Divorce Conversations for Women

In this insightful episode of Divorce Conversations for Women, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes mortgage expert and CDLP® trailblazer Jody Bruns for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about a critical—but often overlooked—component of divorce: mortgage planning. Together, they unpack the unique financial, legal, and emotional challenges women face when trying to keep, refinance, or buy a home during divorce. Jody shares cautionary tales, real-life case studies, and empowering advice designed to help women avoid common missteps and build a more stable financial future. This episode is more than just numbers—it's about protecting your future, understanding your options, and ensuring your divorce settlement truly supports your next chapter.  

In this transformative episode, Rhonda Noordyk sits down with Dr. Lisa Fox to explore the complex realities women face in the midst of divorce, especially when coercive control, abuse, and financial manipulation are involved. Drawing from her personal journey as a trauma coach and surgeon—and her experience navigating a high-conflict divorce—Dr. Fox shares candid insights and practical strategies for women to reclaim their power, protect themselves, and advocate for their rights. Together, Rhonda and Dr. Fox dive into the emotional, legal, and financial dynamics of leaving a toxic relationship while prioritizing safety and self-worth.   Key Discussion Points:

In this powerful and deeply insightful episode of Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa Happ , Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, sits down with divorce coach and survivor Lisa Happ to unpack the layered realities of high-conflict divorce—especially when narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and parental alienation are in play. Together, they offer transformational strategies for women navigating these emotionally charged separations, empowering them to recognize abuse, reclaim their voice, and create a safe, healing home environment for themselves and their children. Whether you're in the midst of a difficult divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode sheds light on both the pain—and the path to peace.     Key Discussion Points:

When the legal system becomes a weapon, how do you protect yourself—and your children? In this compelling conversation, Rhonda is joined by Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There, Got Out, to expose the realities of legal abuse, coercive control, and the hidden challenges self-represented litigants face in high-conflict divorce and custody battles. Lisa shares both her lived experience and professional insights to equip listeners with tools for survival and success in the courtroom. From navigating manipulative exes to choosing the right attorney and crafting a rock-solid parenting plan, this episode is packed with strategy, strength, and solidarity for anyone who feels like the system is stacked against them.

In this episode, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes Karen, known as the "Good Divorce Coach," to discuss how divorce can be a transformative process rather than a destructive one. Together, they explore essential strategies for navigating divorce with emotional regulation, communication, and self-care. Key Takeaways: Divorce as a Transformation Tool: How shifting your mindset can turn divorce into an opportunity for personal growth. Parenting Through Divorce: Effective communication strategies, maintaining a unified front, and preparing children for the transition. Navigating Life as a Single Person: The importance of self-care, rediscovering personal joy, and embracing the "Devorgasmic stage." Co-Parenting & Relationship Transitions: How to manage changing dynamics with respect and strategy. Practical Divorce Advice: Tips for those without complex financial situations and the power of community support. Connect with Karen here:  Website here.  Link to socials here.    Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

In this insightful episode, Rhonda and Heather dive into the unique challenges women face during divorce, from financial concerns to emotional well-being. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, self-advocacy, and navigating the legal system with confidence. The conversation highlights the role of mediation in resolving disputes, the need for skilled mediators, and why women should take an active role in decision-making both during marriage and divorce. Key Topics Covered: Financial challenges women face during divorce Empowering women to understand and manage their finances The role of mediation in resolving disputes Importance of skilled mediators and legal guidance Why women should be active participants in financial and legal decisions Connect with Heather:  Heather's Linktree     Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

