Strangers You Know

As we reach the one-year mark of "Strangers You Know," I want to express my gratitude and provide some important updates. I apologize for letting the anniversary slip by without acknowledgment, as it was a disservice to my guests and listeners. The podcast's inception was an unexpected shift from a novel project, and since then, it has become a platform for transformative conversations with remarkable guests.We've released over 40 episodes in the past year and achieved significant milestones. However, juggling multiple projects has impacted the podcast's quality and consistency. To address this, I've made the decision to wrap up Season One and take a short break. During this time, I will find space, silence, and complete the neglected novel that inspired the initial project.While there won't be new episodes for a few months, I want to assure you that I'm still recording captivating conversations for Season Two. The upcoming season will feature guests who bring fresh perspectives and inspiring stories. I'm excited about the future of the podcast and the opportunity to provide even more thoughtfully curated content.I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to the guests who have shared their stories and to all our amazing listeners for their support. Your engagement, reflections, and willingness to share have created a space for genuine connection and meaningful conversations. I invite you to continue being part of our vibrant community, sharing your thoughts on past episodes, and spreading the word to others.During this hiatus, I ask for your continued support by sharing the show, engaging with our social media, and inviting others to listen and subscribe. Your efforts make a significant difference in helping "Strangers You Know" reach more people and touch more lives. Thank you for joining me on this incredible journey, and I'm eagerly looking forward to reuniting for Season Two with renewed energy and a deeper well of experiences to draw from.All my love,BrianSupport the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

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Born in the Central African Republic, Amira Kherrallah has faced the unimaginable challenges of leaving her home, family, and friends behind during a time of conflict. Her inspiring journey as a refugee and entrepreneur has taught her the importance of resilience, determination, and hope. She puts God first in her life and likes to make herself useful and serve her community.“My story made who I am today... when I see myself I would never believe that I am that Amira stronger, independent, and hard worker.. I wont be this Amira today if all of those events, challenges never happened in my life.”Explore Amira's harrowing experiences as a refugee in the midst of war and crisis.Realize the importance of vulnerability and honesty in fostering strong, meaningful interactions.Embracing your past and relying on God to become your best self and create your best future.The death of Amira's mother contributed to who she is today. It was the driving force behind her founding, PreventHer.org, a non-profit dedicated to providing resources and raising awareness about Breast Cancer in refugees. Visit her organization at www.PreventHer.org Share this episode with a friend. Learn more about the unnecessary obstacles our society and government burden immigrants, refugees, and new Americans. Help forge a path to citizenship by visiting https://business.utah.gov/immigration/ #Refugee; #Religion; #Entrepreneurship; #BreastCancerAwarness; #Africa; #Education; OTHER EPISODES YOU WILL LOVE!#124 - Marie: Finding a Space to Belong#104 - Amanda - Understanding Real Poverty#132 - Sol Vargas' Journey to Justice: An Immigrant's Story of Resilience and HopeLISTEN to Amira's episode and all other episodes and show notes at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com #Refugees, #NewAmericans, #Resiliance, #Entrepreneurship, #BreastCancerAwarenessSupport the showLoved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here!Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests.Support the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Matt Gilhooly's life took a sharp turn at the age of eight when a tragic accident claimed the life of his mother. Thrust into a world of grief and confusion, Matt struggled to make sense of his loss, eventually burying his pain deep within. As he grew older, he strived for perfection in all aspects of life, fearing abandonment and seeking validation from those around him. It wasn't until his 30s that Matt confronted his grief head-on and began the process of healing, thanks in part to a therapist who helped him see the impact his mother's death had on his life."The boy that walked into that room was not the same as the boy who walked out. His life was changed forever based on that single, sudden announcement."Strengthen your relationships by nurturing honest, vulnerable, and bold conversations with those around you. Strive for clarity in understanding your life-shifting moments and learn how to use them as opportunities to forge your personal transformations.Matt Gilhooly is the creator and host of The Life Shift Podcast. Spurred by his own life-altering experiences, Matt helps others share the stories of pivotal moments in their lives that changed everything forever on The Life Shift Podcast. He also enjoys designing content, such as communication materials, coloring books, digital art, pitch decks, and other forms of media. Matt has self-published over 10 coloring books on Amazon and released a children's book that celebrates individuality and confidence, "I Can Be Anyone: A Soul's Journey," in June 2021. Matt earned his master's in mass communications from the University of Florida in 2022 and an MBA from the University of Central Florida in 2004. OTHER EPISODES YOU WILL LOVE!#133-Dani Bates-Telling My 3-Yr-Old About Her Dad's Suicide#118-Pierre - Finding & Losing Purpose#104-Keegan - Psychedelics and the Bathtub FuneralLISTEN to Matt Gilhooly's and all other episodes and show notes at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com  #TheLifeShift, #MentalHealth, #Healing, #Death, #Greiving, #Connection, #Creativity Support the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Samantha Hodder has explored the power of storytelling since she was five-years-old. Today she shares the behind-the-scenes stories that led her to the most remote spot on earth and why that story was nearly silenced forever. Four years of setbacks, separation from family, taking risks at the end of the world, and nearly losing everything to fire, only to start from scratch and then put everything on hold indefinitely. "I wanted to be in another world, another zone. I wanted to communicate. I had a voice in me that just couldn't shut up and it needed to find a way out. So I looked for the story, because that's what humans do. We tell stories to help us understand ourselves and the world around us." Why creators create? How creators create? What happens when they don't create?Samantha Hodder has been making media across multiple formats for over two decades. An audio producer and writer, Sam publishes regularly on Medium and her Substack is called Bingeworthy, which is a newsletter about narrative podcasts that are just that good.OTHER EPISODES YOU WILL LOVE!#123 Lance - Survivor Archetypes: Allowing Curiosity & Wonder#115 Hardy - Pattern Interrupt#106 Charlie - Why is This Funny? LISTEN to Samantha Hodder's and all other episodes and show notes at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com  #Antarctica, #Podcasts, #ImposterSyndrome, #StoriesChangeTheWorld Support the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

