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This episode delves into the challenges and benefits of effective delegation, particularly for those who struggle with letting go of control and the fear of entrusting tasks to others. Somer and Michelle share their personal experiences and discuss what changed their perspectives on "sharing the load." They also have a big announcement for our podcast community and an invitation to the Summer Challenge—something they never had on their radar for SWHW... but God. This is an episode that will leave you encouraged and excited. 00:00 Welcome and BIG Announcement 03:15 Last Episode Before the Break: Join Us on Patreon! 06:22 Delegation: The Key to Leadership and Capacity 18:06 The Power of Delegation and Trust in God 19:37 The Importance of Responsibility and Growth 21:03 Personal Delegation: A Strategy for Success 22:15 Personal Insights from Learning WHY To Delegate 25:18 Investing in Others Through Delegation 26:55 The Challenge of Delegation and Personal Growth JOIN THE SUMMER CHALLENGE HOSTED IN PATREON

In this episode Somer welcomes SWHW teammate and friend, Callie Holland, as they talk about what it feels like to wonder if you're "too much." They both share personal experiences and lessons learned, eventually getting to the root of the issue with scripture. 02:28 Navigating the Complexities of Ambition and Identity 05:43 The Challenge of Leadership 07:58 Embracing Our True Identity in Christ 11:05 Exploring the Power and Presence of the Holy Spirit 19:11 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Overcoming Insecurity 22:08 Battling Spiritual Warfare and Embracing Your 'Too Muchness' 22:42 The Power of Prayer and Vulnerability in Leadership 27:43 Peter's Journey: From Insecurity to the Rock of the Church 31:11 Inviting the Holy Spirit into Every Aspect of Life 32:10 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to the Community Join The Patreon Here! (We have a summer challenge coming you'll want to jump in on!)

Melissa Kruger has journeyed with me [Michelle] through motherhood, and right on time -- just two weeks after my oldest became a teenager -- she released a new book on raising teens for Christ. In this episode, we dive deep into God's heart for parenting our teens, including: the risks of defaulting to parent out of motivations other than hope laying the foundation for the teen years in childhood years biggest challenges + opportunities in raising teens today the reminder that it's never too late to parent (or grandparent!) out of hope Follow Melissa on Instagram. Buy the book. Sisters, You Have Permission to Live An Ordinary Life

This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if it's time to walk away from something. In part 2 of How To Know If It's Time To Quit, Somer and Michelle talk through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was the Lord leading them to quit, rather than their own wants or desires. This episode puts the 'explanation point' on the entire conversation and we hope leaves you with clear indicators that help you to identify or at least intentionally listen for the voice of God. 00:00 Recognizing the Signs 03:50 A Sign of Divine Stirring 11:54 The Power of Prayer + Community 15:06 Emotional Signals 19:09 The Fruit of the Spirit 21:36 The Gift of Restlessness 28:06 Seeking Clarity and Direction Join The SWHW Patreon

124. This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if we need to quit something. Somer and Michelle give you part 1 this week which talks through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was their flesh that was pushing them towards quitting. This conversation serves as a bit of a guide in helping you recognize when your impulse to quit is a selfish reflex versus a God-led command. 01:25 Exploring Personal Responses to Quitting 04:24 The Signs of When to Quit: Boredom and Discontentment 12:47 Quitting When It's Hard 16:33 Confronting Rebellion and Avoidance 23:38 Evaluating the Urge to Quit 24:12 When Quitting is the Right Choice Join The SWHW Patreon

In this episode, Somer and Michelle share some of their most valuable lessons learned from experiences working in corporate America and the marketplace before transitioning to ministry work. Coming from a variety of industries, including banking, retail, scientific research, fitness, network marketing, and pharmaceutical sales, they are sharing how each of their assignments have shaped them and prepared them for their current roles and reminding you how your current assignment is probably doing the same thing. 00:48 Diving Into Our Diverse Career Histories 05:05 Embracing Being Set Apart in the Workplace 10:58 Mentorship Doesn't Require a Formal Invitation 14:42 The Power of Little Things in Making a Big Impact 18:53 Embracing the Small Things in Life 19:07 Learning from the Fashion Industry: Counting the Cost 22:49 The Leap to Gym Ownership 26:04 The Power of Contentment: Beyond Financial Success 31:05 Leadership Insights: The Value of Collective Wisdom 35:37 Reflecting on Lessons Learned and the Impact of Leadership Join The SWHW Patreon For More!

