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What happens when parenting regret doesn't go away… it just evolves?In this episode, Erika is joined by fellow childfree girlie Abby Porter (aka z00mie, aka “the girl with the list”)  to unpack a brand-new post from a parent whose regret has shifted from newborn exhaustion to something much heavier: existential anxiety, fear about the future, and the pressure of shaping a child's entire life.We discuss: • Why regret can become more philosophical as kids grow• The crushing pressure parents feel to “not mess up” their children• Anxiety about AI, social media, and the modern world kids are growing up in• The myth that motherhood comes naturally• Why some people realize the realities of parenting too late• How comparison culture and mommy influencers make parenting harder• Whether thinking deeply about parenthood BEFORE kids could prevent regretTIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro + Meet Abby Porter01:00 How parenting regret changes over time03:00 Fear of traumatizing your kids (even if you're a good parent)05:00 Generational patterns, anxiety, and breaking cycles07:00 Parenting anxiety about the future, AI, and safety09:00 “Philosophical garbage” — unpacking that take12:00 When motherhood isn't what you expected14:00 The myth that parenting comes naturally16:00 Social media, mommy influencers, and comparison18:00 Kids, screens, and the “iPad generation”21:00 Therapist advice: stop spiraling or think deeper?23:00 Why these conversations matter BEFORE having kids24:50 Comment reactions + final thoughtsFOLLOW ABBY PORTERYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@z00mie TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@z00mieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/z00mi.e/ MORE FROM USWebsite: https://www.dinkypod.com/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/dinkypod regretful parents podcast, parenting regret discussion, motherhood reality, childfree podcast, parenting mental health, motherhood expectations, modern parenting struggles, should I have kids, honest parenting talk, parenting anxiety, raising kids today, social media parenting pressure, AI future kidsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

In this episode, Erika and Kristen read and react to a viral post from Reddit about a parent struggling with a chronically unhappy, clingy, sleep-hating four-year-old — and the toll it's taking on her mental health.From colicky babies to nonstop whining, sleep deprivation, and the reality of parenting advice that doesn't always help, this conversation dives into the messy truth behind “it gets better.” Along the way, the hosts share personal stories, debate nature vs. nurture, question whether some kids are just born grumpy, and wonder if one tiny old-soul child simply belongs on a bench in New York complaining about life.They also discuss:What chronic sleep deprivation does to parentsWhy some kids always seem happier The pressure to follow perfect parenting adviceWhy “just take them somewhere fun” isn't always helpfulWhether kids actually enjoy things like trips to London or seeing Big Ben (apparently not

In this episode, Kristen and Erika dive into another brutally honest story from the Regretful Parents series — this time from a 39-year-old single mother by choice who spent thousands on fertility treatment… and now says she feels trapped, broke, constantly sick, and deeply regretful.If you've ever felt pressure from society, family, media, or your “biological clock” — this episode is for you.We're talking about:The reality of being a single mom by choiceFertility treatment expectations vs. realityPostpartum depression & long-term mental health strugglesWhy parents say “it's worth it” (even when it's not)The myth of “you'll have so much support”Constant illness after daycareWhy society pushes women toward marriage & motherhoodDisney, fairy tales, and lifelong conditioningMarriage propaganda & pronatalist cultureWhy antidepressants are often recommended to struggling parentsAnd the uncomfortable truth: what if you simply don't enjoy parenting?Subscribe for MoreNew episodes weekly on:Regretful parents storiesChildfree lifeMarriage realitiesWomen opting out of traditional pathsFinancial & emotional freedom without kidsLike, comment, and share if this episode resonated with you.Learn more about Dinky: https://www.dinkypod.com Support the show on Patreon for bonus content: https://patreon.com/dinkypodBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

⚠️ Content Warning: Discussions of parental resentment, mental health crises, and implied threats of violence.In this episode, Erika and Kristen dive a viral Reddit post from an Australian father overwhelmed by parenting two ADHD children with an ADHD spouse. What starts as complaints about mess, noise, and burnout spirals into resentment, misogyny, and an alarming confession.As two hosts with ADHD, we unpack the realities of living with ADHD and why so many parents seem shocked by… having to parent??? Along the way, we discuss weaponized incompetence, emotional labor, mental health stigma, ADHD medication debates, and why therapy is not optional when resentment turns dangerous.Learn more about Dinky: https://www.dinkypod.com Support the show on Patreon for bonus content: https://patreon.com/dinkypodAnd until next time…Don't get pregnant.