In this episode, Rhonda and Brynn discuss the crucial role of a nanny in co-parenting relationships, especially during and after divorce. Brynn, founder of the Premier Nanny Network, shares how professional nannies provide stability, facilitate trust, and help manage daily logistics, allowing parents to focus on quality time with their children. They also explore Brynn's work in supporting women through life's challenges and the potential for future collaboration. Key Topics: How a professional nanny supports co-parenting dynamics The impact of nannies on stability, trust, and financial matters post-divorce Brynn's work helping women navigate life transitions Exciting plans for a future collaboration Connect with Brynn:  www.premiernannynetwork.com @premiernannynetwork Her Social Media:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/brynn-ungerleider-a123ba30a/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558084171799   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Anne Wintemute, CEO of Aimee Says, an innovative AI app designed to support individuals through the challenges of divorce, especially those recovering from abusive relationships. Anne shares the inspiration behind Aimee Says and its mission to provide accessible companionship, legal guidance, and emotional validation, bridging the gap often left by costly therapists and legal professionals. She highlights the app's impactful features, including a message evaluation tool that helps users process and respond to communication from their abusers with clarity and confidence. Tune in to hear how Aimee Says is transforming the divorce process into a less traumatic and more empowering journey for its users.   Connect with Anne:    https://www.facebook.com/people/Aimee-Says/61552414454913/   www.aimeesays.com https://www.aimeesays.com/en/home?utm_source=financial&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=dec_launch   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda talks with Divorce Recovery Coach and Therapist, Dawn Wiggins about healing in a holistic way. It's a fascinating conversation about trauma and healing and how homeopathy can work to bring you back to your true self. Learn about:   Mind / Body Connection How we store negative energy  Homeopathic treatment methods There are resources to help you lift your energy levels [be sure to check out Dawn's journal - linked below]   21 Day Immersive Journal   To get the journal for free, use the code: EMAILFRIENDS    And be sure to grab Rhonda's new book: Bold Beginnings! About today's guest:   Divorce recovery coach and therapist Dawn Wiggins helps people tear down their walls and build back their confidence. Challenging the status quo, she integrates multiple modalities from EMDR Therapy to EFT tapping, immersive journaling, and homeopathy, embracing remedies that heal both the mind and body.    She is on a mission to deliver life-changing therapy in an accessible and affordable way, with the same enlightenment that happens in her office: part science, part essential oils, pure magic.    She also has her own Podcast, Dear Divorce Diary, which has recently been ranked globally as a top 3% show.   Connect with Dawn:   Website: https://mycoachdawn.com/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with New Jersey attorneys, Sarah Jacobs and Jamie Berger. Sarah and Jamie's unique approach to law makes them disruptors in the divorce space. Listen in as they share their top tips for navigating a high conflict divorce. You'll learn:   How to separate the conflict from your end goal. Find balance in making concessions Feel empowered rather than backed up against the wall 3 tips to successful negotiating   Helpful apps mentioned in today's episode;   DComply   Our Family Wizard About today's guests:    The Jacobs Berger team takes a forward-thinking approach to family and matrimonial law by focusing on each client's unique situation, needs and goals in order to de-stress the divorce process. This solution-oriented mentality helps avoid the scorched-earth approach so commonly seen (and encouraged) on TV.  Located in Morristown, NJ, the Jacobs Berger team of attorneys have decades of combined experience helping families before, during and after the divorce process.    Their areas of concentration include mediation, high-net-worth divorce, child custody and support, complex family structures, adoption, alimony and spousal support, family law appeals and navigating domestic violence issues.   Connect with Sarah and Jamie:   Website: https://jacobsberger.com/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacobsberger/   LinkedIn (firm): https://www.linkedin.com/company/jacobs-berger-llc/   LinkedIn (Sarah): https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-j-jacobs/   LinkedIn (Jamie): https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-berger-1168461a/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with narcissistic abuse expert and divorce coach, Tracy Malone to dive into the importance of protecting yourself and your kids with a good financial parenting plan.    Here are some topics they tackle in this episode [and don't miss the link and coupons below for Tracy's Masterclass!]   How to stop post-divorce abuse in advance Learn what to do if your ex won't do what they promised Build in a conflict resolution policy - do not rely on the courts   Fight for what you need. It's your life, your children, your future. Tracy has a special offer for our listeners! Join her course and save $100! (note: there are limited coupons and the code is only good through 12/31/24)   https://bit.ly/ParentingPlanCourse-RN   Use this code to save: RHONDA-LOVES-100   Variable Expense Apps discussed in this episode: DComply   Our Family Wizard About today's guest:   Tracy A. Malone is a dynamic Author, Speaker, Educator, and internationally recognized narcissistic abuse and divorce coach.    As a surTHRIVER of abuse, she has become a leading advocate for empowerment and healing. Tracy founded NarcissistAbuseSupport.com, a global resource that supports millions of survivors worldwide. She also hosts a podcast and runs a successful YouTube channel.   Connect with Tracy:   Website – https://narcissistabusesupport.com   Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/   Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tracyamalone/   Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/tracyamalone/   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone   LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyamalone/   X (formerlyTwitter) - https://twitter.com/TracyAMalone   Podcasts - Listen Here Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Certified Divorce & Relationship Coach Cindy Stibbard sits down with Rhonda to talk through if divorce is the right option for you. Many women contemplate getting divorce for over 2 years before they make a move. How do you work through the decision? Who should you reach out to for support? Here are some things they cover:   What is my “why?” Self abandonment (learn what this is) Is divorce right for me, right now?   This episode is packed with great insight!  About today's guest:    Cindy Stibbard is a Certified Divorce Coach who will help you unpack if you're ready to move forward with your divorce. ​​   A previous version of you chose this relationship—but maybe it has stopped serving you and who you've become. Now you are wondering if you are facing the reality of making the difficult decision to stay and give it one last shot at repair or prepare to go—and how to even know what comes next. You are not alone. Connect with Cindy:   Website: https://www.cindystibbard.com/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cindy.stibbard/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with Health Advisor, Leah Perry to discuss the options for Health Insurance after you're divorced. It's not fun to talk about - but necessary - and one of the biggest post-divorce expenses.    Topics include:   3 options to get coverage for you and your kids Timing is crucial How to best evaluate your needs as you move forward   Schedule a consultation with Leah:  https://calendly.com/leahmperry2096/insurance-quote?month=2024-02 About today's guest:   For the past decade, Leah Perry has shouldered the responsibilities of being a single mom to two amazing teens. Along the way, she faced the challenges of divorce, battled lymphoma without the safety net of proper health coverage, and navigated the depths of those difficult times without a strong support system.    Now, she's here, driven by my own experiences, on a mission to make sure no one else faces the financial and emotional strain of illness without the right coverage. Her days are dedicated to helping others navigate the complex world of health insurance.    Leah provides guidance, answers questions, and strives to be as approachable, relatable, and understanding as possible. From the moment a policy is chosen, she walks alongside her clients, offering support and assistance every step of the way. Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda and Attorney Max Emmer talk through some of the latest trends they are seeing in the divorce process.    There is more than one way to get divorced - be informed. Preparation and information goes a long way. Learn some of the newest trends and changes. Imperative that you build the right team for your situation.  About today's guest:   Max Emmer has been a lawyer for 11 years, with his own boutique family law firm in metro-Detroit for 3 years. He focuses extensively on collaborative divorce, Mediation as a certified Mediator, limited scope services and solutions, and, working with clients creatively and strategically to move on to their next chapter. Max believes lawyers are meant to be advisors and counselors, not just bullying paper pushers. His aim is to help clients obtain the necessary facts, information, law and options to make the best decisions for themselves (and their children).    Connect with Max:    Website: https://www.emmerlawplc.com/   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/max-s-emmer-4573b22a/   Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/emmerlaw/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EmmerLaw Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Join Rhonda and CPA Kathy Bue as they walk through some of your tax questions. It's never too early to be thinking about tax planning, especially if you're in the midst of divorce.    Tune in to learn:   What should you be doing now? How should you file? What you need to gather (we can help you with that!) What questions should you be asking? About today's guest:   As a money coach, Kathy walks with you, encourages you, and helps you achieve your goals by understanding your finances and assisting you in making wise decisions.  Through one-on-one financial coaching, we intentionally build new money skills and habits which will move you from frustrated to successful, helping you gain confidence and clarity in your finances. Most people were never taught about personal finance.  Instead, they learned about money by trial and error, leaving them frustrated and anxious.  Seeing this great need, she completed the Ramsey Preferred Coach training.  Kathy enjoys helping people remove their stress and anxiety about money. Connect with Kathy: Website: https://bueadvisors.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kathybue_coach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathybuecpa/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Today's conversation is an important one, but may be triggering for some. Guard your heart and be gentle with yourself as you listen.    Rhonda sits down with Attorney Allison Mahoney to discuss abuse including: coercive control, sexual abuse and cyber sexural abuse. Here are some things they cover:   Learn the various types of abuse. What is cyber image based abuse? Set realistic expectations. What steps can you take? Find an advocate and build your team! About today's guest:   Allison Mahoney founded ALM Law in December 2022. They represent survivors of abuse, helping them to share their stories, find justice, and regain control of their lives.  Their clients are survivors of sexual abuse, cyber sexual abuse, and domestic violence as well as children harmed while in the custody of child welfare systems.   Allison has represented survivors for over a decade. She was previously a Senior Staff Attorney and the Interim Deputy Director at A Better Childhood, a nonprofit that investigates foster care systems across the country and files civil rights class action lawsuits on behalf of children. Prior to ABC, Allison was the Child Sexual Abuse and Exploitation Project Attorney at Lawyers for Children, where she represented children in foster care in Manhattan.   Allison is licensed in New York, Colorado, Illinois, and the District of Columbia. She's on the Board of Directors at Response, a nonprofit that works with survivors of domestic and sexual abuse in Colorado, and YouthZone, a Colorado diversion and advocacy program. Connect with Allison:   Website https://almlawllc.com/ Social Media   Instagram.com/almlawllc/   https://www.linkedin.com/company/alm-law/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda and Professional Counselor, Sue Bruckner sit down to discuss emotional wellness, particularly for highly sensitive women going through divorce. Here are some highlights:   Navigate  your divorce and come out stronger. How to make emotional wellness a priority. Learn the 3 pillars of emotional wellness. How do you know if you're highly sensitive?   