Yep, we're talking about the good ole' social media... again. But don't worry, Somer and Michelle are keeping it fresh with a nuanced approach to a spiritually healthy relationship with your internet friends and follows. Whether you're a content consumer, a content creator, or somewhere in between, we promise you'll be inspired, not beat up, by this conversation. 00:41 Diving Into the Social Media Dilemma 02:27 The Impact of Social Media on Spiritual Life 05:43 Evaluating Time Spent on Social Media 17:17 Navigating Personal and Professional Boundaries on Social Media 25:32 Practical Tips and Final Thoughts Join The Patreon! 

In this episode, Somer talks to her friend, Linda Lotich from Seedtime. Linda shares a little of her own story which has led her to a deep desire to see women not only feel permission to rest, but to understand that stepping away with the Lord, even from their own families, is vital to their soul and ministry. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction of Linda 01:46 The Importance of Taking Breaks for Moms 03:14 Linda's Personal Journey and Insights on Rest 08:31 Implementing Rest and Its Impact 16:31 Exploring Jesus' Example of Rest and Its Application 18:52 Practical Steps Towards Prioritizing Rest and God 21:58 Recognizing the Need for Rest and Turning to God 24:55 The Transformative Power of Rest and Prioritizing God 26:17 The Power of Prayer and Fasting in Jesus' Life 28:46 Embracing the Prodigal Son's Lesson: Everything God Has is Already Ours 33:33 Practical Tips for Deepening Your Prayer Life 40:12 Finding Rest in God Amidst Life's Challenges   Join The Patreon The Rest Of God by Mark Buchanan Learn More About Seedtime

In this episode Somer and Michelle address the issues of gossip and drama, particularly at the workplace, emphasizing why it can be a huge concern for everyone, but especially Christian women. They are breaking it all down and giving you some practical and realistic tools to help you avoid it.  00:48 Navigating Workplace Drama 02:08 The Spiritual and Moral Effects Of Gossip 12:37 Cultivating a No Gossip Zone 18:44 A Real Life Story 20:11 The Ripple Effect 20:12 Challenging Gossip: Strategies and Mindsets 21:35 Leadership's Role in Eliminating Gossip 25:52 Assuming the Best Is A Path to Freedom 26:54 Practical Tips for Gossip-Free Conversations 30:49 Looking For The Truth 32:32 Encouragement to Stand Against Gossip Join The Patreon for more on Gossip in our April Q&A!

In this episode, Somer welcomes her and Michelle's good friend, Lauren Diggs to discuss what it's like and what it takes to be confident when your parenting style and boundaries look different than the rest of the worlds. Lauren is a mother of 5 ranging in ages 9 to 32 and even a new grandma so she is speaking from a place of both experience and being in the trenches with you. Lean in! This is a good one. 00:35 Discussing the Challenges of Being a 'Strict' Mom 01:27 Meet Lauren 04:19 Reflecting on Childhood and Parenting Styles 07:25 Adapting Parenting Approach for Different Children 10:31 Navigating The Hard Parts 20:08 The Role of Confidence in Parenting 25:31 Maintaining Open Conversations with Children 29:37 Understanding Your Child's Perspective 29:58 Teaching Kids to Make Beneficial Choices 30:23 Trusting God with Your Child's Journey 34:05 Q&A  52:26 Conclusion: Embracing Your Role as a Parent Join The Patreon Get The SWHW Book

This is a FUN one. Michelle and Somer do their best to encourage you to find and build in hobbies... and they do a pretty convincing job. Need your affections stirred for the Lord? This conversation might be just the one you need! 02:40 A Case For Hobbies 02:52 Our Favorites  06:13 The Intersection of Hobbies and Work 07:35 The Spiritual Significance of Hobbies 09:33 Hobbies as a Means of Connection 13:37 The Role of Hobbies in Evangelism 17:41 Building Hobbies into Daily Life 23:24 Letting the Gospel Shape Your Imagination 25:06 The Intersection of Hobbies and Spirituality 29:57 Defining Fun for Yourself 35:54 Your Kids' Hobbies 38:29 Praying for Hobbies Join The Patreon Ecclesiastes Commentary

