Podcast appearances and mentions of charlie glickman

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with PhD, Sex and Relationship Coach, Sexuality Educator, and Sexological Bodyworker Charlie Glickman. Charlie shares his extensive experience and wisdom from over three decades of working in the field of sexuality education. We talk about his book,  "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure" providing listeners with an in-depth look at the pleasures and benefits of prostate stimulation for cisgender men, as well as touching on experiences for transgender women, non-binary, and gender-neutral individuals with prostates. As Charlie shares about his own journey to sexual education, he shares about the importance of somatic education in learning about one's erotic experience. We also talk about anal play sharing methods to overcome common concerns such as fear of pain or concerns about masculinity and sexual orientation. He gives us some valuable tools for respectful language to help create pressure-free sexual environments with your partner.  Charlie leaves us with encouragement to embrace sex positivity and an invitation to explore the transformative power of vulnerability in intimate relationships.   Learn more at about Charlie   www.makesexeasy.com Twitter charlieglickman FB https://www.facebook.com/charlie.glickman Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Stay Connected Pillow Talk Newsletter Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Insta https://www.instagram.com/deborahtantrakat/        

This week on LaidOpen Podcast I'm joined by renowned somatic expert Staci Haines. Together we delve into transformative methods to mend our fractured society, exploring the power of somatic practices in fostering unity and healing. Staci and I talk about the journey from individual healing to collective transformation, and unraveling the intersections between somatics and spirituality. We also explore the pivotal shift from fragmentation to wholeness and how to navigate the path from polarization to love through somatic principles. Listen in as Staci candidly reflects on her evolution as a leader, acknowledging personal limitations while embracing growth, and offering invaluable insights on becoming a more adept authority figure. Plus, we speak on the enigmatic process of healing the collective, activism, and the intricate task of disentangling societal beliefs from the body.  Join us for an episode brimming with wisdom, guidance, and the promise of societal healing through the transformative lens of somatic practices.   

This season, we have been loosely exploring “cancelation” what it means for the canceled person if it works, and how we can integrate the canceled person back into society. This week's episode continues with that theme and is an extension of our last episode featuring canceled sexuality coach Charlie Glickman. This episode features Mischa Byruck, a sexual integrity coach who works to support people to live their sex lives in line with their values. He specializes in supporting subjects of public callouts and cancelations and assists over three dozen men to take accountability for sexual harm and return to their lives transformed. He also leads courses and workshops on sexual integrity, kink, and consent. Mischa is also part of Charlie's accountability team. Mischa and I explore how we can put preventative systems in place to avoid a power dynamic that prevents people in a passive position from approaching the more powerful person with feedback or notes on unintentional abuses of power. This all starts with an awareness that leaders in a power position (bosses, coaches, teachers) need to acknowledge the lack of power their audience has. Tools like these can help to avoid many harmful situations that result in leaders feeling scrutinized.  We also talk about why, as a society, we wait for harm to occur to establish accountability systems. What if this became the norm? Of course, this takes understanding and acknowledging the power differentials built into our roles, socioeconomic, gender, and race. We end with an exercise that briefly explains how to somatically navigate defensiveness as it arises and staying present when being called out.  

As a society, we are struggling with how to hold people accountable. The trend of cancel culture is public shaming with the hope that those who are canceled will lose their power and position. Often, they regroup anyway and do the same thing again in a new place and a new community. This is the cycle of abuse at play. This week, I welcome Bay Area sex educator Charlie Glickman on the podcast to talk about being canceled and the self-discovery that unfolded in the multi-year accountability process of healing himself, his relationships, and his place in his community.  While speaking on his experience, Charlie explains how to set up an accountability team, how essential somatic therapy is in rewiring the ways in which we respond when under stress, and how he discovered his own trauma response. We also talk about the ways that gender role conditioning impacted him, how the patriarchy sets up boys to be divorced from their emotions at a young age, and how this makes it impossible to have the men these boys grow into communicate responsibly until they unlearn the characteristics of toxic masculinity. Charlie is a case study of how we can approach people whom we need to hold accountable. He also models what can be expected when someone addresses their own trauma. This is an important episode and an even more important topic that we will all need to address if we want to make changes in our society to move forward and end cycles of violence.

Are you curious about how cannabis can be used to enhance our understanding of ourselves and the world around us, revealing some of its profound benefits for embodiment, presence, and attunement. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual and Relationship Coach, Dr Charlie Glickman, as they delve into the world of cannabis embark on a transformative journey, exploring the ancient wisdom and modern science behind this remarkable plant's ability to heighten our sensory perception, connect us with the present moment, and deepen our self-awareness like never before. Through intimate conversations with experts and personal testimonials, we unravel the secrets of how cannabis unlocks the gates of mindfulness and allows individuals to explore their bodies in ways they never thought possible. From this we venture into a topic often shrouded in taboo: the surprising benefits of cannabis for anal play. Brace yourself for an open and honest discussion, shedding light on how cannabis can play a role in elevating prostate stimulation (and so many other things!) Join Beducated.com, the #1 online platform for sexual health and happiness, and save 40% off the annual membership with coupon code: SEXYLIFESTYLE Click this link NOW: https://beducate.me/pd2329-sexylifestyle

Are you curious about how cannabis can be used to enhance our understanding of ourselves and the world around us, revealing some of its profound benefits for embodiment, presence, and attunement. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual and Relationship Coach, Dr Charlie Glickman, as they delve into the world of cannabis embark on a transformative journey, exploring the ancient wisdom and modern science behind this remarkable plant's ability to heighten our sensory perception, connect us with the present moment, and deepen our self-awareness like never before. Through intimate conversations with experts and personal testimonials, we unravel the secrets of how cannabis unlocks the gates of mindfulness and allows individuals to explore their bodies in ways they never thought possible. From this we venture into a topic often shrouded in taboo: the surprising benefits of cannabis for anal play. Brace yourself for an open and honest discussion, shedding light on how cannabis can play a role in elevating prostate stimulation (and so many other things!)