#137 James Hadlock: Human beings can lose themselves in even the noblest of causes. Understanding ourselves and our motivating factors can raise us to great heights, or crush us. In the case of James Hadlock, it did both."The more that I went on that journey, the more that I started to notice that transformation is possible for anyone, any time."The same motivation that drives us to success can also drive us to complete ruin. Understanding what is driving our feelings and tapping into our inner wisdom is key to which direction we are heading.James is an experienced entrepreneur, mental health activist, and executive coach. He's the Co-founder and Chief Evangelist of Blunovus, an emotional support service and leadership training company that helps organizations move upstream and proactively address life-work well-being on a cultural level. OTHER EPISODES YOU WILL LOVE!#123 Lance - Survivor Archetypes: Allowing Curiosity & Wonder: Nobody makes it to the NBA without talent and determination. This accomplishment is exponentially difficult when you're deaf.#115 Hardy - Pattern Interrupt: Making bold life changes by listening to your inner voice.#127 Jaynee - Comparing vs. Cheering: Our Expectations - Their Self-Worth: How our motivations affect our children.(CW: Drugs, Addiction, Suicidal Ideation) LISTEN to James Hadlock's and all other episodes and show notes at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.comSupport the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

How does being an identical twin influence your understanding of yourself?  What if people only knew you by way of reference to another person? You're the tallest in your family, you're much quieter than your sister. Who takes more after their mom?  What if your referent looked just like you? Had the same smile, same face, an exact DNA replica? "The irony with being an identical twin is that people think they know you because you have someone who shares your same DNA. You feel like a ghost because people think they see you, but they don't take the time to really get to know you as an individual."Rachel is an incredible leader. She shares the deconstruction of her high-demand religion, redefining motherhood, and how she can best show up for those in need. She also gives the inside scoop about what drove her to launch her non-profit, Common Thread, and we talk about the massive impact she is having in the community and on nearly a thousand teens who are struggling with trauma and dealing with significant adversity.  Rachel Garrett is a former high school teacher, a licensed foster parent, and a certified CASA. Rachel has a master's degree in Psychology: Child and Adolescent Development, emphasizing how trauma impacts brains and behaviors. Rachel is Founder and Executive Director of Common Thread, a non-profit dedicated to building community and strengthening teens who are experiencing significant adversity in their lives. OTHER EPISODES YOU WILL LOVE!109 Meg-Friendly Refuge (Deconstruction, Reframing "Motherhood"),111 Kseniya-Nomad Alliance (Building a non-profit that serves those in need, Labor of Love)132 Sol-Journey to Justice (Dedicated service to underserved communities, Making a Difference)#IdenticalTwin, #Identity, #FosterCare, #Depression, #Identity, #CommonThread, #Acceptance Support the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Is your life transition leading to authentic discovery or are you falling victim to another toxic trap? James Barnes has spent the majority of his life trying to find his authentic self in a world that desperately needed him to conform to pre-approved stereotypes.  Several times he tried to find his true path, only to find himself trying to fit into a different, equally ill-fitting, pre-defined box. "We're deeply trained to please other people. Often, in key transitions, we trade one false identity only to completely embrace another - simply because that's what other people want from us. We must learn to avoid pre-defined stereotypes and look inward if we want to find our true selves."James Barnes is an entrepreneur, teacher, and bridge-builder. After being born and raised in a Christian home, James spent years trying to figure out where he fit in. It wasn't until eight years ago, when James came out as trans, that he started to find the answers he was looking for. James' story is an inspiring one of resilience, self-discovery, and the power of owning your identity. Through his coaching and online activism, James is creating a safe space for honest, vulnerable, and bold conversations about masculinity, mental health, trans rights, and all of life's transitions.Resources:"Permission to Feel" by Dr. Marc Brackett James' "Connect Course" MUST WATCH James' post on toxic distancing in male relationships.Other episodes you'll enjoy: #101 Jaxon - "The Man at My Wedding." Jaxon, a transgender man, tells the story of his brave journey to self-acceptance and love. #104 Amanda - "Understanding Real Poverty." Amanda tells how a single question changed her life forever, opening her eyes to a world of possibilities, and instilling a strong desire to live and work abroad. #116 Kauri - "Healing Oasis" Kauri bravely shares her experiences with racism, sexual abuse, incarceration of a loved one, and even her own death. #107 Santiago - "Cui Bono?" We discuss philosophy, politics, existential crisis, religion, expressions of God, worldviews, power, friends, family, and machismo.Support the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

