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The wildfires in Los Angeles have destroyed thousands of homes and displaced even more people. Our hearts are devastated for everyone affected. We're especially praying for the friends we've made through Soul Shepherding who find themselves both experiencing and ministering through trauma.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi talks with Terry Fouche — a Sr. Spiritual Director with Soul Shepherding and pastor in a neighborhood hit hard by the Eaton fires. You'll be drawn to go deeper into the compassionate heart of Jesus as Terry shares how emotional honesty, lament, and empathy have shaped him and his community during these challenging times.Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramMeet with a Soul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
Discover how faith deconstruction can be a transformative journey toward a deeper, more authentic spirituality in our latest Believe Big podcast episode featuring Kristi Gaultiere, author of Journey of the Soul. Kristi shares profound insights into the stages of spiritual growth, offering guidance for those wrestling with doubts or seeking clarity in their faith. Whether you are navigating a personal crisis, like a cancer diagnosis, or simply yearning for a closer connection to God, this episode provides a compassionate framework for exploring your beliefs. Learn how to embrace the questions that arise during life's challenges and use them as stepping stones for spiritual renewal. Kristi's wisdom will inspire you to lean into the process with hope and courage, finding peace in the journey. Don't miss this empowering conversation—it's a must-listen for anyone seeking strength and purpose in their faith journey. Tune in now to be encouraged and uplifted!Learn more about Kristi Gaultiere and Soul Shepherding:https://www.soulshepherding.org/Suggested Resources:BOOK: Journey of the SoulPODCAST: Believe Big (Season 2) Caring for Our Souls with Kristi GaulitierePODCAST: Believe Big (Season 2) Emotional and Spiritual Growth with Kristi GaultierePODCAST: Soul Talks with Bill and Kristi GaultiereSpotify Playlist: The Wall, Journey of the SoulYour donations power our podcast's mission to support cancer patients with hope, insights, and resources. Every contribution fuels our ability to uplift and empower. Join us in making a lasting impact. Donate now!
Send me a text!Every so often, my inner peace can turn to turmoil, especially when faced with competing demands on my time, relationship struggles, and concerns about a loved one. It also doesn't help that so much is happening in the world around us—it is easy to feel overwhelmed. That is why I'm so grateful to speak with Kristi Gaultiere today. Kristi is a psychotherapist (Psy.D.; LPC4 and MFT29887 in CA) and a director for women in ministry and pastors' wives. She co-leads "Soul Shepherding with Bill." Jane Willard and Dr. Jan Stoop personally mentored her. In this episode, Kristi and I discuss tactical strategies to calm the mind and still the soul and how to surrender our need for control. We can trust in God's sovereignty to help us have a healthy relationship with our emotions. Suggested Resources:Soul Shepherding Website | InstagramHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramBreath Prayer GuidesHealing Prayer: For Emotional & Physical WholenessQualia Senolytic combines 9 vegan, plant-derived compounds to help your body naturally eliminate zombie (or senescent) cells, that help us age better at the cellular level so we can feel YEARS younger! Use the code WELLNSTRONG for 15% off!Join the WellnStrong mailing list for exclusive content here!Want more of The How To Be WellnStrong Podcast? Subscribe to the YouTube channel. Follow Jacqueline: Instagram Pinterest TikTok Youtube To access notes from the show & full transcripts, head over to WellnStrong's Podcast Page
All of us have an inner child who needs to be securely attached to God. But sometimes, hurts, wounds, and untrue belief systems complicate trusting his extravagant love for us. Thankfully, Jesus runs to us with open arms so we can find safety in Abba's delight.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share Bible insights that reveal a Heavenly Father who uniquely and personally pursues you in love. They give practical ways to build a secure attachment to God, including Scripture meditation, emotional honesty, finding healing for your inner resistance, and embracing warm empathy from others. Resources for this Episode:Secure: Letters From Papa to Help Moms Nurture Their Child's DevelopmentAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
Do you ever wonder how to hear from God amidst the noise of today's busy world?In today's new podcast with Kristi Gaultiere, we will discover powerful insights on how God speaks to each of us in unique ways, even when we think we're not hearing Him. Whether you're struggling to discern His voice from your own thoughts or seeking clarity through spiritual practices like fasting and Lectio Divina, this podcast will guide you on a journey of deepening your relationship with God. With real-life stories and expert guidance, we'll help you find peace, purpose, and direction. Don't miss this chance to unlock the many ways God may already be speaking to you.Learn more about Kristi Gaultiere and Soul Shepherding:https://www.soulshepherding.org/Suggested Resources:Believe Big podcast - Kristi Gaultiere, Caring for Our Souls and Our Emotional HealthBelieve Big podcast - Kristi Gaultiere, Emotional and Spiritual GrowthJourney of the Soul, a Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual Growth by Bill and Kristi GaultiereSoul Talks podcast with Bill and Kristi GaultiereHearing God by Dallas WillardHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith by Bill and Kristi GaultiereLectio Divina guideBelieve Big - Nourishing the Soul journalYour donations power our podcast's mission to support cancer patients with hope, insights, and resources. Every contribution fuels our ability to uplift and empower. Join us in making a lasting impact. Donate now!