It's Anal August! So let's get the party started by talking about buttholes. Why are so many people are into anal stimulation? Why are some people anti-anal? What are some key tips for safe and pleasurable anal play? What about the prostate? What is it, where is it, and what does it do? If I have a prostate, how can I stimulate it? Will it lead to bigger orgasms? And how can I stimulate my partner's prostate? Return guest Charlie Glickman, PhD answers all this and so much more. Happy Anal August! About our guest: Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a somatic sexuality educator, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He's been working in this field for over 30 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. In February 2023, Charlie completed an accountability process. For more info about that or to learn about his coaching offerings, visit www.makesexeasy.com. Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Follow us on Instagram here: instagram.com/shamelesssexpodcast Get free goodies by donating to the Embrace Organization here: embracespt.org/gifts Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 20% off Vedo toys with code VEDOAUGUST23 at purepleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

"I am a member of the sex-positive feminism movement, I am a member of the sex-positive movement, and I am into sex-positivity." - Antonio Myers "1. Liking Sex If sex positivity were as simple as enjoying sex, there'd be a lot more sex-positive people. Alas, it's not that easy. Plenty of people who love sex nevertheless judge and shame other people for the way they have sex. Plenty of people who love sex are queerphobic and transphobic, and that's not compatible with any sex positivity I want anything to do with. Plenty of people who love sex coerce others into having sex with them, which proves that they don't really believe that others should get to do what they want with their own bodies and sex lives. As sex educator Charlie Glickman writes, “The fact that someone enjoys sex doesn't necessarily mean that they can honor and celebrate sexual choices and practices that they don't do.” On the flip side, the fact that liking sex isn't synonymous with sex positivity also means that you can be sex-positive without liking sex at all – as long as you support people who do. Disliking or being uninterested in sex is part of the spectrum of human sexuality, so any sex positivity worth its salt affirms that. 2. Thinking Everyone Should Like Sex If sex positivity isn't the same as liking sex, it's especially not the same as thinking everyone should like sex. People have all sorts of reasons for being disinterested in, scared of, or repulsed by sex, and all of those reasons are valid – even if they don't make sense to you. Unfortunately, some people think that sex positivity is about introducing everyone to the joys of sex, whether they're interested or not. To these folks, you can't be sex positive if you're not (happily) sexually active, and if you don't want to be, you must have “internalized sex negativity.” While internalized sex negativity is absolutely a thing – for instance, when we feel shame over how little or how much we have sex – everyone doesn't have to like sex in order for us to create a truly sex positive culture. 3. Not Having Any Boundaries Some people worry that they can't be truly sex-positive if they have sexual boundaries, such as being uncomfortable with being called certain words by a partner or with having sex in certain positions. If I'm really sex-positive, they wonder, shouldn't I explore different ways of having sex and expand my comfort zone? Sure – if that's something you want. You don't have to do it for anyone else, or for the sake of claiming a label. And even the most sexually adventurous people have boundaries of some sort, and most people who think they have no sexual boundaries at all are simply unaware of where those boundaries lie. That's why the scariest thing I can hear from a partner when I ask them what they're interested in is “Anything you want!” (Really? Anything?) Knowing your boundaries and doing your best to articulate them clearly to your partner(s) is among the most sex-positive things you can do. It's not always easy, but it's always worth doing." --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/support

Let's talk anal play! If you're a booty newbie, where do you begin? What feel-good nerve endings are you looking for? Should you start alone, or with a partner? And how the hell do you go shopping for butt plugs? Listen: if you've got backdoor questions, my guests Dr. Charlie Glickman and Dr. Hernando Chaves have answers. Today's best-of episode is THE anal 101 primer, and if you're not butt-curious now…you will be, in less than an hour. Listen up for tips to stimulate the prostate (AKA the male G-spot), how to prepare hygienically, finger techniques for prostate massage, and how anal play can add so much crazy pleasure to your sex life, no matter your gender. Show Notes:Dr Charlie Glickman | WebsiteHernando Chaves | Instagram | TwitterAnerosSkyn Condoms See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A good friend of the show, Charlie Glickman drops by to talk about sex and the importance of telling your partner what you like. Charlie, loves helping people discover how to have and amazing sex life and create happier, easier relationships. There's nothing taboo here. Laurie and Charlie explore how to to do this without pain or shame.  The post Working Together to Demystify Sex appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

A good friend of the show, Charlie Glickman drops by to talk about sex and the importance of telling your partner what you like. Charlie, loves helping people discover how to have and amazing sex life and create happier, easier relationships. There's nothing taboo here. Laurie and Charlie explore how to to do this without pain or shame.  The post Working Together to Demystify Sex appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

Alternative August continues with everything you need to know to get into anal play. There’s so much more to anal than just penetration (although that can be fun too). I talk with Dr. Charlie Glickman about how to start exploring around back in easy, clean, painless ways. People ask me all the time about how to bring up anal with their partner. Later in the show, I talk a caller through each step of the conversation. Like I always say, communication is lubrication. Listen for my best advice on how to bring it up and talk it through. Then, I go over the dos and don’ts of anal with my friend Dr. Hernando Chaves. We go over beginner toys and bust popular myths. This episode is the ultimate beginner's guide to your backdoor. Enjoy! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, We-Vibe, Muse, Nu Sensuelle For more information about Dr. Hernando Chaves, visit: Twitter For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

Here it is, folks. The exact way to ask for anything, including sex. Today, I'm breaking down the three-part invite that Dr. Ali Ash and Charlie Glickman taught me. Use this framework everywhere, every time to ask for anything. From a date to sex, to a promotion, this three-part invitation goes with me everywhere I do. I use it daily, and you should too. The Intro to Great Sex Workshop - Invite Intimacy into Your Bedroom 125 USD https://thelovedrive.com/greatsex To book a coaching call https://thelovedrive.com/coaching Learn more about The Love Drive Website https://thelovedrive.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thelovedrive Become a Contributing Lovebird Support The Love Drive here https://thelovedrive.com/join/