⚠️Content Warning: This episode discusses disability, regret, resentment, and medical trauma. Listener discretion advised.In this episode, Kristen and Erika dive into a post titled “I dislike my disabled child and I am ashamed.”Pulled straight from Facebook — where it racked up over 5,000 likes — this anonymous post opens up an uncomfortable conversation about parenthood, disability, genetic testing, medical gaslighting, caregiver burnout, and the realities no one prepares parents for.We react in real time to a mother describing life after learning her child will be profoundly disabled, require 24/7 lifelong care, and never be independent. From missed genetic diagnoses and a lawsuit, to rage, grief, resentment, and shame — this episode tackles the things parents aren't allowed to say out loud.We also unpack:Medical gaslighting of women by doctorsSociety's obsession with “perfect motherhood”How people are brutally cruel to regretful parents onlineThe myth that “everything will work out” If you're childfree, on the fence, or questioning the fantasy version of parenthood society sells us, this episode is for you.More episodes, tours, and unfiltered chaos: DinkyPod.comJoin our childfree community: patreon.com/dinkypodTake a trip with us: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/dinky-wxarg Learn more about our podcast: dinkypod.com Love ya. Don't get pregnant.

Guest: Dan Flores. Flores critiques 19th-century explorers, noting how Lewis and Clark needlessly slaughtered grizzlies and how Audubon, though later regretful, killed birds to capture their likenesses.1873 VULTURE BISON

This one has a twist ending!In this episode of the Regretful Parents series, Erika and Kristen react to a Reddit post titled “I genuinely hate my baby.” What starts as a familiar story about parenting regret, sleep deprivation, and postpartum mental health quickly turns into total chaos when the hosts realize the post wasn't written by a mother — but by a first-time father (FTF).This episode dives deep into the realities of new parent burnout, baby sleep training, cry it out (CIO) methods, and the crushing isolation that comes with being an expat parent with no support system. The Reddit post describes a 33-year-old parent with a 4.5-month-old baby who hasn't slept more than two hours at a time, leading to severe mental health struggles, weight loss, emotional breakdowns at work, and intense regret over becoming a parent.Along the way, Erika and Kristen unpack:The emotional toll of sleep deprivation and newborn parentingWhether sleep training actually works or causes harmWhy parenting forums are obsessed with acronyms (FTF, CIO, PLS, TCB… seriously, why?)The differences in how mothers vs fathers are treated when they struggle mentallyHow parental regret is discussed (or ignored) onlineWhy so many overwhelmed parents turn to churches, daycare, or community support just to surviveAnd how being child-free offers a radically different perspective on parenting cultureThis episode blends dark humor, brutal honesty, and social commentary while exploring topics like postpartum depression (PPD), parenting expectations, gender roles, and the myth that having children automatically brings fulfillment.If you're interested in:regretful parentsnew parent mental healthbaby sleep trainingparenting regret storieschild-free commentaryReddit parenting storiesfirst time father strugglespostpartum depression discussions…this episode is for you.

In this episode, Erika and Kristen read and discuss a post from the Regretful Parents sub titled “Don't Do It Folks.” The post details a chaotic day of parenting young children and offers practical advice for people who are considering having kids.Our conversation covers the realities of daily childcare, loss of free time, unequal caregiving labor, financial strain, and how resentment can build. We break down the post's advice for fence sitters, including the importance of firsthand childcare experience, realistic expectations, financial support, and reliable help from partners or family.The episode also explores broader themes around decision-making, comparing parenthood to other long-term commitments people often underestimate. Listener comments from the subreddit add perspective on money stress, partner dynamics, and unmet expectations after having children.This episode is for fence sitters, childfree listeners, and parents looking for honest discussions about parenting, regret, and life choices.Topics discussed:Regretful Parents subreddit storiesParenting stress and burnoutFence sitting and deciding whether to have kidsChildcare labor and resentmentFinancial pressure and parentingChildfree perspectivesKeywords: regretful parents, parenting regret, fence sitter, childfree, deciding whether to have kids, parenting burnout, regretful parents subreddit, childfree podcast, parenting realities, DINK lifestyleJoin our childfree community: patreon.com/dinkypodTake a trip with us: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/dinky-wxarg Learn more about our podcast: dinkypod.com Love ya. Don't get pregnant.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

Trigger Warning: This episode discusses self-harm, mental health crises, sexual content, and parental regret.A parent of a 17-year-old daughter with autism, ADHD, anxiety, and intrusive thoughts describes years of burnout, crisis management, and reaching a breaking point. From phone restrictions to parental PTSD, this story raises uncomfortable questions about autonomy, responsibility, mental health, and what happens when caregiving becomes all-consuming.

