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Troy Kinne is an award-winning comedian, actor, writer, producer and director. In the early days of his stand-up comedy career, Troy won almost every new comic competition in Australia. The Comic's Lounge ‘You Gotta be Joking' competition saw him receive the prize of a trip to New York to attend the American Institute of Comedy. He went on to perform at several well-known clubs in the U.S. including Caroline's on Broadway, Stand Up New York, Gotham Comedy club, the Laugh Factory, The Hollywood Comedy Store and The Comedy Cellar.  On returning to Australia Troy became a sought-after headline act for The Australian Armed Defence forces, Mining camps and Comedy clubs around the country. In 2010 Troy added some steady work alongside the comedy club circuit, becoming a content producer for the Fifi and Jules radio show and hosting his own regular segment interviewing celebrity guests such as Seth Rogen, Josh Lawson, Simon Pegg and DJ Havana Brown. Troy has made guest appearances on TV and radio including Nova FM's Hughsie and Kate for breakfast, Hamish & Andy, Chrissie, Sam and Brownie, Have You Been Paying Attention, The Hundred with Andy Lee and The Comedy Channel's Stand-Up Australia. However, Troy is mostly known for his own Sketch Comedy TV shows - KINNE (7 Mate) and KINNE TONIGHT (CH10). The KINNE show saw Troy nominated for the 2015 Logie Award for Most Outstanding Newcomer and a number of sketches from his shows have racked up millions of online views worldwide. Troy's comedy is known for being extremely relatable. Proof of this is his video content constantly going ‘viral' with his online following currently sitting at well over 1 million plus across all social media platforms.  FULL STORY which is a special movie length opening episode is out now on YouTube which Troy funded himself – check it out (below)! I loved it! About Full Story: Full Story is being labelled by Kinne as a ‘one hour showcase special'. “Rather than being a standard ‘first episode' pilot, episode one of Full Story is essentially a mini movie, resulting in a much more comprehensive example of the vast opportunities for the series and the characters in terms of longevity.” The story follows Tucker Taylor and his struggling publicity agency who find themselves thrust into a situation requiring more time executing crisis management for themselves than their clients. This bold new series boasts a diverse lineup of talent in both background and experience ranging from newcomers, to rising stars to Aussie screen legends – Troy Kinne (Kinne, Kinne Tonight), Genevieve Hegney (Colin from Accounts), Tiana Hogben (Thank God You're Here), Kevin Hofbauer (Hamish and Andy's True Story), April Rose Pengilly (Neighbours), Colette Mann (Prisoner), Kaily Emma Smith (Stakes), Rob Mills (Every musical ever made ever), and Sicilee Diep-Dubois (Acting debut). The popularity of Kinne's previous work has resulted in eager guest appearances from Aussie stars. Lending their talents are Sophie Monk, Josh Lawson and Scott Ryan. The Full Story series explores cancel culture and the consequences that can come with fame whether seeking it or not. However, the real heart of the series is its honesty when portraying behaviour (even if it's a tough pill to swallow for the audience). This is its point of difference – no holding back. We see desperation at its finest from every perspective possible which can be an uncomfortable eye opener, encouraging the viewer to think about, and in some instances, question their own behaviour/thoughts. FULL STORY promises to be a hilarious and entertaining journey for audiences keen to once again indulge in a scripted series with ‘some balls'. We chat about his love of Thailand, creating videos, FULL STORY, heart issues, trusting your gut, being ‘made wrong', regrets, comedy, magic writing on planes, getting tv shows plus plenty more!   Check TROY out on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/troykinne/ FULL HOUSE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dyyg5uflmoY&list=PLoXYRLb-WmOVE-SCTwGe1iqPH9snbk7pj   Website/ tickets: https://www.troykinne.com/#shows Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KinneTVshow ------------------------------------------- Follow @Funny in Failure on Instagram and Facebook https://www.instagram.com/funnyinfailure/ https://www.facebook.com/funnyinfailure/ and @Michael_Kahan on Insta & Twitter to keep up to date with the latest info. https://www.instagram.com/michael_kahan/ https://twitter.com/Michael_Kahan

Transcript: Welcome to today's episode! We're diving deep into ADHD and autism – what makes them unique, where they overlap, and how they shape day-to-day life. We'll mix neuroscience, the latest research, and real-life stories to make it all click. This show is for neurodivergent adults, and also parents and educators who want to really understand what living with ADHD and autism can be like.Imagine sitting in a meeting: the clock ticks, but your mind is racing on a thousand other things. Or being at a loud party and feeling every light and sound press in on you. Those are snippets of how ADHD or autism can feel. For anyone with these conditions (or both), life can be a wild ride of challenges and unique gifts. But you're not alone – there are science-backed ways to cope and even thrive.In recent years, brain science has been uncovering secrets about ADHD and autism. Researchers use brain scans and cognitive tests to see how neurodivergent brains work differently. We won't get lost in jargon, but the gist is this: ADHD often involves lower activity in brain areas that handle focus, planning, and impulse control – think of it like having a very fast car with weak brakes. Autism often involves brain circuits that are finely tuned, noticing patterns and details that others miss, but also picking up sensory inputs very intensely. So, one brain might crave novelty while needing a tight routine, the other might detect every background sound. Knowing this biological side helps make sense of everyday experiences.ADHD: A Brain That Zigs When Others ZagADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, shows up as three main quirks:* Trouble sustaining attention: Daydreaming or being easily distracted, missing details.* Impulsivity: Acting or speaking without thinking it through (like blurting an answer or grabbing the last slice of pizza on a whim).* Hyperactivity: Feeling restless or fidgety, like you have to move even when you're sitting still.Some people call the ADHD brain “a race car with fuzzy brakes.” Neuroscientists tell us ADHD brains often have lower levels of neurotransmitters like dopamine and norepinephrine, especially in the prefrontal cortex (the area acting like the brain's CEO). That makes it harder to plan, stay organized, or resist impulses. For example, you might forget appointments, interrupt conversations, or feel like you have to pace when sitting.On the flip side, ADHD brains can hyperfocus on things they love. Picture an editor sitting at a cluttered desk. The sound of typing is soothing… until a stray light catches the editor's eye. Suddenly they are deep in a Wikipedia spiral about vintage computers and forget the report due tomorrow. They laugh later: “I meant to write one paragraph and ended up learning about floppy disks for two hours!” Hyperfocus isn't guaranteed, though. Often tasks we have to do feel like a slog, and we procrastinate until the deadline hits. Then, under panic, our brain goes into overdrive – a burst of productivity called “crunch mode.” It's like living with an internal pressure cooker: long periods of low simmer, then sudden high heat to get things done.Emotionally, ADHD can feel like riding a rollercoaster. You might feel frustration or embarrassment about symptoms (like always losing your keys or blurting out something inappropriate). Anxiety and low self-esteem are common too, especially if you've been scolded or misunderstood a lot. But knowing the brain science behind ADHD brings relief: it's not laziness or a character flaw, it's biology. And that matters, because it means there are ways to help and work with your brain.Autism Spectrum: Sensory Worlds and Special InterestsAutism (Autism Spectrum Disorder) is also a brain difference – but it shows up differently. Key traits include:* Social communication differences: Difficulty reading facial expressions, understanding tone of voice, or navigating small talk.* Repetitive behaviors and routines: Craving sameness, following strict routines, or repeating certain movements (like hand-flapping or lining things up).* Sensory sensitivities: Being bothered by loud noises, bright lights, strong smells, scratchy clothing, or certain tastes.Imagine the brain as a radio receiver. In many autistic people, the dial picks up everything at full volume. So a buzzing neon light or a faint background hum can feel overwhelming. Scientists sometimes talk about an imbalance of excitation and inhibition in the autistic brain – in plain terms, sensory signals can all flood in without enough “filter.” This means autistic people notice fine details (that spider web, that slight pattern in wallpaper) but can be easily overloaded by a busy environment.Anecdote: Take Alex, an autistic architect. She describes going to a big family gathering: “The buzzing lights and overlapping conversations felt like waves crashing on me,” Alex says. “I had to step outside and put my headphones on to avoid a meltdown.” This is common: when too many signals hit at once, an autistic person might feel panic, shutdown, or even a meltdown (an intense emotional response). If things calm down, it's like a storm passing – but the confusion and stress can last for hours after.On the plus side, autism often brings intense interests and superb focus on details. That same Alex can spend hours perfecting a building design or spotting the tiniest crack in a wall that others wouldn't see. Many autistic people excel in fields that match their special interests – like science, art, math, or technology – because they're deeply passionate and not easily bored.Socially, autism can look like missed cues. You might overhear, “Why don't you just look people in the eye?” without realizing eye contact might feel painful or distracting. Or you might get puzzled advice like “don't take that literally,” when you really did mean exactly what you said. Brain imaging shows autistic folks often use different brain networks for social processing, so it can feel like navigating a conversation in a foreign language. That's okay! With understanding and support, autistic people often learn communication tricks that work for them.Where They Overlap: AuDHD and Shared TraitsIt turns out ADHD and autism often go together. Research suggests about half of autistic people also meet criteria for ADHD. Some folks even say they have “AuDHD” (autism+ADHD). If you have both, traits can blend in interesting ways. ADHD might add impulsivity and distractibility, while autism adds sensory needs and craving routine.One person described it like this: “My ADHD mind signs me up for more than my autistic brain can deliver at times.” It's a classic tug-of-war: part of you craves structure, part of you craves novelty. Many with both report feeling like a “walking contradiction” – wanting predictability but also getting bored by too much predictability.Shared challenges can include:* Executive function struggles: Both conditions can make organizing tasks, planning ahead, or switching activities hard. It can feel like your brain's to-do list app keeps crashing.