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Are you ready to elevate your oral game and become a fellatio champ? This episode of Shameless Sex is packed with juicy insights and expert advice from the incredible Dr. Alison Ash! Join us as we dive deep into everything you need to know to master the art of oral pleasure. From anatomy to technique, we've got you covered! In this episode, you'll learn: The surprising reasons some people shy away from giving oral pleasure and how to overcome those barriers. Why honing your oral skills can transform your confidence in the bedroom. A quick dive into dick anatomy 101—because knowing your canvas is key! Essential tips and tools for providing consistent and reliable penis pleasure. Intermediate and advanced techniques to elevate your skills to the next level. Practical advice for those who are not fans of ejaculate—yes, you can still enjoy the experience! Strategies for penis owners to encourage their partners to embrace oral pleasure. Exciting new offerings from Dr. Aly that you won't want to miss! Why should you tune in?  This episode is not just about technique; it's about fostering confidence and intimacy in your sexual experiences. Dr. Alison Ash brings her wealth of knowledge and passion for sexuality to help you navigate the often-taboo topic of oral pleasure in a fun and open environment.  Meet Dr. Alison Ash: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. With a PhD from Stanford, she's a leading voice in addressing the complexities of sexual experiences, including her pioneering research on the orgasm gap and queer and trans dynamics. Dr. Aly's extensive training in various therapeutic approaches makes her insights both profound and practical. Whether you're looking to improve your skills or simply want to learn more about the nuances of intimacy, this conversation will leave you informed, empowered, and maybe a little cheeky.  Links To learn more visit turnon.love  Group coaching program: www.TurnON.love/empowered-dating-coaching Retreat tickets: www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat Individual, couples, and polycule coaching: www.TurnON.love/coaching On-demand rentals: www.TurnON.love/workshops Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Welcome back for another episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! This week I've got on Dr Alison Ash who is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University lecturer, author, and founder of TurnOn.Love. I'm so excited to have her back on the podcast! This time we're talking all about leveling up your oral pleasure game, and how to become the best giver and reciever! In this episode:How connection, warm-up, and teasing boost pleasureWhy it's important to be in the right state of turn-on before starting oral sexHow shame can block pleasure and how to overcome itThe power of verbal and non-verbal feedbackTechniques to help explore and understand your's or your partner's bodyThank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!ResourcesCheck out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sustainable Intimacy retreat at www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat Get $200 when you join through 3/15/25For on-demand workshops including How to Eat

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. For the 190th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, intimacy coach, educator, Stanford lecturer, and founder of TurnON.love. Trying to conceive can turn sex into a chore, and the hormonal shifts of perimenopause and menopause can bring new challenges to intimacy. But it doesn't have to be that way! In this episode, we're joined by the incredible Dr. Aly for actionable tips on how to make sex more enjoyable, intimate, and playful during these pivotal moments. For more Dr. Aly: Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "Private" for $100 off! For on-demand workshops, visit www.TurnON.love/workshops For her Sustainable Intimacy course, visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy For intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coaching Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to lovehoney.com and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Dr. Allie, a Stanford lecturer and trauma-informed intimacy coach, discusses the multifaceted nature of intimacy, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and connection. She explores how cultural shame and societal norms impact our understanding of intimacy and the challenges many face in being vulnerable. The discussion also delves into performance anxiety, mental blocks for Michael when pot is involved, and the healing power of empathy in relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, understanding, and the ability to communicate needs effectively to foster deeper connections in both short-term and long-term relationships.     Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use discount code "Paddy" for $75 off For on-demand workshops visit www.TurnON.love/workshops and for her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy.    Finally for intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coaching   Episode Sponsors:     LawLaw.app It's 2024, you no longer need an expensive, time consuming attorney to create wills, trusts, and prenups for you! LawLaw Ai will guide you through a series of questions and in seconds generate a state-specific, legally valid document. Fill out our questionnaire and get a preview of all the following documents. Purchase the ones you want or a package that fits your needs.  Be sure to use coupon code "PADDYWAGON24" at checkout for 10% off   Intro/Outro Music Provided by: https://uppbeat.io/t/kevin-macleod/achaidh-cheide https://uppbeat.io/t/kevin-macleod/celtic-impulse    