Send us a textIn this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Karen Potter and Rob Stoddard sit down with Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, founders of Soul Shepherd Ministry. Bill and Kristi share their personal experiences with burnout and compassion fatigue, offering invaluable insights for pastors and ministry leaders facing similar challenges.They jump into the importance of emotional health, spiritual renewal, and the transformative power of empathy in leadership. Discover practical strategies for overcoming burnout, including the significance of Sabbath rest, spiritual disciplines, and seeking support from trusted mentors.Soul Shepherding Website:https://www.soulshepherding.org/--------------------------------------Stay tuned for more insightful episodes and interviews right here on The Covenant Eyes Podcast!Covenant Eyes: https://covenanteyes.comFOLLOW US:Twitter: @covenanteyesInstagram: @covenant.eyesFacebook: /covenanteyes ------------------------------#podcast #mental #health #faith #Christianity #ministry #leadership #burnout #self-careTry Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast
God is good in ALL things! But seeing his goodness can be challenging when we experience suffering, unjustness, or seasons of spiritual dryness. All of us need help to trust our Father's loving care at times. Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to see your circumstances through the lens of Jesus' goodness and love. During times of doubt, the Good Shepherd wants to minister to you in unique and powerful ways—you can take heart from soul friends, heroes of our faith who have persevered, and practices like healing prayer.Resources for this Episode:Meet with a Soul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the Enneagram
In this 4th Summer Replay episode, Ivelisse continues her discussion with Kristi Gaultiere about the importance of caring for our souls, specifically for emotional and spiritual healing. For anyone facing a health challenge, like cancer, this episode is not to be missed!Kristi and Ivelisse talk about the stages of griefsetting boundariescreating a rule/rhythm of lifeLectio Divinaand encouraging a healthy balance between spiritual practices and daily living.Don't miss this concluding episode with Kristi and Ivelisse, and be prepared to care for your soul with love and kindness.**If you missed Part 1 and would like to listen to that episode, click this link:66-Kristi Gaultiere - Caring for Our Souls and Our Emotional Health (part 1)Learn more about Kristi Gaultiere at Soul Shepherding:https://www.soulshepherding.org/Suggested Resource Links:BOOK - Your Best Life in Jesus' Easy YokeBOOK - Journey of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual GrowthPODCAST - Soul Talks with Bill and Kristi GaultiereBLOG - Soul Shepherding BlogGUIDE - Lectio DivinaBOOK - Healthy Feelings, Thriving FaithWEBSITE - Elizabeth Kübler Ross Foundation Your donations power our podcast's mission to support cancer patients with hope, insights, and resources. Every contribution fuels our ability to uplift and empower. Join us in making a lasting impact. Donate now!
