Podcast appearances and mentions of David Chambers

Most men think their problem is women, dating apps, bad luck, or modern relationships.   But the painful truth is that the thing standing in your way is much closer to home: your fear of looking "cringe."   In this episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, dating coach for men David Chambers breaks down what he calls "The Cringe Prison" — the invisible cage of fear of rejection, social anxiety, and the terror of being judged that keeps men stuck while the life they want sits just out of reach.    If you've ever wondered how to stop caring what people think — or why you freeze up when it's time to approach a woman, speak honestly in your relationship, or show up somewhere alone — this episode is for you. David exposes how the need to save face and avoid looking weak is the very thing sabotaging your dating life and relationships.   Through real stories from men he's coached — including one who refused relationship therapy for a decade and another who couldn't attend events alone — he reveals how the fear of being cringe is actually masculine vulnerability avoidance that robs you of confidence, deep connection, and the relationships you say you want.   The question isn't whether you're "good enough." The question is: are you willing to be cringe to get what you want?

A raw conversation about men's mental health and male suicide. Ten years ago George Bell was making plans to take his own life, and nobody around him knew. In this episode he tells David Chambers how the code of masculinity convinced him that struggling made him weak, why he was willing to trade his life to protect his idea of being a man, and how the intervention of two women saved him. On male suicide, mental health awareness, loneliness, male friendship and what it really means to be a man. George Bell is a speaker, author, and advocate for men's mental health and modern masculinity. Drawing from his own experience overcoming severe mental health struggles, including suicidal thoughts, George has dedicated his work to helping men build deeper connections, develop emotional resilience, and challenge harmful stereotypes around masculinity. Through his writing, speaking engagements, and research, he explores topics such as male identity, loneliness, mental health, relationships, and the impact of culture and technology on men's wellbeing. His mission is to create spaces where men can speak openly, seek support, and lead healthier, more connected lives.   Key Topics: ⭐ George Bell's Journey From Suicidal Thoughts To Purpose And Advocacy ⭐ The Hidden Crisis Of Men Suffering In Silence Despite Being Surrounded By Loved Ones ⭐ Why Shame, Masculinity, And Fear Stop Men From Asking For Help ⭐ Loneliness, Emotional Isolation, And The Missing Depth In Male Friendships ⭐ Creating Safe Spaces For Men To Open Up And Have Honest Conversations ⭐ The Myth Of Male Self-Sufficiency And Our Need For Human Connection ⭐ How Social Media, Algorithms, And The Online World Exploit Men's Insecurities ⭐ The Core Wound Of "Not Being Good Enough" Driving Male Struggle And Behaviour ⭐ Nature Versus Nurture: How Society Shapes Modern Masculinity ⭐ Raising Boys In A Divided World While Teaching Emotional Awareness And Resilience ⭐ Why Men Often Turn To Anger, Addiction, Or Extremism Instead Of Processing Pain ⭐ Building Stronger Communities, Brotherhood, And Support Networks For Men In Modern Life   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   ➡️ Join the Waitlist — Relate https://forms.gle/2AXhmyNweasETaso7 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe  Connect with George Bell Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgeybell/ Book: https://tr.ee/BkOgHc7ptc   RELATE:   

In this insightful interview, David Chambers shares his journey from a wild, adventurous life to becoming a men's coach focused on emotional connection, masculinity, and relationship health. He discusses societal narratives around masculinity, the impact of the man box, and practical ways men can evolve to create deeper, more authentic relationships.About David:David is a dating, relationships & intimacy coach for men. After growing up in a single-parent, female-dominated home with no male role model in his life, David struggled to understand what masculinity and a healthy romantic relationship entailed. After spending most of his 20s in meaningless dynamics and avoiding commitment. He went on a personal journey towards authenticity, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, purpose, harnessing his sexual energy, vulnerability, presence, openness, and honesty. Through this learning, he was able to break free from gender stereotypes and societal expectations of what a ‘real' man should be to become his true and authentic self.  He is now in a loving partnership with a son and supports other men to find more fulfilment in dating, love and relationship.Key Themes:Societal narratives around masculinity and the man boxThe impact of childhood imprints and societal conditioningThe role of vulnerability and emotional expression in men's livesPractical steps for men to develop self-awareness and emotional intelligenceThe influence of the Manosphere and alternative narratives on men's perceptionsChapters:00:00 Introduction to David Chambers02:15 David's Journey into Coaching05:58 The Impact of Breakups on Personal Growth11:28 Understanding Masculinity and Relationship Patterns15:58 Avoidance and Emotional Challenges in Men20:59 The Man Box and Its Effects on Men26:11 Navigating the Manosphere and Finding Authenticity30:19 Bridging the Gap: From 'I'm Fine' to Self-Awareness31:36 Unpacking Emotional Catharsis35:14 The Challenge of Personal Growth in Relationships40:26 Navigating Masculinity in Modern Society47:56 Confronting Societal Issues: Violence Against Women54:51 Finding Hope Amidst ChaosTo connect with David:Instagram - @theauthenticmanWebsite - https://www.theauthenticman.net/YouTube -  ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩ 

A viral statistic claims that 31% of Gen Z men think women should obey their husbands — but is that the full story? In this episode, David Chambers dives deeper into the data behind the headlines, breaking down what's really happening with modern masculinity, gender roles, and the growing divide between traditional and progressive views. From media manipulation and "rage bait" headlines to the rise of the manosphere, dating anxiety, and economic pressure — this conversation explores why so many young men feel lost, and what's driving them toward both feminism and traditionalism at the same time. This isn't about blaming men or women — it's about understanding the bigger picture, questioning the narratives we consume, and asking: What does it actually mean to be a man today? Key Topics:  ⭐ The Viral "31% Of Men" Statistic And Media Rage Bait ⭐ Media Literacy: Questioning Headlines And Narratives ⭐ Why Young Men Feel Gender Equality Has Gone Too Far ⭐ Emotional Strength Expectations Placed On Men ⭐ Chaos In Gender Roles And The Search For Stability ⭐ The Appeal Of Simplified Masculinity In The Manosphere ⭐ Economic Instability And The Pressure To Provide ⭐ Dating Anxiety And The Fear Of Not Being Good Enough ⭐ Algorithms, Social Media, And The Pipeline To Misogyny ⭐ The Growing Identity Crisis Around What It Means To Be A Man   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