After thousands of hours of leadership training and tens of thousands of hours of committed service Jed and I independently left the Mormon religion. In this conversation, we evaluate how well/poorly we handled our exits. We both stumbled through uncharted waters, weighed down by guilt and shame. Disoriented and angry, we made many mistakes and damaged relationships with good people. LISTEN to Jed's original episode "#112: Jed-- Deconstructing the House of Cards" or See his complete SHOW NOTES for this episode. "There's definitely no section of the handbook on how to leave the church. Everything is designed to keep you in. You're supposed to doubt your doubts, not question church policy. There was no soft landing getting out when it doesn't work anymore. So, yeah, you feel very isolated and alone."Jed was a Mormon Bishop when he began asking hard questions about the religion he'd dedicated himself to his entire life.This episode doesn't get into details about why we left organized religion. Instead, it focuses more on how we navigated that transition, in a word - poorly. But that's the whole point. Our lives are filled with transitions. Physically moving from one community to another. Mentally moving from one belief to another. Seeing the world through a broader or different perspective. Emotionally shifting between relationships. Changes of professions. We are constantly re-inventing ourselves in the search for authenticity. These transitions are often confusing, emotionally draining, and almost always messy. Understanding that chaos can help us through our next shift. It can also help us find the grace and the space for helping others through their difficult transitions.Support the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Do we have difficult conversations or allow the silence of suicide to create stigma, shame, and isolation? Talking with her 3-year-old daughter about her father's death by suicide was almost unthinkable. But to Dani Bates, a 29-year-old widow, not talking about it wasn't even an option. "I don't want ‘suicide' to be a swear word for my children. I want them to be able to say it and be okay with it, just like if their dad died of cancer."COMPLETE SHOW NOTESWe must normalize conversations about suicide. It is the best way to help those currently suffering and prevent future trauma. Suicide is the 2nd-highest cause of death among teens and 10th-highest cause of death for all adults in the U.S.Dani Bates is a 33-year-old mother of three who lost her husband to suicide four years ago. She is an advocate for mental health awareness and is passionate about educating the younger generations on the importance of mental health.After experiencing abandonment by being given up for adoption, getting divorced, and then her second husband's death by suicide, Dani Bates shares important lessons that have helped her cope with mental health, suicide, and abandonment. CW: This episode contains information about suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of self-harm, there are ways to get help. Call or text 988 for free, confidential crisis counseling and referrals.For more information or help visit - 988lifeline.orgSupport the show Loved this episode? Leave us a 5-Star review and rating here! Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join the conversation online at our Facebook Community Page with many of our listeners and guests. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Linked-In, or TikTok. Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

"Together, we fight for a better future for our undocumented community, for a world where everyone is treated with humanity and afforded equal rights.""If we're not fighting for all of us, it's not good for anybody. We all deserve to be treated as human and to have access to the same rights and opportunities." - Sol VargasLISTEN TO THE ENTIRE EPISODESol Vargas was only 15 when her father was deported and is now presumed dead. She is a community organizer who works for the non-profit organization Comunidades Unidas to support the Latinx undocumented and immigrant population for equal rights and a pathway to citizenship. She has a degree in political science and recently, at the age of 22, shared her story in front of the U.S. Supreme Court.In this episode, you will learn the following:1. How did Sol Vargas get involved in advocating for immigrants in the US?2. What did Sol Vargas talk about in front of the Supreme Court?3. How did the DACA program fail to provide a pathway to citizenship for undocumented Americans?Resources:Comunidades UnidasOther episodes you'll enjoy:Marie - Finding a Space to Belong Another story of an immigrant (from USSR) and her assimilation / adjustment to U.S.Amanda's story of a U.S. emigration to Argentina and social justiceKseniya's story. USSR Immigrant, and social justice for unsheltered population.— Connect with me: Instagram: @strangers.you.knowFacebook: StrangersYouKnowPodcastLinkedIn: company/strangers-you-know-podcast/Website: www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.comJoin the Conversation on our Strangers You Know Community Page. Continue the discussion with other listeners and past guests.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here.Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

When a curious Diann Wingert discovers she was adopted as a child and had to mask her true self to keep her chaotic and violent home safe, she embarks on a journey to unearth her true identity and confront the compelling central conflict of her past.Complete Show NotesYou will learn:1. Unlearning cultural conditioning to reveal true identity2. Growing up in a dysfunctional and chaotic household3. Impact of trauma on the brain and how it affects memory.Diann Wingert is a clinical social worker and a former medical sales professional who has had a unique childhood experience of growing up in a dysfunctional, chaotic, and unpredictable household. She is an astute observer of human behavior and has spent the last few years of her life excavating herself from all the masks she had to wear to survive.Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Meg brings her husband, Mason, as she returns to the show. Sharing how deconstructing their Mormon religion was only one part of finding their true selves. They also talk about Meg's first appearance on the show and how recording and sharing that episode impacted their lives.Join the Conversation on our FaceBook Community Page"Being vulnerable is nerve-wracking, but it is ultimately rewarding when you share your story and let people see into your soul a bit." - Meg Gajkowski, Mason GajkowskiMeg and Mason Gajkowski are a couple who left the Mormon religion three years ago. This episode focuses beyond that experience to deconstruct their deconstruction, no longer identifying themselves as Ex-Mormons, and sharing tips on how listeners can find their own true identity.Six months ago, on an earlier episode of this show, Meg shared her journey of leaving the church and the reactions she received from her friends and family, who were mostly supportive. She found that when people were given the space to share their stories, it allowed for understanding and respect for others. Mason was proud of Meg for being so vulnerable and both talked about how their views have changed since leaving the church. Through conversations such as their podcast, they hope to provide a space for others to share their stories and be heard.In this episode, you will learn the following:1. How does leaving the Mormon church impact relationships with family and friends?2. Why is it so hard to have conversations about religion?3. How leaving the Mormon church changed one couple's experience and their feelings about living outside of the religion they grew up with?Recommended Reading List:Following up with Meg & Mason, they shared the following books that they recommendDaring Greatly, Brene BrownAtlas of the Heart, Brene BrownThe Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck, Mark MansonThink Like a Monk, Jay ShettyStop Overthinking, Nick TrentonExtreme Ownershiphttp://www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com, Jocko WillinkRejection Proof, Jia JiangOther episodes you'll enjoy:Meg's Original Episode: "Friendly Refuge"Liz Gale talks about her deconstruction of leaving Scientology: "Thought Loops & Red Flags"Kauri: "Healing Oasis"Connect with Strangers You Know Podcast: Instagram: strangers.you.knowFacebook: StrangersYouKnowPodcastLinkedIn: Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

At 34-years old, Shayla Benoit, filmmaker and actor, is diagnosed with stage-four cancer. Her treatment also coincided with the early Covid pandemic and she had to fight for her life while battling immunocompromisation and six rounds of chemotherapy.Shayla Benoit is a filmmaker, actor, and entrepreneur based in New York City.Now in remission, she shares her experiences with the following:Battling cancer and chemotherapy during the COVID  pandemicThe challenges of cancer treatment, including managing side effects, staying compliant with treatment, and battling insurance as a self-employed entrepreneur.The importance of advocacy and self-care for cancer patients, Especially mental health and holistic rehabilitation.Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