Welcome back to the Regretful Parents series. This episode tackles what motherhood does to women's bodies, mental health, and sense of self.Erika and Kristen read a post from the Regretful Parents subreddit titled “Never Felt as Ugly as I Do Now as a Mom.”A woman reflects on how pregnancy, postpartum life, chronic sleep deprivation, stress, and mental load have aged her physically and emotionally — and how devastating it feels to no longer recognize herself in the mirror. From "saggy apron bellies to lifeless eyes", celebrity “bounce-back” culture, Botox discourse, and why men somehow escape all of this entirely, the conversation spirals (as it should) into a full-blown rant about how cruel, unfair, and deeply misogynistic the expectations placed on mothers really are.Topics include:Postpartum body changes no one warns you aboutWhy stress and sleep deprivation visibly age womenThe lie of “bouncing back” after pregnancyCelebrity beauty standards are fully rage-inducingWhy motherhood drains women and barely touches menAnd the eternal question: why do we keep doing this to ourselves?Support us on patreon.com/dinkypod so we can kill ads foreverFind childfree friends, connect with other fence-sitters, and join our next trip at dinkypod.com.And as always: don't get pregnant.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

This episode marks Rose Claverie's conversation with Sunny Bates for the Harvest Series.Recorded at Harvest in Kaplankaya, they come together to explore a question that feels increasingly urgent in our modern world: what does real connection truly mean?In this thoughtful and expansive dialogue, Sunny Bates challenges transactional networking and reframes connection as an act of generosity, curiosity, and courage. Reflecting on community, asking, and vulnerability, this episode is a powerful reminder that human connection remains one of our most essential tools.Chapters00:00 – Welcome to Harvest00:29 – What makes a connection extraordinary01:14 – Sunny Bates' work and background01:53 – Networking without discomfort02:30 – Shyness, asking, and vulnerability03:48 – Becoming a connector from childhood05:12 – Why people fear uncomfortable personalities06:00 – Giving generously and transformation06:10 – How travel reshaped connection07:31 – Networks, generosity, and ripple effects08:25 – Introverts, extroverts, and curiosity09:29 – Managing energy and meaningful interactions10:39 – Hiring, trust, and deep evaluation12:08 – Approaching busy or guarded people13:53 – When connection becomes transactional15:02 – Personal mission and alignment16:05 – Rejection, fear, and asking again17:25 – Phones, avoidance, and modern disconnection18:46 – Advising TED and building communities20:26 – Sustaining engaged communities22:02 – Connection as political resistance24:14 – Regretful connections and responsibility28:24 – Courage, motherhood, and career risk32:14 – The courage to ask32:54 – Closing reflectionsYou can follow us on Instagram at @HarvestSeries or @rose.claverie for updates.Watch our podcast episodes and speaker sessions on YouTube: Harvest Series.Credits:Sound editing by: @lesbellesfrequencesTechnician in Kaplankaya: Joel MoriasiMusic by: ChambordHarvest Series is produced in partnership with Athena Advisers and Capital PartnersHarvest Series Founders: Burak Öymen and Roman Carel

In this episode, Kristen and Erika dive into a wild Reddit post from a working mom dealing with a stay-at-home husband who refuses to actually parent their 28-month-old (that's 2 years and 4 months, people!).What We Cover:A stay-at-home dad who won't take his toddler to the playground, feed her, or play with herWhy OP hired a house cleaner because he couldn't handle the basicsThe depression and isolation that can come with being a full-time parentWhy men often aren't equipped to handle what women do every dayThe importance of community and adult friendships for stay-at-home parentsOur thoughts on why this relationship is doomedGET MORE: Instagram & TikTok: @dinkypodJoin our community: Find childfree friends, connect with other fence-sitters, and join our next trip at dinkypod.com.Key Moments:The math rant about calling kids "28 months old" instead of just saying their age in yearsDiscussion about whether this dad was always terrible or if parenthood changed himWhy the wife can't leave even though she "could care less about him anymore"The hypocrisy of stay-at-home dads vs stay-at-home moms and societal expectationsThis episode tackles the reality of regretful parenting, gender dynamics in childcare, stay-at-home parent depression, and why some people should never have kids.  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

What happens when the love you're promised as a parent never shows up?In this episode, Erika and Kristen dive into one of the most taboo and honest conversations about parenthood: regret, ambivalence, and not loving your child the way society says you should. Reading directly from the Regretful Parents subreddit, we unpack a post from a mother who admits she doesn't love her baby and can't figure out why. From postpartum expectations and hormonal myths to comparisons between loving pets vs. children, this episode explores:Why some parents don't feel instant love after birthThe difference between love as a feeling vs. love as an actionPostpartum depression, trauma, and emotional overstimulationWhy mothers are rarely allowed to admit regretThe pressure to perform “good motherhood” even when you're strugglingWhether love can grow later — or never come at all

Once I was urged by the Holy Spirit to go pray for a man that night, and I worked all day, I was tired. I said, "In the morning." Well, in the morning, he was dead. You know, I've always remembered that, and it's probably 50 years now. I've always regretted disobeying the Holy Spirit. That's just one example.