In this conversation, David Chambers explores the concept of the 'lone wolf' mentality among men, discussing its origins, cultural influences, and the emotional consequences of isolation. He emphasizes the importance of connection and interdependence, challenging the notion that independence is the ultimate goal. Chambers provides insights into how men can navigate their emotional landscapes, confront their fears of connection, and foster healthier relationships.   Key Topics:  ⭐ The Lone Wolf Archetype In the Context Of Modern Dating ⭐ Why "I Don't Need Anyone" Is A Defensive Strategy ⭐ Validation Hunger Disguised As Confidence ⭐ The Difference Between Genuine Abundance And Fake Options ⭐ When Men Perform Strength Instead Of Living It ⭐ "Becoming The Prize" Versus Chasing Approval ⭐ Emotional Control As A Form Of Power ⭐ The Scarcity Narrative Driving Over-Pursuit ⭐ Detachment, Standards, And The Fear Of Rejection   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

Many men believe women are attracted to money — but what they're really responding to is who a man becomes while building something meaningful. In this episode, David Chambers breaks down why wealth itself isn't attractive, and why so many men with money still struggle in dating and relationships. This conversation explores the deeper traits women feel in a man's presence — self-trust, internal authority, emotional steadiness, responsibility, and the ability to tolerate uncertainty — and why these qualities can't be faked or bypassed. Rather than chasing validation, status, or outcomes, this episode reframes attraction as an embodied skillset any man can develop — regardless of income.

In this conversation, David Chambers delves into the various types of labor that exist within relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and appreciating emotional, cognitive, financial, relationship, sexual, conflict, physical, family, and technological labor. He discusses how these forms of labor can create imbalance and resentment if not acknowledged, and offers insights on how individuals can take responsibility for their roles in maintaining healthy relationships. Chambers highlights the need for men to engage more actively in emotional and relational labor to foster connection and intimacy with their partners. Key Topics:  ⭐ Emotional Labor As The Invisible Foundation Of Relationships ⭐ Why Resentment Builds When Labor Goes Unseen ⭐ The Mental Load Behind Everyday Life Management ⭐ Financial Responsibility Beyond Simply Earning Money ⭐ Relationship Maintenance As Shared Accountability ⭐ Sexual Leadership And The Work Of Sustaining Desire ⭐ Conflict As A Skill That Requires Intentional Effort ⭐ Growing Together Instead Of Drifting Apart ⭐ Physical Contribution And The Care Of Shared Spaces ⭐ Maintaining Family And Social Bonds As Active Labor ⭐ Technology Management In The Modern Household ⭐ Appreciation As The Antidote To Relational Imbalance   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

 In this conversation, David Chambers explores the concepts of emotional intelligence and emotional mastery, particularly in the context of men's emotional experiences. He discusses the limitations of emotional intelligence, emphasizing the need for emotional intimacy and the role of the nervous system in emotional responses. Chambers highlights how societal conditioning impacts men's ability to express and process emotions, advocating for the development of emotional mastery through practice and awareness. He concludes by stressing the importance of emotional mastery in relationships and personal growth. Key Topics:  ⭐ Emotional intelligence is often seen as the pinnacle, but it's just the first step. ⭐ Emotional intimacy is crucial for deeper connections. ⭐ The nervous system plays a significant role in emotional responses. ⭐ Emotional mastery involves growing one's capacity to feel and respond. ⭐ Men are often conditioned to suppress their emotions from a young age. ⭐ The skills that lead to success in work do not translate to relationships. ⭐ Emotional mastery cannot be achieved through reading alone. ⭐ Practicing emotional awareness is essential for personal growth. ⭐ Building emotional mastery requires being present with feelings. ⭐ Emotional mastery is vital for effective leadership and relationships. Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe     

Most men think relationship coaches have it all figured out — unshakeable confidence, perfect communication, zero struggles. In this episode, David Chambers breaks that illusion. Rather than teaching from a pedestal, David opens up about the real patterns he still struggles with in his own relationship — especially after becoming a father. From emotional shutdown and overworking, to guilt around self-care, provider pressure, and difficulty asking for support, this is a raw, grounded look at what actually happens inside long-term relationships. This conversation isn't about perfection — it's about awareness, accountability, and learning how to relate through your patterns instead of letting them quietly erode intimacy, trust, and polarity.

Most men don't lose their relationships because they're abusive or uncaring. They lose them because they unknowingly repeat the same patterns — habits that slowly erode connection, intimacy, and trust over time. In this episode, David Chambers breaks down the 10 common behaviors he sees again and again while coaching hundreds of men — patterns that quietly sabotage relationships even when a man is trying his best. Rather than shaming or blaming, this conversation offers clarity on why these behaviors show up and how they disconnect men from their partners. This is a practical, honest exploration of emotional reactivity, disconnection, approval-seeking, lack of leadership, and sexual polarity — and why many men feel confused, frustrated, or "never good enough" in their relationships despite good intentions.