(Jaynee part 3 of 3)Listen to Jaynee Part 1: Authenticity, Eating Disorders, and Generational Trauma; Part 2: Comparing vs. Cheering: Our Expectations - Their Self-Worth.--- Jaynee's TedX talk @ BYU - "How to Give Pain a REAL Purpose" ---I've added several questions for our listeners to discuss based on this episode. (Kind of like a book club for discussion.) Join the Conversation on our FaceBook Community Support the Show on PatreonJaynee Poulson, mother and step-mother of six shares her struggles to find the balance between discipline and unconditional love, risking her children's security, with ironic consequences that make them stronger.You will learn:1. What is the best way to parent effectively while still allowing children to make their own choices?2. How can we find the balance between loving our children unconditionally while still helping them understand consequences?3. What is the impact of providing children with different expectations due to their level of maturity and life experience?Jaynee Poulson has learned from her mistakes and is striving to balance her parenting style. She is committed to supporting her children in making their own decisions and helping them learn from their mistakes.Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

(Jaynee: Part 2 of 3)Listen to Jaynee Part 1 - Authenticity, Eating Disorders, and Generational Trauma Support the Show on PatreonJoin the Conversation on our FaceBook Community NEW - Complete Show Notes for this episode!What goals do we set for ourselves to be remarkable? And what do those milestones say about who we are and what we value? In this second part of Jaynee's three-part series we talk about how the goals and values we aspire to has a direct impact on all our closest relationships, especially in communicating what we believe is important to our children. Consider this as you listen to today's conversation – how do our choice of heroes and goals impact those around us who may have different aspirations or values? How well do we help those around us discover their own values and set their own, independent course?This is one of the many areas where I did not do a good job as a parent. At the time, I was stuck in the binary thinking of one true path. I was beating myself up for falling short and wore blinders of exact obedience to the singular prescribed path. I certainly worked hard at instilling the same system in my kids.In spite of my unskilled parenting, my kids eventually found their own beautiful path. I regret the many battles where I tried forcing them onto a foreign path. Even more, I feel that I robbed them of the wonderful gifts they could have given the world if I had been more supportive of helping them find their genuine path much sooner. "Lift, Love, & Lead with Remarkable Women - Cheer for their Victories and Support their Choices."Jaynee Poulson is the 2020 recipient of "Remarkable Woman of the Year."  Dedicated to uplifting and recognizing women for their service and achievements, she is passionate about helping others recognize their own worth and value, free from comparison and competition.Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Another first for SYK - A return visit from a previous guest - Jaxon (also my very first episode). In his dramatic comeback performance, Jaxon swaps roles with Brian and asks our host a few questions. “It's a relatively safe endeavor to ask others to be honest, vulnerable, and bold. To share intimate, deeply meaningful parts of their lives. It's safe to press record, be the one asking questions and having final edit approval.  I truly appreciate the many guests who have answered the call and shared their stories on Strangers You Know. Today, even more so, because today, I've asked Jaxon, my very first guest, and in many ways, the genesis of this podcast to return to the studio. We exchanged some ideas on what he wanted to talk about and what the format might look like. In the end, he decided to switch roles with me so he could ask me a few questions. For those of you who listen to the end, he also gives us a quick update on a few things that have happened in his life since we first spoke seven months ago.Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Part 1 of 2In today's episode, Dr. Jaynee Paulson shares her story of overcoming an eating disorder and how it has shaped her life today. We also talk about: How to get authenticity, connection, and healing in your lifeDealing with generational trauma, and Learning how to love yourself  "I'm never going to allow this to keep happening in my life, to feel like I'm less than or not good enough and continue on that generational trauma. Like I'm good. I can move on from this because I can't give her that. Like, I'm never going to achieve what it would take.""My children think I put the stars in the sky. They think that I hung the moon, just for them - and no one has the right to tell them differently."INTRO Welcome to Part One of my conversation with Dr. Jaynee Poulson. In this episode, we talk about some of the dangers of generational trauma. She shares the story about the very first time she ever heard her mother say the words, “I Love You”. By this time, Jaynee was a grown adult… and sadly, her mother wasn't even addressing her when she said it.  This occasion did help Jaynee gain a better understanding of how to set boundaries for herself and it would become a pivotal moment for her learning to start loving herself and practicing self-care. Jaynee also talks about her eating disorder and how, after celebrating the twenty-second anniversary of her recovery, anorexia and bulimia are still impacting her life and relationships.Lastly, the two of us also talk about the importance of connection and living our most authentic life. YOUR FEEDBACK: I'm always interested in hearing comments from listeners. This week, I am asking you to share your thoughts on what your biggest challenge is when it comes to authenticity, connection, and healing?Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at Brian@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Join the conversation on our Facebook Community Page. ---I am an immersive hobbyist. I love learning about new things and getting deeply involved in new hobbies. To date, one of those hobbies has never been me. I don't like talking about the deep, hidden (buried) parts of me. Don't get me wrong. I'll talk your ear off on any of my favorite topics. Might even try to position myself as an expert on a few of them. But don't ask me deeply personal questions. I won't know how to answer.This is something that I've been working on. It has been a tremendous help to learn from my many guests who have been so Honest, Vulnerable, and Bold in sharing their thoughts, stories, and experiences. I regularly reflect on their words and treasure the opportunity I've had to get to know them. In sharing their voice, it is helping me find mine.I would love to hear your most impactful moments are from the show, or learn which episode spoke to you most. Please join our conversation on our Facebook Community Page. Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at B@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Imagine being ten years old when your family defected from the Soviet Union at the height of the Cold War and moved to the United States, leaving family members behind, bringing only your straw-filled teddy bear. Now take a second to wrap your brain around the big conflicts that light just under the surface of Marie's life. Her ancestors are Russian Jews. Her husband is from the Ukraine. Today we talk about never quite fitting in and being afraid to speak out or make yourself known. Other topics include national pride, and freedom. Deep-seated triggers. Entrepreneurism, civil disobedience, education. The real cost of social programs, and what it means to belong. Marie also shares her thoughts on the similarities of conditioning and mind control tactics used by both governments and religions. So join us today for another fascinating conversation. Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at B@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