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Welcome back to the Regretful Parents series. This week, Erika and Kristen read and react to a post from the Regretful Parents subreddit titled “Feel Like I've Ruined My Life.” Spoiler alert: he kind of has. A 29-year-old man agrees to an ultimatum — have a baby before 30 or never — and now finds himself exhausted, resentful, intimacy-deprived, and being pressured for more kids he absolutely does not want. The hosts break down the red flags, the insanity of reproductive ultimatums, and why choosing hypothetical future children over your actual partner is… deeply unwell behavior. Along the way, they discover one of the smartest parenting arrangements they've ever seen, question why people keep doing this to themselves, and remind everyone (once again) that ultimatums are not love.Topics include:Reproductive ultimatums

In this episode, Erika and Kristen dive into a jaw-dropping Reddit post titled “I Am A Roller Coaster Of Regret And Acceptance.” From religious guilt to missed abortions, dating struggles as a single parent, and the crushing realities of living with family, this story sparks one of our most chaotic discussions yet.We unpack:Why people banking on miscarriage is not a life planThe real statistics about pregnancy lossHow religion traps people — especially women — in unwanted parenthoodWhy telling single parents to “just make more money” is useless adviceThe myth of “plenty of good men who will raise your kid”Dating with kids and the harsh math of shrinking romantic optionsWhat realistic support actually looks like for regretful parentsWhy child support and 50/50 custody are not as simple as Reddit makes it soundHow societal expectations sabotage women's independencePlus:Erika threatens to hand out abortions like Oprah gives out carsKristen Googles miscarriage stats mid-episodeSpeculation on whether these Reddit commenters are botsA brief detour into Europe trips, face masks, and alleged co-host hatredA public reminder: STOP GETTING PREGNANTPerfect for listeners who:Are childfree or childfree-curiousLove dark humor, honesty, and chaosWant a realistic look at the consequences of accidental parenthoodEnjoy commentary on Reddit's wildest regret-parent stories

In today's Regretful Parents episode, Erika and Kristen dive into a viral story from the I Regret Having Children Facebook page — and this time, it's not a confession but a financial horror story. An Ohio mom's TikTok exploded online after revealing the NICU bill for her premature quadruplets: $4.04 million. Erika and Kristen unpack the wild reality of childbirth costs in America, why one medical complication can financially ruin a family overnight, and how unpredictable — and brutally expensive — pregnancy and birth can be. Inside this episode:• A NICU bill for quadruplets that hit $4 million• Why childbirth and complications are financially catastrophic in the U.S.• Parents of twins facing $11 million in NICU charges• How insurance actually works (and doesn't) for medically complex births• Hidden hospital costs, nonsense itemized charges & billing scams• Why “just have kids” ignores medical and financial reality• The emotional toll of raising premature or medically fragile infants• Why the childfree movement keeps gaining traction• The fear, uncertainty, and chaos behind “miracle baby” stories• Why influencers oversimplify parenthood into “children are a blessing”• U.S. healthcare vs. Europe's systems — and who ends up paying

Welcome back to our Regretful Parents series. In this episode, Kristen and Erika react to a Reddit post titled “Motherhood Has Been Hell As An Anxious Person,” where an overwhelmed mom explains how becoming a parent completely destroyed her mental health, sleep, and sense of stability. This is one of the most honest Reddit parenting stories we've covered. Before having kids, the original poster felt her anxiety was under control. She had routines, sleep, self-care, time for exercise, friendships, and a stable lifestyle. But motherhood brought sleep deprivation, overstimulation, constant responsibility, and the loss of basic personal freedom. Her anxiety returned with a vengeance, leaving her controlling, exhausted, and unable to maintain her own mental or physical health. We discuss:• What happens when anxious people become parents• Sleep deprivation and the mental health collapse it can cause• The myth that motherhood is always fulfilling or “worth it”• Why self-care is not selfish, especially for parents• How societal pressure pushes people to have kids they aren't prepared for• The fear of being labeled selfish for prioritizing mental health• Why so many parents feel regret but cannot say it out loud• Neurodivergence, overstimulation, and sensory overload in parenting• How childfree people often avoid these struggles by choiceIf you're exploring the childfree lifestyle, questioning parenthood, managing anxiety, or looking for honest conversations about modern parenting, this episode dives into the real challenges parents face—but aren't allowed to talk about.More episodes and resources: DinkyPod.comFollow us on Instagram and TikTok: @dinkypodJoin our childfree community and group trips at DinkyPod.comPatreon for weekly bonus episodes and ad-free content: patreon.com/dinkypodTimestamps:00:00 Intro00:17 Why anxiety and motherhood often collide02:00 How sleep deprivation destroys mental health05:00 The motherhood myth and societal pressure07:00 Why parents don't expect the loss of freedom10:00 Self-care vs. “selfishness”13:00 Neurodivergence and sensory overload18:00 The fear of constant danger20:00 Final thoughtsKeywords: motherhood anxiety, anxious mom, regretting motherhood, regretful parents, parenting burnout, sleep deprivation mom, overwhelmed mom, childfree by choice, should I have kids, mental health and parenting, Reddit stories, Dinky Pod, Kristen and Erika, parenting regret, motherhood expectations, anxious parents, overstimulation parentingBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

