Podcast appearances and mentions of nick stumbo

As an innocent young boy, Nick was at a sleepover with a friend when he first saw porn. A curiosity became an addiction. With all his heart he wanted freedom, but who do you tell you’re addicted to porn? Where do you go for help? Nick Stumbo found the help he needed at Pure Desire. Today Nick is their executive director. Pure Desire is a ministry helping us find freedom and healing from sexual brokenness. Social media and porn are raising our kids. For our kids to come to us with their curiosity so that we can share God’s great design for their sexuality we must normalize talking about sex with our kids. And that starts with letting them know that they can bring any and all of their questions to us!Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshow/wgnbSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Most Christian men wouldn't call it an addiction. “It's just something I struggle with…”But what if that struggle is actually keeping you stuck?In this episode, Nick Stumbo—Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries—shares his powerful story of addiction, shame, and the deeper healing Jesus offers.We talk about:Why confession isn't the finish lineThe 3 questions that revealed Nick's addictionWhat white-knuckling recovery really looks likeHow trauma, performance, and shame feed the cycleThis isn't just about porn. It's about what your soul is really craving.Learn more about Pure Desire Ministries: https://www.puredesire.orgGet Nick's book Setting Us Free: https://amzn.to/3EtfY2PStart your healing journey with Dad Tired: [https://www.dadtired.com]Subscribe to the Dad Tired podcast for more episodes that help men lead their families wellA special thanks to today's sponsor: www.dwellbible.com/dadtired

What do you do when trust is shattered, but no one around you seems to take your pain seriously? In today's deeply honest and hope-filled episode, Leslie sits down with Nick Stumbo, former pastor and Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, who opens up about his personal battle with pornography—and the profound impact it had on his wife, his marriage, and his ministry. Nick's story isn't just one of addiction—it's about healing, honesty, and hope when everything seems lost. Together, Leslie and Nick dismantle toxic messaging that pressures wives to “just forgive” or “have more sex,” and instead offer a biblical and brain-based path toward real recovery—one that honors both the betrayed and the struggler. If you or someone you love is silently suffering in a marriage affected by pornography, this episode will remind you: You're not alone, and your healing matters.  

In this unflinchingly honest conversation, Nick Stumbo shares his journey from serving as a senior pastor while secretly battling pornography addiction to finding freedom and now helping others as Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries. Nick reveals how his early exposure to sexual content created patterns of shame and secrecy that followed him into adulthood, marriage, and ministry—despite his sincere faith and leadership position. What makes this episode particularly powerful is the exploration of why churches and seminaries continue to avoid addressing sexual brokenness effectively, despite statistics showing 75% of men and 44% of women in congregations struggle with pornography. Nick explains how the taboo nature of sexuality in Christian contexts creates perfect conditions for shame to flourish while healing stagnates.For full show note details, go to the episode webpage:

Pornography addiction is a deeply personal and often unspoken struggle, especially for leaders and professionals who fear the consequences of being honest about their struggles. In this episode, Dr. Mike Chupp and Pastor Bert Jones are joined by Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, to discuss the realities of addiction, the path to healing, and the importance of a strong support system.

This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 678, Breaking the Porn Cycle: The 7 Pillars of Freedom from Sexual Sin w/ Nick Stumbo. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena

Porn is doing real damage to too many Christians today. This issue is affecting a huge percentage of our brothers and sisters in Christ, and the shame that often prevents us from talking about it leads to secrecy and hinders healing.  We're thankful that Nick Stumbo is on the podcast today. Nick is a pastor and the director of Pure Desire Ministries. Along with Barna, Pure Desire recently conducted a study on the impact porn is currently having on the Church in America. Their findings demonstrate how crucial it is to open the conversation about porn among Christians to help them find healing from its destructive impact.     We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What the stats tell us about how many Christians are viewing porn regularly Why talking openly is ESSENTIAL for healing  Exposing the progressive nature of porn addiction  How to make church a place where openness is possible  What to do if your church is not a safe place to confess  How to prepare your kids to handle porn exposure safely  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: The enemy would love for you to stay stuck in secrecy and shame. Jesus wants to bring freedom and healing. Take a step toward freedom today.  Questions to Discuss:  Do you have a safe friend you can be honest with? Are you practicing confession and accountability in your life? What can you do to help cultivate an honest, godly friendship today?  What is God prompting you need to take responsibility for so that you can grow closer to Him and your spouse today?    QUOTES  “Most people won't be surprised to know that the numbers are continuing to grow.” - Nick Stumbo  “To my knowledge, it's the first time in history that the majority of practicing Christians say they are doing pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “84% of people said there is NO ONE helping them avoid pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “If shame and secrecy are the sickness, then openness, community and love are what healing is all about.” - Nick Stumbo  “By the time it blows up a marriage, the help was needed 5-10 years ago.” - Nick Stumbo “You're not alone. There is help and hope for you. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “True accountability is about me learning to be responsible for my own actions and behaviors.” - Nick Stumbo  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Pure Desire offers healing groups and great resources to help you find freedom from porn. Check them out here.  Get the stats: Read the research by Barna and Pure Desire HERE  If porn has impacted your marriage, take Dr. Kim's 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal webinar to kickstart your marriage healing. We recommend the book Good Pictures / Bad Pictures to help equip your kids against porn exposure.

Porn is doing real damage to too many Christians today. This issue is affecting a huge percentage of our brothers and sisters in Christ, and the shame that often prevents us from talking about it leads to secrecy and hinders healing.  We're thankful that Nick Stumbo is on the podcast today. Nick is a pastor and the director of Pure Desire Ministries. Along with Barna, Pure Desire recently conducted a study on the impact porn is currently having on the Church in America. Their findings demonstrate how crucial it is to open the conversation about porn among Christians to help them find healing from its destructive impact.     We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What the stats tell us about how many Christians are viewing porn regularly Why talking openly is ESSENTIAL for healing  Exposing the progressive nature of porn addiction  How to make church a place where openness is possible  What to do if your church is not a safe place to confess  How to prepare your kids to handle porn exposure safely  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: The enemy would love for you to stay stuck in secrecy and shame. Jesus wants to bring freedom and healing. Take a step toward freedom today.  Questions to Discuss:  Do you have a safe friend you can be honest with? Are you practicing confession and accountability in your life? What can you do to help cultivate an honest, godly friendship today?  What is God prompting you need to take responsibility for so that you can grow closer to Him and your spouse today?    QUOTES  “Most people won't be surprised to know that the numbers are continuing to grow.” - Nick Stumbo  “To my knowledge, it's the first time in history that the majority of practicing Christians say they are doing pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “84% of people said there is NO ONE helping them avoid pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “If shame and secrecy are the sickness, then openness, community and love are what healing is all about.” - Nick Stumbo  “By the time it blows up a marriage, the help was needed 5-10 years ago.” - Nick Stumbo “You're not alone. There is help and hope for you. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “True accountability is about me learning to be responsible for my own actions and behaviors.” - Nick Stumbo  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Pure Desire offers healing groups and great resources to help you find freedom from porn. Check them out here.  Get the stats: Read the research by Barna and Pure Desire HERE  If porn has impacted your marriage, take Dr. Kim's 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal webinar to kickstart your marriage healing. We recommend the book Good Pictures / Bad Pictures to help equip your kids against porn exposure.