My guest, Charlie Glickman, has been a sex educator for over 25 years. But it wasn't until about 15 years ago that he realized the power of bodywork for managing and working through sexual shame. After solely teaching and writing as a sex educator, Charlie experienced firsthand just how powerful somatic therapy can be in a sexual shame context. So, he then developed his own course and practice around that discovery. This episode traces the advent of his important work in the field and moves beyond that to deliver practical insights and knowledge on the topic. A really, really important topic that I hope you get a lot from. Thanks for listening! What is Sexological Bodywork? When asked to define the term, Charlie says that sexological bodywork is “somatic education in erotic embodiment.” To further break this down, he sums it up as follows: the central focus is on the somatic aspects – the body. Education, in the context of sexological bodywork, is achieved when his clients leave a session with more knowledge and experience than they had coming in. This is a huge goal of the practice. Erotic embodiment encompasses erotic activity, but also, it adds staying present and truly “embodying” the eroticism in the moment, in all moments, that it happens. The Power of Flirting Charlie shares interesting insights on a couple who struggled to discern each other's sexual signals. When speaking to the wife, Charlie asked her to practice flirting with him, in a professional capacity, during one of their one-on-one sessions. After doing so, Charlie said that it was hard to tell she was even doing so because her body signals were not doing the communicating for her. Instead of feeling rejected by her husband, she realized her husband probably had no idea when she was flirting. This also turned out to be the case on the opposite end of the spectrum: the husband was wary about flirting because he didn't feel like his wife was all that into him. Consent Considerations Charlie says that his practice factors in consent as one of the most important facets of bodywork. To that extent, Charlie will not do any bodywork unless the client lays out exactly what they are ready to do that day. There should be no guesswork when it comes to consent, and he says it's always a good thing when boundaries are established and there's enough trust and accountability so that the client can immediately say “no” and be respected in that wish. The Many Areas of Sexological Bodywork Charlie gives an overview of all of the areas he focuses on as a sexological bodyworker. These focal points range from asking for consent, telling your partner what you want, maintaining boundaries, managing shame and rejection triggers if your partner says no to sex, and pleasure mapping. Charlie also works with clients who have experienced or are experiencing trauma, with the goal of getting back to a healthy state of equilibrium despite those traumas. Additionally, he works with those who have gone through considerable transitions in their lives: hysterectomies, gender transitions, postpartum mothers, and a wide range of circumstances that contribute to a diverse sampling of sexological bodywork needs. How do Prospective Patients Know When They're Ready for Bodywork? Charlie says that if the idea of bodywork sounds a little too intimidating or scary, sexological bodywork might not be right for you. He says it could be that you just need to talk to a sex therapist or a practitioner and ask some questions to test the waters out. And because there are so many specialists in the profession, it really does help to do a little bit of research on various practitioners to see if what they offer and the testimonials they provide speak to your personal experience Charlie says it's completely normal to feel nervous about going to a sexological bodyworker. If you aren't a little bit nervous, you probably don't need what he or she has to offer, as he says in the episode. But overall, it can be an immensely powerful practice that you should definitely look into! Resources for Charlie: Charlie's Website: http://www.makesexeasy.com/ https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/ Betty Martin's Wheel of consent video: https://bettymartin.org/videos/ More info: Link to the free guide – Talking About Sex: http://bettersexpodcast.com/talk Join my email list here: http://bettersexpodcast.com/list Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.com Web – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/ Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/ If you're enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcast Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/More info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

My guest, Charlie Glickman, has been a sex educator for over 25 years. But it wasn’t until about 15 years ago that he realized the power of bodywork for managing and working through sexual shame. After solely teaching and writing as a sex educator, Charlie experienced firsthand just how powerful somatic therapy can be in a sexual shame context. So, he then developed his own course and practice around that discovery. This episode traces the advent of his important work in the field and moves beyond that to deliver practical insights and knowledge on the topic. A really, really important topic that I hope you get a lot from. Thanks for listening! What is Sexological Bodywork? When asked to define the term, Charlie says that sexological bodywork is “somatic education in erotic embodiment.” To further break this down, he sums it up as follows: the central focus is on the somatic aspects – the body. Education, in the context of sexological bodywork, is achieved when his clients leave a session with more knowledge and experience than they had coming in. This is a huge goal of the practice. Erotic embodiment encompasses erotic activity, but also, it adds staying present and truly “embodying” the eroticism in the moment, in all moments, that it happens. The Power of Flirting Charlie shares interesting insights on a couple who struggled to discern each other’s sexual signals. When speaking to the wife, Charlie asked her to practice flirting with him, in a professional capacity, during one of their one-on-one sessions. After doing so, Charlie said that it was hard to tell she was even doing so because her body signals were not doing the communicating for her. Instead of feeling rejected by her husband, she realized her husband probably had no idea when she was flirting. This also turned out to be the case on the opposite end of the spectrum: the husband was wary about flirting because he didn’t feel like his wife was all that into him. Consent Considerations Charlie says that his practice factors in consent as one of the most important facets of bodywork. To that extent, Charlie will not do any bodywork unless the patient lays out exactly what they are ready to do that day. There should be no guesswork when it comes to consent, and he says it’s always a good thing when boundaries are established and there’s enough trust and accountability so tht the patient can immediately say “no” and be respected in that wish. The Many Areas of Sexological Bodywork Charlie gives an overview of all of the areas he focuses on as a sexological bodyworker. These focal points range from asking for consent, telling your partner what you want, maintaining boundaries, managing shame and rejection triggers if your partner says no to sex, and pleasure mapping. Charlie also works with patients who have experienced or are experiencing trauma, with the goal of getting back to a healthy state of equilibrium despite those traumas. Additionally, he works with those who have gone through considerable transitions in their lives: hysterectomies, gender transitions, postpartum mothers, and a wide range of circumstances that contribute to a diverse sampling of sexological bodywork needs. How do Prospective Patients Know When They’re Ready for Bodywork? Charlie says that if the idea of bodywork sounds a little too intimidating or scary, sexological bodywork might not be right for you. He says it could be that you just need to talk to a sex therapist or a practitioner and ask some questions to test the waters out. And because there are so many specialists in the profession, it really does help to do a little bit of research on various practitioners to see if what they offer and the testimonials they provide speak to your personal experience. Charlie says it’s completely normal to feel nervous about going to a sexological bodyworker. If you aren’t a little bit nervous, you probably don’t need what he or she has to offer, as he says in the episode. But overall, it can be an immensely powerful practice that you should definitely look into! Resources for Charlie: Charlie’s Website: http://www.makesexeasy.com/ https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/ Betty Martin’s Wheel of consent video: https://bettymartin.org/videos/ More info:Link to the free guide – Talking About Sex: http://bettersexpodcast.com/talkJoin my email list here: http://bettersexpodcast.com/listBook and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