Why do relationships feel so hard for men? So many men believe relationships are confusing, emotionally overwhelming, or simply "not for them." They assume women are too complicated, that communication is impossible, or that long-term commitment goes against male nature. In this episode, David Chambers dismantles those myths and names the real issue most men have never been taught to see: emotional capacity. Drawing on personal experience, client stories, and relationship science, David explains why men shut down, withdraw, become defensive, or feel overwhelmed in intimacy and conflict. He shows why most relationship advice fails men, why "just communicate better" is often useless, and what actually builds the ability to stay present, grounded, and connected when emotions run high. This is a practical, compassionate, and deeply clarifying episode for men who want calmer, healthier, more connected relationships without losing themselves in the process. Key Topics:  ⭐ Attraction is unconscious, not a logical choice ⭐ Childhood patterns shape adult relationships ⭐ Emotionally unavailable partners feel intoxicating ⭐ Healthy partners can feel "boring" ⭐ Intermittent reinforcement fuels dating addiction ⭐ Projection keeps people attached to fantasy ⭐ Insight alone doesn't change attraction ⭐ Attraction is rewired through the nervous system ⭐ Real chemistry is emotional safety and presence ⭐ Secure relationships are built, not found Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe   

When men struggle with boundaries, commitment, or choosing their own path, the issue isn't always confidence or competence — it's often an unseen loyalty to their parents, particularly an enmeshed relationship with their mother. In this conversation, David Chambers explores mother–son enmeshment, controlling family dynamics, and individuation, using the public situation around Brooklyn Beckham as a cultural mirror. He breaks down how blurred emotional boundaries, emotional manipulation, and parental control quietly shape anxiety, indecision, passivity, and difficulty forming adult partnerships. This episode reveals how boys who are emotionally fused with their mothers are often placed in impossible loyalty binds — forced to choose between their mother's emotional needs and their partner's. Rather than shaming parents or sons, this conversation offers clarity on why boundary-setting, rebellion, and separation are essential developmental steps for men to become sovereign, self-led adults. Rather than framing estrangement as failure, this episode reframes separation as a necessary phase of growth — one that can later lead to repair, renegotiation, and healthier adult relationships.

From fearing you'll end up in the wrong relationship to understanding how mature connection is actually built, this direct episode with David Chambers breaks down why men feel uncertain choosing partners — and the exact skills that create healthy, aligned relationships. Instead of relying on vibes, looks, or avoiding conflict, David explains the deeper issue:

From feeling unseen, overlooked, or ignored by women to understanding what truly creates attraction, this straight-talking episode with David Chambers breaks down the real reasons men feel invisible — and exactly how to change it. Instead of blaming looks, money, height, or "bad boy energy," David reveals the deeper truth:

From objectifying women to cultivating emotional depth and authentic connection, this eye-opening episode with David Chambers dismantles one of the most damaging myths in modern masculinity: that attraction is won through looks, status, or sexual conquest. Instead, David reveals how true magnetic presence comes from emotional awareness, nervous system regulation, inner purpose, and genuine curiosity about women as whole human beings — not objects. In this honest and grounded conversation, David shares the exact steps he used to shift from sexualized, surface-level dating into deep, meaningful connection. Through embodiment, mindful sexuality, and understanding women's lived experiences, he explains how any man can evolve into someone women feel safe with — not just impressed by. If you've ever felt stuck in superficial dating patterns, struggled to connect beyond attraction, or sensed that success with women requires more depth — this episode will show you how to build it at the core.

From chasing status to embodying depth — this powerful episode with David Chambers unpacks one of the biggest myths in modern dating: that women only care about looks, height, or money. In truth, what truly attracts is far deeper — emotional safety, presence, purpose, and the grounded confidence that can't be faked. In this refreshingly honest talk, David breaks down the real traits that make a man genuinely magnetic — and how any man can cultivate them. He reveals why emotional intelligence, purpose, and nervous system regulation are far more attractive than wealth or abs — and gives tangible ways to build them. If you've ever felt like you're "doing everything right" but still not connecting with women — this episode will show you exactly what's missing and how to embody authentic, grounded masculinity that women feel safe and drawn to.

From emotional numbness to genuine connection, this powerful episode with David Chambers dives into one of the quiet epidemics among modern men — disconnection from their feelings. When men can't access or express emotion, it ripples through everything: relationships, purpose, friendships, and even self-worth. In this deeply practical and grounded conversation, David reveals the real cost of emotional disconnection — and how learning to feel again is the key to living with meaning, aliveness, and authentic masculine strength. He breaks down simple, tangible practices to help men reconnect to their emotions, regulate their nervous systems, and build genuine presence in their lives. Too often, men try to "think" their way through life — but as David shows, real growth starts when we drop out of our heads and back into our bodies.

In this deeply insightful episode, David Chambers dives into one of the biggest struggles men face today: a lack of purpose. Why do so many men feel like life is meaningless — even when they have success, money, or relationships? Why does the drive for achievement or pleasure still leave us empty inside? David breaks down why purpose feels elusive for modern men and reveals how to start living with direction, meaning, and authentic power. From emotional disconnection to the illusion of powerlessness, this episode unpacks how to move from drifting through life to consciously choosing it. This isn't about chasing a “grand mission.” It's about learning to feel, make choices, and stretch your capacity — so that life starts feeling alive again. You'll learn how to rebuild your sense of agency, connect with what truly matters, and stop living on autopilot.

Why do men think they're showing up in relationships — but their partners still say, “you're not really here”? In this powerful episode, David Chambers breaks down what it actually means to emotionally show up for your partner — and why so many men fail without realizing it. From numbing out and shutting down, to inconsistency, defensiveness, and lack of courage, David reveals the six essential qualities that make a man truly trustworthy and emotionally grounded. This isn't about doing more. It's about being more present — emotionally, mentally, and energetically. Because showing up isn't just about being physically there… it's about being available. You'll learn how to stop being the passive passenger in your relationship, how to build real trust through honesty and accountability, and what women really mean when they say they want a man who “shows up.”

Why do “nice guys” always finish last?

Are you tired of your partner feeling constantly dissatisfied — no matter how hard you work, how much you provide, or how “good” you try to be? You're not alone. So many men try to fix relationship problems with effort, money, or logic — yet still end up feeling unseen, unappreciated, and disconnected. In this episode, David Chambers reveals the 3 essential masculine practices every man must master to create love that lasts. You'll learn why women don't trust “busy” or reactive men, how your reactivity destroys connection, and what it actually means to be grounded and conscious in your relationship. This isn't about being “more alpha” — it's about embodying a presence that women feel safe with, a consciousness that leads with calm, and a courage that opens even when fear arises.