Be sure to download Sue's free resource: Love Again Post Divorce. About today's guest:   Sue Bruckner is a Holistic Relationship Coach and Licensed Professional Counselor Her business, With Intention is a personal development company specializing in guiding deeply feeling, intuitive, highly sensitive women through their divorce process and into a deeply connected, meaningful post-divorce life. She offers individual therapy and coaching, created a curriculum and group programming, and facilitates community gatherings and workshops. Her presence is calm, connected, and deeply nurturing. Sue draws upon both her personal and professional experiences as well as her deep intuition, sensitive nature, and gift of making gems out of life's trials.   Connect with Sue:    With Intention   Instagram   Facebook Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Spoiler: YES. If you've got kids over 18 - listen up! Rhonda sits down with Estate Planning Attorney, Ashley Lillesand and her 18 year old daughter, Jenna to discuss the importance of having a Medical and Financial Power of Attorney. This is especially important if you are divorcing.   What is a Power of Attorney? Why is it important to have it in place sooner than later? Choose the most qualified person to speak on your behalf. Let's normalize this! About today's guest:    Attorney Ashley Lillesand has fine-tuned her practice over the years to focus on estate planning for both young families and clients reaching retirement age who need guidance with asset protection strategies. Additionally, Ashley represents clients with Probate and Trust administration and Medicaid applications. Ashley also hasn't forgotten what brought her to law school in the first place by continuing to represent family members in guardianship matters which require knowledge of guardianship laws and the practical ins and outs of serving as a guardian. Ashley serves as a guardian ad litem in guardianship and probate matters in Milwaukee county as well. Connect with Ashley:    Website: https://www.lillesandlawllc.com/contact/   Be sure to check out Ashley's earlier podcast episode, #083!  Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda's guest today is Cathy Himlin, Family and Marriage Therapist and court officer in Dependency Court. Rhonda and Cathy take an honest look at parenting through divorce and how the court system doesn't always support what's best for the child. Here is what they cover:   Divorce shifts a parent's role. The developmental stages of a child must be considered. Imbalance in the parenting roles can be financially motivated. Parental Alienation - what it is, and what it isn't. Separate court from time with your child.   About today's guest:    Cathy Himlin is a member of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts and an affiliate member of the San Diego Family Law Bar Association. At the request of the latter, she has developed trainings for attorneys to help them support their clients (both minors and their parents) in Family Law and Dependency Courts. Cathy is the President and CEO of Family Connections Therapy and the Founder of Himlin Consulting, as well as being a court-involved family therapist with over 25 years of experience.   Connect with Cathy:   Website: https://www.himlinconsulting.com/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cathyhimlin   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cathy.himlin.9/   LinkedIn: ​​https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathy-himlin-lmft-lpcc-9aaa0079/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with esteemed Business Coach and CEO, Judy Weber for a candid conversation around being divorced, finding your voice, and building your future. Rhonda and Judy are passionate about advocating for women and you'll hear how they both use their time and talents to further this mission.   About today's guest:   Judy Weber works exclusively with high-achieving Christian women, teaching them timeless business strategies - from a decidedly Biblical perspective - so they can step into their CEO role with confidence, calm & certainty.    She helps clients scale business in a way that honors Christ and fulfills their God-given purpose   Connect with Judy:   Website   Instagram   LinkedIn   Facebook    YouTube Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda's guest today is Trainer and Consultant, Doug LaBelle who specializes in Gambling Disorder. If you've discovered your spouse has a gambling problem, you know how that influences the entire household. If it's a part of the divorce process, it gets even more complicated. Listen in as Rhonda and Doug unpack what it's like to live with someone who gambles.    Here is what they cover:   Types of gambling and ways it affects the entire family What to do if you suspect your spouse is gambling and how you can prove it Getting the emotional support you need to heal from the trauma About today's guest:    Doug LaBelle is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, National Certified Gambling Counselor II, Certified Employee Assistance Professional   Specialties: Mood disorders, Grief and Loss, Addictions (alcohol and other drugs, gambling). Connect with him on LinkedIn Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda is joined by Coach and Author Rebecca Davis to discuss telling your story post-trauma, particularly if you have experienced spiritual abuse. Your life lessons matter and can help others!   Here is what they cover:   How do you know when you're ready to share your story? Organize your thoughts in a way that helps others. Be in a place of healing before you write your book. Sharing your story will leave a legacy. About today's guest:   Rebecca Davis is a trauma-informed coach and author, devoted to those who have experienced spiritual abuse through twisted Scriptures. Rebecca is the author of the Untwisting Scriptures series of books, designed to help those who have experienced spiritual abuse get to know the true heart of God. With over 40 years of study of the Scriptures, Rebecca writes to help Christians have a deeper understanding of God and His love for them, to help those who have been abused find hope in the Lord Jesus Christ, and to help Christians better understand how they can help those in need.   Connect with Rebecca:   Websites: rebeccadaviswordworking.com (business) heresthejoy.com (ministry)   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100069293702357 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untwistingscriptures/ Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08WF13X3F Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with Social Worker, Veteran and Military wife, Vanessa Lech to discuss life in the military. Vanessa shares how important it is to advocate for yourself - particularly if you are a spouse in the military.    Maintaining your career and occupational credentials Learn the laws that apply to your situation and location. Locate safe access to legal support. Prioritize your health. It is not selfish to focus on your own goals or career.  About today's guest:   Vanessa Lech is a Military Veteran and Military Wife, born into a family with a proud history of serving in the U.S. Military. "Veterans Affairs Whistleblower Retaliation" Paperback and Hardcover books can be purchased at Lulu Book Store.   Vanessa is licensed as a Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in N.C., has a Masters Degree in Social Work (MSW), a Masters of Science in Health Sciences with a Concentration in Public Health, and a Bachelors of Science in Health Care Management.   Vanessa is passionate about sharing valuable information that can benefit individuals and society. Connect with Vanessa:   https://womanmilitaryveteran.com/pages/justice Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda is joined today by renowned podcast host, Kate Anthony! They have an honest conversation about making the big decision about your marriage - should you stay or go?    You have a choice Ask yourself the right questions Get informed Tips on how to be prepared once you do decide Know your worth Get Kate's Book! https://kateanthony.com/dword/   About our Guest:   Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Advocate, a Co-Parenting Specialist, and a High Conflict Divorce Coach.   Connect with Kate:   Instagram Facebook page Facebook group TikTok Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Attorney Evan Schein sits down with Rhonda to talk about what happens when you're facing litigation.     Is litigation as bad as it seems? Ways you can make the process move more smoothly. Finding the right team. Ask the right questions. Do not short circuit the divorce process. About today's guest:   Evan Schein is a partner with the firm and leads the firm's litigation practice. Mr. Schein joined Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP in 2010 after practicing at another well-known matrimonial law firm.   Mr. Schein is an experienced litigator with an ability to find creative solutions to complex issues. This allows Mr. Schein to deliver optimum results for his clients at trial or during settlement negotiations. Mr. Schein prides himself on working closely with his clients to develop litigation and negotiation strategies that fit a client's goals. Whether negotiating a prenuptial agreement for a client or litigating a divorce, Mr. Schein zealously advocates for his clients' interests.   Connect with Evan on his website: www.berkbot.com Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Enjoy this recording from our recent live stream with Attorney and Divorce Coach, Kara Francis. Kara and Rhonda have an honest conversation about feeling stuck and what you can do to break free.  You can decide how your divorce will go - you have more power than you think. Learn the types of blocks that are holding you back. What to do when fear and lies paralyze you. Practical steps to help you move the needle forward. About today's guest:   Kara Francis is an LIcensed Attorney, Professional Coach and Mediator.    As a Marriage & Divorce Coach, Kara's mission is to help you find and follow your truest, most aligned path in your marriage and in life. You don't have to stay in an unhealthy or unfulfilling marriage, even for the kids. Your divorce doesn't have to be a knock-down, drag-out fight. Your post-divorce chapter doesn't have to be overwhelming and intimidating   Connect with Kara:   Website: https://www.karafranciscoaching.com/   Instagram and TikTok - @karafranciscoaching Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with Real Estate Expert, Jeremy Doering for a candid conversation about all of the changes in the industry right now. They discuss how this will affect you - especially in divorce - and what you can do to successfully navigate the buying / selling process. They cover;   National Association Realtors Lawsuit Finding the right experts A roadmap for both parties Inflation, Economics and timing How do you prepare for any out of pocket costs? About today's guest:    Jeremy Doering  started buying properties as a investment in 2001 and started working in the mortgage industry in 2001. In 2004 he moved to Las Vegas to open a mortgage branch. In 2006, he passed his real estate license, and in 2008, became part-owner of a real estate company in Las Vegas.   In 2009, Jeremy moved to SanDiego and started a partnership with a real estate group. In 2011/2012, he moved back to Wisconsin and opened his own firm called Doering&Co.   During his career, Jeremy has represented many walks of life, international buyers, athletes, famous prize fighters and many more. He has been able to re-create his brand and adapt to different cultures across three different states. Currently, he has built a full-service real estate that specializes in buying, selling and investing in real estate, property management, and property remodeling and general contracting. Connect with Jeremy:   Website: https://www.doeringandco.com/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoeringandCo   Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/doeringandco   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/doering-co-real-estate-llc/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda is joined by Certified Life and Conscious Parent Coach, Mikki Gardner for a conversation about disrupting the traditional co-parenting path. As you move through divorce, YOU get to decide what your family looks like.    Mikki and Rhonda delve into 3 tools you can use right now to create a successful home environment for you and your kids. Grab a notebook and pen - you'll want to take notes! About today's guest:   Mikki Gardner is a Certified Life + Conscious Parenting Coach, the host of Co-Parenting With Confidence Podcast, and a mom to her son.   After learning how to navigate life post divorce & using it as a catalyst to her own transformation, Mikki now helps moms move past the divorce drama to become calm, confident co-parents, even without their ex's participation. Mikki is on a mission to help women navigate the emotional and practical difficulties of divorce and co-parenting while creating an intentional, joy + ease-filled life after divorce.   Connect with Mikki:   Mikki's Website   Instagram   Mikki's podcast: Co-Parenting with Confidence Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