My guest, Charlie Glickman, has been a sex educator for over 25 years. But it wasn’t until about 15 years ago that he realized the power of bodywork for managing and working through sexual shame. After solely teaching and writing as a sex educator, Charlie experienced firsthand just how powerful somatic therapy can be in a sexual shame context. So, he then developed his own course and practice around that discovery. This episode traces the advent of his important work in the field and moves beyond that to deliver practical insights and knowledge on the topic. A really, really important topic that I hope you get a lot from. Thanks for listening! What is Sexological Bodywork? When asked to define the term, Charlie says that sexological bodywork is “somatic education in erotic embodiment.” To further break this down, he sums it up as follows: the central focus is on the somatic aspects – the body. Education, in the context of sexological bodywork, is achieved when his clients leave a session with more knowledge and experience than they had coming in. This is a huge goal of the practice. Erotic embodiment encompasses erotic activity, but also, it adds staying present and truly “embodying” the eroticism in the moment, in all moments, that it happens. The Power of Flirting Charlie shares interesting insights on a couple who struggled to discern each other’s sexual signals. When speaking to the wife, Charlie asked her to practice flirting with him, in a professional capacity, during one of their one-on-one sessions. After doing so, Charlie said that it was hard to tell she was even doing so because her body signals were not doing the communicating for her. Instead of feeling rejected by her husband, she realized her husband probably had no idea when she was flirting. This also turned out to be the case on the opposite end of the spectrum: the husband was wary about flirting because he didn’t feel like his wife was all that into him. Consent Considerations Charlie says that his practice factors in consent as one of the most important facets of bodywork. To that extent, Charlie will not do any bodywork unless the patient lays out exactly what they are ready to do that day. There should be no guesswork when it comes to consent, and he says it’s always a good thing when boundaries are established and there’s enough trust and accountability so tht the patient can immediately say “no” and be respected in that wish. The Many Areas of Sexological Bodywork Charlie gives an overview of all of the areas he focuses on as a sexological bodyworker. These focal points range from asking for consent, telling your partner what you want, maintaining boundaries, managing shame and rejection triggers if your partner says no to sex, and pleasure mapping. Charlie also works with patients who have experienced or are experiencing trauma, with the goal of getting back to a healthy state of equilibrium despite those traumas. Additionally, he works with those who have gone through considerable transitions in their lives: hysterectomies, gender transitions, postpartum mothers, and a wide range of circumstances that contribute to a diverse sampling of sexological bodywork needs. How do Prospective Patients Know When They’re Ready for Bodywork? Charlie says that if the idea of bodywork sounds a little too intimidating or scary, sexological bodywork might not be right for you. He says it could be that you just need to talk to a sex therapist or a practitioner and ask some questions to test the waters out. And because there are so many specialists in the profession, it really does help to do a little bit of research on various practitioners to see if what they offer and the testimonials they provide speak to your personal experience. Charlie says it’s completely normal to feel nervous about going to a sexological bodyworker. If you aren’t a little bit nervous, you probably don’t need what he or she has to offer, as he says in the episode. But overall, it can be an immensely powerful practice that you should definitely look into! Resources for Charlie: Charlie’s Website: http://www.makesexeasy.com/ https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/ Betty Martin’s Wheel of consent video: https://bettymartin.org/videos/ More info:Link to the free guide – Talking About Sex: http://bettersexpodcast.com/talkJoin my email list here: http://bettersexpodcast.com/listBook and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

My guest, Charlie Glickman, has been a sex educator for over 25 years. But it wasn’t until about 15 years ago that he realized the power of bodywork for managing and working through sexual shame. After solely teaching and writing as a sex educator, Charlie experienced firsthand just how powerful somatic therapy can be in a sexual shame context. So, he then developed his own course and practice around that discovery. This episode traces the advent of his important work in the field and moves beyond that to deliver practical insights and knowledge on the topic. A really, really important topic that I hope you get a lot from. Thanks for listening! What is Sexological Bodywork? When asked to define the term, Charlie says that sexological bodywork is “somatic education in erotic embodiment.” To further break this down, he sums it up as follows: the central focus is on the somatic aspects – the body. Education, in the context of sexological bodywork, is achieved when his clients leave a session with more knowledge and experience than they had coming in. This is a huge goal of the practice. Erotic embodiment encompasses erotic activity, but also, it adds staying present and truly “embodying” the eroticism in the moment, in all moments, that it happens. The Power of Flirting Charlie shares interesting insights on a couple who struggled to discern each other’s sexual signals. When speaking to the wife, Charlie asked her to practice flirting with him, in a professional capacity, during one of their one-on-one sessions. After doing so, Charlie said that it was hard to tell she was even doing so because her body signals were not doing the communicating for her. Instead of feeling rejected by her husband, she realized her husband probably had no idea when she was flirting. This also turned out to be the case on the opposite end of the spectrum: the husband was wary about flirting because he didn’t feel like his wife was all that into him. Consent Considerations Charlie says that his practice factors in consent as one of the most important facets of bodywork. To that extent, Charlie will not do any bodywork unless the patient lays out exactly what they are ready to do that day. There should be no guesswork when it comes to consent, and he says it’s always a good thing when boundaries are established and there’s enough trust and accountability so tht the patient can immediately say “no” and be respected in that wish. The Many Areas of Sexological Bodywork Charlie gives an overview of all of the areas he focuses on as a sexological bodyworker. These focal points range from asking for consent, telling your partner what you want, maintaining boundaries, managing shame and rejection triggers if your partner says no to sex, and pleasure mapping. Charlie also works with patients who have experienced or are experiencing trauma, with the goal of getting back to a healthy state of equilibrium despite those traumas. Additionally, he works with those who have gone through considerable transitions in their lives: hysterectomies, gender transitions, postpartum mothers, and a wide range of circumstances that contribute to a diverse sampling of sexological bodywork needs. How do Prospective Patients Know When They’re Ready for Bodywork? Charlie says that if the idea of bodywork sounds a little too intimidating or scary, sexological bodywork might not be right for you. He says it could be that you just need to talk to a sex therapist or a practitioner and ask some questions to test the waters out. And because there are so many specialists in the profession, it really does help to do a little bit of research on various practitioners to see if what they offer and the testimonials they provide speak to your personal experience. Charlie says it’s completely normal to feel nervous about going to a sexological bodyworker. If you aren’t a little bit nervous, you probably don’t need what he or she has to offer, as he says in the episode. But overall, it can be an immensely powerful practice that you should definitely look into! Resources for Charlie: Charlie’s Website: http://www.makesexeasy.com/ https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/ Betty Martin’s Wheel of consent video: https://bettymartin.org/videos/ More info:Link to the free guide – Talking About Sex: http://bettersexpodcast.com/talkJoin my email list here: http://bettersexpodcast.com/listBook and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