This week Somer and Michelle talk through a conversation they were able to have when they spoke together at a conference a few weeks back. They were addressing a group of female ministry leaders and reminding them that they are needed, they need others, and all of us need boundaries. Find out which one is harder for you, needing others or being needed, and listen in as we remind you what the gospel definition of boundaries is! 02:55 The Importance of Community 03:41 I Need You You Need Me We Need Boundaries Introduced 04:42 Exploring the Concept of Boundaries 15:53 The Danger of Self-Deprecation and Pride 21:03 The Role of Faith in Relationships 22:45 The Danger of Misplaced Dependence 23:50 The Importance of Processing with God First 25:09 The Role of Prayer in Processing 26:53 Understanding Mutual Submission vs Codependency 32:23 The Importance of Unity in the Body of Believers 34:05 The New John 17 Challenge 38:52 The Power of Prayer in Setting Boundaries Join The Patreon to get your downloadable resource and join our John 17 Challenge starting NOW!

Somer and Michelle have a little book club meet-up to chat through a book that they both, YES WE SAID BOTH, really enjoyed. Tyler Staton's book, 'Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools' is one of the most powerful books on prayer that they have ever read! And good news for you... on this episode they're going to give you a synopsis + a few of their big takeaways with the hopes that you will go pick it up and let it change your prayer life too. 00:51 Overview of the Book 03:07 The Impact of the Book and Their Personal Reflections 05:48 The Power of Prayer 06:06 The Importance of Practice in Prayer 08:36 Sharing Top Takeaways from the Book 17:36 Finding Comfort in Prayer 18:23 The Power of Silence and Solitude 19:39 Conversations with God 20:19 Overcoming Distractions for a Richer Prayer Life 22:47 Dealing with Internal Noise and Clutter 26:01 Breaking Attachments to the World for True Love 33:21 The Vital Role of Prayer in Our Lives Join The Patreon Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools

In this episode, Somer has an honest conversation directed towards the 20 and 30 somethings but really, for all of us, with one of her good friends, Callie Holland. They cover the pressure you feel to have life figured out, the issue of loneliness, the need for connection, what the real hold up is on pursuing discipleship, and how those of us no longer in our 20's and 30's can step up and begin investing in these younger women. They also recap the Super Bowl Half Time show and why Usher > Rihanna sooo yeah, it's a pretty good one.  01:04 Welcome + If You Had A Doctorate What Would It Be In  07:40 The Impact of the Younger Generation 09:56 The Power of Failure and Learning 11:57 The Importance of Pursuing God's Will 21:29 The Role of Mentorship and Discipleship 23:22 The Power of God's Word 24:54 The Importance of Community 25:11 The Dangers of Fake Connection 25:38 The Loneliness Epidemic 26:37 The Role of the Local Church 30:24 The Importance of Serving 33:07 The Power of Prayer 35:16 The Super Bowl Recap

Michelle and Somer follow up last week's conversation with Dara LaPorta by talking through their own experiences creating sweet atmospheres at home. If you've ever wanted a little extra motivation to make your home a hub of laughter and peace, today's episode is for you! Pura Smart Home Plug In  Join The Patreon (Marriage Episode Coming Soon!) 2nd Timothy Study

In this episode, Somer chats with one of our favorites, Dara LaPorta, a She Works His Way OG from way back. Dive into Dara's world as she joyfully navigates the chaos as a mom of four with one foot in the health and fitness world and another leading in women's ministry. Dara gives us her take on creating a cozy family vibe, and why she swears by intentional peace and chill family rhythms. Tune in for these nuggets of wisdom on slowing down, being intentional, and finding a relaxed rhythm in our crazy fast world. 00:33 Getting to Know Dara 01:04 Dara's Family and Career 05:06 The Importance of A Sweet Home Atmosphere 06:00 The Role of Mothers in Setting Home Atmosphere 13:34 Juggling Attention With Multiple Children 17:49 Answering the Call 23:03 Cultivating a Rhythm of Rest 27:26 The Power of Apology 33:10 Conclusion: The Journey of Motherhood The SWHW PatreonPhilippians Commentary

