Indecent Disclosure

INDECENCY ALERT! We're making it happen! To us, the fact that we're here is more important than consistency. Steven is taking a year of sobriety and we get into the details about how it works for him. This leads us into an acid recap for Holly, and a dive into mind-altering substances in general. Have you noticed that hot people have the most hilarious farts? Men, do you know how a tampon works?  Ahhhh, happy to be back.

Back for the second half with Cooper! We get into sooo much fun stuff in this one: continuing the polyamory conversation, opening up about addiction, Gateway Ranch vibes, and so much more! Can you believe we went for 3 hours? He's so great.  You can find Cooper on Instagram @coopmahndala, and on Spotify as both Coop Mahndala and Psilosapiens.

COOPER MONTGOMERY! This is a big one y'all. Our dear friend opens up about his adoption, how it affected him, growing up as a mixed race American in Flagstaff, AZ. He has tons of energy, jokes and laughter that's sure to bring a smile to your face! This episode ends discussing relationships, and Coop's experiences with polyamory vs monogamy. We had to split this one into two episode because we recorded for 3 HOURS, so prepare for the second half to come out next! You can find Cooper on Instagram @coopmahndala, and on Spotify as both Coop Mahndala and Psilosapiens.

Regular schedule resumes! We kick this one off talking about podcasts, how asking questions can be strange, and how toddlers in the why phase can drive you crazy. What's your earliest memory? Do you really remember it? Steven gives an interesting take on memories. What's your view on gamers and gamer culture? It's a deal breaker for Holly. The conversations are back in full swing and our much loved banter keeps this one going.  Give us a review or send Holly some podcast recs!

Long time no listen!! We're back in action and we are so excited to be releasing twice a month again. We're married now, we've honeymooned and we love it, something feels more serious between us. We poke some fun at each other and chat about how we got here over a bottle of champagne. Our couple's therapy is back and we are so grateful YOU get to join us on our journey!

WE'RE BACK!!!! After a long month of wedding planning, and the wedding itself. It feels great to be back on the pod with y'all. The entire weekend was awesome, prime yourself for a sweet recap.We kick it off speaking about the ceremony and how supported by our community we felt. We give shout outs to all our people, vendors, and venue. We set the scene with this one, stay tuned for more photos and stories as we get them!! WE LOVE YOU

DEMI!! On episode 69 we wouldn't have it any other way, we're so excited to have her back for a casual conversation about our bachelor/bachelorette party. We talk about how cool it was for our friends to all meet eachother and had a blast of a time. Demi shares some perspective on the beginning of our relationship, how complex our friendships can be and how much we love that it that way! We love her, expect more. Demi's a therapist now y'all!! Hit her up on Instagram @demi_rising

Back again and so happy to be here. Do you prefer to live in the hustle and bustle or the country? Holly made a spicy reel and got some haters. We discuss commenting on social media and Steven has some great takes that lead us into health influencers. We are going on our bachelor/bachelorette trip next week!! Mexico here we come. Wedding in under two months! Anyone want to get Steven a new kite?

This one starts off with a discussion about burnout culture and personal time, Steven opens up and it feels so good. Isn't work-life balance so important? Do you feel the vibrational shift that is coming? We hash it all out together and come to the conclusion that we're gonna make it. We hope you all are happy with the life you live, don't stress too much!   DM us on Instagram if you need anything!

Come take another peek into our lives! This one is fun: we hear Holly's radio voice, Steven gives us the word he got wrong in the elementary spelling bee, Holly's dad was a prankster, and what's up with grandparents fattening up the grandkids? Next episode we are going to have Demi back so tune in for that one! P.S Can anyone help us with our doggos allergies?

This one is all about observation! We observe people in so many situations and we love to learn from it. We celebrated our 6th year together, woo!! Steven gives us his perspective on greatness, we have discussions about human nature, boundaries, putting your needs first, weird faces people make, how to talk about periods, and sooo much more. Dig into a bunch of cool topics with us, and then leave us a good review? We love y'all.

We're cleansing it all!! Our minds, our bodies, and our worlds. Wish Holly a happy belated birthday, she's entering a new decade. Do you know the word for the blinking line that appears before you type something? Holly's been a tiny bit stressed about wedding plans but we're getting through it. We discuss self care and then peace out to go get some! Hit up Holly about her Earth Day celebration if you are interested

We kick this one off with a "Would you rather?" from a past episode. Moving into a conversation about the strengths in our relationship, and then a juicier conversation about what's been bothering us about eachother. Steven has been having trouble sleeping, Holly has been having trouble tasting and everything tastes like a shit pretzel. Classic Indecent Disclosure.  Lots of laughs to be had here folks!