* Sensory quirks: While sensory overload is famous in autism, ADHDers can also be sensitive (or sometimes under-sensitive) to sensory input. Both might need fidget toys or headphones to stay comfortable.* Emotional intensity: Both ADHD and autism are linked to higher anxiety, mood swings, or “meltdowns.” The brain chemistry and life stressors (feeling different, facing stigma) both play a role.* Trouble with transitions: Starting or stopping tasks can be super hard. You might think you can drop one activity and switch to another on cue, but often it feels like a gradual drift or a sudden jolt instead.Think of having both as juggling snowballs in a windstorm. For example, imagine someone with both ADHD and autism. They love a morning routine of coffee and crosswords, but if they miss that coffee (coffee catastrophe!), their ADHD brain causes a frantic search for the mug while their autism makes every change feel like a crash. If they try a new latte shop (novelty alert!), the ADHD part is excited but the autism part panics over the unpredictable ordering system. It's tricky.However, there are strengths too. Many people with AuDHD report creativity and unique problem-solving. They often see details and big patterns at once. For example, they might notice a statistic (detail) and also have a wild new idea (big picture) about it. The key is managing the quirks to let those superpowers shine.Daily Life Impact: Emotions, Thinking, Social, and WorkLiving with ADHD and/or autism can color every part of life. Let's break down some common areas:EmotionallyLiving with ADHD or autism can feel like having an emotional accelerator and brake pedal that sometimes fail. You might swing quickly from excitement to frustration. Frustration and anxiety often come from feeling misunderstood or not in control. Little surprises (a canceling a plan, a sudden noise) can trigger big reactions. If you've been punished for symptoms out of your control, you might have long-standing low self-esteem. Remember: getting emotional about these challenges is normal. It helps to remind yourself that meltdowns or outbursts are signals — your brain's way of saying it needs a break or some support, not proof that you're failing. After the episode, self-care and a bit of self-compassion (“That was tough, but I survived”) can help you recover and learn.Many neurodivergent people use humor as a lifesaver. Joking about “my ADHD brain is like a puppy on espresso” or “my daily meltdown wardrobe” can help talk about tough stuff more easily. Sometimes laughing at ourselves (gently, not harshly) reminds us that everyone has quirks.CognitivelyNeurodivergent minds often have a unique thinking style — like a maze and a playground at once. Here are a few common cognitive features:* Attention: ADHD means your attention is selective. You might ignore something boring (like scrolling through your phone in a dull lecture) and yet get laser-focused on something else (like planning the ultimate pizza toppings). Autism, too, can involve deep focus — on a special interest, that same lecture if it's on your passion topic, or even on everyday details most people miss. In either case, switching gears can be hard. Interrupting deep thought to do something mundane is like a rude alarm clock that nobody asked for.* Memory & Organization: These brains may misplace keys, appointments, or even thoughts. Working memory feels like a leaky bucket — once a distraction hits, stuff goes out. You might set a reminder on your phone, forget about it five minutes later, then panic when the date passes. Or you keep 100 tabs open in your brain, and sometimes one of them quietly closes without telling you. This isn't forgetfulness; it's the brain's attention and memory systems juggling too much.* Processing Speed: Some people think very fast (“see” many thoughts at once), others very slowly, or even seem to “lag” when switching tasks. For example, someone might need extra time to formulate an answer in conversation, even if they could write it perfectly later. Don't mistake a short pause for a problem with intelligence — it's just how the mind processes information.Social LifeNavigating social waters can be bumpy for ADHD and autism, but there are ways to manage. For example:* Social Cues: Autistic folks might miss a sarcastic tone or not get why everyone laughed. ADHD folks might interrupt without meaning to or blurt out irrelevant stuff. Both can accidentally seem “awkward” or “rude” when really they just didn't pick up cues. One trick is to be upfront: it's okay to say, “Hey, I have ADHD/autism, sometimes I need a little extra time or clarity.” Often people are understanding if they know.* Friendships: You might find yourself drifting between friend groups or feeling out of sync. It's common to form one very close friendship rather than a big circle. That's fine! Focus on quality over quantity. Some neurodivergent people prefer one-on-one hangouts or quiet meetups rather than crowded parties.* Support: Having friends or family who “get it” makes a huge difference. Find people (even online) who understand ND humor and vibe. Parents and educators, it helps to show kids or teens examples of famous or everyday people who are thriving with ADHD/autism, so they know they're not alone.Work and SchoolIn jobs and classes, ADHD and autism present both challenges and strengths. Many ND people become A+ in their passion subjects but struggle in areas they find boring or disorganized. The good news is, accommodations can help:* Structure and Environment: If possible, pick a study or work spot with fewer distractions. Use earbuds with soft music to drown out noisy offices. Request a quiet corner, noise-canceling headphones, or flexible deadlines when allowed. Small adjustments (like a fidget tool hidden in your pocket or a standing desk) can help channel hyperactivity or sensory needs.* Time Management: Tools are your friends – planners, calendars, reminder apps. Break big projects into bite-size tasks. For example, don't just have “write paper” on the list; break it into “outline ideas,” “write intro,” etc. This reduces overwhelm and gives you little wins.* Leaning In on Strengths: ND people often excel in roles that align with their brains. An ADHD person might do great in a fast-paced, varied job (like first responder or entrepreneur). An autistic person might shine in coding, design, or research. If you can steer your career or course toward your interests, motivation often comes naturally.* Advocacy: Don't be afraid to ask for help. Schools often have services for ADHD/autism (like extra test time or an aide). Workplaces may offer flexible scheduling, mentorship programs, or assistive tech. It's legal in many places to request reasonable accommodations once you disclose a diagnosis. Educators and bosses are becoming more aware – sometimes just explaining “I work/learn best this way” can open doors.Practical Coping Strategies (Evidence-Based!)Alright, let's get to action. Based on brain science and countless success stories, here are some practical strategies to manage ADHD and autism day-to-day. You might already do some of these – try mixing and matching to see what helps most you:* Create Flexible Routines: Daily structure reduces stress. This means a consistent morning routine (e.g., wake up, stretch, eat breakfast at the same time) and evening habits (e.g., lay out clothes for tomorrow, bedtime wind-down). For autistic people, routines are comforting; for ADHD, routines reduce the mental load of deciding what to do next. However, keep it flexible – if something changes, it's okay. Think of routines like gentle rails guiding a train, not jail bars.* Use Tools and Timers: Organization apps, planners, or even sticky notes are life-savers. Write to-do lists and check things off. Use phone alarms for appointments (“Lunch time!”) and timers for work sprints (try 25 minutes focus, 5 minutes break, also known as the Pomodoro Technique). Putting reminders of chores where you'll see them (a note on the mirror, an alarm on your phone) helps counteract those memory glitches.* Create a Calming Environment: Pay attention to sensory needs. If you're easily overwhelmed, tidy your space, dim harsh lights, play gentle ambient sound or white noise, or wear noise-canceling headphones. If you have tactile sensitivities, wear soft fabrics and avoid itchy tags. A water bottle, fidget toy, or stress ball can give restless hands something to do. These tweaks let your brain focus on the task instead of extra sensory input.* Move Your Body Regularly: Physical activity isn't just good for health – it helps brains like ours work better. Short walks, stretching breaks, or even dancing to a favorite song can reset your focus and mood. Many people with ADHD find that moving wakes up the prefrontal cortex to get back on track. Exercise also calms anxiety, which can otherwise clog up thinking. Aim for some exercise every day, even if it's just 10 minutes – your brain will thank you.