids in a polyamorous family52:44 – The possibilities of the future54:41 – Control versus trust1:00:08 – Living authenticallyIf you enjoyed this conversation, I'd love for you to share it with someone who's questioning the relationship "rules" they've always been taught. Every time we hear real stories from real people, it becomes a little easier to imagine that there are many ways to build a loving, connected life.❤️ Thanks for listening to Nope, We're Not Monogamous.Send us Fan MailSupport the show
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 268th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes comedian, Manwhore Podcast host, and Naked Comedy Show producer Billy Procida. For more than a decade, Billy has been documenting his adventures in ethical non-monogamy and casual sex with equal parts curiosity, humor, and raw honesty. He shares whether making a sex podcast helps or hurts his dating life, his self-imposed oral sex auditions, his COVID-era glory hole, naked podcast interviews, the lessons he's learned from years of sexual adventures and experiments, why he prefers the term "lover," and the surprisingly romantic philosophy behind his unconventional lifestyle. For more Billy Procida: Follow Billy on Instagram @billyprocidajr Listen to Billy's podcast The Manwhore Podcast (Courtney's on a recent episode!) Get your copy of Girl Gone Wild from Bookshop.org or Amazon. Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: VB Health offers doctor-formulated sexual health supplements designed to elevate your sex life. Their lineup includes Soaking Wet, a blend of vitamins and probiotics that support vaginal health; Load Boost, which promotes male fertility and enhances semen volume and taste; and Drive Boost, formulated to increase libido and sexual desire for all genders. Visit vb.health and use code PRIVATE for 10% off. Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to lovehoney.com and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Samantha Reigns joins Sex Party for an episode that goes completely off the rails in the best way possible. We get into her love of anal, large gangbangs on and off camera, finally trying DP in 2026, her fisting experience, and the time she did a DVP while ten other men watched through a window from the room next door.Samantha also breaks down her wildest strip club experiences, why clubs near airports operate differently, how fans should approach her in public, and the most unhinged requests she's received on OnlyFans. Plus, she reveals how searching a dating app for a woman to join her and her boyfriend in a threesome somehow led to a career in porn. This episode is filthy, fun, chaotic, and absolutely loaded.Pour a double, clean your AirPods, and enjoy EP 234: "Take The Reigns" with Samantha Reigns.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Samantha Reigns Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialsamreigns (@officialsamreigns)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
In this collaborative episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie are joined by Samia to discuss their journeys into consensual non-monogamy, the importance of honest communication, and challenging traditional relationship expectations. Together, they explore how openness, autonomy, and authentic self-expression have shaped their relationships while encouraging others to question societal norms and build relationships based on trust rather than fear. Highlights John and Jackie share how Openlove101 began from Jackie's personal journey and writing. Samia discusses discovering she could love more than one person at the same time. The conversation explores the difference between social and sexual monogamy. Honest communication and autonomy are presented as the foundation of healthy relationships. They discuss challenging cultural expectations surrounding love and commitment. The importance of friendships and community alongside romantic relationships is emphasized. The episode encourages embracing authenticity over societal pressure. Key Insights Authenticity Creates Freedom: Living honestly allows relationships to grow through trust rather than secrecy. Communication Builds Stronger Relationships: Open conversations about attraction, boundaries, and desires deepen intimacy. There Is No One "Right" Relationship Model: Healthy relationships are built around the needs of the people involved, not societal expectations. Community Matters: Romantic, platonic, and social connections all contribute to a fulfilling life. Growth Comes From Challenging Assumptions: Questioning traditional beliefs about love can lead to greater self-awareness and stronger partnerships. Check Out Our Guest: @samia.mounts @happyslutcast
After years of helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of intimacy, renowned clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kate Balestrieri has seen it all—from the challenges of fostering honest conversations to the powerful transformation that comes with reconnecting to oneself. In this episode, Dr. Kate shares profound insights into why so many people feel disconnected from their desire and how curiosity, vulnerability, and non-judgment can reignite connection and pleasure in relationships. Drawing from themes in her upcoming book, “What Happened to My Sex Life,” she also reveals how overcoming self-abandonment is the key to living authentically and building deeper intimacy. In this episode, Darius and Dr. Kate will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to Dr. Kate Balestrieri (02:00) Dr. Kate's Journey into Sex Therapy (05:40) Exploring Crime and Psychology (09:35) The Spectrum of Sexuality (12:50) Cultural Shame Around Sex (15:39) Hedonism vs. Shame in Sexuality (18:59) Parenting and Sexual Education (27:14) The State of Sexual Satisfaction (33:40) Improving Partnered Sex Lives (37:58) Navigating Novelty in Relationships (43:59) The Rise of Non-Monogamy (49:03) The Role of Therapy in Sexual Conversations Dr. Kate Balestrieri is a licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and founder of Modern Intimacy, with practices in Los Angeles, Miami, and Chicago. Passionate about the intersection of mental health, sex, and relationships, she helps individuals and couples heal from trauma, navigate addictions, improve communication, and build deeper intimacy. Guided by a holistic approach that integrates evidence-based practices, Dr. Kate emphasizes the mind-body connection to foster resilience, recovery, and thriving vitality. She also hosts the podcast Get Naked with Dr. Kate, where she explores topics on mental health, sexuality, and relationships. Connect with Dr. Kate: Website: https://www.modernintimacy.