Kristi Gaultiere and her husband Bill are Drs of Psychology and the Founders of Soul Shepherding, a ministry to help pastors, leaders, churches and all those desiring to thrive with Jesus in emotional and relational health. In their Soul Shepherding Institute retreats and training they offer a certificate for serving as a Spiritual Director. They are also authors of a number of soul care books and resources. They have been speaking and writing about following Jesus in life and ministry since 1987. https://www.instagram.com/soulshepherding/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soul-talks-with-bill-kristi-gaultiere/id1087421255
Resolving to “try harder” doesn't make us look more like Jesus. But the flip side of the coin is also true—falling into passivity doesn't form us in Christlikeness. Yet Jesus casts a vision about living as whole-souled apprentices of love because he intends to help us become like him. Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss praying the Apprentice Prayer with the intention of living like Jesus. This practice will enthrall you with the vision of his life in the Gospels and help you become like him little by little through the power of the Spirit.Resources for this Episode:Your Best Life in Jesus' Easy Yoke: Rhythms of Grace to De-Stress and Live EmpoweredJourney of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual GrowthAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
All of us experience intrusive thoughts that invade our minds and disturb our peace. The emotions attached to these thoughts can feel alarming and leave us looking for answers. But should we pray against spiritual warfare or seek inner healing and emotional care?Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to pursue freedom as a fully integrated disciple of Jesus. You will learn how to overcome lies by applying the powerful truth of the Bible in a spiritually, emotionally, and relationally healthy way. Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotions CourseDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talk
All of us have experienced times when serving Jesus feels like a burdensome duty instead of a joyful delight. This realization feels confusing and concerning—often leading us to rely more heavily on our own abilities and become irritable or exhausted. But Jesus uses the "walls" we hit to invite us to pause, slow down, and surrender to the deep and beautiful he is doing inside our soul!Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explain what's happening when spiritual disciplines and serving others become obligations you should do instead of practices you want to do. You can be renewed by engaging in an inner journey of deeper honesty and life-giving intimacy with Jesus. Resources for this Episode:Journey of the Soul CHRIST Stages AssessmentJourney of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual GrowthAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionJourney of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual GrowthDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
We don't sign up to go through trials or crises in our faith, life, or leadership—they just happen! This can leave us feeling dry, worn out, and stuck. Hitting this kind of wall can be dangerous, but it's also an opportunity to go deeper with Jesus in emotional health and loving leadership.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share part one of an insightful teaching on resilient leadership. You will be encouraged to learn that times of great renewal in Jesus often start by becoming emotionally honest and finding support during seasons of discouragement, disorientation, and doubt.Resources for this Episode:Journey of the Soul CHRIST Stages AssessmentJourney of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual GrowthAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
Jesus freely forgives our sins and instructs us not to limit the forgiveness we give others. But forgiveness can turn into a codependent relationship when we neglect to express how we really feel and overfunction to help others. This is why learning to handle relational conflict wisely is an important part of our apprenticeship to Christ.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi show you how Jesus modeled both forgiveness and limits. You can also grow to love yourself and others well by communicating your hurts and needs, setting necessary boundaries, and entrusting the care of others to the Good Shepherd. Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEmotional Intelligence: 5 Steps with Jesus to Living & Leading EbookSoul Shepherding Enneagram ResourcesDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
It is confusing to hear "shame on you" after doing something wrong. Agreeing with shame seems like it will motivate us in the battle against sin, but it only reinforces the lie that we are "bad people" and leads to more temptation. Thankfully, Jesus forms us to be and act more loving by "taking shame off" instead of putting it on! Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how to get free of shame by relying on Jesus' all-sufficient sacrifice, agreeing with his grace, and training with him. He equips you to resist sin the healthy way—by drawing empathy, support, and strength from him and his ambassadors during times of discouragement and temptation.Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotions CourseDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
Those dealing with addiction can get categorized as bad people. Addiction certainly leads to sinful behavior, but to say those struggling are “just sinners” is a gross oversimplification. It is more accurate to call addiction a disease because most people don't want to be addicted—they are formed with deep, habitual responses they can no longer control. Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how those dealing with addiction can heal from the hurts and unmet needs underlying their behavior through long apprenticeship to Jesus. Plus, we can all rally around those struggling, learn about their unique challenges, and love them with the compassion of Jesus.Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatMeet with a Soul Shepherding Sr. Spiritual DirectorEarn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
Many of us are familiar with the “control disease” called anxiety. Some of us attempt to rule over outcomes while others try to manage their image. But anxiety isn't a conscious choice—it happens when we deny our emotions brewing under the surface and get overloaded. Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpackage the sources and symptoms of anxiety. They turn to the Psalms as a model to show you how to process repressed emotions and access the best remedy for anxiousness—trusting Jesus with all your soul!Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotions CourseYour Best Life in Jesus' Easy Yoke: Rhythms of Grace to De-Stress and Live EmpoweredDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
