Relationship Chronicles

Sadly, many people don't know the difference. When you're in a healthy relationship it means caring for that person which involves loving them and being in love with them! To care for a person, also means you will protect them and do them no kind of harm. If a person is controlling you it is not love! If you're controlling or if you're a person who allows a controlling person in your life, you're both of unhealed hearts and minds! People treat you how you've taught them to treat you!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Faking and pretending only keeps you where you've always been, in the same negative states of mind. You can't become a better person by remaining the same!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

This means once many people start obtaining the worldly things that they desire they lose focus and become easily distracted and full of pride, selfish, pompous, lack love, and they lose their way. Their good intentions turn into greed and lust! Many people become wicked, evil, and are all about possessions, money, titles, power, authority, recognition, etc. As you increase your soul decreases because you change the course and begin to be full of yourself and you start to show less love for others. Everything is me, me, me! "For what profited a man to gain the world and lose his soul." If you lose your soul, you lose!! This is why so many people are struggling mentally, they've lost their way due to following their unhealed hearts and minds and have allowed themselves to be controlled by the worlds way! People are controlled by greed and lusts of this world! Sadly, many started on their spiritual journey serving God, but chose to turn to darkness, because they believed the world had more to offer. The only thing the world gives you is destruction and damnation if it's what you choose!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Some people don't care what situation or condition you're in, they will cheat! They don't care who you are or what you have, they will cheat! They don't care what you do for them, they will cheat! They don't care how beautiful you are, they will cheat! They don't care how much you show them love, they will cheat. It is what cheaters do and you won't change it! You get what you accept! They are people of unhealed hearts and minds, who have a host of insecurities and other inner issues!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

You struggle between serving God and the devil because you're not ready to give up the world and its ways!! You say you believe, but you really don't! When you're ready, you'll give up this world, but until then, you will continue to struggle! Just know that you can't serve both the devil and God! Either you're for God or against Him. I'm not talking about the people and things you've made your god, I'm talking about the Creater, the True and Living God!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

The title says it all! When you only see what you want to see, you will miss everything else! People who are this way have no clue they are their own worst enemy, who is causing themselves, self-inflicted pain! People cause more pain and drama in their own lives but they only see the other people or the other person as the problem, when the biggest problem is self! How you think, feel, and act (your mindset) will either ruin your life or cause you to be the best you can be! I pray it's the latter!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

I've reposted this becasue the original post was in the wrong place. Many people are in relationships that they created in their own minds. They want things to be what they want them to be, but isn't necessarily the way things really are. People who do this causes a lot of unnecessary pain in their own lives. Just becasue you want it doesn't mean that's how it so.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

The picture is a depiction of nothing but that same hole you started with, only it's bigger!! Many people chase after love and will do anything to get it. Many of you have given up everything and turned your back on everyone, only to end up with nothing! That is the way of the world!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Spiritual surgery is surgery of minds and hearts, to think right and love our fellowman and fellowwoman! This entire world is in crises because it's cloaked in darkness! If you want to be saved and live for God ask for it! Read Romans 10:9!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Even if you were or is a actual prisoner in your relationship, it is you who allowed things to get that far! I know it's easier to blame the other person then it is to take responsibility for the role you chose to play! It's not my intention to hurt anyone, but fact is the truth do hurt!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people don't love themselves because they've never allowed healing in their lives. Therefore, they don't know their worth or understand what they need for self. They will go through life choosing people and things that are no good for them. No growth means no self-love or mental maturity.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people won't understand this episode, but it's what was revealed to me. If if weren't for the suffering of the my people the world wouldn't know love! Think about it, the world is full of hateful people, who have no reason for their behaviors other than it's what they were taught. Even then, a person can change, but as we know, most people have chosen not to change! Instead, they mimic, parrot, and regurgitate! People around the world believe the same lies and they carry the same old torch of hundreds of years ago! Despite the truth is easily found for research, most people wilffully choose to remain blind and clueless! With all the hate and wickedness going on in the world, I fell on my face crying out to God, asking why Black people have to suffer so much! He spoke to me through the Holy Spirit! I shared the most important thing God revealed to me. He said it is necessary!! God created us from His image, we should love one another but man taught hate! It made me break down crying, because it was so powerful! It made a lot of sense to me! Please listen and share!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