David Chambers is a Dating, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach who has spent the last decade guiding men into creating the love, sex, and connection they long for by helping them cultivate authenticity, emotional intelligence, and self-leadership. His work today invites men to drop the masks of performance and step into a truer way of relating—one where intimacy, attraction, and deep connection can naturally emerge from who they really are. But David didn't come to this work through theory...This path was shaped by his own lived experiences. After years of painful relationships, years of chasing validation through meaningless sex, and a deep fear of commitment, he found himself disconnected from the very love and joy he longed for. The breaking point came during a world trip, after another painful breakup in Bolivia... What could have been just another collapse instead became a defining turning point. David committed to a journey of self-discovery, healing, and growth that reshaped his entire understanding of masculinity, intimacy, and what it truly means to love well.Through this path, he shed the weight of stereotypes and societal expectations he learned of what a “real man” should be. He discovered that sharing his feelings doesn't have to be a sign of weakness but an act of courage, that authentic vulnerability creates deeper connection, and that our imperfection make us human and relatable. It was this commitment towards transformation that now fuels his work with men: Guiding them to create authentic attraction, build deep emotional connections, embody healthy masculinity, and experience connected sexual intimacy.In our conversation, David & I dive into:The root causes of fear of intimacy and commitment in men, and why many avoidant men struggle to feel safe in relationships.How childhood imprints of love and attachment styles shape the way men show up in dating and long-term relationships.How men who fear commitment can learn to feel safe again, and practical steps to rebuild trust.The importance of emotional intelligence for men in relationships, including learning to be with your own emotions and to hold space for your partner's.The difference between sex & true intimacy.The hidden longing behind sexual promiscuity in men, and how embracing the need for nurturance, gentleness, and physical touch can transform intimacy and self-connection.I found this to be a deeply raw & wide-ranging dialogue, and I'm grateful for David's honesty and lived experience in demonstrating how we can challenge our old narratives and imprints of love, relationships, and what it means to be a man, in order to create connections that feel safe, authentic, connected, and alive.—Connect with Alex Lehmann:

Are you tired of repeating the same painful relationship patterns — attracting the wrong partners, feeling stuck, and wondering if love is even worth it? You're not alone. Many men find themselves in cycles of disappointment, shallow connections, and self-sabotage without realizing why. In this episode, David Chambers reveals the 6 essential shifts every man needs to make to stop repeating past mistakes in love. He unpacks why “getting clear on what you want” isn't about superficial checklists, but about uncovering your deeper values, doing the inner work, and creating a relationship that truly fulfills you. From chasing validation to pushing away great women — discover the blind spots that keep you stuck and the practical steps to finally break free.

Are you struggling with sex feeling stressful, pressured, or disconnected? You're not alone. Many avoidant men experience intimacy as overwhelming, which keeps them stuck in cycles of shallow connection, overthinking, and emotional distance. In this episode, David Chambers reveals the 5 biggest reasons avoidant men find sex difficult — and how to shift from performance and pressure into presence, vulnerability, and deeper intimacy. He shares practical steps to move beyond avoidance and create relationships built on connection, openness, and genuine pleasure. From chasing sex to feeling empty afterwards — discover why avoidance sabotages both intimacy and fulfillment, and what it really takes to break free.

From success in business to struggle in love — so many high-achieving men hit roadblocks in dating, not because they can't attract women, but because no one ever showed them how to build real intimacy. In this episode, David Chambers reveals the 5 most common mistakes ambitious men make in dating, how they sabotage connection, and what it actually takes to create a deep, lasting relationship.

In this week's mini episode, we're diving into one of the hardest — and most important — challenges avoidant men face in relationships: expressing emotions and needs. Host and men's dating & intimacy coach David Chambers breaks down why so many men struggle to open up, the hidden “armor” that keeps them silent, and the powerful yet simple practices that can help you feel safe to share your inner world. If you've ever felt like you “don't know what you're feeling,” worry your emotions will be used against you, or stay quiet until everything explodes, this episode will help you shift. You'll learn how to express feelings without losing power, how to ask for what you need, and how to build deeper intimacy through honest communication. David shares 5 guiding principles for emotional expression, tools for slowing down in arguments, and practical ways to practice being open — so you can build relationships rooted in trust, safety, and connection. Plus, he introduces his group program — Breaking the Chains of Avoidance — a powerful 12-week journey designed for men who want to transform avoidance into presence, intimacy, and lasting love.

In this powerful solo episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, host and men's dating & relationship coach David Chambers tackles a hidden relationship killer that quietly sabotages love from the inside: avoidant attachment. If you've ever felt the spark with someone only to suddenly pull away, go hot-and-cold, or find yourself chasing freedom instead of connection — this episode is a mirror. David reveals how avoidance shows up in men as emotional shutdown, shallow intimacy, hyper-independence, and constant fault-finding — and why these patterns aren't strength, but fear. Left unchecked, they destroy trust, kill attraction, and keep you stuck in cycles of failed dating and unstable relationships. Drawing from years of coaching hundreds of men (and his own journey through avoidant patterns), David unpacks the unhealthy masculine and feminine energies at play — and shows why being guarded, distant, or overthinking everything is not the answer. Most importantly, he shares a practical roadmap to break the chains of avoidance, open up emotionally, embody healthy masculine leadership, and finally build the kind of love that feels safe, passionate, and lasting. Whether you're tired of short-lived flings, struggling with commitment, or already in a relationship that feels unstable, this episode is your guide to move from avoidance to authentic connection — and to stop pushing love away. #DatingAdviceForMen #AuthenticManPodcast #AvoidantAttachment #MasculineFeminine #MensCoach #EmotionalIntimacy #RealConnection      

In this powerful solo episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, host and men's dating & relationship coach David Chambers tackles a hidden relationship killer that quietly destroys connection and peace: being “half in, half out”. If you've ever found yourself unsure, overthinking, avoiding plans, or keeping one foot on the exit “just in case” — this episode is a wake-up call. David reveals why this hot-and-cold energy wreaks havoc on trust, intimacy, and your own self-esteem — and how it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that leaves you stuck in shallow relationships. Drawing from 15 years of coaching and his own personal journey from chronic indecision to committed, grounded love, David exposes the fears, beliefs, and attachment patterns that fuel this cycle. Most importantly, he shares a practical, step-by-step plan to break free from indecision, build your “commitment muscle,” and create the kind of depth, stability, and passion you actually want. Whether you're dating casually, in a new relationship, or years into a partnership, this episode is your blueprint to move from uncertainty to clarity — and finally stop sabotaging your own love life.  