In a new study, researchers found that pornography use is prevalent among all demographics, and Christian men and women surveyed, sadly, feel ok about their habit. Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, joins us to review the study results. Pure Desire Ministries – A safe place for men, women, and young adults to find hope and healing from the effects of sexual brokenness. (https://puredesire.org/)

On today's PoM Podcast episode I sat down with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire Ministries. Nick, the executive director of Pure Desire, confronted his own porn addiction 15 years ago. He and his wife found healing through Pure Desire's counseling and group ministries. Nick believes parents should create a safe place to have an ongoing, open-ended conversation with their kids about healthy sexuality rather than focusing on having a one-time conversation about sex. Even though fathers have one of the earliest and most trusted roles in a young person's life, the data shows that they play a much less significant role in the sexual education of their children — this is often because they are also dealing with their own sexual struggles and history. To learn more: https://puredesire.org/Register for our next 90 Days of Discipline: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/90-days-may-julyRegister for our 2025 Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2025-mens-retreatRegister for Tribe XVI starting June 1st: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-xviThis podcast is sponsored by Dark Water Woodwork. Dark Water Woodwork is offering a discount code exclusively for the podcast listeners. Use the discount code "PSALM824" to save 15% off of your next beard oil purchase. https://www.darkwaterkc.comSupport the show

Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, a ministry that helps people find hope and healing from the effects of sexual brokenness. Nick knows firsthand how a pornography addiction can destroy a person and marriage. In this conversation, Lori and Nick talk about current statistics surrounding porn use in the church from a study they did in partnership with the Barna Group. You will also learn:   The challenges a person may face in overcoming the shame associated with their sexual addiction and how to break free The importance of transparency with those around you, especially your spouse How to support loved ones who are struggling with addiction Why the data from their recent study is important and how we can use these findings to bring about healing and change There is freedom from bringing this often secret struggle to light. Nick will encourage you to seek help through God's power and other resources to be set free from this destructive addiction.   We appreciate your feedback. If this episode touches you, please leave us a five-star rating and review, helping us reach new listeners with hope for their marriage. You can also subscribe to our show on YouTube, Spotify, or iTunes.   Pure Desire Ministries  

Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We're talking with Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries. According to a Barna study, 75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women view pornography at least occasionally, with 67% of pastors having a personal history of porn use. How can churches effectively address pervasive issues […]

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek and Scott interview Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, about pornography and its impact on the brain and how it affects marriages. This episode is Part 1 in a 2-part series about pornography and marriage.Scriptures:James 5:161 Cor 6:18Resources:Website - Pure Desire MinistriesFree Downloads - 7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma and 5 Steps to Freedom From PornPodcast – Pure Desire Ministries PodcastQuestions to Discuss:What'd the goal and purpose of our sexuality? How does pornography work against God's purposes?How has pornography impacted your marriage?What stood out to you from our interview with Nick?

How many men and women consume porn on a regular basis? How common is porn use within the church? How is porn affecting us?   Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, unpacks the surprising results of a recent study conducted by Barna on pornography use, and shares potential solutions.     Guest: Nick Stumbo, Pure Desire Ministries     Website: puredesire.org Instagram: @puredesirepdmi   Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Report   Java with Juli: #542 A Pastor, His Porn Problem, and How His Church Restored Him Missed last week's episode? Click here to listen to it! Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire, a ministry that actually helped him and his wife find a way out and healing from his own porn addiction. In this honest, unflinching conversation, Nick joins Zach Clinton to explain the challenges involved in overcoming the shame and brokenness of porn use. They examine the different wounds and the peripheral damage that can occur with a spouse or a mate, and explain why both partners in a relationship matter as a journey of recover begins. Nick offers unique firsthand perspective on how this can be an unspoken problem within the church. Through his own powerful testimony, Nick reminds us that asking for help doesn’t make us weaker believers. Real freedom from behavior driven by secrecy and shame can only be found by bringing it into the light. Listen and be encouraged as you start the new year, with new goals and resolutions, and share it with someone you care about. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore the challenges and impacts of pornography in relationships and personal lives with special guest Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire. They discuss the pervasive issue of pornography in Christian communities, its mental, relational, and spiritual implications, and the path to freedom through grace-filled healing. Offering insights into breaking cycles of shame and addiction, this episode provides practical tips to help listeners pursue healthy, Christ-centered relationships.Whether you're a college student, a married couple, or a leader in the church, this episode offers valuable advice to navigate this challenging topic and find hope, healing, and restoration.Resources Mentioned:Free E-Books from Pure Desire5 Steps to Freedom from Pornography - A guide to overcoming struggles with pornography. Download here7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma - Help for navigating the pain of betrayal. Download hereBooks by Nick StumboSafe - A guide to fostering grace-filled environments that promote healing from sexual struggles and create safe spaces for restoration. Learn moreSetting Us Free - Nick Stumbo shares his journey to freedom from sexual addiction, offering practical tools and spiritual insights for lasting transformation. Learn moreFrom the Center for Marriage and Relationships (CMR)Sex, Pornography, and Relationship Help - Quick tips on addressing pornography's impact on relationships. Download PDFConnect with Us:Website: cmr.biola.eduFacebook: facebook.com/biolacmrInstagram: instagram.com/biolacmrYouTube: youtube.com/@biola-cmrJoin the Conversation:Subscribe to The Art of Relationships Podcast to never miss an episode.Leave a review on [Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Your platform] to help others discover the show.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from these relationship insights.Sign up for weekly updates and resources from the Center for Marriage and Relationships! Sign up hereAbout the Hosts:Chris Grace, Ph.D., and Alisa Grace are passionate about helping people build and sustain healthy relationships. As leaders of the Biola University Center for Marriage and Relationships, they combine the wisdom of Scripture with scholarly research to offer practical advice and insights. Learn more about their work at cmr.biola.edu.