No one is exempt from getting back, the wrong they've done to others! Your money or nothing else will save you from it!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people will blame others before they will take responsibility and accountable for the choices and decisions that they make in their own lives. You keep choosing similar people because you keep thinking, feeling, and acting the same. There has been no change in you! When a person doesn't change, they remain the same, doing the same things and acting the same way! You're in your own way and your mindset is your worst enemy! The person you chose to be with may be a problem, but it's totally your fault for choosing them! You're a problem in your own life! Until inner healing happens, mindsets won't change! Therefore, people repeat cycles in their lives with no understanding as to why.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Some people run away from their responsibilities. If you lay down to do the business, never forget the possibility of conceiving a child. Think pass your feelings, desires, emotions, wants, etc., to the possibility. If you don't want a child, don't do what it takes to get one or at least protect yourself! Many people are having children who shouldn't. It's a shame the terrible things many children are subjected to by their parents or caregivers who are of unhealed hearts and minds. Many people aren't in relationships, they're simply lying down together. It doesn't matter if you're married or not, if you don't want children, be responsible. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Run at the first sign of abuse! Handsfree abuse is still abuse and can be even worse than physical! Abuse has nothing to do with love! Take an honest look at yourself and figure out why you feel you deserve less than good! You are worthy of the best! Don't ever think any differently. Abuse isn't love! Abusers are weak individuals empowered by you! Learn to love yourself and know that you deserve better!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

False and fake pastors, preachers, overseers, teachers, evangelist, apostles, bishops, rabbi's, etc., will pay for leading the flock astray. However, you will pay for following them! You're supposed to follow God's Word, not the word of man! You're supposed to worship God, not man but unfortuantely, many of you have made man your god! They're preaching money and possessions prosperity but no spiritual prosperity. That's not of God!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If you don't have boundaries against all people you'll allow unnecessary stress in your life. Too many people give their power to others to hurt them. Love yourself enough to never give power to others to cause you unnecessary and avoidable stress and pain.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If you don't choose to become better it's of your own free will! People can help change your situation in life to be better, but it won't change what's inside of you! Therefore, no matter who's in your life or what you have, you'll never truly enjoy anyone or anything until the inner you is healed. A better you is up to you!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Sometimes, you do wrong to the wrong person and they decide to do to you, what you've done to them, but you can't handle it. That's why it's important to do right by people! If you know you can't take it, don't do it!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

There are many fake Christians who are living in vain, because their talk and walk don't align. They are of man and not of God! Faking may get you over with man but it won't with God! Faking it will get you a one way ticket to hell! Their god is the devil, whom is always the author of confusion. You can see who their master is by the way they talk and behave! They're living in vain and have lost their souls.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people mess up their relationships from the start because they get into them the wrong way, with the wrong person, and for the wrong reasons. Most people don't love themselves but they're trying to love others. Some people carry flames still burning for an ex into their new relationships. Most people are of unhealthy mindsets and because of it they choose wrong and make wrong decisions. Most people settle just to have someone.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many broken people have foolishly done things because they're listening to society to find ways to feel good about themselves. The problem is afterwards many people often feel worse about themselves. Many people have messed themselves up by listening to society. They've altered their appearances (faces and bodies) and unfortunately many end up with botched results. It's not in the body, it's in the brain! You have to fix what's wrong inside in order to become of a healthy mindset! It doesn't matter how pretty your face and body is if your mind is messed up! Be thankful and grateful for what God gave you. Stop resisting aging, because it's futile to resist, you'll never be exempt unless you die first!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people give power to those who've hurt them only to continue to hurt themselves. You must learn to love yourself beyond past pains. You shouldn't give your power to anyone or anything, because it makes you weaker! You shouldn't allow any man or woman to make you feel bad about yourself, make you want to give up on yourself, blame you for their wrong, or make you want to hurt or harm yourself or anyone else. A healthy mindset is a healthy life! The choices and decisions you make, what you allow and accept, and who you allow in your life, depends on the mindset that you have!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