In this powerful solo episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, host and men's dating & relationship coach David Chambers dives deep into one of the most misunderstood aspects of modern dating: how dating apps quietly sabotage your chances of real connection. If you've ever found yourself swiping endlessly, stuck in shallow chats, or wondering why nothing ever leads to something real — this episode is for you.  David unpacks the 6 hidden problems with dating apps that most people don't even realize they're falling into — from mood-driven profile mistakes to the illusion of choice, superficial filters, and the unconscious projections that keep quality people at arm's length.  More importantly, he walks you through the mindset shifts and real-life practices that will help you escape the cycle of frustration and start creating authentic connections — both online and in the real world.  Whether you're new to dating, returning after heartbreak, or just tired of surface-level matches — this is your blueprint for dating with depth, clarity, and confidence.

In this powerful solo episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, host and men's dating & relationship coach David Chambers breaks down one of the most overlooked but critical aspects of modern dating: communication that actually creates spark. If you've ever felt like you did everything “right” but she still didn't feel it, this episode is for you. David unpacks the 7 essential pillars of magnetic communication — the invisible habits that either create trust and turn-on, or lead to ghosting, flat conversations, and forgettable first dates. Whether you're navigating dating apps, early-stage dating, or deepening a relationship — mastering these fundamentals will radically shift how women experience you. KEY TOPICS: ⭐ The #1 Mistake Men Make in Dating ⭐ Why Saying the “Right Thing” Isn't Enough ⭐ Emotional Range & How to Be Felt ⭐ The Power of Congruent Body Language ⭐ Why Most Men Are Terrible Listeners ⭐ What Emotional Safety Feels Like to Her ⭐ How Reactivity Kills Spark Instantly ⭐ Building Trust Through Vulnerability ⭐ Feedback, Repair & Conflict Without Drama ⭐ Shared Intention vs. Mixed Signals in Dating ⭐ Becoming a Man Women Feel, Not Just Hear  

Why do so many high-achieving men feel emotionally numb, disconnected, or unfulfilled — even after reaching the top? In this raw and revealing conversation, men's coach David Chambers sits down with David Gibbs, a psychotherapist who works with high performers, entrepreneurs, creatives, and CEOs, to explore the hidden emotional cost of success. Together, they unpack the deep psychological and relational struggles that plague ambitious men: from addiction and burnout to emotional suppression, relationship breakdowns, and the painful pressure to always “have it together.”   If you've ever silently wondered: "Why doesn't this feel as good as it should?"   KEY TOPICS: ⭐ The Journey From Addiction To Psychotherapy ⭐ Building A Career Then Breaking It For Purpose ⭐ Mental Health Lip Service In Corporate Culture ⭐ Why Artists Are Often Set Up To Fail Young ⭐ See Vulnerability As A Tool, Not Just A Trend ⭐ Performing Healing While Still Hiding ⭐ Therapist And Client Should Both Risk Being Seen ⭐ What High Performers Actually Crave ⭐ From Persona To Pain: Cracking The Surface ⭐ A Silent Epidemic: Male Emotional Isolation ⭐ The True Meaning Of Vertical Development ⭐ Courage Over Comfort In Modern Masculinity Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe    Connect With David Gibbs: Instagram: www.instagram.com/DavidSamGibbs

Master Your Emotions Download This - https://bit.ly/4fMCbFKSave 10% on https://mmmcacao.earth/ - CJ10https://mmmcacao.earth/?sca_ref=8361562.Ki9CfmGxJWDavid Chambers is on a mission to empower men to create the exciting and deeply connected dating & sex lives, and relationships they long for by developing their true authentic selves.As a Dating, Relationship & Intimacy coach, coaching men for over a decade, David guides men to create authentic attraction, build deep emotional connections, embody healthy masculinity, and experience connected sexual intimacy. By helping them build self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and self-leadership.Books Mentioned:Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix====== DAVID CHAMBERS =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/WEBSITE ▶ https://www.theauthenticman.net/====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMens Community ▶ https://www.skool.com/menofearth/about====== PODCAST ======Support The Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Thinking about opening your relationship? Watch this first. In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, relationship therapist and polyamory coach Roy Graff joins David Chambers to unpack what truly needs to happen before couples transition from monogamy to polyamory or ethical non-monogamy. They explore the essential mindset, emotional preparation, and communication tools that most couples skip—leading to heartbreak, jealousy, or breakdown. From trauma-informed relational insights to real-life experiences and practical steps, this episode is a must-watch for anyone curious about open relationships, polyamory, or improving communication in long-term love. Roy Graff is a counsellor, life and relationship coach who draws on his training in Psychosynthesis psychotherapy, Radical Honesty, Non-violent Communication and Wheel of Consent training to offer coaching and mentoring to individuals, couples and polycules. He can help you with relationship issues, honesty and authenticity in relating, life transformation and major life crises. KEY TOPICS:   ⭐ Polyamory As A Conscious Alternative To Traditional Monogamy ⭐ Misconceptions, Projections, And Social Judgment Of Open Relationships ⭐ Therapist Bias And Lack Of Polyamory-Informed Clinical Training ⭐ Healing Trauma Through Open Relationships And Emotional Inquiry ⭐ “Why Do You Want This?” — The Importance Of Inner Motivation ⭐ How To Create Agreements, Not Rules — Flexibility In Relationships ⭐ The Power Of Vulnerability And Radical Emotional Honesty ⭐ Polyamory ≠ Avoidance  ⭐ The Freedom To Love Without Possession Or Control ⭐ Community, Support Circles, And Normalizing Polyamorous Lives ⭐ Why “Successful” Relationships Don't Have To Last Forever   Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe    Connect With Roy Graff: Website: Openrelating.love   Instagram: @openrelating   