* Practice Mindfulness: This might sound unusual, but techniques like deep breathing, meditation, or guided relaxation can train your attention and reduce stress. It's like going to the gym for your brain. A simple practice: take 3 deep breaths before a meeting starts, or do a quick “body scan” (focus on relaxing each body part) if you feel wound up. Studies show mindfulness can improve focus in ADHD and help autistic people manage anxiety. It's not a magic fix, but over time it builds mental muscle.* Leverage Your Interests: Special interests and hyperfocus can be strengths. Whenever possible, tie your work or study to something you love. For example, if you love sports stats, try to learn math with sports data; if you adore art, find a way to visualize your notes. Also, don't feel guilty about indulging in your interests – they recharge you. Schedule time for that hobby, or use it as a reward (e.g., after finishing a task, allow yourself to play that game or read that sci-fi story).* Connect with Others: Build a support network. Talk to trusted friends or family members about what helps and what doesn't. Join local or online support groups – hearing how others cope can spark ideas. If you have ND kids or students, share stories of successful ND adults. Remember, you have unique experiences worth sharing. Also, communicate your needs: it's okay to say, “I need quiet time” or “Could you repeat that?” in polite ways.* Seek Professional Help When Needed: Therapy and sometimes medication can be game-changers. ADHD medications (like stimulants) are very effective for many, and therapy (like cognitive-behavioral therapy) can teach coping skills. For autism, therapy can include occupational therapy for sensory issues or social skills training. If anxiety or depression is present (common co-conditions), a counselor or support group can help. Don't hesitate to reach out to specialists or doctors who know about neurodiversity. There's no shame in getting expert help – it's evidence-based self-care.* Practice Self-Compassion: This may be the most important strategy. Recognize ADHD and autism as just parts of who you are, not failures or flaws. When you struggle with tasks or make a social mistake, try talking to yourself kindly: “That was tough, and I'm doing my best.” Celebrate wins, even small ones (finished that report? High-five!). Remember the neurodiversity mantra: different wiring is not broken wiring. Embracing your brain can turn frustration into empowerment. There's a growing community out there cheering you on.Bringing It Home: Stories of ProgressEnough theory – let's hear some successes. Across the neurodivergent community, people are thriving using strategies like these:* A teacher rearranged her classroom so students with ADHD and autism could move seats or use quiet corners when needed. She saw their grades and moods improve dramatically. She says just telling the class “Everyone thinks differently” made the kids feel accepted.* An autistic software developer arranged with her company to work mostly from home. By setting her own schedule and customizing her workspace (dim lighting, minimal noise), her productivity soared. Colleagues marveled at her bug-free code – once she had the right environment, her attention to detail became her superpower.* A college student with both ADHD and autism started using campus disability services. Now she gets extra time on exams and a note-taker. She says what felt like “cheating” at first turned out to be “evening the playing field.” With those supports, she's on track to graduate, and finally believes in herself.At every age, from school kids to CEOs, neurodivergent folks find ways to succeed. Maybe this week you'll try a new app or a different work spot, or open up to a friend about your needs. Every small step is progress.Tips for Parents and EducatorsIf you're listening as a parent or teacher, your understanding is huge for a young neurodivergent person. Here are a few tips:* Listen and Validate: When a child with ADHD/autism says a task is overwhelming or noises are too loud, believe them. Say things like “I hear you, that's really tough.” This reduces anxiety and builds trust.* Be Patient with Behavior: Actions like rocking, jumping, or blurting often serve a purpose (to stay calm or engaged). Instead of punishment, find safe outlets: sensory corners in class, extra recess, or quiet fidget toys.* Teach Organizational Skills: Break tasks into steps on a whiteboard. Use visual schedules (drawings or charts) so children can see the plan. Show them how to use checklists and reminders. These executive skills are not innate to all; children often need practice and coaching.* Focus on Strengths: If a student is passionate about dinosaurs, sneak some science or art into the lesson using dinosaurs. A kid who loves building things might enjoy a math puzzle about construction. When learning connects to interests, engagement skyrockets.* Model Acceptance: Use respectful language. Celebrate neurodiversity! If kids see parents and teachers framing ADHD/autism as just part of human variety (not “bad” or “broken”), they'll carry that positive self-image forward.Wrapping Up: You're Not AloneWe've covered a lot: the unique traits of ADHD and autism, where they overlap, how they affect emotions, thinking, social life, and work, plus practical strategies and real stories. If you're neurodivergent, know this: each brain is unique. What works for one person might not work for another, and that's okay. It's an ongoing journey of trial and feedback.Neuroscience and psychology are learning more every year. Brain research, new therapies, and tools are constantly emerging. Keep an eye out for breakthroughs, but also remember this: the lived experience matters most. You might still have rough days – days when your ADHD makes a simple chore feel impossible or your autism makes you need a long sensory break. That's human. Emotions are part of the ride.The key takeaway: ADHD and autism can bring challenges, but they come with strengths too. Many neurodivergent people are kind, creative, focused, and loyal. By using strategies (and yes, even by laughing at the quirks sometimes), you can handle obstacles and make life smoother. Connect with others who understand, advocate for yourself, and give yourself credit for every small win.Thank you for listening. We hope this episode gave you some insight, tools, and maybe even a few laughs. Remember, you are not defined by these labels – understanding them can give you superpowers over obstacles. Stay curious, stay kind to yourself, and keep talking about neurodiversity. See you next time on the podcast!Links:Show Notes: Welcome to today's episode! We're diving deep into ADHD and autism – what makes them unique, where they overlap, and how they shape day-to-day life. We'll mix neuroscience, the latest research, and real-life stories to make it all click. This show is for neurodivergent adults, and also parents and educators who want to really understand what living with ADHD and autism can be like.Imagine sitting in a meeting: the clock ticks, but your mind is racing on a thousand other things. Or being at a loud party and feeling every light and sound press in on you. Those are snippets of how ADHD or autism can feel. For anyone with these conditions (or both), life can be a wild ride of challenges and unique gifts. But you're not alone – there are science-backed ways to cope and even thrive.In recent years, brain science has been uncovering secrets about ADHD and autism. Researchers use brain scans and cognitive tests to see how neurodivergent brains work differently. We won't get lost in jargon, but the gist is this: ADHD often involves lower activity in brain areas that handle focus, planning, and impulse control – think of it like having a very fast car with weak brakes. Autism often involves brain circuits that are finely tuned, noticing patterns and details that others miss, but also picking up sensory inputs very intensely. So, one brain might crave novelty while needing a tight routine, the other might detect every background sound. Knowing this biological side helps make sense of everyday experiences.ADHD: A Brain That Zigs When Others ZagADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, shows up as three main quirks:* Trouble sustaining attention: Daydreaming or being easily distracted, missing details.* Impulsivity: Acting or speaking without thinking it through (like blurting an answer or grabbing the last slice of pizza on a whim).* Hyperactivity: Feeling restless or fidgety, like you have to move even when you're sitting still.Some people call the ADHD brain “a race car with fuzzy brakes.” Neuroscientists tell us ADHD brains often have lower levels of neurotransmitters like dopamine and norepinephrine, especially in the prefrontal cortex (the area acting like the brain's CEO). That makes it harder to plan, stay organized, or resist impulses. For example, you might forget appointments, interrupt conversations, or feel like you have to pace when sitting.On the flip side, ADHD brains can hyperfocus on things they love. Picture an editor sitting at a cluttered desk. The sound of typing is soothing… until a stray light catches the editor's eye. Suddenly they are deep in a Wikipedia spiral about vintage computers and forget the report due tomorrow. They laugh later: “I meant to write one paragraph and ended up learning about floppy disks for two hours!” Hyperfocus isn't guaranteed, though. Often tasks we have to do feel like a slog, and we procrastinate until the deadline hits. Then, under panic, our brain goes into overdrive – a burst of productivity called “crunch mode.” It's like living with an internal pressure cooker: long periods of low simmer, then sudden high heat to get things done.Emotionally, ADHD can feel like riding a rollercoaster. You might feel frustration or embarrassment about symptoms (like always losing your keys or blurting out something inappropriate). Anxiety and low self-esteem are common too, especially if you've been scolded or misunderstood a lot. But knowing the brain science behind ADHD brings relief: it's not laziness or a character flaw, it's biology. And that matters, because it means there are ways to help and work with your brain.Autism Spectrum: Sensory Worlds and Special InterestsAutism (Autism Spectrum Disorder) is also a brain difference – but it shows up differently. Key traits include:* Social communication differences: Difficulty reading facial expressions, understanding tone of voice, or navigating small talk.