Facebook Strangers You Know Community Page - Please join the discussion online!Today we are talking about The Artist's Way by Julia CameronI would love to hear how you manage your inner critic, how you step away from your crazy life and what you do to find peace, and live in the moment.We've had several conversations this week with several of my listeners about what they would like to hear in the show and what would interest them. There is a Strangers You Know Community on Facebook. It is a private group, but it is open to everyone. So if you're interested, join and we will add to the list. In that community. We have conversations with past guests. We talk about ideas and concepts that came up in interviews. And I encourage my listeners to share their thoughts. So please join the conversation there and let us know what you want to hear, what you liked, and interact as many of my former guests usually jump into the conversation. We're talking about adding a live event as one of these off-episodes. Where you can call in and ask me questions or you can call in and ask and talk to a guest where we'll have updates from past guests on what's been going on since their interview or how they felt about that conversation.  I'm trying to grow this into a community where we can all get to know one another. Because, while we do spend a considerable amount of time in conversations with these strangers every week. I want that idea of the stranger to include each of you. And I would love to hear what you say and your comments and thoughts. And I would be very grateful if you could share those on the Facebook community with others and start the conversation there.Okay. So it's just me today and I'm trying something a little different.About ten months ago, I went to lunch with a friend and she recommended a book that has made a big difference in helping me sort things out on my journey. The book is The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron. It's designed to help individuals discover their creativity and silence their inner critic. I've always had a very loud inner critic. And for most of my life, I've not only allowed my inner critic to sit in the front, but I've actually allowed it to commandeer the driver's seat for almost everything. I am constantly on the go. I constantly have things to do. I'm always worried about the next thing. Tasks, and check-lists. What''s accepted, expected. What's allowed.Not focusing at all on. The moment. On me. I'm just being. Support the show Financial contributions greatly appreciated! Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at B@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

I could have spent this entire episode talking about the many amazing things that Lance already has experienced in his life. He was the first deaf player to play in the NBA. His family escaped polygamy and an FLDS act that his own grandfather created. And the TED Talk he gave in Salt Lake City, where he challenged his audience to think about their thought, patterns and beliefs that they may have adopted without question. But that would have completely missed the point. Instead, today, we get to learn about the person. Lance has become his understanding of archetype and how they help him make sense of our world. We discuss absolutes and abstracts, how conflicting truths can coexist, and the real cost of speaking the truth. We talk about death and rebirth, understanding boundaries and questioning our own existence, what it means to be truly free, and how he has let go of the truth with a capital T to explore the world with curiosity and wonder. To be sure, Lance has had noteworthy experiences, both good and bad, but to spend some time getting to know him as a person is certainly a conversation you won't want to miss. Support the show Support our show Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok Email us at B@StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com

KEY LINKSNomadAlliance.org – Includes post-interview conversation with KseniyaStrangersYouKnowPodcast.com – Includes additional photos, Additional Bonus conversation with Silence, Brian, and Kseniya that includes Silence talking about his given name and how he can track God's love for him through a sequence of peanut-butter sandwiches.FaceBook Community Page – Includes pre-interview setup video.CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Abuse, Physical Abuse, Domestic Abuse, Drugs, Suicidal IdeationBrian [00:01:33] Today's conversation is with a 31-year-old self-proclaimed country boy named Silence due in part to a heavy daily dosage of Ritalin by his mother. Silence was born at £1.7, pigeon-toed and with a lazy right eye and hole in his heart. For the last six years, Silence has survived on the streets of Salt Lake City. I had the privilege of meeting him through one of my previous conversations Kseniya. I asked her if she would do the honor of introducing silence. Kseniya [00:02:00] It's an honor to introduce Silent is one of the first friends, the Nomad Alliance, met on the street on Christmas Eve 2020. It wasn't until third grade when he skipped to fifth grade that people really realized that he was an autistic savant. He hasn't 187 IQ, and yet he has spent the last six years unhoused and broken. And we are so proud to say that Silence has been sober now for nine months. He is employed in construction and he finally believes in himself as much as we always have. When I met him, his hair was to the shoulder. He was peeking out from a pile of blankets. The homeless man sleeping on that sidewalk just down the street. Brian [00:02:42] Before jumping into my talk with silence, I need to give you a little more information. First, today's episodes contains all the trigger warnings. If you've had experience with domestic abuse, sexual assault, drugs and suicidal ideation, please proceed with caution. Second, this is an important enough conversation that I believe everyone needs to hear the entire story. In silence, his own words. Third, there is a lot of information about Silence that didn't make it into this episode. Cassini recorded a follow up interview with Silence in her car that shares his thoughts about our conversation that I would love everyone to hear. She has posted it on her organization's website at NomadAlliance.org. There is a separate, shorter conversation that I recorded with Silence and Kseniya, where he shares additional information about his namesake and how he tracked God's love for him through a series of peanut butter sandwiches. It's another story that you want to hear. I will post that interview separately on Facebook. On Our Strangers, you know, podcast community page. Next Silence posed for a Nomad Alliance calendar. Last year, he was Mr. July to see that picture, as well as current photos. Members can visit his episode page on strangers, you know, podcast scam or you can buy the calendar for a minimal donation on Nomad Alliance dot org. Stay tuned after the conversation for more information about Silence and his aSupport the show Support our show Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on ...