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kate-balestrieri-psy-d-cst-csat-s-pact-iii-42b378152/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkatebalestrieri/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-naked-with-dr-kate/id1563975869 Book: https://www.amazon.com/What-Happened-My-Sex-Life/dp/1891011766 Connect with Darius: Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The ten years of monogamy that led us to open our marriage. Before Þórhildur ever said the word "polyamory," she spent ten years building a monogamous marriage — one that moved through teenage infatuation, an unplanned pregnancy at 20, the identity earthquake of new motherhood, a devastating low point disguised as wedding planning, a work "friendship" that turned into real feelings, and a slow, hard-won return to connection. In this episode, she tells the full story: the parts she doesn't usually share on the podcast. It's not a highlight reel — it's the honest, sometimes messy account of a normal relationship that eventually opened, and why understanding those ten years matters just as much as the eight years of open marriage that came after. If you've ever wondered whether your "boring" struggles could actually be pointing you toward a different kind of relationship, this episode is for you.
After her divorce, Sophia Sloane discovered a side of herself she never knew existed. The self-described “vanilla” woman found confidence, freedom, and a whole new career through camming. We get into what it's really like performing live for hundreds of viewers, the genuine connections she's built with her regulars, and how stepping in front of the camera changed her relationship with sex.Sophia also tells the story of unexpectedly squirting A LOT—during a live ticketed show, the moment she realized what was happening, and how it completely changed the way she thinks about her own body and pleasure. We also dive into the wildest requests she's received on Stripchat, whether collaborations are in her future, and why the biggest surprise wasn't the audience—it was discovering what she was capable of.Roll out your favorite tarp, blanket, or towel and enjoy EP 233: "Sophia's Game" with Sophia Sloane.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sophia Sloane Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itssophiasloane (@itssophiasloane) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Episode 214 (Don and Syn) Entitlement in the Lifestyle = In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind podcast Don and Syn are back in the studio. Don talks about Pride month and then they talk about their 4th. then this weeks topic is about people being entitled in the lifestyle. We discuss ways we feel people are entitled and how people have tried to ask us to do things cause of our name or they feel they know us and want special privilege
Most conversations about non-monogamy focus on opening a relationship, navigating jealousy, or finding new partners.But what happens after that?How do you navigate a polycule where relationships are constantly evolving? How do you manage different expectations, conflicting needs, shifting priorities, and the very human reality that not everyone connects in the same way?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm joined by Red DeRooy and Stacey Smith?, co-authors of Nonmonogamy and Group Dynamics, to explore what it really takes to build healthy relationship communities.We talk about why polycules function more like communities than relationship structures, how many of the skills you already use in friendships can help you navigate non-monogamy, and why curiosity is often more valuable than certainty.Whether you're part of a large polycule, have close metamour relationships, or are simply trying to build stronger connections with the people you love, this conversation is packed with practical insights.In this episode, we discuss:Why romantic groups function differently than one-on-one relationshipsHow to manage different expectations without unnecessary conflictThe difference between fairness and equality in non-monogamyWhy communication starts with knowing what to talk aboutManaging conflict without destabilizing an entire polyculeWhy every relationship is still built one connection at a timeThe importance of one-on-one connection, even within group relationshipsDifferent approaches to metamour relationships and why there isn't one "right" wayBuilding found family and community through non-monogamyNavigating breakups with compassion and preserving meaningful connectionsThe surprising relationship skills you probably already haveOne of my favorite moments from this conversation was the reminder that most of us already know more than we think we do.You've probably navigated friendship groups, family conflict, difficult conversations, changing relationships, and competing needs long before practicing non-monogamy. Those same skills are often the foundation for creating thriving polycules.Connect with Stacey and Red - Grab a copy of Nonmonogamy and Group Dynamics wherever books are sold, including audiobook format.