Many couples deal with a variety of intimacy blockers, resulting in diminished intimacy and erosion of passion. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell MD, delves into this topic with guests Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clark. The discussion covers key aspects of intimate relationships including attachment styles, boundaries, and ways to sustain meaningful connection. They offer actionable strategies to overcome barriers like emotional discomfort, attachment challenges, and misperceptions of failure. Drawing from personal experiences and professional expertise, they unpack the psychology of sexual dynamics, explore how to shift from feeling pressure to enjoying connection, and share practical techniques to nurture lasting passion and fulfillment in long-term relationships.   Also in this episode: Intimate relationships serve as potent avenues for personal growth, providing unique opportunities for self-discovery and development. Managing pressure in sexual encounters involves recognizing and naming feelings, allowing partners to alleviate stress and foster genuine connection. Understanding distinct attachment styles and boundaries significantly contributes to a relationship's health and longevity.   About the Guests: Dr. Alison Ash, known as Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, educator, and author, as well as a Stanford University Lecturer. With a PhD in Sociology from Stanford, Dr. Aly has deep expertise in the societal challenges that contribute to disempowering and unsatisfying intimate experiences. She is the founder of TurnON.love, a platform dedicated to empowering individuals and couples through intimacy coaching and education. Dr. Aly brings extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, the Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and the Somatica Method to help her clients navigate complex emotional landscapes. Sebastian is a skilled sex and intimacy coach and educator with nearly two decades of experience. Trained by The Sexual Health Alliance, Seb specializes in helping individuals, particularly those who are neurodiverse, express their needs and cultivate healthy relationships. His work centers on trauma-informed approaches to communication, intimacy, and nervous system regulation. Together, Dr. Aly and Seb empower people to create fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences with compassion and understanding. Dr. Aly's website is www.TurnON.love Use discount code "intimatemarriage" for $75 off her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy     Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Many couples deal with a variety of intimacy blockers, resulting in diminished intimacy and erosion of passion. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell MD, delves into this topic with guests Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clark. The discussion covers key aspects of intimate relationships including attachment styles, boundaries, and ways to sustain meaningful connection. They offer actionable strategies to overcome barriers like emotional discomfort, attachment challenges, and misperceptions of failure. Drawing from personal experiences and professional expertise, they unpack the psychology of sexual dynamics, explore how to shift from feeling pressure to enjoying connection, and share practical techniques to nurture lasting passion and fulfillment in long-term relationships.   Also in this episode: Intimate relationships serve as potent avenues for personal growth, providing unique opportunities for self-discovery and development. Managing pressure in sexual encounters involves recognizing and naming feelings, allowing partners to alleviate stress and foster genuine connection. Understanding distinct attachment styles and boundaries significantly contributes to a relationship's health and longevity.   About the Guests: Dr. Alison Ash, known as Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, educator, and author, as well as a Stanford University Lecturer. With a PhD in Sociology from Stanford, Dr. Aly has deep expertise in the societal challenges that contribute to disempowering and unsatisfying intimate experiences. She is the founder of TurnON.love, a platform dedicated to empowering individuals and couples through intimacy coaching and education. Dr. Aly brings extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, the Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and the Somatica Method to help her clients navigate complex emotional landscapes. Sebastian is a skilled sex and intimacy coach and educator with nearly two decades of experience. Trained by The Sexual Health Alliance, Seb specializes in helping individuals, particularly those who are neurodiverse, express their needs and cultivate healthy relationships. His work centers on trauma-informed approaches to communication, intimacy, and nervous system regulation. Together, Dr. Aly and Seb empower people to create fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences with compassion and understanding. Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "intimatemarriage" for $75 off! For her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy. For on-demand workshops visit www.TurnON.love/workshops Finally for intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coaching     Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Hello! We're back with another episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self Podcast! I've got Dr Alison Ash back this week to talk about one of the most substantial relationship ruptures; affairs. If you're looking to understand why affairs occur, how to prevent them, or how to rebuild trust after a betrayal, this is an episode you want to listen to.In this episode:Reasons why affairs are often more about the individual's needs than the relationship itselfWhy open and honest communication about fantasies and desires can prevent relationship rupturesSome unexpected ways an affair might impact the person who has been cheated onHow to keep the spark alive by bringing back fun, excitement, and newness to your relationshipHow to know when it's time to let go of a relationship after an affair and what to consider when making that decisionThe importance of seeking professional support to navigate the complexities of infidelity. You don't need to do this on your ownThank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!ResourcesCheck out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "sexualself" for $100 off!For on-demand workshops visit www.TurnON.love/workshops and for her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacyFor intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coachingConnect with Dr. AlyInstagram, Tiktok, & Facebook: @TurnOn.LoveWebsite: www.turnon.loveSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