Welcome back to another episode in our Regretful Parents series — where we dive deep into stories from the Regretful Parents subreddit. Today's post comes from a woman who is 7 weeks pregnant, spiraling with anxiety, and realizing she may not actually want a baby — even though her husband does. She's 35, terrified of change, and suddenly questioning everything.In this episode, we talk about: ✨ Fear-based pregnancies and panic spirals ✨ Pressure from partners who want kids ✨ Why “children are funny” is NOT a reason to reproduce ✨ Abortion, guilt, intuition, and regret ✨ Why parenthood is a lifetime contract you cannot return ✨ The hard truth: You can divorce your husband… you cannot divorce your child If you're childfree, childfree-curious, or just fascinated by the realities people rarely talk about, this episode is for you.

Welcome back our Regretful Parents series! In this episode, Erika and Kristen react to a viral Reddit post from a parent who openly regrets having kids — and his reasons why will make your jaw drop. From religious guilt and peer pressure to capitalism and walkable cities, this conversation breaks down why so many parents are speaking out about regret, exhaustion, and the myth of “the village.”We dive into:The viral Reddit post titled “For the ones lurking and seeking answers”Why some people regret having kids — and what they wish they'd knownThe impact of religion, social pressure, and capitalism on family planningThe myth of “it takes a village” and what parents actually need: money, services, and walkable citiesWhy billionaires and late-stage capitalism are part of the parenting crisisGET MORE: Find us on YouTubeFollow us on Instagram & TikTok: @dinkypodJoin our community:Find childfree friends, connect with other fence-sitters, and join our next trip at dinkypod.com.Timestamps:00:00 Intro – The “Regretful Parents” series00:21 The viral Reddit post01:00 The “sex drive” rant03:00 Religion, guilt, and regret05:00 “You need a village” vs “You need services”06:00 Capitalism, billionaires, and burnout08:00 Dinky Pod community & PatreonKeywords: regretful parents, childfree podcast, childfree lifestyle, should I have kids, parent regret, Reddit parenting, childfree women, childfree couples, religious guilt parenting, capitalism parenting crisis, late stage capitalism, Dinky Pod, Erika and Kristen, fence sitters, walkable cities parentingBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

Select Regretful Parents episodes are being uploaded to the podcast feed — to watch the full series, visit Dinky Podcast on our YouTube!Welcome back to our Regretful Parents series, where hosts Erika and Kristen read and react to posts from parents who regret having kids. This episode dives into a Reddit confession titled “4 A.M. Thoughts” — a raw look at the exhaustion, resentment, and grief that some parents feel behind closed doors.Erika and Kristen unpack it all:

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From now until year's end, certain money mistakes can leave you with a lot of regret. In this episode, Art highlights four financial decisions to avoid, answers questions about how a home down payment affects your net worth, and addresses Bible verses that have been troubling a listener. Don't miss it!Resources: 8 Money MilestonesAsk a Money Question!