DEI doesn't mean certain people got jobs, just for general purposes, like ignorant people believe. No! If Black people got hired, regardless the position, they still had to be the most qualified in the pool of interviewees. No agency ever gave a person a job, because of being a veteran, Black, disabled, etc.! It's a lie, they still had to be the most qualified for the position for which they were hired. It's funny racists people want to relate  DEI to Blacks, etc., and that they were just giving jobs to them, but never mention all the White men who got positions they weren't qualified for. When will they talk about that? It's all lies saying Blacks, veterans, disabled, etc., were just giving jobs, but it's 100% true that White men got and still get jobs on nepotism and favoritism, but were and are, the least qualified. Racist people use manipulation tactics all the time to push their agenda. Those who don't want diversity are racists!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

When you don't know what love is, it means you don't or won't recognize love when you see it. If you can't recognize it the things you accept and allow in the name of love will oftentimes leave you more broken than before.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

God doesn't force you to choose His Son Jesus. He gives you the power to choose who you love. You can't serve them both. Jesus loves you, the devil doesn't love anyone, to include himself. What you choose on earth is what you'll get when you step out of life's backdoor.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people make everything and everyone more important than self. Most people think other individuals are better than them because those individuals are in positions of power and authority, are well-known, have money, etc. It's absolutely wrong, but it's how people think. Until you matter to yourself and choose to become the best you can be for yourself, you'll struggle your way through life. A positive mindset is everything!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people spend their lives worshipping people they don't know and some will do anything for them. Many people worship their significant others only to end up losing self. Worshipping people won't make them want to get to know you, want to be with you, or want to love you. If people spent half the time getting to know and love self than they do worshipping others, their lives would be so much better. Investing into everyone and everything, while you neglect self is of no benefit to you! It leads to manipulation and falling for people and things that aren't good for you. Many people end up believing things that aren't true because they give their power to those they worship and those people feed off of the power given to them. The people they worship oftentimes use them and brainwash them to do what they want and to think, feel, and act like them. It's a terrible situaiton people get in. It doesn't matter who it is, if you worship someone they will manipulate you in some way.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

The people who are hooping and hollering about fraud, waste, and abuse are committing it, while they're talking against it. How can you be serious about cutting budgets when you're constantly spending? It's contradictory! They're spending millions while claiming fraud, waste, and abuse by government agencies and federal programs. Make it make sense! Someone needs to look into the fraud, waste, and abuse being committed by the them. Someone also needss to step up for government agencies about the harassment taking place against government employees. Something is very fishy about all of it! Very fishy!!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

When a person shuts down in the relationship it only causes more problems. Shutting down isn't the mature or proper way to handle any problem or issue. If you love who you're with, communication is necessary. Sometimes people shut down because it's what they're used to doing because they don't like confrontation. Sometimes people shut down out of fear. Sometimes people are too insecure to talk about how they feel. Regardless the reason, shutting down will always open the door to new and sometimes worse issues. Don't do it! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

I'm very sorry, but they weren't exempt and neither are you. We all have to take the journey. You'll either suffer the loss of a loved one or they will suffer the loss of you. Someone is going first, because we all will die. It's something that we all must accept. We should understand it will happen. When a person is of that mindset, they learn how to handle loss much better. It doesn't mean they don't hurt, but they know in life for as long as we live, we will lose a loved one. No one should give up because of it.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If they don't love you, there's nothing you can do to make them love you. Love yourself enough to move on. You should never want anyone who don't want you. To do so, tells you something you need to know about yourself. You need to deal with your unresolved inner issues, love yourself, and move on in life. Someone not wanting you isn't the end of the world.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

You're not exempt! You will be amidst the wreckage and rubble.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Hearts are truly waxed cold. If people truly were the Christians they profess, we would see more love than the hate we're seeing in the world today.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