Just us this week! After some amazing interviews, we have a classic Holly and Steven moment with some awesome conversation. Holly tells a story about SHART, Steven is happy with his work/life balance, and we talk about setting social boundaries as life seems to come back to normal. Did you know Steven hates mouth noises? This is a fun one that you won't want to miss!!

We are sooo excited to bring you this interview we did with Christian Fernandez!! A lead cast member on 12 Dates Of Christmas, dancer, stylist, and entrepreuer, Christian has a ton to share with us. We talk about what it was like being on the show, her mental health journey, her clothing brand 'There She Is' and so much more. You're not going to want to miss this one, its raw and reflective and very heart warming. Check her out on Instagram @christianffernandez, and There She Is @shoptheresheis.  This episode is sponsored by Peak Scents, plant-powered, innovative skincare that gives real results without toxic chemicals.” Use Holly's affiliate link to receive 20% your entire order at https://peakscents.com/?ref=Hollywhite

This week is soooo wonderful. We have Garrett Marcantel, Holly's friend from college and cast member of 12 Dates Of Christmas. We talk about his move to New York.. and then to LA, what it was like being a part of the show, his coming out journey and so much more! Garrett has so many wise words to say we were soaking it all up. Find him on Instagram  @Garrett.mercantel, and check out his friends project he has been helping with on the website www.serif.space This episode is sponsored by Peak Scents, plant-powered, innovative skincare that gives real results without toxic chemicals.” Use Holly's affiliate link to receive 20% your entire order at https://peakscents.com/?ref=Hollywhite

You're gonna love this interview with couple Kate Steinberg and Chad Savage, we know we did!! 5 Stars. We talk about the experience of being in the first season of 12 Dates Of Christmas on HBO Max, and how they made an impression on us with their authenticity.  Shoutout Chad's watch line, on Insta at danielsavagewatches and website: danielsavagewatch.com Chad: Instagram/Tiktok: chadbsavage Kate: Instagram/Tiktok: itskatesteinberg This episode is sponsored by Peak Scents, plant-powered, innovative skincare that gives real results without toxic chemicals.” Use Holly's affiliate link to receive 20% your entire order at https://peakscents.com/?ref=Hollywhite

We're happy to be back! Holly kicks this one off with a conversation about oversharing and how to discuss certain topics with certain people. Sometimes she can be pretty dark. Don't vent too much with one person, be cognizant of how they may feel. It's all about boundaries, these topics are sooo important and this one felt great to get into.    Give us a 5 star if you haven't yet or just share us with a friend, we super appreciate you all.

WE LOVE Maggie!! Super excited to have her on to talk about fertility awareness and how important it all is. She starts by going over her background, how fertility awareness works, and even debunk a few common fertility myths before going into how to involve your partner in this practice. Steven gives us some great insight as well and it makes for a well rounded episode. Follow Maggie on Instagram @_maggiemf_ Or visit her website maggiemf.com

We're back and we can speak this week! We kick off by telling a funny story about grandparent names and our Santa experience. We go over some changes that are coming up, more guests, episodes twice a month, and more focused conversation. Holly gives us a preview of our next guest who is gonna be soooo good and gets us into a conversation about queerness, identity and so much more! Catch ya in the new year y'all, happy holidays!

We're back y'all and ready to get rolling again!! We took a break for a few reasons, Covid included, but we're finally feeling better. A great conversation ensues about our experience being ill together. Holly got a bunch of packages, and we let the dogs break the rules a bit. Overall we made the best of it! Shoutout to all of our friends that took care of us, you seriously rock.

Just a lil guy this week as we quickly share some gratitudes and appreciations before a short poem that Holly's dad used to read every year.  Travel safe during this holiday season y'all! Much love to everyone, be back next week!

This one's fun. Holly burned a letter that she wrote to herself because it no longer served her mission! She reads us a portion of her journal pre-covid, and Steven interprets it for us. We chat about the number 108, what it means to us, and then close with some light hearted conversation plus a poem.   A shorty, but not lacking in content.

The title says it all! We kick this one off discussing our growth over the past year, how we've changed for the better, and our decision making skills. Then we get into some proposal fake-outs that you won't want to miss. Cheers to a year of our goofiness. Thanks for everyone's support so far!