Happy New Year's Eve! In this special year-end episode, host Nick Stumbo and guest co-host Heather Kolb dive into the value of self-reflection as we close out one year and prepare for the next. Whether you're in the middle of a recovery journey, pursuing personal growth, or simply looking for practical ways to start the new year with purpose, this episode has something for you.Nick and Heather discuss why self-reflection is vital, not just at the end of the year but throughout our lives. They explore how pausing to look back can help us uncover insights about ourselves, our relationships, and our faith, and how those insights can inform our steps forward. Learn practical tips for identifying priorities, setting achievable goals, and inviting God and others into the process.Tune in for practical wisdom, heartfelt encouragement, and a few laughs as we look back on the past year and step boldly into 2025.Resources:Full Episode On Youtube GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women watch porn on a regular basis, but only 21% wish they didn't. Nick Stumbo shares these stats and other major findings of Beyond The Porn Phenomenon, a new research report produced by Barna and Pure Desire Ministries.Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the author of Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey Of Grace and Safe: Creating A Culture Of Grace In A Climate Of Shame. Learn more at puredesire.orgOrder Beyond The Porn PhenomenonGet the Church Toolkit (free bonus)~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Today, we sit down with Nick Stumbo, a former pastor and the Executive Director of Pure Desire, to dive into a complex subject: pornography addiction. With sexually explicit material more accessible than ever, men and women across the world find themselves impacted by ongoing exposure to it. How does pornography influence our culture as a whole? How can we break free from this cycle of addiction? Join us now to see for yourself…  Nick was a third-generation pastor who began his ministry work at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, where he served as head pastor for more than 10 years. During this time, Nick closely observed the sexual brokenness and devastation in the congregation. Instead of meeting this with judgment, he recognized the need for grace in the Church like never before. Nick found hope and healing on his own journey with pornography addiction through the transformative resources provided at Pure Desire. This radical change not only led to his personal healing but also sparked a revival of forgiveness and healing among his loved ones. Later, Nick launched his own Pure Desire groups for men and women – staying connected to Christ's path all along the way. He also authored two books, Setting Us Free and Safe. Click play to discover:  Why male and female porn consumption is so different.  The elements that make pornography so addictive.   How Pure Desire is leading the charge toward healing and sustainable change. The benefits of bringing the subject of pornography addiction out of the shadows.  You can learn more about Nick's work with Pure Desire here! Episode also available on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/38oMlMr

Tune into our final pornography series episode with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director at Pure Desire Ministries. Nick shares how porn impacted him as a pastor and how he decided to find healing! Special shout out to Coventant Eyes for sponsoring this pornography seriers! Use our code KS30 to get your first month FREE! Find healing TODAY!!! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Pure Desire Parent Resource: use code  PARENTS29 for a discount! Puredesire.org Pure Desire podcast ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In a new study, researchers found that pornography use is prevalent among all demographics, and the gap in use among Christians and non-Christians, as well as men and women, has sadly grown narrower over the last eight years. Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, joins us to review the study results. Pure Desire Ministries – A safe place for men, women, and young adults to find hope and healing from the effects of sexual brokenness.

In today's episode, we discuss the topic of porn addiction with Nick Stumbo, a former pastor and the Executive Director of Pure Desire. Nick, a third-generation pastor, began his ministry work at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington. He served here as head pastor for more than 10 years. During this time, Nick closely observed the sexual brokenness and devastation in the congregation – and recognized like never before the power of grace in the Church… Nick has his own story involving pornography addiction. Through the resources provided at Pure Desire, he and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through counseling and group ministries. This radically changed their lives, leading to a revival of forgiveness and healing. Later, Nick launched his own Pure Desire groups for men and women, staying connected with their ministry all along the way. He also authored two books, Setting Us Free and Safe.  Why is it crucial to have this conversation about pornography addiction? How is Pure Desire leading the charge toward healing and sustainable change? Join the conversation now to learn more about this highly relevant, yet challenging subject! Dive in to discover:  Shocking statistics surrounding pornography consumption in our culture.  The differences between male and female relationships with porn.  Why there is an accelerated use of pornography among women?  What makes pornography so addictive and progressive. To learn more about Nick's work with Pure Desire, click here now! Episode also available on Apple Podcasts: apple.co/30PvU9C

According to a new study a majority of practicing Christians, including pastors, admit to viewing pornography and a large share say they are comfortable with the habit. In Barna's recently released researched report, Beyond the Porn Phenomenon, produced in partnership with Pure Desire Ministries, researchers found that pornography use is so prevalent among all demographics and the gap in use among Christians and non-Christians, as well as men and women, has grown narrower over the last eight years! https://www.christianpost.com/news/majority-of-practicing-christians-admit-to-viewing-porn-study.html See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

David Kinnaman, CEO of Barna Group, joins the podcast today to help kick off an 8-part deep dive into the new data on pornography use, its impact on relationships, mental health, and the Church. Together, with Nick Stumbo and Ashley Jameson, they explore how this research can guide the Church in addressing sexual brokenness and provide real hope for healing.This eight episode deep dive into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon features the voices of people prominently featured in the report.Resources:Order 'Beyond The Porn Phenomenon'Barna Website GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Today, Nick Stumbo and Rich Moore explore 10 common mistakes churches make when launching recovery groups. They share practical advice on avoiding pitfalls like isolating or shaming language and the dangers of a quick-fix approach. This episode is essential for pastors and leaders looking to create and sustain effective, long-lasting recovery groups within their church community.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

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On this episode of BRT, we have a special guest, Pastor Nick Stumbo. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and has an extensive background in pastoral ministry. He began his ministry career at East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, where he served as lead pastor for over a decade. Confronted with his own pornography addiction, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through Pure Desire's counseling and group ministries. His public disclosure led to a revival of forgiveness and healing within his church, and he continues to lead the way in helping churches become places of healing. Episode Description: In this episode, Kris, Jenn, and Nick share a powerful message for pastors and clergy on effectively supporting women going through betrayal trauma. Using the analogy of how a paramedic would treat a severe wound, they provide six key steps for clergy and support personnel to follow:Key Highlights:Assess the Severity of the Wound - Listen to Her: Nick emphasizes the importance of actively listening to the betrayed spouse, believing her reality, and displaying genuine sympathy. Show kindness and care to provide solace during her crisis.Stop the Bleeding - Focus on the immediate need, not the marriage. Avoid cause-and-effect thinking and allow her to express her emotions and needs at her own pace. Asking "permission questions" will help the clergy better understand her urgent concerns and priorities.Bandage the Wound & Stabilize the Patient - Educate Her About the Healing Process. Inform her there is a healing process, and she will not be alone. Don't Rush Forgiveness: Understand forgiveness and avoid minimizing the situation. Guide Her in the Present: Help her focus on the "now" and provide comfort and hope. Teach the Keys to Rebuilding Trust: Discuss sincerity, ability, and durability as crucial elements of rebuilding trust.Treat for Shock - Normalize the Experience: Minimize isolation, emotional flooding, and embarrassment by providing community and helping her deal with emotions. Provide Community: Connect her with others who understand her situation and can offer support.Support the Injury - Offer Support: Provide resources, encourage her to grieve, help her establish a circle of trust, and teach the importance of healthy boundaries.If the Wound is Too Severe, Call 911 - Ask for Help: Refer her to trained professionals like CSATs, PSAPs, CCPSs, and C-SASIs for specialized support. "When in doubt, refer out!"Connect with Us:Visit our website: Watermark CoachFollow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoachingPure Desire Ministries: https://puredesire.orgThank you for listening! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes.