Asteria Jade is one of the fastest-rising names in adult entertainment, but she hasn't done many interviews—until now. This week on Sex Party, we dive into her life as a hardcore dominatrix, how that led her into some of the darkest corners of extreme kink, and the horror porn niche that's helping make her one of the industry's most captivating performers. Has she played a vampire? A witch? A zombie? Something even darker? We get into it all. But that's only half the story. Asteria is just as comfortable stepping into the role of the sexy step sister as she is embracing the dark, twisted world that's become her signature.We also talk about the moment that completely changed the way she thinks about anal, where she actually prefers the cumshot (it's probably not where you're thinking), some wild OnlyFans requests, and why so many fans seem drawn into the dark, seductive world she's created. We wrap things up by ranking her three favorite horror movies of all time. If Asteria Jade isn't on your radar yet, she will be after this episode.Grab yourself a body bag and enjoy EP 232: "The Cult Of Asteria Jade" with Asteria Jade.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Asteria JadeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theofficialasteriajade (@theofficialasteriajade) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Episode 213 - Brat edition - Lady Kroft rant about a Tik Tok - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind podcast, Don and Lady Kroft hit the studio. They discuss Oklahoma Leather fest and the things they did. Then they discuss a Tik Tok that Lady Koft saw about consent violation and touching with our permission
What if the key to greater pleasure, connection, and fulfillment is understanding your unique erotic wiring? In this episode, we explore the Erotic Blueprints™, a framework developed by somatic sexologist Jaiya that helps explain the different ways people experience desire, arousal, and intimacy. We unpack the five Erotic Blueprints—Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter—and explore how each type experiences pleasure differently. We also share how this framework has become a valuable tool for relationships and individuals. Time and again, we've watched people experience powerful "aha" moments as they discover why certain experiences excite them, why others don't, and where misunderstandings with partners may be coming from. Understanding your blueprint can remove shame, increase self-awareness, and provide a new language for discussing desire, boundaries, and pleasure. We also share our own blueprint profiles and discuss how different types can learn to better understand and connect with one another. Finally, we explore how Erotic Blueprints can enrich experiences within ethical non-monogamy and the lifestyle. The goal isn't to put yourself in a box, but to better understand your erotic "home" while remaining curious about other ways of experiencing pleasure. By learning each other's unique wiring, couples can expand their erotic vocabulary, deepen connection, and create more meaningful experiences together. Mentioned in this episode: Expansive Connection Coaching Events The Erotic Blueprint with Miss Jaiya Contact Mr Jones for a promo code to try the We Gotta Thing community for three months! Book your Desire Resorts trip here Trial membership to lifestyle dating sites Kasidie and SDC Music used with permission from Luxe Music Studios: We Gotta Thing
Bree Sky isn't waiting for permission.The creator, entrepreneur, and founder of Thirst Chat joins Sex Party for a conversation about sex, technology, cumshots, business, and building the kind of career most people wouldn't even attempt. We get into launching her own platform, creating in an industry that's constantly changing, and why betting on yourself can be the biggest risk—and the biggest turn-on.From horny video calls with her friends and her first partnered scenes to VR, AI, subscription scams, and a fan request you definitely won't see coming, nothing stays on the surface for long. Smart, funny, and always thinking three steps ahead, Bree Sky is helping shape the future while everyone else is still trying to catch up.Roll out the tarp, put your phone on Do Not Disturb and enjoy EP 231: "Thirsty" with Bree Sky.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Bree SkyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/realbreesky (@realbreesky) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Jessica Fern is an author and integrative therapist with over 25 years of experience supporting relational and personal transformation. Her work draws on conflict transformation, trauma therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic and narrative approaches, attachment theory, and spiritual and shamanic counseling traditions. She is the internationally recognized author of Polysecure, Polywise, and her newest book, Transforming the Shame Triangle. Through her private practice and teaching, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships to help them move beyond reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment, and unresolved trauma—supporting greater self-leadership, emotional resilience, and intimacy in life and love. Learn more at JessicaFern.com *BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)** * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity*ProDx Health | Wellness From Home** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