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Every week we pass by hundreds of people we don't know. Complete strangers. Some of them we barely notice. Like the guy driving the semi-truck. Some we may see on a more regular basis. Like that one umpire that works every Little League game. Some people really catch our attention, like the guy dressed up as Santa Claus. In this episode, you will meet Mark, a wonderful human that fits all three of the above roles. Our conversation talks about help slowing down to enjoy life. The Upside and downside of sports. Our inner critic and prank calling Hall of Fame greats. Even Santa enjoys a good joke. So join us for another honest, vulnerable and bold conversation. By the way, does it bother anyone else that the guy calling strikes is also the guy keeping the naughty list? TOPICS: Health, Cochlear implants, Slowing Down, Enjoying Life, Balancing Life, Officiating, Umpire, Baseball, Hockey, Upside of Sports, Downside of Sports, Inner Critic, Self-Esteem, Santa Claus, Costumes, ForgivenessSupport the show Support our show Join our Facebook Community and continue the conversation there with many of our listeners and guests. Subscribe to our site to learn more about our guests at www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com Follow us on ...

Elizabeth Gail grew up in the perfect Scientology family. For many years, she and her brother were the organization's poster children. But as she struggled to remain on the one true path, she started to see several cracks in the teachings and practices, experiencing firsthand what it was doing to her family, their relationships and her overall happiness. These concerns became red flags, which ultimately led her to look for a way out. Her journey identifies thought loops, shame and conviction, patterns of abuse, systemic cover ups and down tone emotions. Since speaking out against Scientology, her religion has labeled her as a suppressive person and she has lost family, property, sense of belonging and her identity. Those who have experienced religious deconstruction know that it is painful, pressing, costly. It can also be enlightening and uplifting. In my interview with Liz, we talk about basic kindness, anger, sadness and how much her search for a new tribe and sense of belonging given rise to a new person, a brave, vibrant individual with deep personal conviction, broader range of emotions, closer personal ties, and a genuine voice. Also, be sure to visit our website www.StrangersYouKnowPodcast.com connect with Liz on TikTok and Social Media. You can also learn more about this episode. Our guest, Elizabeth Gail, including her episode of Leah Remini's Scientology and the aftermath, as well as more information on the novel she is writing. Support the show

This interview breaks one of my early, probably unnecessarily arbitrary rules. Keyan is an architect who works in New York City. He is an immersive hobbyist who loves motocross. A deep thinker who loves deep, meaningful conversations. He's also my son in law, and I've told myself I wouldn't interview family. So much for rules.In our conversation, we talk about gripping things too tightly versus just being present. We talk about discovering slash, creating your best self, and how Keyan changed his dissertation for his master's thesis in architecture to an artistic self-exploration that revamped his core being. We also talk about the limitation of words, the beauty of art and creativity, what makes a conversation truly great, and the stifling deterrence of traditional masculinity in meaningful relationships. In the end, I think that breaking my rule was the right decision. TOPICS: conversations, honesty, transparency, life formulas, success, being present, masculinity, hobbies, deconstruction.Support the show

What do you do when a traumatic brain injury takes away your health, your personality, and your sense of life's purpose?I first met Pierre in Japan when were both serving LDS missions. We were companions in the Mission Home for quite a while and we both thought we would be close friends forever. He came to my wedding shortly after he returned, and then we simply drifted apart with no interaction whatsoever. Life happened to both of us. A few weeks ago, Pierre found my podcast and reached out. We spoke for a few minutes and then I forced us both to wait to catch up until I could record it for my podcast. So here we are more than three decades later. Pierre is on my podcast for far more than nostalgia. For some time, I'd been trying to talk with someone who had deconstructed life due to health reasons, and unfortunately, my former companion had that experience. After witnessing 911. Pierre found his lifelong calling and he became a police officer in South Tahoe Police Department for over 15 years before he experienced a traumatic brain injury in the line of duty. That accident not only cost Pierre his career, his help, his identity and his sense of purpose. It changed his personality and completely wiped out his fluent ability to speak and understand Japanese for long years of medical treatment, endless prescriptions, and every therapy he could manage couldn't wipe out his anxiety, agoraphobia, vertigo, migraines, or his thoughts of suicide. Then, one day, as a last ditch effort, his wife suggested he try hypnosis. That treatment saved his life. Hypnosis fixes medical conditions, gave him a new sense of purpose, and completely restored his Japanese. During our conversation, I felt like I had been talking with the same old Pierre I had known and loved. Half a lifetime ago in Fukuoka, Japan. I missed my friend Pierre and I am very excited for him to share his story with you and introduce him as another Stranger You Know. CW: SIOther Topics Include: sense of purpose, deconstruction, advocacy, integrity, core beliefs, changing world views, emotional hijacking, subconscious, hypnosis, training, experience, fear, comfort, anxiety, traumatic injury, healing.Support the show

Finally, today is part two of the conversation I had with Neal over three months ago. In this episode, we talk about waking up, putting off the pretender within each of us and the necessity and cost of advocating for others. We consider the importance of love as an overall part of health and fitness. Pulling no punches, we may even rattle a few emotions on today's episode of Strangers, you know? Other Topics: LGBTQ+, Love, Advocate, Support, Alienation, Deconstruction, open conversations, waking up, fitness, health, mental healthSupport the show

This episode is a testament to the human spirit. Today's guest talks about overcoming darkness, rejection, and multiple traumatic events. Kauri bravely shares her experiences with racism, sexual abuse, incarceration of a loved one, and even death. At times, she felt very alone as she struggled to make sense of her world with little or no support. Sometimes not being believed by those around her. Sometimes the trauma being caused by those who professed to support her. Kauri's story is dark, gut-wrenching, hopeful, beautiful, and inspiring. Her ability to heal herself, find her footing, and become an advocate for others, gives us a brief insight into the beautiful, caring, loving person she is and I am so grateful to her for allowing me to share her journey on Strangers You Know.CW: Sexual AbuseTOPICS: adoption, intentional and unintentional racism, stereotypes, death, sexual abuse, healing, self love, rejection, acceptance, deconstruction, faith crisis, incarceration, excommunication, worthiness, car accident, advocation.Support the show