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Why is pornography such a big deal? This is a common question in the culture, but not necessarily one of alarm, but rather questioning why ministries like ours and many others even exist. Is there any real harm to pornography?To help us answer these questions we have Nick Stumbo back on the program. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and an author and speaker on sexual issues from a Christian worldview. In our conversation, Nick shares many of the negative effects of porn: biological, mental, emotional, and relational. We look at the many unhealthy patterns porn promotes, the natural trajectory of tolerance (both individually and culturally), the linkage between human trafficking and porn, and then how to live free from the negative effects of porn. Finally, Nick shares a new video series resource called Living Undefiled that takes an in-depth look at the topics surrounding pornography and human trafficking. To learn more about Nick and Pure Desire, visit PureDesire.org. To get access to the Living Undefiled course, visit LivingUndefiled.com. More Resources:Help for MenHelp for Women*NCOSERelated Podcasts:New Research on Why Women View PornExposing the True Impact of PornKeeping Kids Safe in a Digital World*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

From the breakout sessions of the 2024 EFCA Theology Conference, Rev. Nick Stumbo leads a session on "Pornography: Soul-Shriveling and Relationship Ruining."

It destroys marriages and families but hides in silence and secrecy. It traps men and women in shame and guilt, usually for their lifetimes. Almost everybody acknowledges it exists but nobody wants to talk about it. Chris, Greg, and Ken welcome guest Nick Stumbo to the virtual bar for an open, honest discussion about what could be the most destructive sin in our society and its prevalence even in Jesus' church.Pure Desire Ministries

Are you stuck in a cycle of sexual sin? It's time to break free! In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Nick Stumbo, co-host of the Pure Desire podcast, to discuss his book, "Setting Us Free." They walk you through the seven pillars of sexual freedom and how to break the cycle once and for all. on Amazon

Many survivors suffer unspeakable abuse in their childhood and never tell another soul about it. It is very common to not have the words to even describe what happened to their bodies, their minds, and emotions. My guest Mark McNear is here to talk about his book Finding My Words: A Ruthless Commitment to Healing Gently After Trauma. Mark candidly talks about his painful childhood, the long term fallout from the abuse, what was it like going through rehab, and finding the words and the courage to tell his story. Join us for a powerful testimony of freedom in Christ! Buy Mark's Book here on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-My-Words-Ruthless-Commitment-ebook/dp/B0BGMGH6C2/ref=sr_1_1?crid=36AYSHZ273U84&keywords=finding+my+words+mark+mcnear+book&qid=1694993908&sprefix=finding+my+words%2Caps%2C214&sr=8-1 DR. MARK M. MCNEAR BIO Dr. Mark M. McNear is a Licensed Psychotherapist who has over thirty years of experience in clinical work through his private practice in New Jersey. He is a graduate of Northeastern Bible College, New York University, and Oxford Graduate School. Dr. McNear specializes in helping people who have experienced trauma in their life, as well as the maladaptive behaviors that spring forth from their woundedness. Yet, Dr. McNear doesn't approach his clientele purely from a clinical perspective but as someone who also has experienced severe trauma in his life and the healing power found in Christ. In his recent memoir, Finding My Words: A Ruthless Commitment to Healing Gently after Trauma, Dr. McNear reveals he suffered a traumatic and abusive childhood. He suffered sexual abuse and physical abuse starting at the age of four and was repeatedly told he was stupid, a fool, and trash. Dr. McNear hid these abuses deep in his heart for many years – until they caught up with him. Today, Dr. McNear seeks to help others find the freedom and healing in Christ that he himself received once he faced his own traumatic past. In addition to his private practice, Dr. McNear has been a speaker to audiences nationwide. He has also been a frequent guest on nationally syndicated radio broadcasts, podcasts, authored articles, and Op-eds, and been a co-host panelist for a video series dealing with Christianity and Mental Health. “Mark's experience is my experience. Though my childhood trauma and abuse left me with a lifetime of scars, it also did something else. It brought me to the God who loves me. And that changed my life and brought healing beyond measure. Whatever you're going through, God has seen others, like Mark and I, through similar trauma to show you that if God can do it for them, he can do it now, for you.” -- Josh McDowell “It has been said that if we don't transform our pain, we will certainly transmit it. Mark McNear shows us in this wonderful book that the opposite is also true: if we do transform our pain, we can pass on healing, wisdom, and grace to others. McNear, a professional helper, turns his pen on the pain, complexity, and beauty of his own story in a way that will capture your heart. He speaks with deep honesty about his trauma, but also about his recovery by the grace of God. Whether you are attempting to face your own trauma story or help someone around you do the same, I believe Mark's story will be a gift and an encouragement to you.” — Nick Stumbo, Executive Director, Pure Desire Ministries, Troutdale, OR Podcast Links Website: https://dswministries.org Email: diana@dswministries.org Social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DSW-Ministries-230135337033879 Twitter: https://twitter.com/DswMinistries YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxgIpWVQCmjqog0PMK4khDw/playlists Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dswministries/ https://dswministries.org/subscribe-to-podcast/ Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeart Radio, Google Podcasts, Pandora, Stitcher, Listen Notes Keep in touch with me!

How can we take action after relapse for growth and healingwithout using shame or punishment? After a porn relapse, what do appropriate consequences look like?Nick Stumbo and Trevor Winsor are members of the Executive Team at Pure Desire Ministries. Together, they host the popular Pure Desire Podcast.Free tools mentioned in this episode:Recovery Action Plan (for when a relapse has occurred)Escape Plan (for when we are triggered or tempted)Relapse Prevention Plan (for day-to-day life)The F.A.S.T.E.R. Scale (for self-awareness)Register for the Pure Desire Summit at puredesire.org/summit!Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director for Pure Desire. He has been in ministry leadership for over two decades. He was in pastoral ministry at East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington for 14 years. Nick has a Bachelor's in Pastoral Studies from Crown College, an MDiv from Bethel Seminary, and is a certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP). He has authored two books, Setting Us Free and Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame.Trevor Winsor is the Marketing Director for Pure Desire. He has been in ministry leadership for 10 years. Trevor is a certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP). He has a Bachelor's in Psychology from Corban University, a Master's in Ministry & Leadership from Western Seminary, and is a licensed pastor. Trevor is passionate about integrating trauma and addiction healing with spiritual disciplines to produce holistic healing.Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