Sadly, many of us have been taught that fear is wrong or even a sin. A faulty or incomplete interpretation of certain scriptures can lead us to stuff our fears, force ourselves to think positively, and try hard to muster up faith. Rest assured, there is a better route to a healthy and thriving confidence in Christ.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack what faith in relationship with Jesus really looks like. Their well-rounded and biblical approach to overcoming fear will help you get emotionally honest, receive the support you need, and empower you to act with your fearless Savior!Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatMeet with a Soul Shepherding Sr. Spiritual DirectorDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
For many, church has had both helpful and harmful effects on their mental health. Church hurt is especially disorienting and sadly leads some to completely give up on Jesus' body. But it is encouraging that studies show church is overall positive for mental health as God uses his family to bring reparative healing and growth to his beloved children.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share their experience with church and mental health—both their personal story and work with ministry leaders who are learning and teaching psychologically healthy faith. You will discover how valuable church is to a flourishing soul and take courage to engage in communal spiritual practices. Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatMeet with a Soul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorHealing Prayer: For Emotional & Physical WholenessDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
In this episode of the Let's Get Real Podcast we're joined by Bill and Kristi Gaultiere. Bill and Kristi lead an organization called Soul Shepherding and have written a new book, Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith. Check out their ministry web site by CLICKING HERE Buy their new book by CLICKING HERE
The idea of abandoning ourselves to God can feel scary. Our broken and wounded parts unconsciously hesitate to surrender, unsure how safe it is to trust the Lord with everything. Thankfully, Abba leads the way! He sacrificially abandoned himself to us in love by giving his One and Only Son.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help you get caught up in the thrill of God's affectionate abandonment. Abba doesn't force you to surrender—he woos you! You will slowly but confidently come to trust him in every area as you allow yourself to be impacted by his courtship of your heart. Resources for this Episode:Healing Prayer: For Emotional & Physical WholenessMeet with a Soul Shepherding Sr. Spiritual DirectorDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
When a spouse or loved one is on a cancer journey, very often they are supported by a caregiver which could be you. But, who supports the caregiver? It's a big job and an important one that requires a lot of love, encouragement and energy.On today's Believe Big podcast, we welcome Marika Humphries, a resiliency coach for caregivers. Marika takes us through part of her journey after her husband's cancer diagnosis, as she emphasizes the importance of reframing caregiving as an opportunity for growth rather than a burden. She advocates for self-care practices to manage overwhelming mental chatter and allow oneself to experience and process emotions effectively while caring for others. Join me today as Marika offers many suggestions that support and encourage those who are tending to their loved one during a difficult season.Connect with Marika Humphries:https://coachmarika.com/Suggested Resources:BOOK: Soul Care by Dr. Rob ReimerBelieve Big Modules: I Have Cancer, Now What?Home Food Delivery: InstacartHealing Strong (support groups)Soul Shepherding: Breath PrayersYour donations power our podcast's mission to support cancer patients with hope, insights, and resources. Every contribution fuels our ability to uplift and empower. Join us in making a lasting impact. Donate now!
God is reaching out to us in innumerable ways, but the greatest demonstration of his love is through the Incarnation. We often reflect on Jesus' suffering on the cross but may overlook the suffering he also endured while taking on human flesh and living among us.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how God's perfect empathy is revealed in his Incarnation. Meditating on Hebrews 4:15 and focusing on his experiences of suffering will help you find confidence in Jesus' empathy for you in your trials. As you grow in this grace through community, your wounds can bring healing to others.Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionEarn a Certificate in CoachingUnforsaken: Journey with Jesus on the Stations of the CrossDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
Spiritual growth is often sparked by great love or deep pain. But so much of our world conspires to keep us too busy to feel loved or to pay attention to our deep feelings. We want to grow, but we aren't always aware of the points at which God is inviting us forward. We need mentors and tools that will help slow us down to notice God with us, and to see where we may be welcoming the grace of God in our lives and where we may be resisting God's initiative and work. One tool that has helped me immensely over the years is the Enneagram. It's become rather popular in the church in recent years. My guests today, Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, have written an important book that unpacks this tool titled Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually through the Enneagram. I really appreciate how they make the Enneagram understandable as a tool for growth. Bill and Kristi have been counseling and ministering to people for thirty years. Bill is a psychologist who has served in private practice, co-led a New Life psychiatric day hospital, and pastored churches. Kristi is a marriage and family therapist who has also served in private practice and church ministry. Together they are the founders of Soul Shepherding, a nonprofit ministry to help believers discover their next steps for growing in emotional health and intimacy with Jesus. __________________________________________________________ Connect with Alan on LinkedIn or learn more about Unhurried Living programs on their website. Learn more about Unhurried Leaders membership.