[Warning: This episode may be triggering for some, be gentle with yourself and take breaks while listening, or pass on listening until you're ready. It is not meant for children's ears.)   Rhonda sits down with Marriage and Family Therapist, Dr. Sheri Keffer of the Brave One Community to discuss sexual deception and betrayal and how that intersects and affects your finances.    Here are some highlights of what they cover:   What is sexual acting out? What should you be doing if you feel your spouse is acting out? Money and sexual betrayal go hand in hand Educate yourself - know all you can know There is hope About today's guest:   Dr. Sheri is a regular co-host of the nationally syndicated radio talk show New Life Live! with an audience of more than two million people each week. For over twenty-three years, she's worked as a Doctor of Marriage and Family therapy in Newport Beach, California.    Through her own personal story of recovery Dr. Sheri understands the trauma symptoms often associated with sexual betrayal and posttraumatic stress. As a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist Supervisor (CPTT-S), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical. Partner Specialist (CCPS), Certified Couples Betrayal Recovery Therapist (CCBRT-candidate) Certified Clinical Empathy Specialist (CCES-candidate), and a Consultant in EMDR, she brings new tools and a fresh look at what's needed not only to heal but heal well. Dr. Sheri's a keynote speaker and recipient of 2019 IITAP Outstanding Publication Award for her book Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal.   Dr.Sheri is the Founder of BraveOne.com, the International BraveOne Community braveone.com/community, and Bravery After Betrayal: It Takes Fierce Strength retreat where she unpacks how betrayal affects the mind, body, spirit, and sexuality. Dr. Sheri also holds a degree in theology from Fuller Theological Seminary.   Connect with Dr. Sheri and the Brave One Community:   https://www.braveone.com/support   Dr. Sheri is offering one free month in her Brave One Community as a gift to our listeners! Be sure to mention you heard her on our podcast. Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda and Jeanne Kelly have an honest conversation around credit - the good and the bad. Being educated and informed of resources is imperative - especially if you're divorcing. They cover:   We learn by mistakes - how to get financial confidence around your credit Knowledge is power Credit cards points - they could be worth more than you think; don't discount them in the divorce Good credit can save you How to split your credit debt Pulling your credit report is key at the time of your divorce   Jeanne is offering our listeners a FREE Credit Snapshot: Click Here Connect with Jeanne:   Website   Instagram   Facebook   Twitter   LinkedIn About today's guest: Jeanne Kelly   Jeanne Kelly Credit Coach is the founder of The Kelly Group. A highly sought-after credit coach, healthy credit expert, motivational speaker, and author of The Credit Training & The Credit Makeover.   What started as a single decision to pursue a better life for herself and her daughter, has since turned into an empire raising awareness about #healthycredit. Through her passionate programs and accessible online resources, Jeanne has helped thousands reclaim financial freedom with valuable education on credit reporting, identity theft, and achieving a higher credit score.   Her work has appeared in top media outlets including The Today Show, CNN, The Breakfast Club, iHeart Radio, MyFico.com, Huffington Post, The New York Times, Experian, Thrive Global, Credit.com, and more.   If you're looking to transform your credit story and empower your finances, then you're in the right place! Jeanne is a trusted, well-respected mentor in the industry who can take your personal dreams and plot the roadmap to get you there...with zero intimidation. She's certain if she could do it, so can you! Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Listen in on our live stream episode with Certified Divorce Lender, Josh Bucio with Waterstone Mortgage. Josh and Rhonda discuss all the things to consider when considering keeping or selling your home in divorce. You might be surprised to learn you CAN keep it, if you want to. Topics they cover:   Supply and demand and how that affects the market Stay at home moms DO have options Interest rates and loan assumptions Find the RIGHT team Be realistic and get creative! About today's guest: Joshua Bucio, CDLP is a Certified Divorce Lender and Mortgage Broker with Waterstone Mortgage. Josh helps people who are either thinking about divorce or started the divorce process.  Whether the plan is to stay in the house or buy the next house, Josh can help you know how to qualify ahead of time. Many people don't realize you can create a plan around this and don't have to wait until a divorce is finalized.   Josh has been helping people with mortgage loans for 18 years and will go through specific numbers to help you understand your options, all while having a team to provide an elite level of communication and service.    Connect with Josh:   Waterstone Mortgage Website   Facebook   Instagram   LinkedIn Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with Attorney Michael Johnson to discuss physician compensation packages and how to unravel all of the potential avenues for income. This episode focuses on wives of physicians, but can be applied to other situations. They discuss:   Types of employment for physicians and how that affects their compensation. Ways to break down compensation - learn how to follow the money. Know your value as the spouse of a physician. Know that you have options! About today's guest:    Michael Eugene Johnson is managing attorney with Michael Johnson Legal, LLC. His practice is focused on providing small businesses with high quality general counsel, litigation, and dispute resolution services. Micahel strives to deliver pragmatic legal solutions to help you run your business more efficiently. He has seen first hand how being the spouse of a physician brings its own challenges and complications, especially in divorce.   Connect with Michael:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/physiciancontracts/   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-johnson-legal/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with Attorney Julie LaBenz,  to discuss ways to be prepared if you find that you need to represent yourself in your divorce trial. Trials are complicated, even more so if you are representing yourself. Julie gives us some guidance:   Preparation is key Know the procedure Categorize and be crystal clear about your end goal Discovery is important Be gentle with yourself   About today's guest:    Julie LaBenz is an Attorney and founder of “Win Without Law School.”    ​​Julie has been a trial lawyer in Arizona since 2006 and has a passion for teaching people how to effectively represent themselves in family court.   Connect with Julie at www.winwithoutlawschool.com/home Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda is joined by Trauma Informed Parenting Consultant, AJ Gajjar. Co-parenting is always the goal, but what if that's a challenge? AJ shares 3 key things if you are dealing with trying to co-parent with a high-conflict / maladaptive parent.    Safety for your kids and how to help them cope Prioritize the relationship - you have the power! Have a child-centric lens and be aware of all the transitions they are experiencing.   AJ is offering a free consultation to our listeners:   Schedule a free consultation with AJ    About today's guest:    AJ Gajjar with The Trauma Healing Parent   AJ is a mom, a trauma-informed child development specialist, parenting consultant and children's advocate, that specializes in supporting concerned parents through high-conflict divorce and separation in a way that protects the children both from their current experience of harm and from future trauma.   She has a degree in Developmental Psychology and over 15 years' experience working in the early child development sector, including speaking at National Conferences on the positive outcomes of early childhood interventions.   She supports parents in creating environments in which these children can thrive, and grow up to be psychologically and emotionally healthy – despite having a maladaptive parent.   AJ began this work after her own experience through a high-conflict divorce that was causing my daughter harm. She was not able to secure support from the legal system to protect her, and had to find her own way to support her though her experience.   It is now AJ”s mission to share what I have learned with other protective parents so we can provide our children with the opportunity to heal and thrive despite the harm they experience from the high-conflict / maladaptive parent. Connect with AJ:   Website: www.thetraumahealingparent.com LinkedIn   Facebook Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with Life and Divorce Coach, Meagan Norris. They discuss:   Mindset around money - what and how you think about money matters! The lies we tell ourselves and how to combat them with truth. Divorce is an opportunity to live a life bigger than you imagined. 4 buckets to look at when making decisions. Do not give in to fatigue - be your own CEO.   This episode is packed with practical things you can start today and will empower you to move forward! About today's guest:   Meagan Norris is a Certified Life and Divorce Coach offering one on one support and group coaching to help you breakthrough and transformation you're looking for.   When Meagan's marriage ended after 13 years, she became the CEO of her divorce and created a life so good it didn't make sense. She can help you do the same.   Connect with Meagan:   Website   Follow her on Instagram Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.   