Are you ready to become the kind of man your partner truly feels safe, seen, and supported by? In this powerful solo episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, host and men's relationship coach David Chambers dives deep into one of the most crucial yet rarely taught life skills: how to be a better partner as a man. Whether you're in a long-term relationship, navigating dating, or simply wanting to grow emotionally and relationally, this conversation is for you. David shares honest, actionable insights on what makes men great partners—from emotional availability and communication to leadership in love, intimacy, and daily life. #MensWork #BetterPartner #AuthenticManPodcast #MasculineLeadership #RelationshipAdvice #MenHealing #ConsciousRelationships #MensCoach KEY TOPICS:   ⭐ The Art Nobody Teaches You - How To Be a Better Partner ⭐ Your Partner Not Triggering You, Your Past Is ⭐ How Emotional Absence Is Being Masked In Your Everyday Habits  ⭐ Avoiding Conflict And Emotional Responsibility ⭐ Listening Without Fixing ⭐ Creating Emotional Safety Through Trust And Respect ⭐ How To Practice Sexual Integrity ⭐ The Need For Masculine Leadership With Clear Intention ⭐ The Importance Of Equality In Household And Social Responsibilities  ⭐ Emotional Triggers & How To Respond Instead Of React ⭐ Honoring Your Partner's Feelings And Desires ⭐ Do Your Inner Work For Growth - Male Friendships And Community As A Tool   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe   

In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, David Chambers speaks with Professor Ben Hine—psychologist and researcher at the University of West London—about the deep emotional toll family breakdowns have on fathers. From the overlooked role of dads in the family court system to the systemic biases men face during separation and divorce, this episode uncovers the hidden truths about fatherhood, emotional well-being, and societal expectations. If you're a father, know a father, or work with families, this is a conversation you don't want to miss. We explore mental health, parental alienation, masculinity, child attachment, and the impact of societal and cultural stereotypes on men's lived experiences. Ben received his BSc and PhD from Royal Holloway, University of London in 2010, focusing on the gender-typing of prosocial behavior in youth. Since 2014 at the University of West London, his work in applied gender and forensic psychology has grown. He has investigated gender in the criminal justice system, including rape myth impact on case progression (with MOPAC), and collaborated with SafeLives and The Mankind Initiative on domestic violence victim needs, including LGBTQIA+ and male survivors.  More recently, he explores post-separation abuse, particularly Parental Alienation, a professional interest stemming from his own parents' divorce in 2020. This personal experience has led to collaborations with various charities, organizations, and parents, as well as reflective writing on family breakdown, abuse, PA, and family court involvement.   KEY TOPICS:   ⭐ Why Are Fathers Marginalised in Custody And Court Systems ⭐ Emotional Fallout From Family Breakdown For Separated Fathers ⭐ The Stereotypes Of The Absent Or Unnecessary Father ⭐ Biological And Neurological Changes In Active Fatherhood ⭐ How Prejudice And Bias Shape Legal Outcomes ⭐ Weaponising Allegations Against Fathers In Family Court ⭐ Children's Long-Term Psychological Impact From Parental Alienation ⭐ The Empathy Gap Toward Men's Emotional Experiences ⭐ Why School Systems Fail To Support Boys Equally ⭐ Class, Culture, And Race In Fatherhood Stereotypes ⭐ Challenging The Traditional Masculinity Through Vulnerability And Involvement ⭐ Reframing Men's Issues As Human, Not Just Gendered Problems   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe    Connect With Ben Hine:    Separating Better App by OnePlusOne -https://www.oneplusone.org.uk/news/separating-better-the-story-so-far  

Are you struggling with anxious attachment as a man? Do you find yourself overthinking texts, fearing rejection, or rushing into relationships — only to feel more disconnected? In this episode of the Authentic Man Podcast, David Chambers breaks down how anxious attachment shows up in men, why it's often misunderstood, and most importantly, how to overcome it to build healthy, secure relationships. KEY TOPICS: ⭐ Most Men Are Avoidant - Why This Is Not True ⭐ The 4 Types of Attachment Styles And Differences Between Them ⭐ The Paradox Of Craving Abandonment - Anxious Attachment Style In A Nutshell ⭐ The Fundamental Ideas In Society That Push Men Into Anxious Attachment ⭐ How Does Anxious Attachment Style Show Up In Men ⭐ The Most Common Reasons Behind The Anxious Attachment Style ⭐ Self-Sabotaging Behaviors in Anxious Individuals ⭐ Practical Advice On Shifting Anxious Attachment Patterns ⭐ The Self-Esteem Work As Key Element ⭐ Leadership, Communities & Building Healthy Relationships ⭐ Redefining Masculinity & Shifting The View Connect With   David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe   

On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men's fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David's Help and Why?(00:12:10) - David's Own Coaches(00:14:25) - Eva's Initial Mistrust of Coaches(00:16:40) - David's Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community(00:22:35) - David Didn't Want to be a Coach(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups(00:34:00) - David's Fear of Expressing Love(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears(00:41:25) - Men's Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement'(00:53:10) - Eva's Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise' with Her Clients(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!