So you made the transition to non-monogamy… but you ended up feeling like you're living two separate parallel lives in different relationships. This might not seem like that big a deal from the outside, but in many cases, having a siloed relational life can cause profound suffering.This isn't just about having different relationships with different people (that's normal and healthy, whether you're monogamous or not!). It's about psychological fragmentation that can lead to broken commitments, memory gaps, and a sense of wrongness you can't seem to shake.I call this bifurcated monogamy—a phenomenon where people unconsciously split their relational world into separate, incompatible realities. If you've ever struggled with time management between partners, found yourself unable to remember important details, or felt completely broken when two partners are in the same room together, this episode will help you understand what's happening and what you can do about it.In this episode, we talk about:— What bifurcated monogamy actually is and how it differs from healthy parallel polyamory— Psychological splitting and how it shows up in non-monogamous relationships— The difference between holding multiplicity as your whole self versus fragmenting into separate selves— Red flags to watch for: time blindness, memory gaps, mutually exclusive commitments, and feeling "broken" when partners are together— How internalized polyphobia fuels the unconscious need to split our relational worlds— The role of mono-normative conditioning and why we have to keep "squeegeeing our souls" of these projections— Ken's personal experiences with this phenomenon across romantic relationships, co-parenting dynamics, and even professional contexts— Why privacy needs versus transparency needs can create impossible situations without awareness— The protective mechanism behind splitting and why it makes sense (even though it doesn't actually protect us)— Practical tools for addressing bifurcation— Why this is something to bring to therapy or coaching rather than trying to white-knuckle your way through— How to know if you've created relational situations that genuinely cannot coexist versus situations that need better integrationResources mentioned in this episode:— Our episode on transition management— Learn more about relationship agreementsJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & supportLearn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by Blue Dot Sessions
In Part 2 of this bold and unfiltered conversation, Eve welcomes back Cidney Green for a deep dive into kink exploration, fetish psychology, ethical non-monogamy, BDSM, fantasy versus reality, communication, consent, and sexuality. Cidney Green, creator of the viral “Pussy Over Pain” movement and author of All 3 In Me, shares raw insights on phone sex, fetish stigma, healing through BDSM, open relationships, jealousy, threesomes, and the role of honest communication in creating healthy, fulfilling intimate relationships. One of the most powerful moments in this episode is a role-play in which Eve and Cidney demonstrate how a couple might navigate a conversation about ethical non-monogamy and the possibility of inviting a third person into their relationship or bedroom. Through this realistic example, they model healthy communication, curiosity, boundary-setting, consent, emotional safety, and how to discuss fantasies without judgment. Rather than promoting any particular relationship structure, the conversation highlights that consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, and threesomes can be approached ethically when all parties communicate openly and enthusiastically consent. In this episode, you'll learn about: • BDSM and fetish exploration• Fetish psychology and kink stigma• Ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and polyamory• How to talk to your partner about a threesome• Introducing a third partner into a relationship• Relationship communication and emotional safety• Consent, boundaries, and negotiation skills• Sexual empowerment and pleasure• Women's pleasure and orgasm equality• Fantasy versus reality in sexuality• Healing, growth, and self-discovery through intimacy If you're interested in sex education, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, threesomes, kink, BDSM, relationship communication, sexual wellness, consent, body positivity, and authentic conversations about pleasure, this episode is for you. Connect with Guest:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thecidneygInstagram: @thecidneyg website: all3inme | Discover Liberation Today — Explore, Embrace, Empower ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards – Best EducatorVote for Eve Website: Please Me! Podcast WebsiteSubstack: Please Me! SubstackPatreon: Please Me! Patreon The code for cakes now for 10% off is Cakes-PLEASEME 30-Day Self Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesDownload the Free Practices Sexual Longevity ProtocolSexual Longevity Protocol Affiliate Deals & Partners:Sexual Wellness Deals & Resources Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth:Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if the thing you're craving most isn't another dating app, another relationship book, or another set of rules?What if it's community?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Ellecia sits down with Jamie Love, Executive Director of Sex Positive World, to talk about the power of finding spaces where you can show up authentically, explore with curiosity, and realize you're not as alone as you thought.They dive into what sex positivity actually means beyond the stereotypes, why community is essential for people navigating non-monogamy, kink, and alternative relationships, and how play can become a pathway to deeper intimacy and self-discovery.Whether you're brand new to this world or you've been practicing non-monogamy for years, this conversation is a reminder that you don't have to have it all figured out before you find your people.In This Episode, We Discuss:What Sex Positive World is and the work they're doing to make sexuality education more accessibleWhy community matters so much when exploring non-monogamy and kinkThe courage it takes to attend your first event aloneHow shame keeps us disconnected and what happens when we let ourselves be seenWhy observation is participation and why you never have to do more