Welcome back for another episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! This week I've got on Dr Alison Ash who is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University lecturer, author, and founder of TurnOn.Love. Dr. Aly brings her expertise to guide us through the topic of ruptures in relationships. I'm so excited to provide this resource for you guys; this conversation is packed with practical advice for anyone looking to strengthen their connections!In this episode:A look into all the different ways a relationship can ruptureNormalizing how common and human ruptures areHow important it is to recognize ruptures and work on repairing themHow to create a safe space to work on these repairsStrategies for having these tough conversations and actively repairing the ruptureThank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!ResourcesCheck out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "sexualself" for $100 off! For on-demand workshops visit www.TurnON.love/workshops and for her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy For intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coachingConnect with Dr. AlyInstagram, Tiktok, & Facebook: @TurnOn.LoveWebsite: www.turnon.loveSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

Dr. Alison Ash aka Dr. Aly returns for her eighth time on our show to do the 2.0 version of How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ. Dr. Aly covers everything from anatomy 101 when it comes to munching the box, why some people don't like eating pussy and how they can become pussy lovers, how learning and practicing oral skills leads more confidence around performance, applicable tips and tools that might apply to most pussy pleasure, 2.0 intermediate tips and tools for the advanced pussy lover, as well as how to talk to your partner about wanting more pussy loving. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she understands the complex societal challenges that lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has pioneer research on the orgasm gap, heterosexual dynamics, and queer and trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers coaching to support her clients to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.  Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at http://TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "LoveShamelessSex" for $100 off! Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "shamelesssex" for $75 off!  For on-demand workshops, including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ, visit www.TurnON.love/workshops For her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy.  Finally for intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coaching Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Try our favorite dating app where you actually embrace your desires at https://feeld.co/ Get 20% off enhancing your bedroom performance with code SHAMELESS at https://www.tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Send us a textEp 512: Tips for How to Find People to Date that are a good fit for you with Dr. Alison Ash. In this enlightening episode, Ruan Willow sits down with Dr. Alison Ash, a trauma-informed intimacy coach, educator at Stanford University, and founder of Turn On Love. She shares her insights on how to find people to date and how to identify who is a good fit for you. This conversation dives into the complexities of modern dating, the impact of dating apps, and the importance of intentionality in relationships.Topics Covered: Modern dating challenges, the impact of dating apps, intentionality in relationships, the importance of community and social networks, and practical tips for finding the right person to date.Timeline:- 00:25 - Doctor Alison Ash is a trauma informed intimacy coach at Stanford University- 01:27 - Research shows dating apps have harmed our ability to form and sustain long term relationships- 04:40 - I also think it's helpful to talk about, I think a mixed approach to finding partners- 10:15 - You should have at least one photo where you're smiling on dating apps, and....- 16:35 - Research shows that in order to make new relationships, we need regular interactions- 24:41 - A lot of people are terrified to own what they want- 25:32 - One of the things that I talk to my clients on is this idea of outsourcing- 29:34 - What are some warning signs people should look out for when using dating apps- 35:35 - You teach a course on intimacy and dating skills at Stanford University- 41:06 - I think couples and long term relationships struggle to keep sexual spark alive- 44:15 - Is there anything that we've missed talking about that you wanted to mention- 45:10 - Making sure that you have queer and trans community is so importantDon't miss this episode filled with practical advice and deep insights into the world of dating and relationships. Guest: Dr. Alison Ash - Turn On LovePhD (she/her)Founder of TurnON.loveIntimacy Coach and EducatorLecturer at Stanford UniversityAuthor • Social Media LinksCourse:Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game4 part course for couples in October — reserve your spot today. On-demand rental also available.