Rhonda sits down with Patty Jackson, Founder of Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching to talk about disrupting the conversation we have with our spouse and more importantly, with ourselves. Here is what you can look forward to as you listen:   How can you disassemble the landmines around you 4 things you CAN control Why you need to forgive yourself and how that helps you change your perspective About today's guest: Patty Jackson, Founder, Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching, has seen people divorce and move on in peace. She has seen others divorce and continue to struggle with their ex-spouse, and still others who remarry the same spouse and divorce again.   Patty helps her clients gain peace of mind today and build respectful relationships.  Her conversation is supported by Constructive Conversations, a short book with 10 Guidelines to Resolve Conflict & Drive Results At Work & Home.   Connect with Patty:   Website: www.clearinnerfocus.com   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/livinglifeunstuck   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/clearinnerfocus/   LinkedIn Group Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center  Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.  For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 

With the holidays fast approaching, you may feel more tempted to turn to alcohol as a stress reliever as you navigate through your divorce. Our guest today, Alcohol-Free Life Coach, Beth Purcell is here to share that there is a different way! Beth and Rhonda discuss:   Beliefs around alcohol and how to change your mindset Challenge yourself to do a reset for clarity Keep your own side of the street clean There is no shame in asking for help! About today's guest:   Beth is a certified This Naked Mind (Alcohol-Free) and Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, as well as a twice-divorced co parenting mom, yogi, and lifelong learner. Beth's decades'-long, near daily use of alcohol felt completely out of alignment with her livelihood in the wellness sector and with her personal values. She felt like a fraud, but was fearful that giving up drinking would prove too difficult, or would doom her to a life of less fun & constant feelings of deprivation. Instead, she found that letting go of alcohol was not only possible, but more transformational and joy-filled than she anticipated.   Connect with Beth:   Website: https://www.bethpurcell.com/ Social Media: @bethpurcellcoaching   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Sign up for my Masterclass: Women and Divorce   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