Suffering is hard. When we face an unexpected stretch of illness or other difficult circumstances, we may feel disoriented and lost. Yet in the pause from our normal rhythm of life, God is doing a deep work. Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss a recent experience of suffering. Even in the trial, there is intimacy and sweet companionship to be found in a greater understanding of Christ's sufferings for you and his presence with you.Resources for this Episode:Earn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionEarn a Certificate in CoachingAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatDonate to Support Soul Shepherding
Are you longing to go deeper with Jesus in emotional health and loving leadership? Joyful, anointed by God, overflow ministry goes beyond techniques. It's a rhythm of life and a way of being with God and others in relationship.Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about their journey of growth through spiritual direction and answer common questions about Soul Shepherding's certificate in spiritual direction. No matter what your background or life stage, whether this is for your own formation or to pursue working as a spiritual director, this accessible and practical training will equip you to joyfully follow Holy Spirit's leading in all of your relationships and ministry.Resources for this Episode:Journey of the Soul CHRIST Stages AssessmentAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionDonate to Soul ShepherdingHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEarn a Certificate in Coaching
In this episode, we continue our discussion with Kristi Gaultiere about the importance of caring for our souls, specifically for emotional and spiritual healing. For anyone facing a health challenge, like cancer, this episode is not to be missed!Kristi and Ivelisse talk about the stages of griefsetting boundariescreating a rule/rhythm of lifeLectio Divinaand encouraging a healthy balance between spiritual practices and daily living.Don't miss this concluding episode with Kristi and Ivelisse, and be prepared to care for your soul with love and kindness.Connect with Kristi Gaultiere at Soul Shepherding:https://www.soulshepherding.org/Suggested Resource Links:BOOK - Your Best Life in Jesus' Easy YokeBOOK - Journey of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual GrowthPODCAST - Soul Talks with Bill and Kristi GaultiereBLOG - Soul Shepherding BlogGUIDE - Lectio DivinaBOOK - Healthy Feelings, Thriving FaithWEBSITE - Elizabeth Kübler Ross Foundation
In a culture full of wishes for a better life, true hope is much more than wishful thinking. Robust, Biblical hope is the anticipation of the goodness and truth of God in our lives.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore the impact of living with real hope. This honest exploration of hope, reflection, circumstances, trials, and transformation will encourage your heart as you look to the year ahead. Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatJourney of the Soul CHRIST Stages AssessmentEarn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionEarn a Certificate in CoachingHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks
God entrusts us with an eternal soul and we need to strengthen our souls in the Lord. To serve out of the overflow of God's grace to us rather than our own strength, we need to cultivate our intimacy with God and pursue cycles of spiritual renewal.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack how to care for your soul as a leader. Through practical and specific guidance, you'll understand the components needed to steward your soul for God's glory and fruitfulness in ministry.Resources for this Episode:Meet with a Soul Shepherding Sr. Spiritual Director or CoachAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Certificate in Spiritual DirectionExplore Soul Shepherding Enneagram ResourcesTake the CHRIST Stages AssessmentDonate to Soul Shepherding
Have you ever thought about the importance of caring for your soul? Have you ever hit a wall and just felt you needed to shut down for a little while?It's probably something that may have entered your mind at some point and then you quickly dismissed it because of the fast-paced world we live in. But, caring for our souls so very important!Join me today as I chat with Kristi Gaultiere author, spiritual director, counselor, coach and co-founder of Soul Shepherding. We get to tap into the significance of caring for our soul amidst life's challenges, including cancer. Kristi shares about breath prayers; the roles of spiritual directors, counselors, and coaches in soul care; as well as the stages of emotional and spiritual development (C H R I S T). Connect with Kristi Gaultiere at Soul Shepherding:https://www.soulshepherding.org/Suggested Resource Links:BOOK - Your Best Life in Jesus' Easy YokeBOOK - Journey of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual GrowthPODCAST - Soul Talks with Bill and Kristi GaultiereBLOG - Soul Shepherding Blog
Bill and Kristi Gaultiere know from first-hand experience how ministry can take a toll on your life. They both realized this while serving the local church in a season of intense activity. However, they soon discovered something on the inside was wrong. The joy and fulfillment of ministry had diminished amid the fast-paced life of leading in today's culture.On this edition of the 95Podcast, you will hear the heart of their ministry to leaders through Soul Shepherding and the Sabbatical Guide. They want you to find a weekly rhythm to your life and ministry that brings comfort and peace each day.Show Notes: https://www.95network.org/the-best-of-2023-the-sabbatical-guide-w-bill-kristi-gaultiere-episode-212/Support the show
The pace of our modern world is constant hurry and excitement. But rhythms of both high stimulation in joy and returning to quieter times of peace, safety, and rest are crucial for shalom. We get more joy from doing less.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi reflect on the balance between joy and peace in the middle of holiday stress. You'll find ways to cultivate intentional rhythms to flow in the fruit of the Spirit, receive the blessings of the moment, and get the most from this holiday season.Resources for this Episode:Donate to Support Soul ShepherdingAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Certificate in Spiritual Direction