The devastation created through betrayal trauma can turn a partner's world upside down and impact them in a way they never imagined. But what does healing from betrayal trauma look like if your spouse is in a public position—doctor, teacher, police officer, judge, or pastor? Today, we're joined by Michelle Stumbo (married to Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director for Pure Desire). We talk through what healing from betrayal looks like when your husband is the pastor. What tools and boundaries are necessary, how it impacts kids and healing as a family, the obstacles you may face, and even how the group experience might look a little different. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource) Pure Desire Counseling

In this episode, I have the privilege of introducing you to Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire, a ministry whose mission is to provide hope, freedom and healing from sexual brokenness through Jesus Christ.  We discuss some of the deeper elements of what is going on in the mind of a pornography addict.Episode-related resources:If you are looking for help with unhealthy sexual behavior, please check out Pure Desire. Their mission is to provide hope, freedom and healing from sexual brokenness through Jesus Christ.Also, the “I Am Second” organization has teamed up with Joshua Broome to make a free, on-line study available; 10 Steps to Get Freedom From Pornography.XXXchurch was one of the first organizations that took on the problem of pornography head on, even when others chose to ignore it. They have great resources and connections available for those needing help.Opening theme song; "Walk in the Valley" by Ross King©2022 Ross King Music - Used with special permissionLyrics:I was made to walk in the valley I was built to stand in the stormThere's a peace deep inside meThat can outlast any warI have faced the dark and the dangerThey can't scare me anymoreI was made to walk in the valley I was built to stand in the storm***Support the showQuestions or comments can be sent to steven@nookpodcast.comJoin The Nook Facebook page!Steven's Social Media:Instagram and TwitterCheck out some great Christian apparel: Pace Christian ClothingUse the promo code "STEVEM15" and save 15% on your order!

Lives and relationships are destroyed by unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal. Pornography is often at the center. Nick Stumbo, Pure Desire Ministries Executive Director shares his story, and the power of receiving positive, proven help starting today! https://puredesire.org/ 

Nick Stumbo concludes our series in Colossians with a passage in which we get the opportunity to appreciate that God did not leave Paul to carry his burdens alone, but rather placed him within a team.

In the last episode, you heard Bob talk about how Pure Desire helped him break free from pornography. In this episode, we go to the source; Nick describes his work at Pure Desire. Like so many other guys out there (including me!), he was exposed to pornography at a young age, and became hopelessly addicted... ...but didn't want to see it that way. It was just a problem that came up in some "new" way every so often, that he was for sure going to beat, that never really went away. Even when a perfect opportunity was handed to him to try something new, he knew that it would be a great opportunity for those other guys who were actually addicted! Thankfully his wife nudged his ribs and persuaded him to do it. His life was transformed forever. Yours can be too! Join me in this episode as Nick and I discuss his story, and how Pure Desire finally cracked open his addiction enough to allow the healing love of Jesus to restore him. He shares his struggles starting from childhood and into marriage; escape seemed impossible! Yet, with a new and deeper approach, he found his freedom. You can find out more about the Pure Desire program at https://puredesire.org/ You can also find Nick's books on Amazon at: Setting Us Free SAFE: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame

Nick Stumbo, Executive Director for Pure Desire, sits in on Porn Free Radio Today. In this episode, Matt and Nick talk about being all in with recovery, basketball,  the 2022 Pure Desire summit, and our favorite decade, the 90's. Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/289   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com   Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

Nick Stumbo, Executive Director for Pure Desire, sits in on Porn Free Radio Today. In this episode, Matt and Nick talk about being all in with recovery, basketball,  the 2022 Pure Desire summit, and our favorite decade, the 90's. https://recoveredman.com/289

Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries International, author of two books, and an ordained minister with the Christian and Missionary Alliance. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pure Desire. Today, Nick continues to believe that the Church can become a place of healing and that Pure Desire is leading the way. In today's episode, he details his recovery story as a third-generation pastor, why his pride left him stuck in a binge-purge cycle for years, how he confessed to his church his struggle (while pastoring), and the forgiveness revival that materialized after. He also explains why community changes people's lives and the importance of the local church in the future of porn addiction recovery. Join a Pure Desire Group and Check Out Pure Desire Resources Watch Sexual Integrity 101: A video course for men, women, parents and leaders Follow Pure Desire on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook, Nick Stumbo on Twitter Get a FREE copy of my bestselling blueprint for porn addiction recovery, The Last Relapse

Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries International, author of two books, and an ordained minister with the Christian and Missionary Alliance. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pure Desire. Today, Nick continues to believe that the Church can become a place of healing and that Pure Desire is leading the way. In today's episode, he details his recovery story as a third-generation pastor, why his pride left him stuck in a binge-purge cycle for years, how he confessed to his church his struggle (while pastoring), and the forgiveness revival that materialized after. He also explains why community changes people's lives and the importance of the local church in the future of porn addiction recovery. Join a Pure Desire Group and Check Out Pure Desire Resources Watch Sexual Integrity 101: A video course for men, women, parents and leaders Follow Pure Desire on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook, Nick Stumbo on Twitter Get a FREE copy of my bestselling blueprint for porn addiction recovery, The Last Relapse

Pastors Mike and Josh are joined by Nick Stumbo, director of Pure Desire Ministries, on this episode. Nick shares honestly about his journey with sexual brokenness and how the Lord's providence led him to Pure Desire Ministries. They also talk about how everyone has sexual brokenness and how the church can open up, share, and love one another through battling this sin.

The hits keep on coming. It's another EPIC PFR crossover with the Pure Desire Podcast. Trevor Winsor and Nick Stumbo joined me back in PFR 233 for a great discussion about recovery. On today's show we talk about my book, Porn Free: Becoming the Type of Man Who Does Not Look At Porn. We discuss self-rejection, connection in recovery, and the power of groups. https://recoveredman.com/278

Nick Stumbo brings us a message from Luke 22 where we are confronted with the reality that Jesus is often different than what we may expect him to be.