My guest, Charlie Glickman, has been a sex educator for over 25 years. But it wasn’t until about 15 years ago that he realized the power of bodywork for managing and working through sexual shame. After solely teaching and writing as a sex educator, Charlie experienced firsthand just how powerful somatic therapy can be in a sexual shame context. So, he then developed his own course and practice around that discovery. This episode traces the advent of his important work in the field and moves beyond that to deliver practical insights and knowledge on the topic. A really, really important topic that I hope you get a lot from. Thanks for listening! What is Sexological Bodywork? When asked to define the term, Charlie says that sexological bodywork is “somatic education in erotic embodiment.” To further break this down, he sums it up as follows: the central focus is on the somatic aspects – the body. Education, in the context of sexological bodywork, is achieved when his clients leave a session with more knowledge and experience than they had coming in. This is a huge goal of the practice. Erotic embodiment encompasses erotic activity, but also, it adds staying present and truly “embodying” the eroticism in the moment, in all moments, that it happens. The Power of Flirting Charlie shares interesting insights on a couple who struggled to discern each other’s sexual signals. When speaking to the wife, Charlie asked her to practice flirting with him, in a professional capacity, during one of their one-on-one sessions. After doing so, Charlie said that it was hard to tell she was even doing so because her body signals were not doing the communicating for her. Instead of feeling rejected by her husband, she realized her husband probably had no idea when she was flirting. This also turned out to be the case on the opposite end of the spectrum: the husband was wary about flirting because he didn’t feel like his wife was all that into him. Consent Considerations Charlie says that his practice factors in consent as one of the most important facets of bodywork. To that extent, Charlie will not do any bodywork unless the patient lays out exactly what they are ready to do that day. There should be no guesswork when it comes to consent, and he says it’s always a good thing when boundaries are established and there’s enough trust and accountability so tht the patient can immediately say “no” and be respected in that wish. The Many Areas of Sexological Bodywork Charlie gives an overview of all of the areas he focuses on as a sexological bodyworker. These focal points range from asking for consent, telling your partner what you want, maintaining boundaries, managing shame and rejection triggers if your partner says no to sex, and pleasure mapping. Charlie also works with patients who have experienced or are experiencing trauma, with the goal of getting back to a healthy state of equilibrium despite those traumas. Additionally, he works with those who have gone through considerable transitions in their lives: hysterectomies, gender transitions, postpartum mothers, and a wide range of circumstances that contribute to a diverse sampling of sexological bodywork needs. How do Prospective Patients Know When They’re Ready for Bodywork? Charlie says that if the idea of bodywork sounds a little too intimidating or scary, sexological bodywork might not be right for you. He says it could be that you just need to talk to a sex therapist or a practitioner and ask some questions to test the waters out. And because there are so many specialists in the profession, it really does help to do a little bit of research on various practitioners to see if what they offer and the testimonials they provide speak to your personal experience. Charlie says it’s completely normal to feel nervous about going to a sexological bodyworker. If you aren’t a little bit nervous, you probably don’t need what he or she has to offer, as he says in the episode. But overall, it can be an immensely powerful practice that you should definitely look into! Resources for Charlie: Charlie’s Website: http://www.makesexeasy.com/ https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/ Betty Martin’s Wheel of consent video: https://bettymartin.org/videos/ More info:Link to the free guide – Talking About Sex: http://bettersexpodcast.com/talkJoin my email list here: http://bettersexpodcast.com/listBook and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

What is sex therapy? How do you know if you need it? Hear Abby Hansen, LPCC, and Calvin Hauer, LMFT, talk about their work with sex in therapy.  Resources and reading materials mentioned: Charlie Glickman http://new.charlieglickman.com/blog/  Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, PhD Esther Perel https://www.estherperel.com/  The Smitten Kitten in Minnesota https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/ 

November AKA Movember is Prostate Awareness Month! Inspired by Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian’s awesome book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Explorations For Men and Their Partners, we are offering all kinds of tips on prostate pleasure and health, as well as an opportunity to win all kinds of prizes via our Instagram campaign.  We also answer a sex question: My partner's libido has shifted in our longterm relationship. How do I spice things up to make things exciting and juicy again? Instructions for the contest: Open to anyone 18+ of all genders. Listen to this episode where we will share tips and facts about prostate pleasure and health. Then go to Shameless Sex Podcast's Instagram to learn more about how to enter. You will be asked to DM or email us an anonymous photo of yourself like the one here stating something that you learned about prostate pleasure or health. Photo must contain a mustache, and it can be real or fake (including one drawn your the finger). We will use these photos on our IG + stories to teach the public about prostate health and pleasure, so you all get to be a part of the education! Everyone who sends in a photo by Nov. 19th will be entered into a raffle to win a grand prize of: A Hot Octopuss Jett vibrator, a Hot Octopuss Atom + rechargeable C-ring, a copy of Charlie and Aislinn’s book, a bottle of Uberlube, and access to our online Wild Woman workshop. There will also be a few runner up prizes as well.   Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com  

Today Tim interviews Charlie Glickman, PhD, a sex & relationship coach, somatic sexuality educator, and sexological bodyworker. Charlie also co-authored The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Tim and Charlie talk about recognizing when what's happening in your body might be adversely effecting your erections, learning to identify anxiety during sex, new ways to approach self-pleasure, and how mind-body techniques can improve your sex life.  Enjoy!   Tim Norton is a sex positive sex therapist working in private practice, and host of Hard Conversations, a podcast on all things erectile, from the latest natural ed treatment to the best ed treatment, erectile dysfunction problems, masturbation and male sexuality. He obtained his bachelor’s and master’s degrees from the University of Southern California. Tim is a proud member of American Association of Sex Counselors, Educators, and Therapists (AASECT), the Los Angeles Sexological Association, and works part-time with the Pain Psychology Center in Beverly Hills. You can contact him via his website, www.timnortontherapy.com, and for people not in the Los Angeles area, Tim offers limited national/international coaching sessions via online video-conferencing.

I talk with sex and relationships educator Charlie Glickman. From Episode 2 of Full Disclosure, originally recorded April 17, 2012.

Dr. Charlie Glickman (www.makesexeasy.com) and Dr. Diana spoke to two common concerns: checking out during sexual arousal, and learning how to receive sensual touch. If a woman can’t stop thinking about household chores or feels unattractive or can’t stand her partner’s breath, those feelings – not her biology – may be the basis of her lack of desire. No one can be in two places at once; therefore, if you want to be present during sex, you need to be in the moment and let go. Body image issues and past sexual trauma can get in the way of receiving sensual touch. Mindfulness, the practice of nonjudgemental awareness rooted in Buddhism, improves mood and reduces stress – both of which affect desire. Learning to be in the moment and ignore distractions can also help you enjoy sex more, and pleasure fuels  desire. To help you let go of distracting thoughts, focus on what feels good in your body. The sensate focus homework exercises provide an excellent vehicle for this. For a woman with low sexual desire, something going on in her life echoes through the nervous system and possibly mutes her sexual response. There are so many avenues to altering desire!

Charlie Glickman returns to teach us all about the ins and outs of awesome anal sex! We also answer a sex question: I feel shame about the fact that I can only climax when I touch myself. How can I change this? Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 25 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Find out more about him on his website MakeSexEasy.com or on Facebook/charlie.glickman.  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Be the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter at marginswine.com Get 10% off during your first three months at ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX  

Masculinity, prostate pleasure, shame, and multiple orgasms. In this episode we talk about the evolution of masculinity over the last few decades- from different cultural stereotypes, to new challenges, and the consequences of "toxic" masculinity. Our guest on the show is Charlie Glickman, the author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, with whom we also discuss the role of shame in men's pleasure and the "Million Dollar Point," a seldom talked about spot that allegedly allows men to have multiple orgasms.  Show Notes! Follow us on Instagram! Facebook BBXX website Sign up for our digital "book" club — a twice-weekly curation of the best digital content about identity, sexuality, intimacy, and relationships!

