Relationship Chronicles

Black people have been the target forever, yet some Blacks are still allowing themselves to be tokens who get used up and tossed aside! There are Blacks who have fallen for colorism and the racial social construct, and they refuse to open their eyes to the truth! Black people have never tried to be superior, but they are a superpower group of people, not of their own doing but designated and designed by God. Blacks were chosen to take the burden because God knew we could handle it! Blacks have always been there since the beginning of time at all four corners of the earth! All people came from Blackness and it's been hidden from the world, but there is enough evidence out there to see the truth if people got out of their own way to reveal the truth! Black people everything has been on your backs but if you just stand up, it changes everything! Lose the slave mentality that has left an imprint, we as Blacks were supposed to learn from it and become better and stronger, not stay there with the same mindsets! Time for a change! Black men and women must understand that they are the target for prison, jail, and the grave! Stop falling for the racial social construct that has been designed for you to fail! You are unique, own it, and walk it! I understand most Black people are not this way (tokens, jealous, envious, etc.), but those who are put a stain on the rest! Stand up, for divided we'll always fall!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Anything for love will cost you unnecessary heartache, headache, and pain! If you're willing to do anything for love you have serious unresolved inner issues. It's time to look at yourself and be honest about who you are! Thinking that way means the individaul is immature, don't know what love is or what it isn't, and they don't love himself or herself.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people lack emotional intelligence. Therefore, they don't understand how their feelings fuels emotions and when people are out of control, so are their emotions. People must begin to be aware of how they're thinking and feelings. Stop allowing everything and everyone to set you off, because you're the only one who's responsible how you feel, act, or react to any situation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People try so desperately to hold on to people or things that's bringing them down! Many people give up their own sense iof dentities to be with someone else, because they invest everything in the person and the relationship but they never invest in self! People are in relationships but they're unhappy and they're stressed out to the point of developing mental health issues, because they're taking so much unnecessary drama from the one they think they love. You can't love it away or out of them, but you definitely can lose yourself while trying.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people are delusional because they claim things based on their own feelings, thoughts, opinions, perceptions, what they want, and what they desire. Yet, the person they're with doesn't feel the same about them. Too many people are in one-sided relationships claiming the other person is their soulmate when it's totally untrue! I believe God is the only one who can give you a life partner, but most people never experience it because they're too focused on what they want and with that mindset, they settle for people who aren't meant for them. What's worse is they stay with the people who weren't meant for them and go through nothing but hurt, drama, and chaos.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people have made things and individuals their gods! They started embracing people and things that they idolize and worship. There should be no one or nothing before God the Father! Yet, many professed Christians put people and things before God on a daily basis. Therefore, they have made those people and/or things their gods. You can't serve God and mammoth! If you're not for God you're against Him! It's your choice, but once you leave this natural body, there's no other chances to get on the right side! It will be done and before you died and while you had blood in your veins, you would have chosen your eternal home. Who or what you choose is your choice but there are consequences!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People of unhealed hearts and minds are broken and immature people but most don't understand it. Therefore, they believe others are the source of problem in their lives, when the biggest problem is self because of the mindset they have. People who have unresolved inner issues carry it wherever they go, they project it, and they pick up trash from others. It affects all facets of their lives. If you never choose to change you will remain the same!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people have lost their lives because they looked over their own intuition, the signs and red flags, and oftentimes, what other people have told them. What you want, who you want, what you desire and feel may cost you! Love isn't blind, people are blind!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

It is of no benefit to you to make rich people richer! Most people are struggling but are willfully paying prices that are inflated. It's tme to wake up and make a change in your life! We all have taught the rich how to treat us, time out!! Wake up and get self control! You're struggling while they are spending their money and your money too!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