Have more pleasurable sexual interactions! Dr. Alison Ash joins us to discuss topics related to women's sexual empowerment and pleasure with an emphasis on techniques for pleasuring the vulva. You can find Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram @turnon.love. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE. Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast. Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com turnon.love --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jordan-dnelle/support

Exploring Vulva Diversity (00:00:01) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the importance of exploring and understanding the wide diversity of vulvas. Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:51) Host Jennifer Kaylo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast and its focus on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Coaching Topics (00:01:08) Jennifer Kaylo highlights the coaching topics she specializes in, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Setting the Stage for the Discussion (00:02:17) Dr. Alison Ash and Jennifer Kaylo introduce the topic of champ quality pussy pleasure and provide a brief background on their previous conversation about shame. Prioritizing Pussy Pleasure (00:03:23) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pussy pleasure and challenges the shame and biases surrounding it. Personal Experiences and Sexual Awakening (00:04:31) Jennifer Kaylo shares her personal experiences with receiving and giving pussy pleasure, including her sexual awakening and exploration of diverse vulvas. Importance of Communication (00:11:22) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the significance of enthusiastic communication and authentic enjoyment in giving and receiving pleasure. Expressing Pleasure (00:12:56) Jennifer Kaylo and Dr. Alison Ash discuss the significance of vocal expression and authentic pleasure in enhancing the overall experience. Feedback and Communication (00:14:40) Dr. Alison Ash provides tips for both givers and receivers to give and ask for feedback in a comfortable and effective manner. Setting Expectations and Preferences (00:19:35) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of setting expectations and preferences in advance, as well as providing feedback and guidance during sexual encounters. The bossy game (00:22:31) Discussion about using the "bossy game" to navigate new experiences with women and the use of audio porn for masturbation. Pleasuring the pussy (00:24:06) Tips and techniques for pleasuring the female genitalia, including the importance of relaxation and using toys for extended pleasure. Sex education and positions (00:25:13) Discussion about sex education, positions, and techniques for prolonged sexual encounters, including the use of tools and devices. Toys and tools for prolonged sessions (00:27:44) Detailed list of toys and tools recommended for extended sexual encounters, including g-spot stimulators, vibrators, and anal toys. Importance of longer sexual encounters (00:36:35) Emphasizing the importance of longer sexual encounters, exploring foreplay, mental stimulation, and the impact on emotional connection. Madlib for pussy pleasure (00:39:58) Introduction of a handout called "The Guide to My Pussy" for receivers and givers to enhance communication and understanding of preferences. Conclusion and future plans (00:41:49) Expressing excitement for future learning, acknowledging the impact of the conversation, and expressing interest in future collaborations. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Dr. Alison Ash: Instagram @turnon.love Coaching - TurnON.love/coaching Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse - TurnON.love/intimacy On-demand workshops (including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ) - TurnON.love/workshops Live events - www.TurnON.love/events Previous Moving Through Shame Episode: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/EP113-Moving-Through-Shame-with-Dr--Alison-Ash-e2cvaum --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