On this episode of the Trueface Podcast, Robby is with Bill & Kristi Gaultiere. Bill is a psychologist (PhD) and ordained pastor, specializing in ministry to pastors. Kristi is a psychotherapist (Psy.D.) and spiritual director for women in ministry and pastors' wives. She co-leads Soul Shepherding with Bill. She was personally mentored by Jane Willard and Dr. Jan Stoop. He and Kristi are the authors of Journey of the Soul, which was #1 on Amazon in Christian Counseling. He was personally mentored for many years by Dallas Willard and Ray Ortlund Sr. His earlier book Your Best Life in Jesus' Easy Yoke tells the story of his spiritual renewal from anxious living and burnout and introduces the message and way of Soul Shepherding. You can listen to their weekly Soul Talks podcast or read their Soul Shepherding blog.Learn more about Bill & Kristi Gaultiere's work at Soul Shepherding and their books and resources at https://www.soulshepherding.org/Watch: https://youtu.be/BaiSRrAks9wListen: https://www.buzzsprout.com/42863/14113276Download the Trueface Life app from the Apple App Store or Google Play Store!Learn More about the trueface Journey Here: https://www.trueface.org/truefacejourney.Thanks for joining the podcast. Our goal is to help you experience and apply grace to your everyday life through sharing stories and processing these principles as we all learn to live beyond the mask.If you enjoyed this episode of the Trueface Podcast, it would help us if you would share this podcast with your friends and give us a 5-star review wherever you listen to this podcast.Support the show
“More” is often the theme of this season — more gatherings, more celebrations, more shopping, and more activities! But too much of a good thing can be stressful, and setting limits is key.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss boundaries around the holidays. These boundaries for self-care give us strength to be generous. The ability to say “No”, frees us to say “Yes”. You'll draw encouragement to assess your own needs this holiday season and create limits that enable you to love well.Resources for this Episode:Donate to Support Soul Shepherding
In the coming season of Advent, we love to celebrate together with friends and family and in times of silence and solitude. You can experience greater depth and intimacy with Jesus during advent by meditating on the biblical accounts of Christ's birth even in the midst of stressful circumstances.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share which character in the Christmas story they most relate to in this season of their life and ministry. You'll learn how you can use Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for Advent for visual devotions to deepen connections in your small group, ministry, and family gatherings as well as for your personal devotions.Resources for this Episode:Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for AdventSoul Shepherding InstituteSr. Spiritual Directors
As soul shepherds, we can lose ourselves while caring for others. Maintaining our identity and boundaries and avoiding enabling, rescuing, and co-dependence is crucial for healthy relationships. Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss enmeshment and boundaries. Growing in emotional intelligence helps you create a clear and grounded sense of self. You'll learn to care for your own emotions while loving and supporting someone in need.Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritual Through the Enneagram AudiobookAttend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEnneagram & Emotions CourseYour Enneagram MapEnneagram and Emotions AssessmentDonate to Soul Shepherding
Powerful emotions like grief can feel overwhelming, especially if you are not used to recognizing or processing your feelings. But you don't have to stay stuck in painful emotions! You can learn to have your emotions serve you rather than control you.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss healthy ways to process grief and sadness. You'll understand the difference between repressing and containing your feelings, and how spiritual and emotional training can grow your emotional intelligence to make you effective in your life, relationships, and work.Resources for this Episode:Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Certificate in Spiritual Direction Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramMeet with a Soul Shepherding Sr. Spiritual DirectorDonate to Soul Shepherding
Do you feel like your feelings and faith are at odds instead of integrated friends? Are you interested in spiritual direction and soul-care practices for your unique Enneagram Type?FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources This week on the podcast, Beth chats with Bill (Type 1) and Christy (Type 2) Gaultiere, doctors of psychology and founders of Soul Shepherding. Together, they help others thrive emotionally by integrating their feelings and faith with help from the Enneagram.⭐Discover how thinkers and feelers can accomplish great things together by recognizing each other's strengths.⭐Learn to let go of perfection and embrace the messy. ⭐Become a Wounded Healer by not hiding your wounds in shame but courageously using them as gifts to help others.Thank you to our hosts and guests:Bill (Type 1) and Kristi (Type 2) Gaultiere:https://shop.soulshepherding.org/shop#Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoachIf you're enjoying this content and want to take your Enneagram journey to the next level, we invite you to check out our free EnneaWhat minicourse. In EnneaWhat?, Beth teaches you what the Enneagram is, how to find your Type, what it means to become A.W.A.R.E. and how to you can begin effectively applying the Enneagram to your life.Enjoy our FREE EnneaWhat Mini Course. Just click this link to start now.