Is life, the universe and everything calling out to you. And are you too anxious or too busy working on your daily to do list to hear it? How would you react if you had spent the last 15 years of your life meticulously achieving one goal after another until you finally reached the pinnacle of success? Then you heard the message You need to quit. This is no longer for you. Would you trust the inner voice you'd been cultivating for years, or would your reptilian fear based brain talk you out of it? In today's conversation with Hardy, he explains how he left the toxic, unsustainable path of a highly successful Broadway career to force a pattern interrupt in his own life. We discuss how a recovering perfectionist practiced non-attachment through Vedic meditation and developed a change of consciousness through reflective curiosity, relinquishing the false concept of control by paying attention to his high level feeling. Hardy's story reflects the complete overhaul of his operating system. It is fascinating, inspiring and full of opportunities for self-reflection. I took a lot from this conversation myself, and I hope you appreciate it as much as I did. Support the show

Welcome back. In part two of my conversation with Meg, we dove a little deeper into her area of expertise, namely relationships, preventative care of relationships, and high-risk factors that challenge relationships. We also talk about awakening, especially to privilege as well as the importance of exploring self, including sexual identity. Other topics include self-care, intersectionality,  our relationship with anger, and how our feelings lead us to action, both for better and for worse. Oh, and Meg almost tells us another joke. Thanks for joining us on Strangers You Know.TOPICS: Relationships (high-risk and low-risk factors); Interpreting Data (What we should have learned from the marshmallow study), Awakening, Privilege, Feminist rage, Self-Care, Self-Love, Exploring Self, Exploring sexuality, Intersectionality, Anger, How feelings lead to good and bad actions, non-hetero, non-monogamous relationships, Preventative care for relationshipsSupport the show

First of two parts. It is impossible to summarize any of these amazing conversations into a few, simple paragraphs. My meeting with Meg ran so long that I had to break it into two episodes. And I still feel that we were just scratching the surface. Part two will air next week.In the meantime, I could tell you that our topics included: butchering chickens, long-term illness, sexuality, trauma dumping, feminism, and trying to fit in. But that leaves dozens of topics unmentioned and still doesn't describe our conversation.Meg graciously shares how she came to an understanding of her family system, religion of origin, and many other topics that once defined her worldview. Her story of deconstructing eighty different things has helped her learn to hold things loosely. Her knowledge, beliefs, even values are constantly changing and she has learned to embrace the unknown, be open to new everythings, and she has given herself permission to rock the boat in her advocacy on important issues. Meg is wise, insightful, warm, caring, and a truly remarkable woman. I really appreciate getting to know her and have learned a lot from her perspective. I know you will too. Enjoy part one!Topics Include: Deconstruction, hard work, top values, the comfort of holding things loosely, tone-police, feminism under the guise of patriarchy, embracing the unknown, and the importance of preventative care in relationships. Support the show

In today's conversation, Jed and I talk about the painful, wonderful, lonely, scary journey of deconstruction. Jed was in his fourth of six years serving as bishop of his ward when his faith crisis began. Beginning with his deconstruction of God before he began deconstructing the church, both while serving as Bishop and without being able to talk with anyone about it, including his wife. For a period of time, Jed talks of his many years of sacrifice and his immediate rejection by what he once considered to be very close friends and neighbors. Our conversation covers LGBTQ issues beards in the bishopric and many triggers that still set us on high alert. I hope that still practicing members of the church who hear this conversation can gain a better understanding of how difficult and tortuous the decision to leave is for many people. It is often a long and very painful process that is done with agonizing, deliberate consideration and a great personal cost. TOPICS: Deconstruction, Post-Mormonism, Beards & Bishoprics, False Relationships, Triggers, Sacrifice, LGBTQ+, Agency, and Being RejectedComplete show notes, including photos, full bio on Jed, and much more can be found at https://www.strangersyouknowpodcast.com/jed Support the show

How tightly do we grip our core beliefs and values, and why do we provide any room for intellectual curiosity? How often do we seek to understand individuals and viewpoints that are radically different from our own? How did we come to our version of certain knowledge, and what does it really cost us to consider different perspectives and opinions? These questions make up the backbone of this podcast, and I hope today's conversation pushes us all out of our comfort zone and foregone conclusions. Kacee was born in a country that no longer exists. She came to the United States at eight years old when her mother became a mail-order bride. She has a unique perspective on mental health as she has been arrested and held in prison and mental institutions in multiple countries. Kacee also runs a nonprofit called Nomad Alliance that works closely with the homeless population. A talented writer, she talks about the book she is writing, discusses declining empires, and leads us in a brief meditation. Also, beginning with this episode, Kacee and I both invite you to join our conversation by posting questions and comments on the new Facebook community page of Strangers You Know. Support the show

Today's conversation with Aliyah is the Tenth Episode of the "Strangers You Know" podcast and I am so excited to share her story with you. In this episode, we talk about doubts, cognitive dissonance and deconstruction of her faith as well as the difficulty and cost of vocalizing her process and why that is so important for herself and others. Aliyah shares her concerns on parenting her daughter, managing mixed-faith relationships with friends and family, and the importance of positivity.Other Topics Include: Doubts, cognitive dissonance, deconstruction, racism, prayer, feeling the spirit, parenting, positivity, motherhood, and her new love of tapping. See her show notes for more details and learn how she uses tapping to improve her life and the lives of those around her.Support the show