Charlie Glickman, Ph.D. is a sex educator, relationship coach, and co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure. He shares with us his invitation template for creating a situation for people to say yes rather than cases where they have to say no. Whether you're asking for a date, sex, or a business meeting, you can use this invitation template just about anywhere.  We also discuss why some people have a hard time saying no, what it means to be sexually empowered, and take a quick peek at what it means to pleasure your prostate. Show Notes: You can find out more about Shaun Galanos and The Love Drive at www.thelovedrive.com Charlie Glickman Ph.D. is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. Charlie Glickman's website is http://www.makesexeasy.com/ You can get his book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners here: https://amzn.to/2mJB9Cn The site for the book which includes free resources on prostate pleasure can be found here: http://pspotbook.com/ The blog post How to Get Freaky Without Being Creepy can be found here: http://www.makesexeasy.com/how-to-get-freaky-without-being-creepy/ The blog post Consent Accidents and Consent Violations can be found here: http://www.makesexeasy.com/consent-accidents-consent-violations/ Charlie Glickman is on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/charlie.glickman Betty Martin has some fantastic free resources and videos on her website. You can watch a video series on The Wheel of Consent here: https://bettymartin.org/videos/ Carey French teaches workshops and writes blog posts on Embodied Consent on here site here: https://www.embodiedconsent.com/ Lynne Forrest wrote the article The Three Faces of Victim – An Overview of the Drama Triangle here: https://www.lynneforrest.com/articles/2008/06/the-faces-of-victim/ This show is produced by Shaun Galanos with help from Gilford Street Studios.   

Laurie is joined by​ Sex and Relationship coach​ Charlie Glickman. Charlie,​ a​ somatic sex educator, writer, speaker,​ and trainer​, talks openly about very specific ways to communicate. ​​For example, he suggests that partners work together with arm touch to discover how each likes to be touched​ – firm or soft, slow or fast, little circles, […] The post Sex And Happiness – How To Communicate Your Sexual Needs appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

Ah butt sex, a source of misunderstanding and anxiety for many, but according to our guest butt expert (buttspert?) sex educator and writer Charlie Glickman, a source of so much untapped potential for experiencing our bodies. Join us as we unpack the taboos, myths, and how-tos of getting your rear in gear in this episode. Find Charlie at @charlieglickman on Twitter and at CharlieGlickman.com. A word of warning to our listeners, this episode involves a lot of anatomical talk and some unpacking of the rape culture around anal sex, so if this is a tough topic for you please keep that in mind. As always, we love to hear from you at @tabootaboopod on Twitter, and tabootaboopodcast@gmail.com.

In this episode I’m blessed to be joined by Charlie Glickman, an acclaimed sexuality educator, sexual healer, and much more. His insights into both the glory and peril of sexual healing are at times heart warming and at times deeply chilling. Of all the conversations I’ve had on and off the podcast about these issues, this is one of the most raw and real. He graciously holds space for me to vent and seek his guidance and offers an exemplary demonstration of how he’s able to be a masterful healer of healers and a teacher of teachers. About Charlie: Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a certified sexuality educator, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s certified as a sexological bodyworker and has been working in this field for over 20 years. His areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Find out more about him on his website or on Twitter and Facebook. For Charlie’s sex coaching services, visit Make Sex Easy.

Marie Claire South Africa — How has the normalisation of anal sex shifted? Do women really enjoy it? Is it a safer alternative to intercourse? Thinking about trying it? We tell you the need to know. To answer all these questions and more, we chat to Rayven, a tantric sex counsellor and Seattle-based sex educator and author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, Charlie Glickman.

When consent is breached, sometimes it’s an intentional consent violation. But sometimes, it’s the result of error, miscommunication, or misunderstanding. Today we’re talking to Charlie Glickman PhD about the definition of a consent accident, the difficulties with distinguishing between a consent accident and a consent violation, how to move forward when a consent accident does happen, and tips for avoiding a consent accident in the first place.

Kali Williams is an entrepreneurial speaker, educator, and famous former Dominatrix. She picked up a dragon tail whip 15 years ago, and has been helping women claim their confidence ever since. A gifted storyteller, she has spoken more than 150 times at places like Harvard, Stanford and SXSW Interactive. After bringing innovation to sex education, Kali's working to give a kick to women's empowerment and diversity especially in the tech and startup communities. www.KaliWilliams.com https://twitter.com/Kali_Williams_ https://www.instagram.com/tiaraandhighheels/ www.KinkAcademy.com www.PassionateU.com Charlie Glickman - http://charlieglickman.com/ (anal sex expert) www.BitchStigma.com www.HackThePatriarchy.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Charlie Glickman is my guest. We discuss how he started his sexual education to becoming a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator and a sexological bodyworker as well as bring co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. We talk about how to approach prostate pleasure; somatic sex therapy, which includes sexological bodywork; the 3 minute game that helps with sexual communication; and how to get freaky without being creepy.

Dr. Charlie Glickman recently wrote an article at http://www.makesexeasy.com/consent-accidents-consent-violations/ that gave some great suggestions for how to constructively respond when you are involved in a consent incident. Another great sex educato...

Pegging, porn, and prostitution. A listener wrote in with a terrific message and mentioned pegging. Which sent us off on a bender about butt sex. Then, Dawn and Dylan talk about the new pink Viagra pill and why that name is so misleading. Flibanserin/Addyi is not what they're claiming it is, and there are better ways for most people to stimulate low desire. Dawn ran across a fun article about Pornhub viewers that found women (yes, it's heteronormative) watch more hardcore porn than men. We discuss. Finally, after nearly a month, we talk about the amazing Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. With amazing talks by Charlie Glickman, Joan Price, Monica Raye Simpson, and more, it was a powerful weekend of sex and human rights.   You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply) Email: info@sexgetsreal.com Contact form: Click here

August is Anal Sex Month and in this show, Emily is ushering in the season with special guest author, sexologist and anal sex expert Dr. Charlie Glickman!   Dr. Charlie offers expert insight on everything from anal anatomy to buttplug tips to how to locate and effectively stimulating the prostate. He and Emily clear up common misconceptions and straighten out negative stigma surrounding back-door play, and even get into the hot new topic of pegging! How do you bring it up to your partner? What are the ideal positions to make pegging work? Plus, Dr. Charlie walks you through the necessary steps to take to execute the perfect prostate massage!   Whether you’re just starting out or are looking to take your rear-end game to the next level, tune in to this Sex With Emily podcast to get the skinny on everything anal.  