Sorry we blanked on our 50th episode celebration, we do it this time. Holly's brother released some new music, go check him out on your streaming platform of choice. Arizona White, boom baby. Then we share some funny recent happenings, and set ourselves up for an epic year anniversary of our podcast. We close with an embarrassing story from Holly, this ones a must listen!!!

We're letting the deliriousness drive us this episode, it's gonna be authentic. Holly has to vent about her tattoos for a sec, she's fired up about these dummies she has to serve, and has some other ridiculous stories for us. We close talking about Larry David's role in Curb Your Enthusiasm, the British version of The Office and a serious note from Holly. Lot's of laughs today y'all.

Have you ever been to a circus? Holly listens back sometimes and can't figure out why her sentences are so all over the place but alas, we went to the circus and it tripped us out but gets us into a rad story about Holly's dad plus so much more. We LOVED it! All this circus talk leads us into a conversation about animal consent and treatment. It almost goes down the rabbit hole, but y'all know us! Wish Steven a happy belated :)

Our communication skills are incredible, but it's because we've trained them that way. We dissect how your ego can affect conversations in your relationship and what to do about it. Then we pivot into generational trauma, how to break it, how it makes us feel, and why you gotta give the benefit of the doubt at times. Part two rocks, send us your feedback y'all.

We start off with some behind the scenes action. We talk about the dynamics of Steven being the one to propose, the intricacies of engagements, and Holly plays some devils advocate for once. It's so rad we split it in two, part one closes with communication dynamics when we have a rough moment, and Steven advocating that everyone deserves to fall in love.

Kicking this week off we're a little sleepy. How do you use the phrase “Say Less”? We go deep about compassion and how it relates to people you used to interact with. Holly has a friend that's coming on Below Deck. Our wedding plans are going very smoothly, with a tiny hang up. We almost end on a Godly note, but slide back into decision making when planning the wedding to finish it off. It's all uphill from here y'all

Steven doesn't like Adele. Holly sold hella specials. Are Mom bods and Dad bods intertwined? Whats the proper way to comment on your partner's weight? We have an amazing conversation about it. It's so important to have a partner that acknowledges you, the comings and the goings, and all the fluctuations in between. This one gets a lil deep, but it was much needed! Leave us a review y'all!

Holly's been watching Power Nation, without Steven! She is also super grateful for her new job, as crazy as the schedule has been. Steven's been leveling up at work too, so we're on a roll together baby! We get into some funny stories for some relief, and then close it out with a customer service conversation. We aren't going anywhere, give us a review, or send us a DM with some topics!

How do you handle your hot sauce? This week we are into Steve-O's podcast, Sword and Scale (a true crime podcast that Holly loves!), Divinely Human has been on Holly's radar too. Steven just likes to jam out when he has free time and thats cool too! We seriously love where we live, and we don't take it for granted. We deliver that real relatable content so buckle up y'all.

Part two gets heavy on the business boundaries! Don't work your life away y'all. How much should you sacrifice for your work goals? Setting your boundaries at work can change your life. Holly expresses her happiness with getting back into bartending, Steven shares how his experience hiring people has changed his ideas about work. This week is super sweet, and very insightful!

We're back and livelier than ever! This episode is about support. Holly reveals a funny noise that Steven makes when he's concentrating. We talk about alcohol as it relates to health, and Holly got a new job as a bartender in Sedona. Our schedules have become pretty opposite but we talk about how we come together and keep happy. We left ya hanging this week, but it gets really real next week so come prepared!

Steven starts this one off as Yoda, but we have our dear friend Kaitlyn on and we are sooo stoked! She's single, but actively does the work for herself and her own happiness. She gives us her scoop on standards, good and bad dates, and just how to be happier with yourself while seeking all types of relationships. You can find her at Katelyn.Kat on Instagram. She's super incredible so definitely slide in the DMs if you have questions.

Very very very exciting news this week. We're engaged and its serious but not that serious, just perfect timing. Steven explains the proposal in depth and it's a dream!!!! He planned a whole trip to Kauai, waited for the clouds to clear, and pulled the trigger. You wouldn't want to miss this one. It's adorable. Shoutout Lele and Jesse for all the help, y'all rock. Go check out those engagement photos after you listen!

This podcast travels all over the place, we're so happy about it. This week we discuss a grab-bag of topics: Vlogs, people we know that invented cool things, our weekly gratitations, how weird the way the world works is, Bloody Mary, and so much more! We're going on a Steven planned trip, but we don't divulge where, but you may find out next week.