than feels right for youBoundaries, consent, and learning what your wants, needs, and desires actually areThe role of play in intimacy, pleasure, and connectionPet play, primal play, cuddle spaces, and expanding your definition of what intimacy can look likeHow sex positivity intersects with advocacy, belonging, and creating cultural changeWhy finding your people matters now more than everResources MentionedSex Positive World: https://www.sexpositiveworld.orgLearn more about Sex Positive World's online classes, community events, and educational offeringsPolytopia Conference in Portland, OregonJessica Fern and PolysecureConnect with Jamie LoveJamie Love (she/they) is the Executive Director of Sex Positive World and an educator, facilitator, and community builder passionate about creating spaces where people can explore sexuality, relationships, consent, and connection without shame.Send us Fan MailSupport the show
Tiffani Time Goes Hard.The mainstream adult star and content creator joins Sex Party for a wild conversation about dominance, kink, relationships, social media fame, and the sexual appetite that's made her impossible to ignore. From pegging and power dynamics to award nominations and some truly outrageous fan requests, nothing is off limits.We talk about shooting for Wifey with her husband, filming with women, her work with Kinkdotcom, and the scenes people still can't stop talking about. Funny, wild, and completely unapologetic, Tiffani Time has built a reputation for pushing boundaries—and she lives up to it in this one.Put on your Wednesday best, pour a strong one, and enjoy EP 230: "Tiffani Time Goes Hard" with Tiffani Time.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Tiffani TimeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffani_time (@tiffani_time) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Dana and Daniel built a viral comedy series out of their real polyamorous relationship — and the result is funnier, messier, and more honest than most people expect. On this episode, Natalie and Christopher sit down with the duo behind The Poly Couple to talk about what actually happens when you turn your love life into content: the boundaries that hold it together, the jealousy that has to be worked through (not avoided), and the friendship that makes the whole thing possible. This isn't a polyamory 101 lecture. It's a real conversation about communication under pressure, what ethical non-monogamy looks like day-to-day, and why authenticity — on camera and off — is the only thing that actually works. In this episode: The evolution of their web series inspired by true events and their journey into filmmaking What polyamory truly means: loving more than one person in diverse ways The importance of communication, trust, and boundaries in ethical non-monogamy How to introduce poly concepts to a partner and navigate difficult conversations The role of jealousy: a natural indicator of care and trust issues Personal boundaries, including scheduling and respectful communication The humorous side of poly life: clips from their series and real-life anecdotes The ongoing challenges and lessons learned in maintaining multiple relationships How their long-term friendship and collaboration strengthen their relationship storytelling The significance of authenticity and emotional truth in their content creation Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: Exploring humor and honesty in polyamory 00:21 - Introducing Dana and Daniel, creators of a viral poly series 03:42 - What is polyamory? Definitions and misconceptions 05:15 - How they discovered polyamory and its inspiration from historical tour stories 07:24 - The realities and challenges of opening up a relationship 08:49 - The importance of trust and communication in navigating poly environments 11:17 - Differentiating between genuine polyamory and misused labels 13:08 - The cathartic process of writing and filming personal stories 15:40 - The emotionalDepth of the series and learning from mistakes 17:31 - Handling jealousy and red flags in relationships 20:24 - Managing insecurities and trust issues with partners 23:52 - Setting boundaries: transparency and respecting each other's space 28:22 - How they organize their busy schedules and maintain trust 31:31 - Life filming the series: balancing creativity with daily life 33:36 - How long they've been friends and collaborators 34:41 - Resources and social platforms where you can follow Dana, Daniel, and the Series Resources & Links: Sponsors: J4L Web link: - https://trk.pdt.im/uK4nXo J4L festival link: https://j4l.com/dating-festival Twitter: https://x.com/ComJ4love YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFig402uwrJuhz-Ub25I60g/videos Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j4l_com_/ Poly Couple Info: [Dana and the Wolf - YouTube](https://youtube.com/channel/ DanaandtheWolf) Connect with Dana and Daniel: @danaandthewolf (I THINK ALL OF THEIR HANDLES ARE DANA AND THE WOLF ELECTRICNOW - TT - @electricnow / INSTA - @electricnowtv / TWITTER - @electricnowtv ELECTRIC ENTERTAINMENT TT - @electricentertainment / INSTA - @electricentertainmentofficial / TWITTER - @electricEnt1 DEAN DEVLIN - TT - @DDEVLINJR / INSTA - @officialdeandevlin/ TWITTER - @dean_devlin Air Date: The episode drops June 16th at 4am PST Follow their series for more real, raw, and hilarious insights into polyamory Christopher Louis: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christopherlouisdate?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Web: https://dating-intelligence.com/ Men.tality: https://www.datingmentality.com/ Natalie Stavola: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nataliestavola?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D Web: https://www.nataliestavolacoach.com/ Special thanks to the hosts and their engaging questions. Stay connected, stay truthful, and keep exploring the complexities of modern love.