Are you going through divorce and you or your spouse own a business? Listen in!    Rhonda talks with Business Valuation Expert, Henry Kaskov about valuing your business. What should you consider as you approach this process?    They discuss:   Who needs a Business Valuation? Discovery Process (learn what DAM is!) Hire a licensed, certified neutral appraiser in the divorce space Ask the right questions How does “good will” affect the outcome? Expert testimony in court About today's guest:   Henry Kaskov of Kaskov Valuations has over 15 years of extensive experience in performing business valuations for succession and transition planning, mergers & acquisitions, and marital dissolution.   His valuations have also been used for estate and gift tax planning and reporting, ESOPs, corporate dissolution and disputes, commercial economic damages and general financial consulting for clients across the U.S. and around the world.   Henry's Website: Kaskov Valuations LinkedIn: Henry Kaskov Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Sign up for my Masterclass: Women and Divorce   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

Our special guest today is CEO and Co-Founder of HerMoney, Jean Chatzky! Rhonda and Jean walk through how to step out in confidence when it comes to your money.    Learn your money - it can be managed! Value based spending - what is important to you? Girl Math! Why wisdom over too much information is will get you where you want to be About today's guest:  Jean Chatzky is the founder and CEO of HerMoney.com and the coaching programs FinanceFixx and InvestingFixx.    She is the host of the podcast HerMoney With Jean Chatzky and the co-host of the national radio show Everyday Wealth. The Financial Ambassador for AARP, she was the Financial Editor for NBC Today for 25 years. Jean is an award-winning journalist and broadcaster, a New York Times and Wall Street Journal best-selling author, and a fierce advocate for financial literacy. Her latest books are Women with Money: The Judgment-Free Guide to Creating the Joyful, Less Stressed, Purposeful (and Yes, Rich) Life You Deserve and How To Money, a guidebook for Gen Z women.  Connect with Jean:   Website www.Hermoney.com Social Media:  https://www.facebook.com/JeanChatzky   https://www.instagram.com/jeanchatzky/   https://twitter.com/JeanChatzky   https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanchatzky/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, Founder & CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Sign up for my Masterclass: Women and Divorce   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