America has never been White. White people weren't even in America first. You've been led to believe the lie, but it does't make it true. America has never been a White Nation. People believe what they've been told although evidence shows otherwise, people will still believe what they've been told, without ever trying to find out the truth for themselves. This is the way of the entire world! People prefer a lie rather than the truth!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Don't go into a relationship looking for completion, go in whole and giving 100%. A lot of things may change while relationships grow, mature people will adapt, and true love will remain. Too many people lose the love they felt for the person they're with. The reason is most people go into relationships the wrong way, with the wrong people, and with their eyes wide shut. However, when their eyes open, they see the truth for what it is and realize they're not in a healthy relationship, and then they no longer have the feelings they once thought they had.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If you choose to go down the path of darkness, it can potentially swallow you up. If you let the devil in, his crew will set up camp and take over. Demons are real. It's easy to get into the darkness, but can be very hard to get out of it. Don't let the devil fool you! People seek out the devil for many reasons, but the devil doesn't love you, he wants you in hell with him, that's his only purpose to have you on his side. The devil is the author of confusion and the biggest liar. The devil will make you think everything glitters is gold - it may glitter but it doesn't mean it's gold, what looks good is good for you - when it can kill you or destroy your life, what looks good taste good - when it may taste good but it can kill you, and that superficial things brings you love and happiness - when it's a blatant lie. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People who have mental maturing to do think they must have someone to feel alive and complete. Only to find themselves hurt, lost, confused, in chaos, and feeling worse about themselves. Mature people know that they can manuever through this thing called life alone and that the only person completes them is self. They understand self-love and love in general and they relish in the peace that comes with it.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people want to point the finger and blame, yet never want to look at the real problem, which is self. Instead they project all of their insecurities, hurt, and pain on others. Until people take accountability, ownership, and responsibility for the choices and decisions they make, and for who or what they've chosen to become, they won't ever progress towards mental maturity. Therefore, they will continue to make bad choices and decisions based on superficial things, simply because they're mentally immature and blind. When people choose to blame, they inhibit their own growth and therefore, remain the same; prisoners to their own mindsets.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Blacks must break free of the mental chains that has been planted by the White Forefathers and others Whites who continue to carry the torches of their White Forefathers. Blacks must fight for the rights mandated in a few areas of the constitution specifically for Blacks. Facts don't lie! If Black people don't stop bowing down and instead choose to bow out of being brainwashed, fanagled, bamboolzed, conditioned and indoctrinated mindsets, like the entire world has been agaisnt Black people, and learn the truth about their own identity, Black people will always be where they've always been. The construct was built by White Forefathers and carried on by White people, which has always been designed to leave Blacks out, although almost everything all races enjoy, is due to Black people. Black people without a doubt, have inheritance and must reclaim what's rightfully theirs! Black people are not immigrants, everyone else are immigrants. All Blacks are not descendants of slaves, because free Blacks always existed, but because of the White man's contruct and slavery, ALL Blacks have been treated the  same, unless they were passing as White. Especially those in America, for which they are natives. I've always said that Blacks are the most mistreated group of people in the world and has been for hundreds of years. Because of what the entire world has been led to believe, Blacks have been hated, neglected, and done wrong by every other race, and some Blacks have bought into it and hated and neglected their own. It has always been designed by the White man for Blacks to hate within their own race. It has been by design that the entire world hate Blacks and for racism to exist and continue to be prevalent, keeping division, so that ALL people will never find out the truth about Black history.  But it's time Blacks wake up! Much truth has been buried in the Vatican and many places around the world, but there's enough Black history uncovered, to prove what I and many others have said. We all, and I mean every race, can blame the White Forefathers for brainwashing, bamboozling, indoctrinating, and conditioning the entire world to be racist against Black people. However, for Blacks and all others, to continue to have that mindset, is no one's fault but each person individually. We all should be smart enough to know that something profound is up, when you have the entire world against one race! Blacks get your inheritance, you deserve far more than 40 acres and a mule. The inheritance given to most Whites and their offsprings come from what was stolen from Blacks. Please do your own research!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

In relationships, you get exactly what you've chosen! People suffer the consequences of their bad choices and decisions, because people choose who they are with, based on their own mental states. We all make choices and decisions based on our mindsets and unfortunately most people are mentally immature, because healing, self love, and mental growth hasn't occured. The problem is in relationships people get what they signed up for and more. Then, they turn around and act as if they should have something different! No, you get what you chose, you just didn't have any idea, what else came with your choice.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people won't like this post, but if you choose to keep your head in the sand, it's because that's exactly where you want it. You'll never grow by remaining the same! You'll never learn the truth by continuing to feed into the lies and/or by continuing to believe the lies. For centuries people around the entire world have been lied to, and without ever trying to research for themselves. Research has always been available. They're master manipulators. Regardless of all other races, why is the fight always the Whites against the Blacks? It's time to wake up!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people love casting the blame on others. If you chose someone it's just that, your choice. When it goes wrong, regardless of what a person did or didn't do, you can't put all the blame on him or her because it is you, who chose them. It's time to look at yourself and take ownership and responsibility for the choices you've made. People who are immature thinks and acts similar. Allow yourself to let healing take place inside of you, love and know yourself, and learn and grow from every situation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