Episode 212- Synful Ladies - Break Time - In this installment of The Synful Ladies on Kinky Frame of Mind, the Ladies discuss how to handle things when one of your partners needs to take a break from participating in the LS or kink world. Whether it's due to medical issues or needing a break, Scarlett, Ms. Syn, and Lady Kroft break it all down.
FROM PASTOR TO ESCORT: Nikole Mitchell joins the show this week and her story is unlike anything you've heard before. A former pastor turned sex worker, Nikole opens up about leaving the church behind, embracing a completely different life, and discovering a level of freedom, authenticity, and fulfillment she never thought possible. We talk about her journey from the pulpit to OnlyFans, the in-person side of her work, and why connection and desire became impossible for her to ignore.We also get into open relationships, jealousy, sexual exploration, partnered pleasure, life on OnlyFans, and the wild requests that come with it. Thought-provoking, funny, and truly heartfelt, this is a conversation about breaking through expectations, owning your desires, and building a life that feels true to yourself.Pour yourself a double & enjoy EP 229: "Break On Through" with Nikole Mitchell.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Nikole MitchellInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mitchellnikole (@mitchellnikole)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people? A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specializes in shibari bondage to offer this newbie some tips. On the Magnum, Dan once asked if there were ANY poly-under-duress memoirs written by men. There is, and we got him! Adam Darrow, author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey into Non-Monogamy is on to talk about his initial reluctance in dating a woman with a various sexual appetite. He compares his experience to participating in extreme sports. Listen in. A woman is about to meet a new paramour, who will be visiting her for the first time. In their remote conversations, he has made it crystal clear that he enjoys jizzing all over his ladies. She hates the taste of come. It makes her wretch. How can they square their opposing desires? YOU KNOW YOU HAVE A QUESTION. Here's how to ask it. Record it and send it to Q@Savage.Love Or call 206-302-2064 and leave us a message. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.
Fear, jealousy, and insecurity are some of the most common struggles couples face in the lifestyle, swinging, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy. But what should you actually do when those feelings show up?In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott talk about the normal fears that come up in the lifestyle, including body comparison, fear of being replaced, anxiety around texting, repeat partners, kissing, solo dates, separate-room play, and the stories our brains create when we feel triggered.Most couples respond to fear by creating a new rule. Sometimes that can be helpful. Temporary agreements can act as scaffolding while trust and emotional capacity are being built. But when rules become the permanent solution, they can quietly turn into a cage.Scott and April introduce two practical frameworks from their upcoming Wild Love Theory workbook:The R.U.L.E. Pattern React to the TriggerUnpack the PainLimit the BehaviorEnforce the RuleThis is the common path couples take when fear shows up.The F.R.E.E. Framework Find the Real FearReexamine the StoryExpress the Need Without ControlExpand CapacityThis is a healthier way to process jealousy and insecurity without immediately turning fear into restriction.They also share personal examples from their own non-monogamous journey, including how insecurity can be connected to body image, relationship load, disconnection, old wounds, overwhelm, and feeling undesirable or unchosen.This episode is for anyone in the lifestyle, curious about ethical non-monogamy, or trying to understand how to deal with jealousy, rules, boundaries, insecurity, and fear without making each other smaller.The goal is not to build enough rules that nobody ever gets scared. The goal is to build enough capacity that fear no longer has to run the relationship.Learn more about our events, community, retreats, podcast, and upcoming book at NaughtyGym.com.Investor Info:scott@wandervest.worldNaughty Gym Info:Naughty Gym Website- www.naughtygym.comNaughty Gym Patreon- https://www.patreon.com/cw/NaughtyGymOur Upcoming Events:1. X Club Toronto Invasion - June 25-28th, 2026- https://www.tickettailor.com/events/naughtygym/21095782. Barcelona Adventure Trip - August 14-21st, 2026- https://www.naughtygym.com/barcelona-20263. El Salvador Retreat - October 12-17th, 2026- https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador4. Wild & Wise Women's Retreat - November 8-11th, 2026- https://www.naughtygym.com/Wild-Wise5. Mancation Men's Retreat - November 8-11th, 2026- https://www.naughtygym.com/mancation-mountain6. Naughty Gym's Holidaze - November 15-20th, 2026- https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze7. Be Better At Being Bad - January 2-9th, 2027- https://hedonism.com/bbbb#LifestylePodcast #EthicalNonMonogamy #SwingersLifestyle #OpenRelationships #Jealousy #RelationshipAdvice #NonMonogamy #LifestyleCouples #NaughtyGym #WildLoveTheory
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Episode 211 - Male POV - The Cringy talk - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind podcast the guys are back in the studio. We catch up with the guys about things that have been going on. Then we hit this weeks topic, words or phrases in the lifestyle that make you cringe. So the guys list a few and talk about why they make them cringe