In this powerful episode, David Chambers sits down with men's leadership expert Peter to unpack the hidden reasons why so many men feel disconnected, lost, and stuck in their lives, relationships, and careers. We dive deep into the father wound, mother wound, and how childhood conditioning silently blocks men from accessing true power and emotional confidence. Peter shares his own story of transformation — from self-medicating and emotional suppression to becoming a leader who helps men reclaim their purpose, presence, and self-expression.   Peter Eugène Bennett, Born in London, grown in Bangladesh, raised in Glastonbury - my multicultural upbringing taught me to navigate different worlds. Through personal struggles with family tragedy and my own journey with burnout, I discovered that our deepest wounds often become our greatest gifts. I never faced my own shadows of self-doubt, self-harm and self-hate. I hid the pain, suppressing emotions through various escapes, until a near-fatal street fight and arrest became my wake-up call. Yet with struggle comes freedom. I was stuck in my head, and now guide others back home to their hearts. For those who sense there's more to life and are ready to take the leap - I invite you to discover your full expression. My superpower is authenticity. From living with Shipibos in the Amazon to training in Flowstate, each experience has deepened my initiation into leadership. With a colourful 10+ year career in fast paced and creative roles, I found success as a TV presenter, “won” 3 dating shows and worked with brands such as MTV, Vice Media and TimeOut - still my heart yearned for more.. Everything changed when I attended my first men's circle in 2019. Recognising the profound impact of this work, I trained as a facilitator and began leading my own groups, witnessing the power of connection. Now, as Director of Sacred Sons Europe, I guide transformational experiences across the world, whilst offering 1-2-1 coaching and conscious leadership and wellbeing consultancy. KEY TOPICS:   ⭐ Shifting The Perspective About Oneself And Lifestyle ⭐ Astrology, Energetic Profiles And Other Tools For Self-Awareness & Growth ⭐ Cultural Belonging – Navigating Mixed Heritage & Тhe Challenges Of Fitting In ⭐ Masculinity and Emotional Healing – Understanding the Wounds  ⭐ The Hero's Journey and Personal Growth  ⭐ Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies in Relationships and Leadership ⭐ Men's Work and Brotherhood – The Role Of Men's Groups And Collective Healing ⭐ Father and Mother Wounds And How They Shape The Personality ⭐  How Embracing Honesty & Self-Expression Strengthens the Masculine Power ⭐ Authenticity and Vulnerability – Sacred Union and Conscious Relationships Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Breaking The Chains Of Avoidance Waitlist: https://forms.gle/oFyNbPmugYKtjQpRA   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe  Connect With Peter Eugène Bennett:   Website: https://www.mensworkcoach.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mensworkcoach?igsh=bGVzaTl2NWp1aWs2&utm_source=qr  

In this week's episode Manpreet speaks to relationship coaches David Chambers and Asa Baav who are also in a relationship together and have a child. They share how to break patterns of childhood and co-create a family and partnership by your own design. Sharing how to have a higher standard in your family then you grew watching. A great listen for both men and women! Tune in to discover:

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."I remember coming across this quote at Burning Man years ago. It's from writer and essayist Anais Nin. It struck me then, and it reverberates for me still.This photo was taken that year. That sky is particularly specific to that time of evening, as the heat of the day dissolves into gorgeous blue & purple hues.I remember my friends and I were stopped at an art piece, after gallivanting around the playa on our bikes, weaving in and out of the dust and denizens of Black Rock City.That year was the Temple of Transition, and it was a threshold that changed everything.It was then I learned of the role of grief and the necessity to come together in tending the endings that make us human. It was then I recognized my marriage was over, even though it was another year before we parted ways.Recently I had the impulse to look up the words from Anais Nin, and discovered the rest of the quote:"Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death. Living never wore one out so much as the effort not to live. Life is truly known only to those who suffer, lose, endure adversity and stumble from defeat to defeat. Perfection is static, and I am in full progress."I love that. That a live worth living is not one of striving for success, but a willingness to fail again and again. This is how one comes to know life. To blossom is a risk. To expose your vulnerability, your authenticity and your creativity is to expose yourself rejection. To dare to become. Somewhere in there, your soul comes alive. This is the spirit of my upcoming Awakening the Wild Erotic, an ritual immersion for men release dysfunctional patterns around “eros,” the primal force of life, and step into a new phase of aliveness. This will our 5th time running the event, and men have found the container incredibly valuable. Upcoming AWE Dates: April 4-6, 2025 Vancouver Island has a few spots left. (Last chance to apply now!) We are also bringing AWE to the Montreal area July 18-20, 2025. Get the full details and apply here.Podcast RoundupOver the last few months I've been featured in a number of great podcasts. I figured I'd round them up as a digest and share below. The Authentic Man - Mythopoetic Masculinity and Navigating Conflict in RelationshipI really enjoyed this conversation with David Chambers, where we cover a number of topics, including: Domination vs. Partnership Culture, Reconditioning for Connection, Support systems for couples, Regenerating Culture, The Power of Deep Partnership, Understanding and Dealing with Jealousy, How to deal with conflict in a relationshipEvolving Man - Iron John And The Foundations Of Mythopoetic MasculinityA solid conversation with my longtime friend Ben Goresky. In this episode, I share my journey into the mythopoetic men's movement, which explores masculinity through myth, initiation, and men's groups. I open up about how the death of my grandfather led me to this work and helped me understand the challenges of modern manhood, especially in a culture that lacks clear rites of passage. We discuss the archetypes of the Hero and the King, dive into the themes of Iron John, and explore the importance of men's circles for personal growth and emotional support. We also reflect on the rediscovery of lost initiation practices, reconnecting with passion, and embracing The Deep Masculine to navigate life's stages and challenges.The Smiling Human - Myth as Medicine: Addressing the Crisis of MeaningIn this conversation, Oak Mountain and I discuss the themes of mythopoiesis, masculinity, and the cultural narratives that shape our understanding of identity. We cover the importance of myth in making sense of the human experience, the evolution of masculinity through different cultural eras, and the current crisis of meaning faced by many men today. RiverFlow - Weaving Love, Eros & Men's WorkIn this episode, Harry Friedman and I explore into rich territory. We explore the metaphor of polyamory as a wetland and “relational exclusivity” as a river, to understand different approaches to love and relationships. We dive into the traditional views of elder mentors around marriage and matrimony, contrasting those with the ideas of free love and open relating, particularly those espoused in the Tamera research project. We also discuss how romantic relationships can serve as vehicles for healing, while community plays a crucial role in the broader process of personal and collective healing.Tripping with Nick SunFinally, you're invited to check out this episode with Nick Sun', whose podcast “seeks to explore the fundamental question: How do we live as human beings during these crazy times without losing our freaking minds?”Thanks for reading. P.S. My Deep Masculine 3 month program is also live. There are pathways for both men & women. Get the full details here. Get full access to The Mythic Masculine at themythicmasculine.substack.com/subscribe