  Retirement should be a time of peace and enjoyment — but choosing the wrong place to live can turn that dream into disappointment. According to AARP and other retirement studies, more than 30% of retirees who move out of state later say they wish they'd chosen differently. So, what are the biggest regrets we've heard — and how can you avoid them? Let's break down the seven regrets I hear from our audience. 1. We Didn't Visit Enough Before Moving Many retirees fall in love with a place on vacation, but vacation living isn't the same as daily living. Tip: Spend extended time (even off-season) before committing. 2. We Underestimated How Much We'd Miss Friends & Family The emotional toll of distance can hit hard. Tip: Have a plan for staying connected or traveling back. 3. We Focused on the House, Not the Community A dream home doesn't matter if you feel isolated. Tip: Evaluate neighborhood dynamics, not just square footage. 4. We Didn't Consider Medical Access Enough Health surprises happen. Are facilities nearby? Specialists available? Tip: Research hospitals, urgent care centers, and the availability of providers. 5. We Didn't Understand the Culture or Pace of Life Some want peace and quiet. Others miss the hustle and bustle. Tip: Select a location that aligns with your energy and lifestyle. 6. We Didn't Budget Realistically Hidden costs, such as HOA fees (and unexpected increases), transportation, or travel, can strain a fixed income. Tip: Talk to real residents. Get a true picture of costs. 7. We Thought It Would Fix Everything A new zip code won't solve personal or relationship challenges. Tip: Move with clarity, not desperation. While the vast majority of people we encounter here in Hot Springs Village love it and most wish they'd come here sooner, some people can regret moving here. Everybody has their unique situation and preferences. Be aware of them and adjust accordingly. Don't romanticize how you think things may be. Be as sure as you can. At this age, we need to get our retirement right!   • Join Our Free Email Newsletter • Subscribe to Our YouTube Channel (click that bell icon, too) • Join Our Facebook Group • Support Our Sponsors (Click on the images below to visit their websites.) __________________________________________ __________________________________________

Ever found yourself blurting something out, making a random decision, or spiraling into shame after a hyperfocus bender — only to ask yourself later, “What was I even thinking?” You're not broken — but you might be missing a critical executive function skill that ADHD brains often struggle with: metacognition.In this episode, we're diving deep into the skill of “thinking about thinking” — what it is, why it's often offline in ADHD brains, and how it affects everything from our relationships to our routines. You'll learn how weak metacognition keeps us stuck in reactive loops, and why it's so hard to hit pause when our brains are wired for go-go-go.We'll break down:* What metacognition actually is (with real-life ADHD examples)* Why the ADHD brain skips the self-reflection step entirely* The neuroscience of the prefrontal cortex and executive dysfunction* Why impulsive decisions and delayed regret are more about wiring than willpower* How to start training your internal coach instead of listening to your inner criticPlus, I'll share 5 science-backed, ADHD-friendly strategies to strengthen your metacognitive muscle — no shame, no “just try harder,” and no 50-page bullet journal required.If you've ever looked back and wondered, “Why did I do that?” — this episode is for you.metacognition moment resource: https://www.canva.com/design/DAGrRQu7-6w/4_XASV7kxlDvciLgIc5PFA/view?utm_content=DAGrRQu7-6w&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link2&utm_source=uniquelinks&utlId=hbd3d132f02Follow me:Linktree:https://linktr.ee/carmen_iraceJoin Focused: https://ihaveadhdllc.ontralink.com/t?orid=29951&opid=1 Get full access to carmen_authenticallyadhd at carmenauthenticallyadhd.substack.com/subscribe

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They said having kids would be the most rewarding thing you'd ever do—but what if that was a lie? In this no-holds-barred episode, we dive into the dark side of parenthood: the moms and dads who wish they never had kids. Inspired by the brutally honest stories from @kelleydaring's viral TikTok and blog, we explore the raw truth about lost freedom, shattered dreams, relentless pressure, and the kind of regret no one dares admit out loud.This isn't for the faint of heart—this is for the ones who wondered what life could've been if they chose differently.info@mdmaq.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@kelleydaringhttps://www.facebook.com/IRegretHavingChildren

Andrew is excited to receive an email from one of his favorite podcast hosts. Luke is anxious about an upcoming party that he doesn't have time to prep for. And they discuss the age-old “quality vs quantity” debate when it comes to pizza.   

Today we're revisiting a crowd fave: regretful parents! We spiced it up this time and went to a new source for regretful parents content: Facebook's “I Regret Having Children” page. Can you imagine anything more depressing than posting about regretting parenthood on Facebook?? Me either! Tune in for a great recap of three stories found on Meta's worst platform. We have two long weekend trips to:Mexico City Weekend 1: Oct 9 - 12Mexico City Weekend 2: Oct. 16 - 19 (GIRLS TRIP)Plus 8 Days In Germany + Prague for Christmas Markets: Dec. 6 - 13 (GIRLS TRIP)Dinky is now on Substack — free of charge! Subscribe now to access exclusive content, unhinged memes, guest articles, and stay up to date on the podcast. Wanna connect with us on social media? You can find us on Instagram, TikTok, Threads, and BlueSky at @dinkypod. Follow us on YouTube.If you have a question or comment, email us at dinky@dinkypod.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