The power lies in the hands of the people but people are so full of lust for the things of the world, they are allowing themselves to be used and abused by the systems, businesses, corporations, agencies, and organizations. Many people suffer because they've allowed the ones on top to keep them on the bottom. Wake up and realize you have more power than you think, then act on it! Stop allowing these people who care nothing about you to swindle your money from you. If they cared for you, they wouldn't be robbing you. Their only concern is for their own well-beings.  Fight back, it's your right!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

We're all connected! People all over the world have been bamboolzed by the White Forefathers and those who continue their false narratives. They've hidden it for hundreds of years. It's not about the Black skin, if it were Whites of all people, wouldn't tan for the same colors they say they hate. I say colors, because Black people comes in all shades. Wake up people, there's far more to this thing, than you are willing to admit and/or accept. You've been conditioned to believe it's one thing, when they know it's another. Therefore, they choose to doctrinate the world to racism, rather than to let the secret out. However, it's already out and coming to the light and that's why we see the uptake in racism, especially in the U.S. They feel if they keep the lie going they'll remain on top. All other races are so blind about Black people they can't even see they are on the chopping blocks too! They'll never be excepted as White, but they don't care. The ones on top are still perpetuating the lies and false narratives and are master manipulators. Those racist Whites knows they are the inferiors one, but have brainwashed people to believe they're superior to every race on earth. ONLY a weaked minded person behaves that way! White Forefathers and those here today, are very fearful of the truth being found out! The truth can't be stopped, "what's done in the dark, SHALL come to the light."Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many men are bashing women, because they think all women are the same. It goes to show you they themselves are of immature mindsets. A mature man doesn't entertain a immature woman and vice versa. So, stop thinking all women are the same. Look at yourself and figure out why you're interested in such an immature woman in the first place. It says something about you! Instead, you want to blame her, but forgetting the fact that it was you, who chose her. You get what you choose and expect it to be something different. No, it will be exactly what you're chasing, seeking after, or chose!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

We were all born a blank slate. Everything we know was learned. As a child we learnt from family, friends, others, and via other ways (television, radio, internet, etc.). When it comes to racism, people all over the world have been taught racism, which was passed down through generations. That in itself should be profound enough for people to be curious to know the truth. For the whole world to hate one race to the degree Black people are hated is a phenomenon. Yet, instead of people trying to figure it out, they can't see past their conditioned mindsets. It's been passed down from generation to generation. Some people are in such denial, they don't believe racism even exists.Racism has breeded colorism. If you hate anyone, it means you don't love yourself! Crazy part is this; people think because they're white their exempt. No, you're not, because you'll never be a part of their actual group. You're suffering through crap like everyone else. You're not exempt because you're White. That's what many people don't understand.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Stop believing your the reason they cheated. They cheated because it's exactly what a cheater will do. A cheater will cheat because of their own inner issues, which caused the mindsets they have and their lack and their many insecurities. It's the characteristics of unhealed people. They are master manipulators and therefore, will make you feel that you're the problem, because they don't understand that they (him or her), are the problem. Love yourself enough to not allow anyone who is unworthy of you, into your life. If you let someone cheat on you, you're a problem too, and you're creating the monster in your life. People who make these choices as the cheater or the one who allows the cheater in their lives, are individuals who have unresolved internal issues. When a person doesn't love self, it affects their lives, in many ways.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

I've heard about people being given opportunities because of their race, but that isn't DEI. To place a person other than White in a position amongst mostly White isn't because of their race, it's because they were qualified to be there. How it works in colleges may be different, but in the workforce it hasn't worked that way, at least in the almost 25 years, I've never seen it. Why is it bad that there are programs to give ALL people a chance, rather than only a certain group? It's strange they hate that there's DEI Training, but are okay with other types of Trainings. It's all a part of the assignment to conquer and divide. It's still very prevalent today. Just because in your mind you have a seat at the table by being White, doesn't mean you're not on the menu with everyone else. If you're not on their level, you're on the menu too! That's the part people have yet to learn.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

When you hold on to something you can't do over and allow it to torment you internally, it is affecting you mentally. You're causing yourself unecessary self-inflicted pain. Regret will keep you stuck mentally. It's time to heal and let it go.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.