Close to 70% of men in the church today are struggling with some form of sexual brokenness. In this podcast with Nick Stumbo he shares his struggle as a pastor with pornography and how he found healing and eventually became the director of Pure Desire ministry. He provides wonderful advice on how churches can develop an environment where men can experience healing and freedom. Pure Desire Ministry: https://puredesire.org/ "Until a leader is willing to address their own brokenness, they will not be able to help others with theirs." Timestamps:  0:00 – With Nick Stumbo 12:30 – The magnitude of the problem 18:00 – What to do 25:00 – Nick Stumbo Resources

Do you feel like you’re the only one struggling with porn? Are you wanting to find freedom once and for all? Is your spouse viewing pornography and you don’t know if you’ll ever be able to trust or love them again? Many people are struggling with a pornography addiction. Prayer is not enough. Find out how harmful behaviors arise from inaccurate thoughts and feelings stemming from corrupt core beliefs. Addressing the main issue at the core, will help stop this unhealthy addiction. TAKEAWAYS The pornography problem is bigger than we realize Why we fail to succeed despite sincere efforts to change Dangers of pornography have evolved and worsened over time How the Sexual Integrity 101 video series will help you find freedom

How does one break free from the cycle of porn addiction and get help with sexual integrity? The challenge is to recognize that you in fact have a problem, and you are stuck in a pattern that makes you feel powerless. My guest today is Nick Stumbo. Nick, is the Executive Director for Pure Desire. Pure Desire and Nick, both believe you were designed, to live a life without sexual brokenness, and the effects it can have on your present, and future. Nick also continues to believe that the church can become a place of healing and that Pure Desire is leading the way. His passion for the church and this ministry is evident. Join me as I try on Nick's size 13 Brooks running shoes.•To learn more about Nick click here.•Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!•Other People's Shoes would love your financial gift to help support the show click here•Have questions or want to give feedback call or text: 203-548-SHOE•If you enjoy the show consider subscribe on your favorite podcast platforms, so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!•To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com•Social Media:**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow

Nick Stumbo continues the series "Luke: Certainty In Uncertain Times" with a message entitled "A New Lens" from Luke 16:14-18.

Episode 25 of The Courage, Coaching and Counseling Podcast is with Nick Stumbo. As a third-generation pastor, Nick started his ministry career at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington. Serving as their lead pastor for more than a decade, Nick observed the fallout of sexual brokenness and devastation in the lives of men and women in the church and recognized, like never before, the need for a culture of grace in the Church. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pure Desire. It radically changed their lives! His public disclosure to his church body led to a revival of forgiveness and healing, launching Pure Desire groups—of hope and freedom—for men and women. Today, as the Executive Director for Pure Desire, Nick continues to believe that the Church can become a place of healing and that Pure Desire is leading the way. His passion for the Church and this ministry is evident. Nick and Michelle have four kids, ranging in age from 16 to 8, and live in Gresham, Oregon. Nick is an avid runner, having completed 8 marathons, including the Boston marathon. He is a sports enthusiast and has a deep love of the Minnesota Twins. EXPERIENCE AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS: Featured on Focus on the Family Radio. Fifteen years of pastoral ministry experience. Author of Setting Us Free and Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Frequent contributor to Pure Desire blogs and podcasts, and documentaries on sexuality and addiction recovery. You can learn more about Pure Desire: https://puredesire.org/ To schedule Nick for an event or appearance, contact him at events@puredesire.org He mentions two other groups that provide support: https://www.423communities.org/ https://www.purelifealliance.com/ The Courage, Coaching and Counseling Podcast launched March 30th, 2021. I write more about marriage and parenting on my blog www.SovannPen.com You can watch the show on my Youtube channel. The purpose of the show is to encourage and inspire you to be more courageous in life and to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. It is for those who may be struggling with mental illness, relationship struggles, or seeking clarity and direction in life. People who are interested in personal growth, emotional and spiritual health. Moms and Dads who would like help with their marriage and/or parenting. And people who are interested in how church leaders and mental health providers can work together to care for people. You can connect with me: htps://www.instagram.com/sovannpencounseling https://www.facebook.com/CourageCoachingCounseling https://twitter.com/SovannPen http://www.sovannpen.com/ https://www.anewdaycounseling.org/

Welcome to episode #60!In this week's episode, Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, shares his story and talks about how to break free from a culture of shame.Trying harder doesn't workAttempting to beat porn in a a try harder mentality leads to a binge purge cycle, and it led Nick to years of struggling behind closed doors and being bogged down in shame and guilt. When we focus on just the behaviour, it becomes about managing a problem on the surface level, but true freedom comes with inner healing which is where the root of the problem is located. Porn is just a coping mechanism to deal with pain, trauma, or even emotion that we don't know how to deal with or regulate well. When Nick dealt with the root, that is when he began to experience true and lasting freedom.Being in a group is vital to healingFor Nick, being part of a group helped him to learn about the underlying issues about his porn use, and when he was honest and vulnerable in a group it helps others as well! We need a group to help us learn and heal, and it breaks us out of the isolation that we tend to hide in when we are struggling with porn. To join a pure desire group click here.Shame attacks us to the core Guilt revolves around the idea that we did something wrong, whereas shame makes us think that there is something wrong with us. It attacks our identity, our sense of worth and it leaves us feeling like we have no value and that we don't have anything worthwhile to give. These are lies that make a porn addiction so harmful, because we feel like the only place that sense of worthlessness is masked over is when we look at porn. This creates a downward spiral that is really hard to come back from until we deal with the sense of shame in our lives. Share With Your FriendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeNext week, Matt and Braden start a four-part series called the "Path Out Of Porn". You don't want to miss it!!ResourcesPure Desire MinistriesJoin a Pure Desire GroupYour Pure Freedom Journey through Restored MinistriesPersonal 1-on-1 Coaching with one of Restored Ministries' trained coachesFamilyLife Canada:  Resources and events to strengthen your marriageCovenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 12 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.comMATT CLINEMatt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honored to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.

Welcome to episode #59!In this week's episode, Richard De La Mora shares how he's been able to look past the history that his wife has in the porn industry and see her instead as a product of God's grace and transformation!Honesty leads to intimacy...but pray about it!Honesty and conversation leads to intimacy. Richard wanted to know everything about his wife's past because he desired for her to know that he fully loved her despite her past. You have to be ready to hear things that you don't want to hear though. If you're not ready to hear certain things about your partner's past, maybe wait and pray for God's help and guidance in having these hard and awkward conversations. If you can get to where you can be fully open with each other about everything and both have mature responses, your intimacy in marriage will be incredible.Richard took the bullets out of the gun of the enemyFrom when Richard started dating Brittni all the way up to the current day, Britt's old fans have been sending him pictures of her from her old line of work. They've put these pictures on his public Facebook page, taunted him with names and tried to make him insecure. Richard got ahead of this though, by asking Brittni to tell him everything she had ever done. It hurt in the moment, but he wanted everything out so that when others would send him things, nothing was going to catch him by surprise. He didn't want to leave any room for Satan to come and cause division and insecurity in his marriage with Brittni.Strength and wisdom comes from daily intimacy with JesusFor Richard to be able to see Brittni as a beautiful woman of God and a product of grace, even in the midst of receiving pictures and videos from her old fans, he has to draw on a power that only comes from intimacy with Christ. He gets up at 5am every morning to spend time with God. He meditates on God's word instead of just reading it to get it done. He dwells on the wisdom and love of the Lord as he lives his days so that he can live in the wisdom, strength, and grace of the Lord. Because of this, he's been able to withstand things would bring most men down. Now, whenever he gets reminded of her past, he thanks God for the reminder of what He brought his wife out of and for his transformative work in her life.Share With Your FriendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeNext week, Matt and Braden chat with the director of Pure Desire Ministries, Nick Stumbo, on how to live a life free of shame even after battling addiction for many years.ResourcesLove Always MinistriesFree course: Single and ContentYour Pure Freedom Journey through Restored MinistriesPersonal 1-on-1 Coaching with one of Restored Ministries' trained coachesFamilyLife Canada:  Resources and events to strengthen your marriageCovenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 12 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.comMATT CLINEMatt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honored to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.