I'm excited to share some insights from my latest podcast episode with Dr. Alison Ash, an intimacy coach, Stanford lecturer, and the founder of Turn On Love. In this episode, we delved into the often-avoided topic of shame, particularly around intimacy and personal needs. Dr. Aly shared her expertise on how to navigate through this complex emotion and cultivate healthier relationships. Key takeaways: Recognizing Shame: We discussed how shame is a natural response to societal expectations of self-reliance and independence. Acknowledging its presence is the first step towards healing. Cultivating Safe Relationships: Dr. Aly emphasized the importance of fostering relationships where you feel safe, accepted, and a sense of belonging. It's within these relationships that we can gradually reveal our needs without fear of judgment. Releasing Shame through Empathy: We explored how empathy and acceptance from others can help release the shame we carry. However, it's crucial to expose shame gradually to avoid overwhelming ourselves. Challenging the Myth of Normality: Dr. Aly encouraged us to be authentic and share our true selves, even if it goes against societal norms. This authenticity can lead to a deeper sense of belonging. Teaching Children about Needs: We touched on the importance of teaching children to identify and communicate their needs from an early age. This approach can promote a healthier understanding and acceptance of needs in society. The Art of Saying "No": We discussed the challenge of saying "no" when we can't meet someone else's needs. Dr. Ash advocates for delivering the "no" with empathy and understanding. But that's not all! We have an exciting episode coming up where Dr. Aly and I will be discussing champ pussy giving and receiving. Stay tuned for this enlightening conversation! In the meantime, you can connect with Dr. Aly through the links provided in the show notes. This podcast is sponsored by my online coaching program: https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/love-coach-jennifer-ruscin Follow Jen & The Open Bedroom Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Follow Dr. Alison Ash: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/turnon.love/ Coaching - TurnON.love/coaching Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse - TurnON.love/intimacy On-demand workshops (including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ) - TurnON.love/workshops Live events - www.TurnON.love/events --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Hosts Dr. Willow and Leah got down & dirty with sex educator Dr. Alison Ash, who is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. In this juicy conversation all about optimizing oral pleasure, letting go of expectations, & getting out of your head, we dived into the skills needed to be masterful at giving & receiving oral sex. With compassion, communication, and the techniques we uncovered with Dr. Ash, you can leave your partner gasping in ecstasy and eager to return the favor. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS TO AMPLIFY THE ORAL MAGIC:Don't skip the warmup! Tease and torment with thigh massage and lip nibbles.Flicker a pointed tongue for intense sensation, or go broad with a soft, flat tongue.   Allow laughter to release any tension; this is about having fun, not being perfect.Savor their scent, and describe aloud how amazing their genitals look and taste.Lavish licks on the areas you desire most. This transfers ravenous, worshipful energy that facilitates deeper arousal and connection.Plus, many more actionable techniques you will want to try tonight!EPISODE LINKSDr. Ash's Website - TurnON.loveCourse - Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game | 4-week course for couples Use the discount code LoveSex for $100 off. Course - Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills | 8-week course starting in Jan 2024. Use discount code LoveSex for $100 off. Course - On-demand workshops (including How to Eat Pu$sy like a Champ)1:1 with Dr. Ash - Coaching info Awaken Arousal Oil Lubricant "I had a 3-minute orgasm and then a 5-minute orgasm. All I know is that I had transcended and felt like I was surfing in a perpetual wave pool of pleasure." - BethSupport the showSxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website

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Ep 356: Healthy Sexual & Emotional Intimacy, How Embodiment and Nervous System Regulation are Important with Dr. Alison Ash.  She is a sex & intimacy coach and educator/lecturer at Standford University, and online. Dr. Aly shared what embodiment means and how our US culture devalues the wisdom of our bodies, so we often disconnect from our bodies as a result, which causes us to run into problems in sex, relationships, pleasure, and quality of life. Not only does the US have poor sex ed, it basically has zero intimacy education (but things are getting better as some universities are starting to offer such courses). Practicing embodiment is to be very present living in the moment, which Dr, Aly explained is a form of meditation and mindfulness. We can engage in nourishing our intimacy. Our intimacy can be draining rather than fulfilling if it's lacking. She offers courses to help people with this and other issues (including sexual topics). She explained how the 'window of tolerance' and 'range of resiliency' impacts our lives and relationships, and how we can widen that window through self-care.  She talked about examples of self-care, which our culture tends to minimize and devalue, such as taking a bath, gardening, journaling, or wrapping up in a soft blanket. She addressed how we need to self-soothe (self-regulate) and co-regulate (meaning engaging in a soothing connection with someone else...aka feel that click with them). Both are important for a healthy relationship.  She stated intimacy comes from mutual vulnerablity and with our goal oriented culture, goal oriented sexual relations often occur and this takes us out of our bodies which leads to less enjoyable and fulfilling sex lives. She also stressed that as a culture, we need to stop labeling emotions as good or bad, they are all valuable and give us all information.  We also touched on repairing ruptures in relationships, and the female sexual genitalia anatomy...do you know what the clitoris looks like? It is about six inches long and has lobes, legs, a shaft, and a head (somewhat analgous to the penis).Check out Dr. Aly's new course https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skillsAnd her other courses: http://www.turnon.love/https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/11886390About the podcast host: request an ARC copy hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarcTo buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenNEW!https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobookSupport the showSubscribe for exclusive episodes here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan is a Manscaped Ambassador get 20% OFF+Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ Ruan is a Kiiroo Toys Ambassador get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/Copyright 2021-2023 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC

Dr. Alison Ash, founder of @turnon.love joins us for the third time on our show to discuss how to navigate conflict and repair ruptures in relationships. It's an informative discussion with @HiThereCatsuit.