* Repetitive behaviors and routines: Craving sameness, following strict routines, or repeating certain movements (like hand-flapping or lining things up).* Sensory sensitivities: Being bothered by loud noises, bright lights, strong smells, scratchy clothing, or certain tastes.Imagine the brain as a radio receiver. In many autistic people, the dial picks up everything at full volume. So a buzzing neon light or a faint background hum can feel overwhelming. Scientists sometimes talk about an imbalance of excitation and inhibition in the autistic brain – in plain terms, sensory signals can all flood in without enough “filter.” This means autistic people notice fine details (that spider web, that slight pattern in wallpaper) but can be easily overloaded by a busy environment.Anecdote: Take Alex, an autistic architect. She describes going to a big family gathering: “The buzzing lights and overlapping conversations felt like waves crashing on me,” Alex says. “I had to step outside and put my headphones on to avoid a meltdown.” This is common: when too many signals hit at once, an autistic person might feel panic, shutdown, or even a meltdown (an intense emotional response). If things calm down, it's like a storm passing – but the confusion and stress can last for hours after.On the plus side, autism often brings intense interests and superb focus on details. That same Alex can spend hours perfecting a building design or spotting the tiniest crack in a wall that others wouldn't see. Many autistic people excel in fields that match their special interests – like science, art, math, or technology – because they're deeply passionate and not easily bored.Socially, autism can look like missed cues. You might overhear, “Why don't you just look people in the eye?” without realizing eye contact might feel painful or distracting. Or you might get puzzled advice like “don't take that literally,” when you really did mean exactly what you said. Brain imaging shows autistic folks often use different brain networks for social processing, so it can feel like navigating a conversation in a foreign language. That's okay! With understanding and support, autistic people often learn communication tricks that work for them.Where They Overlap: AuDHD and Shared TraitsIt turns out ADHD and autism often go together. Research suggests about half of autistic people also meet criteria for ADHD. Some folks even say they have “AuDHD” (autism+ADHD). If you have both, traits can blend in interesting ways. ADHD might add impulsivity and distractibility, while autism adds sensory needs and craving routine.One person described it like this: “My ADHD mind signs me up for more than my autistic brain can deliver at times.” It's a classic tug-of-war: part of you craves structure, part of you craves novelty. Many with both report feeling like a “walking contradiction” – wanting predictability but also getting bored by too much predictability.Shared challenges can include:* Executive function struggles: Both conditions can make organizing tasks, planning ahead, or switching activities hard. It can feel like your brain's to-do list app keeps crashing.* Sensory quirks: While sensory overload is famous in autism, ADHDers can also be sensitive (or sometimes under-sensitive) to sensory input. Both might need fidget toys or headphones to stay comfortable.* Emotional intensity: Both ADHD and autism are linked to higher anxiety, mood swings, or “meltdowns.” The brain chemistry and life stressors (feeling different, facing stigma) both play a role.* Trouble with transitions: Starting or stopping tasks can be super hard. You might think you can drop one activity and switch to another on cue, but often it feels like a gradual drift or a sudden jolt instead.Think of having both as juggling snowballs in a windstorm. For example, imagine someone with both ADHD and autism. They love a morning routine of coffee and crosswords, but if they miss that coffee (coffee catastrophe!), their ADHD brain causes a frantic search for the mug while their autism makes every change feel like a crash. If they try a new latte shop (novelty alert!), the ADHD part is excited but the autism part panics over the unpredictable ordering system. It's tricky.However, there are strengths too. Many people with AuDHD report creativity and unique problem-solving. They often see details and big patterns at once. For example, they might notice a statistic (detail) and also have a wild new idea (big picture) about it. The key is managing the quirks to let those superpowers shine.Daily Life Impact: Emotions, Thinking, Social, and WorkLiving with ADHD and/or autism can color every part of life. Let's break down some common areas:EmotionallyLiving with ADHD or autism can feel like having an emotional accelerator and brake pedal that sometimes fail. You might swing quickly from excitement to frustration. Frustration and anxiety often come from feeling misunderstood or not in control. Little surprises (a canceling a plan, a sudden noise) can trigger big reactions. If you've been punished for symptoms out of your control, you might have long-standing low self-esteem. Remember: getting emotional about these challenges is normal. It helps to remind yourself that meltdowns or outbursts are signals — your brain's way of saying it needs a break or some support, not proof that you're failing. After the episode, self-care and a bit of self-compassion (“That was tough, but I survived”) can help you recover and learn.Many neurodivergent people use humor as a lifesaver. Joking about “my ADHD brain is like a puppy on espresso” or “my daily meltdown wardrobe” can help talk about tough stuff more easily. Sometimes laughing at ourselves (gently, not harshly) reminds us that everyone has quirks.CognitivelyNeurodivergent minds often have a unique thinking style — like a maze and a playground at once. Here are a few common cognitive features:* Attention: ADHD means your attention is selective. You might ignore something boring (like scrolling through your phone in a dull lecture) and yet get laser-focused on something else (like planning the ultimate pizza toppings). Autism, too, can involve deep focus — on a special interest, that same lecture if it's on your passion topic, or even on everyday details most people miss. In either case, switching gears can be hard. Interrupting deep thought to do something mundane is like a rude alarm clock that nobody asked for.* Memory & Organization: These brains may misplace keys, appointments, or even thoughts. Working memory feels like a leaky bucket — once a distraction hits, stuff goes out. You might set a reminder on your phone, forget about it five minutes later, then panic when the date passes. Or you keep 100 tabs open in your brain, and sometimes one of them quietly closes without telling you. This isn't forgetfulness; it's the brain's attention and memory systems juggling too much.* Processing Speed: Some people think very fast (“see” many thoughts at once), others very slowly, or even seem to “lag” when switching tasks. For example, someone might need extra time to formulate an answer in conversation, even if they could write it perfectly later. Don't mistake a short pause for a problem with intelligence — it's just how the mind processes information.Social LifeNavigating social waters can be bumpy for ADHD and autism, but there are ways to manage. For example:* Social Cues: Autistic folks might miss a sarcastic tone or not get why everyone laughed. ADHD folks might interrupt without meaning to or blurt out irrelevant stuff. Both can accidentally seem “awkward” or “rude” when really they just didn't pick up cues. One trick is to be upfront: it's okay to say, “Hey, I have ADHD/autism, sometimes I need a little extra time or clarity.” Often people are understanding if they know.* Friendships: You might find yourself drifting between friend groups or feeling out of sync. It's common to form one very close friendship rather than a big circle. That's fine! Focus on quality over quantity. Some neurodivergent people prefer one-on-one hangouts or quiet meetups rather than crowded parties.* Support: Having friends or family who “get it” makes a huge difference. Find people (even online) who understand ND humor and vibe. Parents and educators, it helps to show kids or teens examples of famous or everyday people who are thriving with ADHD/autism, so they know they're not alone.Work and SchoolIn jobs and classes, ADHD and autism present both challenges and strengths. Many ND people become A+ in their passion subjects but struggle in areas they find boring or disorganized. The good news is, accommodations can help:* Structure and Environment: If possible, pick a study or work spot with fewer distractions. Use earbuds with soft music to drown out noisy offices. Request a quiet corner, noise-canceling headphones, or flexible deadlines when allowed. Small adjustments (like a fidget tool hidden in your pocket or a standing desk) can help channel hyperactivity or sensory needs.* Time Management: Tools are your friends – planners, calendars, reminder apps. Break big projects into bite-size tasks. For example, don't just have “write paper” on the list; break it into “outline ideas,” “write intro,” etc. This reduces overwhelm and gives you little wins.* Leaning In on Strengths: ND people often excel in roles that align with their brains. An ADHD person might do great in a fast-paced, varied job (like first responder or entrepreneur). An autistic person might shine in coding, design, or research. If you can steer your career or course toward your interests, motivation often comes naturally.