Everyone loves sex, right? Most people feel they are abreast of all there is to know about the subject.Well, for those who are open to learning more, Charlie Glickman, PhD and author of 'The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure' will be discussing how to catapult the sexual experience to another stratosphere. Prepare yourself to be educated like never before. Make sure to have a pen and paper because what you thought you knew is only the beginning.  To learn more about Charlie Glickman, PhD visit his website http://charlieglickman.com/about/    

T&A talk with somatic sex educator and relationship coach Charlie Glickman, co-author of “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure” on masculinity in the modern day and prostate pleasure- our resistance to getting it, our resistance to giving it and how to make it the hottest (and most pleasurable) thing you’ve ever done in the bedroom. Show Notes What is Somatic Sex Education?  (26:09/30:32) Just as in all other areas of our lives, our sexual tastes change as we get older. (27:20) So many of us tune out or ‘go inside our heads’ during sex-that will inhibit the experience you are able to have. (31:05) How can working with a Somatic Sex Educator be a totally different experience than exploring sexuality with your partner?  (32:25) When speaking on Masculinity, Charlie starts with a brainstorm exercise that asks the group to describe the aspects of a ‘Real Man’.   (33:10) Over the many years he’s been doing this exercise across all spectrums of society, the results are pretty consistent regardless of the specific group.  (33:47) Find Links, Resources & FULL Show Notes HERE: http://www.tatalksex.com/?p=274

Somatic sexuality educator Dr. Charlie Glickman of MakeSexEasy.com (and co-author of “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure”) joins us to discuss his super wise insights on relationships and the nuances of relationships to relationships. He shares some moving stories about helping clients move past sexual shame through hands-on coaching. We collectively address listener questions including: […]

Poly Weekly live at CatalystCon West with special guests Reid Mihalko and Charlie Glickman! Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly

Happy Anal Pleasure Month! This show is dedicated to helping you explore the world of pleasure located right at your backdoor! Whether you’re male, female, single or in a relationship, gay or straight, this podcast addresses your questions and helps you to face your backdoor fears! Along with her trusty assistant, Emily provides tips and tricks on how to make anal sex a fun, pleasurable time for everyone! Also on the show, master of prostate play, Dr. Charlie Glickman, calls in to give his his expert opinion, and provide a male perspective, on anal pleasure for men of all sexual orientations. From “anal breathing” to porn to the importance of foreplay, this Podcast touches on all the hot backdoor topics! Don’t miss out!

More men and their partners are discovering the amazing pleasures of the prostate, aka the male G-spot. Tapping into the potential of this hidden erogenous zone works best with a little know-how and Charlie Glickman wrote the book! Whether you’re totally new to this kind of sex or you’re looking for different ways to enhance a familiar kind of fun, he has lots of tips and ideas to make it incredible.Get the inside scoop on prostate pleasure and health from sex educator, Charlie Glickman, PHD. Learn about:* Solo AND partner play* Tips and techniques for enhancing pleasure* Maintaining and improving prostate health* Safety and Hygiene* Common concerns men have around anal and prostate play* How prostate play can inspire healthier attitudes for men about sexPlus much more!

Shame, it creeps up on us, sometimes out of nowhere and sometimes as a slow buildup but it can affect our sexuality in ways we don't expect and don't want. Sometimes tackling shame head on helps, sometimes not addressing it at all helps, but shame when tied in to the wonderful world of non-monogamy can be complex and disconcerting to your multiple partners. Charlie Glickman joins us to help sort out the why, the how, the what, and ways we can process and deal with shame in thoughtful and effective ways so we can get back to doing what most of us really want to do... fucking multiple partners. We hit some major points along the discussion. Using the word should implies shame, it implies judgment, that I know better than you. When we react to shame it reinforces that shame. Keep heavy conversations and fights out of the bedroom. Also keep televisions and smartphones out of the bedroom. Go for a walk together instead, being side by side can disarm adversarial feelings that can creep up from being face to face, aka: Ginger's "side to side not nose to nose" philosophy.  Resources on exploring shame: Sharon Ellison: Taking the War Out of our Words Pema Chödrön: Getting Unstuck Brené Brown   We always recommend Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian's "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure" , a great way to carry condoms with you for safer sexy time. Get a 20% discount when you use the promo code swingburlesque at checkout. We also name check Tristan Taormino's Rough Sex through Ginger's adoration of a scene with Sasha Grey. Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your stories, your orgasms, your everything! Interested in signing up for our favorite Lifestyle site Kasidie.com? Click here to try it out! Come with us for The Swingset Takes Desire '14? Comments? Complaints? Visit Reddit.com's /r/Swingers; Search for SS 150, or (if you must) click here!

Last March Lee was struck by the randomness on the internet, and used the experience as an opportunity to springboard between a varieties of topics. A year later BDSM Roulette is back with such subjects as “outing” of other people, anal play, leather contests and the difference between being “serious” and “solemn” in our sexuality. However, the absurdity of the internet also explodes in the form of “Sexy Platypus,” and of course, lemon whores. Join us as we explore human erotica through a roll of the dice and dive into subjects ranging from thoughtful to full of laughter (and sometimes both).   Links Discussed: Running into people in the outside world - https://fetlife.com/groups/16783/group_posts/5063116 Sexy Platypus - http://soupynuts.blogspot.com/2008/09/sexy-platypus.html Oregon Puppy Contest 2014 - http://www.leatherati.com/2014/02/oregon-puppy-contest-2014/ Blackface at the PDX Eagle - http://www.mollena.com/2013/02/racism-in-leather/ Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino - http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1573442216?ie=UTF8&ref_=sr_1_1&s=books&qid=1300639138&sr=1-1&linkCode=shr&camp=213733&creative=393181&tag=opeup-20 Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure by Charlie Glickman - http://www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=6-3-AA-1202&lref=Cat_catalog70002_cat33893__3 Anal Play History Timeline - http://goodvibesblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/Good-Vibrations-Anal-History-Timeline.jpg Enjoyable anal play - https://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/bend_over_boyfriend Lemon Whore Video - http://thechive.com/2012/06/18/hands-down-the-most-hilarious-porn-intro-ever-video/ Pterodactyl Porn - http://therealtruth.info/article/63/pterodactyl-porn Find a Munch - http://findamunch.com/   Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/     Lee Harrington contact information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul   Orignally released as EA310

The male G-spot is the prostate. Yes, men have a G-spot too and it’s in their butt. The time has come to leave your fears behind, and go on an adventure through the backdoor. My guest Charlie Glickman, author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners, explains how to pleasure the prostate, from finding it to stimulating techniques. Before you Poo-poo the idea of prostate pleasure, have an open-mind (and a open behind). If men stopped resisting everything they think challenges their masculinity, they could be free to experience a lot more pleasure. Plus, a dude who’s actually secure with himself and his sexuality won’t be worried if something he’s doing is considered manly or "straight" enough. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. 