Our first ever Leadership "Somery" episode drops NOW! Listen for leadership encouragement you can squeeze in between board meetings, playdates, or emails. (And we promise the episode is better than the name!) Always less than 7 minutes Always for leaders (that's probably you but you're afraid to think it) Always for God's glory and the good of those we're leading

Michelle and Somer talk about what it feels like for things not to go the way you hoped they would, and how to see the beauty in God's plan even when it's hard. 03:00 The Struggle with Unfulfilled Dreams and Hopes 05:00 The Book of Ecclesiastes and its Lessons 07:21 The Inspiring Story of Ruth 10:22 Our Experiences with Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams 14:54 It's Okay To Ask God Why 15:50 Dealing with Disappointment and Finding Purpose 17:20 Finding Joy in the Presence of God 18:54 Drawing Closer to God through Trials 21:31 Finding Fullness in Christ 22:01 Embracing Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams 23:00 Developing Patience in Waiting for God's Promises 25:47 Living a Fulfilled Life through the Holy Spirit 32:27 Finding Goodness in God's Surprises The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step PlannerPhilippians Commentary

In this episode, Michelle chats with one of her favorite authors, Jordan Raynor, and together they discuss the upcoming release of his newest book, 'The Sacredness of Secular Work'. 01:24 Joy and Excitement in Faith and Work 03:00 The Intersection of Ministry and Marketplace 04:03 The Sacredness of Secular Work 05:17 The Concept of Anti-Bucket List 05:46 The Eternal Perspective of Work 18:21 Scratching Off Glimpses of the Kingdom 23:01 Practical Ways to Make Disciples Buy Jordan's book Enter to win the trip to France The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner Philippians Commentary

With millions of Americans struggling with their mental health, it's safe to say that JOY could be a game changer for a lot of us. In this conversation Somer and Michelle, mostly Michelle because SHE WROTE A NEW COMMENTARY, discuss the value in practicing and pursuing joy using the book of Philippians and the example of Paul as their anchoring truth on the matter. Whether you are struggling with joy or you are close to someone who is, this is a convo you'll want in on! 04:50 The Importance of Joy and Endurance 05:09 Unveiling the New Commentary on Philippians 05:39 The Joy Factor: A Deep Dive 12:51 The Struggle for Joy and the Power of Practice 15:37 Joy in Salvation and Sharing the Gospel 17:27 The Challenge of Being Joyful and Critical 23:39 The Role of Faith in Cultivating Joy 26:40 The Power of Decision in Cultivating Joy 27:47 The Joy in Sacrifice and Hard Work 31:45 The Importance of Community in Achieving Joy 34:13 The Role of Joy in Christian Witness The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step PlannerPhilippians Commentary

In this episode Somer's husband, Kent, joins her for a talk we usually leave the men out of. Today we're kicking off Season 2 of The SWHW Podcast talking about the same thing EVERYBODY is talking about... our bodies. With insights from a Pastor and 'girl dad', they explore how cultural pressures can distort our perceptions of our bodies and undermine our self-esteem, hindering us from being able to live fully on mission for God.  00:01 Introduction and Welcome to Season Two 01:13 Introducing the Topic 01:44 Trigger Warning for those with Eating Disorders 02:29 The New Year and Fitness Resolutions 04:14 The Impact of Kent and Somer's Sabbatical on their Physical Health 17:31 The Connection Between Physical and Spiritual Health 18:58 Dealing with Body Image Issues in a Family Setting 21:18 The Role of Scripture in Shaping Perspective 22:07 Navigating Body Image and Insecurity 25:19 The Role of Spiritual Health in Addressing Body Image Issues 32:55 The Importance of Taking Care of the Body as a Form of Worship 36:20 The Importance of Prioritizing Spiritual Health Over Physical Appearance 42:03 The Importance of Glorifying God with How We Treat and See Our Body Join The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner Become a Donor