* Advocacy: Don't be afraid to ask for help. Schools often have services for ADHD/autism (like extra test time or an aide). Workplaces may offer flexible scheduling, mentorship programs, or assistive tech. It's legal in many places to request reasonable accommodations once you disclose a diagnosis. Educators and bosses are becoming more aware – sometimes just explaining “I work/learn best this way” can open doors.Practical Coping Strategies (Evidence-Based!)Alright, let's get to action. Based on brain science and countless success stories, here are some practical strategies to manage ADHD and autism day-to-day. You might already do some of these – try mixing and matching to see what helps most you:* Create Flexible Routines: Daily structure reduces stress. This means a consistent morning routine (e.g., wake up, stretch, eat breakfast at the same time) and evening habits (e.g., lay out clothes for tomorrow, bedtime wind-down). For autistic people, routines are comforting; for ADHD, routines reduce the mental load of deciding what to do next. However, keep it flexible – if something changes, it's okay. Think of routines like gentle rails guiding a train, not jail bars.* Use Tools and Timers: Organization apps, planners, or even sticky notes are life-savers. Write to-do lists and check things off. Use phone alarms for appointments (“Lunch time!”) and timers for work sprints (try 25 minutes focus, 5 minutes break, also known as the Pomodoro Technique). Putting reminders of chores where you'll see them (a note on the mirror, an alarm on your phone) helps counteract those memory glitches.* Create a Calming Environment: Pay attention to sensory needs. If you're easily overwhelmed, tidy your space, dim harsh lights, play gentle ambient sound or white noise, or wear noise-canceling headphones. If you have tactile sensitivities, wear soft fabrics and avoid itchy tags. A water bottle, fidget toy, or stress ball can give restless hands something to do. These tweaks let your brain focus on the task instead of extra sensory input.* Move Your Body Regularly: Physical activity isn't just good for health – it helps brains like ours work better. Short walks, stretching breaks, or even dancing to a favorite song can reset your focus and mood. Many people with ADHD find that moving wakes up the prefrontal cortex to get back on track. Exercise also calms anxiety, which can otherwise clog up thinking. Aim for some exercise every day, even if it's just 10 minutes – your brain will thank you.* Practice Mindfulness: This might sound unusual, but techniques like deep breathing, meditation, or guided relaxation can train your attention and reduce stress. It's like going to the gym for your brain. A simple practice: take 3 deep breaths before a meeting starts, or do a quick “body scan” (focus on relaxing each body part) if you feel wound up. Studies show mindfulness can improve focus in ADHD and help autistic people manage anxiety. It's not a magic fix, but over time it builds mental muscle.* Leverage Your Interests: Special interests and hyperfocus can be strengths. Whenever possible, tie your work or study to something you love. For example, if you love sports stats, try to learn math with sports data; if you adore art, find a way to visualize your notes. Also, don't feel guilty about indulging in your interests – they recharge you. Schedule time for that hobby, or use it as a reward (e.g., after finishing a task, allow yourself to play that game or read that sci-fi story).* Connect with Others: Build a support network. Talk to trusted friends or family members about what helps and what doesn't. Join local or online support groups – hearing how others cope can spark ideas. If you have ND kids or students, share stories of successful ND adults. Remember, you have unique experiences worth sharing. Also, communicate your needs: it's okay to say, “I need quiet time” or “Could you repeat that?” in polite ways.* Seek Professional Help When Needed: Therapy and sometimes medication can be game-changers. ADHD medications (like stimulants) are very effective for many, and therapy (like cognitive-behavioral therapy) can teach coping skills. For autism, therapy can include occupational therapy for sensory issues or social skills training. If anxiety or depression is present (common co-conditions), a counselor or support group can help. Don't hesitate to reach out to specialists or doctors who know about neurodiversity. There's no shame in getting expert help – it's evidence-based self-care.* Practice Self-Compassion: This may be the most important strategy. Recognize ADHD and autism as just parts of who you are, not failures or flaws. When you struggle with tasks or make a social mistake, try talking to yourself kindly: “That was tough, and I'm doing my best.” Celebrate wins, even small ones (finished that report? High-five!). Remember the neurodiversity mantra: different wiring is not broken wiring. Embracing your brain can turn frustration into empowerment. There's a growing community out there cheering you on.Bringing It Home: Stories of ProgressEnough theory – let's hear some successes. Across the neurodivergent community, people are thriving using strategies like these:* A teacher rearranged her classroom so students with ADHD and autism could move seats or use quiet corners when needed. She saw their grades and moods improve dramatically. She says just telling the class “Everyone thinks differently” made the kids feel accepted.* An autistic software developer arranged with her company to work mostly from home. By setting her own schedule and customizing her workspace (dim lighting, minimal noise), her productivity soared. Colleagues marveled at her bug-free code – once she had the right environment, her attention to detail became her superpower.* A college student with both ADHD and autism started using campus disability services. Now she gets extra time on exams and a note-taker. She says what felt like “cheating” at first turned out to be “evening the playing field.” With those supports, she's on track to graduate, and finally believes in herself.At every age, from school kids to CEOs, neurodivergent folks find ways to succeed. Maybe this week you'll try a new app or a different work spot, or open up to a friend about your needs. Every small step is progress.Tips for Parents and EducatorsIf you're listening as a parent or teacher, your understanding is huge for a young neurodivergent person. Here are a few tips:* Listen and Validate: When a child with ADHD/autism says a task is overwhelming or noises are too loud, believe them. Say things like “I hear you, that's really tough.” This reduces anxiety and builds trust.* Be Patient with Behavior: Actions like rocking, jumping, or blurting often serve a purpose (to stay calm or engaged). Instead of punishment, find safe outlets: sensory corners in class, extra recess, or quiet fidget toys.* Teach Organizational Skills: Break tasks into steps on a whiteboard. Use visual schedules (drawings or charts) so children can see the plan. Show them how to use checklists and reminders. These executive skills are not innate to all; children often need practice and coaching.* Focus on Strengths: If a student is passionate about dinosaurs, sneak some science or art into the lesson using dinosaurs. A kid who loves building things might enjoy a math puzzle about construction. When learning connects to interests, engagement skyrockets.* Model Acceptance: Use respectful language. Celebrate neurodiversity! If kids see parents and teachers framing ADHD/autism as just part of human variety (not “bad” or “broken”), they'll carry that positive self-image forward.Wrapping Up: You're Not AloneWe've covered a lot: the unique traits of ADHD and autism, where they overlap, how they affect emotions, thinking, social life, and work, plus practical strategies and real stories. If you're neurodivergent, know this: each brain is unique. What works for one person might not work for another, and that's okay. It's an ongoing journey of trial and feedback.Neuroscience and psychology are learning more every year. Brain research, new therapies, and tools are constantly emerging. Keep an eye out for breakthroughs, but also remember this: the lived experience matters most. You might still have rough days – days when your ADHD makes a simple chore feel impossible or your autism makes you need a long sensory break. That's human. Emotions are part of the ride.The key takeaway: ADHD and autism can bring challenges, but they come with strengths too. Many neurodivergent people are kind, creative, focused, and loyal. By using strategies (and yes, even by laughing at the quirks sometimes), you can handle obstacles and make life smoother. Connect with others who understand, advocate for yourself, and give yourself credit for every small win.Thank you for listening. We hope this episode gave you some insight, tools, and maybe even a few laughs. Remember, you are not defined by these labels – understanding them can give you superpowers over obstacles. Stay curious, stay kind to yourself, and keep talking about neurodiversity. See you next time on the podcast! Get full access to carmen_authenticallyadhd at carmenauthenticallyadhd.substack.com/subscribe

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In Touch invites three stand-up comedians - Jake Donaldson, Sydney May and Lizzy Lenco - to discuss how they use their blindness as a source of material in their comedy routines.For more information on our three comedians and where to see them live: Jake Donaldson: linktr.ee/jakedonaldson Sydney May: sydneymay.co.uk and Sydney May on social media. Lizzy Lenco on social media.Presenter: Peter White Producer: Beth Hemmings Production Coordinator: Jack Thomason Website image description: Peter White sits smiling in the centre of the image and he is wearing a dark green jumper. Above Peter's head is the BBC logo (three separate white squares house each of the three letters). Bottom centre and overlaying the image are the words "In Touch" and the Radio 4 logo (the word ‘radio' in a bold white font, with the number 4 inside of a white circle). The background is a bright mid-blue with two rectangles angled diagonally to the right. Both are behind Peter, one is a darker blue and the other is a lighter blue.