Chances are, if you know one thing about conscious relating, it's that communication is key. And if you're good at communicating in monogamous relationships, you might think that those skills will easily transfer to polyamory. But even when you're doing non-monogamy, there's often a set of invisible monogamous scripts making things a lot harder without you even realizing it.This isn't easy to spot, let alone navigate. When we leave monogamy, we leave behind all those default cultural scripts that (supposedly!) give us shared baseline understandings of what is normal and reasonable to expect in relationships. Except… often we haven't actually left them behind. And constantly questioning whether or not these unspoken assumptions and cognitive shortcuts are running in the background of your communication can be exhausting. So if you're finding communication in non-monogamy to be tiring and difficult for reasons you can't easily identify, this one is for you.In this episode, we talk about:— Why many people who consider themselves "great communicators" struggle when they start doing non-monogamy— The invisible ways we rely on cultural scripts and shortcuts to make communication easier— How the brain conserves energy through defaults, and what happens when we step outside those defaults— The difference between implicit and explicit communication styles, and why mismatches can cause real pain— Why one partner might find all the processing nourishing while the other finds it exhausting— The myth that relationships should be "just fun" and why that can lead to avoiding necessary communication— How to reframe difficult conversations as part of the relationship rather than obstacles to it— Building capacity for hard conversations over time (it's like going to the gym!)— The power of using structured tools like Imago Dialogue and the apology and accountability ladder— Why preparing for conversations isn't unromantic—it's actually deeply caring— The role of regular check-ins in creating space for thoughtful, prepared communication— How new partners and metamours shift the entire relational field, even when you're not directly relating to them— Learning to tolerate that you won't know everything happening in your relational network— Growing your capacity to trust your partners' autonomy and their other relationships— Why transparency and privacy needs often conflict, and how to navigate that tension— The reality that we can't fully leave the monogamous script when it's embedded in everything around usResources mentioned in this episode:— Our Repair Skills Playlist— Episode 245: Check-Ins That Actually Work— Episode 243: Making Decisions TogetherJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & supportLearn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by Blue Dot Sessions
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A lot of people are curious about non-monogamy. But there's a big difference between liking the idea of it and knowing whether it genuinely fits your emotional needs, attachment style, and relationship temperament. So how do you know if non-monogamy is right for you? That's what we're exploring in this episode. I am joined once again by Kate Loree, LMFT, a sex-positive psychotherapist, author, and speaker specializing in trauma, relationships, sexuality, and non-traditional relationship structures. She is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. She also co-hosts the Open Deeply podcast with Sunny Megatron. Some of the specific topics we explore include: How can you tell whether you genuinely want non-monogamy or simply like the idea of it? What are signs you may be overriding yourself to make non-monogamy work? How can you assess whether non-monogamy is a good fit for you? How can you safely and honestly explore the relationship style that fits you best? Learn more about Kate’s work by visiting her website. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Soaking Wet from VB Health is the world’s first probiotic specifically designed for vaginal and vulva health and wellness. It’s a doctor formulated blend of prebiotics, probiotics, and vitamins specifically designed to restore balance and increase lubrication. Visit vb.health and use code JUSTIN for 10% off. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
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Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz sit down with Zach and Sally Maxwell, relationship thought leaders, executive coaches, and co-founders of The Art of Conscious Love, for a conversation that will change how you think about romance. Together since they were 18, the Maxwells have built a modern relationship framework around a radical premise: love is not something you fall into. It's something you practice. They walk through their eight-pillar approach to conscious relationships covering personal accountability, inner narratives, transparency, desire, conflict resolution, and the art of consciously designing your own monogamy. A masterclass in what it actually takes to make love last. https://www.max-wellcoaching.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/sally-swallow-maxwell/ sally@max-wellcoaching.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Lucy Mochi joins the show this week and she's on a serious hot streak. From posting faceless nudes on Reddit to building a successful OnlyFans and Fansly career, becoming a 2026 Penthouse Pet, and earning a PornHub Nomination for Best Anal Performer, Lucy is quickly becoming one of the most talked-about names in the industry. We talk about her rise, making the jump into mainstream adult entertainment, and the experiences that shaped her along the way.We also get into orgasms, squirting, DP, group play, fan fantasies, life behind the paywall, and some of the wildest requests she's received from subscribers. Lucy is funny, open, ambitious, and completely comfortable being herself. She's also incredibly smart. If this episode is any indication, she's only getting started. Lucy Mochi is going to be famous as hell. Mark my words.Enjoy EP 228: "Multiverse Of Mochi" with Lucy Mochi.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Lucy MochiInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucymochi (@lucymochi) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