Peacemakers who tune into the needs of others have a vision for bringing harmony and collaboration to their relationships. But sometimes the desire for peace can cause you to fall asleep to your own needs and avoid stress and conflict.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss soul care for Enneagram Nines — spiritual direction. If you are a Nine or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Nine, you'll learn the root sin, emotional alarm, and soul care practice to increase your self-awareness and self-activate in following God's will.Resources for this Episode:Meet with a Soul Shepherding Sr. Spiritual DirectorHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramSoul Talks Episode 151 — Enneagram: Expressing Your True Self (Peacemaker Type)Soul Talks Episode 152 — Enneagram: Dealing with Conflict (Peacemaker Type)Attend a Soul Shepherding Institute RetreatEarn a Spiritual Direction Training CertificateDonate to Soul Shepherding
Energetic and dynamic personalities who are confident and bold influence and impact others as leaders. Yet you may resist vulnerability, using your strength to protect yourself.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore soul care for Enneagram Eights — spiritual friendship. If you are an Eight, or have a line, wing, or relationship with an Eight, you'll learn the emotional alarm, family formation, root sin, stress emotion, virtue, and soul care practice to become vulnerable with the Lord and a soul friend to be your healthiest, most joyful, tender loving self.Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramSoul Shepherding Institute RetreatsSpiritual Direction Training CertificateJourney of the SoulDonate to Soul Shepherding in Memory of Betty Southard
Our guests in today's episode are both doctors of psychology and the founders of Soul Shepherding. Together they have trained thousands of pastors, spiritual directors, leaders, missionaries, and coaches. Bill and Kristi Gaultiere have a huge heart not just for leaders, but for everyone in general to experience greater freedom and healing in their lives. We also talk about their new book, "Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the Enneagram" where they explore the beautiful and powerful tool, the Enneagram, in the context of spiritual direction and Jesus-Centered psychology. Soul Shepherding Website
Practical thinkers who are effective multitaskers look out for the well-being of others. Yet underneath, you may struggle with fear and worry, looking for security and safety nets.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore soul care practices to quiet the busy brain of Enneagram Sixes. If you are a Six or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Six, you'll learn the emotional alarm, Biblical examples, common mistypes, empathy statements, and soul care practices to find the sweet, peaceful center in your relationship with Jesus.Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramSoul Shepherding InstituteYour Enneagram Map: Guides for Each Type to Flourish in God's LoveLectio Divina GuidesLectio Divina Online Course
Thinkers and analyzers are often keen observers who ask insightful questions. However, approaching your life primarily through analysis without emotional awareness can be an unhealthy way of coping with anxiety. Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack soul care for Enneagram Fives — Bible study as worship. If you are a Five or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Five, you'll learn your emotional alarm and soul care practices to engage your heart, increase your intimacy with God, and become emotionally alive. Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotions CourseSoul Shepherding Enneagram ResourcesContact Soul Shepherding to Invite Bill & Kristi to SpeakSpiritual Direction Training CertificateSoul Shepherding Sr. Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding Institute
Bill and Kristi Gaultiere are Drs of Psychology and the Founders of Soul Shepherding, a ministry to help pastors, leaders, churches and all those desiring to thrive with Jesus in emotional and relational health. In their Soul Shepherding Institute retreats and training they offer a certificate for serving as a Spiritual Director. They are also authors of a number of soul care books and resources. They have been speaking and writing about following Jesus in life and ministry since 1987. Their new book Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith, uses the Enneagram to help you grow in emotional health, loving relationships and intimacy with Jesus. In this conversation, Stephen and Kristi talk about all things Enneagram. Kristi provides an overview of each Enneagram type as well as their core emotions, stress and security expressions, primary defense mechanisms, soul care practices and so much more. Ultimately, Kristi is passionate about the Enneagram because she believes it is an effective tool for emotional health, empathy, and discipleship.Follow Bill and Kristi on Instagram | @soulshepherdingCheck out Bill and Kristi's website | soulshepherding.orgPurchase Healthy Feelings, Thriving FaithFollow us on InstagramAsk a Question or Suggest a Guest | goingsomewherepod.com/contactSubscribe to us on YoutubePodcast Music: Electric Ten by Broke in SummerGoing Somewhere is a resource of Northview ChurchStephen's Instagram & Blog