The Switch 2 is not without controversy. The big issues center around hardware ownership. So why are Nintendo getting this wrong?Happiness is tricky to pin down, but the latest research gives some hints on how to get there.Years ago, Captain America was revealed to be a Hydra agent. This led to no end of problems for the writers, mostly caused by the fans. Let's hope their next big plot twist goes better.Nintendo Switch 2 early bricked- Nintendo Switch 2 is already in some users' hands, but a mandatory update means they can't be played | VGC The science of joy- The Surprising Science of Joy: What Research Got Wrong | Psychology Today Australia Marvel editor reflects on Cap Hydra reveal- Marvel Comics Exec Editor Reflects On Captain America Hydra Reveal: "We Were Perhaps Under-Concerned About The Impact That This Moment Was Going To Have" Full Show Notes : https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ukMX1PRUyuvYhKiWhXijEaXve_SBtQ_3aLcQ2S7gtXM/edit?usp=sharingFollow us onDiscord - https://discord.gg/pRmyEZ8CcXFacebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/NerdsAmalgamated/Twitter - https://twitter.com/NAmalgamatedInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/nerds_amalgamated/Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@nerdsamalgamatedTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@nerdsamalgamatedTwitch - https://www.twitch.tv/nerdsamalgamated Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's another fully regrettable episode.  Wait, who writes this stuff??  It's actually a full and complete episode made entirely of Jay's Regrettable Segments, where he pulls a semi-obscure (depending on who's listening) superhero from the archives of Jon Morris's book, The League of Regrettable Superheroes, then tells the story after a brief “brought to you by” ad from Art the Announcer Guy.  Said (or sad) superheroes are then rated as Regrettable, Redeemable, or Not Regrettable (super original, right?)   In this segment of segments, The Silver Age closes out with Spyman, then the heroes enter the Bronze and/or Modern Age, depending on how you define it, with Adam-X the X-treme, Holo-Man, and The Outsiders (probably not the ones you're thinking about.)  And like the Super Bowl, even if the heroes are regrettable, this one's worth listening to just for the ads.  

HR2 Richard Battle: Leaders vs Organizers, Regretful Trump Voters 5-14-25 by John Rush

“The wicked are trapped by their own words, but the godly escape such trouble.” - Proverbs‬ ‭12‬:‭13‬ ‭NLT‬‬‬‬

We thought we were so smart as kids and now that we've grown up, we realize we're still not smart, just a little less dumb than we were. Plus, Dez's kids were left really confused after Crisco and Dez's latest sleepover. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We thought we were so smart as kids and now that we've grown up, we realize we're still not smart, just a little less dumb than we were. Plus, Dez's kids were left really confused after Crisco and Dez's latest sleepover. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hey everyone, there's no new episode this week! We had some scheduling snafus and weren't able to record as originally planned. However, this just means you have some free time to get in touch with us for our 200th episode! Give us your questions, your comments, your praise, your good-natured teasing! You can write to us at letters@primaryattribute.com, or head to our website where you can use the Send Us A Rat link to submit via a rat-tastic form. If you're craving something to listen to this week, might we recommend our backlog? If you're new, episode 179 - Bad News Beers or episode 001 - Civil Service for Fun and Profit are a great place to start off. If you're a seasoned adventurer, you could revisit some of our favorites, such as: - Ep 119 - Mr. Regretful (with Mikey Neumann!) - SA004 - Halloween Special 2022! - SA002 - Halloween Special 2021! - 59 - Tentakitten's Day Out - XA01 - Welcome to Fomalhaut, the first episode of our 13-episode sci-fi spinoff series! Thanks for being such great listeners, and we look forward to seeing you next week. As always, you can check us out online at https://www.primaryattribute.com

In this enlightening episode, we welcome Anthony Lolli, a renowned real estate entrepreneur, author, and motivational speaker, to discuss the pivotal factors that distinguish a fulfilling, happy life from one filled with regrets. Drawing from his personal journey of building a multimillion-dollar real estate empire and overcoming significant challenges, Anthony shares invaluable insights on:​ Mindset Shifts: How adopting a growth mindset can lead to lasting happiness and success.​ Decision-Making: The importance of making choices aligned with your core values and long-term goals.​ Resilience: Strategies to bounce back from setbacks and view failures as learning opportunities.​ Health and Wellness: Balancing professional ambitions with personal well-being to avoid burnout and regrets.​ Anthony's compelling stories and practical advice provide listeners with actionable steps to cultivate a life of joy and purpose. Whether you're striving for professional success, personal growth, or a harmonious blend of both, this episode offers the tools to navigate your journey intentionally and authentically.​

Join Lil' Lo and Big Shot Shae as they discuss Apple Cider Vinegar on Netflix, causes and signs of vacation guilt, the issues with hustle culture, bringing money on trips, and more! Email for advice / to be featured: LetMeStayFocused@gmail.com Follow Our Hosts:@lilloworldwide@bigshotshae**DISCLAIMER: THIS IS A COMEDIC PODCAST** Scenarios and responses from this show should be taken with a grain of salt. In other words, this is all a joke. Unless otherwise noted, any similarity to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events, is purely coincidental.