Happy Monday- mommy is getting vulnerable! Todays listener questions include a husband who feels he didnt marry his true blue 'soul mate'- all is well, and he wants to stay together- but sometimes the longing for more hits and he wonders what to do. Another husband is searching for better pregnancy sex, which positions are ideal for his wife comfort wise? Also the 411 on pregnancy sex is always a good run-down. Today I am joined with Dr. Allison Ash (bio + info below) we are discussing the pressures couples put on themselves in the bedroom, discussing solution/steps to create opportunities for desire in your relationship. If you want hott sex, you have to be intentional and you can create long lasting sustainable good sex if you both are wiling! Tune in now=) Uberlube: Get 10% off + free shipping using code "housewife" at checkout! BlueChew: Use code "housewife" to get your first month supply free; just pay $5 shipping! Todays Guest: Dr. Allison Ash Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences.  Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills 8 week course starting in Jan 2024. Use the discount code LoveHornyHousewife for $100 off.  Advertising: admin@pleasurepodcasts.com www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com

What are some common obstacles that contribute to couples losing the spark over time? What are some of the ways couples experience pressure around sex, where does it come from, and how can they overcome it? What skill are most important for couples to learn so they can bring sexy back and rekindle the flame, as well as keep that flame burning in the long run? What about sex, longterm relationships and parenting? What are some things that can be helpful for parents to consider? How about when shit hits the fan and the relationship feels like a mess? What can couples do when things go awry?  About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Click here to learn more about Dr. Aly's Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game 4 week course for couples, starting October, 2023. Use the discount code LoveShamelessSex for $100 off.  Click here for Dr. Aly's Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills 8 week course starting in Jan 2024. Use the discount code LoveShamelessSex for $100 off.  Extra links: On-demand workshops Coaching info Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

In this episode with Dr. Alison Ash, we'll be diving into how to deepen intimacy. About how to bring more LOVE into sex and intimacy - whether it's with yourself or others!To RSVP for the next episode of The Kingdom Sundays: https://www.justinmichaelwilliams.com/thekingdomLearn more about Dr. Alison and her work: https://www.turnON.love/Join Dr. Alison's Sustainable Intimacy Course: https://www.turnON.love/sustainable-intimacyTo join our weekly Soul Study: https://www.justinmichaelwilliams.com/soul-studyListen to our Manifesting Love Playlist here.

How does pressure show up in relationships, and why does it hinder pleasure, connection and arousal? How does pressure operate differently in new encounters vs long term relationships? What are some helpful tips to start turning the pressure valve down - both within the self and when engaging in intimacy with others? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love/intimacy Click here to sign up for Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Mastercourse Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Listen to the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

We have a return visit from Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, a trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford Lecturer, and the founder of TurnON.love. She talks with HiThere Catsuit about her upcoming class series and more! * For info on her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse, visit www.TurnON.love/intimacy

Ep 218: How to Get Out of Your Head in Bed with Dr. Alison Ash.  Check out my epic and amazing discussion with Dr. Aly. We chatted about how you can get out of your head in bed (she has a course on this too) including such things as shedding performance anxiety, being present and embodied (rather than in our heads), ways to ignore our to-do list, and non-sexual roles, so we can be more present, and lots of tips and advice to do all of this the best way possible. We talked about masturbation, sex toys, sexual and emotional intimacy and so much more. She explains her many courses, including a course on how to eat pussy! Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.loveLinks to connect with Dr. Alison Ash:https://www.turnon.love/http://www.facebook/turnon.lovehttp://www.instagram/turnon.loveThank you to my sponsor! Connect with them for awesome author services at: https://authorshelpservice.com/FREE BOOKS!Some of my ebooks are available as part of the Smashwords 2022 End of Year Sale! Find your next favorite book this month at https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow  Many of my books will be FREE there through January 1, 2023. Download, read, please review! Thank you! Merry Christmas!Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products/Phuckit Coffee from sponsors and affiliates, and get pleasure at a lower cost!  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook!Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47The Car Sex Challenge Book 3 of 6 from The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play https://amzn.to/3iPH21lConnect with me here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowSupport the show