Everyone on the Swingset has been through an extended period of life where... there's just nothing left to give.  Shira B. Katz has a new job but can't make the time to join us every week (but she will be back!), Ginger, Cooper, AND Dylan have all moved recently.  But in between everything, life happens. Ginger chats about a surprise visit from The RopeMaster (tm), Cooper talks a little about his divorce and the process of going through one through the lens of non-monogamy, and Dylan... well he just talks, but he's a credit to team. The bottom line is we're back, and we're chatting about where we've been the last few weeks. Enjoy! [powerpress] Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure by Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian!

ALL THINGS PROSTATE! Dr. Charlie Glickman gives us a sneak peak into his book, "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure," co-authored with Aislinn Emirzian with the What, Where, Who, How & Why of the Male G-Spot. TOPICS: Fruit, Age, Bookcases, Fluttering, Sensation, Common Concerns, Health, Toys, Tight Asses, Solo & Couple's Play, Positions, Sexy Fitness, Tipping Point, Kegel Camp, External Prostate Massage & Attacking from All Angles. Oh, and Charlie hides Sandra's Prostate.  Charlie Glickman PhD has been a sexuality educator for over twenty years. He teaches workshops on a wide range of topics, including sex-positivity, sex & shame, gender & masculinity, sexual orientation, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual practices such as prostate play, anal sex, pegging, sex toys, BDSM, and polyamory. Charlie is certified as a sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists and he regularly presents at conferences and community events, offers trainings on sexuality for medical professionals, therapists, and clergy. Charlie is available for speaking engagements, in-service trainings, and workshops. You can find more information about him on his website. Click the link & checkout "The Utimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners." 

I'm very happy to bring you guys Dr Charlie Glickman who is going to be discussing his latest book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. The “discovery” of the G-spot opened up an era of sexual expansion for millions of women. Just as G-Spot exploration forever transformed women’s experience of orgasm, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners offers men erotic pleasure beyond what they imagined possible. Men who may not feel confident exploring anal play will be empowered to claim the prostate as an erogenous zone ripe for exploration. And men who already enjoy prostate play will find much to learn from sex educator Charlie Glickman, PhD, whose wisdom and warmth will be both reassuring and inspirational to readers.   Dr. Charlie Glickman is an in-demand international sexuality educator, writer, blogger, workshop teacher, and university professor. One of the foremost experts on sexual health, he is certified as a sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.  "I appreciate that I was exposed to new ways of thinking about prostate stimulation and to perspectives that Charlie and Aislinn have gleaned from others’ trials, errors, and significant pleasures. This very good book will likely influence many people’s sexual lives, and ways of thinking about sex and what it means to be a man (and a sexual man), for years to come." –Debbie Herbenick, author of Great in Bed   **Please Note** If you see a different date in the url of this program, this is a BTR glitch. This show is definitely Tues Apr 16, 2013 at 10 PM ET. Although all our shows say that they are 2 hrs in length we try to keep it as close to 1 hr as possible so get those calls in EARLY!

Dr. Charlie Glickman, author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, joins Coochie, Laura Rad, and Gay Rick for a discussion of the p-spot. Laura Rad ponders anal sex vs. prostate play. Coochie asks for a quick intro for poking the p-spot. Rick talks about an anal transformation after practicing prostate massage.http://www.prostatepleasureguide.net/http://www.charlieglickman.com/http://www.aislinnemirzian.com/http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/index/https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/aneros-mgx.htmlhttps://www.smittenkittenonline.com/nexus-g-rider-unisex-g-spot-and-prostate-vibrator.htmlListen to the show now! Visit our sponsors!GreatSexGames.comThe Smitten Kitten: http://smittenkittenonline.com/Call us: 651-560-6969Email us: laura [at] sexisfun [dot] net | rick [at] sexisfun [dot] net | coochie [at] sexisfun [dot] netVisit our blog: http://sif.sexisfun.netCheck out our forum: http://greatsexgames.com/forums/Join us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/76698125624/ https://www.facebook.com/gayrick | https://www.facebook.com/LauraRadSiF | https://www.facebook.com/sexisfuncoochieFollow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/sexisfunpodcast | http://twitter.com/sexisfuncoochie | http://twitter.com/gayricksexisfunJoin us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/5932https://fetlife.com/coochie | https://fetlife.com/laurarad | https://fetlife.com/gayrickImage from http://www.prostatepleasureguide.net/

Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian talk prostate pleasure and health. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly,  visit our Facebook page or leave a comment at polyweekly.com

butts. prostates, both male and female. We're talking all about the rear, from preparation to insertion to orgasm and beyond! Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian, authors of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure join us to chat about anal sex, and what it means for men to be on the receiving end of penetrative sex. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the Fuze Halo Buttplug! Check out The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, by Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!

HANGOVER SEX, METACOGNITION and MASCULINITY! Sandra & Dave stopover in San Francisco to chat it up with sex educator & blogger Charlie Glickman! TOPICS: Sexual Shame's Many Emotions, Good Shame, Attunement, Post-Coital Guilt, Recognizing & Healing Triggers, Anal Play, Gender Boxing, Inconvenient Penile Functioning and Dave Wages a War on the Man Box! ALSO: How AROUSAL effects our mental abilities. Neat!

We continue our debrief from our experience at Open SF Non-Monogamy Conference. We discuss seminars we attended, including Charlie Glickman, Tristan Taormino, and the presentation we gave. Cooper gets a magic brownie and tries to pick up a Brown-Eyed Girl, and talks about how incredibly charming The Professor is. The gang goes on a San Francisco odyssey to find a hot-tub in the hills, and Dylan gets a girl.  

Dr. Charlie Glickman on queer as a verb and the origins of Good Vibrations. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly

Emily interviews Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations who teaches listeners all about the prostate, from finding it to how to treat it. Many straight men don’t realize the untapped pleasure of the  prostate, or the male G-spot.In other news, Christina Hendrick's boobs and the end of the “Great Hand Job debate” might be in sight.

An extended conversation with Charlie Glickman, Education Program Manager for Good Vibrations, a clean well lighted place for sex toys in the bay area and Boston.Email charlieg@goodvibes.com if you want to find out about classes at Good Vibrations or would like to teach a class.You can also shop for all of Good Vibration's products at http://goodvibes.comDownload episode004 directly from