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The After Party Merch store is now open! Check out afterpartyinc.com. On this episode we feature the return of Kayla and Tori comes on for some redemption! We talk exes, crazy R&B brunch stories and answer some horny questions you wouldn't believe the answers to! Follow us on social media @AaronScenesAfterParty Watch the full video and listen to the episode on all platforms and head over to our instagram @ AaronScenesAfterParty

Joking about pride ended up leading us to an organic conversation about the meaning of scripture and where the line is on being able to choose it's meaning. While there are a lot of misused verses, there is also room for a different application of the same scripture in our own life. 

Stuart Laws is a comedian, actor, writer, producer, editor and director. He performs sketch comedy and stand-up comedy. He supported James Acaster on his UK tours and has appeared on and written for Radio 4, has two specials on NextUp Comedy, one on American label 800 Pound Gorilla Media, and has written a play The Journey, that debuted at The Edinburgh Fringe at The Pleasance in 2018. In 2021, he was nominated for Leicester Comedy Festival Best Show and in 2022 he was nominated for Comedians Choice Best Show. In 2023, his Fringe show was awarded 4.5 stars by Chortle. ​Stuart runs his own production company, Turtle Canyon Comedy, and writes and directs sketch shows, sitcoms, live shows and specials that have been shown on Netflix, Prime, BBC, Sky, ITV, Channel 4 and more. Stuart has directed Sindhu Vee, Nish Kumar, Rosie Jones, Suzi Ruffell, Paul Foot, Ivo Graham, Jess Fostekew, Jen Brister and Ian Smith's Specials. Stuart had a breakout year at Edinburgh Fringe 2024 for review with 9 x 4-star reviews and a British Comedy Guide Recommendation. Stuart was featured in The Scotsman, The Guardian, the I newspaper, 5 live and in the Times and the Telegraph best jokes of the Fringe selections. Stuart's most recent directing project is James Acaster's ‘Hecklers Welcome', Acaster's first HBO Special. His latest special, ‘Stuart Laws, Is That Guy Still Going?' Is now available on YouTube under 800 pound gorilla (links below). Comedy shows – Stuart Laws has to be Joking?: Everyone's dealt with it: first, a bad breakup; then, become a puffin island caretaker; suddenly, you're implicated in a puffin murder. A classic. You know how it goes. A vibe shift for acclaimed comedian Stuart Laws. ****½ (Chortle.co.uk). Stand-up comedy/theatre hybrid. Praise for his previous theatrical work: 'I left this show with the chills and feeling just a bit shaken' (MumbleTheatre.uk). 'It is really smart stuff, elegantly exposing hypocrisy' (Stage). 'Fantastically funny' (EdFestMag.com). 'One of the most skilled and likeable comics... a deliciously joke-dense show' (Scotsman). We chat about Michael Caine's iconic delivery of the line ‘Never' and making a show about it, directing and producing, his new Edinburgh shows, authenticity and real self, almost quitting comedy, flow state, being good at comedy, saying no, posting quality plus plenty more! Check Stuart out on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stuartlawscomedy/ Comedy Special: https://800pgr.lnk.to/thatguy?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeMNrDccTIlOuMFvbbVBvalQL4Dp6yMwvA8t0TklzMLkY89HvRCdrwyOLpkSQ_aem_S4AT3qIopeJHSO5szqwoCQ   Tickets: https://linktr.ee/stuartlawscomedy?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacaAgRfREt9v53YRPXM9SfwuD64zafU06nEfaN9iKjqQuz--Nm-SOz1Kbizhg_aem_Mi6Sbw1Foi1AZrkeIQictA Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC97T7gP1Ai1z19MR3-S40vw Website: https://www.stuartlaws.com/ ------------------------------------------- Follow @Funny in Failure on Instagram and Facebook https://www.instagram.com/funnyinfailure/ https://www.facebook.com/funnyinfailure/ and @Michael_Kahan on Insta & Twitter to keep up to date with the latest info. https://www.instagram.com/michael_kahan/ https://twitter.com/Michael_Kahan

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Amy interviews her pregnant classmates for the school paper.Based on a post by shimm2, in 2 parts. Listen to the ► Podcast at Steamy Stories. It was a Friday night with nothing else going on, and Amy was hanging out at her friend Jill's house."Now that we're in the home stretch here, we should let loose a little," Amy said. They were both admitted to college, and sure to graduate high school."You mean like have affairs with older Casanova's?" Jill teased.Amy laughed. Jill knew that Alonso, who had been her Spanish tutor, had become something more. Amy told Jill one version of it, anyway."I meant maybe we should raid your dad's liquor cabinet," Amy said."I can't," Jill said quickly.When she didn't elaborate, Amy asked, "Not in the mood for a drink?"A longer pause. Then Jill explained quietly, "I'm pregnant.""What?" Amy's world came to a screeching halt.Sure, this kind of thing happened to other girls sometimes, but that was other girls. Not girls like Amy. She'd had it drilled into her all her life that there was a narrow path to success in this world, and not a lot of room for error. And a teenage pregnancy would definitely count as an error. And an unforced error at that. It wasn't that Amy was ashamed of sex or didn't enjoy it herself, but;"All you had to do is take precautions," Amy said. "It's so simple. How could you?"Jill was supposed to be one of the good ones, like her. Sure, she'd been hooking up with Dave, but how could she be so stupid? Amy felt dizzy and nauseous herself."What the fuck?" Amy said, finding herself shouting."'What the fuck' is right," Jill said, blinking away tears. "I know it's a surprise, but this isn't something happening to you.""Not happening to me? I'm losing my best friend!" Amy said, getting up off the floor. She couldn't sit still, not while this was happening."Maybe you are," Jill said. "I; I think you should go."Amy rushed out, not because she needed permission or needed to be told, but because she didn't know how to handle this.It was a mile walk home, which helped her unwind, but didn't really clear her head. If Jill was going to get an abortion, then maybe it wasn't that big a deal. But if she wasn't willing to drink, that meant she had other plans. Plans she must have been hiding from her. Amy wondered how long this situation had already been going on. How long Jill had kept it a secret from her already. She didn't think Jill looked pregnant yet, but now she wasn't so sure. She wasn't sure of anything. It had rattled her whole worldview.When she went to school the next day, and it seemed like pregnancy was everywhere she looked. There were a couple girls with rounded bellies that stood out in the hallway. For girls that had already given birth, there was even a lactation room for them to use, repurposed from a supply closet. She saw a couple girls queuing outside it, waiting for their turn.She had kind of taken it for granted that this kind of thing happened. But now it was hitting close to home, and it seemed almost like an epidemic that was catching. Amy had heard of "baby fever" where spending time around pregnant women made you more fertile. She started to fear that at some point the school as a whole would reach a tipping point, where there'd be no stopping the trend."What's your next story going to be?" Barb, the head of the school paper asked her, in school the next day. "Amy?""Oh. Right," Amy said, trying to refocus. "Have any of you noticed how many girls in our school get pregnant?""Sure," her classmate Bill said. "It happens, and we're a large school with a slightly higher than average rate of teen pregnancy, so there's definitely a few around.""I; I just don't understand it," Amy said with frustration. She felt guilty about how she reacted to Jill's news, but Jill was avoiding her today, and Amy wasn't ready to make up yet. She realized she needed to work on herself first. "Like, how could you let that happen to you?""Not everyone 'lets it happen'," Maria said across the table."I know that rape is a problem, but most of the pregnancies around here aren't from that, or we'd see more boys getting charged.""You can't know that for sure," Maria said. "It often goes unreported.""I don't think it's as simple as you think," Bill said."Well I think it is," Amy said, trying not to get too wound up. "So I want to understand why it happens. I'm thinking, an interview series with girls who are pregnant or have been in the past."Bard said, "Okay. It's a touchy subject, so tread carefully. I look forward to reading your piece when it's done."After school, Amy went over to Alonso's house. He had been tutoring her in Spanish, up until she aced the AP exam and then finally gave herself permission to kiss him. That ended their tutoring relationship, and started the relationship they had now.He answered the door in a