It's common for most people to struggle as they go through their experiences, because most people are very familiar with hurt and pain, it's their nornal. Truth is that mindset keep people struggling! You can't become better and stronger if you remain the same! Despite how terrible it may be, we all can learn and grow from every experience! Troubles come and they will go, therefore, it will be alright! Whether you believe it or not is up to you!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people get into things when they're not equipped for the journey or for what's on the other side! The mindset you have before the journey/quest, once you've made it, you still won't be equipped to stay. It's one major reason so many people are being labeled with many mental health issues. They were never equipped for the journey! Many people are put on pedestals mainly by those below them on the pole, but just because a person is on a pedelstal doesn't mean they're ready for it or can handle it, and it's clear many can't! We see this truth every day! All money isn't good! Many statuses and positions are not worth losing integrity and respect! Most people aren't mentally ready for what they're seeking, chasing, or have received and it's why they struggle even more. The lives of millions of people are far worse off because of their own mindsets and what they've allowed and accepted! Many people let money make them instead of them just making money! Most people will never have peace because they're mentally and spiritually broken and when it's the case they're affected mind, body, and soul!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people are too busy being focused on others trying to fix, save, change, etc., other people while their own lives are crumbling. You're focused on watering the garden or grass of others while yours is dried up or is drying up! You must grow and be of a positive mindset before can see what you need to see. Love yourself and learn your value and worth, when you do you're very aware of what's going on in your life!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People are their own biggest problem but many don't recognize it! They can't see that they're the problem because all they do is complain and blame! It's always someone else and never self! When you have problems with others, take a moment and check yourself first, because I guarantee you most times you're the common denonimator! Look at the person staring back at you in the mirror! What's in a person is coming out, all the faking and pretending won't stop it! Sadly, most people project, complain, and blame, but they won't take the time to allow inner healing so they can become better people. Instead, most people stay on the same negative paths in life! They are problems in their own lives and therefore, problems in the lives of others! Most of these people lack self-control! It's a choice to be that person and it's a choice to allow that type of person to interrupt your life!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people are now dealing with mental health issues that they didn't have before and they have normalized those issues. When people normalize their mental health issues the issues don't go away and in fact they magnify and intensify in people's lives because they get used to combating it with medications. This type of mental health problems comes from lifestyles, bad experiences, and stress!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

None of us have to live the hand we were dealt. As adults, it is up to each of us the life we choose to live! If you choose to stay on the same negative path, it's your choice! You're accountable and responsible for your life and who you've chosen to become. You play a role in how people treat you, what and who you open the door to enter your life, the choices and decisions you make, and what you allow and accept in your life!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

We're living in trying times. People seem to be running amok! Unfortunately there are millions of people with unhealed hearts and minds who are out in the world carrying loads of anger, hurt, and hate. They're spewing and projecting and are only one straw away from snapping! You can't control what others will do but you can control what you do and how you respond to others. Be kind and don't provoke people because of your own pain! If they're not messing with you, leave people alone, because you don't know the mindset they're in! Before you try to check someone else, check yourself first, because while you're pointing the finger to blame, you're the biggest problem in your own life! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Plain and simple most people have deceived themselves into believing their own God's side. They have no wisdom, knowledge, or understanding of the truth. People have deceived themselves into believing they're Christian when they're not! Tradition will cause many to go to hell. People deceive themselves about many things in life but it is of no benefit!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

When a person believes everything and trust everyone, it's a problem! It's a clear sign of unresolved issues within self, which makes a person a target for others who are worse off than them. If you don't have eyes to be see you will be led blindly by the wrong person or the wrong people.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If a person don't like you because of something someone else has said, so what!! If they're that elementary and immature, you don't need that person in your life! They don't think for themselves, which is a sure sign of unresolved inner issues. Love yourself enough not to care what others say about you! It's their problem, not yours! If you're bothered by it that says a lot about you! People are broken, which means they are also immature. It leads to insecurities causing people to be jealous and envious, they think it's the person they don't like, but really it's unresolved issues within self!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

That is abusive behavior, which has nothing at all to do with love. It's brokenness! When people are that way they're broken, immature, and lack things necessary for them to see clearly. They're of unhealed hearts and minds!  When people get with abusive people they are individuals who are lacking something and seeking something. You're always treated how you've allowed. Don't ignore the signs, red flags, or your own intuition.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people talk it but they don't walk it! They love to profess it but they don't live it! It's all for show. People want approval from others but they aren't concerned with God's approval. It's because they are still in the world! When people are in trouble (incarcerated, sick, hurt/injured, etc.), they want to call on Jesus but once on their feet, they quickly return to their old ways, like that "dog returning to its vomit."  Truth is they never turned from it, they just put it on the backburner until they could return to it. God already knows people will do it!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If someone coerce, influence, persuade, pump you up, entice you, etc., to do wrong and you do it, that falls on you! It also tells you something about yourself! The mindset you have led you to follow wrong or led you to do the wrong thing, which means there is something unresolved and lacking inside of you. Unhealed hearts and minds causes many insecurities, which leads to a lot of self-inflicted hurt, because of who and what people allow into their lives.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people don't believe it is true, but it is true! However, most people are still dealing with lack of control of the their flesh. Therefore, they just don't believe it can happen. They are of immature minds and still being controlled by their flesh. When a person have no control over the flesh it affects them in many ways and many areas of their lives, because they're always doing the wrong things to gain something.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People make up societies around the world! Most of what we hear comes from broken, negative, and immature people and it's wrong! What makes it worse is it's also received by broken people! Those who haven't yet learned to love-self and are full of insecurities, fall for many of the things societies says. It has led to many wrong stereotypes and wrong beliefs. It has led to people altering their bodies and messing themselves up. It has led to people making bad choices and decisions, and allowing and accepting the wrong things and the wrong people. The list is endless!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