For a limited time, The Chorus in the Chaos listeners get 10% off their first purchase at Reformation Heritage Books! Use the coupon code: "CHORUS". While there, don't forget to check out the new Family Worship Guide.    In this episode of The Chorus in the Chaos Podcast, Jack is joined by special guest David Chambers to conclude their discussion on biblical eldership. Building on their previous conversation about the qualifications of an elder, they now focus on the practical responsibilities that come with the role. Topics include: ✔️ The biblical foundation for eldership (1 Timothy 3, Titus 1) ✔️ The importance of financial integrity and stewardship in church leadership ✔️ The dangers of greed and how it can corrupt ministry ✔️ Shepherding responsibilities—what it truly means to care for God's people ✔️ The balance between theological education and spiritual maturity ✔️ Why an elder must have a good reputation inside and outside the church Jack and David also share insights on how churches can ensure their leaders are faithfully serving as under-shepherds of Christ's flock. Whether you're an elder, aspiring to be one, or simply interested in biblical church leadership, this episode is for you!

For a limited time, The Chorus in the Chaos listeners get 10% off their first purchase at Reformation Heritage Books! Use the coupon code: "CHORUS". While there, don't forget to check out the new Family Worship Guide.    In this 2-part,bonus episode of Chorus in the Chaos, Jack is joined by Pastor David Chambers of Zion PCA in Lincoln, Nebraska, to discuss the critical topic of eldership in the church. Drawing from biblical texts like 1 Timothy 3, Titus 1, and James 3:1, they examine eldership's qualifications, responsibilities, and its spiritual weight. Why is it so easy for churches to prioritize business skills over biblical character? What dangers arise when churches choose leaders based on charisma instead of calling? And how can churches ensure their elders are shepherds and not just board members? Jack and David tackle these questions and more, offering insight into what it means to be above reproach and truly accountable in church leadership. Key Topics Discussed: ✔️ What the Bible says about eldership (1 Timothy 3 & Titus 1) ✔️ The dangers of the celebrity pastor culture ✔️ Why spiritual maturity matters more than leadership charisma ✔️ The importance of local church accountability ✔️ Practical steps for churches selecting elders Resources Mentioned:

From episode #79 with David Chambers. More from that episode: - David shares about his work and passions - Purpose vs passion - Co-creating attraction and intimacy - Overthinking and anxiety - Treating dating like a video game - Invitations vs expectations - British masculinity and being a Black man - Race and the white spirituality community

David Chambers coaches men on living their best life, escaping the constrictions of performative masculinity, finding vulnerability and intimacy, and and avoiding redpill grifters. DAVID:https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ME:https://www.instagram.com/selfworsthttps://twitter.com/bradicalpearsonPATREON:https://www.patreon.com/selfworstMUSIC BY SHEA BARTEL:https://sheas.art/

I enjoyed a quickening conversation with poet Rachel McCrum about interpreting the crafts of writing and painting, poetry as a space of ambiguity and uncertainty, and burnout. She shares this beautiful line from Inua Ellams - 'poetry is the cheapest way to be free.' And the podcast she references is The Blindboy Podcast by Limerick-born musician and author David Chambers, also known as Blindboy Boatclub. To learn more about Rachel and her work, you can explore rachelmccrumpoetperformer.wordpress.com online and @kicking.paris on instagram. For sight into another aspect of Rachel's artistic practice, check out her vocals as a member of poetry noise bogrock band Pigs&Wolves at https://youtu.be/r9YRmDUvrzA (their EP 'The Unfortunate Waggle' is due out late October 2024).

Welcome to Season 2! On today's show, we interview David Chambers, the Deputy Director for Implementation Science in the National Cancer Institute. We'll talk about the history of implementation science, the false notion of science in a vacuum, the role of creativity in science, what makes a good meeting, how teams are like jam bands, and you'll get to test your knowledge of Frank Zappa against David's. Mentioned during the show: Proctor, E. K., Powell, B. J., Baumann, A. A., Hamilton, A. M., & Santens, R. L. (2012). Writing implementation research grant proposals: ten key ingredients. Implementation Science, 7, 1-13. Curran, G.M. Implementation science made too simple: a teaching tool. Implementation Science Communications 1, 27 (2020). https://doi.org/10.1186/s43058-020-00001-z  

In Episode 67 we are joined by David Chambers, a relationship expert, thinker in the field of men and masculinities, and podcaster from the UK. We chat with David about the concept of ‘toxic masculinity', the gendered patterns in attachment styles, and the appeal of reactionary masculinism among the youth. We also discuss the promise of an emerging happier, healthier masculinity, rooted neither in shame nor domination.Part of the Talking Shit series.Show NotesDavid's InstagramDavid's podcast, The Authentic ManDavid's websiteDavid's LinktreeFollow Fucking Cancelled on InstagramFind merch in our shopClementine MorriganJay LesoleilFucking CancelledTheme song by ST x LIAM.Mixing and editing by Charlotte Dora.Jay Lesoleil is a writer, artist, and shelter worker from Montréal with a background in political anthropology. Jay is also one half of the podcast Fucking Cancelled.Clementine Morrigan is a writer and public intellectual based in Montréal, Canada. She writes popular and controversial essays about culture, politics, ethics, relationships, sexuality, and trauma. A passionate believer in independent media, she's been making zines since the year 2000 and is the author of several books. She's known for her iconic white-text-on-a-black-background mini-essays on Instagram. One of the leading voices on the Canadian Left and one half of the Fucking Cancelled podcast, Clementine is an outspoken critic of cancel culture and a proponent of building solidarity across difference. She is a socialist, a feminist, and a vegan for the animals and the earth. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.fuckingcancelled.com/subscribe

Authenticity is a source of incredible power that is often overlooked. While it can take some time to know and free yourself, it's worth the time and energy, because it exponentially supports you having more connection, support and pleasure in your relationships, for the rest of your life.  If you're not satisfied with your love or sex-life, and could use some insights into what makes women want more of you, tell me more about yourself here and we'll schedule a time to talk: shanajamescoaching.com/consult