Ever felt like you should be sex-ready when you're not? Or self-conscious about performing well in bed? Dr. Alison Ash is no stranger to pressure around sex and helps many folks find their way to more fun and fulfilling experiences. She also recently married her partner, Sebastian, and their love story is one for the books.   You'll learn:   How the couple met and got engaged How they figured out their non-monogamy/monogamy styles during lockdowns Ways pressure has cropped up in their own relationship Dr. Aly's advice about scheduling sex (and a better alternative) How sex-related pressure crops up in long-term relationships Ways to reduce pressure for more fun, pleasure and connection! . For info on Dr. Aly's Sexual and Emotional Initmacy Skills Mastercourse, visit www.TurnON.love/intimacy  Instagram: @TurnON.love   Save 15% on awesome goodies  + support a great cause at musamasala.com!   This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GIRLBONER and get on your way to being your best self.   Save 35% on the Vesper 2, elegant vibrator necklace and support Girl Boner at the same time (via a commission) here.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Let's talk about flirting baby!!! This week, we're joined by Dr. Alison Ash who is an Intimacy Coach, Lecturer at Stanford, and the Founder of TurnON.love. We talk about the importance of having intimacy in a relationship, how to shoot your shot, and keeping the spark alive after the honeymoon phase.  Follow: Kamie Crawford @kamiecrawford & @relationshit Follow: Dr. Aly Ash @turnon.love & www.TurnON.love Produced by Dear Media

Every relationship we have could benefit from defining some boundaries, whether we're talking about relationships with our employers, friends, or sexual partners. However, most of us aren't very good at establishing them because setting boundaries feels like saying "no," and no can be a really difficult word to say for a lot of reasons. So let's talk about boundaries. In today's show, we're going to discuss everything you need to know, including when to discuss them, how to communicate boundaries effectively, as well as how to move on when boundary violations occur. I am joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. Some of the topics we discuss include: Why setting boundaries is so hard. How to figure out your own boundaries, because sometimes we don't know what they are yet. The fluidity of boundaries over time. When and how to reveal your boundaries in a relationship. Tips for starting a productive conversation about boundaries. How to listen better when a partner expresses their boundaries. How to recover and repair a relationship when boundaries get crossed. To learn more about Dr. Aly, visit TurnON.love and follow @TurnON.love on Instagram. For information on Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse starting in January 2023, visit TurnON.love/intimacy Thanks to the Scarlet Society and (scarletsociety.com) Cozy Earth (cozyearth.com) for sponsoring this episode! The Scarlet Society is here to help you explore what it is that brings you pleasure and cultivate the relationships you deserve. It's your new home for trusted resources aimed at helping women navigate sex and love after age 40. Visit scarletsociety.com to learn more and liberate your sexuality. Discover bedtime bliss with Cozy Earth's bamboo sheet set and loungewear. Their temperature regulating and moisture wicking fabric will keep you cool and comfortable all night long--any time of year. Visit cozyearth.com and get 35% off sitewide when you use my exclusive discount code: SEXANDPSYCHOLOGY *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

What are some of the signs you should break up in relationships, as well as the top tips for navigating them with as much success and ease as possible? What if you know you should break up but feel like you can't do it? How can people cope with a breakup - especially when they are feeling so much sadness, loss, anger and/or grief? Is "conscious uncoupling" or closure conversations available to everyone? And what can breakups teach us as valuable tools in moving forward? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at TurnON.love For info on Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse, starting January 2023, visit TurnON.love/intimacy  Social links: www.instagram/turnon.love  www.facebook/turnon.love Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord + join our fun Sexy Jeopardy event (hosted live by Amy) Thursday, October 16th at 6pm PST. Join here: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Flirting and seduction can be tricky business. For example, when you want to let someone else know you're interested, what do you even say? And how can you tell when someone is just being polite and friendly vs. actually flirting with you? Let's talk about it! Today's episode will tell you what you need to know about leveling-up your flirting game (in a non-sleazy way!), how read other people's flirting cues, how to deal with rejection, and more. I am joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. Some of the topics we discuss include: Tips for ethical flirting. The fine line between expressing attraction and desire for someone vs. manipulation. How you can tell whether another person is really into you and isn't just being nice--and how this is different when you're flirting online vs. in person. How to build up your confidence so that you're not second-guessing yourself when you flirt. How to de-escalate when someone flirts with you and you're not into it. How to cope with rejection in the dating marketplace. To learn more about Dr. Aly, visit TurnON.love and follow @TurnON.love on Instagram. For information on Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse starting in January 2023, visit TurnON.love/intimacy Thanks to FirmTech (myfirmtech.com) and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes (modernsextherapyinstitutes.com) for sponsoring this episode! FirmTech's Performance Ring is designed to boost your sexual stamina and give you harder, longer-lasting erections, while also enhancing pleasure. Their Tech Ring has the added benefit of tracking your erectile health. Visit myfirmtech.com and be sure to use my exclusive discount code Justin20 to save 20% off your purchase.  Visit modernsextherapyinstitutes.com to explore programs and certifications in sex therapy and education. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Dr. Alison Ash shares techniques for getting out of your head and into your body to find exponential pleasure. Aly is an intimacy coach and educator and founder of TurnON.love Sleepy Time Tea—the second season of Oregano Shirt Podcast—brings you short recreational meditations for slowing down.  For a behind-the-scenes look at this episode's editing process,… Continue reading 13: Think Less, Feel More