Robach and Holmes cover the latest news headlines and entertainment updates and give perspective on current events in their daily “Morning Run.”See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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We review our favorite Baudelaire moments, our least favorite henchpeople, and just how many new words we learned (hint: so many we had to cut some out!)Show art by Castor Choate. To contact them, reach out to us at templeofreadingcircle@gmail.com. Music by Aleksey Chistilin. Find more of Aleksey's work on Spotify and YouTube. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hold onto trust and keep your head up. Thank you for tuning in x Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review and rate this podcast. I appreciate YOU so much! ----------------------------------------- Get My Guide: https://www.ro-hik.com/books/p/28-days-to-home-a-guide-to-your-soul ----------------------------------------- Follow me on: @andbeyondpodcast For health coaching: @rohikbynoor  @noorkaawach --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/andbeyond/support

Mel and Michael discuss a range of topics including what to do when you say something you regret. How do you go about fixing it? The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Knowing this, how do you trust someone who has poor past behavior? What does Mel think about Artificial Intelligence? Does AI have a role in the Church or in his own ministry? What should we do when AI becomes indistinguishable from humanity? If there is no marriage in Heaven, does that mean the institution of marriage is inherently corrupt? The conversation finishes with death-bed conversions and whether such testimonies are good for the kingdom of God.

Today, Provost of Living Faith Bible Institute Brandon Briscoe discusses a new book with author John Wright, Prodigals: Hope for Lost Sons and Daughters, Regretful or Longsuffering Parents, and Bitter Brethren. Whether you're a parent, sibling, or friend, you've likely felt the sting of a loved one abandoning you or the faith for a life of wandering in the world. There are complex emotions tangled up in this hurt—anger at the offense, confusion at the decision, bitterness at the rejection, and grief at the loss, among many others. It is a great comfort that this phenomenon is not estranged from God, and He has laid out stories and principles in His Word that can guide us in this process. Prodigals uses the story of the prodigal son to walk through a biblical perspective of loved ones' hurtful decisions but also a biblical perspective of our own hearts as we learn to reckon that hurt rightly. Using Luke 15 as the guiding passage, we follow along with the prodigal son as he rejects his father's provision, seeks fulfillment in the world, is greatly humbled, and returns penitent to a welcoming father. This story outlines for us the typical trajectory of a prodigal, and in so doing, it offers hope to those who, like the father, are patiently waiting at home for their loved one's return. Prodigals also addresses other heart postures woven into this story, speaking specifically to those who may be wrestling with bitterness, envy, and skepticism at a prodigal's decisions, or to those who may be prodigals themselves. Through God's Word we come to learn that God's heart is one of grace, longsuffering, and reconciliation, and as believers in Jesus Christ, we get to adopt that same heart towards our children, siblings, and friends who have wandered. View all Living Faith Book titles here: https://lfbi.org/books Purchase Prodigals here: https://a.co/d/dK4CwqM Visit https://www.lfbi.org/learnmore

Today on Valentine in the Morning: The pot for "What's That Noise" is already past the $10,000 mark! Will we have a winner soon? And we're curious if you've ever regretted naming your child a certain name. Listen live every weekday from 5-10am pacific: https://www.iheart.com/live/1043-myfm-173/ Website: 1043myfm.com/valentine Instagram: @ValentineInTheMorningFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/valentineinthemorning TikTok: @ValentineInTheMorning

The FC crew react to Arsenal's 1-1 draw to Brighton and question if Declan Rice should know better after the midfielder was sent off for a silly second yellow card when he kicked the ball away from a free kick. Plus, the guys praise Erling Haaland for his second consecutive hat trick and give out their predictions for tomorrow's Man United vs Liverpool match. The guys also break down Bayer Leverkusen's first league loss in a 35 games and marvel at Barcelona's dominant 7-0 win over Real Valladolid. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the challenges and disappointments that can come with parenting. She addresses the difficult emotions parents may face, such as doubt, loss of freedom, and shattered dreams. Dr. Kathy explores how to find hope, courage, and resolve in facing these challenges while honoring the Lord. The episode also touches on a viral video exposing a subreddit called Regretful Parents, prompting discussions about parental regrets and struggles. Tune in for an insightful discussion on navigating the darker aspects of parenting with faith and perseverance.

Parents are going online to complain about how much they hate their kids. Here's my response to those parents. Today's Sponsor: Hallow - Try Hallow for 3 Months FREE at https://hallow.com/MattWalsh