People often think successful non-monogamy comes down to communication, boundaries, and relationship agreements. But underneath those conversations are deeper psychological dynamics involving attachment, emotional safety, and nervous system regulation. In today's episode, we're exploring what it means to approach consensual non-monogamy through a trauma-informed lens. My guest is Kate Loree, LMFT, a sex-positive psychotherapist, author, and speaker specializing in trauma, relationships, sexuality, and non-traditional relationship structures. She is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. She also co-hosts the Open Deeply podcast with Sunny Megatron. Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include: What does “trauma-informed non-monogamy” actually mean? What are signs someone may be consenting without truly feeling grounded internally? How can somatic tracking help us better understand our intuitions? How can jealousy be reframed as a source of curiosity rather than anxiety? How can people assess whether they're emotionally ready for consensual non-monogamy? Learn more about Kate’s work by visiting her website. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Soaking Wet from VB Health is the world’s first probiotic specifically designed for vaginal and vulva health and wellness. It’s a doctor formulated blend of prebiotics, probiotics, and vitamins specifically designed to restore balance and increase lubrication. Visit vb.health and use code JUSTIN for 10% off. If you’re looking to gain a broad understanding of human sexuality or refresh your knowledge, check out the upcoming Human Sexuality Intensive courses at the Kinsey Institute: https://kinseyinstitute.org/learning/human-sexuality-intensive.html *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
Rachel Rampage joins the show this week and this episode is absolute chaos from the jump. After leaving the adult industry back in 2016 and spending the last decade in a relationship, Rachel is officially back in the game — and fully embracing her wild side all over again. We get into her return to porn, exploring submission after years of domination, gangbang fantasies, DP, fake kidnapping roleplay, and the important question of where she prefers the cumshot.We also talk about her background as a dominatrix, stripping, insane strip club stories, and why she says she wants to get “dicked down” as much as humanly possible. Oh — and somehow her and her tits ended up as part of the Marvel Cinematic Universe. This one is funny, wild, horny, and completely out of control in the best possible way.Welcome to EP 227: "The Return Of Rachel Rampage" with Rachel Rampage.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Rachel RampageInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealrachelrampage (@therealrachelrampage) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Supreme Court Case on Religious Liberty: Sean and Scott discuss a new case involving Catholic preschools in Colorado that were denied public funding for refusing to enroll children from LGBTQ families. The debate centers on whether the state can mandate non-discrimination policies for faith-based organizations receiving public funds.The Ethics of Monogamy and Infidelity: Despite a near-unanimous American disapproval of infidelity, the hosts analyze a recent article questioning if it is time to move beyond traditional monogamy. They explore the rise of "consensual non-monogamy" and how individualistic cultural tendencies are shifting moral perspectives on relationships.Developing Virtuous AI Models: The team examines an article discussing a new AI model from Anthropic that incorporates religious and philosophical principles to create a "virtuous" chatbot. They question the effectiveness of using technology to simulate wisdom and the theological implications of "religious" machines.Policy Shifts on Psychedelics: A discussion regarding an executive order loosening restrictions on psychedelics explores the potential medical benefits and moral risks of these substances. The hosts weigh the clinical applications of such drugs against the biblical call for sobriety and sound-mindedness.Audience Question: AI Actors and Necromancy: In response to an audience question on using AI to represent deceased actors, the hosts discuss whether this technology crosses a line into digital necromancy. They explore the ethical boundaries of interacting with simulations of the dead versus using them as creative tools.Audience Question: AI as Tools vs. Beings: The team addresses whether AI models should be viewed strictly as machines or if treating them like social beings compromises our understanding of personhood. They emphasize maintaining a clear distinction between human "Imago Dei" and man-made technology.Audience Question: AI in Job Interviews: Responding to employers who use AI to conduct job interviews, Scott and Sean discuss concerns about algorithmic bias and the loss of human connection. They argue that the hiring process should recognize the dignity of individuals rather than reducing them to data points.==========Think Biblically: Conversations on Faith and Culture is a podcast from Talbot School of Theology at Biola University, which offers degrees both online and on campus in Southern California. Find all episodes of Think Biblically at: https://www.biola.edu/think-biblically. To submit comments, ask questions, or make suggestions on issues you'd like us to cover or guests you'd like us to have on the podcast, email us at thinkbiblically@biola.edu.