Part Two baby! We get back into the weird outdated rules about dating, Holly has a list. How do we feel about sex on the first date? Should you bring up your past when dating? Should you play hard to get/play it cool? What about texting/ constant communication? This one is super fun, so come join us non-daters while we hash out the important questions.

We start this week goofing off, but it gets serious. We're going to talk about what NOT to do when dating, even though we're a few years removed from it. What are your deal breakers? Farting? Adult Braces? Size definitely matters, and we go heart to heart about how we avoided problems, and what matters most when dating. Steven is sooo good at setting proper boundaries and handling relationship pressure calmly. We had to split it in two episodes but please DM us about our topics so far.

We disagree about Best In Show! What do you guys think? Do you know about ‘splodies? Well you sure will after this one. We dip back into the poop talk, but we're all human here. After that we have some fun asking questions, and then get into our weekly gratitudes. We finish with a great conversation about finances, freedom, and true happiness. This week feels back to our roots. 

Coming in off of such a fun weekend, we are so TIRED! We went to Lake Powell and stayed for a few days. Don't you always need to rest after vacation? We do. The voices in our heads guided us through, and Steven heard them too so Holly's not losing it. She used to be a fighter, and we discovered a new Stevenism: The Comings and Goings. Ending with a shitty would you rather never felt so good.

Back in action for the big 33! We get into what we miss about pre-pandemic life vs the current post pandemic life. Holly tells us about her walk around the duck pond, she saw a frickin eagle! We have so much fun together, we have to share it with y'all. The tail end of this episode has to do with friends, drug use, and perspective! It feels good to have our relationships with partying established and figured out. We end talking about legislation and public opinion on these new treatments or substances. 

It's fire season, parts of our town are in evacuation prep mode! We talk a bit about climate change, and how we wouldn't want to live without a toilet! We have an awesome conversation about what we do for each other around the house, and how much Holly loves having Steven's manliness around. We finish in dream land, Holly has some funny weirdo dreams and we totally love it, she can remember her dreams so vividly. DM us your birthday shoutouts y'all!

We kick this one off with a shout out to all you beautiful people! We talk about some of the hard shit, and how taking care of each other during rough times shapes our connection. Getting into how gender roles work for us, how happy we are to see the people around us thriving, and just an overall appreciation for life and what is to come! Before signing off, we unpack some high school bitterness. This episode is all about healing baby!

Holly changed her Instagram handle because she's going through a career change and also has a killer app idea! Steven still loves Pitch Perfect. We love digging each other, we're just showing the love and we'd rather get divorced before we get married! This episode has a couple questions that flush out into some really funny conversations. Do you notice feet?

This one's a fun one, Wonderful Wonderful! Holly's been getting her shit done, we dissect real time comedy vs on-stage. We have some funny stories, our dog had knee surgery, Steven needs his diaper changed and so much more!! Today's episode is brought to you by a new author Shiloh Faustine Terrance and her book Tales From the Deck, an epic Tarot adventure. www.shilohfaustineterrance.com

We're coming off of a party weekend, we go hard but take good care of ourselves. We got a beach house in San Diego. Isn't it cool to age with your friends? Are you an introvert or an extrovert? How do you handle energetic exchange with other people? We cover some cool topics this week, and we're stoked to be back in the groove in our routines.  We close with some insight on protecting your energy.

We're back from vacation for real. We get into it a little bit, Holly shares about her giveaway, and then we talk about using our phone to avoid problems sometimes, and how happy we are that it's warmer now! We chat about the GBB, and get into some British accents of our own. Isn't it weird how it's rare to love your voice? Thanks for listening to us y'all! This episode is sponsored by the giveaway, check it out on Holly's instagram, @hollywhitehealth.

Part Two get a lil rowdy, but what else did you expect? We get the rest of the love story, it's absolute magic. We learn about their trip to Argentina, and how traveling can make or break your relationships. You have to be able to simply take care of eachother! Jesse moved to Kauai, and they share how they give each other space and independence while also coexisting. Please check these two out on instagram @alexandramasihy and @jessewyattmorgan. Give us a review y'all!

It's a great day full of romantic fire! Lele and Jesse give us their tips for a lasting relationship. They met without a spark and years later they are in love! Jesse learned Spanish and did commercial fishing, Lele went through some serious personal growth and started her own photography business. The two reconnected on a Mexico trip, and even the locals thought they were a couple.   We had to split this one into two episodes because it was so good!