Holiday Movie Showdown: Celebrating Christmas Classics & Hidden Gems In one of your favorite episodes each year, Somer and Michelle countdown their all time favorite Christmas movies (and a few of their not so favorites). Let them put together your Christmas movie playlist for this holiday season while you focus on the other 11 billion Christmas tasks on your list! Grab your peppermint mocha and let's goooo. The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner. Become a Donor 00:52 Christmas Movie Time: The Excitement Begins 01:10 The Christmas Movie Showdown: The Preparation 03:48 Is Die Hard a Christmas movie? 07:03 The Christmas Movie Dishonorable Mentions 13:05 The Christmas Movie Countdown Begins 26:39 Discussing Favorite Movie Soundtracks 27:41 The Grinch vs. The Grinch 27:52 Feel-Good Christmas Movies 28:35 Introducing Lesser-Known Christmas Movies 31:11 Nostalgic Christmas Movies 34:58 Unconventional Christmas Movies 41:14 Classic Christmas Movies 47:53 Wrapping Up the Discussion and Wishing Merry Christmas

Somer and Michelle are pumped to have this conversation with you about taking time off and put everything they discuss into practice as we slow waaaaaaayy down at the end of the year. Taking time off isn't easy, but God both created us to rest and He commands us to rest. Bottom line: taking time off matters. This conversation is jam-packed with practicality as we discuss:  best practices to plan for rest  how to prioritize rest when you and your spouse rest differently and/or you have young kids defining rest for yourself (because rest is personal!) The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner. Become a Donor 01:11 The Importance of Taking Time Off 02:22 Theological Foundation of Rest 04:31 The Practice of Sabbath 06:16 The Significance of Rest in Creation 07:22 The Struggle of Taking Time Off 09:16 Planning for Time Off 17:15 The Importance of Rest for Productivity 20:51 Patience and Slowing Down 21:43 Preparing for a Sabbatical 22:33 Communicating Rest to Your Kids 24:19 Rest is Personal 27:12 The Delight in Rest 27:18 Resting Differently in Marriage 29:25 The Rhythm of Rest 30:08 Communicating Your Rest 33:08 Planning for Rest 37:48 Gratitude and Closing Remarks

In this episode Somer and Michelle share a game-changing assessment they have been using for a year now! Using red, yellow, and green as your answer, they'll ask you to check in on four crucial areas of your life. They are the areas we all tend to brush off, but it can be a dangerous game to keep ignoring the signs. The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner SHOP THE BLACK FRIDAY SALE ON FRIDAY! 00:50 The Importance of Self-Assessment 01:05 The Role of Questions in Self-Reflection 02:06 The Struggle of Remembering and Forgetting 04:00 The Origin of the Assessment 05:57 The Impact of the Assessment 08:09 The Magic of The Three Step Planner 17:19 Understanding Personal Assessment: The Green Goal 17:45 Vulnerability is Necessary  18:03 The Importance of Writing Down Your Thoughts 18:42 The Best Time for Effective Self-Assessment 19:56 The Impact of Emotional and Mental Health 21:08 The Role of Physical Health in Overall Well-being 26:33 Spiritual Health 31:05 Relationships 37:25 Conclusion: The Importance of Regular Self-Assessment

In this week's conversation, Somer + Michelle do a deep dive into big spending (if you're listening in real time, just in time for the Black Friday + Cyber Monday crazy!) Listen in if you need reminders on: the difference between genuine generosity and pressure-driven obligation guilt-free missing out  practical tips for protecting your joy  The 2024 3 STEP PLANNER is here! The SWHW Patreon Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor   Take what you need... 00:59 Discussion on Big Spending 01:39 Reminiscing About Podcast Beginnings 02:24 Black Friday Experiences 07:26 The Pressure of Holiday Spending 07:36 Generosity vs Obligation in Gift Giving 16:49 The Pressure of Gift Giving for Kids 18:06 Setting Boundaries with Family 19:31 The Joy of Christmas and Family Traditions 20:58 The Role of Parents and Grandparents in Gift Giving 22:19 The Obligation of Gifts and Time 24:19 Creating Healthy Rhythms for the Holiday Season 24:37 The Pressure of Participating in All Events 31:48 The Importance of Advent

Ready to laugh and cringe? In honor of kicking off the holiday season, Somer + Michelle are re-living their best + worst Thanksgiving memories, plus doing a little this or that Thanksgiving style. Whether you love Thanksgiving or you're a bit a turkey Scrooge (like a certain co-host to be revealed in the episode), we've got something for you. Join our Patreon.Become a donor.