We have some exciting news and a special announcement! Join Rhonda as she outlines her thought process about the new name for the podcast, and why we're making this small but powerful shift.    Rhonda covers:   The origin story of the podcast Client stories How she can help you if you're contemplating or moving through the divorce process Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, Founder & CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Sign up for my Masterclass: Women and Divorce   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

Licensed Home Appraiser, Rachel Pader sits down with Rhonda to talk about  the importance of home appraisal. Knowing your home is key! A few things they discuss:   Why it's important to have a good appraiser Tips on what you should look for Top 3 items to consider when having your home appraised About today's guest:   Rachel had been a home appraiser for 5 years and has made it her  goal to shorten the gap between realtors and appraisers. She helps educate as many people as possible on the value of their homes and helps facilitate the growth of women through conversations, connections, community and education.   Connect with Rachel:   TAC Appraisals   Facebook   Instagram Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Sign up for my Masterclass: Women and Divorce   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

Rhonda sits down with former high school teacher turned high conflict divorce coach and advocate, Lisa Johnson. Lisa and Rhonda discuss coercive control, how laws are changing across the country, and ways you can navigate through the long and arduous process. Topics include:   Find community: gather your team, both personal and professional Timeline - it's a marathon: ways to stay in it for the long haul Enjoy your life (Yes, really!) About today's guest:    Lisa Johnson is the co-founder of Been There Got Out, a high conflict divorce coach and certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself through scores of court appearances. Her case, published in the Connecticut Law Journal, is being used as legal precedent. Her live testimony helped pass Jennifers' Law in Connecticut, the third state in America to expand its legal definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.”    She and her partner, Chris, the male half of Been There Got Out, coach people in high-conflict relationships, divorce, custody battles, and co-parenting hell so they have the chance of the best outcome in family court and beyond.    They also offer a weekly Legal Abuse Support Group for those dealing with narcissistic opponents in legal matters. Their book, "Been There Got Out: Toxic Relationships, High-Conflict Divorce, and How to Stay Sane Under Insane Circumstances'' was released in March 2023.   Connect with Lisa:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/been_there_got_out/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BeenThereGotOut   Podcast: https://beentheregotout.buzzsprout.com/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeenThereGotOut   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@been_there_got_out   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/been-there-got-out/   Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/Been_There_Got_Out/   Twitter (X) : https://twitter.com/beentheregotout >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Sign up for my Masterclass: Women and Divorce   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!    

Rhonda sits down with Tracy Malone, Founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. They discuss specific ways you can know if you're being gaslit and how to handle narcissistic behavior.    What is gaslighting? Specific questions to ask your attorney Strategies for dealing with narcissistic behavior Ways to build your team who will empower you About today's guest:    My name is Tracy Malone and I am a surTHRIVER of narcissistic abuse. I created this website in 2015 when I learned that I had been a victim of narcissistic abuse my entire life. I thought my family was just crazy! I had a narcissistic mother, siblings, aunt, husband, in-laws, friends, and a boyfriend. My healing journey has been intense and life-changing, to say the least, and now I help others by coaching men and women from all walks of life to understand what happened to them.  Check out her journal: My Story of Narcissistic Abuse Journal https://narcissistabusesupport.com/my-story-of-narcissistic-abuse-journal/ Connect with Tracy: Website: https://narcissistabusesupport.com   Social Media   Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/   Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tracyamalone/   Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/tracyamalone/   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE!   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

Barbara Majeski, Founder of The MORE Life Collective, TV Personality, and Lifestyle Expert joins Rhonda for a fun and important conversation! They cover a lot today - you'll want to take notes!  Topics discussed: Women's tolerance level is high - but there is a limit Focus on YOUR own journey You can't shortcut the process It's never too late to reinvent yourself About today's guest:    Barbara is a TV personality that loves sharing her tips and tricks. She has frequently appeared on The TODAY Show, Good Day NY, New York Live, and the Nick Cannon Show. Barbara is also a mother of three and resides in Princeton, New Jersey.   In 2015 Barbara entered a divorce and was handed a diagnosis with Stage III cancer. During treatment, she vowed that if she beat cancer and got another shot at life, she would live bigger, better, and bolder with true purpose, meaning, and intent.   The three words that best describe Barbara are Purpose, Style, and Adventure.   Connect with Barbara: Website www.themorelifecollective.com   Social Media Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Twitter TikTok   ………. Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.  For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.  Grab our National Resource Guide HERE! Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE! We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!    

You will love today's guest! Lori Barkus of Sustainable Family Solutions sits down with Rhonda to talk about some of the misunderstandings around Mediation. While it can be a great option, you need to be sure you know exactly what the process entails - and what it does not.   Know what mediation is - and what it isn't What are some key things you should know and do before choosing mediation? Preparation is KEY! About today's guest:    Lori Barkus is a cum laude graduate of the University of Miami School of Law. She is admitted to practice in Florida, Colorado, Georgia and the District of Columbia. She also is admitted to practice in the Southern and Middle Districts of Florida and the Eleventh Judicial Circuit Court of Appeals.   Ms. Barkus handled primarily family law and commercial litigation matters and has handled hundreds of contested and uncontested divorce matters. Through this experience, and through extensive training as a mediator, a collaborative divorce professional and a guardian ad litem, she has learned that a lawyers' most important task in a divorce matter is to encourage clients to seek the most cost-effective solutions to minimize the trauma experienced not only by the divorcing parties but also by their children.  Connect and learn more: Website   Facebook   Instagram   Check out Lori's YouTube Channel Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE!   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!    

Rhonda is joined by Attorney Lauren Hunt for a conversation about co-parenting and negotiating the big (and little) things in divorce and beyond.   This episode covers:   Communication is key when co-parenting Is splitting custody 50/50 always the right thing? Treat co-parenting like a business Negotiations and boundaries Navigating the family court system About today's guest:   Lauren is a divorce attorney who has been in practice for over a decade. Her focus is on giving parents legal information so they can make informed decisions about their next steps. Connect with Lauren:   Website (get your custody case organizer under the resource tab)   Instagram   Facebook   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE!   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!    

Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski joins Rhonda for an in-depth conversation around Mediation. Mediation is a great option and can provide a safe place for both parties to be heard and understood. Lisa and Rhonda cover:   What mediation is and what it is not Mediation CAN work, even in difficult circumstances How to find the right Mediator for you Assembling the right team is crucial to the outcome About today's guest:    Lesa Koski   I am an attorney based in Woodbury, MN with over 20 years of experience and have a strong desire to help people through difficult situations. That's why becoming a divorce mediator was the best fit for both myself and my clients. I am here to help you and I know all about what you're going through.   In case we've never met before, let me tell you a little bit about me...   I help you throughout the process of a divorce through mediation. Together we will create your divorce paperwork or mediated agreement. I love sharing my knowledge and coaching people through the process.   Connect with Lesa:   Website   Social Media Links Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE!   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you'll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in!   What are some common beliefs women of faith have that hold them back from making a divorce decision?   How can they work to reframe those beliefs in a way that enables them to maintain their faith while also empowering them to make that difficult choice to end their marriage?   Many women of faith believe they are giving up on the power of God if they decide to call it quits and get a divorce. How is this actually not the case at all?   What can women of faith do about the feelings of guilt they might experience over ending their marriage?   How can women of faith respond to their faith communities when they are rejected due to divorce?   What are some of the ways you've seen women transform and thrive after divorce? About today's guest:   Natalie Hoffman is an Author, Podcast Host, and Director of The Flying Free Education and Support Community. Learn more about Natlie's story  HERE!     Connect with Natalie:   Author of Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage Director of the Flying Free Education and Support Community Advocate for women of faith in abusive relationships through the Flying Free podcast Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Want to know your next best move? TAKE OUR QUIZ   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process?   Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you've got kids.    Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant! Take the high road - easier said than done, but worth it. Set a goal to never pack a bag. Set the intention to delay your emotions   Sarah gives us some amazing real-life examples you won't want to miss!   Buy Sarah's book HERE.   About Sarah:   Sarah Armstrong, good divorce proponent and author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce, is vice-president, global marketing operations, at Google and proud mom of Grace, who graduated from high school in 2021 and is in her sophomore year of college. Sarah is a mentor to other women in business and longtime volunteer at various nonprofit organizations, including the Jack & Jill Late Stage Cancer Foundation, Georgetown Alumni Admissions Program and local soup kitchens.   Prior to joining Google, Sarah was a partner at McKinsey & Co. and worked at The Coca-Cola Company in global marketing for twenty years, where she led Worldwide Agency Operations across 200 countries. Sarah started her career at Leo Burnett (Chicago) in Media. Sarah's work has been recognized around the world, resulting in her being named one of Ad Age's “Women to Watch” and included in Ad Age's Book of Tens (“Top Ten Who Made Their Mark in 2009”).   Sarah was raised in Birmingham, Michigan with two younger brothers and happily married parents (for over fifty years and still going strong). She attended Georgetown University, as a scholarship athlete, earning a Bachelor of Science degree from the School of Business Administration with a major in marketing. She was a four-year starter on the Georgetown University Volleyball Team.   Sarah loves traveling the world and has been fortunate to travel to 55+ countries. She enjoys exploring new cities with Grace whenever possible. Sarah lives in San Francisco.   Website: https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com  Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!   Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE!   We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

Rhonda's guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover:  Choose joy - joy is not happiness You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion Look for the gifts - gratitude can change everything   About today's guest: Donna Tashjian is the founder of Vibrant Living International, a non-profit organization. She is a Life Mastery Coach, an ordained minister, a podcaster, and an author. She helps bring accelerated transformation to people across the world. She empowers you to master life, spirit, soul, and body.  Donna has been speaking and coaching for over 25 years. She has developed powerful programs and workshops to help you through life's transitions and pain to achieve your goals or dreams. She also produces a podcast called “You Were Designed for Greatness” and has written 3 books. Her clients say she has a knack for turning fear into excitement and exposing lies so the truth can shine through.  Website: https://www.ivibrantliving.com/ Free book available on home page EMPOWERING HABITS LINK: https://www.ivibrantliving.com/empowering-habits-2/   Connect with Donna:  LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnatashjian/ Facebook Vibrant Living page https://www.facebook.com/VibrantLivingInt Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drtashjian/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXMFNossw9VN2QwDtVitzKg   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.  For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    Grab our National Resource Guide HERE! Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE! We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!    

Don't miss this episode if you're contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future.  Gather all of the information. Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black and white!). Get to a place where you can move forward. Do not fall for a false sense of financial security!  Jeff's new book: Divorce House Sense ........ About today's guest: Jeff Landers is a seasoned real estate/mortgage and divorce expert with over 40 years of combined experience. Jeff earned his BA degree in psychology from Columbia University and studied law at Pace University School of Law before becoming a divorce financial advisor. He is also a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA™), Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP™) and licensed real estate and mortgage broker. In 2010, Jeff founded Bedrock Divorce Advisors, LLC, working exclusively with women going through a financially complicated divorce. Dealing with the marital home is almost always a major issue in any divorce. Jeff's strong background and know-how has guided many hundreds of women all over the U.S. through the complex process of selling their marital home or buying out their spouse and refinancing the mortgage, so they can keep and remain in their homes. To focus exclusively on the marital home, Jeff also founded Next Act Properties, Inc., which provides real estate and mortgage solutions for divorcing and divorced people (NextActProperties.com). Jeff has written 7 published books with 15,000+ copies sold nationwide focusing on the marital home and the financial aspects of divorce, as well as contributing articles regularly to Forbes.com, The Huffington Post, DailyWorth, More.com, Lawyers.com, and many other online publications. Be sure to pick up his latest book: Divorce House Sense ........ Connect with Jeff: Website: https://nextactproperties.com/ LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/jefflanders Twitter: https://twitter.com/NextActProperty ........ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.  For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.  Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!