You avoid the relationship by avoiding the person and never getting involved in the first place. You must have eyes to see and be willing to accept the truth for what it is. Brokenness leads to blindiness, which has caused millions of people to end up in relationships with people who are no good for them. There are always signs and red flags that people miss or choose to ignore, only to find themselves in abusive relationships that they're afraid to be in and are afraid to leave! Stop allowing your unhealed hearts and minds to lead you into relationships with people you shouldn't of ever allowed into your life! Watch for the signs and red flags and follow your intuition because when you feel something is wrong, it is! As I always say "love isn't blind, people are." People have gotten used to the cliche, "love is blind" not knowing it's just another one of societies wrong views from people who aren't of mindsets to know better. See beyond your eyes, feelings, wants, emotions, and desires. It just may save your life!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If you never choose to change your situation, you're the man person to blame! Change starts with you. People don't change because of the mindsets that they have.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

It's very important that parents are engaging and monitoring their children! When you leave children to their own devices, they turn to other people and things! It's detrimental that parents are of healthy mindsets because if they are not they will project their own unresolved issues onto their children, which leads to dysfunction in their children's lives. Monitor your children and know what they're entertaining. Spend quality time with your children, nuture them, and show them love! Unfortunately, sometimes, despite the good parenting, some children will still go the wrong way because they are enticed, influenced, persuaded, coerced, etc., by people and things that are no good for them. Parent's aren't with their school age children 24 hours a day, but as long as children are getting the proper care and attention from their parents, those parents should know they done the best and the right thing for them. Regardless, many children will go astray because of the other people and things that are in their environments and social circles, etc.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people have it all wrong by thinking if they hate someone or if they won't forgive someone that it hurts the other person or people, but it's not true! It doesn't matter if you cause them problems it is you who will suffer the most! You inhibit and stunt your growth causing dysfunction in your own life! Many people never truly enjoy life because of thier dark hearts and minds. Unhappy people are full of insecurities and because of their unresolved inner issues they will project their issues into the lives of others. That behavior doesn't allow for change in your life, and there's no benefit to holding on to negativity, and never letting go of past hurt! It is you who give power to memories to form into negative thoughts and feelings. Get rid of the crutch that's keeping you crippled! It's self-sabotage and self-inflicted pain you bring upon yourself!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

After moving a person in, some people found out the hard way that who they thought the person was is much different from who they are. I know in every situation things sometimes work, but it always depending on the mindsets of the individuals involved. The only way it works is positive change must occur, people must mature.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If you mess with spirits, it invites them to mess with you! It's a fact! No matter what you say or do, you can't control a spirit and when you open the door to them, they will come in, and you can't stop them! You seeking them out to communicate with them is their invitation to come in.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Stop blaming the devil for everything! Take accountability and responsibility for your own actions. The devil has the power you give him just like anyone or anything else.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

It's all in your mind! As I've always said, for many people, their own mindsets are their worst enemy. If a person don't love you, love yourself enough to not care and move on! The reason millions are mistreated is because they want someone who isn't meant for them and isn't good for them! Yet, they still want that person! You're the biggest problem in your own life!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Millions of people are on autopilot coasting through life and not in any way, shape, form, or fashion trying to change! That is the sad truth! Every single day we all get an opportunity to change and become better, but people don't take it, they continue their cycles of the same things, only to get the same results or sometimes worse results! It's self-inflicted!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

When you never look at yourself and take accountability and responsibility for the path you're on, it doesn't benefit you! What you choose or who you choose to become falls on you, blaming others won't help you to become better! Whatever or whoever you allow into your life is because of your unhealed heart and mind, that's formed the mindset you have! Denying or rejecting the truth won't ever change it!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Some parents haven't cut the cord of their adult children, which has caused their adult children dysfunction in most areas of their lives! It's not a good thing and some of the adult children keep the cycle going with their own children! Many adult children become co-dependent on their parents and others because their parents never cut the cord! They dont have the mindset of a self-sufficient person and they rely on others to take care of them!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Many people do this without realizing because they want to be with someone, they want to be a part of something, or they don't want to step into someone else's spotlight! Years ago I was guilty of it, but after understanding my own talent, I woke up! Many people behave this way in their relationships, on their jobs, in churches, etc! However, if you do it, people will let you! BBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Unfortunately some people will by choice, go to their graves unhealed and mentally immature! The entire world is full of unhealed people who are led by their own unresolved inner issues, only to debilitate, destroy, and cripple their own lives causing a lifetime of dysfunction. It's all due to the mindsets people have and never choose to change.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If you give up your power, it will be taken! People do to you what you've allowed them to do! In this life, there's nothing or no one that's worth giving your power up! To give your power is a sign showing who you are. If someone takes your power they only take it because you gave it up and it shows who they are!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