bathrobe, and brought her in quickly. She'd been eighteen when they first kissed, but he was still self-conscious about being seen with her. And it wasn't like Amy was going to introduce him to her mother or anything. What they had was raw and physical. Except for the "raw" part.In his bedroom, she took off her shirt, and he embraced her from behind, kissing her on the back of her neck as his hands reached around for her breasts. It made her breath catch every time.He undid her pants as she leaned back, melting into him. She could feel his cock pressing against her from behind. She climbed onto the bed and paused on all fours, and asked, "Is this how you want me?""No foreplay?" he asked."I'm in a wild mood today," she said."Training wheels on or off?" he asked.She reached down and fished a twenty dollar bill out of her pocket, and put it on the nightstand. This was part of their arrangement from the start.He knew she was a virgin while he was; the exact opposite. He considered sex with a condom to be just practice for the real thing. And while he had enjoyed tutoring her, he wasn't going to tutor her for free. So when she wanted him to use a condom, she had to pay. She could hardly complain about the education he was giving her, but it was becoming harder to find the money.Now when she felt him pressing into her from behind, she asked to double check, "Is it on?"Alonso chuckled softly to himself. "Let's consider this a teachable moment. I want you to focus on how it feels, and see if you can tell for yourself."After all thinking about Jill and seeing all the other pregnant girls at school that day, and thinking about her assignment, Amy wanted to be certain. She resented being denied that, but for the moment she played along.She focused on where they were in contact, his flared cock head pressing into the opening of her vagina. Even just that little bit of him was an intense pressure inside of her; sometimes she couldn't take the full length of him. It felt so, so good, and made her hunger to feel him push deeper into her. Of course that would be a mistake if he wasn't wearing protection. She wanted to push her hips back against him; it took all her resolve not to. Not yet. But even when she tried to analyze everything she was feeling down there, she couldn't tell. It felt like it always did, although concentrating on it made it more intense.Would he really penetrate her bareback? She didn't think so, not when she was paying him, but she couldn't be entirely sure. Guys pulled this kind of trick all the time, and she couldn't count on Alonso being better than them. Which meant that even this contact of his tip to her hole was dangerous. Her heart was starting to race."I don't know, okay?" she said, feeling defeated and inadequate."It's okay," he said soothingly. "You don't have any basis of comparison. Someday you will. We can try that whenever you're ready."She didn't like the fact that she couldn't tell. It worried her, even now, that he could slip it off and she might not even know."Okay," she said. "Show me."She felt feverish and tense. She almost jumped when she felt him nudge against her again. Just the tip, barely inside of her, and he stopped there, letting her feel it.He felt bigger, if she wasn't fooling herself. And the friction between them was; different. She could feel more of the flare of his cock's head."More," she said.He slid more of his shaft into her. She was incredibly wet, fitting him in more easily than usual, even though he definitely felt bigger without a condom on. And then he stopped there, letting her savor the sensations. This was different, and she was relieved that she could tell the difference so clearly. Even so, it made her aware of what she'd been missing out on all this time. She knew she was lucky he wasn't actively fucking her, because she wasn't sure she'd want to stop.His cock pulsed inside her, and Amy recognized that. Whenever she was sucking or jacking him off, his cock would do that sometimes, and a drip of precum would glide down from the top. Feeling that happen inside her was a reminder that this wasn't safe. She had already gotten carried away, but she had to stop it there. She pulled away, and even the feeling of his shaft on its way out of her was delicious."You want the condom back on?" he asked. "Or another blind test?""Back on, please," she said, desperate now for relief.When he slid into her again, she could tell he had the condom on again. It paled in comparison, but for better or worse, it got her mind off the risks involved. Though as they fucked, she kept thinking with disbelief that she'd actually let him put it in her bare. What if that was all it took?She was worked up already, and fast approaching her climax. But Alonso reached his first, maybe worked up by their little transgression. Amy could feel it when he filled up the reservoir tip inside her; she wondered how that part would feel without the condom, but that would definitely be going too far. A surefire recipe for baby batter.Knowing she was close, he kept thrusting into her, and she didn't want to stop, but she kept thinking about what would happen if the condom slipped off now. If that happened, it would be too late by the time either of them realized what happened."I can't. I can't," she said, pulling herself off his cock. To her relief, the condom was still on and still holding all of his load, as far as she could tell anyway."Not a problem," he said. "You lie down, I'll take care of the rest."He spread her legs and brought his mouth to her crotch. Soon she writhed and whimpered, but it was bittersweet. It wasn't the kind of climax she wanted most."Do you want to talk about it?" he asked afterwards. "Why you're so paranoid about this today?"She explained about Jill, and her story for the paper, and all the other pregnant girls, and how she worried it might be catching, but also saw no excuse for not taking simple precautions."So what?" Alonso said. "Women get pregnant all the time. It's not right or wrong. It's a natural process. It just happens sometimes.""Well, not to me, if I can help it," she said. Alonso laughed at that. "What's so funny?""It's just," he gestured to her form, up and down. "Look at you. Thick thighs. Wide hips. Plump breasts. You're built for it. It's going to happen, sooner or later."The way he was looking at her made her feel sexy, but what he was saying scared her. And she worried he might get carried away if they continued down this train of thought. They both might get carried away."I've got to go," she said, getting dressed."Don't be ashamed. It's what I'm attracted to," he said.At lunch the next day, Amy sat down next to Helen, who was gorging herself on peanut butter. Helen's dowdy clothes did little to hide the almost spherical bulge underneath."It's Helen, right?" Amy said. "I'm doing a story on the teen moms in our school. I wondered if you might share how you ended up; uh; pregnant." It sounded more awkward out loud."Glad to talk about it!" Helen said. "I'm just so proud to be bringing this little one into the world. It's the best thing I've ever done."Her attitude was utterly foreign to Amy. "So you got pregnant on purpose?""Well of course! I would only ever have sex for the sake of procreation," Helen said. "The only sin involved here is that Zeke and I consummated our marriage a little early.""Oh, congratulations! When did you get engaged?" Amy asked.She was getting the sense that this conversation wasn't going to do anything to help her understand what goes into an accidental pregnancy, and thought Helen wouldn't want to get into the juicy details anyway.Helen blushed. "Funny story, we did get engaged before we conceived, but; well; it was a matter of seconds."Her words painted a clear picture in Amy's mind. Helen and Zeke, conjoined and about to knowingly make a baby, and committing to marriage in that moment. She couldn't picture herself doing that, but it did have a certain allure. Maybe someday, with the right guy.That Friday, Amy turned her room upside down looking for cash. She had to have a twenty here somewhere. She couldn't be dead broke, could she? She couldn't keep asking her mom for cash without explaining where it was going. Otherwise maybe it was time to get a job. But not in time to meet up with Alonso that afternoon.As she went to Alonso's place, she reasoned that there were plenty of other things they could do, rather than risk it. But even after he ate her out, she found herself wanting more."Come on, can't we just skip the twenty dollars?" she asked. "Or you could spot me. I'll have it soon."He ran a finger close to her nipple, keeping her aroused. "If you go into debt with me, the conditions might be more than you're expecting."He was right. The glint in his eye made it clear that he would use her how he wanted if she gave him that opportunity. And then all her money spent on condoms would be effectively down the drain. It scared her, but she also felt her hips shift of their own accord, eager for that punishment."How about this. We could play a round of roulette for free. Fifty-fifty odds. What do you think?"Oh god, he had her on edge, and he was asking her to leave her fate entirely to chance. Better than nothing, she supposed. She felt her pussy becoming absolutely soaked."You know that letting you ejaculate inside me is something I can't afford. That would cost me a lot more than twenty dollars.""What do you mean, 'let me'? When I ejaculate inside you, it'll be your choice as much as mine."There was a lot to unpack there. 