If you are a deep feeler, sometimes living in melancholy emotions can cause you to lose sight of your positive emotions. Being able to find words for emotions is a gift, but our own deep emotions are not the only thing that is authentic about us.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack thankfulness as a soul care practice for Enneagram Fours. If you are a Four or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Four, you'll learn an important virtue to cultivate and several soul care practices to regain emotional balance to see what is true, good, and beautiful.Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramSoul Shepherding InstituteEnneagram & Emotions CourseSoul Shepherding Enneagram Resources
Reading the classics of devotion to Jesus is an incredible source of encouragement for our faith. When a devotional classic highlights lessons and struggles by someone with our Enneagram type, the impact is even more profound. Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore a devotional classic written by an Enneagram Three. Reading classics by Enneagram types you relate to personally or types of those you love helps you understand each type's root sin and strengths in a deeper and more personal way. You'll be blessed as you explore some of these classics for yourself.Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramYour Enneagram MapSoul Shepherding Enneagram Resources
Each Enneagram type has a unique emotional alarm that is an unconscious behavior pattern. This alarm helps us identify the lie from the enemy that we have believed in the area we are most vulnerable.Tune into this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the power of your emotional alarm to reveal your slide into unhealthy parts of your personality. Learning to recognize this alarm will help you ask for the empathy you need to bring this lie to surface, refute it, and find greater freedom and dependence on Jesus.Resources for this Episode:Enneagram & Emotions AssessmentSoul Shepherding Enneagram ResourcesHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotions Course
We each have habitual approaches to securing ourselves that come out of our unhealthy selves. When we learn to recognize these false messages operating in the background of our activities, we grow in awareness of our own needs and emotions. Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how to use your Enneagram map for growth and health. Through the example of Enneagram Twos, you'll see how you can employ this map to recognize when you are depending on yourself to have your needs met rather than depending on Jesus. These targeted insights into your personality give you a path for growth and help you understand those you love.Resources for this Episode:Your Enneagram Map: Guides For Each Type to Flourish in God's LoveHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotional Free AssessmentEnneagram & Emotions CourseSoul Shepherding Enneagram Resources
Much of our personalities are unconscious and habitual defense mechanisms and coping patterns for dealing with pain, problems, and sin, causing us to miss God's love and grace. The power of the Enneagram as a tool is to help us grow in self-awareness so we can receive God's grace in areas we need it most.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore Your Enneagram Map: Guides For Each Type to Flourish in God's Love. We each have three to four subsidiary types for our primary Enneagram type, and this resource will help you understand the patterns of interaction between these wing, stress, and growth types both in your personality and in your relationships with others. As you learn to receive empathy for your specific areas of struggle, you can discover authentic joy.Resources for this Episode:Your Enneagram Map: Guides For Each Type to Flourish in God's LoveHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotions CourseEnneagram & Emotional Free AssessmentSoul Shepherding Enneagram Resources
Our journey of self-awareness is intertwined with our journey of knowing God. Having language to describe our experiences and understand ourselves and others helps us to love God and love our neighbor as ourselves. This knowledge opens the door for repentance and personal growth.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack the benefits of the Enneagram for intimacy with Jesus and emotional health. The Enneagram helps us become healthier, whole, and holy as we gain awareness of our unconscious sin, stress, and pain and learn how our personality blocks us from depending on Jesus. As you understand the challenges you and your loved ones face in your personalities, you can minister the Lord's empathy to one another and become more like Jesus. Resources for this Episode:Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramEnneagram & Emotions Course