It's your choice to choose God or not, but I'm suggesting since you've tried everything and nothing has helped, why not try God!! The only way to God is through His Son, Jesus! I pray each of you be blessed and grow in leaps and bounds!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

There is nothing wrong with parents dating as long as they're not neglecting their children to do it! Many parents are only thinking about self, which ends up causing dysfunction in their own lives and the lives of their children. Guard your heart! Protect and provide for your children!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Power, money, status, titles, money, positions, looks, etc., gets many people placed on pedestals that they aren't able to handle and are struggling to maintain! When you choose your mind, body, and soul over self-love and peace, you'll always be plagued in some way by negativity. What's inside of you will always influence your choices and decisions, because of the mindset that you have!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

This year is almost gone! No more excuses! Throw away the cruthches!! It's time to truly become the best you that you can be!! Change is in your view and in your reach, it's up to you to make the change! You can do it and you're worthy!! Happy Holidays!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People are easily influenced by seen and unseen forces. Whatever or whoever you entertain and invite into your life will show up for the party! Most people are clueless to what they open themselves to! There are natural and supernatural forces always at work, if you're not intune with God or yourself, you can fall prey! That's why it's important people learn to never entertain negativity, especially negative thoughts, because as long as you keep thinking of them, they influence your feelings, and actions! No matter who or what contributed to how you think about yourself and life; you're responsible and accountable for who you become and for what you do! Don't let the demons in!!!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people are stuck in the still syndrome and have been there for years! If you don't change, neither will your situation. Still, still, still only keeps you in the same mindset doing the same old things, the same old way! It's called a repetitive cycle and it's how most people live their lives on auto pilot! You're the only one who can change it! It's a form of consistency but not a beneficial form!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

The only person who can do your inside work is you! If you never choose to change it falls on you! Therefore, it is you who is responsible and accountable for your own life! Stop giving your power to people and things to prevent you from healing, loving yourself, and gaining mental maturity!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People put much more on themselves than they can handle and then they blame it on everyone else! They go through life carrying their own unresolved inner issues and top of their own they have to deal with the unresolved issues that others bring into your life. People try to bear the issues of others when they can't even handle their own, that's where breakdown comes in because most people go through life being led blindly by their unhealed hearts and minds; making their own lives worst. They never learn from their experiences. Therefore life is much harder for them because they continue to repeat the same cycles, and allowing those worse off than then to affect their lives. Your mindset is your biggest problem and your worst enemy!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

I certainly don't believe it or agreed to it. If you allow people to treat you badly they will and most won't care nothing about the Jesus you think you love. You'te the one who teach others that they can mistreat you! Waiting for someone to change you may be waiting forever! A proven way to know if you love yourself is look at how you allow yourself to be treated by your significant other and other people! God loves us unconditionally but despite the love if necessary He will chastise you and if necessary will turn you over to a repobate mind! In other words He's not playing with any of us! Don't let people abuse, misuse, or do you wrong in the name of what you perceive as love.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

People are so spoiled and have mindsets conditioned to spend, spend, spend. No matter what, people will spend money on things they don't need. They spend money they don't have. They will spend on what they don't need before getting what they need. Many people will spend money but they won't budget or save! It is the American people's fault the shambles the USA is in. We have allowed billionare and millionare companies to use and abuse us! We're taxed beyond reality on every single thing! Everything single thing is sky high and almost unaffordable these days. We have to work until we're dead! It's insane!! The crazy part is people won't stop spending! It's like people are too far gone to stop. People have become addicted to spending! Most people are easily bamboolzled into buying, dangle the carrot and people will fall for it! Wake up!!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

It's great being a good and decent person but when you're not loved and appreciate it causes problems for yourself. It's a clear sign of immaturity but most people think because they're taking care of their business and doing the right thing that they're mature, when they're not. It's okay to mean well but good intentions don't mean anything to a person who doesn't care about you and only enjoying the benefits that you provide!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Of course he's a man, but he supposed to be different! If he isn't ready to give up the world and worldly things, he shouldn't be in any pulpit! Like it or not, it's the truth! Too many people give their pastors too many passes and it's why they keep messing up and doing all kinds of worldly things. It's why we're seeing the world in the churches. The church leaders are ungodly! Members aren't holding their pastors accountable because they too are still in the world, therefore the behaviors of their worldly pastors is acceptable.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

If we are to stand and endure the times, we must accept that good and bad things will happen, unexpected and expected. Trials, tribulations, storms, bad experiences, etc. can make you a very strong individual if you're of the right mindset going into them. My recommendation for all is to stand on the Word of God, allow inner healing, believe in yourself, love yourself, and never get distracted by or give power to people or things. Stay focused on the Lord because He will give you that supernatural peace that surpasses all understanding. It's a guarantee!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.