'When'? Like it was inevitably going to happen? And Amy wasn't so sure it'd be intentional. It could be accidental for them both.He got up and handed her a blindfold. Funny, how he had that handy. "We can stop whenever you want."So she could take the fifty-fifty odds, and if she could tell that he wasn't wearing a condom, she could call it off."Fine, I'll play your game," she said, tying on the blindfold. "Will you warn me when you're about to cum?""That would be cheating, would it not?" he replied. "Trust your instincts. You know what my tells are by now."Lying on her back on the bed, she heard a coin flip, and if he was tearing open a condom wrapper, she didn't hear him do it. Soon she felt the bed shift as he joined her on it, and she reached out, finding him by touch. It was a new thrill, discovering the shape of his body all over again like this.He kissed her shoulder, her collarbone. It was like he was everywhere at once, she couldn't predict where he'd kiss her next. The heat was radiating from him as he loomed over her, close enough that she could feel the thin line of hair down past his belly button. And then there was the pressure, aimed perfectly true, pressing her open for him.As he crossed that threshold again, she remembered what it felt like before, both of the ways it felt, and she was pretty sure this time he was wearing a condom. He pressed into her depths, to where she had to stretch to accommodate him. The air left her lungs and she felt like she was never going to get it back."Mm, I can't believe we waited this long to do it this way," he muttered in her ear. She could hear the smile."You mean blindfolded?" she asked."I mean raw. Unprotected. I always knew it was going to happen eventually," he said.Her rational mind was repulsed at the thought, and all that came along with it. But it also gave her an unexpected thrill. But; he had to be psyching her out, right? She was pretty sure he was wearing protection; unless that was just wishful thinking."Hang on," she said, and he stopped thrusting into her, but he was still there, tantalizing her. "You are wearing a condom, right?"Inside her, his cock spasmed as if in response. It would be weeping precum, which could be carrying a few of his sperm."Amy, I can't tell you that," he said.She was almost sure she could feel the ring of latex at the bottom of the condom. Almost."I know you are. I guessed correctly, so now there's no harm in confirming it," she said."Oh? That's your guess?" he asked. "We can stop anytime you like. Heck, you can take off the blindfold anytime you like. Either way, it's game over.""Come on, that's not fair," she said."Fair? I've played by your rules for months. This is a compromise," he said.If he wasn't playing by her rules, did that mean he was breaking them? He started moving in her again, and it was a struggle to hang on to conscious thought."But you're trying to get me to believe you're not wearing a condom right now. If I that's true, we have to stop. Are you trying to convince me to stop?""No, I want you to be honest with yourself when you decide not to. Someday soon you're going to willingly give up your silly little precautions and accept the inevitable. You're going to get yourself knocked up, and you're going to know exactly what you're doing when you do it.""No; " she objected, but his words, combined with his cock probing her depths, his entire body wrapped around hers, teasing her with every touch, all of that screamed otherwise. He had to be wrong about her, she thought. She just wasn't sure how to prove that, when she was arching her back into his embrace, gasping in his ear.When she said no, he stopped moving, but that wasn't what she meant or what she wanted. "Don't stop!" she pleaded. She was so close.He didn't tell her he was cumming, but he was right that she could tell when it was about to happen. He pushed harder into her. She wondered, if she were smaller or less sturdy, whether she might break under the strain. She could feel the muscles in his arms tensing. He swelled up inside her, and she prayed that she was right about there being a condom between them.Then after one more long pulse, their bodies as tightly coupled as they could physically be, she felt the warmth of his ejaculate. When it stayed put and didn't spread, she felt a conflicted twinge of disappointment and relief. No catastrophe today. But it was still enough to push her over the edge. Her orgasm rolled through her hard enough that she wondered if her vaginal muscles might pull the condom right off him anyhow, the way they clenched down on him.The next week, Amy managed to track down Carmen for her interview series. Carmen wasn't so far along, but everybody knew she was pregnant, for now at least."First question. Are you planning to carry it to term?" Amy asked, getting her laptop out."Hm, I don't know yet, to be honest. It would have been simpler to get an abortion earlier on, but; maybe this is weird; it's been kind of a turn on." She rubbed her belly suggestively.Carmen was a thin, with a pixie-ish bowl cut of fading green hair. Amy wondered if Carmen was flirting with her, not that she was interested."So you might keep it?""Yeah, maybe. It's not that big a deal. I could put the baby up for adoption if I have to. But also, like, I've got a support network. It'll be fine."Carmen seemed so unconcerned about her impending parenthood, that Amy was starting to feel stressed on her behalf."So how did it happen?""What, do you need a biology lesson?" Carmen said. "Joking. I've always been turned on by the feeling of a guy cumming inside me. I mean it's physically intense, like it really does the trick for me, but also, like, it's physical proof that he's climaxing, and that it was me who brought him to orgasm. And that is just the hottest thing, when I'm cumming right along with him. You know?"Amy glanced around to make sure they were alone within earshot. She couldn't believe Carmen was talking about this so explicitly, but it just seemed to be who she was."No, I, " She caught herself before admitting to this girl that she had never had a man cum inside her before. But Carmen carried on, not noticing."And then, whenever there was a risk of pregnancy, past tense now, you see, that was even more intense. When he's releasing his sperm inside you, and you know those sperm could get you pregnant, and you feel it happen, knowing you might get pregnant from it, and you want it, oh my god, it's the most. It makes me have the hugest multiple orgasms ever. Like almost to the point of blacking out."Despite herself, Amy was getting wet in her chair. She was suddenly having a lot of ideas that hadn't seemed like good ideas a minute ago. She wanted to go to Alonso and tear his clothes off and have raw, animalistic, but told herself she was just sympathetic to Carmen's story. These weren't her own attitudes towards pregnancy risk and cream pies. Her porn viewing tended to skew that way, but that was different. This was the real world, where those things were for people other than her. People who made life-changing mistakes."Sorry, you were asking when it happened?" Carmen said. "Okay, so I know the weekend that it happened, but; I couldn't tell you exactly which time it happened or whose baby it is, because we had a lot of fun that weekend. It's okay though, because the two guys at the cabin were cousins, so it's basically the same genes either way.""Oh my god," Amy said without thinking."I know, right?" Carmen said. "And now I'll always have a memento from that experience."Amy typed up her notes afterward, because she was too distracted during the interview itself to write anything down.She didn't know where this story was heading. She went into it expecting cautionary tales, but she'd talked to a Christian fundamentalist and a Satanist nymphomaniac, and both of them had embraced motherhood knowingly and willingly.It almost made Amy start to feel like the weird one, for being so decidedly against reproducing, and being so careful to avoid it. And yet, when Carmen talked about the things that turned her on, it resonated with something in her too.To be continued in part 2, based on a post by shimm2 for Literotica.

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