Outside of our recorded conversations, I ask each of my guests to recommend someone who they think would be a good person to have on the show. Today's guest, Meg, comes from one of those blind referrals. Before recording today's conversation, I had only spent ten minutes with her on a phone call. Almost complete strangers, she and I recorded the longest conversation to date. I am thrilled with being able to get to know her during this episode, and I'm so happy we had the opportunity to connect, talk about personally meaningful topics and of course share the entire experience with you. Meg is a warm, wonderful human who is living her best life. Her happiness and her open, genuine nature immediately make her a Stranger You want to Know. CW: Reference to self harmTOPICS: Anxiety, Mental Health, polygamy, temple garments, visiting teaching, guilt, prayer, indoctrination, dishonesty, womanhood, motherhood, being a follower, conditional love, love languages, being authentic, beauty and happiness in the world.Support the show

DeLaney is a native Utahn who has spent the past eight years acting in NYC. (Check out the show notes for a summary of her accolades.) Our conversation covers topics from the personal to the philosophical to the mundane of composting in Manhatten. Each topic uncovers another wonderful, emotional, personal layer of our amazing guest. Topics include: Orthodox Mormonism, composting in Manhattan, board games, babysitting, the importance of supportive parents, and The Marvelous Mrs. Masel. (Join the Conversation on our Facebook Community Group)Support the show

(Join the Conversation on our Facebook Community Group)Today, Strangers You Know goes International with my conversation with Santiago García. I spoke with him from the small city of Pergamino, Argentina, where he was raised (about two hours from Buenos Aires). Santiago attended a progressive Catholic school that, although not in favor of abortion rights, the main bishop still believed that “Abortion is a way of controlling the birth rate from poorer countries”. Join us as we discuss philosophy, politics, existential crisis, religion, expressions of God, worldviews, power, friends, family, and machismo. Support the show

Charlie is an accomplished actor with an impressive list of accomplishments. He currently plays the role of Roger Davies in "Tina" on Broadway and his previous credits include: The Bridges of Madison County (Original Broadway Cast), Parade (Lincoln Center). TV credits include Shades of Blue, The Loudest Voice. But I wanted to talk with him about the time he spent in his Broadway role in The Book of Mormon (Broadway).I had a blast with this conversation and we talked about religion, acting, fears and our inner critic, banned books, taking offense and being offensive, self reflection, and the importance of theater and the arts. This is one you're going to love!Support the show

How did you discover who you really are and who you really want to be? Or maybe the jury is still out and you are still exploring with an open mind. It's one thing to talk about one's journey from the perspective of the finish line - quite another to share your struggles, fears, and failures when you're still in the thick of things. Join my conversation with Keegan, a former hockey player as he talks about his experiences with ice hockey, meditation, personal change, hydration, gratitude, and psychedelics.Support the show

Amanda joins our conversation from her new home in Argentina. Originally from a small town in Utah, she grew up driven to be the "perfect girl." Devout Mormon, straight A's, and a self-proclaimed tomboy. She tells how a single question changed her life forever, opening her eyes to a world of possibilities, and instilling a strong desire to live and work abroad. After a decade of working for  United Nations with UNICEF and the World Food Programme, her work has taken her to dozens of countries. Her story includes topics of: certainty, self-doubt, poverty, open-mindedness, critical thinking, education, colonialization, life, death, news, social media, culture, communication, politics, international relations, the importance of cursing, and finding beauty in your daily life.Support the show

(CW: SI) Leaving the LDS church can cost people many valuable relationships, including family. Today's guest was actually "excommunicated from her family," which then led to a faith crisis, deconstruction, and her leaving the church, all within a very short period of time. She prefers to remain anonymous but has bravely and beautifully shared her story with others on her Instagram account, Her.Truth.Be.Told and I encourage all listeners to follow her there. (Today's Topics include: Enmeshed family, narcissism, abusive relationships, indoctrination, gaslighting, purity culture, suicide, tattoos, community, love bombing, and deconstruction.)Support the show

(Join the Conversation on our Facebook Community)Originally intended to be only a test of sound equipment, my friend Neil got a jumpstart on the podcast by turning the tables and interviewing me. There will be a follow-up interview with Neil where I return the favor but I wanted to share this conversation with you as we discuss what it means to be vulnerable and the risk of belonging vs. the reward of being true to yourself. Other topics include: the origins of this podcast, tattoos, culture and community, pandemic, swearing, learning about privilege, and the challenge of changing, learning, and being a better person.CW - Foul LanguageSupport the show

(CW: SI, SA) Join our conversation with Jaxon and his experience growing up in a traditional LDS family and attending BYU before coming out as transgender. (Topics include: transgender,  LGBTQ+, trans panic, deconstructing religion, LDS (Mormon) church, BYU, patriarchal blessing, suicidal ideation, body dysmorphia, sexual abuse, depression, anxiety, and lacrosse.)Support the show

Every week we pass by hundreds of people we don't know. Complete strangers. Some of them. We barely notice the guy at the ATM or the woman driving the BMW. Some we may see on a more regular basis. The clerk at the local convenience store, that one ref that shows up at every lacrosse game. Some people really catch our attention like that saxophone player in the park last Saturday. What would it take to turn a casual acquaintance into a friend, a mentor, or even a new best friend? Another conversation, maybe a series of conversations. Maybe just one vulnerable conversation about something that truly matters. A shared moment that touches us once and changes us forever. Each episode of "Strangers, You Know" is a conversation with a wonderful human you've never met. On the surface, some of them may really stand out. Others you may not even notice as you pass on the street. Each of them unique and very real. They may have radically different opinions, religions or lifestyles than you. But I promise you, if you're willing to spend the time with them, their honesty, vulnerability and bold conversations will convince you we all have more in common than we might expect. Our conversations will bring you to tears, challenge your current worldviews, and occasionally make you laugh your a** off. But I promise you, if you are willing to spend the time with them, their honesty, vulnerability and bold conversations will convince you we all have more in common than we might expect. So follow, like, subscribe, support, contribute and enjoy as I proudly introduce you to "Strangers, You Know."Support the show