Can you talk about sex in church? For many the answer is "no", but what if it was? And what would it take to change? Often sex and sexuality is ignored, but Nick Stumbo, executive director of Pure Desire and a former lead pastor, not only has a unique view of how things can change, but also implemented it as a ministry leader. You'll not want to miss this episode. Connect with Pure Desire Ministries on their website, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or Youtube Check out our online course Sexpectations, and learn how to address your sexual story with both honesty and compassion. 

" The danger is that for men and women in ministry there is little to no training, guidance, and supervision that is ever offered specifically in the area of sexual wholeness and integrity." These words from our guest, Nick Stumbo, lay the foundation for this episode. Nick was a pastor for 15 years and now leads the sexual integrity ministry Pure Desire. Our conversation will unpack sexual sin and leaders in the church; what to do when a leader is struggling or failing, and how to better prepare leaders to cultivate a personal and corporate culture of sexual wholeness and integrity. *For pastors looking for confidential help:* PureDesire.org ( https://puredesire.org/ ). *Blog:* The Christian Response to Moral Failure in the Church ( https://2.bebroken.com/be-broken-blog/the-christian-response-to-moral-failure-in-church-leaders ) *Books:* Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey of Grace ( https://puredesire.org/shop/setting-us-free/ ) Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame ( https://puredesire.org/shop/safe/ ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Nick Stumbo continues the series "Luke: Certainty In Uncertain Times" with a message entitled "Jesus' Teaching On Prayer" from Luke 11:1-13.

Nick Stumbo fell into porn as a kid, struggled as a teen, struggled even into his marriage and as a pastor.  So, he reached out to Pure Desire to break free and be healed.  And now Nick’s the Executive Director of Pure Desire, a ministry that helps us find purity in a porn infused world.  We talk about why Jesus followers struggle with porn; how marriages affected by porn can heal; why purity needs to be a welcome conversation at every church (Nick shares his story); how leaders can reach out for help without getting fired; what a culture of grace looks like in a church; and finally, how Nick finally broke free. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As a third-generation pastor, Nick Stumbo observed first-hand the fallout of sexual brokenness and devastation in the lives of men and women in the church. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pure Desire. It radically changed their lives! His public disclosure to his church body led to much forgiveness and healing and the launch of Pure Desire groups for men and women. Today, as the Executive Director of Pure Desire, Nick continues to believe that the church can become a place of healing. He is the author of Setting Us Free and Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Nick lives in Oregon with his wife and four children.

Like many of you I have been reeling from the stories that have come out in the last years of great Christian leaders, mostly men, who have fallen hard. How do we respond to these events? What is it doing for the church or to the church? Why does this even happen to people we look […] The post Podcast Ep.75: When Christian Leaders Fail Us (Nick Stumbo) appeared first on Before You Quit.

Studies show that over 50% of pastors struggle with pornography. In this episode, we talk to Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desires, about his journey to freedom as the previous senior pastor of his church and his experience disclosing his struggle to the entire congregation. He explains how the church needs to respond to leaders who are struggling with porn and what Pure Desires is creating to help them and others find healing. More Resources:https://puredesire.org/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-desire-podcast/id1253655598Our Resources:https://restored2more.com/https://www.facebook.com/Restored-2-More-108863067511392/?modal=admin_todo_tourhttps://www.instagram.com/restored2more/

Today's episode with Dan Koch, Jonathan Merritt, Justin Khoe, Jeffrey Kranz, John Mark Comer, Nick Stumbo, and Cait and Nicole Zick of the Moral Revolution. This is part two of the three-part "best of" series. All episodes available today!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/humbleandhonest)

Tonight, Carol will be interviewing Nick Stumbo, who has his own personal story of  hope and healing from Sexual Addiction. He believes that men and women need to find support, understanding and grace from thier church.  He is going to talk about the fundamental principles of healthy sexuality and freedom within the church climate. He uses Pure Desire Ministries to help people find fellowship and sobriety.

Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire, a ministry dedicated to being a safe place for hope and healing from the effects of sexual brokenness. Through small group resources for men, women, and teens, on-site or online counseling, training events, and ministry partnerships, Pure Desire is bringing the strength of sexual integrity men across the nation. Not only is Nick the Exec Dir but he was also healed of a terrible addiction to porn through the tools of this ministry. Pure Desire was founded by Dr. Ted Roberts who as a local pastor saw the desperate need to help men end the isolation so often found in the struggle for wholeness - and actually win victory.

Discover how Nick Stumbo found freedom from porn, even while serving as the lead pastor of a church!Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and Co-Host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the author of Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey Of Grace, and Safe: Creating A Culture Of Grace In A Climate Of Shame. You can email him at nicks@puredesire.orgIn this episode, we walk a lot about the power of groups. Join a Pure Desire Group here: https://www.puredesire.orgJoin an Unwanted Journey Group here: https://www.unwantedworkbook.com/groupsJoin a Husband Material Group here: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/groupText Drew at 805-881-3673.

Nick Stumbo and Trevor Winsor join me for an EPIC crossover episode with the Pure Desire Podcast. https://recoveredman.com/233

In this second part of this conversation I speak with Pastor Nick Stumbo. Nick Stumbo is the executive pastor of Pure Desire ministries and is not shy to answer questions regarding sex. Pure Desire Ministries exists to provide hope and freedom from sexual addiction by educating and equipping church leaders in the development of a healing ministry. This episode, Nick Stumbo shares his story and also answers common questions currently circulating about pornography and sexuality. For more information about Pure Desire Ministries you can click here. This episode is brought to you with the help of Ambo TV brings inspirational live sermons from the most captivating, next-generation Christian pastors, along with in-studio discussion, to a broad multi-platform audience. Humble and Honest is now on Patreon! For as low as 1 dollar a month you can help support this show and help continue to these conversations. Be a part of the process by clicking here. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/humbleandhonest)