Welcome to episode 264 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can give a killer blowjob, incorporating play into great oral sex, and understanding that you can still get an STI just through oral sex.    Dr. Alison Ash is at trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.     She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.      In this episode, you will hear:     How you can give a killer blowjob   The importance of your appreciating your lover and communicating that to them   Incorporating play into great oral sex   How to overcome things like gag reflex when giving a blowjob   When is the best time to also use your hands when giving a blowjob?  How you can also stimulate testicles when giving a blowjob   The importance of being sensitive when stimulating testicles   Overcoming the issue of not liking the taste of semen   Is it possible to change the taste of semen?  Understanding that you can still get an STI just through oral sex       Thank you to our sponsor Cozy Earth!  https://cozyearth.com/discount/SEXOLOGY   Grab 40% off all products using promo code: SEXOLOGY    Find Dr. Alison Ash Online  https://www.TurnON.love     Dr. Alisons Class  https://www.TurnON.love/intimacy-skills Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: A 2-month experiential course   Jan 11 - March 8th 2022    9 Foreplay Ideas  https://drmoali.clickfunnels.com/free-foreplay-checklist51618558     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Welcome to episode 263 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the do's and dont's of cunnilingus, recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable receiving oral sex, and what are some of the best positions for oral sex.   Dr. Alison Ash is at trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.     She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.      In this episode, you will hear:     The do's and dont's of cunnilingus How you can fine tune your rhythm with your partner   Dispelling the misconceptions around the smell of a vagina   Ways in which you can help put your partner at ease   Recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable to receive oral sex   Looking at techniques such as “writing the alphabet with your tongue”   When is the right time to move onto penetration?   What are some of the best positions for oral sex?   Looking at experimenting with the 69 position for oral sex       Thank you to our sponsor Cozy Earth!  https://cozyearth.com/discount/SEXOLOGY   Grab 40% off all products using promo code: SEXOLOGY    Free Foreplay Checklist   Find Dr. Alison Ash Online  https://www.TurnON.love     Dr. Alisons Class  https://www.TurnON.love/intimacy-skills Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: A 2-month experiential course  Jan 11- March 8th 2022       Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

Return guest Dr. Alison Ash joins is to talk all about fantasies: What kind of things do people most commonly fantasize about? What if we fantasize about someone other than our partner? Are fantasies and actual role play (acting them out) the same thing? Also, how can we up our fantasy game whether alone or with a partner? We also answer a sex question about jealousy over a partner's past sexual partners.  Want to skip for the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.  About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.     As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves.  Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com        

In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dr. Alison Ash about sexual fantasies over a cocktail we call Not the Left Hand.

Dr. Alison Ash introduces us to her 10 week Sex and Emotional Intimacy workshop which begins on January 26 at Turnon.love.

In this week's episode, your host Zach Beach interviews coach, educator, lecturer and author Dr. Alison Ash on Sleaze-Free Seduction Skills. Learn more about your guest below: * www.TurnON.love * www.instagram.com/turnon.love * www.facebook.com/turnon.love * www.facebook.com/dr.alisonash * https://twitter.com/turnon_love Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Aly designs workshops and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/learntolovenow Join the Community group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

Have you ever experienced jealousy in love and relationships? What do you do with jealousy when it comes up? In this episode Dr. Alison Ash returns to the show to discuss with SLSP host Tatiana Berindei all the many facets of jealousy and how to approach it in a loving and healthy way. Whether [...]

Sex and intimacy coach Dr. Alison Ash joins SLSP host Tatiana Berindei in this wildly exciting conversation about non-monogamous dating structures. A Stanford-educated sociologist and a wealth of information on the topic of relationships, Dr. Ash shares with us some of the different non-traditional relationship structures that are out there as well as some [...]