In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer talk about what they felt last week's confidence quiz (go listen to the previous episode if you missed it!) revealed to them personally + what is missing from the way the world measures confidence, including: releasing yourself from the pressure of trying to build confidence the world's way  helpful ways (and not-so helpful ways!) to talk about confidence to the next generation  where your confidence belongs  Scriptures referenced: - Philippians 1:6 - 2 Corinthians 3:4-5 - Ephesians 3:12 - Hebrews 4:16 - 1 John 5:14 The SWHW Patreon Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor

In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer take a confidence quiz in real time. (You'll have to listen to learn where we got it!) Listen + take this quiz with us to determine: what elicits your confidence + what exposes your insecurity  the root of your confidence  how other people's perceptions affect your confidence    The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor

In this conversation requested by our Patreon community, Somer and Michelle dig into: TWO very special birthdays we're celebrating what our perspective on human limits ultimately reveals about our trust in God how an abundance mindset without Christ is still scarcity  the throw back MTV show Rich Kids Of Beverly Hills lack, comparison + fear vs. peace, joy + contentment (and a whole lot more!) Scripture referenced: - Philippians 4 - Matthew 14:13-21   The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Get Our 2nd Timothy Study Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor

In this conversation, Michelle asks Somer all the questions about what God showed her over the last year as both of her daughters got engaged and married. If you saw the wedding pics from a few weeks ago, and and wanted more - it's all here, including: why parents should ultimately be the biggest encouragers for our kids to "leave and cleave" to their spouse + how to do it the beauty of God's faithfulness to grow your marriage while watching your kids fall in love  how she felt when she met their husbands, THE DRESS, a wedding day haircut, Rockefeller Center proposals, and other moments that make her internal highlight reel... The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Somer's Favorite Hair Stylist  Get Our 2nd Timothy Study Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor

In this live recording from a conference Somer spoke at earlier this year on the topic of Soul Care, she uses the example of Jesus withdrawing from the crowds to help us understand how we need to sometimes eliminate the external noise so that we can give attention to our souls. If you feel tired, burnt out, or on the verge of either of those, you might want to listen in! The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Get Our 2nd Timothy Study Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) 

This week is another LIVE podcast recording alongside our incredible SWHW fam. This time, Michelle is here for a conversation about following Jesus when life is hard. She covers: responding to the gospel in your circumstances instead of simply responding to your circumstances why "you deserve this" language is so spiritually unhealthy  how to know if you're fighting the right battles    Scriptures referenced: 2 Timothy 2:1-7 Dig more into 2 Timothy with us in our newest commentary. The SWHW podcast is a free resource to equip and encourage women, made available to you by the generosity of God's people. If these conversations serve you to live empowered by the gospel, please support our ministry and help other women find our podcast by becoming a donor. From the bottom of our hearts, we are grateful to God for you!

This week's episode continues the conversation Michelle + Somer started last week, this time focusing on: - redefining big things - how obedience produces endurance and disobedience results in exhaustion - why burden is a better motivator than ambition The SWHW podcast is fueled by the generosity of amazing women like you! Thank you for allowing us to extend this crucial dialogue on how to prioritize what truly matters in today's fast-paced world to women who are desperate for hope only found in Jesus. We're deeply grateful for your role in making this transformative mission possible. If you're ready to join hands with us on this incredible journey, you can make a donation here. Thank you for helping make this ministry possible!

In this week's episode, join Somer + Michelle for a conversation about: - redefining small things - how to know if you're comfortable or content - real life examples of "small things" that in hind sight were big things Our podcast thrives on the unwavering support of amazing women like you. Your generous contributions fuel this vital conversation about navigating the complexities of doing what matters in a world that values simply getting things done. Thank you for making this ministry a reality for the women already gathered here + providing hope for those yet to come. If you're moved to unite with us in this mission, you can make a donation here. Thank you for supporting what God is doing here!

Join us in this week's convo! Somer and Michelle delve deep into the common yet often unspoken struggle of mom guilt. In this candid conversation, they dig into: distinguishing between guilt and conviction (this is key!) truths to combat persistent doubts + guilt that creeps in  practical tips to confront mom guilt when it hits  Remember, the SWHW podcast thrives thanks to your support. Your contributions play a vital role in fostering this essential dialogue about prioritizing doing what matters most in a world that emphasizes getting things done. By donating, you help us provide resources to local churches, extend support to individual women in need, and help sustain this impactful ministry. If you're moved to link arms with us and drive this mission forward, you can make a donation here. (No amount is too small!)

This week picks up where last week's episode left off, continuing Somer + Michelle's conversation on co-vocational work. This week's discussion points include: how Jesus turned curiosity of others into gospel opportunities (and how to do the same!) loving people without desiring their approval how to have the tough gospel-conversations with co-workers staying focused on what people believe more than how people behave We also brought back one of your favorite segments: Keep It/Toss It! Michelle's Keep It: ReShoeVn8er Somer's Keep It: Lip Mask  Michelle's book recommendation: A Meal with Jesus We love being able to say that the SWHW podcast is made possible by the generosity of God's people. If these conversations encourage and equip you to chase harder after Jesus, link arms with us in this mission by becoming a SWHW donor.

This week's conversation is extra special to us because: 1) It's our first ever LIVE podcast recording with our amazing network present! (To be there for next month's LIVE podcast recording, join the network here!)  2) Michelle + Somer start a conversation that's super close to the heart of this ministry, on co-vocational work, including: what to do when you feel the tension between what God's calling you to do and what the world expects from you being called to multiple places with one mission simplifies more than it complicates how we often compartmentalize the spiritual from the secular but God does not  As a reminder, the SWHW podcast is completely you-funded. Your generous donations help other women join this important conversation about how to do what matters in a get-things-done world. From helping us supply resources and support to local churches to ministering to individual women with needs we can meet, thank you for making this ministry possible. You can donate to link arms with us in this mission here. (Every amount helps!)

This week, Somer + Michelle jump into a conversation about how to move forward when you're frustrated where God has you, including: using God's past faithfulness to increase your confidence relying on the Holy Spirit to make the same tasks (or people!) less draining avoiding jumping straight into "fixer" mode how exhausted you'll be if you keep shifting your hope Scriptures referenced: - Psalm 13 - Colossians 1:23 - James 1:2-5 The SWHW podcast is a free resource to equip and encourage women, made available to you by the generosity of God's people. If these conversations serve you to live empowered by the gospel, please support our ministry and help other women find our podcast by becoming a donor. From the bottom of our hearts, we are grateful to God for you!

This week, Michelle + Somer jump into a conversation about: how to read the Bible as a conversation God starts with us that we continue with one another  discerning the tone we should use in tough topics the importance of basing our relationship with one another on God's authority in our lives remembering the lost and fulfulling your ministry  Conversational Commentary on 2 Timothy releases August 8, 2023! Grab your copy here.

This week we are letting you in on our most recent Q&A that Michelle + Somer hosted live for their She Works His Way Summer Book Club girls. The questions submitted were SO good and so honest, you don't want to miss this one.   Here are a few things they chatted through: it all boils down to practice  the way Jesus modeled making disciples  simple ways we can teach our kids to depend on God flying by the seat of your pants vs flying by the seat of the Holy Spirit     Would you like to submit your own questions for the next time Somer and Michelle do a Q&A episode? Just email hello@sheworkshisway.com or DM us on Instagram!    Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:  Subscribe, give us 5 stars + leave us a review wherever you listen. Become a donor. (If every listener gave $1/month, we'd meet our annual ministry budget!)

In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer discuss: the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking  how to pursue peace when you desire justice practical ways to bring peace into our broken world Scriptures referenced: Romans 5:1 Matthew 5 Colossians 1:19-20 James 3:17 We'd love to connect with you more!  send us a DM on Instagram sign up to receive our emails  become a financial supporter

In this week's episode, Somer and a surprise guest go all in on the topic of gossip, including: a spot on definition for gossip you may have never heard gossip in the church and what it really does to the Bride of Christ  gossip masked as "seeking counsel"  raising kids who won't gossip  gossip in marriage  Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:  Subscribe, give us 5 stars + leave us a review wherever you listen. Become a donor. (If every listener gave $1/month, we'd meet our annual ministry budget!)

In this week's episode, Michelle and Somer do a deep dive into performing, including: links between performing, pretending and people pleasing  how to avoid reinforcing performing to our kids  why loving Jesus most and knowing God more is the only way to end performance tendencies Accountability is key when it comes to checking your motives, and that's one of the main reasons why we love bringing new women into our 5-month High Level Mastermind we mentioned in this episode. If you're interested in one of the remaining spots for the fall semester, view the details and sign up here. We can't wait to meet you! Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:  Subscribe, give us 5 stars + leave us a review wherever you listen. Become a donor. (If every listener gave $1/month, we'd meet our annual ministry budget!)

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle discuss rest in all of it's forms, including: why you shouldn't feel guilty for resting  busting the myth that not resting is noble differences between rest to engage and numbing to escape the unexpected interruption of identity issues for rest   Thank you for helping us keep our podcast advertisement-free so we can focus on our real mission: encouraging you and equipping you to have gospel conversations with the people in your life. Become a partner in our work by becoming a financial supporter here. 

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle take one of their most-listened to episodes from December + give us a summer edition of their favorite things.  A few highlights we think you'll be especially excited about: Somer's fashion picks for her mother of the bride era + Michelle's comfort picks -- including athletic shorts that are actually the right length without awkward pockets permission to eat carbs...with your protein  a brief tangent to relive the summer Olympics of 1994, Limited Too + sparkly blue eyeshadow from Claire's   We're also SUPER excited to announce the launch of our Amazon storefront! We used to be able to receive donations through Amazon Smile, but with that platform dissolving, we have a new way you can shop and support SWHW! Every time you shop one of the links from our storefront, you also make a small donation to SWHW. So grab a few of their favorites (that will also become your favorites!) and support the SWHW mission too.   SHOP SWHW AMAZON STOREFRONT HERE. The only item from the episode you won't find in our Amazon storefront: Colleen Rothschild Illuminating Tinted Eye Cream 

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle talk about: Refusing to be sad when what God calls us to is small + refusing to be scared when what God calls us to is big Public ministry vs. ministry to be seen  The critical role of accountability  Scriptures referenced: 1 Corinthians 3:10-15 Matthew 6 Verbal High Fives to: Camp Ridgecrest for Boys Camp Crestridge for Girls Biltmore Church Adventure Week (Asheville, NC) South Shore Church VBS (Annapolis, MD)

In this week's episode, Kent (Somer's husband) joins Somer on the show to discuss what he sees as one of the current biggest threats to marriage. (So if you're married, grab your husband + listen together!) Some of our favorite takeaways of the convo are: How we can't let weariness lead to neglect  The tragic impact our cell phone can have on our relationship  Proper self checkout etiquette (So Kent kind of goes off at the end in a special "I Disagree With" segment)

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have an honest dialogue about materialism, including: - how materialism reveals more about your heart than your possessions - when the desire for more competes with your desire for God - the link between materialism and anxiety Scriptures referenced: - Matthew 6:25-34 - Matthew 19:16-22

In this week's conversation, Somer and Michelle discuss what's on their summer bucket lists including: water Fridays + city Saturdays a new learning rhythm that focuses on retention  exercising for FUN   Here are Michelle's 3 fiction book recommendations: The Lion, the Witch + the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis  The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah    Ready to join the SWHW Summer Book Club? Make a tax-deductible donation here (we suggest a minimum of $15 but please give as you feel led!) We'll follow up with next steps via email! [If you don't have the book yet, get yours here.] Want a mentor through She Works His Way this summer? Join the network here.

In this week's episode, Michelle welcomes her husband, James, into the conversation for a discussion on fighting nice. (So if you're married, grab your husband + listen together!) Some highlights of their convo are: how conflict is one of God's tools to make you more like Jesus the reality that avoiding conflict only delays conflict considering both facts + feelings matters for conflict resolution

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle pick up where they left off last week, discussing the lasts we encounter in motherhood. Some highlights of the convo include: loving being a mom without idolizing motherhood/your kids prioritizing the Lord + others as we walk through lasts how lasts are another reminder that earth is just our temporary home Scripture to study: - Psalm 16 - James 4:13-15