Did you know that 68% of Christian men struggle with unwanted sexual behavior? That 25% of Christian women use sex to hide a deeper issue that they’re struggling with? We tend to believe that, if we really love Jesus, we won’t struggle with sex. Juli’s guest today, Nick Stumbo, struggled with pornography while serving as a pastor. Join them for a conversation about overcoming addiction, the flawed thinking that good Christians don’t fall into sexual sin, and why sexual discipleship® is so important! Guest: Nick Stumbo Mentioned: Pure Desire Ministries Subscribe to Java with Juli Rethinking Sexuality  

Nick and Noah talk through the desire that is underneath the desire to look at pornography, and how the only real way to find freedom is to have that desire met in legitimate ways. Listen in to find out what those legitimate ways are and how you can get past the "every time is the last time" mentality toward pornography and sexual sin. The "legitimate ways" of meeting our deepest desires applies to any area of struggle you may be facing, not just pornography. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries. He has been in leadership for 15+ years. He was in Pastoral Ministry at East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, for 14 years. Nick has a Bachelor's in Pastoral Studies from Crown College and an MDiv from Bethel Seminary. He has authored two books, Setting Us Free and Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Pure Desire provides a safe place for hope and healing for men, women, and students impacted by sexual brokenness. Through group resources, counseling, events, and partnerships, men, women, and students can develop sexual integrity, restore broken marriages, and establish healthy relationships.   www.puredesire.org The Pure Desire Podcast

Nick and I chat about his journey of discovering freedom from pornography, dealing with negative sexual history, normalizing the conversation in our churches and homes, behaviors vs. core beliefs, and how Pure Desire ministrieshelps people find freedom from sexual addiction. Pure Desire Ministry 4:20 As we begin, will you share with our listener's a little of your story.  When did you come to know Jesus?  How did you end up working at Pure Desire?  "My little brain responded to it the way God has designed our brain to react to that, which is a sense of curiosity, intrigue, drawing, even maybe to level a bonding to what I'm seeing.  I'm wanting to see more and yet, at the same time, this repulsion of this is wrong. I can't tell my mom and dad. I don't know what I am doing...Sex came into my life in a way that was both secretive and shameful." "No one really knew what freedom and hope and lasting transformation looked like, so you go away thinking, 'Okay, this time I am going to try really hard not to go back there,' but because nothing on the inside has really changed it comes back." "I remember her saying, 'It's not that I hate you, but I hate the way this makes me feel and because I don't know if it is ever going to change...I don't know if I can stay'....Because of that moment of real pain, by God's grace, He used that to direct us into Pure Desire Ministries, where we went through a year of being in groups, both for myself as the one who struggled and for her as the betrayed spouse. And also a year of counseling, that was the first time in my life I sat down with someone who knew the Bible and also understood the human brain and addiction and how all of that didn't have to be contradictory, but it all fit together." "This was never our plan, but it became, by far, the best discipleship program we ever had" Setting Us Freeby Nick Stumbo "It does feel like people are making a moral choice, and they are. I don't want to in any suggest that because we understand the addictive nature of it, because we start to see what happens in the brain, that doesn't in any way excuse us from responsibility, that doesn't mean we can blame it on someone else...But it's trying to help believers see that there's more going on than just try harder and believe more." "What happens in the church is we see someone's behaviors and we say, 'Stop that! Don't do that anymore! Read your Bible and pray and don't make that decision.' But if we don't help them see the thoughts and feelings that are driving it and even deeper, the core beliefs that in our family of origin or trauma that we've gone through or places we've been wounded...."  SHOW NOTES continued --------------------------------------------------- Pure Desire Ministry ------------------------------------------------------ Follow Grace Enough Podcast on IG and FB ---------------------------------------------------------

Today Nate & Aaron chat with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire ministries about Nick's story and how to understand the difference between arrival mentality and journey mentality in recovery, as we search for deeper maturity and more honest...honesty. Check out the happenings at Pure Desire Ministries by clicking: https://puredesire.org/

Pure Desire Ministries is a ministry designed at helping Christians find help for pornography and sex addiction.  Nick is a well-known voice for healing in recovery through his work and his own podcasts. Nick and Doug discuss how the Church can stand up to this epidemic, and how there are practical ways to join in the […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 66: Pure Desire Podcast – A Discussion with Nick Stumbo appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Nick Stumbo gives us a transparent look at his own journey to freedom from addiction to pornography. He introduces us to some of the resources of Pure Desire that can help those who are struggling in this area. Nick provides the important first step to freedom for those who are trapped in this addiction.   Resources www.puredesire.org www.cmalliance.org www.equippingu.org

An original presentation by Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, at our FEC Annual 2017 Convention.

An original presentation by Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, at our FEC Annual 2017 Convention.

An original presentation by Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, at our FEC Annual 2017 Convention.

We have a special episode this week from our Executive Director, Nick Stumbo. Today's episode is Nick's message from our 2017 Men's Conference - titled "Redeemed."

We have our co-host, Nick Stumbo, as our guest today to talk about his new book - Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Nick talks us through what the message is of his new book and who it's written for. He also tells how to really get to a place where your church's culture is one of grace and not a performance-based culture. To pre-order Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame - visit puredesire.org/safe

We talk to Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, Nick Stumbo. Nick shares about who Pure Desire is, where we come from, and where we are headed.

" The danger is that for men and women in ministry there is little to no training, guidance, and supervision that is ever offered specifically in the area of sexual wholeness and integrity." These words from our guest, Nick Stumbo, lay the foundation for this episode. Nick was a pastor for 15 years and now leads the sexual integrity ministry Pure Desire. Our conversation will unpack sexual sin and leaders in the church; what to do when a leader is struggling or failing, and how to better prepare leaders to cultivate a personal and corporate culture of sexual wholeness and integrity. *For pastors looking for confidential help:* PureDesire.org ( https://puredesire.org/ ). *Blog:* The Christian Response to Moral Failure in the Church ( https://2.bebroken.com/be-broken-blog/the-christian-response-to-moral-failure-in-church-leaders ) *Books:* Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey of Grace ( https://puredesire.org/shop/setting-us-free/ ) Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame ( https://puredesire.org/shop/safe/ ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Nick Stumbo was a senior pastor with a porn struggle. This is not an uncommon story, but not all pastors with such a struggle are willing to bring it into the light. But Nick did bring it into the light and worked through healing with his church. Now he is the executive director of Pure Desire and helps lead others into the light of truth and grace regarding God's design for sexuality. Hear his story and his insights for living in the light.  Learn more at http://www.PureDesire.org. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Nick Stumbo was a senior pastor with a porn struggle. This is not an uncommon story, but not all pastors with such a struggle are willing to bring it into the light. But Nick did bring it into the light and worked through healing with his church. Now he is the executive director of Pure Desire and helps lead others into the light of truth and grace regarding God's design for sexuality. Hear his story and his insights for living in the light.  Learn more at http://www.PureDesire.org. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations